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Speaker 1: Would I be the a hole if I got my

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Speaker 1: family friend fired for telling my mom that I was pregnant.

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Speaker 2: That's a situation. That's a situation and a situation. No, not talking.

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Speaker 2: Jim Tan Laundry, Jersey Shore.

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Speaker 1: I twenty female, recently found out I'm pregnant, which came

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Speaker 1: as a surprise because I'm on birth control. I made

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Speaker 1: an appointment with an ob that's close to me with

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Speaker 1: high ratings to confirm the pregnancy, and when I walked in,

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Speaker 1: I was immediately concerned because the woman behind the desk

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Speaker 1: is a friend of my mom's, which is like concerning

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Speaker 1: because like what if you don't want to keep the baby?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, and if you're in.

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Speaker 1: A conservative state, Like they're not super close. I hadn't

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Speaker 1: seen her in years, but they've known each other since

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Speaker 1: high school and I know they sort of keep in touch.

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Speaker 1: I didn't feel ready to tell anyone other than my

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Speaker 1: boyfriend and obviously doctor about the baby, so I was

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Speaker 1: freaking out a little bit, but my boyfriend assured me

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Speaker 1: that she wouldn't be able to say anything to my

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Speaker 1: mom about the baby without my consent, which is like

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Speaker 1: you know, doctor patient privilege right right?

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Speaker 2: That makes sense. That makes sense.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and especially again especially in you know states like

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Speaker 1: like Texas where abortion laws are really.

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Speaker 2: Not on a billboard, not on a billboard.

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Speaker 1: When I got home, my mom was waiting for me

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Speaker 1: because she already knew about the baby. Apparently her friend

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Speaker 1: had texted to congratulate her before I could even make

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Speaker 1: it home.

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Speaker 2: So she didn't even like think she was like ratting

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Speaker 2: on her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she was like, oh, congrats on the new baby.

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Speaker 1: Apparently her friend had texted to congratulate her before I

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Speaker 1: could even make it home. Everything is going to be okay,

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Speaker 1: and my mom is being supportive, But honestly, I'm pissed

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Speaker 1: at this lady and I want to report her to

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Speaker 1: the ob Yeah, my family is supportive of the baby,

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Speaker 1: but if she had opened her big mouth to someone

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Speaker 1: with a different kind of family, the outcome could.

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Speaker 2: Have been really bad. True.

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Speaker 1: My boyfriend agrees with me but thinks it's kind of

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Speaker 1: caron ish. And on the other hand, my mom thinks

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Speaker 1: her friend crossed a few lines, but to report her

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Speaker 1: and potentially put her employment at risk would be a

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Speaker 1: pretty ahole move. I think my mom's friend is an

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Speaker 1: a whole and a potentially dangerous one at that would

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Speaker 1: I be the a hole for reporting her big mouth

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Speaker 1: to her employer?

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Speaker 2: Wow, that's it. Honestly for me, this is a tough one.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it is tough. It is tough because like a

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Speaker 1: family friend and nothing bad happened, nothing bad happened. What

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Speaker 1: if it was someone else?

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Speaker 2: I just I just don't like the fact of, like,

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Speaker 2: even though she had the purest of intentions, I don't

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Speaker 2: like the fact that it's like a medical professional telling

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Speaker 2: other people like.

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Speaker 1: My Yeah, that's something supposed to be confidential. That's a

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Speaker 1: breach of patient you know, doctor confidentiality. Definitely, And if

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Speaker 1: you're one of your employees, is doing that, like as

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Speaker 1: a doctor, I would want to know. But the confusing

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Speaker 1: part is it's a family friend and like nothing bad

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Speaker 1: happened to you. Yeah, but it's also like, you know,

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Speaker 1: you're probably gonna make things really uncomfortable.

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Speaker 2: Oh for sure, I mean yeah, I mean it'll be

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Speaker 2: it'll be an on care. It doesn't sound like they're

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Speaker 2: super close anything, but like but still, yeah, it won't

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Speaker 2: be responsible for anyone getting fired.

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Speaker 1: Is no, not like a fun thing to do, unless

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Speaker 1: unless you're a Karen and you love that kind of stuff.

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Speaker 2: Well, so what what would you say, dude? That's so hard. Honestly,

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Speaker 2: I would be Initially, I would be pissed. I would

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Speaker 2: be super pissed. And maybe in that moment I just

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Speaker 2: like pull the trigger and and call them and tell them,

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Speaker 2: but maybe not. I don't know. I would have to

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Speaker 2: I would have to sit on it. But honestly, I

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Speaker 2: could I could see my sol I could see myself

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Speaker 2: doing it until.

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Speaker 1: See, like my rationale is, you know what, it didn't

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Speaker 1: hurt me, right, yeah, but but it.

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Speaker 2: Could hurt someone else.

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Speaker 1: In the interest of the greater good and of that

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Speaker 1: person that really could have their life messed up by

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Speaker 1: something like this, she should, uh, she should be talked to,

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Speaker 1: But I don't think it necessarily goes through talking to

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Speaker 1: the employer. I think she could give like a warning

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Speaker 1: or a talk directly to that family friend that's the

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Speaker 1: responsible thing. Hey, this was not okay for you to do. Luckily,

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Speaker 1: my parents are supportive, but if you do this again,

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Speaker 1: you could get fired.

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Speaker 2: H and you know, look.

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Speaker 1: Out for your best look out for your self interest

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Speaker 1: but also the self interro but but also the interests

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Speaker 1: of the patients. And I think that would actually be

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Speaker 1: as good of a behavior preventive measure as calling the employer.

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Speaker 2: That's the mature thing to do, or you could just

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Speaker 2: blow up her freaking life. Gorgeous Bay, Yeah that's a story.

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Speaker 1: But if you want to make sure you don't blow

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Speaker 1: up this great relationship we have with you, the listen there.

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