WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Barely Haunted

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<v Speaker 1>Second Date updated, Alexis, you're in the dating world, and

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<v Speaker 1>you told us a little while ago it's really easy

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<v Speaker 1>for you to meet lots of attractive dudes. Oh sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>was it when you're around attractive dudes, you're really easy?

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<v Speaker 2>And that was.

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<v Speaker 1>Something about really easy and attractiveness. I got this, But look,

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<v Speaker 1>not everybody's on the dating sites for European rugby hunks

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<v Speaker 1>like you are, Alexis. A lot of people just do

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<v Speaker 1>the normal apps and they get really frustrated with that experience.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's say you wanted to meet a nice, attractive

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<v Speaker 1>man out in the world, naturally, but you just can't

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<v Speaker 1>find it.

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<v Speaker 3>Without getting into the scrum.

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<v Speaker 4>Dvid.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you do? That's where our listener Julia found

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<v Speaker 1>herself recently, so let's talk to her and find out

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<v Speaker 1>what she did. Julia, Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey guys, thanks for having me.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, are you?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, we've kind of noticed a trend lately where

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<v Speaker 2>people have gotten off the apps.

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<v Speaker 3>Is it something where you're trying to move away from that?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean definitely, because it's kind of like it just

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<v Speaker 5>doesn't feel as natural, and honestly, I feel like the

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<v Speaker 5>apps come with a lot of like stigma of like

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<v Speaker 5>what dating is nowadays, which is people just you know,

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<v Speaker 5>have one thing in mind and then it's kind of

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<v Speaker 5>like just.

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<v Speaker 4>Onto the next one.

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<v Speaker 5>And I'm not really here for that. I really want

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<v Speaker 5>to authentically meet people and find my person.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Okay, it was just instinct. Sorry, but it just

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like you're just matured. That's great, that's great. We're

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<v Speaker 1>all really happy for you. So what did you do?

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<v Speaker 1>How did you make that transition from dating apps to

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<v Speaker 1>the real world, Like, what's your strategy? I'm trying not

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<v Speaker 1>to the trash can over here?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I mean I just tried to really kind of

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<v Speaker 5>go on some like hobby websites and stuff like that,

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<v Speaker 5>because I try to like put myself out there in

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<v Speaker 5>those ways and finding things that maybe like guys would

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<v Speaker 5>be at.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so I run a little.

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<v Speaker 5>Bit out of my cumber zone. I'm gonna warn you, guys.

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<v Speaker 5>But definitely tried some different things.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, like what give us some examples. I'd love to hear.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>So the first thing I did was hiking, and I

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<v Speaker 5>you know, I really thought that I would find more

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<v Speaker 5>guys there. Out of the two times I went, it

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<v Speaker 5>was more like a dozen girls and maybe like two

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<v Speaker 5>or three guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it's like all of the women all had the

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<v Speaker 1>same idea to meet a guy there, and it just

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<v Speaker 1>was girls, we.

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<v Speaker 3>Still want to hike. A lot of our guys will

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<v Speaker 3>like go on their own.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>And those guys also came with girls like they already

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<v Speaker 5>were like teared up.

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<v Speaker 3>They were forced to come. That makes sense.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So hiking was a dud? What did you try?

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<v Speaker 2>Not that?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so this was kind of funny. I actually was like,

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<v Speaker 5>you know what, I don't think I would probably see

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<v Speaker 5>many women at Dungeons and Dragons.

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<v Speaker 4>That was definitely out of my comfort zone.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, any girl walking into a D and D, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>just to stare type. I don't necessarily think Dungeons and

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<v Speaker 1>Dragons and go oh hot honky guys, rich guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, so that's nerds always end up smart.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you meet a guy there?

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<v Speaker 5>It was definitely a little too nerdy for me. I

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<v Speaker 5>could not really withstand it. I didn't say the whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>Guys.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so that's not where you met this guy?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you find any hobby that actually panned out for you?

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<v Speaker 5>So there was actually this kind of fun thing that

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<v Speaker 5>I started to go into and it's called like old

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<v Speaker 5>Cup kickball. I don't know if you guys are familiar

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<v Speaker 5>with it.

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<v Speaker 1>Old Cup.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so you have two teams and everybody has to

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<v Speaker 5>hold a red solo cup and you're never allowed to

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<v Speaker 5>put it down. It's a drinking game.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a drinking game wall playing actual kickball.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's actually really fun, dude.

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<v Speaker 3>That sounds awesome. And you start with this one, why.

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<v Speaker 5>Right, okay, And you don't have to be like obliterated

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<v Speaker 5>to play, you know, you just play. And it was

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<v Speaker 5>a mix of guys and girls, so I was like

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<v Speaker 5>a lot more comfortable and it was super laid back.

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<v Speaker 5>Everybody was really.

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<v Speaker 1>Cool't so this is where you ended up meeting a guy?

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<v Speaker 4>Then?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, actually this is where.

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<v Speaker 1>I met Chad U Chad Chad.

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<v Speaker 3>Name is Chad Chad Chad? H Okay yeah not a hat.

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<v Speaker 5>Dad, but maybe will be one days.

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<v Speaker 3>Of course you met a Chad y.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Yeah, I ended.

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<v Speaker 5>Up meeting him because I was actually like on a

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<v Speaker 5>roll chilling it.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>I went to go run for home and the cup

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<v Speaker 5>that I had it was full because I really wasn't

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<v Speaker 5>drinking that much and ended up spilling all over me.

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<v Speaker 1>Guys, just what all the guys on the team wanted?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, my t shirt. I didn't mean this game.

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<v Speaker 5>It was definitely invented by a man.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, how did that lead to Chad?

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<v Speaker 5>So he ended up coming out with a towel, super

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<v Speaker 5>sweet guy. He like even took off his shirt, which,

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<v Speaker 5>mind you, is super hot. Odd took off his shirt

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<v Speaker 5>and he gave it to me so I could cover

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<v Speaker 5>up because my shirt was Why do I like it's sweaty?

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<v Speaker 3>Nobody's working that hard at kickball no matter what.

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<v Speaker 5>I guess he must have like a good immuneism or

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<v Speaker 5>like our systems like each other, because I didn't even

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<v Speaker 5>notice that.

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<v Speaker 1>So he de robed in front of you and gave

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<v Speaker 1>you his dirty clothes.

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<v Speaker 5>So that was definitely a swift move. He got some

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<v Speaker 5>brownie points for that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, so is this the date or is

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<v Speaker 1>there more after this?

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<v Speaker 5>No, we'll see. I actually got his number, which was awesome.

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<v Speaker 5>It was cool, and I didn't really get much out

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<v Speaker 5>of him after that, Like we kind of just spoke

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<v Speaker 5>a little bit. I like kind of hinted that like

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<v Speaker 5>maybe he could ask me on a date or something.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't really like throw myself over all over him.

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<v Speaker 2>Isn't it kind of obvious when you asked for a

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<v Speaker 2>dude's number that that's what you want.

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<v Speaker 3>Literally that happened.

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<v Speaker 5>And then like I literally asked for his two shirt

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<v Speaker 5>and I was like, oh good ways, Like if I

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<v Speaker 5>can return it, that'll be like another thing.

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<v Speaker 2>That's how you ask You asked, like, oh, give me

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<v Speaker 2>your number so I can give you your shirt back.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, okay, did you give him your shirt to

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<v Speaker 1>wear to tradition? And I feel like it should be

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<v Speaker 1>tit for tak Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I could give him my bro.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like I would have. Maybe that was the missing move.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna come back and call Chad for you and

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<v Speaker 1>find out what happened in the drinking hold cup kickball scenario.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna find your kickball king. Yeah, what or maybe

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<v Speaker 1>what went right with your second date update? Right after

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<v Speaker 1>this second date update if you're just joining us, we're

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<v Speaker 1>in the middle of a second date update with our

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<v Speaker 1>listener Julia, who met a guy named Chad at a

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<v Speaker 1>brand new event that we just heard about called hold

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<v Speaker 1>Cup Kickball Fun.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a great name.

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<v Speaker 1>Involves drinking, kicking rubber balls, all the ingredients of just

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<v Speaker 1>a really, really good time.

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<v Speaker 3>We forgot to mention shirtless men.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they're not supposed to be shirtless. The only Chad

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<v Speaker 1>was shirtless was because Julia accidentally spilled her cup all

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<v Speaker 1>over herself while running home to the home plate. Sorry

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<v Speaker 1>not running home in my fear. We got just making

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<v Speaker 1>sure people, because you've never heard of this sport.

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<v Speaker 5>Keep going trying like run.

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<v Speaker 1>She was making her way down the third baseline, ended

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<v Speaker 1>up spilling the drink all over herself, and so Chad

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<v Speaker 1>came to the rescue and offered her his own shirt

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<v Speaker 1>off his back. Just a true hero. It sounds like,

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<v Speaker 1>honestly a nice guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, Julia got his numbers, saying like, hey, I'll give

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<v Speaker 2>you your shirt bag and your number.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you still have the shirt? We never asked?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, actually I do still have a shirt. I never

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<v Speaker 5>got to meet up with him again.

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<v Speaker 4>You sleep with it.

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<v Speaker 1>Every night, clutched in her arms. Right now, Well, let's

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<v Speaker 1>see if we can at least get him on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone first, and maybe we'll get his shirt back to

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<v Speaker 1>him and even get you a date. But I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to dial his number right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Why do I feel like he's still topless shirt.

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<v Speaker 1>That was his one shirt. Okay, well, let's see I'm

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<v Speaker 1>dialing his number right now. Here we go. Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>we're looking to talk to Chad.

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<v Speaker 4>This is Chad.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Chad, you're on a radio show right now called

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, Hi, morning man.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't do that sexy voice. Don't do that. Sorry, but Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>it didn't sound that way. I think is not cool. Sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>We're in a mood today because we heard a lot

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<v Speaker 1>about you from one of our listeners named Julia.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, okay, you know who you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>You met Julia at one of your old cup kickball events.

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<v Speaker 1>You ended up giving her your shirt, right, Yes.

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<v Speaker 3>We have bets on whether you're still walking around shirtless

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<v Speaker 3>right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook just wants a mental image, so not currently. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>can you take your shirt off to make her more

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<v Speaker 1>comfortable with the rest they call?

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<v Speaker 4>So.

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<v Speaker 1>What we're doing here is called a second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>And even though you haven't officially been out with Julia

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<v Speaker 1>one on one yet, she wants to know if you'd

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<v Speaker 1>be interested in maybe meeting up.

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<v Speaker 4>To be honest, I've kind of tried to date and

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know literally work out for me.

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<v Speaker 3>Dating in general, I feel that.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's just so many people ghost you nowadays before

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<v Speaker 4>you even get to know them, isn't that?

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<v Speaker 2>But isn't that kind of what you're doing? I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>you're not getting back into Julia.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, he never said. They never established like a dating thing.

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<v Speaker 1>They just met at a kickball with that one time.

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<v Speaker 2>Now you know you have someone that's super interested. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>she went through all the trouble of contacting us.

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<v Speaker 3>She's not going to ghost you.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't know she was super interested until right now.

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<v Speaker 4>To be honest, well.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, surprise, the girl really likes you after just meeting you.

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<v Speaker 1>Most some time when a girl gets your number. But

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<v Speaker 1>this is going to take all the stress out of

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<v Speaker 1>it for you, because you know, if you're worried about

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<v Speaker 1>girls whether they're interested or not, you know right up

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<v Speaker 1>front here Julia is interested.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a match.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought she just wanted to give me my shirt back.

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<v Speaker 4>I couldn't figure out a time. Maybe I mean that too.

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<v Speaker 3>No, not that at all.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, yeah, it's so sweet, how literal you took that.

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<v Speaker 2>But yet no, there was like her excuse to see

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<v Speaker 2>you again.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, look I know you you clearly had some

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<v Speaker 1>heartache and troubles with the dating one before, but would

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<v Speaker 1>you be willing to give it a shot with Julia

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<v Speaker 1>just one time?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, she kind of cool with my lifestyle. I

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<v Speaker 4>guess you know I.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't know lifestyle.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, yeah, I mean that's something that that you

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<v Speaker 1>do when you hang out together, you learn about each

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<v Speaker 1>other's lifestyle. So you just have to actually meet up

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<v Speaker 1>with her once in person, and you don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>hear it from me. You can actually hear it right

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<v Speaker 1>from Julie because she's on the other line listening, wanting

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Julia, someone smiling.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah it's Julia. You can say hi to her.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi, Julia. I didn't know you liked me like that.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry, I get some kind of clueless with this stuff.

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<v Speaker 5>Well I'm kind of glad it was like me back

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<v Speaker 5>kind of thing I'm taking instead of a not like

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<v Speaker 5>me back thing.

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<v Speaker 1>So you get a pass, Chad, You're smoother than you realize.

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<v Speaker 1>Taking off the shirt at the kickball game was actually

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<v Speaker 1>a great move.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah do buddy, Yeah, I take my clothes off all

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<v Speaker 4>the time.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean by head exactly that?

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<v Speaker 5>Because I thought I was special, not for all the girls, right,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm on a stripper or anything, if that's what you're thinking.

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<v Speaker 3>I had my ones. Actually they're in my hands, Chad.

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<v Speaker 3>What do I do with them now?

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<v Speaker 1>Chad was just joking about taking his shirt off before.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess I'll save these for the next time.

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<v Speaker 4>Man.

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<v Speaker 1>So are you up for going out with her? Chad?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I wouldn't be honest about something because it's

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<v Speaker 4>kind of burned me in the past. I just want

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<v Speaker 4>to be up front of bout out it.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh good, Okay, the suspense is killing me a little.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you need to be honest about?

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<v Speaker 4>Kickball is not my only hobby. I actually, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>I have other hobbies, guys, I like to do and uh, I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Kicking a ball right now. Most women like a man

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<v Speaker 1>with many.

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<v Speaker 5>Interests, all right, So what exactly is the other hobby?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like a little curious.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I like to go ghost hunting.

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<v Speaker 1>Ghost hunting.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll spend like weekends and we'll go out and go

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<v Speaker 4>ghost hunting, and it's kind of something we enjoyed, like

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<v Speaker 4>the hope to get on TV at some point or something.

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<v Speaker 1>All the equipment and everything's interesting. Julie what's your take

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<v Speaker 1>on that you find that this like.

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<v Speaker 5>Legit paranormal activity, Like do you actually get like recording

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<v Speaker 5>them anything scared?

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<v Speaker 3>Is that why you're a touch?

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<v Speaker 4>We do it. It's legit and yeah we're nude and everything,

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<v Speaker 4>so it's you. Yeah, we don't wear clothes. It's very serious,

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<v Speaker 4>like involving like ecoplasm and things like we don't want

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<v Speaker 4>to get on our clothes. We want to go in

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<v Speaker 4>there pure, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Into like haunted buildings. Let's hope we're not just like

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<v Speaker 1>a band.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's kind of our niche where we're kind of

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<v Speaker 4>different in that way than others.

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<v Speaker 1>I could see that.

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<v Speaker 2>As a TV show though, It's like they get in

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<v Speaker 2>a frame combiners.

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<v Speaker 1>But then are you accepting new members? Can any guy

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<v Speaker 1>join and be part of the new ghost?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? I wanted to know if there was any other

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<v Speaker 5>girls like you, japp and to do this will trips with.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope it's just a guy to be worried more

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<v Speaker 2>about an exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you're saying you're still interested in this Juliet, even

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<v Speaker 1>if he is going around naked with his buddies.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's why I have a hard time bringing this

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<v Speaker 4>up because as soon as the lady finds out about it,

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<v Speaker 4>I tend to get burned.

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<v Speaker 3>That's why you're bringing up ghosting.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, and he takes his clothes off while he.

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<v Speaker 2>Does it, so I think it's the naked part that's

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<v Speaker 2>probably hard for people.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, Chad, I will tell you this. Julia has

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<v Speaker 1>played Dungeons and Dragons before, so she is kind of nerdy.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh that's weird.

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<v Speaker 1>That's weird. She doesn't even know what Okay, maybe we

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<v Speaker 1>don't need to be that judgment, got it. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>it's a joke.

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<v Speaker 4>Just so you know.

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<v Speaker 5>I am not a fan of dungeons and dragons. I've

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<v Speaker 5>definitely tried it a few times.

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<v Speaker 1>Not my thing, Okay, Okay, I don't know where. We're

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<v Speaker 1>kind of running short on time here, so we need

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<v Speaker 1>to ask you.

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<v Speaker 4>Chad.

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<v Speaker 1>It feels like it's gonna happen.

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<v Speaker 3>You can make a lot of money off this show. Proposal.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Chad, you're still up for seeing Julia?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm down.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, And Julia, you're cool with dating a naked ghost hunter.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean it's a little different, it's unique. I think

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<v Speaker 5>I'll think I'll take it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how rough the current dating scene is you know what, fine,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll take it.

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<v Speaker 3>He looks out a shirt on. That's a good point.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's less creepy if you're a hot naked Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>if you're.

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<v Speaker 4>Ghost here touch one of my apps, freaking Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 4>the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>We have talked to all different kinds of professions in

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<v Speaker 1>this segment, doctors, mechanics, models, but never, at least not

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<v Speaker 1>that I can remember. Have we ever talked to a

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<v Speaker 1>sweet nude ghost hunter?

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<v Speaker 3>Never before, Joe, I can't confirm who.

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<v Speaker 1>Wants to like make it his full time gig. Nonetheless,

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<v Speaker 1>why do I feel.

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<v Speaker 2>Like and maybe this is me being judgy, but he's

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<v Speaker 2>got to be the only really hot one. There can

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<v Speaker 2>be multiple really hot naked ghost hunters.

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<v Speaker 1>One's got a gun, Lexus and I like to think optimistically,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like a whole team of soccer players. I

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<v Speaker 1>actually do hope that he gets a show. Though. It's

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<v Speaker 1>really like Brooke described naked and afraid meets ghost hunting.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, how did you get.

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<v Speaker 5>All the girls watch?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and you're also scared ghost? All the girls actually

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<v Speaker 3>come out, They're like, hello.

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<v Speaker 1>No matter how weird your dating life gets, even if

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<v Speaker 1>it's naked ghost hunters in your life. We can try

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