1 00:00:02,480 --> 00:00:09,080 Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make. Horrible decisions. Hey, guys, 2 00:00:09,560 --> 00:00:13,039 Speaker 1: welcome to another episode of horrible Decisions. And I'm saying 3 00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:16,759 Speaker 1: it like that because we have uh pH alkaline water. 4 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:20,640 Speaker 1: Avocado not horrible now, I mean, well, I had an 5 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:24,439 Speaker 1: avocados host this morning. Because we are in l A 6 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 1: of Keli four n A. Welcome, guys, and I don't 7 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 1: know if I should even say like that, but I 8 00:00:30,600 --> 00:00:33,559 Speaker 1: just feel like we're in a cold Welcome to l A. 9 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:36,520 Speaker 1: We're horrible decision. Mandy had some cocktails in the pool 10 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 1: and is well. Not only that, I didn't realize if 11 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:43,159 Speaker 1: you guys have listened to horrible decisions. I'm at the pool, 12 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:46,279 Speaker 1: and as I'm in the pool, I say, wait, this 13 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:50,159 Speaker 1: is public. It was the Church of Science, Pology for 14 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:54,080 Speaker 1: the world. I tried to get your ass. Welcome, y'all. 15 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 1: We have a guest here joining us on bot Way. 16 00:00:57,600 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 1: We're gonna be all over the place today because we 17 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 1: are really because we want to talk about gagging. Lets 18 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:05,039 Speaker 1: I want to be gaged. Okay, we got knowing what 19 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 1: y'all do over here, So dag me with the interview question. 20 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:13,520 Speaker 1: You be on the floor. Yeah, we have Kekey Palmer here, 21 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:16,800 Speaker 1: but about why you're here today. Clab it up from 22 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 1: Mr key TV network. Thank you. We have some stuff 23 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:22,760 Speaker 1: working in the things that kids don't know, but they're 24 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:24,280 Speaker 1: not not I'm about to know when this is out. 25 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:28,520 Speaker 1: Yeah they are. Okay, that's right to go back now, Kiki, 26 00:01:28,560 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 1: we're here to celebrate the launch of your network, Key TV. 27 00:01:31,200 --> 00:01:32,679 Speaker 1: Tell us a little bit about it before we talk 28 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 1: about my whole ship you didn't do. Yeah, So, KETV 29 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:37,840 Speaker 1: is pretty much a network I launched based off of 30 00:01:37,880 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 1: what I learned from doing digital. Obviously, I started out 31 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:45,319 Speaker 1: traditionally and I really found my freedom through, you know, 32 00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:47,680 Speaker 1: honing in on my audience and being able to really 33 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 1: have creative freedom digitally. And so I thought, Okay, with 34 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 1: my platform and just whatever I can use to expose 35 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 1: other talents, let's create a network and not only show 36 00:01:57,160 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 1: how to get from point A to point B, but 37 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:01,559 Speaker 1: also show how to do it without having the color 38 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 1: within the lines. Because I think a lot of people 39 00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 1: think they gotta go through certain doors in order to 40 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 1: break through in the industry, and you don't. And digital 41 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 1: is one of the main ways that I think people 42 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 1: are able to get through, you know. So that's what 43 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 1: KETV Network is really four and about, yes, the content, 44 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 1: but also to say like yo, we can make our 45 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:18,920 Speaker 1: own ways, um this way too, but you to be 46 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 1: in like the digital space is interesting because where I 47 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 1: met you, of course was loving basketball and also acquil 48 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 1: in the b b Oh, yes I was not, but 49 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 1: I'm so happy to all the guy she did what 50 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 1: everybody doing what I do. I'm not kind of pratt 51 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:46,200 Speaker 1: and I years did I do that too? But Aquila 52 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 1: the b look way also another KP. But also here's 53 00:02:54,480 --> 00:02:58,000 Speaker 1: the problem. KP was sucking a cartoon in real life forever, 54 00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:00,639 Speaker 1: so we really didn't know her until she like got 55 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:02,960 Speaker 1: on the TV show that nobody wants. What about One 56 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 1: on one Girl, Come on One on one Gang Gang 57 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 1: she didn't love? But what was that on the w 58 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:16,600 Speaker 1: b W y'all are clothes you PN before they merged? 59 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:21,079 Speaker 1: Y'all know what y'all talking about? Lady the second I 60 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:25,040 Speaker 1: mean fan, that's where I'm like, I'm wait, wait, wait wait, 61 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 1: but wait, but outside of that, you did do a 62 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 1: killer in the b as. You were a whole spelling 63 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 1: b as bitch. Can I have seriously, because because you're 64 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:38,720 Speaker 1: gonna well, you're gonna test her on some ship later on. 65 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:42,880 Speaker 1: But oh what were when you did that role? Did 66 00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:44,839 Speaker 1: you really know what the funk you was spelling? Did 67 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 1: they completely tell? Like girl, it was not about the memorization. 68 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 1: It was all about the members that I don't know't 69 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:51,480 Speaker 1: have no no, like literally it was a whole like 70 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 1: really good question because did they gotta feed you the 71 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 1: line to the word now? So I did it like lines? 72 00:03:57,440 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 1: So I just you know, learned it just like my memory. 73 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 1: But I was and like all of a sudden, words 74 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 1: with word, you know, I don't actually know how to, 75 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 1: like me, tell you a really hard word that I 76 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 1: can never spell? See what I mean? Even spell check? 77 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 1: I can't get this thing. Is it gonna be a 78 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:21,720 Speaker 1: paraphilia spell? Clamydia, clamidia clamidia cold spelling bitch? Okay c 79 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 1: l A M D No, I feel like you're already wrong. 80 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:28,599 Speaker 1: I y a clamitia. That was kind of good. I 81 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:30,960 Speaker 1: think it's a wine in the beginning, but anyway, no way, 82 00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 1: c h l alum a spell again all right? See 83 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:41,160 Speaker 1: the h A am I right? See ah, excuse me, 84 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 1: see h L right I M y d I A clamdia. 85 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 1: You know how to spell. It's got clamidia, clamdia. I 86 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:55,719 Speaker 1: never had clamidia. And let's make sure that that's on 87 00:04:55,839 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 1: the dot. Bro me that craps because crum arabs the 88 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 1: sex podcast we are. But but what? But what is crabs? 89 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:07,479 Speaker 1: Because when you go to the doctor, they don't be 90 00:05:07,520 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 1: like bitchybot crabs, Like that's a sling term. So what 91 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 1: is the slang term for what? Bitch? What's your We're 92 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 1: a sex watch term for company, clap the clubs. So 93 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:19,920 Speaker 1: what's the said? Wait, so what's this? Okay, wait a minute, 94 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:21,880 Speaker 1: what I main word for? What is this? What is 95 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 1: the crabs? The slang word for crabs disease? I'm a 96 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 1: gonna tell you right now, it's it's eliminated. They ain't 97 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 1: got it no more. I'm serious. Black people don't get 98 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:34,800 Speaker 1: it because we don't get lace. Now now now, I'm 99 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 1: I'm not able to learn here ridiculous that a cubist, 100 00:05:37,839 --> 00:05:41,840 Speaker 1: Oh no, we want that spell that, Oh my gosh, 101 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:47,359 Speaker 1: just scared out a key little subdiculoumiculoom cubist. Give it 102 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:51,080 Speaker 1: a pubist. So let's get back to Key TV and 103 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 1: how I was shocked that you even had a show 104 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 1: at this name. So Kiki sends me a text and 105 00:05:57,839 --> 00:06:00,280 Speaker 1: was like, yo, got a network launch, Like congrat She's like, 106 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 1: I have a show I want you to host. Now 107 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 1: I'm like, wow, I don't know when she thought I 108 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:05,360 Speaker 1: would be actress, but this is is it for me? 109 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:08,720 Speaker 1: A call from her producers don't know I have any 110 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 1: idea what it is, but I'm like, yeah, I'll do it. 111 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:12,600 Speaker 1: My producers. I love that she gave me the day. 112 00:06:12,680 --> 00:06:14,599 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'll be there. I get on the phone 113 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:18,320 Speaker 1: with Chelsea and Nora and Chelsea goes, hey, so we 114 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 1: have a great show. It's called ho and tel I 115 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:24,359 Speaker 1: started laughing immediately. I said, oh, and this is what 116 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 1: he shows for me. Yeah, she thinks she'll be great. 117 00:06:26,839 --> 00:06:30,480 Speaker 1: Sure I will. So you really stepped into your whole 118 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:36,200 Speaker 1: like it was. It was fitting. It uncomfortable and fun, 119 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:38,360 Speaker 1: and you know, sexists have to be such a real 120 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 1: uptight thing. And that's what the show is about. It's 121 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:42,479 Speaker 1: just about life and these girls living their life and 122 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 1: just being being chill and also not being afraid to 123 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 1: like tell they stuff. Someone got there pussy eight on 124 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:49,200 Speaker 1: the first episode. Well, and it's crazy that you're doing 125 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:53,400 Speaker 1: that too, because you recently have been playing more risk 126 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 1: a roles like, um, there was a role that you 127 00:06:57,240 --> 00:06:59,160 Speaker 1: played where you were I don't know if you were 128 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:02,960 Speaker 1: a sex worker being pimped out, but you pimp left 129 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 1: you see what I mean? I don't know, That's what 130 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:07,839 Speaker 1: I'm saying. No, no, no, no no, there was no yeah, 131 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 1: but there was a no I was a pimp, thank you? 132 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:12,320 Speaker 1: Is this where my mom was freaking out? What was 133 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 1: the name of the movie? That's the one? Literally no, 134 00:07:16,280 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 1: and she played a role where it was just like, wait, 135 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 1: she did you not know about this? Your real pimp 136 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:27,680 Speaker 1: name be my real pimp name, and you was a 137 00:07:27,720 --> 00:07:29,600 Speaker 1: real pimp, so my real pimp name would be something 138 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:37,600 Speaker 1: like Shoddy Louke gird You like like, I like, wait, wait, wait, 139 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 1: wait wait name thank you? I only know my only 140 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 1: fans name. It's gonna be Wheezy Wiggles. That's too nice 141 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 1: for my piles nobody take. But as a pimp, you 142 00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:52,800 Speaker 1: can't slap a bit with the name Wiggles. I don't 143 00:07:52,800 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 1: like a pimp name. Ready, I'm a sub What about you, 144 00:07:55,880 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 1: madam him being ready? You're ready because you was ready. 145 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:03,960 Speaker 1: But it's been there, done that. Um. But in seeing 146 00:08:04,040 --> 00:08:06,800 Speaker 1: like you take more of I met you was a 147 00:08:06,880 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 1: child actor, and so to see you in like more 148 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 1: of these like even nope, different wait wait wait, sorry 149 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:17,000 Speaker 1: I'm siding you're like, but she was different bit and nope, 150 00:08:17,160 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 1: you played a lesbian, but she could have been fluent. 151 00:08:19,960 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 1: We don't know what, don't don't gonna give it. It 152 00:08:23,880 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 1: was given and I know she definitely que and when 153 00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:31,080 Speaker 1: I saw that, and I remember watching it like she 154 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:33,920 Speaker 1: feels talking rough, it's just just a pair of jeans. 155 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 1: Or have you ever do you know what the Kinsley 156 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:43,600 Speaker 1: scale is? Nope? So it's basically the scale of where 157 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 1: you're talking to homosexual, how you feel throughout the day 158 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 1: and about the day. Was do you do the month? 159 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 1: A month? So for the most part, I know you're 160 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:58,280 Speaker 1: being straight, But have you ever thought about being with 161 00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:00,800 Speaker 1: women or ever dated a girl? And what do you do? 162 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:03,520 Speaker 1: I'm definitely in the middle of the scale. I'm definitely 163 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:06,840 Speaker 1: like even across the board, like really like I feel 164 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:09,160 Speaker 1: like love is love, life is life, Like do your thing, 165 00:09:09,240 --> 00:09:10,880 Speaker 1: live your life? Like I feel that way, you know 166 00:09:10,920 --> 00:09:12,719 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, that's that's how you ever had 167 00:09:12,720 --> 00:09:16,679 Speaker 1: a girlfriend? Oh? Yeah, girl, they've never been locked up 168 00:09:16,880 --> 00:09:19,680 Speaker 1: and would love me. I mean neither, we neither never 169 00:09:19,720 --> 00:09:21,920 Speaker 1: been locked up. Well you do have a boo now 170 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:26,160 Speaker 1: and I don't know what girl your little checks. First off, 171 00:09:26,200 --> 00:09:28,440 Speaker 1: I love that you said, but that nigga hacking up 172 00:09:28,520 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 1: right now, that's what it's given. No, no, no, we 173 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 1: don't feel we don't even an no. But like I think, 174 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 1: set your ticktie. I like as far as I knew 175 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:44,240 Speaker 1: it was out because y'all been doing and ship do 176 00:09:44,240 --> 00:09:48,560 Speaker 1: you know want me doings? I plead the girl once 177 00:09:48,559 --> 00:09:50,320 Speaker 1: this guy is that nigga the dance I said? They 178 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:55,480 Speaker 1: love as soon as you can get. And it's crazy 179 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:58,520 Speaker 1: because like we're in this phase now where people feel 180 00:09:58,559 --> 00:10:00,760 Speaker 1: like either a super private as soon as a man 181 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:03,480 Speaker 1: put you on social media. Now it's serious, right, So 182 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:06,199 Speaker 1: the fact that you guys are may be potentially making 183 00:10:06,200 --> 00:10:10,199 Speaker 1: tick tocks or being public? Yeah, way does that look 184 00:10:10,280 --> 00:10:12,400 Speaker 1: like for you as someone who's growing up in the spotlight. 185 00:10:12,440 --> 00:10:13,760 Speaker 1: I like what you just said because you know it 186 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:15,960 Speaker 1: is a thing, right, it's the things. And I feel 187 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:17,720 Speaker 1: like even if you're not a celebrity that you feel 188 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:20,240 Speaker 1: this way because it's like, yeah, you're happy, you want 189 00:10:20,240 --> 00:10:22,200 Speaker 1: everything to be just Yeah, let me be happy. But 190 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:24,960 Speaker 1: then you realize every that's all that everybody talks about 191 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:26,600 Speaker 1: or want to talk to you about or think about 192 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:28,480 Speaker 1: when they you know what's going on with the boot, 193 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:31,160 Speaker 1: and it's like everything ends up being so it's just 194 00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:33,559 Speaker 1: like you feel like there's no happy medium of it. 195 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 1: When it comes to social media, everything feels like a statement, 196 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:39,840 Speaker 1: so it just becomes a little spooky, you know, for 197 00:10:39,880 --> 00:10:43,560 Speaker 1: all parties involved. I think so for me, I feel 198 00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 1: like I just try to really be private with it, 199 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:47,720 Speaker 1: just because of the fact that I don't want that 200 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:51,080 Speaker 1: to be my dialogue. Well you comfortable being single in 201 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:52,640 Speaker 1: the spot, right or do you feel like when you 202 00:10:52,679 --> 00:10:55,120 Speaker 1: find I do I do feel the root it must 203 00:10:55,160 --> 00:10:58,560 Speaker 1: be worse, not even necessarily single, but just not not 204 00:10:58,640 --> 00:11:01,360 Speaker 1: attaching me to anything out side of me. I think 205 00:11:01,400 --> 00:11:03,800 Speaker 1: sometimes that can be a lot, especially like a woman 206 00:11:03,840 --> 00:11:07,560 Speaker 1: in any industry is like it's annoying. Sometimes it can 207 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 1: be seen as a vulnerability or people feel like, oh, 208 00:11:09,800 --> 00:11:12,680 Speaker 1: I know what you about because so many judgments that 209 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:14,960 Speaker 1: are made on you, made on your partner, made on 210 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 1: what people perceive you as, and it's just it's to 211 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:20,480 Speaker 1: me unnecessary and don't want to stress. Um just from 212 00:11:20,520 --> 00:11:23,160 Speaker 1: the experiences that I've had of just you know, and 213 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:25,400 Speaker 1: it shouldn't be that way, but I do think more 214 00:11:25,440 --> 00:11:27,439 Speaker 1: people than just entertainers do it that way. That's why 215 00:11:27,440 --> 00:11:29,200 Speaker 1: most people don't you know, they could be in whole 216 00:11:29,200 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 1: full marriages and they don't post not no line. And 217 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:33,720 Speaker 1: that's what I was gonna ask you to, like, do 218 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:36,880 Speaker 1: you feel like, as women, even the men listening, that 219 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:41,840 Speaker 1: there's like this pressure to your relationship doesn't exist unless 220 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:46,320 Speaker 1: the masters know, unless you're being claimed publicly, like especially 221 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:48,960 Speaker 1: as women, like right you are until and they canna 222 00:11:48,960 --> 00:11:51,960 Speaker 1: claim you publicly? You know what I mean, that's not true. 223 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:54,200 Speaker 1: And I think that, yes, I think in some some 224 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:57,040 Speaker 1: occasions somebody could be keeping you private for sneaky reasons. 225 00:11:57,080 --> 00:11:59,640 Speaker 1: Obviously there's always that snarior where somebody isn't your fake. 226 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:02,599 Speaker 1: I don't know. For me, it's always been because I 227 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:05,000 Speaker 1: don't want people to be subjected to what I'm subjected to. 228 00:12:05,400 --> 00:12:07,240 Speaker 1: And then when the subjected to it, they're like, yeah, 229 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:10,400 Speaker 1: let's go back over there in the shade because it's 230 00:12:10,440 --> 00:12:12,720 Speaker 1: a lot of lights on you, and everybody got something 231 00:12:12,760 --> 00:12:14,720 Speaker 1: to say. Oh yeah, that's why I'm lying to all 232 00:12:14,760 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 1: of y'all right now about what's happening over here in 233 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:21,480 Speaker 1: my relationship? Girl, I'm lying, I'm making up people. They're 234 00:12:21,520 --> 00:12:23,760 Speaker 1: all the same person. And this is the thing, the 235 00:12:23,800 --> 00:12:26,040 Speaker 1: moment that you do show someone that can relationship or 236 00:12:26,040 --> 00:12:28,320 Speaker 1: people think your relationship. Even if I do a joke 237 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:31,520 Speaker 1: about in the gagheads or and I found out and 238 00:12:31,559 --> 00:12:37,760 Speaker 1: it's like, oh wow, she's going shade, everything becomes person. Yeah. Also, hey, 239 00:12:37,800 --> 00:12:39,720 Speaker 1: like man, I'm just doing a sketch. I'm trying to 240 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:42,600 Speaker 1: get a check because I got to do what's going 241 00:12:42,640 --> 00:12:45,920 Speaker 1: on in my life for real. Also is annoying too, 242 00:12:45,960 --> 00:12:49,520 Speaker 1: because it's just things become too personalized. You know what 243 00:12:49,559 --> 00:12:51,160 Speaker 1: I want to know? You do know how to get 244 00:12:51,200 --> 00:12:53,679 Speaker 1: a check? If it was a whole lot of checks? 245 00:12:53,880 --> 00:13:01,200 Speaker 1: What job do you think? Wow? Okay, So I don't Honestly, 246 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:03,679 Speaker 1: I don't know, like right like, I don't know what 247 00:13:03,760 --> 00:13:05,360 Speaker 1: jobs I could do. I think in my mind like 248 00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:07,760 Speaker 1: I probably could be a good hair stylus. I still 249 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:10,440 Speaker 1: know how to break about I'm we've down. I feel 250 00:13:10,480 --> 00:13:12,360 Speaker 1: like I have a good conversation piece, so I would 251 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:13,679 Speaker 1: be able to get my clients into it. Like took 252 00:13:13,800 --> 00:13:15,560 Speaker 1: up somewhere I put the on in them. I feel 253 00:13:15,600 --> 00:13:17,040 Speaker 1: like I would be good as a stylus and you 254 00:13:17,080 --> 00:13:19,080 Speaker 1: would like because you know, and you would like to 255 00:13:19,080 --> 00:13:21,160 Speaker 1: come to sit in my chair. And then on the 256 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:23,480 Speaker 1: other end of things, I think, like, you know, I 257 00:13:23,520 --> 00:13:26,640 Speaker 1: could be on somebody's political standpoint and what do you need, 258 00:13:26,840 --> 00:13:29,080 Speaker 1: you know, President, so on, so, and I think I'll 259 00:13:29,080 --> 00:13:31,240 Speaker 1: be able to help write some speeches. I'm going with 260 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:36,080 Speaker 1: my words, nothing not to care. I think I could 261 00:13:36,080 --> 00:13:38,920 Speaker 1: get some public some of some some public service. I 262 00:13:39,040 --> 00:13:43,040 Speaker 1: got to tell you all about what you got some ready. 263 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:45,960 Speaker 1: So this is our segment call van Ella Ship, where 264 00:13:45,960 --> 00:13:49,200 Speaker 1: we basically take a news article and figure out what's 265 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 1: in the news about sex. Have you heard about the 266 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:54,520 Speaker 1: man in New York that then made a sex tape 267 00:13:54,559 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 1: to show you he's sex positive. That he's a New 268 00:13:57,559 --> 00:14:01,400 Speaker 1: York House candidate and he basically in his congressional campaign 269 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:05,120 Speaker 1: released a sex tape to demonstrate his commitment to positive sex. 270 00:14:05,400 --> 00:14:08,679 Speaker 1: His name is Mike Idis. It kissed it. It's a 271 00:14:08,720 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 1: white man, yeah, but anyway, it's a white man. He's 272 00:14:10,920 --> 00:14:13,559 Speaker 1: an independent and he wants you to vote for him 273 00:14:13,559 --> 00:14:17,400 Speaker 1: in New York and it was given independent from the start. 274 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:20,240 Speaker 1: He was sucking on camera. He did a thirteen minute 275 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:23,560 Speaker 1: video with a sex worker and wanted to pretty much, 276 00:14:23,560 --> 00:14:26,160 Speaker 1: that's it, that's to help us. No, well, well it 277 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:29,440 Speaker 1: was it was the showcase which which which is? I 278 00:14:29,440 --> 00:14:31,840 Speaker 1: think can lead into something great, But it was the 279 00:14:32,160 --> 00:14:35,000 Speaker 1: pretty much let people know not only he was sex positive, 280 00:14:35,000 --> 00:14:37,440 Speaker 1: but to get his name out there and so in 281 00:14:38,200 --> 00:14:41,600 Speaker 1: where you've been in this fucking lane for so long 282 00:14:42,440 --> 00:14:44,880 Speaker 1: in terms of getting people to know like where you're at, 283 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:47,360 Speaker 1: do you ever feel the need to go viral or 284 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:50,360 Speaker 1: with these new movies, do they say get popping on 285 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:53,640 Speaker 1: TikTok or all of like the new ways to market things. 286 00:14:54,440 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 1: This politician was like, y'all gonna know I'm sex positive 287 00:14:56,720 --> 00:14:59,080 Speaker 1: by making a thirteen minute sex video. You're gonna see 288 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:01,680 Speaker 1: my dad is there? We I think it's a he 289 00:15:01,760 --> 00:15:03,880 Speaker 1: was white. You know. I didn't watch it. Um it 290 00:15:04,000 --> 00:15:09,080 Speaker 1: was giving pink and I was cool. I UM. I 291 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:11,720 Speaker 1: think that there's a fine line between like wanting to 292 00:15:11,760 --> 00:15:14,000 Speaker 1: get your make your stuff exciting to look at, and 293 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 1: like doing anything just for uh, you know, response and reaction. 294 00:15:18,560 --> 00:15:20,120 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like there's a fine line 295 00:15:20,120 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 1: between it and I think, uh, I don't know. I 296 00:15:22,160 --> 00:15:23,880 Speaker 1: know for me, I never think to myself, how do 297 00:15:23,920 --> 00:15:26,000 Speaker 1: I get viral? I say, how do I do something 298 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:28,320 Speaker 1: that's really going to connect to my audience? Like it's 299 00:15:28,360 --> 00:15:30,920 Speaker 1: more marking than anything like what's gonna be exciting, what's 300 00:15:30,960 --> 00:15:33,040 Speaker 1: gonna make people love this? Or what's gonna be funny, 301 00:15:33,080 --> 00:15:35,640 Speaker 1: what's gonna be enjoyable? I think about my audience and 302 00:15:35,800 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 1: in getting to them as opposed to just getting the 303 00:15:38,480 --> 00:15:39,960 Speaker 1: word around. And I think a lot of times we 304 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:41,440 Speaker 1: do see people are just like I want to get 305 00:15:41,480 --> 00:15:43,240 Speaker 1: the word around, I want my name out there, And 306 00:15:43,280 --> 00:15:45,320 Speaker 1: there's sometimes can be a loss of integrity in that 307 00:15:45,440 --> 00:15:47,840 Speaker 1: because you're not actually focused on making sure what you're 308 00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 1: saying is heard. You just want people to see you, 309 00:15:50,400 --> 00:15:52,720 Speaker 1: and it's like, okay, well when they see you, what 310 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:55,080 Speaker 1: they're really looking at for real? How do you know 311 00:15:55,280 --> 00:15:59,280 Speaker 1: the lines between going viral and being genuine? Only because 312 00:15:59,640 --> 00:16:02,160 Speaker 1: I've and you make so many videos about who you 313 00:16:02,200 --> 00:16:04,200 Speaker 1: are as a person and not as an actor. You've 314 00:16:04,240 --> 00:16:07,240 Speaker 1: also been open about your skin journey, You've been open 315 00:16:07,320 --> 00:16:11,040 Speaker 1: about your journey as a woman. What makes you decide 316 00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:14,760 Speaker 1: to move forward with having those conversations to the public 317 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:18,440 Speaker 1: instead of just living through that by your own, like 318 00:16:18,640 --> 00:16:20,440 Speaker 1: on your own. You know. It's such a good question, 319 00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 1: especially when you talk about like the skin stuff, because 320 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:26,720 Speaker 1: that's also like hormonal and that's like, so yeah, so 321 00:16:26,760 --> 00:16:29,560 Speaker 1: I have like the the pretty much. It's an issue 322 00:16:29,600 --> 00:16:32,640 Speaker 1: with like, um, your your hormone levels, things that you 323 00:16:32,800 --> 00:16:35,160 Speaker 1: are just born with. It's something that you can really control. 324 00:16:35,680 --> 00:16:37,800 Speaker 1: Um And that can get personal because who really want 325 00:16:37,800 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 1: to talk about their medical I don't want to talk 326 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 1: about my medical but what I do want to want 327 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 1: to say was like, you don't know what people are 328 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:48,000 Speaker 1: struggling with. And so while you're thinking that because I'm 329 00:16:48,120 --> 00:16:50,600 Speaker 1: whoever you think and I'm am my skin should be 330 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:52,200 Speaker 1: this or I should look this way because I'm in 331 00:16:52,200 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 1: this field, I think I just felt so much pressure 332 00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:57,200 Speaker 1: all the time to be so perfect, um and to 333 00:16:57,280 --> 00:17:01,040 Speaker 1: be so whatever people consider is uh, you know perfect. 334 00:17:01,440 --> 00:17:02,920 Speaker 1: But I just kind of want to say, you know, 335 00:17:03,000 --> 00:17:05,520 Speaker 1: I'm not perfect. So let's leave it there speaking of perfect. 336 00:17:05,640 --> 00:17:07,680 Speaker 1: You know, had you ever gone through a phase like 337 00:17:08,200 --> 00:17:10,680 Speaker 1: where you watched the way women are starting to look 338 00:17:10,720 --> 00:17:13,359 Speaker 1: now Instagram ship like that? Have you had a should 339 00:17:13,359 --> 00:17:15,160 Speaker 1: I get a BBL phase? Oh? I didn't know he's 340 00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:19,199 Speaker 1: gonna say that you're actually where are you going? I 341 00:17:19,200 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 1: definitely have looked around and be like, wow, times are changing, 342 00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:24,959 Speaker 1: because you know, when we were kids, everybody wanted to 343 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:28,399 Speaker 1: like hide everything, even their weight, like we I remember 344 00:17:28,400 --> 00:17:29,920 Speaker 1: the change when we all started being like, yeah, I 345 00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:31,639 Speaker 1: wear weight. But there was a time in place where 346 00:17:31,640 --> 00:17:34,600 Speaker 1: people would be like, don't something. You've been straight up 347 00:17:34,800 --> 00:17:37,119 Speaker 1: lying like oh, this is all me, you know what 348 00:17:37,119 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 1: I'm saying, or like don't ask me that like anything 349 00:17:39,160 --> 00:17:42,840 Speaker 1: just swayed from telling somebody, but you voted its mind exactly. 350 00:17:43,160 --> 00:17:46,040 Speaker 1: And so I have seen the change of people being 351 00:17:46,040 --> 00:17:48,119 Speaker 1: cool with like I'm a Barbie or I'm at this, 352 00:17:48,160 --> 00:17:50,200 Speaker 1: I'm that, and I got this, I got that I've 353 00:17:50,280 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 1: never wanted. And I think the reason why I never 354 00:17:52,520 --> 00:17:54,200 Speaker 1: felt that way was just it's not that I don't 355 00:17:54,280 --> 00:17:56,719 Speaker 1: see the pressures of it in that or not even 356 00:17:56,760 --> 00:17:58,359 Speaker 1: say pressures, but it's not that I don't see that 357 00:17:58,440 --> 00:18:00,879 Speaker 1: like dang, Like there's a lot of you know what, 358 00:18:01,600 --> 00:18:04,119 Speaker 1: people like this, You see that people like it. But 359 00:18:04,160 --> 00:18:05,800 Speaker 1: I think for me, I just always felt like, man, 360 00:18:05,880 --> 00:18:09,680 Speaker 1: you know what, I'm scared, and I just feel like 361 00:18:10,160 --> 00:18:12,639 Speaker 1: I'm I want to be different. I'm good with being 362 00:18:13,400 --> 00:18:16,439 Speaker 1: with standing out and not having whatever whatever everybody else has. 363 00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:18,240 Speaker 1: That's all right. What's your favorite part of your body 364 00:18:18,240 --> 00:18:23,040 Speaker 1: that makes you feel the sexiest? Rellie? Honestly, I mean honest, 365 00:18:23,040 --> 00:18:25,480 Speaker 1: this is gonna sound so booty because you said my body, 366 00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:30,359 Speaker 1: I'm goin. You got really good legs. Oh my gosh, 367 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:32,840 Speaker 1: thank you you talk feel like that little like that 368 00:18:33,000 --> 00:18:34,720 Speaker 1: little all right on the knee. You know. I'm like, 369 00:18:34,760 --> 00:18:36,520 Speaker 1: we can slim the top and you know what I 370 00:18:36,520 --> 00:18:41,080 Speaker 1: mean right now right there? Um So I think, honestly, 371 00:18:41,119 --> 00:18:43,080 Speaker 1: I think and I always think this, and I really 372 00:18:43,320 --> 00:18:45,360 Speaker 1: feel this way, and it sounds cliche, but I really 373 00:18:45,400 --> 00:18:47,439 Speaker 1: do think the sexiest thing about me is my personality. 374 00:18:47,480 --> 00:18:49,680 Speaker 1: Like if I feel like that's what sells the body, 375 00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:51,080 Speaker 1: does that make sense? Like I feel like it's the 376 00:18:51,480 --> 00:18:53,879 Speaker 1: attitude that I talk about that all the time when 377 00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:56,680 Speaker 1: I was on everything was old bitch. I'll walk into 378 00:18:56,720 --> 00:18:58,439 Speaker 1: a room and it don't matter that I'm a big bitch. 379 00:18:58,800 --> 00:19:00,440 Speaker 1: I would walk into the room and because would be 380 00:19:00,480 --> 00:19:02,639 Speaker 1: with like these build a body girls, and as soon 381 00:19:02,680 --> 00:19:04,919 Speaker 1: as I start talking, they would want me. When I 382 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:07,720 Speaker 1: when I get into all that, you don't want to talk. 383 00:19:09,080 --> 00:19:11,840 Speaker 1: It would have a good profile though profile is shit. 384 00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:15,720 Speaker 1: How do you how did you get comfortable with As women, 385 00:19:15,760 --> 00:19:18,359 Speaker 1: we believe we have to lead with our looks? Right, yeah, 386 00:19:18,560 --> 00:19:21,360 Speaker 1: how did you get comfortable with leaning and feeling so 387 00:19:21,400 --> 00:19:24,960 Speaker 1: confident with your personality? Because as women we believe looks 388 00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:27,040 Speaker 1: come first. A lot of women don't feel like they're 389 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:29,760 Speaker 1: personality matters these nis at all. A lot of times 390 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:36,359 Speaker 1: to Joe like this, I've seen it, and I'm like, 391 00:19:36,359 --> 00:19:43,520 Speaker 1: why she ain't gotta do not boring? Like and she 392 00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:46,440 Speaker 1: was just that should be crazy to me. I've seen 393 00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:48,400 Speaker 1: a couple of times. Now, I got so many plea 394 00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:53,120 Speaker 1: friends I'm like, looking at I'm like, wow, Mama, yeah, 395 00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:55,400 Speaker 1: I get it. I get hit the life that you're 396 00:19:55,480 --> 00:20:01,399 Speaker 1: looking heavy. I'll be honest, it unintentional that that happened 397 00:20:01,440 --> 00:20:03,120 Speaker 1: to me. I just started to realize in my life 398 00:20:03,119 --> 00:20:06,159 Speaker 1: that the damn personality overshadow, Like I feel like I 399 00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:08,600 Speaker 1: could look like whoever we could think and imagine whoever 400 00:20:08,640 --> 00:20:10,119 Speaker 1: is the hottest damn person in the world is. I 401 00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:12,160 Speaker 1: feel like I could look like them, and that with overshadow, 402 00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:15,160 Speaker 1: my personality overshadow the looks. I think, no matter what, 403 00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:18,720 Speaker 1: my personality is always the biggest thing about me so 404 00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:21,320 Speaker 1: so because of that, I never had a chance to 405 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:23,840 Speaker 1: rest on my looks because everybody would always compliment me 406 00:20:23,880 --> 00:20:26,920 Speaker 1: for something else. You're so funny over I love how 407 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:31,800 Speaker 1: dramatic you are, so no one ever compliment me. No, 408 00:20:31,840 --> 00:20:36,560 Speaker 1: ain't nobody ever could ask fat once I'm online alright, 409 00:20:36,560 --> 00:20:40,680 Speaker 1: speaking of here we go, here we go, question we ask? 410 00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:46,840 Speaker 1: I remember reading through this and people are like, you 411 00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:49,440 Speaker 1: gotta ask the main question. I was like, I feel 412 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:52,560 Speaker 1: so bad, but do you if you had to? He'd 413 00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:57,480 Speaker 1: asked you had to pick one if you don't do 414 00:20:57,560 --> 00:21:03,359 Speaker 1: them already, So exbody guns my head and gave me 415 00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:08,160 Speaker 1: just I'm not good. I mean I have no um 416 00:21:08,359 --> 00:21:11,440 Speaker 1: transgressions or hate towards Tsson Salad. I mean, I think 417 00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:14,359 Speaker 1: you know this. This the choice I'm gonna make. It 418 00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:16,639 Speaker 1: is not because I think there's something wrong with Tyson Salad. 419 00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:18,400 Speaker 1: And I want you how to know that. I want 420 00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:20,320 Speaker 1: you how to know they need not care. If you 421 00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:25,240 Speaker 1: don't want to, I'm gonna ahead and do them soul. 422 00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:26,920 Speaker 1: Have you ever been when a guy that had a 423 00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 1: foot fetish? Never been a guy that had a foot fetish, 424 00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:32,359 Speaker 1: you know, But I'm gonna let you something know somewhere. 425 00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:34,359 Speaker 1: Now I take this boot off and show you to 426 00:21:34,400 --> 00:21:37,720 Speaker 1: these stocks. You're gonna have a foot fetish and you 427 00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:45,119 Speaker 1: have hid everybody that I've seen these faith always a 428 00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:51,600 Speaker 1: gas Wait do the gag on it? Do they put 429 00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:54,640 Speaker 1: their your whole foot in their mouth? I gotta big 430 00:21:54,640 --> 00:22:01,760 Speaker 1: gas foot, but oh bit, just be do you have 431 00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:04,399 Speaker 1: a staircase toe? Like? Does it go like this? Or 432 00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:07,520 Speaker 1: is the long one? When I tell you my ship 433 00:22:07,720 --> 00:22:10,400 Speaker 1: even you can see all my nails, y'all know that 434 00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:13,560 Speaker 1: that's a big deal. You don't see any nails even 435 00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:19,080 Speaker 1: the baby foe. Okay, now now one going and they're 436 00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:20,800 Speaker 1: like a little thick, so they're not like, you know, 437 00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:23,119 Speaker 1: not to slip. It's like, do you know this is 438 00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:26,600 Speaker 1: the richest thing you said? I don't have one. Nothing's wrong? 439 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:29,200 Speaker 1: You can I ask you because it was something that 440 00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:30,520 Speaker 1: that happened to me when I was living in the 441 00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:33,680 Speaker 1: Bronx and I only in the Bronx. Niggas will be like, yo, 442 00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:35,760 Speaker 1: can I take a picture of your feet? Have you 443 00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:38,600 Speaker 1: ever been walking with some slides? And niggas stopped I'm 444 00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:42,479 Speaker 1: sure wicky feet and requested somebody did it on like 445 00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:45,320 Speaker 1: the carpet They took a picture of my feet. Wait again, 446 00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:47,439 Speaker 1: you have a getty images of your fitty images, I 447 00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:55,679 Speaker 1: try to tell, trying to take and because the feet 448 00:22:56,600 --> 00:23:03,199 Speaker 1: it ain't. I didn't choose this life. So then let 449 00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:05,600 Speaker 1: me go. So there, let me ask you. What is 450 00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:08,480 Speaker 1: the thing that turns you on most about a man? Oh? 451 00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:11,199 Speaker 1: My god? Yes, but hey, I'm gon saying that I 452 00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:15,040 Speaker 1: know what I hate and got everybody what I handled 453 00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:19,480 Speaker 1: should be. Don't do good? Okay, I see I hate 454 00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:21,720 Speaker 1: that guy? Who is it? Just this guy? This is 455 00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:27,720 Speaker 1: to me talking, I'm gonna be the guy O game Okaye? Good? 456 00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:30,920 Speaker 1: I like them shoes, so for really, thank you? Rude? 457 00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:35,760 Speaker 1: Are you free this way? You're the man? Bro, I'm 458 00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:41,159 Speaker 1: being y'all. Don't know this guy? Everybody that personality. I 459 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:43,520 Speaker 1: suck that nigga every time I have sex. So wait, 460 00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:47,720 Speaker 1: so you you like like that guy? I like the 461 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:49,800 Speaker 1: goofy guy. Wait give us the many wait wait wait, 462 00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:52,480 Speaker 1: start over, start over, give us the man that you 463 00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:55,080 Speaker 1: hate right now? This is the man I hate, y'all 464 00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:57,720 Speaker 1: to talk to. Yes, basically, we're calling you. I'm gonna 465 00:23:57,720 --> 00:24:03,600 Speaker 1: be hancil plans and you gotta leave me a voice message. Hey, hey, 466 00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:10,560 Speaker 1: what's up? Look? Look are you mad at me? I mean, 467 00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:12,879 Speaker 1: let me see you, let me let me face. I 468 00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:14,480 Speaker 1: want to see I want I gotta see your face. 469 00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:17,840 Speaker 1: Hold on, hold hold, hold wa wa get up, wait 470 00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:19,800 Speaker 1: wait wait wait wait, get us up, hold on, hold on, 471 00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:25,680 Speaker 1: wait one moment, FaceTime ree, go ahead, bitch and see. 472 00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:31,600 Speaker 1: I know I canceling everything. You're mad at me. You're 473 00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:35,840 Speaker 1: mad at me? Great, some do that. Don't do that. 474 00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:38,639 Speaker 1: My mom and m called mom and called. I had 475 00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:40,120 Speaker 1: to go over there and make sure she was good. 476 00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:41,960 Speaker 1: You know how it is. You know how this is work, Sam, 477 00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:45,800 Speaker 1: But I'm gonna see ship. When are you gonna see me? Though? 478 00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:52,760 Speaker 1: What time is he ship? I gotta be somewhere in 479 00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:55,440 Speaker 1: five am. But I can come over it right now. 480 00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:58,520 Speaker 1: I come over right now, and you stay for it. 481 00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:04,480 Speaker 1: I just told like the cool guy, you know what 482 00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:06,480 Speaker 1: I'm saying. The guy that's like that gives you the 483 00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:10,080 Speaker 1: bare minimum and and he's just too cool. What's normally 484 00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:15,440 Speaker 1: the profession, any profession I'll be honest, anyone in the industry, 485 00:25:15,520 --> 00:25:19,200 Speaker 1: in the industry, any guy in the industry. And y'all 486 00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:24,400 Speaker 1: know my personality. I'm like, what's up? Maybe like, hey, Kei. 487 00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:26,600 Speaker 1: I like what you did, right, I can't communicate with 488 00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:33,000 Speaker 1: this with that normal the wait, the way he gives 489 00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:36,080 Speaker 1: you the bare minimum and he's like cool and I'm 490 00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:38,520 Speaker 1: gonna come over and you take what I can give you. 491 00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:42,679 Speaker 1: So then on the flip side, what lets you know 492 00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:44,760 Speaker 1: and for all the women listening to, well, let's you 493 00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:47,639 Speaker 1: know when a when a man is really interested in you. Okay, 494 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:50,920 Speaker 1: So so the guy that I'm interested in period is 495 00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:53,359 Speaker 1: the guy that's not afraid to look stupid. Now, and 496 00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:55,200 Speaker 1: I'm not talking about the guy that's like, I'm goofrey, 497 00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:58,560 Speaker 1: and he's not the guy that's really like awkward and 498 00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:01,120 Speaker 1: has a has a huge sex. Know. I think people 499 00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:03,520 Speaker 1: try to be too damn quaft and too I don't 500 00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:07,879 Speaker 1: like what I think. I think you're just right up 501 00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:09,399 Speaker 1: a goddamn boy. I'm just trying to pick you what 502 00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:12,080 Speaker 1: they're trying to be too smooth, like I'm not looking. 503 00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:16,720 Speaker 1: But let me ask you something. You said something to 504 00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:18,440 Speaker 1: me at dinner the other day, and I keep thinking 505 00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:21,399 Speaker 1: about when you said you were talking about someone. You 506 00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:25,440 Speaker 1: said he acted like he didn't know me, and they 507 00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:31,159 Speaker 1: they'd be liars and that'd be fraud. But That's the 508 00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:35,480 Speaker 1: thing though, when someone that was what can they because 509 00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:37,880 Speaker 1: I remember I interviewed someone that was like yo, someone 510 00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:40,280 Speaker 1: super fans out that's too much. But if someone is 511 00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:42,320 Speaker 1: a fan of your work, are you okay? I'm okay 512 00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:45,320 Speaker 1: because I look, especially if you're black, I know you 513 00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:48,720 Speaker 1: don't seen something something at the bare minimum, I was 514 00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:51,080 Speaker 1: just the man made him with Medea and you might 515 00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:54,240 Speaker 1: not bring we're not breaking up. Stop popping that. God, 516 00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:58,520 Speaker 1: I understand, but like god, damn video. They probably oh 517 00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:00,640 Speaker 1: my god, that crying one. That was one's been making 518 00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:04,840 Speaker 1: this round on the Twitter anyhow. You've been making your 519 00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:06,480 Speaker 1: wrong on this Twitter. And I just told you that 520 00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:09,840 Speaker 1: before we started, Like bitch kidten, they not keep recycling you. 521 00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:12,240 Speaker 1: I'm leaving for it. I'm hey, y'all, you know it's 522 00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:16,800 Speaker 1: your girl. Anyway back to it. I feel like, what 523 00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:19,280 Speaker 1: was your question? Dam We're be gonna so many places. 524 00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:22,200 Speaker 1: This is a d D podcast, Okay, So basically let's 525 00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:24,160 Speaker 1: just scratch that. If a guy wants to hear on you, 526 00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:26,919 Speaker 1: can you answer a d M. What'sh the way? So 527 00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:31,320 Speaker 1: you asked about the fame level. Yeah, if a guy's like, yo, 528 00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:33,720 Speaker 1: I really you'll be doing your thing. Girl. I'm not 529 00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:35,159 Speaker 1: gonna hold you do anything. I don't want to do 530 00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:37,560 Speaker 1: all that, but you'll be doing your thing that I 531 00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:39,720 Speaker 1: think is a natural vibe. Like you could. You could 532 00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:41,719 Speaker 1: shout me out, you can say yo, you'll be doing 533 00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:43,320 Speaker 1: your thing and leave it at that. And it's not 534 00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:45,640 Speaker 1: you know too much? You know okay. If a guy 535 00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:49,320 Speaker 1: wants to get at me, this is a it's a 536 00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:51,000 Speaker 1: hard game. I'm a virgo at the end of the day. 537 00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:54,120 Speaker 1: You gotta be because if you go too much, I'm 538 00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:56,040 Speaker 1: not waiting real quick. I'm not a starry. The moon's 539 00:27:56,080 --> 00:27:58,679 Speaker 1: as bitch. You just brought up a goddamn burgo. What 540 00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:00,480 Speaker 1: the hell does somebody have to do for a virgo? 541 00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:04,800 Speaker 1: Very nicky, sad true burgers are very finicky because they 542 00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:06,399 Speaker 1: want somebody else can chase them and be all up 543 00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:08,479 Speaker 1: on them. But at the same time, don't be thirsty, 544 00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:11,920 Speaker 1: don't expect too much for me. Like it's very weird 545 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:13,359 Speaker 1: the level you have to be with that. You have 546 00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:15,479 Speaker 1: to be willing to tell us you want us. But 547 00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:19,440 Speaker 1: then when we say I'm not ready yet, you gotta be. Also, 548 00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:22,080 Speaker 1: all the menalists and there like y'all bitches, don't know 549 00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:25,320 Speaker 1: what y'all want, and we we like, we like like 550 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:27,639 Speaker 1: because what happens is you'll see somebody like they're fine, 551 00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:29,480 Speaker 1: and then you'd like, but do I like it for real? 552 00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:31,440 Speaker 1: And then you have to get a couple of more 553 00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:33,720 Speaker 1: talks and conversations in before you can like them for real. 554 00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:35,080 Speaker 1: But you want to make sure that they like you 555 00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:37,639 Speaker 1: before you even know if you can let yourself like them. 556 00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:40,840 Speaker 1: Where you meeting somebody out the gate? What is the 557 00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:43,560 Speaker 1: immedia turn off? Want? I meant somebody out the gates 558 00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:46,960 Speaker 1: in the media, the media turn off the cool guy 559 00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:50,520 Speaker 1: trying to touch and feel me too much? Don't it's 560 00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:55,120 Speaker 1: not giving consent. And it's just I don't want to 561 00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:58,320 Speaker 1: feel your sexual energy so quick. I don't want to 562 00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:00,280 Speaker 1: feel it. Let's get back into sexual energy you. I 563 00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:04,200 Speaker 1: would love into that. Have you ever had a whole phase? 564 00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:06,800 Speaker 1: What do you consider a whole phase? Like what do 565 00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:09,479 Speaker 1: people mean when they say when we talked about but 566 00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:14,320 Speaker 1: you still have I like been single and just enjoyed it, 567 00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:18,160 Speaker 1: Like just the whole phase is when like maybe you've 568 00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:20,000 Speaker 1: had a one night stand here too or you could 569 00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:21,719 Speaker 1: toss a guy to the side. It's not too much 570 00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:24,200 Speaker 1: day and you're really exploring. I've tosked some guys to 571 00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:26,680 Speaker 1: the side. I've never done the one night stand only 572 00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:30,960 Speaker 1: because I'm I'm so scared of it. Like yeah, but 573 00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:33,719 Speaker 1: that's that's what I really mean. Like, can you have 574 00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:38,560 Speaker 1: a whole phase as Key Palmer? I mean you could 575 00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:44,040 Speaker 1: do it, but it's just about like, and I'll be honest, 576 00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:48,600 Speaker 1: I'm a very you know, I like, obviously I can 577 00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,360 Speaker 1: like somebody just based on how they look. I'm not blind, 578 00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:54,600 Speaker 1: but I in order to get comfortable and sexual because 579 00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:58,000 Speaker 1: I'm very like, you know, I can be what what 580 00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:00,920 Speaker 1: what is that girl away? Copd is making? Shut up? 581 00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:04,080 Speaker 1: What the fun is that? Quit? I'm not. I'm not 582 00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:07,000 Speaker 1: actually like I don't actually jump into a sexual personal 583 00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:08,400 Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not that girl. It's gonna be like 584 00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:10,880 Speaker 1: so what's good. I could do it in the acting role, 585 00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:12,600 Speaker 1: you know, like, but I'm not gonna be that girl 586 00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:14,680 Speaker 1: that's like come on here, Like, I'm not gonna be 587 00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:20,240 Speaker 1: like that. From zero and there, I needed to be 588 00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:22,960 Speaker 1: a rocky rag. I needed to be like we're laughing, 589 00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:29,360 Speaker 1: like I'm gonna stop stop and the like yeah, way 590 00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:32,080 Speaker 1: to be yes, Yeah, Now, somebody gotta sense of humor, 591 00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:35,240 Speaker 1: watch out because they're gunning fun. So can I ask 592 00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:37,200 Speaker 1: you the hand? He's all I feel like the funnier 593 00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:40,240 Speaker 1: niggas be ugliest fuck like. But that's all right, you're 594 00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:43,840 Speaker 1: like an ugly nigga. I'm fine with media uglies. It's 595 00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:46,480 Speaker 1: really okay. As long as you've got a good attitude 596 00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:48,640 Speaker 1: about you and you've got a good you know, you 597 00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:50,800 Speaker 1: got a good attitude about you. I really would love 598 00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:54,560 Speaker 1: some hype. We can't have you, okay, So what is 599 00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:57,600 Speaker 1: the queen? Wait? Wait, waiting, and let's go back to 600 00:30:57,680 --> 00:30:59,480 Speaker 1: hype birth of this side? No, let's say go back 601 00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:01,680 Speaker 1: to Dick. Are you a side queen? She said? I 602 00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:06,600 Speaker 1: want to kick Sam, So I think I think this 603 00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:10,120 Speaker 1: is the thing right. Size could be great, But do 604 00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:12,640 Speaker 1: you know what you're working with, brother, because I don't 605 00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:16,320 Speaker 1: want you just slamming some ship on. That's a bit much, 606 00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:18,640 Speaker 1: you know you you I don't care about I care 607 00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:22,040 Speaker 1: more so about the delicacies of the arrangement. I need, 608 00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:25,680 Speaker 1: I need things to be comfortable. I can't stand the 609 00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:27,880 Speaker 1: way you talk kick, and I wanna I want to 610 00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:31,280 Speaker 1: jump over next week. You think gonna be like the 611 00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:35,640 Speaker 1: way Kiki the delicacy of the arrangement. It's true. I 612 00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:37,680 Speaker 1: don't by the way, I got this made up just 613 00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:41,120 Speaker 1: today and I really love it. Well. One of our 614 00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:44,960 Speaker 1: segments here on the show is and we would love 615 00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:48,240 Speaker 1: to know if you have any sex or dating tips 616 00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:51,640 Speaker 1: to anyone listening, because you do want to do it. 617 00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:54,040 Speaker 1: Maybe you stay in relationship for the last couple of years. 618 00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:56,840 Speaker 1: We see you, bitch, we see you on the room 619 00:31:57,200 --> 00:32:00,400 Speaker 1: shape bit, So how do you be landing them? By 620 00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:02,440 Speaker 1: the way, when you end up on the shade room. 621 00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:04,720 Speaker 1: I don't know if there's any other black person in 622 00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:07,480 Speaker 1: America that we don't care what you do. We we 623 00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:09,840 Speaker 1: hit you, and we'll be here for I really really 624 00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:12,920 Speaker 1: love my community for that, because one thing they're gonna do. 625 00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:15,240 Speaker 1: Even they dragged me every down, then that's normal. That's 626 00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:17,200 Speaker 1: how we love each other. They'll be like, we always 627 00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:19,080 Speaker 1: have my back. Now that's say you get draped what 628 00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:21,120 Speaker 1: you've been dragged for last I mean, I really don't. 629 00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:23,800 Speaker 1: I mean I think everybody gets dragged, you know, everybody, 630 00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:26,200 Speaker 1: And I've been dragged on and I'm like, oh my god, 631 00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:28,680 Speaker 1: they dragged me. But I'm just saying everybody, if you 632 00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:31,560 Speaker 1: don't get dragged by the community. You're not love you 633 00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:34,720 Speaker 1: know who you were? Honestly, it's checking us a compliment. 634 00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:38,400 Speaker 1: They paid attention. Yeah, that's true. So you know I'm 635 00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:41,120 Speaker 1: cool with it because you sounded like a fifty seven 636 00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:47,840 Speaker 1: year old right now. I can pay attention. They do 637 00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:50,800 Speaker 1: it nor folks. It's like, damn, they can't even get 638 00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:57,280 Speaker 1: your attention. You know I can't. Okay, So what would 639 00:32:57,320 --> 00:33:01,400 Speaker 1: be your tips women day or wanting to land aman 640 00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:03,400 Speaker 1: or even in the bedroom, what has been something that's 641 00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:09,240 Speaker 1: worked for you? Wow? So I'll say for the bedroom, 642 00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:13,920 Speaker 1: say what you want, say what you need, say if 643 00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:16,160 Speaker 1: it doesn't feel right, if you want to do that, 644 00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:18,880 Speaker 1: just be honest, because I think um Horn has really 645 00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:22,520 Speaker 1: ruined our ideas of sex. And I think for years, 646 00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:27,000 Speaker 1: like I realized, you know, wow, the what what I was, 647 00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:30,080 Speaker 1: what I was doing before, wasn't even really experiencing anything. 648 00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:32,000 Speaker 1: It was like I was just going through the motions 649 00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:34,920 Speaker 1: of something I wasn't actually actively being intimate with that 650 00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:36,280 Speaker 1: person I was with. It was almost just like a 651 00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:40,320 Speaker 1: flesh to flesh engagement as opposed to wow, we were 652 00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:42,920 Speaker 1: actually communicating and talking and for having an enjoyment with 653 00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:44,520 Speaker 1: one another, like that I could laugh right now, I 654 00:33:44,560 --> 00:33:46,080 Speaker 1: can say, now, boy, what was you trying to do 655 00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:50,040 Speaker 1: with that? And we have said that before? Have you 656 00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:52,239 Speaker 1: said that before? Yeah? I'm like, now, now you know 657 00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:55,280 Speaker 1: that got weird there. Let's walking around like I love 658 00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:58,560 Speaker 1: to be normal, but I think I always felt like 659 00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:03,440 Speaker 1: everything had to be so beautiful that I can't do 660 00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:08,279 Speaker 1: this serious ship. And so I think I think that's 661 00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:10,520 Speaker 1: me because I know there's somebody out there that's like, yo, 662 00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:13,680 Speaker 1: I'm serious, and I think that's that's great too, but 663 00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:15,480 Speaker 1: not for you, but not for me. And so I 664 00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:17,840 Speaker 1: think if yours is not like that, if yours is 665 00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:20,399 Speaker 1: a little bit weird or that or whatever you think 666 00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:22,840 Speaker 1: it is, it's okay because it's yours, and that's how 667 00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:24,759 Speaker 1: you're gonna find your right partner instead of trying to 668 00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:26,719 Speaker 1: think you gotta beat somebody. So that's what I think 669 00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:28,640 Speaker 1: about the sex one, and for the dating and stuff. 670 00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:30,600 Speaker 1: I mean, it's different things, y'all. Because if you want 671 00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:32,240 Speaker 1: to be single and you're just trying to get laid, 672 00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:34,719 Speaker 1: there's a couple of things for that, and then if 673 00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:36,640 Speaker 1: you want to actually get you a partner, there's a 674 00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:38,399 Speaker 1: couple of things for that. So let's let's get into 675 00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:41,520 Speaker 1: that one. So we talked about this partner, Well, how 676 00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:46,960 Speaker 1: do you lead when you're intentional about dating? Boof being 677 00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:49,440 Speaker 1: intentional about dating, I think is first of all, not 678 00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:52,839 Speaker 1: dating somebody that you know doesn't follow follow along the criteria. 679 00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:55,680 Speaker 1: And what I mean by that it's not not being judged. 680 00:34:55,719 --> 00:35:00,680 Speaker 1: Excuse me, it's a pH nine point five like water 681 00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:07,920 Speaker 1: that the mic um. I think that when you're intentioning 682 00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:10,200 Speaker 1: with dating, it should be that person should be at 683 00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:13,600 Speaker 1: least uh, how can I say this, like this should 684 00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:16,160 Speaker 1: be somewhat what you truly want to end up with. 685 00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:18,719 Speaker 1: You can't be like, I'm trying to be serious and 686 00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:20,960 Speaker 1: I want to have a new situation with somebody that 687 00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:23,000 Speaker 1: i'm with and then get with somebody with three kids, 688 00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:25,279 Speaker 1: you know, because it's kind of like that's probably gonna 689 00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:31,040 Speaker 1: be different. And even if it's one kid. You know 690 00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:32,640 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, it's just like, if that's not what 691 00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:34,840 Speaker 1: you if you be ready for whatever you ask for. 692 00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:37,239 Speaker 1: So if you're gonna get serious with somebody at a 693 00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:41,960 Speaker 1: someone what you thing? Because three kids? If you're in 694 00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:44,000 Speaker 1: your forties and meet someone with three kids, that's you 695 00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:45,799 Speaker 1: know why, because you probably already have kids as well, 696 00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:47,839 Speaker 1: and that's different. I just think you need to find 697 00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:49,880 Speaker 1: somebody that your lifestyles can match with. A lot of 698 00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:51,879 Speaker 1: times we say we're serious and we're intention with dating, 699 00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:54,080 Speaker 1: but then we find somebody that's like they don't have 700 00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:57,319 Speaker 1: a visa, you know, you know whatever. It is like 701 00:35:57,400 --> 00:35:59,279 Speaker 1: we we we don't really was like and we're like, 702 00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:01,040 Speaker 1: but I love off them, and it's like, girl, you 703 00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:03,239 Speaker 1: don't want to see that girl. He's a selling he 704 00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:07,439 Speaker 1: can't go to Canada. It is his fault. He got 705 00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:11,239 Speaker 1: a feminy do what I mean? His reason? Like it's 706 00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:13,480 Speaker 1: like you really don't you We really sometimes say we 707 00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:15,760 Speaker 1: want to be intentional with dating, but like the dating 708 00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:18,120 Speaker 1: we're doing is actually like we're just doing anything, you 709 00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:20,760 Speaker 1: know well, and we're hoping that eventually we can change 710 00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:23,680 Speaker 1: whoever we find attraction to to be. That's when we 711 00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:26,040 Speaker 1: want them to be. When the dick is good, he 712 00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:31,720 Speaker 1: I was telling the bullshit. I like, broth kick, Here's 713 00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:38,360 Speaker 1: why I have a job. When your dick is that palm? Why? 714 00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:41,080 Speaker 1: But I want to know, But that's already I'm scared 715 00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:44,640 Speaker 1: because because now you're gonna and why is it like that? 716 00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:47,240 Speaker 1: Why is it like that because you're not home at 717 00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:49,719 Speaker 1: do we need to start the only things do we need? 718 00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:52,200 Speaker 1: But why is you? Can I do that? That's the job? 719 00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:55,440 Speaker 1: Would you do the parson that? Would you ever do 720 00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:57,120 Speaker 1: that with him? On? The only thing? Would you ever 721 00:36:57,360 --> 00:37:01,919 Speaker 1: make a tape with a person? Can't coming your way 722 00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:09,080 Speaker 1: through you? I didn't have a question. I wanted to 723 00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:14,040 Speaker 1: come back to. Can has definitely been something that's sucked 724 00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:16,840 Speaker 1: us all up. But when you've watched porn, When you 725 00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:20,200 Speaker 1: do watch porn, what what do you type in? I 726 00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:23,680 Speaker 1: only like I only like girl on girl porn because 727 00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:28,640 Speaker 1: it's nice and beautiful and everything the arrangement, and I 728 00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:32,560 Speaker 1: don't like all that. I don't like all that rough stuy, 729 00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:35,160 Speaker 1: Hey real quick, are you hoop me? You're trained this 730 00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:40,000 Speaker 1: misch before she came in continue. I think we've been 731 00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:42,399 Speaker 1: play something with the delicacies of the arrangement. I think 732 00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:45,720 Speaker 1: that's the gag is But you know what's back to gag? 733 00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:51,800 Speaker 1: Where we coast the gag? Okay? I want to because 734 00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:56,360 Speaker 1: I think that over the years you've been sexier, Like 735 00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:58,719 Speaker 1: when you're starting to wow, it's like no, no, no, 736 00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:02,000 Speaker 1: you got you started again? Like the glasses on bit 737 00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:06,760 Speaker 1: was a sexy and the kid's sexy. Now swe Women's 738 00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:09,440 Speaker 1: healthy with sexy the Glamor mag he was sexy and 739 00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:11,240 Speaker 1: what's my favorite pick? I told you with the white 740 00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:16,160 Speaker 1: Talk you're note premier. Oh yes, I love that. So 741 00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:19,400 Speaker 1: when you look at sexy and they're ready to giddy, 742 00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:21,680 Speaker 1: are you normally like the sub girl? Do you like 743 00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:23,879 Speaker 1: to be told what to do? Ye? You are? Yeah, 744 00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:26,640 Speaker 1: because I'm already bossy in real time. I don't need 745 00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:28,920 Speaker 1: me up, you know what I mean? I feel like 746 00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:32,040 Speaker 1: definitely when I'm an intimate space was someone I'm very 747 00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:37,759 Speaker 1: much so like at your service? Who have you ever done? 748 00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:41,760 Speaker 1: Role play? Yes? What kind? I need to know? Fol script, 749 00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:45,719 Speaker 1: I'm going to come on actor. Honestly, it turns into 750 00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:49,359 Speaker 1: a wrong con. I really do enjoy it, Like, Wow, 751 00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:52,600 Speaker 1: who knew that I'd see you at the high school reunion? 752 00:38:53,560 --> 00:39:01,040 Speaker 1: And then he'll say he's lying, let's she did the 753 00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:07,160 Speaker 1: me you Okay, I did not expect to see you 754 00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:09,239 Speaker 1: at the high school you what's been going on? I mean, 755 00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:11,520 Speaker 1: you know, I've actually come into my sexuality. I found 756 00:39:11,520 --> 00:39:15,640 Speaker 1: out I'm a lesbian. Really, I did ki well me 757 00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:18,960 Speaker 1: and I mean I think I felt that in high 758 00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:21,920 Speaker 1: school with you, I never mentioned it. I always had 759 00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:23,840 Speaker 1: feelings and thoughts, but I just thought to myself, you 760 00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:27,360 Speaker 1: know what, like she never be into me? And is 761 00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:29,360 Speaker 1: this is why you called me over to hang? I 762 00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:33,200 Speaker 1: mean I wasn't. Look, I can't do it. See what 763 00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:35,080 Speaker 1: I mean? If I was thought to be ready to 764 00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:37,760 Speaker 1: be like, well, the bathroom is over there, I was ready, 765 00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:39,719 Speaker 1: Well you should come over. I would love to show 766 00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:43,400 Speaker 1: you how I make dirty, extra dirty, all of martinis 767 00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:48,200 Speaker 1: in my crib. You know this is this is pony, 768 00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:50,920 Speaker 1: This is bony. But the act at home. But but 769 00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:54,200 Speaker 1: no in terms of being like, in terms of engaging 770 00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:58,480 Speaker 1: with women, so you would prefer someone a little less aggressive. 771 00:39:58,520 --> 00:40:01,000 Speaker 1: So to me, you seem like someone and who would 772 00:40:01,040 --> 00:40:03,560 Speaker 1: not be aggressive at all. But also where I would 773 00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:06,600 Speaker 1: be more direct in tone, like because you're not going 774 00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:08,839 Speaker 1: to teeth me all night, because I ain't got time, 775 00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:10,600 Speaker 1: I think I can give more of that stem energy. 776 00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:15,239 Speaker 1: So it's somewhere in between. Okay, So then, but well 777 00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:17,960 Speaker 1: in the way that someone then hits on you. Of course, 778 00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:20,520 Speaker 1: with women, it could be different. Some women loves someone 779 00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:25,160 Speaker 1: who's more direct. Others like someone who's more shy. I 780 00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:27,319 Speaker 1: like them to be directed and now this had though 781 00:40:27,320 --> 00:40:29,000 Speaker 1: it's unfair because I don't like if I don't like 782 00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:32,399 Speaker 1: with guys same girls you can touch do with touch, 783 00:40:33,000 --> 00:40:34,719 Speaker 1: it can be. I'm cool with the girl off girls 784 00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:36,399 Speaker 1: making a move and she's trying to get me into 785 00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:38,360 Speaker 1: the vibe. I'm cool with that being like stop and 786 00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:40,080 Speaker 1: just hugging me for no reason because I'm like, I 787 00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:43,520 Speaker 1: know what that means. I know what that means. You 788 00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:45,480 Speaker 1: like you have my hand a little bit too long, 789 00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:47,759 Speaker 1: I know what that means. So I'm cool with with 790 00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:51,120 Speaker 1: with girls if they're that, If that's a level of aggression, 791 00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:53,200 Speaker 1: I'm cool with. But if it goes to the level 792 00:40:53,200 --> 00:40:56,920 Speaker 1: aggression being like, so what's up, oh ship, that spooks me? 793 00:40:57,200 --> 00:41:01,000 Speaker 1: Why why does that spook you? From a woman and man? Guys? Well, 794 00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:05,000 Speaker 1: and it's weird to mean to me, I'm actually the 795 00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:08,680 Speaker 1: opposite because I've dealt with so many women where girl 796 00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:10,839 Speaker 1: still play a lot, but girls played too much, girls 797 00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:16,560 Speaker 1: tolay or not like like And so to me, the 798 00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:19,359 Speaker 1: playing I would rather know out front because I play 799 00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:22,240 Speaker 1: a lot. To them, No guys will suck a chicken sandwich, 800 00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:25,480 Speaker 1: so like to me, like literally, they don't be playing 801 00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:28,040 Speaker 1: you know what they want with women, though, it's like 802 00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:32,160 Speaker 1: I would actually prefer knowing. Are you just starting with 803 00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:34,560 Speaker 1: me or do you actually like women? I feel you 804 00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:37,840 Speaker 1: want to feel me, so I understand the directness, but 805 00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:40,800 Speaker 1: it's just it's just like man, with that directness, you 806 00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:43,480 Speaker 1: could break the moment. So it's like it's just a 807 00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:46,960 Speaker 1: teeter tytery game moment. Better end up like can have 808 00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:49,600 Speaker 1: a song and dance? Yeah? Yeah, I want a song 809 00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:57,440 Speaker 1: and dancing now. I want to know if we can 810 00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:00,680 Speaker 1: get into some terms. I just really very curious to 811 00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:04,520 Speaker 1: see how much you know about kink. I won't know 812 00:42:04,520 --> 00:42:07,920 Speaker 1: how much because King has some ranges, guys, so let's 813 00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:11,880 Speaker 1: get into it. This one an easy one, okay. Tea bagging. 814 00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:18,040 Speaker 1: Tea bagging is when the balls go bun. Cuck holding, 815 00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:22,080 Speaker 1: that's what said again. Cuck holding is that when you 816 00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:27,480 Speaker 1: watch your girl do something with somebody else, good golden shower, 817 00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:31,880 Speaker 1: passing on you, passing on you. A rim job. A 818 00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:34,000 Speaker 1: rim job is when you lick in the around the 819 00:42:34,040 --> 00:42:38,200 Speaker 1: booty the boot A pro necklace is when you give 820 00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:41,880 Speaker 1: her pro necklace. Right, no, no, no, what what is 821 00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:48,200 Speaker 1: the pro necklace? That's delicacy is the arrangement when they 822 00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:50,520 Speaker 1: come a fluid and it it ends up hanging on 823 00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:54,759 Speaker 1: your net. This one is one net your team didn't 824 00:42:54,800 --> 00:43:00,640 Speaker 1: know which I love very snowballing. Oh damn, y'all stop me. Damn. 825 00:43:00,640 --> 00:43:07,520 Speaker 1: I thought everybody with the frank okay snow was white. Yeah, 826 00:43:07,600 --> 00:43:08,920 Speaker 1: I know, it's I know. It's got to do with 827 00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:12,879 Speaker 1: to fig out the ball. It's the balling that's thrown 828 00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:17,840 Speaker 1: me off. Just tell me. It's basically, when a dude ejaculates, 829 00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:23,320 Speaker 1: you can come into your mouth and y'all make out. No, 830 00:43:23,600 --> 00:43:25,680 Speaker 1: he spits it into your mouth like there's a whole, 831 00:43:26,680 --> 00:43:28,680 Speaker 1: Like it's not just looking out, bro, But like I 832 00:43:28,760 --> 00:43:30,640 Speaker 1: don't know what it is. No, I just thought it 833 00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:33,160 Speaker 1: was like you can't know, But you back and say, 834 00:43:33,200 --> 00:43:35,080 Speaker 1: it's like, it's how do you get to that level? 835 00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:37,960 Speaker 1: I want to know? Not even spinning? Not even spinning? 836 00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:41,719 Speaker 1: How do you? How do late you ready? Keeping you ready? No? 837 00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:46,000 Speaker 1: You ready? You ready? With the road plate? Is how 838 00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:49,359 Speaker 1: you're going? Because I've been there many times kicking. How 839 00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:54,080 Speaker 1: do you ask? Oh baby, I let it so so 840 00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:58,560 Speaker 1: they're from the back. Can you come to mouth when 841 00:43:58,560 --> 00:43:59,799 Speaker 1: I want you to come to the mouth so much? 842 00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:05,000 Speaker 1: And so then my mom was and on and then 843 00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:09,040 Speaker 1: time I'm like, he's like and so he moved out 844 00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:12,320 Speaker 1: and I'm like uh, and I'd be like uh, and 845 00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:14,960 Speaker 1: then I keep it and I'd be like, in my mom, 846 00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:17,960 Speaker 1: stay right there, and then I lean over him. You 847 00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:23,120 Speaker 1: don't performed my biggest this? How is that so performed? 848 00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:28,160 Speaker 1: I don't understand make sure of this. First off, I 849 00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:33,719 Speaker 1: had the performance and seen bitch, you didn't you? That 850 00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:36,520 Speaker 1: was very good? And it's like you better swallow nick. 851 00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:41,320 Speaker 1: I don't understand how you would taste good? Right, you 852 00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:43,640 Speaker 1: better be we know who's called writing home and tell 853 00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:45,600 Speaker 1: season dude, Oh my god, you better be healthy and 854 00:44:45,719 --> 00:44:48,080 Speaker 1: have the performance, has the performance stature? How it gets there? 855 00:44:48,680 --> 00:44:50,960 Speaker 1: I just didn't. So she's saying, how do you get 856 00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:52,840 Speaker 1: to that? That man? How do you get you? How 857 00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:58,360 Speaker 1: does it? Just? Let me just last? What do you 858 00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:02,719 Speaker 1: think is the nasty thing you're in too? Honestly, gods, 859 00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:04,760 Speaker 1: I think my sheet is a must be wag because 860 00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:06,880 Speaker 1: I don't mean nothing crazy. You know what it is 861 00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:11,080 Speaker 1: because I'm I'm I got a person. That's how I 862 00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:17,000 Speaker 1: don't got a person that's like what else your intimated 863 00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:20,200 Speaker 1: your intimate? I'm cool with that, but I don't don't 864 00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:23,480 Speaker 1: know how we get fair. I don't. I just said 865 00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:26,239 Speaker 1: it's also so so happy, it is so nice, and 866 00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:28,480 Speaker 1: everything is just like all right, all right, it's like 867 00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:29,840 Speaker 1: a little bit of chalk I can feel, But like, 868 00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:31,759 Speaker 1: how does it gets up when you're like, because you 869 00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:34,759 Speaker 1: know what, get there and I get there by like 870 00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:38,719 Speaker 1: you letting this person know I love every single thing 871 00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:43,279 Speaker 1: about you. It is like I don't lick this in 872 00:45:43,400 --> 00:45:45,719 Speaker 1: between his nigga's toes, so of course I can take 873 00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:47,719 Speaker 1: your slive in my mouth and your cum should go 874 00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:51,040 Speaker 1: back into yours and we love each other fully, you 875 00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:53,840 Speaker 1: know what. You know how they say like blood brothers 876 00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:57,800 Speaker 1: when you like you cut each other opening you you 877 00:45:57,920 --> 00:46:04,080 Speaker 1: just bit thing that is given the craft. So shears something. 878 00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:08,680 Speaker 1: I think that's basic. Okay. Hotel sex maybe on the 879 00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:12,040 Speaker 1: balcony public, but not so public. Are you into that 880 00:46:12,200 --> 00:46:13,680 Speaker 1: or do you feel like do you think like my 881 00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:18,879 Speaker 1: coming right on that balcony like just huge your mind 882 00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:22,440 Speaker 1: because be real point, I do like a good like 883 00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:24,960 Speaker 1: we on the balcony, people coming back. I think the 884 00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:26,920 Speaker 1: public kind of think it could be quite fun. It 885 00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:28,719 Speaker 1: could be quite fun, depending on where you're doing it 886 00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:33,200 Speaker 1: at it could be quite where you do it. You know. 887 00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:35,920 Speaker 1: I really love the vibes of like being out of 888 00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:37,960 Speaker 1: the way, like you know, Joshua Tree, you know, I 889 00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:41,359 Speaker 1: like to go out and that's hot. Just I don't 890 00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:48,319 Speaker 1: know who rode here with you? Ki Man. I love 891 00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:54,000 Speaker 1: the outdoor in the middle of in the middle of 892 00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:56,919 Speaker 1: you saw or know what it is? Bitch, that's where? Bitch? 893 00:46:56,960 --> 00:47:01,040 Speaker 1: What are you say? Okay because the buffs be driving 894 00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:07,160 Speaker 1: out there, like hey, all right, let's get the listener questions. Gosh, 895 00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:12,480 Speaker 1: listeners ask We already talked about how fame and navigating 896 00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:17,680 Speaker 1: relationships role play. Um oh, this one I like in film? 897 00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:20,680 Speaker 1: How awkward are the intomy's intimacy scenes have you had? 898 00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:23,840 Speaker 1: Very awkward? They're weird because ain't nobody doing that. That 899 00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:25,719 Speaker 1: means like, you know, we're just like trying to hold 900 00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:29,080 Speaker 1: ourselves up and you know, trying to get the right position, 901 00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:31,200 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like, I think the most 902 00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:34,160 Speaker 1: fun love scene that I had, please was with the 903 00:47:34,239 --> 00:47:38,320 Speaker 1: girl from Pimp. We had a blast Rihanna, you know baby, 904 00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:42,040 Speaker 1: this is what your gang was and we were just 905 00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:44,560 Speaker 1: having a ball ball we both were. I was like, 906 00:47:44,600 --> 00:47:45,920 Speaker 1: you ain't got to be scared. Girl. I was like, 907 00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:48,439 Speaker 1: she's like you don't either. I'm like, let's kill it, girl, 908 00:47:48,719 --> 00:47:50,239 Speaker 1: And we just started making out and it was just 909 00:47:50,320 --> 00:47:52,200 Speaker 1: like a foint that I'm rolling around. It was just 910 00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:55,360 Speaker 1: I really enjoyed it. It was the most fluid type 911 00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:59,520 Speaker 1: of quote unquote love scene that I had, and I 912 00:47:59,600 --> 00:48:03,160 Speaker 1: feel like I really love The other ones are very 913 00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:05,799 Speaker 1: like can I can I ask you? Because even because 914 00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:11,640 Speaker 1: they want to be in terms of even seen an 915 00:48:11,719 --> 00:48:15,440 Speaker 1: out scene. So you know you're a fucking actor to 916 00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:19,040 Speaker 1: the fucking court, but you also can fucking sing. Have 917 00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:24,320 Speaker 1: you ever seduced the man with your vocals? Yes? And 918 00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:27,319 Speaker 1: what did you sing? And can I can I hear 919 00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:29,640 Speaker 1: how you seduce them? Well, it's not even like I 920 00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:31,440 Speaker 1: would sing to them. I would just do stuf where 921 00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:33,160 Speaker 1: it's like, you know, will we be kicking? I'm like 922 00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:38,520 Speaker 1: you know that one song like like do something whenever 923 00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:41,040 Speaker 1: and I'm like you can sing and I'm like, yes, 924 00:48:42,600 --> 00:48:44,680 Speaker 1: you know, And then their hood they're like, she's sallenged. 925 00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:48,759 Speaker 1: People love challenge. Don't love any type of like even 926 00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:50,759 Speaker 1: if you even if you could juggle somebody and be 927 00:48:50,840 --> 00:48:53,520 Speaker 1: like wow, people love to see you do something. The 928 00:48:54,600 --> 00:48:58,080 Speaker 1: people love it, love it. Yo, You're right, and that's 929 00:48:58,080 --> 00:49:00,800 Speaker 1: why I do the most Conflix after a lot. But 930 00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:02,320 Speaker 1: that's also why I would never did an R and 931 00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:05,600 Speaker 1: B thing. You're not gonna sing here and get me. 932 00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:08,279 Speaker 1: You're not gonna get me. That's the thing. When you 933 00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:10,680 Speaker 1: were when you were also into the singing, you can 934 00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:14,919 Speaker 1: tell I know what you're doing. So, I mean because 935 00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:22,840 Speaker 1: I'm like, I do that trick. Okay, I think the 936 00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:29,879 Speaker 1: last question, We've got one more. What would it be this? Yeah, 937 00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:32,719 Speaker 1: I didn't ask myne. I didn't ask mine, all right, 938 00:49:32,760 --> 00:49:37,200 Speaker 1: I know mine kicking. If you had a podcast, what 939 00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:40,840 Speaker 1: would it be about? Okay, it would be about all 940 00:49:41,040 --> 00:49:44,120 Speaker 1: It would be about diving into all the all crazy 941 00:49:44,200 --> 00:49:47,520 Speaker 1: type of ship ship like you know, what the hell 942 00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:51,480 Speaker 1: is time from my space? It would be like it's 943 00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:54,560 Speaker 1: time all right for me? Wait? Is he really? Yeah? Absolutely? 944 00:49:55,040 --> 00:49:57,360 Speaker 1: You you matched him? Or was it my home girl? Dad? No, 945 00:49:57,480 --> 00:50:00,000 Speaker 1: I feel like that's a serial killer. They'be using Pike picture. 946 00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:03,120 Speaker 1: Y'all both know what home really is? Better? Um, it 947 00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:05,719 Speaker 1: would be about just my I would curious, I would 948 00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:08,160 Speaker 1: I would support my curiosity. So it would just be 949 00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:12,600 Speaker 1: about any type of weird, deep subject from metaphysics to sexuality, 950 00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:16,520 Speaker 1: to psychology, to any category. It would just be about 951 00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:18,440 Speaker 1: all these different things I would have obviously, you know, 952 00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:20,480 Speaker 1: I think I really would love to talk to experts 953 00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:22,520 Speaker 1: and people that would like just wound me with the information. 954 00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:24,400 Speaker 1: They know that I could just you know, pick their 955 00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:26,440 Speaker 1: brain about any topic. But I would just want to 956 00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:28,080 Speaker 1: be curious about all this, like I'm very I'm a 957 00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:29,640 Speaker 1: very curious person. You said I would want to be 958 00:50:29,719 --> 00:50:33,719 Speaker 1: the black woman Joe broke. Great, that's pretty much like 959 00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:36,400 Speaker 1: that's literally and it's cool because he got a hundred 960 00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:38,800 Speaker 1: million dollar deal, so of course you would want to 961 00:50:38,840 --> 00:50:41,520 Speaker 1: go for I would want to see you in a 962 00:50:41,600 --> 00:50:44,640 Speaker 1: space where people have to teach you something you don't know. 963 00:50:45,200 --> 00:50:49,200 Speaker 1: I feel like watching you, watching you and on YouTube, 964 00:50:49,320 --> 00:50:52,399 Speaker 1: just sitting there being like, what would be the best? 965 00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:55,600 Speaker 1: All right, now, tell everybody where they can watch the 966 00:50:55,719 --> 00:50:59,759 Speaker 1: TV the shows that you're in. No's over here doing 967 00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:05,320 Speaker 1: hands seed media. I don't, but I really need you 968 00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:07,480 Speaker 1: all to know that this is really fun and enjoyable, 969 00:51:07,480 --> 00:51:09,400 Speaker 1: and next time you do what The only thing I 970 00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:11,880 Speaker 1: would say is, you know, I would love at your 971 00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:14,399 Speaker 1: coolery board just right there, because when we I would 972 00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:16,279 Speaker 1: just that's one thing. I'll bring it the next time 973 00:51:16,520 --> 00:51:18,640 Speaker 1: because I really want to eat with y'all too and 974 00:51:18,800 --> 00:51:25,920 Speaker 1: laugh with y'all. Can we do if we did episode 975 00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:30,880 Speaker 1: me back for that would be so much fun. I 976 00:51:30,880 --> 00:51:33,080 Speaker 1: would love that. I would do it. I'm not gonna lie. 977 00:51:33,080 --> 00:51:38,960 Speaker 1: I would do what'd I said, stop doing that, like, 978 00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:46,279 Speaker 1: let's make it the director clear right now. I never 979 00:51:46,400 --> 00:51:48,959 Speaker 1: been to a fan, you know, That's how you said. 980 00:51:56,080 --> 00:51:58,840 Speaker 1: I just want to do it correctly. I heard you 981 00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:03,600 Speaker 1: speaking Spanish, kicking you you did anyway, looking, I really 982 00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:06,880 Speaker 1: love this time. Honestly, I've actuallyised that I had to 983 00:52:06,960 --> 00:52:10,320 Speaker 1: leave because I love all this stuff. You know, You're great, 984 00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:14,160 Speaker 1: You're k and real quick too. I do just want 985 00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:16,439 Speaker 1: to say for those people who have not ran into 986 00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:19,560 Speaker 1: you publicly, like you were at our new at our 987 00:52:19,719 --> 00:52:22,120 Speaker 1: l A Life show, and when I ran into you 988 00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:26,759 Speaker 1: BT Awards, you embraced me and you were always you you. 989 00:52:27,320 --> 00:52:29,520 Speaker 1: You were always the same energy. And I know people 990 00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:34,200 Speaker 1: like famous people be really weird. You have always held 991 00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:36,319 Speaker 1: the same energy every time I've seen you, every time 992 00:52:36,360 --> 00:52:39,520 Speaker 1: we've been in the same room, And so anyone watching 993 00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:41,799 Speaker 1: who maybe like that's my home girl, I hope she's 994 00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:45,840 Speaker 1: really like this. You have literally been the same energy 995 00:52:46,000 --> 00:52:47,400 Speaker 1: every time we've been in the same room, and I 996 00:52:47,480 --> 00:52:49,840 Speaker 1: just wanted to be sure that the public knew that 997 00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:53,440 Speaker 1: you were that girl. Oh my gosh, seriously I saw 998 00:52:53,600 --> 00:52:56,880 Speaker 1: the guy like you you really are, just because these 999 00:52:56,920 --> 00:52:59,680 Speaker 1: bit should be weird and you're not so like. Just 1000 00:53:00,160 --> 00:53:02,320 Speaker 1: to make sure everyone who was watching this know that 1001 00:53:02,440 --> 00:53:06,399 Speaker 1: you your this cool. We'd be shocked. I love y'all. Well, 1002 00:53:06,440 --> 00:53:08,360 Speaker 1: happen me back. I'm here for the monk bonk and 1003 00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:10,960 Speaker 1: when you come to New York, let's go. Oh my gosh, 1004 00:53:11,040 --> 00:53:12,600 Speaker 1: that's what I thought we was doing this, So we 1005 00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:16,960 Speaker 1: do that. We was a little time. Yeah, so glad that, y'all. 1006 00:53:18,480 --> 00:53:23,200 Speaker 1: We can't have you of the arrangement anyway. I um, 1007 00:53:23,520 --> 00:53:26,879 Speaker 1: you can catch key TV. It's free, okay, no subscription nothing. 1008 00:53:27,040 --> 00:53:29,719 Speaker 1: You tune, Facebook, all of the stuff. Check the key 1009 00:53:29,760 --> 00:53:32,600 Speaker 1: TV network Instagram page for any information, and you know 1010 00:53:32,640 --> 00:53:36,040 Speaker 1: you could catch your girl everywhere all at once, like 1011 00:53:36,200 --> 00:53:43,440 Speaker 1: the movie Give where I mean, I'm a Hulu. Um, 1012 00:53:43,680 --> 00:53:51,359 Speaker 1: now we're gonna look Patreon. No, thank you so much, 1013 00:53:51,480 --> 00:53:53,880 Speaker 1: so so so very much, y'all. Make sure y'all support 1014 00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:57,040 Speaker 1: this queen wherever the fun she acts, she is that girl, 1015 00:53:57,200 --> 00:53:59,640 Speaker 1: and we are so appreciative to having you here on Harvard. 1016 00:53:59,680 --> 00:54:02,200 Speaker 1: I love keep killing it and I love those live 1017 00:54:02,280 --> 00:54:07,800 Speaker 1: shows very very because there up there, I host the 1018 00:54:07,880 --> 00:54:11,600 Speaker 1: Home Hotel after show on key TV AM I on 1019 00:54:11,800 --> 00:54:15,160 Speaker 1: their howing No, but I made every single actor uncomfortable. 1020 00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:19,640 Speaker 1: Thank you guys for tuning in to get another episode 1021 00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:22,520 Speaker 1: of Horrid Blair. This is That's the next time by 1022 00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:27,600 Speaker 1: car when I knew that they could just take my 1023 00:54:27,760 --> 00:54:29,960 Speaker 1: car and charge it instead of me parking, and I 1024 00:54:30,080 --> 00:54:34,080 Speaker 1: was like, oh, I want to live here, but wait 1025 00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:37,000 Speaker 1: for you. Did you have like a tesla? Yeah? Um, 1026 00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:40,400 Speaker 1: that's amazing. I didn't know. Wait Columbia Square, would you 1027 00:54:40,400 --> 00:54:43,160 Speaker 1: do that? Or the place that? So I almost moved in, 1028 00:54:43,360 --> 00:54:44,800 Speaker 1: but then I kind of wanted to live in a 1029 00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:54,520 Speaker 1: house and its probably I liked so so cute though 1030 00:54:54,800 --> 00:54:59,240 Speaker 1: Columbia Squirrel. I love it so five of my best skirts. 1031 00:54:59,320 --> 00:55:03,800 Speaker 1: It's right here. Yeah, I was like three minutes away, okay, 1032 00:55:03,840 --> 00:55:09,640 Speaker 1: per ready h um. So Mandy starts it off by 1033 00:55:09,680 --> 00:55:12,400 Speaker 1: saying it's bonus beach, but I can't say it with 1034 00:55:12,480 --> 00:55:14,880 Speaker 1: our inflections, So now I feel like I failed. So 1035 00:55:14,920 --> 00:55:18,440 Speaker 1: I would like to say we never really have white guests, 1036 00:55:18,680 --> 00:55:25,120 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna get right, we don't pumpkin spice. Well, 1037 00:55:25,160 --> 00:55:29,680 Speaker 1: Mandy loves that, you know what it is? Though we 1038 00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:32,480 Speaker 1: actually yesterday I was thinking about that. I went to 1039 00:55:32,520 --> 00:55:36,080 Speaker 1: a Spotify dinner and I was the only black girl there. 1040 00:55:36,160 --> 00:55:38,480 Speaker 1: There was a lot of Asian girls, no Latina's, and 1041 00:55:38,520 --> 00:55:40,560 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, there's so many podcasters 1042 00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:44,000 Speaker 1: I want to have on, but also like, are my followers? 1043 00:55:44,000 --> 00:55:46,359 Speaker 1: And I think our listeners gonna think we sold out. 1044 00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:48,800 Speaker 1: So we have a white guest, they have to actually 1045 00:55:48,880 --> 00:55:53,520 Speaker 1: be really interesting, so no pressure, but then tell us 1046 00:55:53,560 --> 00:55:57,520 Speaker 1: the nun ship. Actually I'm trying to think who it's 1047 00:55:57,560 --> 00:55:59,880 Speaker 1: really just because our podcast started on the premise of 1048 00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:04,120 Speaker 1: having sex talk for black people, right, and over the years, um, 1049 00:56:04,360 --> 00:56:06,320 Speaker 1: I mean, we've had guests that we felt like, okay, 1050 00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:09,560 Speaker 1: we've got to have them. But it's moreover because the 1051 00:56:09,680 --> 00:56:12,480 Speaker 1: conversations that were happening before horrible for me when I 1052 00:56:12,560 --> 00:56:16,400 Speaker 1: was listening to sex podcasts, weren't necessarily relative to my life. 1053 00:56:16,840 --> 00:56:19,440 Speaker 1: So I just wanted stories. I felt like things that 1054 00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:21,480 Speaker 1: actually happened to me, whether it be. But now white 1055 00:56:21,520 --> 00:56:23,920 Speaker 1: girls were clippings and stuff, so that was my main thing. 1056 00:56:24,320 --> 00:56:26,840 Speaker 1: It was like, you know, oh, how do I explain 1057 00:56:26,880 --> 00:56:29,919 Speaker 1: my wing or my ponytail? And like all my white friends, 1058 00:56:30,000 --> 00:56:34,640 Speaker 1: now where we do you? Uh? No? But sometimes no 1059 00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:37,560 Speaker 1: tape ins, nothing not right? Now? Give got something? What's 1060 00:56:37,600 --> 00:56:42,880 Speaker 1: the blackest thing you do? Um? Oh my gosh, you 1061 00:56:42,960 --> 00:56:45,560 Speaker 1: know I did so I did? Uh And then I 1062 00:56:45,680 --> 00:56:47,840 Speaker 1: was making out with a guy and he felt the 1063 00:56:47,880 --> 00:56:49,800 Speaker 1: back of my hair and he was like, what is that? 1064 00:56:50,120 --> 00:56:54,320 Speaker 1: And when I stopped, that's so big. I got busted 1065 00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:56,680 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh man, but it looks so good. 1066 00:56:57,000 --> 00:56:59,800 Speaker 1: Everybody does it. It looks so good. It looks so 1067 00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:03,279 Speaker 1: healthy and so like full and I know and also 1068 00:57:03,400 --> 00:57:05,239 Speaker 1: like if you get the right kind that are good 1069 00:57:05,320 --> 00:57:07,839 Speaker 1: enough for your hair, like the protectives to anyway, Okay, 1070 00:57:07,840 --> 00:57:09,520 Speaker 1: I won't get into because we should be talking about sex. 1071 00:57:09,600 --> 00:57:13,480 Speaker 1: But we have Katie in the house. When I say 1072 00:57:13,520 --> 00:57:18,439 Speaker 1: owner and creator of the company, and it's called La Lavinia, Yes, 1073 00:57:18,560 --> 00:57:20,800 Speaker 1: every time I like I'm reading it, I think of, like, 1074 00:57:21,400 --> 00:57:25,680 Speaker 1: where did that come from? So she's like a Roman mistress? Okay, 1075 00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:29,200 Speaker 1: it's from a movie. Who's the famous Lavinia? It's like 1076 00:57:29,400 --> 00:57:33,360 Speaker 1: she's like a Roman mistress, like a goddess like it's 1077 00:57:33,440 --> 00:57:37,920 Speaker 1: from mythology. Why that become it's become like a popular 1078 00:57:37,960 --> 00:57:42,320 Speaker 1: first name too, okay, but why Roman mistress for the 1079 00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:44,560 Speaker 1: end of a I do. I actually keep trying to 1080 00:57:44,640 --> 00:57:46,160 Speaker 1: keep that on the download because I don't want to 1081 00:57:46,280 --> 00:57:50,480 Speaker 1: trigger anybody. So sometimes they say, like mistress, yeah exactly. 1082 00:57:50,840 --> 00:57:52,640 Speaker 1: Everybody who listens to this has probably been one at 1083 00:57:52,680 --> 00:57:57,560 Speaker 1: some point. But yeah, what's lavinia? So yeah, so it 1084 00:57:57,720 --> 00:58:00,440 Speaker 1: was just a sex god basically. Um, I mean your 1085 00:58:00,480 --> 00:58:04,520 Speaker 1: company that we're still talking about the name, um So, 1086 00:58:04,720 --> 00:58:07,160 Speaker 1: our whole goal is to enhance people's sex life through cannabis. 1087 00:58:07,280 --> 00:58:08,920 Speaker 1: So all of the products that we're working on are 1088 00:58:08,920 --> 00:58:12,240 Speaker 1: exclusively designed to do that. We launched last year with 1089 00:58:12,360 --> 00:58:15,200 Speaker 1: the silicone based lubricant, and then we're working on some 1090 00:58:15,360 --> 00:58:18,000 Speaker 1: really exciting products where we're hand some we're an R 1091 00:58:18,040 --> 00:58:20,800 Speaker 1: and D for some anal sex products R and D 1092 00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:25,480 Speaker 1: research and development R and D. Oh wow, yeah no, No, 1093 00:58:25,800 --> 00:58:27,320 Speaker 1: that's if you don't know what R and D is, 1094 00:58:27,360 --> 00:58:29,680 Speaker 1: you don't know whatever. Um, but if you'd like to 1095 00:58:29,760 --> 00:58:31,600 Speaker 1: try out the product, you can and give us feedback 1096 00:58:31,680 --> 00:58:36,680 Speaker 1: that entally. But like also at the same time, I 1097 00:58:36,800 --> 00:58:40,680 Speaker 1: do like smoking and sex. I've done like I don't know. 1098 00:58:40,760 --> 00:58:43,120 Speaker 1: I've had a lot of experiences with cannabis and sex. 1099 00:58:43,240 --> 00:58:46,200 Speaker 1: Some are good, some are bad. But I have heard 1100 00:58:46,360 --> 00:58:49,760 Speaker 1: of THHD and fused products. I just never I don't know. 1101 00:58:49,840 --> 00:58:51,520 Speaker 1: I never use them, but I'd be willing to try 1102 00:58:51,560 --> 00:58:52,960 Speaker 1: to love. I have a new partner and we are 1103 00:58:53,040 --> 00:58:57,440 Speaker 1: using condoms, so oh great, I need help. Great. Um. 1104 00:58:57,600 --> 00:59:00,040 Speaker 1: Cannabis is a vaso dilator, which essentially means that and 1105 00:59:00,080 --> 00:59:02,080 Speaker 1: increases blood flow. So you know, like when you smoke 1106 00:59:02,120 --> 00:59:05,000 Speaker 1: weed and sometimes your eyes turn red. Basically the blood 1107 00:59:05,080 --> 00:59:07,840 Speaker 1: vessels are actually increasing in size and the blood flow 1108 00:59:08,000 --> 00:59:10,720 Speaker 1: is increasing as a result, and so the same thing happens. 1109 00:59:10,800 --> 00:59:16,720 Speaker 1: You're asking you are we are we talking about? You know? 1110 00:59:18,160 --> 00:59:19,920 Speaker 1: I'm just thinking where do I really need to be 1111 00:59:20,040 --> 00:59:21,200 Speaker 1: opened up and dilated