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Speaker 1: My right show is on Fred's Biggest Stories of the Day.

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Speaker 2: West Sloop. Tom knows the name of the place, West Sloop.

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Speaker 2: Tom's exton that was the place. I'm not gonna say

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Speaker 2: it because it's not there anymore, but yeah, he knows

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Speaker 2: West and Tom was. I think he was there in

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Speaker 2: the corner watching us eat.

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Speaker 3: Actually I almost set the place on air, and then

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Speaker 3: I was like, maybe I don't know.

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Speaker 2: If it still exists anywhere, but yeah, or that place

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Speaker 2: in Salt Lake City that Kalen took us that we

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Speaker 2: were talking about off the air, where everything had elk

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Speaker 2: in it everything, which is nothing wrong with that. I mean,

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Speaker 2: I'm sure it's delicious, but everything everything. I'm like, guys,

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Speaker 2: what do you own an elk farm? And they were like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: we do. Actually, I was, oh, that makes perfect sense, everything,

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Speaker 2: every everything, And I was like, well, what if I

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Speaker 2: don't want elk? Like you came to the wrong place,

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Speaker 2: Like y'all have a bunk soda with an elk beef

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Speaker 2: jerky stick in the middle of it.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, what are we doing? Guys?

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Speaker 2: I tell you I never wanted anything more than just

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Speaker 2: a cheeseburger in my life than when you told me.

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Speaker 2: All I could eat was that, and again apparently we

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Speaker 2: heard a whole speech about it. It's a very lean meat, delicious,

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Speaker 2: that very gamy, That's what I'm told. I just didn't

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Speaker 2: want it because I could not have it. I was like,

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Speaker 2: y'all have the chocolate cake. It has elk in it?

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Speaker 2: How how does it have elk? How did you get

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Speaker 2: that in there?

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Speaker 1: With elk? Milk right right right? We milked an elk?

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Speaker 1: Can we put it in there?

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Speaker 4: We should have gone with the Italian spot, But.

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Speaker 2: Again, you know, it was like highly rated and beautiful

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Speaker 2: view and nice place, and that it made sense. I

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Speaker 2: can see why you'd choose that, And it was was

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Speaker 2: very nice there. It was just you know, had a

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Speaker 2: lot of option that a lot of variety on the menu.

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Speaker 2: So days before ten men broke out of a Louisiana jail,

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Speaker 2: officials asked for funding to fix faulty locks and cell doors.

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Speaker 2: According to the sheriff, yeah, that's probably a good idea.

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Speaker 2: The investigation into the Friday jail break, which the escapees

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Speaker 2: labeled as easy. So they cut a hole in the

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Speaker 2: wall behind a toilet, snuck out, and then wrote above

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Speaker 2: it easy lol. Too easy too to easy, So we didn't,

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Speaker 2: you know, a whole lot of attention and grammar school.

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Speaker 2: But that's okay, too easy, lol. And then they stuck up.

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Speaker 2: So they're not only that, but they're taunting the prison people,

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Speaker 2: which okay, So there are seven remaining fugitives or maybe

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Speaker 2: six is of this morning, but they have long raise concerts,

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Speaker 2: according to the sheriff about the jails defficiencies, adding that

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Speaker 2: breakout has once again highlighted the critical need for repairs

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Speaker 2: and upgrades to the infrastructure. While the sheriff said the

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Speaker 2: locks played a key role in the escape, there are

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Speaker 2: other critical security lapses that officials have outlined indications that

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Speaker 2: the escape was an inside job, including three sheriffs employees

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Speaker 2: that are now on suspension. So it's like these guys

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Speaker 2: were in on it. They helped them, Oh is what

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Speaker 2: people are speculating. The whole that officials said may have

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Speaker 2: been formed using power tools. I don't know how that

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Speaker 2: would have How would they have gotten the power tools.

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Speaker 2: A lack of monitoring of the cell pod. As an

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Speaker 2: employee that was tasked with the job, it stepped out

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Speaker 2: for food and law enforcement, not being aware of the

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Speaker 2: escape until the morning head count seven hours after the

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Speaker 2: guys got out. So you got one dude who like

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Speaker 2: took a two hour break of his job as the

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Speaker 2: security guy. You got seven hours go before they figure

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Speaker 2: out these guys were gone, and then they had you know,

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Speaker 2: makita drills in there. I mean, I know they could

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Speaker 2: do some really improvisational things in prison. I mean I've

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Speaker 2: seen how they can make you know, toilet hooch and

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Speaker 2: pizzas and all kinds of different things on TikTok. But

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Speaker 2: I mean, you know, get cell phones in and all that.

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Speaker 2: A Chicago O'Hare International Airport Uber d well, I guess

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Speaker 2: I got driving around O'Hare. He got himself in a

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Speaker 2: not Uber. He was in Routius Destination when he accidentally

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Speaker 2: drove into an unauthorized security area within O'Hare and then

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Speaker 2: kept driving. The thirty six year old male went from

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Speaker 2: miles within the confines of the fence of the airport

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Speaker 2: and incredibly may have even crossed active runways before being stopped.

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Speaker 2: No charges have been filed because it was accidental. No

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Speaker 2: word on whether the food eventually made it to the

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Speaker 2: right spot. But this is where you maybe don't trust

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Speaker 2: the GPS when it says like federal property, don't cross

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Speaker 1: I mean, how like, how lost do you.

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Speaker 2: Have to be before you're crossing runways and stuff going.

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Speaker 2: I don't think anybody on that Southwest flight ordered this food.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: It's very confusing though, when you get to the airport,

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Speaker 1: I'm a department No, Kiki.

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Speaker 2: The last time that we all ate together was at

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Speaker 2: the tallest restaurant in the city, I know, and you

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Speaker 2: had a hard time finding it. Yes, and it's literally

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Speaker 2: one of, not only one of the tallest buildings. The

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Speaker 2: restaurant was in the tallest building in the city. It's

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Speaker 2: one of the tallest buildings in the world, and you

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Speaker 2: still were not able to find it. So I guess

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Speaker 2: this is not surprising to me that you might have

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Speaker 2: issues navigating the airport.

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Speaker 5: Yes, because the GPS gets all confused whenever you get

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Speaker 5: can imagine his GPS probably got so confused with the

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Speaker 5: planes GPS, and you know, what is.

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Speaker 1: It doing with the planes? GPS? What does that average

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Speaker 1: with you?

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Speaker 5: Air traffic control has been all mixed up for the

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Speaker 5: last couple of weeks, so it might have told him

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Speaker 5: to go right on up there.

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Speaker 1: Just like the story of the.

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Speaker 2: Guy whose GPS led him into a lake. It's like,

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Speaker 2: just because the GPS tells you not to do, you

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Speaker 2: don't have to. I am directly. You can look out

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Speaker 2: the window and say, I don't think that's I don't

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Speaker 2: I'm supposed to be on the other side of gate

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Speaker 2: B nineteen. I don't think I was supposed to pull

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Speaker 2: up to the jetway to deliver this food.

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Speaker 1: That man deserves a big tip.

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Speaker 2: Oh well, yeah, he's probably like, he's not in jail.

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Speaker 2: A new TikTok trend is causing a big stir. Now, guys,

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Speaker 2: that we do not need to do. Teen quote unquote

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Speaker 2: pranksters are pretending to steal money from unsuspecting strangers using

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Speaker 2: Play sound effect. The guy becomes visibly upset, demanding to

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Speaker 2: see the team's phone, and then the team just says,

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Speaker 2: I just stole twenty dollars from you. But it's all

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Speaker 2: a joke. This is how you get yourself stabbed, right,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Like, this is not funny,

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Speaker 2: Like you are pretending to rob someone, so you will

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Speaker 4: And you'll deserve it. I'm sorry, don't do stupid stuff.

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Speaker 1: So, like, let's not pretend that we're sealing from people.

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Speaker 2: These videos have guarded over nine hundred thousand views, have

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Speaker 2: also sparked backlash. Viewers are calling that pranks dangerous and embarrassing,

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Speaker 2: warning that such antis could lead to serious consequences. Critics

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Speaker 2: urge content creators to avoid targeting unsuspecting individuals and to

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Speaker 2: consider the real world implications of their actions. Yeah, someone's

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Speaker 2: gonna get beaten up at best. Oh if you snooze,

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Speaker 2: which I do, they're saying it's a bad idea. A

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Speaker 2: new study shows that more than half of people worldwide

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Speaker 2: of snoozing each morning, well, it might feel like a

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Speaker 2: disrupts the critical rem stages of sleep, leading to grogginess

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Speaker 2: The research analyzed over twenty one thousand sleep Cycle app users,

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Speaker 2: and it found that snooze habits vary by country. The US, Sweden,

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Speaker 2: and Germany lead, Japan and Australia snooze the least. Experts

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Speaker 2: then getting up immediately to optimize your sleep quality and

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Speaker 2: alarm goes off, you're not in rem sleep anymore, so

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Speaker 2: you feel like you're sleeping, but you're not actually really

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Speaker 2: getting any rest. So somehow you're best off just standing

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Speaker 2: right up, which takes I mean, that's that's incredible discipline. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Can you imagine the alarm goes off and you just

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Speaker 6: I don't lay there, I grab I turned the alarm off,

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Speaker 6: and I'm out of bad in seconds.

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Speaker 1: Oh seeh that's my bigger thing. I snooze. I wake

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Speaker 1: up in fear every day. I don't know if it's

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Speaker 1: like the best move.

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Speaker 2: And then I lay there for thirty minutes and write

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Speaker 2: emails and like do prep and stuff of the show,

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Speaker 2: look stuff up, and like I've done everything, almost everything

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Speaker 2: before I even get out of bed. By the time

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Speaker 2: I come in here, it's like I've already written you back.

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Speaker 2: But they say it's a bad idea. You're supposed to

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Speaker 2: only use the bed for sleeping. I use the bed

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Speaker 2: Like it's terrible. They call it sleep hy Jean's terrible

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Speaker 2: sleep hy Jens bad. Like my little I remember everything.

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Speaker 2: Everything happens in the except for eating. No eating in

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Speaker 2: the bed as well, no eating food in the bed.

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Speaker 2: And Fortune dot com posted a list of the top

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Speaker 2: ten college degrees that earned the least amount of money

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Speaker 2: straight out of college, that being somewhere between forty and

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Speaker 2: forty two thousand dollars a year, So happy graduation.

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Speaker 1: Number one.

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Speaker 2: The least amount of money that you're gonna make is

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Speaker 2: a foreign language. So if you made your in like French,

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Speaker 2: then that's the lowest amount of money that you're gonna

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Speaker 2: make general social studies. I didn't know you could get

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Speaker 2: a social studies degree, performing arts, anthropology, early childhood education,

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Speaker 2: family and consumer sciences, general education, by a lot sciences

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Speaker 2: theology and religion. So if you have any of those degrees,

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Speaker 2: salvly you're going to make the least amount of money. Also,

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Speaker 2: the list of the lowest paying mid career degrees, meaning

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Speaker 2: you've been at it for a while and you're still underpaid,

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Speaker 2: radio is number One's not early childhood education ranks last,

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Speaker 2: followed by elementary education are the two jobs at you know,

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Speaker 2: mid career you're still not making enough, so sorry about them.

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Speaker 2: STEM stuff like science, technology, engineering, and math. Those sorts

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Speaker 2: of degrees apparently pay the best. So if you just graduated,

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Speaker 2: then just start over again. It'll be fine. It's National

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Speaker 1: What's going on with this dude? This is your boyfriend

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Speaker 1: of two years? Right?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I need some advice right?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I've been dating this guy for two years exactly

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Speaker 7: and he didn't exactly graduate college like he said he did.

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Speaker 2: who you're dating? So this guy says he graduated college,

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: For the entirety of our relationship, he's acted like he

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Speaker 7: Yeah? Well it's it's not like entirely lie like he

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Speaker 8: And I was like, I never would have cared if.

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Speaker 1: You didn't graduate, but like why lie?

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Speaker 9: You know?

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you would you would like ask him pointed questions,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I mean I guess other than that, how would you

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Speaker 8: Yeah, there were just.

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Speaker 7: Some things like some things and dates and stuff that

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Speaker 9: And he said he was embarrassed and that lying felt easier, okay,

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Speaker 9: And I just like, I wonder if he can lie

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Speaker 7: He lie about?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the guy's a liar. The guy's a liar to

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Speaker 2: there are there are ways to No, I couldn't live

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Speaker 2: like that, but he just kept it going for two years.

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Speaker 2: So no, the guy's a liar. You have to dump him.

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Speaker 2: It's over anything else? Or should we just move on?

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Speaker 2: That's yeah, Okay, let me take some phone calls on this,

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Speaker 2: and I'm going to survey the room.

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Speaker 1: But I want to.

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Speaker 2: I want to see what people have to say, stay

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Speaker 2: or go on this one. Carrie, have the radio on

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Speaker 2: good luck, thank you? Eight five three five this so

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Speaker 2: this woman found out, you know, I guess by poking

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Speaker 2: fact go to graduate from college? I guess maybe he

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Speaker 1: Is his name? Break up a bowl? Dump a bowl? Offense?

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Speaker 2: Yes? I have to say it has to be Oh, yes,

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Speaker 1: What else are you lying about?

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Speaker 5: What if it was embarrassed, you shouldn't be embarrassed, right.

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Speaker 1: So maybe he doesn't want to like, you know, say

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Speaker 2: How many people have started college and didn't finish lots?

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Speaker 2: That's nothing to be embarrassed about it. He was flexing,

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Speaker 2: and then as supposed to coming back and be like, hey,

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Speaker 2: you know what I told you something that wasn't true.

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Speaker 2: I mean, how long was he going to keep this

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Speaker 3: So we're we we forgive people for like making out

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Speaker 3: won't forgive them for being embarrassed about something and coming

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Speaker 4: Events.

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure that I did who made out with him?

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Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't forgive it about it.

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Speaker 4: I feel like talk about that, it's like, oh, it's

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Speaker 3: Like for me, that'd be absolutely leave, But this one

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Speaker 3: I'm not necessarily like I need to know.

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Speaker 9: Oh.

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Speaker 2: I think there's a difference between a bad decision one

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Speaker 2: time and an outright concerted, consistent lot.

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Speaker 3: But how often are they talking about his like Alma mater?

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Speaker 3: Like how often is he lying about it?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 4: Is it a few times?

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Speaker 2: You know, you're claiming a major life accomplishment that you

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Speaker 2: didn't accomplish, and you're making me believe that.

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Speaker 1: Why is that okay for me, that's okay.

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Speaker 2: So if your boyfriend were like I went to college

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Speaker 2: if that'd be okay?

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Speaker 3: If he came clean and said I was really ashamed

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Speaker 3: and it has nothing to do with you, Like, maybe

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Speaker 3: there'd be conversations for.

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Speaker 1: Sure, I'd question everything. Oh yeah, Like what else you

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Speaker 1: lye about?

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Speaker 3: I don't know, but like for me a name, but

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Speaker 3: like cheating is I would that's a I don't care

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Speaker 3: if you peck kiss whatever I'm leaving, So I don't know.

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Speaker 2: That's an interesting I guess comparison. But is there a

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Speaker 2: difference between a bad choice and I would depend on

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Speaker 2: the severity of the choice. By the way, a kiss

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Speaker 2: would be different from me than would be a six

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Speaker 2: month emotional affair would be different than a physical Like, like,

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Speaker 4: That's a lie though you're not telling me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but i'd lie it's not a lie. I think

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Speaker 2: there are different levels of lies. I think I do

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Speaker 2: me that you accomplished something so that you can purport

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Speaker 2: to be someone you're not is way worse to me,

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Speaker 2: I think. And then to be consistent with it, like

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Speaker 2: just just turn around and say, you know, I mean,

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Speaker 2: just come clean.

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Speaker 1: But I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I guess sometimes people lie so much or

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Speaker 2: they or their lies get so deep that then they

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Speaker 2: can't find their way out of them, you know, but

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Speaker 2: that's pathological.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 10: You Jason this to me on like the I guess

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Speaker 10: the spectrum of offenses in a relationship is very low

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Speaker 10: for me, Like like, like Calen said, I think we

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Speaker 10: need to have a conversation of once it comes out,

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Speaker 10: like why, But I'm just assuming that he doesn't want

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Speaker 10: to own up to the fact that he dropped out

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Speaker 10: of college. Yes, a lot of people do it, but

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Speaker 10: I don't think people are necessarily proud of it. So

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Speaker 10: it's like, Okay, let's have an actual conversation of why

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Speaker 10: and what were the reasons behind it, and then that

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Speaker 10: will probably bring us closer.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. It doesn't seem like something that's like.

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Speaker 2: A okay, but that's a conversation that you would follow

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Speaker 2: up with not long after you told the lie. You

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Speaker 2: wouldn't keep the lie going for all this time. I

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Speaker 2: think it's a conversation you have once it gets found out.

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Speaker 1: But why do I have to catch you?

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Speaker 2: I mean, you want you're mean to marry you, and

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Speaker 2: you're telling me that you accomplished something over the course

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Speaker 2: of four years.

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Speaker 1: You didn't do FOS's valor.

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Speaker 6: I mean also, I don't put a lot of weight

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Speaker 4: That's an accomplishment.

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Speaker 2: You're focused on the thing, and I'm focused on the

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Speaker 2: level of the lie. I mean, you lied to someone

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Speaker 2: and you kept it up for years and years and

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Speaker 2: years over something you simply didn't do. That wasn't a mistake.

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Speaker 2: That was a conscious choice to continue lying to me.

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Speaker 2: So what else is easy for you to lie about?

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Speaker 2: I don't like it, Jackie.

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Speaker 1: How you doing, hello, Fred?

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Speaker 2: How about you?

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Speaker 1: I'm doing great, Jackie.

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Speaker 2: So this this woman's calling it because you've somehow found

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Speaker 2: completing his college degree. And now you know these guys

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Speaker 2: in here, he's these guys in here are like saying, well,

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Speaker 2: worse than lion, better than that, But I don't know

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Speaker 2: about that.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, he's a louserve because you know what you lie about?

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Speaker 4: One thing, You're going.

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Speaker 1: To watch jack do you keep do you.

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Speaker 8: Uf? I have I don't have a Southern backbone. I

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Speaker 8: have an Alton backbone. And once a liars, you fall.

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Speaker 11: Into the category of being a snitch.

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Speaker 3: You know, no got Jackie?

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Speaker 1: Wow? Aggressive? Thank you Jackie.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Jackie, you and I are as long as we're

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Speaker 2: always good, you know, we'll be fine.

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Speaker 11: To me, we'll be fine.

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Speaker 2: Bred.

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Speaker 8: I listen to you every morning and keikey. I absolutely

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Speaker 8: love you. I think you're doing an awesome job.

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Speaker 1: I love you. You wind up in a connect else somewhere, Jackie,

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Speaker 1: you have a good day.

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Speaker 8: I'm conscious. I told my car when I talk on

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Speaker 8: the phone, I.

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Speaker 2: Do not No, no, I meant, I meant if we

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Speaker 2: disagree with you, we wind up dead.

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Speaker 1: But no, that's never.

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Speaker 4: I would never on anyone.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Jackie, have a good day. Love you. Love you.

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Speaker 1: Snitches over here, No snitches, I tell you. Hey, Stephanie, Hi, Wow,

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Speaker 1: follow that call up? How do you do?

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Speaker 11: I don't want to get on her backside?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 2: No, What do you think? So if first of all,

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Speaker 2: I guess it's it's like kind of two parts. Here

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Speaker 2: is a lie A lie? I mean, are they all

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Speaker 2: the same? Is every lie said? Is there a difference

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Speaker 2: between a lie and a mistake. Is there a difference between,

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Speaker 2: you know, continuing to tell a lie or or letting

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Speaker 2: a lie persist? And what would you do in this

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Speaker 2: situation if you're this woman who found out that her

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Speaker 11: I'm feel like we need more information. I mean, was

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Speaker 11: it did he actually flat out say I went to school,

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Speaker 11: I graduated, this is when I graduated? Or was it

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Speaker 11: I went to school there? And he just kind of

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Speaker 11: omitted the information of not graduating.

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Speaker 2: You know something, Every Sunday, this dude slapped a sweatshirt

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Speaker 2: on and cheered for the team, like you know, like

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Speaker 2: like you know, like you've been going to games for

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Speaker 11: You know, I'm not gonna I'm not gonna lie. I

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Speaker 1: Did you lie about it or did you just post?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 11: So, I grew up a fan and always wore the

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Speaker 11: merchandise I started school, but then I ended up transferring

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Speaker 11: the merchandise from the previous school. And it's not like

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Speaker 11: I said, hey, I graduated from here, but I still

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Speaker 11: wore the merchandise.

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Speaker 2: Stephanie, I got news for you. You can be a

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Speaker 2: fan of a school you didn't attend, right, I'm.

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Speaker 11: Maybe that's what he was doing. He's just a fan.

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Speaker 11: He went there, but he didn't finish, So I mean,

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Speaker 11: maybe he wasn't really lying. He just didn't. It was

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Speaker 11: maybe like a white lie. You know, he didn't he

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Speaker 11: didn't share the whole tree.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Elizabeth, thank you, have a good day. And yes,

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Speaker 2: someone mentioned the season one of the rehearsal, there's a

451
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Speaker 2: storyline like this where a guy lied to a new

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Speaker 2: group of friends about having a master's degree that he

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Speaker 2: didn't have. The problem was they were trying to help

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Speaker 2: him get jobs, and they were telling people that he

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Speaker 2: had a master's degree in the process of trying to

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Speaker 2: link him up with a job. So he The whole

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Speaker 2: episode was about him coming clean to his friend about

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Speaker 2: how he in fact did not have a master's degree.

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Speaker 1: But I don't think that. I don't know how long

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Speaker 1: this went on.

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Speaker 2: But these were these were friends, they weren't lovers, and

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Speaker 2: I don't know. He did come clean finally on his own.

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Speaker 2: He didn't get caught, he came I just I don't

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Speaker 2: know if you could lie that easily about something, And

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Speaker 2: then it's pathological in some ways, like it sounds like

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Speaker 2: this dude was walking around purporting that he did this

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Speaker 2: because she was talking about he'd wear the gear and

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Speaker 2: it was almost like he was. It was almost like

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Speaker 2: he was actively talking about this thing that never happened.

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Speaker 1: Like that to me is that's another level. Elizabeth, Hi, Hi,

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Speaker 1: how are you? Fred?

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Speaker 2: Hey?

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Speaker 1: Good morning? What do you want to say? Stare Go?

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Speaker 8: I love you guys, And I'm going to say, stay okay,

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Speaker 8: why And the reason is I did that same thing?

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Speaker 1: Okay, what'd you do? And exactly I I.

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Speaker 8: Well, I went to school, but I had some things

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Speaker 8: going on in my life back in those days, which

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Speaker 8: would be a whole nother radio show. But everybody said, oh, did.

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Speaker 4: You do this?

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Speaker 5: Yay row Ron, I was like I did.

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Speaker 9: I did.

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Speaker 8: I put it on my resume at one point in everything.

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Speaker 8: And for me, I, like I said, I had some

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Speaker 8: things going on. I had to take classes, like outside

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Speaker 8: of the school I was going to and stuff and

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Speaker 8: trying to transfer them all in.

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Speaker 4: Some of them got lost.

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Speaker 8: One of the schools that I took some classes and

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Speaker 8: actually went bankrupt and I couldn't get those credits. But

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Speaker 8: in my mind, I was like you know what, I

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Speaker 8: did all the work, and I am intelligent and I

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Speaker 8: do have a good job, so I would just tell people, yeah,

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Speaker 8: I went to this school.

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Speaker 2: Okay, But here's my question, Holly, and the confines of

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Speaker 2: a relationship, a two year relationship, if you found out

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Speaker 2: that the man or woman that you were with, whatever

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Speaker 2: you're into, lied to you about something like that for

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Speaker 2: that long and kept it going. Because it's not even

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Speaker 2: like I told you that one time and then I

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Speaker 2: forgot about it or I felt bad about it and

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Speaker 2: just haven't had the chance to come back and fix it.

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Speaker 2: This sounds like this is a lie, he kept telling

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Speaker 2: over and over again.

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Speaker 8: No, I did the same thing until somebody. It was

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Speaker 8: actually my brother that called me out because he went

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Speaker 8: to the same school. He did graduate, and he was like, Elizabeth,

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Speaker 8: you never graduated. Why do you tell people?

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Speaker 4: And I was like, okay, well, you know what.

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Speaker 8: I had a reason, all right, And the reason is

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Speaker 8: you get you get wrapped into everybody you went to

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Speaker 8: high school with that's like yay, you know, with their

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Speaker 8: alma maters and everything. And it's funny. My dad graduated

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Speaker 8: from me Vers of Notre Dame and I'm a huge

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Speaker 8: Notre Dame fan, and they're like, did you go there?

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Speaker 8: That's where your grand friend? Like, no, I graduated it

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Speaker 8: and I went to the U of M.

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Speaker 1: Elizabeth.

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Speaker 2: To most people I know that are Notre Dame fans,

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Speaker 2: you haven't step foot on the campus. So it's okay,

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Speaker 2: it's fine.

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Speaker 1: They went to the other one. They went to, Uh,

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Speaker 1: I have Mary, what's the one that my dad?

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Speaker 8: So I had to otherwise I was going to get

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Speaker 8: this on.

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Speaker 1: Lizabeth.

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Speaker 8: I gotta go went to Minnesota. Why didn't you say it?

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Speaker 8: And I was like, okay, because it didn't matter.

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Speaker 1: Well, as far as I'm gonna start, you went and

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Speaker 1: you graduated. It does me?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Lisabeth, thank you have a good day. I don't

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Speaker 2: want to know about that. Is there a harmless lie?

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Speaker 2: Bro Yes, that's I mean, I think there are.

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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't think every lie is the same, but I

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Speaker 2: don't know. I mean, if you keep telling the same

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Speaker 2: stupid lie over and over again, I think it gets worse.

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Speaker 5: I mean, lights of the world lie on your resume,

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Speaker 5: not lights of your partner.

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Speaker 1: We sleep together, and that's what I mean, Like, what

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Speaker 1: else is so easy for you to lie?

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Speaker 10: Bring me in a lie because everyone in a relationship

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Speaker 10: is one hundred percent with the other.

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Speaker 2: All the what are you lying about, Jason? Do not

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Speaker 2: justify lie?

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Speaker 6: You know who is honest to their partner one hundred person?

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Speaker 6: Come on, girl, Okay, okay.

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Speaker 1: But so this person.

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Speaker 2: But I think the part that's lost on you is

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Speaker 2: that this person's looking you in the eye every day

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Speaker 2: and telling you the same thing that's not true. It's

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Speaker 2: a conscious choice every day to lie to you. That

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Speaker 2: is different than a one time liar of fib oh. No,

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Speaker 2: I did switch the laundry. No, I went to college.

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Speaker 2: And I'm telling you this for two years.

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Speaker 4: Did they talk about it every day?

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Speaker 2: You guys?

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Speaker 1: I cannot. You got me in the world time about

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Speaker 1: Jason went to Harvard? Yeah, you know, my man, Jason,

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Speaker 1: Yes he did. He went to Harvard.

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Speaker 6: Girl, I didn't go to Harvard. I didn't graduate.

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Speaker 5: You're at it, you guys, you're at I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: I don't care the level of the lie.

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Speaker 2: If if your partners were looking at you regularly and

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Speaker 2: telling you the same fake story, you would you would

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Speaker 2: be heard and upset, and you would question the validity

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Speaker 2: of a lot of things.

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Speaker 1: It was back out easy.

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Speaker 3: You're looking at me every day pretending you didn't make

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Speaker 3: out with someone else.

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Speaker 4: So it's not just a bad choice. I think that's

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Speaker 4: far worse.

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Speaker 2: I just I disagree because I can't undo. I can

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Speaker 2: undo the lie. I can't undo the makeout. I can

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Speaker 2: never do that again.

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Speaker 3: You're lying, looking at me, acting like you've been faithfulth

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Speaker 3: I mean, I you agreed?

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Speaker 1: Are you faithful? I guess, but I can't. I can't

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Speaker 1: unfaithful my saying I can't. I can't.

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Speaker 2: There something I can do about. I can tell you

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Speaker 2: I lied and didn't go to college. I can't unkiss

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Speaker 2: the person trust me. I wish I could unkiss a

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Speaker 2: lot of people. The entertainment of forty two minutes