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Speaker 1: say thank you all so much for being my first

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Speaker 1: ever male group UM interviews. You know, I just met

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Speaker 1: these niggas this weekend stuff. They say anything crazy, don't

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Speaker 1: hold it against me. So what's it like being the

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Speaker 1: black man in America? I don't We just gonna dump

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Speaker 1: into it, like yeah, come on, you're gonna hold it down.

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Speaker 1: Pros and cons give us some cons. The cons is

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Speaker 1: It's it's it's damn. They're exhausting to be a black

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Speaker 1: If I can describe being a black man, you don't

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Speaker 1: us at this table got degrees, but they y'all good

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Speaker 1: and did they research on the Black American brother? Two things?

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Speaker 1: It's how how you know what I'm saying? How do

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Speaker 1: So that should let you know? And now everybody want

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Speaker 1: to buy that? Looks about Slater and all this other ship.

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Speaker 1: I don't think this is gonna be the title of it.

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Speaker 1: But at the same time, like, I don't think we

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Speaker 1: that interaction with him that ship was heavy for me. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I worked out, run I know, I know. I put

425
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:17,320
Speaker 1: the other guys, I know they bike, they work out,

426
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:23,400
Speaker 1: bike and not give me a good drink drinking bad

427
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:26,680
Speaker 1: right now, you want to take these shots, let's do it.

428
00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:30,440
Speaker 1: Do it. We got a little bit of jack. Watch

429
00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:38,200
Speaker 1: this man, I got two you know, smack right? He

430
00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:45,600
Speaker 1: would getting busy. No, but like I think, I think

431
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:50,640
Speaker 1: the mental, the the self care of pieces really important.

432
00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:54,400
Speaker 1: I gotta have it man this month, the bike, ship

433
00:26:55,520 --> 00:27:02,000
Speaker 1: life change man, life change the bike. Solid icaeces thirty

434
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:06,280
Speaker 1: miles a day. You put your playlist together, you find

435
00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:09,360
Speaker 1: you a decent little round and you just hit the road. Man,

436
00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 1: that's all you need. And the lake the opening like

437
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:19,800
Speaker 1: your drive open when he got to the street, snow

438
00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:23,600
Speaker 1: more cars. I'm gett out of ship. Really be putting

439
00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:26,600
Speaker 1: in forty pieces now, shout out to my auntie Lord life.

440
00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:34,960
Speaker 1: Yea she black. Ya can't see. But you know what

441
00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:37,280
Speaker 1: if I covid nineteens ill believe that was for real,

442
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:41,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm wouna give it for real it's real.

443
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:44,200
Speaker 1: He can't because you don't know, because because I'm gonna

444
00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 1: tell you, it affected so much people and infected so

445
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:50,119
Speaker 1: much money. If it wasn't real, they wouldn't let it.

446
00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:53,040
Speaker 1: They wouldn't let the ship go that track if it

447
00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:56,520
Speaker 1: wasn't real, because a lot of people lost their jobs.

448
00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:58,480
Speaker 1: A lot of people lost a lot of ship over this.

449
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 1: And I think that's the only reason, not that I

450
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:06,480
Speaker 1: think that it's real, because America capitalism like they now,

451
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:09,320
Speaker 1: I gotta let motherfucking dry out like the way we

452
00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 1: did Gus and these huge corporations and companies. They lost

453
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:16,639
Speaker 1: a lot of money. And we all know. I'm not

454
00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 1: even calling that man our president number forty five, Michael.

455
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:25,359
Speaker 1: He ain't my man's buddy. Dot dot dot makes no money,

456
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:27,240
Speaker 1: no not. I ain't just gonna be out here shutting

457
00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:29,960
Speaker 1: it down because he's all about the bread, you know

458
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:35,359
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So I think it existed, but it

459
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:37,560
Speaker 1: really wasn't what they made it out to me, you

460
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:41,680
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I did see though Arizona and

461
00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:47,040
Speaker 1: Florida had over three thousand new cases in the last

462
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:52,800
Speaker 1: two days. Fun Florida. They need to clip that. I'm

463
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 1: I'm sick of that. They gotta go. I gotta go. Alright,

464
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:01,040
Speaker 1: So to his Father's Day, one of our guests is

465
00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 1: the father, So it's only right. I asked you some

466
00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:09,040
Speaker 1: questions about your upbringing. So what is something your father

467
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:13,800
Speaker 1: taught y'all that you appreciate? Now, yeah, you're really close

468
00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:19,080
Speaker 1: with your can go first, just stay solid, like I think,

469
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 1: man like. I was raised in the household where I moved.

470
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 1: I moved with my father at thirteen, so I lived

471
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 1: my mom for the first first twelve years of my life.

472
00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:33,240
Speaker 1: Age thirteen, I moved with Popes and me and him

473
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 1: grew up together. He was going through a divorce. He

474
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:40,880
Speaker 1: taught me everything, man like that Nigga is literally saved

475
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:42,640
Speaker 1: my life. And I say this all the time, Like

476
00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:47,760
Speaker 1: a lot of people grew up admiring superhero right that

477
00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:52,480
Speaker 1: man was my superhero. He's my superhero. He like he

478
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:54,760
Speaker 1: like looking at him and seeing the ship he went through.

479
00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:59,400
Speaker 1: He never folded with anything, never folded, went through a

480
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:01,320
Speaker 1: whole lot of it. And I think the biggest, the

481
00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:05,280
Speaker 1: biggest lesson he taught me was stay solid, the lord

482
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:08,920
Speaker 1: of people, that you should be lord to to a fault,

483
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:14,640
Speaker 1: and just how to interact like I was. I learned

484
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:17,400
Speaker 1: how to cod switch at a at a very young age.

485
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:19,320
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I learned how to I

486
00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:22,480
Speaker 1: learned how to walk in any room and fit in.

487
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:25,040
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. So that's that's that's probably

488
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:30,160
Speaker 1: my biggest lesson from popst me at the fight. God

489
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:32,600
Speaker 1: it he no, but but for real, like he taught

490
00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 1: me a whole bunch of stuff and I would consider

491
00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:37,800
Speaker 1: him like one of my best friends because we had

492
00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:41,680
Speaker 1: open conversations. But like on you you will with your

493
00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:44,000
Speaker 1: pops when you were thirteen. I left the house when

494
00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:46,520
Speaker 1: my pops when I was too thirteen, So that kind

495
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:48,480
Speaker 1: of shook me up a little bit. But he really

496
00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:51,760
Speaker 1: just what he told me was just like how to

497
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:55,120
Speaker 1: take care of ship, how to handle ship because it's wild,

498
00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:58,120
Speaker 1: is it sounds like I've been raised with the phrase

499
00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:03,000
Speaker 1: women and children on first, you come last, and move

500
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:06,040
Speaker 1: according and then when you do, when you look like

501
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:08,640
Speaker 1: that and you think like that, you make sure everything

502
00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:11,719
Speaker 1: around you with solid and whatever I'm dealing with, I mean,

503
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:14,600
Speaker 1: we still got ship we deal with. But once I

504
00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 1: make sure y'all good, because he made sure we was

505
00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:19,200
Speaker 1: good growing up. He's like, you're gonna figure this ship

506
00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:21,680
Speaker 1: out when you get older, Like I'm doing all of

507
00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 1: these things to make you and your mama make sure

508
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:25,160
Speaker 1: you'll good, and your brother make sure you're all good.

509
00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:27,640
Speaker 1: And he really put that around me, and like, look,

510
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 1: you really need to understand that women and children come

511
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:34,800
Speaker 1: first and then after that we come. But you gotta

512
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:37,240
Speaker 1: hold it down for the fan. You gotta hold it now.

513
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 1: That's real good ship happy fathers that my nig Yeah, man,

514
00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:46,840
Speaker 1: I make the ship ship. But sure I ain't had

515
00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:54,360
Speaker 1: no father, you know. Yeah, it's tough. It ain't tough

516
00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:58,880
Speaker 1: growing up when you a certain individual. I believe because

517
00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:03,720
Speaker 1: I think I was certain individual. I had good strong

518
00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:09,120
Speaker 1: woman in my house, Um, hard working women who took

519
00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:11,520
Speaker 1: care of the business. Shout out to the single mother

520
00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 1: mother diferent. Don't let him get a babysitting. They're gonna

521
00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:26,960
Speaker 1: baby over with go ahead. But I do think that

522
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:31,080
Speaker 1: a black man in americuld need some form of a

523
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:34,680
Speaker 1: male figure in their life, you know. So I was

524
00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:38,520
Speaker 1: fortunate enough to have that in fourth grade until this day.

525
00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:41,680
Speaker 1: So in fourth grade, I'm at a mentor and a

526
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:47,880
Speaker 1: father figure who who did father fatherly things until this day,

527
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:53,320
Speaker 1: and I would I'm a firm believer that I wouldn't

528
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:56,040
Speaker 1: be when I'm at it wasn't for him, you know,

529
00:32:56,400 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 1: and and talk for why out earlier, you know, I

530
00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:05,680
Speaker 1: had to call and wish my opple father's day. But

531
00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:10,960
Speaker 1: other than that, you know, a black man needs is following.

532
00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:16,560
Speaker 1: That's what my situation is. It's I think it's prevalent

533
00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:21,160
Speaker 1: across America with black kids, because the black man get

534
00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:25,480
Speaker 1: taken away early, you know, away from the black filet

535
00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:28,560
Speaker 1: get away to get taken away early, and they with

536
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:33,080
Speaker 1: their kids. But that's another topic. But I think I

537
00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:36,360
Speaker 1: was fortunate and and I'm lucky, you know, because I

538
00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:40,560
Speaker 1: could have looked up to drug deals with folk bank

539
00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:43,560
Speaker 1: rolls in their pockets with twenty falls on the Chevy.

540
00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 1: And that's what I saw before I met Mama. My

541
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:49,840
Speaker 1: mentor and father figure. And he showed me that education

542
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:53,760
Speaker 1: was away and and it's been up from now. So

543
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:59,640
Speaker 1: that's real. That's my story about you. Your blood. Oh

544
00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:04,040
Speaker 1: I was um no, I mean and my father we

545
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:11,320
Speaker 1: had a solid relationship. Um talk to you about this before.

546
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 1: So like me and my me and my pops. My

547
00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:18,360
Speaker 1: my pops wanted to leave my mom. They got divorced

548
00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:22,319
Speaker 1: my moms too, So like for me, I never seen

549
00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:29,480
Speaker 1: my mother and like and uh intimacy type of relationship

550
00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 1: with another man. I never seen it to this day.

551
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 1: So like when my pops left, you know, I had

552
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:41,919
Speaker 1: questions like why why why are your mom didn't leave?

553
00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:44,359
Speaker 1: I mean, why why are your mom did like stay

554
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:46,400
Speaker 1: together and all this stuff. When I was a short you,

555
00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:48,640
Speaker 1: I'll never diet. Some moms to short you, But I

556
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:51,279
Speaker 1: never would ask me because like I had that much

557
00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 1: respect in my pops, like like whatever my whatever my

558
00:34:56,760 --> 00:35:01,520
Speaker 1: dad say, it goes because I fear to me. I

559
00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 1: feared the man like like like he became like religion

560
00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:08,200
Speaker 1: in the household. So when we when we would go

561
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 1: visiting him, it was his word or nothing, and like

562
00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:15,160
Speaker 1: he was real stern and like it almost felt like

563
00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:19,320
Speaker 1: he didn't like have a care in the world like

564
00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:21,920
Speaker 1: in regard, but he loved his kids. So he his

565
00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:28,439
Speaker 1: way of showing us love it like like buying the ship,

566
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:32,040
Speaker 1: you know, like like buying us, buying us things, and

567
00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:35,799
Speaker 1: having us like chill. So a lot of a lot

568
00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:39,040
Speaker 1: of other conversations that like a few of my girls

569
00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:43,200
Speaker 1: and had when they with their pops, I didn't have

570
00:35:43,320 --> 00:35:47,440
Speaker 1: it like. So I think I look at my older

571
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:50,360
Speaker 1: brother as more as more of a like father figure

572
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:54,160
Speaker 1: to me um and my mom, you know, like my mom.

573
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 1: My mom coached me like as I got older on

574
00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 1: how to treat man or like how you carry yourself

575
00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:04,799
Speaker 1: out in the street. I really didn't learn that from

576
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:07,759
Speaker 1: my possible he was around, and I think I think

577
00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:10,800
Speaker 1: we just we missed that era to where like or

578
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 1: maybe I was too vulnerable to like I wasn't vulnerable

579
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:16,759
Speaker 1: enough to like open up to him and express like

580
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:21,080
Speaker 1: how I felt about their relationship and you know ship

581
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:23,200
Speaker 1: like that. But I've seen my pops with other women,

582
00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:26,120
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, But I never I never

583
00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:30,960
Speaker 1: seen my mom like like real intimate again with another

584
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:33,279
Speaker 1: man and like enjoying us. So it was just all

585
00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:37,719
Speaker 1: about kids. So so yeah, I missed a lot. So

586
00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:42,279
Speaker 1: I learned as I go from like my guys than

587
00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:46,919
Speaker 1: if you don't mommy asking like how do you feel

588
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:51,640
Speaker 1: today about your pops. You just mentioned earlier that you

589
00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:57,040
Speaker 1: know he was like god growing up. Yeah, like to

590
00:36:57,120 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 1: show his love and affect, he bought your all stuff. Yeah,

591
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:03,640
Speaker 1: like at the time. Yeah, yeah true. So like at

592
00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:06,759
Speaker 1: the time, like my my dad was like he was

593
00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:11,279
Speaker 1: he was like like he was like a real guy.

594
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:13,440
Speaker 1: Like at the time, he was like working out. He

595
00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:15,839
Speaker 1: was like physical and like he should like make us

596
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:20,239
Speaker 1: like like physical kids. It wasn't, no, we need to

597
00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:25,120
Speaker 1: talk about like anything other than sports, you know what

598
00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:28,440
Speaker 1: I'm saying. It wasn't It was like you do this

599
00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:32,400
Speaker 1: or nothing type thing like he that's kind of like

600
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:34,759
Speaker 1: what he is. Still like you gotta be tough. You

601
00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:37,360
Speaker 1: shouldn't be crying over there. So you can't like express

602
00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:41,600
Speaker 1: yourself over this because it could be it can show

603
00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:44,839
Speaker 1: you one of my really trying it. It can show

604
00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:46,839
Speaker 1: like a sign of it can show like a sign

605
00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:50,320
Speaker 1: of weakness and the sense. So I learned that. I

606
00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:54,279
Speaker 1: learned that from my pops for a while, but my

607
00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:57,440
Speaker 1: brother kind of broke me in that sense that like

608
00:37:57,760 --> 00:38:00,800
Speaker 1: I saw him love on his wife, like like his

609
00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:05,160
Speaker 1: current wife. Now, like you know what I'm saying, I

610
00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:11,840
Speaker 1: got something crazy that I'm just thinking about. So basically,

611
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:17,799
Speaker 1: none of us have really lived with our fathers our

612
00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:21,960
Speaker 1: entire life. Four household. So it's four men at this

613
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:28,280
Speaker 1: table that didn't have uh, their dad in the house

614
00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:31,440
Speaker 1: their entire life when they moved out and became grown.

615
00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 1: But I don't see how much that ship can affect you.

616
00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:37,480
Speaker 1: Like imagine you're having a kid and you leave it,

617
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:39,320
Speaker 1: but you know how much more you can, like you

618
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:42,480
Speaker 1: leave in whatever, you know how much more you can

619
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:45,399
Speaker 1: give that kid. So that's another thing that we gotta

620
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 1: deal with, you know what I'm saying, Like imagine, like damn,

621
00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:53,200
Speaker 1: my shorty, me and me and my all, me and

622
00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:55,319
Speaker 1: my wife, me and my girl. We're not seeing how

623
00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:57,880
Speaker 1: the eye. Now I gotta lead a crib and my

624
00:38:58,080 --> 00:39:02,560
Speaker 1: son he fucking twelve. Yeah, and I'm leaving. I got

625
00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:05,640
Speaker 1: so much more game to get this little nigger, but

626
00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:07,880
Speaker 1: now I gotta go. So now he gotta deal with

627
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:10,960
Speaker 1: this ship on his own. Will is hell because you

628
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:14,759
Speaker 1: gotta end up. Yeah, while this hell because the same

629
00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:17,000
Speaker 1: motherfucker's that you're talking about you gotta have a job

630
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:21,319
Speaker 1: interview against They had that structure, the whole foundation, while

631
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:23,880
Speaker 1: this hell, that's the type of ship we up against.

632
00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:27,279
Speaker 1: Like it's it's a whole fucking thing. Like that's wi

633
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:29,600
Speaker 1: you get to a place where you feel like you secure.

634
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:32,560
Speaker 1: Billy already at another level on a whole nothing, he going,

635
00:39:32,719 --> 00:39:34,759
Speaker 1: he going on this job interview, Like I don't need

636
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:40,319
Speaker 1: this ship, y'all need me. I don't need y'all. I'm

637
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:42,719
Speaker 1: already sitting on two hunting in the bank. Fuck y'all,

638
00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:45,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be creative, and we're sitting in the right

639
00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:48,160
Speaker 1: and we're sitting in there tight than the motherfucker. Like

640
00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:50,960
Speaker 1: I need this ship. My family depended on this ship.

641
00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:53,160
Speaker 1: My mama needs this money. I like, you know what

642
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:57,160
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like that's a different field, that's a different energy. Why,

643
00:39:57,320 --> 00:40:01,120
Speaker 1: but that's a fact. What is something I wish your

644
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:04,880
Speaker 1: father would have taught you all, But he didn't hm

645
00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:08,400
Speaker 1: for me. I think I think more so we did.

646
00:40:08,520 --> 00:40:13,640
Speaker 1: We didn't talk about finances. Yeah, so I learned. I

647
00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:17,319
Speaker 1: learned the hard way, and I'm appreciative of the way

648
00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 1: I've learned because now I can change that trajectory for

649
00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:24,800
Speaker 1: my family. You know what I'm saying, My my offspring

650
00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:28,400
Speaker 1: like like me, you're talking enough about the ship. But

651
00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:30,880
Speaker 1: I also realized that at the same time he was

652
00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:34,360
Speaker 1: learning this ship, he was learning and he was like

653
00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:37,320
Speaker 1: he was he was literally learning the ship at the

654
00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:40,440
Speaker 1: same time that I was a teenager, he was literally

655
00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:44,440
Speaker 1: learning how to transform his life and my property and

656
00:40:44,719 --> 00:40:47,400
Speaker 1: like all that ship, he learned all that of a

657
00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:50,480
Speaker 1: later time in life. So now we can have those

658
00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:54,640
Speaker 1: conversations like damn, you know, you know I didn't notice

659
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 1: when I was thirty. You know this is that I

660
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:00,759
Speaker 1: wish I could have taught you. But now we can

661
00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:05,200
Speaker 1: have them conversation, the conversations like nam going forward, you

662
00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:07,920
Speaker 1: need to do this. So yos, So your kids I

663
00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:11,480
Speaker 1: set up and they authorized yous on on a motherfucking

664
00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:15,640
Speaker 1: credit card when they fucking twelve and they come out

665
00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 1: of high school with a seven huntred. You know what

666
00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:20,840
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like like those things that we didn't talk about,

667
00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:26,120
Speaker 1: So yeah, I'm gonna say finances too, because they was

668
00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:29,480
Speaker 1: focused on some whole other ship. I feel like they

669
00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:33,480
Speaker 1: taught us everything that they could and just like, look,

670
00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:35,960
Speaker 1: you're gonna figure that the rest of that ship out,

671
00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:37,879
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna teach you how to I'm gonna teach

672
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:40,279
Speaker 1: you how to maneuver what you got against you because

673
00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:45,320
Speaker 1: I've seen it. But yeah, yeah, they really talked like

674
00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:50,520
Speaker 1: my people really just every day was a survival or

675
00:41:50,680 --> 00:41:53,360
Speaker 1: how to go make money, not what to do with

676
00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:56,080
Speaker 1: the money you made. My father taught me how to

677
00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 1: make a lot of money, like I gotta step. I

678
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:01,919
Speaker 1: think it was selling f was ones at this moment,

679
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:08,560
Speaker 1: I was bowman bowmen. I know how that I got

680
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:11,040
Speaker 1: told how to make money. I ain't teach me what

681
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 1: to do with that ship. And that's just the hustle

682
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:17,160
Speaker 1: of mentality, Like I got a wild ass hustler mentality.

683
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:20,200
Speaker 1: But as I'm getting older, I'm realizing what to do

684
00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:22,960
Speaker 1: with the money that I hustled for and get And

685
00:42:23,040 --> 00:42:26,040
Speaker 1: that's the life changeing. Like so really, I don't really

686
00:42:26,080 --> 00:42:28,719
Speaker 1: gotta hustle no more because I get the money and

687
00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:32,120
Speaker 1: I let somebody else do this ship. But the like, no,

688
00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:34,719
Speaker 1: you need to be up from sun up to sundown

689
00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 1: out here getting it, Like my fucker's don't really do that.

690
00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:40,640
Speaker 1: You can't really trade your time for money if you

691
00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:42,359
Speaker 1: really want to have a lot of money. I ain't

692
00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:44,640
Speaker 1: gotta be up at three in the morning to man,

693
00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:47,160
Speaker 1: he don't know, but I don't know. We didn't know that.

694
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:50,799
Speaker 1: That's a rapid erative. They didn't know that, and we're

695
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:53,440
Speaker 1: figuring that ship out. But they gave us that hustle

696
00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:56,960
Speaker 1: of mentality though. Yeah, but now that I'm going to

697
00:42:57,040 --> 00:43:03,279
Speaker 1: sleep and let other ship shot over with Yeah, true

698
00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 1: ship for me. You know, I'm gonna asking the question

699
00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:10,360
Speaker 1: like this. I'm gonna say, Um, you know, that's a

700
00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 1: chain that has to be broken. I'm gonna say what

701
00:43:15,480 --> 00:43:19,359
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do for my son that I have if

702
00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:25,280
Speaker 1: I want him to say that his father taught him everything,

703
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:30,320
Speaker 1: because I think it's called learned behavior. I know a

704
00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:34,480
Speaker 1: couple of guys who would have got into marriages and

705
00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:38,480
Speaker 1: never left because that's what they saw their father did.

706
00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:42,399
Speaker 1: They father never left, and I have had deep conversations

707
00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:46,040
Speaker 1: with them when they said, man, my mother was tough

708
00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:50,320
Speaker 1: in the household, difficult to be around with my father.

709
00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:54,400
Speaker 1: But my father still stayed and he still you know,

710
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:57,359
Speaker 1: stayed the course, and he still worked hard every day.

711
00:43:57,400 --> 00:44:01,520
Speaker 1: He still taught us finances, He still taught us how

712
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:04,480
Speaker 1: to be a husband. He's still you know, taught us

713
00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:07,880
Speaker 1: how to take care of home, and I'm a firm

714
00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:11,480
Speaker 1: believer in that, you know, is learned behavior. So I

715
00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 1: can't answer that because the guy that raised me, it

716
00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:18,400
Speaker 1: was not my father. He had to deal with his

717
00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 1: own household, but he really sacrifice to be there for

718
00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:24,080
Speaker 1: me and my my brother because he also helped my

719
00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:28,560
Speaker 1: brother out too. Um with us being fatherless, you know

720
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:32,440
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So to answer that, I want to

721
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:36,960
Speaker 1: be the type of father too to my son and

722
00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 1: my and my children so they can say, you know,

723
00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:44,120
Speaker 1: I talked to him everything and how to do that.

724
00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:46,279
Speaker 1: I mentioned that early as a black man in a

725
00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:49,000
Speaker 1: mary got ten times better than everything you gotta do

726
00:44:49,160 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 1: ten times and and everything. You know, he's gotta be

727
00:44:53,680 --> 00:44:57,160
Speaker 1: on point, you gotta be sharp. So I feel like

728
00:44:57,200 --> 00:45:00,520
Speaker 1: you acquiring the knowledge to like when he asked a question,

729
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:04,760
Speaker 1: you'll be able to answer yeah with a real answer,

730
00:45:04,880 --> 00:45:07,920
Speaker 1: not with no bullshit like you didn't stop no, Like

731
00:45:08,040 --> 00:45:10,480
Speaker 1: my fucker's usually answering questions with some bullshit just to

732
00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:13,759
Speaker 1: get you but about up because they don't know. But

733
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:17,520
Speaker 1: you're gonna asking him yeah, Like I don't want you

734
00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:18,759
Speaker 1: to know that I don't know what the funk I'm

735
00:45:18,800 --> 00:45:20,719
Speaker 1: talking about, all right, I don't want you to know

736
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:22,239
Speaker 1: because they went through and they want you to go

737
00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:26,440
Speaker 1: through it. Yeah, another piece of that bullshit that we

738
00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:29,520
Speaker 1: gotta deal with. But you're gonna answer the question like

739
00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:38,359
Speaker 1: point point point point. You want to say something, Oh

740
00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:42,360
Speaker 1: you're not and stuff finance and credit, Yeah, that's it.

741
00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:46,160
Speaker 1: I wish I learned that, don't like at an early age.

742
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:48,520
Speaker 1: I had to learn a hard way as well, So

743
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:57,160
Speaker 1: like finances and credit and just like like knowing how

744
00:45:57,280 --> 00:46:00,640
Speaker 1: to put my energy into the right thing. I think

745
00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:05,440
Speaker 1: my mom, like my pops, just could have just moved

746
00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:08,200
Speaker 1: me in a different direction. He was a good father

747
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:09,879
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, he was a good father.

748
00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:13,279
Speaker 1: I think if he knew me well at a younger age,

749
00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:14,680
Speaker 1: he would have knew what I liked and when I

750
00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:17,560
Speaker 1: didn't like this ship like that. And that comes to

751
00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:20,560
Speaker 1: me not being a household M know what I'm saying,

752
00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:24,440
Speaker 1: Like my mom knew that already, so so it was

753
00:46:24,560 --> 00:46:29,040
Speaker 1: it's a learning experience. So I would like to teach

754
00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:35,880
Speaker 1: my kids financial literacy as well as like credit and

755
00:46:36,040 --> 00:46:40,719
Speaker 1: like the reason why we're doing this is like sustained

756
00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:45,839
Speaker 1: some type of family like well like leave something behind. Yeah,

757
00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:51,839
Speaker 1: good ship, bro. Well, I'm always receiving questions about relationships.

758
00:46:51,880 --> 00:47:00,680
Speaker 1: I don't know why ship let it in a room

759
00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:03,440
Speaker 1: so pc, I'm I'm not gonna let it go. Two

760
00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:10,160
Speaker 1: of my guests got their girls in the room, y'all. Alright,

761
00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:13,080
Speaker 1: So the number one question that a lot of females

762
00:47:13,120 --> 00:47:17,359
Speaker 1: want to know, you want take a shot first ship?

763
00:47:20,160 --> 00:47:22,799
Speaker 1: All right? So what do niggas want? What do y'all

764
00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:32,120
Speaker 1: look for in a woman? Niggas quiet? You know, nigga

765
00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:47,920
Speaker 1: bro my roy, So what do we look for in

766
00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 1: a female? I mean, it's I think it's really just

767
00:47:51,200 --> 00:48:02,560
Speaker 1: like up to your room, room this bit what I what?

768
00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:05,759
Speaker 1: I guess it depends on who you are. But for me,

769
00:48:06,719 --> 00:48:13,160
Speaker 1: for me, I look for balance and when and when

770
00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:16,000
Speaker 1: I mean balance, like we gotta go to the good

771
00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:19,600
Speaker 1: with the killers niggas we grew up with, and we

772
00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:22,680
Speaker 1: gotta be able to go to the gala. You know

773
00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:24,680
Speaker 1: what I mean, because that's how my life is. Show.

774
00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:28,000
Speaker 1: We gotta be all over the place, you know what

775
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:30,160
Speaker 1: I'm saying. And you gotta sometimes you gotta fight my

776
00:48:30,280 --> 00:48:32,759
Speaker 1: battles for me. Because when it's up for me to

777
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:35,560
Speaker 1: fight a battle, it's a whole another level of like bullshit.

778
00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:38,239
Speaker 1: So you might have to like shut the up, nigga

779
00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:40,640
Speaker 1: woo or shut up basically, and we keep it moving.

780
00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:43,160
Speaker 1: But when it's time for me to get aggressive, like,

781
00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:46,000
Speaker 1: it's a whole another level of aggressive. So we were

782
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:48,560
Speaker 1: talking about this earlier. I'm like, sometimes you gotta be

783
00:48:48,680 --> 00:48:52,040
Speaker 1: my barrier to the bullshit because when I step up,

784
00:48:52,160 --> 00:48:57,399
Speaker 1: it's a whole another level of bullshit. Different. So once

785
00:48:57,480 --> 00:48:59,759
Speaker 1: you've got all that and I know you got my back,

786
00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:05,759
Speaker 1: I don't give a quiet as cap. I wouldn't do

787
00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:09,600
Speaker 1: any fucking thing. I buy a house, I buy what

788
00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:11,359
Speaker 1: I'll do all that ship, I don't give a funk.

789
00:49:11,600 --> 00:49:13,799
Speaker 1: But if I know you're helping me with these type

790
00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:16,440
Speaker 1: of things, like let me go conquer this ship, I

791
00:49:16,640 --> 00:49:19,080
Speaker 1: go fight the world. But when I come back to

792
00:49:19,160 --> 00:49:22,080
Speaker 1: the crib and all this ship handled, I'll go back

793
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:25,160
Speaker 1: out of them all. You know what I'm saying that

794
00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:29,880
Speaker 1: who next one walk away? One? Put the shades on.

795
00:49:31,080 --> 00:49:34,800
Speaker 1: I think for me, right, So I think earlier in

796
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:37,000
Speaker 1: my life I was looking for something different, right, I

797
00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:42,480
Speaker 1: was looking for like I had like a college so

798
00:49:42,560 --> 00:49:46,400
Speaker 1: I had like a college girl. The audience is tweaked.

799
00:49:52,440 --> 00:49:55,440
Speaker 1: I had like so, I had like a I had

800
00:49:55,480 --> 00:49:58,759
Speaker 1: a different type earlier in life, right, so I'm a

801
00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:03,320
Speaker 1: type of nigger where you give me, I'm gonna take away,

802
00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:11,680
Speaker 1: give me country. So so so I think that I

803
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:13,759
Speaker 1: was in the last couple of years of my life,

804
00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:17,000
Speaker 1: I was legit looking for somebody that's like, hey, well

805
00:50:17,080 --> 00:50:19,879
Speaker 1: people set your goof ass down, and why she got

806
00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:24,040
Speaker 1: that we we ain't going out tonight. I couldn't. I

807
00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:25,800
Speaker 1: just look with somebody who who kind of got that

808
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:28,719
Speaker 1: same who would tell me shot the sunk up sometimes

809
00:50:29,120 --> 00:50:33,319
Speaker 1: because I need that I did it that just knowing

810
00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:36,000
Speaker 1: like the type of people that I dealt with, because

811
00:50:36,040 --> 00:50:37,920
Speaker 1: you give me too much, I'm gonna take it. I'm

812
00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:40,080
Speaker 1: gonna run with it, you know what I'm saying. So

813
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:45,960
Speaker 1: for me, I was, I think as far as well,

814
00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:48,600
Speaker 1: I was thinking point a woman was more so of like, man,

815
00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:53,080
Speaker 1: set your ass down, you're moving too fast. Let's think

816
00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:56,480
Speaker 1: about this, let's talk about this. We gotta make calculated

817
00:50:56,560 --> 00:51:00,000
Speaker 1: moves like all that ship matters. And that's an underage.

818
00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:05,800
Speaker 1: Did attribute in women because niggas, because because because niggas

819
00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:07,760
Speaker 1: wanted when niggas want to go on hunt the mouse power,

820
00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:13,799
Speaker 1: they want to they want to so women like Nick

821
00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:16,359
Speaker 1: and then also the niggas that's going on Hunter mouse Power,

822
00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:19,120
Speaker 1: they want a motherfucker's little stuffup to a boy do

823
00:51:19,160 --> 00:51:23,960
Speaker 1: all the ship acts like we're good. That's a that's

824
00:51:24,000 --> 00:51:27,120
Speaker 1: a thing. That's the most important thing for me, just

825
00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:31,120
Speaker 1: being having some control and not being scared to speak

826
00:51:31,239 --> 00:51:37,080
Speaker 1: up because niggas and niggas we're gonna do whatever the

827
00:51:37,160 --> 00:51:39,480
Speaker 1: funk we want to do until somebody say something about it,

828
00:51:40,000 --> 00:51:44,040
Speaker 1: just to see what you want. That's the temperature. You

829
00:51:44,160 --> 00:51:46,400
Speaker 1: ain't no ship. You ain't my old lady, because you

830
00:51:46,440 --> 00:51:50,239
Speaker 1: ain't no because we're really testing you because obviously there's

831
00:51:50,280 --> 00:51:52,880
Speaker 1: other ship that you're gonna see. Like how like how

832
00:51:53,040 --> 00:51:54,719
Speaker 1: how much are you gonna tell me not to do?

833
00:51:55,120 --> 00:51:58,200
Speaker 1: But like how stern are you? Because like if you

834
00:51:58,239 --> 00:52:01,320
Speaker 1: don't tell me not to do that kind of correlation

835
00:52:01,400 --> 00:52:03,920
Speaker 1: like you just you just went whatever. That's a reflection

836
00:52:03,960 --> 00:52:06,480
Speaker 1: of your mother, how you can raise your kids exactly

837
00:52:06,640 --> 00:52:09,200
Speaker 1: like you just went whatever, motherfucker tell you anything, and

838
00:52:09,239 --> 00:52:12,800
Speaker 1: you're going, no, we don't like niggas don't want that,

839
00:52:13,080 --> 00:52:15,320
Speaker 1: like we can't like trust you to be out in

840
00:52:15,320 --> 00:52:18,360
Speaker 1: the world and deal with certain situations. And you're going

841
00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:21,799
Speaker 1: like it ain't like I'm not talking about we're going

842
00:52:21,920 --> 00:52:26,160
Speaker 1: me and everything or a few things that a lot.

843
00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:29,680
Speaker 1: So if y'all want me to break down, you're popping that,

844
00:52:30,120 --> 00:52:35,640
Speaker 1: you're popping it the street. Wait what do you say?

845
00:52:36,120 --> 00:52:39,880
Speaker 1: But you're going, You're going if you if you feel

846
00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:42,480
Speaker 1: deep down in your heart that I'm doing something extra

847
00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:45,440
Speaker 1: and you're not telling me about that ship and you

848
00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:47,640
Speaker 1: just with that ship you want one And I don't

849
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Speaker 1: funk like that, Like you gotta tell me because you niggas.

850
00:52:50,800 --> 00:52:57,200
Speaker 1: Niggas be on that long story short well looking the

851
00:52:57,239 --> 00:53:07,080
Speaker 1: woman mean that's confident. We assence a direction, Um, I

852
00:53:07,160 --> 00:53:09,440
Speaker 1: don't go out. I want a woman that like know

853
00:53:09,600 --> 00:53:13,000
Speaker 1: what she wants in it. Mans. I think she should

854
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:17,239
Speaker 1: speak on it early because it helped both of us out.

855
00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:20,719
Speaker 1: Um since the direction, he's like, you don't have you

856
00:53:20,719 --> 00:53:24,000
Speaker 1: don't have to have it all figured out, but with

857
00:53:24,160 --> 00:53:28,600
Speaker 1: your with your goals and like the two year plan,

858
00:53:28,719 --> 00:53:31,520
Speaker 1: your five year plan. I think I'm I think I'm

859
00:53:32,800 --> 00:53:35,359
Speaker 1: I'm really like gunt hold on, like what you need

860
00:53:35,480 --> 00:53:37,759
Speaker 1: to do, what you want to do, and like do it,

861
00:53:37,960 --> 00:53:39,960
Speaker 1: do it all makes sense to do it in line

862
00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:46,320
Speaker 1: with my lifestyle. And then like obviously, I feel like

863
00:53:47,160 --> 00:53:51,800
Speaker 1: you gotta be attractive to me, you know, like you

864
00:53:51,920 --> 00:53:55,440
Speaker 1: got you got, you gotta be attracted to it. But um,

865
00:53:55,640 --> 00:53:57,920
Speaker 1: I think I'm at the age now where at one

866
00:53:58,000 --> 00:54:00,840
Speaker 1: point in my life I thought that I wanted this,

867
00:54:01,120 --> 00:54:04,879
Speaker 1: I wanted that, but now as I get older, Um,

868
00:54:05,680 --> 00:54:08,520
Speaker 1: just speaking on like the foundation and what you can

869
00:54:08,560 --> 00:54:11,319
Speaker 1: bring to the table is like the number one key

870
00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:14,520
Speaker 1: to me. So like again, just a sense of direction,

871
00:54:15,239 --> 00:54:17,799
Speaker 1: like you're on top of your stuff, are you've organized?

872
00:54:17,920 --> 00:54:22,560
Speaker 1: I think I love a woman's organized m and as

873
00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:26,000
Speaker 1: well as like a nurturing woman. I think if if

874
00:54:26,040 --> 00:54:28,839
Speaker 1: you're not a nurturing woman, that's almost like a deal

875
00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:31,480
Speaker 1: breaking to me because like I grew up in the

876
00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:34,800
Speaker 1: household of like a woman that was just like a

877
00:54:34,920 --> 00:54:37,239
Speaker 1: nurturing woman. But I don't need you to be my mother.

878
00:54:37,960 --> 00:54:41,160
Speaker 1: But just the small things mattered to me, Like how

879
00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:44,719
Speaker 1: do you feel today? You know what I'm saying, Like

880
00:54:45,440 --> 00:54:47,800
Speaker 1: how's your day going on? With everything that's going on

881
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:51,440
Speaker 1: in the world, Like let's talk, Like I think I

882
00:54:51,520 --> 00:54:54,320
Speaker 1: need a woman and to like court me and that

883
00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:57,040
Speaker 1: man So that's what I look for in a woman

884
00:55:05,080 --> 00:55:13,960
Speaker 1: right now? Let me let me answer. Can I answer you?

885
00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:27,799
Speaker 1: I ain't looking for nothing. You know why I'm dating? Okay, date,

886
00:55:28,600 --> 00:55:34,479
Speaker 1: So whatever whatever I feel gravitated towards and I feel

887
00:55:34,520 --> 00:55:37,479
Speaker 1: like that's it, then I'm gonna pursue it. I can't

888
00:55:37,520 --> 00:55:40,239
Speaker 1: call it right now. And what do you look? I mean,

889
00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:42,640
Speaker 1: we can go. You don't have no idea what you're

890
00:55:42,640 --> 00:55:45,040
Speaker 1: looking for. I mean, obviously you gotta be a well

891
00:55:45,160 --> 00:55:48,879
Speaker 1: put together human. You know what I'm saying, well put

892
00:55:48,920 --> 00:55:52,080
Speaker 1: together woman. You know what I'm saying. I can't call

893
00:55:52,160 --> 00:55:55,640
Speaker 1: it right now, man, because I'm not in that that's

894
00:55:55,680 --> 00:55:58,759
Speaker 1: space to say what I'm looking for. And I think

895
00:55:58,760 --> 00:56:00,680
Speaker 1: I said this last night when we was that there

896
00:56:01,640 --> 00:56:05,200
Speaker 1: a lot of things I'm working on with myself. You know,

897
00:56:05,640 --> 00:56:09,600
Speaker 1: once I figure myself out, then I can figure out

898
00:56:09,719 --> 00:56:13,840
Speaker 1: what I'm gonna be attracted to. Because lifeul like you know,

899
00:56:15,560 --> 00:56:21,399
Speaker 1: I can't call it right now. It's awadness ship yeah,

900
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Speaker 1: alad y'all. So that was Part one of the Guys.

901
00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:27,799
Speaker 1: Part two will be dropping next week. So if you're

902
00:56:27,840 --> 00:56:32,239
Speaker 1: having any comments, questions, concerns, remarks, don't be trying to

903
00:56:32,320 --> 00:56:34,160
Speaker 1: hit me up asking who these niggas are. Because I'm

904
00:56:34,160 --> 00:56:37,160
Speaker 1: not gonna tell y'all, please make sure that email me

905
00:56:37,280 --> 00:56:40,480
Speaker 1: at hello at the PhD podcast dot com. And until

906
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Speaker 1: next time, guys. Later,