1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,080 Speaker 1: So I'm not sure that it's morality Monday, but we'll 2 00:00:03,120 --> 00:00:07,840 Speaker 1: do a scenario here because we're sort of running out 3 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:09,880 Speaker 1: of time to talking about the holidays, I guess, but 4 00:00:10,640 --> 00:00:13,200 Speaker 1: this is my question. Eight five, five, five, nine one 5 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 1: one three five. You can call the fridge that can 6 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 1: text the same number. By the way, so the Thanksgiving 7 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 1: Christmas obviously have passed, and we've you know, done the 8 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:24,520 Speaker 1: holiday traveling and stayed in other people's homes, and maybe 9 00:00:24,720 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 1: you stayed in mom in law's home, or you stayed 10 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:30,000 Speaker 1: in your own home or whatever it was. Here's the question, though, 11 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 1: whether you're a guest in someone's home for the holidays, 12 00:00:33,640 --> 00:00:36,519 Speaker 1: whether it's your family or your friends, is it rude 13 00:00:37,400 --> 00:00:42,640 Speaker 1: to have physical adult intimate relations in someone else's home 14 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 1: as an overnight guest. So you're a guest in someone's home, 15 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:52,200 Speaker 1: and maybe maybe it matters, maybe it doesn't matter whose 16 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:55,800 Speaker 1: home it is, But does is it rude to have 17 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 1: sex with somebody else's house when you're a guest? I might, 18 00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:05,319 Speaker 1: I might argue yes, but it would kind of depend 19 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:06,400 Speaker 1: on the circumstances. 20 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, it depends on whose home it is. For me personally, 21 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:15,680 Speaker 2: how long are we staying there? That can't go without. 22 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 2: Is it an overnight? 23 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:19,360 Speaker 1: Say we're staying for a week, two weeks? Okay, Let's 24 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:21,200 Speaker 1: say you were saying in your sister's house, Kiki, who 25 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:26,160 Speaker 1: raised you? Please don't do this? No are you? Would 26 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 1: you hesitate to get it on a big tim in 27 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:31,560 Speaker 1: your basically your mom's house. She's like again. 28 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 3: Listening, Well, yes, I would hesitate, absolutely. I would never 29 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 3: do that. Oh my god, what what do you mean 30 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 3: me have sex? 31 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:50,600 Speaker 4: What? 32 00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:59,559 Speaker 1: No? But what's the consensus? I guess I would say 33 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:04,040 Speaker 1: it's probably a risk not worth taking. I don't know. 34 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 1: There's a lot that can go wrong, Like you can 35 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 1: make noise, people can like what if something happens and 36 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:10,639 Speaker 1: you wind up making kind of I don't want to 37 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:12,120 Speaker 1: get too much anto it, but like when do you 38 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:13,960 Speaker 1: have to like cover up some evidence or something and 39 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:16,919 Speaker 1: you're now you're in your friend's house and then they 40 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:18,920 Speaker 1: got to clean the room after you leave, and you've 41 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:20,560 Speaker 1: been doing all that, which I know is why a 42 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 1: lot of people strip the bed before they go. But like, 43 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:26,080 Speaker 1: I don't know, if you're just hanging out of somebody's 44 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 1: house for a weekend, like can you keep the clothes on? 45 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:31,680 Speaker 1: You know what? I mean, I don't know. I mean, 46 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:33,239 Speaker 1: I'm not a prude, but I just I guess I 47 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 1: don't want to make anybody feel uncomfortable in their own house. 48 00:02:35,639 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 1: I would be uncomfortable if I'm in the house that 49 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:40,440 Speaker 1: I'm dating some girl and like her parents in the 50 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 1: other room, even if we're married. I'm like, I don't 51 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:45,200 Speaker 1: they don't need to hear that. What were we gonna say? 52 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:46,520 Speaker 5: Kay, I was just gonna say, if you guys are 53 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 5: ever staying with me in my guest room, you are 54 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 5: welcome to have sex there. 55 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 1: Go for it. Okay. 56 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:54,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't understand, like not all adults, like we'll 57 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 5: wash the sheets here. 58 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:58,080 Speaker 6: Yeah, if it's my friend's house, Like, I guess I 59 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 6: don't really care, but like it's weird because I'm so shy, 60 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 6: Like I'm even shy to kiss my own husband in 61 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 6: front of my mother. 62 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 2: Like that's how shy. I gamily, I'm not doing it, 63 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:09,120 Speaker 2: you know. So I'm like mama's house. No, No, I 64 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 2: think it's a respect thing. 65 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 7: But it's like your parents house, that's your childhood bedroom. 66 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:14,560 Speaker 7: You're staying with your Well I have done. 67 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 2: That, but that's when I lived there. Yeah, no, you know, no, choice. 68 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:18,960 Speaker 2: I had no choice. I had nowhere else to go, 69 00:03:19,639 --> 00:03:20,520 Speaker 2: go back home for the. 70 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 7: Holidays, and it's like, oh, my childhood bedroom. 71 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 2: You know, I don't need to live on still your. 72 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 3: Room, right, Frand you've never done this in mama. 73 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:33,239 Speaker 1: Friend's house, Well, I have. And here's the thing. Wait, 74 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 1: and I don't know if you guys can relate to this, 75 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 1: but up until I was about, oh gosh, mid thirties, 76 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 1: I mean, they were a fair amount of rules that 77 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 1: I still had to follow in my mom's house. And 78 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 1: as you know, she lives in Arizona. I go back 79 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:50,120 Speaker 1: all the time to see them, and I work from 80 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 1: there sometimes, and you know it's I live in Chicago, obviously, 81 00:03:53,960 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 1: they live out theirs and my sister's in Dallas. So 82 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 1: the only way I get to see families if like 83 00:03:57,560 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 1: if I make the pilgrimage and go visit. But for 84 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 1: a while, it was like don't It was kind of unwritten. 85 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 1: It was like, don't have sex in my house. It 86 00:04:05,840 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 1: was like don't really stay out later like be an 87 00:04:08,080 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 1: idiot basically. And I remember even in college, I had 88 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 1: a curfew and I'm like, mom, like, ninety percent of 89 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:16,919 Speaker 1: the time, you have no idea what I'm doing in 90 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:20,239 Speaker 1: a different state. I went to college one thousand miles away, 91 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:21,880 Speaker 1: and she's like, I don't carr you under my roof. 92 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:24,200 Speaker 1: Now I know what you're doing. So like in college, 93 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 1: I had to be home at like twelve thirty. Was ridiculous. 94 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:28,040 Speaker 5: I'm like, they don't want to wait, Like I feel 95 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:29,480 Speaker 5: like it's different, like if they're waiting for you to 96 00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:31,159 Speaker 5: come home, Like I wouldn't be able to sleep as 97 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:32,920 Speaker 5: a parent, you know, if my kid was it if 98 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:34,040 Speaker 5: I knew they were coming back. 99 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 1: But then well, okay, that makes sense. Okay, but then 100 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:39,479 Speaker 1: I guess not that long ago. I mean within the 101 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 1: last few years. I'm like, you know what, I'm gonna think, 102 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:43,839 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get my own house because like I need 103 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:45,920 Speaker 1: my own apartment or something when I'm out there, because 104 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 1: I need my own space. And then I think my 105 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 1: mom started to pick up on like what I was 106 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:49,560 Speaker 1: putting down. 107 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 2: Would I need to bang when I'm hinting. 108 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:56,839 Speaker 1: You know, you know, come on? And then I think 109 00:04:57,200 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 1: for whatever reason, she's like, well then I wouldn't see 110 00:04:59,080 --> 00:05:01,480 Speaker 1: as much of you, so tell you what like, and 111 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:04,480 Speaker 1: you gotta man, my parents' house is not like one 112 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 1: long hallway in everyone's room, like their how their bedroom 113 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 1: is on another is another part of the west. It's 114 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 1: in the west, west right right, and so like it's 115 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 1: very possible for me to have guests come and go 116 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:19,360 Speaker 1: and nobody would even know they were there. So at 117 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:21,719 Speaker 1: some point she shifted to like, basically, just don't let me. 118 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:23,240 Speaker 1: I just don't want to know about it, Like, do 119 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 1: whatever you want to do, but don't let me find 120 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:28,240 Speaker 1: out about it. And so I have, I have, but 121 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:30,159 Speaker 1: I would just say it's a regular occurrence because the 122 00:05:30,200 --> 00:05:31,720 Speaker 1: other thing is when I'm out there, it's it's an 123 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:33,720 Speaker 1: explanation that you have to give that we're going back 124 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 1: to my parents' house and I'm forty three years old. 125 00:05:35,920 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 1: You know, I have to explain to people why that is. 126 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 1: And the visual that everyone gets in their head is 127 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 1: like the Brady Bunch where everyone's bedrooms are like next 128 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:45,760 Speaker 1: to each other, and I'm sneaking homegirl in, you know, 129 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 1: from the club to hook up or whatever. I don't know. 130 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:51,719 Speaker 1: I mean, you guys, would you guys hook up in 131 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:54,080 Speaker 1: your parents' house? Now? I mean, would would you hook 132 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:56,000 Speaker 1: up in your house with your dad? Ruvio? And you're 133 00:05:56,040 --> 00:05:57,719 Speaker 1: married and everybody knows what you guys are up to. 134 00:05:57,760 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 1: I mean, you're about to have another kid. 135 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:02,159 Speaker 2: They've at least on it twice. 136 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:07,040 Speaker 1: Record. Would you would you do it in your dad's house? 137 00:06:07,160 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 1: I mean because you were staying there for a night 138 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 1: and you just couldn't you couldn't wait. 139 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:13,159 Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean because we would we would be staying 140 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 7: in my childhood bedroom. 141 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:19,599 Speaker 1: Like so it's it's technical thing, like technically my room. Still, 142 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:25,279 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. It's his house. Yeah, but I. 143 00:06:27,200 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 7: Would be more comfortable doing it at my parents house 144 00:06:30,200 --> 00:06:31,200 Speaker 7: than a friend's house. 145 00:06:31,240 --> 00:06:32,520 Speaker 1: I would never think. 146 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:35,840 Speaker 7: I would never your friends like if I stayed over 147 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 7: at Jason Brown's house. 148 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 1: And be like, hey, oh no, I don't get it on. 149 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:43,360 Speaker 2: Any of that. 150 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:46,720 Speaker 1: That's that you could just have sex at your friend's house. Oh, 151 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 1: but you're uncomfortable at your parents house. 152 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:49,599 Speaker 8: Me. 153 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:51,920 Speaker 5: Way, we talk about sex though, Like my friends know 154 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 5: I'm sectually active, like my I don't talk about that 155 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:55,440 Speaker 5: with my parents, right. 156 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 1: I'm not. 157 00:06:56,080 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 2: I'm not upstairs now. 158 00:06:59,400 --> 00:07:02,200 Speaker 1: My old boss, probably one of my best bosses ever. 159 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:04,480 Speaker 1: Now he's a Friend's name is Bruce. And you guys remember, 160 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:07,040 Speaker 1: not that long ago, I went down to South Florida 161 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:10,120 Speaker 1: to visit Old Bruce, Yes, Bruce Logan, the legend. He 162 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 1: runs some radio stations down there, and he has this 163 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:16,040 Speaker 1: very sort of infamous little compound of his. I don't 164 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:17,640 Speaker 1: know how the hell he made so much money, because 165 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 1: I mean, he's way richer than me, which I'd like 166 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:23,320 Speaker 1: to figure out how. But anyway, he has this little 167 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 1: compound and part of it is like this little casita thing. 168 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:28,680 Speaker 1: It's like a bedroom that's just detached from the house 169 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:31,200 Speaker 1: and that's it. It's a bedroom and a bathroom, but 170 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:34,240 Speaker 1: it's I forget what he calls it, like some kind 171 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 1: of cabana or whatever it is. Anyway, in there is 172 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:40,239 Speaker 1: it's like a little house, and it's it's separated from everything, 173 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 1: so you could do whatever you wanted in there and 174 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 1: he wouldn't care, and nobody would know. But I'm there, 175 00:07:44,560 --> 00:07:47,400 Speaker 1: and there's a little guest book in there that you sign, 176 00:07:47,520 --> 00:07:49,080 Speaker 1: you know, if you stayed in the house or whatever. 177 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:54,120 Speaker 1: And so I'm I'm in the bed of this casita 178 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 1: one morning and I'm reading the guest book, going, these 179 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:59,040 Speaker 1: people screwed in this bed. These people screwed in this bed, 180 00:07:59,120 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 1: These people screwed in this because I just figured, like 181 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 1: I know these people and I know that they would 182 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:05,240 Speaker 1: have done it. That was weird. I didn't need to 183 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:07,960 Speaker 1: see like a rundown of who's done what where I 184 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 1: am at that exact moment. So I guess it's like 185 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 1: a famous room. So it's like the boom Boom room, 186 00:08:12,640 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 1: like you know what's gonna happen if you stay in 187 00:08:14,160 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 1: that room. But I also didn't need to know, because 188 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 1: now I have a visual in my mind, like, oh, 189 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:20,480 Speaker 1: I knew these two people, well, they had sex here. 190 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:24,120 Speaker 1: I didn't need it. So maybe the guest book wasn't necessary. 191 00:08:24,160 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 1: Maybe we don't put a guest book in the room 192 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:29,800 Speaker 1: where everybody hooks up, right, I guess I don't know. 193 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:33,320 Speaker 1: I see inventory of that. Hey, Nicole, how you doing? 194 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:33,840 Speaker 1: Good morning? 195 00:08:34,920 --> 00:08:36,079 Speaker 2: Hi, Good morning. 196 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 6: Hi. 197 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:38,520 Speaker 1: You say it's part of the thrill to do in 198 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 1: somebody else's house. I mean, it may be thrilling, but 199 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:42,880 Speaker 1: we don't care about what they think, is what you're saying, 200 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:44,320 Speaker 1: naughty girl, Oh. 201 00:08:44,280 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 2: Well yeah, totally. 202 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:49,079 Speaker 9: It's like, you know, since we're not under twenty one anymore, 203 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:51,160 Speaker 9: and you know, part of the thrill of drinking when 204 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 9: you're not twenty one. 205 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 2: Is like super exciting. 206 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:54,520 Speaker 9: It's like, well, I guess I'm gonna get that thrill 207 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 9: by getting on in one of my friend's houses. 208 00:08:58,760 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 1: I guess. So if I Cole comes over to the 209 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:03,720 Speaker 1: house with Nichole's husband or boyfriend, a girlfriend or whatever, 210 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 1: we can just assume that Nicole is going to figure 211 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 1: out a way to do it. 212 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 2: One hundred percent. 213 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:11,480 Speaker 9: And if I disappear for like fifteen minutes, just don't. 214 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:12,640 Speaker 2: Even bother ask me where I was. 215 00:09:13,960 --> 00:09:16,280 Speaker 1: What's happening? So, Nicole, what happened? You can't come over 216 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:19,400 Speaker 1: by yourself? That means that, like there's a lucky recipient 217 00:09:19,440 --> 00:09:21,400 Speaker 1: within the confines of the home. I mean, is that 218 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:23,040 Speaker 1: what it means I should go to a party with you? 219 00:09:24,360 --> 00:09:27,079 Speaker 2: I mean, Doug, right, Oh. 220 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 6: All right, well I look for it, but your husband 221 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:33,320 Speaker 6: never mind, Like yeah, when you have kids, it's like 222 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 6: you're not doing it at home because the baby's right 223 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 6: there like awake all the time. 224 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:38,679 Speaker 9: And so the second you get to get out of 225 00:09:38,679 --> 00:09:40,320 Speaker 9: the home, let's go to our friend's house. 226 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:44,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, right, and you're doing it when she's married. You 227 00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:45,440 Speaker 2: can do it at my house. 228 00:09:46,840 --> 00:09:49,800 Speaker 1: It's like Thursday at six o'clock and either knock dog 229 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:51,840 Speaker 1: and here's Nicole come over with her husband, Like, what 230 00:09:51,880 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 1: are you doing here? Can you use at home? Oh 231 00:09:58,840 --> 00:10:01,080 Speaker 1: my god, it's exactly Nicole again to have. 232 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 2: They are goals? 233 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:06,800 Speaker 1: All right, okay, all right, Nicole. I like you, but 234 00:10:06,880 --> 00:10:08,400 Speaker 1: you have a husband, So I guess I'm not invited. 235 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:09,040 Speaker 1: Have a good day. 236 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:11,439 Speaker 2: Thanks love you guys. 237 00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:15,320 Speaker 1: Wouldn't be the first time I would be invited. But anyway, Hey, Rusty, 238 00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:17,760 Speaker 1: how do you do? Hey? 239 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:18,240 Speaker 10: How's it going? 240 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:19,080 Speaker 8: Uh? 241 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:23,040 Speaker 1: Rusty? How do we feel about getting it on in 242 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:26,240 Speaker 1: our friends' homes when we stay you know, I don't know, 243 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:28,480 Speaker 1: or even family for the holiday, or we're guests in 244 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:30,360 Speaker 1: people's homes? How do we feel about getting it on 245 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:33,080 Speaker 1: in the guest room of a house that is not ours? 246 00:10:33,559 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 10: It's a case by case bases, you gotta. It really 247 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:40,439 Speaker 10: depends on the people how respectful they are. Uh are 248 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 10: they going to be cleaning my sheep at the end? 249 00:10:42,559 --> 00:10:42,640 Speaker 3: Like? 250 00:10:42,679 --> 00:10:45,360 Speaker 10: Am I gonna have sweaty sheep? How much do these 251 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:49,120 Speaker 10: people smell? I've had situations really jumps up to the 252 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 10: entire house after and you know, because you walk in 253 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:55,840 Speaker 10: front of the room and you're like, oh, that's I 254 00:10:55,880 --> 00:10:58,600 Speaker 10: know what's going on in there that across the room, 255 00:10:58,600 --> 00:11:01,240 Speaker 10: we can smell the same thing. I have an overly 256 00:11:01,440 --> 00:11:07,800 Speaker 10: cousin who broke a sixty year old bet bye, are 257 00:11:07,800 --> 00:11:09,000 Speaker 10: you going to cast property? 258 00:11:09,040 --> 00:11:09,280 Speaker 8: Damn? 259 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:18,200 Speaker 1: A lot of emotion from rusty emotions. This is my 260 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:21,440 Speaker 1: great grandmother was born in this bed. Okay, look what 261 00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:24,600 Speaker 1: you want, but. 262 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:27,599 Speaker 7: Shouldn't you be clean the sheet? 263 00:11:28,040 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. 264 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:31,000 Speaker 2: You knew the position they broke your bed in. 265 00:11:31,120 --> 00:11:32,719 Speaker 8: You're not too much No I was. 266 00:11:33,559 --> 00:11:34,840 Speaker 10: I'm spitballing. 267 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 1: Oh god, yeah, well, I mean Russy does have a 268 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 1: camera install in the room, but it's it's not weird 269 00:11:39,480 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 1: during the day. Thank you, we love you. Okay, So 270 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:47,680 Speaker 1: I don't, but I don't. I'll strip the bed, but 271 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:49,959 Speaker 1: I don't clean the sheets. And sometimes I don't even 272 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 1: strip the bed because I like make the room look 273 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:53,640 Speaker 1: like when I was last time I was at this 274 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 1: guy's house, Bruce, I tried to make the thing look 275 00:11:56,080 --> 00:11:57,839 Speaker 1: like I was never there. And if they want to 276 00:11:57,840 --> 00:11:59,080 Speaker 1: come in, when they're going to come and strip the 277 00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:01,080 Speaker 1: sheets whenever they want. My problem is if you strip 278 00:12:01,120 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 1: the sheets and leave this big pile of crap everywhere, 279 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:06,040 Speaker 1: then it's almost like they're required to clean that right now. 280 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:08,400 Speaker 1: Like me, if I walk past that room and there's 281 00:12:08,480 --> 00:12:10,200 Speaker 1: just a big pile of stuff, now I have to 282 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:12,760 Speaker 1: clean it right now. Unlike if you put it back 283 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:14,960 Speaker 1: the way you found it, maybe they can leave it 284 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:16,600 Speaker 1: for a day or two before they go in there 285 00:12:16,600 --> 00:12:18,160 Speaker 1: and you know, clean it, you know what I mean? 286 00:12:18,440 --> 00:12:18,640 Speaker 9: Hmm. 287 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:22,280 Speaker 1: So, I like, I made every effort to like put 288 00:12:22,280 --> 00:12:25,040 Speaker 1: the bed back exactly the way that you almost wouldn't 289 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:26,960 Speaker 1: have even known that I found it. Other people will 290 00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:28,959 Speaker 1: just take everything they touched and put it in the 291 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:30,600 Speaker 1: middle of the bed, there's this big pile, and then 292 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:33,679 Speaker 1: they'll leave, and apparently that's etiquette. I don't do that. 293 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:36,200 Speaker 1: I make it look like almost like I took pictures 294 00:12:36,240 --> 00:12:38,400 Speaker 1: of it ahead of time and put it exactly the 295 00:12:38,440 --> 00:12:39,760 Speaker 1: way that it was, And then when you want to 296 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:41,200 Speaker 1: go in there and clean it, you can do it, 297 00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:42,960 Speaker 1: or you could just be you know, gross and not 298 00:12:43,080 --> 00:12:44,760 Speaker 1: ever clean it and not tell anybody. I was in there. 299 00:12:44,760 --> 00:12:48,880 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, nasty, But I was by myself, so it 300 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:53,240 Speaker 1: couldn't have been that crazy. Well it could have, right, yeah, yeah, 301 00:12:53,240 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 1: it could have. Actually, Yeah, waiting at the phone, he's 302 00:12:55,200 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 1: new blogs next Sobd Shelley with money the entertainment reports 303 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:02,120 Speaker 1: all in the way A friend show next right here, 304 00:13:03,120 --> 00:13:05,400 Speaker 1: like we're writing in our diaries, except we say him 305 00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:08,120 Speaker 1: a loud We called him blogs and Jason Brown take 306 00:13:08,160 --> 00:13:08,800 Speaker 1: it away. 307 00:13:08,640 --> 00:13:11,880 Speaker 8: Thank you, dear blog. So this is where I need 308 00:13:11,920 --> 00:13:14,959 Speaker 8: some advice from my non only children in the room, 309 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:16,040 Speaker 8: which is everybody. 310 00:13:16,040 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 1: Actually I'm the only only child's room. 311 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:22,520 Speaker 8: So I'll preface this with So, my boyfriend Mike is 312 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:25,560 Speaker 8: very much like loves to work, right, like, loves to 313 00:13:25,600 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 8: do manual labor. So on the weekends, we're always doing projects, right, 314 00:13:29,800 --> 00:13:32,199 Speaker 8: there's always and I say, oh, it's my weekend of 315 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 8: like lifting heavy things, right, like, I'm always we're lifting 316 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:39,000 Speaker 8: a car lift and we got a new door this weekend, 317 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:41,200 Speaker 8: so I'm lifting a door. And he's very much like 318 00:13:41,320 --> 00:13:43,120 Speaker 8: we could do things ourselves right where it's like a 319 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:45,760 Speaker 8: normal person would be like, I'll have a door delivered 320 00:13:45,760 --> 00:13:49,920 Speaker 8: to my house because it's on a palette, right, He's like, no, 321 00:13:50,080 --> 00:13:52,080 Speaker 8: we'll get a car trailer and we'll load it up 322 00:13:52,080 --> 00:13:54,320 Speaker 8: and we'll ratch just trap it down. Like this is 323 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 8: the type of how my weekends normally are, right, not relaxing. 324 00:13:57,440 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 8: I'm lifting heavy stuff. So I'm like you know what. 325 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:01,440 Speaker 8: She was a little more of a chill day. Let 326 00:14:01,440 --> 00:14:03,880 Speaker 8: me go to my parents' house. They're home, they're watching football, 327 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:07,080 Speaker 8: like they normally have very chill Sundays. So I go there, 328 00:14:07,240 --> 00:14:10,280 Speaker 8: I sit down. I'm not sitting down for two minutes. 329 00:14:10,320 --> 00:14:12,800 Speaker 8: And my dad's like, oh good, you're here. You can 330 00:14:12,840 --> 00:14:15,160 Speaker 8: help me rearrange the front room because the Christmas tree 331 00:14:15,200 --> 00:14:16,320 Speaker 8: is gone now, so now I got. 332 00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 1: To move the couch. 333 00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:19,400 Speaker 8: I was like, this is where I really wish that 334 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 8: I had a sibling. Yes, like do this because it's 335 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:26,520 Speaker 8: always me, right, Like it's always I need to do 336 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:28,360 Speaker 8: this and this and help us with this. And I 337 00:14:28,440 --> 00:14:30,240 Speaker 8: love my parents and I'll do whatever. But it's like 338 00:14:30,600 --> 00:14:32,680 Speaker 8: I just want to deal. I'm not lifting heavy things, 339 00:14:32,760 --> 00:14:34,280 Speaker 8: you know what I mean. So I came to like 340 00:14:34,320 --> 00:14:36,920 Speaker 8: hang out, and this is what happens. So there's nowhere 341 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:37,360 Speaker 8: to escape. 342 00:14:37,400 --> 00:14:40,280 Speaker 1: You have to go like a subway, literally hide in 343 00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:43,400 Speaker 1: the corner and eat a eat a turkey sandwich so that 344 00:14:43,440 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 1: nobody asked you to lift or do anything. 345 00:14:45,280 --> 00:14:46,840 Speaker 8: Right. This is why I hide in my car or 346 00:14:46,880 --> 00:14:49,040 Speaker 8: I fly by myself to places to like finally get 347 00:14:49,040 --> 00:14:49,480 Speaker 8: some peace. 348 00:14:49,560 --> 00:14:49,720 Speaker 1: Right. 349 00:14:50,120 --> 00:14:54,200 Speaker 8: Totally like made me start thinking like okay, like when 350 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:57,160 Speaker 8: they're siblings, is it like split fifty to fifty when 351 00:14:57,160 --> 00:14:58,840 Speaker 8: it comes to these type of shores or is it 352 00:14:58,880 --> 00:15:02,680 Speaker 8: more like someone just up picking up all the you know, tasks. Anyway, 353 00:15:03,040 --> 00:15:07,240 Speaker 8: it's usually yeah, yeah, you choose you one person. 354 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:11,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, it kind of depends on the task too. Between 355 00:15:11,600 --> 00:15:13,920 Speaker 1: my sister and me. But my brother in law, now 356 00:15:14,000 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 1: we kind of make him do most of it. Like 357 00:15:16,200 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 1: my mam will asks camp. I don't know why, like 358 00:15:18,320 --> 00:15:20,680 Speaker 1: I don't, but but I will say it's it's true. 359 00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:22,600 Speaker 1: Like now when I go home, there tends to be 360 00:15:22,800 --> 00:15:25,440 Speaker 1: a longer and longer list of things that need to 361 00:15:25,440 --> 00:15:28,040 Speaker 1: be done that quote unquote tall boy can do. That's 362 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:30,320 Speaker 1: what she calls me, because I don't need a ladder 363 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:32,280 Speaker 1: for it, like to change lights and stuff like that. 364 00:15:32,280 --> 00:15:33,560 Speaker 1: Like I don't have to do it with the ladder, 365 00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:35,880 Speaker 1: so I get to do it. Yeah exactly. But and 366 00:15:35,920 --> 00:15:37,760 Speaker 1: you know what, some of the stuff I don't want 367 00:15:37,800 --> 00:15:40,000 Speaker 1: my parents doing at this point, Like I don't necessarily 368 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:42,280 Speaker 1: need them climbing a ladder to change a light, so 369 00:15:42,320 --> 00:15:47,000 Speaker 1: I'll do it. Yeah callous, she calls me bubblicious bubba. 370 00:15:47,720 --> 00:15:55,200 Speaker 1: But when it comes to like tasks, I'm called tall boy. 371 00:15:54,760 --> 00:15:59,840 Speaker 1: No exactly exactly, and then yeah, so it's yeah, but yeah, 372 00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:01,640 Speaker 1: do you have to do it for your dad rufio 373 00:16:01,720 --> 00:16:03,000 Speaker 1: or is it your brother's you? Right? 374 00:16:03,120 --> 00:16:05,640 Speaker 7: No, it's actually my brother. Because my brother lives at 375 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 7: my parents' house. He's the closer one, so he's helping 376 00:16:09,880 --> 00:16:13,360 Speaker 7: my dad in the backyard this do the lights in 377 00:16:13,160 --> 00:16:15,560 Speaker 7: the law And I'm like, and I'll be like, oh, sorry, 378 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:17,400 Speaker 7: I got action, Like I don't got time, you know 379 00:16:17,440 --> 00:16:17,880 Speaker 7: what I'm saying. 380 00:16:17,920 --> 00:16:20,360 Speaker 8: So so I need a kid, and I need a 381 00:16:20,400 --> 00:16:23,640 Speaker 8: sibling to little bit my parents. Yeah right, you are 382 00:16:23,680 --> 00:16:26,200 Speaker 8: your own home. Yes, yeah, Duke is not pulling his 383 00:16:26,240 --> 00:16:29,240 Speaker 8: weight my sibling. 384 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:31,840 Speaker 1: The other thing I start to think about, Jason is 385 00:16:32,080 --> 00:16:34,360 Speaker 1: and it will be you obviously because it's just you. 386 00:16:34,440 --> 00:16:36,360 Speaker 1: But as my parents get older, I begin to wonder, 387 00:16:36,360 --> 00:16:38,240 Speaker 1: like who's going to be the caregiver, Like who's going 388 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:40,360 Speaker 1: to be the one who's going to be the one 389 00:16:40,360 --> 00:16:42,320 Speaker 1: that has to like keep them in line? And because 390 00:16:42,320 --> 00:16:44,960 Speaker 1: you kind of got to my parents are strong and 391 00:16:45,000 --> 00:16:47,160 Speaker 1: a little bit stubborn, and I think as they get older, 392 00:16:47,160 --> 00:16:49,240 Speaker 1: it's becoming more and more difficult for me to sort 393 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:51,000 Speaker 1: of influence things that I want them to do, like 394 00:16:51,240 --> 00:16:53,520 Speaker 1: take care of themselves and live a long time and 395 00:16:53,560 --> 00:16:55,960 Speaker 1: things like to have a will to live, you know, 396 00:16:56,040 --> 00:16:59,360 Speaker 1: things things like that. But I don't I don't see 397 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:01,680 Speaker 1: a world where my sister relocates her life to do it. 398 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:03,000 Speaker 1: So I think I'm going to have to do it, 399 00:17:03,040 --> 00:17:05,040 Speaker 1: and you're definitely gonna have to do it. Yeah, Hey, 400 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:07,160 Speaker 1: Caitlin and your family. When your sister gets older, when 401 00:17:07,160 --> 00:17:09,280 Speaker 1: Bella gets older, who will be the one? It'll be you? 402 00:17:09,400 --> 00:17:12,080 Speaker 5: Right, I mean it depends on the task, but yeah, 403 00:17:12,080 --> 00:17:14,040 Speaker 5: it's usually the oldest for everything. 404 00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:16,120 Speaker 2: Like I think she's always going to be the baby. 405 00:17:16,880 --> 00:17:17,359 Speaker 2: But I am my. 406 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:19,679 Speaker 5: Dad's only child, and so that is like a lot 407 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:22,040 Speaker 5: of stress on me because like I just want someone 408 00:17:22,040 --> 00:17:24,119 Speaker 5: to marry this man so that I don't have to, 409 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:26,840 Speaker 5: you know, because I'm always worried about him and having 410 00:17:26,840 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 5: to do so. I mean, he doesn't have me lift things, 411 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:31,639 Speaker 5: but you know, God forbid, something happens and it's all 412 00:17:31,680 --> 00:17:32,879 Speaker 5: on me, right for sure? 413 00:17:33,240 --> 00:17:36,080 Speaker 1: So is your sister like you and that she like 414 00:17:36,160 --> 00:17:37,960 Speaker 1: wants to care for everybody? 415 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:42,439 Speaker 5: Okay, so she's the sweetest, but she's she's always well, no, 416 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:45,960 Speaker 5: when you're the baby you're always going to be the baby, right. Literally, 417 00:17:46,080 --> 00:17:47,800 Speaker 5: my mom thinks she can't lift her head up on 418 00:17:47,800 --> 00:17:50,720 Speaker 5: her own, so. 419 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:51,600 Speaker 1: So it's like it's like main character energy for Bella. 420 00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:54,640 Speaker 5: Then your sister, yeah, oh yeah, Like like she got 421 00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:57,679 Speaker 5: my old room and like my bedroom that I was, 422 00:17:57,800 --> 00:17:59,600 Speaker 5: you know, moved off to is very tiny. I call 423 00:17:59,640 --> 00:18:02,159 Speaker 5: it Harry Potter's closet, and there's no bathroom, so like 424 00:18:02,200 --> 00:18:04,000 Speaker 5: the bathroom. We have to share the bathroom and she'll 425 00:18:04,040 --> 00:18:06,240 Speaker 5: be like, no, this is like my bathroom. I'm like, girl, 426 00:18:06,400 --> 00:18:10,800 Speaker 5: this is my room, my bathroom. Like we both don't 427 00:18:10,840 --> 00:18:13,119 Speaker 5: live here, so we are sharing it. 428 00:18:13,960 --> 00:18:17,320 Speaker 1: Oh wow, yeow, Paulina, what about you and your sister? 429 00:18:17,359 --> 00:18:19,040 Speaker 1: Who's gonna wind up? I mean, I guess you're closer 430 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:20,120 Speaker 1: because she lives in Michigan. 431 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 6: So yeah, she ran off to the old the old Deed, 432 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:23,400 Speaker 6: the old Detroit. 433 00:18:23,480 --> 00:18:24,760 Speaker 2: So I think it is going to be me. 434 00:18:25,040 --> 00:18:26,600 Speaker 1: But like it's kind of a favor for a favor. 435 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:29,840 Speaker 6: I need her now to babysit, so then I'll babysit 436 00:18:29,880 --> 00:18:30,760 Speaker 6: my mom when I'm older. 437 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:33,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I feel like marthe is going to 438 00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:35,439 Speaker 1: be it the first. VIN don't think she's ever going 439 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:38,159 Speaker 1: to age, because she hasn't. I've known her for almost 440 00:18:38,200 --> 00:18:40,960 Speaker 1: a decade, I think, and she hasn't. She looks exactly this. 441 00:18:41,119 --> 00:18:42,520 Speaker 1: I think she looks younger than she did when I 442 00:18:42,600 --> 00:18:44,760 Speaker 1: met her. I'd like to know what sort of virgin's 443 00:18:44,760 --> 00:18:47,720 Speaker 1: blood she's drinking, or os epics she's taking or whatever, 444 00:18:47,800 --> 00:18:49,600 Speaker 1: because I want all of that, mix it all together. 445 00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:52,600 Speaker 1: But I can see her being a little tough as 446 00:18:52,640 --> 00:18:55,359 Speaker 1: she gets older, to like sort of for you to say, hey, 447 00:18:55,480 --> 00:18:57,080 Speaker 1: this is how we're going to go this is going 448 00:18:57,119 --> 00:18:57,480 Speaker 1: to go down. 449 00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:00,720 Speaker 6: Yeah, you don't really tell Marta what to do, like ever, 450 00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:03,520 Speaker 6: so I'm like really afraid of like the older Marta 451 00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:05,480 Speaker 6: who like has lived you know what I mean, and 452 00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:06,680 Speaker 6: has nothing to lose at that point. 453 00:19:07,520 --> 00:19:10,680 Speaker 1: No, boy, what about you, who's gonna wind up? I mean, 454 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:12,360 Speaker 1: I guess at this point it would be you taking 455 00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:14,359 Speaker 1: care of your sister? Yeah, rules reversed. 456 00:19:14,560 --> 00:19:17,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, So with us, my her youngest son, though he's 457 00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:19,600 Speaker 3: he kind of runs all of us. But I'm the 458 00:19:19,680 --> 00:19:22,120 Speaker 3: most vocal, but like he does all the actual work, 459 00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:24,200 Speaker 3: So I always have an opinion in something to say, 460 00:19:24,320 --> 00:19:26,800 Speaker 3: but I'm never the one that actually got all the work. 461 00:19:26,840 --> 00:19:29,000 Speaker 3: He usually falls on Cameron, who's the baby boy, and 462 00:19:29,080 --> 00:19:31,520 Speaker 3: he lives closest to her, so he's the favorite, right. 463 00:19:31,560 --> 00:19:33,600 Speaker 3: I was told that, Yes, he is a family he's 464 00:19:33,640 --> 00:19:37,359 Speaker 3: a family favorite. He's all of our favorites and the favorite. 465 00:19:37,400 --> 00:19:39,000 Speaker 1: No more after you saying that you're going to have 466 00:19:39,000 --> 00:19:40,160 Speaker 1: sex in your house. 467 00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:43,040 Speaker 3: Actually did not say that. So if you're just tuning in, 468 00:19:43,200 --> 00:19:47,520 Speaker 3: this man is lying on Monday, you're already lying. 469 00:19:48,640 --> 00:19:53,760 Speaker 1: Spoken spoke. Don't believe. Don't believe you. Certainly couldn't go 470 00:19:53,840 --> 00:19:56,840 Speaker 1: back on the iHeart radio app He did say that. 471 00:19:57,800 --> 00:20:00,480 Speaker 1: Certainly could not do that because that just once it 472 00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:04,920 Speaker 1: said it. It doesn't live anywhere else. That's right online forever. 473 00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:09,800 Speaker 1: It's the French show. We're about to do it. I'm 474 00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:11,680 Speaker 1: on the edge of my seat after the tees appen, 475 00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:15,840 Speaker 1: I have no idea what's going to happen next Fresh show. 476 00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:20,600 Speaker 1: It's to be and the teesmasters a little harder that 477 00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:23,160 Speaker 1: it looks an't. I mean, baby, you got a down pad. 478 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:25,440 Speaker 1: You need to teach me your way. It's okay, yeah, 479 00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 1: take it away, kicks, cor what you got. Judge Keeky 480 00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:30,159 Speaker 1: all right. 481 00:20:30,160 --> 00:20:33,440 Speaker 3: On her order in this court room. Hit the gavel 482 00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:36,320 Speaker 3: now look it says, Hey, Ki Ki, please tell me 483 00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:39,160 Speaker 3: if I'm the a hole here, because I've been dating 484 00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:42,800 Speaker 3: my boyfriend for three years and unfortunately I broke up 485 00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:46,080 Speaker 3: with him on Christmas. Here's why, she says. My boyfriend 486 00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:49,080 Speaker 3: shares two kids with his ex wife, and the day 487 00:20:49,119 --> 00:20:51,800 Speaker 3: before Christmas, he asked me if I would be okay 488 00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:54,240 Speaker 3: with him sleeping over at his ex's home so that 489 00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:57,280 Speaker 3: he can wake up on Christmas morning with his kids. 490 00:20:57,840 --> 00:21:00,359 Speaker 3: I said yes at first, but then later on on 491 00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:02,560 Speaker 3: Christmas Eve, I expressed to him that I was not 492 00:21:02,760 --> 00:21:06,119 Speaker 3: comfortable with the plan. He told me not to worry 493 00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:10,080 Speaker 3: and went on anyway. So on Christmas morning, I woke 494 00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:13,480 Speaker 3: up alone while his ex wife was posting photos of 495 00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:16,240 Speaker 3: him and the kids on Facebook looking like the big old, 496 00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:19,440 Speaker 3: happy family. I was so heartbroken, and when he came 497 00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:22,760 Speaker 3: back with his kids for Christmas evening, I packed my 498 00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:26,160 Speaker 3: bags and left the house and we've been separated ever since. 499 00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:29,560 Speaker 3: My mom says, I overreacted, But what do you guys think? 500 00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:35,399 Speaker 1: Well, and I'm going to call you guys at the jury, Kiki, 501 00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:39,159 Speaker 1: I never saw that one coming. Yeah, you just never know. 502 00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:41,480 Speaker 1: Now you're the judge, I mean, what do you what 503 00:21:41,560 --> 00:21:44,160 Speaker 1: do you think, Uh, what do you think? 504 00:21:44,400 --> 00:21:47,760 Speaker 3: Well, you know, I tried to be mature, and we 505 00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:51,320 Speaker 3: know how that works. But you know, as a kid, 506 00:21:51,560 --> 00:21:54,159 Speaker 3: my parents separated, you know, when I was young, and 507 00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:57,560 Speaker 3: for the first couple of Christmases after they separated, my 508 00:21:57,720 --> 00:22:00,160 Speaker 3: dad would come home to the house and sleep over 509 00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:02,879 Speaker 3: on Christmas evening so that we can wake up together 510 00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:05,760 Speaker 3: on Christmas Day. So I could relate to this. But 511 00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:08,760 Speaker 3: I did realize that as a kid, when I would 512 00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:10,159 Speaker 3: go to wake my parents up to get ready to 513 00:22:10,200 --> 00:22:12,560 Speaker 3: open my gift, they were indeed in the same bed 514 00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:16,000 Speaker 3: and his shirt was all she was in her nightgown, 515 00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:18,600 Speaker 3: So like, I don't know what happened that night, but 516 00:22:18,680 --> 00:22:22,359 Speaker 3: they definitely slept in the same bed. So in my mind, 517 00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:25,320 Speaker 3: it's a girlfriend. We've been together a couple of years. 518 00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:25,960 Speaker 1: Years. 519 00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:28,679 Speaker 3: If I tell you that I'm not comfortable with something, 520 00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:30,320 Speaker 3: wouldn't you take. 521 00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:31,560 Speaker 1: My feelings into consideration. 522 00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:33,480 Speaker 3: It seems like this guy was like, Okay, well you 523 00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:36,440 Speaker 3: know you're not comfortable, all well, bye, and he went 524 00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:39,159 Speaker 3: to sleep at his ex's house. Now, I understand one 525 00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:41,159 Speaker 3: to be together for the kids, So maybe what I 526 00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:43,280 Speaker 3: think he should have done is invite her to sleep 527 00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:43,800 Speaker 3: over as well. 528 00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:45,639 Speaker 1: We'll all just sleep at the exit. It's making one 529 00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:48,400 Speaker 1: day happy family. That was my next question. I don't 530 00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:50,600 Speaker 1: know if if you had identified but how long they've 531 00:22:50,600 --> 00:22:52,639 Speaker 1: been together. But if it had been any period of 532 00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:55,760 Speaker 1: time that's significant, A few months. I mean, if it's 533 00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:57,879 Speaker 1: long enough that you're living together with the other person 534 00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:01,440 Speaker 1: and you're celebrating holidays. I assume that you that that 535 00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:04,440 Speaker 1: person knows the kids, in which case, why couldn't she 536 00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:06,479 Speaker 1: have spent the night too and been part of all 537 00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:08,119 Speaker 1: of it as opposed to being left out? Why does 538 00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:09,160 Speaker 1: she have to be left out? 539 00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:12,080 Speaker 3: In my spidy senses, tell me that she was left out. 540 00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:14,680 Speaker 3: She was left out because he was putting it down 541 00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:17,879 Speaker 3: on his axe. And you know, so I think she 542 00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:20,399 Speaker 3: has every right to be uncomfortable with this and to 543 00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:23,480 Speaker 3: make her stance, which is to leave. It sucks, but 544 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,520 Speaker 3: you know, clearly this guy is putting his family first, 545 00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:29,280 Speaker 3: as he should. But when you're dating somebody it knew, 546 00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:31,000 Speaker 3: you have to take their feelings into consideration. 547 00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:34,880 Speaker 1: That's just my take. Yeah, I agree, I agree with you. Yeah, 548 00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:38,480 Speaker 1: I agree with you. She so she broke up with them? Yeah, 549 00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:41,359 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't hear it. Look, I don't know 550 00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:43,879 Speaker 1: if it's break up a bull, but it's be angry 551 00:23:44,040 --> 00:23:47,800 Speaker 1: able to be madable. I mean, because I don't know that. 552 00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:51,320 Speaker 1: I don't know that it necessarily means that there's an 553 00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:54,400 Speaker 1: intimate relationship between the two of them, but it definitely 554 00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:56,840 Speaker 1: means that for whatever reason, she's not being included in 555 00:23:56,920 --> 00:24:00,399 Speaker 1: the unit, right And and I don't know why, because 556 00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:03,920 Speaker 1: that's not sustainable, you know, And I spend the night. 557 00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:05,800 Speaker 1: Why couldn't you get his ass up early and driven 558 00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:06,200 Speaker 1: over there. 559 00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:12,000 Speaker 3: I'm so like, that's why I think it's a little 560 00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:15,960 Speaker 3: sus just like she does, because I just remember my parents, like, yeah, 561 00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:18,000 Speaker 3: the intention was for him to wake up with me 562 00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:20,440 Speaker 3: on Christmas. And yes, kids, a lot of kids wake 563 00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:22,440 Speaker 3: up before the parents on Christmas Day because the parents 564 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:25,639 Speaker 3: are tired from doing whatever they do at night helping Santa. 565 00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:29,720 Speaker 3: But you know, to sleep over is a bit extreme 566 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:32,879 Speaker 3: in my opinion, and most times they wake up in 567 00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:33,520 Speaker 3: bed together. 568 00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:37,199 Speaker 1: I will say, when you're dating somebody else, especially as 569 00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:40,000 Speaker 1: the way you described it was like the other couple, 570 00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:42,960 Speaker 1: the woman who's upset is living with the guy, yeah, 571 00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:45,200 Speaker 1: in another house. Well, I mean, I think once you're 572 00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:48,040 Speaker 1: at the point where you're officially dating someone else. I 573 00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:51,360 Speaker 1: think it's inappropriate to have sleepovers with the X. Now. 574 00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:53,840 Speaker 1: The only exception I would say would be something like 575 00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:56,080 Speaker 1: this where you share kids together. But man, I got 576 00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:58,560 Speaker 1: to be some boundaries and everyone's got to be comfortable 577 00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:00,879 Speaker 1: with it. And if this woman it's not comfortable with 578 00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:04,240 Speaker 1: her boyfriend spending the night with the ex, then that's 579 00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:07,440 Speaker 1: something that he needs to take very seriously. Like this 580 00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:10,080 Speaker 1: is like she gets a vote. Now if they're living 581 00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:12,920 Speaker 1: together and they're in a relationship, if she is uncomfortable 582 00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:15,560 Speaker 1: with him being there overnight, then he needs to come 583 00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,359 Speaker 1: up with a solution that makes her comfortable. Now she'sn't 584 00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:20,240 Speaker 1: comfortable with everything, that's a different thing. But like I 585 00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:22,359 Speaker 1: don't I don't blame her, Like why do you have 586 00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:24,159 Speaker 1: to say to night there? And why can't I be 587 00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:26,240 Speaker 1: a part of it? That's what she said yes in 588 00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:26,800 Speaker 1: the first place. 589 00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:30,159 Speaker 3: She said yes originally, right, but then she came back 590 00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:32,920 Speaker 3: to him that evening and said, I'm really not comfortable 591 00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:35,320 Speaker 3: with it. And she probably said yes because who wants 592 00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:36,679 Speaker 3: to be the bad guy the grinch? 593 00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:38,280 Speaker 1: Like you can't be with your kids on Christmas? 594 00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:40,560 Speaker 3: You can't, you know? So she probably felt a little 595 00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:42,920 Speaker 3: pressure and was like, okay, sure, But then after thinking 596 00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:45,159 Speaker 3: about it, she like, y'all gonna be making cookies and 597 00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:48,200 Speaker 3: rubbing and dubbing and drinking egg nog together, and I'm. 598 00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:01,200 Speaker 1: When I wake up on Christmas morning, all I want 599 00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:06,320 Speaker 1: to do is yeah, well, Nina, Nina, how you doing? God? 600 00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:08,480 Speaker 1: How are you? Man? When I think Santa Claus, I 601 00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:12,840 Speaker 1: get a little honey. Anyway, listen, what side? What do 602 00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:14,640 Speaker 1: you think? You just heard? The scenario in Keky's Court, 603 00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:17,320 Speaker 1: juge Key presented to us basically if you're just tuoting him. 604 00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:20,000 Speaker 1: This woman who wrote to Kekey's Court is upset because 605 00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:24,080 Speaker 1: her boyfriend wanted to spend the night at his exes 606 00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:27,280 Speaker 1: home so that he was there when the kids woke 607 00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:29,800 Speaker 1: up for Christmas, which is understandable, but she was not 608 00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:32,679 Speaker 1: included in this, didn't get to be part of Christmas 609 00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:35,520 Speaker 1: morning and wound up being you know, she had first 610 00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:37,520 Speaker 1: that it was okay, and then came back later and said, 611 00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:39,159 Speaker 1: I'm not comfortable with it. And he did it anyway? 612 00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:39,720 Speaker 1: What do you think? 613 00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:43,320 Speaker 4: Oh, he should have gone because once you go there, 614 00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:45,800 Speaker 4: she's your ex you know you're going to see where 615 00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:47,080 Speaker 4: I had the same. 616 00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:49,280 Speaker 2: Situation, my husband, my exit. 617 00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:56,760 Speaker 4: Had my husband then the weekend and we're broken up. 618 00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:58,920 Speaker 4: He had a girlfriend, but he said with the kids, 619 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:00,640 Speaker 4: but he also stayed in my bed. 620 00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:05,040 Speaker 1: No, no, Wow, So you guys, Okay, now, how long 621 00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:05,800 Speaker 1: have you been apart? 622 00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:09,000 Speaker 10: We were apart for like two years? 623 00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:12,720 Speaker 1: And were you guys still sleeping together regularly even though 624 00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:13,359 Speaker 1: he had moved on. 625 00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:15,640 Speaker 4: On and off. 626 00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:19,960 Speaker 1: Well, that sounds that sounds like a deeper issue. That 627 00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:23,040 Speaker 1: sounds like a little bit more of a cheating situation. 628 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:25,840 Speaker 1: I don't know that. I think that that's necessarily common 629 00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:28,200 Speaker 1: for everybody who's broken up with somebody who has kids. 630 00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:30,439 Speaker 1: I think some people break up they don't have sex anymore. 631 00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:33,520 Speaker 9: Well, some do, some don't. 632 00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:33,920 Speaker 3: Not. 633 00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:35,639 Speaker 1: Nina, though, Nina's if you. 634 00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:37,800 Speaker 4: Could stop it, I mean, if you could stop it 635 00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:41,399 Speaker 4: ahead of time, then you know jet's on the other person. 636 00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:43,760 Speaker 10: But I mean, if he's refusing that, you know her 637 00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:44,440 Speaker 10: he gets. 638 00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:46,320 Speaker 1: Went, even though she told him that not to go. 639 00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:47,520 Speaker 9: If he didn't feel fun. 640 00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:49,960 Speaker 1: About Yeah, okay, thank you, Nina, by the way, have 641 00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:52,760 Speaker 1: a great day. Thank you for listening you as well. 642 00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:56,200 Speaker 1: See I can see how that's an argument about the 643 00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:59,080 Speaker 1: kids and not about the ex but I also think 644 00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:02,720 Speaker 1: I can't say this enough when you're dating somebody, when 645 00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:06,240 Speaker 1: you choose to date another person and and like really 646 00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:09,680 Speaker 1: date them, then they'd get a vote in what you're 647 00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:12,040 Speaker 1: doing with to a certain extent. I mean, and again, 648 00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:14,520 Speaker 1: you can't be unreasonable. You can't be like, you cannot 649 00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:16,800 Speaker 1: spend Christmas with your kids. You cannot go over there. 650 00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:19,240 Speaker 1: I have to be there with you. Maybe not all that, 651 00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:21,600 Speaker 1: maybe the kids aren't that comfortable. I don't know, but 652 00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:24,640 Speaker 1: my point is there's a work around here that does 653 00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:27,919 Speaker 1: not include him spending the night at the house if 654 00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:30,680 Speaker 1: she's uncomfortable with that. Right, That's what I say. 655 00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:33,000 Speaker 3: I mean, one parent could get Christmas Eve, and then 656 00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:35,680 Speaker 3: the other parent can have Christmas Day or whatever. 657 00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:38,040 Speaker 7: But like rotate years, Like they could all sleep over 658 00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:39,440 Speaker 7: at her house right this year. 659 00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:41,400 Speaker 1: Next year, they're all over at their house next year. 660 00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:49,000 Speaker 1: So yeah, but yeah, Fred's show is on. Hey, good 661 00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:52,280 Speaker 1: morning everybody, Monday. We're glad you're here. At January eighth, 662 00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:57,160 Speaker 1: The Frend Show's on. Hi, Kaitlin, Hi, Hi, Jason Brown, Hi, Roofy, Hello, 663 00:28:57,680 --> 00:29:03,520 Speaker 1: Paul here, Hello, Good morning. Shelby's Shelley and turned Venamin, 664 00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:08,000 Speaker 1: Benjamin Paying bills win money all day today one thousand bucks, 665 00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:11,480 Speaker 1: thirteen chances every day to win starting today, So get 666 00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:13,400 Speaker 1: that money waiting hou the phone is new, and next, 667 00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:15,920 Speaker 1: why does somebody get ghost to the entertainment report? After that, 668 00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:16,479 Speaker 1: what's in there? 669 00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:19,760 Speaker 5: Kaitlin, I will tell you who asked Timothy Shalome for 670 00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:22,240 Speaker 5: a photo and Kylie Jenner said, Nope, you're not taking 671 00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:23,040 Speaker 5: a picture with my man. 672 00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:27,200 Speaker 1: Oh normally it's like the phone gets handed to the 673 00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:29,080 Speaker 1: girl I'm with to take your picture with that said, 674 00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:30,920 Speaker 1: and that always goes really well.