1 00:00:03,279 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: What's up his way up with Angela. Ye, and it's 2 00:00:05,320 --> 00:00:07,920 Speaker 1: time for some girl talk. Okay, it's Me and My 3 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:12,959 Speaker 1: Homegirls Nini, Lisa and Sierra Glambshop. Thank y'all for joining 4 00:00:12,960 --> 00:00:14,800 Speaker 1: me straight out of the A. Is that where you're 5 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 1: traveling from? Yeah? Yeah, okay, And so now you guys 6 00:00:18,239 --> 00:00:23,079 Speaker 1: have a show together. Yes, it's a nice conversational show 7 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:25,120 Speaker 1: where we get to get some of the tea from y'all, 8 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 1: but also just I think general information, the things that 9 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:31,160 Speaker 1: us girls like to talk about, you know. And it 10 00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 1: is called Me and My Homegirl, right yeah, all right, 11 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:36,240 Speaker 1: So Sierra, you're the homegirl because I saw that was 12 00:00:36,280 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 1: the conversation on the first episode. 13 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, so Nini is me and I and I'm the homegirl. Well, 14 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:46,680 Speaker 2: I don't know lately, Nini been a homegirl. You have 15 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:48,040 Speaker 2: been outside. 16 00:00:49,880 --> 00:00:50,120 Speaker 3: Yoo. 17 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, the hood one, the more vibrant one. 18 00:00:57,840 --> 00:01:00,400 Speaker 1: One thing I will say is I do like randomly 19 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 1: running too, Ninni. Anytime I'm in Atlanta, I feel like 20 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 1: I see her somewhere. Yeah. 21 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, for sure, Nini. She likes to She like 22 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:07,679 Speaker 4: to be outside. 23 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 1: Stuff like chill for sure and the malf Yeah yeah, 24 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 1: restaurants that's how we actually not that. 25 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 3: But yeah, I do a lot of things by myself. 26 00:01:22,200 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 5: I really like almost alone in a sense, but not 27 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 5: I do everything alone. I travel, I you know, I shop, 28 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 5: you know, I just do a lot of stuff for 29 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:32,559 Speaker 5: like drive my car around along. 30 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 3: People are like, are you by yourself? 31 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:36,639 Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, I wonder what that comes from. 32 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 5: Like I feel like when I have somebody with me, 33 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:41,959 Speaker 5: it slows me down. Okay, Like if I'm by myself, 34 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:43,640 Speaker 5: I can kind of do it. You know, I could 35 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:45,560 Speaker 5: get go in the store, pop out quick. I just 36 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:46,399 Speaker 5: don't need anybody. 37 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 1: Yeah. Here I saw on the episode you said that 38 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 1: you have never traveled alone. Like you're not getting on 39 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:54,560 Speaker 1: a flight alone. You need somebody to key key with. 40 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not that brave, ye It like I don't 41 00:01:57,560 --> 00:02:00,200 Speaker 2: know how to yeah, because I'm just like and then 42 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 2: planning and figuring stuff out. Like, no, if I travel, 43 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 2: I will be in a hotel just chilling by myself, 44 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:06,760 Speaker 2: not doing nothing. 45 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 3: Because at the bar. 46 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, that I'll do by myself, go downstairs. 47 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:14,520 Speaker 2: And no no, no, yeah, I will be at the bar, 48 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 2: like that's my thing. I'm actually Me and Nini met 49 00:02:19,120 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 2: from just seeing each other by ourselves a lot in 50 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 2: the nail shot at the bar a few times, and 51 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:28,920 Speaker 2: we was like we do the same thing, like be 52 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:31,360 Speaker 2: by ourself, and we really do be by ourselves. 53 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:33,080 Speaker 1: So it was like, let's just be friends. 54 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, and then one thing became friends. 55 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:39,000 Speaker 2: We noticed that we had a lot of stuff in common, 56 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:42,960 Speaker 2: Like it's crazy how much like down to the family, 57 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:46,360 Speaker 2: how we like to do our upkeep with gleam and 58 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:49,079 Speaker 2: just and yeah, yeah. 59 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 4: We are like yeah a lot and people don't know that. 60 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:54,720 Speaker 1: Well. Atlanta can also be a bit of a small place. 61 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 1: Like I said, you run into people all the time, 62 00:02:57,040 --> 00:02:59,679 Speaker 1: and yeah, for you being han't been on Real Housewives 63 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 1: and all so love you said, you've never watched your 64 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:02,600 Speaker 1: house and. 65 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:08,240 Speaker 5: She watched Housewife. I don't be like in at to 66 00:03:08,280 --> 00:03:10,800 Speaker 5: say that I don't watch I don't. You watched it 67 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:12,680 Speaker 5: when I was on the back then you might not. 68 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 1: Be watching it now she watched, but I seen. But 69 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 1: none of that is there's no way when you think 70 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:19,560 Speaker 1: of Real Housewives, you don't. 71 00:03:19,639 --> 00:03:20,840 Speaker 4: You can't think of you. 72 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 2: You just don't. Like it's like they go together, they're 73 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:24,440 Speaker 2: in a relationship. 74 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 1: We are. 75 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, you're kind of broken a little bit. 76 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 1: It's relationship like, yeah, you you're scary, but you've also 77 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 1: I think done a great job of in that situation 78 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:43,120 Speaker 1: leaving and being nanny leaks outside of that too, you know, and. 79 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 5: That's very hard to do because there's a lot of 80 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 5: girls after the show. 81 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 3: They're no longer you know what I mean. 82 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 5: And I think that comes from me being an original 83 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 5: housewife and me started in the beginning that you know, 84 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 5: so many people thought of me as Atlanta housewife. So 85 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 5: even after the show, to your kid, you couldn't nowhere, 86 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 5: I can go anywhere in the world and somebody's like, yeah. 87 00:04:08,080 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 1: And let me tell you see erin. I met Nini 88 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 1: super early on. I don't know if you remember. We 89 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 1: was at Plies weekend in Tampa, Florida. 90 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:18,279 Speaker 3: They don't even do that anymore. 91 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:20,240 Speaker 1: That it was a stripe thon. 92 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:21,880 Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, I don't think that happened. 93 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:25,120 Speaker 1: And we both attended like you just win, and you know, guy, 94 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 1: it was a whole bunch of us. 95 00:04:26,560 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 3: I don't think they do that anymore. 96 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:31,280 Speaker 1: No, no, no, that was I don't know how long ago. 97 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:34,040 Speaker 5: That that was very long ago. I told her that 98 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:36,159 Speaker 5: when we were coming outside, know Angela. 99 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, And she's always been super cool, like. 100 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, we are regular. Yeah, I don't. 101 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 5: I think there's a lot of girls in the industry 102 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 5: and they're not regular. Like I don't mean like regular 103 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 5: like regular, but I mean just really at yourself and 104 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 5: not you know, not getting and rolling eyes that you 105 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:59,400 Speaker 5: and like not wanting to be. 106 00:04:57,320 --> 00:04:58,480 Speaker 1: My girls, like don't I. 107 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:01,480 Speaker 4: Know, God, I don't even go. I can't stand it. 108 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:04,680 Speaker 1: Like that. That's what we were like. 109 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 2: Like people, and I feel like from the outside looking 110 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 2: at people will think that you do, but we're so 111 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 2: I'm I mean, I'm a real hoodide so I'm like 112 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:14,040 Speaker 2: I just like. 113 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:17,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, so cool with everybody, like until you're not with me, 114 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 5: Like I'm like, hey, yeah you will when I say 115 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:25,880 Speaker 5: how the people some girls they be like and you 116 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:26,800 Speaker 5: see something wrong. 117 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:29,719 Speaker 1: And you're good friends with Jennifer Williams. 118 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:32,240 Speaker 5: Yes, Jennifer was my bridemaid in my wedding and I've 119 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 5: known for a super long time. You went to her 120 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 5: wedding in Paris. 121 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 1: At you Yeah you did? 122 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:37,360 Speaker 3: How was that? 123 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 1: It was beautiful? Again? 124 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:40,440 Speaker 3: See her ring? I'm like, girl, that's a ring. 125 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:42,919 Speaker 1: Her dress was amazing. I want to say that, And 126 00:05:42,960 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 1: I know she had to make some adjustments, which is 127 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:46,719 Speaker 1: not easy. But at the end of the day, if 128 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 1: you're getting married to somebody who you love and you 129 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:50,280 Speaker 1: know you want to spend the rest of your life with, 130 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:52,960 Speaker 1: no matter what the outside world has to say about 131 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:57,080 Speaker 1: was like, yeah, yeah, knows all. 132 00:05:56,920 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 5: About that has been married, honey, she know how to 133 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:01,279 Speaker 5: get a husband. 134 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:04,000 Speaker 1: Now tell us about your last wedding that just happened. 135 00:06:04,080 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 2: Oh it was magical, like you honest, I never had 136 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 2: a wedding. I got married, but I never had a wedding, 137 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 2: so like that was my first wedding. Like we went 138 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:14,599 Speaker 2: to the courthouse, but it wasn't a thing like it 139 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:16,719 Speaker 2: was like, okay, we just did the certificate. It was 140 00:06:16,839 --> 00:06:19,840 Speaker 2: that was it so like with my husband now, it 141 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:22,560 Speaker 2: was it was very hard feeling like it was so 142 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:25,680 Speaker 2: we were just entwined with each other. You know, he's 143 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 2: my childhood friend and I my kids love him. 144 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:31,720 Speaker 1: I love him. It just importantly it just feel normal. 145 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 2: Honestly, can I say this and it sounds I know 146 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:37,520 Speaker 2: it's gonna sound so crazy, But my ex mom used 147 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:40,200 Speaker 2: to tell me things like when we first bought our house, 148 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 2: you know, the house that was robbed at gunpoint. It 149 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:45,240 Speaker 2: was like our first manchion, big millions dollar house. She 150 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:47,479 Speaker 2: was like, I know, y'all are fucking like rabbits around 151 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 2: his house. And I'm looking at him and he looking 152 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 2: at me. I'm like, I haven't touched this man in 153 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 2: two months. 154 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:53,279 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. We had been in the 155 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:54,080 Speaker 1: house two months. 156 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 2: But now I understand what she meant because she was 157 00:06:57,200 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 2: in love, you know what I'm saying. So now I 158 00:06:59,040 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 2: understand what she meant. I beg y'all, was itffing like rabbits? 159 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 2: Because me and my husband can't keep our hands off. 160 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:06,080 Speaker 1: First, so now you are rabbits And that's how you 161 00:07:06,160 --> 00:07:08,560 Speaker 1: know that it was meant to me. But that's interesting 162 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 1: to me. So when you before you guys were in 163 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 1: the house and for two months just not we that's 164 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:15,040 Speaker 1: a wild. 165 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 2: Yeah because and it's not even a because I feel like, honestly, 166 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 2: for real, I dated out of trauma. I dated out 167 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 2: of not knowing who I was as a person, as 168 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:28,800 Speaker 2: a woman, a little girl just like crying out for love. 169 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:31,200 Speaker 1: And I can genuinely say that and it's okay, you know. 170 00:07:31,680 --> 00:07:34,560 Speaker 2: And then I just had to say listen because it's 171 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 2: like I always I wanted that, so bad. You know 172 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 2: what I'm saying. Maybe it came from my dad not 173 00:07:40,320 --> 00:07:42,800 Speaker 2: being as president as he should in the household. Maybe 174 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:45,120 Speaker 2: he come from a numerous amount of things, but it happened. 175 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 2: And I could say that proudly, but I mean, it's 176 00:07:48,560 --> 00:07:52,840 Speaker 2: a testimony. So when I actually found my husband and 177 00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 2: the feeling that I felt behind my current husband, I 178 00:07:56,640 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 2: was like, I'm married for all the wrong reasons, right. 179 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:01,000 Speaker 2: And when people used to said I used to be like, 180 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 2: oh my god, but I did I really did it. 181 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:07,560 Speaker 1: And you were a young mom. I was a great 182 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 1: mom too, by the way I could tell by the 183 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:11,840 Speaker 1: way you know your your kids be snuggled up. 184 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my god. 185 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:21,280 Speaker 1: Now, Nini, Yes, let's get to this because I want 186 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:23,680 Speaker 1: to say. One thing I noticed on the podcast that 187 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:26,320 Speaker 1: you guys have is that you like to redirect it 188 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:30,560 Speaker 1: back to Sierra every time we talking about me, but 189 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:33,120 Speaker 1: now back to you. Do you feel like you're more 190 00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:36,079 Speaker 1: protective of yourself and what you have going on now 191 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:38,839 Speaker 1: because you've had your life out there for so long 192 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:41,319 Speaker 1: with people watching everything, and now is it like I 193 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:43,640 Speaker 1: want to kind of protect Well, what is what's going 194 00:08:43,679 --> 00:08:45,200 Speaker 1: on with that? I don't know. 195 00:08:45,240 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 5: I didn't realize that I was doing that. Okay, Sierra 196 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:52,160 Speaker 5: is really long winded. And when I get in a 197 00:08:52,200 --> 00:08:53,800 Speaker 5: place where we don't know what we're gonna say, I 198 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:55,080 Speaker 5: just go back to see her because I know she 199 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:56,200 Speaker 5: can talk about something for. 200 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 1: A long long time. 201 00:08:57,800 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 5: But no, you know, I may be a little bit 202 00:08:59,840 --> 00:09:02,240 Speaker 5: more private in certain areas of my life. I've always 203 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 5: been in an open book. Can you ask me anything, 204 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:06,679 Speaker 5: I answer if I want to, Like, you know, I 205 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:15,520 Speaker 5: hate you. That's so awful, like the hunt, just like yeah, 206 00:09:15,960 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 5: with the person that you. 207 00:09:16,960 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 1: Really like, you know what I mean, not somebody I don't. 208 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:23,520 Speaker 5: Yeah. Yeah, I'm just amazing how she can get three husbands. 209 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 5: I'm over here, like you know, get one like I 210 00:09:25,480 --> 00:09:28,559 Speaker 5: don't know, and you can yeah, well yearly okay, yeah 211 00:09:28,600 --> 00:09:29,319 Speaker 5: yeah you can't. 212 00:09:29,160 --> 00:09:32,240 Speaker 1: If you you know, because I think the misconception a 213 00:09:32,280 --> 00:09:35,240 Speaker 1: lot of times with women is if you're not married, 214 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 1: you can't get a husband. But the truth is you 215 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:40,440 Speaker 1: just want the husband you want, not just no. 216 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:43,200 Speaker 5: I was married for twenty five yees, so I'm the 217 00:09:43,200 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 5: same man twice. 218 00:09:43,920 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 3: You're the same great guy when you were. 219 00:09:46,920 --> 00:09:49,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I love that, and I look up to 220 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 2: me in so many ways, like that's my good that's 221 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 2: my homegirl for real. 222 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 3: I love love and. 223 00:09:57,360 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 1: I don't know. 224 00:09:57,880 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 3: I'm in a really odd place in the love department. 225 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:03,600 Speaker 1: Okay, She's like, and that's that. 226 00:10:04,679 --> 00:10:06,400 Speaker 3: No, no, no, I'm open to talk about anything, but 227 00:10:06,440 --> 00:10:07,400 Speaker 3: I'm in a real odd place. 228 00:10:07,480 --> 00:10:09,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay. Well I hope it all, whatever it is 229 00:10:09,320 --> 00:10:11,880 Speaker 1: that you want. Yeah, you know, I hope that everything 230 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:14,480 Speaker 1: because you deserve it. Yeah, I really do. Yeah, you do. 231 00:10:14,720 --> 00:10:17,120 Speaker 1: And I know that as a friend, like from people 232 00:10:17,160 --> 00:10:18,440 Speaker 1: who know you really well. 233 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:20,720 Speaker 4: Yeah she wanted, Yeah, that's what she wants. 234 00:10:21,160 --> 00:10:23,320 Speaker 1: Ninia is a wife at hard, just like I am. 235 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 3: I was a wife for a really long time. Yeah. 236 00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:27,920 Speaker 1: But you know what, it's weird too because you were 237 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:30,679 Speaker 1: a wife for such a long time. It's weird. Not 238 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 1: is it weird to like. 239 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:34,760 Speaker 3: It's weird for me not being a wife. It's so weird. 240 00:10:34,760 --> 00:10:36,040 Speaker 3: But I got married so young. 241 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:37,160 Speaker 1: Yeah that's what I'm saying. 242 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:41,000 Speaker 5: You're, you know, really early in my twenties. But I 243 00:10:41,040 --> 00:10:44,839 Speaker 5: love love, and uh, I think now dating is totally 244 00:10:44,920 --> 00:10:49,040 Speaker 5: different from when I first started dating. Also, I don't 245 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 5: like older guys, and. 246 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:52,120 Speaker 1: I saw that you were, like, I like younger man 247 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:54,760 Speaker 1: because I think the guy you were dating was eight 248 00:10:54,800 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 1: years younger. 249 00:10:55,840 --> 00:10:58,520 Speaker 3: Yes, said yeah, I like guys a little younger. 250 00:10:59,720 --> 00:11:02,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, because you have a very you have a 251 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:03,640 Speaker 1: young spirit, a. 252 00:11:03,679 --> 00:11:06,760 Speaker 5: Very young I also need guys to have their own money, 253 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:11,680 Speaker 5: their own things. I think that's hard to fight, Like, 254 00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:14,240 Speaker 5: it's hard to fight guys with their own careers. 255 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:16,400 Speaker 3: Like I need you to have your own. 256 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:19,600 Speaker 5: Everything, right, but I need somebody that can pour into 257 00:11:19,600 --> 00:11:21,520 Speaker 5: me and I can pour into them and that. 258 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:22,040 Speaker 3: Kind of thing. 259 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:24,080 Speaker 1: All right, I'm here for it. Now. How did y'all 260 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:26,560 Speaker 1: decide to even do a show? Whose idea was that? 261 00:11:26,920 --> 00:11:29,880 Speaker 1: We was just on the phone together. 262 00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:32,440 Speaker 4: It was like we were just talking and I'm like, 263 00:11:32,559 --> 00:11:33,200 Speaker 4: I'm like, girl, we. 264 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:35,479 Speaker 3: Should do business. Yeah, we should have a podcast. 265 00:11:36,040 --> 00:11:37,360 Speaker 5: I mean, why don't we get in there and talk 266 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:39,480 Speaker 5: about so I've been asked to do a podcast so 267 00:11:39,480 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 5: many times that I never. 268 00:11:40,800 --> 00:11:44,280 Speaker 1: Ever wanted that. Need a lip service service? 269 00:11:44,360 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, maybe I already was on lips that's what 270 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:56,200 Speaker 6: made us say that, But that would be great. 271 00:11:56,640 --> 00:11:59,080 Speaker 3: I need to be a regular on lip service, that's 272 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:00,440 Speaker 3: what senior? 273 00:12:00,760 --> 00:12:02,880 Speaker 1: So good? Who do y'all have on that? Man? Anyway, 274 00:12:03,160 --> 00:12:06,000 Speaker 1: Meg and Jordan's and Jordan's was on the show a 275 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:10,520 Speaker 1: Summerhouse Mark. No, she's a new addition to the show. 276 00:12:10,640 --> 00:12:12,640 Speaker 1: She's a little younger than us. What is she like 277 00:12:12,679 --> 00:12:15,679 Speaker 1: thirty one, thirty two years old, Summerhouse Martha. She's a 278 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:20,120 Speaker 1: DJ also, and she was on the cover Playboy. You 279 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:24,480 Speaker 1: know beautiful beautiful asked me to yeah, are you going 280 00:12:24,559 --> 00:12:27,560 Speaker 1: to do it? I don't know what would you tell her? 281 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:32,480 Speaker 1: Her as her homegirl, Dewey Dewey, now, now, what's the time? 282 00:12:32,559 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 1: You look good? Amazing? 283 00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 3: I don't know, And I'm kind of scared when they 284 00:12:37,360 --> 00:12:38,200 Speaker 3: say it, I was like. 285 00:12:39,120 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, do it. Your body looks amazing. I would say, 286 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:44,680 Speaker 1: as long as you're on the cover. 287 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:47,199 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, for sure. 288 00:12:47,320 --> 00:12:49,000 Speaker 3: I'm not on the cover there, you're right? 289 00:12:49,440 --> 00:12:54,920 Speaker 5: Not okayoy you first, if I'm not on the cover, 290 00:12:55,080 --> 00:13:00,920 Speaker 5: like maybe you're not just to do it together. I'm scared, 291 00:13:01,440 --> 00:13:07,920 Speaker 5: and I'll tell him what she have more. 292 00:13:05,760 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 1: Like, she's not saying nothing about you know what. 293 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 4: My husband he loves he liked, Oh she He's like 294 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:11,880 Speaker 4: put that ship on. 295 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:14,680 Speaker 5: Well, I think, you know, as long as you don't 296 00:13:14,679 --> 00:13:17,920 Speaker 5: go too far. I think it's a way to be very. 297 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:20,880 Speaker 1: For sure, maybe having for real articles like I'm gonna 298 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:24,200 Speaker 1: say that like they have well done journalists writing articles. 299 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:27,240 Speaker 1: It's not like, you know, there's other magazines that aren't 300 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:31,400 Speaker 1: as I guess you know, classy as Playboy. Yeah, I 301 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:33,920 Speaker 1: think y'all should consider we will something. 302 00:13:33,960 --> 00:13:35,600 Speaker 3: But don't forget to talk to me about little service. 303 00:13:35,640 --> 00:13:37,440 Speaker 1: I got a lot of know I listen, I told 304 00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:38,680 Speaker 1: you that. I was like, listen, we need to have 305 00:13:38,760 --> 00:13:41,160 Speaker 1: you up here more. We discussed it because she got 306 00:13:41,200 --> 00:13:43,160 Speaker 1: some some things to get off her chest. But I 307 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:45,880 Speaker 1: think all of us together, yeah, you know, it could 308 00:13:45,920 --> 00:13:48,480 Speaker 1: be a whole vibe. There would be. 309 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:50,960 Speaker 3: So freaking. 310 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:58,400 Speaker 1: Another thing. Y'all talk about everything, right, because it seems 311 00:13:58,440 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 1: like you guys are really comfortable with each other. So 312 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:03,600 Speaker 1: another topic was plastic surgery, and you guys both said, 313 00:14:03,640 --> 00:14:05,480 Speaker 1: you've never put a knife to your face. 314 00:14:05,600 --> 00:14:11,360 Speaker 2: No, not not, you know, not physically like somebody call it. 315 00:14:13,559 --> 00:14:16,000 Speaker 5: You know, I feel like I get accused of all 316 00:14:16,040 --> 00:14:18,440 Speaker 5: the time having some kind of surgeon, and I'm like, girl, 317 00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:21,040 Speaker 5: you gotta be bandaged up. You gotta have time off 318 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:23,200 Speaker 5: to do this kind of stuff. Like I don't do that, 319 00:14:23,520 --> 00:14:25,720 Speaker 5: Like I don't really. I was just in the bathroom 320 00:14:25,800 --> 00:14:27,560 Speaker 5: chair and I think I got lines under my fucking 321 00:14:27,720 --> 00:14:29,680 Speaker 5: These people are always saying something about surgery. 322 00:14:29,800 --> 00:14:32,600 Speaker 3: I don't think I'm gonna go into surgery. 323 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 1: Like no, no. 324 00:14:35,360 --> 00:14:37,520 Speaker 5: They just accused you so much. And then I got 325 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:40,840 Speaker 5: accused of using a filter. It's like, I think everybody 326 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:44,080 Speaker 5: used filter, and I'm not posting Ship without cleaning it up, 327 00:14:44,400 --> 00:14:46,920 Speaker 5: because if you don't clean up your damn picture, they 328 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:50,400 Speaker 5: pick it apart Ship. 329 00:14:50,960 --> 00:14:53,120 Speaker 1: Who don't guess who don't use a filter? Who don't 330 00:14:53,120 --> 00:14:54,040 Speaker 1: know how to? I don't know how to. 331 00:14:54,800 --> 00:14:56,800 Speaker 2: I don't I don't use it straight off the camp 332 00:14:56,840 --> 00:15:00,120 Speaker 2: when he's if he's seeing it on posting it. 333 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 1: They just look like I. 334 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:06,600 Speaker 5: Have to look at it and be because I don't 335 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:08,520 Speaker 5: know what Freddie donned to this picture. I got to 336 00:15:08,520 --> 00:15:14,320 Speaker 5: look at that picture and so But anyway, the both 337 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:16,560 Speaker 5: of us wanted to talk about plastic surgeon. I'm very 338 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:18,880 Speaker 5: open in what I do in plastic surgeon, all the 339 00:15:18,880 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 5: plastic surgery, most of them I think that I've had. 340 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:22,960 Speaker 3: I've been public because I got to give a discount 341 00:15:23,000 --> 00:15:25,720 Speaker 3: from the doctor. So you know, I'm. 342 00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:28,480 Speaker 1: Like, I don't walk y'all through everything I do. Yeah, 343 00:15:28,520 --> 00:15:28,880 Speaker 1: I would not. 344 00:15:29,880 --> 00:15:32,440 Speaker 3: I can't wait to do something to talk about He said, 345 00:15:32,480 --> 00:15:33,720 Speaker 3: you can't wait. I can't wait. 346 00:15:34,320 --> 00:15:36,640 Speaker 5: Sure, I'm doing something, but you don't know yet. I 347 00:15:36,680 --> 00:15:39,120 Speaker 5: don't know yet exactly what. One thing I'm gonna do 348 00:15:39,200 --> 00:15:41,000 Speaker 5: is my boobs. And the reason why I'm going to 349 00:15:41,080 --> 00:15:43,120 Speaker 5: do my books. I love my boots and I love 350 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:45,600 Speaker 5: the size of my boots. I've had these implants for 351 00:15:45,640 --> 00:15:48,640 Speaker 5: almost fifteen years and you're supposed to read. And that's 352 00:15:48,640 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 5: the only reason why. But my doctor did tell me 353 00:15:51,200 --> 00:15:53,880 Speaker 5: that he could possibly remove them and we could reuse 354 00:15:53,960 --> 00:15:57,000 Speaker 5: the same implants that I have. He removed my tissue around. 355 00:15:57,120 --> 00:15:58,680 Speaker 3: Okay, that's the only reason. 356 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:00,720 Speaker 5: Like, I love my boots, I love the size of 357 00:16:00,760 --> 00:16:02,800 Speaker 5: them and everything, but I do have to take them. 358 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:05,800 Speaker 1: You gotta get an update, you gotta get Okay. 359 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:07,040 Speaker 5: That's the only thing. But besides that, I'm gonna do 360 00:16:07,080 --> 00:16:09,080 Speaker 5: something that's boob It's not it. I'm gonna do something. 361 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:11,800 Speaker 5: I gotta find a doctor that's gonna give me a discount. 362 00:16:12,360 --> 00:16:14,720 Speaker 5: Talk about it. No, no, no, I'm doing it because I 363 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:15,120 Speaker 5: really want it. 364 00:16:15,160 --> 00:16:16,880 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm like, what is it that you're about to do. 365 00:16:17,080 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 3: I can I'll tell y'all later, And I'm looking for 366 00:16:18,800 --> 00:16:19,240 Speaker 3: the doctor. 367 00:16:21,840 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 1: Listen, I'm a fan of whatever you do, just make 368 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:26,040 Speaker 1: sure you do it in the same way. You know, 369 00:16:26,080 --> 00:16:30,920 Speaker 1: because you say traveling, I think they where they have different. 370 00:16:30,680 --> 00:16:33,880 Speaker 5: Law arm travel like here, l A or somewhere, but 371 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:35,760 Speaker 5: not far because I want to go and get in 372 00:16:35,800 --> 00:16:36,440 Speaker 5: my bed. 373 00:16:36,520 --> 00:16:39,880 Speaker 1: Right yeah, and getting on a flight afterward is probably 374 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:42,760 Speaker 1: uncomfortable if you have to fly and see here. I 375 00:16:42,800 --> 00:16:44,320 Speaker 1: know you said that you were gonna you wanted to 376 00:16:44,320 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 1: get rid of but yeah, yeah, but. 377 00:16:46,480 --> 00:16:49,600 Speaker 2: I got them when I was younger, and they gotta go. 378 00:16:49,880 --> 00:16:52,400 Speaker 2: And honestly, for real, for the girls that's still doing 379 00:16:52,440 --> 00:16:55,480 Speaker 2: it nowaday, they y'all need to stop because ten years 380 00:16:55,520 --> 00:16:57,280 Speaker 2: from now this ship, your leg's gonna be hurting. 381 00:16:57,760 --> 00:16:59,280 Speaker 1: Yo. You stand up too long. 382 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:01,920 Speaker 2: Your legs be aching your ass, be aching your nigga, 383 00:17:01,920 --> 00:17:02,680 Speaker 2: can't slip your ass. 384 00:17:02,720 --> 00:17:05,400 Speaker 1: They're heard because they really us. 385 00:17:06,040 --> 00:17:09,120 Speaker 2: Yes, it is, it is, it is. It is a story. 386 00:17:10,560 --> 00:17:13,239 Speaker 2: It's a little snipplet on our show. And I'm like, 387 00:17:13,359 --> 00:17:16,160 Speaker 2: you see Blood Chinel, you see Kay Michelle, and people 388 00:17:16,240 --> 00:17:18,720 Speaker 2: probably gonna think I'm we're talking about them, but I'm 389 00:17:18,760 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 2: actually saying because they were open with their story. 390 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:24,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'm like, I'm an open book. I don't care. 391 00:17:24,359 --> 00:17:27,400 Speaker 2: My man been loving me since I was young, fifteen, 392 00:17:27,960 --> 00:17:31,359 Speaker 2: big no lips before I even got you know, injections 393 00:17:31,359 --> 00:17:33,159 Speaker 2: in my lips. So it's like I don't have to 394 00:17:33,320 --> 00:17:36,320 Speaker 2: hide from nobody. I just I like being transparent. I 395 00:17:36,359 --> 00:17:38,639 Speaker 2: feel like my story could help somebody, you know what 396 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:40,359 Speaker 2: I'm saying. My story is my testimony. 397 00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:42,800 Speaker 1: And that's a great warning for people because like you said, 398 00:17:42,840 --> 00:17:44,720 Speaker 1: it was hurt in your legs kill hurt. 399 00:17:44,760 --> 00:17:46,359 Speaker 2: Like I haven't got them out yet. I have to 400 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:49,399 Speaker 2: eventually got them, get them out. So if there's a 401 00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:53,160 Speaker 2: doctor out there that would like to do and want 402 00:17:53,160 --> 00:17:57,800 Speaker 2: me to be a part of their journey, hit me. 403 00:18:00,359 --> 00:18:02,800 Speaker 1: Just famous people, but it's also regulations that are like 404 00:18:02,840 --> 00:18:03,720 Speaker 1: I need to figure out. 405 00:18:03,800 --> 00:18:07,240 Speaker 2: Like I see girls all the time, and I can 406 00:18:07,280 --> 00:18:10,240 Speaker 2: tell when girls got it, especially a slimmer girl right 407 00:18:10,320 --> 00:18:12,240 Speaker 2: and that don't have any meat on her body, and 408 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:14,480 Speaker 2: it's like, you know, you go try to get a butt, 409 00:18:14,520 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 2: your butt done. They don't have They can't pull a 410 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:19,199 Speaker 2: fact from nobody nowhere because you're skinny, so they'll go 411 00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:21,719 Speaker 2: get the butt shots. I know girls, popular girls right 412 00:18:21,760 --> 00:18:23,760 Speaker 2: now that has gotten them. And I be like, I'm 413 00:18:23,800 --> 00:18:26,120 Speaker 2: so quiet into myself because I just like to stay 414 00:18:26,119 --> 00:18:28,240 Speaker 2: out the media and stay out the way. But I 415 00:18:28,320 --> 00:18:30,399 Speaker 2: be so wan to reach out to so many of 416 00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:34,640 Speaker 2: popular girls and be like suss, don't stop that shit hurts. 417 00:18:34,520 --> 00:18:38,320 Speaker 1: It moves, it nots up like I feel in Cabo. 418 00:18:38,600 --> 00:18:40,760 Speaker 2: And now I got like a little not like it's 419 00:18:40,800 --> 00:18:43,320 Speaker 2: as small, it's little, but still I have it. 420 00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:45,560 Speaker 1: So it's just so so much that come with it. 421 00:18:45,560 --> 00:18:48,919 Speaker 2: It looks cute, it's a temporary fix. Like it's not 422 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:50,960 Speaker 2: worth it at all, you know what I'm saying. I 423 00:18:50,960 --> 00:18:53,200 Speaker 2: asked my younger self, like why did I do it? 424 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:57,080 Speaker 2: You know, just doing just trying to who. 425 00:18:56,880 --> 00:18:58,840 Speaker 1: Did you go to? Was it like some you know, 426 00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:00,720 Speaker 1: I know they was having a butt shot parties and 427 00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:03,880 Speaker 1: stuff like that. I went to the top party. Okay Ima. 428 00:19:03,920 --> 00:19:04,239 Speaker 1: It's a guy. 429 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 2: I don't want to put him out there, but he 430 00:19:05,640 --> 00:19:08,000 Speaker 2: do a lot of people and he's a really good guy. 431 00:19:08,040 --> 00:19:10,760 Speaker 2: He's he's really good and I love him and he 432 00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:13,840 Speaker 2: got such a great spirit. But it's just you. You 433 00:19:13,840 --> 00:19:14,760 Speaker 2: you shouldn't get him. 434 00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:18,520 Speaker 1: Done, go do it the la did you all watch that? 435 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:22,479 Speaker 4: And the girl and they put the fixer flat on her? 436 00:19:22,480 --> 00:19:22,640 Speaker 3: Bla. 437 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:24,720 Speaker 1: You said you don't watch TV. You never know what. 438 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:26,760 Speaker 2: You're putting because I was just sick, so I was 439 00:19:26,800 --> 00:19:28,359 Speaker 2: just watching. It's crazy because I just seen. 440 00:19:28,240 --> 00:19:30,760 Speaker 1: It for real and that look. I saw that because. 441 00:19:30,520 --> 00:19:32,199 Speaker 3: Even they didn't do that to you today. 442 00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:36,159 Speaker 2: No, they put silicon. I mean because I went to 443 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:38,560 Speaker 2: the like I went to the good guy. But yeah, 444 00:19:38,640 --> 00:19:41,679 Speaker 2: it is like I'm telling you, yo, I'd be so nervous. 445 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:43,879 Speaker 2: I'd be like, God, please don't let my lists. 446 00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:47,200 Speaker 3: Maybe he's product now it's. 447 00:19:47,359 --> 00:19:50,440 Speaker 1: Well, you know you're not even supposed to do but 448 00:19:50,600 --> 00:19:52,040 Speaker 1: shots though at all, right, it's. 449 00:19:51,920 --> 00:19:54,800 Speaker 2: Not it's not even about the product. You just don't 450 00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:56,440 Speaker 2: supposed to be doing it. 451 00:19:56,720 --> 00:20:00,000 Speaker 1: Just think about all the pressure that goes, like, yeah, 452 00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:03,720 Speaker 1: the nerves and then like the firing things in your. 453 00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:07,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like it's a farm something in your body. Girl, 454 00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 2: but my butt is so you try to make. 455 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:18,919 Speaker 6: Any but yeah, I. 456 00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:24,160 Speaker 1: Can't do it now. What are some things y'all learned 457 00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:26,560 Speaker 1: about each other while doing this that maybe you didn't 458 00:20:26,560 --> 00:20:29,080 Speaker 1: know before, because sometimes you could be great friends them 459 00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:30,800 Speaker 1: cameras start rolling, you guys start talking, and you're like, 460 00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:34,600 Speaker 1: oh my god, this is a topic we never discussed before. Yeah, 461 00:20:35,480 --> 00:20:39,000 Speaker 1: we got what we've got so much in coming. 462 00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:41,560 Speaker 2: Well, I did learn that, you know, like she do 463 00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:44,520 Speaker 2: have a lot of stuff in coming with me, family stuff. 464 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:45,920 Speaker 2: You know, she went through a lot of stuff for 465 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:49,840 Speaker 2: her family. The people just saying that we both had 466 00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:51,480 Speaker 2: surgeries and stuff like this, so we. 467 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:53,760 Speaker 1: Just for me coming types of right. 468 00:20:54,040 --> 00:21:00,000 Speaker 2: She's very aggressive and very direct and very very smart. Now, yeah, 469 00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:04,320 Speaker 2: very direct, very direct to. 470 00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:06,760 Speaker 5: The one thing I did learn about I learned about 471 00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:11,480 Speaker 5: serious that she's extremely late and seriously like it's really 472 00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:16,120 Speaker 5: a problem. And I didn't know that before because she's 473 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:18,600 Speaker 5: a businesswoman and she's so good at doing all her stuff. 474 00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:19,760 Speaker 3: I'd be like, how should be laid? 475 00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:23,000 Speaker 1: So tell me about this lateness? What's going on here? 476 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 2: It's just something I gotta work. It's something I gotta do. 477 00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:31,000 Speaker 2: But honestly, for real, I don't even I don't know. 478 00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:32,840 Speaker 2: I just got to do better at it. That kind 479 00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:36,000 Speaker 2: of okay, it comes from being spoiled. I have a 480 00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:37,920 Speaker 2: lot of people on my team. I have an assistant, 481 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:40,439 Speaker 2: I have three brand managers. I have and I'm not 482 00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:43,520 Speaker 2: gonna lie. It was the money, Okay. It was kind 483 00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:45,560 Speaker 2: of like the Red the Richest story. It was like 484 00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:47,959 Speaker 2: when I got that money, baby, I just forgot how 485 00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:51,720 Speaker 2: to do everything, and I gotta put that structure back 486 00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:55,000 Speaker 2: in because I'm still humble, you know what I'm saying. 487 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:57,440 Speaker 2: I'm very relatable. People can come up, I'm gonna hug 488 00:21:57,480 --> 00:22:00,320 Speaker 2: you because of my background. But I never want to 489 00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:02,720 Speaker 2: lose that too, because sometimes when you get money, you 490 00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:03,840 Speaker 2: can lose certain things. 491 00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:08,280 Speaker 1: And I see you super, super, super successful, and you 492 00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:11,800 Speaker 1: you're very respectful of people time, you don't have them waiting, 493 00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:15,000 Speaker 1: and I admired it, and that made me check myself. 494 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:16,400 Speaker 1: I'm like, girl, that's good. 495 00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:17,520 Speaker 3: No, that's good. I like that. 496 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:19,160 Speaker 1: I like that you were able to tell her that 497 00:22:19,560 --> 00:22:21,239 Speaker 1: and she can see that and say, I do need 498 00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:21,800 Speaker 1: to work on that. 499 00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:23,159 Speaker 3: You see the first. 500 00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:27,560 Speaker 1: No, But that's good because honestly, because somebody taught me 501 00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:29,119 Speaker 1: this a long time ago. Because I have to be 502 00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:32,320 Speaker 1: on time, you know our radio. If I'm late like everybody, 503 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:35,160 Speaker 1: even when I always plan to be here an hour 504 00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:37,440 Speaker 1: earlier than I need to because anything could go wrong. 505 00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:40,040 Speaker 1: So on the way here, I hate rushing, like I 506 00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:42,560 Speaker 1: hate the idea that I'm in traffic now I'm trying 507 00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:45,040 Speaker 1: to speed through things. Something could happen, So I'd rather 508 00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:48,000 Speaker 1: just plan to be way earlier. Even when I have 509 00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:49,760 Speaker 1: to leave here, like I have to be somewhere else, 510 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:52,040 Speaker 1: I'll tell them I got to be there half an 511 00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:53,840 Speaker 1: hour earlier than I really have to, because I don't 512 00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:55,679 Speaker 1: want them to make me late to go do the 513 00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:58,440 Speaker 1: next thing. But somebody told me early on that if 514 00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:01,120 Speaker 1: you're late, it's like a disrespect to somebody else's time, 515 00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:03,440 Speaker 1: you know, And so you never want to have somebody 516 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:05,359 Speaker 1: like waiting like Dann she don't know. It's like this 517 00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:06,080 Speaker 1: is a legend. 518 00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:08,160 Speaker 4: This is me need leads and she's on time. 519 00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:12,119 Speaker 1: You get your ass up. Come on, I ain't putting 520 00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:12,760 Speaker 1: enough work. 521 00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:15,760 Speaker 4: Yet, okay, saying like I ain't putting enough words. 522 00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:18,080 Speaker 2: So I'm like, you still need to be on to 523 00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:21,600 Speaker 2: I had to check l I check myself so and 524 00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:23,119 Speaker 2: and I'm going to work towards. 525 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:25,040 Speaker 1: And whenever I am late, I always get somebody heads 526 00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:27,160 Speaker 1: up as soon as I know I'm gonna be late. 527 00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:30,119 Speaker 1: That's her. Yes, well that's good, that's great, that's you. 528 00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:32,359 Speaker 1: I learned that now. I want to know you're going 529 00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:35,480 Speaker 1: to talk about finances on there at all, because I 530 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:38,640 Speaker 1: always like okay, because I feel like for me, that's 531 00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:40,840 Speaker 1: something that I've been really trying to like get better 532 00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:43,600 Speaker 1: at you know too for myself and thinking about things 533 00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:45,399 Speaker 1: that I've done in the past, investments that I have 534 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:47,760 Speaker 1: now and I you know, I know you guys both 535 00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:49,520 Speaker 1: have a ton of investments, but I know you have 536 00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 1: both probably blew through a lot of money too. Yeah. 537 00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:54,639 Speaker 5: Sure, I've thrown a lot of money in there, and 538 00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:57,160 Speaker 5: I often look back and wish I could get that money. 539 00:23:57,160 --> 00:23:59,440 Speaker 3: Mane like when I just do way, Yeah, why don't 540 00:23:59,440 --> 00:23:59,720 Speaker 3: I do that? 541 00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:01,880 Speaker 5: Why did I do this? Why did I throw that away? 542 00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:05,440 Speaker 5: I throw money away a lot. That doesn't make any sense, right, 543 00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:07,240 Speaker 5: So we almost need someone to come on and tik 544 00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:08,680 Speaker 5: to us finance. 545 00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:11,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, it really don't make no sense. How much we 546 00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:12,680 Speaker 4: spent on food, like. 547 00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,720 Speaker 3: To eat and drinks everything we really enjoy. 548 00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:17,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, so we have to I say that. 549 00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:20,080 Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm not like a girl that needs the most, 550 00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:22,639 Speaker 2: So let me enjoy my drinks and food every day. 551 00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:25,640 Speaker 5: Say that all the time. So let me be able 552 00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:27,200 Speaker 5: to eat and drink what I want. And I spend 553 00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:30,720 Speaker 5: money on hotels, Yeah, I travel like I love that. 554 00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:33,359 Speaker 1: I think that I work really hard on getting the 555 00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:35,760 Speaker 1: perks and upgrades so that I could get what I want, 556 00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:36,640 Speaker 1: but I have to stand. 557 00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:44,720 Speaker 2: Yourn Yes, oh y'all don't play no. When you said 558 00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:46,200 Speaker 2: the purpose, I was like, oh, she's so. 559 00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:49,639 Speaker 1: I'm I'm very disciplined when it comes to that, Like 560 00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:51,800 Speaker 1: I'll be like, okay, we want to fly den to one, 561 00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:54,600 Speaker 1: but I'm not trying to pay thirty five hundred dollars. 562 00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:56,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, I know somebody like. 563 00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:01,520 Speaker 2: Me, I just be like up book at book itt. 564 00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:04,720 Speaker 2: But my husband is like you. He balanced me out 565 00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:08,040 Speaker 2: so good. He make everything makes sense. And he told 566 00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:10,000 Speaker 2: me off hand, he was like, you're not gonna fuck 567 00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:12,240 Speaker 2: this money upright, Like I think about it every day 568 00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:14,119 Speaker 2: when I wake up because I will be living in 569 00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:17,640 Speaker 2: La La land sometimes and ordering ship and the way 570 00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:19,440 Speaker 2: it's not good blow through money. 571 00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:20,399 Speaker 1: And when I me. 572 00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:22,480 Speaker 4: And my husband, he was like, listen, you're not gonna 573 00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:23,320 Speaker 4: fuck this money up. 574 00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:27,400 Speaker 2: I had to take too many sacrifices to get these Like, okay, 575 00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:28,440 Speaker 2: calm it down. 576 00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:30,040 Speaker 3: You do need a good balance. 577 00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:34,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, Because I was like, you do need a good balance. 578 00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:36,200 Speaker 1: That's when I knew I really loved him. 579 00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:38,879 Speaker 2: I like, I really really loved him because I in 580 00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:40,679 Speaker 2: my head I would have been thinking I'm crazy, but 581 00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:42,359 Speaker 2: I wasn't I respect what he said. 582 00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:44,000 Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, and it's looking out for you, 583 00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:45,960 Speaker 4: and it's definitely looking out for me. 584 00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:48,240 Speaker 1: Yep. What would you say, are some of the money 585 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:51,399 Speaker 1: lessons that you learned? Oh my god, give me, give 586 00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:58,359 Speaker 1: me like three top money and then yeah. 587 00:25:57,440 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 3: Lessons I've learned. I don't know. 588 00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:02,120 Speaker 5: You know, I have to tell you that I learned this. 589 00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:05,399 Speaker 5: And this is gonna sound so crazy, but it's the truth. 590 00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:09,119 Speaker 5: I've always been cash heavy, right, so I use cash 591 00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:12,240 Speaker 5: for everything, Like I buy this, I buy cash money. 592 00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:14,160 Speaker 5: You know, we talked about this before I buy a car, 593 00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:15,680 Speaker 5: I buy everything. 594 00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:17,040 Speaker 1: In cash, in cash. 595 00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:18,919 Speaker 3: I used to do that. I used to do that. 596 00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:21,840 Speaker 5: I don't do that anymore because I've learned, you know, 597 00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:24,399 Speaker 5: to keep my cash and use others cash. But for 598 00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:26,720 Speaker 5: a very long time, when I started eating this guy, 599 00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:29,760 Speaker 5: he said to me, what's your credit score? And I 600 00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:32,639 Speaker 5: was like, I don't know why, Like I never cared 601 00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:35,720 Speaker 5: what my credit score. It was because I need cash heavy, 602 00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:38,359 Speaker 5: so I spent my money. And one of the things 603 00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:41,880 Speaker 5: I've learned as of it's so crazy, as a last 604 00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:45,399 Speaker 5: about the last couple of years, is now I have 605 00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:48,360 Speaker 5: a great credit score number and to use my credit more. 606 00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:51,679 Speaker 5: I actually never used my credit. I never really cared. 607 00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:53,359 Speaker 5: You know, that didn't matter to me. 608 00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:56,479 Speaker 1: I spoke to someone when I was hosting this podcast, 609 00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:57,840 Speaker 1: and she was like, if she didn't have the cash, 610 00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:00,359 Speaker 1: she wasn't doing it. I'm not buying it. She would 611 00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:03,560 Speaker 1: buy her house cash and not want to get a mortgage. 612 00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:05,800 Speaker 1: And people have to understand, like positive. 613 00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:08,520 Speaker 3: Datha, I did all of that because I've lost stuff 614 00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:11,240 Speaker 3: in the past and I didn't want to I want 615 00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:11,600 Speaker 3: to take it. 616 00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:16,080 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I feel like, for real, we are 617 00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:19,800 Speaker 2: the same person sometimes, like literally down to everything she 618 00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:22,280 Speaker 2: just said that was me up to just like a 619 00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:22,800 Speaker 2: year ago. 620 00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:26,360 Speaker 4: I just stopped doing it like I didn't. I don't 621 00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:26,920 Speaker 4: play about it. 622 00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:28,919 Speaker 2: I don't want to be because all my cars used 623 00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:31,120 Speaker 2: to get repold, I used to have to move all 624 00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:34,159 Speaker 2: the time. Like it really was my struggle story. So 625 00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:37,440 Speaker 2: I had to say, you're not that girl anymore. You're 626 00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:40,120 Speaker 2: not that fifteen year old mom struggling going from house 627 00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:42,560 Speaker 2: to house, sleeping on couches, Sierra, you. 628 00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:44,919 Speaker 1: Know, and sometimes for real, you really be need and. 629 00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:48,760 Speaker 2: Counseling because you you you don't even see your yourself 630 00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:51,840 Speaker 2: or who you are because of your trauma, you know, 631 00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:54,040 Speaker 2: like I said, with the marriages and stuff, so all 632 00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,480 Speaker 2: of that had something to do with trauma because I 633 00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:57,600 Speaker 2: would I'm not. 634 00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:00,879 Speaker 1: I wasn't. I'm paying for listen money monster. 635 00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:02,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, and now I have monthly bills. 636 00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:08,760 Speaker 1: But you know, when you have a budget and certain 637 00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:12,119 Speaker 1: things that are the same every month, you know, I 638 00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:14,879 Speaker 1: just you know what I wish like because there are 639 00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:16,720 Speaker 1: times and I was like that too. That's why I'm 640 00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:19,919 Speaker 1: saying this because I hated owing money on things, but 641 00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:22,320 Speaker 1: I did care about my credit, you know. But at 642 00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:25,119 Speaker 1: the same time, like I wish that an opportunity comes. Man, 643 00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:26,760 Speaker 1: I wish I would have had some cash for this, 644 00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:29,240 Speaker 1: but instead I paid off this thing, you know what 645 00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:31,440 Speaker 1: I mean. But you can also call out equity in it, 646 00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:33,080 Speaker 1: but that's a whole nother process. 647 00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:35,680 Speaker 5: The funny thing is, I'm obsessed with my credit scoring. 648 00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:39,920 Speaker 5: Now I am looking like it dropped? 649 00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:42,000 Speaker 3: How happened? And I'm like it went up? And why 650 00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:42,400 Speaker 3: is this one? 651 00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:42,680 Speaker 1: Lord? 652 00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:45,640 Speaker 3: I almost want somebody to stock market. Yes it really does. 653 00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:48,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's important to monitor it. And I definitely 654 00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:50,400 Speaker 1: have like the app on my phone. So I locked 655 00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:51,280 Speaker 1: my credit because. 656 00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:56,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, and I never did that. The last three years 657 00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:57,640 Speaker 5: have been like really interesting. 658 00:28:58,200 --> 00:28:58,760 Speaker 1: I've learned. 659 00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:00,800 Speaker 3: So I've learned that Angela. 660 00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:03,160 Speaker 1: You know, I like the transparency that both of you have, 661 00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:05,160 Speaker 1: and I think this is something that could be educational 662 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:07,600 Speaker 1: for a lot of people who are watching. Just also 663 00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:08,840 Speaker 1: see y'all all the homegirls. 664 00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:11,640 Speaker 5: We are homegirls, and there's a lot of homegirls that 665 00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:14,320 Speaker 5: can relate to us with paying for things, with pay 666 00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:16,800 Speaker 5: for every everything, every everything. 667 00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:20,000 Speaker 1: Now, business wise, I know you also have. First of 668 00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:21,320 Speaker 1: we got to take your cooking one day. 669 00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:24,480 Speaker 3: Oh my god, she. 670 00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:28,280 Speaker 1: Can for you do Yeah, I got it, Hurri Cane cook. 671 00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:30,320 Speaker 1: One of my goals for this year is to cook more. 672 00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:31,560 Speaker 3: I like to cook. 673 00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:34,360 Speaker 1: Yeah. But your Thanksgiving. 674 00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:37,200 Speaker 5: No, don't do that. I am so everybody asking me 675 00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:39,440 Speaker 5: that is so error doing that ship? 676 00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:43,440 Speaker 3: That is it was not Thanksgiving, it was Thanksgiving. 677 00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:44,560 Speaker 1: But why And I came in. 678 00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:47,360 Speaker 2: I came her house at like three o'clock in the morning, 679 00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:49,640 Speaker 2: busting in her house with with my men. 680 00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:54,040 Speaker 1: I was mad at my husband. I was like yeah, 681 00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:56,040 Speaker 1: she was like come on. 682 00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:57,920 Speaker 2: And then I as soon as I got older, I 683 00:29:57,920 --> 00:29:59,640 Speaker 2: said I missed my husband. 684 00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:01,920 Speaker 3: I said, call him. 685 00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:05,320 Speaker 2: I don't have time for this ship. I'm telling them 686 00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:09,760 Speaker 2: a therapist. So he came out and see her. 687 00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:12,840 Speaker 5: I have all this I do like Marcus, and they 688 00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:16,480 Speaker 5: do have the school items, yeah, that you can purchase 689 00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:18,840 Speaker 5: and see her just having to notice those things, and 690 00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:23,200 Speaker 5: was like, and I don't know it's good ever thought 691 00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:27,520 Speaker 5: the market. 692 00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:30,640 Speaker 1: But like on the episode you say she'd be bringing 693 00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:33,800 Speaker 1: her man everywhere, like if she does, okay here, Mary. 694 00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:44,520 Speaker 3: Was not lying. She is everywhere. She's literal in it. 695 00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:47,840 Speaker 2: But you know what, and it's just like her and Greg. 696 00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:50,640 Speaker 2: Greg was never leaving her side. Greg was with me 697 00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:53,040 Speaker 2: a lot. Greg was never leaving her side. And you 698 00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:55,880 Speaker 2: know they does he he does does what he does. 699 00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:58,560 Speaker 2: But if I'm traveling, if I'm doing, he's gonna be 700 00:30:58,600 --> 00:30:59,480 Speaker 2: there to protect me. 701 00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:00,640 Speaker 3: Okay. 702 00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:04,000 Speaker 1: It makes traveling fun too, because it's like everything's like 703 00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:07,160 Speaker 1: a little bay trip. I'd be like, come with me, 704 00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:09,240 Speaker 1: like come on, is you coming? 705 00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:14,120 Speaker 3: I used to have them no longer. 706 00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:17,080 Speaker 1: All right, well one day again and you can come 707 00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:21,520 Speaker 1: and again, Okay, we'll see. I felt like during the 708 00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:24,480 Speaker 1: course of this podcast going, we're gonna learn more and more. 709 00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:26,520 Speaker 3: It's not like I don't have a lot talking to me. 710 00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:28,200 Speaker 3: But like you said, I just want the one. 711 00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:30,680 Speaker 1: That you want, the one that you want. Okay, I'm 712 00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:32,240 Speaker 1: sure your dms be lit, though. 713 00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:33,400 Speaker 3: I don't really look at them. 714 00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:35,360 Speaker 5: Have you ever, because I feel like there's a lot 715 00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:37,880 Speaker 5: of weird people in your d My DM is on 716 00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:39,360 Speaker 5: fire with weirdos. 717 00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:43,520 Speaker 1: Have you ever done online dating? Now that's a show. 718 00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:46,440 Speaker 3: I feel like you would meet a lot of No. 719 00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:49,200 Speaker 1: Listen, let me tell you something. So I have three 720 00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:51,280 Speaker 1: people around me right now that are all on different 721 00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:54,040 Speaker 1: like dating apps, right and they are going on some 722 00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:56,600 Speaker 1: good dates. You face, Oh my god, like one. 723 00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:58,760 Speaker 3: I sing be a bunch of weird She's standing. 724 00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:01,960 Speaker 1: A doctor that she met and she showed me that 725 00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:05,320 Speaker 1: handsome man. She really likes him. My other friend went 726 00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:07,840 Speaker 1: out when I can't he get a date. 727 00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:11,800 Speaker 3: Think about it like this. 728 00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:14,000 Speaker 1: People hit people up in the d ms for dates 729 00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:16,720 Speaker 1: and they do things like that's the same thing, and 730 00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:18,880 Speaker 1: then you go out and meet somebody in person. But 731 00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:21,200 Speaker 1: people don't go out like they used to, you know, 732 00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:22,960 Speaker 1: and sometimes people don't have time if they. 733 00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:30,200 Speaker 5: Well, this successful musician was in my h d MS 734 00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:32,120 Speaker 5: for a minute, okay, and. 735 00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:34,680 Speaker 3: Over the holidays I saw him out with somebody else. 736 00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:39,720 Speaker 1: Oh. 737 00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:42,600 Speaker 5: I was just like, oh my God, and he had 738 00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:45,120 Speaker 5: the nerve on Christmas to d M me and be like, 739 00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:46,560 Speaker 5: Merry Christmas, baby. 740 00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:51,560 Speaker 3: I was like, you don't get out, my I see 741 00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:53,080 Speaker 3: you all on the blocks for this girl. 742 00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:57,800 Speaker 1: Oh that's wow. Well you know they play too much here? 743 00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:10,000 Speaker 1: Huh No, okay, in this country. 744 00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:13,440 Speaker 3: They might. 745 00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:17,760 Speaker 1: Well listen you guys. I appreciate y'all so much, and 746 00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:19,719 Speaker 1: I'm I promise you. I really wanted to do this 747 00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:21,760 Speaker 1: Colloud because I thought you gave a good time. Yes, 748 00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:27,440 Speaker 1: I have a boyfriend. You don't for you, I do 749 00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:29,440 Speaker 1: feel like I always have a man, but no, this 750 00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:32,600 Speaker 1: one is this is going really really well. Yeah, this 751 00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:34,520 Speaker 1: is like my man. I don't know that I want 752 00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:39,320 Speaker 1: to get married. Sorry, ser but but I. 753 00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:40,360 Speaker 3: Don't have to get married. 754 00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:43,080 Speaker 1: I don't have to, you know, you know, but if 755 00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:44,920 Speaker 1: I changed my mind and decide to, I will. But 756 00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:47,160 Speaker 1: I like you have to know, you don't. 757 00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:54,520 Speaker 2: I just feel like gods like you make sure it's 758 00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:55,720 Speaker 2: the right one though. 759 00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:57,840 Speaker 4: I told you you can't, y'all. 760 00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:00,000 Speaker 2: Okay, from now that I'm doing this interview, I officially 761 00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:02,520 Speaker 2: say my first two you can't count. Well, I'm not 762 00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:06,120 Speaker 2: gonna say my my shooter because he wasn't. But yeah, 763 00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:08,440 Speaker 2: like the other one, he definitely like I don't even 764 00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:11,120 Speaker 2: know who was that, but like I was the trauma. 765 00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:12,120 Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying. 766 00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:14,920 Speaker 2: So yeah, I'm thirty five now, so it's like, okay, 767 00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:16,640 Speaker 2: now I know what I want. 768 00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:19,640 Speaker 1: Right those were it was all like and then let 769 00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:20,600 Speaker 1: me start a situation. 770 00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:24,920 Speaker 2: It's like just because it was three guys, people, because 771 00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:27,719 Speaker 2: you date, probably you're on television and stuff, it's like, 772 00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:30,040 Speaker 2: oh my god, you've been married a hundred times. 773 00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:31,200 Speaker 3: It's like, I ain't even had this. 774 00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:33,360 Speaker 4: You gotta think I was married my whole life. I 775 00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:34,960 Speaker 4: ain't even have this with that many people. 776 00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:36,920 Speaker 1: One and a half. 777 00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:39,680 Speaker 3: I said that too. I was married for so long. 778 00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:42,120 Speaker 5: I don't feel like I've been a whole and I 779 00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:45,319 Speaker 5: really have got to be a well I'm dying to be. 780 00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:56,719 Speaker 3: It's time girl, girl. Yes you about how long have you? 781 00:34:56,719 --> 00:35:00,000 Speaker 1: Guys? Two years? That's nice? Yeah? 782 00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:00,920 Speaker 3: I love that. 783 00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:01,640 Speaker 1: He's a very girl. 784 00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:05,000 Speaker 4: Oh y'all goat really well? 785 00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:09,640 Speaker 1: Okay, he balances me. I'm not to balance him, praying, 786 00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:12,160 Speaker 1: yes he does. And you're so pretty too. 787 00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:15,239 Speaker 3: Yes, you want to have a baby, about to get it, 788 00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:16,799 Speaker 3: but you want to have a baby, I. 789 00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:19,000 Speaker 1: Don't know if I mean, if I got pregnant. You know, 790 00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:19,520 Speaker 1: it happens. 791 00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:21,080 Speaker 3: You can have a saragate. 792 00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:24,000 Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, when you come to Atlanta, I'm gonna take 793 00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:25,080 Speaker 2: you to get some little fellers. 794 00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:29,839 Speaker 1: I'm scared of it's that's so painful. No, I got 795 00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:33,160 Speaker 1: the numb and the monster. Nom girl, you don't feel 796 00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:35,759 Speaker 1: I want to get micro blady too, you do? 797 00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:37,120 Speaker 3: You don't need micro blady. 798 00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:41,480 Speaker 1: You don't, well, how natural? It's real natural, like a natural. 799 00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:44,320 Speaker 1: I'm not to come to Atlanta and hang out me 800 00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:45,080 Speaker 1: and my home girls. 801 00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:46,879 Speaker 3: I don't even have it. I don't get the micro 802 00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:47,920 Speaker 3: but I got it. 803 00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:52,799 Speaker 1: I got it because we like to be made right right, 804 00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:55,279 Speaker 1: and I would do you know what I've done. I 805 00:35:55,320 --> 00:36:01,200 Speaker 1: did this, Morpheus, I did it too. I like that here. 806 00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:06,560 Speaker 6: I was just like it's kind of like MicroC Oh, 807 00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:07,359 Speaker 6: that ship hurt. 808 00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:07,919 Speaker 1: I wasn't. 809 00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:09,960 Speaker 2: I thought it was nice though for my You know, 810 00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:13,920 Speaker 2: it was very glowy and bouncing using your own blood, and. 811 00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:16,960 Speaker 1: You put it on your face. You didn't. 812 00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:19,160 Speaker 3: I don't. I can't deal with pay. I needed some 813 00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:20,880 Speaker 3: mo you need the most. 814 00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:21,200 Speaker 1: Mom. 815 00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:25,880 Speaker 3: You hurted me. I was carrying all like a baby. 816 00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:29,239 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it was great. You do not to face. Okay, 817 00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:32,000 Speaker 1: well good, I'm excited you come. I'm we're gonna, we're gonna, 818 00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:34,440 Speaker 1: we're gonna go through a glam treatment. Yeah, okay. 819 00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:36,160 Speaker 3: You have tattoos, No. 820 00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:39,919 Speaker 1: You want one small one. I don't trying. You're trying 821 00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:41,799 Speaker 1: to correct. 822 00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:43,000 Speaker 3: I don't have. 823 00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:47,359 Speaker 1: No, you don't have anything that's not that's my edgy side. Yeah, 824 00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:49,080 Speaker 1: but you did get you had an issue with your 825 00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:50,680 Speaker 1: last because the girl. 826 00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:53,359 Speaker 2: Let me show you how big this tattoo was. It's 827 00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:57,680 Speaker 2: from here all the way to my that's your whole Yeah, 828 00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:02,200 Speaker 2: people do it was because it was so huge. I 829 00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:05,600 Speaker 2: should have never gotten into that bid. My body just rejected, 830 00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:10,839 Speaker 2: like what the hell? But she probably wented this. 831 00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:12,839 Speaker 1: I supposed to. This supposed took me like a year 832 00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:14,360 Speaker 1: to do. I did it one day. You try to 833 00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:15,920 Speaker 1: be gangstering because that monster. Know. 834 00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:16,879 Speaker 4: I ain't feel shit. 835 00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:17,760 Speaker 1: I was like ship. 836 00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:19,719 Speaker 2: But when I when it wore off, my body was 837 00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:22,839 Speaker 2: like no and went into a protection mode. And that's 838 00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:24,319 Speaker 2: how it swallow. 839 00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:26,840 Speaker 1: Up on me. Yeah. Well, I'm sorry. I don't know 840 00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:30,359 Speaker 1: if that's selling us on getting one, but we can get. 841 00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:33,680 Speaker 5: I would do one on my finger. You get when 842 00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:36,160 Speaker 5: I get my husband for this initial. 843 00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:40,720 Speaker 1: Cute cut speaking into existence. Yeah all right, well, ladies, 844 00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:44,680 Speaker 1: thank y'all so much for joining us. Can watch you guys, 845 00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:48,400 Speaker 1: Me and my Homegirl. This starts on the sixteenth January sixteenth. Yes, okay. 846 00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:50,439 Speaker 1: How many episodes have your filmed or is it still 847 00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:53,200 Speaker 1: in progress? We did too, okay, yeah, so this is 848 00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:55,440 Speaker 1: gonna job. How how frequently. 849 00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:58,960 Speaker 2: We're thinking, like twice a month? Yeah, maybe four times? 850 00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:01,360 Speaker 2: And then as we maybe four times a month. 851 00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:04,320 Speaker 1: Okay. Are you gonna have guests? You think? Are? Sometimes? 852 00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:07,120 Speaker 3: We will sometimes, but it'll be more about us focusing. 853 00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:09,000 Speaker 1: Yeah that's good because y'all have been kicking it. 854 00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:10,919 Speaker 5: I just feel like we don't want to struggle trying 855 00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:13,239 Speaker 5: to get a guest, you like, I feel like we 856 00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:16,120 Speaker 5: could just talk about everything and sometimes have a guest 857 00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:16,920 Speaker 5: sometimes not. 858 00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:20,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, yeah, all right, well I like it. Well, 859 00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:22,960 Speaker 1: thank you so many, and everybody make sure y'all listen 860 00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:25,680 Speaker 1: watch it because it is really entertaining and it's cute. 861 00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:27,799 Speaker 1: Thank you, and that's the type of energy that we need, 862 00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:28,960 Speaker 1: like good positive. 863 00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:30,719 Speaker 3: There's so many podcasts out here. 864 00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:34,239 Speaker 1: Uh yeah, I mean, ain't me and my honger I know. 865 00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:34,880 Speaker 3: I ain't worry about it. 866 00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:37,839 Speaker 1: But honestly, that's what people are listening to now because 867 00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:39,920 Speaker 1: there's so many people out here that want things that 868 00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:41,799 Speaker 1: they can relate to, that they could listen to. Yeah, 869 00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:44,080 Speaker 1: and so nothing wrong with that as long as the 870 00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:46,560 Speaker 1: cream always rises us to the top. Yeah, that's right, 871 00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:50,120 Speaker 1: that's good. All right, all right, thank you for having 872 00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:53,680 Speaker 1: thank you, thank you so much. I know we're going 873 00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:57,520 Speaker 1: to do some more together. Yeah, all right, thank you 874 00:38:57,560 --> 00:39:00,120 Speaker 1: so much. Thank you 875 00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:03,279 Speaker 3: One