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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us

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Speaker 1: Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 2: I'll given to this now because it's kiss and you

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Speaker 2: may be brushing your teeth or about to do so.

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Speaker 2: And there were some things that I was reading that

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Speaker 2: you know, you're get into a hole, you get into

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Speaker 2: a rabbit hole of something. I was reading about this stuff.

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Speaker 2: I didn't actually understand this. I overbrush my teeth. I

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Speaker 2: think I'm afraid of bad breath. And I carry a

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Speaker 2: little travel tooth paste and toothbrush in my glove compartment

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Speaker 2: in case of anything, so I've always got it with me.

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Speaker 2: And I also brushed them here after work. I brush

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Speaker 2: them after launch. I brush them a lot. And I

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Speaker 2: didn't until later in life understand the brushing of your tongue,

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Speaker 2: which gets rid of the bad breath.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's all about the tongue.

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Speaker 2: But in like elementary school, I didn't know about the tongue.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: But also you can overbrush your teeth like you shouldn't

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Speaker 5: brush them so much because of your gums.

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Speaker 2: And too hard. I still use the old automatic, not

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Speaker 2: automatic manual. I still use toothbrush.

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Speaker 3: I go back and forth. I have both and I

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Speaker 3: go back and forth because I can't commit to one.

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Speaker 2: I just like, in a way.

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Speaker 5: Oral hygiene.

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Speaker 3: The electric one is like sometimes it's too buzzy for me,

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Speaker 3: and I'm just like, I can't deal with the buzz.

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Speaker 2: I feel like, And my Dennis tells me differently, but

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Speaker 2: I feel like, because it's so light and vibrating, it's

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Speaker 2: not getting a job done. And I want to go

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Speaker 2: in there with my toothbrush.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I like the manual too.

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Speaker 2: It's no different than me wanting to turn the page

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Speaker 2: of a newspaper on the toilet on a Sunday morning.

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Speaker 3: Crow, you have to be on the toilet, like on

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Speaker 3: your porch.

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Speaker 5: At the kitchen table.

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Speaker 2: Mark, you know what I'm talking about. I mean, I do,

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Speaker 2: because that's what our parents used to do. My dad

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Speaker 2: used to take the newspaper on a Sunday morning into

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Speaker 3: The neighbor next door to Dennis the mena is like,

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Speaker 3: that's what I'm picturing right now.

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Speaker 2: So here, listen. These are some common mistakes about brushing teeth.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know too aggressive. Yes, you could hurt your gums. Right,

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Speaker 2: you're right, Tanya, Now did you know that it's a mistake?

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Speaker 2: To rinse with water immediately after brushing your teeth. I

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Speaker 3: And I also heard that you didn't even need to

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Speaker 3: use water when you brush your teeth.

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Speaker 2: What I do is I floss, then I like gargle,

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Speaker 2: rinse and get a little little pieces out and I

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Speaker 2: brush my teeth. But I also used quite a bit

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Speaker 2: of water, so I didn't know that. Don't use mouthwash

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Speaker 2: immediately after brushing your teeth. No way, Wait a few minutes,

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Speaker 2: so brush your teeth, wait ten minutes, then do the

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Speaker 2: back up your whole process here and then, Tanya, we're

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Speaker 2: violating this. What brushing your teeth immediately after eating certain

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Speaker 2: foods and drinks. Don't do it after sugar or acidic

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Speaker 2: foods and drinks, including coffee. Wait a half hour. I

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Speaker 2: brush after coffee, like as soon as we finished coffee

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Speaker 2: and the show like, I brush my teeth immediately. I

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Speaker 2: wasn't paying that much attention. And I read this and

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Speaker 2: it struck me. If I didn't share with you, I

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Speaker 2: feel like not a good person. These are great, tis

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Speaker 2: good tips right, especially for this time of morning. Thomas,

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Speaker 2: let me grab you this morning, bright and early. How

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Speaker 2: are you, buddy good?

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Speaker 6: How about you, Ryn?

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Speaker 2: I'm doing well. Thanks. So are you calling for relationship advice?

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Speaker 6: Yes?

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Speaker 7: So I am like a chronically on time person my

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Speaker 7: entire life.

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Speaker 2: Like I thought, the rudest thing I subscribe.

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Speaker 7: I'm with you, perfect, Let's be on time with stuff together.

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Speaker 7: My boyfriend, on the other hand, is perpetually late to

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Speaker 7: everything and like he knows how big of a deal

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Speaker 7: this is to me. But now we go to stuff together,

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Speaker 7: we'll relate to everything. And friend told me that she

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Speaker 7: literally gives a separate start time events and most of

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Speaker 7: our friends, ye knows that.

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Speaker 2: Like, wait, Thomas, I'm losing you. I'm losing you for

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Speaker 2: a second, I'm losing your your ignore you there, I'm here,

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Speaker 2: I'm here, okay, so tell me you most of your

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Speaker 7: They They send me a separate earlier start time, you know,

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Speaker 7: And I don't know how I got here, Like I

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Speaker 7: love being on time. I try to talk to my

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Speaker 7: BOYE doesn't seem to put in the effort and I

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Speaker 7: can't supervise them all.

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Speaker 2: So wait, why do they give you the false start

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Speaker 2: time if you're the one on time?

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Speaker 3: Because he's associated with his boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: Now, yeah, because you're so, you're ready and you're a

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Speaker 2: way Okay, I understand all of it. Now here's the thing, guys,

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Speaker 2: I don't understand, and forgive me because I know a

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Speaker 2: lot of people function this way. I'm a clock. That

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Speaker 2: is what I am. That's my zodiac side a flock. Okay.

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Speaker 2: In fact, I want to be a clock for Halloween.

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Speaker 2: So Tomas, I there are some people that don't operate

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Speaker 2: on a time and I am not compatible with them.

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Speaker 2: But I know a lot of them, and I do

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Speaker 2: the same thing. I start like managing their the information

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Speaker 2: they get differently so that their clock is up to

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Speaker 2: the clock that is the right time. But can you,

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Speaker 2: I mean, can you on the inside work on your

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Speaker 2: boyfriend's clock to get your boyfriend to understand about the

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Speaker 2: respectfulness of people's time. I mean, time is like it's

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Speaker 2: important capitalist currency.

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Speaker 3: Does your boyfriend have a job, Like? Does he is

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Speaker 3: he long for work?

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Speaker 7: Like I can't tell him? Like I tell him to

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Speaker 7: go on time to work, but he's late, Like I

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Speaker 7: can't be his mom all the time.

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Speaker 2: How long you've been with him?

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Speaker 6: A few months? Like half a year?

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Speaker 2: I don't know that this is going to work out.

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Speaker 2: I don't know that you people. I know, I was

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Speaker 2: just mad, I know two minutes ago. But I'm just

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Speaker 2: telling you that I don't know that. If you are

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Speaker 2: this intense about your clock and he doesn't have a clock,

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Speaker 2: and you're worried about the reputation, et cetera, I'm starting

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Speaker 2: to see flags.

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Speaker 5: Here is your boyfriend a scorpio by chance?

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Speaker 7: Yes, now that you ask, Yeah, I just.

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Speaker 5: I know quite a few scorpios and they are the

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Speaker 5: same way, like they just don't have that in their

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Speaker 5: Like there.

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Speaker 3: Who used to work here scorpio and my.

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Speaker 5: Best friend Becca is a scorpio and they just have clocks.

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Speaker 3: No, no, Patty, Patty don't have a clock. Patty was

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Speaker 3: always like fifteen twenty and especially like a social study.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to get Patty more credit. She might have

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Speaker 2: scrambled in at the last second with a bunch of

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Speaker 5: Patty yourself admittedly that this she is like, I'm sitting

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Speaker 5: up for Patty.

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Speaker 3: We love Patty. She would admit this.

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Speaker 2: So hard listening text me some restaurant ideas.

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Speaker 5: She would stand with us. She would you admit that.

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Speaker 2: I'm not so sure.

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Speaker 3: Yes, she would, Well.

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Speaker 2: We'll see when she texts me Thomas, Well, you've heard our.

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Speaker 3: View, Thomas, you're so about this. Ryan might be right.

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Speaker 2: Move on. I'm just seeing a flag in the distance.

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Speaker 6: Good luck, buddy, appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: Give him an ultimatum, will do all right? Take care Thomas,

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Speaker 2: good luck on that one. Not give an ultimatum.

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, start being on time or this is not

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Speaker 2: It's so rigid.

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Speaker 3: It's not rigid.

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Speaker 2: It's that's how you talk to Michael, and no.

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Speaker 3: I don't talk to Michael that way.

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Speaker 2: Well, then he can't talk to his boyfriend like that.

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Speaker 3: Well he can't if it's only like two months in

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Speaker 3: starts sitting the ground rules.

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Speaker 5: Sometimes you just have to take people as they are.

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Speaker 2: I think there's a flag. Let's get to Katie on

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Speaker 2: the phone here, one eight hundred and five to one

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Speaker 2: oh two seven, Katie, good morning. How are you?

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Speaker 6: I'm good?

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Speaker 7: How are you?

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Speaker 2: We're doing all right? So you're calling about an issue

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Speaker 2: with the guy you're dating. Yeah, what's the issue.

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Speaker 4: So we've been seeing each other for like about five

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Speaker 4: months now, and I think everything's going really well. Like

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Speaker 4: I've met his family, he's met mine, like we go

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Speaker 4: on dates like every week, like we see each other

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Speaker 4: all the time. But he and he told me he's

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Speaker 4: not seeing anyone else, but he doesn't want to put

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Speaker 2: Why does he not want to put it, Labe, We

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Speaker 2: need to find out why. So if he's not seen

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Speaker 2: he doesn't want to label it?

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Speaker 4: So he was married before we met, and they've just

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Speaker 4: been divorced like a little over a year now, and

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Speaker 4: he was with her for like years and years before that.

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Speaker 4: So I just think that that's the.

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Speaker 2: Reason why I scarred a little bit from whatever happened

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Speaker 2: in the past. Yeah, if you were to come over

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Speaker 2: to Tanya's house, I mean you would have been invited,

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Speaker 2: and she and Robbie were to host you and Katie

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Speaker 2: he were to come and introduce you. He would say, Hi, Robbie, Tanya,

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Speaker 2: this is Katie my What what would he say?

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Speaker 4: I don't know. See, that's the thing is, like I

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Speaker 4: want to be able to say this is my boyfriend,

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Speaker 4: and I feel like I would be awkward, like a

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Speaker 4: what would he say? Like That's why I'm calling me because

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Speaker 4: I'm like.

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Speaker 2: I, I, well, maybe I learned this lesson very quickly

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Speaker 2: when I had a girlfriend, but I wasn't so trained

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Speaker 2: to introduce her as my girlfriend. And we were at

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Speaker 2: without saying this is my girlfriend so and so, and

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Speaker 2: I was corrected and understood. So I learned that lesson.

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Speaker 2: But there must be a reason why he doesn't want

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Speaker 2: the label. Maybe it is because he went through something

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Speaker 2: in the past and his fear of maybe going too

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Speaker 2: fast or his fear of your expectation is holding him back.

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Speaker 2: It may not be such a red flag. It may

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Speaker 2: be part of what he's is trauma.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no, definitely, I was thinking that, like, maybe it's

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Speaker 4: just I have to give it a little bit more time.

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Speaker 2: How long happened to me?

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Speaker 6: We've been We.

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Speaker 4: Met like five months ago, so I mean it's still

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Speaker 4: pretty new. And yeah, we met for a friend, so

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Speaker 4: it's not like he was like on a dating app,

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Speaker 4: like looking for anything, you know, it was like a

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Speaker 4: casual I feel like.

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Speaker 3: Five months is an okay time to yeah and put

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Speaker 3: a label on it.

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Speaker 2: Though, Can you do something that I don't love to do,

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Speaker 2: which is say, hey, can we talk about why just

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Speaker 2: talk and about why he doesn't want the label, so

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Speaker 3: One to two. Shouldn't that be bliss?

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Speaker 2: I don't. I guess you're just everything's changing, Yeah, all.

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Speaker 3: Bunch of babies?

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Speaker 5: The combining two humans things into one.

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Speaker 2: You mean, like items?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, space, throw away his stuff, keep yours the closet.

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Speaker 2: Wendy's on the line right now at eight hundred and

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Speaker 2: five to one at two seven Wendy, good morning. How

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Speaker 6: Wendy, I'm great. How are you?

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Speaker 2: We're good. So your sister in law says wants you

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Speaker 8: Yeah, she's uh, she self make up with those multi

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Speaker 2: Things, okay MLM, Like, yeah, she.

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Speaker 8: Keeps asking to have a party with friends and my coworkers.

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Speaker 2: So wait, your issues? What You don't want to invite

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Speaker 8: No, because you know how pushy they can be. I

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Speaker 2: Really, but is there a benefit, like would some of

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Speaker 3: Interesting?

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Speaker 8: I mean maybe some of them. And you know when

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Speaker 8: I just don't feelun comfortable.

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Speaker 2: So this is your husband's sister, correct, Yeah, why can't

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Speaker 8: Well? Because she needs more customers, She needs my friends,

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Speaker 8: my colleagues and everybody I know to sell. Thready played

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Speaker 2: So I don't know anything about in laws and marriages

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Speaker 2: I would let go. I think this is not worth

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Speaker 2: I pick and choose my battles these days, guys, I'm

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Speaker 3: Yeah wow, Yeah, but this can also be the beginning

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Speaker 3: then is she going to.

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Speaker 2: Why don't you make a boundary Wendy, I'll do this

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Speaker 2: for you, and I would love to do it this

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Speaker 2: one time and will and just make it a one off,

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Speaker 2: I think it's for me it's better to be a

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Speaker 3: Why can't the sister in law already know the boundary now,

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Speaker 3: don't even ask to do stuff like that.

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Speaker 2: It's too late. She's already been asked. So now here

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Speaker 2: we are. So I think we follow through. We make

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Speaker 3: Like my sister in law knows never to ask me

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Speaker 2: Well that's fine, but you're in this is Wendy's situation

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Speaker 5: How when you do it, you know, I.

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Speaker 2: Go back to all my years of experience and screwing

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Speaker 3: Good luck, aren't those like those pyramid things like once

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Speaker 3: you don't know what it is like that's exactly, and

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Speaker 2: It's like you have to want to get into an

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Speaker 3: I'll host a birthday party for you, but I won't

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Speaker 2: So very rarely does anyone come in here and say, hey,

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Speaker 3: Well that might be a little dramatic, but well, I

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Speaker 2: That's the word, is that your marriage was saved by

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Speaker 3: I feel like this might be a PSA two married

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Speaker 3: Don't know why it is. I just don't. I I

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Speaker 2: You're making progress on your favorite series.

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Speaker 3: I am, And I'm muting his snoring so I don't

446
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Speaker 3: hear the snoring, and he's not hearing the TV. He's sleeping.

447
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Speaker 2: I'm my images flashing like the colors don't have them awake?

448
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Speaker 3: No, it doesn't. And then I actually end up watching

449
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Speaker 3: less TV because I get tired within the episode. And

450
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Speaker 3: then I turn it off and I go to bed.

451
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Speaker 2: I mean, gosh, Merrit sounds so.

452
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Speaker 3: On, y'all.

453
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Speaker 2: Oh, I just think it sounds fun.

454
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Speaker 3: You guys have been thinking of them for fifteen years, Like,

455
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Speaker 3: these are the things that make me happy.

456
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Speaker 2: This is common early I can watch shows with my airpots.

457
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Speaker 5: I would be sad going to sleep at different times, like,

458
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Speaker 5: I don't know I would.

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Speaker 2: I don't understand a fairy tale. Yeah, he's got like

460
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Speaker 2: a full family one right.

461
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Speaker 5: Yeah, we literally go to sleep at the exact same time.

462
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Speaker 2: Okay, you turn off.

463
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Speaker 9: I love you.

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Speaker 2: I love you too. Yeah, sweet dreams. And now let

465
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Speaker 2: me let me say some things grateful for today. Let

466
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Speaker 2: me here's I'm grateful for you Robbie for whatever your

467
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Speaker 2: whatever it is that you did today that I remember

468
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Speaker 2: and I wrote it down.

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Speaker 3: Yes, literally, you would do.

470
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Speaker 2: Like you do a like a debrief before you go

471
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Speaker 2: to Did you let the dogs out?

472
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Speaker 3: Did they know?

473
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Speaker 2: Ours? Is like, wait, where's the pillow? I need the pillow.

474
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Speaker 2: That's not that's my pillow I need. I need the

475
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Speaker 2: low pillow one. Mine's the flat one. I need the

476
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Speaker 2: flat one. I don't have it. Yes, you do have it?

477
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Speaker 2: Do you know I can with my shoulder hurts?

478
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Speaker 3: Let me check? Let me check.

479
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Speaker 2: Then you turn on the light. Who's gonna turn the

480
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Speaker 2: light on? Will you turn line? I don't want to

481
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Speaker 2: go turn the light. I'm gonna have to get up

482
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Speaker 2: and pee three times. You turn on the light, sleep

483
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Speaker 2: whole night, walk around.

484
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Speaker 5: Do you guys go to sleep at the same time.

485
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Speaker 2: I don't know you're talking to Ryan. Yes, generally we do.

486
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Speaker 2: And that's when all of this stuff occurs because I

487
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Speaker 2: have to have everything like right, if my pillows aren't right,

488
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Speaker 2: if my neck pillow's not there. Also there's a pillowcase

489
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Speaker 2: it's too big for the pillow that gets floppy, that

490
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Speaker 2: gets in my mouth when I sleep.

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Speaker 3: I understand You've never.

492
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Speaker 2: Been so unrelaxed trying to go to sleep than when

493
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Speaker 2: you go to bed with me.

494
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Speaker 3: Why don't they make those pillows standard for king sized beds?

495
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Speaker 3: That's really annoying.

496
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Speaker 2: I don't even know you mean my neck pillow.

497
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Speaker 3: Yes, like those pillows are small, and it's.

498
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Speaker 2: Maybe in the mini pillow case.

499
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Speaker 3: No one makes make them the size of the king

500
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Speaker 3: size pillowcases, or make the make smaller pillow cases.

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Speaker 2: I can't sleep. I'm going downstairs watch TV.

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Speaker 9: On air with Ryan Seacrest.

503
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Speaker 3: Tony, why are the big grin on your face? Were

504
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Speaker 3: you feeling loved?

505
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Speaker 5: I am feeling loved. Yes, thank you so much. I

506
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Speaker 5: appreciate it.

507
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Speaker 2: So you have brought this up a couple of times.

508
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Speaker 2: You're achings of joints and your need for a cold plunge. Now,

509
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Speaker 2: this is kind of a thing I've been reading about

510
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Speaker 2: that more and more people are resorting to cold showers

511
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Speaker 2: and cold plunging and getting into ice bats and things

512
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Speaker 2: like that. This has been around a long time for athletes.

513
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Speaker 2: Why is it now a trend?

514
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Speaker 5: You know, I don't know why it's a trend, but

515
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Speaker 5: it's so trendy. Everybody's doing it and talking about it,

516
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Speaker 5: and people are swearing by it that these these cold

517
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Speaker 5: plunges are starting their days off right, making them more productive.

518
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Speaker 2: Terrifying to me. I don't like to start cold. I

519
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Speaker 2: love to lean against the wall in a warm shower.

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Speaker 3: Have you done it?

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Speaker 9: So?

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Speaker 5: I've done it before. I've done it like once or twice.

523
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Speaker 5: But you know, there was a period, you know I'm

524
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Speaker 5: always trying to change up my morning routine. There was

525
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Speaker 5: like a three month period. There was a three month

526
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Speaker 5: period where I was taking cold showers before I would

527
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Speaker 5: come to work. And I felt a difference.

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Speaker 2: Well, wait, could we mark those shows and see how

529
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Speaker 2: ye shows?

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Speaker 3: Would we feel a different?

531
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Speaker 2: We feel the difference? Do you remember?

532
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Speaker 3: You don't know?

533
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Speaker 5: I don't know.

534
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Speaker 2: Is there more or less of you? Then?

535
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Speaker 5: I was way more awake, I was way.

536
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Speaker 3: More can't we just splash cold water on your face?

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Speaker 9: No?

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Speaker 2: It's so different because is there is there an inexpensive

539
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Speaker 2: way to do this?

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Speaker 6: Though?

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Speaker 5: Like yes, you can get them on a plunge on Amazon.

542
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Speaker 5: So they have these like plunge tubs. There's different ones

543
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Speaker 5: that you can get. There's ones that are kind of

544
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Speaker 5: like a look like a bathtub a little bit and

545
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Speaker 5: then there's like ice tubs, rubber. Some of them are rubber.

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Speaker 5: Some of them are like kind of like the inflatables

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Speaker 5: that you have like in a pool. Okay, okay, yeah,

548
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Speaker 5: So they range from like fifty to one hundred bucks,

549
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Speaker 5: so they are definitely very affordable, and people are doing this,

550
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Speaker 5: and I'm we're really considering getting one, so you could.

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Speaker 2: I'm looking at one that's like an inflatable. So it's

552
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Speaker 2: like a blow up mattress. Basically you slip inside of it.

553
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Speaker 2: And do you have to put your own ice? Where

554
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Speaker 2: do you get off this ice? My ice maker doesn't

555
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Speaker 2: make enough ice?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's the thing.

557
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Speaker 3: Do you keep it ice and then you can cover

558
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Speaker 3: it and then it stays iced? No, it's gonna melt. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's not a freezer. Can't you play it? Why can't

560
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Speaker 3: you plug it in like a freezer.

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Speaker 5: I'm sure there are different ones that you could get.

562
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Speaker 2: That like keep yours, probably more elaborate ones. But here's

563
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Speaker 2: the thing. I have an ice shortage or my ice

564
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Speaker 2: maker freezes up, not enough ice anyway, so you gotta

565
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Speaker 2: go get bags of ice.

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Speaker 3: I noticed that about my ice too.

567
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Speaker 2: My ice machine is a real problem.

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Speaker 3: I was like, come, on what is this.

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Speaker 2: So Tanya?

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Speaker 5: Well, I don't know. You're gonna have to figure out

571
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Speaker 5: your own ice situation, but maybe you can get some

572
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Speaker 5: like you know those big arrowhead for the.

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Speaker 2: Love like I, Yeah, I can start doing this.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we really are thinking about it because Robbie wants

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Speaker 5: to do it in the mornings before he I don't

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Speaker 5: think I would do this.

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Speaker 3: Before work before I.

578
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Speaker 2: Wouldn't to organize.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, talk to me in December when I'm just not freezing.

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Speaker 2: I'm not a cold person.

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Speaker 3: I think you could do it.

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Speaker 5: You could get it ready at night like it. Well,

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Speaker 5: that depends three minutes you can last.

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Speaker 2: I can't last night.

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Speaker 3: I did they say three minutes? I didn't. I did

586
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Speaker 3: with the random person in the spa once. Yeah, we

587
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Speaker 3: actually motivate each other.

588
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Speaker 2: You could yet team work it. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: She was in there was like, come on, we can

590
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Speaker 3: do it twenty more seconds.

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Speaker 2: Maybe a kitty pool. You could just throw someboce in that.

592
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:07,400
Speaker 2: These things look like a kid pool.

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Speaker 5: But people are swearing by it, and I'm like, if

594
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Speaker 5: it's going to make you more productive and have more

595
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Speaker 5: energy throughout your day, what's the harm?

596
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Speaker 2: Why don't you do a home demo for the show. Yeah,

597
00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:18,440
Speaker 2: and let us know. We'll no tell us the days

598
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Speaker 2: you've done it, and then we'll see how you're feeling.

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Speaker 2: We'll ask you about that all right.

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Speaker 3: On air on air with Ryan Seacres, Dylan.

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Speaker 2: I think Dylan needs advice. Dylan, are you with us?

602
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Speaker 2: Good morning? How are you?

603
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Speaker 6: I'm here, good morning? Thanks very great.

604
00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:38,480
Speaker 2: So are you calling for advice about a job listing

605
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Speaker 2: or what's happening?

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Speaker 6: So, yeah, I'm I'm I've been at the same company

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Speaker 6: for about four years. Thanks. By the way, my and

608
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Speaker 6: my team is expanding. They're added some new people, and

609
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Speaker 6: so I'm on my internal jobs board once in a while.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 6: I like the company, need the benefits, the people are great.

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Speaker 6: But they posted a job and this is where I

613
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Speaker 6: needed some advice here that's eventually the same job as mine,

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Speaker 6: the same level, but the pay is about thirty thousand

615
00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:11,879
Speaker 6: dollars higher starting. So I'm not good at like corporate negotiations.

616
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Speaker 6: I don't like confrontation. So I'm like, what do I do?

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Speaker 6: Do I go to my manager ask for money? Do

618
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Speaker 6: I bring it up?

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Speaker 2: Is the listening for the same job in another place?

620
00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:28,440
Speaker 6: It's the same company, just under a different manager, but the.

621
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Speaker 2: Same job, same company, same role, same duties, same responsibilities,

622
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Speaker 2: same organizations.

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Speaker 6: Stress correct for a different manager, but it's thirty k higher.

624
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Speaker 6: And if I ask, does that trigger like an awkward

625
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Speaker 6: conversation about my future of the company or I'm.

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Speaker 2: No, I think that you. I mean, let's just be

627
00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:50,760
Speaker 2: let's just be real, bro right, you're doing your gig

628
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:54,440
Speaker 2: at the same company. You see this posted you you'd

629
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Speaker 2: like for them to explain why this is thirty thousand

630
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Speaker 2: dollars more for the same thing. Could you explain it

631
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:03,200
Speaker 2: to me? Let them explain it to you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so there might be something that isn't listed that

633
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 5: you don't know.

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00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:10,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think you you go for an ask yet,

635
00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 2: I think you need them to define the why, right,

636
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Speaker 2: Like what's the reason? Because to me, Dylan, you're you

637
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Speaker 2: talking on From my view, this looks like the same

638
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Speaker 2: thing for the same company, just under a different manager,

639
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Speaker 2: but a heck of a lot more salary, Like what's

640
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Speaker 2: the difference? How do you justify thirty k more for

641
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:33,440
Speaker 2: the same thing here and have them explain it to you?

642
00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:37,480
Speaker 6: Sure? If the two passive aggressives just apply for the job.

643
00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 2: M yes, why because then if he gets it, he's

644
00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 2: got to leave the same role.

645
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:48,280
Speaker 3: Or what if he doesn't get it, and then.

646
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Speaker 6: You may My reviews are good.

647
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 2: I I'm thinking of the audio. My playbook would be

648
00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:57,800
Speaker 2: go to them, ask them, why have them explain it

649
00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 2: to you? And then you have another move to make.

650
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:03,200
Speaker 2: You've got another move on the board. The next move

651
00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 2: could be you want to apply for it. The next

652
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Speaker 2: move could be, well, I would like to have that

653
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:07,000
Speaker 2: for my job.

654
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:08,040
Speaker 3: That's a good move.

655
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:09,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, you get two moves out of one.

656
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Speaker 6: Okay, I think that's what I'll do. Thank you.

657
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:15,760
Speaker 2: I appreciate that, brother, Thank you for even reaching out

658
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Speaker 2: to talk to us about it.

659
00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:19,320
Speaker 3: It could be an oversight, you know, they haven't looked

660
00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 3: at his position in years, and maybe they.

661
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Speaker 2: Maybe you get to raise, know they kick you up exactly.

662
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:26,360
Speaker 7: For that.

663
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Speaker 2: Did you like your job? Sounds like you like your job.

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Speaker 6: I love that at the company's grave. My reviews are good.

665
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:35,920
Speaker 6: My boss is great. I don't want to leave, you know,

666
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Speaker 6: I don't want to be taking advantage of professionally.

667
00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:40,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't think you can voice I say, I

668
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:42,760
Speaker 3: want to stay with the same team. Essentially, have this.

669
00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:45,440
Speaker 2: Conversation immediately, either today or tomorrow.

670
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Speaker 6: Okay, okay, take care of deal, good luck, Thank you.

671
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 2: Mus I can't wait to hear why. I mean, not

672
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 2: that I'm gonna be there. I'm so curious to I'm

673
00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:58,360
Speaker 2: so curious to hear why. Maybe it was a mistake.

674
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:01,040
Speaker 2: I don't know. So so let's get into this.

675
00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:03,720
Speaker 3: What do you so if you have kids who are

676
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:06,760
Speaker 3: obsessed with video games, maybe it's not so bad that

677
00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:09,360
Speaker 3: you let them play them because there was a study

678
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 3: done actually Georgia State University, Ryan Uh did a study

679
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:16,200
Speaker 3: that found the frequent players of video games show superior

680
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 3: sensory motor decision making skills and in the University of

681
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:24,720
Speaker 3: Georgia and dropped out. There's a different university. You gotta

682
00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:27,480
Speaker 3: got it. But to put it simply, gamers are good

683
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 3: at decision making. So just think about that for a second.

684
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:34,400
Speaker 3: Because there's nothing more annoying than being with a man

685
00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:35,000
Speaker 3: or a woman.

686
00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 2: We talked about this. You can't make a choice, can

687
00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 2: make decisions.

688
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:42,520
Speaker 3: Make a decision anything whizing if you can't have some

689
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:43,760
Speaker 3: certainty and some clarity.

690
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:45,880
Speaker 2: I was talking to a friend of mine and he

691
00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:47,840
Speaker 2: keeps telling me it's going out with this girl. Hey, bro,

692
00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:50,280
Speaker 2: I'm going out with this girl I met. Where'd you meet?

693
00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:51,880
Speaker 2: Like we met on the street, and like you met

694
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:53,560
Speaker 2: on the street. I don't even know how that's possible.

695
00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:55,080
Speaker 5: Wow, it's so easy.

696
00:30:55,440 --> 00:31:00,120
Speaker 3: And then he says, oh, sorry, not for everybody, all

697
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:00,480
Speaker 3: of us.

698
00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 2: I walked streets time and time again. It just walks

699
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 2: up and wants to go out. But for you, you

700
00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 2: can barely go anywhere, can you?

701
00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:09,800
Speaker 9: Baby?

702
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 2: Put a little ball cap on and some glasses so

703
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 2: you don't get asked out every corner.

704
00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 3: Difficult to every single corner, and just you know what,

705
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:20,240
Speaker 3: let's keep walking.

706
00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:22,760
Speaker 2: I need to look down, so'sn ask me out again

707
00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:27,160
Speaker 2: everywhere I go. Oh, it's a walk side and think on.

708
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:31,120
Speaker 5: I'm just saying you just have to put out the

709
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:33,160
Speaker 5: energy like I'm open and available.

710
00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 2: Well, anyway, guy says to me, buddy mine, He's like, probably,

711
00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 2: I'm I'm going to take her ound I'm just kind

712
00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 2: of excited. So I said where are you going to

713
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:41,280
Speaker 2: take her? He's like, well, a corner and said what

714
00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:44,720
Speaker 2: do you like? I'm like, no, don't say what do

715
00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:45,200
Speaker 2: you like?

716
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:48,000
Speaker 8: A plan?

717
00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 3: Make a decision, Han, I'm taking your hair.

718
00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:52,720
Speaker 2: Be ready, and I've got a great idea and just

719
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:55,720
Speaker 2: go like, I know that you want to get direction,

720
00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:59,280
Speaker 2: but I don't know. I don't love saying what are

721
00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:01,880
Speaker 2: you into? What do you like? I think it kind

722
00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:03,760
Speaker 2: of I mean, maybe it's too risky, but I like

723
00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 2: to make it just flows naturally.

724
00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:07,720
Speaker 3: Maybe but not. I think like for the first day,

725
00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:10,320
Speaker 3: it's so hot. If you planned the whole thing, if

726
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:12,320
Speaker 3: you said, hey, be ready by seven, and you know,

727
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 3: dress whatever this way, so much to.

728
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:20,960
Speaker 5: Dressed this way, I'd be like, no, not dressed this way.

729
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:22,840
Speaker 3: But you know what I mean, Like I.

730
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:24,920
Speaker 2: Tell you, I know what you I know you're saying

731
00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:27,840
Speaker 2: because when I've gone places in the past or we're

732
00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 2: going to something, the question that's come up, well, what

733
00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:31,560
Speaker 2: are we supposed to wear? Like what's everyone else is

734
00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 2: going to be wearing? So it is beneficial to say

735
00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:37,400
Speaker 2: it's casual or it's be cheap whatever, right, thank you? Yes,

736
00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:39,040
Speaker 2: So you saying like where this is.

737
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:41,440
Speaker 3: Where I were meet me in the bar.

738
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:44,440
Speaker 2: Totally cash or you may say it's it's little dressed.

739
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:47,240
Speaker 6: Yeah, I know what that is.

740
00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 2: Summer.

741
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 3: Someone else the other day told me dressed summer cheek

742
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:53,280
Speaker 3: and I was like, okay, all right, what is that?

743
00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:54,080
Speaker 6: I like it?

744
00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:58,760
Speaker 2: And then you realize it's really anything. But so play

745
00:32:58,760 --> 00:32:59,840
Speaker 2: play plays that we're saying here.

746
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:02,080
Speaker 3: Oh, yes, I think it's beneficial to your kids playing

747
00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:04,640
Speaker 3: these video games. You can make them better people in life.

748
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:07,160
Speaker 3: And then there was another interesting thing that I took

749
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 3: from this article. There was this one gamer who was

750
00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 3: legally blind in one eye, and he played video games

751
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:16,320
Speaker 3: so much, and he would cover his good eye and

752
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:20,640
Speaker 3: force himself to play with his bad eye. And over time, Wow,

753
00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 3: has bad eye got better in sight basically a capacity

754
00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:27,960
Speaker 3: for visual processing. His brain almost trained his eye to

755
00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:30,040
Speaker 3: then see again. It's just fascinating.

756
00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 2: So that's amazing. I have the itch to go to Disneyland.

757
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:36,640
Speaker 3: I love Disneyland.

758
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:40,080
Speaker 2: Earth together or should just go?

759
00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 3: Let's go together? Maybe we could could be fun. Yes,

760
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:54,000
Speaker 3: maybe couples that could be really fun. Triple day, triple

761
00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:57,240
Speaker 3: day matching day or trappy triple day matchingeers.

762
00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:04,000
Speaker 2: Yes, what you said. Let's arrive separately, why party? We

763
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:05,440
Speaker 2: can all have our own vehicles. I don't know what

764
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 2: time we're going to finish, that's true, So this is

765
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:09,879
Speaker 2: it a formal invitation. We'll figure out the date.

766
00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 5: Guys, we have a company.

767
00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I don't know what's happening here, lindsay, sorry

768
00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:17,840
Speaker 2: you heard all that.

769
00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:22,960
Speaker 10: Yeah, I'm still here.

770
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:26,239
Speaker 2: The reason we're coming together for a six talk. You're going,

771
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:30,319
Speaker 2: but you work with somebody it's going to Disneyland that

772
00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:31,680
Speaker 2: needs to be at work, and you're kind of outing

773
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:32,120
Speaker 2: that person.

774
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:37,720
Speaker 10: Yeah. So my well, my manager is out and return

775
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:39,960
Speaker 10: to leave, so he's out of office and not in

776
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:44,000
Speaker 10: touch with our team very much understandably. So, so my

777
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:48,120
Speaker 10: coworker is using that to her advantage and is taking

778
00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:51,000
Speaker 10: a vacation all up next week and not telling anyone,

779
00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:56,120
Speaker 10: and she's planning to go to Disneyland. And well, I

780
00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:59,920
Speaker 10: feel that's a bit unethical. I wouldn't feel a need

781
00:34:59,920 --> 00:35:02,799
Speaker 10: to tell anyone, But she's asking me to cover for

782
00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:06,920
Speaker 10: her and do her work. Oh yeah, I don't want

783
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:08,360
Speaker 10: to tattle, but you.

784
00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:18,840
Speaker 2: Know that this podcast where Disneyland is from going. Okay, okay,

785
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:22,840
Speaker 2: well wow, I'm trying to put myself in your shoes.

786
00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:23,640
Speaker 2: So let's see.

787
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:31,120
Speaker 3: Hmmm, Like, if Tanya, you know, to lie for her

788
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:34,000
Speaker 3: so she can go do something, you would do it

789
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:38,560
Speaker 3: for me? Yeah, but I would want something in return, No,

790
00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:45,360
Speaker 3: you wouldn't. You would owe me if I have to

791
00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:47,080
Speaker 3: lie for you to the boss.

792
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:47,919
Speaker 5: You would do it.

793
00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:50,360
Speaker 3: I would maybe do it, but I'd like you owe me,

794
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 3: like this is big. Now my job is on the line.

795
00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 3: You owe me.

796
00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:56,560
Speaker 2: No jobs on the line.

797
00:35:56,880 --> 00:36:00,279
Speaker 3: Disneyland maybe want to be Disneyland. I'm just saying something else.

798
00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:02,120
Speaker 2: Well, she already did this. She wanted to knop a

799
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:04,560
Speaker 2: valley retreat and told her she was sick, but she didn't.

800
00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:07,480
Speaker 5: And I'll say that I was sick. I took vacation

801
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:09,800
Speaker 5: days in work day for that.

802
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:13,200
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, she took Tuesday and Wednesday last minute because

803
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:15,399
Speaker 2: she went to Naa with the guy that she told

804
00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:15,879
Speaker 2: she never talked.

805
00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:21,760
Speaker 5: I said, I was going to every tree weepy, weepy, weepy.

806
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:25,919
Speaker 2: But she disappeared. She suggest she told me she never talked.

807
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:29,000
Speaker 3: She had just broken up with him, and she was such.

808
00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:31,000
Speaker 2: A bad stick in and we put her back together

809
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:31,879
Speaker 2: with like uh.

810
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:35,279
Speaker 3: Huh uh huh. And then she was she was like,

811
00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:37,399
Speaker 3: I need to go find myself on this tree.

812
00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:42,000
Speaker 5: Exaggerating in every shape, that's what it was.

813
00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:44,879
Speaker 3: But she called a wellness retreat there.

814
00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 2: We understand it. We'd been down this path before.

815
00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:50,239
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, so exaggerated. Took off a Thursday and

816
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:51,360
Speaker 5: a Friday.

817
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 2: Was Tuesday and Wednesday.

818
00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:54,799
Speaker 5: No Thursday and Friday. I never said I was never

819
00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:56,840
Speaker 5: going to speak to the guy again. If you shall remember,

820
00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 5: I said, this doesn't make sense this break.

821
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:01,640
Speaker 2: I recall him so sorry. As I recall it was

822
00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:03,680
Speaker 2: a Sunday night and I was on the phone for.

823
00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 3: A long Yes, I never saw you.

824
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 2: Later you took a vacation when to my now.

825
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:12,719
Speaker 3: You made me unfollow him on Instagram and then when

826
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:15,000
Speaker 3: I had to re follow him. It was super properte.

827
00:37:15,200 --> 00:37:16,520
Speaker 3: I love song.

828
00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:20,440
Speaker 5: And it was a retreat. It was a couple's retreat

829
00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:22,040
Speaker 5: to see if we could do this again.

830
00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:24,640
Speaker 2: I've seen couples retreat. It's a movie. This was not that.

831
00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:30,960
Speaker 2: Lindsay again, do you want to just out your coworker work? Yeah, okay,

832
00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:33,440
Speaker 2: is there a swap, like listen, now you're covering. Is

833
00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 2: there something she can do for you to see you?

834
00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:39,600
Speaker 10: That's true, that's true. I can give her. I can

835
00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:41,239
Speaker 10: give her something that she has to do for me.

836
00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:44,440
Speaker 2: She owes you now, let's have to cover it and

837
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:51,279
Speaker 2: then eye for an eye blind whatever, good luck, Thank

838
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:54,320
Speaker 2: you very much. It was a long time ago, but

839
00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:56,680
Speaker 2: I remember like it was yesterday? Was it tuesday?

840
00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:58,959
Speaker 5: You obviously don't remember it like it was yesterday because

841
00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:00,760
Speaker 5: your facts are a little bit fuzzy.

842
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 2: Oh it's just I sounded pretty aligned.

843
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:05,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just can't remember what you called it. You

844
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:06,279
Speaker 3: called it a.

845
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:10,200
Speaker 5: Well a retreat. I said, I'm going on a retreat.

846
00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:12,160
Speaker 3: And we didn't even bat an eyelash because we were

847
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:14,680
Speaker 3: so concerned for your health. A romantic weekend.

848
00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 2: It taste.

849
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:17,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, we literally were like, oh my gosh, Ryan, she

850
00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:20,120
Speaker 3: needs this, so let's give her whatever time she needs

851
00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:24,040
Speaker 3: because she needs it. Peace all. Yeah, And she comes

852
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:25,799
Speaker 3: back and she was like, oh, I was frolicking through

853
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:27,320
Speaker 3: this wine, the vineyards.

854
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:29,560
Speaker 2: Of Rosemary infused the hall of oil. They've caught it

855
00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:31,280
Speaker 2: up there, got it a bottle.

856
00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:34,879
Speaker 3: I was just, you know, tasting. Oh, by the way,

857
00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:36,200
Speaker 3: robbing air back together.

858
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:39,759
Speaker 2: On our own backs here, because look at this, they're

859
00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:41,080
Speaker 2: about to be engaged thanks to us.

860
00:38:41,600 --> 00:38:43,479
Speaker 3: Clearly, he carried off the show.

861
00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:46,560
Speaker 2: They made everything go away, and now they're practically married.

862
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:47,080
Speaker 9: Yeah.

863
00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:48,200
Speaker 3: Really glad it worked out.

864
00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:51,600
Speaker 5: But I never once said I'm never speaking to him again.

865
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 3: If thou shalt.

866
00:38:55,040 --> 00:39:02,640
Speaker 2: Recall, I mean listening to those tears, tears so many Oh,

867
00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:06,320
Speaker 2: I can tell I'm doing good ABS because I was

868
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:10,200
Speaker 2: laughing solid my abs. I did hanging abs last night

869
00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:13,239
Speaker 2: and I can feel it now. Sundry, Oh so hard

870
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:14,040
Speaker 2: to get six hundred.

871
00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:15,839
Speaker 3: I know we all do that. Ever, since you told

872
00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:18,520
Speaker 3: me six hundred a day, I'm like, oh, my gosh.

873
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:20,480
Speaker 5: Should we all do six hundred abs something's a day?

874
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:21,520
Speaker 3: I guess yeah.

875
00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:24,759
Speaker 5: I think we should can text each other after we finish.

876
00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:31,239
Speaker 2: Okay subscribed Sam. Hello Sam, Hi, Yes, Sam, thanks for

877
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:33,160
Speaker 2: holding on to a couple of those songs that appreciate

878
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:35,879
Speaker 2: that this morning. So let's see if we can help

879
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:38,320
Speaker 2: out and find out what's going on. Your manager blocked

880
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 2: everybody on your team from seeing your Instagram stories.

881
00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:46,960
Speaker 11: No, so my manager blocked everyone from seeing their Instagram story,

882
00:39:47,040 --> 00:39:50,840
Speaker 11: so like we can't basically blocked everyone, so we can't

883
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:54,239
Speaker 11: see their story at all, and we cannot see you

884
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:58,320
Speaker 11: a manager story exactly. I can't see my manager's stories

885
00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:03,000
Speaker 11: at all. And what happened is my manager has been

886
00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:07,319
Speaker 11: so flaky lately, so calling out, sick, not showing up,

887
00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:10,959
Speaker 11: saying they'll be there and then never coming. So one

888
00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:14,000
Speaker 11: of the new members of our team wasn't block and

889
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:16,720
Speaker 11: Instagram and we found out what's going on with our manager.

890
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 11: Our manager is vacationing, partying, staying, it's late, and those

891
00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:24,719
Speaker 11: happen to be the days she'll call out sick the

892
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:27,120
Speaker 11: next day. So my team's like at a loss. We

893
00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:28,840
Speaker 11: don't know what to do because it's affecting all of

894
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:31,799
Speaker 11: our work and now we know why, but we don't

895
00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:32,520
Speaker 11: know how to handle it.

896
00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:35,239
Speaker 2: Or well, why does the new hire have access to

897
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:36,320
Speaker 2: your manager's stories?

898
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:40,319
Speaker 11: She must not have blocked them because they weren't on

899
00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:41,600
Speaker 11: our team when she went up through.

900
00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 2: That's how you know what's happening. Okay, now it's all

901
00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:54,680
Speaker 2: adding up. Well, who's the leader of the team.

902
00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:53,560
Speaker 11: As far as I mean, like, the manager is the

903
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:55,960
Speaker 11: main one in charge. We of course have a boss

904
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:58,399
Speaker 11: over everyone, but the manager's in charge of.

905
00:40:58,360 --> 00:41:01,400
Speaker 2: Us, right, But there's got to be a leader of

906
00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:03,640
Speaker 2: the team that's underneath the manager. Because here's my thinking.

907
00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:06,120
Speaker 2: My thinking is, if it's affecting the team's work, and

908
00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:09,759
Speaker 2: ultimately that's what a team is on a team for

909
00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:13,520
Speaker 2: to be productive, it's going to affect the manager's productivity

910
00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:17,760
Speaker 2: and their reputation at work too. So I wouldn't address

911
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:20,800
Speaker 2: what your manager is doing outside of work. I'd address

912
00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:23,200
Speaker 2: what your manager is not getting done with the team

913
00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:26,600
Speaker 2: inside of work, because it's holding everybody back. And that's

914
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:30,719
Speaker 2: just a results oriented conversation. It's not personal, it's professional.

915
00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:34,600
Speaker 11: Yeah, right, So you think we should go to the

916
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:37,880
Speaker 11: manager directly and just talk work only, not for up.

917
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:40,759
Speaker 2: You just say, like the ball is being dropped. Here's

918
00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:43,760
Speaker 2: what we're missing. We're not getting answers, things aren't moving along.

919
00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:45,400
Speaker 2: This is a problem like just affecting all of us

920
00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:48,960
Speaker 2: as a team. We want to be results oriented, solutions oriented,

921
00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:50,279
Speaker 2: but we got to be productive and we've got to

922
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:52,239
Speaker 2: get things done. And for some reason, it's not let

923
00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:55,360
Speaker 2: the manager you have a chance to apologize or or

924
00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:57,480
Speaker 2: you know, fess up to what's going on. But the

925
00:41:57,560 --> 00:42:01,400
Speaker 2: results at work are a product of whatever's happening. You

926
00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:04,480
Speaker 2: still need to talk about your manage. You're doing what

927
00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:06,319
Speaker 2: they're doing. It's like what they're not doing at work.

928
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:07,160
Speaker 2: Do you see what I'm saying?

929
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:10,000
Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, what do you think?

930
00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:10,839
Speaker 9: I think?

931
00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:12,520
Speaker 3: So true? I think you go to the professional round

932
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 3: because then it seems less gossipy and you're you know,

933
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:17,920
Speaker 3: you're not getting involved in the personal life. You're just

934
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:22,160
Speaker 3: going straight professional and the new hires watching it all.

935
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:27,080
Speaker 11: I kind of like that they've screen recorded it, so we've.

936
00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 3: All now it's getting messy, so dark.

937
00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:35,839
Speaker 2: I think I would address the issues at work, which

938
00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:38,400
Speaker 2: is the product of what you've seen in the video.

939
00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:39,760
Speaker 2: Thanks Sam for calling.

940
00:42:41,600 --> 00:42:45,520
Speaker 11: Thank you. Okay, Well, definitely sure, we will definitely go

941
00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:47,440
Speaker 11: about doing that way because you didn't really want to

942
00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:50,000
Speaker 11: go over anyone's head, you know, so we didn't know

943
00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:52,120
Speaker 11: how to handle it the team.

944
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:53,719
Speaker 2: I got it. Well. I appreciate you reaching out just

945
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:55,920
Speaker 2: to chat with us about It's very nice. Thanks for listening.

946
00:42:56,719 --> 00:42:59,400
Speaker 2: And Menehanna from the back room. The back room consists

947
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:03,080
Speaker 2: of regularly Mikayla, Collette and Ruby on the phones, you know,

948
00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:05,680
Speaker 2: lining things up, getting things done. What's the highlight of

949
00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:06,760
Speaker 2: your job in the back room.

950
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:10,279
Speaker 12: Ariehanna, Answering phones, you know, keeping the energy back there.

951
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:12,759
Speaker 12: We're always in there, you know, talking to each other

952
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 12: and you know obviously answering the phone calls and stuff.

953
00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:18,120
Speaker 2: So yeah, all right, so after she's done here, call

954
00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:19,719
Speaker 2: in and talk to her because she loves answering. It's

955
00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:21,520
Speaker 2: one eight and five to one to two seven. So

956
00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:24,000
Speaker 2: you meet this guy, Phoenix guy go. Now, how many

957
00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:24,919
Speaker 2: times have you all hung out?

958
00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:29,600
Speaker 12: We've hung out several times. But this last trip we

959
00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:32,279
Speaker 12: did like a whole trip. You know, we went to

960
00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:35,920
Speaker 12: Arizona and you know, he rented ATVs for us. We

961
00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:39,440
Speaker 12: went on like restaurants, dates and bars and you.

962
00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:40,120
Speaker 3: Know, it was fun.

963
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:43,240
Speaker 12: And now I don't know how you feel.

964
00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:46,359
Speaker 2: Is it romantic yet? No?

965
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:47,120
Speaker 3: Not yet?

966
00:43:47,320 --> 00:43:49,920
Speaker 2: Okay, so you to you do? You had a great time.

967
00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:52,560
Speaker 2: It sounds amazing, like I'm taking notes about what to

968
00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 2: do on a date. That sounds fun. So you had

969
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:58,160
Speaker 2: a great time. He's dming you and now.

970
00:43:58,000 --> 00:44:01,920
Speaker 12: What Well, now kind of like a little scared because

971
00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:05,239
Speaker 12: I feel like we get along so well and the

972
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:08,640
Speaker 12: vibes are there, but also it's like, what if I

973
00:44:08,760 --> 00:44:09,280
Speaker 12: like him?

974
00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:11,759
Speaker 2: Isn't that why you go out with him?

975
00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:12,040
Speaker 5: Yeah?

976
00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:15,240
Speaker 3: This is good, but now it's real.

977
00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:19,640
Speaker 12: Yeah, now it's like real real, So hold on, isn't

978
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:22,120
Speaker 12: the point of going out with someone to like them?

979
00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:23,759
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm with Ryan on this.

980
00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:28,120
Speaker 2: Are you worried that you found a guide that you're into? Yeah?

981
00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:30,640
Speaker 12: Because I'm like, am I actually ready for a releasehip?

982
00:44:30,640 --> 00:44:34,600
Speaker 3: Because well, that's a question you've got to answer for yourself, honey, if.

983
00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:38,520
Speaker 2: You're worried about it going well and liking someone, then

984
00:44:38,640 --> 00:44:42,520
Speaker 2: maybe the door is not open for you. Wow, because

985
00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:44,239
Speaker 2: you've been in that seat telling us that you met

986
00:44:44,239 --> 00:44:48,320
Speaker 2: a guy who's like a you know, not great. We're like, okay,

987
00:44:48,360 --> 00:44:50,040
Speaker 2: well not the one for you. And now you meaning

988
00:44:50,080 --> 00:44:51,440
Speaker 2: this guy that you like, Like, I don't know if

989
00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:51,920
Speaker 2: I'm ready.

990
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:53,400
Speaker 5: It's scary.

991
00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:54,760
Speaker 3: Oh just jump.

992
00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:57,720
Speaker 2: But when you go to the when you go to Ralph's,

993
00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:02,680
Speaker 2: do you go in there and you look around? You go, hey,

994
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:05,480
Speaker 2: what if I buy something I actually want to eat?

995
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:07,239
Speaker 2: Do you do that? Or do you buy stuff you

996
00:45:07,239 --> 00:45:08,560
Speaker 2: want to eat? You go in there, you buy stuff

997
00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:10,200
Speaker 2: you want to eat? You're dating? You want to date

998
00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:11,640
Speaker 2: this guy you like. I don't know if that works

999
00:45:11,719 --> 00:45:11,880
Speaker 2: or not.

1000
00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:12,560
Speaker 6: But I.

1001
00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:20,600
Speaker 2: Just wonder, like, are you truly open to wanting to

1002
00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:23,479
Speaker 2: be with somebody in a relationship or not, because that's

1003
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:25,799
Speaker 2: the question that would be asked if you're not.

1004
00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:28,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know.

1005
00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:31,680
Speaker 12: I feel like I don't know if I'm fully ready,

1006
00:45:31,760 --> 00:45:33,640
Speaker 12: And also like what if he doesn't even want that?

1007
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:35,759
Speaker 3: Like I think I'm also overthinking like.

1008
00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:37,720
Speaker 2: Are you flirting with him?

1009
00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:40,439
Speaker 5: We flirt here and there? Yeah, for sure, he wants it,

1010
00:45:42,040 --> 00:45:43,120
Speaker 5: I mean not necessarily.

1011
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:46,319
Speaker 3: I mean, what guy's putting in the DM time if

1012
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:47,120
Speaker 3: he doesn't want to date?

1013
00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:51,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, so you got. I mean you're you're in

1014
00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:53,800
Speaker 2: the driver's seat on this. So what's the next step

1015
00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:54,120
Speaker 2: we're not?

1016
00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:57,680
Speaker 12: I mean, I don't know if I should even either

1017
00:45:57,760 --> 00:46:00,480
Speaker 12: tell him like, hey, I'm not ready for something?

1018
00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 3: They know, why Why is she going to rock the

1019
00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:06,640
Speaker 3: boat if it doesn't need to be rocked?

1020
00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:12,560
Speaker 2: What are you ready for? If you're not ready for something? Wow,

1021
00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:13,400
Speaker 2: that's a good question.

1022
00:46:14,920 --> 00:46:19,080
Speaker 5: This is the gray area, which is bad for everybody involved.

1023
00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:22,120
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm going to tell you what struck me. He

1024
00:46:22,200 --> 00:46:26,800
Speaker 2: rented ATVs. That's interest. Guys do not rent heavy machinery

1025
00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:30,120
Speaker 2: to be friends. They're just just telling you, like, that

1026
00:46:30,239 --> 00:46:31,319
Speaker 2: is a real investment here.

1027
00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:32,640
Speaker 3: They don't spend.

1028
00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:37,839
Speaker 2: Money on people waivers organizing it, you know what I mean?

1029
00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:39,879
Speaker 12: Yeah, because you organized the whole thing too.

1030
00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:43,520
Speaker 3: So yeah, that's thoughtfulness. That's putting in time.

1031
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:48,120
Speaker 2: Can you just go and see what the natural flow

1032
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:50,360
Speaker 2: is without overthinking it? Can you do that?

1033
00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:50,960
Speaker 10: Yeah?

1034
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:52,399
Speaker 12: I think I'm going to go ahead and do that.

1035
00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:54,400
Speaker 12: That's always better, just going with the flow.

1036
00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 2: I will call in and talk to Marion in the

1037
00:46:57,200 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 2: back room right now if you have other advice for her.

1038
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:01,600
Speaker 2: But the says she's finally met a great guy that

1039
00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:03,000
Speaker 2: she thinks she likes. Now what uh?

1040
00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 6: Oh?

1041
00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:09,400
Speaker 2: Stressful all I don't know what to do anymore.

1042
00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:18,480
Speaker 3: Which ways, this is exciting, scary right here on air

1043
00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:19,880
Speaker 3: with Ryan Seacrest.

1044
00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:24,799
Speaker 2: One more thing before we go, sisany what is your

1045
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:27,439
Speaker 2: biggest pet peeve that other drivers do on the road

1046
00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:29,640
Speaker 2: or that Michael does when you drive.

1047
00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:32,520
Speaker 3: When they cut me off? If somebody cuts me off.

1048
00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:36,560
Speaker 2: Tanya, what's the biggest pet peeve you have with other

1049
00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:38,200
Speaker 2: drivers or when Robbie drives.

1050
00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:41,840
Speaker 5: I really dislike when people put their feet outside the window.

1051
00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:45,000
Speaker 2: So I don't like it when someone says to me

1052
00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:45,960
Speaker 2: every time, be careful.

1053
00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:50,080
Speaker 3: Oh I do that to Michael all the time.

1054
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:52,600
Speaker 2: Do you think I am not being careful?

1055
00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:52,920
Speaker 9: Yes?

1056
00:47:53,040 --> 00:47:53,440
Speaker 2: Careful?

1057
00:47:53,560 --> 00:47:56,520
Speaker 5: How about we live and careful and then tell me otherwise?

1058
00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:57,240
Speaker 2: Be careful?

1059
00:47:57,320 --> 00:47:57,480
Speaker 6: Right?

1060
00:47:57,520 --> 00:48:00,560
Speaker 2: Be careful? Okay, Well I'm being careful, but now I'm

1061
00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:02,960
Speaker 2: not careful because I'm looking over at you telling me

1062
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:05,799
Speaker 2: to be careful. So who's careful? Now?

1063
00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:08,600
Speaker 3: Did you let it all out?

1064
00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:08,959
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1065
00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:09,920
Speaker 3: You get it.

1066
00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:15,480
Speaker 9: Let's thanks for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest.

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00:48:15,719 --> 00:48:18,240
Speaker 9: Make sure to subscribe, and we'll talk to you again tomorrow.