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Speaker 2: One you're here, Derek.

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Speaker 1: Oh, here we go.

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Speaker 3: Oh, scrubbing in with and iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 1: We got to.

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Speaker 3: Change that, Beccailly throwing it down.

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Speaker 2: We gotta change that. Sorry, everything else has been changed

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Speaker 2: to scrubbing in with Becailly and Tanya rad Here's the problem.

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Speaker 1: That Sany is on maternity leave. She cannot recut that.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, so everyone be patient.

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Speaker 3: Why don't we have you do it?

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Speaker 2: Don't freaking yeah more than one?

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Speaker 1: Sorry, we'll talk about it. We got to focus group.

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Speaker 1: It does a male voice better than the female voice.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, we'll see.

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Speaker 3: I feel like our listeners love your voice.

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Speaker 2: They do. They love you in general. I'm sorry, we're

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Speaker 2: just skipped over the most important part.

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Speaker 3: Of today, and you gets in the o R. Today.

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Speaker 2: We have a new guest scrubbing in Derek Huff here,

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Speaker 2: I am you know. We we now on the Facebook

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Speaker 2: group that you were coming, and we got a lot

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Speaker 2: of response for it. People really really love you. We

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Speaker 2: have a lot like we talk a lot about dating

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Speaker 2: on the show, and the struggles of dating in LA

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Speaker 2: and actually everywhere. I think right now, it's just challenging

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Speaker 2: in general, and so We wanted to have our listeners

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Speaker 2: like write in and ask questions, to ask you because

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Speaker 2: we have Easton well I don't know where Easton is,

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Speaker 2: but we have Mark and Easton here normally, and there

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Speaker 2: are there are male voices.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but to be honest, to be fair, Mark's like

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Speaker 2: You're a nice.

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Speaker 3: You're not a typical guy.

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Speaker 2: Well, the other thing is they're both they're both married,

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Speaker 4: I will say this, I will say this. I just was.

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Speaker 4: you know what about this this? And I said and

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Speaker 4: he's like, you know. But then in the same sentence

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Speaker 4: so you're never really hungry for it, so you need

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Speaker 4: I guess because you know. So that was my advice

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Speaker 4: He was like, Oh, okay, I get it.

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Speaker 3: But here's my bigger question, which I wish you could.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, why do guys do that? Why do they go

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Speaker 4: I'm nervous about this one. I don't know there's lots

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Speaker 4: I think there's a misconception of what freedom is. I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, being in a like nice partnership in life, ye.

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Speaker 4: Share to share, and it just when you experience something,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but but you know that expression, you know, the

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Speaker 4: And that's pretty much what happened. You know, you end

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Speaker 4: It's almost like three years.

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Speaker 4: We like to have fun.

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Speaker 3: Uh seventy seventy stops.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's sixty cities and about seventy shows

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Speaker 3: The thing that you said that I think is so

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's gonna I'm not a live band on stage

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Speaker 4: Well, and then the next day you wake up and

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Speaker 2: And they've like been waiting for that moment and you're

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Speaker 2: I wish you could see. We're all like sitting here

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Broke would like to know what you consider more

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Speaker 3: Oh, I feel like I know what Derek's gonna say.

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Speaker 4: Personality.

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Speaker 4: Personality, I don't know. Yeah, face, I guess yeah, face,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and your body like changes something. Your face ms

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Speaker 2: obviously as you get older, but your body changes so much,

441
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Speaker 2: like with just things that happen in life.

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Speaker 3: I think personality beats it all.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well that that wasn't part of.

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Speaker 3: It's true though, Like yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean I'm

445
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Speaker 3: really interested in Kara's question.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Kara, do you think it's okay too fart in

447
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Speaker 1: front of your significant other? Ps? I think yes, totally yes.

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Speaker 4: Wow, very passionate. I will have the strongly disagree with that.

449
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Speaker 4: I personally, I think if it happens, then okay, it's fine,

450
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Speaker 4: but don't like it. You can avoid it, avoid it, right?

451
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Speaker 4: Do it? My buddy? Does it? In front of his

452
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Speaker 4: wife all the time on her.

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Speaker 3: I don't get like that.

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Speaker 4: It's it's great.

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Speaker 3: I thought you were all like I was when in

456
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Speaker 3: my past relationship. But yeah, I turned away newly. I'm

457
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Speaker 3: like my next relationship, I am closing the door.

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Speaker 2: No literally with the door open.

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Speaker 3: Because I have issues that I think it's different, Like,

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Speaker 3: all right, you go in the bathroom, like I think

461
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Speaker 3: that's okay in the same room, but.

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Speaker 4: No, don't don't rip it out, man, don't rip.

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Speaker 1: You're right, not two step for conversations. So you're a

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Speaker 1: door open bathroom person, not me personally.

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Speaker 4: But again, if it's happening, then I'm not like, oh girl,

466
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Speaker 4: shut the door, like okay, it's happening. Okay, interesting, but

467
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Speaker 4: but but no, avoid it if you kill people. So

468
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Speaker 4: I would have the same with her.

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Speaker 3: I like the last lot, not least. What is the

470
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Speaker 3: last one, Banka.

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Speaker 1: What is the best relationship advice you've ever received from

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Speaker 1: your mom or your sister since you've grown up around

473
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Speaker 1: all the way men.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, it's hard to pinpoint like one specific.

475
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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, they actually didn't know. There's there's

476
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Speaker 4: never been like a hey, Derek, this is what you

477
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Speaker 4: should do or hey, you should say this, or there's

478
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Speaker 4: never been any of that. I think that I've learned

479
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Speaker 4: probably by example, I guess, seeing and they've been really

480
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Speaker 4: just awesome. They're so great.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, and probably like the way you treat them

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Speaker 3: like you know what I mean, Like you're around so

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Speaker 3: many women, if you feel like you treat women really well, I.

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Speaker 4: Would hope so. And it's funny for me because I've

485
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Speaker 4: always looked at women as I've always been like, you know,

486
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Speaker 4: on a pedestal really and uh, I've just always respected

487
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Speaker 4: them so much and and loved them so much, and

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Speaker 4: so it's for it's it's interesting for me, like the

489
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Speaker 4: women empowerment that happen right now, Like for me in

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Speaker 4: my in my little world, in my little brain, it's

491
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Speaker 4: always been like that, right, And so yeah, I've always

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Speaker 4: seen seen women like that. So yeah, I mean because

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Speaker 4: again being raised by forty of them.

494
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Speaker 2: And like a dude, that's so great.

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Speaker 4: But I had to say it did teach me as

496
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Speaker 4: well that I needed to have more guys around me too. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever dated someone that, like your sisters didn't like?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, did they tell you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Were they right?

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Speaker 4: In retrospect, yes, But I will say there was one

502
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Speaker 4: time when I did break up with somebody and I

503
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Speaker 4: was in I think I was influenced by one of

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Speaker 4: my sisters, and then afterwards I was kind of bummed

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Speaker 4: about it. I was like, oh, man, I actually really

506
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Speaker 4: liked it, Like why did I?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, isn't that interesting? How that? Like I've had similar

508
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Speaker 3: situations in the past where like I feel like, you know,

509
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Speaker 3: your family can sway you to lean a certain way,

510
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Speaker 3: and then you look back and you're like, in retrospect,

511
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Speaker 3: that wasn't the person for me. But I wish I

512
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Speaker 3: would have come to that conclusion on my own own,

513
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Speaker 3: because I would I wouldn't. I would have a lot

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Speaker 3: more peace about the situation.

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Speaker 4: And then there was also another There was another girl

516
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Speaker 4: I dated who.

517
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Speaker 1: I was.

518
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Speaker 4: I was with her and I was in love with her.

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Speaker 4: I was, I would say, probably more infatuated than in love,

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Speaker 4: but I couldn't imagine her like at the lake with

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Speaker 4: my family, which is like such an important place for us,

522
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Speaker 4: right when we come together. And that was like for

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Speaker 4: me when I was like, this isn't gonna work out,

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Speaker 4: you know, interesting, Yeah, imagine her with my yeah, alays

525
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Speaker 4: together I don't see that picture, then this isn't the

526
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Speaker 4: right relationship to be in. Yeah. So that was kind

527
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Speaker 4: of a moment for me that, you know, like a

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Speaker 4: moment and it's important.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's important, you know.

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Speaker 4: I love to say that when your nieces and nephews

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Speaker 4: are like love your significant other. It definitely helped help.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So the tour tickets around sale derwork off dot com,

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Speaker 1: that's right, and it's all of twenty nineteen. It is.

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Speaker 4: It's it's like a couple of months. I'll be out

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Speaker 4: there for like ten weeks. But uh, but tickets on

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Speaker 4: sale right now and the VIP packages are they're really

538
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Speaker 4: so fun.

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Speaker 2: How do you not want to meet Derek Huts like

540
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Speaker 2: everyone you want to meet?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I have such a great time with everybody. We'll

542
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Speaker 4: meet when we meet before and we hang out and

543
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Speaker 4: you can ask any questions, you know, like an open book.

544
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Speaker 4: So especially I get shy that when it comes to relationships.

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Speaker 1: But it's an intense schedule. I'm just looking at it here.

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Speaker 1: It's almost every day of the week for certain stretches.

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Speaker 3: What's cool though, is that like our I feel like

548
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Speaker 3: our listeners are kind of all spread out throughout the

549
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Speaker 3: country so they can really go. I'd be interested to

550
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Speaker 3: see who's gonna go. Why don't we do this? Why

551
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Speaker 3: don't we You hit us up on the Facebook group

552
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Speaker 3: and tell us where are you gonna go? See Derek?

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Speaker 1: What city?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 1: Like Tuesday, Santa Rosa, Wednesday, Santosday, Thursday, Riverside Friday, Vegas Saturday,

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Speaker 1: La Sunday. Feel now, so there's like no one day

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Speaker 1: off Tuesday, Midland, Texas Wednesday, San Antonio Thursday, Sugarland Friday,

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Speaker 1: Grand Prairie Saturday, New Orleans Sunday, Birmingham. I mean, there's

559
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Speaker 1: no breaks in this thing.

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Speaker 2: Wait, do you know that?

561
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Speaker 3: That's insane?

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Speaker 4: It's pretty crazy, But I like, I you know, it's funny.

563
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Speaker 4: I've done tours where we've done like three shows and

564
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Speaker 4: then like we have like day off, two shows and

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Speaker 4: a day off, and we do like four shows a

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Speaker 4: day off. And then I did a tour where we

567
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Speaker 4: did more of this schedule. And I prefer the schedule

568
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Speaker 4: because it's just like you're just in it. You're just

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Speaker 4: like in a flow, you're in the midsom you're going

570
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Speaker 4: and it's like let's just knock it out, let's just go.

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Speaker 3: So do you fly everywhere?

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Speaker 4: No bus? Oh no no. By the way, bussing is

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Speaker 4: way better than fly.

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Speaker 3: I n tell you why.

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Speaker 4: You just walk out of the dressing room and boom

576
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Speaker 4: you're on the bus and then you're just on a bed.

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Speaker 4: There's a TV.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and then not having to go through like security

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Speaker 3: and all that stuff.

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah, so much better and it's so comfortable

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Speaker 4: and actually love I actually love the traveling on the bus.

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Speaker 4: I love the rock ration. Actually usually sleep like right

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Speaker 4: next to the back tire.

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Speaker 3: I never had worse sleep than.

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Speaker 4: It takes like a couple of days to acclimate to it. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: you wake up the middle the night You're like.

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Speaker 3: I'm actually excited because I'm going for like five days

588
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Speaker 3: in August. My friends are on tour over the summer,

589
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Speaker 3: so I'm gonna spend like five days on the tour

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Speaker 3: bus with them, which I fourth night.

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Speaker 4: And I've done the years of tours where I've been

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Speaker 4: like parties every night after shows and stuff like that

593
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Speaker 4: and on the tour tour bus. But now I'm.

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Speaker 3: Like, give me a bath, get in there.

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Speaker 4: I don't like those like sci fi fantasy epic movies.

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Speaker 4: For some reason, I'm on tour always has to be

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Speaker 4: like Lord of the Rings or interesting fun fat cam.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, amazing, Well, thank you so much, and then you

599
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Speaker 3: can catch you catch them on yeah once.

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Speaker 4: On NBC, Yeah, tomorrow night, Yeah, ten nine Central. And

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Speaker 4: it's it's amazing. I mean honestly, it's it's gonna get

602
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Speaker 4: better and better and better and better as the season progresses.

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Speaker 4: So I can't wait to.

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Speaker 2: See it all.

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Speaker 3: I mean, the more derekup, the better.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you so much, thank you for being here.

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Speaker 3: He's the best, isn't he so great?

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Speaker 2: He's amazing. Yeah, that was my first time. I like

609
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Speaker 2: see him everywhere, and I feel like I've been like

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Speaker 2: maybe been introduced. I am backahim Derek, But.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like I saw him it was with

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Speaker 3: you one time.

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Speaker 2: I ply do. That sounds like very like likely thing

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Speaker 2: me and you at a concert.

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Speaker 1: I do.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I always see him and his sister

617
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Speaker 3: out in the wild and then just I.

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Speaker 2: Love that you say out in the wild, like out

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Speaker 2: in the wild, lay the wild city.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, because it's not normally I see him in

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Speaker 3: the studio, you know, so it's like fun when you

622
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Speaker 3: see him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't believe he likes sleeping on a tour bus.

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Speaker 2: I love my bed. No, I love my bed and

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Speaker 3: but anything it didn't translate, It didn't go as well

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Speaker 2: No, your transition was amazing. But he didn't catch on,

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Speaker 2: feels like it's been so long. No, it's all good,

661
00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:42,160
Speaker 2: really good?

662
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:43,680
Speaker 1: Oeh really good has it been?

663
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:43,960
Speaker 4: Yeah?

664
00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:45,239
Speaker 1: We took last week off, so I guess it has.

665
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:47,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I'm sorry. We were supposed to do a

666
00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 2: Facebook live we like mentioned it. It wasn't promised, but

667
00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 2: it was mentioned and that didn't happen, So we owe

668
00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:56,240
Speaker 2: you all one of those as well.

669
00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:57,880
Speaker 3: Well, we didn't see each other last week.

670
00:30:57,920 --> 00:31:03,239
Speaker 2: Actually, yeah, you're right, we didn't, so that wasn't It

671
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:04,760
Speaker 2: wasn't wasn't anyone's fault.

672
00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, right, we.

673
00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:08,600
Speaker 1: Need an update on your lives though, as much as

674
00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:09,880
Speaker 1: you're willing to give us right now.

675
00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:11,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, and you know what I should have done? You

676
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 3: know what I should have done. I had and I

677
00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:15,200
Speaker 3: hung out on Friday.

678
00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:16,480
Speaker 1: That would have been a very good face.

679
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:19,479
Speaker 3: That would have been a good Facebook. Why we were

680
00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:21,640
Speaker 3: watching the Bachelorette together? I don't know why I didn't

681
00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:22,239
Speaker 3: even think of it.

682
00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 2: How are you liking the Bachelorette?

683
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:25,240
Speaker 3: I'm loving it?

684
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 2: Who do you like?

685
00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:27,920
Speaker 3: I like Jason?

686
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:35,600
Speaker 2: So Jason and you like to see a visual or something?

687
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:37,960
Speaker 1: What's happening right now? I don't know. There's there are

688
00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 1: unspoken words between the two right now.

689
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 2: No, this is like common knowledge on the on the

690
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:44,640
Speaker 2: Facebook group Mark. You just have to keep up.

691
00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 3: So I made Yeah, keep up Mark. There's a cheat

692
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 3: sheet that I made for Ryanie. Yes, so this is Jason.

693
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:53,120
Speaker 3: Read the little words.

694
00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 1: I love him. I'll take him. Yeah, So you're still

695
00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:58,080
Speaker 1: feeling that way.

696
00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:02,440
Speaker 2: It's very very subtle feelings for Jason.

697
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:04,960
Speaker 3: I actually I'm rooting for him. He's like my pick,

698
00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 3: Like I hope he wins because I think he's the

699
00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:08,960
Speaker 3: best guy. Right.

700
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:13,040
Speaker 2: Wait, so you hope he wins. You don't want to like, like,

701
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:16,680
Speaker 2: you know, no supporting him.

702
00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, but she's.

703
00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:19,520
Speaker 1: Saying, why would you want him to lose? So maybe

704
00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:21,240
Speaker 1: he could be back out in the wild right.

705
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:26,000
Speaker 3: While, well, you know he doesn't live here, right, he

706
00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:27,400
Speaker 3: lives somewhere else.

707
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:29,960
Speaker 1: And you got your hands full right now?

708
00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:31,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's get an update on.

709
00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:36,040
Speaker 1: That doctor W as he will forever be made W

710
00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 1: d W, shortening it further.

711
00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:41,200
Speaker 2: Sometimes I like to refer to Hi as d W

712
00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:42,720
Speaker 2: in my head.

713
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 3: I haven't say I've ever heard it all.

714
00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:48,920
Speaker 2: It happens in my head. Every time I hear doctor W,

715
00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:52,360
Speaker 2: I think d w W, which is from a TV show.

716
00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:55,560
Speaker 3: But things are good, We're still wait is.

717
00:32:55,520 --> 00:32:56,320
Speaker 1: It from Arthur?

718
00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:00,959
Speaker 2: I was like, I know what I'm talking.

719
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:05,400
Speaker 1: I do because I have children. Arthur's sister is du

720
00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:07,320
Speaker 1: W what it is to launce but on forever? And

721
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 1: I even know the d W stands for Dora Winifred.

722
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:12,640
Speaker 1: So I am way vibing you right now.

723
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:15,520
Speaker 2: Thank you. Mark Well. I like there was like an

724
00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:19,760
Speaker 2: electricity shock that went from like our brains, my brain

725
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:20,400
Speaker 2: to your brain.

726
00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:23,320
Speaker 1: You don't know, Arthur the little ardvark.

727
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 3: No, okay, I'm very much on the Outskirt said, Hey, no,

728
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 3: that's Franklin.

729
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:29,680
Speaker 2: Sorry about that.

730
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:34,040
Speaker 1: That's okay anyway, Wow, it's a cartoon. He's a animal

731
00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:38,560
Speaker 1: guyk an anteater. Oh you know what an anteater is?

732
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:41,600
Speaker 3: Hu google later.

733
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:46,400
Speaker 2: Is another name for Okay, we'll talk about a lunch tropic.

734
00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:50,320
Speaker 1: Anyway, Doctor w d w if what's the latest? Where

735
00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:50,600
Speaker 1: are we?

736
00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:53,680
Speaker 3: The latest is? We went out. Actually, we went out

737
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 3: on Saturday night and we went we were in the

738
00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:00,560
Speaker 3: South Bay. I don't know if I even told you.

739
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:02,360
Speaker 3: I actually probably to tell you this, but we were

740
00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:06,200
Speaker 3: walking across the street and this girl, I did know.

741
00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:10,640
Speaker 3: This girl goes, I love you telling you across the street.

742
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:13,960
Speaker 3: I mean like, I turn because I'm like, I don't know,

743
00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:15,480
Speaker 3: maybe that's my friend or something. I like look at

744
00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:16,840
Speaker 3: her and I like wave and he's like, do you

745
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:18,400
Speaker 3: know who that is? I was like nope.

746
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:18,920
Speaker 2: Wow.

747
00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:24,439
Speaker 3: So it's got to be so weird for him because

748
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:27,000
Speaker 3: that's so not his life, you know what I mean?

749
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:31,080
Speaker 1: Right, And it's a weird level of quote unquote celebrity.

750
00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:33,319
Speaker 1: You know, like you're not It's not like he's dating

751
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:36,560
Speaker 1: Jennifer Aniston totally, but he's not just dating a random

752
00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:38,359
Speaker 1: right civilian either.

753
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:41,560
Speaker 3: That's what I'm trying to be more not a little

754
00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:45,040
Speaker 3: bit more respectful of the fact that it's very foreign

755
00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:48,880
Speaker 3: to him to have every aspect of his relationship just

756
00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:51,080
Speaker 3: out there, whether it's you know what I mean, like

757
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:53,799
Speaker 3: he people that in his life, that listener, don't listen

758
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:57,239
Speaker 3: or whatever. But it's just probably so weird to have

759
00:34:57,520 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 3: all of it out.

760
00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:02,920
Speaker 1: Podcast and it globally sended radio show mostly dedicated lately

761
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:03,279
Speaker 1: to him.

762
00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:07,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, So I'm trying to be more respectful. But it's

763
00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:11,560
Speaker 3: going great. We went out this weekend. I don't know

764
00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:15,719
Speaker 3: when I'm seeing him again. I'm just trying to be

765
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:19,960
Speaker 3: I'm just trying to take it slow, not get too

766
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:23,640
Speaker 3: ahead of myself. Remember what I said, open to the possibility,

767
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:25,000
Speaker 3: not attached to the app.

768
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 1: When do you and I'm speaking generally, when do you

769
00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:32,840
Speaker 1: have the conversation of making a relationship exclusive? You have

770
00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:35,520
Speaker 1: not had that yet, right, how many dates do you think?

771
00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:36,640
Speaker 1: It's been? Approximately?

772
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:38,720
Speaker 3: Probably like nine nine days?

773
00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:41,040
Speaker 1: Okay, So, but generally speaking.

774
00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:45,120
Speaker 2: Is there a rule on that is exclusivity being boyfriend

775
00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:47,719
Speaker 2: and girlfriend or is it just being in a like

776
00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:50,960
Speaker 2: You're like, I don't know if there's a difference of

777
00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:53,200
Speaker 2: being like, Okay, I'm only seeing you at this.

778
00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:56,240
Speaker 3: Point, right, I think there's a difference, there's a step.

779
00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:57,759
Speaker 2: I feel like those are steps.

780
00:35:58,040 --> 00:35:59,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, like it does.

781
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:05,600
Speaker 2: We're saying exclusively and then it's like you're my girlfriend

782
00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 2: or your mind.

783
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 1: Right, it seems like the definition of boyfriend girlfriend is

784
00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:09,959
Speaker 1: that you're seeing each other exclusively. But it does seem

785
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:11,719
Speaker 1: like that's an extra step. The first step is let's

786
00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 1: make sure we're not seeing other people. The next step

787
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:15,960
Speaker 1: is actually referring to each other by the words boyfriend

788
00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:17,000
Speaker 1: and girlfriend, which.

789
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:19,640
Speaker 2: Is that's overwhelming, that's okay, it can be Yeah, that

790
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:21,279
Speaker 2: trustes me out even thinking about it.

791
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 1: But none of this has happened yet.

792
00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:25,560
Speaker 3: No, and I don't think I should bring it up, right,

793
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:26,359
Speaker 3: I don't know.

794
00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:30,759
Speaker 1: No, But is there an assumption of exclusivity?

795
00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 2: Well, I think you would have a conversation like are

796
00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:38,000
Speaker 2: you seeing you know? I just wanted to make sure

797
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:40,200
Speaker 2: we're on the same page, like I'm not seeing anybody

798
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:42,720
Speaker 2: else or I'm not or I am seeing other people?

799
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:45,360
Speaker 2: Like where are you at with that? And just have

800
00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:46,319
Speaker 2: like a conversation.

801
00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:49,000
Speaker 3: I think that that will It's like we kind of

802
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:52,120
Speaker 3: did like super early on, but like not really you know,

803
00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:55,840
Speaker 3: like I don't know. I think it well, for me,

804
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:57,960
Speaker 3: it will come up if if I were to. I

805
00:36:58,040 --> 00:36:59,799
Speaker 3: just haven't been asked out by somebody else, but if

806
00:36:59,840 --> 00:37:02,480
Speaker 3: some were to ask me out, I may then bring

807
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:04,879
Speaker 3: it up, right, that makes sense.

808
00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:06,879
Speaker 1: Impetus to bring it out makes sense.

809
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:08,680
Speaker 3: And also I'm not just gonna just go rogue and

810
00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:10,960
Speaker 3: be like, because who do I think I am? I'm

811
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 3: not like going on dates every night?

812
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:17,239
Speaker 1: Okay? Sure? But also I think that conversation is often

813
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:19,799
Speaker 1: attached to a level of intimacy, right, because when you

814
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 1: reach a certain level of intimacy, it's important to have that.

815
00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:24,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, totally, I agree.

816
00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:26,879
Speaker 1: So maybe that's another impetus. If and when we get

817
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:28,600
Speaker 1: to a certain point, maybe that's the time to have it.

818
00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:30,280
Speaker 1: And again speaking generally.

819
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:32,120
Speaker 2: That yeah, so we'll see.

820
00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:34,680
Speaker 1: So we'll see. Yeah. The other big news for Tanya

821
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:37,040
Speaker 1: is that she's trying a Korean face mask tonight. I

822
00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:37,840
Speaker 1: think that's exciting.

823
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:41,759
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, the one that like makes you look old at.

824
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:43,879
Speaker 2: The police pictures. It's terrifying.

825
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:45,080
Speaker 3: I'm scared.

826
00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:47,200
Speaker 2: It is so good though the mask this is not

827
00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 2: sponsored or anything. It's amazing.

828
00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:51,160
Speaker 3: Really, what's it going to do to my face?

829
00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:51,239
Speaker 2: Like?

830
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 3: Should I save it for that?

831
00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:54,239
Speaker 2: It makes you like shrivel? Oh what you mean?

832
00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:54,360
Speaker 4: Like?

833
00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:57,560
Speaker 2: What's it do? The result? It like tightens it, it

834
00:37:57,719 --> 00:38:02,919
Speaker 2: brightens it. It's fantastic. It's like a facial and twenty minutes.

835
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:03,640
Speaker 1: So you've done it.

836
00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:04,880
Speaker 2: I do it regularly.

837
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:06,799
Speaker 1: Did you post it? Have you posted any pictures?

838
00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 2: I think I do have a picture. I think I

839
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:10,640
Speaker 2: can post it on the Facebook.

840
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:13,040
Speaker 1: Okay, good will you post tonight? Tanya?

841
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:14,399
Speaker 2: Is it that bad?

842
00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 3: But why didn't you post yours?

843
00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:17,200
Speaker 2: I didn't you know?

844
00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:18,239
Speaker 3: I never saw you.

845
00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:19,799
Speaker 2: I needed to post it.

846
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 1: I think this is something that needs to be posted.

847
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:25,840
Speaker 2: It's I mean, listen, it's scary, it's it's not flattering.

848
00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:27,360
Speaker 2: But I like to send it to all in my

849
00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:29,480
Speaker 2: I feel like i've sent it to you before.

850
00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:31,120
Speaker 1: Women can relate to this.

851
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:33,120
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm happy to post it.

852
00:38:33,840 --> 00:38:36,680
Speaker 3: I slap that bad boy on with Fecca and watch

853
00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:37,840
Speaker 3: some bachelor.

854
00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:41,719
Speaker 2: That Oh yeah, Bachelor's Tonight, Bachelorette. I'll have to find it.

855
00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:43,120
Speaker 2: I don't want to be distracted.

856
00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:44,719
Speaker 1: Is there anything else we need to know about your

857
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:45,520
Speaker 1: life right now? Tanya?

858
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:51,120
Speaker 2: No, my life I feel like there was Medieval Times yesterday, Houston.

859
00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:55,080
Speaker 2: It's good. Did y'all have the best time? Was like

860
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:55,640
Speaker 2: living his.

861
00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:57,440
Speaker 3: Best He was living his best life.

862
00:38:57,600 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 1: He was living Tynie went to Medieval Times and sat

863
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:01,040
Speaker 1: in the front row.

864
00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:03,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, Easton was really excited about the front row.

865
00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:07,200
Speaker 1: Eastern. I love Eastern. I love he is so excitable

866
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:08,360
Speaker 1: about he loves everything.

867
00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:11,680
Speaker 2: He loves life, He loves life. It makes me so excited.

868
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:15,680
Speaker 1: He's more passionate about everything than most people are of anything.

869
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:20,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I think, though, I think that sometimes and

870
00:39:20,640 --> 00:39:24,000
Speaker 3: I'm taking Medieval Times completely like out of the equation.

871
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:26,600
Speaker 3: But like, if you're going into a situation in life

872
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:28,160
Speaker 3: that like you don't want to go to, or like

873
00:39:28,200 --> 00:39:31,000
Speaker 3: you're dreading or like, I think your perspective and your

874
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:35,640
Speaker 3: outlook and your your just how you go into situations

875
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:38,839
Speaker 3: is such a game changer and everything in life true,

876
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:42,560
Speaker 3: Like it's such a game changer. Yeah, Eastern makes me

877
00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:44,400
Speaker 3: realize that that's true.

878
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:46,680
Speaker 1: And I'll be taken by Like I know how much

879
00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:49,480
Speaker 1: he loves Marvel movies and how much he loves Disneyland

880
00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:51,200
Speaker 1: and that sort of thing. But like the other day,

881
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:54,120
Speaker 1: Amy said, Hey, we're getting sandwiches from I forget what

882
00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:57,400
Speaker 1: it was called someplace and he goes, oh my god,

883
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Speaker 1: Email em this is from Becca, not you, but.

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Speaker 2: No, it's not me. We'll find that I need some advice.

933
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Speaker 1: Okay. I've been having a lot of talks and sleepless

934
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:51,560
Speaker 1: nights because of an issue in my relationship. Around January,

935
00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:54,000
Speaker 1: I started dating a guy who's amazing everything I dreamed of,

936
00:42:54,040 --> 00:42:57,080
Speaker 1: except for one thing. He's unable to have kids. I

937
00:42:57,080 --> 00:42:58,520
Speaker 1: didn't think it was that big of a deal because

938
00:42:58,520 --> 00:43:01,280
Speaker 1: there's IVF and the potential of adoption, which he actually

939
00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:03,680
Speaker 1: mentioned when we were first dating, but recently he's been

940
00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:05,520
Speaker 1: saying he doesn't think he wants them at all. This

941
00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:07,600
Speaker 1: is extremely hard for me to swallow because I always

942
00:43:07,600 --> 00:43:09,520
Speaker 1: saw myself as a mother of at least one kid,

943
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:11,920
Speaker 1: maybe two. We always talk as if this is it

944
00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:14,080
Speaker 1: for us, and talk about the future, but recently I

945
00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:16,520
Speaker 1: haven't been talking about it as much because I really

946
00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:18,480
Speaker 1: just don't know. I really do love him, but I

947
00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:20,359
Speaker 1: also fear that if you get married don't have kids.

948
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:22,960
Speaker 1: Sometime down the road, I'll resent him for taking that

949
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:26,040
Speaker 1: away from me. He's twenty eight, I'm twenty four.

950
00:43:26,560 --> 00:43:28,000
Speaker 2: Oh, this is so tough.

951
00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:31,720
Speaker 1: We also have to look at this from the angle

952
00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:35,240
Speaker 1: of six months in. Oh they started dating in January.

953
00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 1: It's July. They're six months in.

954
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:41,280
Speaker 2: So your thoughts, you know, I feel like people there's

955
00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:44,319
Speaker 2: a lot of instances where, like Derek said, he and

956
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 2: Haley it was a slow burn and it took a

957
00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:50,200
Speaker 2: while to really realize that they wanted to be together,

958
00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:52,799
Speaker 2: and you know, their feelings for each other. And then

959
00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:55,399
Speaker 2: I think some people have an instant connection and they're like,

960
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:57,720
Speaker 2: I could see myself spending my life with this person.

961
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:00,839
Speaker 2: So if it's in the case where she had that

962
00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 2: instant spark of I could see myself spending my life

963
00:44:03,520 --> 00:44:09,200
Speaker 2: with someone that doesn't come around that often don't But

964
00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:15,760
Speaker 2: how I am I love I mean, I want kids

965
00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:19,360
Speaker 2: so too that I feel like if I got married

966
00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:23,160
Speaker 2: to someone and they didn't want kids, I wouldn't and

967
00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 2: or they told me before we got married that they

968
00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:28,360
Speaker 2: didn't want kids, and then I was like, it's fine,

969
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:30,239
Speaker 2: it's fine. I love you, I want to be with you,

970
00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:32,200
Speaker 2: And then we got married and didn't have kids. I

971
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:34,440
Speaker 2: feel like I would have resentment and feel like I

972
00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:36,759
Speaker 2: missed out on something that I was like longing for,

973
00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:40,000
Speaker 2: And I feel I don't know how to I don't

974
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:41,719
Speaker 2: know if she feels this way, but she said she

975
00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 2: pictured herself like, I feel like I'm supposed to be

976
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 2: a mom, you know. So I think that's a big

977
00:44:48,680 --> 00:44:53,840
Speaker 2: thing to think about. It's not like an easy answer.

978
00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:59,160
Speaker 3: I think you have to outweigh what's more important to you.

979
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:03,279
Speaker 3: It is a stable relationship with a great man, or

980
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:05,799
Speaker 3: is the potential of being a mom, because I think

981
00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:17,040
Speaker 3: sometimes I think sometimes it gets kind of confusing. I

982
00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:19,480
Speaker 3: don't know how to say this because I've been in

983
00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:23,840
Speaker 3: this situation, but it wasn't like about kids, and I

984
00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:26,320
Speaker 3: feel like my advice would be to get out before

985
00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:29,799
Speaker 3: you get too invested, to be honest, But if this,

986
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:32,480
Speaker 3: I think six months is too soon to know. If

987
00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:37,000
Speaker 3: this is like your forever guy, if he's your forever guy,

988
00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 3: then you have to really think about it. Is it

989
00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:42,360
Speaker 3: being with him more important or is having kids more important?

990
00:45:42,400 --> 00:45:45,720
Speaker 1: Well, that's the thing. It's very very early in the situation.

991
00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:47,960
Speaker 1: There is no rush here. In twenty four you've been

992
00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:50,000
Speaker 1: with him for six months. You've got plenty of time

993
00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:53,120
Speaker 1: to figure this out. My advice is not walk away,

994
00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:55,920
Speaker 1: because I think you can still explore him and explore

995
00:45:56,000 --> 00:45:58,279
Speaker 1: this and if it becomes increasingly clear, then I think

996
00:45:58,320 --> 00:46:00,839
Speaker 1: you will have to end this thing. But for now,

997
00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:03,439
Speaker 1: at this point, I think maybe he's just scared. He's

998
00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:07,200
Speaker 1: not ready yet, right, Maybe the fact that he can't

999
00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:09,480
Speaker 1: have kids has done some certain things to him. Yeah,

1000
00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:10,360
Speaker 1: it might be an insecurity.

1001
00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:12,680
Speaker 3: Yeah. I also think too, like if you dip out

1002
00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:15,120
Speaker 3: too soon without giving it a fair shot, like you

1003
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:17,239
Speaker 3: never know, there might be something else about him that

1004
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:19,279
Speaker 3: like you really can't stand you know what I mean,

1005
00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:21,040
Speaker 3: like whatever that I don't know what that is, but

1006
00:46:21,120 --> 00:46:28,120
Speaker 3: like the trigger event, there might be something completely unrelated

1007
00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:30,279
Speaker 3: that you're like bye, So then it wouldn't even have

1008
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:30,600
Speaker 3: to mount.

1009
00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:33,480
Speaker 2: It doesn't sound like he said like I don't want kids.

1010
00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:36,600
Speaker 2: It sounds like he's thinking maybe there's something going on,

1011
00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:39,400
Speaker 2: like Mark said, maybe there's something going on with the

1012
00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:43,880
Speaker 2: fact that he can't have them that he feels like,

1013
00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:46,000
Speaker 2: oh I don't want him anyway, right, right?

1014
00:46:47,280 --> 00:46:49,520
Speaker 1: So all right, good luck, Becca. Hope that helped.

1015
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:50,400
Speaker 2: Thanks guys.

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00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:53,160
Speaker 1: It's an anonymous emailer. I've been with my boyfriend almost

1017
00:46:53,160 --> 00:46:55,120
Speaker 1: a year. We are planning on moving in together, but

1018
00:46:55,160 --> 00:46:57,439
Speaker 1: not for another six months, which seems like forever a way.

1019
00:46:57,840 --> 00:47:00,200
Speaker 1: We hang out every day, but recently he's one to

1020
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:01,879
Speaker 1: take a couple of nights off a week in order

1021
00:47:01,920 --> 00:47:05,480
Speaker 1: to miss me, slash, make moving in more special, slash,

1022
00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 1: have time to work on himself, et cetera. It scares

1023
00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:10,759
Speaker 1: me a lot, and it's really hard for me. Is

1024
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:13,319
Speaker 1: this normal behavior for a manner? Am I losing him?

1025
00:47:13,560 --> 00:47:15,800
Speaker 1: Everything is still the same over together, and he's always

1026
00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:18,319
Speaker 1: reassuring me, But sometimes I feel scared that he needs

1027
00:47:18,400 --> 00:47:20,359
Speaker 1: nights off to miss me. I feel like I miss

1028
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:22,520
Speaker 1: him more than he misses me because it's so hard

1029
00:47:22,560 --> 00:47:24,719
Speaker 1: on men. I'm also scared because I feel so disconnected

1030
00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:27,239
Speaker 1: from him. We're apart and feel like our relationship is

1031
00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:29,399
Speaker 1: just normal now, it's not special, if that makes sense.

1032
00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:31,319
Speaker 1: Would love your input and tips on how I can

1033
00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:33,120
Speaker 1: overcome this because I do want this and I do

1034
00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:34,920
Speaker 1: want to respect him and his wishes.

1035
00:47:35,600 --> 00:47:40,880
Speaker 2: Oh the thing is I get his perspective.

1036
00:47:40,360 --> 00:47:42,880
Speaker 1: Here person for this email.

1037
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:47,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, I totally get it, but I also understand why

1038
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:49,759
Speaker 2: that would make her feel insecure like I would feel

1039
00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:50,359
Speaker 2: that way too.

1040
00:47:50,960 --> 00:47:52,880
Speaker 3: I think it's because it's a change in the pattern.

1041
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:54,719
Speaker 3: I think whenever there's a change in a pattern that

1042
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 3: you established in a relationship that makes people uncomfortable, Does

1043
00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:01,359
Speaker 3: that make sense? So the fact that they haven't spent

1044
00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:04,600
Speaker 3: time apart, they're there together all the time, that's what's

1045
00:48:04,640 --> 00:48:08,200
Speaker 3: making her like be like, well, what the heck. It's

1046
00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:09,640
Speaker 3: kind of like when you're when you've been married with

1047
00:48:09,680 --> 00:48:11,200
Speaker 3: somebody that are going through like a mid life crisis

1048
00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:13,440
Speaker 3: and they like, all of a sudden are like, you know,

1049
00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:15,480
Speaker 3: they don't never went to the gym, and then all

1050
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:16,839
Speaker 3: of a sudden, they're going to the gym every single

1051
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:19,000
Speaker 3: day and they're like wearing tighter clothes or you know

1052
00:48:19,040 --> 00:48:20,239
Speaker 3: what I mean. Like, I think that's the type of

1053
00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:22,600
Speaker 3: stuff that makes people anxious.

1054
00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:25,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, from a guy's perspective on this, I don't love

1055
00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:29,480
Speaker 1: it because moving in is a big step. And I

1056
00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:33,319
Speaker 1: think he's scared because because that's that's you're on a path.

1057
00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:35,880
Speaker 1: Now you move in together, you're going to get married

1058
00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:38,479
Speaker 1: or it's going to be ugly when it ends, right,

1059
00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:40,640
Speaker 1: And I think that's how he's looking at it. And

1060
00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:42,480
Speaker 1: I think he's scared, and I think he's starting to

1061
00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:44,400
Speaker 1: pull back a little bit, and I'm nervous. I'm not

1062
00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 1: sure this is going to happen. I'm not sure you're

1063
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:47,359
Speaker 1: going to move in together. I don't know.

1064
00:48:47,920 --> 00:48:49,240
Speaker 3: Guys are just scaredy pants.

1065
00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:53,759
Speaker 2: I'm scaredy pants too. It's not just guys. I'm not

1066
00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:55,759
Speaker 2: scared to get old or anything. But I do think

1067
00:48:55,800 --> 00:49:01,400
Speaker 2: there's a sense of like, oh, when that happens. I

1068
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:03,520
Speaker 2: think it's just like, oh, when that happens, I'm like

1069
00:49:04,080 --> 00:49:08,120
Speaker 2: in it, and there's so many it's just I think

1070
00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:11,160
Speaker 2: I look at relationships and it's like you have the

1071
00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:15,000
Speaker 2: highs and the lows, and I really don't enjoy the lows.

1072
00:49:15,040 --> 00:49:16,799
Speaker 2: Like not that anyone does, but it's like.

1073
00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:18,759
Speaker 3: I was talking to back about this, I was like,

1074
00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:23,360
Speaker 3: that's that's every relationship has ups and downs.

1075
00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:25,560
Speaker 1: Like yeah, but when you're low's happened you want out?

1076
00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:29,240
Speaker 2: You're like yeah, it's like, oh, I just get tired.

1077
00:49:29,320 --> 00:49:33,160
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, you know, it's so much easier when

1078
00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:33,760
Speaker 2: I'm single.

1079
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:35,440
Speaker 3: It's true.

1080
00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:39,239
Speaker 2: That's why I sing. That's why like when people are

1081
00:49:39,280 --> 00:49:41,440
Speaker 2: like like why don't you want to date anyone? Or

1082
00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:43,640
Speaker 2: why aren't you like wanting to be in a relationship.

1083
00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:47,920
Speaker 2: It's like, well, I'm it's so easy noting in that.

1084
00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:50,440
Speaker 3: I know, but companionship is like one of the greatest

1085
00:49:50,440 --> 00:49:51,040
Speaker 3: things in life.

1086
00:49:51,360 --> 00:49:51,920
Speaker 2: Friends.

1087
00:49:52,000 --> 00:49:54,239
Speaker 1: But like, at to Becca's point, we should be our

1088
00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:55,080
Speaker 1: own best partner.

1089
00:49:55,800 --> 00:49:59,320
Speaker 2: Oh, thank you, partner for myself.

1090
00:49:59,400 --> 00:50:00,920
Speaker 1: You're not going to be a great partner for someone

1091
00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:03,040
Speaker 1: else before. We're a great partner for ourselves.

1092
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:06,359
Speaker 3: I am a great partner for myself. Wow. That needs

1093
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:07,240
Speaker 3: to go on a T shirt.

1094
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:09,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'd wear it.

1095
00:50:10,200 --> 00:50:15,160
Speaker 1: Criftin had an Ellen Pompeo encounter and gentlemen this past month.

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Speaker 1: I was studying in Italy. We spent the first week

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Speaker 1: in Florence. We're in the middle of a piazza down

1098
00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:20,960
Speaker 1: the street from the hotel, listening to our professor ramble

1099
00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:22,600
Speaker 1: on about our plans for the day. That one of

1100
00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:26,880
Speaker 1: my classmates gasped and froze. Guys, everyone be calm, but

1101
00:50:26,960 --> 00:50:31,160
Speaker 1: Ellen Pompeio was right behind us. Be calm. That didn't happen.

1102
00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:34,239
Speaker 1: Everyone turned around and started taking pictures from afar. Then her

1103
00:50:34,280 --> 00:50:36,799
Speaker 1: mom started storming over at us to yell at us

1104
00:50:36,800 --> 00:50:40,000
Speaker 1: to stop it. Ellen yelled at her to come back. Mom,

1105
00:50:40,080 --> 00:50:42,759
Speaker 1: get back over here and they hurried away. Everyone was

1106
00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:45,040
Speaker 1: so shocked and disappointed by her reaction, but I, as

1107
00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:47,080
Speaker 1: a super fan of the podcast, knew this is kind

1108
00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:50,399
Speaker 1: of how it goes sometimes with Ellen Pompeo. I thought

1109
00:50:50,400 --> 00:50:52,400
Speaker 1: of you guys and had to share Becker, You're not

1110
00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:54,080
Speaker 1: the only one that's been told off by one of

1111
00:50:54,120 --> 00:50:57,960
Speaker 1: Ellen's family members. Thank you, You girls hilarious, gorgeous, and I

1112
00:50:58,000 --> 00:50:59,600
Speaker 1: can't wait to see what life brings for you.

1113
00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:03,080
Speaker 2: That is, I mean, I will say, I don't want

1114
00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:05,280
Speaker 2: to like make it sound like I was told off,

1115
00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:08,000
Speaker 2: you know. I politely asked her husband and he just

1116
00:51:08,040 --> 00:51:10,040
Speaker 2: said no. But no one yelled at me. That would

1117
00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:14,759
Speaker 2: have terrified me. That yelling at me, wow, would have

1118
00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:15,880
Speaker 2: sent me into a spiral.

1119
00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:20,279
Speaker 1: Let me do one more advice. If I could, was.

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00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:25,520
Speaker 3: Pleasant to me, Oh, Sarah, you can ever say her name?

1121
00:51:25,640 --> 00:51:28,880
Speaker 2: Katerina Scorzoneorscon.

1122
00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:31,000
Speaker 1: I don't know. But they also both thought you were

1123
00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 1: patients of the children's hospital, if I recall true.

1124
00:51:34,120 --> 00:51:36,560
Speaker 2: But they were a great point that you make, but

1125
00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:38,320
Speaker 2: they were nice to everyone.

1126
00:51:38,560 --> 00:51:41,520
Speaker 3: Okay, who could have worked at the hospital.

1127
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:43,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, you could have, but I don't think they traded

1128
00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:44,480
Speaker 1: you like you worked at the hospital.

1129
00:51:44,560 --> 00:51:48,239
Speaker 2: Right, No, they did not. They were like, that's why

1130
00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:55,000
Speaker 2: we're here, You're let that go for the kids. Yeah,

1131
00:51:55,040 --> 00:51:58,520
Speaker 2: it like affected me. It was like our moment to

1132
00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:00,000
Speaker 2: maybe get them on the podcast.

1133
00:52:00,160 --> 00:52:02,280
Speaker 3: I know we've failed our listeners.

1134
00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:03,840
Speaker 2: Yes, sorry, we love you guys.

1135
00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:06,959
Speaker 3: Who can we get from I mean, come on, there's

1136
00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:09,439
Speaker 3: so many people on that show and who.

1137
00:52:09,440 --> 00:52:11,240
Speaker 1: Have been on that show, Like we could take people

1138
00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:13,200
Speaker 1: who are no longer on that show, like.

1139
00:52:13,920 --> 00:52:20,160
Speaker 3: I would happily take Jiacomo. Yeah, right, for sure, happily happily.

1140
00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:22,879
Speaker 1: Well, they're gonna probably start doing the rounds in about

1141
00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:25,239
Speaker 1: a month, right, promoting the new season. Oh yeah, maybe

1142
00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:27,799
Speaker 1: we can. Yeah, because it doesn't matter who.

1143
00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:30,759
Speaker 2: We're trying to figure out. Surely there's someone on there

1144
00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:36,120
Speaker 2: that's been on, like Jessica Capshaw, Like, you know, it

1145
00:52:36,120 --> 00:52:36,680
Speaker 2: would be great.

1146
00:52:36,880 --> 00:52:38,920
Speaker 1: I would love to meet Bailey. I would love to

1147
00:52:38,920 --> 00:52:40,560
Speaker 1: get her in here. I think that would be so cool.

1148
00:52:40,600 --> 00:52:41,879
Speaker 2: I feel like she'd be a good time.

1149
00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:43,279
Speaker 1: I think she would be a good time.

1150
00:52:43,320 --> 00:52:44,799
Speaker 3: We met her, no big deal.

1151
00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:50,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, she walked by and we were like, oh, she

1152
00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:51,600
Speaker 2: was cute.

1153
00:52:51,640 --> 00:52:53,000
Speaker 3: She was actually really cute.

1154
00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:55,080
Speaker 2: I think we should reach out. I think we should

1155
00:52:55,080 --> 00:52:59,080
Speaker 2: reach out. Try to get Sarah Drew and Cinder like

1156
00:52:59,120 --> 00:53:01,399
Speaker 2: our picture. I'd be like, we told you, like yeah,

1157
00:53:01,560 --> 00:53:03,399
Speaker 2: send her like the number so she knows it's not

1158
00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:07,080
Speaker 2: just us doing it in our room on our cell phones. Right,

1159
00:53:07,320 --> 00:53:10,759
Speaker 2: send her like the professional email. Right, We're gonna try that.

1160
00:53:11,440 --> 00:53:15,920
Speaker 1: Maybe it might work, but I don't know. I think

1161
00:53:15,960 --> 00:53:18,880
Speaker 1: that you might have burned that bridge. Wow. Anyway. Eleanor's

1162
00:53:18,880 --> 00:53:20,879
Speaker 1: twenty three. She lives at home and her boyfriend now

1163
00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:22,960
Speaker 1: has his own place. My parents love him, but he

1164
00:53:23,000 --> 00:53:25,560
Speaker 1: is not allowed to sleep here. I have a dog

1165
00:53:25,600 --> 00:53:27,720
Speaker 1: which sleeps with me. He's not allowed in my parents' bedroom,

1166
00:53:27,760 --> 00:53:29,560
Speaker 1: but I'm not home. The dog barks all night long.

1167
00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:32,840
Speaker 1: Usually I squeeze a night into my boyfriend's apartment, but

1168
00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:35,879
Speaker 1: I kind of have to ask permission. He's annoyed, he's frustrated,

1169
00:53:35,960 --> 00:53:38,640
Speaker 1: like my mom is being ridiculous and just making up excuses.

1170
00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:41,319
Speaker 1: I don't feel like that's it. When my parents are away,

1171
00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:44,400
Speaker 1: it's fine if he sleeps over. The dog has shared responsibility. Anyway,

1172
00:53:44,400 --> 00:53:46,160
Speaker 1: I'm an adult. I shouldn't have to tiptoe a round

1173
00:53:46,160 --> 00:53:48,399
Speaker 1: to get to spend a night at my boyfriend's. Moving

1174
00:53:48,440 --> 00:53:50,040
Speaker 1: out is not going to happen for a couple of years,

1175
00:53:50,080 --> 00:53:52,440
Speaker 1: and it's definitely a greater issue that it's impeding my

1176
00:53:52,520 --> 00:53:55,080
Speaker 1: relationships progress. We've been together three years. What do I do?

1177
00:53:56,800 --> 00:53:58,600
Speaker 3: I have advice, but I feel like she's not gonna

1178
00:53:58,640 --> 00:53:58,840
Speaker 3: like it.

1179
00:53:58,920 --> 00:54:01,120
Speaker 1: I think I'm on the same page.

1180
00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:02,040
Speaker 2: As you give it.

1181
00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:06,000
Speaker 3: You are an adult. You are twenty three years old

1182
00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:08,279
Speaker 3: and you can do what you want. You are living

1183
00:54:08,280 --> 00:54:11,320
Speaker 3: in your parents' home, and you abide by their rules.

1184
00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:12,400
Speaker 1: The rules.

1185
00:54:12,440 --> 00:54:16,680
Speaker 2: I know it's so unfortunate, but it's true.

1186
00:54:17,000 --> 00:54:18,919
Speaker 3: I think if you want to do what you want

1187
00:54:18,920 --> 00:54:21,480
Speaker 3: to do, you need to move out. Bottom of line.

1188
00:54:21,520 --> 00:54:24,040
Speaker 2: Think that's it, or or this is an option. She

1189
00:54:24,080 --> 00:54:27,000
Speaker 2: could maybe bring up what if she paid rent at

1190
00:54:27,040 --> 00:54:30,680
Speaker 2: her parents paid them rent, so it was her space.

1191
00:54:31,480 --> 00:54:33,720
Speaker 1: Okay, the dog is still an issue in that scenario.

1192
00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:36,799
Speaker 1: She has to look after this dog if she's not home.

1193
00:54:36,840 --> 00:54:38,520
Speaker 1: Her parents have not want nothing to do with them.

1194
00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:42,359
Speaker 1: The dog barks all night if she's not there. Oh yeah,

1195
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:44,799
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I think your parents have to have the

1196
00:54:44,840 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 1: right call here. You got to get out of there.

1197
00:54:46,880 --> 00:54:49,399
Speaker 1: That's it. They like having them stay there when they're

1198
00:54:49,440 --> 00:54:51,480
Speaker 1: out of town because there's they don't like you in

1199
00:54:51,520 --> 00:54:54,440
Speaker 1: that house all by yourself. Yeah, it's different.

1200
00:54:55,160 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 2: Oh, unfortunate.

1201
00:54:57,680 --> 00:55:00,080
Speaker 1: It is unfortunate, but it's true.

1202
00:55:00,239 --> 00:55:04,120
Speaker 2: Their house, their rule. So until you're able to move out.

1203
00:55:03,880 --> 00:55:05,239
Speaker 3: This might be I mean, you've been with this guy

1204
00:55:05,239 --> 00:55:06,840
Speaker 3: for three years. Why can't you move with your boyfriend?

1205
00:55:06,920 --> 00:55:08,680
Speaker 1: That's a good question. She does not mentioned that he

1206
00:55:08,800 --> 00:55:13,520
Speaker 1: has his own place. Seems like I'm guessing parents wouldn't

1207
00:55:13,520 --> 00:55:14,319
Speaker 1: be thrilled about that.

1208
00:55:14,440 --> 00:55:16,279
Speaker 2: Well, what if he has What if he has like

1209
00:55:16,320 --> 00:55:18,200
Speaker 2: a roommate situation or something.

1210
00:55:18,239 --> 00:55:22,680
Speaker 3: Or kick out the roommate, bring in the girlfriend. That's

1211
00:55:22,680 --> 00:55:23,319
Speaker 3: what I would say.

1212
00:55:23,440 --> 00:55:27,640
Speaker 1: And then there's the whole other talking about roommates and girlfriends.

1213
00:55:27,760 --> 00:55:29,359
Speaker 2: I know that's a fast I'm just.

1214
00:55:29,280 --> 00:55:31,640
Speaker 1: Talking to someone on her staff about this where she's

1215
00:55:31,680 --> 00:55:34,480
Speaker 1: always over at somebody's house and the roommate can't stand

1216
00:55:34,520 --> 00:55:35,520
Speaker 1: her and she can just tell.

1217
00:55:36,800 --> 00:55:39,319
Speaker 3: And I wouldn't hate that. See, my roommate hasn't had

1218
00:55:39,320 --> 00:55:41,319
Speaker 3: a boyfriend since I've lived with her, but I would

1219
00:55:41,320 --> 00:55:43,880
Speaker 3: don't think I would love having a Oh no, she

1220
00:55:43,880 --> 00:55:46,240
Speaker 3: actually has. She did have a boyfriend for a minute,

1221
00:55:46,280 --> 00:55:48,040
Speaker 3: and he came over not very often, but if he was.

1222
00:55:48,040 --> 00:55:50,280
Speaker 1: Over all the time, it would annoy me. Yes, exactly.

1223
00:55:50,600 --> 00:55:53,560
Speaker 3: Like my home is my safe have like my piece

1224
00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:54,200
Speaker 3: and my quiet.

1225
00:55:54,280 --> 00:55:57,719
Speaker 1: So this here's what makes it worse. Our staffer noticed

1226
00:55:58,280 --> 00:56:02,280
Speaker 1: that he and this roommate had we're having like extensive texts,

1227
00:56:02,360 --> 00:56:07,759
Speaker 1: like paragraph texts over her. She assumes that because things

1228
00:56:07,800 --> 00:56:10,000
Speaker 1: are weird and you didn't mention it to her, and

1229
00:56:10,040 --> 00:56:11,799
Speaker 1: if they're just fighting with other random stuff, you probably

1230
00:56:11,800 --> 00:56:12,480
Speaker 1: would have mentioned it.

1231
00:56:12,560 --> 00:56:14,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, you have to split the time, I feel like

1232
00:56:14,400 --> 00:56:16,560
Speaker 3: between your places, right.

1233
00:56:16,680 --> 00:56:19,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you at least have to go yeah.

1234
00:56:19,880 --> 00:56:21,520
Speaker 3: If you have roommates. If you don't have roommates, then

1235
00:56:21,560 --> 00:56:23,040
Speaker 3: you just go to the one that doesn't have a roomb.

1236
00:56:22,920 --> 00:56:29,480
Speaker 2: But yeah, yeah, oh rough rough rough Waters, Tonya. I

1237
00:56:29,520 --> 00:56:32,000
Speaker 2: just wanted to say, you posted a photo the other

1238
00:56:32,080 --> 00:56:36,480
Speaker 2: day or boomerang and you're you're I would have to say,

1239
00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:38,960
Speaker 2: right now, I think you're in the best shape of

1240
00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:41,560
Speaker 2: your life that you've ever been since I've known you.

1241
00:56:41,600 --> 00:56:42,040
Speaker 3: Thank you.

1242
00:56:42,080 --> 00:56:43,279
Speaker 2: That's amazing, very nice.

1243
00:56:43,280 --> 00:56:45,080
Speaker 1: Would you agree with that, Tany? Is that true? I

1244
00:56:45,160 --> 00:56:45,440
Speaker 1: think so?

1245
00:56:45,640 --> 00:56:45,960
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1246
00:56:46,000 --> 00:56:48,160
Speaker 1: For sure? Are you back to clean? Because I remember

1247
00:56:48,160 --> 00:56:49,880
Speaker 1: that time you did the Facebook podcast and you were

1248
00:56:49,880 --> 00:56:50,640
Speaker 1: pounding down cheese.

1249
00:56:50,680 --> 00:56:54,040
Speaker 2: It's like, whoa, that was the fun for me. But yeah,

1250
00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:54,800
Speaker 2: I'm I rolling.

1251
00:56:54,880 --> 00:56:59,200
Speaker 3: I'm definitely back to clean. But I give myself more

1252
00:56:59,800 --> 00:57:03,640
Speaker 3: like leniency, Yeah, more leniency on a regular basis so

1253
00:57:03,719 --> 00:57:05,120
Speaker 3: that I don't go crazy.

1254
00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:07,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, buttered pop starts.

1255
00:57:07,440 --> 00:57:09,720
Speaker 3: Yeah no, buttered pop starts Like I'll have like things

1256
00:57:09,760 --> 00:57:12,759
Speaker 3: here and there. And I think dating actually helps with

1257
00:57:12,880 --> 00:57:16,720
Speaker 3: the balance of things because it's not like he wants

1258
00:57:16,720 --> 00:57:19,520
Speaker 3: to eat eat more or whatever. But we're just you know,

1259
00:57:19,600 --> 00:57:21,960
Speaker 3: you go out and you order food and then you

1260
00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:23,640
Speaker 3: get dessert to share, you know what I mean, So

1261
00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:26,320
Speaker 3: that just kind of helps with the balance. Yeah.

1262
00:57:26,360 --> 00:57:28,640
Speaker 2: Well, I wanted to talk about Beach Body on Demand,

1263
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Speaker 2: which is an easy to use streaming service that gives

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there are hundreds of effective workouts for all fitness levels,

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Speaker 3: ranging from bodybuilding to weight training to cardio hit to yoga.

1269
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Speaker 3: There's even dance workouts. I bet Drek Cuff would have

1270
00:57:51,680 --> 00:57:52,040
Speaker 3: enjoyed that.

1271
00:57:52,360 --> 00:57:54,919
Speaker 2: Yeah. I love a good The fact that I could

1272
00:57:54,920 --> 00:57:57,760
Speaker 2: do a dance workout without anyone seeing me is very

1273
00:57:57,760 --> 00:57:59,520
Speaker 2: important because I wouldn't want to do that in front

1274
00:57:59,520 --> 00:58:00,280
Speaker 2: of anyone. Yeah.

1275
00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:02,080
Speaker 3: The comfort, that's the best thing about this is that

1276
00:58:02,120 --> 00:58:03,439
Speaker 3: you do it from the comfort of your own home.

1277
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Speaker 2: Yeah, you do it from the comfort of your own home.

1278
00:58:05,760 --> 00:58:09,440
Speaker 2: There's a huge support community join over one million people

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Speaker 2: that are currently on beach Body on Demand.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, view on your computer. You can watch it on

1281
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Speaker 3: a tablet, on your TV, on your smartphone, on your

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Speaker 3: vocal Ro, cool Roku, or your Apple TV. So basically,

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Speaker 3: if you have any sort of device, you can do

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Speaker 3: beach Body on Demand on your device.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and it is the best deal in fitness. Our

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00:58:29,640 --> 00:58:32,800
Speaker 2: listeners of Scrubbing In can try it absolutely free.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so go get the special free trial membership when

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Speaker 3: that's thirty thirty thirty.

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Speaker 2: Three zero three zero three zero. Yeah, you will get

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1293
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Speaker 2: text Beca to thirty thirty thirty once again, text we.

1294
00:58:58,880 --> 00:59:01,080
Speaker 1: I'm sorry I was not paying attention. What should I

1295
00:59:01,120 --> 00:59:03,280
Speaker 1: text to thirty thirty thirty Becca?

1296
00:59:04,960 --> 00:59:06,960
Speaker 2: Thank you Mark, he really came in and saved the day.

1297
00:59:07,160 --> 00:59:09,160
Speaker 1: My pleasure, and that reminds me we need to give

1298
00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:11,560
Speaker 1: a shout out to Tony Martin Jordan. She listens in

1299
00:59:11,640 --> 00:59:13,960
Speaker 1: the car with her kids. They're making a Chick fil

1300
00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:19,960
Speaker 1: A run and the kids always saying Becca Britney Cannon

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Speaker 1: is listening at work in the Court of Appeals in Uganda.

1302
00:59:24,240 --> 00:59:28,439
Speaker 3: Wow. Yeah, oh wait, Actually, what's in Africa? Yeah?

1303
00:59:28,480 --> 00:59:28,680
Speaker 4: I know?

1304
00:59:29,000 --> 00:59:31,520
Speaker 1: Okay, are you not impressed? Do you have fans of

1305
00:59:31,560 --> 00:59:32,680
Speaker 1: the show in Africa?

1306
00:59:33,000 --> 00:59:35,959
Speaker 3: They're in our Facebook group? Have you guys not read

1307
00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:36,600
Speaker 3: the threads?

1308
00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:41,920
Speaker 2: Get lost in the group sometimes, so.

1309
00:59:40,440 --> 00:59:43,200
Speaker 3: We have listeners in like the craziest part, I'm not

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Speaker 3: one that the Taylor Swift show that was from China.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 3: I was like, and you're at the Rose Bowl. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's pretty cool.

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Speaker 1: That's pretty cool. Yeah, Taylor. Nicole Warner is putting the

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Speaker 1: finishing touches on her nursery while she's listening. She's due

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00:59:56,160 --> 01:00:00,320
Speaker 1: on Wednesday. My birthday is Friday. So if it's a

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Speaker 1: little late, you can get me. If it's a lot late,

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Speaker 1: you can get Tanya, whose birthday is next Wednesday.

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Speaker 3: Yes, but you're gonna have a cancer baby, which are

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Speaker 3: like the sweetest.

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Speaker 1: They're very emotional, very very sensitive. Mercedes Star just moved

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01:00:16,120 --> 01:00:18,360
Speaker 1: to Portland from Las Vegas and the podcast makes her

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01:00:18,360 --> 01:00:19,800
Speaker 1: feel like she brought her friends with her.

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Speaker 3: Also shout out to our listener Mandy Gerreski. Brad Goerreski's

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Speaker 3: sister listens and it was so cute because she was

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Speaker 3: texting Brad about it and he's like, oh, you're cute.

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Speaker 3: Did you like follow my swipe up link or whatever?

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01:00:31,360 --> 01:00:33,520
Speaker 3: And she's like, no, I listened to the podcast every

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01:00:33,560 --> 01:00:38,000
Speaker 3: single week. She subscribes to. The podcast makes me so happy.

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Speaker 1: Was great by the way.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, people were like, have him back, we should, Well,

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01:00:43,000 --> 01:00:43,600
Speaker 2: you should.

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Speaker 3: Because there's a lot of depth to him that we

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Speaker 3: didn't really get to. There's like a lot that he's

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01:00:47,920 --> 01:00:50,000
Speaker 3: gone through and done in his life that I think

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Speaker 3: a lot of people. Yeah, he actually said, because he's

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01:00:52,520 --> 01:00:57,560
Speaker 3: now sober. Yeah, And so he said, if you if

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Speaker 3: we ever get any emails from people or listeners that

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01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:03,440
Speaker 3: have questions about that, that he can come back and

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Speaker 3: answer things like that, I.

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Speaker 1: Think that's related will do a large segment of the population.

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Speaker 1: Do you mind saying what his addiction was? Was it

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01:01:11,560 --> 01:01:14,920
Speaker 1: an alcohol situation or drugs or what if you can't say.

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01:01:14,960 --> 01:01:15,720
Speaker 1: You can't say, I do.

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Speaker 3: I feel like he wrote about it, so I feel

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01:01:17,680 --> 01:01:20,400
Speaker 3: like it's out there. It was definitely substances.

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01:01:20,720 --> 01:01:21,640
Speaker 1: Oh okay, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Is that weird? What's a substance? I know what it

1349
01:01:23,800 --> 01:01:24,800
Speaker 3: was chally.

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01:01:24,520 --> 01:01:26,919
Speaker 1: Drugs, but it could be prescription drugs. There's so many

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01:01:26,920 --> 01:01:27,560
Speaker 1: things that could be.

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01:01:28,000 --> 01:01:29,680
Speaker 3: I feel like he's open about it. I just don't

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01:01:29,680 --> 01:01:31,640
Speaker 3: want to say in case he's not right, because like

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01:01:31,720 --> 01:01:34,400
Speaker 3: I know everything, but he'd.

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Speaker 1: Oh here it is wow us weekly Oh cocaine, okay, Yeah,

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01:01:38,280 --> 01:01:40,720
Speaker 1: that's that's quite the substance. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: He's addicted to cocaine and alcohol while in college in Toronto. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: But what's so amazing about him is that he's completely

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01:01:48,600 --> 01:01:50,560
Speaker 3: on the other end of it now and he doesn't

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01:01:50,680 --> 01:01:52,920
Speaker 3: like and you would never like when we see him

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01:01:52,920 --> 01:01:55,080
Speaker 3: out at clubs and stuff like that, he's like raging

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01:01:55,160 --> 01:01:59,000
Speaker 3: and partying, doesn't have a sip of alcohol whatsoever, and

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01:01:59,000 --> 01:02:00,400
Speaker 3: you would never know he's just like the life of

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01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:03,960
Speaker 3: the partying. Yeah. So it's it's he's amazing.

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Speaker 1: He was all in his book Born to Be Brad.

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01:02:06,760 --> 01:02:11,720
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, so he's he's really just like done a

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01:02:11,760 --> 01:02:14,480
Speaker 3: lot for himself and his life. I think a lot

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01:02:14,480 --> 01:02:15,120
Speaker 3: of people would.

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Speaker 1: That does sound like a very compelling conversation. Yes, one

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Speaker 1: more shot it. Rebecca Torres Alvarez is listening on her

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01:02:21,800 --> 01:02:24,720
Speaker 1: way to work. She's an attorney in El Salvador, where

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01:02:24,720 --> 01:02:27,160
Speaker 1: she listens to scrub again. Tanya not impressed, but the

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Speaker 1: rest of us are impressed.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, amazing.

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Speaker 1: Can we end with another rap?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Oh yeah, yeah, oh you were ready for.

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01:02:35,360 --> 01:02:39,120
Speaker 1: That was before anything else you want to say before

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01:02:39,120 --> 01:02:39,560
Speaker 1: we wrap.

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Speaker 2: We're sorry we were gone last week and I feel

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01:02:43,560 --> 01:02:48,560
Speaker 2: like we missed everybody and and like weren't there for

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01:02:48,560 --> 01:02:49,080
Speaker 2: for y'all.

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01:02:49,240 --> 01:02:53,040
Speaker 3: I know there is something I've remembered, but I can't

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01:02:53,160 --> 01:02:54,919
Speaker 3: remember for the life. I mean, I'm gonna go back

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01:02:54,920 --> 01:02:57,080
Speaker 3: and do something, okay, because I was, like I want

1386
01:02:57,120 --> 01:02:59,040
Speaker 3: to we missed talking about something.

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Speaker 1: So now next week we find out what that is. Yeah,

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01:03:02,560 --> 01:03:05,360
Speaker 1: and how the mask went for Tany, Yeah.

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01:03:05,040 --> 01:03:08,000
Speaker 2: And how her gg crackers crackers.

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01:03:08,160 --> 01:03:09,040
Speaker 1: Wow, it's going to.

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01:03:09,080 --> 01:03:11,160
Speaker 2: Be I mean, if that's not enough to tune.

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01:03:10,920 --> 01:03:12,760
Speaker 1: In next week the longest week ever.

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01:03:13,000 --> 01:03:15,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, you just wait because Beck and I are going

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01:03:15,320 --> 01:03:17,440
Speaker 3: to lunch after this. I'm going to go home and

1395
01:03:17,480 --> 01:03:19,600
Speaker 3: grab my crackers so I can put them in my salad.

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01:03:20,560 --> 01:03:23,240
Speaker 2: We're going home to get your crackers before we go

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01:03:23,320 --> 01:03:23,680
Speaker 2: to lunch.

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01:03:23,720 --> 01:03:24,880
Speaker 1: We're going to the valley.

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01:03:25,120 --> 01:03:25,920
Speaker 3: We're going home.

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01:03:26,640 --> 01:03:27,760
Speaker 1: You're not going to eat around here.

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01:03:27,920 --> 01:03:29,320
Speaker 3: No, I thought.

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01:03:29,440 --> 01:03:31,720
Speaker 2: What I'm saying is we're I know, we're eating right

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01:03:31,760 --> 01:03:35,240
Speaker 2: down the street, but we're going home to get the crackers.

1404
01:03:35,840 --> 01:03:36,200
Speaker 2: Too much.

1405
01:03:37,680 --> 01:03:39,280
Speaker 1: It seems too much to beaca right now.

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01:03:39,320 --> 01:03:41,160
Speaker 2: It's a little I'm starving right now.

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01:03:41,200 --> 01:03:43,800
Speaker 1: So when the extra there's plenty of restaurants here, Why

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01:03:43,840 --> 01:03:44,880
Speaker 1: don't you go somewhere on here?

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01:03:44,920 --> 01:03:46,760
Speaker 2: Well, there is an olive garden right down the road.

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01:03:47,440 --> 01:03:48,120
Speaker 1: There you go.

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01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:50,760
Speaker 3: I'm not doing that, Okay, it's so rude.

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01:03:50,840 --> 01:03:53,440
Speaker 1: All right, So today Tanya has selected for us another

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01:03:53,520 --> 01:03:54,720
Speaker 1: Cardi B track. Is that right?

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01:03:54,840 --> 01:03:55,040
Speaker 3: Yes?

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01:03:55,040 --> 01:03:55,720
Speaker 4: It is great.

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01:03:55,720 --> 01:03:57,040
Speaker 1: Well, I'd love to hear that for you. Here we go.

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01:03:57,080 --> 01:03:59,000
Speaker 3: I don't get this song in the background, but we

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01:03:59,120 --> 01:04:00,480
Speaker 3: never do because it would the rights.

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01:04:00,520 --> 01:04:03,880
Speaker 2: But also I like that you like prepped, like, hey, Mark,

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01:04:04,400 --> 01:04:06,480
Speaker 2: I have another wrap I'm ready to do at the end.

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01:04:06,720 --> 01:04:07,800
Speaker 3: No, I didn't rep it.

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01:04:08,280 --> 01:04:10,000
Speaker 1: No, I asked you if you had one, and you

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01:04:10,040 --> 01:04:11,480
Speaker 1: said sure, I could do the new Cardi B.

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01:04:11,640 --> 01:04:13,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, a little bit of the The problem

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01:04:13,920 --> 01:04:16,120
Speaker 3: is I don't know it really that well enough.

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01:04:16,240 --> 01:04:19,920
Speaker 1: Well do you want to yeah? Really you want to

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01:04:19,920 --> 01:04:23,040
Speaker 1: take a week? Well, is there anything else you know

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01:04:23,080 --> 01:04:25,440
Speaker 1: that you could do from you know, whether it's Big

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01:04:25,480 --> 01:04:28,040
Speaker 1: Sean or whether it's something you haven't done for us before.

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01:04:28,040 --> 01:04:33,560
Speaker 1: Wrap in your repertoire, you rapidly do logic, were calling

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01:04:33,720 --> 01:04:37,440
Speaker 1: every day.

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01:04:36,840 --> 01:04:38,640
Speaker 3: You're the man right now, You're the man right now,

1433
01:04:38,640 --> 01:04:40,080
Speaker 3: with the whole wide world in the palm of your hand,

1434
01:04:40,160 --> 01:04:41,920
Speaker 3: right now, lights of the cameras of the fame. I'm

1435
01:04:41,920 --> 01:04:43,320
Speaker 3: gonna do what I'm doing for the fan right now.

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01:04:43,480 --> 01:04:46,920
Speaker 3: But no than three h five and then I were

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01:04:47,000 --> 01:04:50,800
Speaker 3: called every mother day? Yay yay?

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01:04:51,000 --> 01:04:52,840
Speaker 2: Are we Yeah?

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01:04:52,960 --> 01:04:54,160
Speaker 1: That was not great?

1440
01:04:55,240 --> 01:04:58,040
Speaker 2: Like I could wrap this way.

1441
01:04:58,120 --> 01:04:59,320
Speaker 1: So we're gonna give you a week to work.

1442
01:05:00,080 --> 01:05:01,680
Speaker 3: Let me work on the Cardi B song. But I'm

1443
01:05:01,680 --> 01:05:02,520
Speaker 3: almost there with it.

1444
01:05:02,720 --> 01:05:04,920
Speaker 1: Be would you ever wrap for us on this show?

1445
01:05:05,240 --> 01:05:07,000
Speaker 2: I don't listen to a ton of rap, but like,

1446
01:05:07,040 --> 01:05:08,760
Speaker 2: if I learned one, you know, I love a good

1447
01:05:08,880 --> 01:05:09,800
Speaker 2: Nicki minasera.

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01:05:10,160 --> 01:05:11,760
Speaker 1: Yeah that could be good.

1449
01:05:11,840 --> 01:05:13,560
Speaker 2: Maybe I'll work on one too and we can have

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01:05:13,600 --> 01:05:14,160
Speaker 2: a rap back.

1451
01:05:14,400 --> 01:05:17,200
Speaker 1: Oh man, Okay, now we have something to do.

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01:05:18,560 --> 01:05:23,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, crackers and do it. Thank you to Derek Huff

1453
01:05:23,800 --> 01:05:25,919
Speaker 2: for being here. We have to go see a show

1454
01:05:25,920 --> 01:05:28,360
Speaker 2: when he's in LA for sure, have to have to.

1455
01:05:28,960 --> 01:05:32,240
Speaker 2: Thank you to our sponsors Hubble Bowl and Branch Skyler

1456
01:05:32,760 --> 01:05:36,360
Speaker 2: and Beach Body. Thank you all for being here listening.

1457
01:05:36,440 --> 01:05:38,200
Speaker 2: Thank you Tani, Thank you Mark.

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01:05:38,280 --> 01:05:40,520
Speaker 1: By the way, a lot of people send they just

1459
01:05:40,560 --> 01:05:43,040
Speaker 1: post their issues on the Facebook page and they don't

1460
01:05:43,040 --> 01:05:45,360
Speaker 1: email us anymore. So we got to keep those emails coming.

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01:05:45,440 --> 01:05:49,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, keep the emails coming because a lot of times

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01:05:49,600 --> 01:05:51,680
Speaker 2: I know that you get advice from each other on

1463
01:05:51,720 --> 01:05:54,960
Speaker 2: the Facebook. I love that. I don't want that to stop.

1464
01:05:55,320 --> 01:05:58,680
Speaker 2: But we also want to read emails, So keep sending them.

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01:05:58,520 --> 01:06:01,720
Speaker 1: In scrubbing in and I artmedia dot com.

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01:06:01,760 --> 01:06:04,200
Speaker 2: There you have it all right. You want to call

1467
01:06:04,240 --> 01:06:04,800
Speaker 2: time to death?

1468
01:06:05,120 --> 01:06:05,840
Speaker 3: Well nose.

1469
01:06:10,080 --> 01:06:11,480
Speaker 2: Twelve o two pm.

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01:06:17,640 --> 01:06:21,400
Speaker 3: Twelve o two it was like a period. You can

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01:06:21,440 --> 01:06:22,959
Speaker 3: someone check my pulse. I think I'm done.