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Speaker 1: Then Jebel Show on demand Police right Now eight at

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Speaker 1: eight three four three one oh six one text in

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Speaker 1: A four one oh six one. Did you or someone

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Speaker 1: you know get married young and did it work out?

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Speaker 1: That's the question we're asking. We're asking it because Nina

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Speaker 1: told us a story about Millie Bobby Brown. Yeah, Millie

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Speaker 1: Bobby Brown got engaged to John bon Jovi's son, Jake

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Speaker 1: bon Jovi. She's nineteen and he's twenty. And so the

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Speaker 1: biggest thing with this, aside from being like, hey, congratulations,

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Speaker 1: it's more like you're nineteen, why are you getting married?

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Speaker 1: You know? And I understand that, but before you pooh

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Speaker 1: pooh on somebody, you know, there's got to be some

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Speaker 1: good stuff about getting engaged young too, right. Also, she

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Speaker 1: is the star of Stranger Things. By the way, if

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Speaker 1: you don't know who Millie Bobby Brown is, yeah, I

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Speaker 1: was gonna say I didn't really know who she was,

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Speaker 1: but I've heard the name a ton Okay, so that's

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Speaker 1: who she is. And then bon Jovi's son, what do

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Speaker 1: you think bon Jovi is saying about that? Do you

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Speaker 1: think he's upset like their parents? Like, if you if

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Speaker 1: your kid, Nina, if you had kids, and if they

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Speaker 1: were nineteen and twenty and they had just gotten engaged,

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Speaker 1: how would you react to that? I would say, what

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Speaker 1: are you doing? Have your whole life to live, Let's

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Speaker 1: stop this right now. So I am that judge person

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Speaker 1: at the same time. That's why I'm like, let's just

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Speaker 1: open my eyes a little bit. Yeah, because it does

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Speaker 1: work out. Can you imagine, like, think about who you

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Speaker 1: were at nineteen though, like who I was at nineteen,

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Speaker 1: There's no way I could have been married and million

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Speaker 1: Bobby Brown, She's lived a million lives, you know. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was actually engaged young on accident. I got engaged

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Speaker 1: on accident when I was younger. I was like eighteen

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Speaker 1: years old. And how is it an accident? It's always

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Speaker 1: weird when I say that. People don't understand. But what

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Speaker 1: happened was I was with a girl in high school

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Speaker 1: and we're still together a little while out of high school.

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Speaker 1: And one day we were laying in bed together and

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Speaker 1: it was in the morning. I was like exhausted, right,

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Speaker 1: And this is exactly what I said. I said, you know,

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Speaker 1: if we're together for like a few more years, maybe

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Speaker 1: we should think about getting married. Okay, that was what

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Speaker 1: I said. And when I said that, she turned over

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Speaker 1: to me and started crying and said yes, and I

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Speaker 1: was like, huh. And then before I could even say anything,

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Speaker 1: she was out of bed on the phone called her

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Speaker 1: mom and said he just asked me to marry him,

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Speaker 1: and then passed the phone to me to talk to

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Speaker 1: her mom. And I was like, hey, yeah, I'll no

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Speaker 1: ring yet, No ring yet, because didn't mean to do that.

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Speaker 1: Oh man. He took about a year and I have

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Speaker 1: to buy a ring. And I only got a ring

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Speaker 1: because it was Christmas time and I was still talking

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Speaker 1: to my family then, and my dad was like, if

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Speaker 1: you're engaged, you should probably buy her a ring, and

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Speaker 1: I was like, good points, Christmas. I guess I'll go

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Speaker 1: to his ails. Yeah. Yeah, I've made a lot of

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Speaker 1: mistakes in relationships of time, so don't trust my judgment

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Speaker 1: on things. Call us up right now eight eight eight

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Speaker 1: oh six one? Did you get married young and how

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Speaker 1: did that work out for you? Hello, Curtis, where you

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Speaker 1: come from? Some call from Victoria? Hey a Canadian listener

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Speaker 1: in the boot listen to the show. That's great. What's

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Speaker 1: up dude? How many people know that I speak Canadians. Yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: I looked to you guys every day and they get

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Speaker 1: you like Crystal Clear over here. I was just calling

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Speaker 1: about the getting engaged, you know topic you guys were

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Speaker 1: chatting about there. Yeah, Hi, Curtis, this is Nina. Did

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Speaker 1: you get engaged you? Yeah? We got engaged young, like

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Speaker 1: seventeen and Mary at eighteen and seventeen years later I

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Speaker 1: got two kids. I would definitely got lots of hate,

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Speaker 1: Like for sure. I feel like people always want to

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Speaker 1: think the worst, and I guess, you know, what do

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Speaker 1: you think when it's physically they're probably right. But you know,

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Speaker 1: everyone's different and everyone's journey is different, and whatever works

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Speaker 1: for you, it works for you, and it doesn't really

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Speaker 1: matter with anybody else. That's true, Curtis. Just because some

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Speaker 1: people can't do it doesn't mean that it doesn't work sometimes, Curtis,

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Speaker 1: what do you think it was about your love that

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Speaker 1: made you want to do that so early? I'm not hating,

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Speaker 1: I'm just genuinely curious. You know. It's a good question.

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Speaker 1: I just I didn't want to do with anybody else,

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Speaker 1: and she was the same thing, and there was just

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Speaker 1: something I can't really fully describe it, but yeah, I

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Speaker 1: just thought I would share that because of course people

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Speaker 1: are going to say bad things. Yeah. Yeah, people love

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Speaker 1: to young people, they do. And I wonder how many

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Speaker 1: couples that got engaged young and married young would have

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Speaker 1: actually made it if they would have had more positive

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Speaker 1: people in their life. That's a great point. What's the

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Speaker 1: secret to success for you guys, Because that's a lot

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Speaker 1: of challenge. It's hard. Like we've done counseling. You've done

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Speaker 1: you know, individual counseling, couple of counseling. You know, you're

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Speaker 1: constantly working on your relationship because especially when you start young,

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Speaker 1: you know, you change and you're not always going to

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Speaker 1: be the exact same person that you were. Um so,

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Speaker 1: if you know, but if that love is there, you

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Speaker 1: have to kind of find ways to you know, to

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Speaker 1: say connected. Not for me, I think a big thing

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Speaker 1: is having your own interests, in having your own hobbies

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Speaker 1: and and you like, you know, you live your life

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Speaker 1: that way, and I think it's if it works out

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Speaker 1: to be works out pretty gid Absolutely, Curtis, thank you

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Speaker 1: for your phone call. I'm looking forward to the video

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Speaker 1: that goes viral when you're like seventy and you and

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Speaker 1: your wife were talking about how you've been together since

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Speaker 1: you were seventeen. Because I cry every single time that

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Speaker 1: I see one of those. So I can't wait to

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Speaker 1: look at your Instagram one day and just bawl my

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Speaker 1: eyes out what a thing it is. Can't wait for

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Speaker 1: you to make thanks man, have a good days here bye. Um.

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Speaker 1: See it is possible. Yeah, people do make it so Millie,

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Speaker 1: Bobby Brown and John Bonjoe's kid. I keep calling to

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Speaker 1: call him Ron bon Jovi, Jake. I think that they're

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Speaker 1: gonna be together forever. Some Goods Cross The Jebel Show

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