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Subject. 12 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 2: I need to move out, but he won't let me. 13 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 2: Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm thirty seven years old and my 14 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:37,519 Speaker 2: sister is forty five. I'm staying with her and her 15 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 2: living boyfriend of seven years. I've been having sex with 16 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 2: her boyfriend and it started after I was here only 17 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:48,000 Speaker 2: a week. For years, the sexual tension has been strong 18 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:51,000 Speaker 2: between me and her boyfriend, but I was married at 19 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:54,640 Speaker 2: the time. A few years ago. She mentioned it, but 20 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:57,520 Speaker 2: she wasn't mad. I wondered if it was on her 21 00:00:57,560 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 2: mind when I moved in with him, but it's like 22 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:02,520 Speaker 2: she doesn't care at all. She confided in me that 23 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:04,560 Speaker 2: she has a new man, and she's trying to figure 24 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:07,319 Speaker 2: out if he's a sure thing or not before she 25 00:01:07,400 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 2: breaks up with her boyfriend. She said that I need 26 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 2: to help keep her boyfriend's mind off her when she 27 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:16,639 Speaker 2: sneaks away. I have been doing exactly what she asked 28 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:19,120 Speaker 2: me to do. I don't think she cares, but I 29 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 2: know she would flip out if she knew all of 30 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:24,280 Speaker 2: the things he's done to me in her guest bedroom. 31 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 2: Her boyfriend is gentle and he guides me through the 32 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:31,800 Speaker 2: experience with soft whispers and hisses. I am about to 33 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:35,399 Speaker 2: lose my mind because it's that good. But what we're 34 00:01:35,440 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 2: doing is so bad. Before I get into deep, I 35 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 2: told my sister's boyfriend that is time for me to 36 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 2: move out. 37 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 1: He almost cried and said I can't go. 38 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 2: I waited two weeks and told him again that I 39 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 2: was moving out, and I gave him a date. He 40 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:53,920 Speaker 2: told my sister and she begged me to stay. Either 41 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 2: my sister is aware of what's going on and she 42 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 2: doesn't care, or she's planning to attack me in my 43 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:01,320 Speaker 2: sleep and want me to move out. 44 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 1: So should I keep this arrangement for a little while longer? 45 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 1: That is her question? 46 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:12,800 Speaker 2: Girl, Please get out of your sister's house today. I 47 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 2: don't care if she has another man or not. It's 48 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:18,240 Speaker 2: still not right what you're doing. This is your sister. 49 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 1: I mean, come on, she opened up her home to you. 50 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 1: This is how you show your gratitude to your sister. 51 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:27,120 Speaker 1: You didn't even wait a week before you started sleeping 52 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:27,679 Speaker 1: with her man. 53 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:30,359 Speaker 2: I mean, you're sleeping with her man in her house. 54 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 2: By the very definition, this is just wrong. He almost 55 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:36,800 Speaker 2: started crying. Did you say when you told him you 56 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 2: were going to move out? Of course he did. You're easy, 57 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:42,520 Speaker 2: You're convenient. Why would he want to let someone so 58 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:46,639 Speaker 2: accessible to him go. He doesn't have to do anything 59 00:02:46,720 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 2: because you're right there at his beck and call. I mean, 60 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:51,800 Speaker 2: he's living a dream and he wants to keep it 61 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 2: that way. You moving out will mess up his good thing. 62 00:02:55,480 --> 00:02:57,840 Speaker 2: I hope you see that. I really hope you see that. 63 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:00,799 Speaker 2: You gotta go, Sis, Stop doing this to your sister, 64 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:04,280 Speaker 2: who's been nothing but kind to you. Get out, get 65 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:06,639 Speaker 2: your own place, and you know what, I'm glad you're 66 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:07,360 Speaker 2: not my sister. 67 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:08,080 Speaker 1: Steve. 68 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 4: You know when you write us this letter, and I 69 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:18,080 Speaker 4: think the question is should I keep this arrangement for 70 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:23,080 Speaker 4: a little while longer. That's really the question. Should I 71 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:28,840 Speaker 4: keep this arrangement for a little while longer? That's the 72 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:30,679 Speaker 4: There is no should I get out now? 73 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 3: Should I? 74 00:03:33,320 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 4: How should I break this to my sister? Do you 75 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 4: think we should all talk it through? 76 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 3: There? You don't want none of that. All you want 77 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:42,040 Speaker 3: to know is at the end of the letter. 78 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 4: So should I keep this arrangement for a little while longer? 79 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:51,280 Speaker 4: This letter right here has so much that nobody in 80 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:54,800 Speaker 4: this letter is okay. Nobody in this letter is right, 81 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 4: Nobody in this letter is I mean, what are y'all doing? 82 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 4: I got sensual. I know what the term consensual means, 83 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 4: but everybody's consenting to a bunch of bulls. So you 84 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 4: thirty seven, your sister forty five? You staying with her 85 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 4: and her living boyfriend for seven oh of seven years, 86 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:20,160 Speaker 4: I've been having sex with her boyfriend, and it started 87 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:23,719 Speaker 4: after I was only there for one week. For years 88 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:27,160 Speaker 4: as sexual tension has been strong between me and her boyfriend, 89 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:31,040 Speaker 4: but I was married at the time. Few years ago, 90 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:33,919 Speaker 4: she mentioned it, but she wasn't mad. So I'm saying you, 91 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:36,200 Speaker 4: I guess you said a few years ago your sister, 92 00:04:36,240 --> 00:04:39,720 Speaker 4: would you know what I see how you and Ray 93 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:43,480 Speaker 4: Ray look at each other. I see that y'all need 94 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 4: to y'all watch y'allself now. But she wasn't mad. A 95 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:50,040 Speaker 4: few years ago she mentioned it, but she wasn't mad. 96 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:52,719 Speaker 4: So I wondered if it was on her mind when 97 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:55,960 Speaker 4: I moved in with them. Hell yeah, how you think 98 00:04:56,000 --> 00:05:00,440 Speaker 4: it wasn't She mentioned it twice to you, and then 99 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:06,159 Speaker 4: you moved in. She knew that when you moved in, 100 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:09,920 Speaker 4: but it's like she don't care at all. She confided 101 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 4: in me that she got a new man and she 102 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 4: trying to figure out if he's a sure thing or 103 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:19,120 Speaker 4: not before she breaks up with her boyfriend. Okay, so 104 00:05:19,200 --> 00:05:22,280 Speaker 4: that then gave everybody the green light to do what 105 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:25,680 Speaker 4: they want to do. I'm assuming she said that I 106 00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:29,440 Speaker 4: need to help keep her boyfriend's mind off her when 107 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:33,360 Speaker 4: she sneaks away. 108 00:05:33,720 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 3: Now hold on, let me say this. 109 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:43,600 Speaker 4: The dude that's in the middle of this hill, aw, 110 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:48,360 Speaker 4: didn't my fortune smile on him? 111 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:48,520 Speaker 2: This? 112 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:59,200 Speaker 4: How in the world this happened, This gift, this incredible 113 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:04,679 Speaker 4: moment of ecstasy, was just provided for me a girl 114 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 4: that I had been looking at over a seven year 115 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:10,440 Speaker 4: period that I had some strong sexual tension in happens 116 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:12,520 Speaker 4: to be the sister of my girlfriend. 117 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 3: She's having trouble in her massage. 118 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 4: She moves in with us, and in one week we 119 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:23,120 Speaker 4: ain't fantasizing no more, We're actually doing it. And then 120 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:28,119 Speaker 4: my wife, who's seeing somebody else, my girlfriend, who seeing 121 00:06:28,200 --> 00:06:33,599 Speaker 4: somebody else, tells the girl to keep me occupied while 122 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:35,920 Speaker 4: she all sneaking with her boyfriend. 123 00:06:36,440 --> 00:06:40,680 Speaker 2: Hang on, hang on, Steve, living right there with part 124 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 2: two of your response coming up at twenty three minutes 125 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 2: after the hour of today's Strawberry Letter, subject I need 126 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:49,719 Speaker 2: to move out but he won't let me. We'll get 127 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:51,160 Speaker 2: back into it right after this. 128 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 1: You're listening hard Morning show. 129 00:06:55,200 --> 00:06:57,960 Speaker 2: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter 130 00:06:58,000 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 2: that subject I need to move out but he will 131 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:00,600 Speaker 2: let me. 132 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 4: I've never read a letter with so much pain and 133 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:05,760 Speaker 4: pleasure in it. 134 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:08,040 Speaker 3: I'm just concusing. 135 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:11,920 Speaker 4: I don't know. I want to be happy for the dude. 136 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:16,239 Speaker 4: Y'all right for advice, but you don't really want advice. 137 00:07:16,280 --> 00:07:18,720 Speaker 4: I thirty seven year old lady, and she got a 138 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 4: sister that's forty five that's been staying with her and 139 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 4: her living boyfriend. She got a living boyfriend of seven years. 140 00:07:26,400 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 4: The lady that's writing a letter says she's been having 141 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 4: sex with that living boyfriend and it started. 142 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:35,320 Speaker 3: I was there after only a week. For years, the. 143 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:38,160 Speaker 4: Sexual tension has been strong between me and her boyfriend. 144 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:40,120 Speaker 4: But I was married at the time. And then a 145 00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 4: few years ago she mentioned it, but she wasn't mad. 146 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 4: I know it's some sexual trench between you and layby, 147 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 4: but she wasn't mad at the time. I wondered if 148 00:07:47,080 --> 00:07:49,640 Speaker 4: it was on her mind when I moved in with them. 149 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:55,960 Speaker 4: It was on all y'all, man, It was on everybody's mind. 150 00:07:56,520 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 4: It was on her mind when she offered the place, 151 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 4: and along with it like, well, if your sister really 152 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 4: need a place, I just I'm okay with it, And 153 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:05,800 Speaker 4: then you. 154 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 3: Will who is such a tensteen men? 155 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 4: Him? 156 00:08:08,520 --> 00:08:10,280 Speaker 3: Oh, I hope they'll let me stay there. 157 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 4: It took y'all one week to figure it out, and 158 00:08:12,360 --> 00:08:15,440 Speaker 4: then y'all start doing each other. But you say, it's 159 00:08:15,440 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 4: like she don't care at all, because she confided in 160 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 4: me that she got a new man and she trying 161 00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:21,360 Speaker 4: to figure out if it's a sure thing or not. 162 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 3: Before she break up with a boyfriend. She said, I 163 00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 3: need your help to. 164 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 4: Keep my boyfriend's mind off of her when she sneaks away. 165 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 3: What what? Who gave me the gree? 166 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:37,800 Speaker 4: You gotta live in hall pass, You got a green light, 167 00:08:38,800 --> 00:08:43,280 Speaker 4: you got consent, you got the okay, And I have 168 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 4: been doing exactly what she asked me to do. You 169 00:08:46,840 --> 00:08:50,440 Speaker 4: was doing it before she asked you, And I don't 170 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:53,600 Speaker 4: think she cared. But I know she would flip out 171 00:08:53,600 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 4: if she knew all the things he's done to me 172 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:58,480 Speaker 4: in their guest room. She would flip out. She knows 173 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:01,600 Speaker 4: something happening, and what you think he ain't done it 174 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 4: to her? That's how you get to be alive in 175 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 4: for seven years. You think what's happening in that guess 176 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:08,960 Speaker 4: room is crazy. You ought to see what's happening in 177 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:17,560 Speaker 4: that master girl seven years? How you think he got 178 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:20,360 Speaker 4: good at it? Keep it in that practicing in the 179 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 4: master So when he come to the guest room. 180 00:09:22,679 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 3: You just say, have it at your house. 181 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 4: Her boyfriend is jumped to He guides me through the 182 00:09:28,520 --> 00:09:31,679 Speaker 4: experience with soft whispers and kissing. I'm about to lose 183 00:09:31,720 --> 00:09:34,240 Speaker 4: my mind because it's that good. But what we're doing 184 00:09:34,360 --> 00:09:38,800 Speaker 4: is so bad. Now before I get in too deep, 185 00:09:39,040 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 4: she said, Now let me stop right here. She said, 186 00:09:42,160 --> 00:09:43,640 Speaker 4: before I get in too deep? 187 00:09:43,840 --> 00:09:52,320 Speaker 3: How much deeper? How much? What? Before I get in 188 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:56,880 Speaker 3: too deep? Girl? How much deeper do this water? 189 00:09:57,040 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 4: Get? All right? I told my sister his boyfriend that 190 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:05,560 Speaker 4: it's time for me to move out. He almost cried. Now, 191 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:07,600 Speaker 4: I ain't giving consent to this letter. But if I 192 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:10,359 Speaker 4: was the boyfriend and he told me that, Hell, I cried. 193 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:11,199 Speaker 1: To you, you'll be crying to. 194 00:10:13,679 --> 00:10:13,760 Speaker 2: You. 195 00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 4: Don't even understand. He ain't got to go nowhere to cheat. No, 196 00:10:18,480 --> 00:10:20,079 Speaker 4: he ain't got to sneak to cheat. 197 00:10:21,600 --> 00:10:22,480 Speaker 1: It's right there. 198 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 4: The wife, the girlfriend want you to keep him occupied 199 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:28,199 Speaker 4: while she await, and you okay with it, and he 200 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:29,080 Speaker 4: ain't got to go to work. 201 00:10:29,240 --> 00:10:34,679 Speaker 3: But I cry too perfect. He cried and said I 202 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 3: can't go. 203 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:37,680 Speaker 4: I waited two weeks and told him again I was 204 00:10:37,760 --> 00:10:40,679 Speaker 4: moving out, and I gave him the date. He told 205 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:43,400 Speaker 4: my sister, and she begged. 206 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:45,640 Speaker 3: Me to say, either. 207 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:48,160 Speaker 4: My sister's aware of what's going on, or she don't care, 208 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:51,800 Speaker 4: or she's planning to attack me in my sleep. First 209 00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 4: of all, your sister ain't gonna attack you to sleep. 210 00:10:54,120 --> 00:10:55,960 Speaker 4: If that was gonna happen, that would have been happened. 211 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:57,959 Speaker 4: It ain't no way no woman gonna wait this long. 212 00:10:58,480 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 4: She would have been done. You. You are the convenient arrangement. 213 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:05,240 Speaker 4: She has your sister know you, She know what y'all doing. 214 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 4: Ain't nothing happening in no woman house. But that's spending 215 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:10,600 Speaker 4: period of time, and she don't know. She had an inkling. 216 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 4: Y'all was up to something before y'all got into it. 217 00:11:13,480 --> 00:11:15,600 Speaker 4: She just brought you in here because now that's gonna 218 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:18,440 Speaker 4: help her figure out her mood with her boyfriend. So 219 00:11:18,480 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 4: she is aware of it. And she done begged you 220 00:11:20,840 --> 00:11:23,280 Speaker 4: to stay or she gonna plan on attacking you in 221 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:25,720 Speaker 4: your sleep. That would have been done happen. But you 222 00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:27,640 Speaker 4: ain't got to worry about that because he gonna save 223 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 4: your life. I can promise you that he's the one 224 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:32,920 Speaker 4: person that Hall dived in front of that night because 225 00:11:33,040 --> 00:11:34,360 Speaker 4: he can't that nothing happening. 226 00:11:34,440 --> 00:11:34,480 Speaker 3: You. 227 00:11:35,920 --> 00:11:38,200 Speaker 4: You the goose that laid the golden eggs, lady just 228 00:11:38,280 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 4: nowhere in their heads. I'm telling you right now, you 229 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:44,120 Speaker 4: the prize and you the catch me out. Hey, ain't 230 00:11:44,120 --> 00:11:48,560 Speaker 4: nobody got this going this me and listening to this letter, going, Oh, mercy, how. 231 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 3: Can we speak? 232 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:51,960 Speaker 4: Because the fool I live with, are gonna lie none 233 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:54,640 Speaker 4: of this to happen adver, I can't even make a 234 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 4: phone call it a bathroom with the lights out without 235 00:11:57,280 --> 00:12:02,280 Speaker 4: this flower the gas. He doesn't want me to move out, 236 00:12:02,360 --> 00:12:05,840 Speaker 4: So should I keep this arrangement for a little longer? Lady, Look, 237 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:09,400 Speaker 4: it seems to me like what you're really hoping for 238 00:12:09,520 --> 00:12:11,480 Speaker 4: in the back of your mind is that your sister 239 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:14,719 Speaker 4: goes on gets with this new boyfriend so you can 240 00:12:14,800 --> 00:12:18,400 Speaker 4: have hug her boyfriend all to yourself. But I'm gonna 241 00:12:18,400 --> 00:12:21,120 Speaker 4: tell you right now, he not gonna keep you because 242 00:12:21,240 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 4: it's hard to go from second to first. Very few 243 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:28,120 Speaker 4: people get to move up from a side chick to 244 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:31,839 Speaker 4: wife side chicks. They rarely make the cut at wife. 245 00:12:31,880 --> 00:12:35,439 Speaker 4: They make it sometimes, but for the most part, they don't. 246 00:12:35,880 --> 00:12:38,360 Speaker 4: He gonna be off somewhere looking for this situation again. 247 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:40,800 Speaker 4: I don't know what to tell you. I don't care 248 00:12:40,880 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 4: what y'all do. I really don't. I really don't. But 249 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 4: if the dude could write in and tell me how 250 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:54,360 Speaker 4: he pulled this off, Yeah yeah. 251 00:12:54,800 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 2: You lad your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram 252 00:12:59,520 --> 00:13:02,320 Speaker 2: at Steve irm and check us out on the Strawberry 253 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:05,600 Speaker 2: Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app where free never 254 00:13:05,679 --> 00:13:06,520 Speaker 2: sounded so good. 255 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:10,120 Speaker 1: Coming up next, Juniors in the Building with Sports Talk. 256 00:13:10,240 --> 00:13:14,520 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Dave Harvey Morning Show