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Speaker 1: Nephew's subject find somebody else to play with. Dear Stephen Shirley,

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Speaker 1: I'm dating a man that thinks the sun rises and

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Speaker 1: sets on him. He's very self centered, and because he

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Speaker 1: has beautiful hazel eyes, he's had these all of his life,

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Speaker 1: he's very conceited.

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Speaker 3: We started dating because I made him pursue me.

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Speaker 1: In the beginning, I never called him, and when he

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Speaker 1: texted me, I left him on read so he would

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Speaker 1: have to work hard to get my attention. He thought

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Speaker 1: it was all a game, and he said he never

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Speaker 1: had to work so hard to get someone that he

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Speaker 1: was interested in. I wanted him to know that I'm

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Speaker 1: the prize, not him. So now we've been dating for

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Speaker 1: almost a year, and I've fallen back.

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Speaker 3: I've fallen in love with him.

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Speaker 1: The tables have turned and he started back talking to

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Speaker 1: me crazy. The other day, I told him that I

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Speaker 1: love him, and his response was, how could you not?

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Speaker 3: This is not cute at all, and I checked him

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Speaker 3: on it.

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Speaker 1: During that argument, he said that he doesn't need to

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Speaker 1: say that he loves me every day because if he

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Speaker 1: didn't love me, he wouldn't he wouldn't left. He would

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Speaker 1: have left a long time ago because he meets beautiful

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Speaker 1: women every day. I let him know that he better

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Speaker 1: stop playing with me, because the same goes for me.

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Speaker 1: I can also find someone that shows me love and appreciation.

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Speaker 1: It's always about him, and if he hasn't had a haircut,

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Speaker 1: we can't go on a date. I've canceled plans so

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Speaker 1: many times because he felt like he didn't look presentable.

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Speaker 1: I've started going out without him because it is awkward

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Speaker 1: because most of our friends are coupled up. But it's

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Speaker 1: awkward because most of our friends are coupled up. Sex

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Speaker 1: is awkward too, because he says stuff like look into

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Speaker 1: these hazel eyes when we're doing it. He is a

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Speaker 1: beautifully handsome man, but he needs to find somebody else

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Speaker 1: to play with. Can he be fixed or does he

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Speaker 1: need to date himself? Well, he kind of is dating himself.

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Speaker 1: You know, we love to see confidence in people, but

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Speaker 1: it does sound like your man is quite a bit

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Speaker 1: full of himself.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 1: The only other thing I could say about him is

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Speaker 1: that he's been like this since day one. I mean,

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Speaker 1: this letter is filled with him.

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Speaker 3: All the way through the letter.

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Speaker 1: He hasn't changed from the beginning of your letter to

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Speaker 1: the end, but it seems you.

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Speaker 3: Have changed, and you've changed a lot.

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Speaker 1: You're not the confident, self assured, playing hard to get

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Speaker 1: woman that you were when you guys first met. I

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Speaker 1: guess because you've fallen in love with him. You say,

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Speaker 1: in the beginning, you made him chase you.

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Speaker 3: You know when he texted you, you.

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Speaker 1: Didn't answer him right away, all those things. But now

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Speaker 1: you've let your guard down and mister conceited, and he's

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Speaker 1: changed the game on you. It's perfectly fine to be

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Speaker 1: in love with someone, but not at the expense of

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Speaker 1: your own happiness. Okay, So all I can say is

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Speaker 1: that if this guy isn't giving you what you want,

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Speaker 1: and he isn't like telling you he loves you when

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Speaker 1: you need that, or he's not going out with you

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Speaker 1: because he didn't get a haircut, or if the sex

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Speaker 1: is awkward, then you need to move on and live

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Speaker 1: your life. I mean, you know, all you've talked about

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Speaker 1: is how he looks anyway. You never said you know

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Speaker 1: that he's a good man or anything like that. And

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Speaker 1: like you said, you can find someone to love and

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Speaker 1: appreciate you. Maybe he's just too pretty or too selfish

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Speaker 1: for you, and he's very conceited and stuck on himself,

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Speaker 1: and he can't, you know, give you any love or

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Speaker 1: any time.

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Speaker 4: Steve Well, she says the title of letter, find somebody

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Speaker 4: else to play with. Well, lady, I got to tell

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Speaker 4: you first you you're doing it right. You made him

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Speaker 4: chase you, You made him work for it, you made him

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Speaker 4: earn it. You know, men like the pursuit. We pursue

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Speaker 4: things that we think have value. And the more value

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Speaker 4: you have on yourself, the more valuable we'll treat you

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Speaker 4: when we get you. The only problem you have is

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Speaker 4: you didn't understand what you have to do. After you

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Speaker 4: get them to pursue you. You must keep raising the bar.

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Speaker 4: Men understand that we are competitors by nature. We know,

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Speaker 4: if we want to be the fastest boy on the street,

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Speaker 4: we got to beat all the boys on the street. Now,

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Speaker 4: if a new boy move on the street, we got

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Speaker 4: to be the ass. We won't keep beating on the fastest.

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Speaker 4: That's the rule. If you want to be the best

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Speaker 4: box on the street, you gotta box everybody on the street.

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Speaker 2: You can.

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Speaker 4: If you can't whoop everybody on the street, you can't

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Speaker 4: say you're the best box on the street.

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Speaker 2: The bar always moves when you go up in grades.

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Speaker 4: I'm the best football player in the ninth grade, Well

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Speaker 4: we're going to tenth now, damn it. Some other people

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Speaker 4: over here. You know, you run track at the little school,

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Speaker 4: you go to the little private school. You're winning gonna

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Speaker 4: go down there in that hood because they got some

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Speaker 4: different people down there running track. About to give a

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Speaker 4: damn about your little jacket with the emblem on it.

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Speaker 4: They're gonna blow you in that emblem. Asks gonna be

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Speaker 4: off on the ground. Don't nobody care about you going

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Speaker 4: down that little private school. You're going here with these

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Speaker 4: black kids. They don't care nothing about that. Because the

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Speaker 4: competition changes. Men are raised and understand that the bar

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Speaker 4: moves constantly. Women, you cannot forget when you're dating men,

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Speaker 4: to keep moving the bar that you got, the rise

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Speaker 4: to the occasion, create new occasions, don't stop. That's what

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Speaker 4: happened to his sister right here. She made him pursue him.

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Speaker 4: He's everything now she looks caught up now because he pretty.

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Speaker 4: We're gonna get into that second half. Because I have

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Speaker 4: told y'all about dating these pretty ass men. Ain't no,

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Speaker 4: ain't no, ain't I told y'all. I'd have told y'all

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Speaker 4: about dating pretty men. I'd have told y'all. Now, look

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Speaker 4: at you got the little pretty thing. Now, y'all can't

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Speaker 4: go nowhere because he ain't got no hair cut. See

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Speaker 4: right there, hold that thing, come back. We're gonna get

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Speaker 4: into that. Holdly, no fault, you picked pretty.

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Speaker 3: You're cute at the bank.

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Speaker 2: Just what you get.

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Speaker 1: All right. We'll have part too of Steve's response coming up.

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Speaker 1: Why are you mad about that? Coming up in twenty

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Speaker 1: three minutes after today's Strawberry Letters subject, find somebody else

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Speaker 1: to play with.

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Speaker 3: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 3: hard Morning show?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter, the subject

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Speaker 1: finds somebody else to play with.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she didn't met this pretty dude. Made him pursue it,

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Speaker 4: and then she forgot to keep raising the bar. Now

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Speaker 4: he hadn't changed on her. You know, we started dating

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Speaker 4: because I made him pursue me in the beginning. I

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Speaker 4: never called him back. I made him work for it.

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Speaker 4: He thought it was a game, he said. They ain't

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Speaker 4: never had to work so hard, to have to fight

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Speaker 4: to get somebody who was interested in it. I wanted

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Speaker 4: him to know that I'm the prized lady. I'm telling

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Speaker 4: you you did everything anyway. So now that we've been

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Speaker 4: dating for all most a year, I'm falling in love

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Speaker 4: with the tables have turned.

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Speaker 2: And he started talking back to me. Crazy.

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Speaker 4: See right there, the tables didn't turn. You didn't raise

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Speaker 4: the bar. You have to keep raising the bar. A

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Speaker 4: person can only talk to you crazy if you let them,

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Speaker 4: if you let them. The other day, I told him

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Speaker 4: I loved him. His response was, how could you not?

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Speaker 2: I love you? You see me? Look at me. You

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Speaker 2: see how pretty I am. Look at me.

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Speaker 4: It's not cute at all. And I checked him on

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Speaker 4: it doing that argument. Now you in an argument you

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Speaker 4: have told the man you love him. Man, it resulted

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Speaker 4: in an argument. He said, if he didn't love you,

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Speaker 4: he ain't got to tell you that every day, because

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Speaker 4: if he didn't love you, he would have left you

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Speaker 4: a long time ago.

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Speaker 2: Dog what like?

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Speaker 4: Nah, that's to make you feel fortunate because he meets

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Speaker 4: beautiful women every day. Okay, So I let him know

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Speaker 4: he better start playing with me because the same goals

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Speaker 4: for me. I can also find somebody shows me love

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Speaker 4: and appreciation. It's always about him. If he ain't had

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Speaker 4: a haircut, we can't go out on the date. I

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Speaker 4: canceled playing so many times because he felt like he

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Speaker 4: didn't look presentable. I started going out without him. But

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Speaker 4: it's awkward because most of our friends a couple up.

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Speaker 4: Then sex is awkward too, because he says stuff like

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Speaker 4: looking to these haze of lives.

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Speaker 2: When we're doing it.

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Speaker 4: He's a beautifully handsome man, but he needs to find

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Speaker 4: somebody else to play with.

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Speaker 2: Can this be fixed?

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Speaker 4: Or does he need to date himself? All right, let's

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Speaker 4: go back to this letter right now. He told you

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Speaker 4: it is the funniest line I ever heard. One time,

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Speaker 4: I used to play golf with this dude named pretty Ricky.

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Speaker 4: He used to win the Black Enterprise golf tournament every year.

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Speaker 4: To this young Fried brother's son came along and started whooping.

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Speaker 4: Pretty Ricky was a funny guy man. We called him

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Speaker 4: pretty Ricky. This girl was one time was talking to us.

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Speaker 4: We was having a break at the ninth hole. She

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Speaker 4: came up, Pretty Ricky said, so you're pretty Ricky.

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Speaker 2: He said, yes, I am. She said, why they called

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Speaker 2: you pretty Ricky? Isn't it obvious? He said? She said,

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Speaker 2: why they call you pretty Ricky? He said, isn't it obvious?

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Speaker 4: I fell out laughing because it was the coolest remark

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Speaker 4: I had ever heard, And isn't it obvious?

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Speaker 2: And so it reminds me of this dude.

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Speaker 3: Hey.

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Speaker 4: But but pretty Ricky was a good dude. If he

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Speaker 4: I got loved for him. But now you know you

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Speaker 4: dating this pretty dude. I'n told y'all about getting these

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Speaker 4: pretty ass me. Now you're trying to go on a date.

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Speaker 4: You can't go nowhere because he don't got no hair cut,

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Speaker 4: So just come over. So trim your little hair with

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Speaker 4: your little edges at the house and come on. You

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Speaker 4: canceling dates because he pretty, he's spending more time in

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Speaker 4: the mirror than you. He licking his baby fangle, wiping

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Speaker 4: down his eyebrows. I don't date nobody like that. You

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Speaker 4: see a man lick his baby finger then smooth his

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Speaker 4: eyebrow with his baby finger.

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Speaker 2: Cambl cample.

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Speaker 4: Now he's sitting up here now not making having sex

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Speaker 4: is awkward. Yeah, yeah, look into these haze alive. I

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Speaker 4: got news for you. Brown eyes do that too. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: here's some brown eyeboys, and he'll put it on you. Huh.

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Speaker 2: Come on, now, come on. I got a partner. We

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Speaker 2: call him Sideclops. He got one eye.

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Speaker 4: He's kind of the other one kind of gray because

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Speaker 4: he got you know, he got he got an accident

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Speaker 4: when we was kids and cut his eye. You know,

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Speaker 4: they ain't had nothing to fix it back then, so

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Speaker 4: he just got this gray eye. We call him Sideclops. Well,

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Speaker 4: not in front of the girls. We just called him

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Speaker 4: Clops for short, nah, sideclops when the girls got out.

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Speaker 4: You know, we call him clops when the girls around.

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Speaker 4: But it's Cyclops when we buy ourself.

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Speaker 2: Watch man, like we'll be cheering for the game. He go, Man,

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Speaker 2: you see that, They say.

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Speaker 3: Did you back to the letter crazy?

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Speaker 4: This is a letter Listen to me, ladies, that's date

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Speaker 4: you U. Get you an ugly man, Get you a

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Speaker 4: man that's bearable to look at. Yeah, because you know,

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Speaker 4: pretty man don't ever work out. They just don't ask

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Speaker 4: anybody that's married or dating a pretty man. It don't worry.

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Speaker 4: Get you a man that's just you know.

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Speaker 3: There's somebody on the show that will disagree with you.

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Speaker 1: Come on.

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Speaker 2: That's why he married though, and I'm doing just fine.

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Speaker 2: They work out.

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Speaker 4: If she married somebody that's bearable. You've never heard him

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Speaker 4: and they say, oh my god, he's pretty. You've never

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Speaker 4: had ever I love her and I've known him the

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Speaker 4: whole time they've been married. I've never once it. But

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Speaker 4: he is so pretty. Have you ever heard anybody say

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Speaker 4: he was pretty?

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Speaker 2: But mind though, No, don't matter. Strange.

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Speaker 4: You should have it in your mind that you're attracted,

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Speaker 4: but knowing your heart that you're not. Stop lying to yourself.

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Speaker 4: Just hey, man, look when I walk out on stage already, know,

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Speaker 4: just dress nice as you can because you got flaws.

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Speaker 2: Just wear as nice as suit as.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, in your mind say you attractive, but in your

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Speaker 4: heart know your ass is blown.

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Speaker 1: Blown? No, know it.

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Speaker 2: Hope somebody accept you No, I'm talking about toe up

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Speaker 2: from the flow Up.

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