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Speaker 1: What's up everyone, Welcome back to the second half Thatcher

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Speaker 1: Happy Hour.

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Speaker 2: We are here again with our lovely.

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Speaker 1: Couple, lovely engaged couple, Charity and Dotton.

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Speaker 2: So let's get go with all right, how geat?

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Speaker 1: Because I want to be like how you guys feeling,

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Speaker 1: but I know how you guys are feeling, So you

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Speaker 1: want to kick this thing out?

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Speaker 3: Yeah off?

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Speaker 1: Just for our listeners, if you do like me, I'm

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Speaker 1: sure you could find me somewhere else.

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Speaker 2: I'm this is my last podcast. I'm probably gonna get fired.

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Speaker 1: So I apologize, but yeah, you guys can find me,

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Speaker 1: you know, Joe Instagram.

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Speaker 4: That's it for you. That's it for you. You're kind off.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 5: So we ended off last episode recapping the meet the

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Speaker 5: family and the next time we saw in the episode

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Speaker 5: that we have to get into is your guys last

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Speaker 5: night together and the adorable treasure hunt that Dalton put

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Speaker 5: together for Charity.

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Speaker 6: Let's talk about.

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Speaker 2: It, so sweet, Dotten, such a sweet.

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Speaker 3: You can basically I guess talk about like how you

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Speaker 3: like came up with that, and then I just will

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Speaker 3: talk about how thank that necklace.

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Speaker 7: But we'll start, Yeah, you know, I think going into that,

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Speaker 7: I wanted to do something that kind of reminded her

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Speaker 7: of the journey that we've had and this fairy tale

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Speaker 7: that we we've just been able to live through up

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Speaker 7: until that point. And what better way to do that

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Speaker 7: than like just kind of track the journey that we

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Speaker 7: took from night one until that night. And you know,

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Speaker 7: actually actually had to kind of like fight a bit

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Speaker 7: with some of the producers to get that that idea through.

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Speaker 7: They wanted something else that was a little bit more

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Speaker 7: like minimal, like it's usually simple, but I'm like, this

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Speaker 7: loves is simple, Like you got to you gotta do

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Speaker 7: some ride this girl and she's special. And so I

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Speaker 7: put a lot of thought into that over the next

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Speaker 7: couple of days, and I was I just had like

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Speaker 7: a moment, you know, initially, I'm wondering to do it outside,

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Speaker 7: like taking on the beach and like go like just try.

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Speaker 2: I could just see I could just see two producers.

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Speaker 2: He thinks it's a fairy.

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Speaker 8: Tale, but the treasure's got to stay in the room.

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Speaker 7: So yeah, that was kind of the compromise, was like, Okay,

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Speaker 7: we can do something that's probably a better idea anyways.

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Speaker 7: And so yeah, like the idea came like last last day.

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Speaker 7: I was like, I think that's what it is. And

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Speaker 7: then everybody was so gracious and getting that putting that

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Speaker 7: It was perfect in every way. It's it's it's very me.

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Speaker 7: It's very like how I would want to have approached it.

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Speaker 7: And so that was just the idea and the motivation

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Speaker 3: To at that necklace because I was like, oh, it's

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Speaker 3: just a necklace, and then like of course you open

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Speaker 9: I feel like that you keep called back to your

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Speaker 9: date at the drive, and yeah, it definitely was, because

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Speaker 9: it's like that's where we like kind of recapped our

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Speaker 3: Those moments and then I was just like now I

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Speaker 3: have like this like peace forever, but also like well

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Speaker 3: at that point, but yes, I have you for ever.

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Speaker 4: So it's super sweet.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm glad you liked it.

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Speaker 2: I love it, and that was that. Joey's was before that, correct, Yes,

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Speaker 2: so that was it, and then yeah, Don was the night.

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Speaker 3: It's crazy because Don was literally the night before proposal.

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Speaker 6: Insane.

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Speaker 10: It's so much stress, so charity you obviously it's very difficult.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's almost impossible not to have feelings for

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Speaker 4: I think you say that one more time.

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Speaker 3: It is because people don't get that, but like this

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Speaker 6: Yeah, no, I'm assuming it is.

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Speaker 2: After you left that treasure hunt day, what were you feeling?

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Speaker 6: Did you know?

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Speaker 6: After that date? H Yeah, I told you.

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Speaker 7: I remember after doing that, even me, I felt so

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Speaker 5: We see you say this is the first time there's

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Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, so yeah, but that's that's that was really

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Speaker 7: which is probably good, you know, probably better like.

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Speaker 6: For me, And and again it made me want it

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Speaker 6: so much more in the next day. And then you know,

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Speaker 3: So after leaving his day, I want to say, like

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Speaker 3: I don't like saying goodbye to people, and I don't

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Speaker 4: It's just so very difficult exactly.

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Speaker 3: But it's like no, like yes, Joey, like obviously we

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Speaker 3: So no, I didn't throw out the lingo like I

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Speaker 3: doing that, So that I don't know was definitely real.

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Speaker 5: Like so then just to clarify because I do think

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Speaker 5: our listeners will be curious about that. So that moment

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Speaker 5: else here I have a big decision to make tomorrow

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Speaker 5: really came from then just a moment of like transparency

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Speaker 2: Were at in that moment. Correct.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, And for the further rector, like I the whole

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Speaker 7: I think I've told you right, Like I could try

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Speaker 4: Like if you didn't feel that, it's okay.

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Speaker 3: Did you think that, like, did you have those thought

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Speaker 7: That didn't start happening until Fiji and then especially the

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Speaker 7: I couldn't imagine you not picking me, and in my

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Speaker 7: You know what I'm saying, Like that would have been

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, at the end of this show, there's always

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Speaker 6: Did your head ever go there? Never?

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Speaker 7: That's the one thing that actually never even came close. Like,

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Speaker 3: I'm not like Journey, I think, you know, because I

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Speaker 4: What are you trying to do.

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Speaker 3: To this happy couple right now that's not doing it?

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Speaker 11: Was like charity, he was there for the reason.

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Speaker 4: I have no weapons to prove it, but I'm proud there.

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Speaker 3: But no, I think it helped because I think just

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Speaker 4: Does not watch this type of ship. And then like

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Speaker 3: It just was all like it was truly all fate,

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Speaker 4: Know how long casting is.

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Speaker 3: And then like the fact that he didn't even know.

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Speaker 4: I was like I love this, Like there was like

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Speaker 1: And I kind of figured that knowing that you didn't

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Speaker 6: I mean, I need going back to like going on

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Speaker 7: So the full story about like what made me decide

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Speaker 7: everybody was random. I thought every Bachelor bacherette was a

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Speaker 7: it'd be dope if she was the bachelorette, not knowing

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Speaker 7: that couldn't.

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Speaker 5: Be literally like that, and then she was chosen.

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Speaker 10: I was like, oh, this might be rare, like literally because.

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Speaker 7: I always thought that, so like to give you reference,

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Speaker 7: but that would have not I'm sorry, Like Bachelor, it's

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Speaker 7: hard enough.

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Speaker 6: Green time is hard enough.

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Speaker 7: I don't I can imagine being the lead and having

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Speaker 6: Yeah, don't.

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Speaker 2: Let's let's jump to let's jump to engagement. Should we

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Speaker 5: I have so I don't know what this is from,

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Speaker 5: but you know the line with great power comes great responsibility?

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Speaker 4: What is that from?

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Speaker 11: It's like a fairy tale.

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Speaker 5: Yes, great, yeah, I know, we just saw the new one.

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Speaker 6: His grandpa, his grandpa, yeah, his grandfather.

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Speaker 3: Job.

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Speaker 5: That is the line that comes to mind on this

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Speaker 3: A little bit, it quite literally is like the best

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Speaker 4: Just an emotional it's an emotional goodbye.

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Speaker 3: And I didn't think I don't want to say, I didn't

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Speaker 4: But it's like you almost.

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Speaker 3: Can't help it because again, like I said, I do

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Speaker 2: To face this.

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Speaker 4: It's like this is like the biggest and the last

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Speaker 3: But luckily, like Joey is just like very understanding and

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Speaker 4: And if anyone ever is in this position, you would understand.

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Speaker 5: I don't know how anyone can sit at home and

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Speaker 4: Extremely. I thought you did a really good job.

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Speaker 5: I liked when you stopped and you were like, I

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Speaker 11: Give you, you.

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Speaker 5: Know, disclosure and these words. And yeah, it was really

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Speaker 2: It's fine, We're done with.

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Speaker 6: The next Bachelor.

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Speaker 2: I can't wait to watch, but Joey, you know what

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Speaker 6: Can't talk about Charity and joe no.

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Speaker 2: Longer exists, no more thing.

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Speaker 6: If you like them, you don't like them anymore.

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Speaker 2: But we can't wait to watch Joey's journey as the

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Speaker 3: Wait for his journey, and we will send Jerry Oliver well, Jerlie.

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Speaker 3: This is so much respect for him, and I told

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Speaker 3: I know he's gonna crush it.

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Speaker 5: Yes, and this was just one step on his journey.

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Speaker 4: Listen, I was in that's last yeah, last season. So

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Speaker 1: Were you did when you walked out for the engagement?

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Speaker 1: Did you know it was you?

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Speaker 6: No? Yeah, I could see I see that.

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Speaker 1: I would see that watching it, I was like, he

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Speaker 3: I was like doing everything in my power to be

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Speaker 4: Was like, obviously that takes away from the magic.

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Speaker 3: But I was like, hey, I was like, how are

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Speaker 6: You see the smile in your face.

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Speaker 2: Your smile was so you like lit up the screen.

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Speaker 1: But when you did start talking, I was like, oh,

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Speaker 3: Correct, But obviously, like when he first walked out, I

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Speaker 4: And I got to be brotally fun.

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Speaker 3: I'm like I just said, and now this one I'm

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Speaker 3: I kept saying trust me, and he was just like.

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Speaker 4: I don't trust you.

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Speaker 8: I don't but until this rings on your finger, I

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Speaker 7: to date the day before.

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00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:42,879
Speaker 6: I had just learned about like the proposal when I

445
00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:43,960
Speaker 6: went to write it the day.

446
00:20:43,840 --> 00:20:46,240
Speaker 7: But so it's like trying to figure out, Okay, how

447
00:20:46,400 --> 00:20:48,040
Speaker 7: make sure my proposal is what I want it to

448
00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:49,920
Speaker 7: be right, So there's that fear going in your head

449
00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:52,520
Speaker 7: make sure it comes off right. But also the biggest

450
00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:55,720
Speaker 7: thing is, yeah, like you might get rejected. And again,

451
00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:58,280
Speaker 7: like I there was no doubt that I wanted to

452
00:20:58,359 --> 00:21:01,240
Speaker 7: leave with her, and that it harder to accept the

453
00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:02,240
Speaker 7: fact that I might not.

454
00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:04,399
Speaker 6: And so and again I talked about a.

455
00:21:04,400 --> 00:21:06,840
Speaker 7: Little bit in one of our one on one dates

456
00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:08,959
Speaker 7: where like there is this fear of failure that I

457
00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:11,080
Speaker 7: have and so I don't think about it. I'm like,

458
00:21:11,119 --> 00:21:12,879
Speaker 7: here I go, I might fall flat on my face.

459
00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:15,080
Speaker 7: I want this thing really bad, and you know, maybe

460
00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:17,600
Speaker 7: she might not want me. And she did give me

461
00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:21,520
Speaker 7: all the validation from start to finish throughout that I

462
00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:23,360
Speaker 7: could have that anyone could have ever asked for any

463
00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:26,199
Speaker 7: contestant on this show. But at that point it's not

464
00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:28,440
Speaker 7: a show and never really was for me, especially then,

465
00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:32,080
Speaker 7: and so it was very serious and knowing that you're

466
00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:35,160
Speaker 7: either going to be completely heartbroken and devastated or you're

467
00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:38,200
Speaker 7: going to be engaged. Those are two extremes either way

468
00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:41,320
Speaker 7: life changing. And so that's where the seriousness was came from.

469
00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:44,320
Speaker 7: And I'm still I don't know, like I think about today,

470
00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:47,040
Speaker 7: I'm like, do I I struggle whether I'm happy with

471
00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:47,800
Speaker 7: being that serious or.

472
00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:50,040
Speaker 4: I loved it.

473
00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:52,240
Speaker 3: Obviously it was hard for me, but I was like, you,

474
00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:55,879
Speaker 3: you're fine, Like I knew I essentially.

475
00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:57,320
Speaker 4: Technically at the power, but not even.

476
00:21:57,160 --> 00:21:59,480
Speaker 3: Because like again I was thinking like he might just

477
00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:01,439
Speaker 3: not even was because he might freak himself up.

478
00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:01,920
Speaker 4: I don't know.

479
00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:03,920
Speaker 6: I was straight. I was straight.

480
00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:06,040
Speaker 7: It was just in case, like you said, you just

481
00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:08,479
Speaker 7: don't know. In my heart, I felt like it was

482
00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:11,040
Speaker 7: me Like that would have been more hurtful if I

483
00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:15,000
Speaker 7: was like, Gid, you know.

484
00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:21,240
Speaker 5: And you're standing there like there's a zero percent chance

485
00:22:21,400 --> 00:22:23,119
Speaker 5: that I get broken up with today.

486
00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:24,200
Speaker 4: You're a little.

487
00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:27,680
Speaker 5: Delulo, like you have you have to like you have

488
00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:30,359
Speaker 5: to be aware that there's like a slight possibly you

489
00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:32,440
Speaker 5: don't know till you know exactly.

490
00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:33,080
Speaker 6: And It's a huge moment.

491
00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:35,560
Speaker 7: It's life changing, you know, and I just want to

492
00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:38,720
Speaker 7: just It's something I could not not take seriously, you know.

493
00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:40,919
Speaker 6: So you know that's how I'm struggling, Like should I've

494
00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:41,800
Speaker 6: been more like happy?

495
00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:45,160
Speaker 3: But I mean I do wish she's not I know,

496
00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:49,880
Speaker 3: But I will say when Joe and I got engaged,

497
00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:53,840
Speaker 3: I spoke first and he was so nervous to propose

498
00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:55,680
Speaker 3: me that he couldn't look at me.

499
00:22:56,040 --> 00:23:01,040
Speaker 5: And I almost stopped mid speech to say, allow, what

500
00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:02,359
Speaker 5: is going on?

501
00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:04,280
Speaker 11: Can you look me in the eyeballs?

502
00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:06,119
Speaker 4: And if you're gonna break up with me, do it

503
00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:06,639
Speaker 4: right now?

504
00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:08,680
Speaker 11: Because I was getting in my head.

505
00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:10,280
Speaker 4: I'm like, why won't this man look at me?

506
00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:13,679
Speaker 5: Like I'm confessing my heart and feelings and you're staring

507
00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:14,280
Speaker 5: at the ocean.

508
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:16,320
Speaker 4: I was getting so mad.

509
00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:19,119
Speaker 1: I was also going through I had a lot of

510
00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:21,600
Speaker 1: things thrown at me in that moment.

511
00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:22,440
Speaker 2: He had a big day.

512
00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:25,800
Speaker 6: It was super hot. I was really sweating.

513
00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:28,320
Speaker 2: I was nervous. I wring in my backpacket I don't

514
00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:29,400
Speaker 2: know she was gonna say yes.

515
00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:35,200
Speaker 11: I was like, oh my god, yes, I sympathize.

516
00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:37,719
Speaker 5: I sympathize a lot with how you acted. Now, but

517
00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:39,440
Speaker 5: I can't relate to you being like.

518
00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:42,879
Speaker 4: Are you being so serious? Just like I don't know,

519
00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:47,639
Speaker 4: give me a smile, you know something. Yeah, well you

520
00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:48,720
Speaker 4: got better than a smirk.

521
00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:52,920
Speaker 2: You got a ring. There goes.

522
00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:58,360
Speaker 3: I think you should tell them how you picked it out.

523
00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:02,200
Speaker 3: We didn't even talk about rings at all this whole

524
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:06,360
Speaker 3: time while we were like, in any conversation, nothing about

525
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:07,160
Speaker 3: rings came up.

526
00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 4: But obviously like the previous I was like, I just

527
00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:11,240
Speaker 4: want oval, like oval.

528
00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:13,600
Speaker 3: I don't care how it looks, but oval. But I

529
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:15,119
Speaker 3: guess you can cut because I was like I always

530
00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:16,280
Speaker 3: asked him. I was like, what did the other ones

531
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:16,639
Speaker 3: look like?

532
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:17,119
Speaker 2: I don't know.

533
00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:23,040
Speaker 7: I just but yeah, that was an interesting day again,

534
00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:25,199
Speaker 7: like kind of unknowing that that's how it went. So

535
00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:26,600
Speaker 7: I learned about the day before. I was like, I

536
00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:28,679
Speaker 7: guess I'm picking out rings. Never really had like a

537
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:31,679
Speaker 7: lot of I don't know, like rings. I'm always like

538
00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:35,320
Speaker 7: I don't know, you know, yeah, I don't know about us.

539
00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:36,480
Speaker 7: I'm like whatever, like rings.

540
00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:38,000
Speaker 2: When I saw the rings, I was like, which one's

541
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:38,760
Speaker 2: the most expensive?

542
00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:41,520
Speaker 6: Yeah? Literally that's where I was at. I was. I

543
00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:42,720
Speaker 6: was like, that's what it's gonna have to be because

544
00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:46,560
Speaker 6: like I knowledge but like knowing me.

545
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:49,000
Speaker 7: And like how like I like can be such a

546
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:51,720
Speaker 7: meaningful person, Like Neil Lane was perfect because when we

547
00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 7: got there, there was a reason and rhyme for every ring.

548
00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:57,040
Speaker 7: And so he goes through each one and explains each one,

549
00:24:57,440 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 7: and then he pulls out the first two when they're

550
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:01,119
Speaker 7: like really flashyther we're all like similar in size, but

551
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 7: some are more flashing others and the other two have

552
00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:05,520
Speaker 7: like all the cuts on the outside and they look great,

553
00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:07,280
Speaker 7: but I'm like, I don't know, it's not speaking to me.

554
00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:09,280
Speaker 7: And he pulls out the opal one and he's like,

555
00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:13,080
Speaker 7: this one's great because like the diamonds are in the center, right,

556
00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:15,439
Speaker 7: like that's where the it's beautiful on the outside, but

557
00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:18,040
Speaker 7: the inside is where a lot of the weight and

558
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:20,320
Speaker 7: like the beauty is. And then the way he was

559
00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:22,080
Speaker 7: describing and I was like, yo, this like.

560
00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 6: Did they give him like a she for like who

561
00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 6: cher he is?

562
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:27,399
Speaker 7: Because that's exactly how it described her. And before you

563
00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 7: finished the other ones, I just knew that was the one.

564
00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:30,960
Speaker 7: I was like, that's gonna be the one, Like there's

565
00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:32,159
Speaker 7: no way it gets better than that.

566
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:33,919
Speaker 6: He went through the other one and I was like, Yeah,

567
00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:35,359
Speaker 6: you don't need to you don't need to play this.

568
00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:37,679
Speaker 6: It's that done.

569
00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:38,960
Speaker 11: It's just a never ending.

570
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:44,399
Speaker 1: When I hear that, I think that's how That's how

571
00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 1: me On Lane built his whole companies.

572
00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:51,080
Speaker 2: Salesman he played.

573
00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:53,640
Speaker 6: That's all.

574
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:04,160
Speaker 2: So what so we are going to play a game?

575
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:09,200
Speaker 6: But what before we do that? Like, before we do that.

576
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:11,800
Speaker 1: It's not rapid fire, don't worry, no, But I want

577
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:14,280
Speaker 1: to get into a little bit because I'm very curious

578
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:16,479
Speaker 1: what is the deal with like your living situation now,

579
00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:17,560
Speaker 1: Like what are the plans?

580
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:20,119
Speaker 4: Yeah, so.

581
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, obviously like we're into so I'm currently in Charlotte.

582
00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:26,680
Speaker 4: He's in Brooklyn, so.

583
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:27,400
Speaker 2: It's not gonna work.

584
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:29,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, so.

585
00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:36,520
Speaker 3: We're actually like gone, but we have obviously talked about it,

586
00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:39,359
Speaker 3: like throughout this whole process of just like being in

587
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:41,840
Speaker 3: hiding and what's going to be the best case scenario

588
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:45,760
Speaker 3: for us. So yeah, we are looking to move in

589
00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:49,600
Speaker 3: together soon. We don't really have like a set like

590
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:51,840
Speaker 3: date right now, but it's like in the work. So

591
00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 3: I actually he will not be coming to Charlotte. I'm

592
00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:58,159
Speaker 3: be departing Charlotte, so I will.

593
00:26:58,240 --> 00:26:59,320
Speaker 4: Be coming to him.

594
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 11: Oh my god, new York are, So I'm very happy

595
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:06,159
Speaker 11: to hear that.

596
00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:10,280
Speaker 4: I'll talk about that because, yeah, let me not give

597
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:10,800
Speaker 4: your location.

598
00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:14,200
Speaker 5: Do not give your address past.

599
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:19,840
Speaker 2: Nice her whom.

600
00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:30,360
Speaker 6: Okay, we'll try not to make that mistake.

601
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:34,080
Speaker 7: Yeah, So ideally it would be in Brooklyn, Like I

602
00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:36,680
Speaker 7: would have left to stay in Brooklyn, one maybe two

603
00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:38,399
Speaker 7: stops away from the city.

604
00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:40,919
Speaker 6: That's just like the sweet spot get a bit of culture.

605
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:44,000
Speaker 7: I feel like that's just the vibe that we're looking for,

606
00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:45,960
Speaker 7: and it's just a fun place, right Like I feel

607
00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 7: like anytime my friends want to do something, whether we

608
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:50,040
Speaker 7: go to my hand, we always end up in Brooklyn

609
00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 7: because that's just where that's where you know, people get down.

610
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:55,879
Speaker 7: So that's the idea hopefully, But we're also open to

611
00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 7: moving into Manhattan.

612
00:27:56,840 --> 00:27:58,560
Speaker 6: But it's pretty open ended. We're just going to see

613
00:27:58,600 --> 00:27:59,880
Speaker 6: where where the wind goes.

614
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:08,600
Speaker 2: Manhattan. We decided we were going to move to New York.

615
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 6: We were planning on moving.

616
00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:14,639
Speaker 5: We were really set on Williamsburg, and we ended up

617
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:19,160
Speaker 5: finding the place that we really liked in Chelsea, which

618
00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 5: I recommend checking it out if you're thinking about Manhattan.

619
00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:33,000
Speaker 1: I truly truly think it's like it's the best fun

620
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 1: and we'll all go to Loulia.

621
00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 6: Full circle. I have a question for y'all. Did y'all

622
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:43,280
Speaker 6: know what what was your thoughts?

623
00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 11: Interviewing Joe was like, finally someone asked me a question.

624
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 6: I was.

625
00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:03,560
Speaker 7: You're very special, Joe, No, what was your thoughts? Obviously

626
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:04,920
Speaker 7: you talked to Joe, you talked to me, and you

627
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 7: talked to Cherry.

628
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:09,120
Speaker 3: Oh you're asking them like, yeah, I was going to

629
00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 3: pick yeah, yeah, So.

630
00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:20,160
Speaker 2: So I truly at the beginning, so I would say.

631
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 1: Majority of the season, I truly thought it was going

632
00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:30,000
Speaker 1: to be you the whole time. At the end, I

633
00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:33,720
Speaker 1: was like, actually, could potentially go either way, but I.

634
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:36,040
Speaker 6: Still I always thought it was yielding. I really did

635
00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:37,520
Speaker 6: what I can need to.

636
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:45,400
Speaker 4: I think you picked Dott picked from the beginning.

637
00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:47,760
Speaker 5: So Joe and I picked like our final four after

638
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:48,800
Speaker 5: watching episode one.

639
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 4: That's so crazy because there was no conversation.

640
00:29:56,080 --> 00:30:00,239
Speaker 1: He was extremely smooth out of the your very you

641
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:03,000
Speaker 1: just you just you just I could just tell you

642
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 1: were able to really be yourself, and it came across

643
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:08,800
Speaker 1: and I just I was like, he's a sleeper.

644
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:10,760
Speaker 6: So it was you.

645
00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:16,480
Speaker 2: My top four was you, Joey, Xavier, and Tanner.

646
00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:18,960
Speaker 1: I threw in there you were.

647
00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 4: I could have been Tanner.

648
00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 6: Maybe you should have.

649
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:31,479
Speaker 11: I don't remember.

650
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 5: You were not in my top four strictly because you

651
00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:35,720
Speaker 5: did not have a conversation.

652
00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:38,680
Speaker 11: I was like dot dont and heard an't even talk?

653
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:41,240
Speaker 11: What do you mean I had?

654
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:42,480
Speaker 4: I had Aaron B.

655
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:47,000
Speaker 5: I had Joey, I had John B John B, and

656
00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:48,880
Speaker 5: then I had uh.

657
00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:51,560
Speaker 11: I think there was another Joey you had had.

658
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 9: Like Joshua is like a wild card, like Josh Josh Gosh.

659
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 11: Yes, so I didn't do terrible either, but you actually did.

660
00:31:03,720 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 5: Truly Okay, Yeah, that was a wild card.

661
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:12,840
Speaker 11: I take someone like.

662
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 2: Came back definitely.

663
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:17,720
Speaker 11: She was top four and.

664
00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:21,080
Speaker 2: Then again top three, top four.

665
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:32,680
Speaker 11: Yes, I will say I don't know what week it was.

666
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:34,880
Speaker 5: It was the week you guys at the pool party,

667
00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:36,920
Speaker 5: and then the week after the pool party, you guys

668
00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 5: had a really nice, like private chat.

669
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:43,800
Speaker 4: I think he grouped. That was that was so that chat.

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Speaker 9: Yes, when you brought him to your bedroom, so that

671
00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:50,200
Speaker 9: I was already like, oh, he's in the bedroom, right,

672
00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:51,120
Speaker 9: this is a good sign.

673
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 5: And then past your conversation, I was literally like, oh

674
00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:58,440
Speaker 5: my god, they're in love with each other.

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00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:01,680
Speaker 11: They are so made like I just felt it, like beyond.

676
00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:04,160
Speaker 3: It's crazy because you guys like only saw obviously like

677
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:05,120
Speaker 3: a segment of that.

678
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:07,280
Speaker 4: I would if y'all had saw the whole thing. Yeah,

679
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:08,600
Speaker 4: stop the show today.

680
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:13,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, like that conversation change, Like.

681
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:16,200
Speaker 5: It was an amazing conversation, Like you could feel it

682
00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:19,040
Speaker 5: from that like one and a half two minute clip

683
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:20,840
Speaker 5: with you guys like Joe and I were looking at

684
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:24,480
Speaker 5: each other like wow, they have a crazy connection. And

685
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:29,360
Speaker 5: from that point forward.

686
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 11: Yeah, we were like, so where's Charity and Dotten?

687
00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:33,440
Speaker 5: Like their endgame, we were all upset. If you listen

688
00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:35,080
Speaker 5: to any of the podcast, we're like, okay, yeah, this

689
00:32:35,120 --> 00:32:36,160
Speaker 5: person has been ok yeah.

690
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:37,480
Speaker 4: Anyway, moving on.

691
00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:42,480
Speaker 5: Thanks, And then you definitely threw us for a loop

692
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:44,959
Speaker 5: in the end a little bit with the double I

693
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:45,800
Speaker 5: love you, But.

694
00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:49,120
Speaker 11: That's okay, Okay, you know what.

695
00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 5: It's a crazy experience and you are allowed to feel

696
00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:55,080
Speaker 5: whatever you're gonna feel. But we were still team Dotten

697
00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:57,040
Speaker 5: all the way for you, and we are.

698
00:32:56,960 --> 00:32:58,479
Speaker 4: So happy to see guys sitting here. Thank you.

699
00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:04,640
Speaker 5: Guys so past moving to Brooklyn and or Manhattan and

700
00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:06,040
Speaker 5: or next door to us in Chelsea.

701
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, what are the plans?

702
00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 5: Why do we have trips, book, Do we have exciting

703
00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:13,200
Speaker 5: activities that we're ready to go do.

704
00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:17,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, we're actually eloping. I'm kidding. I'm totally kidding. We're

705
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:19,360
Speaker 4: not We're already married.

706
00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:22,760
Speaker 3: We are actually just gonna like kind of have like

707
00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:27,520
Speaker 3: a little refresher, I guess, just like obviously it's like

708
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:29,719
Speaker 3: our first time like being out in public, and like

709
00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 3: we just want to like just take a trip. So

710
00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 3: we're actually just taking a little refresher to Vegas and

711
00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:37,160
Speaker 3: it's just gonna be us. We have some friends that

712
00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:39,720
Speaker 3: are like will already be there, so we might meet

713
00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:40,480
Speaker 3: up with them.

714
00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:44,120
Speaker 4: But just yeah, just loving and just having fun.

715
00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:47,960
Speaker 1: That's exactly what you should do right now, honestly, just

716
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:48,720
Speaker 1: have just have fun.

717
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:50,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, should we jump in it?

718
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:52,200
Speaker 6: You're ready? Yeah, let's do it.

719
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:54,360
Speaker 1: We're gonna play a game and then we're gonna let

720
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 1: you guys go and live your lives without us.

721
00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:00,520
Speaker 2: You want to do, you do it all right.

722
00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:03,080
Speaker 6: So this is a.

723
00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:05,040
Speaker 2: Little newly engaged game. This is very simple.

724
00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 1: We're going to throw a question at you both and

725
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:10,399
Speaker 1: you have to answer it at the same time. It's

726
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:12,920
Speaker 1: either charity or dotting. Oh, this is gonna be a fun.

727
00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:27,600
Speaker 2: Okay, okay. Who is more romantic? Who has the cleaner car?

728
00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:33,640
Speaker 4: Charity he doesn't? Charity?

729
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 2: Who is more organized? Charity?

730
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:37,480
Speaker 6: Who is more stubborn?

731
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:46,680
Speaker 2: Who is the pick your eater?

732
00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:57,600
Speaker 10: I'm a picky eater in progress, like I because I

733
00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:00,239
Speaker 10: work in the health Like now I can like on

734
00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:03,279
Speaker 10: my basis, but like I should be really unhealthy, and

735
00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:05,879
Speaker 10: so I should you like cereal and like me, Like.

736
00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:07,760
Speaker 6: So I hated veggies.

737
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:14,520
Speaker 7: I know it's funny, what was I doing? And so

738
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:17,480
Speaker 7: I've worked through that and so I'm slowly just adding things.

739
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:19,719
Speaker 7: But yeah, like I'm just super picky, like a lot

740
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:20,240
Speaker 7: of greens.

741
00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:22,560
Speaker 6: I don't eat. It's super It's a weird thing and

742
00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:23,239
Speaker 6: it's on my head.

743
00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 2: But I have.

744
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 3: Like I feel like I'm a very broad Like I'm

745
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:28,320
Speaker 3: not the healthiest eater, but like I have very broad palette.

746
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:30,759
Speaker 3: So I'm always like willing to try like anything. So

747
00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:33,200
Speaker 3: slowly introducing him the thing I'm.

748
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 6: Telling her, please please help me, help me get you

749
00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:37,440
Speaker 6: guys are any have you?

750
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:39,680
Speaker 2: Guys have some incredible choices in Brooklyn?

751
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:44,040
Speaker 1: Who takes longer to get ready?

752
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:45,280
Speaker 2: Who's the better dancer?

753
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:51,200
Speaker 7: Oh, we haven't seen each other?

754
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:51,960
Speaker 2: Credit like that?

755
00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:55,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, who.

756
00:35:55,760 --> 00:36:01,920
Speaker 2: Is the better driver? Dot?

757
00:35:58,280 --> 00:35:58,919
Speaker 6: Oh wow?

758
00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:07,920
Speaker 4: Way after keep again like you have I drive ja.

759
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:10,759
Speaker 3: But listen, I was in a G and you were

760
00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:13,000
Speaker 3: in the little so you were like your car is

761
00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:14,440
Speaker 3: a cruiser like I was in the G.

762
00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 6: I'm talking about the you screaming at people a little bit.

763
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:24,880
Speaker 6: It's not like bad, it's not bad intentions. It's just

764
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:25,560
Speaker 6: like I.

765
00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:28,279
Speaker 3: Just got to come to New York because I drive

766
00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:30,000
Speaker 3: like the people in New York. I moved with purpose,

767
00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:32,560
Speaker 3: like I have a left lane driver, like get out

768
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:32,879
Speaker 3: the way.

769
00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:38,000
Speaker 4: I don't know New York. It's just it's I'm on

770
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:41,040
Speaker 4: as places to be exactly.

771
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:43,919
Speaker 2: Who is the funny one? Dang?

772
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:46,720
Speaker 4: We both are, like that's insane. We both are so funny.

773
00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:50,560
Speaker 10: I'm going to say charity out of respect, of respect

774
00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 10: because he's hilarious to.

775
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:01,719
Speaker 6: We are both so I am.

776
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:03,680
Speaker 4: From Joe.

777
00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:08,879
Speaker 6: That is true.

778
00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:11,120
Speaker 2: I also think I'm very funny you are.

779
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:13,399
Speaker 6: Who's the better cook?

780
00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 4: Because he's picking.

781
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:25,680
Speaker 2: Star who spends more time on social media? Charity? Who

782
00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:29,480
Speaker 2: is going to take the lead on wedding plans?

783
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 4: Charity?

784
00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:37,040
Speaker 6: Well, that's uh, that's that's the game.

785
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:38,279
Speaker 2: That was fun. That was fun.

786
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:39,880
Speaker 6: Did you believe all those answers.

787
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:41,760
Speaker 4: I believe it. I don't think anyone was lying.

788
00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:47,360
Speaker 3: Someone was lying always.

789
00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:52,160
Speaker 4: Do you believe wrong?

790
00:37:56,160 --> 00:38:00,120
Speaker 6: Did you expect? You think she made the right choice?

791
00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:03,960
Speaker 11: I and I approve all those answers.

792
00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:04,759
Speaker 4: Thank you, sar.

793
00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:07,680
Speaker 1: So I got to ask one last question before we

794
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 1: let you guys go any have you started any wedding planning.

795
00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:15,960
Speaker 4: We actually haven't started wedding planning.

796
00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:19,680
Speaker 3: We've talked about like time framing of like when we

797
00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:23,320
Speaker 3: would like to like get married, which is like twenty

798
00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:25,920
Speaker 3: twenty five from twenty six, so that gives us like

799
00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:28,879
Speaker 3: a year year and a half, so that's perfect. Yeah,

800
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:32,200
Speaker 3: we're not trying to extend this like seventeen years old,

801
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 3: like Lea, I'm.

802
00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:36,279
Speaker 7: Both ready, but we're both smart and I just want

803
00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:39,920
Speaker 7: to like and we have, you know, still still young ish,

804
00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:44,439
Speaker 7: you know, I am at least or she's young, but yeah,

805
00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:49,120
Speaker 7: I know, right, like wedding client that comes with a lot,

806
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:52,080
Speaker 7: and you know, we are just enjoying each other's company

807
00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:53,719
Speaker 7: and what we built and just want to build more

808
00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:54,680
Speaker 7: before that special day.

809
00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 1: So yeah, nice, All right, well you guys, honestly, congratulations,

810
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:02,840
Speaker 1: all happy for the both of you and to our

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00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:03,800
Speaker 1: lovely listeners.

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00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:06,840
Speaker 2: Thank you guys so much for tuning in. We appreciate

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00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:07,839
Speaker 2: you so much, and.

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815
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816
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:17,279
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Speaker 2: Yes, and thank you guys again, and we will see

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Speaker 2: you next time.

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Speaker 11: Bye bye, bye, guys,