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Speaker 5: Tamara aka girl from harlow Ah fat.
Speaker 1: In the building.
Speaker 6: We'll go back.
Speaker 1: I'm bad. Welcome bad. You brought some tea and it
Speaker 1: was hot.
Speaker 6: Yeah. I'm working on two television shows right now.
Speaker 7: What are they?
Speaker 6: So? One is the dating show? So I'm looking for
Speaker 6: love okay, and the other one I can't tell.
Speaker 7: What are you looking for in your love?
Speaker 6: I'm really looking for someone who's real, who's authentic, and
Speaker 6: I feel like that's really hard to find these days.
Speaker 6: You know, nobody, nobody knows how to just be themselves anymore.
Speaker 6: Everybody wants to keep up with the joneses or be
Speaker 6: somebody it is that they believe that they're supposed to
Speaker 6: be or you know, there's a lot of men who
Speaker 6: want wives but don't want to be husbands. So I
Speaker 6: think that's that's really what I'm looking for. I mean,
Speaker 6: it's open to women as well. It's not just men.
Speaker 7: Oh that's a curveball.
Speaker 1: It was a curveball for me.
Speaker 6: Y'all have to understand because my team they're asking me like, okay,
Speaker 6: so it's just men only, And I said, hold on, wait,
Speaker 6: I don't know. You know, the men have just been
Speaker 6: messing up. Y'all have really done yourselves a good one.
Speaker 6: I don't know if I want to go back, I might.
Speaker 1: So why you're exploring now?
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean I've always you know.
Speaker 3: You've always appreciated the beauty of a woman.
Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, but just not relationship wise. So I don't know.
Speaker 3: So you're open to exploring a possibility of a relationship
Speaker 3: with a woman.
Speaker 6: Yeah, absolutely, she's bad.
Speaker 7: No, But so what is this gonna be on? What's
Speaker 7: the platform?
Speaker 6: Zoos? I really say right now? But open, Yes, it's
Speaker 6: a dating show for me. I'm really just trying to
Speaker 6: leave it open. However, we have a network that's highly interested, so.
Speaker 7: He's just weighing out the bait.
Speaker 6: Mm hmm me the best man win, literally.
Speaker 3: The best person.
Speaker 6: Yeah, person.
Speaker 3: That was the title of it. For the love of Fallon.
Speaker 6: Falling for Fallon. That was a good one though, for
Speaker 6: the love of Falling for Fallon.
Speaker 7: How does Fallon's X feel?
Speaker 6: Uh?
Speaker 7: What's his name, Jayalen? How does he feel about it?
Speaker 6: He's straight?
Speaker 3: I guess okay, he doesn't make an appearance or anything.
Speaker 6: Right, I don't know. I would not put it past
Speaker 6: my producers at all.
Speaker 3: To put him as a qualifying person.
Speaker 6: Absolutely, I've actually thought about it. You thought about No,
Speaker 6: I didn't think about using him. I thought about it
Speaker 6: being interesting.
Speaker 3: I'm like, so, you don't know any of these guys, right,
Speaker 3: you're going to meet them on the show.
Speaker 6: No, I don't know any about it.
Speaker 7: You haven't, you're not a part of the casting or
Speaker 7: say so in that.
Speaker 6: I'm gonna have somewhat you know, say so because of
Speaker 6: course we want we want to see who it is
Speaker 6: that I choose and who I'm attracted to. However, not everybody.
Speaker 6: We're gonna see what happened.
Speaker 7: To any overweight lovers? Or do you have a preference?
Speaker 6: No, okay, I don't think so at this point. My
Speaker 6: preference hasn't really gotten me very far now has it?
Speaker 1: So so let me ask you this. Do you have
Speaker 1: any red flags?
Speaker 6: I think I think everyone has red flag?
Speaker 3: What are yours?
Speaker 6: I'm stubborn, Taurus stubborn. I'm stubborn, I really am. And
Speaker 6: when I'm right, I'm right. You can't argue with me.
Speaker 1: Yep, yep, yeah that's crazy.
Speaker 8: So what are some what are some green flags that
Speaker 8: you're looking for on this day?
Speaker 6: And show, like I said, just someone who's real and authentic.
Speaker 6: I mean, I have to be attracted to them, because
Speaker 6: I was. You know, I've been with people that have
Speaker 6: been less attractive than me, and I realized that that
Speaker 6: it may sound shallow, but it really doesn't match with
Speaker 6: my world. You have to be able to be secure
Speaker 6: enough in your own skin, and I feel like, however
Speaker 6: that usually comes up, it doesn't translate very well in
Speaker 6: a person who doesn't feel like they're attractive, you know,
Speaker 6: in comparison to how I look. So I need somebody
Speaker 6: to be tough. They have to have thick.
Speaker 1: Skin, so you. So you don't think money make people attractive?
Speaker 6: No, not at all. I think it can add some
Speaker 6: type of value, and it can add some type of swag,
Speaker 6: but even swag goes into their own self confidence. Now
Speaker 6: you know, couldn't make them attracted to them and that's
Speaker 6: what they exude. Yeah, but no, I don't. Okay, I
Speaker 6: like money.
Speaker 3: Though, So you know about to ask you what so
Speaker 3: you were physically attractive assignment?
Speaker 7: Oh my god, before we go there, let's just take
Speaker 7: a quick break. Let's take a breather, Let's take a brother.
Speaker 1: We'll be right back.
Speaker 7: We'll be right back. We'll be right back for more.
Speaker 1: We'll be right back with more of the Baller Alert Show.
Speaker 1: Is this falling?
Speaker 6: Y'all? You are now tuning into the Baller Alert show.
Speaker 7: Bag with more the Brother Alert Show. We got failing
Speaker 7: in the building and kind of left out on a cliffhanger.
Speaker 7: I think lady had a question.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, BT asked, He said, are you attracted? Does
Speaker 3: money make people attracted? You said no, So I said, oh,
Speaker 3: so you thought Simon was attractive.
Speaker 6: I am attracted to people's hearts and they're inside before
Speaker 6: I'm attracted to.
Speaker 3: So does a heart make someone attractive, yes, someone's heart, yes.
Speaker 6: If they have a really big, loving heart. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Okay, so the bank account ain't got to be big, No,
Speaker 1: it does.
Speaker 6: I didn't say that. Let's relax, it's calm down. I
Speaker 6: have a lot of respects.
Speaker 3: Have you ever been in love with a brokie?
Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, a couple of times.
Speaker 5: It happens.
Speaker 3: It happens, and you said in your mind, like, nah,
Speaker 3: this ain't it.
Speaker 6: I think I'm at that place now in life for sure.
Speaker 6: For sure. I don't think I'm ever going to get
Speaker 6: with another brokie ever again in life.
Speaker 1: Damn.
Speaker 7: At the beginning of the episode, you said you were vindicated.
Speaker 6: I mean, yeah, I feel a little bit of it.
Speaker 6: I'm not going to lie because everybody kind of made
Speaker 6: me out to be something that I wasn't without understanding
Speaker 6: what was going on behind closed doors for five years.
Speaker 6: The person that y'all see is my ex husband. That's
Speaker 6: new to y'all. I knew exactly who it was that
Speaker 6: I married, but you know, I was young. I was
Speaker 6: twenty six when we got together. He was fifty. So
Speaker 6: I thought that, well, no, he loves me, and he'll
Speaker 6: just you know, he'll change, and he just has to
Speaker 6: grow and I have to prove myself and all that
Speaker 6: dumb shit.
Speaker 7: Did you know about all like the immigration problems that
Speaker 7: he was having. Yeah, did he like to tell you
Speaker 7: the thing?
Speaker 6: But I don't have to, you know, exploit people's name
Speaker 6: or any of their business for a check.
Speaker 7: Yeah, But did he tell you that upfront or is
Speaker 7: that something that you investigated yourself?
Speaker 6: No, that was he was upfront about a lot of things. However,
Speaker 6: There's a lot of stuff that he left out too.
Speaker 6: I've never even known that he's been in jail before.
Speaker 6: M you know, so I really in a sense when
Speaker 6: everything came into the media, I was really shocked.
Speaker 3: Found some stuff out too.
Speaker 6: Yeah, and y'all have to understand he was doing all
Speaker 6: this before I was born.
Speaker 1: Wait did you not google him though?
Speaker 6: Like I feel like there's only but so much you
Speaker 6: can see on Google.
Speaker 7: Yeah, the hopeful police are going to come? Is that so?
Speaker 6: I mean I think it says that I'm like, I'm
Speaker 6: worth two hundred and fifty million right now on what where? Where?
Speaker 8: That's that?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 1: That's what Google?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 6: That crazy? Yeah? Oh wow, I haven't seen all types
Speaker 6: of articles.
Speaker 5: So how do you vet somebody? Then? Like what is
Speaker 5: your process now and moving forward when you're looking to
Speaker 5: see like who you're going to date.
Speaker 6: Like, I don't bet nobody. Whatever comes out just comes back.
Speaker 6: I don't got to do nothing and the way, but
Speaker 6: you have to do that. I'm gonna find out for me.
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, but then it's a way you in love
Speaker 5: or something or you already went public with this person.
Speaker 5: You don't want to like have that attached to you.
Speaker 5: You have you your brain, like you are a brand.
Speaker 5: Now you have to protect that, so you have to
Speaker 5: be cautious about all your data.
Speaker 6: I'm moving forward absolutely, and I'll you know, I'll remain
Speaker 6: as cautious as I can. But I can't walk, you know,
Speaker 6: on eggshells because I'm too afraid to let my guard
Speaker 6: down because of my image. You know, the world and
Speaker 6: life is so much bigger than just your career. And
Speaker 6: I mean, as long as not no Diddy stuff, I
Speaker 6: think I'm good.
Speaker 7: You know, what do you think about all the Diddy
Speaker 7: stuff going on?
Speaker 6: I mean, you know, we've always and especially in the industry,
Speaker 6: we've always heard stories hell no, no, no, not even but.
Speaker 1: No.
Speaker 6: But you know I've heard stories just as much as
Speaker 6: everybody else it's sad to see them go out like that.
Speaker 6: I think. I think what bothers me the most is
Speaker 6: his son's being a part of it all, know, like
Speaker 6: the fact that his kids have something to do with
Speaker 6: all of this. Then they had like hitting cameras and
Speaker 6: all of their rooms and stuff allegedly. That's crazy.
Speaker 7: Rich people do weird things.
Speaker 6: That means that Diddy was in there watching his children.
Speaker 5: That's a whole nother aspect. I didn't even think about it.
Speaker 5: I reviewing the tapes.
Speaker 6: Yeah, because they said the tapes or the cameras were
Speaker 6: inside of his room's room.
Speaker 7: Simon never had cameras throughout the house.
Speaker 6: Of course he did. I had GPS trackers on my
Speaker 6: cars and everything.
Speaker 1: That's that's how he called Jalen.
Speaker 6: Right, No, that's how he caught another boy. Oh, but
Speaker 6: I wasn't hiding it, so I was kind of.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know about that situation. I know, I know
Speaker 1: you wouldn't that was the time.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that was around that time. No, there was no
Speaker 6: y'all have to understand. So when Jalen and I got together,
Speaker 6: it was during a very vulnerable moment for me. So
Speaker 6: there was so much going on behind closed doors that
Speaker 6: y'all still don't you know, the public doesn't really know
Speaker 6: about and the time frame that everything took place. So
Speaker 6: by the time Jaalen and I even decided that we're
Speaker 6: going to become more than just friends, he was already
Speaker 6: with several other people. But we were still lead married
Speaker 6: with several other people, right, but we were verbally separated. So,
Speaker 6: I mean, it just you know, whatever happened happened.
Speaker 7: And are you were you shocked to find out when
Speaker 7: Portia and Simon separated?
Speaker 6: No? Was anybody.
Speaker 1: So do you think that was Do you think that
Speaker 1: was real?
Speaker 7: No, the whole relationship, you don't think it was real.
Speaker 3: You don't think it was real at all.
Speaker 6: No. I think it was just a ploy to get
Speaker 6: back at me. I mean really, yeah.
Speaker 3: Not to get back at not to have like a
Speaker 3: storyline or anything like that.
Speaker 6: No, I mean she finally used it for a storyline, sure.
Speaker 7: But he was trying to get at you through that
Speaker 7: whole relationship. You're saying, Simon, oh, throughout the whole.
Speaker 6: I mean I'm not. I'm not gonna say like there
Speaker 6: wasn't any parts you know that he might have thought
Speaker 6: could have been authentic or something could have grown you know,
Speaker 6: I don't know their business, but yeah, the initial I
Speaker 6: guess them becoming public and doing everything the way that
Speaker 6: they went about everything. Yeah, that was definitely a ploy
Speaker 6: because they were already together for they were dating for
Speaker 6: a year while I was happily married, And that came
Speaker 6: from Dennis's mouth.
Speaker 8: You ever thought about dating him, that's how you do it.
Speaker 1: I swap it out.
Speaker 6: I don't think Dennis can keep up with me, you know.
Speaker 6: I think I'm a little out of his bracket. But
Speaker 6: he's awesome, he's really cool.
Speaker 7: Well, you know the film of the Housewives? Now, could
Speaker 7: you have an appearance on there? Or would you if
Speaker 7: the opportunity presented.
Speaker 6: I'm not gonna say no comment, so it could be,
Speaker 6: could not.
Speaker 3: This are possibilities.
Speaker 6: What you're saying, no comment?
Speaker 7: Would you get back with Simon now?
Speaker 6: To see it's crazy because I didn't always feel that way. However,
Speaker 6: to see everything that he's doing yet again, and me
Speaker 6: and y'all have to understand me watching everything, it's re
Speaker 6: traumatizing for me because I'm the one who went through
Speaker 6: it first as bad as it did publicly.
Speaker 7: Did you were you the first or was it publicly?
Speaker 6: Yeah? Because I don't want nobody when he was, you know,
Speaker 6: getting divorces, and who's to say what he did to them.
Speaker 6: I think I was only maybe five when he got divorced.
Speaker 3: So all right, So has he reached out to you
Speaker 3: contact the Jews? No, So there's no communicator between you
Speaker 3: and I.
Speaker 7: You and.
Speaker 6: We run into each other all the time. I have
Speaker 6: reached out to him once before, I sent an email.
Speaker 6: That was before the divorce. Their divorce went public. Just
Speaker 6: y'all have to understand, Simon and I were actually married.
Speaker 6: It was real. Our marriage was very real. So we
Speaker 6: never had an ending discussion like there was no like,
Speaker 6: it was nothing. I just went viral and was it.
Speaker 6: We never said goodbye, We never said you know, I
Speaker 6: wish you well, or he never even said fuck off.
Speaker 3: You know closure.
Speaker 7: No, So what happened? You just moved out and you know,
Speaker 7: he just moved away? Or how did it? How did
Speaker 7: the end didn't happen.
Speaker 6: Same way y'all saw it. It just went away one
Speaker 6: one day I was happy and the next day he
Speaker 6: was gone.
Speaker 7: Oh, he just never came back to the house.
Speaker 6: He came back after a few months. Yeah, yeah, So
Speaker 6: I had my kids in our house and his kids too,
Speaker 6: and he was just traveling wherever he was, no communication,
Speaker 6: barely any And then he came back and it was
Speaker 6: you have you have three weeks to leave?
Speaker 7: Oh the premises he had three weeks or both of you.
Speaker 6: No, I had three weeks.
Speaker 7: Okay, he gave you a letter or something that said
Speaker 7: you got three weeks.
Speaker 6: No, he sent me a text as good as a gout.
Speaker 7: So where did his kids go?
Speaker 6: They were with me?
Speaker 3: No, you left his kids too.
Speaker 6: No. I ended up having a conversation with his ex wife,
Speaker 6: you know, and we wanted to continue the relationship between
Speaker 6: the children. However, Simon did not want that, so we
Speaker 6: uh just parted ways, and you know, it kind of
Speaker 6: broke up the brotherhood between all the boys, which was
Speaker 6: really sad and unfortunate, I think for everybody. So yeah,
Speaker 6: it was like, you got three weeks to leave, and
Speaker 6: he told me I could have more time if I wanted.
Speaker 6: But I was so hurt by how quickly our marriage
Speaker 6: just shifted and how my happiness just came to an
Speaker 6: abrupt ending. I didn't know what I was feeling or thinking.
Speaker 6: I wasn't myself.
Speaker 1: So how long was y'all married?
Speaker 6: We were married for two years? We were together for
Speaker 6: five So.
Speaker 5: Was it a tit for tat with you guys?
Speaker 6: Because me, not for you, No, not for me. I
Speaker 6: just wanted to do anything to not feel the pain anymore,
Speaker 6: you know. And Jalen at that time, I'm sorry, Jalen,
Speaker 6: he was just he was the superman. He was the
Speaker 6: one who came in and he was just like, you
Speaker 6: don't deserve that things.
Speaker 3: Are you guys getting hot and steamy at that particular
Speaker 3: moment too, that time frame, you and Jay getting hot
Speaker 3: and steamy.
Speaker 6: Yeah, we had a baby, fool.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's hot and steam and steamy.
Speaker 5: Listen, when you're emotional and you're vulnerable like that and
Speaker 5: guys come in and say everything right, Oh, I can
Speaker 5: only imagine it, and she just ate it up.
Speaker 6: I did, and I wasn't. Y'all have to understand, I
Speaker 6: wasn't allowed to have friends in the marriage. So all
Speaker 6: I was allowed to have was staff, really, and if
Speaker 6: they were friends, they pretty much had to be approved
Speaker 6: by him. Without him saying that, but with him saying.
Speaker 1: That, you know, no female friends.
Speaker 6: No, I mean I could have associates and have like
Speaker 6: soires and parties at the house and they can come,
Speaker 6: you know, but that's pretty much it. I wasn't allowed
Speaker 6: to have girls' nights. That's why you always saw me
Speaker 6: out with Simon all the time. When have you ever
Speaker 6: seen me without him?
Speaker 1: That makes sense.
Speaker 7: So he said he gave you three weeks to leave.
Speaker 7: When did the allowance stop, like after the three weeks or.
Speaker 6: Well, the allowance stopped soon after. Yeah, probably after the
Speaker 6: three weeks around that time. But we had a prenup
Speaker 6: and we were married for a lot longer than fifteen minutes,
Speaker 6: so I got a lot more. Yeah. Also the money
Speaker 6: was based off for the time you were together.
Speaker 7: I wonder how long Portia has left for her allowance.
Speaker 7: So you think it has already stopped because.
Speaker 6: He gets any I think I kind of did him
Speaker 6: in for a little booth. So no, I mean he
Speaker 6: balling though, So I don't.
Speaker 1: Know, So what what is his occupation? Because I've see
Speaker 1: a lot of people.
Speaker 6: Online, y'all not about to get me caught up in this.
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to be money.
Speaker 8: I just see a lot of people online acting like
Speaker 8: what does he do for a living? And you know
Speaker 8: he you know, he responded to one of the comments,
Speaker 8: but you know, asking you you you would actually know,
Speaker 8: well she.
Speaker 7: Worked with gas.
Speaker 6: Yes, so he helped me start my petroleum logistics company,
Speaker 6: and he was selling oil and I transported his oil
Speaker 6: for him. He stole that company, though, it was just
Speaker 6: for me to get it started. I guess because I'm
Speaker 6: a citizen. I don't know what the reason was behind it. Honestly,
Speaker 6: that's just my assumption.
Speaker 1: Well he stole a company from you? Oh yeah, because
Speaker 1: she doesn't have legally.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it was called t d L. Is named after
Speaker 6: my sons, Troy Dyllon Liam and it's now called KLC
Speaker 6: or something like that.
Speaker 8: Oh wow, So what you You didn't have full ownership
Speaker 8: of a company or he I did?
Speaker 1: So how did he steal it from you?
Speaker 6: He's allegedly a scammer. I don't know.
Speaker 7: You tell me.
Speaker 6: I was love and I was butterflies and rainbows, like, okay,
Speaker 6: you want to do this for me?
Speaker 1: What do you have? You a piece of paper?
Speaker 8: Like yr sign off on this real quick, baby, got
Speaker 8: some money coming in for us?
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, I'm not illiterate, so of course I
Speaker 6: read every contract that he gave me. Okay, I signed
Speaker 6: off on everything. It was legit, It really was, until
Speaker 6: it wasn't.
Speaker 1: I said it wasn't legit.
Speaker 8: I was just saying, like, how did he steal the
Speaker 8: company from.
Speaker 3: One of the Okay, so he.
Speaker 6: Was listed as the agent on my company and at
Speaker 6: that point, at some point he kind of just took
Speaker 6: everything and took over with just that label. I don't
Speaker 6: know how he was able to do that though.
Speaker 5: But being realistic, right, so, and I think that that's
Speaker 5: what people kind of forget. You're around this man with
Speaker 5: money and power and education, so you're gonna trust him.
Speaker 5: You see him exactly, so of course you're going to think, oh,
Speaker 5: you want to give me a business house?
Speaker 6: And he was black on top of it.
Speaker 3: I was loud, not looking back. Do you see that?
Speaker 3: Do you pay attention to moments that you probably easily
Speaker 3: could have missed, Like, damn, I was very not I
Speaker 3: wasn't thinking at this particular moment, but he really was
Speaker 3: taking advantage of me in this particular space. Do you
Speaker 3: think back on specific moments where you could have been
Speaker 3: maybe a little bit more on point with how you
Speaker 3: thought about Yeah, conversations and actions.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, as it pertains to me and Simon,
Speaker 6: like he we were or I was in love, and
Speaker 6: I think that if I wasn't as blinded, then I
Speaker 6: probably would have seen I would have seen everything, most likely.
Speaker 6: But then the marriage and the relationship wouldn't have lasted
Speaker 6: very long because you know, once you put them on blast,
Speaker 6: I don't want to hear that. They just want to
Speaker 6: keep having their cake and eat it too.
Speaker 7: So man, speaking of her own blast, Man, it would
Speaker 7: be a super blast if you showed up on a
Speaker 7: Real Housewives new season members this season, I know, be
Speaker 7: on there so you know, and Simon trying to get
Speaker 7: her to stop from him from even speaking on it.
Speaker 7: He's real, he's been spiteful like that, right, Yeah.
Speaker 1: He doesn't. He doesn't want her to talk about him.
Speaker 5: What's his sign?
Speaker 7: Gemini?
Speaker 8: So let me ask you this, if you if you
Speaker 8: ever ran into Porsche, what would you talk to her about?
Speaker 6: That wouldn't be a safe scenario her or it's smoked.
Speaker 6: I mean, at the end of the day, she know
Speaker 6: what she did. It could play out in the media,
Speaker 6: however everybody wants to try to play it out. I
Speaker 6: know what she did, Simon knows what she did. Portion
Speaker 6: knows what she did. That wouldn't be a safe scenario.
Speaker 6: So I wouldn't even put myself in a predicament of
Speaker 6: even allowing that. You know, I'm a grown woman.
Speaker 1: Now I would have talked to her, talked to her.
Speaker 6: Ain't gonna be no talking now.
Speaker 1: Did her ex husband know about that?
Speaker 6: Yeahs the one who told me. He was like, he
Speaker 6: came to me, he apologized. We met up at crew
Speaker 6: one night and he was like, you know, he wanted
Speaker 6: to talk to me about business or whatever, but I
Speaker 6: guess it was bothering him, and he apologized for everything.
Speaker 6: He was like, felling, I thought you knew the whole
Speaker 6: time that they were fucking around. He said, all of
Speaker 6: Atlanta knew. He was like, how'd you miss that? I said,
Speaker 6: I wasn't allowed out like that, so why would which
Speaker 6: makes sense now, but yeah, so he was like, I'm
Speaker 6: so sorry. He was like, I now it makes me
Speaker 6: look at my baby mama a certain way because she
Speaker 6: told me the whole time that you knew about everything.
Speaker 6: You were cool with her sleeping with Simon.
Speaker 1: So what was you and Porster first interaction?
Speaker 6: Our first one, I believe was filming at my house
Speaker 6: the pool scene. Yeah, that was the first time, and you.
Speaker 1: Didn't sense anything.
Speaker 7: Was your first interaction. But how did you know how
Speaker 7: does she know to come there? Who does she know
Speaker 7: to get there?
Speaker 6: So I was approached by housewives a few times. By
Speaker 6: the time I said yes, they asked me who do
Speaker 6: you want to be introduced onto the show with? And
Speaker 6: I said Portia, not knowing you know, she already but yeah,
Speaker 6: allegedly she was already Yeah for a year. That's what
Speaker 6: Dennis during this time, was already already. That's why when
Speaker 6: I was like, I went back and watched it because everybody,
Speaker 6: you know, everybody tags me in all the comments and
Speaker 6: they're like, you need to rewatch it now that you
Speaker 6: know not And I went and looked at it. And
Speaker 6: when I said, you know, oh yeah, we're about to
Speaker 6: do a ring upgrade, she was like.
Speaker 5: Oh, Like.
Speaker 6: I was in shock. But you know, in therapy, I
Speaker 6: mean when we had a couple of therapies, Simon said,
Speaker 6: and he told the therapist straight up, he said, Simon
Speaker 6: doesn't get caught cheating unless Simon wants to get caught.
Speaker 6: But he had thirty years on me. Of course he
Speaker 6: knew what he was doing.
Speaker 7: Any advice to any future mesical bodies.
Speaker 6: I mean, he's going to be different for every new supply.
Speaker 3: So I'm gonna say a new supply.
Speaker 6: Damn, there's no advice. Watch y'at, don't fall in love bitch.
Speaker 7: Question Pretty sure there's more to come though, I mean
Speaker 7: he's he's on a mission to get that citizenship.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, good luck to him. I told you
Speaker 6: he was doing that. That's that's out of that's out
Speaker 6: of my jurisdiction of even being able to comprehend everything
Speaker 6: he's going through because I wasn't even born yet, So
Speaker 6: when he's going through all this, I don't know, I understand.
Speaker 6: You know, I'm American, So I.
Speaker 7: Mean, like you said, you know him though you know you,
Speaker 7: like you said, you know that man, you know more
Speaker 7: than the Portia do him at the time. So that's
Speaker 7: all I was saying, Like any signs that other women
Speaker 7: could look for, you know, look out for when they
Speaker 7: getting into situations with that guy.
Speaker 6: Honestly, I don't feel like these women even care these days.
Speaker 6: I think they see a check and they see I
Speaker 6: mean I think they look at it for what it is,
Speaker 6: but I think they just see a check and they
Speaker 6: go for the money. I don't even think they care
Speaker 6: to fall for him, which isn't hard not to.
Speaker 7: Well, what is what do you have to offer these
Speaker 7: men on your new show that you're gonna be having
Speaker 7: a what is it?
Speaker 6: Uh?
Speaker 1: Follow over?
Speaker 6: Yes, it's gonna be a lot of fun. There's gonna
Speaker 6: be some real moments. You know, we're gonna get down
Speaker 6: to the nitty gritty of you know, healing trust, and
Speaker 6: there's gonna be times where you know you're gonna be
Speaker 6: forced to look in the mirror a lot that. I'm
Speaker 6: that way naturally. Anytime anything goes bad or goes wrong
Speaker 6: or left in my life, I always look in the mirror.
Speaker 6: I'm like, what could you have done to have not
Speaker 6: allowed this to happen? Or you know, did you cause this?
Speaker 6: Are you the problem? Don't think I don't ask myself
Speaker 6: that question. Is just because I got four baby daddies.
Speaker 6: But you know realises how some people. Yeah, I'm very
Speaker 6: real with myself. I'm actually my toughest critic and so
Speaker 6: that's what I'm looking for. And a partner too who
Speaker 6: holds me on, you know, my shit, and I can
Speaker 6: hold them on theirs too, and they could take it
Speaker 6: like a man. How old are your kids seventeen sixteen,
Speaker 6: about to be sixteen. I'm eleven and two, so.
Speaker 7: Two of them am about to, you know, be in
Speaker 7: college and away.
Speaker 6: From Yeah, they're they're already they're with their dads, not
Speaker 6: with me anymore.
Speaker 7: So how many kids you have with you?
Speaker 6: Just got into Yeah, Liam and Emma.
Speaker 7: Okay, So does your mate have to have kids too?
Speaker 6: Or I've prefer a man who has children. And that
Speaker 6: is just new to me now that I've been in
Speaker 6: the dating world, which has been so hard. It's so
Speaker 6: ugly out here. I just want to be married. I
Speaker 6: don't want to be out here no more.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I like it. What is your biggest challenge?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 3: Yeah? What is there something triggering you when you're saying that,
Speaker 3: Like there's something that's happening.
Speaker 6: I don't like how most of these men that I've
Speaker 6: encountered are in their soft girl era, Like I missed
Speaker 6: the part where men became so feminine and it's really
Speaker 6: beginning to because now it's like, dang, I gotta be
Speaker 6: hard for the both of us. I'm supposed to be
Speaker 6: in my feminine power. I'm supposed to be masking that,
Speaker 6: and I can't be in a relationship with you and
Speaker 6: I got to be hard for you too.
Speaker 1: So how people gonna be able to submit for the show.
Speaker 6: So I'm I had to reschedule my casting. My casting
Speaker 6: call was yesterday, gotch but the weather was so bad
Speaker 6: and I was trying to wait for it to change. However,
Speaker 6: it just got really bad because the venue that we
Speaker 6: had was half inside half outside and people would have
Speaker 6: been lining up in the rain, and then there was lightning,
Speaker 6: so it just it was all bad. So I'm rescheduling it.
Speaker 6: It's gonna be in two weeks. We haven't decided on
Speaker 6: the date just yet, but the follow you to just
Speaker 6: look at my Instagram and you guys will be able to,
Speaker 6: you know, keep up with the time and the day
Speaker 6: and the location and whatnot.
Speaker 7: And you haven't picked a network yet.
Speaker 6: I have not. I'm open. However, I am being shopped
Speaker 6: right now, so I'm not under contract, but I kind
Speaker 6: of want to have that loyalty to them since they
Speaker 6: got a green lighted.
Speaker 1: Yeah they got a green lighter.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Wait, you said somebody is loyally to you first, so
Speaker 1: you said bravo.
Speaker 6: I'm not saying nothing.
Speaker 7: I'm not saying but okay, follow for fouling. And then
Speaker 7: you said you can't talk about your other show, right, Yeah.
Speaker 6: That one I can't talk about what type of show is.
Speaker 6: It's reality TV.
Speaker 1: It is, it's going to be on the Housewives.
Speaker 3: I'm going to have y'all.
Speaker 7: Yeah, she can't. She can't speak with anything else she
Speaker 7: got coming up fire for I guess started. You're still modeling.
Speaker 6: I am still modeling.
Speaker 7: I am, so you're still modeling very much, So okay,
Speaker 7: But I.
Speaker 6: Just started looking at myself the other day. I'm like,
Speaker 6: I don't know if I want to model anymore. With
Speaker 6: my boobs being so big, I don't know if I
Speaker 6: want to do that. What do you mean? I love it,
Speaker 6: but I have really big boobs. I feel like I was,
Speaker 6: really I was a lot more confident modeling when I
Speaker 6: was flat chested.
Speaker 7: I mean, is it for the type of modeling that
Speaker 7: you want to do, because there's a lot of different
Speaker 7: type of models.
Speaker 6: Now, there is, there is, and it seems like the
Speaker 6: stuff I get picked for is mostly lingerie or like
Speaker 6: you know, just things where you kind of or they
Speaker 6: don't mind that you're so busty. But I'm small, So
Speaker 6: like if I were a bit bigger, if my frame
Speaker 6: were a bit bigger and then I have big boobs,
Speaker 6: they'd count me as a plus size model, but because
Speaker 6: I'm so tiny and then with big breaths.
Speaker 7: It's like, did that come from your last child?
Speaker 6: No, I bought these girls.
Speaker 7: Oh well, why'd you do that?
Speaker 6: Dan? If you wanted because I didn't want to be
Speaker 6: a double a no more?
Speaker 7: Okay, Well you didn't want to you don't try to
Speaker 7: model no more.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 6: I'm very proud of these, Okay. I just wanted to
Speaker 6: look different when I'm you know, with somebody.
Speaker 7: Okay, is that the only cosmetic surgery that you're that
Speaker 7: you wanted to do?
Speaker 6: Or yeah, that's it. That's all I'll ever do.
Speaker 7: Okay, Okay, and everything is happy home you and Jalen.
Speaker 6: I'm taking some time to myself or I have taken
Speaker 6: some time to myself to really deep dive into everything
Speaker 6: it was that I'm feeling because I didn't really have
Speaker 6: the time to heal after my divorce because I was
Speaker 6: pregnant and I couldn't allow that to go into my child.
Speaker 6: So then I had to deal with Jalen that breakup.
Speaker 6: So I the second Jalen and I broke up, it
Speaker 6: just went straight into all right, time to heal, you know,
Speaker 6: time to feel allow yourself to feel and give yourself
Speaker 6: that grace.
Speaker 7: And what are some of the things that you do
Speaker 7: to for that healing.
Speaker 6: Oh, I meditate like no other. I meditate. I talk
Speaker 6: to God a lot. I'm real with myself. I'm not
Speaker 6: too tough on myself anymore. I used to. I realized
Speaker 6: that words are very powerful. You know, you can't just
Speaker 6: say like, oh, I'm an idiot, because you say that
Speaker 6: enough and you know your soul, your spirit is gonna
Speaker 6: begin to believe that self bullying. And I was doing
Speaker 6: a lot of that on top of what the bullying
Speaker 6: I was dealing with in the media. So I had
Speaker 6: to learn how to really give myself grace and forgive
Speaker 6: myself for my shortcomings. And now I'm ready.
Speaker 1: So what's the what's the longest you've been single?
Speaker 6: I am single for after Liam's dad. I was single
Speaker 6: for a while.
Speaker 7: Because we thought you was in a relationship with Pleasure P.
Speaker 1: And then the world the world was in a relationship
Speaker 1: with Pleasure P.
Speaker 7: But it's a music video and he came and they bunked.
Speaker 7: That's like, you guys are good friends.
Speaker 6: Oh my god, they're such good friends. Yeah, y'all might
Speaker 6: see me out with him every year and there we're
Speaker 6: really good friends.
Speaker 7: Yeah that's what he said.
Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, real real tight.
Speaker 7: But no, okay, okay, but you single right now and
Speaker 7: you looking for love?
Speaker 6: I am looking for love.
Speaker 7: Uh huh fallow for Fallon man, y'all, look out for
Speaker 7: fell It's.
Speaker 6: On the way.
Speaker 1: We'll be right back. Stay tuned with more of the
Speaker 1: Baller Alert Show.
Speaker 6: Is this fallon y'all? You are now tuning into the
Speaker 6: Baller Alert Show.
Speaker 1: It's love versus money on the Baller Alert Show.
Speaker 7: All right, So today we have Aoki Lee and the
Speaker 7: Victorial as off.
Speaker 3: Oh man, three hearts all right, so three so this
Speaker 3: just for love.
Speaker 5: Y'all know, she's trying to survive. That is second generation
Speaker 5: sugar baby training.
Speaker 1: She was born for that.
Speaker 6: What do you think you're asking me that because you
Speaker 6: think I'm a sugar baby?
Speaker 7: Felt this one?
Speaker 6: Right? I kind of relate with her a little bit
Speaker 6: on this one. I wasn't that young.
Speaker 1: But no, no, you don't think this is business.
Speaker 6: It's all business.
Speaker 1: Come on, okay, I think they're still you.
Speaker 8: I mean, first of all, we gotta we gotta understand
Speaker 8: the background that this young lady comes from. And this
Speaker 8: is something normal that you know, her her mom is
Speaker 8: seen and you know, you never know the conversations that
Speaker 8: they've had because when they asked a dad, you know,
Speaker 8: he was just kind of like, you know whatever. But
Speaker 8: I just think that it's weird because she has like
Speaker 8: childlike behavior. You know, if you if you watch her blogs,
Speaker 8: it's like you're talking to like a teenage kid, like now.
Speaker 6: Say about him.
Speaker 7: But before then, Ayoki was always the one, you know,
Speaker 7: checking people for her sister.
Speaker 1: You know, she never she was a quid one.
Speaker 7: She never gave no But I'm saying the way that
Speaker 7: she's acting in that video, she was acting way more
Speaker 7: mature before the video gotcha of her in the sixty
Speaker 7: five year old she would never act like that. She
Speaker 7: would be you know, very well spoken. You know, she
Speaker 7: was the Harvard graduate, you know, so to see that,
Speaker 7: you know, kind of dumber self down was was, you know,
Speaker 7: like something's going on here.
Speaker 8: But it's a little weird. But you also got to
Speaker 8: keep in mind, first of all, I think that this
Speaker 8: is strictly business. I think that she wanted to go
Speaker 8: on a nice vacation and she had somebody to say,
Speaker 8: come on, I would pay for it. But you also
Speaker 8: got to understand the trauma and the things that she's
Speaker 8: experiencing right now, where you know her not having a
Speaker 8: relationship with her dad right now, he's in a different country.
Speaker 1: Why you tell you tell me allegedly he running, He
Speaker 1: running from the bad boy. Bad boy.
Speaker 3: What you want to do is a lot of flags
Speaker 3: on the place, this whole little scenario. Yeah, yeah, he's
Speaker 3: definitely business though, for sure. I gotta be careful at him.
Speaker 6: Man. Did she come out and say that if her
Speaker 6: dad didn't do more for her that she was going
Speaker 6: to find a sugar daddy?
Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, yes, she said that on Instagram live.
Speaker 3: And I do think that they're they're not together publicly
Speaker 3: because of him, Yeah, yeah, and his businesses that he
Speaker 3: got going on.
Speaker 7: That's a bad little she doesn't expose the Marria j Blige.
Speaker 1: Thing and everything, Yeah, because he's because he's in the background.
Speaker 1: But see that's another thing.
Speaker 8: Why I said, that's just like kid, like were you
Speaker 8: like around like a younger you know person, and they
Speaker 8: just recording everything. So I'm looking at the situation like, yo,
Speaker 8: he's talking about some private stuff and she's over here
Speaker 8: like should be quiet, and and he you know, it's
Speaker 8: like stuff like that will make like, come on, bro,
Speaker 8: you hanging out with a kid. So I can't just
Speaker 8: say it on her. We also got to he gotta
Speaker 8: take accountability to like.
Speaker 3: Come on, man, he could definitely be her grandfather.
Speaker 6: Facts easy, facts get in there.
Speaker 3: She's like three generations away from him.
Speaker 1: That's crazy.
Speaker 3: She's twenty one just to teach him how to use things.
Speaker 7: So fallon, would you ever get an older man? I
Speaker 7: should say it like that?
Speaker 6: No, hell no, not ever again.
Speaker 8: No.
Speaker 6: I mean, I'm so, I'm about to be thirty five
Speaker 6: in a couple of weeks.
Speaker 3: So what's the what's the what's the biggest gap for
Speaker 3: you that's comfortable?
Speaker 1: Whoa, whoa, whoa?
Speaker 3: What's the biggest guy I'm thinking about?
Speaker 7: And a Nicole Smith?
Speaker 6: Right, I think fifteen years.
Speaker 1: I think fifteen years.
Speaker 6: I'm at that big age now I got kids. I
Speaker 6: think fifteen years is comfortable for me. What is?
Speaker 1: What is Younger women in factuation with older men.
Speaker 6: They're mature, and they know how to teach and lead
Speaker 6: a woman, and they know how to touch a woman too.
Speaker 6: A lot of them do, at least I guess like
Speaker 6: I feel like they're just more experienced they're more seasoned
Speaker 6: and young, younger guys especially. I would never dig a
Speaker 6: guy in my own age these days. I just I
Speaker 6: can't do it unless he's already he's already at a
Speaker 6: point where he's established, and you know, he's mentally established
Speaker 6: and spiritually established. I'm not doing that because they're just stupid.
Speaker 7: So nobody your age, and nobody smoking Robinson's age.
Speaker 3: He's a fifteen year game.
Speaker 6: I'm sorry. Smoking.
Speaker 7: Smoking is getting down now. He's on stage and he's
Speaker 7: showing the girls that he got moved, you know, so
Speaker 7: don't be counting out smoking.
Speaker 3: All right, we got barler mail, Yes we do.
Speaker 1: It is time for baller mail.
Speaker 3: Dear baller alert. My boyfriend was currently diagnosed and needs
Speaker 3: a new kidney and now has to be on dialysis
Speaker 3: three days a week. It's been weighing on me pretty bad,
Speaker 3: and I'm not sure I can keep keep this up.
Speaker 3: Taking care of him is a lie. I want to
Speaker 3: break up with him because it's just too much. But
Speaker 3: I'm scared of my karma though. Help me, y'all leave.
Speaker 6: Did he propose boy friend? Right? Why are you being
Speaker 6: your wife to somebody who doesn't want you? To be?
Speaker 6: One hit? It. I know he was going to.
Speaker 7: Wisdom balance.
Speaker 6: We learned it from life has been lifing.
Speaker 1: Man, that's kind of tough, man. You don't leave somebody
Speaker 1: on their death.
Speaker 6: You can be there for some.
Speaker 1: Is serious though, definitely that's get better next week. You
Speaker 1: what you know all about taking care of men, because
Speaker 1: you took care of the poopy man.
Speaker 3: Was he had a he had a bad stomach virus though, yeah.
Speaker 8: Just three days a week. Man, That's that's tough man.
Speaker 8: I feel like if you already doing it, it's like, man,
Speaker 8: you gotta you gotta stick it. Like what if what
Speaker 8: if that man is the love of your life and
Speaker 8: you're talking about you want to break up with him?
Speaker 1: What if he gets better? She said, boyfriend?
Speaker 6: So I don't know afriend, but she.
Speaker 1: Could still be in love. But I guess not anymore.
Speaker 6: She's asking the question.
Speaker 1: She already already been in the bathroom.
Speaker 3: She already I'm gonna come in and say, you say
Speaker 3: you want to break up with him, just go ahead
Speaker 3: and break up with him, because right now you're just
Speaker 3: putting a band aid on the wound that's just gonna
Speaker 3: get worse. And if it's bothering you, you're probably gonna
Speaker 3: have an attitude and.
Speaker 7: Feeling the way, and you're showing up with attitude.
Speaker 3: Showing up with the attitude. Just go ahead and get
Speaker 3: it over with.
Speaker 1: She don't leave him on this.
Speaker 3: No, I don't want you to leave him, but you
Speaker 3: don't want to be in there.
Speaker 1: That's that bullshit.
Speaker 3: But that's also a blessing for him, because he's gonna
Speaker 3: be like, all right, cool, you ain't the Yeah, maybe
Speaker 3: I won't gonna propose, but some.
Speaker 1: Ship happened and ain't God damn, it ain't gonna be
Speaker 1: for better for worse with the world is cruel.
Speaker 4: It ain't worse with you. You ain't the one, yo.
Speaker 4: Get here there, come forget what. I'm gonna give me
Speaker 4: a new kidney because I'm on the list, and get
Speaker 4: what I'm gonna find me my one.
Speaker 6: This sounds very personal.
Speaker 3: My uncle's on dialysis.
Speaker 1: Actually his woman left. You know what, I don't want
Speaker 1: he let's not put the business.
Speaker 3: Let's not put his business out, Okay, And that's my big.
Speaker 1: Less say, let's my bad.
Speaker 3: So no, but nah, get up out of there, if
Speaker 3: you know, because it's gonna be bad.
Speaker 8: She's just gonna come and break his heart and be like,
Speaker 8: don't play, it's hard, it's no, it's too lakers.
Speaker 7: Now she was uh like older with a lot of money.
Speaker 7: And you know what I'm saying to say that you
Speaker 7: don't get gonna be like it's a bit different.
Speaker 3: This doesn't really say he has the bag bag baggie,
Speaker 3: because if he did, she would.
Speaker 8: We're gonna stay sugar baby, or she would have or
Speaker 8: he would have probably had a nurse.
Speaker 5: That's what I said.
Speaker 3: Because she gotta do it, and yeah, no, that's too much,
Speaker 3: that's too much. It is too much. Though it's a lot.
Speaker 3: You gotta really really love somebody to you committed to
Speaker 3: do something right about.
Speaker 6: That, And it don't seem like she love him too much.
Speaker 6: If she's asking us, she.
Speaker 1: Gotta she would have gone.
Speaker 3: He just got diagnosed for two weeks or something.
Speaker 8: But see, but see that's another question, is like how
Speaker 8: long have they been dating? Because you know they could
Speaker 8: just first start off dating and then you know something
Speaker 8: like and because she out of the yeah she gone,
Speaker 8: and she sent us a d She sent me a
Speaker 8: d M. I know you want to leave me, She
Speaker 8: want to leave bad.
Speaker 1: She's already made it, already made a decision. She said,
Speaker 1: what about my karma.
Speaker 7: You have karma community.
Speaker 6: Every single day it's gonna get hurt.
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah yeah, this ship I love that felon.
Speaker 7: You know, we're just gonna go right into pet talk.
Speaker 7: I'm done, go ahead and give us some more of
Speaker 7: your wisdom.
Speaker 6: Ooh. My message to the world today, Uh, don't allow
Speaker 6: anyone to stop your blessings. I don't care if it's
Speaker 6: a husband, wife, whatever it is that you foresee for
Speaker 6: your future. You know your vision is your own vision,
Speaker 6: and that's not for anybody else to see. It's only
Speaker 6: for you to see and understand. So don't allow anybody
Speaker 6: to stop you and keep going.
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