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Speaker 1: social media etiquette? Well? I don't. I don't know social

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Speaker 1: He goes this book. Ain't got nothing to do with you, man. No,

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Speaker 1: that day right there. You'll understand that day right there.

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Speaker 1: And as far as you're saying the day you almost

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Speaker 1: got fired, you know that's never gonna happen. Is that

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Speaker 1: just our benefit? I think he'd have fied me had

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Speaker 1: if it wasn't my sister's son. You just made my

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Speaker 1: case and my people have been gone case. Yeah, the same.

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Speaker 1: I think I could That would be good, Steve. What

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Speaker 1: what was that, Steve? Oh? I could get him that.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that would be reversally. What are we doing

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Speaker 1: here here? Yeah? No, no, no, no, no, no. I

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Speaker 1: knew the franking coming coming up at the top of

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Speaker 1: the hour. Entertainment news, that's all coming up right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening Steve morning show coming up in twenty minutes.

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Speaker 1: Franklin will be our special. Yes, our family first. Yes,

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Speaker 1: but at first Steve Harby Nation. Listen up, Steve, what

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Speaker 1: you got for us? All right? You know like we'll

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Speaker 1: hall ever do anything for fathers. So for Sand and Soul,

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Speaker 1: I want y'all to listen up. I'm offering a special

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Speaker 1: Father's Day package. This is called the Father's Day ninety

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Speaker 1: nine dollars deposit Special. I am doing this all the

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Speaker 1: way up until the end of June, June thirtieth, so

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Speaker 1: you got almost a full month to reserve your spot

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Speaker 1: for Sand and Soul Festival. This is how you do it.

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Speaker 1: Get all the kids together, get your mama together, get

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Speaker 1: somebody to bitter Daddy to you y'all, get y'all money together,

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Speaker 1: and reserve him a spot to come to the Sand

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Speaker 1: and Soul Festival for a five day, full night, all

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Speaker 1: inclusive vacation with me. Obviously, I'm Dave Boy at the

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Speaker 1: Hard Rock Hotel, Casino and Punta Connor, Dominican Republic. Your

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Speaker 1: spot can be held for only ninety nine dollars. I

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Speaker 1: will extend this father. I was extend this special for

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Speaker 1: Father's Day special all the way to the end of

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Speaker 1: the month. You can go to Steve Harvey sandonsoul dot com,

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Speaker 1: or you can die this number right here. Eight hundred

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Speaker 1: operators are on board listening right now for your call.

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Speaker 1: Eight hundred six eight four twenty eight twenty five. You

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Speaker 1: can die one eight hundred six eight four twenty eight

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Speaker 1: twenty five. Now listen to me. It is Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Sanding Soul. We're getting close now. This is June. We're

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Speaker 1: doing this in October. That gives you about three months

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Speaker 1: to get it paid. You can do it for a

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Speaker 1: great Father's Day gift. Do something good for your husband

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Speaker 1: man that's been out here grinding and hustling, taking kid

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Speaker 1: of them kids. Do something good for y'all's daddy that

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Speaker 1: don't get the same things mama's d coweness. You know,

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Speaker 1: I got it. Mama's is something extra. I got that.

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Speaker 1: But this date October tenth through the fourteenth Columbus Date weekend,

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Speaker 1: Shirley Strawberry is gonna be there, Calling for real, gonna

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Speaker 1: be their junior, gonna be Mississippi Monica, don't be there.

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Speaker 1: It's an all star studied lineup comedy show of Got

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Speaker 1: Phone Splash Party concerts at the parties, got the beauty bar,

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Speaker 1: we got cigar rolling, we got day cruises, we got everything.

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Speaker 1: It's a casino. It's free food and drink, twenty four hours,

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Speaker 1: free room service. You got pools, you got the beach.

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Speaker 1: So much to see and do. Ninety nine dollars reserves

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Speaker 1: your spot today. Let's stop playing, Steve Harvey Nation. We

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Speaker 1: got a couple hundred rooms left. Your daddy should be

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Speaker 1: one of them all. You can just use the special

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Speaker 1: and give it to your mama. What the hell I

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Speaker 1: kill it? Don't make me no difference. I'm promoting daddies,

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Speaker 1: but him just a Father's Day special. Just lie, y'all

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Speaker 1: coming as a couple of here. Daddy, I'm just telling

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Speaker 1: you how the game fin the goal. So let's quit

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Speaker 1: mess around. It's just for fathers. Lie lie, Steve, are

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Speaker 1: you encouraging people to lie? Absolutely when the true you

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Speaker 1: can get it to your daddy. But I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: lie to you. Ain't like that wasn't for your daddy.

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Speaker 1: You ain't getting the ninety nine dollars special. I don't care.

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Speaker 1: Let's speak clear. I just want to see y'all. Damn. Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: we have a good time at just saying the Soul Festival.

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Speaker 1: Go to Steve Harvey saying thesoul dot com. That's Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey saying thesoul dot com. You can reserve. Make a

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Speaker 1: reservation if you're just real old and you don't like

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Speaker 1: doing stuff online. Eight hundred six eight four twenty eight

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Speaker 1: twenty eight twenty five six eight four twenty five. That's

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Speaker 1: the number. Get it done, sell it out back both

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvid ninety nine dollars special, whoa here you go?

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Speaker 1: All right, take us to the news. Come on, let's

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Speaker 1: get ladies and gentlemen. Miss Anne Tripp, thank you very much, everybody.

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Speaker 1: This is a trip with the news today. Well. President

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Speaker 1: Trump and his family still in London, where they were

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Speaker 1: given a tour of bucking I Palace yesterday. Later on

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Speaker 1: they were honored to buy the Queen with a state dinner.

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Speaker 1: Visits by American presidents always remind us of a close

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Speaker 1: and longstanding friendship between the United Kingdom and the United States.

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Speaker 1: This week we commemorate a mighty endeavor of righteous nations

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Speaker 1: and one of the greatest undertakings in all of history.

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Speaker 1: Trump was referring to the upcoming seventy fifth anniversary of

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Speaker 1: D Day, which turned the tide to World War Two.

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Speaker 1: Outside bucking and Palace, though, things were not so cordial

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Speaker 1: and calm. There were some Trump supporters out there. They were,

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Speaker 1: but the overwhelming majari. The protesters were chanting things like hey, hey,

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Speaker 1: ho ho, Donald Trump has got to go, or simply

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Speaker 1: this go home, and they promised to be out there.

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Speaker 1: There are business meetings that the president is to attend

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Speaker 1: later on this morning, and then the protesters say they're

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Speaker 1: going to be back off. So offices in Virginia, the

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Speaker 1: city officers were closed yesterday to honor the memory of

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Speaker 1: the twelve municipal workers who were shot and killed by

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Speaker 1: a colleague who had just tendered his resignation. Some officers

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Speaker 1: are expected to reopen today. However, building too that's where

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Speaker 1: the massacre occurred, is to be closed indefinitely. They say,

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Speaker 1: you know, they're looking for clues and everything like that.

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Speaker 1: The FEDS are involved. Meanwhile, Virginia Beach Mayor Bobby Dwyer

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Speaker 1: says residents are not saddened, they're defeated. You no, we

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Speaker 1: can't let this horrible incident define us, because you know

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Speaker 1: you take a look where people are vulnerable, movie theaters,

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Speaker 1: malls and everything. Hopefully it's just an unfortunate anomaly and

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Speaker 1: we're going to go back to being Virginia Beach and

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Speaker 1: be strong. I don't know anyway. Could it be Karma,

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Speaker 1: a white West Virginia woman who made headlines three years

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Speaker 1: ago for her racist post about former First Lady Michelle Obama.

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Speaker 1: Well lest a woman is heading to prison for embezzling

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Speaker 1: flood disaster benefits. Pamela Taylor's her name. She's the former

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Speaker 1: Clay County Development Director. She was sentenced to ten months

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Speaker 1: in a federal lock up and find she's also sentenced

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Speaker 1: to home confinement for at least two months after she

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Speaker 1: gets out. After that, she's also on the supervise release

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Speaker 1: for three whole years. Pamela Taylor was placed on leave

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Speaker 1: initially from her county job for years ago after referring

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Speaker 1: to Missus Obama as an ape in heels. Clay County

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Speaker 1: Mayor Beverly Whaling agreed and eventually was forced to resign

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Speaker 1: her job as a mayor. Finally, today is National Hug

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Speaker 1: your Cat Day. Fluffy, Come on, stop it ouch anyway?

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Speaker 1: Now back to the Steve Harvey Boarding Show. You're listening

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Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Joining us this morning is

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Speaker 1: a very very very special guess. He's our brother poor

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Speaker 1: teen time Grammy Award winner, songwriter, producer and the host

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Speaker 1: of Sunday's Best. He's got a brand new album, Long

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Speaker 1: Live Love, and it's available now. He's joining us to

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Speaker 1: tell us all about the new music. Please welcome the

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Speaker 1: one and only. Come on, come on, come on the legendary. Yes, sir,

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Speaker 1: mister Kurt Franklin, My man, you know man, it's it's

553
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Speaker 1: I just need for y'all to really stop putting in

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Speaker 1: my bio. Singer. Y'all, y'all never say a singer, you know,

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Speaker 1: curse you ain't you ain't you ain't you ain't Kurt,

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Speaker 1: you ain't. There's a fifth that I have because I

557
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:45,719
Speaker 1: never heard the words singer, you know, man, And so

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Speaker 1: I need when y'all gonna grow up in a right Kirk?

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Speaker 1: Are you singing on this album? Kurt? Is that lasting?

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Speaker 1: Are you singing on this I'm laughing at this conversation

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Speaker 1: because everybody's like, what are you telling? Look, look, I've

562
00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 1: always called you guys a little Christian, and you know

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Speaker 1: I'm amazed by the work. Ya. No, I mean he

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Speaker 1: knows he's called me worse. He has called me worse.

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Speaker 1: I don't believe. I am amazed by what you do.

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Speaker 1: But we just can't put singer in there. We would

567
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Speaker 1: like to. I mean, for Jay, Jay, do you want

568
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Speaker 1: me to do you want me to redo the answer

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Speaker 1: and put singing in God put it in there, because

570
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:31,640
Speaker 1: because he wants it, he wants it. Put it in there.

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00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:35,839
Speaker 1: Let's let let me try. Hold on, hold on, don't

572
00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:39,440
Speaker 1: be giving me no, no, no, no kid, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I just don't give it. You know, if you don't feel,

574
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Speaker 1: if you don't feel like I got them, loose the risk.

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Speaker 1: If that's not what you're here when you're oh lord,

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Speaker 1: I mean if you have left that. Man, how y'all doing?

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Speaker 1: Good morning? Good morning? How you doing? Kirk? Good man?

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Speaker 1: It is anny to talk to y'all. Man, y'all are

579
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Speaker 1: just the dopest And you know y'all have made me

580
00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:06,319
Speaker 1: always Sam, But y'all have done so much for my career. Man,

581
00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:09,080
Speaker 1: y'all don't even understand. Man, Thank y'all so much. Well,

582
00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:11,520
Speaker 1: you know what now you you you're a beastow boy.

583
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Speaker 1: You ain't stopped, man and Kirk, people don't know it. Man,

584
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Speaker 1: you go way back, way back. We s going double

585
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Speaker 1: dates with these girls when we were uh and we

586
00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:23,840
Speaker 1: were like in our early twinnies when no, no, no,

587
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Speaker 1: we were like nineteen, Like what yes, yeah, man, Kirk, Man,

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Speaker 1: I was, I was at Texas and University's great and

589
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Speaker 1: let me tell y'all, so shut up, Kirk. Can you

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Speaker 1: stick around for a couple of minutes, Man, I'll be

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00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 1: more than all right, all right, more would be incredible.

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Speaker 1: The singing Kirk Franklin right after this, that's good. You're

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Speaker 1: listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, here we are

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Speaker 1: with our family member. You're you're not a special guest,

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Speaker 1: You're our family. Kirk Franklin. We love you so much

596
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Speaker 1: and and thank you for your time. And you have

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Speaker 1: a new album, new album that's called um Long Live,

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Speaker 1: Long Lived Love and the single is love Theory. And

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Speaker 1: you're starting a tour on the d out of eleven

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Speaker 1: twenty five city tour. Yeah, this is not a little

601
00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:26,839
Speaker 1: tour at all. This is not a little tour at all.

602
00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:29,080
Speaker 1: You're doing you do big tours. That's what I like

603
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Speaker 1: about you. I saw Kirk Franklin perform. That wasn't a joke.

604
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:40,319
Speaker 1: That was just saying it just tours are huge. I

605
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 1: mean it really am. If a tune for a song

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Speaker 1: hits you in the middle of probably dealing with your

607
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:51,439
Speaker 1: family or something important, do you stop what you're doing

608
00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:54,440
Speaker 1: to somewhat, you know, file the tune away, or do

609
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:57,200
Speaker 1: you finish doing what you're doing. It's not you know,

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Speaker 1: stop for a second. And like if I'm sitting at

611
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Speaker 1: the table, you know, if we're the restaurant and something

612
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:05,319
Speaker 1: hits me, I would just excuse me all and I'll

613
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:06,920
Speaker 1: just kind of, you know, get my phone down and

614
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Speaker 1: just kind of humb the idea, and you know, like

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Speaker 1: everybody around me, you know, has come to kind of

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Speaker 1: laugh at it or you know, come to you know,

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Speaker 1: accept it because I'm picking up the chat, so you know,

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Speaker 1: so you know, yeah, but but but I don't do

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Speaker 1: it a lot. It's what I was when my kids

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Speaker 1: were younger, because I didn't do it around them. I

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Speaker 1: just had to just trust gods can get it back

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Speaker 1: to me because I didn't want to interrupt the time

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Speaker 1: I would be spending with the kids, because you know,

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Speaker 1: your kids go through so much with your traveling and

625
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Speaker 1: being gone. You don't want to, you know, always make

626
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Speaker 1: it seem like that you always at worked. So you know,

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Speaker 1: I started trying to do it all right, tell us

628
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:50,919
Speaker 1: how those albums different any other albums. Well, you know, more,

629
00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 1: just more than anything, just the polarization of the world

630
00:40:54,120 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 1: right now, and just how we're so isolated and separated

631
00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:01,760
Speaker 1: and and I just attention between us, the human beings

632
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 1: and heaven it's ever been. You know, there's just a

633
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:06,680
Speaker 1: lack of empathy. And you know, we've become this canceled

634
00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:10,839
Speaker 1: in generation where you're quick to cancel people and you're

635
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:14,080
Speaker 1: easier to forget that the same people you cancel you

636
00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:17,839
Speaker 1: may need when somebody's trying to cancel you, because at

637
00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:19,919
Speaker 1: some point you're gonna make a mistake in your life too.

638
00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:23,000
Speaker 1: And so you know, there's just this lack of compassion

639
00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:26,160
Speaker 1: for each other. And it's hard to love people that

640
00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:30,080
Speaker 1: are not lovable when you're not reminded that you're not

641
00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:33,360
Speaker 1: always lovable. And still, the creator of love loves you

642
00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:36,520
Speaker 1: inspired that, And so I'm trying to say that you

643
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:40,279
Speaker 1: can't have a general conversation about love without including God,

644
00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:42,879
Speaker 1: who is the creator of love. And if God loves

645
00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:45,600
Speaker 1: you when your breasts think when your life stink. You know,

646
00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:49,319
Speaker 1: you can at least be able to say that if

647
00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:51,799
Speaker 1: God can love me in spite of my mess, I

648
00:41:51,840 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 1: should be able to have more patience and compassion with

649
00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:57,320
Speaker 1: other people and give them what God gives me every day.

650
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:04,600
Speaker 1: Be the call. Yeah, yeah, I'm just trying to make

651
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:06,879
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to make up for that singing. I'm

652
00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 1: just trying to make up you're doing that. Overall it

653
00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:15,399
Speaker 1: sounds like classic Kirk Franklin. What we've come to love

654
00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:19,239
Speaker 1: about Kirk Franklin and your music. Well, thank you, thank

655
00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:21,560
Speaker 1: you, you you know, and and and you know, I'm just

656
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:23,440
Speaker 1: the first one just to need a grace man. And

657
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:25,960
Speaker 1: and I'm just trying to do songs on the album.

658
00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 1: They're just trying to point people upward because I got

659
00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:31,319
Speaker 1: to touch her in prison right now. You know, I

660
00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:33,960
Speaker 1: have a biological father that I never knew, never liked,

661
00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:36,200
Speaker 1: that gave it for adoption, and I got a call

662
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:37,920
Speaker 1: that he was down of cancer, and I had to

663
00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:40,799
Speaker 1: dig out how to forgive. And even more than man,

664
00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:43,680
Speaker 1: I don't know, I have another family member. Not too

665
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:45,440
Speaker 1: long ago, I had to drive down the rehab I

666
00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:47,680
Speaker 1: didn't have my team drive him. I put him on

667
00:42:47,680 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 1: the plane and rented a car and we drove to

668
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:52,239
Speaker 1: a city on that skip of town and put my

669
00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:55,200
Speaker 1: put somebody I loved in rehab. So it's like I'm

670
00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:58,239
Speaker 1: living real life issues every day and i just want

671
00:42:58,239 --> 00:43:00,600
Speaker 1: people to know that this is what they saw come from.

672
00:43:00,640 --> 00:43:03,319
Speaker 1: I'm not writing songs on the beach sipping my ties.

673
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:05,879
Speaker 1: I'm in the middle of the struggle with you, knowing

674
00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:08,279
Speaker 1: that knowing that what God did for me, he can

675
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:10,839
Speaker 1: do for you. And that's why you don't need to sing, Kirk,

676
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:13,560
Speaker 1: because you still get your message across. You know what

677
00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:17,560
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Yeah, you still have your story and what

678
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:19,960
Speaker 1: I love. You're still the host of Sunday Best on

679
00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:23,640
Speaker 1: BA I love that show. I love it, love it,

680
00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:27,080
Speaker 1: love it, and it's returning for a ninth season. Kurt's

681
00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 1: new album, Long Live Love is available right now. You

682
00:43:31,719 --> 00:43:35,120
Speaker 1: can find out about his tour dates, kicks off in Austin,

683
00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:38,560
Speaker 1: Texas on July eleven. Kirk Franklin dot com is where

684
00:43:38,600 --> 00:43:41,440
Speaker 1: you can find out information. Kirk Franklin, we love it.

685
00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:46,760
Speaker 1: Thank you, Kirk Franklin. You know we love you. Nephew

686
00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:49,479
Speaker 1: Tommy is up next with the frank phone call. That's

687
00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:52,719
Speaker 1: all coming up right after this. You're listening to the

688
00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:56,960
Speaker 1: stew coming up at the top of the hour. Right

689
00:43:57,000 --> 00:44:00,400
Speaker 1: about four minutes after. It's today's Strawberry letter. The sub checked,

690
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:08,200
Speaker 1: my husband is an embarrassing butthead. Hey, we all heard that,

691
00:44:09,880 --> 00:44:14,279
Speaker 1: I love this. My husband is an embarrassing butthead. But

692
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:17,799
Speaker 1: right now, the nephew is here with today's frank phone call.

693
00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:22,080
Speaker 1: What you got now? We are going to garnish your wages?

694
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:29,560
Speaker 1: Garnish your wages? Ever had your wages garnish? Yep? I

695
00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:32,839
Speaker 1: used to think that was like garnish was putting something

696
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:36,880
Speaker 1: on it, like man, Yeah, they put some on it.

697
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:41,879
Speaker 1: It'd be garnish. Yeah, deduction on it. It'd be something

698
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:44,560
Speaker 1: on your check. It's called deduction. Your check don't look

699
00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:49,920
Speaker 1: the same. It's shocking too. Do they take all over

700
00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:53,640
Speaker 1: the dog or just someone now? They get whatever they want.

701
00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:58,120
Speaker 1: They may leave you something. Everybody's behind this break yes,

702
00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:00,120
Speaker 1: or you try to hear them getting on there that

703
00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:04,560
Speaker 1: money after you get garnish. Yeah, all right, kay, let's

704
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:08,040
Speaker 1: write it garnish. Waits Hello, I'm trying to reach a

705
00:45:08,880 --> 00:45:14,120
Speaker 1: place my name is Uh from the District Attorney's office. Yes, Hi,

706
00:45:14,239 --> 00:45:16,680
Speaker 1: how are you giving you a call today, ma'am? Trying

707
00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:19,960
Speaker 1: to get some updates from you. Your husband, mister is

708
00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:24,799
Speaker 1: he uh still not working at this point? No, sir? Okay?

709
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:27,319
Speaker 1: How long has he been out of work so far? Ma'am?

710
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 1: Could you could you give me an update on this January? Okay?

711
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:35,200
Speaker 1: All right, here's what we're having. The problems that we're having.

712
00:45:35,239 --> 00:45:39,160
Speaker 1: You have a son, I think it's his name is

713
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:42,920
Speaker 1: as well, fourteen years old? Am I right? Okay? The

714
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:48,000
Speaker 1: child support is not being paid for from mister for

715
00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:51,040
Speaker 1: the for mister young and then we're trying to get

716
00:45:51,040 --> 00:45:53,360
Speaker 1: this thing rectified. Now. The problem that we're going to

717
00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:54,839
Speaker 1: have in the reason why we're giving you a call

718
00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:58,359
Speaker 1: is considering that your husband hasn't worked since the first

719
00:45:58,360 --> 00:46:00,760
Speaker 1: of the year. And I haven't done the research yet.

720
00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:03,200
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just not pulling up your file. I

721
00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 1: haven't done the research to see how many months in

722
00:46:05,200 --> 00:46:08,840
Speaker 1: the rears he is on child support. But it just

723
00:46:09,040 --> 00:46:13,920
Speaker 1: started once, um, he lost his child. Okay, Well, the

724
00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:16,520
Speaker 1: problem that we're going to have is they're gonna start

725
00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:21,239
Speaker 1: taking uh child support actually, and I hate to give

726
00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:24,120
Speaker 1: you this news out of your check until I don't

727
00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:26,120
Speaker 1: understand how that self, because I have my own kids.

728
00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:29,280
Speaker 1: I understand that. I understand. But they're gonna be garnishing

729
00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:32,560
Speaker 1: your check, ma'am, until this until your husband can get

730
00:46:32,600 --> 00:46:34,400
Speaker 1: this thing back on his feet and get it rectified

731
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:36,799
Speaker 1: and get him up to parts four of all the

732
00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:38,399
Speaker 1: payments that are hurt that are not and when will

733
00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:40,399
Speaker 1: this be taking place? Because if that's the case, I'm

734
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:43,440
Speaker 1: not gonna be working because that's not gonna happen. I

735
00:46:43,480 --> 00:46:46,319
Speaker 1: have my own children, so I don't understand how that's

736
00:46:46,360 --> 00:46:48,520
Speaker 1: for self. I don't don't have anything to do with

737
00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:50,839
Speaker 1: child for it or anything like that. And if that's

738
00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:52,879
Speaker 1: the case, I'm not gonna be working as right now.

739
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:54,960
Speaker 1: The garnishing of the check is gonna come from you.

740
00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:57,920
Speaker 1: And you are at the hospital, correct now, that's not

741
00:46:58,239 --> 00:47:00,719
Speaker 1: it's not where you work. I'm not gonna be working

742
00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:03,640
Speaker 1: as a right now. That's what I just teld you.

743
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:05,160
Speaker 1: So y'all do whatever you have to do, and I

744
00:47:05,320 --> 00:47:06,800
Speaker 1: do whatever I have to do on my end. Okay,

745
00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:09,000
Speaker 1: well hold on it. You're willing to quit your job,

746
00:47:09,040 --> 00:47:12,279
Speaker 1: I'm not understanding this. You're sure white because I'm not

747
00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:14,200
Speaker 1: gonna be taking care of someone else's kids and I

748
00:47:14,239 --> 00:47:17,120
Speaker 1: have my own, So how that's right? So somebody else

749
00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:19,160
Speaker 1: can take care of my eyes then, because I'm not

750
00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:21,279
Speaker 1: gonna be doing it, you're so right? All right? Well,

751
00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:22,879
Speaker 1: I mean I'm just saying, you know, don't I don't

752
00:47:22,920 --> 00:47:24,680
Speaker 1: want you to be upset with you. I don't want

753
00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:26,200
Speaker 1: you to be upset with me. I can be able

754
00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:29,960
Speaker 1: to contact you, Okay. You know I'm gonna I'm gonna

755
00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:32,040
Speaker 1: let you know this. It's a bit of information. You're

756
00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:35,280
Speaker 1: still gonna if you're quitting your job. Man, you guys

757
00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:38,560
Speaker 1: are still gonna be liable for the child's support. Okay,

758
00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:41,520
Speaker 1: well that's fine, not you guys, because it's not my children.

759
00:47:41,640 --> 00:47:46,760
Speaker 1: Say okay, it's not you guys. He will be liable, Okay,

760
00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:49,719
Speaker 1: because I don't, I mean, can't I stept you hold

761
00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:52,400
Speaker 1: one moment because I need to stemp outside if that's okay,

762
00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:54,880
Speaker 1: or if there's a number I can contact you back. Okay,

763
00:47:54,920 --> 00:47:57,799
Speaker 1: are you able to step outside right now? Um? Yes,

764
00:47:57,840 --> 00:48:00,319
Speaker 1: but I'm gonna get on the elevator and it's gonna conma,

765
00:48:00,680 --> 00:48:03,440
Speaker 1: so call Okay, let's do this. Why don't you step outside.

766
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:06,000
Speaker 1: I'll wait for you to call. Give me about forty

767
00:48:06,000 --> 00:48:07,600
Speaker 1: five seconds, but I'm gonna give a call to my

768
00:48:07,640 --> 00:48:17,560
Speaker 1: manager on this situation. Okay, please do all right, thank you? Hello, okay, missus, Yes, sir,

769
00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:20,360
Speaker 1: all right again from the District Attorney's office. Okay, you

770
00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:23,000
Speaker 1: can hear me now, yes, I can. Can you hear me? Yes, ma'am,

771
00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:25,080
Speaker 1: I sure can. Now, let's get to the bottom of everything.

772
00:48:25,080 --> 00:48:28,239
Speaker 1: I couldn't get my manager on the phone, but I'll

773
00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:31,480
Speaker 1: keep trying. I just want to know. I mean, that's

774
00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:34,360
Speaker 1: I'm just a messenger letting you know. I know you

775
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:36,440
Speaker 1: are and I hate to be so short with you,

776
00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:39,560
Speaker 1: but I don't understand because we're not even getting enough.

777
00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:42,200
Speaker 1: Ain't come coming in as of right now. And you're

778
00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:45,080
Speaker 1: speaking of I have three children that I'm struggling to

779
00:48:45,120 --> 00:48:47,800
Speaker 1: take care of, all my owners trying somebody from the district.

780
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:52,880
Speaker 1: But and you're speaking of that she's going to be

781
00:48:53,239 --> 00:48:55,759
Speaker 1: deducting money fro I'm gonna share my check for his

782
00:48:55,920 --> 00:49:00,359
Speaker 1: last worth. What's your something? What's your name? And who

783
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:03,160
Speaker 1: is there someone else I need to speak with? No,

784
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:05,560
Speaker 1: we're on the phone. I have that's my sister taking

785
00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:11,720
Speaker 1: care of b we're probat of District Attorney County. Ma'am. Yeah,

786
00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:17,160
Speaker 1: shene the Office of Child Support Service. She works with

787
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:19,600
Speaker 1: the obstive child support. Okay, man, I speak with you.

788
00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:23,000
Speaker 1: Let me speak with your sister. Man, So what do

789
00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:25,120
Speaker 1: you I mean, how is this going to be done?

790
00:49:25,160 --> 00:49:27,360
Speaker 1: Because that's not gonna leave me to cast to be

791
00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:29,799
Speaker 1: able to support my own kids. Well, John, I mean

792
00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:33,120
Speaker 1: in my own home. I understand that. You know, maybe

793
00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:35,800
Speaker 1: this is a problem with having a person hanging around.

794
00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:38,800
Speaker 1: Not a person because has raised the seat about his

795
00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:42,239
Speaker 1: kids all their life. This is a jealous mother that

796
00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:49,680
Speaker 1: decided optim eighteen years that she wanted to go around

797
00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:54,200
Speaker 1: sessions because that's the support order. That's my support order for.

798
00:49:55,200 --> 00:49:57,839
Speaker 1: What in the hell is going on with those people

799
00:49:57,880 --> 00:50:02,759
Speaker 1: in the background? Hello this nephew. Time it didn't hit

800
00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:06,040
Speaker 1: the fan. No, I couldn't get to go out, but

801
00:50:06,120 --> 00:50:08,600
Speaker 1: her sister was there. Don't say nothing to him. Made

802
00:50:08,600 --> 00:50:10,120
Speaker 1: her get off the phones. I need you to call

803
00:50:10,200 --> 00:50:13,040
Speaker 1: on three ways. They was calling somebody. They probably calling downtown,

804
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:18,040
Speaker 1: gonna get themselves in mo trouble. Okay, Hello, called you back.

805
00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:21,239
Speaker 1: What's wrong? I called you back. I tell you about it.

806
00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:23,040
Speaker 1: I'm about know you want You're gonna talk to her

807
00:50:23,120 --> 00:50:26,319
Speaker 1: right now? Who is this? And I told you you're

808
00:50:26,320 --> 00:50:29,959
Speaker 1: gonna pay this child support? Not me? Get the best

809
00:50:29,960 --> 00:50:31,879
Speaker 1: way you can't. He's talking me, called me. I'm gonna

810
00:50:31,920 --> 00:50:36,600
Speaker 1: pay this half. You're gonna make me. You're gonna make

811
00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:39,319
Speaker 1: me whip your behind this money? Tell him? You trying

812
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:40,800
Speaker 1: out who he is? You want to? You want to

813
00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:43,399
Speaker 1: try it to my lady? Yeah, I want to. Where

814
00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:46,200
Speaker 1: is your You don't have a lawyer? You know well

815
00:50:46,280 --> 00:50:49,120
Speaker 1: you don't have one because I know I don't. Who happens? However?

816
00:50:49,239 --> 00:50:59,520
Speaker 1: You got my noveland's something for your job? Who is

817
00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:02,839
Speaker 1: this nephew? Timing from the Steve Harvey Morning. Yo, ya

818
00:51:03,160 --> 00:51:27,480
Speaker 1: just got Frank Bob baby beause y're calling the footage?

819
00:51:28,400 --> 00:51:33,919
Speaker 1: Well you just found that. Give me a black male

820
00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:40,920
Speaker 1: all out. I gotta ask, I gotta ask all y'all something.

821
00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:50,560
Speaker 1: What is the baddest radio show in the land? And

822
00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:55,359
Speaker 1: there it is, ladies and gentlemen, Franks again. We're all

823
00:51:57,520 --> 00:52:00,520
Speaker 1: shut the room down with that one. Look, tell yall something.

824
00:52:00,560 --> 00:52:04,160
Speaker 1: Let me tell youall something. As fast weekend, my youngest son, Jordan,

825
00:52:04,520 --> 00:52:10,040
Speaker 1: we had his birthday. He turned eight years old. That's

826
00:52:10,120 --> 00:52:12,840
Speaker 1: birthday party in the backyard. And when the little kids asked,

827
00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:15,720
Speaker 1: what did your daddy do? He play on the phone?

828
00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:19,200
Speaker 1: What why did you tell him that he played on

829
00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:28,000
Speaker 1: the phone, that his friend. Yeah, that's my dad plays

830
00:52:28,040 --> 00:52:35,279
Speaker 1: on the phone. See where you hearing this, Tommy, Tommy, Yeah,

831
00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:40,719
Speaker 1: I mean that's that's exactly what you do. Jordan's right,

832
00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:42,879
Speaker 1: his daddy play on the phone. You know what many

833
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:47,760
Speaker 1: times people have told you you played too, damn every day,

834
00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:50,160
Speaker 1: Jordan eight And then I already figured out my daddy

835
00:52:50,239 --> 00:52:53,120
Speaker 1: play on the phone. Somebody gonna hurt my dad. I

836
00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:55,319
Speaker 1: don't known him too because I love my father. But

837
00:52:55,560 --> 00:52:57,440
Speaker 1: somebody's gonna hurt my daddy, then I'm gonna have to

838
00:52:57,480 --> 00:53:03,720
Speaker 1: grow up his secret revenge. Goodness? All right, thank you, nephew.

839
00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:06,640
Speaker 1: Up next, it is my Strawberry letter for today. The

840
00:53:06,800 --> 00:53:11,040
Speaker 1: subject my husband is an embarrassing butthead we'll get into

841
00:53:11,080 --> 00:53:14,520
Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey

842
00:53:14,560 --> 00:53:18,360
Speaker 1: Morning Show. Time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen.

843
00:53:18,360 --> 00:53:22,480
Speaker 1: If you need advice on relationships, on dating, sex, work, parenting,

844
00:53:22,560 --> 00:53:26,600
Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve Harvey

845
00:53:26,640 --> 00:53:30,520
Speaker 1: FM and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading

846
00:53:30,560 --> 00:53:32,520
Speaker 1: your letter live on the air, just like we're gonna

847
00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:36,040
Speaker 1: do this one right here today. Huh. Buggle up, hold

848
00:53:36,080 --> 00:53:38,000
Speaker 1: on tight, We got it for you. Here it is.

849
00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:41,560
Speaker 1: It's the Strawberry Letter. Thank you, nephew. Subject my husband

850
00:53:41,800 --> 00:53:46,400
Speaker 1: is an embarrassing butt head. Dear Stephen Shirley. My husband

851
00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:50,080
Speaker 1: likes acts like an absolute child at times, and I

852
00:53:50,160 --> 00:53:53,160
Speaker 1: can't deal with it. It's like having a third child

853
00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:56,279
Speaker 1: and I am so tired of him embarrassing me. The

854
00:53:56,320 --> 00:53:59,359
Speaker 1: most recent incident went down over the weekend at my

855
00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:03,120
Speaker 1: pastor house. We were invited to a barbecue and the

856
00:54:03,160 --> 00:54:05,400
Speaker 1: pastor was a little late because of a wedding he

857
00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:07,799
Speaker 1: had to do. There was plenty of food on the

858
00:54:07,840 --> 00:54:10,720
Speaker 1: grill and we always let the elders of the church

859
00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:14,120
Speaker 1: eat first. The first lady fixed the pastor a plate

860
00:54:14,440 --> 00:54:16,520
Speaker 1: and sat it to the side and covered it with

861
00:54:16,640 --> 00:54:19,600
Speaker 1: saran wrap. When it came time for my husband and

862
00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:23,120
Speaker 1: I to fix a plate, only chicken legs, wieners, and

863
00:54:23,160 --> 00:54:26,680
Speaker 1: burgers were left. My husband began to whine about not

864
00:54:26,800 --> 00:54:30,239
Speaker 1: getting the pieces of chicken that he wanted, so he

865
00:54:30,320 --> 00:54:33,360
Speaker 1: went on a hunt for more chicken. He asked several

866
00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:35,920
Speaker 1: people if they would eat a leg in exchange for

867
00:54:36,000 --> 00:54:39,160
Speaker 1: a thigh or breast that was on their place. I

868
00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:44,160
Speaker 1: was so embarrassed. But what he did next was a shocker.

869
00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:48,560
Speaker 1: Was the shocker his ignorant up. One of the mothers

870
00:54:48,560 --> 00:54:51,120
Speaker 1: of the church told him that he could not do that,

871
00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:55,120
Speaker 1: and his reply was, I got my belongings and told

872
00:54:55,200 --> 00:54:59,160
Speaker 1: him we needed to leave. Needless to say, I am

873
00:54:59,200 --> 00:55:02,040
Speaker 1: going to be thus center of gossip at the church. Now.

874
00:55:02,719 --> 00:55:05,480
Speaker 1: My husband does things like this all of the time.

875
00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:09,239
Speaker 1: Everything has to go his way or he starts complaining

876
00:55:09,320 --> 00:55:11,759
Speaker 1: and whining. How can I get him to see that

877
00:55:11,800 --> 00:55:14,520
Speaker 1: it's not all about him? I am sick of him

878
00:55:14,680 --> 00:55:21,160
Speaker 1: embarrassing me. Please help. Oh I'm embarrassed for you, I

879
00:55:21,280 --> 00:55:24,279
Speaker 1: really am. This is crazy, This is really stupid. I mean,

880
00:55:24,320 --> 00:55:27,399
Speaker 1: your husband, it has to be the rudest person ever.

881
00:55:27,760 --> 00:55:32,560
Speaker 1: He's disrespectful to everyone, including your pastor. How dare he

882
00:55:32,680 --> 00:55:35,799
Speaker 1: go to the pastor's plate that's set aside and go

883
00:55:35,920 --> 00:55:38,400
Speaker 1: in there and get the pastor's food or anyone's food

884
00:55:38,440 --> 00:55:40,879
Speaker 1: for that matter. But most of all the pastor. Your

885
00:55:40,920 --> 00:55:46,239
Speaker 1: husband's selfish. He's inconsiderate of you, his wife and I

886
00:55:46,280 --> 00:55:49,439
Speaker 1: think you're absolutely right. He is an embarrassing butt head,

887
00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:52,000
Speaker 1: and you have every right to be upset and to

888
00:55:52,080 --> 00:55:54,239
Speaker 1: get your things and leave. And yes, you will be

889
00:55:54,280 --> 00:55:59,080
Speaker 1: the subject of gossip. The problem is, what are you

890
00:55:59,080 --> 00:56:01,239
Speaker 1: going to do about this? I mean, have you talked

891
00:56:01,280 --> 00:56:04,200
Speaker 1: to your husband about it? Does he know how you

892
00:56:04,280 --> 00:56:07,000
Speaker 1: feel and what you want and what you don't want

893
00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:09,439
Speaker 1: him to do? I mean, I'm guessing you have talked

894
00:56:09,480 --> 00:56:13,359
Speaker 1: to him about it, but he's not hearing you. He's

895
00:56:13,400 --> 00:56:17,600
Speaker 1: not paying any attention to you, and selfish people often

896
00:56:17,640 --> 00:56:21,120
Speaker 1: don't because, like you said, it's it's always about them.

897
00:56:21,640 --> 00:56:23,759
Speaker 1: So you're gonna have to do something else to get

898
00:56:23,800 --> 00:56:26,560
Speaker 1: his attention to make him hear you. I don't know

899
00:56:26,600 --> 00:56:29,520
Speaker 1: if that means leaving him or if that means threatening

900
00:56:29,560 --> 00:56:33,279
Speaker 1: to leave him. It depends on whether he straightens up

901
00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:37,080
Speaker 1: and stops doing stupid stuff after you have some sort

902
00:56:37,120 --> 00:56:41,080
Speaker 1: of com serious conversation with him. Because he's out of control.

903
00:56:41,160 --> 00:56:44,840
Speaker 1: He's so out of order, so rude and disrespectful. This

904
00:56:44,960 --> 00:56:49,400
Speaker 1: is crazy and what was chicken legs are okay? And

905
00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:52,080
Speaker 1: burgers and wieners. You're not at home, You're at somebody

906
00:56:52,120 --> 00:56:57,520
Speaker 1: else's house. Steve were your manners. Steve, I don't get this,

907
00:56:58,160 --> 00:57:02,200
Speaker 1: I really really don't. I'm confused. How old is this too?

908
00:57:03,400 --> 00:57:05,839
Speaker 1: But now if y'all at a church function, and y'all

909
00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:08,600
Speaker 1: at elders in all this, I'm assuming he's of age.

910
00:57:09,520 --> 00:57:13,000
Speaker 1: He's not sixteen, but sixteen year old people wouldn't do that.

911
00:57:13,760 --> 00:57:16,840
Speaker 1: Your husband is a child at times, and you can't

912
00:57:16,920 --> 00:57:19,800
Speaker 1: deal with it. He didn't just start being a child.

913
00:57:21,600 --> 00:57:26,040
Speaker 1: He'd been childished the whole time. It's just you've overlooked it.

914
00:57:26,160 --> 00:57:28,520
Speaker 1: Now you've married him, and he ain't got to act

915
00:57:28,560 --> 00:57:30,240
Speaker 1: a certain way. No, most so, now he'd do it

916
00:57:30,280 --> 00:57:33,000
Speaker 1: all the time. Okay, this weekend you went over to

917
00:57:33,080 --> 00:57:39,280
Speaker 1: your pastors. We were invited to a barbecue. You got

918
00:57:39,360 --> 00:57:43,680
Speaker 1: invited to your pastor's house. Pastor was a little bit

919
00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:46,840
Speaker 1: late because he had a word to do. You got over,

920
00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:49,120
Speaker 1: there was a lot to eat. You had food all

921
00:57:49,160 --> 00:57:52,360
Speaker 1: on the grill. Now, y'all's church. What y'all do is

922
00:57:52,440 --> 00:57:56,440
Speaker 1: y'all let the elders of the church eat first. Just

923
00:57:56,720 --> 00:58:03,320
Speaker 1: you know, sometimes it's respectful thing to do. But the

924
00:58:03,400 --> 00:58:07,120
Speaker 1: first lady, now, the first lady, fool case he don't know,

925
00:58:08,360 --> 00:58:12,520
Speaker 1: is the wife of the pastor. Now she know her

926
00:58:12,600 --> 00:58:18,080
Speaker 1: husband late because he working. He fixed the pastor a plate,

927
00:58:18,880 --> 00:58:22,120
Speaker 1: set it to the side, coven ince around wrap. Then

928
00:58:22,160 --> 00:58:24,040
Speaker 1: when you came time for y'all to fix the play

929
00:58:24,080 --> 00:58:25,960
Speaker 1: because he'd low down on the total pot because he

930
00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:31,280
Speaker 1: don't come to church much. Now he now he went out. Now, hey,

931
00:58:31,320 --> 00:58:34,440
Speaker 1: all at the back quiet and eight rusher board than

932
00:58:34,480 --> 00:58:38,520
Speaker 1: eight deacons did the eight parking lot ministry of eight

933
00:58:39,200 --> 00:58:45,120
Speaker 1: role committed in eight baptism committed in eight Senior Citizens

934
00:58:45,240 --> 00:58:48,720
Speaker 1: Quad and eighth the joy Landers, the Baby Quad and

935
00:58:48,960 --> 00:58:53,960
Speaker 1: eighth everybody in line, the damn Male Quartet, the Singing

936
00:58:54,040 --> 00:58:58,560
Speaker 1: Sensationals Data and eight with their name the Singing Sensation

937
00:58:59,640 --> 00:59:04,280
Speaker 1: Data eight. They big ass, all them big. So when

938
00:59:04,320 --> 00:59:07,080
Speaker 1: you get up there, it's time for y'all to fix

939
00:59:07,160 --> 00:59:10,640
Speaker 1: the plate. Ain't nothing but chicken, legs, wings and burger's left.

940
00:59:11,800 --> 00:59:14,240
Speaker 1: Your husband's all wine ain't because he didn't get the

941
00:59:14,320 --> 00:59:17,120
Speaker 1: piece of chicken. He wanted, Well, your ass don't come

942
00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:20,480
Speaker 1: to church enough to get the damn piece. You won't,

943
00:59:21,680 --> 00:59:24,000
Speaker 1: so he went on a hunt from old chicken. But

944
00:59:24,160 --> 00:59:27,720
Speaker 1: he walked around asking people if they would either leg

945
00:59:27,840 --> 00:59:30,160
Speaker 1: in exchange for the thigh or breast that was on

946
00:59:30,240 --> 00:59:32,880
Speaker 1: their plate. Hook on the people, place on the eight man,

947
00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:35,160
Speaker 1: you want the leg right here? So I had that

948
00:59:35,280 --> 00:59:38,000
Speaker 1: thigh or that or that or that breath, I got

949
00:59:38,080 --> 00:59:43,280
Speaker 1: a leg. Who wanted the leg? Y'all that? Damn you stupid.

950
00:59:43,400 --> 00:59:45,000
Speaker 1: But when I come back, let me tell you how

951
00:59:45,040 --> 00:59:49,720
Speaker 1: ignorant he is. I want to hear it, all right.

952
00:59:49,800 --> 00:59:52,560
Speaker 1: Part two of Steve's response coming up at twenty three

953
00:59:52,600 --> 00:59:56,680
Speaker 1: after the hour, Today's Strawberry Letters, subject my husband is

954
00:59:56,720 --> 00:59:59,880
Speaker 1: an embarrassing butt head. We'll get back into it right

955
01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:06,640
Speaker 1: after this. You're listening, all right, Steve, Let's recap today's

956
01:00:06,640 --> 01:00:13,720
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letters, subject to my husband is an embarrassing butt head. Listen.

957
01:00:13,720 --> 01:00:16,680
Speaker 1: Man went over to the passages, how they got invited

958
01:00:16,720 --> 01:00:19,680
Speaker 1: to the barbecue this damn food. Went over here with

959
01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:22,840
Speaker 1: his wife to pass a little late. The pastor's wife

960
01:00:22,880 --> 01:00:25,280
Speaker 1: made him a plate, put it on the sad rap

961
01:00:25,560 --> 01:00:27,720
Speaker 1: because he late. He out there doing church work. He

962
01:00:27,840 --> 01:00:31,160
Speaker 1: savors saving hoods. When the play the food, No listen

963
01:00:32,920 --> 01:00:35,440
Speaker 1: by time, human, isn't no church going, ass get up.

964
01:00:35,440 --> 01:00:38,760
Speaker 1: There ain't nothing on the ain't nothing leveling legs, wieners

965
01:00:38,800 --> 01:00:43,240
Speaker 1: and burgers. He whining because he didn't get the chicken.

966
01:00:43,320 --> 01:00:45,880
Speaker 1: He won't, so he went on a hunt round for

967
01:00:46,000 --> 01:00:49,400
Speaker 1: more chicken, went around the backyard asking people who to

968
01:00:49,520 --> 01:00:51,800
Speaker 1: fix their play. Black people don't take food, don't they

969
01:00:51,880 --> 01:00:55,720
Speaker 1: play in hand to teach you no. Now he got

970
01:00:55,800 --> 01:00:58,760
Speaker 1: a leg on a trade or thigh for breast for

971
01:00:58,920 --> 01:01:06,360
Speaker 1: one of these little raggedy lives. This lady, I'm so embarrassed.

972
01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:09,479
Speaker 1: But what he did next was the SHOCKA this food

973
01:01:09,600 --> 01:01:13,400
Speaker 1: went over to the pastor's plate that's wrapped in suran.

974
01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:15,960
Speaker 1: Rapp got the two barbecue thighs that was on that

975
01:01:16,320 --> 01:01:18,400
Speaker 1: and then wrapped the plate back up. One of the

976
01:01:18,600 --> 01:01:20,360
Speaker 1: mothers of church sold him he couldn't do that. His

977
01:01:20,520 --> 01:01:23,360
Speaker 1: plly was pastors should have been here and it would

978
01:01:23,360 --> 01:01:26,080
Speaker 1: be cold by the time he get anyway, Hold up, man,

979
01:01:27,560 --> 01:01:30,320
Speaker 1: let me talk to you a little bit, pardoner. Pastor

980
01:01:30,440 --> 01:01:34,400
Speaker 1: him invited you over the house, this pastor house here,

981
01:01:34,440 --> 01:01:36,160
Speaker 1: the man of this house. See, I don't know where

982
01:01:36,200 --> 01:01:39,680
Speaker 1: you You obviously ain't had no daddy, because your daddy

983
01:01:39,680 --> 01:01:43,120
Speaker 1: would have knocked your ass out for doing that. But

984
01:01:43,200 --> 01:01:46,440
Speaker 1: you ain't got no daddy, so you stupid, so you

985
01:01:46,560 --> 01:01:49,760
Speaker 1: over another man's house, then unwrapped a plate that his

986
01:01:50,000 --> 01:01:53,480
Speaker 1: wife fixed for him, and now you claiming it as yours.

987
01:01:53,800 --> 01:01:55,520
Speaker 1: Then one of the ladies see you and tell you

988
01:01:55,680 --> 01:01:58,560
Speaker 1: can't do that, And then your pastors should have been here,

989
01:01:58,960 --> 01:02:02,200
Speaker 1: pastor at work. This passed the house. He ain't got

990
01:02:02,280 --> 01:02:05,000
Speaker 1: to come here to fit in this way. He lived

991
01:02:05,160 --> 01:02:08,720
Speaker 1: right right. It'll be cold by the time he get here, anyway.

992
01:02:09,080 --> 01:02:12,640
Speaker 1: Are you serious? First of all, you're walking around quinting

993
01:02:12,640 --> 01:02:16,040
Speaker 1: about it. You didn't get that piece of chicken you

994
01:02:16,120 --> 01:02:18,320
Speaker 1: want it. You didn't pay for this. This wasn't a

995
01:02:18,400 --> 01:02:25,720
Speaker 1: paid barbecue, pottna. This wasn't invite potna. Somebody invited your

996
01:02:25,800 --> 01:02:29,800
Speaker 1: monks ass over here. You eating free. You ain't bought

997
01:02:29,920 --> 01:02:34,000
Speaker 1: no chicken. This ain't the buffet a sizzless your ass

998
01:02:34,280 --> 01:02:42,360
Speaker 1: just eating just this ain't the buffet a sizzless pottna. Well,

999
01:02:42,400 --> 01:02:44,120
Speaker 1: you can go back up to the counter. Tell my hey,

1000
01:02:44,200 --> 01:02:46,400
Speaker 1: y'all all out of baby backs now, I don't pay

1001
01:02:46,480 --> 01:02:48,760
Speaker 1: just stept ninety five is all you can eat. Ain't

1002
01:02:48,760 --> 01:02:50,800
Speaker 1: no more damn baby back. I came in here for

1003
01:02:50,840 --> 01:02:54,680
Speaker 1: the baby back you've got in free. Yeah, this is crazy.

1004
01:02:55,000 --> 01:02:57,600
Speaker 1: Now you sitting up in here telling the pass should

1005
01:02:57,600 --> 01:02:59,800
Speaker 1: have been here now the ladies said, almost passed out,

1006
01:03:00,520 --> 01:03:02,520
Speaker 1: got my belongers. I told him we need to leave.

1007
01:03:02,880 --> 01:03:06,120
Speaker 1: Needless to say, I'm gonna be the center of gossip

1008
01:03:06,200 --> 01:03:09,920
Speaker 1: at the church tomorrow. Yes you will, because your husband's stupid.

1009
01:03:11,800 --> 01:03:15,479
Speaker 1: Your husband's stupid. He ain't no real but that ain't

1010
01:03:15,480 --> 01:03:19,480
Speaker 1: what men do. My husband does things like this all

1011
01:03:19,560 --> 01:03:22,080
Speaker 1: the time. Everything has to go his way or he

1012
01:03:22,160 --> 01:03:25,280
Speaker 1: started complaining and wine, So you know what your husband

1013
01:03:25,320 --> 01:03:28,080
Speaker 1: really need? Your husband really need his ass with one

1014
01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:32,640
Speaker 1: good time for taking somebody's chicken. Don't want to ask

1015
01:03:32,680 --> 01:03:37,760
Speaker 1: for wine and ought to be another asshole. Yes, and

1016
01:03:38,000 --> 01:03:41,080
Speaker 1: then you know how he don't know that you at

1017
01:03:41,080 --> 01:03:45,800
Speaker 1: another man's house. You can't make rules at another man's house, partner,

1018
01:03:47,160 --> 01:03:50,640
Speaker 1: it's free, you didn't pay, and you can't have everything

1019
01:03:50,760 --> 01:03:53,480
Speaker 1: you want in life. So what you got the legs?

1020
01:03:53,880 --> 01:03:57,000
Speaker 1: Legs taste just like breast. It's just a different bite,

1021
01:03:58,160 --> 01:04:00,400
Speaker 1: that's all it is. It's same dog me, it's just

1022
01:04:00,560 --> 01:04:04,959
Speaker 1: a different bite. Everything hasn't go his way. He wanted

1023
01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:07,160
Speaker 1: to start complain of wine. How can I get him

1024
01:04:07,200 --> 01:04:09,840
Speaker 1: to see that it's not always about him? He'd been

1025
01:04:09,960 --> 01:04:13,720
Speaker 1: thinking it's about him. I am sick of him. Embarrassing me.

1026
01:04:13,880 --> 01:04:17,760
Speaker 1: Please help in the words, I don't know who are

1027
01:04:17,800 --> 01:04:24,080
Speaker 1: here to say this all the time for BAFFLICI ve

1028
01:04:27,200 --> 01:04:31,360
Speaker 1: leave his ass for a while until he learned how

1029
01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:35,240
Speaker 1: to act right. You're married to a fool. This man

1030
01:04:35,480 --> 01:04:39,920
Speaker 1: is not embarrassing. He's foolish. Who goes around the barbecue

1031
01:04:40,280 --> 01:04:43,240
Speaker 1: asking for food off people's plate because you didn't get

1032
01:04:43,280 --> 01:04:46,120
Speaker 1: what on your plate you wanted to? Who do that?

1033
01:04:46,600 --> 01:04:49,600
Speaker 1: Who go in another man's house that he lives in,

1034
01:04:49,920 --> 01:04:53,200
Speaker 1: that his wife had made a plateful? You unwrapid so

1035
01:04:53,400 --> 01:04:55,360
Speaker 1: you can eat what's on his plate, and then you

1036
01:04:55,440 --> 01:04:57,360
Speaker 1: say passing should have been here. It's gonna be cold

1037
01:04:57,400 --> 01:05:01,360
Speaker 1: by the time again, old love man, this man's house, Yeah,

1038
01:05:01,680 --> 01:05:04,280
Speaker 1: this pastor should walk up in there? Whoop your ass?

1039
01:05:04,400 --> 01:05:07,560
Speaker 1: What pastor order do do you look at? That's that's

1040
01:05:07,600 --> 01:05:09,760
Speaker 1: why ever I become on Steve, you missed your calling.

1041
01:05:10,040 --> 01:05:11,840
Speaker 1: I ain't never been called to the minister. I'm gonna

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01:05:11,840 --> 01:05:13,320
Speaker 1: tell y'all, I grew up in the church. My mom

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Speaker 1: will tell you ain't being called. But if I was

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Speaker 1: to be called, this is one of the reasons why

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Speaker 1: I don't think I'm called, Because as a pastor, I

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01:05:22,800 --> 01:05:25,680
Speaker 1: don't see no reason why he can't get his ass

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Speaker 1: right now, he said, in my house and my wife

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Speaker 1: tells me I come in the back. Y'all. Mar To said, baby,

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Speaker 1: I had you played, but this man ate it? Wait? Holder?

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Speaker 1: What man? Wait? Maun holder? Baby, you made me a

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01:05:40,360 --> 01:05:43,080
Speaker 1: play and another man ain't? Who? What man? Ain't my podcast?

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Speaker 1: Did he know it was my plain? Yeah? He said,

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Speaker 1: you took too long getting in. He was gonna be cold.

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01:05:49,040 --> 01:05:51,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you, but if you punch a man

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Speaker 1: in the stomach real hard, he thought, cold chicken. All right, listen,

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Speaker 1: you can post your thoughts on today's Strawberry Letter at

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM. I'm sure you'll have a lot to

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Speaker 1: say about this one, or you can check out the

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Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter podcast on demand now coming up at forty

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Speaker 1: six after the hours. Sephora is closing all of its

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Speaker 1: stores for diversity training, thank god. And then meek Mill

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Speaker 1: accepts Cosmopolitan Hotel's apology. We'll talk about both of those

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to show, all right, this

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Speaker 1: story is really for the ladies and makeup artists and things. Sephorah,

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01:06:33,480 --> 01:06:38,360
Speaker 1: we'll temporarily close its stores company wide for diversity training.

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Speaker 1: This is after singer Sizza call them out for racial profiling.

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Speaker 1: As you might recall, several weeks ago, Sissa took to

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Speaker 1: Twitter to claim Sandy Sephora in Calabasas, California call security

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Speaker 1: to make sure she wasn't stealing. Then she said, can

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Speaker 1: a B word cop her fenty in peace or what?

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Speaker 1: That's what he tweet is, Wow, she's just trying to

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Speaker 1: buy some Rihanna make Yeah. And I right, I understand

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Speaker 1: because that's when I was wearing Finty. I mean, I

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Speaker 1: love Finty and I was getting it right there at Sephora. Now,

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Speaker 1: Sephora is taking action. According to their official statement, on

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Speaker 1: the morning of June fifth, which is tomorrow, right every

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Speaker 1: Sepphora store, distribution center, and corporate office in the US

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Speaker 1: in the entire country will close to host inclusion workshops

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Speaker 1: for our employees. These values have always been at the

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Speaker 1: heart of Sepphora, and we're excited to welcome everyone when

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Speaker 1: we reopened. Join us in our commitment to a more

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Speaker 1: inclusive beauty community. What did they do to the lady?

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Speaker 1: I don't understand. They called the police to say they

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Speaker 1: were racial profiling, to say she was stealing. Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And then in other trending news, Steve the Cosmopolitan Hotel

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Speaker 1: in Vegas has issued an apology to meet Mill. You know,

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01:08:00,200 --> 01:08:03,680
Speaker 1: Mike Mill accused them of being racist as hell it ain't.

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Speaker 1: Meek was apparently told he would be arrested for trespassing

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Speaker 1: if he entered the hotel. The hotel issued an apology

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Speaker 1: for the May twenty fifth incident, saying they did not

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Speaker 1: act in a respectful manner and we're wrong. Meek's legal

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Speaker 1: team released a statement, we appreciate the cosmopolitans apology and

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Speaker 1: will no longer pursue legal recourse at this time. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because I don't want to boycott Vegas. I'm just gonna

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01:08:31,240 --> 01:08:34,200
Speaker 1: say this. Yeah, because every time we go now, I'm

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Speaker 1: just want to just put mine in right now. Don't

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01:08:36,600 --> 01:08:40,240
Speaker 1: ask me not to do. I asked me. You know,

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Speaker 1: I'm struggling with the Gucci boycott. I don't know what

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Speaker 1: the hell going on. I don't know if it's oval.

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01:08:45,920 --> 01:08:48,200
Speaker 1: I had with your pants on and I walked down

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Speaker 1: the steps the other day and I ain't even know it.

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Speaker 1: My wife said, uh, stay on the internet. You ain't

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01:08:55,560 --> 01:09:08,640
Speaker 1: going out of here till we hear from TATA. All right,

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Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, good news

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Speaker 1: Tuesday from a Stephen Marjorie mentoring program. We'll tell you

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Speaker 1: about that right after this. You're listening to the Steve

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01:09:18,800 --> 01:09:23,559
Speaker 1: Morning Show. We have some good news to share, Steve.

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Speaker 1: We know that your annual boys Mentoring Camp kicks off

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01:09:27,200 --> 01:09:30,040
Speaker 1: next weekend just outside of Atlanta, but we want to

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Speaker 1: commend you on your partnership with Bethany Christian Services. Now,

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Speaker 1: last month, the month of May was Foster Care Awareness Month,

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Speaker 1: and in honor of that, you teamed up with Bethany

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Speaker 1: Christian Services to bring thirty boys from foster care to

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Speaker 1: this year's mentoring camp. Yes, that is wonderful, Steve, it

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Speaker 1: really is. Uh And just a little background on Bethany

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Speaker 1: Christian Services. Since nineteen forty four, Bethany has grown and

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Speaker 1: developed in to the premier adoption agency and social services

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Speaker 1: agency that serves and supports expectant parents, foster families, individuals

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Speaker 1: and families in need of counseling. So, Steve, I got

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Speaker 1: to ask you this, why do you mentor and why

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Speaker 1: is this so important to you? And again, congratulations on

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Speaker 1: It's all about changing boys lives. It's all about taking

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Speaker 1: a young man who doesn't have an active father in

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Speaker 1: his life and giving them some type of real male

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Speaker 1: role model leadership that they can look up to, that

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Speaker 1: they can call, that they can text, that they can

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01:10:34,000 --> 01:10:36,800
Speaker 1: have some communication with to help answer some of the

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Speaker 1: questions that the mothers don't have answers to. It's just

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Speaker 1: helping these single mom raise these boys. And the program

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Speaker 1: is hugely successful. And I learn to thank the Bethany

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Speaker 1: Program for Foster Kids for bringing these boys down. You know,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna do them our level best withstandings, and you know,

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Speaker 1: it's like it's so much happens. I've got a great

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Speaker 1: story coming up this uh this ministering camp. The closing

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01:11:05,360 --> 01:11:09,640
Speaker 1: remarks are going to be the minister that's preaching the

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01:11:09,840 --> 01:11:12,639
Speaker 1: sermon was a boy that was at my camp eight

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01:11:12,760 --> 01:11:16,519
Speaker 1: years ago. Wow, he got his calling to the ministry.

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01:11:16,600 --> 01:11:19,800
Speaker 1: While he was at camp. He came up to me

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01:11:20,080 --> 01:11:28,120
Speaker 1: at at Richard and Tina Tina's uh wearable our game

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01:11:28,439 --> 01:11:32,840
Speaker 1: on Friday, I mean Saturday, and came to that thing

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01:11:33,080 --> 01:11:36,120
Speaker 1: and walked up to me him and his mother said,

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Speaker 1: you don't know, you changed my son's life. Wow, he

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01:11:39,400 --> 01:11:42,240
Speaker 1: got his call into the ministry eight years ago. He's

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Speaker 1: preaching the closing sermon next Sunday at the boys camp

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01:11:45,720 --> 01:11:52,479
Speaker 1: on Father's Day. Congratulate. It's just so many lives, man,

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01:11:52,720 --> 01:11:56,320
Speaker 1: that we've changed. You know, That's what I'm really about,

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01:11:56,520 --> 01:11:59,880
Speaker 1: you know, people, you know, look, whatever you want to say,

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Speaker 1: what I really committed to. It just it's a work

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01:12:04,400 --> 01:12:07,280
Speaker 1: that has to speak for itself. I'm not I'm not

1150
01:12:07,439 --> 01:12:10,200
Speaker 1: going to toot my horn. I'm just gonna say this.

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01:12:10,800 --> 01:12:13,680
Speaker 1: My work should speak for itself because I put it in.

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01:12:13,800 --> 01:12:16,360
Speaker 1: When it comes to these boys and these girls, you're

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01:12:16,400 --> 01:12:18,679
Speaker 1: doing You've been doing it for a long time since

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01:12:18,720 --> 01:12:21,960
Speaker 1: I've known you. And listen. If you want more information,

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Speaker 1: you can go to Steve and Marjorie Harvey Foundation dot org. Stephen,

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Speaker 1: Marjorie Harvey Foundation dot org. And congratulations, Steven. Thank you

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01:12:31,840 --> 01:12:35,120
Speaker 1: because you have your own children. These aren't even your boys,

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01:12:35,200 --> 01:12:37,599
Speaker 1: and I just love the fact that you care so much.

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Speaker 1: But man, I look so forward to this week coming up.

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Speaker 1: Next week is gonna be great. I'm gonna be down

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Speaker 1: there with these boys. I'm getting with them. Man, We're

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01:12:47,600 --> 01:12:49,760
Speaker 1: gonna have a good time. Look, there's always a couple

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01:12:49,760 --> 01:12:52,600
Speaker 1: of problems when we get there. Yeah, some boys just

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01:12:52,800 --> 01:12:55,120
Speaker 1: don't want to be there. My mama made me come.

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01:12:55,200 --> 01:12:57,360
Speaker 1: I don't want this, y'all to quit talking to me.

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Speaker 1: Y'all can't tell me none. You ain't my daddy, man.

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Speaker 1: I gotta ain't your daddy were though? Yeah, you know,

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Speaker 1: don't don't don't don't. Don't strain me out. And I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to help you. Ain't my daddy? Okay, I gotta

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Speaker 1: ain't you dare And you always have some great stories

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01:13:13,360 --> 01:13:19,439
Speaker 1: when you come back to tell us. Yeah, yeah, we're

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Speaker 1: on an emotional roller coaster all of that, sitting around

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Speaker 1: the camp fire cook. Yeah, but yeah, this is gonna

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Speaker 1: be great. You and bethany Christian services and the mentoring

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Speaker 1: that you do. This is gonna be great. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: What are you working about? Something about Lady camp? Oh? No,

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Speaker 1: our all time favorite story. Yea, some stories we can

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Speaker 1: all right? Listen, Yeah, that one we can't share. No

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Speaker 1: we can no, no, no coming out, more music, more

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Speaker 1: fun on the Steve Harvey Morning Show. We'll be back

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Speaker 1: at twenty minutes after. Right after this. You're listening, here's

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Speaker 1: your stringer. Quickie story. Guys, did you all see former president? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Quickie story? Uh did you see settle down? Guys. Did

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Speaker 1: you see former President Obama? Did you see former President

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Speaker 1: Obama get a standing ovation and MVP chans at Game

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Speaker 1: two of the NBA Finals and drawn? Yes? Yeah that

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Speaker 1: was nice. Country, yes yeah, Canada Yeah, yes, MP number

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Speaker 1: forty four. It tells us that we miss you. Number

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Speaker 1: forty four, I promise you. He glad he got Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I know. Yes. Meanwhile forty five and uh, that's President

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Speaker 1: Trump and his wife, First Lady Milania are in England.

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Speaker 1: The President of First Lady are there, kicking off a

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Speaker 1: three day state visit with the Queen. The President of

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Speaker 1: First Lady will also visit Ireland and France this week,

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Speaker 1: and Trump will then take part in a ceremony commemorating

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Speaker 1: the seventy fifth anniversary of D Day at Norman d

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Speaker 1: I bet she can't wait hand to leave. Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: never come back and forth between him and the Mayor

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Speaker 1: of London before he even got over there. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think he called him a loser, she called he

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Speaker 1: talked about if we talk about everybody? Yeah, I talked

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Speaker 1: about Megan Marco. Didn't you say nasty that queen? Later?

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01:15:23,800 --> 01:15:27,360
Speaker 1: But that high end being ridden with him? If he

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Speaker 1: talking about them like that. Mark Steve Harvey Morning Show

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Speaker 1: coming up at thirty three after the hour. Right after this,

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Speaker 1: you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show, Steve Harvey Nation.

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Speaker 1: Listen up, Steve, what you got for We'll hardly ever

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Speaker 1: do anything for fathers, So for Sand and Soul, I

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Speaker 1: want y'all to listen up. I'm offering a special Father's

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Speaker 1: Day package. This is called the Father of This Day

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Speaker 1: ninety nine dollars deposit Special. I am doing this all

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Speaker 1: the way up until the end of June, June thirtieth,

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Speaker 1: so you got almost a full month to reserve your

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Speaker 1: spot for Sand and Soul Festival. This is how you

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Speaker 1: do it. Get all the kids together, get your mama together,

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Speaker 1: get somebody that's better daddy to you y'all, get y'all

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Speaker 1: money together, and reserve him a spot to come to

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Speaker 1: the Sand and Soul Festival for a five day, full night,

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Speaker 1: all inclusive vacation with me at the Hard Rock Hotel

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Speaker 1: this father I was extend this special for Father's Day special.

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Speaker 1: All the way to the end of the month. You

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Speaker 1: This is June. We're doing this in October. That gives

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Speaker 1: you about three months to get it paid. You can

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Speaker 1: do it, or a great Father's Day gift. Do something

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Speaker 1: good for your husband man that's been out here grinding

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Speaker 1: and hustling, taking care of them kids. Do something good

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Speaker 1: for y'all's daddy that don't get the same things mama's do,

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Speaker 1: cause we ain't it. You know, I got it. I

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Speaker 1: know the mama's it's something extra. I got that. But

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Speaker 1: this date October tiph through the fourteenth Columbus date weekend,

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Speaker 1: surely Strawberry is gonna be there, calling for real, gonna

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Speaker 1: be there, Junior, gonna be y, Mississippi Monica don't be there.

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Speaker 1: It's an all star study line up comedy show of

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Speaker 1: Got Foam Splash Party concerts after parties. Got the beauty bar,

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Speaker 1: we got cigar roller, we got day cruises, we got everything.

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Speaker 1: It's a casino. It's free food and drink, twenty four hours,

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Speaker 1: free room service. You've got pools, you got the beach.

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Speaker 1: So much to see and do. Ninety nine dollars reserves

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Speaker 1: your spot today. Let's stop playing Steve Harvey Nation. We

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Speaker 1: got a couple hundred rooms left. Your daddy should be

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Speaker 1: one of them. I just want to see y'all. Damn yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: we have a good time at the saying the Soul Festival.

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Speaker 1: Go to Steve Harvey saying thesoul dot com. That Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey saying thesoul dot com. You can make a reservation.

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Speaker 1: And if you're just real old and you don't like

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Speaker 1: doing stuff online, eight hundred six eight four twenty eight

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Speaker 1: twenty five, here it is eight hundred six eight four

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Speaker 1: twenty eight twenty five six eight four twenty eight twenty five.

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Speaker 1: That's the number. Get it done, sell it out by boom,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, ninety nine dollars specially who here you go.

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Speaker 1: All right, we'll be back with our last break of

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Speaker 1: the day, and you're closing remarks at forty mine after

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Speaker 1: the hour right after this, you're listening, all right, Steve.

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Speaker 1: Here we are last break of the day, and of

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Speaker 1: course it is time for you to leave us. With

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Speaker 1: some closing remarks. I want to give you some encouragement

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Speaker 1: on your road to success. I've often said a million

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Speaker 1: times that the road to success is always under construction,

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Speaker 1: that you can expect the pitfalls, to set backs, the detools,

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Speaker 1: the working men at work, so forth, and so on.

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Speaker 1: But what I want to remind you of is that

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Speaker 1: you can win if you can fight through the clutter.

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Speaker 1: And one of the best ways that I can give

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Speaker 1: you to fight through the clutter you have to have

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Speaker 1: a relationship with God. I mean, it's just really the

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Speaker 1: best way to fight through the clutter because you really

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Speaker 1: don't know how exactly to become successful. You really don't

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Speaker 1: know exactly how I mean. And the reason I know

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Speaker 1: you don't know exactly how it is because you've probably

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Speaker 1: aimed for something that in order to achieve it you

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Speaker 1: really do need God's help. So it's nothing wrong when

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Speaker 1: you don't know exactly how you're going to make it,

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Speaker 1: because what that means is you've aspired to something so

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Speaker 1: great that in order for it to happen, you absolutely

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01:20:33,840 --> 01:20:36,880
Speaker 1: have to have God's help. That's where you want to be.

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Speaker 1: You want to be on a mission that keeps you

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Speaker 1: awake at night. You want to be on a mission

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01:20:42,800 --> 01:20:46,160
Speaker 1: man that makes you wake up early. You want to

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01:20:46,520 --> 01:20:49,480
Speaker 1: be on a mission that requires you to pray constantly.

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01:20:50,040 --> 01:20:52,800
Speaker 1: You want to be on a mission man, where you

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Speaker 1: seek the advice and help of other people. That's in

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Speaker 1: a higher position. You want to be on a mission

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Speaker 1: where not achieving it becomes absolutely unacceptable. But to get there,

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01:21:06,800 --> 01:21:10,120
Speaker 1: you got to fight through the clutter. And the biggest

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01:21:10,240 --> 01:21:14,479
Speaker 1: form of clutter in your mind is the actual figuring

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Speaker 1: it out. Can you remember back on how many times

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Speaker 1: you've tried to figure something out your life? Your next move,

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Speaker 1: who to call, who to talk to, whether to try

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Speaker 1: to sell them, how to sell them, what to buy,

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Speaker 1: how to buy? If you go back over all your

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Speaker 1: life of you figuring out my next move? Should I

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Speaker 1: go to school? Should I not go to school? Should

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Speaker 1: I get a degree in this? Should I not get

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Speaker 1: a degree in this? Should I apply for that job

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Speaker 1: or this job? Should I go over here because they

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Speaker 1: pay a little bit more, but justn't has better stability?

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01:21:45,840 --> 01:21:48,639
Speaker 1: I don't know, but you've constantly been trying to work

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Speaker 1: that out. That's exhausting and it keeps your mind cluttered.

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01:21:52,840 --> 01:21:55,439
Speaker 1: I was reading in my daily meditation, how when you

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Speaker 1: clutter your mind up with the how to you remove

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Speaker 1: God's presence in your life? Because He's always hovering and

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Speaker 1: standing close by to come in and comfort you and

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Speaker 1: be beside you and help you make these decisions. But

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Speaker 1: if you never invite him in, if you never invite

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Speaker 1: him to make the decisions, if you never allow his

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Speaker 1: presence to come and calm you down. Man, sometimes you

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Speaker 1: just need calming. You know, when you could deal with

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01:22:23,960 --> 01:22:25,680
Speaker 1: a lot of this stuff that you're going through a

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01:22:25,760 --> 01:22:28,960
Speaker 1: lot better if you will have just a calming effect

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Speaker 1: or the calming effect. That's the peace you get when

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Speaker 1: you form a relationship with God. God calms you down

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Speaker 1: because you know he got your back, you know he's

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Speaker 1: in control, he know he got your best interests at heart,

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Speaker 1: you know that he's behind the scenes working on your behalf.

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Speaker 1: When you have that type of relationship, it cools you out.

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Speaker 1: You can chill. You can't do anything about tomorrow, so

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01:22:56,479 --> 01:22:59,920
Speaker 1: worrying about it doesn't affect it. Now, I'm not saying,

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Speaker 1: ain't in sitting here that you're not supposed to plan,

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Speaker 1: that you're not supposed to have dreams and aspirations because

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Speaker 1: you do. But in all my dreams of aspirations, all

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Speaker 1: the things I want, I've had to learn to be

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Speaker 1: flexible because what I want and what God has for

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Speaker 1: me is oftentimes two different things. But can I share

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Speaker 1: something with you? The thing that God has for you

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Speaker 1: is way better than anything anything you can possibly plan.

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Speaker 1: You can't figure it. The way he does. His thoughts

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Speaker 1: is way up there, man, His ways is way up there.

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Speaker 1: You can't outfigure God. God can take a very very

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Speaker 1: dismal situation, folks, and turn it into pure gold for you.

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Speaker 1: When they are aligning themselves against you. If God is

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Speaker 1: with you, who can be against you? So let them

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Speaker 1: line up. If you know you got a relationship with God,

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01:23:55,479 --> 01:23:58,120
Speaker 1: and you know you're not over there by yourself, why

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Speaker 1: would you be afraid of someone lying up against you?

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Speaker 1: Let them lined up. You're talking to somebody who knows

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Speaker 1: it's all too well. They have lined up against me

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Speaker 1: in numbers. But guess what, they can't do nothing to me.

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Speaker 1: God don't a lie, And even if you do, do

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Speaker 1: it it doesn't mean it has the effect of the

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Speaker 1: desired effect on me that you wanted to. And so

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Speaker 1: that's the same thing with you. Because of this relationship

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Speaker 1: with God, you don't have to be in and react

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Speaker 1: to every time somebody don't like a picture or make

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Speaker 1: a bad comment or put a false falsehood out there

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Speaker 1: about you. You don't have to react to all of

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Speaker 1: that because you have peace in the relationship with God.

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Speaker 1: You got to form this relationship, y'all. You have to.

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01:24:45,800 --> 01:24:48,920
Speaker 1: It's imperative to who you are. And the thing about

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01:24:49,000 --> 01:24:51,760
Speaker 1: forming relationship, you don't have to clear with nobody. But

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Speaker 1: you ain't got to even tell nobody you're doing it.

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Speaker 1: You can show them a different you. You don't have

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Speaker 1: to make an admission. I'm talking to God every day

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Speaker 1: trying to become a better person. You ain't gotta tell

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Speaker 1: nobody that. Just do it. Just do it. That's all

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Speaker 1: you've got to do. All right, Those are my closing remarks.

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Speaker 1: All right, drop it, it's drop thank you, sir. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: needed that. Oh, can I tell y'all something really good?

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Speaker 1: Have yourself a great week you I'll be dogging it's

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Speaker 1: time to say that already. Have yourself a great week

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