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Speaker 1: You've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the

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Speaker 1: Fred Show. Hey Chase, good morning, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: How are you good morning? I'm all right? How are

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Speaker 2: you all good?

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Speaker 1: We're good? But why are you just all right? What's

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Speaker 1: going on with this woman? Sonia? I assume that she

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Speaker 1: has something to do with it, just all right sentiment?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So I met her on Hinge and I got

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Speaker 2: her number and all that, and I invited her out

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Speaker 2: really good time. So then I said she wanted to

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Speaker 2: in which she did, made her dinner, and I thought

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Speaker 2: we had the best time. But then the next day,

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Speaker 2: in days following, she's been ghosting me. And I don't

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Speaker 2: know why.

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Speaker 1: Okay, hell yeah, And I will say, you know, you

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Speaker 1: went out and you had such a good time that

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Speaker 1: at your house. I mean, that's that's a good summer.

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Speaker 1: I mean yeah, Like I'm trying to think of the

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Speaker 1: last time I went on a date that was so

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Speaker 1: good that I saw the person the next day, like

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Speaker 1: not having slept over, I mean, like I separately saw

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Speaker 1: them the next day. That's uh, that's a good sign.

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Speaker 1: So you go from that to radio silence, no texting,

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Speaker 1: no callback, nothing.

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Speaker 2: Literally nothing. I haven't heard from her since.

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Speaker 1: All right, we're gonna call her now. Good luck, Thank you? Hello,

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Speaker 1: Hi is is Sonia? Hey Sonya, good morning. My name

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Speaker 1: is Fredam calling from the Fred's Show. The whole crew

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Speaker 1: is here and I have to tell you that we

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Speaker 1: your permission to continue with the calls. It okay if

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Speaker 1: we chat for a little bit. Yeah, sure, Thank you

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Speaker 1: very much for calling on behalf of a guy who

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Speaker 1: listens to our show. His name is Chase. I guess

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Speaker 1: you met him on Hinge and you guys have gone

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Speaker 1: out a couple of times. Does that sound familiar?

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Speaker 3: Yes, it does.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, he called us and he told us that

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Speaker 1: he matched with you on a dating app, and you

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Speaker 1: guys chatted and he liked you. You went out for

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Speaker 1: drinks that went well, so well that he says you

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Speaker 1: were at his house the next day for dinner, but

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Speaker 1: that he can't get a hold of you now. So

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Speaker 1: why you know what happened? Like, why are you not

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Speaker 3: So everything he told you is true, but that yeah,

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Speaker 3: I mean, drinks were decent enough time and dinner, I

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Speaker 3: you know, did agree to go to his place for dinner,

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Speaker 3: and that is wear of the problems again.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 3: First off, like when I walked in, I just saw

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Speaker 3: like house was full, and I was like, okay, I'm

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Speaker 3: already here. Let's just you know, try and get through

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Speaker 1: And like, okay, so I started interrupt you sonya, but

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Speaker 1: you didn't know this was a group hang like you

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Speaker 1: you thought you were going to his house for a

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Speaker 1: one on one dinner and instead it's like frad house.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I walk in, Yeah, fool guys. And I was like,

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Speaker 3: I'm already here, and I thought I was counting. I'm

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Speaker 3: going to just try and make the most of it, right,

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Speaker 3: So none of the guys like offered smooth. So I'm

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, like me too much, YSK.

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Speaker 3: Just like hanging in there. And then when he brought

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Speaker 3: I think that's what the meat was supposed to be.

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Speaker 3: I couldn't even tell it was cooked.

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Speaker 3: On a tortilla, that's it.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it was a.

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Speaker 3: Tuesday, okay, And there were no there there were no topics.

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Speaker 3: It was just tortilla and overcooked ground. I think.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, the guys that cook, you know, he tried

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Speaker 3: So no, And then I was like, can I get

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Speaker 1: Like what is it? Were you attending a front house?

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Speaker 1: This got an opportunity actively right now like is he

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Speaker 1: Or what's going on? Because you're on the floor now

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Speaker 3: I thought he was. That's why I agreed to go

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Speaker 1: Like his boys. His boys were no no help at all.

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Speaker 1: Like if, first of all, I'd leave, if I were

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Speaker 3: You know?

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Speaker 1: Who is this lady?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Exactly, let me ask you.

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Speaker 1: Chase about this chase. I'm sorry I interrupt you and

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Speaker 1: I forgot to mention the chases here. But I can go.

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Speaker 1: I can go no longer with this story.

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Speaker 2: I can.

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Speaker 1: I can no longer stand it. I must. I must

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Speaker 1: hear from the culprit himself. What, dude?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 1: That was a horrible time? Like why would you expect

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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't really understand what the problem is.

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Speaker 2: I thought she was and I don't get like, what's

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Speaker 2: the big deal is? Like my boys were there, shows

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Speaker 2: that I trusted her and I wanted her to meet

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Speaker 2: like my friends and stuff like I don't get it,

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Speaker 2: you know, but.

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Speaker 1: There are a lot of problems here, like yeah, like one, uh,

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Speaker 1: I would think that you would let her know that

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Speaker 1: other people were going to be there. If I say

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Speaker 1: and then I think that that implies that I'm making

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Speaker 1: dinner for you. Not I'm making dinner. I'm making cred

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Speaker 1: happy tacos for the whole frat house. You know, first

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Speaker 1: gave her a half drank beer. I mean you aren't

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Speaker 1: you trying to impress? I mean you're trying to impress

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Speaker 1: this woman, Chase. You don't seem to get.

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Speaker 2: That it was a premium beer anyways, Like it costs

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Speaker 2: a lot of money. It's not like I'm out here

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Speaker 1: Well it costs half of what it should have cost

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Speaker 1: because somebody drank half of it first. I don't I

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Speaker 3: The beer was when it was right cold in fresh,

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Speaker 3: when it is warm and flash.

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Speaker 2: It's not like you're planning to have my boys there anyway,

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Speaker 2: And they.

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Speaker 3: Just happened to be there, and you were a cool chick,

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Speaker 3: so I didn't think there'd be a big deal.

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Speaker 1: See you're one of those guys. But you one of

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Speaker 1: those guys. Let one of your boys get off. It's

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Speaker 1: your only problem reveal. See you're one of those guys

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Speaker 1: that like, yeah, I want the girl, but I also like,

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Speaker 1: I can't. I can't abandon my boys, right, you know,

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Speaker 1: and I guess Tuesdays and Wednesdays and Thursdays are too, Like,

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Speaker 1: I come on, man, Like, if you want to be

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Speaker 1: in a romantic relationship with a respectable woman, but she's

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Speaker 1: and she's going to expect you to pick her over

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Speaker 1: these dudes when it comes to like a date or

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and like I am a cool check. If he

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Speaker 3: had just told me, hey, like I have some friends

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Speaker 3: knowing that, I would have been in a different mind.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, you could have called her and they didn't

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Speaker 3: I sall them. I mean that's show Like, okay, I

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Speaker 3: can go with the flow. But it was just red

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Speaker 3: flag after red flag after red flag?

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Speaker 1: What were you staying? Rovio? Oh, he could have called

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Speaker 1: her and said, hey, you know, my friends are over,

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Speaker 1: bring a folding chair to sit on. Yeah, I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: my friends are all here and we're even bird ass tacos,

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Speaker 1: no toppings, and hot beer. So come on by. It's

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Speaker 1: a great time, right, It's b I just it says

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Speaker 1: a lot about you, like Chase, you might be a

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Speaker 1: nice guy, But it kind of says a lot about

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Speaker 1: like where you're at right now. You know that you

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Speaker 1: don't you're not really concerned about how you're eating, that

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Speaker 2: I mean, my brother's all right, brothers, are.

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Speaker 1: Still are you still in the fraternity or did you

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Speaker 2: I never graduated. It doesn't matter.

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Speaker 1: It's given that. Yeah, well we can definitely tail coming

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Speaker 1: over later though. Yeah, it sounds like tacos whatever you

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Speaker 1: got over there? Whatever, Yes, brothers for life.

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Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, Chase. I'm not criticizing the way

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Speaker 1: that you live. You live outver you want, but if

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Speaker 1: you want a woman like Sonya, it sounds like you're

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Speaker 1: going to have to clean up your act. But I

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Speaker 1: don't think you're going to do that because it sounds

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Speaker 1: like bros before, you know, you know, bros before or hello. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm glad you agree, Sonia. Thank you, thank you so

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Speaker 1: much for your time. I'm sorry this happened. Thank you

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Speaker 1: for telling us the story. Best of luck to both

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Speaker 1: of you guys.

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Speaker 2: Thank you