WEBVTT - Second Date Update: No Questions Ever 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:04.640 Oh man, I just I had a hard time today. 0:00:04.800 --> 0:00:06.960 You're gonna hear why in the brand new episode of 0:00:06.960 --> 0:00:08.119 our Second Date podcast. 0:00:08.240 --> 0:00:09.160 It starts right now. 0:00:09.440 --> 0:00:11.440 Thank you so much for being here at the official 0:00:11.840 --> 0:00:14.360 podcast center of the world. It's Brook and Jeffreys Second 0:00:14.400 --> 0:00:17.720 Day Podcast. Yeah, that's that's all I'm gonna say about it. 0:00:17.960 --> 0:00:18.160 Wow. 0:00:18.400 --> 0:00:20.599 Today it's a little just like rage bait this man. 0:00:20.720 --> 0:00:21.360 Oh my god. 0:00:21.480 --> 0:00:23.759 Yeah, there's gonna be a lot of comments probably fore 0:00:23.840 --> 0:00:25.240 and against him, to be honest. 0:00:25.320 --> 0:00:26.360 Yeah's true. Yeah. 0:00:26.360 --> 0:00:28.440 So what do we got in our comments section? Todate 0:00:28.520 --> 0:00:29.760 beyeah him? 0:00:29.960 --> 0:00:34.000 We have Banana said what our name? Every morning I 0:00:34.040 --> 0:00:37.159 listen to your podcast on my way to Costco. I 0:00:37.159 --> 0:00:39.640 have another day of working. Thanks for being here and 0:00:39.680 --> 0:00:41.440 getting me through the day. As I hear whether or 0:00:41.440 --> 0:00:42.599 not what box is right? 0:00:42.920 --> 0:00:48.240 Question marks? Oh no, Costco? Yeah, Costco? All right, here 0:00:48.240 --> 0:00:51.559 we go in bulk y Second Date update starts right now. 0:00:51.720 --> 0:00:54.600 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Updates. 0:00:55.640 --> 0:00:58.040 You know, Brooke was just commiserating with me the other 0:00:58.120 --> 0:01:01.280 day about how hard it is for men on the 0:01:01.360 --> 0:01:04.760 dating apps. Man, she just feels every day terrible. 0:01:05.440 --> 0:01:07.280 I just can't imagine how hard it is to be 0:01:07.319 --> 0:01:07.800 a man. 0:01:08.080 --> 0:01:11.319 Yeah, she was saying it's not fair that men are 0:01:11.480 --> 0:01:15.199 treated so unfairly, struggling now more than any other time 0:01:15.240 --> 0:01:15.959 in history. 0:01:16.200 --> 0:01:18.520 I mean, they've just had such a rough go throughout 0:01:18.560 --> 0:01:19.200 the centuries. 0:01:19.400 --> 0:01:22.560 I'm like reliving the conversation all over again. And because 0:01:22.600 --> 0:01:25.640 that's kind of a widely known fact that men are 0:01:25.680 --> 0:01:28.440 struggling on the apps right now, all these different new 0:01:28.520 --> 0:01:31.600 strategies are emerging from dudes about how to deal with it, 0:01:31.959 --> 0:01:35.800 how to beat it and win the dating game, just 0:01:36.040 --> 0:01:39.640 like our listener today, Enrique, who says he is a 0:01:39.760 --> 0:01:44.280 very specific strategy that's been working like no other time 0:01:44.400 --> 0:01:45.240 in his life. 0:01:45.280 --> 0:01:47.920 And I am sure if he is on our show 0:01:47.960 --> 0:01:49.279 that means he is winning. 0:01:50.080 --> 0:01:52.480 I agree, Enrique. Welcome to the show. 0:01:53.040 --> 0:01:55.320 Hey, Hey, thanks for having me guys. 0:01:55.360 --> 0:01:57.840 Yeah, I feel like I really picked up jess sarcasm today, 0:01:57.880 --> 0:01:58.600 like I took it on. 0:01:59.200 --> 0:02:04.000 You know, you're glow. It's amazing on Brook right, Yeah 0:02:04.240 --> 0:02:07.000 it is. She's blushing a little bit. Enrique. So you 0:02:07.040 --> 0:02:10.120 mentioned in your email that you have a particular dating 0:02:10.160 --> 0:02:14.080 strategy that you claim works really well, and you're willing 0:02:14.080 --> 0:02:15.520 to share it totally. 0:02:15.560 --> 0:02:19.080 Man to rule number one, I never ask a woman 0:02:19.200 --> 0:02:22.880 any questions ever, especially on like on dating apps. It's 0:02:22.880 --> 0:02:25.360 so many pathetic guys, man, you know, like questions like 0:02:25.520 --> 0:02:27.600 how's your day? What are you doing? 0:02:28.560 --> 0:02:32.120 Why? Why is that pathetic to care about how someone's doing? 0:02:32.280 --> 0:02:32.400 Well? 0:02:32.440 --> 0:02:33.519 How do you keep the combo going? 0:02:33.600 --> 0:02:36.280 You just don't Okay, it's not. 0:02:36.200 --> 0:02:37.880 The best question in the world. But I don't think 0:02:37.960 --> 0:02:41.080 that asking questions is a bad thing. That means you're interested, 0:02:41.120 --> 0:02:42.440 you're trying to learn about that. 0:02:42.360 --> 0:02:43.880 Enrique Telbrook, why she's wrong? 0:02:43.919 --> 0:02:45.919 Go ahead, all right, all right, So I'm going to 0:02:45.960 --> 0:02:47.679 teach you guys a little lesson over here for free. 0:02:47.720 --> 0:02:48.400 Okay, okay. 0:02:49.120 --> 0:02:53.000 So, psychologically an attractive woman, weach questions, and I think 0:02:53.080 --> 0:02:56.000 it's like that man has low value. 0:02:56.720 --> 0:02:58.760 If you ask a woman a question, she thinks your 0:02:58.800 --> 0:02:59.400 low value. 0:02:59.680 --> 0:03:01.480 Well, it was just like that, very genetic, you know. 0:03:01.560 --> 0:03:03.680 So just happened to the girl that I asked out 0:03:03.680 --> 0:03:05.200 the other days. You know, I was like, I'm going 0:03:05.240 --> 0:03:07.640 to some folio at eight o'clock tonight, meet me there. 0:03:07.880 --> 0:03:12.600 I gave her the location and she did. 0:03:12.840 --> 0:03:15.119 I actually don't think that piece is a bad strategy 0:03:15.160 --> 0:03:17.359 because sometimes the back and forth about what we want 0:03:17.360 --> 0:03:20.200 to do we're going to go just get well, it 0:03:20.240 --> 0:03:20.919 gets exhausting. 0:03:20.960 --> 0:03:22.240 Excisiveness is nice. 0:03:22.960 --> 0:03:25.280 Well, he didn't ask you what you thought about his strategy, Brooks, 0:03:25.280 --> 0:03:26.280 So guess. 0:03:26.120 --> 0:03:27.840 What I'm going to give my opinion anyway, Je. 0:03:29.680 --> 0:03:32.000 You and might get along. Yes, but is this the 0:03:32.040 --> 0:03:33.200 girl that we're going to be calling? 0:03:33.560 --> 0:03:33.800 Yes? 0:03:33.880 --> 0:03:35.200 Indeed, what's her name? 0:03:35.720 --> 0:03:36.640 And Amie's Kinsley? 0:03:38.480 --> 0:03:43.000 Does your philosophy about no questions change once you're in person, 0:03:43.080 --> 0:03:44.160 face to face with her? 0:03:44.600 --> 0:03:47.160 Well, when I'm with the person in person, right, I 0:03:47.240 --> 0:03:48.200 go full narcissist. 0:03:48.240 --> 0:03:51.480 Man, Yeah, I love that. 0:03:53.120 --> 0:03:55.000 You What do you mean you go full narcissist? 0:03:55.640 --> 0:03:58.000 I just talked about myself again, just the whole thing. 0:03:58.040 --> 0:04:01.440 If you present yourself as the best option, she will 0:04:01.480 --> 0:04:02.040 pursue you. 0:04:02.840 --> 0:04:05.360 So you're like the best froyo flavor in the in 0:04:05.360 --> 0:04:05.760 the case. 0:04:06.760 --> 0:04:08.160 Yeah, you know what I'm talking about. 0:04:08.200 --> 0:04:10.240 Bro? What do you what do you think makes you 0:04:10.280 --> 0:04:10.880 the best option? 0:04:10.960 --> 0:04:11.040 Like? 0:04:11.080 --> 0:04:12.880 What do you brag about when you're with Kensley? 0:04:13.280 --> 0:04:14.760 And like I said, again, you know, I don't ask 0:04:14.800 --> 0:04:17.279 her any questions. I just make it about me, me 0:04:17.480 --> 0:04:17.720 and me. 0:04:17.960 --> 0:04:18.599 That's it. 0:04:18.760 --> 0:04:21.400 Okay, basically that's the whole line. I don't send pump 0:04:21.440 --> 0:04:22.120 to nobody. 0:04:22.360 --> 0:04:25.560 Okay, and by your strategy, she thinks you're so great. 0:04:25.600 --> 0:04:28.320 From that conversation, she's going to want to pursue you 0:04:29.400 --> 0:04:33.640 and never failed, buddy, except for right now, because you've 0:04:33.720 --> 0:04:34.520 reached out to us. 0:04:34.800 --> 0:04:37.520 Well, Kinsley is the first one. That's why I'm reaching 0:04:37.560 --> 0:04:38.239 out to you. 0:04:38.240 --> 0:04:41.839 Can I ask how long is this froyo date with Kinsley? 0:04:41.960 --> 0:04:42.039 Like? 0:04:42.360 --> 0:04:44.320 How much of it does she have to How long 0:04:44.320 --> 0:04:45.080 did she have to suffer? 0:04:45.200 --> 0:04:45.880 Yes? 0:04:46.160 --> 0:04:48.040 I mean, look put it this week, we had our froyo, 0:04:48.200 --> 0:04:50.160 we went on a walk and less than half an 0:04:50.160 --> 0:04:53.600 hour we were making out. Oh wow, they're gonna last 0:04:53.680 --> 0:04:56.520 too long because I had another day lined up like 0:04:56.560 --> 0:04:57.279 two hours later. 0:04:57.400 --> 0:04:58.360 Oh my gosh. 0:04:58.560 --> 0:04:59.960 Yeah, did you even do that? 0:05:00.080 --> 0:05:02.200 Okay, so you had back to back dates on the 0:05:02.240 --> 0:05:04.919 same night. Could she have possibly found out about the 0:05:04.960 --> 0:05:05.440 other date? 0:05:06.360 --> 0:05:09.040 I don't think she found out because I didn't tell 0:05:09.040 --> 0:05:11.240 her anything. And again, it was just a date. I thought. 0:05:11.279 --> 0:05:13.080 He was like, oh I told her about it because 0:05:13.080 --> 0:05:15.680 of course, yeah, well me loved it. 0:05:15.680 --> 0:05:16.760 It would fit the philosophy. 0:05:16.839 --> 0:05:18.880 Yeah, it's nice to you leave a little mystery for 0:05:19.000 --> 0:05:22.159 Kinsley to find out about you later. I think that's 0:05:22.320 --> 0:05:24.520 I think that's pretty cool. So have you since that 0:05:24.600 --> 0:05:26.320 date with Kinsley? Have you texted her? 0:05:26.800 --> 0:05:28.960 I mean, I don't do the texting thing. Man's well, 0:05:29.200 --> 0:05:30.520 lo low value you. 0:05:30.520 --> 0:05:31.640 Guys do Wait? 0:05:31.839 --> 0:05:35.200 Wait, if you haven't texted her or called her or anything, 0:05:35.440 --> 0:05:36.920 how do you know she doesn't want to go out 0:05:36.960 --> 0:05:37.480 with you again? 0:05:38.160 --> 0:05:40.280 That's why I'm calling you, guys. I mean, you guys 0:05:40.320 --> 0:05:42.440 get paid to help us out, don't you, Not by 0:05:42.520 --> 0:05:46.680 you but one? You know. So if you don't have me, 0:05:46.960 --> 0:05:47.680 you don't have a job. 0:05:48.600 --> 0:05:50.200 Oh so we should be grateful towards you. 0:05:50.760 --> 0:05:53.240 I hey, thank you so much. We just want to 0:05:53.279 --> 0:05:55.640 thank you. Yeah, yeah, we're very welcome. 0:05:55.800 --> 0:05:57.360 I just to make sure everybody has a job. At 0:05:57.360 --> 0:05:57.960 the end of the day. 0:05:58.400 --> 0:06:01.039 We'll be nice. He's paying all of our bills, you know. 0:06:01.200 --> 0:06:01.719 I will say. 0:06:02.640 --> 0:06:07.040 Oftentimes behavior like this is just masking insecurity, and so 0:06:07.320 --> 0:06:10.160 I am sure that you are a lovely person who 0:06:10.200 --> 0:06:11.400 maybe just needs a good hug. 0:06:12.000 --> 0:06:14.400 Brooke, Brooke, I just got a reminder, you're married. You 0:06:14.440 --> 0:06:18.760 can't do nothing with me. I respect married women. 0:06:18.839 --> 0:06:20.359 Okay, maybe shocking, but. 0:06:20.440 --> 0:06:22.120 That is not a concertive mind right now. 0:06:22.320 --> 0:06:26.000 Okay, but real quick, it's been how many days since 0:06:26.040 --> 0:06:30.640 you haven't texted Kinsley there are They was three days ago, three. 0:06:30.520 --> 0:06:32.600 Days and she hasn't reached out to you. You're in 0:06:32.680 --> 0:06:33.919 the stalemate, right, you. 0:06:34.000 --> 0:06:36.799 Know, Usually they reached out like in between four maybe 0:06:36.920 --> 0:06:39.839 five hours, but this is a little strange. So again, 0:06:40.200 --> 0:06:42.560 that's why I'm calling you, guys, if not only bothering 0:06:42.640 --> 0:06:43.360 calling anybody. 0:06:43.640 --> 0:06:46.640 Okay, yeah, okay, well. 0:06:48.160 --> 0:06:50.360 He does have another radio show book two hours later. 0:06:50.600 --> 0:06:53.840 Yeah, but even still, it is a privilege that we 0:06:54.000 --> 0:06:57.760 get to do this on your behalf. Thank you so 0:06:57.960 --> 0:07:01.479 much for giving us the honor of Kinsley and asking 0:07:01.560 --> 0:07:02.880 her all the questions that you're not. 0:07:02.920 --> 0:07:04.800 Willing to and teaching us such life lessons. 0:07:04.920 --> 0:07:09.520 Thank you. We're going to continue this journey together when 0:07:09.560 --> 0:07:12.000 we demonstrate what a high value man you are with 0:07:12.080 --> 0:07:14.080 your second date update. Right after this hold on man 0:07:14.240 --> 0:07:14.600 Brook and. 0:07:14.640 --> 0:07:18.480 Jeffrey in the morning second date updates, We're on. 0:07:18.520 --> 0:07:23.400 The phone with a very unique, self confident individual named 0:07:23.720 --> 0:07:28.000 Enrique who's adopted a dating strategy that involves one main rule. 0:07:29.000 --> 0:07:34.480 Never ask a woman any questions ever, because that demonstrates 0:07:34.560 --> 0:07:36.920 low value as a man. Wait. 0:07:37.160 --> 0:07:38.280 I don't know there's a rule or not, but you 0:07:38.320 --> 0:07:40.200 also can't text her after the date to find out 0:07:40.240 --> 0:07:41.080 if you can go out again. 0:07:41.520 --> 0:07:46.160 Yeah, because that's a question kind of implying there except 0:07:46.240 --> 0:07:49.520 for one recent date with a woman named Kinsley where 0:07:49.720 --> 0:07:52.760 they went to fro Yo and made out passionately, but 0:07:52.880 --> 0:07:56.200 it has been three days. She has not texted him since, 0:07:56.680 --> 0:07:59.360 and also he hasn't texted her either, because again it 0:07:59.360 --> 0:08:01.400 would demons straight low value. 0:08:01.520 --> 0:08:03.560 A radio station not low value yea. 0:08:04.760 --> 0:08:07.240 And since he can't ask the question, why aren't you 0:08:07.320 --> 0:08:10.679 calling me for another date? Because remember, he doesn't ask questions, 0:08:11.080 --> 0:08:13.400 he's getting us to ask it for him. 0:08:13.480 --> 0:08:14.560 Yeah, we're grateful for that. 0:08:14.760 --> 0:08:18.480 Remember that's also the Brook could not be more thrilled 0:08:18.640 --> 0:08:21.040 that we are doing this on your behalf in Regay. 0:08:21.080 --> 0:08:22.160 So thank you so much. 0:08:22.680 --> 0:08:23.960 No, you're very very welcome. 0:08:25.160 --> 0:08:27.320 I did not say that and ask your questions. 0:08:27.320 --> 0:08:29.440 Why don't you just tell her like call me back? 0:08:29.720 --> 0:08:34.079 Yeah, but then he's the one reaching out first. Sorry pathetic. 0:08:34.400 --> 0:08:38.400 Yeah yeah, talk about you desperate and Brooke. 0:08:38.520 --> 0:08:39.559 I'm glad you're learning. 0:08:39.760 --> 0:08:44.439 Yeah, I gotta tell you your play is not that complicated. 0:08:47.240 --> 0:08:48.760 I think that he took that as a compliment. 0:08:52.000 --> 0:08:54.400 Simple and easy, breezy works every time. 0:08:54.720 --> 0:08:56.439 I'm just gonna be kind of quiet on this one, 0:08:57.600 --> 0:08:59.880 all right, no problem. 0:09:00.600 --> 0:09:04.400 Before we actually call her, let's just like remind everyone 0:09:04.480 --> 0:09:07.000 not to blow in Rique's cover, because I'm sure he's 0:09:07.000 --> 0:09:09.520 saying all this stuff to us. It probably didn't come 0:09:09.559 --> 0:09:10.959 out on his date to Kinsley. 0:09:11.080 --> 0:09:13.280 He didn't say, I can't ask you any questions because 0:09:13.320 --> 0:09:15.120 it's against my moral dating code. 0:09:15.320 --> 0:09:16.800 Yeah, let's keep that between us. 0:09:16.920 --> 0:09:19.120 If she just noticed, I actually would love to not 0:09:19.240 --> 0:09:22.000 repeat it ever again on the same page. 0:09:22.080 --> 0:09:25.120 Perfect, We are ready to go. Let's dial her right now. 0:09:32.480 --> 0:09:32.760 Hello. 0:09:33.679 --> 0:09:39.720 Hey is this Kinsley? Yes, Hey Kinsley. We're a radio show. 0:09:39.880 --> 0:09:43.640 We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning and Oka, Hi, 0:09:43.840 --> 0:09:44.319 good morning. 0:09:45.400 --> 0:09:49.440 Hi. Why are you calling me so happy? 0:09:49.679 --> 0:09:49.920 Yeah? 0:09:50.480 --> 0:09:53.120 Sound very positive. We're calling because we do a segment 0:09:53.200 --> 0:09:55.839 on this show called the Second Date Update. Okay, and 0:09:55.960 --> 0:09:58.959 if you're familiar with that, but basically, it's where we 0:09:59.000 --> 0:10:01.000 can help out listeners who've been out on a date 0:10:01.040 --> 0:10:04.199 with somebody recently, but they're not getting a chance to 0:10:04.280 --> 0:10:07.199 meet up a second time. We can try and reach 0:10:07.240 --> 0:10:08.880 out and figure it out if there's a reason for it. 0:10:09.640 --> 0:10:13.880 That's so free. Yeah, thank you for saying that. I 0:10:14.000 --> 0:10:15.640 do think it's kind of sweet. We do kind of 0:10:15.679 --> 0:10:21.199 God's work over here. Well, bottom line is a guy 0:10:21.280 --> 0:10:23.640 named Enrique has asked us to reach out to you. 0:10:25.920 --> 0:10:26.479 Enrique. 0:10:28.400 --> 0:10:29.640 Okay, well you're excited. 0:10:30.760 --> 0:10:32.920 What did he say say about me? 0:10:33.640 --> 0:10:34.440 Did you always know. 0:10:34.440 --> 0:10:36.400 When someone goes up at the end of every question, 0:10:36.679 --> 0:10:37.560 they're excited. 0:10:37.720 --> 0:10:37.920 Yeah. 0:10:38.080 --> 0:10:40.480 He told us about your date to the Froyio shop 0:10:40.679 --> 0:10:42.280 and said it went really well. 0:10:42.440 --> 0:10:44.839 Oh wait, you guys did have a really good makeout session. 0:10:44.880 --> 0:10:47.600 He did tell us that it was really good. 0:10:48.200 --> 0:10:52.160 So he did mention to us that the date was 0:10:52.320 --> 0:10:55.400 kind of brief, so he wanted to spend more time 0:10:55.440 --> 0:10:56.200 with you, but couldn't. 0:10:56.320 --> 0:10:58.160 I would love to hear what you have to say 0:10:58.200 --> 0:10:59.400 about Enrique and the date. 0:11:01.080 --> 0:11:04.839 He seems really nice, like a really busy guy, you know, 0:11:05.080 --> 0:11:07.760 so we couldn't spend a lot of time together, but 0:11:09.080 --> 0:11:12.280 you know, very confident and I really like that. 0:11:12.679 --> 0:11:16.400 Okay, okay. So the reason that we're doing this call 0:11:16.559 --> 0:11:20.200 is because Enrique was under the impression that you would 0:11:20.240 --> 0:11:23.199 have reached out to him and tried to organize another 0:11:23.280 --> 0:11:25.680 meetup and you don't seem. 0:11:27.480 --> 0:11:31.360 Yeah, I can't do that because the gate was kind 0:11:31.440 --> 0:11:32.320 of expensive. 0:11:33.160 --> 0:11:36.600 The Froio day I'm with you, like you get those 0:11:36.640 --> 0:11:38.079 toppings on there and then you put it on the 0:11:38.120 --> 0:11:40.640 way station and you're like, whoa, but did we just 0:11:40.720 --> 0:11:42.360 spend over ten dollars on a cup. 0:11:42.240 --> 0:11:46.160 Of frozen but you didn't your h scream? 0:11:46.160 --> 0:11:48.040 I tell you if you get those strawberries, it's like 0:11:48.160 --> 0:11:48.880 any sure? 0:11:49.000 --> 0:11:50.719 Why are you saying it's expensive? 0:11:51.200 --> 0:11:51.360 Well? 0:11:51.400 --> 0:11:54.079 It was expensive because I had to pay for both 0:11:54.160 --> 0:11:56.959 of us and I wasn't really expecting that. 0:11:57.480 --> 0:12:00.760 Yeah, and wait, you didn't you offer to pay? 0:12:01.040 --> 0:12:01.240 Right? 0:12:02.880 --> 0:12:05.160 I don't really remember how it went, but I did 0:12:05.320 --> 0:12:08.040 end up paying, but I didn't mind. 0:12:08.440 --> 0:12:11.679 Oh okay, fine, if you offered and he took you 0:12:11.760 --> 0:12:13.400 up on it and you're okay with it, So why 0:12:13.440 --> 0:12:15.040 aren't you calling him? What does that have to I 0:12:15.120 --> 0:12:16.640 don't get the expensive part of the date. 0:12:17.160 --> 0:12:20.199 Well, it's just that he said that next time he 0:12:20.360 --> 0:12:23.480 really wanted to go to Ruth Chris and I only 0:12:23.559 --> 0:12:26.120 work a part time job, so I can't really afford 0:12:26.200 --> 0:12:28.520 that right now? For it? 0:12:29.320 --> 0:12:32.800 Are you sure you would be the one that paid 0:12:32.840 --> 0:12:34.560 for a date that was his idea? 0:12:35.080 --> 0:12:39.040 Yeah, yes, he's the next time you meet that I 0:12:39.160 --> 0:12:41.360 would cover it and they would be at Ruth Chris 0:12:42.160 --> 0:12:42.640 he said you. 0:12:42.640 --> 0:12:46.599 Would cover it, and you're okay, So you said it, 0:12:46.800 --> 0:12:49.559 so you're open to that total concept. It's just you 0:12:49.640 --> 0:12:52.360 don't have the money right now to afford the next 0:12:52.480 --> 0:12:54.280 date within mercy for a date. 0:12:55.040 --> 0:12:57.679 Yes, so I didn't want to call him until I 0:12:57.840 --> 0:12:58.319 was ready. 0:12:58.640 --> 0:13:06.080 Oh awful, I see what's happened. Yeah, fix it? Fix 0:13:06.200 --> 0:13:08.120 what I mean, it's all pretty much fixed. She just 0:13:08.200 --> 0:13:10.800 doesn't have enough money. And I'm sure he would be 0:13:10.960 --> 0:13:13.559 understanding if he had just known that upfront, because I 0:13:13.600 --> 0:13:15.959 need to tell you Kinsley. Enrique is on the other 0:13:16.040 --> 0:13:18.760 line of this phone call, listening, waiting to talk to you. 0:13:19.800 --> 0:13:22.480 He is, yeah, and he'd better be embarrassed. 0:13:23.280 --> 0:13:23.640 Enrique. 0:13:25.520 --> 0:13:38.679 Stuff, Enrique, I'm so sorry I haven't called you. 0:13:39.080 --> 0:13:40.120 You're apologizing. 0:13:40.240 --> 0:13:40.400 You know. 0:13:40.960 --> 0:13:44.160 Yes, I paid for the kid, and I left that tip. 0:13:44.559 --> 0:13:46.760 You know, I said clip regular and then you said 0:13:46.840 --> 0:13:50.560 they had really really good service, so I tipped extra. Well, 0:13:50.720 --> 0:13:52.439 I just really wasn't budgeting for that. 0:13:53.640 --> 0:13:55.840 Did you just say that he asked you to tip 0:13:56.000 --> 0:13:58.040 more on top of the tip you already paid. 0:13:58.800 --> 0:14:02.000 Yeah, because he could be really really good service for us. 0:14:02.360 --> 0:14:03.200 That's a self. 0:14:05.679 --> 0:14:07.000 Well, you know, we need to take care of the 0:14:07.040 --> 0:14:08.600 employees who take care of this country. 0:14:09.000 --> 0:14:12.480 There's no we in that she paid for it. That's 0:14:12.520 --> 0:14:13.720 not a wee situation. 0:14:14.240 --> 0:14:15.280 Yeah, but we were together. 0:14:15.640 --> 0:14:19.440 No, no, Enrique, Why aren't you going to pay for Ruth? 0:14:19.520 --> 0:14:21.880 Chris? If it's your idea and it's where you want 0:14:21.920 --> 0:14:25.040 to go, then it's just kind of an unwritten rule 0:14:25.080 --> 0:14:26.920 in dating. And then you're the one that pays for it, 0:14:28.360 --> 0:14:31.600 says who you know. It's just like it's like common courtesy. 0:14:31.760 --> 0:14:34.000 You know, Hey, guys, you haven't given him a really 0:14:34.080 --> 0:14:37.000 hard time. He has a different opinion and these he 0:14:37.120 --> 0:14:39.920 is in a different way, all right. 0:14:40.440 --> 0:14:43.600 Her voice got so high at the end that I 0:14:43.760 --> 0:14:45.880 wasn't actually clear exactly what she said. 0:14:45.960 --> 0:14:48.600 Well, she doesn't appreciate you coming after her, man Like, yeah, 0:14:49.120 --> 0:14:50.480 she's got to stand up for her. Guy. 0:14:50.720 --> 0:14:52.720 Here's the thing, Kensley. You don't want to be with 0:14:52.800 --> 0:14:55.320 someone who's going to make you go broke just to 0:14:55.640 --> 0:14:57.440 go on a date with them, you know what. 0:14:57.680 --> 0:15:00.760 That's why I'm saving though, so I can ford it later. 0:15:01.000 --> 0:15:04.960 Oh god, yes, okay, the date money behind it. I'm 0:15:05.000 --> 0:15:06.720 just happy we were able to open up a channel 0:15:06.760 --> 0:15:09.880 of communication between these two and finally sort out what 0:15:10.200 --> 0:15:10.880 was the problem. 0:15:11.400 --> 0:15:13.920 Just ask him about the date. Oh, let's get through this. 0:15:14.120 --> 0:15:16.520 At the risk of sounding low value as a man, 0:15:16.560 --> 0:15:17.560 I'm going to ask a question. 0:15:17.920 --> 0:15:19.600 One second. Can I just say one thing though? 0:15:23.040 --> 0:15:23.280 Yeah? 0:15:23.720 --> 0:15:29.040 Wait, if not to you guys, okay, okay, another statement, Ley, 0:15:29.320 --> 0:15:33.440 I love your lip. Okay, oh wow? All right, Well 0:15:33.520 --> 0:15:35.760 this is perfect. So at this point we'd officially like 0:15:35.880 --> 0:15:37.880 to ask. I mean, normally i'd ask Kinsley, but I 0:15:37.960 --> 0:15:40.640 know where her head's at, So I'll ask Enrique, would 0:15:40.720 --> 0:15:44.160 you go out on a date with Kinsley to Ruth 0:15:44.240 --> 0:15:46.360 Chris Steakhouse. Kinsley will pay for it? 0:15:46.520 --> 0:15:49.560 We pay for it. Yeah, don't you dare? Don't you dare? 0:15:49.720 --> 0:15:50.680 We are paying for it. 0:15:50.880 --> 0:15:52.960 Wait one second? Wait wait, wait, wait, wait one second, 0:15:53.000 --> 0:15:53.640 hold on, hold on. 0:15:53.680 --> 0:15:55.040 I'm the one who has to agree. 0:15:54.840 --> 0:15:57.160 Right, yes, ye, we're paying for it. I don't care 0:15:57.200 --> 0:15:57.800 what Jeff said. 0:15:57.840 --> 0:16:00.840 We'll pay for no, no, no, no, Brook for the date. 0:16:01.080 --> 0:16:04.720 Then I say, yes, okay, Brooke, out of her own 0:16:04.800 --> 0:16:06.240 personal wallet, will pay for it. 0:16:06.320 --> 0:16:08.240 And Brook oh hell no, I won't. 0:16:10.200 --> 0:16:11.520 I mean Kinsley won't stay. 0:16:11.920 --> 0:16:15.200 Thank you Brooks so much. This will go really long 0:16:15.320 --> 0:16:18.120 way because I'm only working part time right now, but 0:16:18.280 --> 0:16:20.280 I really appreciate you helping us out. 0:16:20.840 --> 0:16:23.480 Brook is so nice. That's what I love about her. 0:16:23.600 --> 0:16:25.160 Kensley email me. 0:16:27.880 --> 0:16:32.440 We've broken Brook officially. Second date update, total success. 0:16:32.840 --> 0:16:35.000 Wow, jeff did you guys learn something today? 0:16:35.520 --> 0:16:36.640 Did we learn the guys? 0:16:36.720 --> 0:16:38.760 That sounded like a question to me, bro Are you 0:16:38.920 --> 0:16:40.040 changing your game on me? No? 0:16:40.160 --> 0:16:41.840 No, no, I'm just saying that you guys learn Look 0:16:41.880 --> 0:16:43.320 who's paying for the date at the end? 0:16:43.360 --> 0:16:43.640 Did they? 0:16:43.960 --> 0:16:47.280 Brooke? You are the master? 0:16:51.360 --> 0:16:53.640 After I email Kinsley, there's not going to be another date, 0:16:55.360 --> 0:16:59.760 that's what you think. Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:17:01.360 --> 0:17:03.720 Text in seventy five nine to two says why wouldn't 0:17:03.760 --> 0:17:08.359 Brooks stand up for that lady? More? Another says not cool? 0:17:08.480 --> 0:17:10.120 Brook just lost respect. 0:17:11.720 --> 0:17:14.359 On listen, here's the thing. Some people don't want to 0:17:14.400 --> 0:17:15.000 be stood up for. 0:17:15.520 --> 0:17:17.840 Yeah, and you know what, I'm gonna come to Brooks 0:17:17.880 --> 0:17:21.800 defense here. I think Brooke tried and maybe she just 0:17:21.920 --> 0:17:24.600 wasn't as articulate as she is most of the time 0:17:24.680 --> 0:17:27.520 in these types of situations. But please, if you want 0:17:27.520 --> 0:17:30.359 to blame anybody for what just happened, put it on me. 0:17:30.560 --> 0:17:32.400 Oh I thought you're gonna put it on Kinsley again. 0:17:32.560 --> 0:17:35.359 No, yeah, it was my fault for listening to what 0:17:35.560 --> 0:17:36.960 Kinsley said she wanted. 0:17:37.600 --> 0:17:39.800