WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Who's The Friendly Ghost

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<v Speaker 1>Second date, up date. I want everyone in studio and

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<v Speaker 1>driving to close their eyes right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Jesse.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, if you're driving, just think out of all the

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<v Speaker 1>places in the world, where would be the worst to

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<v Speaker 1>have a first date.

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<v Speaker 2>You're taking me somewhere nice?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe next to an active volcano.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's pretty bad, kind of romantic.

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<v Speaker 1>Inside of an off brand Hooters off best called Alley's,

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<v Speaker 1>or maybe the radioactive playground at Chernobyl.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh oh, my date has three eyeballs if it's swing

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<v Speaker 3>moved by itself and one of our listeners says he

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<v Speaker 3>wishes he could have had his first date somewhere else,

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<v Speaker 3>but unfortunately he didn't really have a choice, and now

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<v Speaker 3>he needs our help.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's talk to Steve about it. Steve, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, thanks you guys for having me.

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<v Speaker 5>God.

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<v Speaker 2>I love when dates go wrong and people put blame

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<v Speaker 2>on something bigger than themselves. I appreciate that. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 3>Seat.

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<v Speaker 1>What was the name of the the woman that you

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<v Speaker 1>went out with?

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<v Speaker 4>I went out with Julie.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm always just assuming these days that you met

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<v Speaker 2>on an app.

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<v Speaker 4>We did, Yeah, we we matched about two months ago,

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<v Speaker 4>but our schedules just wouldn't match you up, okay, coming up?

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<v Speaker 4>And we finally settled on a date and suddenly the

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<v Speaker 4>day before I got dramatically sick.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, did it feels like the universe is telling

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<v Speaker 2>you not to go out with Julia?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Right right, but like so bad I ended up in

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<v Speaker 4>the hospital.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, are you okay? Now you're okay?

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<v Speaker 5>Now?

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<v Speaker 1>Right?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 1>Now okay, you said dramatically were you acting?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, that's the thing. From Julie's standpoint, it'd be

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<v Speaker 2>hard to believe that after a few months of like.

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<v Speaker 1>And then like, now I'm in the hospital.

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<v Speaker 4>Well yeah, so this is what happens. I messengered the

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<v Speaker 4>night before to cancel and I kind of explained why,

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<v Speaker 4>and her response was, well, I'll come visit you.

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<v Speaker 2>What she was trying to call your bluff.

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<v Speaker 4>That might have been part of it, obviously, like I

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<v Speaker 4>wasn't bluffing, But all I was thinking is like, this

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<v Speaker 4>is like easily the worst I've ever looked.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, did you agree to have her come visit you?

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<v Speaker 4>I told her no, let's please do another day. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>but She's like, I don't care. I want to come

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<v Speaker 4>and see you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh. Now I'm thinking what Alexis said, Like she doesn't believe.

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<v Speaker 2>You that you sorry to hang out with someone sick you.

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<v Speaker 1>Would want to do an So did she show up?

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<v Speaker 4>She showed up?

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<v Speaker 2>What did you do to prep for that? You're like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>can I have a washcloth to wash my face? Like

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<v Speaker 2>you're not showered?

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I would do. I want to get the fancy,

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<v Speaker 1>fancy hospital gown on.

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<v Speaker 2>Extra pudding or whatever. I mean, what was that moment

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<v Speaker 2>like when she walked in the room.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, part of it was like, oh, this is cool,

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<v Speaker 4>we're finally seeing each other. The other part of it

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<v Speaker 4>was just like me being purely mortified.

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<v Speaker 1>And it sucks if you ever get excited on the date,

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<v Speaker 1>like you can't hide it because the heart monitor is

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<v Speaker 1>going to be like.

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<v Speaker 6>B b b by, she's beautiful and it's like your

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<v Speaker 6>heart's going crazy?

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<v Speaker 1>Are very thin? Disgusting? I'm sorry about that. How did

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<v Speaker 1>it go?

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<v Speaker 4>So? I mean it was it was nice, It was sweet.

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<v Speaker 4>She showed up with a gift. It was a book

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<v Speaker 4>of like a hundred unbelievable.

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<v Speaker 1>Facts because she didn't believe that you were.

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<v Speaker 5>Good.

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<v Speaker 1>Liked that's a nice gesture.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, something to help pass the time in that we

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<v Speaker 4>split a hospital meal together in my room.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, insurance. I mean, were you able to hold a

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<v Speaker 2>conversation with her? I don't know how sick you were.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean we you know, we were like she

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<v Speaker 4>read some of like the facts in the book and

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<v Speaker 4>we talked about that. The most embarrassing thing was like

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<v Speaker 4>the staff was kind of like harassing me about like

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<v Speaker 4>if she was my girlfriend. You know, they were doing

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<v Speaker 4>the whole like, ooh is this your girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 2>So that probably was kind of awkward. How long did

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<v Speaker 2>she stay for?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean it was a couple of hours? Wow, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>she told them it was actually our first date. The

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<v Speaker 4>nurses then like went and took some flowers from like

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<v Speaker 4>a dead lady's room.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh could you just be'd be a vacant room?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it has the condolence's note still on it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>So was there any like, I mean besides them giving

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<v Speaker 2>you a hard time and being funny, was there like

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<v Speaker 2>a spark? It'd be hard to have some sort of

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<v Speaker 2>like just make chemistry in that situation.

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<v Speaker 4>So I thought we had a good time, and I

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<v Speaker 4>thought the experience like kind of bonded us very unique

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<v Speaker 4>you know for sure, and that like one hundred percent

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<v Speaker 4>we would go out again. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if she's willing to come and visit you

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<v Speaker 1>on a first date while your bedridden in the hospital,

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<v Speaker 1>that speaks volumes about like where she thinks this relationship could.

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<v Speaker 2>Go wild to me to think that you haven't been

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<v Speaker 2>in contact or gotten another date with her, And how.

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<v Speaker 1>Could she complain like, oh, he wasn't that funny? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you were in the hospital.

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<v Speaker 5>What did she say?

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<v Speaker 1>How long ago was that?

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<v Speaker 4>So that was it was a few weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, And we've.

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<v Speaker 4>Been texting up until this past week and now she's

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<v Speaker 4>like hardly responding at all. Huh, And like I'm out

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<v Speaker 4>of the hospital. I was hoping to see her for

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<v Speaker 4>a normal date And honestly, I just don't know what

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<v Speaker 4>the deal is. And the only thing I can think

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<v Speaker 4>is maybe I really did look like I was in

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<v Speaker 4>as bad of shape as I was.

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<v Speaker 2>That's understandable. And you were texting after if.

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<v Speaker 1>You take a really cold person to come into a

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<v Speaker 1>hospital and like you hospital, or maybe she got sick

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<v Speaker 1>with whatever you had, and now she's in the hospital,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna have to do your second date.

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<v Speaker 2>There have options for him, and none of them are

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<v Speaker 2>your fault so far.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so we're going to come back. We're going to

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<v Speaker 1>call Julie for you and try and get you your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on second date update. I'm just super glad that

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<v Speaker 1>Steve pulled through and made it all Steve, and we

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<v Speaker 1>got to get him back. Get I'm here, ready, clear, clear,

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<v Speaker 1>because your timing is really off on this doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 1>We saved them. Second day back up and running with

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<v Speaker 1>our listener Steve, who is fully alive and his first

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<v Speaker 1>date happened in his own hospital bed. But Steve matched

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<v Speaker 1>with Julie a couple months before this. They had to

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<v Speaker 1>keep pushing back their date because their schedules weren't matching up,

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<v Speaker 1>and the night before they were due to meet each other,

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<v Speaker 1>he ended up getting super sick and had to go

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<v Speaker 1>to the hospital.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and so she just wout him back down.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm coming to visit you there, and showed up, brought

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<v Speaker 1>a book for him to read. They shared a meal.

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<v Speaker 2>Together, even told the nurses that it was their first date, so.

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<v Speaker 1>They thought that was super cute, and stole some flowers

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<v Speaker 1>from the deceased to make it extra special for.

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<v Speaker 2>Them, don't it's at that point.

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<v Speaker 1>No, yeah, it doesn't belong to anybody. Yeah, but now

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<v Speaker 1>Steve is better, he is out of the hospital. Except

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<v Speaker 1>he's not getting a call back from Julie anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe she only liked sick boys.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, have you ever thought of that, Steve?

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<v Speaker 4>You know that must be what it is. I better

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<v Speaker 4>throw myself in front.

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<v Speaker 5>Of the car.

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<v Speaker 2>You have too much color in your cheeks.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, Hey, guys, so did you meet any like super

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<v Speaker 1>sick hot dudes in there? Maybe you need to work

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<v Speaker 1>on your sniffles and your coughs a little bit before

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<v Speaker 1>we reach out. That's a theory.

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<v Speaker 2>I bet there's a I bet there's a good reason

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<v Speaker 2>she's not calling you back.

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<v Speaker 7>We can fix this, I feel like, or, if not

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<v Speaker 7>a good reason, at least a reason whatever it is,

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<v Speaker 7>when you find out, let's call her right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Hi, we're looking to talk with Julie.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, this is Julie.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Julie. You're on a radio show right now called

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, Julie, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh okay, yeah, what's this about?

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<v Speaker 1>This is about a segment we do called a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update a really saucy sexy segment. I should add

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how it was.

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<v Speaker 2>For you, though, probably not, probably not in her case.

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<v Speaker 1>We heard a little bit about a date that you

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<v Speaker 1>went on recently with a guy named Steve. Okay, Steve,

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<v Speaker 1>you know from the hospital Steve.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, I remember.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, can we just ask did you show up to

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<v Speaker 8>the hospital because you were trying to call him out

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<v Speaker 8>like you thought that he was faking.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>No, oh no, I mean you're just like a genuinely

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<v Speaker 1>caring person. We don't.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I was a little bit worried about him

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<v Speaker 5>because we had become friends talking online.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, you had a couple of months of like

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<v Speaker 1>chemistry and that's good. So what did you think of

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<v Speaker 1>Steve when you saw him?

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<v Speaker 7>I r L I mean that, yeah, the interaction with

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<v Speaker 7>with old Steve over there.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I was, I was liking him.

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<v Speaker 2>It's good.

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<v Speaker 5>I just I don't know if it's going to work out.

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<v Speaker 5>And uh, it has nothing to do with him.

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<v Speaker 2>So it has nothing to do with him. What does

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<v Speaker 2>it have to do with sorry to pry, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>mean he's curious.

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<v Speaker 5>I had a friendly ghost appear like a Casper situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Haunting, No Casper situation.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like when there's a guy that you've been seeing,

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<v Speaker 5>we think you have future plans with suddenly ghosts and

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<v Speaker 5>stop talking to you. And then he's on your d

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<v Speaker 5>ms on Instagram and then you know he likes your stories,

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<v Speaker 5>but like he doesn't say anything to you, and why

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<v Speaker 5>would you.

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<v Speaker 2>Put any energy into that.

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<v Speaker 8>I mean, obviously those guys always come back around as

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<v Speaker 8>they can like sniff out that you have somebody interested

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<v Speaker 8>in you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Brook, speaking from personal experience, he's definitely gone back.

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<v Speaker 1>They're the guys haunted.

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<v Speaker 8>Let me tell you, They're the guys that only want

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<v Speaker 8>you when they can't have you.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I thought he was really cool and we dated

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<v Speaker 5>for a couple of weeks and he's supplying coffee for

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<v Speaker 5>different places and businesses and I love coffee.

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<v Speaker 1>And you're still dating this guy and love his coffee.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why she's not dating him. He's just like floating

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<v Speaker 1>around her Instagram.

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<v Speaker 2>So you're you're just putting Yeah, you're putting Steve off

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<v Speaker 2>because you want to keep the door open for coffee boy.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I know that sounds kind of rude, but if you

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<v Speaker 5>want to sum it up that way. I guess it's true.

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<v Speaker 1>So he's this other guy. He's just like liking your

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<v Speaker 1>Insta stories and things like that. Has he actually said

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<v Speaker 1>anything to you?

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<v Speaker 5>No, he just wants me to know that he sees me.

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<v Speaker 2>No, this guy sucks. You need to run from this.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we need to get some backup on this too.

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<v Speaker 1>And we actually do have like a friendly ghost who's

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<v Speaker 1>floating on the other phone line right now. His name

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<v Speaker 1>is actually Steve.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, he's a real person.

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<v Speaker 1>What what? Yeah, the way the segment works is we

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<v Speaker 1>have Steve waiting on the other line, listening to the conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>waiting to jump in. Yeah, I mean, little scared Steve

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<v Speaker 1>be there.

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<v Speaker 4>I am so confused right now. So you're basically ghosting

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<v Speaker 4>me for a friendly ghost.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I guess that's one way to put it.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, I mean that is how you put it.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, I did not mean to hurt your feelings, but

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<v Speaker 5>I'm in a weird situation and I don't know what

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<v Speaker 5>to do.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so you don't dislike me. You actually like me though.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I think you're a good person.

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<v Speaker 1>But here's the thing, Julius, but you don't distribute coffee

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<v Speaker 1>to a bunch of businesses.

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<v Speaker 8>So you haven't seen and hung out with Steve outside

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<v Speaker 8>of a hospital bed. I mean, if you can walk

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<v Speaker 8>away from a hospital room on a first date and

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<v Speaker 8>say that was really great, can you imagine what it

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<v Speaker 8>would be like if you were pulling full health.

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<v Speaker 5>Like I said before, this isn't really about Steve. This

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<v Speaker 5>is about this friendly ghost that I'm dealing with, and

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<v Speaker 5>I'm kind of waiting around to see how it plays out.

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds like you're dealing with a ghost problem. And it's

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<v Speaker 1>not even the dead lady from the hospital whose flowers

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<v Speaker 1>magically ended up in your room. That's a totally different

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<v Speaker 1>ghost who's been looming around. There's a lot of.

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<v Speaker 2>Ghosts in the second it's haunted.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just wondering, like if I was to hang around

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<v Speaker 4>on your Instagram and like a bunch of your stories

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<v Speaker 4>and then after I did shoot for a while, like

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<v Speaker 4>that's something you would like?

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<v Speaker 5>No, ew, No, that's creepy.

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<v Speaker 4>What is literally the difference between me doing it and

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<v Speaker 4>this other guy?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, he's my ex, Like you and I haven't been

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<v Speaker 5>anything real enough for you to friendly ghost me, Like

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<v Speaker 5>you just be a creepy ghost.

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<v Speaker 1>Wants to be creepy ghosts.

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<v Speaker 4>What if I ended up in the hospital again, who's

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<v Speaker 4>gonna come and see me?

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<v Speaker 2>Strategy? Come on, Steve, is funny.

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<v Speaker 1>You could bring the guy with the coffee business over

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<v Speaker 1>to the hospital and take him there. Why turn him

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<v Speaker 1>into a real ghost, like, oh my god, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I keep thinking the only time the coffee guy's

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<v Speaker 2>gonna call you is when he's sad and lonely.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's a perfect place to get really sad.

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<v Speaker 8>I just gotta hold out.

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<v Speaker 4>So I'm just I'm just supposed to wait for this

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<v Speaker 4>guy to fully ghost you again before.

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<v Speaker 5>Well he's not. He's not going to fully ghost me.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the time. Okay, have you actually talked to

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<v Speaker 1>him yet?

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<v Speaker 5>Not yet, but he's getting closer.

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<v Speaker 1>But Steve, I know that you're trying really hard here

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<v Speaker 1>to get Julie bad, But it sounds like this doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>have anything to do with you. This is totally her deal.

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<v Speaker 1>She's just trying to figure her own stuff out.

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<v Speaker 2>So and I mean, honestly, she's gonna be single for.

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<v Speaker 1>A while, so it's probably pointless for me to even

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<v Speaker 1>ask this question, But I'm gonna do it. Anyway because

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<v Speaker 1>there's a ghost whispering in my ear to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>He's saying, you and Steve should go out on another

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<v Speaker 1>day and we'll pay for it.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know as close to yes.

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry, I'm sorry. I just this is all very the end, Like,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't mean to rush you, Julie, but I've got

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<v Speaker 4>an ambulance on the other line. They just want to

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<v Speaker 4>know where I'm at.

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<v Speaker 1>Dated in the hospital again.

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<v Speaker 5>I just don't think it'd be fair to you, Steve,

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<v Speaker 5>like I'm not in this situation.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I mean that's honesty right there.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm sorry, man, this isn't going to work out.

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<v Speaker 1>We're not going to be able to get you a

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<v Speaker 1>second date.

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<v Speaker 4>This is okay. I'd rather deal with this now than

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<v Speaker 4>like if we were dating.

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<v Speaker 2>That's true, that's true. That's a good attitude.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't give up, hope, man, Try to haunt her in

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<v Speaker 1>a month or two.

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<v Speaker 5>And then.

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<v Speaker 4>I know I know the game plan now.

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<v Speaker 1>A couple of months, man, good luck.

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<v Speaker 5>Don't do that, Steve. I told you it's creepy, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Looking Jeffrey in the morning, I've never heard the dating

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<v Speaker 1>term friendly ghost before. Like being caspired where if you

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<v Speaker 1>missed it, that's where a former love interest who ghosts

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<v Speaker 1>you comes back and is quietly hanging around your like

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<v Speaker 1>Instagram and Insta stories, liking things, just to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>that you know they're there.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm gonna tell you this has been happening long

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<v Speaker 2>before Instagram was even invented. Okay, totally.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you were friendly ghosting people by hanging outside of

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<v Speaker 1>their work.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's just like those exes.

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<v Speaker 6>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody has those exes that just like linger. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 2>they don't do it because they want anything, They just

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<v Speaker 2>want control.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, jose you mentioned saying like, oh this is me,

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<v Speaker 1>how many haunts would you say that you're currently doing

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<v Speaker 1>at the moment. I think me and a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>girls were haunting each other back where you're like you like,

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<v Speaker 1>but no one's like actually said high yet.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's like I see you and then like they

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<v Speaker 3>go on a date and you like that and oh

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<v Speaker 3>that's petty.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because we've been liking each other. I didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>know two ghosts could haunt each other. I didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>either till today.

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<v Speaker 2>Supernatural world is hard.

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<v Speaker 1>We're more attuned to what's going on in the real

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<v Speaker 1>world with real people, So if you have an issue

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<v Speaker 1>with that in your dating life, we can try and help.

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<v Speaker 1>Email the show. We'll call that person who's not calling

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