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Speaker 1: Time for today's Strawberry Letter, and if you need advice

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Speaker 1: just like we're going to read this one right here,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, ladies and gentlemen, it is time for the Strawberry Letter. Well,

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Speaker 2: my good friend, Shirley Strawberry.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, junior.

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Speaker 1: Subject Keeping a secret always backfires. Dear Stephen, Shirley, I'm

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Speaker 1: in my late twenties and I got married two years ago.

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Speaker 1: My husband is eleven years older than I am, and

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Speaker 1: he's a great man, but he went through a brief

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Speaker 1: period of ed before we got married. I was young

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Speaker 1: and care free at the time, so I did something

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Speaker 1: very stupid. I had gone for close to three months

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Speaker 1: without sex with my man, and I went to a

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Speaker 1: wedding back in my hometown and had sex with my

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Speaker 1: ex boyfriend from high school. All of the feeling I

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Speaker 1: had for him came flooding back, and I had an

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Speaker 1: affair with him for two months. He flew in to

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Speaker 1: see me during the week, and I would leave work

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Speaker 1: and spend the afternoon with him at different hotels. Then

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Speaker 1: he ghosted me without any explanation, and I was deeply hurt.

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Speaker 1: I confided in one of my closest friends, and she

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Speaker 1: kept it real with me and said I needed to

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Speaker 1: get over it and marry the man that's in love

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Speaker 1: with me. I got engaged and this close friend wanted

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Speaker 1: to be a bridesmaid, but I had to choose my

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Speaker 1: fiancee's sister instead of her.

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Speaker 3: She told me that she understood, and.

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Speaker 1: I was relieved until one of our other friends told

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Speaker 1: me that the girl was calling me a lucky.

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Speaker 3: Bee behind my back.

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Speaker 1: I thought she was jealous because she was single, so

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Speaker 1: I let it slide. I got pregnant on my wedding night,

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Speaker 1: and my life has been NonStop since then. I ran

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Speaker 1: into my old friend and she was very bitter. I

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Speaker 1: went to hug her and she pulled back, said I

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Speaker 1: ghosted her after I got everything I wanted, and my

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Speaker 1: husband should know who I really am in love with.

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Speaker 1: I insisted that I do love my husband and that

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Speaker 1: affair I had was a mistake. She walked away, smirking

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Speaker 1: and said, have a nice life. Do I try to

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Speaker 1: fix our friendship so she won't tell my secret? Well,

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Speaker 1: I say no, because she's not your friend, and she's not.

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Speaker 3: Anyone that you need in your life right now.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, not with all the negative energy

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Speaker 1: from her as possible. I mean, you said, it's been

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Speaker 1: two years since you got married, got pregnant, and more

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Speaker 1: than two years since the affair. I say, you're a

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Speaker 1: major mom with serious responsibilities now, and what she's talking

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Speaker 1: about is petty and more than that, it's over. It's

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Speaker 1: done with, so continue to live your NonStop life like

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Speaker 1: you've been doing. This girl is bitter because you didn't

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Speaker 1: put her in your wedding, even though she said at

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Speaker 1: the time it.

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Speaker 3: Was cool you didn't ghost her.

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Speaker 1: It's just that your life changed so drastically after marriage.

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Speaker 1: You had a husband and a baby and very little

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Speaker 1: time for anything else. I think a real friend would

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Speaker 1: have understood that. But now she's threatening to use some

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Speaker 1: two year old before you were married affair against you,

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Speaker 1: which means she hasn't moved on and you have. She's

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Speaker 1: still upset and she hasn't forgiven you. I think she

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Speaker 1: was gonna. If she was going to use this infost

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Speaker 1: she would have done it before now. And I just

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Speaker 1: think you need to, you know, keep it pushing, keep

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Speaker 1: moving forward, and let her stay behind where she needs

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Speaker 1: to be and out of your life.

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Speaker 4: Steve, Well, Shirley's correct, Arry, But let me say this

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Speaker 4: to you. Let's just start with the subject keeping a

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Speaker 4: secret always backfive, one of my favorite lines.

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Speaker 5: Shit should that's right? Yeah, all secrets.

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Speaker 4: That's why they called him a s because a lot

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Speaker 4: of people do keep secrets. There are a lot of secrets.

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Speaker 4: That's secrets in the ocean. Now, you can dive down

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Speaker 4: there if you want. You try to discover him, but

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Speaker 4: you're gonna die because there are secrets that you have

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Speaker 5: They're going with me.

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Speaker 4: I don't even have the urge to tell them. I

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Speaker 4: don't have the moments where my guilty bothering me and

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Speaker 4: stuff washing over me. I don't even have that. What

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Speaker 4: that's my secret? That you in your late twenties, you

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Speaker 4: got married two years ago. Your husband eleven years old

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Speaker 4: than you, he has an erectile dysfunction. Before you got married,

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Speaker 4: so you was carefree. Y'all didn't have sex for three

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Speaker 4: months and you just got horned. You went to your

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Speaker 4: of wedding, and all the feelings you had for him

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Speaker 4: came back, and then you had enough fair with him

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Speaker 4: at the wedd before you was married. That's your secret.

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Speaker 4: The problem is you ain't keep it. The secret you

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Speaker 4: told somebody. I don't know what the hell you told

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Speaker 4: somebody folk what you did so you hadn't found for

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Speaker 4: two months. He flew in to see me during the week.

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Speaker 4: I would leave work and spend the afternoon with him

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Speaker 4: at different hotels.

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Speaker 5: That boy was flying in bringing it it was convenient.

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Speaker 4: Then he ghosted me without any explanation, and I was

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Speaker 4: deeply hurt.

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Speaker 5: Well, you showed up at the wedding with no explanation.

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Speaker 4: You had fiance, You did something without explaining to him,

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Speaker 4: so he ghosted you. Ain't no big deal. You were hurt.

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Speaker 4: Here's the mistake you made. You confided in one of

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Speaker 4: your closest friends, who we will refer through to throughout

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Speaker 4: the rest of this letter as the skink you you

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Speaker 4: in yo skank, as you say, as your closest friend,

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Speaker 4: but we will refer to her from the rest of

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Speaker 4: this morning show as that skank, the skank ah skankho.

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Speaker 5: Highlights number three.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she kept it real with me and said I

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Speaker 4: needed to get over it and marry the man that's

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Speaker 4: in love with me.

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Speaker 5: I got engaged in his.

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Speaker 4: Close friend wanted to be a bridesmaid, but I had

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Speaker 4: to choose my fiance sister instead of her. That's why

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Speaker 4: you made a mistake. And when we come back, I'll

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Speaker 4: tell you what you should have told your fiance.

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Speaker 1: All right, We'll have part two of Steve's response coming

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Speaker 1: up at twenty three minutes after the hour of the

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Speaker 1: subject of today's Strawberry letter, keeping a secret always backfires.

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Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 1: and finish up with your response.

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Speaker 3: Let's go.

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Speaker 4: This young woman in her twenties had a man eleven

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Speaker 4: years old say we're gonna get married. He experienced some

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Speaker 4: ed and erectile dysfunction and she needed to get herself fixed.

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Speaker 4: So she went to her ex boyfriend who lived in

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Speaker 4: another town. She was at a wed and ran up

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Speaker 4: into him. They had feelings and they had sex, and

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Speaker 4: then she ended up having her a fab for two

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Speaker 4: months who used to fly in town. And she leave

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Speaker 4: work early, go down to the hotel and get ranged,

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Speaker 4: you know, and just things are just happening down there.

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Speaker 4: The word is ranched. You ain't never been ranched before.

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Speaker 4: I recommend it happened before you die. It's very cleansing.

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Speaker 4: So she went out there and she got ranched, and

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Speaker 4: just oh, oh you're ranch You just ranching off, and

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Speaker 4: you know, it's a it's a it's a derivative of rents.

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Speaker 4: It's a country way of saying risk. Like you know,

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Speaker 4: rint that out range, that out ranch, that means harder

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Speaker 4: when you ranch it. It's harder. If you get a wrench,

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Speaker 4: that's one thing, but if you get that ranch, that's

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Speaker 4: a whole nother thing.

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Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. So yeah, to do like that.

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Speaker 5: So now, yeah, I'm just what we do here.

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Speaker 3: We educated.

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Speaker 5: And so now and so now.

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Speaker 4: You come back and he's been at the hotel, take

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Speaker 5: Why you were surprised about that, I don't know. And

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Speaker 5: you were deeply hurt. So you confide it in the skank.

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Speaker 4: You told skanky, and skank kept it real with you

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Speaker 4: and said I needed to get over it and married

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Speaker 4: a man that's in love with me.

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Speaker 5: Now, skank was right about that. Now, so you did

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Speaker 4: I got engaged and this skank wanted to be a bridesmaid,

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Speaker 4: but I had to choose my fiance sister instead of her.

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Speaker 5: No, you did it. It is your wedding.

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Speaker 4: You let the fact that he was eleven years older

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Speaker 4: win because she sang, I ain't never been in no win.

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Speaker 5: You ain't. Nobody never asked her to be in a win.

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Speaker 4: She want to be in a wind so she can

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Speaker 4: So she figured I know she ever did because she

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Speaker 4: in webs and stuff. Other people know how to barge in.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 4: Cute people go, oh I'm not selected. Okay, well good luck,

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Speaker 4: you know, but ugly people, are you gonna want me?

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell my brother put me in your web.

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Speaker 4: Now we had to get all this extra fabric to

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Speaker 4: She'd had a special cut to put in the dress

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Speaker 4: skank told you she understood. I was relieved, and to

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Speaker 4: one of your other friends told you that the skank

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Speaker 4: was calling you a lucky be behind your back. I

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Speaker 4: thought she was jealous because she was single, so I

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Speaker 4: let it slide. Then you got pregnant on your wed

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Speaker 4: at night. Your life be non stop every since you

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Speaker 4: ran into your skink. You ran in the skank cat,

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Speaker 4: let's give her name. You ran up in the skank cat,

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Speaker 5: And she was very bitter. I went to hug and

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Speaker 5: she pulled back. That's cause she skanked.

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Speaker 4: She said, I ghosted her after I got everything I wanted,

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Speaker 4: and my husband should know who I'm really in love with.

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Speaker 4: I insisted that I do love my husband and that

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Speaker 4: affair was a mistake. She walked away smirking and said,

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Speaker 4: have a nice life. Do I try to fix our

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Speaker 4: friendship so she won't tell my secret? Sureley's absolutely correct,

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Speaker 4: Absolutely not. You don't try to fix this relationship with escape.

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Speaker 4: This ain't your friend, she's a skak. Why would you

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Speaker 4: want to fix it with escape. What you got to

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Speaker 4: do is fix her. Stop being the victim all the time. Nah,

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Speaker 4: she's gonna threaten to go to your husband with this news.

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Speaker 4: A couple of things you need to do. First of all,

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Speaker 4: do what men do? Nae, I mean Luke jess A

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Speaker 4: surprised surely I want you to be the girl coming

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Speaker 4: to tell my husband what you know star, and I'm

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna show her how she.

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Speaker 5: Need to be.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Clarence, Hi, you remember me. I'm Betty your wife friend.

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Speaker 3: I wanted to be in.

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Speaker 5: There for Betty Well.

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Speaker 1: To come over because you know, there's some things about

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Speaker 1: Betty that you don't know, and I wanted to let

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Speaker 1: you know that I know something about her that I think.

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Speaker 5: You're gonna let my man know something.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think you should know this about her.

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Speaker 5: Okay, No, we all need to tell something. Go ahead.

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Speaker 3: Well, I don't I don't know anything about that.

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Speaker 5: I just know what I know.

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Speaker 4: What is that? Well?

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Speaker 3: You remember like there was a period of time, like

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Speaker 3: three months.

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Speaker 1: Before you guys got married where you guys didn't have sex.

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Speaker 3: You remember that? You don't remember that.

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Speaker 5: You're trying to say class had D.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm trying to say Clarence had.

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Speaker 5: E d Clais. How does Heffer? How does Heffer know

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Speaker 5: you had? I?

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Speaker 3: Edhi?

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Speaker 5: This health FA No, you had E. D Claire retz.

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Speaker 3: All right, see it can go something like that.

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