WEBVTT - Ep 292: And The GAG Is (Ft. Keke Palmer)

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<v Speaker 1>Guess what decision we're about to make. Horrible decisions. Hey, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome to another episode of horrible Decisions. And I'm saying

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<v Speaker 1>it like that because we have uh pH alkaline water.

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<v Speaker 1>Avocado not horrible now, I mean, well, I had an

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<v Speaker 1>avocados host this morning. Because we are in l A

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<v Speaker 1>of Keli four n A. Welcome, guys, and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if I should even say like that, but I

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<v Speaker 1>just feel like we're in a cold Welcome to l A.

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<v Speaker 1>We're horrible decision. Mandy had some cocktails in the pool

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<v Speaker 1>and is well. Not only that, I didn't realize if

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<v Speaker 1>you guys have listened to horrible decisions. I'm at the pool,

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<v Speaker 1>and as I'm in the pool, I say, wait, this

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<v Speaker 1>is public. It was the Church of Science, Pology for

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<v Speaker 1>the world. I tried to get your ass. Welcome, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>We have a guest here joining us on bot Way.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna be all over the place today because we

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<v Speaker 1>are really because we want to talk about gagging. Lets

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<v Speaker 1>I want to be gaged. Okay, we got knowing what

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<v Speaker 1>y'all do over here, So dag me with the interview question.

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<v Speaker 1>You be on the floor. Yeah, we have Kekey Palmer here,

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<v Speaker 1>but about why you're here today. Clab it up from

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<v Speaker 1>Mr key TV network. Thank you. We have some stuff

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<v Speaker 1>working in the things that kids don't know, but they're

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<v Speaker 1>not not I'm about to know when this is out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah they are. Okay, that's right to go back now, Kiki,

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<v Speaker 1>we're here to celebrate the launch of your network, Key TV.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us a little bit about it before we talk

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<v Speaker 1>about my whole ship you didn't do. Yeah, So, KETV

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<v Speaker 1>is pretty much a network I launched based off of

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<v Speaker 1>what I learned from doing digital. Obviously, I started out

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<v Speaker 1>traditionally and I really found my freedom through, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>honing in on my audience and being able to really

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<v Speaker 1>have creative freedom digitally. And so I thought, Okay, with

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<v Speaker 1>my platform and just whatever I can use to expose

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<v Speaker 1>other talents, let's create a network and not only show

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<v Speaker 1>how to get from point A to point B, but

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<v Speaker 1>also show how to do it without having the color

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<v Speaker 1>within the lines. Because I think a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>think they gotta go through certain doors in order to

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<v Speaker 1>break through in the industry, and you don't. And digital

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<v Speaker 1>is one of the main ways that I think people

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<v Speaker 1>are able to get through, you know. So that's what

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<v Speaker 1>KETV Network is really four and about, yes, the content,

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<v Speaker 1>but also to say like yo, we can make our

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<v Speaker 1>own ways, um this way too, but you to be

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<v Speaker 1>in like the digital space is interesting because where I

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<v Speaker 1>met you, of course was loving basketball and also acquil

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<v Speaker 1>in the b b Oh, yes I was not, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so happy to all the guy she did what

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<v Speaker 1>everybody doing what I do. I'm not kind of pratt

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<v Speaker 1>and I years did I do that too? But Aquila

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<v Speaker 1>the b look way also another KP. But also here's

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<v Speaker 1>the problem. KP was sucking a cartoon in real life forever,

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<v Speaker 1>so we really didn't know her until she like got

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<v Speaker 1>on the TV show that nobody wants. What about One

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<v Speaker 1>on one Girl, Come on One on one Gang Gang

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't love? But what was that on the w

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<v Speaker 1>b W y'all are clothes you PN before they merged?

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all know what y'all talking about? Lady the second I

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<v Speaker 1>mean fan, that's where I'm like, I'm wait, wait, wait wait,

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<v Speaker 1>but wait, but outside of that, you did do a

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<v Speaker 1>killer in the b as. You were a whole spelling

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<v Speaker 1>b as bitch. Can I have seriously, because because you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna well, you're gonna test her on some ship later on.

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<v Speaker 1>But oh what were when you did that role? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you really know what the funk you was spelling? Did

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<v Speaker 1>they completely tell? Like girl, it was not about the memorization.

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<v Speaker 1>It was all about the members that I don't know't

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<v Speaker 1>have no no, like literally it was a whole like

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<v Speaker 1>really good question because did they gotta feed you the

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<v Speaker 1>line to the word now? So I did it like lines?

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<v Speaker 1>So I just you know, learned it just like my memory.

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<v Speaker 1>But I was and like all of a sudden, words

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<v Speaker 1>with word, you know, I don't actually know how to,

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<v Speaker 1>like me, tell you a really hard word that I

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<v Speaker 1>can never spell? See what I mean? Even spell check?

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<v Speaker 1>I can't get this thing. Is it gonna be a

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<v Speaker 1>paraphilia spell? Clamydia, clamidia clamidia cold spelling bitch? Okay c

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<v Speaker 1>l A M D No, I feel like you're already wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>I y a clamitia. That was kind of good. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's a wine in the beginning, but anyway, no way,

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<v Speaker 1>c h l alum a spell again all right? See

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<v Speaker 1>the h A am I right? See ah, excuse me,

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<v Speaker 1>see h L right I M y d I A clamdia.

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<v Speaker 1>You know how to spell. It's got clamidia, clamdia. I

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<v Speaker 1>never had clamidia. And let's make sure that that's on

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<v Speaker 1>the dot. Bro me that craps because crum arabs the

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<v Speaker 1>sex podcast we are. But but what? But what is crabs?

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<v Speaker 1>Because when you go to the doctor, they don't be

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<v Speaker 1>like bitchybot crabs, Like that's a sling term. So what

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<v Speaker 1>is the slang term for what? Bitch? What's your We're

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<v Speaker 1>a sex watch term for company, clap the clubs. So

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<v Speaker 1>what's the said? Wait, so what's this? Okay, wait a minute,

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<v Speaker 1>what I main word for? What is this? What is

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<v Speaker 1>the crabs? The slang word for crabs disease? I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>gonna tell you right now, it's it's eliminated. They ain't

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<v Speaker 1>got it no more. I'm serious. Black people don't get

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<v Speaker 1>it because we don't get lace. Now now now, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not able to learn here ridiculous that a cubist,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, we want that spell that, Oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>just scared out a key little subdiculoumiculoom cubist. Give it

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<v Speaker 1>a pubist. So let's get back to Key TV and

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<v Speaker 1>how I was shocked that you even had a show

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<v Speaker 1>at this name. So Kiki sends me a text and

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<v Speaker 1>was like, yo, got a network launch, Like congrat She's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a show I want you to host. Now

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, wow, I don't know when she thought I

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<v Speaker 1>would be actress, but this is is it for me?

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<v Speaker 1>A call from her producers don't know I have any

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<v Speaker 1>idea what it is, but I'm like, yeah, I'll do it.

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<v Speaker 1>My producers. I love that she gave me the day.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I'll be there. I get on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>with Chelsea and Nora and Chelsea goes, hey, so we

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<v Speaker 1>have a great show. It's called ho and tel I

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<v Speaker 1>started laughing immediately. I said, oh, and this is what

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<v Speaker 1>he shows for me. Yeah, she thinks she'll be great.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure I will. So you really stepped into your whole

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<v Speaker 1>like it was. It was fitting. It uncomfortable and fun,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, sexists have to be such a real

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<v Speaker 1>uptight thing. And that's what the show is about. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just about life and these girls living their life and

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<v Speaker 1>just being being chill and also not being afraid to

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<v Speaker 1>like tell they stuff. Someone got there pussy eight on

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<v Speaker 1>the first episode. Well, and it's crazy that you're doing

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<v Speaker 1>that too, because you recently have been playing more risk

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<v Speaker 1>a roles like, um, there was a role that you

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<v Speaker 1>played where you were I don't know if you were

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<v Speaker 1>a sex worker being pimped out, but you pimp left

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<v Speaker 1>you see what I mean? I don't know, That's what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. No, no, no, no no, there was no yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but there was a no I was a pimp, thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>Is this where my mom was freaking out? What was

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<v Speaker 1>the name of the movie? That's the one? Literally no,

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<v Speaker 1>and she played a role where it was just like, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>she did you not know about this? Your real pimp

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<v Speaker 1>name be my real pimp name, and you was a

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<v Speaker 1>real pimp, so my real pimp name would be something

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<v Speaker 1>like Shoddy Louke gird You like like, I like, wait, wait, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>wait wait name thank you? I only know my only

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<v Speaker 1>fans name. It's gonna be Wheezy Wiggles. That's too nice

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<v Speaker 1>for my piles nobody take. But as a pimp, you

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<v Speaker 1>can't slap a bit with the name Wiggles. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>like a pimp name. Ready, I'm a sub What about you,

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<v Speaker 1>madam him being ready? You're ready because you was ready.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's been there, done that. Um. But in seeing

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<v Speaker 1>like you take more of I met you was a

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<v Speaker 1>child actor, and so to see you in like more

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<v Speaker 1>of these like even nope, different wait wait wait, sorry

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<v Speaker 1>I'm siding you're like, but she was different bit and nope,

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<v Speaker 1>you played a lesbian, but she could have been fluent.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't know what, don't don't gonna give it. It

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<v Speaker 1>was given and I know she definitely que and when

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<v Speaker 1>I saw that, and I remember watching it like she

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<v Speaker 1>feels talking rough, it's just just a pair of jeans.

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<v Speaker 1>Or have you ever do you know what the Kinsley

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<v Speaker 1>scale is? Nope? So it's basically the scale of where

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<v Speaker 1>you're talking to homosexual, how you feel throughout the day

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<v Speaker 1>and about the day. Was do you do the month?

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<v Speaker 1>A month? So for the most part, I know you're

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<v Speaker 1>being straight, But have you ever thought about being with

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<v Speaker 1>women or ever dated a girl? And what do you do?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm definitely in the middle of the scale. I'm definitely

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<v Speaker 1>like even across the board, like really like I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like love is love, life is life, Like do your thing,

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<v Speaker 1>live your life? Like I feel that way, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, Like, that's that's how you ever had

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<v Speaker 1>a girlfriend? Oh? Yeah, girl, they've never been locked up

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<v Speaker 1>and would love me. I mean neither, we neither never

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<v Speaker 1>been locked up. Well you do have a boo now

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know what girl your little checks. First off,

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<v Speaker 1>I love that you said, but that nigga hacking up

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<v Speaker 1>right now, that's what it's given. No, no, no, we

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<v Speaker 1>don't feel we don't even an no. But like I think,

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<v Speaker 1>set your ticktie. I like as far as I knew

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<v Speaker 1>it was out because y'all been doing and ship do

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<v Speaker 1>you know want me doings? I plead the girl once

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<v Speaker 1>this guy is that nigga the dance I said? They

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<v Speaker 1>love as soon as you can get. And it's crazy

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<v Speaker 1>because like we're in this phase now where people feel

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<v Speaker 1>like either a super private as soon as a man

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<v Speaker 1>put you on social media. Now it's serious, right, So

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that you guys are may be potentially making

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<v Speaker 1>tick tocks or being public? Yeah, way does that look

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<v Speaker 1>like for you as someone who's growing up in the spotlight.

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<v Speaker 1>I like what you just said because you know it

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<v Speaker 1>is a thing, right, it's the things. And I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like even if you're not a celebrity that you feel

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<v Speaker 1>this way because it's like, yeah, you're happy, you want

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<v Speaker 1>everything to be just Yeah, let me be happy. But

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<v Speaker 1>then you realize every that's all that everybody talks about

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<v Speaker 1>or want to talk to you about or think about

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<v Speaker 1>when they you know what's going on with the boot,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like everything ends up being so it's just

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<v Speaker 1>like you feel like there's no happy medium of it.

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<v Speaker 1>When it comes to social media, everything feels like a statement,

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<v Speaker 1>so it just becomes a little spooky, you know, for

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<v Speaker 1>all parties involved. I think so for me, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I just try to really be private with it,

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<v Speaker 1>just because of the fact that I don't want that

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<v Speaker 1>to be my dialogue. Well you comfortable being single in

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<v Speaker 1>the spot, right or do you feel like when you

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<v Speaker 1>find I do I do feel the root it must

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<v Speaker 1>be worse, not even necessarily single, but just not not

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<v Speaker 1>attaching me to anything out side of me. I think

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes that can be a lot, especially like a woman

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<v Speaker 1>in any industry is like it's annoying. Sometimes it can

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<v Speaker 1>be seen as a vulnerability or people feel like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I know what you about because so many judgments that

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<v Speaker 1>are made on you, made on your partner, made on

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<v Speaker 1>what people perceive you as, and it's just it's to

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<v Speaker 1>me unnecessary and don't want to stress. Um just from

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<v Speaker 1>the experiences that I've had of just you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>it shouldn't be that way, but I do think more

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<v Speaker 1>people than just entertainers do it that way. That's why

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<v Speaker 1>most people don't you know, they could be in whole

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<v Speaker 1>full marriages and they don't post not no line. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I was gonna ask you to, like, do

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<v Speaker 1>you feel like, as women, even the men listening, that

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<v Speaker 1>there's like this pressure to your relationship doesn't exist unless

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<v Speaker 1>the masters know, unless you're being claimed publicly, like especially

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<v Speaker 1>as women, like right you are until and they canna

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<v Speaker 1>claim you publicly? You know what I mean, that's not true.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that, yes, I think in some some

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<v Speaker 1>occasions somebody could be keeping you private for sneaky reasons.

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously there's always that snarior where somebody isn't your fake.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. For me, it's always been because I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want people to be subjected to what I'm subjected to.

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<v Speaker 1>And then when the subjected to it, they're like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>let's go back over there in the shade because it's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of lights on you, and everybody got something

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<v Speaker 1>to say. Oh yeah, that's why I'm lying to all

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<v Speaker 1>of y'all right now about what's happening over here in

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<v Speaker 1>my relationship? Girl, I'm lying, I'm making up people. They're

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<v Speaker 1>all the same person. And this is the thing, the

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<v Speaker 1>moment that you do show someone that can relationship or

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<v Speaker 1>people think your relationship. Even if I do a joke

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<v Speaker 1>about in the gagheads or and I found out and

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, oh wow, she's going shade, everything becomes person. Yeah. Also, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>like man, I'm just doing a sketch. I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 1>get a check because I got to do what's going

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<v Speaker 1>on in my life for real. Also is annoying too,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's just things become too personalized. You know what

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<v Speaker 1>I want to know? You do know how to get

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<v Speaker 1>a check? If it was a whole lot of checks?

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<v Speaker 1>What job do you think? Wow? Okay, So I don't Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, like right like, I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>jobs I could do. I think in my mind like

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<v Speaker 1>I probably could be a good hair stylus. I still

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<v Speaker 1>know how to break about I'm we've down. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I have a good conversation piece, so I would

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<v Speaker 1>be able to get my clients into it. Like took

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<v Speaker 1>up somewhere I put the on in them. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I would be good as a stylus and you

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<v Speaker 1>would like because you know, and you would like to

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<v Speaker 1>come to sit in my chair. And then on the

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<v Speaker 1>other end of things, I think, like, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>could be on somebody's political standpoint and what do you need,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, President, so on, so, and I think I'll

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<v Speaker 1>be able to help write some speeches. I'm going with

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<v Speaker 1>my words, nothing not to care. I think I could

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<v Speaker 1>get some public some of some some public service. I

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<v Speaker 1>got to tell you all about what you got some ready.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is our segment call van Ella Ship, where

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<v Speaker 1>we basically take a news article and figure out what's

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<v Speaker 1>in the news about sex. Have you heard about the

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<v Speaker 1>man in New York that then made a sex tape

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<v Speaker 1>to show you he's sex positive. That he's a New

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<v Speaker 1>York House candidate and he basically in his congressional campaign

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<v Speaker 1>released a sex tape to demonstrate his commitment to positive sex.

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<v Speaker 1>His name is Mike Idis. It kissed it. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>white man, yeah, but anyway, it's a white man. He's

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<v Speaker 1>an independent and he wants you to vote for him

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<v Speaker 1>in New York and it was given independent from the start.

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<v Speaker 1>He was sucking on camera. He did a thirteen minute

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<v Speaker 1>video with a sex worker and wanted to pretty much,

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<v Speaker 1>that's it, that's to help us. No, well, well it

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<v Speaker 1>was it was the showcase which which which is? I

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<v Speaker 1>think can lead into something great, But it was the

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<v Speaker 1>pretty much let people know not only he was sex positive,

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<v Speaker 1>but to get his name out there and so in

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<v Speaker 1>where you've been in this fucking lane for so long

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<v Speaker 1>in terms of getting people to know like where you're at,

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<v Speaker 1>do you ever feel the need to go viral or

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<v Speaker 1>with these new movies, do they say get popping on

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<v Speaker 1>TikTok or all of like the new ways to market things.

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<v Speaker 1>This politician was like, y'all gonna know I'm sex positive

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<v Speaker 1>by making a thirteen minute sex video. You're gonna see

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<v Speaker 1>my dad is there? We I think it's a he

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<v Speaker 1>was white. You know. I didn't watch it. Um it

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<v Speaker 1>was giving pink and I was cool. I UM. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that there's a fine line between like wanting to

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<v Speaker 1>get your make your stuff exciting to look at, and

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<v Speaker 1>like doing anything just for uh, you know, response and reaction.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying, Like there's a fine line

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<v Speaker 1>between it and I think, uh, I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>know for me, I never think to myself, how do

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<v Speaker 1>I get viral? I say, how do I do something

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<v Speaker 1>that's really going to connect to my audience? Like it's

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<v Speaker 1>more marking than anything like what's gonna be exciting, what's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna make people love this? Or what's gonna be funny,

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<v Speaker 1>what's gonna be enjoyable? I think about my audience and

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<v Speaker 1>in getting to them as opposed to just getting the

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<v Speaker 1>word around. And I think a lot of times we

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<v Speaker 1>do see people are just like I want to get

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<v Speaker 1>the word around, I want my name out there, And

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<v Speaker 1>there's sometimes can be a loss of integrity in that

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<v Speaker 1>because you're not actually focused on making sure what you're

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<v Speaker 1>saying is heard. You just want people to see you,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like, okay, well when they see you, what

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<v Speaker 1>they're really looking at for real? How do you know

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<v Speaker 1>the lines between going viral and being genuine? Only because

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<v Speaker 1>I've and you make so many videos about who you

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<v Speaker 1>are as a person and not as an actor. You've

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<v Speaker 1>also been open about your skin journey, You've been open

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<v Speaker 1>about your journey as a woman. What makes you decide

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<v Speaker 1>to move forward with having those conversations to the public

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<v Speaker 1>instead of just living through that by your own, like

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<v Speaker 1>on your own. You know. It's such a good question,

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<v Speaker 1>especially when you talk about like the skin stuff, because

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<v Speaker 1>that's also like hormonal and that's like, so yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>I have like the the pretty much. It's an issue

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<v Speaker 1>with like, um, your your hormone levels, things that you

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<v Speaker 1>are just born with. It's something that you can really control.

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<v Speaker 1>Um And that can get personal because who really want

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about their medical I don't want to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about my medical but what I do want to want

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<v Speaker 1>to say was like, you don't know what people are

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<v Speaker 1>struggling with. And so while you're thinking that because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>whoever you think and I'm am my skin should be

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<v Speaker 1>this or I should look this way because I'm in

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<v Speaker 1>this field, I think I just felt so much pressure

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<v Speaker 1>all the time to be so perfect, um and to

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<v Speaker 1>be so whatever people consider is uh, you know perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>But I just kind of want to say, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not perfect. So let's leave it there speaking of perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, had you ever gone through a phase like

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<v Speaker 1>where you watched the way women are starting to look

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<v Speaker 1>now Instagram ship like that? Have you had a should

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<v Speaker 1>I get a BBL phase? Oh? I didn't know he's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna say that you're actually where are you going? I

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<v Speaker 1>definitely have looked around and be like, wow, times are changing,

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, when we were kids, everybody wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>like hide everything, even their weight, like we I remember

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<v Speaker 1>the change when we all started being like, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>wear weight. But there was a time in place where

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<v Speaker 1>people would be like, don't something. You've been straight up

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<v Speaker 1>lying like oh, this is all me, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, or like don't ask me that like anything

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<v Speaker 1>just swayed from telling somebody, but you voted its mind exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I have seen the change of people being

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<v Speaker 1>cool with like I'm a Barbie or I'm at this,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm that, and I got this, I got that I've

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<v Speaker 1>never wanted. And I think the reason why I never

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<v Speaker 1>felt that way was just it's not that I don't

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<v Speaker 1>see the pressures of it in that or not even

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<v Speaker 1>say pressures, but it's not that I don't see that

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<v Speaker 1>like dang, Like there's a lot of you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>people like this, You see that people like it. But

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<v Speaker 1>I think for me, I just always felt like, man,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I'm scared, and I just feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I want to be different. I'm good with being

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<v Speaker 1>with standing out and not having whatever whatever everybody else has.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all right. What's your favorite part of your body

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<v Speaker 1>that makes you feel the sexiest? Rellie? Honestly, I mean honest,

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<v Speaker 1>this is gonna sound so booty because you said my body,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm goin. You got really good legs. Oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you you talk feel like that little like that

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<v Speaker 1>little all right on the knee. You know. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>we can slim the top and you know what I

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<v Speaker 1>mean right now right there? Um So I think, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I think and I always think this, and I really

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<v Speaker 1>feel this way, and it sounds cliche, but I really

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<v Speaker 1>do think the sexiest thing about me is my personality.

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<v Speaker 1>Like if I feel like that's what sells the body,

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<v Speaker 1>does that make sense? Like I feel like it's the

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<v Speaker 1>attitude that I talk about that all the time when

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<v Speaker 1>I was on everything was old bitch. I'll walk into

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<v Speaker 1>a room and it don't matter that I'm a big bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>I would walk into the room and because would be

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<v Speaker 1>with like these build a body girls, and as soon

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<v Speaker 1>as I start talking, they would want me. When I

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<v Speaker 1>when I get into all that, you don't want to talk.

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<v Speaker 1>It would have a good profile though profile is shit.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you how did you get comfortable with As women,

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<v Speaker 1>we believe we have to lead with our looks? Right, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>how did you get comfortable with leaning and feeling so

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<v Speaker 1>confident with your personality? Because as women we believe looks

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<v Speaker 1>come first. A lot of women don't feel like they're

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<v Speaker 1>personality matters these nis at all. A lot of times

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<v Speaker 1>to Joe like this, I've seen it, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>why she ain't gotta do not boring? Like and she

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<v Speaker 1>was just that should be crazy to me. I've seen

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of times. Now, I got so many plea

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<v Speaker 1>friends I'm like, looking at I'm like, wow, Mama, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I get it. I get hit the life that you're

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<v Speaker 1>looking heavy. I'll be honest, it unintentional that that happened

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<v Speaker 1>to me. I just started to realize in my life

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<v Speaker 1>that the damn personality overshadow, Like I feel like I

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<v Speaker 1>could look like whoever we could think and imagine whoever

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<v Speaker 1>is the hottest damn person in the world is. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I could look like them, and that with overshadow,

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<v Speaker 1>my personality overshadow the looks. I think, no matter what,

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<v Speaker 1>my personality is always the biggest thing about me so

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<v Speaker 1>so because of that, I never had a chance to

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<v Speaker 1>rest on my looks because everybody would always compliment me

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<v Speaker 1>for something else. You're so funny over I love how

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<v Speaker 1>dramatic you are, so no one ever compliment me. No,

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<v Speaker 1>ain't nobody ever could ask fat once I'm online alright,

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<v Speaker 1>speaking of here we go, here we go, question we ask?

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<v Speaker 1>I remember reading through this and people are like, you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta ask the main question. I was like, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>so bad, but do you if you had to? He'd

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<v Speaker 1>asked you had to pick one if you don't do

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<v Speaker 1>them already, So exbody guns my head and gave me

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<v Speaker 1>just I'm not good. I mean I have no um

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<v Speaker 1>transgressions or hate towards Tsson Salad. I mean, I think

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<v Speaker 1>you know this. This the choice I'm gonna make. It

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<v Speaker 1>is not because I think there's something wrong with Tyson Salad.

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<v Speaker 1>And I want you how to know that. I want

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<v Speaker 1>you how to know they need not care. If you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to, I'm gonna ahead and do them soul.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever been when a guy that had a

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<v Speaker 1>foot fetish? Never been a guy that had a foot fetish,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, But I'm gonna let you something know somewhere.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I take this boot off and show you to

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<v Speaker 1>these stocks. You're gonna have a foot fetish and you

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<v Speaker 1>have hid everybody that I've seen these faith always a

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<v Speaker 1>gas Wait do the gag on it? Do they put

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<v Speaker 1>their your whole foot in their mouth? I gotta big

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<v Speaker 1>gas foot, but oh bit, just be do you have

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<v Speaker 1>a staircase toe? Like? Does it go like this? Or

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<v Speaker 1>is the long one? When I tell you my ship

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<v Speaker 1>even you can see all my nails, y'all know that

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<v Speaker 1>that's a big deal. You don't see any nails even

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<v Speaker 1>the baby foe. Okay, now now one going and they're

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<v Speaker 1>like a little thick, so they're not like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>not to slip. It's like, do you know this is

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<v Speaker 1>the richest thing you said? I don't have one. Nothing's wrong?

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<v Speaker 1>You can I ask you because it was something that

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<v Speaker 1>that happened to me when I was living in the

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<v Speaker 1>Bronx and I only in the Bronx. Niggas will be like, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>can I take a picture of your feet? Have you

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<v Speaker 1>ever been walking with some slides? And niggas stopped I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure wicky feet and requested somebody did it on like

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<v Speaker 1>the carpet They took a picture of my feet. Wait again,

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<v Speaker 1>you have a getty images of your fitty images, I

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<v Speaker 1>try to tell, trying to take and because the feet

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<v Speaker 1>it ain't. I didn't choose this life. So then let

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<v Speaker 1>me go. So there, let me ask you. What is

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<v Speaker 1>the thing that turns you on most about a man? Oh?

0:23:08.560 --> 0:23:11.199
<v Speaker 1>My god? Yes, but hey, I'm gon saying that I

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<v Speaker 1>know what I hate and got everybody what I handled

0:23:15.080 --> 0:23:19.480
<v Speaker 1>should be. Don't do good? Okay, I see I hate

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<v Speaker 1>that guy? Who is it? Just this guy? This is

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<v Speaker 1>to me talking, I'm gonna be the guy O game Okaye? Good?

0:23:28.520 --> 0:23:30.920
<v Speaker 1>I like them shoes, so for really, thank you? Rude?

0:23:31.280 --> 0:23:35.760
<v Speaker 1>Are you free this way? You're the man? Bro, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>being y'all. Don't know this guy? Everybody that personality. I

0:23:41.200 --> 0:23:43.520
<v Speaker 1>suck that nigga every time I have sex. So wait,

0:23:43.640 --> 0:23:47.720
<v Speaker 1>so you you like like that guy? I like the

0:23:47.760 --> 0:23:49.800
<v Speaker 1>goofy guy. Wait give us the many wait wait wait,

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<v Speaker 1>start over, start over, give us the man that you

0:23:52.560 --> 0:23:55.080
<v Speaker 1>hate right now? This is the man I hate, y'all

0:23:55.080 --> 0:23:57.720
<v Speaker 1>to talk to. Yes, basically, we're calling you. I'm gonna

0:23:57.720 --> 0:24:03.600
<v Speaker 1>be hancil plans and you gotta leave me a voice message. Hey, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up? Look? Look are you mad at me? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>let me see you, let me let me face. I

0:24:12.920 --> 0:24:14.480
<v Speaker 1>want to see I want I gotta see your face.

0:24:14.960 --> 0:24:17.840
<v Speaker 1>Hold on, hold hold, hold wa wa get up, wait

0:24:17.840 --> 0:24:19.800
<v Speaker 1>wait wait wait wait, get us up, hold on, hold on,

0:24:20.040 --> 0:24:25.680
<v Speaker 1>wait one moment, FaceTime ree, go ahead, bitch and see.

0:24:27.600 --> 0:24:31.600
<v Speaker 1>I know I canceling everything. You're mad at me. You're

0:24:31.600 --> 0:24:35.840
<v Speaker 1>mad at me? Great, some do that. Don't do that.

0:24:35.920 --> 0:24:38.639
<v Speaker 1>My mom and m called mom and called. I had

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<v Speaker 1>to go over there and make sure she was good.

0:24:40.160 --> 0:24:41.960
<v Speaker 1>You know how it is. You know how this is work, Sam,

0:24:43.000 --> 0:24:45.800
<v Speaker 1>But I'm gonna see ship. When are you gonna see me? Though?

0:24:46.080 --> 0:24:52.760
<v Speaker 1>What time is he ship? I gotta be somewhere in

0:24:52.800 --> 0:24:55.440
<v Speaker 1>five am. But I can come over it right now.

0:24:56.359 --> 0:24:58.520
<v Speaker 1>I come over right now, and you stay for it.

0:24:58.880 --> 0:25:04.480
<v Speaker 1>I just told like the cool guy, you know what

0:25:04.480 --> 0:25:06.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. The guy that's like that gives you the

0:25:06.480 --> 0:25:10.080
<v Speaker 1>bare minimum and and he's just too cool. What's normally

0:25:10.080 --> 0:25:15.440
<v Speaker 1>the profession, any profession I'll be honest, anyone in the industry,

0:25:15.520 --> 0:25:19.200
<v Speaker 1>in the industry, any guy in the industry. And y'all

0:25:19.280 --> 0:25:24.400
<v Speaker 1>know my personality. I'm like, what's up? Maybe like, hey, Kei.

0:25:24.480 --> 0:25:26.600
<v Speaker 1>I like what you did, right, I can't communicate with

0:25:26.720 --> 0:25:33.000
<v Speaker 1>this with that normal the wait, the way he gives

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<v Speaker 1>you the bare minimum and he's like cool and I'm

0:25:36.080 --> 0:25:38.520
<v Speaker 1>gonna come over and you take what I can give you.

0:25:38.760 --> 0:25:42.679
<v Speaker 1>So then on the flip side, what lets you know

0:25:43.080 --> 0:25:44.760
<v Speaker 1>and for all the women listening to, well, let's you

0:25:44.800 --> 0:25:47.639
<v Speaker 1>know when a when a man is really interested in you. Okay,

0:25:47.680 --> 0:25:50.920
<v Speaker 1>So so the guy that I'm interested in period is

0:25:50.960 --> 0:25:53.359
<v Speaker 1>the guy that's not afraid to look stupid. Now, and

0:25:53.400 --> 0:25:55.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm not talking about the guy that's like, I'm goofrey,

0:25:55.240 --> 0:25:58.560
<v Speaker 1>and he's not the guy that's really like awkward and

0:25:58.640 --> 0:26:01.120
<v Speaker 1>has a has a huge sex. Know. I think people

0:26:01.160 --> 0:26:03.520
<v Speaker 1>try to be too damn quaft and too I don't

0:26:03.560 --> 0:26:07.879
<v Speaker 1>like what I think. I think you're just right up

0:26:07.880 --> 0:26:09.399
<v Speaker 1>a goddamn boy. I'm just trying to pick you what

0:26:10.040 --> 0:26:12.080
<v Speaker 1>they're trying to be too smooth, like I'm not looking.

0:26:13.720 --> 0:26:16.720
<v Speaker 1>But let me ask you something. You said something to

0:26:16.720 --> 0:26:18.440
<v Speaker 1>me at dinner the other day, and I keep thinking

0:26:18.480 --> 0:26:21.399
<v Speaker 1>about when you said you were talking about someone. You

0:26:21.440 --> 0:26:25.440
<v Speaker 1>said he acted like he didn't know me, and they

0:26:25.600 --> 0:26:31.159
<v Speaker 1>they'd be liars and that'd be fraud. But That's the

0:26:31.240 --> 0:26:35.480
<v Speaker 1>thing though, when someone that was what can they because

0:26:35.520 --> 0:26:37.880
<v Speaker 1>I remember I interviewed someone that was like yo, someone

0:26:37.960 --> 0:26:40.280
<v Speaker 1>super fans out that's too much. But if someone is

0:26:40.320 --> 0:26:42.320
<v Speaker 1>a fan of your work, are you okay? I'm okay

0:26:42.359 --> 0:26:45.320
<v Speaker 1>because I look, especially if you're black, I know you

0:26:45.480 --> 0:26:48.720
<v Speaker 1>don't seen something something at the bare minimum, I was

0:26:48.760 --> 0:26:51.080
<v Speaker 1>just the man made him with Medea and you might

0:26:51.119 --> 0:26:54.240
<v Speaker 1>not bring we're not breaking up. Stop popping that. God,

0:26:54.720 --> 0:26:58.520
<v Speaker 1>I understand, but like god, damn video. They probably oh

0:26:58.560 --> 0:27:00.640
<v Speaker 1>my god, that crying one. That was one's been making

0:27:00.640 --> 0:27:04.840
<v Speaker 1>this round on the Twitter anyhow. You've been making your

0:27:04.840 --> 0:27:06.480
<v Speaker 1>wrong on this Twitter. And I just told you that

0:27:06.520 --> 0:27:09.840
<v Speaker 1>before we started, Like bitch kidten, they not keep recycling you.

0:27:09.920 --> 0:27:12.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm leaving for it. I'm hey, y'all, you know it's

0:27:12.240 --> 0:27:16.800
<v Speaker 1>your girl. Anyway back to it. I feel like, what

0:27:16.920 --> 0:27:19.280
<v Speaker 1>was your question? Dam We're be gonna so many places.

0:27:19.320 --> 0:27:22.200
<v Speaker 1>This is a d D podcast, Okay, So basically let's

0:27:22.200 --> 0:27:24.160
<v Speaker 1>just scratch that. If a guy wants to hear on you,

0:27:24.240 --> 0:27:26.919
<v Speaker 1>can you answer a d M. What'sh the way? So

0:27:27.000 --> 0:27:31.320
<v Speaker 1>you asked about the fame level. Yeah, if a guy's like, yo,

0:27:32.080 --> 0:27:33.720
<v Speaker 1>I really you'll be doing your thing. Girl. I'm not

0:27:33.720 --> 0:27:35.159
<v Speaker 1>gonna hold you do anything. I don't want to do

0:27:35.200 --> 0:27:37.560
<v Speaker 1>all that, but you'll be doing your thing that I

0:27:37.600 --> 0:27:39.720
<v Speaker 1>think is a natural vibe. Like you could. You could

0:27:39.760 --> 0:27:41.719
<v Speaker 1>shout me out, you can say yo, you'll be doing

0:27:41.760 --> 0:27:43.320
<v Speaker 1>your thing and leave it at that. And it's not

0:27:43.440 --> 0:27:45.640
<v Speaker 1>you know too much? You know okay. If a guy

0:27:45.640 --> 0:27:49.320
<v Speaker 1>wants to get at me, this is a it's a

0:27:49.320 --> 0:27:51.000
<v Speaker 1>hard game. I'm a virgo at the end of the day.

0:27:51.000 --> 0:27:54.120
<v Speaker 1>You gotta be because if you go too much, I'm

0:27:54.119 --> 0:27:56.040
<v Speaker 1>not waiting real quick. I'm not a starry. The moon's

0:27:56.080 --> 0:27:58.679
<v Speaker 1>as bitch. You just brought up a goddamn burgo. What

0:27:58.800 --> 0:28:00.480
<v Speaker 1>the hell does somebody have to do for a virgo?

0:28:01.280 --> 0:28:04.800
<v Speaker 1>Very nicky, sad true burgers are very finicky because they

0:28:04.800 --> 0:28:06.399
<v Speaker 1>want somebody else can chase them and be all up

0:28:06.440 --> 0:28:08.479
<v Speaker 1>on them. But at the same time, don't be thirsty,

0:28:09.200 --> 0:28:11.920
<v Speaker 1>don't expect too much for me. Like it's very weird

0:28:12.000 --> 0:28:13.359
<v Speaker 1>the level you have to be with that. You have

0:28:13.400 --> 0:28:15.479
<v Speaker 1>to be willing to tell us you want us. But

0:28:15.520 --> 0:28:19.440
<v Speaker 1>then when we say I'm not ready yet, you gotta be. Also,

0:28:19.520 --> 0:28:22.080
<v Speaker 1>all the menalists and there like y'all bitches, don't know

0:28:22.119 --> 0:28:25.320
<v Speaker 1>what y'all want, and we we like, we like like

0:28:25.359 --> 0:28:27.639
<v Speaker 1>because what happens is you'll see somebody like they're fine,

0:28:27.920 --> 0:28:29.480
<v Speaker 1>and then you'd like, but do I like it for real?

0:28:29.880 --> 0:28:31.440
<v Speaker 1>And then you have to get a couple of more

0:28:31.520 --> 0:28:33.720
<v Speaker 1>talks and conversations in before you can like them for real.

0:28:33.760 --> 0:28:35.080
<v Speaker 1>But you want to make sure that they like you

0:28:35.680 --> 0:28:37.639
<v Speaker 1>before you even know if you can let yourself like them.

0:28:37.760 --> 0:28:40.840
<v Speaker 1>Where you meeting somebody out the gate? What is the

0:28:40.920 --> 0:28:43.560
<v Speaker 1>immedia turn off? Want? I meant somebody out the gates

0:28:43.560 --> 0:28:46.960
<v Speaker 1>in the media, the media turn off the cool guy

0:28:47.160 --> 0:28:50.520
<v Speaker 1>trying to touch and feel me too much? Don't it's

0:28:50.560 --> 0:28:55.120
<v Speaker 1>not giving consent. And it's just I don't want to

0:28:55.120 --> 0:28:58.320
<v Speaker 1>feel your sexual energy so quick. I don't want to

0:28:58.320 --> 0:29:00.280
<v Speaker 1>feel it. Let's get back into sexual energy you. I

0:29:00.280 --> 0:29:04.200
<v Speaker 1>would love into that. Have you ever had a whole phase?

0:29:05.080 --> 0:29:06.800
<v Speaker 1>What do you consider a whole phase? Like what do

0:29:06.840 --> 0:29:09.479
<v Speaker 1>people mean when they say when we talked about but

0:29:09.520 --> 0:29:14.320
<v Speaker 1>you still have I like been single and just enjoyed it,

0:29:14.400 --> 0:29:18.160
<v Speaker 1>Like just the whole phase is when like maybe you've

0:29:18.200 --> 0:29:20.000
<v Speaker 1>had a one night stand here too or you could

0:29:20.000 --> 0:29:21.719
<v Speaker 1>toss a guy to the side. It's not too much

0:29:21.840 --> 0:29:24.200
<v Speaker 1>day and you're really exploring. I've tosked some guys to

0:29:24.240 --> 0:29:26.680
<v Speaker 1>the side. I've never done the one night stand only

0:29:26.720 --> 0:29:30.960
<v Speaker 1>because I'm I'm so scared of it. Like yeah, but

0:29:31.040 --> 0:29:33.719
<v Speaker 1>that's that's what I really mean. Like, can you have

0:29:33.760 --> 0:29:38.560
<v Speaker 1>a whole phase as Key Palmer? I mean you could

0:29:38.600 --> 0:29:44.040
<v Speaker 1>do it, but it's just about like, and I'll be honest,

0:29:44.400 --> 0:29:48.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm a very you know, I like, obviously I can

0:29:48.920 --> 0:29:51.360
<v Speaker 1>like somebody just based on how they look. I'm not blind,

0:29:51.800 --> 0:29:54.600
<v Speaker 1>but I in order to get comfortable and sexual because

0:29:54.600 --> 0:29:58.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm very like, you know, I can be what what

0:29:58.000 --> 0:30:00.920
<v Speaker 1>what is that girl away? Copd is making? Shut up?

0:30:01.160 --> 0:30:04.080
<v Speaker 1>What the fun is that? Quit? I'm not. I'm not

0:30:04.200 --> 0:30:07.000
<v Speaker 1>actually like I don't actually jump into a sexual personal

0:30:07.160 --> 0:30:08.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm not. I'm not that girl. It's gonna be like

0:30:08.480 --> 0:30:10.880
<v Speaker 1>so what's good. I could do it in the acting role,

0:30:11.240 --> 0:30:12.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, like, but I'm not gonna be that girl

0:30:12.600 --> 0:30:14.680
<v Speaker 1>that's like come on here, Like, I'm not gonna be

0:30:14.880 --> 0:30:20.240
<v Speaker 1>like that. From zero and there, I needed to be

0:30:20.280 --> 0:30:22.960
<v Speaker 1>a rocky rag. I needed to be like we're laughing,

0:30:23.080 --> 0:30:29.360
<v Speaker 1>like I'm gonna stop stop and the like yeah, way

0:30:29.360 --> 0:30:32.080
<v Speaker 1>to be yes, Yeah, Now, somebody gotta sense of humor,

0:30:32.480 --> 0:30:35.240
<v Speaker 1>watch out because they're gunning fun. So can I ask

0:30:35.240 --> 0:30:37.200
<v Speaker 1>you the hand? He's all I feel like the funnier

0:30:37.280 --> 0:30:40.240
<v Speaker 1>niggas be ugliest fuck like. But that's all right, you're

0:30:40.240 --> 0:30:43.840
<v Speaker 1>like an ugly nigga. I'm fine with media uglies. It's

0:30:43.880 --> 0:30:46.480
<v Speaker 1>really okay. As long as you've got a good attitude

0:30:46.480 --> 0:30:48.640
<v Speaker 1>about you and you've got a good you know, you

0:30:48.720 --> 0:30:50.800
<v Speaker 1>got a good attitude about you. I really would love

0:30:50.840 --> 0:30:54.560
<v Speaker 1>some hype. We can't have you, okay, So what is

0:30:54.720 --> 0:30:57.600
<v Speaker 1>the queen? Wait? Wait, waiting, and let's go back to

0:30:57.680 --> 0:30:59.480
<v Speaker 1>hype birth of this side? No, let's say go back

0:30:59.480 --> 0:31:01.680
<v Speaker 1>to Dick. Are you a side queen? She said? I

0:31:01.800 --> 0:31:06.600
<v Speaker 1>want to kick Sam, So I think I think this

0:31:06.680 --> 0:31:10.120
<v Speaker 1>is the thing right. Size could be great, But do

0:31:10.160 --> 0:31:12.640
<v Speaker 1>you know what you're working with, brother, because I don't

0:31:12.640 --> 0:31:16.320
<v Speaker 1>want you just slamming some ship on. That's a bit much,

0:31:16.680 --> 0:31:18.640
<v Speaker 1>you know you you I don't care about I care

0:31:18.720 --> 0:31:22.040
<v Speaker 1>more so about the delicacies of the arrangement. I need,

0:31:22.240 --> 0:31:25.680
<v Speaker 1>I need things to be comfortable. I can't stand the

0:31:25.720 --> 0:31:27.880
<v Speaker 1>way you talk kick, and I wanna I want to

0:31:28.000 --> 0:31:31.280
<v Speaker 1>jump over next week. You think gonna be like the

0:31:31.320 --> 0:31:35.640
<v Speaker 1>way Kiki the delicacy of the arrangement. It's true. I

0:31:35.600 --> 0:31:37.680
<v Speaker 1>don't by the way, I got this made up just

0:31:37.880 --> 0:31:41.120
<v Speaker 1>today and I really love it. Well. One of our

0:31:41.240 --> 0:31:44.960
<v Speaker 1>segments here on the show is and we would love

0:31:45.000 --> 0:31:48.240
<v Speaker 1>to know if you have any sex or dating tips

0:31:48.880 --> 0:31:51.640
<v Speaker 1>to anyone listening, because you do want to do it.

0:31:51.680 --> 0:31:54.040
<v Speaker 1>Maybe you stay in relationship for the last couple of years.

0:31:54.080 --> 0:31:56.840
<v Speaker 1>We see you, bitch, we see you on the room

0:31:57.200 --> 0:32:00.400
<v Speaker 1>shape bit, So how do you be landing them? By

0:32:00.440 --> 0:32:02.440
<v Speaker 1>the way, when you end up on the shade room.

0:32:02.520 --> 0:32:04.720
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if there's any other black person in

0:32:04.760 --> 0:32:07.480
<v Speaker 1>America that we don't care what you do. We we

0:32:07.680 --> 0:32:09.840
<v Speaker 1>hit you, and we'll be here for I really really

0:32:09.840 --> 0:32:12.920
<v Speaker 1>love my community for that, because one thing they're gonna do.

0:32:12.960 --> 0:32:15.240
<v Speaker 1>Even they dragged me every down, then that's normal. That's

0:32:15.240 --> 0:32:17.200
<v Speaker 1>how we love each other. They'll be like, we always

0:32:17.200 --> 0:32:19.080
<v Speaker 1>have my back. Now that's say you get draped what

0:32:19.120 --> 0:32:21.120
<v Speaker 1>you've been dragged for last I mean, I really don't.

0:32:21.160 --> 0:32:23.800
<v Speaker 1>I mean I think everybody gets dragged, you know, everybody,

0:32:23.880 --> 0:32:26.200
<v Speaker 1>And I've been dragged on and I'm like, oh my god,

0:32:26.320 --> 0:32:28.680
<v Speaker 1>they dragged me. But I'm just saying everybody, if you

0:32:28.720 --> 0:32:31.560
<v Speaker 1>don't get dragged by the community. You're not love you

0:32:31.640 --> 0:32:34.720
<v Speaker 1>know who you were? Honestly, it's checking us a compliment.

0:32:34.760 --> 0:32:38.400
<v Speaker 1>They paid attention. Yeah, that's true. So you know I'm

0:32:38.440 --> 0:32:41.120
<v Speaker 1>cool with it because you sounded like a fifty seven

0:32:41.160 --> 0:32:47.840
<v Speaker 1>year old right now. I can pay attention. They do

0:32:48.480 --> 0:32:50.800
<v Speaker 1>it nor folks. It's like, damn, they can't even get

0:32:50.840 --> 0:32:57.280
<v Speaker 1>your attention. You know I can't. Okay, So what would

0:32:57.320 --> 0:33:01.400
<v Speaker 1>be your tips women day or wanting to land aman

0:33:01.600 --> 0:33:03.400
<v Speaker 1>or even in the bedroom, what has been something that's

0:33:03.400 --> 0:33:09.240
<v Speaker 1>worked for you? Wow? So I'll say for the bedroom,

0:33:09.480 --> 0:33:13.920
<v Speaker 1>say what you want, say what you need, say if

0:33:13.960 --> 0:33:16.160
<v Speaker 1>it doesn't feel right, if you want to do that,

0:33:16.520 --> 0:33:18.880
<v Speaker 1>just be honest, because I think um Horn has really

0:33:19.120 --> 0:33:22.520
<v Speaker 1>ruined our ideas of sex. And I think for years,

0:33:22.560 --> 0:33:27.000
<v Speaker 1>like I realized, you know, wow, the what what I was,

0:33:27.040 --> 0:33:30.080
<v Speaker 1>what I was doing before, wasn't even really experiencing anything.

0:33:30.360 --> 0:33:32.000
<v Speaker 1>It was like I was just going through the motions

0:33:32.000 --> 0:33:34.920
<v Speaker 1>of something I wasn't actually actively being intimate with that

0:33:34.960 --> 0:33:36.280
<v Speaker 1>person I was with. It was almost just like a

0:33:36.320 --> 0:33:40.320
<v Speaker 1>flesh to flesh engagement as opposed to wow, we were

0:33:40.320 --> 0:33:42.920
<v Speaker 1>actually communicating and talking and for having an enjoyment with

0:33:42.960 --> 0:33:44.520
<v Speaker 1>one another, like that I could laugh right now, I

0:33:44.560 --> 0:33:46.080
<v Speaker 1>can say, now, boy, what was you trying to do

0:33:46.120 --> 0:33:50.040
<v Speaker 1>with that? And we have said that before? Have you

0:33:50.080 --> 0:33:52.239
<v Speaker 1>said that before? Yeah? I'm like, now, now you know

0:33:52.320 --> 0:33:55.280
<v Speaker 1>that got weird there. Let's walking around like I love

0:33:55.400 --> 0:33:58.560
<v Speaker 1>to be normal, but I think I always felt like

0:33:58.840 --> 0:34:03.440
<v Speaker 1>everything had to be so beautiful that I can't do

0:34:03.480 --> 0:34:08.279
<v Speaker 1>this serious ship. And so I think I think that's

0:34:08.280 --> 0:34:10.520
<v Speaker 1>me because I know there's somebody out there that's like, yo,

0:34:10.560 --> 0:34:13.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm serious, and I think that's that's great too, but

0:34:13.760 --> 0:34:15.480
<v Speaker 1>not for you, but not for me. And so I

0:34:15.520 --> 0:34:17.840
<v Speaker 1>think if yours is not like that, if yours is

0:34:17.840 --> 0:34:20.399
<v Speaker 1>a little bit weird or that or whatever you think

0:34:20.400 --> 0:34:22.840
<v Speaker 1>it is, it's okay because it's yours, and that's how

0:34:22.880 --> 0:34:24.759
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna find your right partner instead of trying to

0:34:24.760 --> 0:34:26.719
<v Speaker 1>think you gotta beat somebody. So that's what I think

0:34:26.719 --> 0:34:28.640
<v Speaker 1>about the sex one, and for the dating and stuff.

0:34:28.680 --> 0:34:30.600
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's different things, y'all. Because if you want

0:34:30.640 --> 0:34:32.240
<v Speaker 1>to be single and you're just trying to get laid,

0:34:32.440 --> 0:34:34.719
<v Speaker 1>there's a couple of things for that, and then if

0:34:34.760 --> 0:34:36.640
<v Speaker 1>you want to actually get you a partner, there's a

0:34:36.640 --> 0:34:38.399
<v Speaker 1>couple of things for that. So let's let's get into

0:34:38.480 --> 0:34:41.520
<v Speaker 1>that one. So we talked about this partner, Well, how

0:34:41.520 --> 0:34:46.960
<v Speaker 1>do you lead when you're intentional about dating? Boof being

0:34:46.960 --> 0:34:49.440
<v Speaker 1>intentional about dating, I think is first of all, not

0:34:49.520 --> 0:34:52.839
<v Speaker 1>dating somebody that you know doesn't follow follow along the criteria.

0:34:53.080 --> 0:34:55.680
<v Speaker 1>And what I mean by that it's not not being judged.

0:34:55.719 --> 0:35:00.680
<v Speaker 1>Excuse me, it's a pH nine point five like water

0:35:02.520 --> 0:35:07.920
<v Speaker 1>that the mic um. I think that when you're intentioning

0:35:07.960 --> 0:35:10.200
<v Speaker 1>with dating, it should be that person should be at

0:35:10.239 --> 0:35:13.600
<v Speaker 1>least uh, how can I say this, like this should

0:35:13.600 --> 0:35:16.160
<v Speaker 1>be somewhat what you truly want to end up with.

0:35:16.640 --> 0:35:18.719
<v Speaker 1>You can't be like, I'm trying to be serious and

0:35:18.760 --> 0:35:20.960
<v Speaker 1>I want to have a new situation with somebody that

0:35:21.000 --> 0:35:23.000
<v Speaker 1>i'm with and then get with somebody with three kids,

0:35:23.280 --> 0:35:25.279
<v Speaker 1>you know, because it's kind of like that's probably gonna

0:35:25.280 --> 0:35:31.040
<v Speaker 1>be different. And even if it's one kid. You know

0:35:31.040 --> 0:35:32.640
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, it's just like, if that's not what

0:35:32.719 --> 0:35:34.840
<v Speaker 1>you if you be ready for whatever you ask for.

0:35:34.920 --> 0:35:37.239
<v Speaker 1>So if you're gonna get serious with somebody at a

0:35:37.440 --> 0:35:41.960
<v Speaker 1>someone what you thing? Because three kids? If you're in

0:35:42.000 --> 0:35:44.000
<v Speaker 1>your forties and meet someone with three kids, that's you

0:35:44.000 --> 0:35:45.799
<v Speaker 1>know why, because you probably already have kids as well,

0:35:46.200 --> 0:35:47.839
<v Speaker 1>and that's different. I just think you need to find

0:35:47.840 --> 0:35:49.880
<v Speaker 1>somebody that your lifestyles can match with. A lot of

0:35:49.880 --> 0:35:51.879
<v Speaker 1>times we say we're serious and we're intention with dating,

0:35:52.040 --> 0:35:54.080
<v Speaker 1>but then we find somebody that's like they don't have

0:35:54.120 --> 0:35:57.319
<v Speaker 1>a visa, you know, you know whatever. It is like

0:35:57.400 --> 0:35:59.279
<v Speaker 1>we we we don't really was like and we're like,

0:35:59.400 --> 0:36:01.040
<v Speaker 1>but I love off them, and it's like, girl, you

0:36:01.040 --> 0:36:03.239
<v Speaker 1>don't want to see that girl. He's a selling he

0:36:03.280 --> 0:36:07.439
<v Speaker 1>can't go to Canada. It is his fault. He got

0:36:07.440 --> 0:36:11.239
<v Speaker 1>a feminy do what I mean? His reason? Like it's

0:36:11.280 --> 0:36:13.480
<v Speaker 1>like you really don't you We really sometimes say we

0:36:13.560 --> 0:36:15.760
<v Speaker 1>want to be intentional with dating, but like the dating

0:36:15.760 --> 0:36:18.120
<v Speaker 1>we're doing is actually like we're just doing anything, you

0:36:18.120 --> 0:36:20.760
<v Speaker 1>know well, and we're hoping that eventually we can change

0:36:21.000 --> 0:36:23.680
<v Speaker 1>whoever we find attraction to to be. That's when we

0:36:23.800 --> 0:36:26.040
<v Speaker 1>want them to be. When the dick is good, he

0:36:26.239 --> 0:36:31.720
<v Speaker 1>I was telling the bullshit. I like, broth kick, Here's

0:36:31.719 --> 0:36:38.360
<v Speaker 1>why I have a job. When your dick is that palm? Why?

0:36:38.880 --> 0:36:41.080
<v Speaker 1>But I want to know, But that's already I'm scared

0:36:41.600 --> 0:36:44.640
<v Speaker 1>because because now you're gonna and why is it like that?

0:36:44.880 --> 0:36:47.240
<v Speaker 1>Why is it like that because you're not home at

0:36:47.600 --> 0:36:49.719
<v Speaker 1>do we need to start the only things do we need?

0:36:49.800 --> 0:36:52.200
<v Speaker 1>But why is you? Can I do that? That's the job?

0:36:53.040 --> 0:36:55.440
<v Speaker 1>Would you do the parson that? Would you ever do

0:36:55.480 --> 0:36:57.120
<v Speaker 1>that with him? On? The only thing? Would you ever

0:36:57.360 --> 0:37:01.919
<v Speaker 1>make a tape with a person? Can't coming your way

0:37:02.000 --> 0:37:09.080
<v Speaker 1>through you? I didn't have a question. I wanted to

0:37:09.080 --> 0:37:14.040
<v Speaker 1>come back to. Can has definitely been something that's sucked

0:37:14.120 --> 0:37:16.840
<v Speaker 1>us all up. But when you've watched porn, When you

0:37:16.880 --> 0:37:20.200
<v Speaker 1>do watch porn, what what do you type in? I

0:37:20.320 --> 0:37:23.680
<v Speaker 1>only like I only like girl on girl porn because

0:37:24.440 --> 0:37:28.640
<v Speaker 1>it's nice and beautiful and everything the arrangement, and I

0:37:28.640 --> 0:37:32.560
<v Speaker 1>don't like all that. I don't like all that rough stuy,

0:37:32.640 --> 0:37:35.160
<v Speaker 1>Hey real quick, are you hoop me? You're trained this

0:37:35.200 --> 0:37:40.000
<v Speaker 1>misch before she came in continue. I think we've been

0:37:40.080 --> 0:37:42.399
<v Speaker 1>play something with the delicacies of the arrangement. I think

0:37:42.440 --> 0:37:45.720
<v Speaker 1>that's the gag is But you know what's back to gag?

0:37:47.719 --> 0:37:51.800
<v Speaker 1>Where we coast the gag? Okay? I want to because

0:37:52.680 --> 0:37:56.360
<v Speaker 1>I think that over the years you've been sexier, Like

0:37:56.440 --> 0:37:58.719
<v Speaker 1>when you're starting to wow, it's like no, no, no,

0:37:58.920 --> 0:38:02.000
<v Speaker 1>you got you started again? Like the glasses on bit

0:38:02.320 --> 0:38:06.760
<v Speaker 1>was a sexy and the kid's sexy. Now swe Women's

0:38:06.760 --> 0:38:09.440
<v Speaker 1>healthy with sexy the Glamor mag he was sexy and

0:38:09.480 --> 0:38:11.240
<v Speaker 1>what's my favorite pick? I told you with the white

0:38:11.600 --> 0:38:16.160
<v Speaker 1>Talk you're note premier. Oh yes, I love that. So

0:38:16.719 --> 0:38:19.400
<v Speaker 1>when you look at sexy and they're ready to giddy,

0:38:19.440 --> 0:38:21.680
<v Speaker 1>are you normally like the sub girl? Do you like

0:38:21.719 --> 0:38:23.879
<v Speaker 1>to be told what to do? Ye? You are? Yeah,

0:38:23.920 --> 0:38:26.640
<v Speaker 1>because I'm already bossy in real time. I don't need

0:38:27.040 --> 0:38:28.920
<v Speaker 1>me up, you know what I mean? I feel like

0:38:29.280 --> 0:38:32.040
<v Speaker 1>definitely when I'm an intimate space was someone I'm very

0:38:32.120 --> 0:38:37.759
<v Speaker 1>much so like at your service? Who have you ever done?

0:38:37.840 --> 0:38:41.760
<v Speaker 1>Role play? Yes? What kind? I need to know? Fol script,

0:38:41.840 --> 0:38:45.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to come on actor. Honestly, it turns into

0:38:45.719 --> 0:38:49.359
<v Speaker 1>a wrong con. I really do enjoy it, Like, Wow,

0:38:50.560 --> 0:38:52.600
<v Speaker 1>who knew that I'd see you at the high school reunion?

0:38:53.560 --> 0:39:01.040
<v Speaker 1>And then he'll say he's lying, let's she did the

0:39:02.120 --> 0:39:07.160
<v Speaker 1>me you Okay, I did not expect to see you

0:39:07.200 --> 0:39:09.239
<v Speaker 1>at the high school you what's been going on? I mean,

0:39:09.320 --> 0:39:11.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, I've actually come into my sexuality. I found

0:39:11.520 --> 0:39:15.640
<v Speaker 1>out I'm a lesbian. Really, I did ki well me

0:39:15.880 --> 0:39:18.960
<v Speaker 1>and I mean I think I felt that in high

0:39:19.000 --> 0:39:21.920
<v Speaker 1>school with you, I never mentioned it. I always had

0:39:22.080 --> 0:39:23.840
<v Speaker 1>feelings and thoughts, but I just thought to myself, you

0:39:23.920 --> 0:39:27.360
<v Speaker 1>know what, like she never be into me? And is

0:39:27.440 --> 0:39:29.360
<v Speaker 1>this is why you called me over to hang? I

0:39:29.400 --> 0:39:33.200
<v Speaker 1>mean I wasn't. Look, I can't do it. See what

0:39:33.280 --> 0:39:35.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean? If I was thought to be ready to

0:39:35.080 --> 0:39:37.760
<v Speaker 1>be like, well, the bathroom is over there, I was ready,

0:39:37.880 --> 0:39:39.719
<v Speaker 1>Well you should come over. I would love to show

0:39:39.760 --> 0:39:43.400
<v Speaker 1>you how I make dirty, extra dirty, all of martinis

0:39:43.400 --> 0:39:48.200
<v Speaker 1>in my crib. You know this is this is pony,

0:39:48.360 --> 0:39:50.920
<v Speaker 1>This is bony. But the act at home. But but

0:39:51.080 --> 0:39:54.200
<v Speaker 1>no in terms of being like, in terms of engaging

0:39:54.239 --> 0:39:58.480
<v Speaker 1>with women, so you would prefer someone a little less aggressive.

0:39:58.520 --> 0:40:01.000
<v Speaker 1>So to me, you seem like someone and who would

0:40:01.040 --> 0:40:03.560
<v Speaker 1>not be aggressive at all. But also where I would

0:40:03.600 --> 0:40:06.600
<v Speaker 1>be more direct in tone, like because you're not going

0:40:06.640 --> 0:40:08.839
<v Speaker 1>to teeth me all night, because I ain't got time,

0:40:08.880 --> 0:40:10.600
<v Speaker 1>I think I can give more of that stem energy.

0:40:11.040 --> 0:40:15.239
<v Speaker 1>So it's somewhere in between. Okay, So then, but well

0:40:15.320 --> 0:40:17.960
<v Speaker 1>in the way that someone then hits on you. Of course,

0:40:18.000 --> 0:40:20.520
<v Speaker 1>with women, it could be different. Some women loves someone

0:40:20.560 --> 0:40:25.160
<v Speaker 1>who's more direct. Others like someone who's more shy. I

0:40:25.239 --> 0:40:27.319
<v Speaker 1>like them to be directed and now this had though

0:40:27.320 --> 0:40:29.000
<v Speaker 1>it's unfair because I don't like if I don't like

0:40:29.120 --> 0:40:32.399
<v Speaker 1>with guys same girls you can touch do with touch,

0:40:33.000 --> 0:40:34.719
<v Speaker 1>it can be. I'm cool with the girl off girls

0:40:34.800 --> 0:40:36.399
<v Speaker 1>making a move and she's trying to get me into

0:40:36.440 --> 0:40:38.360
<v Speaker 1>the vibe. I'm cool with that being like stop and

0:40:38.400 --> 0:40:40.080
<v Speaker 1>just hugging me for no reason because I'm like, I

0:40:40.200 --> 0:40:43.520
<v Speaker 1>know what that means. I know what that means. You

0:40:43.719 --> 0:40:45.480
<v Speaker 1>like you have my hand a little bit too long,

0:40:46.160 --> 0:40:47.759
<v Speaker 1>I know what that means. So I'm cool with with

0:40:47.920 --> 0:40:51.120
<v Speaker 1>with girls if they're that, If that's a level of aggression,

0:40:51.200 --> 0:40:53.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm cool with. But if it goes to the level

0:40:53.200 --> 0:40:56.920
<v Speaker 1>aggression being like, so what's up, oh ship, that spooks me?

0:40:57.200 --> 0:41:01.000
<v Speaker 1>Why why does that spook you? From a woman and man? Guys? Well,

0:41:01.280 --> 0:41:05.000
<v Speaker 1>and it's weird to mean to me, I'm actually the

0:41:05.080 --> 0:41:08.680
<v Speaker 1>opposite because I've dealt with so many women where girl

0:41:08.719 --> 0:41:10.839
<v Speaker 1>still play a lot, but girls played too much, girls

0:41:10.840 --> 0:41:16.560
<v Speaker 1>tolay or not like like And so to me, the

0:41:16.719 --> 0:41:19.359
<v Speaker 1>playing I would rather know out front because I play

0:41:19.400 --> 0:41:22.240
<v Speaker 1>a lot. To them, No guys will suck a chicken sandwich,

0:41:22.560 --> 0:41:25.480
<v Speaker 1>so like to me, like literally, they don't be playing

0:41:25.560 --> 0:41:28.040
<v Speaker 1>you know what they want with women, though, it's like

0:41:28.560 --> 0:41:32.160
<v Speaker 1>I would actually prefer knowing. Are you just starting with

0:41:32.320 --> 0:41:34.560
<v Speaker 1>me or do you actually like women? I feel you

0:41:34.840 --> 0:41:37.840
<v Speaker 1>want to feel me, so I understand the directness, but

0:41:37.920 --> 0:41:40.800
<v Speaker 1>it's just it's just like man, with that directness, you

0:41:40.920 --> 0:41:43.480
<v Speaker 1>could break the moment. So it's like it's just a

0:41:43.520 --> 0:41:46.960
<v Speaker 1>teeter tytery game moment. Better end up like can have

0:41:47.000 --> 0:41:49.600
<v Speaker 1>a song and dance? Yeah? Yeah, I want a song

0:41:49.680 --> 0:41:57.440
<v Speaker 1>and dancing now. I want to know if we can

0:41:57.480 --> 0:42:00.680
<v Speaker 1>get into some terms. I just really very curious to

0:42:00.760 --> 0:42:04.520
<v Speaker 1>see how much you know about kink. I won't know

0:42:04.520 --> 0:42:07.920
<v Speaker 1>how much because King has some ranges, guys, so let's

0:42:07.920 --> 0:42:11.880
<v Speaker 1>get into it. This one an easy one, okay. Tea bagging.

0:42:12.360 --> 0:42:18.040
<v Speaker 1>Tea bagging is when the balls go bun. Cuck holding,

0:42:19.200 --> 0:42:22.080
<v Speaker 1>that's what said again. Cuck holding is that when you

0:42:22.120 --> 0:42:27.480
<v Speaker 1>watch your girl do something with somebody else, good golden shower,

0:42:27.880 --> 0:42:31.880
<v Speaker 1>passing on you, passing on you. A rim job. A

0:42:32.000 --> 0:42:34.000
<v Speaker 1>rim job is when you lick in the around the

0:42:34.040 --> 0:42:38.200
<v Speaker 1>booty the boot A pro necklace is when you give

0:42:38.239 --> 0:42:41.880
<v Speaker 1>her pro necklace. Right, no, no, no, what what is

0:42:41.920 --> 0:42:48.200
<v Speaker 1>the pro necklace? That's delicacy is the arrangement when they

0:42:48.280 --> 0:42:50.520
<v Speaker 1>come a fluid and it it ends up hanging on

0:42:50.600 --> 0:42:54.759
<v Speaker 1>your net. This one is one net your team didn't

0:42:54.800 --> 0:43:00.640
<v Speaker 1>know which I love very snowballing. Oh damn, y'all stop me. Damn.

0:43:00.640 --> 0:43:07.520
<v Speaker 1>I thought everybody with the frank okay snow was white. Yeah,

0:43:07.600 --> 0:43:08.920
<v Speaker 1>I know, it's I know. It's got to do with

0:43:10.000 --> 0:43:12.879
<v Speaker 1>to fig out the ball. It's the balling that's thrown

0:43:12.920 --> 0:43:17.840
<v Speaker 1>me off. Just tell me. It's basically, when a dude ejaculates,

0:43:18.080 --> 0:43:23.320
<v Speaker 1>you can come into your mouth and y'all make out. No,

0:43:23.600 --> 0:43:25.680
<v Speaker 1>he spits it into your mouth like there's a whole,

0:43:26.680 --> 0:43:28.680
<v Speaker 1>Like it's not just looking out, bro, But like I

0:43:28.760 --> 0:43:30.640
<v Speaker 1>don't know what it is. No, I just thought it

0:43:30.680 --> 0:43:33.160
<v Speaker 1>was like you can't know, But you back and say,

0:43:33.200 --> 0:43:35.080
<v Speaker 1>it's like, it's how do you get to that level?

0:43:35.280 --> 0:43:37.960
<v Speaker 1>I want to know? Not even spinning? Not even spinning?

0:43:37.960 --> 0:43:41.719
<v Speaker 1>How do you? How do late you ready? Keeping you ready? No?

0:43:42.080 --> 0:43:46.000
<v Speaker 1>You ready? You ready? With the road plate? Is how

0:43:46.080 --> 0:43:49.359
<v Speaker 1>you're going? Because I've been there many times kicking. How

0:43:49.400 --> 0:43:54.080
<v Speaker 1>do you ask? Oh baby, I let it so so

0:43:55.320 --> 0:43:58.560
<v Speaker 1>they're from the back. Can you come to mouth when

0:43:58.560 --> 0:43:59.799
<v Speaker 1>I want you to come to the mouth so much?

0:44:00.960 --> 0:44:05.000
<v Speaker 1>And so then my mom was and on and then

0:44:05.120 --> 0:44:09.040
<v Speaker 1>time I'm like, he's like and so he moved out

0:44:09.360 --> 0:44:12.320
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like uh, and I'd be like uh, and

0:44:12.360 --> 0:44:14.960
<v Speaker 1>then I keep it and I'd be like, in my mom,

0:44:15.640 --> 0:44:17.960
<v Speaker 1>stay right there, and then I lean over him. You

0:44:18.080 --> 0:44:23.120
<v Speaker 1>don't performed my biggest this? How is that so performed?

0:44:23.520 --> 0:44:28.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't understand make sure of this. First off, I

0:44:28.239 --> 0:44:33.719
<v Speaker 1>had the performance and seen bitch, you didn't you? That

0:44:33.800 --> 0:44:36.520
<v Speaker 1>was very good? And it's like you better swallow nick.

0:44:36.600 --> 0:44:41.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't understand how you would taste good? Right, you

0:44:41.480 --> 0:44:43.640
<v Speaker 1>better be we know who's called writing home and tell

0:44:43.680 --> 0:44:45.600
<v Speaker 1>season dude, Oh my god, you better be healthy and

0:44:45.719 --> 0:44:48.080
<v Speaker 1>have the performance, has the performance stature? How it gets there?

0:44:48.680 --> 0:44:50.960
<v Speaker 1>I just didn't. So she's saying, how do you get

0:44:50.960 --> 0:44:52.840
<v Speaker 1>to that? That man? How do you get you? How

0:44:52.880 --> 0:44:58.360
<v Speaker 1>does it? Just? Let me just last? What do you

0:44:58.440 --> 0:45:02.719
<v Speaker 1>think is the nasty thing you're in too? Honestly, gods,

0:45:02.719 --> 0:45:04.760
<v Speaker 1>I think my sheet is a must be wag because

0:45:04.760 --> 0:45:06.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't mean nothing crazy. You know what it is

0:45:06.920 --> 0:45:11.080
<v Speaker 1>because I'm I'm I got a person. That's how I

0:45:11.120 --> 0:45:17.000
<v Speaker 1>don't got a person that's like what else your intimated

0:45:17.080 --> 0:45:20.200
<v Speaker 1>your intimate? I'm cool with that, but I don't don't

0:45:20.239 --> 0:45:23.480
<v Speaker 1>know how we get fair. I don't. I just said

0:45:23.480 --> 0:45:26.239
<v Speaker 1>it's also so so happy, it is so nice, and

0:45:26.640 --> 0:45:28.480
<v Speaker 1>everything is just like all right, all right, it's like

0:45:28.600 --> 0:45:29.840
<v Speaker 1>a little bit of chalk I can feel, But like,

0:45:29.880 --> 0:45:31.759
<v Speaker 1>how does it gets up when you're like, because you

0:45:31.840 --> 0:45:34.759
<v Speaker 1>know what, get there and I get there by like

0:45:35.320 --> 0:45:38.719
<v Speaker 1>you letting this person know I love every single thing

0:45:38.760 --> 0:45:43.279
<v Speaker 1>about you. It is like I don't lick this in

0:45:43.400 --> 0:45:45.719
<v Speaker 1>between his nigga's toes, so of course I can take

0:45:45.760 --> 0:45:47.719
<v Speaker 1>your slive in my mouth and your cum should go

0:45:47.800 --> 0:45:51.040
<v Speaker 1>back into yours and we love each other fully, you

0:45:51.120 --> 0:45:53.840
<v Speaker 1>know what. You know how they say like blood brothers

0:45:54.080 --> 0:45:57.800
<v Speaker 1>when you like you cut each other opening you you

0:45:57.920 --> 0:46:04.080
<v Speaker 1>just bit thing that is given the craft. So shears something.

0:46:04.120 --> 0:46:08.680
<v Speaker 1>I think that's basic. Okay. Hotel sex maybe on the

0:46:08.760 --> 0:46:12.040
<v Speaker 1>balcony public, but not so public. Are you into that

0:46:12.200 --> 0:46:13.680
<v Speaker 1>or do you feel like do you think like my

0:46:14.400 --> 0:46:18.879
<v Speaker 1>coming right on that balcony like just huge your mind

0:46:19.360 --> 0:46:22.440
<v Speaker 1>because be real point, I do like a good like

0:46:22.640 --> 0:46:24.960
<v Speaker 1>we on the balcony, people coming back. I think the

0:46:25.000 --> 0:46:26.920
<v Speaker 1>public kind of think it could be quite fun. It

0:46:26.920 --> 0:46:28.719
<v Speaker 1>could be quite fun, depending on where you're doing it

0:46:28.800 --> 0:46:33.200
<v Speaker 1>at it could be quite where you do it. You know.

0:46:33.280 --> 0:46:35.920
<v Speaker 1>I really love the vibes of like being out of

0:46:36.000 --> 0:46:37.960
<v Speaker 1>the way, like you know, Joshua Tree, you know, I

0:46:38.080 --> 0:46:41.359
<v Speaker 1>like to go out and that's hot. Just I don't

0:46:41.400 --> 0:46:48.319
<v Speaker 1>know who rode here with you? Ki Man. I love

0:46:48.400 --> 0:46:54.000
<v Speaker 1>the outdoor in the middle of in the middle of

0:46:54.160 --> 0:46:56.919
<v Speaker 1>you saw or know what it is? Bitch, that's where? Bitch?

0:46:56.960 --> 0:47:01.040
<v Speaker 1>What are you say? Okay because the buffs be driving

0:47:01.080 --> 0:47:07.160
<v Speaker 1>out there, like hey, all right, let's get the listener questions. Gosh,

0:47:07.239 --> 0:47:12.480
<v Speaker 1>listeners ask We already talked about how fame and navigating

0:47:12.520 --> 0:47:17.680
<v Speaker 1>relationships role play. Um oh, this one I like in film?

0:47:17.840 --> 0:47:20.680
<v Speaker 1>How awkward are the intomy's intimacy scenes have you had?

0:47:21.000 --> 0:47:23.840
<v Speaker 1>Very awkward? They're weird because ain't nobody doing that. That

0:47:23.880 --> 0:47:25.719
<v Speaker 1>means like, you know, we're just like trying to hold

0:47:25.760 --> 0:47:29.080
<v Speaker 1>ourselves up and you know, trying to get the right position,

0:47:29.440 --> 0:47:31.200
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. Like, I think the most

0:47:31.320 --> 0:47:34.160
<v Speaker 1>fun love scene that I had, please was with the

0:47:34.239 --> 0:47:38.320
<v Speaker 1>girl from Pimp. We had a blast Rihanna, you know baby,

0:47:38.600 --> 0:47:42.040
<v Speaker 1>this is what your gang was and we were just

0:47:42.239 --> 0:47:44.560
<v Speaker 1>having a ball ball we both were. I was like,

0:47:44.600 --> 0:47:45.920
<v Speaker 1>you ain't got to be scared. Girl. I was like,

0:47:46.040 --> 0:47:48.439
<v Speaker 1>she's like you don't either. I'm like, let's kill it, girl,

0:47:48.719 --> 0:47:50.239
<v Speaker 1>And we just started making out and it was just

0:47:50.320 --> 0:47:52.200
<v Speaker 1>like a foint that I'm rolling around. It was just

0:47:52.520 --> 0:47:55.360
<v Speaker 1>I really enjoyed it. It was the most fluid type

0:47:55.400 --> 0:47:59.520
<v Speaker 1>of quote unquote love scene that I had, and I

0:47:59.600 --> 0:48:03.160
<v Speaker 1>feel like I really love The other ones are very

0:48:03.239 --> 0:48:05.799
<v Speaker 1>like can I can I ask you? Because even because

0:48:06.320 --> 0:48:11.640
<v Speaker 1>they want to be in terms of even seen an

0:48:11.719 --> 0:48:15.440
<v Speaker 1>out scene. So you know you're a fucking actor to

0:48:15.520 --> 0:48:19.040
<v Speaker 1>the fucking court, but you also can fucking sing. Have

0:48:19.280 --> 0:48:24.320
<v Speaker 1>you ever seduced the man with your vocals? Yes? And

0:48:24.440 --> 0:48:27.319
<v Speaker 1>what did you sing? And can I can I hear

0:48:27.400 --> 0:48:29.640
<v Speaker 1>how you seduce them? Well, it's not even like I

0:48:29.680 --> 0:48:31.440
<v Speaker 1>would sing to them. I would just do stuf where

0:48:31.480 --> 0:48:33.160
<v Speaker 1>it's like, you know, will we be kicking? I'm like

0:48:33.600 --> 0:48:38.520
<v Speaker 1>you know that one song like like do something whenever

0:48:39.560 --> 0:48:41.040
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like you can sing and I'm like, yes,

0:48:42.600 --> 0:48:44.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, And then their hood they're like, she's sallenged.

0:48:45.040 --> 0:48:48.759
<v Speaker 1>People love challenge. Don't love any type of like even

0:48:48.800 --> 0:48:50.759
<v Speaker 1>if you even if you could juggle somebody and be

0:48:50.840 --> 0:48:53.520
<v Speaker 1>like wow, people love to see you do something. The

0:48:54.600 --> 0:48:58.080
<v Speaker 1>people love it, love it. Yo, You're right, and that's

0:48:58.080 --> 0:49:00.800
<v Speaker 1>why I do the most Conflix after a lot. But

0:49:00.880 --> 0:49:02.320
<v Speaker 1>that's also why I would never did an R and

0:49:02.360 --> 0:49:05.600
<v Speaker 1>B thing. You're not gonna sing here and get me.

0:49:06.280 --> 0:49:08.279
<v Speaker 1>You're not gonna get me. That's the thing. When you

0:49:08.320 --> 0:49:10.680
<v Speaker 1>were when you were also into the singing, you can

0:49:10.760 --> 0:49:14.919
<v Speaker 1>tell I know what you're doing. So, I mean because

0:49:14.920 --> 0:49:22.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I do that trick. Okay, I think the

0:49:23.080 --> 0:49:29.879
<v Speaker 1>last question, We've got one more. What would it be this? Yeah,

0:49:29.960 --> 0:49:32.719
<v Speaker 1>I didn't ask myne. I didn't ask mine, all right,

0:49:32.760 --> 0:49:37.200
<v Speaker 1>I know mine kicking. If you had a podcast, what

0:49:37.239 --> 0:49:40.840
<v Speaker 1>would it be about? Okay, it would be about all

0:49:41.040 --> 0:49:44.120
<v Speaker 1>It would be about diving into all the all crazy

0:49:44.200 --> 0:49:47.520
<v Speaker 1>type of ship ship like you know, what the hell

0:49:47.640 --> 0:49:51.480
<v Speaker 1>is time from my space? It would be like it's

0:49:51.520 --> 0:49:54.560
<v Speaker 1>time all right for me? Wait? Is he really? Yeah? Absolutely?

0:49:55.040 --> 0:49:57.360
<v Speaker 1>You you matched him? Or was it my home girl? Dad? No,

0:49:57.480 --> 0:50:00.000
<v Speaker 1>I feel like that's a serial killer. They'be using Pike picture.

0:50:00.080 --> 0:50:03.120
<v Speaker 1>Y'all both know what home really is? Better? Um, it

0:50:03.120 --> 0:50:05.719
<v Speaker 1>would be about just my I would curious, I would

0:50:05.800 --> 0:50:08.160
<v Speaker 1>I would support my curiosity. So it would just be

0:50:08.239 --> 0:50:12.600
<v Speaker 1>about any type of weird, deep subject from metaphysics to sexuality,

0:50:12.760 --> 0:50:16.520
<v Speaker 1>to psychology, to any category. It would just be about

0:50:16.520 --> 0:50:18.440
<v Speaker 1>all these different things I would have obviously, you know,

0:50:18.640 --> 0:50:20.480
<v Speaker 1>I think I really would love to talk to experts

0:50:20.520 --> 0:50:22.520
<v Speaker 1>and people that would like just wound me with the information.

0:50:22.640 --> 0:50:24.400
<v Speaker 1>They know that I could just you know, pick their

0:50:24.440 --> 0:50:26.440
<v Speaker 1>brain about any topic. But I would just want to

0:50:26.440 --> 0:50:28.080
<v Speaker 1>be curious about all this, like I'm very I'm a

0:50:28.120 --> 0:50:29.640
<v Speaker 1>very curious person. You said I would want to be

0:50:29.719 --> 0:50:33.719
<v Speaker 1>the black woman Joe broke. Great, that's pretty much like

0:50:33.880 --> 0:50:36.400
<v Speaker 1>that's literally and it's cool because he got a hundred

0:50:36.400 --> 0:50:38.800
<v Speaker 1>million dollar deal, so of course you would want to

0:50:38.840 --> 0:50:41.520
<v Speaker 1>go for I would want to see you in a

0:50:41.600 --> 0:50:44.640
<v Speaker 1>space where people have to teach you something you don't know.

0:50:45.200 --> 0:50:49.200
<v Speaker 1>I feel like watching you, watching you and on YouTube,

0:50:49.320 --> 0:50:52.399
<v Speaker 1>just sitting there being like, what would be the best?

0:50:53.200 --> 0:50:55.600
<v Speaker 1>All right, now, tell everybody where they can watch the

0:50:55.719 --> 0:50:59.759
<v Speaker 1>TV the shows that you're in. No's over here doing

0:51:00.120 --> 0:51:05.320
<v Speaker 1>hands seed media. I don't, but I really need you

0:51:05.320 --> 0:51:07.480
<v Speaker 1>all to know that this is really fun and enjoyable,

0:51:07.480 --> 0:51:09.400
<v Speaker 1>and next time you do what The only thing I

0:51:09.440 --> 0:51:11.880
<v Speaker 1>would say is, you know, I would love at your

0:51:11.920 --> 0:51:14.399
<v Speaker 1>coolery board just right there, because when we I would

0:51:14.440 --> 0:51:16.279
<v Speaker 1>just that's one thing. I'll bring it the next time

0:51:16.520 --> 0:51:18.640
<v Speaker 1>because I really want to eat with y'all too and

0:51:18.800 --> 0:51:25.920
<v Speaker 1>laugh with y'all. Can we do if we did episode

0:51:26.360 --> 0:51:30.880
<v Speaker 1>me back for that would be so much fun. I

0:51:30.880 --> 0:51:33.080
<v Speaker 1>would love that. I would do it. I'm not gonna lie.

0:51:33.080 --> 0:51:38.960
<v Speaker 1>I would do what'd I said, stop doing that, like,

0:51:43.280 --> 0:51:46.279
<v Speaker 1>let's make it the director clear right now. I never

0:51:46.400 --> 0:51:48.959
<v Speaker 1>been to a fan, you know, That's how you said.

0:51:56.080 --> 0:51:58.840
<v Speaker 1>I just want to do it correctly. I heard you

0:51:58.880 --> 0:52:03.600
<v Speaker 1>speaking Spanish, kicking you you did anyway, looking, I really

0:52:03.640 --> 0:52:06.880
<v Speaker 1>love this time. Honestly, I've actuallyised that I had to

0:52:06.960 --> 0:52:10.320
<v Speaker 1>leave because I love all this stuff. You know, You're great,

0:52:10.360 --> 0:52:14.160
<v Speaker 1>You're k and real quick too. I do just want

0:52:14.200 --> 0:52:16.439
<v Speaker 1>to say for those people who have not ran into

0:52:16.560 --> 0:52:19.560
<v Speaker 1>you publicly, like you were at our new at our

0:52:19.719 --> 0:52:22.120
<v Speaker 1>l A Life show, and when I ran into you

0:52:22.360 --> 0:52:26.759
<v Speaker 1>BT Awards, you embraced me and you were always you you.

0:52:27.320 --> 0:52:29.520
<v Speaker 1>You were always the same energy. And I know people

0:52:29.640 --> 0:52:34.200
<v Speaker 1>like famous people be really weird. You have always held

0:52:34.280 --> 0:52:36.319
<v Speaker 1>the same energy every time I've seen you, every time

0:52:36.360 --> 0:52:39.520
<v Speaker 1>we've been in the same room, And so anyone watching

0:52:39.600 --> 0:52:41.799
<v Speaker 1>who maybe like that's my home girl, I hope she's

0:52:41.840 --> 0:52:45.840
<v Speaker 1>really like this. You have literally been the same energy

0:52:46.000 --> 0:52:47.400
<v Speaker 1>every time we've been in the same room, and I

0:52:47.480 --> 0:52:49.840
<v Speaker 1>just wanted to be sure that the public knew that

0:52:50.000 --> 0:52:53.440
<v Speaker 1>you were that girl. Oh my gosh, seriously I saw

0:52:53.600 --> 0:52:56.880
<v Speaker 1>the guy like you you really are, just because these

0:52:56.920 --> 0:52:59.680
<v Speaker 1>bit should be weird and you're not so like. Just

0:53:00.160 --> 0:53:02.320
<v Speaker 1>to make sure everyone who was watching this know that

0:53:02.440 --> 0:53:06.399
<v Speaker 1>you your this cool. We'd be shocked. I love y'all. Well,

0:53:06.440 --> 0:53:08.360
<v Speaker 1>happen me back. I'm here for the monk bonk and

0:53:09.040 --> 0:53:10.960
<v Speaker 1>when you come to New York, let's go. Oh my gosh,

0:53:11.040 --> 0:53:12.600
<v Speaker 1>that's what I thought we was doing this, So we

0:53:12.680 --> 0:53:16.960
<v Speaker 1>do that. We was a little time. Yeah, so glad that, y'all.

0:53:18.480 --> 0:53:23.200
<v Speaker 1>We can't have you of the arrangement anyway. I um,

0:53:23.520 --> 0:53:26.879
<v Speaker 1>you can catch key TV. It's free, okay, no subscription nothing.

0:53:27.040 --> 0:53:29.719
<v Speaker 1>You tune, Facebook, all of the stuff. Check the key

0:53:29.760 --> 0:53:32.600
<v Speaker 1>TV network Instagram page for any information, and you know

0:53:32.640 --> 0:53:36.040
<v Speaker 1>you could catch your girl everywhere all at once, like

0:53:36.200 --> 0:53:43.440
<v Speaker 1>the movie Give where I mean, I'm a Hulu. Um,

0:53:43.680 --> 0:53:51.359
<v Speaker 1>now we're gonna look Patreon. No, thank you so much,

0:53:51.480 --> 0:53:53.880
<v Speaker 1>so so so very much, y'all. Make sure y'all support

0:53:53.960 --> 0:53:57.040
<v Speaker 1>this queen wherever the fun she acts, she is that girl,

0:53:57.200 --> 0:53:59.640
<v Speaker 1>and we are so appreciative to having you here on Harvard.

0:53:59.680 --> 0:54:02.200
<v Speaker 1>I love keep killing it and I love those live

0:54:02.280 --> 0:54:07.800
<v Speaker 1>shows very very because there up there, I host the

0:54:07.880 --> 0:54:11.600
<v Speaker 1>Home Hotel after show on key TV AM I on

0:54:11.800 --> 0:54:15.160
<v Speaker 1>their howing No, but I made every single actor uncomfortable.

0:54:17.080 --> 0:54:19.640
<v Speaker 1>Thank you guys for tuning in to get another episode

0:54:19.840 --> 0:54:22.520
<v Speaker 1>of Horrid Blair. This is That's the next time by

0:54:25.320 --> 0:54:27.600
<v Speaker 1>car when I knew that they could just take my

0:54:27.760 --> 0:54:29.960
<v Speaker 1>car and charge it instead of me parking, and I

0:54:30.080 --> 0:54:34.080
<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, I want to live here, but wait

0:54:34.160 --> 0:54:37.000
<v Speaker 1>for you. Did you have like a tesla? Yeah? Um,

0:54:37.800 --> 0:54:40.400
<v Speaker 1>that's amazing. I didn't know. Wait Columbia Square, would you

0:54:40.400 --> 0:54:43.160
<v Speaker 1>do that? Or the place that? So I almost moved in,

0:54:43.360 --> 0:54:44.800
<v Speaker 1>but then I kind of wanted to live in a

0:54:44.880 --> 0:54:54.520
<v Speaker 1>house and its probably I liked so so cute though

0:54:54.800 --> 0:54:59.240
<v Speaker 1>Columbia Squirrel. I love it so five of my best skirts.

0:54:59.320 --> 0:55:03.800
<v Speaker 1>It's right here. Yeah, I was like three minutes away, okay,

0:55:03.840 --> 0:55:09.640
<v Speaker 1>per ready h um. So Mandy starts it off by

0:55:09.680 --> 0:55:12.400
<v Speaker 1>saying it's bonus beach, but I can't say it with

0:55:12.480 --> 0:55:14.880
<v Speaker 1>our inflections, So now I feel like I failed. So

0:55:14.920 --> 0:55:18.440
<v Speaker 1>I would like to say we never really have white guests,

0:55:18.680 --> 0:55:25.120
<v Speaker 1>So I'm gonna get right, we don't pumpkin spice. Well,

0:55:25.160 --> 0:55:29.680
<v Speaker 1>Mandy loves that, you know what it is? Though we

0:55:30.160 --> 0:55:32.480
<v Speaker 1>actually yesterday I was thinking about that. I went to

0:55:32.520 --> 0:55:36.080
<v Speaker 1>a Spotify dinner and I was the only black girl there.

0:55:36.160 --> 0:55:38.480
<v Speaker 1>There was a lot of Asian girls, no Latina's, and

0:55:38.520 --> 0:55:40.560
<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh my god, there's so many podcasters

0:55:40.600 --> 0:55:44.000
<v Speaker 1>I want to have on, but also like, are my followers?

0:55:44.000 --> 0:55:46.359
<v Speaker 1>And I think our listeners gonna think we sold out.

0:55:46.920 --> 0:55:48.800
<v Speaker 1>So we have a white guest, they have to actually

0:55:48.880 --> 0:55:53.520
<v Speaker 1>be really interesting, so no pressure, but then tell us

0:55:53.560 --> 0:55:57.520
<v Speaker 1>the nun ship. Actually I'm trying to think who it's

0:55:57.560 --> 0:55:59.880
<v Speaker 1>really just because our podcast started on the premise of

0:56:00.280 --> 0:56:04.120
<v Speaker 1>having sex talk for black people, right, and over the years, um,

0:56:04.360 --> 0:56:06.320
<v Speaker 1>I mean, we've had guests that we felt like, okay,

0:56:06.320 --> 0:56:09.560
<v Speaker 1>we've got to have them. But it's moreover because the

0:56:09.680 --> 0:56:12.480
<v Speaker 1>conversations that were happening before horrible for me when I

0:56:12.560 --> 0:56:16.400
<v Speaker 1>was listening to sex podcasts, weren't necessarily relative to my life.

0:56:16.840 --> 0:56:19.440
<v Speaker 1>So I just wanted stories. I felt like things that

0:56:19.480 --> 0:56:21.480
<v Speaker 1>actually happened to me, whether it be. But now white

0:56:21.520 --> 0:56:23.920
<v Speaker 1>girls were clippings and stuff, so that was my main thing.

0:56:24.320 --> 0:56:26.840
<v Speaker 1>It was like, you know, oh, how do I explain

0:56:26.880 --> 0:56:29.919
<v Speaker 1>my wing or my ponytail? And like all my white friends,

0:56:30.000 --> 0:56:34.640
<v Speaker 1>now where we do you? Uh? No? But sometimes no

0:56:34.800 --> 0:56:37.560
<v Speaker 1>tape ins, nothing not right? Now? Give got something? What's

0:56:37.600 --> 0:56:42.880
<v Speaker 1>the blackest thing you do? Um? Oh my gosh, you

0:56:42.960 --> 0:56:45.560
<v Speaker 1>know I did so I did? Uh And then I

0:56:45.680 --> 0:56:47.840
<v Speaker 1>was making out with a guy and he felt the

0:56:47.880 --> 0:56:49.800
<v Speaker 1>back of my hair and he was like, what is that?

0:56:50.120 --> 0:56:54.320
<v Speaker 1>And when I stopped, that's so big. I got busted

0:56:54.440 --> 0:56:56.680
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, oh man, but it looks so good.

0:56:57.000 --> 0:56:59.800
<v Speaker 1>Everybody does it. It looks so good. It looks so

0:57:00.040 --> 0:57:03.279
<v Speaker 1>healthy and so like full and I know and also

0:57:03.400 --> 0:57:05.239
<v Speaker 1>like if you get the right kind that are good

0:57:05.320 --> 0:57:07.839
<v Speaker 1>enough for your hair, like the protectives to anyway, Okay,

0:57:07.840 --> 0:57:09.520
<v Speaker 1>I won't get into because we should be talking about sex.

0:57:09.600 --> 0:57:13.480
<v Speaker 1>But we have Katie in the house. When I say

0:57:13.520 --> 0:57:18.439
<v Speaker 1>owner and creator of the company, and it's called La Lavinia, Yes,

0:57:18.560 --> 0:57:20.800
<v Speaker 1>every time I like I'm reading it, I think of, like,

0:57:21.400 --> 0:57:25.680
<v Speaker 1>where did that come from? So she's like a Roman mistress? Okay,

0:57:26.080 --> 0:57:29.200
<v Speaker 1>it's from a movie. Who's the famous Lavinia? It's like

0:57:29.400 --> 0:57:33.360
<v Speaker 1>she's like a Roman mistress, like a goddess like it's

0:57:33.440 --> 0:57:37.920
<v Speaker 1>from mythology. Why that become it's become like a popular

0:57:37.960 --> 0:57:42.320
<v Speaker 1>first name too, okay, but why Roman mistress for the

0:57:42.440 --> 0:57:44.560
<v Speaker 1>end of a I do. I actually keep trying to

0:57:44.640 --> 0:57:46.160
<v Speaker 1>keep that on the download because I don't want to

0:57:46.280 --> 0:57:50.480
<v Speaker 1>trigger anybody. So sometimes they say, like mistress, yeah exactly.

0:57:50.840 --> 0:57:52.640
<v Speaker 1>Everybody who listens to this has probably been one at

0:57:52.680 --> 0:57:57.560
<v Speaker 1>some point. But yeah, what's lavinia? So yeah, so it

0:57:57.720 --> 0:58:00.440
<v Speaker 1>was just a sex god basically. Um, I mean your

0:58:00.480 --> 0:58:04.520
<v Speaker 1>company that we're still talking about the name, um So,

0:58:04.720 --> 0:58:07.160
<v Speaker 1>our whole goal is to enhance people's sex life through cannabis.

0:58:07.280 --> 0:58:08.920
<v Speaker 1>So all of the products that we're working on are

0:58:08.920 --> 0:58:12.240
<v Speaker 1>exclusively designed to do that. We launched last year with

0:58:12.360 --> 0:58:15.200
<v Speaker 1>the silicone based lubricant, and then we're working on some

0:58:15.360 --> 0:58:18.000
<v Speaker 1>really exciting products where we're hand some we're an R

0:58:18.040 --> 0:58:20.800
<v Speaker 1>and D for some anal sex products R and D

0:58:21.280 --> 0:58:25.480
<v Speaker 1>research and development R and D. Oh wow, yeah no, No,

0:58:25.800 --> 0:58:27.320
<v Speaker 1>that's if you don't know what R and D is,

0:58:27.360 --> 0:58:29.680
<v Speaker 1>you don't know whatever. Um, but if you'd like to

0:58:29.760 --> 0:58:31.600
<v Speaker 1>try out the product, you can and give us feedback

0:58:31.680 --> 0:58:36.680
<v Speaker 1>that entally. But like also at the same time, I

0:58:36.800 --> 0:58:40.680
<v Speaker 1>do like smoking and sex. I've done like I don't know.

0:58:40.760 --> 0:58:43.120
<v Speaker 1>I've had a lot of experiences with cannabis and sex.

0:58:43.240 --> 0:58:46.200
<v Speaker 1>Some are good, some are bad. But I have heard

0:58:46.360 --> 0:58:49.760
<v Speaker 1>of THHD and fused products. I just never I don't know.

0:58:49.840 --> 0:58:51.520
<v Speaker 1>I never use them, but I'd be willing to try

0:58:51.560 --> 0:58:52.960
<v Speaker 1>to love. I have a new partner and we are

0:58:53.040 --> 0:58:57.440
<v Speaker 1>using condoms, so oh great, I need help. Great. Um.

0:58:57.600 --> 0:59:00.040
<v Speaker 1>Cannabis is a vaso dilator, which essentially means that and

0:59:00.080 --> 0:59:02.080
<v Speaker 1>increases blood flow. So you know, like when you smoke

0:59:02.120 --> 0:59:05.000
<v Speaker 1>weed and sometimes your eyes turn red. Basically the blood

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<v Speaker 1>vessels are actually increasing in size and the blood flow

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<v Speaker 1>is increasing as a result, and so the same thing happens.

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<v Speaker 1>You're asking you are we are we talking about? You know?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just thinking where do I really need to be

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<v Speaker 1>opened up and dilated