Speaker 1: What kind of text? Or are you it's a jewell show.
Speaker 2: Are you one of those people who have to text
Speaker 2: your significant other all day giving updates on everything you're doing,
Speaker 2: and expect them to give you updates on everything they're
Speaker 2: doing throughout the day. Are you one of those people
Speaker 2: who your significant other texts you in the morning says
Speaker 2: I love you, and you respond thanks, but I'm busy
Speaker 2: right now.
Speaker 1: I'll respond with you a chance to reply.
Speaker 2: Or are you one of those people whose text message
Speaker 2: style is like wall We've known each other for ten minutes, said,
Speaker 2: time to send her a pick of mister Thrabsworth. Well,
Speaker 2: researchers have figured out what your texting habits say about
Speaker 2: your attachment style. So we'll tell you what your texting
Speaker 2: habits say about you right after this picture this it's
Speaker 2: a Jewble show. You meet someone new and you guys
Speaker 2: start texting and things are going great over the weekend,
Speaker 2: and then Monday hits and you text them at nine
Speaker 2: o'clock in the morning, ooh, and then one minute goes
Speaker 2: by no response, Oh no, thenour minutes nothing, then fourteen
Speaker 2: minutes and they haven't responded to your text. Granted they
Speaker 2: told you that they had a meeting at nine o'clock.
Speaker 2: But what's going on?
Speaker 1: Do they hate you? Have they found someone else?
Speaker 3: Are they cheating on you?
Speaker 2: It is annoying, So you drive down to their work
Speaker 2: and show up and bust into the meeting and scream
Speaker 2: at them for not texting you back.
Speaker 1: It's totally rational behavior, right.
Speaker 2: Well, researchers did a new study and they found that
Speaker 2: how people text can say everything about your attachment style. Now,
Speaker 2: what does your texting style say about your attachment style?
Speaker 2: If you don't know about attachment styles, it's pretty self explanatory.
Speaker 2: It's how you attach to people, like in relationships and
Speaker 2: things like that.
Speaker 4: I thought it was like your love languages, but I
Speaker 4: realized last night that's not.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not the same. It's different.
Speaker 2: So people who need a lot of texting validation, like
Speaker 2: you need to be constantly texting with someone, or like
Speaker 2: I said, a second ago, you text someone and then
Speaker 2: a minute goes by and you're like, wait a second,
Speaker 2: everything's messed up. You may have an anxious, preoccupied attachment style.
Speaker 2: People with anxious preoccupied attachment style tend of fear abandonment,
Speaker 2: which often stems from inconsistent or unpredictable caregiving from their
Speaker 2: parents when they were kids.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's me.
Speaker 5: Well it's been me for a long time. That's how
Speaker 5: I attach to people. It's very terrible. And I tell
Speaker 5: them that in the beginning too, how I was dating.
Speaker 5: He's like, what's your attachment style? Is like, I gotta
Speaker 5: tell you. I know I'm anxious, so I'm going to
Speaker 5: ask in advance if you just make sure you text
Speaker 5: back in a reasonable amount. I don't. I feel like
Speaker 5: it's helped me heal though, because I don't feel as
Speaker 5: anxious anymore.
Speaker 1: But that's exciting.
Speaker 2: It says that this bills over into their texting behavior
Speaker 2: and expectations. They put a lot of emphasis on texting.
Speaker 2: The more texting correspondence they have, the more secure they're
Speaker 2: going to feel about the relationship.
Speaker 1: Oh, it's usually how.
Speaker 5: You leave the text though, So it's not just like
Speaker 5: constantly text me and be like, Hi, I'm thinking about you.
Speaker 5: But if I ask you a question and you're taking
Speaker 5: six hours to respond, I'm losing my mind.
Speaker 1: What if they're just busy, it doesn't matter.
Speaker 5: You're still losing your mind because you don't know and
Speaker 5: you're playing out every other scenario It's not logical or awesome.
Speaker 5: It's just what happens to your nervous system when it starts.
Speaker 1: To whack out. That sucks. And then I'm like, give
Speaker 1: me a shot. Oh my gosh, I can't handle it.
Speaker 1: A shot me not. I told you I'm better now.
Speaker 6: Attachment styles are so weird to me because I feel
Speaker 6: like I'm we haven't got here yet, but the disorganized one.
Speaker 1: So I need you to text me a lot, but
Speaker 1: I'm not going to text you. What. Yeah, that's pretty frustrating.
Speaker 1: I'm not going to text you a lot, but you
Speaker 1: need me to text you a lot. Yeah, well that's annoying. Okay.
Speaker 2: Somebody texted in at it said, I'm the kind of
Speaker 2: person who texts four one oh six one every morning
Speaker 2: hoping you will read it because it's the highlight of
Speaker 2: my entire day.
Speaker 1: So there you go. So what kind of text here
Speaker 1: are you?
Speaker 2: Researchers just did a study to find out how your
Speaker 2: what your texting style says about your attachment style. People
Speaker 2: who text only when necessary may have a dismissive, avoidant
Speaker 2: attachment style. People with this kind of attachment style tend
Speaker 2: to avoid emotional connection and vulnerability.
Speaker 5: Often entirely. Okay, cool, so red flag, how is that me?
Speaker 5: I don't know, you're more voice memo. Yeah, that's what
Speaker 5: I am.
Speaker 2: When they're in a relationship, they can tend to seem
Speaker 2: aloof and unreachable, all of which usually stems from having
Speaker 2: their emotional needs invalidated as children.
Speaker 1: Yeah no, that is Victoria.
Speaker 5: Well dang, that also you though, because okay, so that
Speaker 5: doesn't have anything to know.
Speaker 1: I don't text necessary.
Speaker 6: You need to be there to text me when I've
Speaker 6: decided it's time to text. Oh god, and even if
Speaker 6: you tell me you're going to be busy, I'm like.
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter. I'm not right now. Yeah, so where's
Speaker 1: my text?
Speaker 6: So in the past, to be successful, I've tried to
Speaker 6: be busy at the same time as that person.
Speaker 1: How sweet of you. Yeah, I'm a kind person, says.
Speaker 2: If this person's in a relationship with someone who tends
Speaker 2: to text a lot, they're likely to feel overwhelmed and
Speaker 2: smothered by a flurry of messages.
Speaker 1: I've never been in a.
Speaker 4: Relationship, but man, after I've been on like a few
Speaker 4: dates with someone, I'll get so many messages Like I
Speaker 4: called me and I was confused. Why he wanted to
Speaker 4: talk to me, and my friend was like, Victoria, he
Speaker 4: just wants to yeah, And I was like so confused
Speaker 4: by the thought that this man just wants to talk
Speaker 4: to me on the phone.
Speaker 2: Victoria gets annoyed by people on dating apps once they
Speaker 2: say like after after they say hi, it's like.
Speaker 1: Hi, Hi, how are you? Oh my god?
Speaker 4: Back look man, when I'm working, I'm working, Okay.
Speaker 6: I only feel that way when I don't want the
Speaker 6: text messages from that person. Specifically, I'm like, you don't
Speaker 6: want you in my inbox, So you're picky.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: People who go back and force between extremes may have
Speaker 2: a fearful avoidant or disorganized attachment style. Those with fearful
Speaker 2: avoidant or what is sometimes called disorganized attachment want nothing
Speaker 2: more than emotional intimacy, but it also scares them to death.
Speaker 1: That's mine, and it's one of the most difficult to
Speaker 1: deal with. Goes a long way.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I have a disorganized attachmental if things are good,
Speaker 2: I have a secure attachment style. But if things get bad,
Speaker 2: I have a disorganized attachment style, and that really throws
Speaker 2: things for a loop.
Speaker 6: Well, it's because he was disorganized. Basically all of them
Speaker 6: except for the good one. Yeah. Yeah, everything. One second
Speaker 6: you're super needy. One second you're like.
Speaker 1: Back home bothering me. Well, you were texting me all
Speaker 1: day asking to hang out. Yeah, but I didn't want
Speaker 1: to actually do it. That was when I was texting you.
Speaker 1: Go away for a second. You be careful.
Speaker 5: You're gonna get somebody that rolls up at your house.
Speaker 5: And that's exactly what especially if it's an anxious attachment person.
Speaker 7: You all are.
Speaker 2: People with this attachment style often into childhood trauma, neglect,
Speaker 2: or abuse.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, makes sense.
Speaker 2: People who text consistently and communicating a timely manner may
Speaker 2: have a secure attachment style.
Speaker 5: That congratulations. I tried for that one day in my life.
Speaker 2: But I tell you I've experienced I mean, I've been
Speaker 2: disorganized in many relationships because they were not good. And
Speaker 2: I can tell you have also experienced a secure one.
Speaker 2: And it's way cooler. Can do stuff. If somebody's not
Speaker 2: texting back, you're like, oh, they're busy so much, that's fine. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I wouldn't trust it, but it does get weird. Oh
Speaker 2: at first, it's like, oh yeah, that's how I get.
Speaker 2: At first, you're like, is this cool? This can't be No,
Speaker 2: this is this is actually really good.
Speaker 1: It takes a while at us.
Speaker 5: My favorites are having this conversation like it's normal, and
Speaker 5: then when people.
Speaker 1: Are like, why are you single? Now, it's another double
Speaker 1: phone frame Morning on the twenties.
Speaker 8: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hello, this is Trevor.
Speaker 9: Trevor.
Speaker 3: Oh sorry, hello, my name is Trevor and I'm calling
Speaker 3: from Thank. I was looking for Shana because there's apparently
Speaker 3: a problem with your internet service provider problem. Okay, well,
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry. Okay, Okay, go ahead. I know there's
Speaker 3: some problem with something maybe your internet is down or something.
Speaker 10: No, my internet is not down, and that has nothing
Speaker 10: to do with the bank.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 11: No, I'm locked out of all of my accounts and
Speaker 11: I need.
Speaker 12: Someone to help me get that startled.
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm sorry.
Speaker 3: You're locked out of your house right now, like we
Speaker 3: don't do that at the bed.
Speaker 12: Oh oh my god.
Speaker 11: No, I'm walk out of my accounts.
Speaker 12: Like all of my banking accounts.
Speaker 9: Are working.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, one issue might be because we don't have
Speaker 3: keys for the accounts like passwords.
Speaker 11: My passwords.
Speaker 3: Oh you mean like online yes, okay, so you're locked
Speaker 3: out of your accounts and then you're not able.
Speaker 1: To open them up.
Speaker 11: That is that's correct?
Speaker 1: Okay. Problem one second?
Speaker 3: My name is Trevor, I know, okay, and I'm gonna
Speaker 3: put you on a brief Holday, okay, one second, please hold, Okay,
Speaker 3: I'm I might. I might kill my ex. Not the
Speaker 3: best idea his new friends. Next, I'm not on hold?
Speaker 11: I did you? Are you doing anything?
Speaker 3: That was the song killed bill By says oh that
Speaker 3: I was singing right there because I don't.
Speaker 1: Care what the okay?
Speaker 11: So can you just help me?
Speaker 3: Yes, I just need to put you on a brief hold.
Speaker 3: My name is Trevor.
Speaker 13: Okay.
Speaker 1: At first, I was afraid. I was on Trevor so.
Speaker 3: Many nights thinking about how you're.
Speaker 11: Not placing me on hold.
Speaker 12: I can hear you singing.
Speaker 3: Okay, So I'm gonna full transparency mode. Since I'm new,
Speaker 3: I'm still trying to learn how to work the phone system,
Speaker 3: so I'm looking for how to get you into the
Speaker 3: hold cue. But I figured, like, since you know we
Speaker 3: have hold music, I would just perform it for you.
Speaker 1: You have to, you don't have to, that's okay.
Speaker 11: I'd rather you.
Speaker 10: Just focus on getting answers to my issue than saying
Speaker 10: I really don't need.
Speaker 3: You singing well, but like we have hold music, and
Speaker 3: that's part.
Speaker 1: Of like the thing that I don't need hold music.
Speaker 11: I don't like music. I don't like music.
Speaker 1: Okakay, okay, please hold today. I don't feel like doing it.
Speaker 1: I just I don't. I don't stop say okay, well.
Speaker 12: Were in touch with someone who can better assist me,
Speaker 12: who can assist me in general?
Speaker 3: You are not helping okay, So in order to do that,
Speaker 3: I have to place you on hold. But I don't
Speaker 3: know how to do that. So I think we're kind
Speaker 3: of stuck here.
Speaker 2: Transfer don't hold, transfer me to someone you want me.
Speaker 3: Just walk down the hall that I can't because I
Speaker 3: have a heads up, but I was like.
Speaker 1: A cord on it.
Speaker 3: I don't know how to do that yet, and I
Speaker 3: feel like like now I'm kind of scared because.
Speaker 1: I don't know what do you know how to do well?
Speaker 1: I do know how to like juggle.
Speaker 12: Twever regarding this job, what do you know how.
Speaker 1: To do well? I could tell you it's a prank call.
Speaker 11: I don't.
Speaker 2: This is actually double from the Jubil Show doing a
Speaker 2: phone brank on you and your boyfriend set you up.
Speaker 1: Stop. He said, you've been having an issue with the
Speaker 1: bank and he wanted to mess with you. I'm going
Speaker 1: to kill Oh my god, I thought I was helping
Speaker 1: you out. Great, that was actually.
Speaker 11: Your voice, Like that's actually you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, yes, it's part of me.
Speaker 9: Yes, please keep your day job.
Speaker 1: Wake up every morning with double phone Franks, It's time,
Speaker 1: Fernina's what's trending.
Speaker 5: So Justin Baldoni has a new website dedicated to the
Speaker 5: him and Blake Lively case nuts. But I've been trying
Speaker 5: to find the website it I can't find the actual website.
Speaker 5: There's all these articles that are talking about the website,
Speaker 5: but I can't find the actual website to look at it.
Speaker 1: But I know they're trying to get taken down. So
Speaker 1: maybe they did, but.
Speaker 5: I'm sure because I don't know how long this is
Speaker 5: going to last anyway. So if you don't know, Justin
Speaker 5: Baldoni and Blake Lively got this big war against each
Speaker 5: other going on because of their time they spent filming
Speaker 5: the movie.
Speaker 1: It ends with us.
Speaker 5: So Justin says that on the top of the website
Speaker 5: it says lawsuit info and then there's two links allegedly
Speaker 5: on the website, which is basically giving you all the
Speaker 5: information of what has happened, a full timeline of the
Speaker 5: relevant like of the relevance of the case, and one
Speaker 5: that's the amended complaint filed by Justin so you can
Speaker 5: keep up with everything, and they're going to continue to
Speaker 5: update it as long as it's allowed to be up there.
Speaker 1: According to his.
Speaker 4: Lawyer, I think they got it taken down because it
Speaker 4: literally says the site cannot be reached.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I see. I'm surprised they would even allow it.
Speaker 2: That doesn't look good for Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds really,
Speaker 2: like all the stuff that I've been seeing and hearing,
Speaker 2: it seems kind of like they were bullying him in
Speaker 2: a way.
Speaker 6: I do want to give Baldoni credit. The website link
Speaker 6: was the lawsuit dot info.
Speaker 1: Oh that's what it was, I said, But I find
Speaker 1: that that's great. That's really fantastic and easy to find.
Speaker 1: But it's gone.
Speaker 2: So Ryan and Blake are trying to have the lawsuit
Speaker 2: dismissed too. Yeah, all that stuff coming out because I
Speaker 2: do think that that there's a lot more to the story, but.
Speaker 4: I don't think it's going to get dismissed with everything
Speaker 4: how it's been playing out.
Speaker 1: I don't think it's going to do.
Speaker 5: I mean, it's like, how long are we going to
Speaker 5: go with all this build up though, because the actual
Speaker 5: court dators we reported last week isn't until next year,
Speaker 5: So this is just going to keep going and going.
Speaker 1: Like an election.
Speaker 5: But also it's like Blake and Ryan being quiet for
Speaker 5: a reason while Justin's like just outwardly trying to defend himself.
Speaker 5: You know, they're sitting back and getting ready to play
Speaker 5: offense again. I don't know, man, but this website, like
Speaker 5: you're putting out a website, it's coming to more like
Speaker 5: it's does her public.
Speaker 1: Opinion at this point, Like, Oh, that's what he's trying
Speaker 1: to say.
Speaker 2: Yeah, doesn't mean I think he wants the details to
Speaker 2: get out there, because if you look at the details
Speaker 2: of the story, there's a lot of stuff that look
Speaker 2: bad for Ryan Reynolds and Blake also, But he probably
Speaker 2: wants to because him compared to them, he's not a
Speaker 2: powerhouse like the are, like Ryan Renolds is one of
Speaker 2: the biggest celebrities out there and very rich.
Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, the consequences for Blake and Ryan are minimal. Right,
Speaker 6: The consequences for Justin are massive, right.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say they were minimal at this point.
Speaker 4: I feel like what it's doing, like, I think she's
Speaker 4: already gotten turned down for multiple things.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I mean they'll still work like they can
Speaker 2: destroy this dude's whole career, right.
Speaker 5: Yeah, right, I think so. So well, we'll see. We've
Speaker 5: got plenty of time to watch it roll out. In
Speaker 5: other news, this is really interesting. If you have a
Speaker 5: million dollars, there's a matchmaking services that promise a matchmaking
Speaker 5: What a matchmaking service that promises to find your soulmate.
Speaker 1: In one year? How cute.
Speaker 5: I'm super triggered by matchmaking services because I've had terrible experience,
Speaker 5: but this one's kind of interesting. So it's an LA
Speaker 5: based service called the Three Day Rule, and they're trending
Speaker 5: right now because of what they offer. Not only are
Speaker 5: they promising to give you your lover, they're saying that they've
Speaker 5: got a dedicated recruiter to fly all around the country
Speaker 5: to visit visit different bars and gyms and concerts, any
Speaker 5: space you can imagine, to try to seek this person out.
Speaker 5: They've got the matchmaker part to make sure that this
Speaker 5: person lines up with you, you get a dating coach
Speaker 5: to make sure that your hair, clothes, and the conversations
Speaker 5: that you have on this day are legit. And then
Speaker 5: if you end up getting engaged in less than six months,
Speaker 5: you get a three care engagement ring to go with it.
Speaker 4: Homie, save your money, go on the Bachelor, let me
Speaker 4: tell you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but they do offer a bit of free advice
Speaker 5: that's kind of legit, and that is to dress up
Speaker 5: on your next flight. Most of us like to wear
Speaker 5: sweats and be super comfy when we go on flights.
Speaker 5: But apparently the airport is a hotspot, not just for
Speaker 5: you to find your person, but for these recruiters out
Speaker 5: there that might find you. For somebody who paid the
Speaker 5: million dollars to find their match, and you could be
Speaker 5: a match. So go to the airport at all cute
Speaker 5: and stuff and see what happen.
Speaker 1: I don't know if I want to be their match.
Speaker 1: I mean they spent a million bucks on that. I mean,
Speaker 1: you're terrible with money, kards, are my soulmate? Are not?
Speaker 1: They spent a million dollars on this? No? Also just that, well,
Speaker 1: I go buy like a cheap plight. It's in the
Speaker 1: airport for a few Just a.
Speaker 6: Quick reality check, less than two percent of people in
Speaker 6: the United States have a million dollars. Okay, okay, so
Speaker 6: again with the standards. Okay, you're not gonna go find
Speaker 6: a multimillionaire. That's only that's less than two percent of
Speaker 6: the entire United States.
Speaker 1: But you could be their sole me.
Speaker 9: You're not.
Speaker 1: Your soul works at McDonald's. Deal with it, a happy life.
Speaker 5: Okay, No they don't, and thank you.
Speaker 2: They came back and said, your soulmate works at McDonald's.
Speaker 2: You know we found them. They are drafted worker at McDonald's.
Speaker 2: I think you're confused to return to centers. I'm no respect,
Speaker 2: but like I'm tired. I don't want to like sacrifice
Speaker 2: my sleep for just anything.
Speaker 6: So what Nina's saying is, if somebody who paid a
Speaker 6: million dollars for a matchmaker, then they find you, you
Speaker 6: better be worth that million bucks.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, whatever, I'm glad to have my own standards.
Speaker 4: It's time to catch a cheater.
Speaker 1: Only on the.
Speaker 2: Jubile Show, Eric is on the phone today for to
Speaker 2: catch a cheater. He's been with his girlfriend Amy for
Speaker 2: a year, but now he thinks something might be going
Speaker 2: on so we'll see if we can help him out.
Speaker 14: Eric.
Speaker 1: Sorry, you're going through man, But what's up? Why do
Speaker 1: you think Amy's cheating on you?
Speaker 11: Hey?
Speaker 15: Oh man, I don't even know where to start. I
Speaker 15: guess I'll just say that like being with Amy, it's
Speaker 15: been one of the best years of my life.
Speaker 11: Like, she really just helped me turn things around.
Speaker 15: I was at an extremely low point. My career was
Speaker 15: pretty much at a dead end, and when I met.
Speaker 11: Her, she just completely lifted me up. She helped me
Speaker 11: get on my feet.
Speaker 15: Help me focus on what I love and I can
Speaker 15: never repay her for that. But a month ago, things
Speaker 15: just started to change. So I'll practice by saying like,
Speaker 15: I don't want to sound like a stereotypical Joe's boyfriend,
Speaker 15: but I just couldn't help. But wonder She gets these
Speaker 15: random text messages late at night, Okay, nine, ten eleven
Speaker 15: at night, and when I asked her about it, she
Speaker 15: says it's a work thing.
Speaker 11: Most of the texts are from someone named Kurt Okay.
Speaker 15: I've never met a Kurt. She's never mentioned a Kurt Okay,
Speaker 15: And when I asked her about it, she gets super defensive.
Speaker 15: She snaps at me and just says, oh, it's a
Speaker 15: work so.
Speaker 1: You can see who's texting her. Yeah, she's not hiding it.
Speaker 15: From you, No, I mean I know that Kurt is
Speaker 15: texting her.
Speaker 11: Whose kurt Is?
Speaker 1: Got it? Have you asked her who Kurt is?
Speaker 11: She just shuts me down.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's a little shutting down.
Speaker 5: Late night work, I mean, late night work text excuses
Speaker 5: are always kind of uncomfortable because realistically, nobody's really talking
Speaker 5: about work at nine pm?
Speaker 1: Is that new like late work texts?
Speaker 11: It's been happening for like about a month.
Speaker 2: Now, Okay, so yeah, it is like, is she a
Speaker 2: career type person, you know, who would be working at
Speaker 2: nine o'clock a night? Or is it just like completely
Speaker 2: out of character?
Speaker 11: No, it's not out of character. She works at night.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, she was working at home.
Speaker 11: I was over at her place.
Speaker 15: She got up to use the bathroom and this team's
Speaker 15: message popped up on her phone from Kurt okay, and
Speaker 15: it said, you know you want some more of yesterday,
Speaker 15: don't you?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, you shouldn't be writing those types of things
Speaker 5: on teams.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that's definitely that doesn't sound like work
Speaker 1: to me.
Speaker 5: Was she celebrating anything at work, Like does she come
Speaker 5: home telling you anything good happened?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 15: And I didn't say anything about that because I didn't
Speaker 15: want to start an argument with her.
Speaker 11: But I mean, that's you know, you want some more
Speaker 11: of yesterday? Don't you like? What am I supposed to
Speaker 11: think about that?
Speaker 1: Yeah? And define you didn't ask her about that?
Speaker 11: No, I just I didn't want it to get out
Speaker 11: of hand.
Speaker 1: Okay. So, other than those messages, which are obviously big
Speaker 1: red flags, is there anything else that she's doing or
Speaker 1: happening in your relationship that feels off?
Speaker 11: Honestly? No, I don't know.
Speaker 1: For me, I feel like that would be enough to
Speaker 1: like wonder what that meant and if exactly.
Speaker 11: Okay, So I was thinking that you guys could call her.
Speaker 15: There's this cookie spot that we went to on our
Speaker 15: first state that we always go to now, and I
Speaker 15: think that it would work because she's a rewards member
Speaker 15: there and they send her special deals on free cookies
Speaker 15: and stuff like that.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, all right, cool, So we'll call, We'll play
Speaker 2: a song, come back, and then call and pretend to
Speaker 2: be from the cookie place and say that she's in
Speaker 2: the gift of cookies, buddy, and see if she puts
Speaker 2: your name on the card or sends them to you
Speaker 2: or to somebody else. Okay, okay, all right, play a song,
Speaker 2: come back and get your to Catch cheeter next. If
Speaker 2: you're just joining us for today's to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2: Eric is on the phone and he thinks that his
Speaker 2: girlfriend of one year might be cheating. So in a second,
Speaker 2: we're gonna call her and see if we can catch
Speaker 2: her cheating. If she is, hopefully we'll find out she's not.
Speaker 2: But before we do that, Eric, why don't you catch
Speaker 2: us up on your situation.
Speaker 15: Yeah, so I've been seeing Amy for about a year
Speaker 15: and about a month ago, she's been getting these tax
Speaker 15: late at night from this guy named Kurt that she
Speaker 15: claims she works with, and just something seems suspicious about it.
Speaker 1: Well, and one of the texts was asking what was that?
Speaker 1: What did he say? Again? In the team's message.
Speaker 11: He said, you know you want some more of yesterday,
Speaker 11: don't you?
Speaker 1: That seems strange?
Speaker 11: So I figured you could call her from the cookie
Speaker 11: spot that we go to.
Speaker 15: She's an awards member there and they send her mules
Speaker 15: on pretty cookies and stuff.
Speaker 1: All right, cool?
Speaker 2: And you told us what the name of the place is.
Speaker 2: So are you ready for us to give her a call?
Speaker 11: Yes?
Speaker 1: Okay, man, here we go.
Speaker 2: Hey, this is Corbyn calling from Cookies. I was looking
Speaker 2: for our Rewards Card member named any Hi. Hey, Amy,
Speaker 2: how are you doing? Apologize for calling your phone like this,
Speaker 2: but I am I'm not trying to tell you anything.
Speaker 1: I have some exciting news. Congratulations here this month's big winner.
Speaker 12: Oh fine, thank you?
Speaker 13: Yeah.
Speaker 11: I love you guys.
Speaker 2: Well, we love our customers and I know we send
Speaker 2: you some offers and stuff like that sometimes. But we're
Speaker 2: doing a new thing where we choose one of our
Speaker 2: Rewards Card members each month that gets a baker's dozen
Speaker 2: of our cookies delivered to.
Speaker 1: Anybody that they want. I'm good.
Speaker 2: Well we'll start with the name first time was in
Speaker 2: the name. It comes with a card too, so we'll
Speaker 2: do name card and then you give me the address.
Speaker 2: So first and the last name of the person you'd
Speaker 2: like to send them to.
Speaker 10: First will be great, Okay, it's Kurt k u Rtie
Speaker 10: and the last name.
Speaker 1: Is Okay, Kurt, got it? And would you like to
Speaker 1: put anything you know, like a in the card to Kurt?
Speaker 11: Yeah? Okay?
Speaker 10: Can you write, you gave me some sugar. Now I'm
Speaker 10: giving you some sugar. You're the best.
Speaker 1: You gave me sugar. Now I'm giving you sugar. Great, well, Amy.
Speaker 1: At this point, I just need to let you know
Speaker 1: this is not cookies at all. This is actually a
Speaker 1: radio show. It's the Jewbil Show. My name is Jubel.
Speaker 11: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Hi, I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 2: We we do a segment on our show called to
Speaker 2: Catch a Cheater where if you think your significant other
Speaker 2: might be messing around, you see who they send something
Speaker 2: to and what they put on the card. And your
Speaker 2: boyfriend Eric is actually on the phone and he was listening.
Speaker 11: Eric, I mean, what is that supposed to mean? Oh
Speaker 11: my god, tell me right now? Are you Are you
Speaker 11: kidding me? No, I'm not kidding. No, Okay, you gave
Speaker 11: me some sugar. Now I'm giving you some sugar. Yes,
Speaker 11: this is this is insane. I'm glad that I did.
Speaker 11: You're clearly cheating on me. I'm Eric, I am not seating.
Speaker 1: Oh what kind of are you getting?
Speaker 10: I cannot believe you have me on a radio show
Speaker 10: right now. Why don't you just ask me like this
Speaker 10: is a combination we should have at home.
Speaker 11: No, I'm asking you right now, what does you gave
Speaker 11: me some sugar?
Speaker 6: Now?
Speaker 11: I'm giving you some sugar.
Speaker 10: Bean, Eric, I'm not heating. There's no reason why I
Speaker 10: should be on a radio Stow right now. Like, explain
Speaker 10: to me how that's not cheating. Okay, I just don't believe.
Speaker 15: I just don't believe you any I saw the text
Speaker 15: from Kurt, you know that, right, the text you've been
Speaker 15: getting at night, Yeah, for more teams message that you got.
Speaker 15: You know you want some more of yesterday, don't you.
Speaker 15: I saw that, Amy, Oh my god.
Speaker 1: What was that? Sugar? Amy?
Speaker 11: Okay, I cannot believe it. Okay.
Speaker 10: Kurt is a new manager for my team at work. Okay,
Speaker 10: the other day he brought in donuts. That's what the
Speaker 10: team's message was about. And that's what the sugar comments
Speaker 10: on the card means. It's just it's just me being funny, Like.
Speaker 1: You cannot send that on teams.
Speaker 10: Okay, Okay, I know, okay, Okay, I know that I'm
Speaker 10: I am being flirty with him, and I know that
Speaker 10: that's not okay, and I feel horrible about it. But
Speaker 10: like I've really really Eric, you know how badly I
Speaker 10: want to get this promotion. I'm just trying to getting
Speaker 10: good with them and buddy, buddy girl, I do feel
Speaker 10: bad about being flirting, but like I am not feeding.
Speaker 2: Okay, so you're just flirting with your new boss a
Speaker 2: promotion and he's obviously flirting with you, Eric, I'm sorry.
Speaker 15: No, you don't have to I get it. What, Amy,
Speaker 15: I believe you. I know that you're telling me the truth.
Speaker 15: I know how much you want the promotion and the
Speaker 15: way that you helped me when I was at a
Speaker 15: low point with my job, the way that you shared
Speaker 15: me on and you got me back on my feet.
Speaker 1: Did you also flirt with your boss to get a promotion?
Speaker 11: No? But I trust you, Amy.
Speaker 1: But what Amy?
Speaker 5: What if your boss comes to you and is like, hey,
Speaker 5: let's go out for drinks and then starts putting the
Speaker 5: moves on you, Like, how far are you going to
Speaker 5: get this promotion?
Speaker 11: I know how important it is to her.
Speaker 1: You would be okay with that. Yeah, Okay, it's going
Speaker 1: to go.
Speaker 11: I'm not going to go on a date with him.
Speaker 11: He knows about he knows about Eric.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, but Eric, you're co signing it. You're good
Speaker 2: with her flirting with her boss to get a promotion.
Speaker 11: And you believe Yes, yeah I do, I do. It
Speaker 11: would be good for us. It means more money for
Speaker 11: us vacation. It's just a little flirting, all right.
Speaker 1: Cool? Well, Eric, congratulations you found out that Amy is
Speaker 1: not cheating. Amy.
Speaker 5: Maybe just disclose your flirt flirting before Yeah, yeah, I
Speaker 5: don't know what do you call it?
Speaker 1: Just beforehand? I don't know, yeah, something like that.
Speaker 11: Yeah, I know. I'm sorry.
Speaker 10: I don't say anything about it, and I don't feel
Speaker 10: great about it, but I do think that it could
Speaker 10: really help us that I got this promotion. You know,
Speaker 10: we want to go on trips and I've been off
Speaker 10: for this commotion forever. And I'm sorry that I was
Speaker 10: flirting and I didn't say anything.
Speaker 11: Okay, cool, Eric's okay, Yeah, yeah I am. Thank you guys. Yeah, yeah, Eric, Amy,
Speaker 11: I love you.
Speaker 10: I love you too, and you know that I would
Speaker 10: never cheat on youse.
Speaker 11: Please please please talk that. I know that I know
Speaker 11: that you know. Anything beyond second base is cheating.
Speaker 1: Okay, go get that promotion. Well you're clear now, Amy,
Speaker 1: don't pass that second base.
Speaker 4: The jewel shows to catch a cheater.
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Speaker 7: I know that having a boyfriend may seem like the
Speaker 7: most important thing in the world right now, but you
Speaker 7: don't have to dumb yourself down to get guys to
Speaker 7: like you.
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Speaker 5: What is the name of the ancient Egyptian writing system
Speaker 5: that you symbols?
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Speaker 1: line call me Ishmael? What?
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Speaker 5: Hieroglyphics is the ancient Egyptian writing system that you symbols.
Speaker 5: Movie Dick is the famous novel that begins with the
Speaker 5: line call me Ishmael, I'm sorry. Does everyone read that book?
Speaker 5: And I haven't. Athena was the Greek goddess of wisdom.
Speaker 5: The term for a group of wolves is a pack,
Speaker 5: and the leaning Tower Pisa is in Pisa, Italy.
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Speaker 2: Pasha is on the phone today for a first date
Speaker 2: follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Jordan.
Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we're gonna call him and
Speaker 2: see if he'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe
Speaker 2: get her another date.
Speaker 1: For first Tasha, how long has it been since you
Speaker 1: heard from Jordan.
Speaker 12: It's been nine days oally.
Speaker 1: Okay, good amount of time.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so have you been trying to get a hold
Speaker 5: of him? How have you felt during that time?
Speaker 11: Oh?
Speaker 12: Man, haven't you been so nervous? Like I actually did
Speaker 12: reach out to him two days ago and he didn't respond.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, let's talk about your date, like what could
Speaker 1: have gone wrong? How was it?
Speaker 12: I thought it was great, you know, like it was
Speaker 12: a classic get to know you sing coffee in a
Speaker 12: bookstore and you know with it, we just like kept
Speaker 12: hanging out and we watched some people watching, you know,
Speaker 12: like by the park and he's really funny, low key
Speaker 12: you know. Okay, Yeah, and we had this moment where
Speaker 12: he brushed my hair back while we were sitting on
Speaker 12: the bench, and well things got a little romantic after that.
Speaker 12: I mean it just made me think he liked me
Speaker 12: and he was real, like none of that like performative
Speaker 12: stuff you get on the apps, and like I felt
Speaker 12: so seen. I don't know, he even remembered the book
Speaker 12: I said I loved in high school.
Speaker 1: Oh that's cool. That is cool. So you felt like
Speaker 1: he was vibing you.
Speaker 12: Too, Yeah, and his voice is so dreamy for I
Speaker 12: don't know. I'm just like so into him, and I
Speaker 12: don't get it. I thought he was into me too.
Speaker 1: Okay, well, why do you think he's ghosting you?
Speaker 11: I can't really think of anything.
Speaker 12: I just feel like maybe he found me too talkative,
Speaker 12: or he didn't like my jokes, you know, Like I
Speaker 12: mean I made this like one political joke, but like
Speaker 12: it wasn't even a joke that I made up, you know,
Speaker 12: I just like google jokes to talk about on dates.
Speaker 1: And.
Speaker 12: So you went political, Like I'm not even a political person,
Speaker 12: Like I don't care about politics, you know, but maybe
Speaker 12: he found what I said offensive. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I mean usually they say talking about politics on a
Speaker 2: first date is a bad thing a joke, but you
Speaker 2: google jokes before you.
Speaker 1: Go on dates, and that's the thing, you don't know.
Speaker 1: I mean, I've never done it before, but I think
Speaker 1: that's kind of cool. Actually, I'm about to start.
Speaker 2: So you go to dates with like a list of
Speaker 2: pre approved or pre googled jokes to use, Yeah, that's cool.
Speaker 1: I think that.
Speaker 2: Like, Actually, if I were to go on a date
Speaker 2: with you, I think that was dope. If you if
Speaker 2: you told me that you googled the things, I'd be like,
Speaker 2: that's awesome, that's effort, right, Yeah.
Speaker 12: Yeah, I mean I didn't tell him. I mean, you
Speaker 12: don't tell the person you're on a date with that
Speaker 12: you google jokes or something that's like months into the relationship.
Speaker 12: Then you then you tell them.
Speaker 1: Right when they're like she had all these jokes but
Speaker 1: now she doesn't, You're like, yeah, it's because I've been
Speaker 1: googling them. But yeah, how was this mood after the
Speaker 1: political joke?
Speaker 9: Then?
Speaker 1: What did it change after that?
Speaker 12: No? I mean I mean he laughed, you know, but
Speaker 12: I don't know if it was like an awkward laugh.
Speaker 1: Did you guys change the subject after that?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 12: I mean honestly, the conversation just kept flowing naturally, like
Speaker 12: and then we just liked made fun of people walking
Speaker 12: by and and and I don't know, I just I
Speaker 12: didn't really think anything bad happened. So that's why I'm
Speaker 12: just very confused. You know, he gave me a little
Speaker 12: kiss on the cheek and and that was good.
Speaker 1: Well, so how did it?
Speaker 5: How did you guys leave it? Did you plan on
Speaker 5: seeing each other again? Or was it just like, oh,
Speaker 5: this was fun things?
Speaker 12: Yeah? Yeah, I mean I was like, okay, well I'll
Speaker 12: see you, you know, soon hopefully, and then that's kind
Speaker 12: of like how we ended it. And then, like you know,
Speaker 12: these days go by and I'm just like replaying the
Speaker 12: date in my head over and over again, and I'm like, wait,
Speaker 12: what did I do? Like, I don't get it. I
Speaker 12: thought we were good. I wasn't being weird or anything
Speaker 12: when I texted him two days ago, like I just
Speaker 12: you know, sent him a playful text, and you know
Speaker 12: he didn't respond, so it's like, what's up.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, we'll try to figure it out for you.
Speaker 2: Then we'll play a song come back, and then call
Speaker 2: him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you,
Speaker 2: and maybe get you another date if you still want one?
Speaker 11: All right? Yeah? I want one?
Speaker 1: All right?
Speaker 2: Okay, we'll play a song come back, and call him
Speaker 2: and get your first day follow up next if you're
Speaker 2: just joining.
Speaker 1: Us for today's First Day follow up.
Speaker 2: Tasha is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by
Speaker 2: a dude named Jordan's. So we're gonna call him in
Speaker 2: just a second and see if he'll tell us why
Speaker 2: he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date.
Speaker 1: You still want one, right, Tasha?
Speaker 9: Oh?
Speaker 1: Yeah, and maybe.
Speaker 2: Get her another day or she wants one, which she
Speaker 2: said she does. But first, Tasha, let's get a recap
Speaker 2: of your date real quick before we call him.
Speaker 12: Oh yeah, it was such a beautiful date.
Speaker 11: You know.
Speaker 12: We went to a bookstore and a coffee shop and
Speaker 12: then we like sat at the park and people watched
Speaker 12: and it was it was literally like a movie, like
Speaker 12: a romantic comedy movie, and I was the star and
Speaker 12: he was a hero.
Speaker 2: The only reason you can think of that he might
Speaker 2: be ghosting you is because you made a political joke
Speaker 2: on your date.
Speaker 12: Yeah, but I don't care about politics.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, are you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 11: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. I'm asking to Jordan please, uh hey, Jordan,
Speaker 2: how are you. My name is Jebel and I'm calling
Speaker 2: from a radio show. It's called The Jewbel Show.
Speaker 16: Hi.
Speaker 1: I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 11: Wait. Is this a prank?
Speaker 1: No, it's not. We're calling you today for a different
Speaker 1: reason though. It's not a prank. Okay.
Speaker 2: So we do a segment on our show it's called
Speaker 2: the first Day follow Up. That's where if you go
Speaker 2: out on a date with somebody and then you end
Speaker 2: up ghosting them. That person can ask us to get
Speaker 2: you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them.
Speaker 2: So we got an email about you from someone that
Speaker 2: you've been out with but aren't calling back.
Speaker 16: Oh wait, Tasha.
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, she emailed us. Yeah, and she told us
Speaker 1: about your days. She said she really liked you, but
Speaker 1: she's confused because it's been nine days and you have
Speaker 1: responded to her.
Speaker 11: I mean, she was great.
Speaker 16: The date was actually a lot of fun, and she
Speaker 16: made me laugh a lot. She's actually really funny.
Speaker 1: Do you mind telling us why you're not talking to
Speaker 1: her though?
Speaker 16: It's the glitter.
Speaker 8: She had a lot of glitter on her face, like
Speaker 8: like a lot of it, you know, And I don't know.
Speaker 8: It's just by the time we were done, it was
Speaker 8: all over me, and it was over my clothes and
Speaker 8: my car and I could never.
Speaker 11: Get it off.
Speaker 8: And I know, I know that sounds crazy, but I'm serious.
Speaker 8: It's just I kept finding glitter on myself for days.
Speaker 8: It was like I was dating a disco ball.
Speaker 1: Sodow.
Speaker 11: I don't know.
Speaker 16: She's worn her hair, I guess her face. I think
Speaker 16: it was on her hands, hands, on her hands, I
Speaker 16: don't know.
Speaker 11: It was everywhere.
Speaker 16: I mean, I guess it was like I wore it
Speaker 16: all day then of a clean streak.
Speaker 12: Okay, wait, you ghosted me because of glitter?
Speaker 1: Heyasha, she's actually on the phone listening and wants to
Speaker 1: talk to you.
Speaker 16: Oh my, this is embarrassing. Hi, Sasha.
Speaker 11: Look, it's nothing personal. I swear.
Speaker 16: I really did have a great day and you were
Speaker 16: very pretty and hilarious.
Speaker 8: But I'm thinking about messes and it just stressed me
Speaker 8: out and I can't have glitter all over me, like
Speaker 8: I took a bath.
Speaker 12: It's called sparkle, Jordan, and some of us like to shine.
Speaker 16: Oh okay, okay, it's fine, but I don't like this
Speaker 16: sparkle and.
Speaker 11: I kind of think that's like a little kid things too.
Speaker 12: Wow. No, okay, sparkle life, you know. And I'm girl,
Speaker 12: and I don't think there's anything wrong with him. And
Speaker 12: I mean, you've minded strip clubs before, so I'm sure
Speaker 12: you had your you know, load of.
Speaker 8: I knew what I was for and what's actually I
Speaker 8: don't really go to strip clubs like that because of
Speaker 8: this reason.
Speaker 16: I'm the work Sparklesn't mean that is what it is.
Speaker 12: I mean, what's so bad about it? Like it just
Speaker 12: makes you life a little bit more shiny. I mean,
Speaker 12: I'll hope you clean it off.
Speaker 16: It's impossible to clean up. I'm sorry. Well, the date
Speaker 16: was great, but I just it was like it was
Speaker 16: ending up in my food because it was all over
Speaker 16: my head and my hair and.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, if there was last Jordan, would you
Speaker 1: be down with that? Jordan? Would you like another day
Speaker 1: with Tasha? Will pay for it?
Speaker 2: If Tasha was willing to cut back on the glitter
Speaker 2: a little bit, if.
Speaker 11: There's no glittering?
Speaker 16: Well, yeah, I mean, yeah, it was a good date.
Speaker 12: Yeah, I'm not sure about that because I am a
Speaker 12: sparkly girl and I don't know if I even want
Speaker 12: to live a life without glitter.
Speaker 1: Wow, Okay, stand on your girl.
Speaker 16: Okay, Well, I mean maybe we pick like somewhere less
Speaker 16: glitter frimly, like a pool.
Speaker 5: I feel like that would be worse, Jordan. Honestly, you're
Speaker 5: swimming in it then.
Speaker 11: I mean I already was.
Speaker 1: Just embrace it.
Speaker 12: I mean, I'm not even sure anymore, Jordan, because I
Speaker 12: thought we had something special. And I can't believe you
Speaker 12: ghosted me because I sparkle and I don't even know.
Speaker 12: I don't even think.
Speaker 11: I want another date with you.
Speaker 12: I don't want you dimming my light.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, So does that a.
Speaker 1: No, then, Tasha, you don't want another date with Jordan?
Speaker 12: Uh no, I will pass.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: Well, at least you know now why he's ghosting you
Speaker 2: and that he's probably not a good fit for you.
Speaker 12: Yeah, I'm very disappointed about this, Jordan.
Speaker 16: Hey, I'm sorry to disappoint you, but I'm sure there's
Speaker 16: a lot of guys who would love to have your
Speaker 16: sparkle all over them.
Speaker 12: Yeah. There is. And his name is Nate and I'm
Speaker 12: going on a day with him actually tonight.
Speaker 1: So whatever. Okay. Jewell's First Day follow up.
Speaker 2: I was the only one that thinks that that song
Speaker 2: kind of sounds like if someone's been talking to someone
Speaker 2: in a fly flies in their mouth and they're talking like,
Speaker 2: sorry about that.
Speaker 1: I guess now that you say that THEE Show.
Speaker 2: And hey, mama, crazy that you and I would be
Speaker 2: in the same coffee line at the same time, Am
Speaker 2: I right?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: That rain outside is pretty crazy. You probably don't know this,
Speaker 2: but the reason it's raining is because of the moisture
Speaker 2: in the air, clouds hold water vapor, and then the
Speaker 2: air can't hold it anymore, and that falls as rain.
Speaker 2: It's a pretty basic concepts.
Speaker 1: Man's playing guys playing me picking up somebody speaking of
Speaker 1: learning new things. Wou'd say, you come over to my
Speaker 1: place later and I teach you what heaven feels like.
Speaker 1: Where you going? You ain't got your coffee yet. I
Speaker 1: haven't heard that one.
Speaker 2: Some people might not be able to spot red flags
Speaker 2: in that conversation, And that's why there's a trend of
Speaker 2: people sharing the top first date red flags that you
Speaker 2: should never ignore. We'll go over them next so you
Speaker 2: can be prepared for the wonderful, wild world of dating.
Speaker 1: Coming up right after this.
Speaker 2: If you've ever dipped your toes in the dating pool,
Speaker 2: then you've probably had them gnawed off by one of
Speaker 2: the many weird piranhas that are. That's why you should
Speaker 2: have never entered the shark infested waters of dating without
Speaker 2: aqua socks. Yeah, and I know that because there's a
Speaker 2: trend going viral of people sharing the first date red
Speaker 2: flags that you should never ignore. Who over those? Also
Speaker 2: text in form one O six one if you have
Speaker 2: any of yours. Man's plaining, Yeah, they say one you
Speaker 2: should never ignore? Boy, Yeah, I doesn't know what man's
Speaker 2: plaining is because I can explain it to you. Yeah,
Speaker 2: fully aware.
Speaker 6: I actually do need to know because a lot of
Speaker 6: times I'll literally explain something to someone and they will
Speaker 6: accuse me of man's planning because I am in phasing.
Speaker 2: Confusing actually sometimes for guys, because you're just explaining a thing.
Speaker 1: But I don't know the difference. Like one time.
Speaker 2: There have been times where I've been explaining something, even
Speaker 2: something where somebody asked me and then I was accused
Speaker 2: of man's plaining.
Speaker 1: But I was like, but you asked me to explain
Speaker 1: it to you. It's usually tone. Tone.
Speaker 5: It's usually tone like if it's kind of more of
Speaker 5: a condescending like I know everything type of a thing
Speaker 5: and you know nothing, let me tell.
Speaker 2: You how the world works. That's very much a man's playing.
Speaker 2: It's unsolicited. I'm sure that's man's That would also be
Speaker 2: a man.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that makes sense.
Speaker 6: To me, Like if it's just you're explaining something and
Speaker 6: nobody asked you to explain, Yeah, I knowing regardless of
Speaker 6: your gender.
Speaker 4: Confused because Brad does that a lot, but I can
Speaker 4: never tell if he just does it not.
Speaker 1: Because he's man's plaining. It's yeah, it's like I'll be like,
Speaker 1: you will call it.
Speaker 2: The person who said Man's plain said they went on
Speaker 2: a date with a guy and she told him that
Speaker 2: she wanted to be a criminal prosecutor, and then he
Speaker 2: continued to lecture her about prosecution and defense law, and
Speaker 2: I guess was in direct about he wanted.
Speaker 5: To try to look smart and cool and be like, look,
Speaker 5: this should turn you on.
Speaker 1: Another red flag.
Speaker 2: They say you should never ignore on a first date
Speaker 2: being rude to service industry staff.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think we all agree on that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that that does say a lot about
Speaker 2: a person thinking the difference between complaining if something's actually bad,
Speaker 2: send it back, right, sure, also send it back and
Speaker 2: then should be fine. You don't have to throw a
Speaker 2: fit about it. If they keep getting it wrong, then
Speaker 2: you can be upset. Right, But it's also how you
Speaker 2: treat people when you're upset too, because you can still
Speaker 2: be respectful and be like, I hate you so much,
Speaker 2: but you don't have to say that.
Speaker 5: There's also no reason to be telling somebody that you
Speaker 5: hate them while you're out on a date. Us you
Speaker 5: run into somebody that you truly do hate inside voice,
Speaker 5: you know, like your brain. Also, not the service fault
Speaker 5: that your food's messed up. They were bringing it to you.
Speaker 1: Well, it could be their fault. They could have entered
Speaker 1: it wrong.
Speaker 4: Oh well, okay, that's true.
Speaker 2: Another first day red flag you should never ignore says
Speaker 2: if your date orders your food for you and doesn't
Speaker 2: ask what you want.
Speaker 5: I've never had that happen me neither. You've never had
Speaker 5: a guy order for you, Well, I've had them order
Speaker 5: for me, but not without my permission. I've never ordered
Speaker 5: for anybody, like if I feels too weird. But if
Speaker 5: somebody looked at you and was like, you know this place,
Speaker 5: or how about you?
Speaker 1: You do it?
Speaker 2: Take me on in a food adventure, like yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: well I think of ordering for someone like I'll have
Speaker 2: this and she'll have whatever.
Speaker 1: Right, it seems like so controlling to the.
Speaker 5: Very Yeah, Like, even if you're in a relationship and
Speaker 5: you know what they're going to order, I can't imagine
Speaker 5: somebody doing that. Maybe my coffee, like that's fine, or
Speaker 5: maybe like my cocktail also that's fine, But my I
Speaker 5: might not be in the mood for my usual.
Speaker 2: She doesn't know what she's in the mood for.
Speaker 9: What you.
Speaker 1: Heard that? Another first day red flag.
Speaker 2: They say you should never ignore going to a bar
Speaker 2: with someone who just drinks the entire time.
Speaker 1: Maybe they're nervous, yeah, or maybe they're bored. Ah, they're
Speaker 1: in a bar. What are you doing a bar? You drink? Yeah? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Maybe she don't get drunk. I don't your first date
Speaker 1: at a bar? Okay? This is this is the reverse.
Speaker 5: This is the reverse of that. Like, I find it
Speaker 5: super red flaggy. If you go on a day at
Speaker 5: a bar or anywhere, right, you choose to have drinks
Speaker 5: and like you're ready to have your second or third,
Speaker 5: and they'll stick with one. Like what are you masking
Speaker 5: right now? Are you afraid of how you're going to act?
Speaker 1: Are you not? Okay?
Speaker 5: Like I need to push your limits to see if
Speaker 5: I can deal with you obviously.
Speaker 1: Why are you not getting hammered right now? Why are you?
Speaker 1: Why am I taking a shot alone?
Speaker 6: It's pushing someone into a drunken stupor on the red flags,
Speaker 6: you're gonna be able to drive after.
Speaker 1: The state nor is along with you? No, One'm not
Speaker 1: going back to your place. You can responsibly. It's a
Speaker 1: house that you own yourself, all right, What is the deal.
Speaker 9: Right now?
Speaker 1: It's signed for NINAS was trending.
Speaker 5: So Travis kelce is cashing out big time leading up
Speaker 5: to the big game. And it's not why I shouldn't
Speaker 5: say cashing out. He's throwing out cash and this time
Speaker 5: it's not at Taylor Swift.
Speaker 1: Did you guys know that he got.
Speaker 5: Into an altercation or he was taunting somebody at the
Speaker 5: game last weekend who I don't know. I totally missed
Speaker 5: that one of the Bills players during the game in
Speaker 5: the first quarter. It was so there was some type
Speaker 5: of incident that went down where he was like taunting
Speaker 5: one of the players, Damar Hamlin, after he crossed the
Speaker 5: goal line for a touchdown. And so because he did that,
Speaker 5: Travis Kelcey just got fined eleven thousand dollars. Eleven two
Speaker 5: hundred and fifty five dollars. You can get fined that much? Yeah, really,
Speaker 5: what is taunting mean? Like, just feel like I'm sad
Speaker 5: I missed it.
Speaker 1: You can get fined eleven thousand dollars. Someone finds you
Speaker 1: right now, he's not You got.
Speaker 2: A touchdown and you're dumb that's a good taunt or not,
Speaker 2: but you could over that.
Speaker 6: It's just shocking to me that a meathead football player
Speaker 6: would act in this way.
Speaker 1: It really is I just I just can't. This is
Speaker 1: a shocking well it's competitive.
Speaker 5: Well they do and then also involved Patrick Mahomes, like
Speaker 5: this player was like in Patrick Mahomes's business, So you know,
Speaker 5: Travis gets really protective of as Patty I was a coworker.
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is homie Mahmie.
Speaker 2: You can also get fined for excessive celebration, which is terrible.
Speaker 2: I'm like they used to be able to dance around
Speaker 2: your dances when they would score, and now you can't.
Speaker 1: Do all that. You know, you can't score and walk away.
Speaker 2: No, I mean you can kind of like shimmy a
Speaker 2: little at me, but you better shimmy and.
Speaker 1: Get back to get back on the sideline there.
Speaker 4: But you get excited, Like if I scored a touchdown,
Speaker 4: I'd be excited. Yeah, Like they can't actually do one,
Speaker 4: but like if I did, I'd be like, I want
Speaker 4: to celebrate.
Speaker 1: Back in the day, on the Cincinnati Bengals, they had
Speaker 1: this dude, Ikey Woods, and there was the Ichy shuffle
Speaker 1: when he scored a touchdown, like the whole team would
Speaker 1: get together and basically do a jazz dance. That's amazing.
Speaker 1: It was amazing. It would take thirty minutes, but nobody cares.
Speaker 1: They're just like, this is amazing. It's like show tunes
Speaker 1: in the NFL altogether.
Speaker 2: Well now they're just like you can barely smile, but
Speaker 2: then get back over there. Well, we'll see what they
Speaker 2: show up with the big game on Sunday. Maybe they'll
Speaker 2: just squeeze another one in. So there's a massage parlor
Speaker 2: in South Asia. Did not come out right?
Speaker 5: Who's got a new massage technique that is now trending.
Speaker 5: It is called the fire. It's called fire Dragon therapy.
Speaker 5: So they set their client on fire. The client is
Speaker 5: on the table. They have an alcohol soaked towel that
Speaker 5: goes on their back and they light it on fire.
Speaker 1: And so then they turn the lights off.
Speaker 5: So if you need to get like a shot of
Speaker 5: yourself on fire, they help you get that moment that
Speaker 5: you can post on social if you survive. You do survive,
Speaker 5: I guess the whole part of it is to balance
Speaker 5: the body's temperature and alleviate pain and muscles and joint
Speaker 5: so they're not leaving you on fire for very long.
Speaker 5: Then they put the fire out, but the fire is
Speaker 5: also supposed to help reduce stress in your box.
Speaker 1: It's a bad idea. If I try this on my own.
Speaker 4: Well, I will say Gibil does have two fire extinguishers
Speaker 4: so himself.
Speaker 6: No, he said on his own, And I think that
Speaker 6: he means literally, there's no one else in the home,
Speaker 6: and I think that's dangerous and I would not do that.
Speaker 5: How much his face lit up though when I said
Speaker 5: the fire jack.
Speaker 1: Do thatermanship, Yeah you could.
Speaker 6: Could you have just used the heated blanket to do
Speaker 6: the same thing, Yeah, it could have, but why not
Speaker 6: include fire exactly?
Speaker 1: Make it entertaining.
Speaker 5: Please don't do that at home. I guess you need
Speaker 5: to make sure that that's said there. And lastly, there's
Speaker 5: a new trend in aesthetics. It is the face BBL.
Speaker 5: We usually know bbls for the boutet, but now these
Speaker 5: are bbls for the face. Yes, that's what it is.
Speaker 5: But now there's a doctor that has made the face
Speaker 5: BBL popular, which is basically just moving fat in your
Speaker 5: face around, sculpting your face with your own face.
Speaker 1: Fat, Wait, with your own face.
Speaker 5: So you're not using INJECTI like, you're not putting in
Speaker 5: probably jugim or something.
Speaker 2: I mean, if you want to get your face sculpt
Speaker 2: that's probably good to do it with your own stuff.
Speaker 5: I would think so too. But what if you don't
Speaker 5: have like a lot, and you're trying to get volume
Speaker 5: and they take it from your butt, I don't know,
Speaker 5: and put it in your face. That would be interesting,
Speaker 5: but it's still your own fat. So I just wish
Speaker 5: people it's interesting. Did the cosmetic surgery stuff in this way?
Speaker 5: Realize how obvious it is. You're trying to look younger
Speaker 5: a lot of times, and the reality is you don't
Speaker 5: you look older because the surgery is clearly visible. Well,
Speaker 5: the interesting thing that you brought that up, Brad, because
Speaker 5: the other trend is called undetectable era, So plastic surgery
Speaker 5: is entering its undetectable era. All of their treatments and
Speaker 5: all of their stuff is supposed to be undetectable to
Speaker 5: the naked eye. So you're not able to point out like, oh,
Speaker 5: they've hand work done, but it only costs you fifteen
Speaker 5: thousand dollars.
Speaker 1: That's it. Oh that's all. That's it, only fifteen thousands.
Speaker 4: All I got to do is wait fifteen thousand years
Speaker 4: and then I can have fifteen thousand dollars that I
Speaker 4: can spend on this.
Speaker 1: Is it permanent?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I believe so. Fat transfer I believe so. And
Speaker 5: if you lose weight then I guess the fat would
Speaker 5: still be treated the same way.
Speaker 4: But then if you're losing weight, it would go down
Speaker 4: wind up getting that procedure.
Speaker 6: It's just realize you're beautiful and you don't need any
Speaker 6: of this nonsense.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, that's just trending doubles. Dirty little secret. Hello, Hello,
Speaker 1: hey you have a dirty little secret. Oh god, yeah,
Speaker 1: well I got.
Speaker 13: Oh okay, my ex boyfriend doesn't know this. The day
Speaker 13: before our first day, we have been friends for a
Speaker 13: really long time, and we had flirted like on and
Speaker 13: off for like five years, but it never went anywhere. Well,
Speaker 13: I didn't think it would really turn into anything, so
Speaker 13: obviously I wasn't try to come right away. The day
Speaker 13: of our first date, I actually got picked up from
Speaker 13: another guy's house at like six o'clock that morning.
Speaker 11: I was going to cancel our first.
Speaker 1: Date, and then I didn't.
Speaker 14: But yeah, I ended up sleeping with a guy like
Speaker 14: six o'clock that morning before our first date, and.
Speaker 1: That same guy texted me on the date.
Speaker 11: It was like wow, I could really.
Speaker 14: Why like in front of him, and I like immediately
Speaker 14: like shut my phone off and like turned it down.
Speaker 1: I was so embarrassed.
Speaker 4: That is a wild thing to text someone though, I'm sorry,
Speaker 4: what sir?
Speaker 1: Not even a high Hello? Yeah, like for real, like, hey,
Speaker 1: would I would like to see you again?
Speaker 11: It was like I could really use something.
Speaker 1: I was like, what, so did you go or what?
Speaker 11: Oh?
Speaker 1: No, absolutely not okay.
Speaker 14: I actually was like terrified that he gave me something
Speaker 14: and like immediately went and got tested.
Speaker 1: I didn't have anything, but I was definitely like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, no, I was terrified. That's my biggest fear.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I bet. Well, I'm glad you don't. I'm glad
Speaker 2: your boyfriend didn't find out about that. Just sounds like
Speaker 2: you guys are happyfriend.
Speaker 1: Yeah, ex boyfriend? Sorry, you should tell him now? How
Speaker 1: about those apples? No?
Speaker 14: I mean it's it was a very happy relationship and
Speaker 14: it ended like on very good terms, like I wish
Speaker 14: I'm the best, so don't but yeah, okay, no, don't
Speaker 14: got it.
Speaker 1: Thank you for telling me he comes back. Well, thank
Speaker 1: you for your dirty little secret.
Speaker 11: Thank you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I have a good day. It's funny. Hello, Hey,
Speaker 1: you have a dirty little secret.
Speaker 9: Yes I do, I got it, okay. So basically, I'm
Speaker 9: a horse girl. I have six horses. One of them
Speaker 9: is my heart horse, which I call my soulmate basically.
Speaker 9: And my mom makes donuts. She's a baker basically, And
Speaker 9: the thing is, I hate them, and I really hate
Speaker 9: those donuts and so dry, and the way she fries them.
Speaker 9: I don't know what to say. So she gives me
Speaker 9: donuts and I give them to my horse, and my
Speaker 9: horse she loves them so much. And I love to
Speaker 9: give her donuts all the time. And I haven't told
Speaker 9: my mom about this because I know it would break
Speaker 9: her heart. And she's kind of dramatic about things.
Speaker 3: So oh.
Speaker 1: Likes them.
Speaker 11: I love them so much.
Speaker 1: It's so cute. The horse eating a doughnut is cute.
Speaker 1: Thank you, secret, of course, thank you.
Speaker 2: What's your dirty little secret?