Speaker 1: Rooking Jubiles second Dao date. A really good way to
Speaker 1: ensure that you're probably not going to get a second
Speaker 1: date is if you're a dude and you're out with
Speaker 1: the girl that you're taking out on a first date
Speaker 1: and she says, hey, I don't really want to go
Speaker 1: anywhere else. Can we just sort of stay here? And
Speaker 1: then you go, no, You're coming with me somewhere else,
Speaker 1: whether you like it or not. Okay, they love that. Hu.
Speaker 1: That's apparently what happened with Justin, who was on the
Speaker 1: phone with us right now. He wants to call a
Speaker 1: girl named Carla. In his email, he said that he
Speaker 1: planned a fun little date where they were gonna go
Speaker 1: like bar hopping to a bunch of bars, and by
Speaker 1: the time they got to their third one, she wanted
Speaker 1: to leave it. He was like, no, we have to
Speaker 1: go to the fourth bar. I planned four bars. So
Speaker 1: that's why he thinks he's not getting a call back Justin,
Speaker 1: did you do it like that? Or you're not as
Speaker 1: aggressive as I picture? I don't think I was quite
Speaker 1: as aggressive, is okay, So why don't you tell us
Speaker 1: how it happened. So we're at the third bar and
Speaker 1: we're having a great time. But she starts to complain
Speaker 1: that her feet or starting to hurt, and I didn't
Speaker 1: think too much of it, you know, like girls complain
Speaker 1: about that all the time. We no, was she wearried
Speaker 1: heels to this bar hopping date? Yeah? Well they were
Speaker 1: kind of like not like hi yo, hi uel. Did
Speaker 1: you tell her prior to the date that this was
Speaker 1: what you guys were going to be doing? Walking a lot? No,
Speaker 1: because I wanted to surprise her because I thought that
Speaker 1: was more fun and kind of like an adventure. You know.
Speaker 1: If I was wearing date night heels and I had
Speaker 1: to walk to three different bars, it makes you feel
Speaker 1: like you want to cut your feet off. Really sometimes
Speaker 1: it hurts that bad. Well, I didn't think it was
Speaker 1: that they looked pretty comfortable for you know, how many
Speaker 1: high heels have you warned a couple? But that's that's
Speaker 1: another story, all right. So she was complaining about her
Speaker 1: feet hurting, but you still made her go to another bar? Yeah,
Speaker 1: because the next one. I knew it was going to
Speaker 1: be awesome and it's like one of my favorite places,
Speaker 1: and I knew she would really like it, and so like,
Speaker 1: come on, let's go, And she's like, oh, but my feet,
Speaker 1: my feet. I'm like, oh, come on, we'll go to
Speaker 1: the other bar. It'll be awesome. She's like, I really
Speaker 1: don't want to go because she are killing me. Why
Speaker 1: don't you get it? And I'm like, come on, so
Speaker 1: take your shoes off and let's go. You going to
Speaker 1: the next bar? Yeah, I offered to even carry her shoes. Okay,
Speaker 1: but if she says but if she says she wants
Speaker 1: to stay, why not just go? Okay, maybe we can
Speaker 1: go to the fourth bar a different time. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I was just excited. I say that was in the moment,
Speaker 1: and I wanted to show her around. You know, I
Speaker 1: get probably should have thought about that because she seemed
Speaker 1: pretty upset. She's kind of pissed off. So when you
Speaker 1: got to the fourth bar, she's just like done talking
Speaker 1: to you at that point. How do you know she
Speaker 1: was upset? Yeah, kind of like I went and I
Speaker 1: got the drinks and she's like sitting there with her
Speaker 1: arms crossed and she's picking off her shoes and she's
Speaker 1: like looking around. I'm like, hey, this plays great, and
Speaker 1: she's like yeah, whatever it was, Yeah, it was. She
Speaker 1: was like totally giving me the cold shoulder and I'm like, oh, okay,
Speaker 1: maybe this didn't go as well as I hope, So
Speaker 1: how did everything end? Then after that, I got her
Speaker 1: cab and I like wanted to give her a hug
Speaker 1: and then like a kissed good night, and she was
Speaker 1: just like bye, and she got in the cab and
Speaker 1: closed the door. Oh that's it. That's it. No kiss,
Speaker 1: not even like she didn't give me a hug, not
Speaker 1: even a handshake. So she was definitely upset that you
Speaker 1: drug that other. Yeah, she like grabbed her shoes out
Speaker 1: of my hands because I was carrying them. Like I
Speaker 1: get that she was upset. You know, her feet were
Speaker 1: sore and stuff like that. But that bar was awesome.
Speaker 1: It's like the fast bar. I don't know how she
Speaker 1: was not having a good time. How did that win
Speaker 1: her over? It's like so good. It's like there's so
Speaker 1: much going on. It's like just a party, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: look around, forget about your feet, look around, take this
Speaker 1: bar in, enjoy it for what it is. So you
Speaker 1: definitely screwed up by doing that. Okay, I know it
Speaker 1: sounds like bad, But like before that last bar, though,
Speaker 1: we were having like such a good time. We were laughing,
Speaker 1: she was like poking fun at me and laughing. I
Speaker 1: was poking fun at her and laughing. She even like
Speaker 1: she looked at my shirt and she's like, that's a
Speaker 1: terrible color one and you liked that? Well, yeah, she's like,
Speaker 1: she's like, I love someone who's honest. Like you know,
Speaker 1: most first dates, it's like you don't know what to say.
Speaker 1: It's like really superficial. You're talking about, you know, your
Speaker 1: job or the weather or something. But she came right
Speaker 1: out and told me my shirt looked horrible, and I thought,
Speaker 1: that's refreshing. Yeah, I guess it is. I guess you're right.
Speaker 1: It was just it was just like such a good time.
Speaker 1: How many times have you tried to get ahold of
Speaker 1: her since your date? Like six or seven times? Like
Speaker 1: I texted a lot and I called her a couple
Speaker 1: of times, but mostly just texting. It's like you're forcing
Speaker 1: this and the last bar all together well, I mean, well,
Speaker 1: I don't understand why she wouldn't want to get back
Speaker 1: to me, Like we had such a good time and
Speaker 1: that bar was awesome. I will say, by the fourth bar,
Speaker 1: if your feet hurt, sometimes that's all you can think about.
Speaker 1: So maybe it really wasn't you. Maybe she was just
Speaker 1: legitimately in pain. All right, well we'll play a song,
Speaker 1: come back, call her and get your second date update.
Speaker 1: All right, yeah, awesome, okay, man, hang on looking jubil
Speaker 1: in the morning. You know, most people, if they were
Speaker 1: out on a first date with someone and that person
Speaker 1: insulted them in the first fifteen minutes, they'd be like,
Speaker 1: all right, I probably don't want to see them again.
Speaker 1: Not justin though. The guy who's on the phone to
Speaker 1: do a second date update today he went out with
Speaker 1: a girl named Carla. Shortly unto their date, she said
Speaker 1: I hate your shirt. It looks terrible on you. And
Speaker 1: instead of going like, wow, that was rude, Maybe I
Speaker 1: don't want to see this girl again, he was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I love you so much. I feel like it's gonna
Speaker 1: be the first time we do a second date update
Speaker 1: where I'm truly not worried about this guy's feelings. Like
Speaker 1: we could call her, she could say something really mean,
Speaker 1: and he's gonna be like, awesome, Yeah, I know she
Speaker 1: wasn't me. I don't think she wasn't mean. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's a difference and honesty. It's sort of like someone's
Speaker 1: like I'm punching you, but I still love you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's like yeah, it's like that. It's like like that.
Speaker 1: The big difference is that she is honest, and that
Speaker 1: is like so rare to come by, and especially like
Speaker 1: so immediately in a date, like the world needs more
Speaker 1: people like that. To a point, Justin I feel like
Speaker 1: there's she's one of those people that's like, I just
Speaker 1: have no filter, and those people say that because they're
Speaker 1: using that as an excuse to just not say I'm
Speaker 1: just kind of an a hole. I think she's saying
Speaker 1: it because she cares. Okay, cares so much. She didn't
Speaker 1: call you back. I'm gonna doll the phone of her
Speaker 1: right now and see exactly why she's not getting back
Speaker 1: to you. Okay, okay, cool, here we go. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: can I speak to Carla? Please listen? Hey, Carla? How
Speaker 1: are you? This is Jewbil from brook and Jewil in
Speaker 1: the Morning. Who is it Jebil from brook and Jewil
Speaker 1: in the Morning, the radio show? Oh do you have
Speaker 1: the wrong number? I'm pretty sure I don't have the
Speaker 1: wrong number. Did you recently go out on a date
Speaker 1: with a guy named Justin? H Yeah? Why do you
Speaker 1: know that? Because Justin listens to our show and asked
Speaker 1: me to call you. What why? Because he told us
Speaker 1: about your date, said that he really enjoyed going out
Speaker 1: with you, but you won't return any of his phone
Speaker 1: calls or god, text messages, and he wanted to see
Speaker 1: if we could get you on the phone and find
Speaker 1: out why. So I don't. I don't answer his text,
Speaker 1: and then he calls the radio show to get holder.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, yep, that's exactly what happened. Any interest
Speaker 1: in telling us why you won't call Justin back? I
Speaker 1: can't even I can't believe that he wants me to
Speaker 1: call him back. Why is he so interested in me?
Speaker 1: He said he really enjoyed your date and wants the
Speaker 1: chance to go out with you again. Oh my god? Him?
Speaker 1: Wrong with this guy? What's wrong with this guy? Is
Speaker 1: it hard to believe that somebody would want to go
Speaker 1: out with you again? Carla? I get. I mean, I
Speaker 1: don't think that it was that it was that great
Speaker 1: of a date. Why is that? I just it was
Speaker 1: long and painful, and I think I was getting kind
Speaker 1: of cranky at the end of it, and then it
Speaker 1: was a very abrupt goodbye when I left, And then yeah,
Speaker 1: and then I haven't responded to any of his texts
Speaker 1: or calls by long and painful. Let me ask you this.
Speaker 1: He told us about your date. He said that he
Speaker 1: drug you to a bunch of bars, and by the
Speaker 1: third one, you said your feet were hurting and you
Speaker 1: didn't want to go to the fourth bar, but he
Speaker 1: made you go to that one. Did that piss you off? Yep? Okay?
Speaker 1: What Why wouldn't you just leave at that point though, like,
Speaker 1: call a cab on your own, get a new bird.
Speaker 1: I know I should. I was going to leave after
Speaker 1: the third one, but he really wanted to go to
Speaker 1: this fourth one, and he was just he was like
Speaker 1: this little sad, little kid that really wanted to go
Speaker 1: to this fourth bar. He kept saying how great it was,
Speaker 1: and I was like, well, what's great about it? Here's
Speaker 1: a hockey guy. I see, it's so awesome, and I
Speaker 1: you know, I felt bad for him. He had this
Speaker 1: whole plan. I felt like I was let him finish
Speaker 1: his this master date plan that he had. So it
Speaker 1: sounds like you absolutely hated being out with this dude.
Speaker 1: I mean it was like fine, you know, he bought
Speaker 1: me a bunch of drinks, so that was nice. That
Speaker 1: was fine. Uh how was the final bar? Did you?
Speaker 1: Was it as great as he had promised? Uh? It
Speaker 1: was this normal bar. And he goes to the fact
Speaker 1: that he wanted to show me this old jukebox that
Speaker 1: they had. He acted like it was the only bar
Speaker 1: that had a jukebox. I didn't have the harder to
Speaker 1: tell him that most barns have that there's a lot
Speaker 1: you know, Carla, I feel like you and I could
Speaker 1: be friends. We both seemed to have the same zest
Speaker 1: for life, Like that's a stupid jukebox. I just wasn't
Speaker 1: gonna do it. Wasn't having a great time at the end,
Speaker 1: but he just like, you wouldn't get to him. I
Speaker 1: think I even told him a shirt looked terrible, and
Speaker 1: he goes, oh, oh, he's so honest. That's cool. Yeah,
Speaker 1: held he told us all about that. He was like,
Speaker 1: I love her honesty. Man, she ripped on my clothing. Yes.
Speaker 1: It was like, is this a joke? And the texting
Speaker 1: and calling me, I couldn't I drop the phone first
Speaker 1: one I saw him calling, I was like, why didn't
Speaker 1: you just send him a text? I mean, because obviously
Speaker 1: he wasn't getting the point. If you would have texted
Speaker 1: him back and said, no, I don't ever want to
Speaker 1: see you again. You would have been like, oh man,
Speaker 1: there she is being honest again. I love it. Like,
Speaker 1: who knows how he could have read that and then
Speaker 1: he would have Yeah, Carla, thank you very much for
Speaker 1: telling us a little bit about your date with Justin.
Speaker 1: I appreciate it. Talking about the date was ended up
Speaker 1: being more fun than the actual date. Well, since you
Speaker 1: were honest with us, I feel like I should be
Speaker 1: honest with you and let you know that Justin is
Speaker 1: actually on the phone listening to this conversation. No he's not,
Speaker 1: Yes he is. Why because we think it's funny, that's true. No,
Speaker 1: it's not. I don't. I don't understand. I like, we
Speaker 1: like so click. I know, like you're like the last
Speaker 1: part wasn't so great, but the first part was really great.
Speaker 1: And I mean like, I mean, I took your advice
Speaker 1: to heart. I got all these new shirts and every No.
Speaker 1: I just don't think that we did click, though, but
Speaker 1: we totally You totally got me. And that's what I
Speaker 1: was like. You were so authentic, you were so honest,
Speaker 1: and I was just like, that's amazing. That's the kind
Speaker 1: of person I want to date. That's the kind of
Speaker 1: person I want to be around. That well, that's very flattering,
Speaker 1: but I just unfortunately do not feel the same way.
Speaker 1: And that jukebox is like an authentic like from nineteen
Speaker 1: sixty three. It plays like old forty fives. I mean,
Speaker 1: you can't find that anywhere anymore, and it's functioning and
Speaker 1: it's I mean, it's amazing. It's just it's just not
Speaker 1: it's just not a match. I'm sorry, like you've got
Speaker 1: I mean, I made fun of your shirt. I feel
Speaker 1: like I was. I just looked bored the whole time.
Speaker 1: I was texting with friends while you were talking, Like,
Speaker 1: what were you not getting that? I wasn't tested like
Speaker 1: you had to force me to go to the fourth bar.
Speaker 1: I was ready to go home. Carla. I feel like
Speaker 1: you didn't even give him a chance from the beginning.
Speaker 1: It sounds like he walked into the bar and you
Speaker 1: were already done with him. No. I mean it started
Speaker 1: off find the first bar. We had a couple of
Speaker 1: drinks and it was kind of small talks, and then
Speaker 1: we got to the second bar and it was that's
Speaker 1: when the boredom fed in and I was just bored,
Speaker 1: but I felt bad and I felt like I had
Speaker 1: to do, you know, the whole bar crawl for him.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I guess I just read this wrong.
Speaker 1: I thought we were a great match. I thought we
Speaker 1: had like a really good chemistry. And I'm just I
Speaker 1: don't know, I'm like shocked. Yep, you're right, Justin, we
Speaker 1: are a perfect match. Really, no being sarcastic again. You
Speaker 1: gotta come on, you gotta follow along with the conversation.
Speaker 1: At this point, I think it's a great time to
Speaker 1: ask Carla if she would like to go on a
Speaker 1: second date with Justin. Carla, I will pay for a
Speaker 1: second date. Would you like to wort with Justin? Again? No?
Speaker 1: Am I not picking up on the sarcasm now? I
Speaker 1: thought you were being sarcastic at for a suffer. Thank
Speaker 1: you very much now, Justin? Sorry, man, Well, I guess
Speaker 1: thanks for trying. I guess how you have to get
Speaker 1: better at, you know, following sarcasm. No, hey, no you don't, dude,
Speaker 1: No you don't. You don't have to get better at
Speaker 1: picking up sarcasm at all. Thanks man, No, I was
Speaker 1: big sarcastic. Jesus, I'm not getting it broken jewel in
Speaker 1: the morning. Steve