WEBVTT - Episode 320 "Falynn"

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<v Speaker 1>Bord with me here.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, bt know how it goes, shout out oct

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<v Speaker 2>no real color, what we see, whole game read the

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<v Speaker 2>boer b something. Oh you can't stand on my own, Suci,

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<v Speaker 2>I already know you can't with me because up with

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<v Speaker 2>the squad of me they get at They called me.

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<v Speaker 3>Her love.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello, ball Loveler, Welcome to the Baller Show podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>Another book. Everywhere you get your podcast please to tee

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<v Speaker 3>to light Subscribers share are YouTube page at Baller alert TV.

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<v Speaker 3>One time for we vote. I go by the name

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<v Speaker 3>of Farri Sith. I go by the name you know

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<v Speaker 3>bt C t what that.

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<v Speaker 5>Tamara aka girl from harlow Ah fat.

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<v Speaker 1>In the building.

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<v Speaker 6>We'll go back.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm bad. Welcome bad. You brought some tea and it

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<v Speaker 1>was hot.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah. I'm working on two television shows right now.

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<v Speaker 7>What are they?

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<v Speaker 6>So? One is the dating show? So I'm looking for

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<v Speaker 6>love okay, and the other one I can't tell.

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<v Speaker 7>What are you looking for in your love?

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<v Speaker 6>I'm really looking for someone who's real, who's authentic, and

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<v Speaker 6>I feel like that's really hard to find these days.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, nobody, nobody knows how to just be themselves anymore.

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<v Speaker 6>Everybody wants to keep up with the joneses or be

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<v Speaker 6>somebody it is that they believe that they're supposed to

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<v Speaker 6>be or you know, there's a lot of men who

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<v Speaker 6>want wives but don't want to be husbands. So I

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<v Speaker 6>think that's that's really what I'm looking for. I mean,

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<v Speaker 6>it's open to women as well. It's not just men.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh that's a curveball.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a curveball for me.

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<v Speaker 6>Y'all have to understand because my team they're asking me like, okay,

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<v Speaker 6>so it's just men only, And I said, hold on, wait,

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know. You know, the men have just been

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<v Speaker 6>messing up. Y'all have really done yourselves a good one.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know if I want to go back, I might.

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<v Speaker 1>So why you're exploring now?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I mean I've always you know.

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<v Speaker 3>You've always appreciated the beauty of a woman.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, okay, but just not relationship wise. So I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>So you're open to exploring a possibility of a relationship

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<v Speaker 3>with a woman.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, absolutely, she's bad.

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<v Speaker 7>No, But so what is this gonna be on? What's

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<v Speaker 7>the platform?

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<v Speaker 6>Zoos? I really say right now? But open, Yes, it's

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<v Speaker 6>a dating show for me. I'm really just trying to

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<v Speaker 6>leave it open. However, we have a network that's highly interested, so.

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<v Speaker 7>He's just weighing out the bait.

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<v Speaker 6>Mm hmm me the best man win, literally.

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<v Speaker 3>The best person.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, person.

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<v Speaker 3>That was the title of it. For the love of Fallon.

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<v Speaker 6>Falling for Fallon. That was a good one though, for

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<v Speaker 6>the love of Falling for Fallon.

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<v Speaker 7>How does Fallon's X feel?

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<v Speaker 6>Uh?

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<v Speaker 7>What's his name, Jayalen? How does he feel about it?

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<v Speaker 6>He's straight?

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<v Speaker 3>I guess okay, he doesn't make an appearance or anything.

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<v Speaker 6>Right, I don't know. I would not put it past

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<v Speaker 6>my producers at all.

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<v Speaker 3>To put him as a qualifying person.

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<v Speaker 6>Absolutely, I've actually thought about it. You thought about No,

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't think about using him. I thought about it

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<v Speaker 6>being interesting.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, so, you don't know any of these guys, right,

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<v Speaker 3>you're going to meet them on the show.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I don't know any about it.

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<v Speaker 7>You haven't, you're not a part of the casting or

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<v Speaker 7>say so in that.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm gonna have somewhat you know, say so because of

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<v Speaker 6>course we want we want to see who it is

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<v Speaker 6>that I choose and who I'm attracted to. However, not everybody.

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<v Speaker 6>We're gonna see what happened.

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<v Speaker 7>To any overweight lovers? Or do you have a preference?

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<v Speaker 6>No, okay, I don't think so at this point. My

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<v Speaker 6>preference hasn't really gotten me very far now has it?

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<v Speaker 1>So so let me ask you this. Do you have

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<v Speaker 1>any red flags?

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<v Speaker 6>I think I think everyone has red flag?

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<v Speaker 3>What are yours?

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<v Speaker 6>I'm stubborn, Taurus stubborn. I'm stubborn, I really am. And

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<v Speaker 6>when I'm right, I'm right. You can't argue with me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yep, yep, yeah that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 8>So what are some what are some green flags that

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<v Speaker 8>you're looking for on this day?

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<v Speaker 6>And show, like I said, just someone who's real and authentic.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I have to be attracted to them, because

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<v Speaker 6>I was. You know, I've been with people that have

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<v Speaker 6>been less attractive than me, and I realized that that

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<v Speaker 6>it may sound shallow, but it really doesn't match with

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<v Speaker 6>my world. You have to be able to be secure

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<v Speaker 6>enough in your own skin, and I feel like, however

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<v Speaker 6>that usually comes up, it doesn't translate very well in

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<v Speaker 6>a person who doesn't feel like they're attractive, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>in comparison to how I look. So I need somebody

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<v Speaker 6>to be tough. They have to have thick.

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<v Speaker 1>Skin, so you. So you don't think money make people attractive?

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<v Speaker 6>No, not at all. I think it can add some

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<v Speaker 6>type of value, and it can add some type of swag,

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<v Speaker 6>but even swag goes into their own self confidence. Now

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<v Speaker 6>you know, couldn't make them attracted to them and that's

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<v Speaker 6>what they exude. Yeah, but no, I don't. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 6>like money.

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<v Speaker 3>Though, So you know about to ask you what so

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<v Speaker 3>you were physically attractive assignment?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh my god, before we go there, let's just take

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<v Speaker 7>a quick break. Let's take a breather, Let's take a brother.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll be right back.

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<v Speaker 7>We'll be right back. We'll be right back for more.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll be right back with more of the Baller Alert Show.

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<v Speaker 1>Is this falling?

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<v Speaker 6>Y'all? You are now tuning into the Baller Alert show.

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<v Speaker 7>Bag with more the Brother Alert Show. We got failing

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<v Speaker 7>in the building and kind of left out on a cliffhanger.

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<v Speaker 7>I think lady had a question.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well, BT asked, He said, are you attracted? Does

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<v Speaker 3>money make people attracted? You said no, So I said, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>so you thought Simon was attractive.

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<v Speaker 6>I am attracted to people's hearts and they're inside before

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<v Speaker 6>I'm attracted to.

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<v Speaker 3>So does a heart make someone attractive, yes, someone's heart, yes.

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<v Speaker 6>If they have a really big, loving heart. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so the bank account ain't got to be big, No,

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<v Speaker 1>it does.

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't say that. Let's relax, it's calm down. I

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<v Speaker 6>have a lot of respects.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you ever been in love with a brokie?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, okay, a couple of times.

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<v Speaker 5>It happens.

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<v Speaker 3>It happens, and you said in your mind, like, nah,

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<v Speaker 3>this ain't it.

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<v Speaker 6>I think I'm at that place now in life for sure.

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<v Speaker 6>For sure. I don't think I'm ever going to get

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<v Speaker 6>with another brokie ever again in life.

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<v Speaker 1>Damn.

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<v Speaker 7>At the beginning of the episode, you said you were vindicated.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, yeah, I feel a little bit of it.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not going to lie because everybody kind of made

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<v Speaker 6>me out to be something that I wasn't without understanding

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<v Speaker 6>what was going on behind closed doors for five years.

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<v Speaker 6>The person that y'all see is my ex husband. That's

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<v Speaker 6>new to y'all. I knew exactly who it was that

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<v Speaker 6>I married, but you know, I was young. I was

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<v Speaker 6>twenty six when we got together. He was fifty. So

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<v Speaker 6>I thought that, well, no, he loves me, and he'll

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<v Speaker 6>just you know, he'll change, and he just has to

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<v Speaker 6>grow and I have to prove myself and all that

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<v Speaker 6>dumb shit.

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<v Speaker 7>Did you know about all like the immigration problems that

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<v Speaker 7>he was having. Yeah, did he like to tell you

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<v Speaker 7>the thing?

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<v Speaker 6>But I don't have to, you know, exploit people's name

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<v Speaker 6>or any of their business for a check.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, But did he tell you that upfront or is

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<v Speaker 7>that something that you investigated yourself?

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<v Speaker 6>No, that was he was upfront about a lot of things. However,

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<v Speaker 6>There's a lot of stuff that he left out too.

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<v Speaker 6>I've never even known that he's been in jail before.

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<v Speaker 6>M you know, so I really in a sense when

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<v Speaker 6>everything came into the media, I was really shocked.

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<v Speaker 3>Found some stuff out too.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, and y'all have to understand he was doing all

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<v Speaker 6>this before I was born.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait did you not google him though?

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<v Speaker 6>Like I feel like there's only but so much you

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<v Speaker 6>can see on Google.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, the hopeful police are going to come? Is that so?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean I think it says that I'm like, I'm

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<v Speaker 6>worth two hundred and fifty million right now on what where? Where?

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<v Speaker 8>That's that?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>That's what Google?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>That crazy? Yeah? Oh wow, I haven't seen all types

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<v Speaker 6>of articles.

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<v Speaker 5>So how do you vet somebody? Then? Like what is

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<v Speaker 5>your process now and moving forward when you're looking to

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<v Speaker 5>see like who you're going to date.

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<v Speaker 6>Like, I don't bet nobody. Whatever comes out just comes back.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't got to do nothing and the way, but

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<v Speaker 6>you have to do that. I'm gonna find out for me.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, okay, but then it's a way you in love

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<v Speaker 5>or something or you already went public with this person.

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<v Speaker 5>You don't want to like have that attached to you.

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<v Speaker 5>You have you your brain, like you are a brand.

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<v Speaker 5>Now you have to protect that, so you have to

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<v Speaker 5>be cautious about all your data.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm moving forward absolutely, and I'll you know, I'll remain

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<v Speaker 6>as cautious as I can. But I can't walk, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>on eggshells because I'm too afraid to let my guard

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<v Speaker 6>down because of my image. You know, the world and

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<v Speaker 6>life is so much bigger than just your career. And

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, as long as not no Diddy stuff, I

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<v Speaker 6>think I'm good.

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<v Speaker 7>You know, what do you think about all the Diddy

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<v Speaker 7>stuff going on?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, you know, we've always and especially in the industry,

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<v Speaker 6>we've always heard stories hell no, no, no, not even but.

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<v Speaker 1>No.

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<v Speaker 6>But you know I've heard stories just as much as

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<v Speaker 6>everybody else it's sad to see them go out like that.

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<v Speaker 6>I think. I think what bothers me the most is

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<v Speaker 6>his son's being a part of it all, know, like

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<v Speaker 6>the fact that his kids have something to do with

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<v Speaker 6>all of this. Then they had like hitting cameras and

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<v Speaker 6>all of their rooms and stuff allegedly. That's crazy.

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<v Speaker 7>Rich people do weird things.

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<v Speaker 6>That means that Diddy was in there watching his children.

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<v Speaker 5>That's a whole nother aspect. I didn't even think about it.

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<v Speaker 5>I reviewing the tapes.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, because they said the tapes or the cameras were

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<v Speaker 6>inside of his room's room.

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<v Speaker 7>Simon never had cameras throughout the house.

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<v Speaker 6>Of course he did. I had GPS trackers on my

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<v Speaker 6>cars and everything.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's how he called Jalen.

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<v Speaker 6>Right, No, that's how he caught another boy. Oh, but

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<v Speaker 6>I wasn't hiding it, so I was kind of.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I know about that situation. I know, I know

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<v Speaker 1>you wouldn't that was the time.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, that was around that time. No, there was no

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<v Speaker 6>y'all have to understand. So when Jalen and I got together,

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<v Speaker 6>it was during a very vulnerable moment for me. So

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<v Speaker 6>there was so much going on behind closed doors that

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<v Speaker 6>y'all still don't you know, the public doesn't really know

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<v Speaker 6>about and the time frame that everything took place. So

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<v Speaker 6>by the time Jaalen and I even decided that we're

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<v Speaker 6>going to become more than just friends, he was already

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<v Speaker 6>with several other people. But we were still lead married

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<v Speaker 6>with several other people, right, but we were verbally separated. So,

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, it just you know, whatever happened happened.

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<v Speaker 7>And are you were you shocked to find out when

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<v Speaker 7>Portia and Simon separated?

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<v Speaker 6>No? Was anybody.

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<v Speaker 1>So do you think that was Do you think that

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<v Speaker 1>was real?

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<v Speaker 7>No, the whole relationship, you don't think it was real.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't think it was real at all.

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<v Speaker 6>No. I think it was just a ploy to get

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<v Speaker 6>back at me. I mean really, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Not to get back at not to have like a

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<v Speaker 3>storyline or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I mean she finally used it for a storyline, sure.

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<v Speaker 7>But he was trying to get at you through that

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<v Speaker 7>whole relationship. You're saying, Simon, oh, throughout the whole.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean I'm not. I'm not gonna say like there

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<v Speaker 6>wasn't any parts you know that he might have thought

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<v Speaker 6>could have been authentic or something could have grown you know,

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know their business, but yeah, the initial I

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<v Speaker 6>guess them becoming public and doing everything the way that

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<v Speaker 6>they went about everything. Yeah, that was definitely a ploy

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<v Speaker 6>because they were already together for they were dating for

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<v Speaker 6>a year while I was happily married, And that came

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<v Speaker 6>from Dennis's mouth.

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<v Speaker 8>You ever thought about dating him, that's how you do it.

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<v Speaker 1>I swap it out.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't think Dennis can keep up with me, you know.

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<v Speaker 6>I think I'm a little out of his bracket. But

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<v Speaker 6>he's awesome, he's really cool.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, you know the film of the Housewives? Now, could

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<v Speaker 7>you have an appearance on there? Or would you if

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<v Speaker 7>the opportunity presented.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not gonna say no comment, so it could be,

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<v Speaker 6>could not.

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<v Speaker 3>This are possibilities.

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<v Speaker 6>What you're saying, no comment?

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<v Speaker 7>Would you get back with Simon now?

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<v Speaker 6>To see it's crazy because I didn't always feel that way. However,

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<v Speaker 6>to see everything that he's doing yet again, and me

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<v Speaker 6>and y'all have to understand me watching everything, it's re

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<v Speaker 6>traumatizing for me because I'm the one who went through

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<v Speaker 6>it first as bad as it did publicly.

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<v Speaker 7>Did you were you the first or was it publicly?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah? Because I don't want nobody when he was, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>getting divorces, and who's to say what he did to them.

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<v Speaker 6>I think I was only maybe five when he got divorced.

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<v Speaker 3>So all right, So has he reached out to you

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<v Speaker 3>contact the Jews? No, So there's no communicator between you

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<v Speaker 3>and I.

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<v Speaker 7>You and.

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<v Speaker 6>We run into each other all the time. I have

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<v Speaker 6>reached out to him once before, I sent an email.

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<v Speaker 6>That was before the divorce. Their divorce went public. Just

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<v Speaker 6>y'all have to understand, Simon and I were actually married.

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<v Speaker 6>It was real. Our marriage was very real. So we

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<v Speaker 6>never had an ending discussion like there was no like,

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<v Speaker 6>it was nothing. I just went viral and was it.

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<v Speaker 6>We never said goodbye, We never said you know, I

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<v Speaker 6>wish you well, or he never even said fuck off.

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<v Speaker 3>You know closure.

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<v Speaker 7>No, So what happened? You just moved out and you know,

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<v Speaker 7>he just moved away? Or how did it? How did

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<v Speaker 7>the end didn't happen.

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<v Speaker 6>Same way y'all saw it. It just went away one

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<v Speaker 6>one day I was happy and the next day he

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<v Speaker 6>was gone.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh, he just never came back to the house.

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<v Speaker 6>He came back after a few months. Yeah, yeah, So

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<v Speaker 6>I had my kids in our house and his kids too,

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<v Speaker 6>and he was just traveling wherever he was, no communication,

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<v Speaker 6>barely any And then he came back and it was

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<v Speaker 6>you have you have three weeks to leave?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh the premises he had three weeks or both of you.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I had three weeks.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, he gave you a letter or something that said

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<v Speaker 7>you got three weeks.

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<v Speaker 6>No, he sent me a text as good as a gout.

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<v Speaker 7>So where did his kids go?

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<v Speaker 6>They were with me?

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<v Speaker 3>No, you left his kids too.

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<v Speaker 6>No. I ended up having a conversation with his ex wife,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, and we wanted to continue the relationship between

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<v Speaker 6>the children. However, Simon did not want that, so we

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<v Speaker 6>uh just parted ways, and you know, it kind of

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<v Speaker 6>broke up the brotherhood between all the boys, which was

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<v Speaker 6>really sad and unfortunate, I think for everybody. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>it was like, you got three weeks to leave, and

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<v Speaker 6>he told me I could have more time if I wanted.

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<v Speaker 6>But I was so hurt by how quickly our marriage

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<v Speaker 6>just shifted and how my happiness just came to an

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<v Speaker 6>abrupt ending. I didn't know what I was feeling or thinking.

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<v Speaker 6>I wasn't myself.

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<v Speaker 1>So how long was y'all married?

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<v Speaker 6>We were married for two years? We were together for

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<v Speaker 6>five So.

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<v Speaker 5>Was it a tit for tat with you guys?

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<v Speaker 6>Because me, not for you, No, not for me. I

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<v Speaker 6>just wanted to do anything to not feel the pain anymore,

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<v Speaker 6>you know. And Jalen at that time, I'm sorry, Jalen,

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<v Speaker 6>he was just he was the superman. He was the

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<v Speaker 6>one who came in and he was just like, you

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<v Speaker 6>don't deserve that things.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you guys getting hot and steamy at that particular

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<v Speaker 3>moment too, that time frame, you and Jay getting hot

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<v Speaker 3>and steamy.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, we had a baby, fool.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's hot and steam and steamy.

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<v Speaker 5>Listen, when you're emotional and you're vulnerable like that and

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<v Speaker 5>guys come in and say everything right, Oh, I can

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<v Speaker 5>only imagine it, and she just ate it up.

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<v Speaker 6>I did, and I wasn't. Y'all have to understand, I

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<v Speaker 6>wasn't allowed to have friends in the marriage. So all

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<v Speaker 6>I was allowed to have was staff, really, and if

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<v Speaker 6>they were friends, they pretty much had to be approved

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<v Speaker 6>by him. Without him saying that, but with him saying.

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<v Speaker 1>That, you know, no female friends.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I mean I could have associates and have like

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<v Speaker 6>soires and parties at the house and they can come,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, but that's pretty much it. I wasn't allowed

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<v Speaker 6>to have girls' nights. That's why you always saw me

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<v Speaker 6>out with Simon all the time. When have you ever

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<v Speaker 6>seen me without him?

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<v Speaker 1>That makes sense.

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<v Speaker 7>So he said he gave you three weeks to leave.

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<v Speaker 7>When did the allowance stop, like after the three weeks or.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, the allowance stopped soon after. Yeah, probably after the

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<v Speaker 6>three weeks around that time. But we had a prenup

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<v Speaker 6>and we were married for a lot longer than fifteen minutes,

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<v Speaker 6>so I got a lot more. Yeah. Also the money

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<v Speaker 6>was based off for the time you were together.

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<v Speaker 7>I wonder how long Portia has left for her allowance.

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<v Speaker 7>So you think it has already stopped because.

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<v Speaker 6>He gets any I think I kind of did him

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<v Speaker 6>in for a little booth. So no, I mean he

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<v Speaker 6>balling though, So I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, So what what is his occupation? Because I've see

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people.

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<v Speaker 6>Online, y'all not about to get me caught up in this.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not trying to be money.

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<v Speaker 8>I just see a lot of people online acting like

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<v Speaker 8>what does he do for a living? And you know

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<v Speaker 8>he you know, he responded to one of the comments,

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<v Speaker 8>but you know, asking you you you would actually know,

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<v Speaker 8>well she.

0:18:10.320 --> 0:18:11.800
<v Speaker 7>Worked with gas.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, so he helped me start my petroleum logistics company,

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<v Speaker 6>and he was selling oil and I transported his oil

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<v Speaker 6>for him. He stole that company, though, it was just

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<v Speaker 6>for me to get it started. I guess because I'm

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<v Speaker 6>a citizen. I don't know what the reason was behind it. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 6>that's just my assumption.

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<v Speaker 1>Well he stole a company from you? Oh yeah, because

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<v Speaker 1>she doesn't have legally.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it was called t d L. Is named after

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<v Speaker 6>my sons, Troy Dyllon Liam and it's now called KLC

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<v Speaker 6>or something like that.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh wow, So what you You didn't have full ownership

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<v Speaker 8>of a company or he I did?

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<v Speaker 1>So how did he steal it from you?

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<v Speaker 6>He's allegedly a scammer. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 7>You tell me.

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<v Speaker 6>I was love and I was butterflies and rainbows, like, okay,

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<v Speaker 6>you want to do this for me?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you have? You a piece of paper?

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<v Speaker 8>Like yr sign off on this real quick, baby, got

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<v Speaker 8>some money coming in for us?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I mean, I'm not illiterate, so of course I

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<v Speaker 6>read every contract that he gave me. Okay, I signed

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<v Speaker 6>off on everything. It was legit, It really was, until

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<v Speaker 6>it wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I said it wasn't legit.

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<v Speaker 8>I was just saying, like, how did he steal the

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<v Speaker 8>company from.

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<v Speaker 3>One of the Okay, so he.

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<v Speaker 6>Was listed as the agent on my company and at

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<v Speaker 6>that point, at some point he kind of just took

0:19:39.520 --> 0:19:44.320
<v Speaker 6>everything and took over with just that label. I don't

0:19:44.359 --> 0:19:46.520
<v Speaker 6>know how he was able to do that though.

0:19:46.520 --> 0:19:49.040
<v Speaker 5>But being realistic, right, so, and I think that that's

0:19:49.080 --> 0:19:52.080
<v Speaker 5>what people kind of forget. You're around this man with

0:19:52.240 --> 0:19:55.320
<v Speaker 5>money and power and education, so you're gonna trust him.

0:19:55.400 --> 0:19:58.760
<v Speaker 5>You see him exactly, so of course you're going to think, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>you want to give me a business house?

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<v Speaker 6>And he was black on top of it.

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<v Speaker 3>I was loud, not looking back. Do you see that?

0:20:05.640 --> 0:20:08.800
<v Speaker 3>Do you pay attention to moments that you probably easily

0:20:08.840 --> 0:20:13.879
<v Speaker 3>could have missed, Like, damn, I was very not I

0:20:13.920 --> 0:20:16.800
<v Speaker 3>wasn't thinking at this particular moment, but he really was

0:20:17.080 --> 0:20:19.240
<v Speaker 3>taking advantage of me in this particular space. Do you

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<v Speaker 3>think back on specific moments where you could have been

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<v Speaker 3>maybe a little bit more on point with how you

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<v Speaker 3>thought about Yeah, conversations and actions.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I mean, as it pertains to me and Simon,

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<v Speaker 6>like he we were or I was in love, and

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<v Speaker 6>I think that if I wasn't as blinded, then I

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<v Speaker 6>probably would have seen I would have seen everything, most likely.

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<v Speaker 6>But then the marriage and the relationship wouldn't have lasted

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<v Speaker 6>very long because you know, once you put them on blast,

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<v Speaker 6>I don't want to hear that. They just want to

0:20:58.080 --> 0:21:00.159
<v Speaker 6>keep having their cake and eat it too.

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<v Speaker 7>So man, speaking of her own blast, Man, it would

0:21:03.080 --> 0:21:05.720
<v Speaker 7>be a super blast if you showed up on a

0:21:05.760 --> 0:21:14.080
<v Speaker 7>Real Housewives new season members this season, I know, be

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<v Speaker 7>on there so you know, and Simon trying to get

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<v Speaker 7>her to stop from him from even speaking on it.

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<v Speaker 7>He's real, he's been spiteful like that, right, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>He doesn't. He doesn't want her to talk about him.

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<v Speaker 5>What's his sign?

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<v Speaker 7>Gemini?

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<v Speaker 8>So let me ask you this, if you if you

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<v Speaker 8>ever ran into Porsche, what would you talk to her about?

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<v Speaker 6>That wouldn't be a safe scenario her or it's smoked.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, at the end of the day, she know

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<v Speaker 6>what she did. It could play out in the media,

0:21:47.720 --> 0:21:50.359
<v Speaker 6>however everybody wants to try to play it out. I

0:21:50.440 --> 0:21:53.399
<v Speaker 6>know what she did, Simon knows what she did. Portion

0:21:53.560 --> 0:21:55.840
<v Speaker 6>knows what she did. That wouldn't be a safe scenario.

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<v Speaker 6>So I wouldn't even put myself in a predicament of

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<v Speaker 6>even allowing that. You know, I'm a grown woman.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I would have talked to her, talked to her.

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<v Speaker 6>Ain't gonna be no talking now.

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<v Speaker 1>Did her ex husband know about that?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeahs the one who told me. He was like, he

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<v Speaker 6>came to me, he apologized. We met up at crew

0:22:14.520 --> 0:22:16.440
<v Speaker 6>one night and he was like, you know, he wanted

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<v Speaker 6>to talk to me about business or whatever, but I

0:22:18.560 --> 0:22:22.119
<v Speaker 6>guess it was bothering him, and he apologized for everything.

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<v Speaker 6>He was like, felling, I thought you knew the whole

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<v Speaker 6>time that they were fucking around. He said, all of

0:22:26.240 --> 0:22:28.760
<v Speaker 6>Atlanta knew. He was like, how'd you miss that? I said,

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<v Speaker 6>I wasn't allowed out like that, so why would which

0:22:32.119 --> 0:22:36.680
<v Speaker 6>makes sense now, but yeah, so he was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 6>so sorry. He was like, I now it makes me

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<v Speaker 6>look at my baby mama a certain way because she

0:22:42.520 --> 0:22:45.320
<v Speaker 6>told me the whole time that you knew about everything.

0:22:45.359 --> 0:22:48.040
<v Speaker 6>You were cool with her sleeping with Simon.

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<v Speaker 1>So what was you and Porster first interaction?

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<v Speaker 6>Our first one, I believe was filming at my house

0:22:55.119 --> 0:22:58.159
<v Speaker 6>the pool scene. Yeah, that was the first time, and you.

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't sense anything.

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<v Speaker 7>Was your first interaction. But how did you know how

0:23:02.400 --> 0:23:03.879
<v Speaker 7>does she know to come there? Who does she know

0:23:03.960 --> 0:23:04.480
<v Speaker 7>to get there?

0:23:04.920 --> 0:23:08.480
<v Speaker 6>So I was approached by housewives a few times. By

0:23:08.480 --> 0:23:11.720
<v Speaker 6>the time I said yes, they asked me who do

0:23:11.760 --> 0:23:14.639
<v Speaker 6>you want to be introduced onto the show with? And

0:23:14.680 --> 0:23:22.440
<v Speaker 6>I said Portia, not knowing you know, she already but yeah,

0:23:22.960 --> 0:23:26.359
<v Speaker 6>allegedly she was already Yeah for a year. That's what

0:23:26.440 --> 0:23:30.600
<v Speaker 6>Dennis during this time, was already already. That's why when

0:23:30.600 --> 0:23:32.600
<v Speaker 6>I was like, I went back and watched it because everybody,

0:23:32.720 --> 0:23:34.440
<v Speaker 6>you know, everybody tags me in all the comments and

0:23:34.480 --> 0:23:36.679
<v Speaker 6>they're like, you need to rewatch it now that you

0:23:36.760 --> 0:23:39.399
<v Speaker 6>know not And I went and looked at it. And

0:23:39.440 --> 0:23:41.480
<v Speaker 6>when I said, you know, oh yeah, we're about to

0:23:41.480 --> 0:23:42.840
<v Speaker 6>do a ring upgrade, she was like.

0:23:44.000 --> 0:23:48.040
<v Speaker 5>Oh, Like.

0:23:51.359 --> 0:23:54.800
<v Speaker 6>I was in shock. But you know, in therapy, I

0:23:54.800 --> 0:23:56.840
<v Speaker 6>mean when we had a couple of therapies, Simon said,

0:23:56.840 --> 0:23:59.719
<v Speaker 6>and he told the therapist straight up, he said, Simon

0:23:59.720 --> 0:24:02.160
<v Speaker 6>doesn't get caught cheating unless Simon wants to get caught.

0:24:03.880 --> 0:24:05.440
<v Speaker 6>But he had thirty years on me. Of course he

0:24:05.520 --> 0:24:06.240
<v Speaker 6>knew what he was doing.

0:24:07.240 --> 0:24:10.200
<v Speaker 7>Any advice to any future mesical bodies.

0:24:10.000 --> 0:24:12.040
<v Speaker 6>I mean, he's going to be different for every new supply.

0:24:13.560 --> 0:24:15.000
<v Speaker 3>So I'm gonna say a new supply.

0:24:16.119 --> 0:24:20.800
<v Speaker 6>Damn, there's no advice. Watch y'at, don't fall in love bitch.

0:24:24.280 --> 0:24:26.600
<v Speaker 7>Question Pretty sure there's more to come though, I mean

0:24:26.720 --> 0:24:29.160
<v Speaker 7>he's he's on a mission to get that citizenship.

0:24:30.680 --> 0:24:33.200
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I mean, good luck to him. I told you

0:24:33.320 --> 0:24:35.280
<v Speaker 6>he was doing that. That's that's out of that's out

0:24:35.320 --> 0:24:38.320
<v Speaker 6>of my jurisdiction of even being able to comprehend everything

0:24:38.400 --> 0:24:40.919
<v Speaker 6>he's going through because I wasn't even born yet, So

0:24:41.000 --> 0:24:43.800
<v Speaker 6>when he's going through all this, I don't know, I understand.

0:24:44.680 --> 0:24:46.960
<v Speaker 6>You know, I'm American, So I.

0:24:47.000 --> 0:24:49.159
<v Speaker 7>Mean, like you said, you know him though you know you,

0:24:49.400 --> 0:24:51.560
<v Speaker 7>like you said, you know that man, you know more

0:24:51.600 --> 0:24:54.360
<v Speaker 7>than the Portia do him at the time. So that's

0:24:54.400 --> 0:24:56.560
<v Speaker 7>all I was saying, Like any signs that other women

0:24:56.600 --> 0:24:58.800
<v Speaker 7>could look for, you know, look out for when they

0:24:59.240 --> 0:25:01.520
<v Speaker 7>getting into situations with that guy.

0:25:01.960 --> 0:25:05.080
<v Speaker 6>Honestly, I don't feel like these women even care these days.

0:25:05.359 --> 0:25:07.359
<v Speaker 6>I think they see a check and they see I

0:25:07.440 --> 0:25:09.040
<v Speaker 6>mean I think they look at it for what it is,

0:25:09.160 --> 0:25:11.080
<v Speaker 6>but I think they just see a check and they

0:25:11.160 --> 0:25:15.199
<v Speaker 6>go for the money. I don't even think they care

0:25:15.280 --> 0:25:18.040
<v Speaker 6>to fall for him, which isn't hard not to.

0:25:19.119 --> 0:25:20.960
<v Speaker 7>Well, what is what do you have to offer these

0:25:21.040 --> 0:25:24.040
<v Speaker 7>men on your new show that you're gonna be having

0:25:24.160 --> 0:25:24.920
<v Speaker 7>a what is it?

0:25:25.119 --> 0:25:25.239
<v Speaker 6>Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>Follow over?

0:25:27.960 --> 0:25:32.639
<v Speaker 6>Yes, it's gonna be a lot of fun. There's gonna

0:25:32.640 --> 0:25:34.840
<v Speaker 6>be some real moments. You know, we're gonna get down

0:25:34.880 --> 0:25:40.600
<v Speaker 6>to the nitty gritty of you know, healing trust, and

0:25:40.760 --> 0:25:42.760
<v Speaker 6>there's gonna be times where you know you're gonna be

0:25:42.800 --> 0:25:45.640
<v Speaker 6>forced to look in the mirror a lot that. I'm

0:25:45.720 --> 0:25:49.480
<v Speaker 6>that way naturally. Anytime anything goes bad or goes wrong

0:25:49.600 --> 0:25:51.760
<v Speaker 6>or left in my life, I always look in the mirror.

0:25:52.359 --> 0:25:55.240
<v Speaker 6>I'm like, what could you have done to have not

0:25:55.480 --> 0:25:58.240
<v Speaker 6>allowed this to happen? Or you know, did you cause this?

0:25:58.359 --> 0:26:00.800
<v Speaker 6>Are you the problem? Don't think I don't ask myself

0:26:00.840 --> 0:26:02.679
<v Speaker 6>that question. Is just because I got four baby daddies.

0:26:03.160 --> 0:26:07.320
<v Speaker 6>But you know realises how some people. Yeah, I'm very

0:26:07.359 --> 0:26:09.680
<v Speaker 6>real with myself. I'm actually my toughest critic and so

0:26:10.920 --> 0:26:14.280
<v Speaker 6>that's what I'm looking for. And a partner too who

0:26:14.359 --> 0:26:16.959
<v Speaker 6>holds me on, you know, my shit, and I can

0:26:17.000 --> 0:26:18.520
<v Speaker 6>hold them on theirs too, and they could take it

0:26:18.600 --> 0:26:23.800
<v Speaker 6>like a man. How old are your kids seventeen sixteen,

0:26:24.160 --> 0:26:27.359
<v Speaker 6>about to be sixteen. I'm eleven and two, so.

0:26:27.480 --> 0:26:29.520
<v Speaker 7>Two of them am about to, you know, be in

0:26:29.640 --> 0:26:30.760
<v Speaker 7>college and away.

0:26:30.560 --> 0:26:33.399
<v Speaker 6>From Yeah, they're they're already they're with their dads, not

0:26:33.520 --> 0:26:34.200
<v Speaker 6>with me anymore.

0:26:34.320 --> 0:26:35.520
<v Speaker 7>So how many kids you have with you?

0:26:35.920 --> 0:26:38.120
<v Speaker 6>Just got into Yeah, Liam and Emma.

0:26:38.320 --> 0:26:41.919
<v Speaker 7>Okay, So does your mate have to have kids too?

0:26:42.160 --> 0:26:46.359
<v Speaker 6>Or I've prefer a man who has children. And that

0:26:46.680 --> 0:26:48.560
<v Speaker 6>is just new to me now that I've been in

0:26:48.600 --> 0:26:51.119
<v Speaker 6>the dating world, which has been so hard. It's so

0:26:51.359 --> 0:26:53.040
<v Speaker 6>ugly out here. I just want to be married. I

0:26:53.080 --> 0:26:54.120
<v Speaker 6>don't want to be out here no more.

0:26:54.359 --> 0:26:58.320
<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I like it. What is your biggest challenge?

0:26:58.320 --> 0:26:58.399
<v Speaker 6>Oh?

0:26:58.440 --> 0:27:00.760
<v Speaker 3>Yeah? What is there something triggering you when you're saying that,

0:27:01.240 --> 0:27:02.439
<v Speaker 3>Like there's something that's happening.

0:27:03.600 --> 0:27:06.640
<v Speaker 6>I don't like how most of these men that I've

0:27:06.760 --> 0:27:11.920
<v Speaker 6>encountered are in their soft girl era, Like I missed

0:27:11.960 --> 0:27:17.280
<v Speaker 6>the part where men became so feminine and it's really

0:27:17.400 --> 0:27:19.840
<v Speaker 6>beginning to because now it's like, dang, I gotta be

0:27:20.040 --> 0:27:22.560
<v Speaker 6>hard for the both of us. I'm supposed to be

0:27:22.720 --> 0:27:25.359
<v Speaker 6>in my feminine power. I'm supposed to be masking that,

0:27:25.480 --> 0:27:28.000
<v Speaker 6>and I can't be in a relationship with you and

0:27:28.080 --> 0:27:29.200
<v Speaker 6>I got to be hard for you too.

0:27:30.280 --> 0:27:32.600
<v Speaker 1>So how people gonna be able to submit for the show.

0:27:33.680 --> 0:27:36.440
<v Speaker 6>So I'm I had to reschedule my casting. My casting

0:27:36.600 --> 0:27:40.160
<v Speaker 6>call was yesterday, gotch but the weather was so bad

0:27:40.240 --> 0:27:42.760
<v Speaker 6>and I was trying to wait for it to change. However,

0:27:42.840 --> 0:27:46.320
<v Speaker 6>it just got really bad because the venue that we

0:27:46.480 --> 0:27:49.600
<v Speaker 6>had was half inside half outside and people would have

0:27:49.600 --> 0:27:51.919
<v Speaker 6>been lining up in the rain, and then there was lightning,

0:27:52.040 --> 0:27:54.639
<v Speaker 6>so it just it was all bad. So I'm rescheduling it.

0:27:54.760 --> 0:27:57.280
<v Speaker 6>It's gonna be in two weeks. We haven't decided on

0:27:57.359 --> 0:28:01.320
<v Speaker 6>the date just yet, but the follow you to just

0:28:01.480 --> 0:28:05.359
<v Speaker 6>look at my Instagram and you guys will be able to,

0:28:05.800 --> 0:28:08.360
<v Speaker 6>you know, keep up with the time and the day

0:28:08.480 --> 0:28:10.679
<v Speaker 6>and the location and whatnot.

0:28:10.840 --> 0:28:13.920
<v Speaker 7>And you haven't picked a network yet.

0:28:14.560 --> 0:28:18.840
<v Speaker 6>I have not. I'm open. However, I am being shopped

0:28:19.000 --> 0:28:22.880
<v Speaker 6>right now, so I'm not under contract, but I kind

0:28:22.920 --> 0:28:24.879
<v Speaker 6>of want to have that loyalty to them since they

0:28:25.800 --> 0:28:26.639
<v Speaker 6>got a green lighted.

0:28:27.000 --> 0:28:28.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah they got a green lighter.

0:28:28.240 --> 0:28:28.440
<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

0:28:28.760 --> 0:28:30.560
<v Speaker 1>Wait, you said somebody is loyally to you first, so

0:28:30.640 --> 0:28:31.719
<v Speaker 1>you said bravo.

0:28:32.640 --> 0:28:33.720
<v Speaker 6>I'm not saying nothing.

0:28:35.520 --> 0:28:39.600
<v Speaker 7>I'm not saying but okay, follow for fouling. And then

0:28:39.640 --> 0:28:42.200
<v Speaker 7>you said you can't talk about your other show, right, Yeah.

0:28:42.040 --> 0:28:43.600
<v Speaker 6>That one I can't talk about what type of show is.

0:28:44.280 --> 0:28:45.560
<v Speaker 6>It's reality TV.

0:28:47.480 --> 0:28:51.800
<v Speaker 1>It is, it's going to be on the Housewives.

0:28:52.360 --> 0:28:54.280
<v Speaker 3>I'm going to have y'all.

0:28:55.840 --> 0:28:58.000
<v Speaker 7>Yeah, she can't. She can't speak with anything else she

0:28:58.040 --> 0:29:01.680
<v Speaker 7>got coming up fire for I guess started. You're still modeling.

0:29:02.360 --> 0:29:03.520
<v Speaker 6>I am still modeling.

0:29:13.120 --> 0:29:16.760
<v Speaker 7>I am, so you're still modeling very much, So okay,

0:29:16.840 --> 0:29:17.080
<v Speaker 7>But I.

0:29:17.200 --> 0:29:19.000
<v Speaker 6>Just started looking at myself the other day. I'm like,

0:29:19.040 --> 0:29:21.040
<v Speaker 6>I don't know if I want to model anymore. With

0:29:21.200 --> 0:29:24.200
<v Speaker 6>my boobs being so big, I don't know if I

0:29:24.320 --> 0:29:26.160
<v Speaker 6>want to do that. What do you mean? I love it,

0:29:26.920 --> 0:29:30.000
<v Speaker 6>but I have really big boobs. I feel like I was,

0:29:30.080 --> 0:29:34.600
<v Speaker 6>really I was a lot more confident modeling when I

0:29:34.800 --> 0:29:35.640
<v Speaker 6>was flat chested.

0:29:37.360 --> 0:29:38.960
<v Speaker 7>I mean, is it for the type of modeling that

0:29:39.080 --> 0:29:41.120
<v Speaker 7>you want to do, because there's a lot of different

0:29:41.120 --> 0:29:42.160
<v Speaker 7>type of models.

0:29:41.840 --> 0:29:46.680
<v Speaker 6>Now, there is, there is, and it seems like the

0:29:46.720 --> 0:29:51.200
<v Speaker 6>stuff I get picked for is mostly lingerie or like

0:29:51.400 --> 0:29:55.400
<v Speaker 6>you know, just things where you kind of or they

0:29:55.400 --> 0:29:58.400
<v Speaker 6>don't mind that you're so busty. But I'm small, So

0:29:58.560 --> 0:30:00.440
<v Speaker 6>like if I were a bit bigger, if my frame

0:30:00.480 --> 0:30:02.160
<v Speaker 6>were a bit bigger and then I have big boobs,

0:30:02.200 --> 0:30:04.240
<v Speaker 6>they'd count me as a plus size model, but because

0:30:04.240 --> 0:30:07.120
<v Speaker 6>I'm so tiny and then with big breaths.

0:30:07.000 --> 0:30:09.360
<v Speaker 7>It's like, did that come from your last child?

0:30:10.240 --> 0:30:11.320
<v Speaker 6>No, I bought these girls.

0:30:11.480 --> 0:30:12.360
<v Speaker 7>Oh well, why'd you do that?

0:30:12.480 --> 0:30:14.480
<v Speaker 6>Dan? If you wanted because I didn't want to be

0:30:14.480 --> 0:30:15.360
<v Speaker 6>a double a no more?

0:30:15.640 --> 0:30:17.840
<v Speaker 7>Okay, Well you didn't want to you don't try to

0:30:17.880 --> 0:30:18.560
<v Speaker 7>model no more.

0:30:19.400 --> 0:30:20.240
<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying.

0:30:20.240 --> 0:30:24.280
<v Speaker 6>I'm very proud of these, Okay. I just wanted to

0:30:24.360 --> 0:30:26.400
<v Speaker 6>look different when I'm you know, with somebody.

0:30:26.520 --> 0:30:29.920
<v Speaker 7>Okay, is that the only cosmetic surgery that you're that

0:30:30.040 --> 0:30:30.600
<v Speaker 7>you wanted to do?

0:30:30.880 --> 0:30:32.800
<v Speaker 6>Or yeah, that's it. That's all I'll ever do.

0:30:33.080 --> 0:30:37.560
<v Speaker 7>Okay, Okay, and everything is happy home you and Jalen.

0:30:38.480 --> 0:30:41.480
<v Speaker 6>I'm taking some time to myself or I have taken

0:30:41.560 --> 0:30:45.320
<v Speaker 6>some time to myself to really deep dive into everything

0:30:45.360 --> 0:30:47.800
<v Speaker 6>it was that I'm feeling because I didn't really have

0:30:47.920 --> 0:30:52.480
<v Speaker 6>the time to heal after my divorce because I was

0:30:52.520 --> 0:30:55.240
<v Speaker 6>pregnant and I couldn't allow that to go into my child.

0:30:55.880 --> 0:31:00.760
<v Speaker 6>So then I had to deal with Jalen that breakup.

0:31:01.960 --> 0:31:05.520
<v Speaker 6>So I the second Jalen and I broke up, it

0:31:05.720 --> 0:31:09.040
<v Speaker 6>just went straight into all right, time to heal, you know,

0:31:09.280 --> 0:31:12.200
<v Speaker 6>time to feel allow yourself to feel and give yourself

0:31:12.240 --> 0:31:12.680
<v Speaker 6>that grace.

0:31:14.160 --> 0:31:15.640
<v Speaker 7>And what are some of the things that you do

0:31:15.840 --> 0:31:17.000
<v Speaker 7>to for that healing.

0:31:17.200 --> 0:31:20.200
<v Speaker 6>Oh, I meditate like no other. I meditate. I talk

0:31:20.280 --> 0:31:24.240
<v Speaker 6>to God a lot. I'm real with myself. I'm not

0:31:24.360 --> 0:31:26.800
<v Speaker 6>too tough on myself anymore. I used to. I realized

0:31:26.840 --> 0:31:29.320
<v Speaker 6>that words are very powerful. You know, you can't just

0:31:30.360 --> 0:31:32.440
<v Speaker 6>say like, oh, I'm an idiot, because you say that

0:31:32.640 --> 0:31:35.520
<v Speaker 6>enough and you know your soul, your spirit is gonna

0:31:35.800 --> 0:31:39.200
<v Speaker 6>begin to believe that self bullying. And I was doing

0:31:39.280 --> 0:31:41.520
<v Speaker 6>a lot of that on top of what the bullying

0:31:41.560 --> 0:31:44.800
<v Speaker 6>I was dealing with in the media. So I had

0:31:44.840 --> 0:31:48.920
<v Speaker 6>to learn how to really give myself grace and forgive

0:31:49.480 --> 0:31:54.440
<v Speaker 6>myself for my shortcomings. And now I'm ready.

0:31:54.960 --> 0:31:56.640
<v Speaker 1>So what's the what's the longest you've been single?

0:31:57.760 --> 0:32:03.320
<v Speaker 6>I am single for after Liam's dad. I was single

0:32:03.400 --> 0:32:04.160
<v Speaker 6>for a while.

0:32:04.520 --> 0:32:06.440
<v Speaker 7>Because we thought you was in a relationship with Pleasure P.

0:32:06.600 --> 0:32:11.480
<v Speaker 1>And then the world the world was in a relationship

0:32:11.520 --> 0:32:12.040
<v Speaker 1>with Pleasure P.

0:32:12.320 --> 0:32:15.720
<v Speaker 7>But it's a music video and he came and they bunked.

0:32:15.760 --> 0:32:17.120
<v Speaker 7>That's like, you guys are good friends.

0:32:17.200 --> 0:32:20.080
<v Speaker 6>Oh my god, they're such good friends. Yeah, y'all might

0:32:20.120 --> 0:32:21.640
<v Speaker 6>see me out with him every year and there we're

0:32:21.640 --> 0:32:22.240
<v Speaker 6>really good friends.

0:32:22.320 --> 0:32:23.160
<v Speaker 7>Yeah that's what he said.

0:32:23.280 --> 0:32:25.800
<v Speaker 6>Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, real real tight.

0:32:25.960 --> 0:32:31.040
<v Speaker 7>But no, okay, okay, but you single right now and

0:32:31.200 --> 0:32:32.240
<v Speaker 7>you looking for love?

0:32:32.800 --> 0:32:34.000
<v Speaker 6>I am looking for love.

0:32:34.200 --> 0:32:36.800
<v Speaker 7>Uh huh fallow for Fallon man, y'all, look out for

0:32:37.000 --> 0:32:37.920
<v Speaker 7>fell It's.

0:32:37.880 --> 0:32:38.320
<v Speaker 6>On the way.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll be right back. Stay tuned with more of the

0:32:41.120 --> 0:32:42.200
<v Speaker 1>Baller Alert Show.

0:32:44.320 --> 0:32:46.800
<v Speaker 6>Is this fallon y'all? You are now tuning into the

0:32:46.920 --> 0:32:47.840
<v Speaker 6>Baller Alert Show.

0:32:48.160 --> 0:32:51.600
<v Speaker 1>It's love versus money on the Baller Alert Show.

0:32:52.680 --> 0:32:55.000
<v Speaker 7>All right, So today we have Aoki Lee and the

0:32:55.120 --> 0:32:56.200
<v Speaker 7>Victorial as off.

0:32:56.560 --> 0:33:00.680
<v Speaker 3>Oh man, three hearts all right, so three so this

0:33:01.040 --> 0:33:01.680
<v Speaker 3>just for love.

0:33:04.840 --> 0:33:07.400
<v Speaker 5>Y'all know, she's trying to survive. That is second generation

0:33:07.840 --> 0:33:09.320
<v Speaker 5>sugar baby training.

0:33:09.440 --> 0:33:10.240
<v Speaker 1>She was born for that.

0:33:11.240 --> 0:33:13.560
<v Speaker 6>What do you think you're asking me that because you

0:33:13.600 --> 0:33:14.600
<v Speaker 6>think I'm a sugar baby?

0:33:18.200 --> 0:33:18.840
<v Speaker 7>Felt this one?

0:33:19.200 --> 0:33:21.719
<v Speaker 6>Right? I kind of relate with her a little bit

0:33:21.760 --> 0:33:23.120
<v Speaker 6>on this one. I wasn't that young.

0:33:23.240 --> 0:33:30.120
<v Speaker 1>But no, no, you don't think this is business.

0:33:30.360 --> 0:33:31.520
<v Speaker 6>It's all business.

0:33:31.840 --> 0:33:34.840
<v Speaker 1>Come on, okay, I think they're still you.

0:33:35.560 --> 0:33:38.160
<v Speaker 8>I mean, first of all, we gotta we gotta understand

0:33:38.680 --> 0:33:42.120
<v Speaker 8>the background that this young lady comes from. And this

0:33:42.520 --> 0:33:45.480
<v Speaker 8>is something normal that you know, her her mom is

0:33:45.520 --> 0:33:48.520
<v Speaker 8>seen and you know, you never know the conversations that

0:33:48.560 --> 0:33:51.000
<v Speaker 8>they've had because when they asked a dad, you know,

0:33:51.120 --> 0:33:53.800
<v Speaker 8>he was just kind of like, you know whatever. But

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<v Speaker 8>I just think that it's weird because she has like

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<v Speaker 8>childlike behavior. You know, if you if you watch her blogs,

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<v Speaker 8>it's like you're talking to like a teenage kid, like now.

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<v Speaker 6>Say about him.

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<v Speaker 7>But before then, Ayoki was always the one, you know,

0:34:09.520 --> 0:34:11.000
<v Speaker 7>checking people for her sister.

0:34:11.160 --> 0:34:13.000
<v Speaker 1>You know, she never she was a quid one.

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<v Speaker 7>She never gave no But I'm saying the way that

0:34:15.200 --> 0:34:17.400
<v Speaker 7>she's acting in that video, she was acting way more

0:34:17.480 --> 0:34:22.040
<v Speaker 7>mature before the video gotcha of her in the sixty

0:34:22.080 --> 0:34:24.520
<v Speaker 7>five year old she would never act like that. She

0:34:24.600 --> 0:34:27.239
<v Speaker 7>would be you know, very well spoken. You know, she

0:34:27.360 --> 0:34:31.200
<v Speaker 7>was the Harvard graduate, you know, so to see that,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, kind of dumber self down was was, you know,

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<v Speaker 7>like something's going on here.

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<v Speaker 8>But it's a little weird. But you also got to

0:34:38.160 --> 0:34:39.759
<v Speaker 8>keep in mind, first of all, I think that this

0:34:39.960 --> 0:34:41.800
<v Speaker 8>is strictly business. I think that she wanted to go

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<v Speaker 8>on a nice vacation and she had somebody to say,

0:34:44.680 --> 0:34:46.520
<v Speaker 8>come on, I would pay for it. But you also

0:34:46.600 --> 0:34:48.560
<v Speaker 8>got to understand the trauma and the things that she's

0:34:48.600 --> 0:34:51.239
<v Speaker 8>experiencing right now, where you know her not having a

0:34:51.280 --> 0:34:54.160
<v Speaker 8>relationship with her dad right now, he's in a different country.

0:34:54.480 --> 0:35:02.040
<v Speaker 1>Why you tell you tell me allegedly he running, He

0:35:02.160 --> 0:35:04.759
<v Speaker 1>running from the bad boy. Bad boy.

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<v Speaker 3>What you want to do is a lot of flags

0:35:06.520 --> 0:35:09.480
<v Speaker 3>on the place, this whole little scenario. Yeah, yeah, he's

0:35:09.560 --> 0:35:13.520
<v Speaker 3>definitely business though, for sure. I gotta be careful at him.

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<v Speaker 6>Man. Did she come out and say that if her

0:35:15.800 --> 0:35:17.719
<v Speaker 6>dad didn't do more for her that she was going

0:35:17.800 --> 0:35:18.840
<v Speaker 6>to find a sugar daddy?

0:35:18.960 --> 0:35:21.279
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yes, yes, she said that on Instagram live.

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<v Speaker 3>And I do think that they're they're not together publicly

0:35:25.040 --> 0:35:29.320
<v Speaker 3>because of him, Yeah, yeah, and his businesses that he

0:35:29.400 --> 0:35:29.840
<v Speaker 3>got going on.

0:35:29.920 --> 0:35:32.959
<v Speaker 7>That's a bad little she doesn't expose the Marria j Blige.

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<v Speaker 1>Thing and everything, Yeah, because he's because he's in the background.

0:35:35.440 --> 0:35:36.440
<v Speaker 1>But see that's another thing.

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<v Speaker 8>Why I said, that's just like kid, like were you

0:35:38.960 --> 0:35:41.960
<v Speaker 8>like around like a younger you know person, and they

0:35:42.120 --> 0:35:45.799
<v Speaker 8>just recording everything. So I'm looking at the situation like, yo,

0:35:45.880 --> 0:35:48.000
<v Speaker 8>he's talking about some private stuff and she's over here

0:35:48.040 --> 0:35:51.080
<v Speaker 8>like should be quiet, and and he you know, it's

0:35:51.160 --> 0:35:52.880
<v Speaker 8>like stuff like that will make like, come on, bro,

0:35:52.960 --> 0:35:54.520
<v Speaker 8>you hanging out with a kid. So I can't just

0:35:54.600 --> 0:35:56.759
<v Speaker 8>say it on her. We also got to he gotta

0:35:56.800 --> 0:35:58.080
<v Speaker 8>take accountability to like.

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<v Speaker 3>Come on, man, he could definitely be her grandfather.

0:36:00.880 --> 0:36:04.040
<v Speaker 6>Facts easy, facts get in there.

0:36:04.560 --> 0:36:06.319
<v Speaker 3>She's like three generations away from him.

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<v Speaker 1>That's crazy.

0:36:07.360 --> 0:36:10.080
<v Speaker 3>She's twenty one just to teach him how to use things.

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<v Speaker 7>So fallon, would you ever get an older man? I

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<v Speaker 7>should say it like that?

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<v Speaker 6>No, hell no, not ever again.

0:36:15.360 --> 0:36:15.400
<v Speaker 8>No.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I'm so, I'm about to be thirty five

0:36:18.360 --> 0:36:19.000
<v Speaker 6>in a couple of weeks.

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<v Speaker 3>So what's the what's the what's the biggest gap for

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<v Speaker 3>you that's comfortable?

0:36:22.800 --> 0:36:26.200
<v Speaker 1>Whoa, whoa, whoa?

0:36:27.760 --> 0:36:29.200
<v Speaker 3>What's the biggest guy I'm thinking about?

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<v Speaker 7>And a Nicole Smith?

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<v Speaker 6>Right, I think fifteen years.

0:36:35.080 --> 0:36:35.959
<v Speaker 1>I think fifteen years.

0:36:36.440 --> 0:36:38.640
<v Speaker 6>I'm at that big age now I got kids. I

0:36:38.719 --> 0:36:40.840
<v Speaker 6>think fifteen years is comfortable for me. What is?

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<v Speaker 1>What is Younger women in factuation with older men.

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<v Speaker 6>They're mature, and they know how to teach and lead

0:36:49.480 --> 0:36:52.000
<v Speaker 6>a woman, and they know how to touch a woman too.

0:36:52.040 --> 0:36:54.000
<v Speaker 6>A lot of them do, at least I guess like

0:36:54.880 --> 0:36:58.080
<v Speaker 6>I feel like they're just more experienced they're more seasoned

0:36:58.840 --> 0:37:03.200
<v Speaker 6>and young, younger guys especially. I would never dig a

0:37:03.239 --> 0:37:06.160
<v Speaker 6>guy in my own age these days. I just I

0:37:06.239 --> 0:37:09.279
<v Speaker 6>can't do it unless he's already he's already at a

0:37:09.320 --> 0:37:14.080
<v Speaker 6>point where he's established, and you know, he's mentally established

0:37:14.120 --> 0:37:22.000
<v Speaker 6>and spiritually established. I'm not doing that because they're just stupid.

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<v Speaker 7>So nobody your age, and nobody smoking Robinson's age.

0:37:26.239 --> 0:37:28.319
<v Speaker 3>He's a fifteen year game.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm sorry. Smoking.

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<v Speaker 7>Smoking is getting down now. He's on stage and he's

0:37:32.680 --> 0:37:35.840
<v Speaker 7>showing the girls that he got moved, you know, so

0:37:36.040 --> 0:37:37.280
<v Speaker 7>don't be counting out smoking.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, we got barler mail, Yes we do.

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<v Speaker 1>It is time for baller mail.

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<v Speaker 3>Dear baller alert. My boyfriend was currently diagnosed and needs

0:37:49.520 --> 0:37:53.360
<v Speaker 3>a new kidney and now has to be on dialysis

0:37:53.440 --> 0:37:56.000
<v Speaker 3>three days a week. It's been weighing on me pretty bad,

0:37:56.040 --> 0:37:58.239
<v Speaker 3>and I'm not sure I can keep keep this up.

0:37:58.680 --> 0:38:01.000
<v Speaker 3>Taking care of him is a lie. I want to

0:38:01.000 --> 0:38:03.520
<v Speaker 3>break up with him because it's just too much. But

0:38:03.840 --> 0:38:07.200
<v Speaker 3>I'm scared of my karma though. Help me, y'all leave.

0:38:07.600 --> 0:38:11.480
<v Speaker 6>Did he propose boy friend? Right? Why are you being

0:38:11.520 --> 0:38:13.160
<v Speaker 6>your wife to somebody who doesn't want you? To be?

0:38:13.280 --> 0:38:16.600
<v Speaker 6>One hit? It. I know he was going to.

0:38:18.760 --> 0:38:19.760
<v Speaker 7>Wisdom balance.

0:38:20.000 --> 0:38:22.440
<v Speaker 6>We learned it from life has been lifing.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, that's kind of tough, man. You don't leave somebody

0:38:26.719 --> 0:38:27.359
<v Speaker 1>on their death.

0:38:29.600 --> 0:38:30.640
<v Speaker 6>You can be there for some.

0:38:32.400 --> 0:38:38.360
<v Speaker 1>Is serious though, definitely that's get better next week. You

0:38:38.920 --> 0:38:40.879
<v Speaker 1>what you know all about taking care of men, because

0:38:40.920 --> 0:38:42.000
<v Speaker 1>you took care of the poopy man.

0:38:46.880 --> 0:38:50.840
<v Speaker 3>Was he had a he had a bad stomach virus though, yeah.

0:38:51.120 --> 0:38:53.600
<v Speaker 8>Just three days a week. Man, That's that's tough man.

0:38:53.680 --> 0:38:56.680
<v Speaker 8>I feel like if you already doing it, it's like, man,

0:38:56.760 --> 0:38:58.840
<v Speaker 8>you gotta you gotta stick it. Like what if what

0:38:58.960 --> 0:39:00.520
<v Speaker 8>if that man is the love of your life and

0:39:00.520 --> 0:39:02.080
<v Speaker 8>you're talking about you want to break up with him?

0:39:02.080 --> 0:39:03.840
<v Speaker 1>What if he gets better? She said, boyfriend?

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<v Speaker 6>So I don't know afriend, but she.

0:39:05.719 --> 0:39:09.040
<v Speaker 1>Could still be in love. But I guess not anymore.

0:39:09.120 --> 0:39:11.240
<v Speaker 6>She's asking the question.

0:39:12.120 --> 0:39:13.960
<v Speaker 1>She already already been in the bathroom.

0:39:14.120 --> 0:39:17.279
<v Speaker 3>She already I'm gonna come in and say, you say

0:39:17.320 --> 0:39:19.080
<v Speaker 3>you want to break up with him, just go ahead

0:39:19.080 --> 0:39:20.960
<v Speaker 3>and break up with him, because right now you're just

0:39:21.000 --> 0:39:22.919
<v Speaker 3>putting a band aid on the wound that's just gonna

0:39:22.920 --> 0:39:25.960
<v Speaker 3>get worse. And if it's bothering you, you're probably gonna

0:39:25.960 --> 0:39:26.840
<v Speaker 3>have an attitude and.

0:39:27.360 --> 0:39:29.800
<v Speaker 7>Feeling the way, and you're showing up with attitude.

0:39:30.239 --> 0:39:32.160
<v Speaker 3>Showing up with the attitude. Just go ahead and get

0:39:32.200 --> 0:39:32.560
<v Speaker 3>it over with.

0:39:33.560 --> 0:39:34.400
<v Speaker 1>She don't leave him on this.

0:39:34.880 --> 0:39:37.040
<v Speaker 3>No, I don't want you to leave him, but you

0:39:37.480 --> 0:39:38.359
<v Speaker 3>don't want to be in there.

0:39:39.680 --> 0:39:40.360
<v Speaker 1>That's that bullshit.

0:39:40.400 --> 0:39:42.680
<v Speaker 3>But that's also a blessing for him, because he's gonna

0:39:42.680 --> 0:39:45.279
<v Speaker 3>be like, all right, cool, you ain't the Yeah, maybe

0:39:45.320 --> 0:39:46.880
<v Speaker 3>I won't gonna propose, but some.

0:39:46.880 --> 0:39:49.120
<v Speaker 1>Ship happened and ain't God damn, it ain't gonna be

0:39:49.160 --> 0:39:56.040
<v Speaker 1>for better for worse with the world is cruel.

0:39:57.080 --> 0:40:01.040
<v Speaker 4>It ain't worse with you. You ain't the one, yo.

0:40:01.640 --> 0:40:05.719
<v Speaker 4>Get here there, come forget what. I'm gonna give me

0:40:05.760 --> 0:40:08.080
<v Speaker 4>a new kidney because I'm on the list, and get

0:40:08.120 --> 0:40:09.799
<v Speaker 4>what I'm gonna find me my one.

0:40:11.040 --> 0:40:12.000
<v Speaker 6>This sounds very personal.

0:40:13.480 --> 0:40:14.640
<v Speaker 3>My uncle's on dialysis.

0:40:15.440 --> 0:40:19.359
<v Speaker 1>Actually his woman left. You know what, I don't want

0:40:19.760 --> 0:40:22.280
<v Speaker 1>he let's not put the business.

0:40:22.440 --> 0:40:25.680
<v Speaker 3>Let's not put his business out, Okay, And that's my big.

0:40:26.120 --> 0:40:27.879
<v Speaker 1>Less say, let's my bad.

0:40:27.960 --> 0:40:30.160
<v Speaker 3>So no, but nah, get up out of there, if

0:40:30.239 --> 0:40:32.439
<v Speaker 3>you know, because it's gonna be bad.

0:40:34.000 --> 0:40:35.880
<v Speaker 8>She's just gonna come and break his heart and be like,

0:40:36.120 --> 0:40:38.120
<v Speaker 8>don't play, it's hard, it's no, it's too lakers.

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<v Speaker 7>Now she was uh like older with a lot of money.

0:40:42.680 --> 0:40:47.840
<v Speaker 7>And you know what I'm saying to say that you

0:40:47.920 --> 0:40:53.640
<v Speaker 7>don't get gonna be like it's a bit different.

0:40:53.680 --> 0:40:56.480
<v Speaker 3>This doesn't really say he has the bag bag baggie,

0:40:56.680 --> 0:40:58.840
<v Speaker 3>because if he did, she would.

0:40:58.920 --> 0:41:03.440
<v Speaker 8>We're gonna stay sugar baby, or she would have or

0:41:03.480 --> 0:41:04.640
<v Speaker 8>he would have probably had a nurse.

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<v Speaker 5>That's what I said.

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<v Speaker 3>Because she gotta do it, and yeah, no, that's too much,

0:41:09.480 --> 0:41:11.279
<v Speaker 3>that's too much. It is too much. Though it's a lot.

0:41:12.120 --> 0:41:15.680
<v Speaker 3>You gotta really really love somebody to you committed to

0:41:15.760 --> 0:41:16.960
<v Speaker 3>do something right about.

0:41:16.719 --> 0:41:18.920
<v Speaker 6>That, And it don't seem like she love him too much.

0:41:18.920 --> 0:41:19.920
<v Speaker 6>If she's asking us, she.

0:41:19.920 --> 0:41:21.000
<v Speaker 1>Gotta she would have gone.

0:41:21.040 --> 0:41:24.960
<v Speaker 3>He just got diagnosed for two weeks or something.

0:41:25.200 --> 0:41:27.440
<v Speaker 8>But see, but see that's another question, is like how

0:41:27.520 --> 0:41:30.120
<v Speaker 8>long have they been dating? Because you know they could

0:41:30.200 --> 0:41:32.000
<v Speaker 8>just first start off dating and then you know something

0:41:32.080 --> 0:41:36.160
<v Speaker 8>like and because she out of the yeah she gone,

0:41:36.719 --> 0:41:38.759
<v Speaker 8>and she sent us a d She sent me a

0:41:38.880 --> 0:41:41.239
<v Speaker 8>d M. I know you want to leave me, She

0:41:41.360 --> 0:41:42.239
<v Speaker 8>want to leave bad.

0:41:42.640 --> 0:41:46.839
<v Speaker 1>She's already made it, already made a decision. She said,

0:41:46.880 --> 0:41:47.920
<v Speaker 1>what about my karma.

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<v Speaker 7>You have karma community.

0:41:51.880 --> 0:41:54.520
<v Speaker 6>Every single day it's gonna get hurt.

0:41:54.800 --> 0:41:58.520
<v Speaker 3>Yeah yeah, yeah yeah, this ship I love that felon.

0:41:58.600 --> 0:42:00.560
<v Speaker 7>You know, we're just gonna go right into pet talk.

0:42:02.440 --> 0:42:03.960
<v Speaker 7>I'm done, go ahead and give us some more of

0:42:04.000 --> 0:42:04.560
<v Speaker 7>your wisdom.

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<v Speaker 6>Ooh. My message to the world today, Uh, don't allow

0:42:10.320 --> 0:42:13.120
<v Speaker 6>anyone to stop your blessings. I don't care if it's

0:42:13.160 --> 0:42:18.560
<v Speaker 6>a husband, wife, whatever it is that you foresee for

0:42:18.719 --> 0:42:20.880
<v Speaker 6>your future. You know your vision is your own vision,

0:42:22.400 --> 0:42:24.719
<v Speaker 6>and that's not for anybody else to see. It's only

0:42:24.800 --> 0:42:27.960
<v Speaker 6>for you to see and understand. So don't allow anybody

0:42:28.040 --> 0:42:29.319
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