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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, this one's from Anthony and Macon. Steve.

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Speaker 2: Anthony says, my wife gets upset with me over small things,

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Speaker 2: and she loves to curse at me and lock me

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Speaker 2: out of the bedroom. She says the most vile and

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Speaker 2: evil things to me and won't ever apologize. She always

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Speaker 2: expects me to move on like nothing happened. But I'm hurt.

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Speaker 2: If I mentioned therapy, she will flip out. Has she

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Speaker 2: mentally checked out of our marriage?

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Speaker 3: I don't know, but you should. Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Thank you for calling it though, so I can show

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Speaker 4: you the other side of me. Bro. I'm telling you

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Speaker 4: I don't know how to. I can't live with a

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Speaker 4: mean person and what you don't understand. And I'm not

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Speaker 4: just I'm just talking about to the lady in this

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Speaker 4: letter and any lady that might use it. Words hurt

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Speaker 4: me and things you can say to your man that

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Speaker 4: you can't take back and you've done the damage. You

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Speaker 4: have to be careful how you talk to these men,

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Speaker 4: because we take a lot of stuff out here at

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Speaker 4: work in this world, just as a man, and then

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Speaker 4: we come home and we don't get no relief, we

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Speaker 4: don't get no battery, recharge at home, and now you

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Speaker 4: expect us to go back out here and deal with

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Speaker 4: it again. And you at the house calling you names,

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Speaker 4: talking about him, being mean to him, locking him out

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Speaker 4: the bedroom door. Man, Bye, I'm divorcing you. I'm not

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Speaker 4: doing this.

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Speaker 1: I'm not doing but.

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Speaker 4: I can't stand you black blanking and blank. Okay, come,

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Speaker 4: ain't no problem. I bet you I can find somebody

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Speaker 4: who would. He a couple of weeks from getting his

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Speaker 4: airs whip. He need to leave now.

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Speaker 1: The ways.

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Speaker 3: Take a shower?

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Speaker 4: Okay, oh yeah, yeah, you know people got showers.

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Speaker 3: I have this.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is bad, all right. We have time for

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Speaker 2: another one, Steve. This one's from Drika and t Neck.

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Speaker 2: Draka says, I've been dating a man for a few

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Speaker 2: months and we lived ninety minutes apart. He had told

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Speaker 2: me that he wanted me to feel at home when

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Speaker 2: I come to visit him on weekends.

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Speaker 1: But I was shocked by what he did.

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Speaker 2: He has given me my own drawer at his place

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Speaker 2: full of panties and bras that he bought. He bought

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Speaker 2: all of the toilet trees I used daily, and he

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Speaker 2: bought a shower cap. He also got his matching pajamas

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Speaker 2: and slippers. He said, he looked at one of my

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Speaker 2: bras to get the right size. That's a bit much.

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Speaker 2: My best friend said, he's a keeper, but I think

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Speaker 2: he's a creeper. Is he being sweet or it's controlling behavior?

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Speaker 3: How's it controlling? Matching? Control?

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Speaker 4: About your shower? He wants you to stay saw your

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Speaker 4: browsides because it just didn't been on the floor. He

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Speaker 4: picked it up so research he'd a bought your drawer

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Speaker 4: full of pantis.

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Speaker 3: Your friend say he a keeper. You say he's a creeper.

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Speaker 4: What did he do?

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Speaker 2: Want?

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Speaker 1: Doing too much? That's that's okay, Yeah he's doing too.

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Speaker 4: Much, But how has it worked out with the men

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Speaker 4: that don't do nothing? If he's trying to be kind

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Speaker 4: to you and do things for you, you can call

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Speaker 4: it control, but it could be called carry well.

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Speaker 1: He said he wanted her to feel at home.

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Speaker 4: There are some women who have been mistreated so long

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Speaker 4: they think that's normal.

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Speaker 3: Then when a guy come along and does.

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Speaker 4: Something that's kind that's out of the way, then all

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Speaker 4: of a sudden, that abnormal, almal thing that you experience

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Speaker 4: in noz is weird as creepy is creepy.

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Speaker 1: But isn't she right?

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Speaker 2: Though? It feels, you know, to be a little more cautious,

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Speaker 2: to be cautious.

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Speaker 1: They've only been dating a few months. Shouldn't she be doing.

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Speaker 4: It too early? You do talk, she's been over that.

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Speaker 4: That's what they doing.

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Speaker 3: Has such a whole bunch of time.

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Speaker 4: Now you won't start cutting back on what Yeah, once

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Speaker 4: we know your grawls and panics that we over did

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Speaker 4: it and got past some things.

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Speaker 2: Hello, all right, coming up at twenty minutes after the hour,

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