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Speaker 1: What's up. It's way up with Angela ye Jasmine brand.

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Speaker 1: Of course he is here with me. And you know

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Speaker 1: I love comedians that it's like my favorite thing to

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Speaker 1: do ever is always going to a comedy show and said,

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Speaker 1: we have one of the top terror comics in the

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Speaker 1: room with us, Miss Pat. Hey, thank y'all for having

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Speaker 1: me not just a comic though, but also an author yes,

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Speaker 1: also creator. Right, you have your own show, the Miss

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Speaker 1: Pat Show. Also you have a deal with BT plus

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Speaker 1: bt plum Viacom, I mean an entrepreneur all of that.

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Speaker 1: So congratulations on everything. Thank you. Oh, I'm most important

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Speaker 1: job Folky's tool abor shows. I claim them all. And

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Speaker 1: those are things that you talk about on the Miss

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Speaker 1: Pat Show. Though yes, yes, some people I feel like

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Speaker 1: shy away from having those real conversations. Well, I think

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Speaker 1: the network likes to shy from sha away from having

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Speaker 1: real conversations. And the great thing about streaming is it

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Speaker 1: allows you to go there. So you know, the only

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Speaker 1: difference between Miss Patt Show and any other show, it's

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Speaker 1: just I it was a it was a voter out

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Speaker 1: there for a vote for a mother like me, so

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Speaker 1: they always put mothers on TV. That was perfect ain't

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Speaker 1: nobody perfect, right? You know, I'm a mother on TV

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Speaker 1: that's a convicted felon. There's a lot of mothers that

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Speaker 1: convicted felons. So so for years, the industry just left

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Speaker 1: that blanket. They didn't want to they didn't want to

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Speaker 1: give that those people a voice, and I'm just that

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Speaker 1: voice for them, And that's why I worked. And I

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Speaker 1: remember early on you said it took like five years.

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Speaker 1: Five years to get it went to it went to Fox,

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Speaker 1: and from Fox and went to Hulu, and then Hulu

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Speaker 1: shot the pilot. Then it ended up at BT plus

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Speaker 1: and they gave it a chance and it took off.

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Speaker 1: I should subscribe to BT plus for the Miss Past show.

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Speaker 1: You shouldn't know. That's why I subscribe. Well, thank you.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate that. Jasmine's like, I have your subscription past

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Speaker 1: or never wrong with that? You ever like you have

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Speaker 1: more freedom because it's BT plus so you can talk

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Speaker 1: about the streaming. Yes, yes, you have more freedom in

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Speaker 1: terms of because of streaming. Do you ever get any

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Speaker 1: pushbacks from any topics? Because I feel like y'all talk

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Speaker 1: about everything, But is there one topic that you had

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Speaker 1: to fight for or well, we did an episode I

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Speaker 1: think in season one, season two a derogatory episode, and

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Speaker 1: we said all the derogatory returns from every race, and

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Speaker 1: one of the terms that they pushed back on was

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Speaker 1: jap slap. Where I grew up in the South. So

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Speaker 1: Mama was like, I jap slap the hell out of you, Southern. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that like Jewish American Princess Jap. It's like hidden Asians. Oh,

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Speaker 1: it's like hidden, it's not really Asian. It had nothing

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Speaker 1: to do with Asian. Black. Mummy said, I jet slapped

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Speaker 1: the hell at you. That mean backhand you. That's what

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Speaker 1: it means. My husband said, do you realize where that

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Speaker 1: term came from? And he told me, said it was

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Speaker 1: So he said it's racist, and I was like it's

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Speaker 1: it's not. So when he was doing this derogatory term,

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Speaker 1: but then they let the word chink go through. It

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Speaker 1: was like, that's even worse. And you know what's crazy,

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Speaker 1: because you know, I'm haf Chinese. People don't realize you're

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Speaker 1: not supposed to use that. They don't know it. Like

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Speaker 1: meaning for it to be derogatory, but not knowing that

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Speaker 1: So that was the biggest thing that they pushed back back.

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Speaker 1: That was no, I'm saying based off all the stuff

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Speaker 1: and it's time. If you're not from a certain community,

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Speaker 1: Well they will, yeah, but they never And I told them,

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Speaker 1: which is crazy. Right. So you know, you have your

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Speaker 1: of their lives and their thoughts. There's things that happened

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Speaker 1: Do you remember this? Because my mama and boyfriend would

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Speaker 1: take us to the graveyard and molest us, and so

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Speaker 1: What was crazy? Because my friend threw me a surprise

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Speaker 1: I just go forward, okay? And then and obviously this

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Speaker 1: by accident. No, that was that happened to somebody else,

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Speaker 1: through you know that the struggles and can't get their house,

425
00:20:14,240 --> 00:20:16,720
Speaker 1: or they buy flip houses and realize there's a piece

426
00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:20,760
Speaker 1: of craps and now they stuck. But nobody's talking about

427
00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:23,320
Speaker 1: those people that didn't need it, who can't go back

428
00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:26,200
Speaker 1: and fix those things because they thought they was already. Yeah,

429
00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:28,240
Speaker 1: sometimes you use your last when you close on the house.

430
00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:30,439
Speaker 1: And that's another thing, because it's always gonna cust you

431
00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:32,760
Speaker 1: more than you think. Like, once you close, there's gonna

432
00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:35,520
Speaker 1: be things that you have to do that you didn't anticipate. Yeah,

433
00:20:35,680 --> 00:20:38,400
Speaker 1: pipes in the wall that was already busted with bandaids

434
00:20:38,440 --> 00:20:41,000
Speaker 1: and tapes around them. They do all kind of I

435
00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:43,400
Speaker 1: mean his house, I was like I can't. I said,

436
00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:45,640
Speaker 1: why don't you come get me? His like he had

437
00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:48,400
Speaker 1: so many water leaks, but they had painted the sellers

438
00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:50,960
Speaker 1: so you can see until it started looking again and

439
00:20:51,040 --> 00:20:53,440
Speaker 1: started linking again. And then I tear on his wall.

440
00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:56,600
Speaker 1: Mold all behind this wall that's dangerous. And his kids

441
00:20:56,680 --> 00:20:59,080
Speaker 1: was like the nose was running. The baby stay sick

442
00:20:59,080 --> 00:21:01,320
Speaker 1: all the time. As soon as I taught those bad

443
00:21:01,400 --> 00:21:03,760
Speaker 1: through no more coffee and it's it's He has a

444
00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:07,080
Speaker 1: little boy named dream right, and he was like everything knew.

445
00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:11,760
Speaker 1: That just touches me every time I go over there,

446
00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:14,439
Speaker 1: as I did one of their rooms and Marvel capiting

447
00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:16,360
Speaker 1: American and I did one on them in a video game,

448
00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:22,639
Speaker 1: And that's everything knew. Tea, listen and the passion when

449
00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:24,400
Speaker 1: you talk about this, that's how you can really tell

450
00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:26,639
Speaker 1: that that's something and you know what else I was

451
00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:29,679
Speaker 1: thinking about because you know, we've heard your story. I

452
00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:32,960
Speaker 1: read your autobiography right this, um show that miss Passion

453
00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:34,800
Speaker 1: was based a lot on your life. But when it

454
00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:37,320
Speaker 1: comes to your kids and when you were raising them,

455
00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:39,959
Speaker 1: because you were a young mother, you know, do you

456
00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:42,399
Speaker 1: have tough conversations with them about things that happened when

457
00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:44,679
Speaker 1: they were young that they were like, man, you know

458
00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:47,520
Speaker 1: coming up it was hard because you were going doing

459
00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:50,400
Speaker 1: this or you know what we Me and my daughter

460
00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:53,600
Speaker 1: had a conversation probably five years ago because I got

461
00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:58,119
Speaker 1: arrested and um, when she went to kindergarten and that

462
00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:02,080
Speaker 1: that that did something until her that I wasn't there

463
00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:05,000
Speaker 1: for her first school and I did time. I did

464
00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:07,359
Speaker 1: a year and a half and for the longest she

465
00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:09,800
Speaker 1: held it over my head and so I had to

466
00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:12,080
Speaker 1: go back. And that's one of the that's one of

467
00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:14,320
Speaker 1: the biggest regrets, not being able to see her go

468
00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:17,240
Speaker 1: to Kindegar. But I had to tell her, I said,

469
00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:21,120
Speaker 1: do you realize I was your mother? But I was fourteen, right,

470
00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:23,960
Speaker 1: And I said, all I was trying to do is survive.

471
00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:27,600
Speaker 1: So I didn't even I wasn't even supposed to at you,

472
00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:30,440
Speaker 1: So I didn't know them by being a damn mama.

473
00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:32,560
Speaker 1: But all I knew is that I love you, and

474
00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:35,520
Speaker 1: I wanted to survive, and I wanted to protect you

475
00:22:35,720 --> 00:22:38,800
Speaker 1: from going through the things that I went through. And

476
00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:41,600
Speaker 1: you know, I was selling drugs I while I was

477
00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:43,960
Speaker 1: in an abusive relationship, and she was there to see

478
00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:45,800
Speaker 1: a lot of that, and a lot of that just

479
00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:48,280
Speaker 1: drew it just it just it just put a wedge

480
00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:52,080
Speaker 1: in our relationship for years. Yeah, my oldest she's thirty

481
00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:55,320
Speaker 1: six now, right, Yeah, So you know, that's one of

482
00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:59,240
Speaker 1: the conversations that we've had several times. That's amazing that

483
00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:01,560
Speaker 1: she had the real lies. I don't think she realized

484
00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:04,040
Speaker 1: her mother was fourteen, Yeah, because I can't. It's hard

485
00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:07,520
Speaker 1: to fathom. I think, Yeah, I mean, I'm my age

486
00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:09,520
Speaker 1: now and I'm not mature in certain ways, and I'm

487
00:23:09,520 --> 00:23:10,919
Speaker 1: a mom, you know what I mean. So being fourteen,

488
00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:12,840
Speaker 1: I can't imagine. I have a fourteen year old at

489
00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:15,040
Speaker 1: my house where I have customed my niece kids, and

490
00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:16,800
Speaker 1: I look at them like, oh my god, I had

491
00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:18,440
Speaker 1: a damn baby on my hip when I was their

492
00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:22,440
Speaker 1: ages and here they are playing video games and baby, well,

493
00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:24,640
Speaker 1: you want to I think I read two years ago

494
00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:28,400
Speaker 1: you went to therapy. I want to counsel counseling with

495
00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:31,840
Speaker 1: my husband because you know, I've been married a long

496
00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:34,360
Speaker 1: time and you know, like they say, black people don't

497
00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:38,639
Speaker 1: believe in counseling. And my career started to really blow up.

498
00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:41,480
Speaker 1: And my husband had always always taken care of the family,

499
00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:44,440
Speaker 1: and that was the one thing he knew he could do.

500
00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:47,679
Speaker 1: So when I when I wanted to move back to Atlanta,

501
00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:49,720
Speaker 1: and I say, you got to quit your job, and

502
00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:51,240
Speaker 1: he's like, what the fuck what you mean? I work

503
00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:53,479
Speaker 1: at General Motives. I've always take care of my family.

504
00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:57,080
Speaker 1: You're not gonna take my manhood. And it just it

505
00:23:57,400 --> 00:23:59,960
Speaker 1: created a big problem. And then you started to realize

506
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:01,879
Speaker 1: you in this marriage, all you do is work, and

507
00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:05,120
Speaker 1: then you acted on TV and then you realize this

508
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:07,880
Speaker 1: is the husband I won't not that man, but that's

509
00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:10,639
Speaker 1: the marriage you want the TV, you know how it

510
00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:13,200
Speaker 1: seemed so perfect, and I was like, I don't feel

511
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:16,040
Speaker 1: the same way I feel when I'm on you know,

512
00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:18,480
Speaker 1: my marriage should be like this what I'm doing on TV.

513
00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:22,439
Speaker 1: And so I realized we had some issues and we

514
00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:26,160
Speaker 1: went to counselor and it was it was the best thing. Ever.

515
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:29,200
Speaker 1: That's amazing because it changes the dynamics of the relationship.

516
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:33,439
Speaker 1: He sends to being this, and then it kind of like,

517
00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:35,800
Speaker 1: and you have to be considerate of that too, as

518
00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:38,200
Speaker 1: your star is rising. And I didn't. I didn't really,

519
00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:41,600
Speaker 1: I didn't know that was this problem. I found out

520
00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:44,480
Speaker 1: in counselor because the more the more my career started

521
00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:47,159
Speaker 1: to grow, the more he would just move away, like

522
00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:49,560
Speaker 1: I would come home. And in counsel I found out

523
00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:50,960
Speaker 1: he said, when she came up the road, she gave

524
00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:54,080
Speaker 1: me anxiety. When she came off the road, she gave me, okay, anxiety.

525
00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 1: And I was like, how the fuck I get you anxiety?

526
00:24:56,359 --> 00:25:00,080
Speaker 1: I'm your wife, right, But you know, he knew, he

527
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:02,000
Speaker 1: he knew what my career were headed. To me, I

528
00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:04,560
Speaker 1: was just working. But he to him, he felt like

529
00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:07,480
Speaker 1: he was just losing his position as a head of

530
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:10,280
Speaker 1: the household. So he was like, I was just waiting

531
00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:11,840
Speaker 1: on any day for you to tell me that he

532
00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:14,760
Speaker 1: was gonna leave me. And I was like, who the

533
00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:16,480
Speaker 1: hell are you talking about? You like, now, we did

534
00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:20,120
Speaker 1: this together. But I could understand that fair. Yeah, the

535
00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:23,000
Speaker 1: whole their whole marriage. He was the head of the household. Yeah,

536
00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:25,119
Speaker 1: because people had that fair when one person in the

537
00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:27,040
Speaker 1: relationship and the change is and then like, are they

538
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:29,119
Speaker 1: gonna blow up and leave us behind it? And it

539
00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:32,080
Speaker 1: happens all the time. It happens all the time in Hollywood.

540
00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:34,120
Speaker 1: You blow up and then you get a whole new mate.

541
00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:36,080
Speaker 1: And then the person who held you down. You know,

542
00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:38,959
Speaker 1: this person ain't living in life that they should be living.

543
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:42,600
Speaker 1: But you never know what goes on behind behind doors either.

544
00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:44,520
Speaker 1: But and I told him, I said, I didn't know

545
00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:46,840
Speaker 1: I was supposed to be leaving you, right, you know,

546
00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:50,119
Speaker 1: I sent the years old. I ain't got time to

547
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:52,440
Speaker 1: be starting noble, what the hell wrong with you? You You

548
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:55,639
Speaker 1: know why my titters are uneasy? I got explained that

549
00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:58,159
Speaker 1: somebody knew and you. And what I love about the

550
00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:01,880
Speaker 1: Miss pat Shout is episodes became related. You had one

551
00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:04,240
Speaker 1: that was like botox and fillers. Right, there was a

552
00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:06,679
Speaker 1: Fillers party that you guys had and then you had

553
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:09,800
Speaker 1: a bad reaction in the episode. But there is so

554
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:12,720
Speaker 1: much pressure. Like I saw Tammy Roman when she was

555
00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:15,159
Speaker 1: on the Breakfast Club talking about like just looking at

556
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:18,480
Speaker 1: herself and looking at and feeling like you're not perfect,

557
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:21,280
Speaker 1: you know. I tell Timmy every day on say Timmy's

558
00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:25,040
Speaker 1: like she feels that like that Terman's the only child,

559
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 1: but she feels that void in my life where my

560
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:29,760
Speaker 1: sisters on Craig and when I go to that seat,

561
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 1: it's like a family. And I still talk to Timmy

562
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:35,399
Speaker 1: when she out doing her nine thousand all the Jaws

563
00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:39,760
Speaker 1: and when she when when I found out that she

564
00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:42,200
Speaker 1: had that that issue, and I told her, I said,

565
00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:44,480
Speaker 1: you beautiful. She said, well, I don't see what you see?

566
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:47,520
Speaker 1: She said, I see fat. I said, if you fat,

567
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:50,960
Speaker 1: what the fuck am I? I must be a blip?

568
00:26:52,920 --> 00:27:05,600
Speaker 1: If you fat, well what am I? When I need

569
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:10,440
Speaker 1: to go look at me mirror. We still laugh about

570
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:12,440
Speaker 1: it to this day, but I tell her all the time,

571
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:15,880
Speaker 1: you know, you just never know what people are suffering through. Yeah,

572
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:18,160
Speaker 1: And she's beautiful and I tell her that all the time.

573
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:21,679
Speaker 1: I runningly take her, takes her, and she randomly takes me.

574
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:24,320
Speaker 1: And I just tell I said, you're beautiful, right, yeah,

575
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:26,840
Speaker 1: and I tell her stop sing them got them cigarettes?

576
00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 1: You start? Yeah, but you know coke. Yeah, she's been coke, coke, coke. Yeah,

577
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:42,920
Speaker 1: get started. Yes, right, you're right. But yeah, that was

578
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:45,399
Speaker 1: a good episode with the fillers because I feel like

579
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:47,640
Speaker 1: that's so popular now. I saw black China says she's

580
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:50,040
Speaker 1: getting rid of hers. I saw who else was. It

581
00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:52,960
Speaker 1: was another actress who was saying that she regrets getting

582
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:55,399
Speaker 1: all the fillers and things. Yeah, she got because you're

583
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:58,359
Speaker 1: beautiful as you are. You know, you just allowed and

584
00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 1: society to tell you what you need to look like,

585
00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:04,320
Speaker 1: you know. I mean everybody should do things that's healthy

586
00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:07,359
Speaker 1: for them. I'm not saying don't go get thee little thing,

587
00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:11,600
Speaker 1: as long as you understand you know the consequence, don't

588
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:14,440
Speaker 1: overdo it. Don't overdo it. They out here buying asses.

589
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:17,960
Speaker 1: Let me tell y'all something, God don't make mistakes. Some

590
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:20,919
Speaker 1: of y'all gotta be flat booted. Yeah, but ratting. Now,

591
00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:24,160
Speaker 1: everybody gotta ask. Even I was. I was in La

592
00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:27,399
Speaker 1: and I've seen the Korean people with ask and I'm like,

593
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:30,000
Speaker 1: what is going on? It's always funny when you see

594
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 1: people who you would not think when you're just like, damn,

595
00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:35,560
Speaker 1: that person is that real? No? You know that mean

596
00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:37,199
Speaker 1: what you say? He's like that don't even happen in

597
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 1: that race. Ain't no asses in that community? Yeah, it's

598
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:46,040
Speaker 1: what are you talking about? So you know, that's the

599
00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:49,479
Speaker 1: thing we did. We did that episode to say, you know,

600
00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:53,160
Speaker 1: you're beautiful the way you are, but with the whole

601
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:55,720
Speaker 1: thing going on in society and everybody want to look alike.

602
00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 1: Women just don't think they're beautiful. Black women buying lips

603
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 1: what the weak bowling lives right right? Were born? They

604
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:07,160
Speaker 1: just pomping them up, pumping them up like it's mental

605
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 1: When yeah, when did all that happen? And I also

606
00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:11,720
Speaker 1: felt like sometimes putting foreign things in your body can

607
00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:14,960
Speaker 1: affect you mentally. It can. That's why I want use tampons.

608
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 1: I use a path. Yes, yeah, they will blow they

609
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:21,520
Speaker 1: will blow up inside of yours. But they do say

610
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 1: sometimes tampons can make you bleed more. Yeah, yeah, so

611
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 1: that I will never I've never use them. Stop it.

612
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 1: I mean, and people just got to get back the

613
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:32,120
Speaker 1: root of loving themselves. I just don't think people do

614
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:36,040
Speaker 1: all that alongside. But that is not reading the comments right,

615
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:39,280
Speaker 1: because that was part of the episode two. Because it's hard.

616
00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:42,520
Speaker 1: Sometimes people in the comments can say really harsh things.

617
00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:45,480
Speaker 1: Oh they've been talking about me all week they have, yes,

618
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:49,840
Speaker 1: you know, co hosting over there. They're always talking shit,

619
00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:52,240
Speaker 1: but now you hear it. But then sometimes it's a lot.

620
00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:54,000
Speaker 1: I saw a lot of positive things because this is

621
00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:56,840
Speaker 1: what you do already. Anyway, Well, I can't take when

622
00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:59,000
Speaker 1: you can do what I do, then talk to me.

623
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:00,960
Speaker 1: You can't do what I do. That's why you're on

624
00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 1: the fucking phone type it. Well, I'm I'm arguing with

625
00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:07,600
Speaker 1: somebody who work at Starbull. Sorry what did I say?

626
00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:09,400
Speaker 1: Because I mean, look, it happens to me all the

627
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 1: time too, and I'm like, man, I don't want to

628
00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:13,640
Speaker 1: have to care about something I don't care about, exactly,

629
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 1: say like, I don't want to start caring about things

630
00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:18,720
Speaker 1: I don't care about. So you gotta be focused always.

631
00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:21,360
Speaker 1: And that's true too. But you know what people were

632
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:24,480
Speaker 1: talking before the Internet was created, just down the phone

633
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:26,120
Speaker 1: and it'd be like Glory Gee was down the street

634
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:28,440
Speaker 1: at the church talking about you. She said, Joe ass state.

635
00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:30,560
Speaker 1: That's the same year. The only thing that we can

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Speaker 1: see us. We can't see that. It doesn't matter. People

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Speaker 1: are gonna talk. They talked about Jesus. They took a

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Speaker 1: lonely white man who came in here to say, y'all

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Speaker 1: in the sun with no suntan lotion. This is an

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Speaker 1: evil damn world. If y'all put a white man on

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Speaker 1: and look at least you got the mansion to go

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Speaker 1: kick it back in, so you damn right mansion built

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Speaker 1: from the ground. That fat what's your favorite room in

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Speaker 1: the mansion? I ain't no mansion. It's a house mansion.

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Speaker 1: Go ahead. I put a beauty salon in there. See

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Speaker 1: now I did pull a beauty slaw. I didn't. Don't

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Speaker 1: nobody have a beauty salon in the house mansion. I

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Speaker 1: put four laundry rooms in there. Okay, that's yeah, definitely enough.

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Speaker 1: But this is my design. This four laundry rooms because

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Speaker 1: there's three floors with an elevator, so the girls are

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Speaker 1: a lovely house. It is mansion. It's a lovely mansion.

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Speaker 1: Can we own the mansions? I'm on the red house

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Speaker 1: because if you say house, you won't spend as many taxes.

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Speaker 1: That matters, but out of me smart matching to get

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Speaker 1: you more tax Thank you so much for coming through. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: it is a pleasure to have you here always. You know,

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Speaker 1: every time I see you and I let you show

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Speaker 1: nothing but love it and I appreciate it each and

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Speaker 1: every time now because I love to see you win

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Speaker 1: all the time. So thank you. I want to go

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Speaker 1: see your thank you. And that's pat mastery of comedy.

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