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Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need

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Speaker 1: is just Strawberry letter. Thanks nap. Subject will my man

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Speaker 1: choose me for the holidays? Dear Stephen Shirley. I am

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Speaker 1: a thirty year old, beautiful and successful woman and I'm

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Speaker 1: in love with a forty four year old, well educated

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Speaker 1: He told me that he was seeing someone in a

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Speaker 1: despite the news. After six months of dating, I did

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Speaker 1: some research and found out that he proposed to this

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Speaker 1: woman and she has set a wedding date. I never

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Speaker 1: confronted him about it, but it tore me apart emotionally.

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Speaker 1: I figured if I started an argument about it, I

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Speaker 1: I have kept the news to myself. I'm trying my

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Speaker 1: leave her. I know the old saying if he cheats

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Speaker 1: on her, he'll cheat on you. But I believe in

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Speaker 1: love and I know we have something special. The loving

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Speaker 1: trips all across the world. We are always together when

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Speaker 1: wedding invitations. The holidays are coming up and I don't

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Speaker 1: want to spend them without him, so time is of

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Speaker 1: the essence. How do I tell this man that I

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Speaker 1: am in love with him and will take any and

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Speaker 1: It's totally possible to be in love with two people

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Speaker 1: at the same time, so he's probably struggling internally with

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Speaker 1: him and go away. It may make him mad, but

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Speaker 1: know we can be happy together. I'm head over heels

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Speaker 1: for this man, and I'm planning to invite him to

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Speaker 1: Thanksgiving dinner so my family can meet him. How shall

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Speaker 1: I handle How should I handle this love triangle? Do

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Speaker 1: you hear yourself? Do you hear yourself? Because listen closely.

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Speaker 1: This is this is the sound of desperation, all right,

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Speaker 1: this is the sound of delusion in this letter. So

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Speaker 1: I want you to hear yourself. You are so short

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Speaker 1: changing yourself in this relationship. You are number two. That's it,

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Speaker 1: that's all. You are the piece, and you're okay with that.

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Speaker 1: I think you're really okay with it because he told

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Speaker 1: you his status when you, guys, you know, first got together.

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Speaker 1: He told you he was in a long distance relationship.

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Speaker 1: You even researched it, you did your research and your words.

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Speaker 1: You still dated him despite the news. You started dating him.

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Speaker 1: And that's the problem. I mean, really, what is his

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Speaker 1: What is it? He's getting everything from you without having

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Speaker 1: he's got the best of both worlds here. I mean,

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Speaker 1: the question then becomes, when are you going to wake

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Speaker 1: her for you, don't you think he would have waited

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Speaker 1: to propose to her. I mean, you know, you did

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Speaker 1: now you think it's a competition between the fiance and

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Speaker 1: you because you're you're willing to take any and every

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Speaker 1: he's gonna be. He's gonna be with his fiance and

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Speaker 1: her family kicking it over there for Thanksgiving because they're

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Speaker 1: planning a wedding, they're getting married. You are the side piece,

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Speaker 1: all right, Steve, Well, I don't know what Shirley's done

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Speaker 1: here we go. Well, my man, choose me for the holidays.

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Speaker 1: The answer to that question is no. And the answer

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Speaker 1: them days right. Then, you don't get anniversaries. You don't

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Speaker 1: get none of that. Coach, you will never had an anniversary.

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Speaker 1: Number two don't get anniversary dates. Number one get anniversary dates.

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Speaker 1: And you don't even have to be married to your

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Speaker 1: we've been knowing each other. You don't do that to

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Speaker 1: number twos. You don't go we've been seeing each other

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Speaker 1: there's no celebration. You don't celebrate number twos. When I

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Speaker 1: told you I got somebody. It's a long just relationship.

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Speaker 1: I got somebody. You started dating Demand anyway. Then after

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Speaker 1: waiting date. Okay, what's the surprise. I never confronted him

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Speaker 1: already winning. She the fiance. Six months in you found

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Speaker 1: out they set a date for a wed He asked her,

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Speaker 1: mentioned marriage to you? He said nothing? By no, damn

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Speaker 1: up coming you're listening, hey, Steve, come on, let's recap

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Speaker 1: today's drawberry. Her subject, well, my man choose me for

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Speaker 1: the holidays. This woman to met she thirty, She met

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Speaker 1: just for the year old, well for the four year old,

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Speaker 1: well educated hunk swept you off your feet when you

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Speaker 1: some research that's social media. Found out that he proposed

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Speaker 1: to this woman. She even set a wedding day. You

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Speaker 1: ain't never saying nothing to him about the man. Figure

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Speaker 1: if you start a argument and push him away. Now

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Speaker 1: you want to know in the letter where my man

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Speaker 1: choose me for the holidays. I'm telling you know because

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Speaker 1: number twos don't get holidays. Holidays a reserved for number one.

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Speaker 1: what is that? What do they get? Stee? You can

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Speaker 1: night is YO night. You don't get in the night

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Speaker 1: you want. Now here's a delusional part, like Shirley say,

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Speaker 1: I'm trying my best to make him fall in love

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Speaker 1: with me and leave her. What let me ask something,

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Speaker 1: how do you do that? How as the number two

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Speaker 1: and leave the number one? I know the old thing.

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Speaker 1: If he cheats on her head, cheat on you, that

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Speaker 1: ain't got nothing to do with this. No, he's cheating

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Speaker 1: on her with you. You the you tell my head,

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Speaker 1: cheat on you? You to you, but I believe in love.

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Speaker 1: Stop it? You just say you believe in love. He's

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Speaker 1: marrying a woman, and I know we have something special.

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Speaker 1: You all this is in your mind. You have nothing special.

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Speaker 1: Your number two two's ain't special, ain't you a? And

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Speaker 1: all this here they ain't no two A two plus.

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Speaker 1: This ain't a seat an economy that's ain't it Economy

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Speaker 1: Economy plus. You're still in the back but his more

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Speaker 1: legal room is still good. But you in the back door.

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Speaker 1: You're not the first class seat and you can't come

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Speaker 1: astra if that's what you want. But look at that

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Speaker 1: as a lot of people on the exit row. The

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Speaker 1: ain't all across the world. Then here's another line. We

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Speaker 1: are always together when he's not out of town. Hello,

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Speaker 1: do you understand this? You're always together when he's not

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Speaker 1: They're the second day. They aren't putting money down on places,

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Speaker 1: You are, this is your first holiday. It's only been

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, and I don't want to spend them without him.

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Speaker 1: So time is of the essence, girl. Yeah, but they

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Speaker 1: said nothing to you about Thanksgiving. Yeah, because he ain't

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Speaker 1: what did you find to do. Then, how do I

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Speaker 1: will take every risk of cans to getting him to myself.

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Speaker 1: You've already taken the risk. The man told you was

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Speaker 1: go right here. It's possible to be in love with

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Speaker 1: probably struggling internally with who he should be with little girl.

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Speaker 1: finning getting married. Remember that he has not told you

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Speaker 1: finn mood this woman in my house. That's the struggle

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Speaker 1: to struggle am with you? Love, sister, Pack you bags up.

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Speaker 1: He ain't coming over for Thanksgiving, and do not call

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Speaker 1: that woman because you could get shot. All right, those

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Speaker 1: more to add to the Strawberry Letter subject, will my

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Speaker 1: Did some research found out the woman has setic wedding

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Speaker 1: go there, No damn way, coach, it's crazy now anyway,

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Speaker 1: How do I tell this man I'm in love with

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Speaker 1: Totally possible. Well, now he's probably struggling with who he

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Speaker 1: maybe if I tell his fiance about our relationship, she

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Speaker 1: Pump your brakes, little girl. You've obviously never gone to

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Speaker 1: They do get mad and it do mess the dude

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Speaker 1: none whatsoever. And it is due. So long as you

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Speaker 1: know that, good luck. I'm planning on inviting him to Thanksgiving.

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Speaker 1: Don't do that. That man can't come again. Don't that

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Speaker 1: and when it thanks Giving up Thanksgiving, Thanksgiving it to

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Speaker 1: the moment they can't have Thanksgiving. He ain't said nothing

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Speaker 1: to you about thanks I like my Thanksgiving on things

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Speaker 1: It's all tied in together. We'll do that as right

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Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show.