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Speaker 1: My sister is upset I didn't meet her wedding gift expectations,

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Speaker 1: so she bad mouthed me to wear bridesmaids.

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Speaker 2: Ah. Gross, she got a bad mouth. You better close

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Speaker 3: It's better wash that mouth out.

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Speaker 1: So this happened last October twenty twenty four. My sister

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Speaker 1: twenty seven is about to get married. Let's set the stage,

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Speaker 1: and so therefore tension excitement both high. Being the eldest

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Speaker 1: and a person who has also gotten married before. I

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Speaker 1: understand embraced myself for some bridezilla moments here and there

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Speaker 1: from my sister. By the way, this comes from okayfish

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Speaker 1: five two two two two on the Okay storytime separate it. So,

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Speaker 1: right after she was officially engaged to my now brother

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Speaker 1: in law, I already thought of lending her my wedding gown.

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Speaker 1: I know some people treasure their wedding gowns completely, and

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Speaker 1: the idea of lending or selling it kind of feels

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Speaker 1: like throwing away its sentimental value. Well, I feel the same,

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Speaker 1: but you know my sister a lot the thought lending,

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Speaker 1: the thought of lending my gown felt like passing on

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Speaker 1: the happiness I felt when I got married, like I

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Speaker 1: wanted her to feel the same way and more. This

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Speaker 1: is very sweet, everything's perfect. You're trying to pass on

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Speaker 1: the good vibes, but the good vibes roll.

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Speaker 3: Let the good vibes roll.

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Speaker 1: Thus, when she expressed her interest, I did not hesitate

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Speaker 1: and offered some dates when she can come over for

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Speaker 1: fitting to see, of course, if there will be any

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Speaker 1: need for repair slash adjustments. I prepped the gown, had

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Speaker 1: it dry cleaned again, et cetera, et cetera. She went

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Speaker 1: to my house try the gown on, and left around

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Speaker 1: a week before her wedding. There's this thing that's been

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Speaker 1: bugging me that I feel like I had to tell

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Speaker 1: her before she gets married. This may be where I

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Speaker 1: am the agle. Ohhh, what did you say? I thought

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Speaker 1: it's better to get it out of the way, And

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Speaker 1: you know, I considered it as my last special talk

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Speaker 1: with her before she gets married. For context, it's kind

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Speaker 1: of traditional for us to have a heart to heart

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Speaker 1: talk with the parents before getting married. Parents usually offer

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Speaker 1: life advice and or expectations. Some treat it as a

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Speaker 1: rite of passage into a new chapter. Since our parents

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Speaker 1: are basically absent for most of our lives. I had

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Speaker 1: to step up and be the third but present parent

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Speaker 1: to my siblings. Birthdays, graduations, weddings, parent teacher conferences. Wow,

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Speaker 1: you name it, and most likely I'm there. Oh I forgot.

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Speaker 1: I'm at least five years older than my siblings, so

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Speaker 1: I practically raise them. This is the only reason why

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Speaker 1: I'm holding off with having my own child. I grew

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Speaker 1: too tired of taking care of them the late night

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Speaker 1: crying and feeding them, changing their diapers, et cetera. OMG,

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Speaker 1: I'm crying again. So Op's heavily parentified.

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Speaker 3: For their whole life.

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Speaker 2: Literally has the yeah, pulled up the bootstraps, put on the.

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Speaker 1: Overall twelve of them. Was like, well, I guess I

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Speaker 1: got to go to this parent teacher conference. They were like, Hello,

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Speaker 1: where's your parent. She's like, it's me.

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Speaker 2: She just puts on like a like a beard.

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Speaker 1: It's like that fatar. You know what I'm talking about. Yes, yeah,

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Speaker 1: we're Katara and Zaki.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so yeah, ooh yeah, oh yeah so yeah.

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Speaker 1: Going back, I thought I'll have the special talk with

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Speaker 1: my sister a week before her wedding. The first few

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Speaker 1: minutes were just us expressing our excitement about the wedding,

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Speaker 1: then talking about the drama of our mother about our

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Speaker 1: plans after the wedding, et cetera. Then I not so

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Speaker 1: subtly transition the conversation to my one big concern. Sometime

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Speaker 1: during the wedding preparation, we talked about some of the

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Speaker 1: gifts that she would want, and she casually mentioned non

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Speaker 1: verbatim that, hey, I spent this much enter a quite

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Speaker 1: hefty amount for your wedding, clearly reminding me of how

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Speaker 1: much she's spent and also giving me a hint that

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Speaker 1: I have to spend at least the same amount as

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Speaker 1: a gift to her wedding. I felt off right away,

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Speaker 1: mainly because we have never talked like this before. I

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Speaker 1: don't know, I'll explain it, but there's this silent agreement

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Speaker 1: amongst us that when we are gifting each other, we

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Speaker 1: just to make sure that we'll get the same value.

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Speaker 2: I think that's like an unspoken thing among all people who.

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Speaker 1: Have said anyone, yeah, it's like, don't be like, hey,

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Speaker 1: I got you one hundred dollars gifts, so you should

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Speaker 2: Me a gift. I did a little research seems like

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Speaker 2: your gift is lacking seventeen dollars and thirty seven cents

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Speaker 2: of value, a little.

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Speaker 1: Cheap this year.

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Speaker 2: Maybe you can get me back. Maybe buy me a

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Speaker 2: little lunch.

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Speaker 1: Just buy me a coffee. Sometimes who's to say. For example,

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Speaker 1: my brother covers most of the expenses when we go

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Speaker 1: out for my birthday. We all know this for a fact,

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Speaker 1: but he never once had to remind me of this

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Speaker 1: the Christmas season planning and paying for the venue of

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Speaker 1: our get together and stuff. I never once felt the

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Speaker 1: need to remind them of this to get the same

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Speaker 1: amount in return. We are just to spending for one another,

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Speaker 1: not expecting to be paid back, unless maybe when there's

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Speaker 1: a prior agreement to chip in. I don't know the

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Speaker 1: act of offering to pay or to gift without mentioning

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Speaker 1: the price made it more genuine. It created a culture

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Speaker 1: of paying it forward without being pressured if you're giving enough.

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Speaker 1: That's why when my sister mentioned a specific price slash amount,

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Speaker 1: I felt pressured, and my initial thought of lending her

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Speaker 1: my gown doesn't feel so special anymore. I felt pressured

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Speaker 1: to spend the same amount, and when she went to

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Speaker 1: my house to get the gown.

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Speaker 2: Oh, no, we have lost the viewing of the.

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Speaker 1: No, what do you think Let's let's talk about her

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Speaker 1: thoughts while we fix it.

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Speaker 2: I think that, like, you know, the sister's entitled very clearly.

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Speaker 2: I like how op is talking about gift giving like

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Speaker 2: just basic breaking it down, as if it's like something that's.

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Speaker 1: Just like you guys know about this.

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Speaker 2: Does this weird little thing is kind of an US thing,

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Speaker 2: that's everyone on earth thing. I would hope I would say, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's not like being like, hey, so just to let

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Speaker 2: you know you owe me one hundred and twenty dollars

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Speaker 2: of gift or like whatever, however much you spent.

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Speaker 1: Belton says you can't pull your gown a week before

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Speaker 1: the wedding, though, that is what I was gonna say.

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Speaker 1: I was like, regardless of how you feel about the situation,

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Speaker 1: you can bring it up to her and be like, hey,

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Speaker 1: like felt a little bit you know, confused or just

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Speaker 1: like a little bit annoyed when you brought up the price,

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Speaker 1: because of course I was gonna get you this so

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Speaker 1: and so gift or something, right, But you don't. You

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Speaker 1: can't pull the wedding dress. You've already gifted that. It's

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Speaker 1: kind of you can't take back. That is a weird

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Speaker 1: thing to try to take me. Yeah, I don't know

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Speaker 1: if he's gotta do that. It just seems like she's annoyed.

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Speaker 2: MM.

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Speaker 3: Have a try and connective.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we gotta do some connection connections.

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Speaker 4: We're doing some we're in trouble, so we're doing some

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Speaker 4: trouble shooting your WiFi. It's been really funny today, guys.

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Speaker 3: It's been really fine.

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Speaker 2: Wii has been doing it's uh doing it. It's funny

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Speaker 2: little dance and we're trying to interpret it. I'm trying

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Speaker 2: to say, what interpret what's it doing, where's it going?

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Speaker 2: What does it mean? This knows knows.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what all the dances mean. Is it working now?

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna check it is on.

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Speaker 1: Also, someone said, why is the wormy? What is the

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Speaker 1: wormy investigating?

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Speaker 2: He's just kind of he's just it's a stylistic aesthetic choice.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's well, no, he's investigating kind of all everything

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Speaker 2: Just investigating in that general direction direction.

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Speaker 3: You know, he's just over the constant icu. You get it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, low key, it looks like he's trying to investigate

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Speaker 2: Keon's feet from the angle that that magnifying glasses. It

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Speaker 2: almost under the tables.

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Speaker 1: A little bit suspicious.

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Speaker 2: Key on your dogs. How we look in are understigation?

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Speaker 3: Good?

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Speaker 4: And also people are coming from TikTok right now. We're

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Speaker 4: figuring that sound out right now, Sorry about that. Just again,

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Speaker 4: all the Wi Fi stuff it's been.

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Speaker 3: Kind of wanting today. Yeah, you know, nut's doing its thing.

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking it's the fires, That's what I said. There's

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Speaker 1: Of downlines, especially from the wind too.

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Speaker 2: Some goofy going on.

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Speaker 1: Something's afoot and he's gonna get to.

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Speaker 3: The bottom of it. That's his job, all right.

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Speaker 1: I felt pressure to spend the same amount, and when

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Speaker 1: she went to my house to get the gown, I

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Speaker 1: unconsciously mentioned that I have spent the same amount for

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Speaker 1: the dry cleaning and petticoat. To just put her at ease.

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Speaker 1: I told her all of these during our special talk.

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Speaker 1: I also told her that you don't you know, you

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Speaker 1: don't have to remind me of how much you've spent,

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Speaker 1: since you know that I will be willing to give

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Speaker 1: you more without this kind of pressure. Take note that

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Speaker 1: by this time she already has my wedding gown. Everything

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Speaker 1: about the wedding plans are almost settled. So I was

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Speaker 1: about to end the conversation with expressing my best wishes

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Speaker 1: gown and that it's now tainted with malice.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I don't know, it seems a little.

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Speaker 1: It seems a little extra, just a little bit.

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Speaker 2: But it's like the only reason that that happened is

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Speaker 2: because you were like, Hey, yeah, remember how much I spent.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I apologize for stressing her, but explained that this was

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Speaker 1: be the first topic of our conversation right after she

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Speaker 1: got married. As I've mentioned, I just wanted to get

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Speaker 1: this out of the way. The ending was just so messy,

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Speaker 1: and it left me feeling guilty. She later on asked

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Speaker 1: our brother twenty nine, if his nuclear family could just

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Speaker 1: stay in her apartment the night before the wedding. She

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Speaker 1: said she'd rather reallocate the money for the hotel room

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Speaker 1: to pay me MAC and buy a different gown. WHOA,

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Speaker 1: that's just that's just this just too far.

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Speaker 3: Yes, it's it.

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Speaker 2: Seems like this is no one's taking an opportunity to

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Speaker 2: de escalate.

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Speaker 1: Oh, they're like, well you Oh. He's like, well you

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Speaker 1: brought up the money.

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Speaker 2: Song.

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Speaker 1: We got to have a conversation with you. And she's like, well,

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Speaker 1: you brought up the money to me. So I don't

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Speaker 1: even watch your gown. It's just a lot all it's

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Speaker 1: out of control.

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Speaker 3: It's doubling down and giving it to the next person.

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Speaker 1: Admittedly, I went ballistic after this because my brother has

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Speaker 1: a child and there will not be enough room for

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Speaker 1: stop being petty and she doesn't need to return the gown.

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Speaker 1: I have never witnessed this kind of pettiness before from her,

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Speaker 1: Please?

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Speaker 3: Could you give us a quick deal? Could do that

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Speaker 2: I would love to hear the rest of that.

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Speaker 1: Since you guys started listening to full episodes with stories

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Speaker 1: like this on Spotify, Apple Podcasts or your favorite podcast

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Speaker 1: up yep, just search up. Okay, storytime change true life

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Speaker 2: Same permanently, n't ye? Ever since you had that life

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Speaker 2: changing surgery put into your brain so that you can

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Speaker 1: All day, every day. I never leave okay story time

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Speaker 1: and okay, Storytime never leaves me. And you can do

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Speaker 3: Well, guess what that they just they just hit a goal.

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Speaker 2: Whoa, we's gonna spin on that wheel already.

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Speaker 1: We're almost done with a story. So maybe we finished

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Speaker 3: You ask and you shall receive.

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Speaker 1: Sophia been on that wheel, crazy style. That's what That's

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Speaker 3: But you're just repeating. It just is like you're the

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Speaker 3: innoci style changed you changed my life.

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Speaker 1: Okay, story time can change your life. Front to changed

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Speaker 1: my life. But but like by extension, it's kind of

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Speaker 2: What you're gonna have to fill me in on that

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Speaker 2: one story.

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Speaker 3: I know, the nine eleven connected to like my chemical romance.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I'll explain it in a second.

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Speaker 4: Oh, because like with Twilight and all that jazz. Okay,

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Speaker 3: On that trade.

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Speaker 1: She did not reach out to us.

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Speaker 3: What is connected again?

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Speaker 1: Okay, well I'm connecting it. I'll explain the fifty Shades

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Speaker 1: of Gray nine eleven pipeline. So basically, nine eleven happens,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, heartbreaking. She no, it's heartbreaking.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, it's just you're happening.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, heartbreaking.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, nine eleven happens heartbreaking. And then my chemical romance

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Speaker 1: Sky what's his name? Gerard Way, He's like, I dare

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Speaker 1: also Ezekiel I was alive. I was three months old

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't pick up fifty shades of gray Twilight fan

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Speaker 2: I do not pick that up.

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Speaker 4: No, Actually, I swear to God the people whoever wrote sorry,

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Speaker 4: So you know, in Twilight they actually wanted my Chemical

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Speaker 3: But that's actually connection.

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Speaker 1: I am trying to fix it and it's not working.

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Speaker 3: Guys. I will provide cake after this story. I know

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Speaker 1: up Jeliba.

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Speaker 1: We can't just read it's not connecting. I'm sorry, or

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Speaker 1: unless that's not where you're maybe that's not where you

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Speaker 1: It's a Wi Fi thing, guys. But we're gonna freaking spin.

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Speaker 2: That wheel while we're not fie for us.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's good.

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Speaker 2: Does it work?

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Speaker 4: Shoot?

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Speaker 1: Can we spin that wheel? Where's that wheel?

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Speaker 3: Where's that?

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Speaker 1: Where's that?

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Speaker 2: There is the wheel? Spin?

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Speaker 3: Lazy style? Do you want the phone?

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Speaker 2: And look what we have?

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Speaker 1: I don't want to mess up.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know what that is. I haven't been

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Speaker 2: We have a contest now where if we spin the balloon? Well,

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Speaker 1: Fifteen minutes.

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Speaker 1: I think there was a lot of miscommunication on both

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Speaker 1: Yeah, on both sides. I think more so on the

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Speaker 1: sister side, but you know, it seems like you're not

442
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Speaker 1: willing to.

443
00:21:36,080 --> 00:21:39,160
Speaker 2: They might just be extra folks because even the way

444
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Speaker 2: that they described like the gift giving process as like

445
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Speaker 2: a we do this thing where even when we give

446
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Speaker 2: each other gifts, we don't usually go out of our

447
00:21:48,480 --> 00:21:50,920
Speaker 2: way to say how much they cost and how much

448
00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:53,480
Speaker 2: we expect to be given in return. It's like that's

449
00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:56,720
Speaker 2: everyone does that. That's literally across the whole earth, the.

450
00:21:56,640 --> 00:22:00,199
Speaker 1: Way that that gets whole world does that?

451
00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:00,520
Speaker 2: Right?

452
00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:03,000
Speaker 3: If I'm wrong, please chat, let me.

453
00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:08,960
Speaker 1: Know I'm wrong, strike me down. But that is the

454
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Speaker 1: end of that story. And before we get into this

455
00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:15,160
Speaker 1: next one, we're going to read some of these donos.

456
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Speaker 2: Woo, do we have the ticket printer thing or not?

457
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:18,879
Speaker 2: Probably not?

458
00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:24,520
Speaker 1: Mt Avs girl, thank you for the twenty five books.

459
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Speaker 1: Welcome back, guys, So glad you were able to come back.

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Speaker 3: We were glad.

461
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Speaker 2: Hey, we're glad to be back, Montana Abs.

462
00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:31,800
Speaker 1: I'll only be here for an hour, but I'm glad

463
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Speaker 1: to be here for this out.

464
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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, please please sorry Sophia.

465
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Speaker 2: Guys, why do so many like seeing nose Fatu for

466
00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:44,320
Speaker 2: the eighth time. I know she's not.

467
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Speaker 3: I just wanted to tell them from Michigan.

468
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Speaker 1: Thank you for the five bucks. Just got done with

469
00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:52,920
Speaker 1: a fireworkout session. Thanks for being my entertainment.

470
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Speaker 2: Let's go.

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Speaker 1: Sorry kind of weren't your entertainment for an hour? Dennis.

472
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Speaker 3: Thank if it's twenty five bucks.

473
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Speaker 1: I heard that and Prince Uka were spotted fighting in

474
00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:02,919
Speaker 1: Los Angeles before.

475
00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:04,000
Speaker 3: The fire, did you?

476
00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:06,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, they had that Channel five.

477
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Speaker 1: This is from my this is for all my Dimension

478
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:12,080
Speaker 1: twenty fans. But I texted my friend during the fires

479
00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:14,320
Speaker 1: and I was like, where's Ricky when you need him?

480
00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:16,560
Speaker 3: Yeah? That's a dimension totally.

481
00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:18,360
Speaker 2: I love that.

482
00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:19,080
Speaker 3: You know, get it?

483
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Speaker 2: Uh, you don't freaking get It's like totally Ricky right,

484
00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:23,480
Speaker 2: well done?

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00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:28,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, thanks hand, Thank you for the forty bucks. Put

486
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Speaker 1: some shit in the shot. Appreciate you. Hannah Silent, Hannah Whitney,

487
00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:36,119
Speaker 1: thank you for the ten bucks. How is drain your

488
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:38,920
Speaker 1: dad doing? Lol? I want dinner and I've been creaming

489
00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:40,800
Speaker 1: Ramens since last night's dream.

490
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Speaker 3: Who is that drain your Dadin?

491
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Speaker 2: Your dad?

492
00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:46,040
Speaker 3: That's that's from the other people, Okay?

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Speaker 1: Uh Ny Maria nine eighty six. Thank for the five bucks. Hi'all.

494
00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:53,480
Speaker 1: It's my birthday now, Dakota. I'm your female version, chaotic

495
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Speaker 1: in the head and same humor.

496
00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:56,920
Speaker 3: Yes, you weren't wrong about.

497
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Speaker 1: A good dog. I have five wolves on my hand

498
00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:02,040
Speaker 1: and on my own. It's my Sperien animal. Can't stay

499
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Speaker 1: long workshop taxes in the morning. Started course accounting in

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Speaker 1: twenty twenty four at thirty eight years old. Very exciting.

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00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:09,080
Speaker 2: Good job night, Maria.

502
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:09,879
Speaker 3: Also, happy birthday.

503
00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:11,000
Speaker 2: Happy birthday, night, Maria.

504
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:13,959
Speaker 4: Happy birthday, even though you're not probably here anymore, but

505
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Speaker 4: I'll give you.

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Speaker 1: A little arm oh vix mix, thank you for the

507
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Speaker 1: five bucks. So my bride breast friend is taking me

508
00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:23,359
Speaker 1: on my cruise in March for my birthday as a

509
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:25,600
Speaker 1: thank you for being there for her. She is the best.

510
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Speaker 1: I'm so excited. It's my first cruise ever. That's very

511
00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:28,320
Speaker 1: exciting and.

512
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Speaker 2: Enjoy just you know, just chill, relax. I can't say

513
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:36,040
Speaker 2: any of the brands because we don't do free sponsors,

514
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:37,400
Speaker 2: but some are better than others.

515
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Speaker 1: Uh that little one. Thank for the five bucks. Yay

516
00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:45,879
Speaker 1: my first stream with Sophia.

517
00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 2: And you let them down by letting the internet fail.

518
00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:48,880
Speaker 1: I wasn't even here.

519
00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:50,840
Speaker 3: Why didn't you do anything about it?

520
00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:52,120
Speaker 1: I hope you have a great night.

521
00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:53,160
Speaker 2: You're three months old.

522
00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:55,439
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry. I'm literally so sorry.

523
00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:58,160
Speaker 1: Literally this is like my first time back on alive

524
00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:02,440
Speaker 1: and I'm wasn't even there, so sue. Thanks for the

525
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:05,480
Speaker 1: five bucks. Good luck to Josephine. Here's to a speedy recovery.

526
00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:09,280
Speaker 2: I hope, yeah, don't it. Josephine's got it. Okay, Josephine,

527
00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:13,160
Speaker 2: You've got this. It's gonna be You're gonna kick your appendixes.

528
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:15,199
Speaker 2: But but dude, like.

529
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Speaker 1: Thank you for the box. Can you all wish justinat

530
00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:21,199
Speaker 1: Delverque good luck in her surgery because she's going in

531
00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:24,119
Speaker 1: for emergency surgery in a couple hours for her appendix.

532
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Speaker 2: We love you, Sophia, I mean you, I'll give you

533
00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:29,680
Speaker 2: good luck, but again, you don't even need it, like you,

534
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:33,840
Speaker 2: You've got a lot of skills you need to overcome

535
00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:34,680
Speaker 2: you appendix.

536
00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:39,440
Speaker 3: Yes, um, I get to read those.

537
00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:45,639
Speaker 1: Sorry, we just got back the cosplay check. Thank you

538
00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:49,199
Speaker 1: for the one book, vix Mack. Thank you for gifting

539
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:51,840
Speaker 1: five Okay, SRI membership, that's.

540
00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:53,840
Speaker 2: Right, we love the gifted memberships.

541
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Speaker 1: Taylor Van Domalds Domalin, thank you for joining the Nights.

542
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Speaker 1: Welcome and who also welcome to the Nights. Who's iven

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Speaker 1: to fifty uh Josephine Midildburg quays, thank you for the

544
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:08,159
Speaker 1: twenty seven sec waiting at the er for surgery.

545
00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:10,520
Speaker 3: But I never miss streams. We appreciate you.

546
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:15,119
Speaker 1: Jackie Porter, thank you for the two pounds. I'm loving

547
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:16,919
Speaker 1: the spyglass in front of the world.

548
00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:21,760
Speaker 2: Yes, it is good. What it's got, the kind of got,

549
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:24,159
Speaker 2: the glare, Yeah, it's got. It's got a little You

550
00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:27,879
Speaker 2: gotta angle it down. It's gonna fall if I move him.

551
00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:30,720
Speaker 1: Honeybe eighty five. Thank you for the two pounds. Hi, guys,

552
00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:32,520
Speaker 1: it's my fortieth birthday today.

553
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:37,680
Speaker 2: Wait, honey, Nymeria birthday on the same day. That is crazy.

554
00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:39,920
Speaker 1: Shout out to all the birthday birthday people in the chat.

555
00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:42,120
Speaker 2: Yes, shout out to other birthdays sound offs.

556
00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 1: Belton, thank you for being a member for nine months

557
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:48,439
Speaker 1: something something obligatory stream baby joke. Anyway, where did the

558
00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:51,080
Speaker 1: latest gaming stream go? The video is gone and I

559
00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:53,200
Speaker 1: never got to see it. I don't know about it

560
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:57,000
Speaker 1: that I think it's private. But if you're a member,

561
00:26:57,080 --> 00:27:03,119
Speaker 1: you should be able to see it. I believe it's private,

562
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:07,119
Speaker 1: but maybe I don't know. Awkward cosplay check thing for

563
00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:10,720
Speaker 1: the two bucks. Finally became a member Twitch payout for

564
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:12,760
Speaker 1: the wind or maybe we just like swore too much.

565
00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:16,760
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, that's that's what it is. Wait, I didn't

566
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:20,480
Speaker 2: do that. I didn't do that one what lindsay?

567
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 3: Do it?

568
00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:24,199
Speaker 1: Lindsay, thank you for the to New Zealand Bucks Dakota.

569
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:26,160
Speaker 1: Can you please yell at stream to drink water?

570
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:34,320
Speaker 2: Drink water, Guys and girls, drinkwater anyone, guys, dogs? You

571
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:36,280
Speaker 2: check on your pets if they have enough.

572
00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:39,840
Speaker 1: Waterm lindsay, thank you for the two New Zealand Bucks.

573
00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 1: Keon Josephine request cakes because she might die.

574
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:47,600
Speaker 4: No, don't say she's not gonna do anything like that

575
00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 4: even close to that. But I will do it. I'll

576
00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:53,040
Speaker 4: do cakes. I'm just working again. We're kind of recovering here.

577
00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:54,680
Speaker 4: We're trying to figure it all out. Looks like something

578
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 4: are not on board yet. It's a distraction.

579
00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:01,480
Speaker 2: Stop with your words and clap your cheeks.

580
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:06,440
Speaker 1: Princess TICKETU thank you for being a member for eleven months.

581
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:14,880
Speaker 1: Wowm hello, it's cold here in New Northwest Northwest Florida.

582
00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:17,640
Speaker 1: Next week, it's going to be raining, but the low

583
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:19,920
Speaker 1: is twenty nine degrees and then high forty. We need

584
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:22,120
Speaker 1: to give you the rain equals no fire. Please give

585
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:25,600
Speaker 1: us the rain. Send it over an awkward couslate Jack.

586
00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:27,320
Speaker 1: Thank you for the two bucks. Did you lose the

587
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:29,280
Speaker 1: super chots from pre catfrash?

588
00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:31,720
Speaker 2: We did not do, not believe we did, but well

589
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 2: we read yours.

590
00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:35,440
Speaker 4: Yes, but for some odd reason, it's not loading some

591
00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:38,240
Speaker 4: stuff here, like the likes and the other donos.

592
00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh so we might not me oh put.

593
00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:44,480
Speaker 3: That in because we got also some donos here.

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00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:50,080
Speaker 2: Yes, Deaz, thanks for the twenty just because uh shout

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00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 2: out Dez send Hannah thanks for the twenty and no

596
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:57,600
Speaker 2: shushes in the chest because she actually said glad you're back,

597
00:28:57,800 --> 00:28:59,840
Speaker 2: and we're glad to be back. Glad to be back.

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00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:02,080
Speaker 1: U kalutos old On.

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00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:04,080
Speaker 2: That's a nice name.

600
00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:06,840
Speaker 3: To read it.

601
00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:09,360
Speaker 2: Thanks for the five bucks. Love you guys. Where can

602
00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:11,400
Speaker 2: I find your po box? I'm new here, so I'm

603
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 2: not sure the history of Sam being called the pigeon Lord,

604
00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 2: but I wanted to send polaroids of my pigeons.

605
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:18,120
Speaker 1: I would love that.

606
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:22,840
Speaker 3: Cauto our po boxes. I think it comes in the discord.

607
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 1: It comes in the discord, but it's also in the

608
00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:26,040
Speaker 1: it comes up on the stream.

609
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:29,479
Speaker 2: The type of command or something to get that.

610
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:31,680
Speaker 1: I think we read that.

611
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:37,040
Speaker 2: It's a cool name, Caluto, that's h and demonics.

612
00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 4: We did already do our wheelspin but they but apparently

613
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:42,960
Speaker 4: the likes have been going still since we were live.

614
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 3: So I'm gonna try and see if I can get

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00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 3: that going right. Okay, one moment.

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00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:50,040
Speaker 2: So we really are almost at five hundred instead of

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Speaker 2: three hundred.

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00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:55,160
Speaker 4: Supposedly, but it might not register.

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Speaker 1: But while you're doing that, do we want to get

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Speaker 1: into the next story.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I suppose we shall.

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00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:03,080
Speaker 1: I suppose we can do something of the soul.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I think we could arrange something like that.

624
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 3: Okay, they want with the right pants for this guys.

625
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:15,760
Speaker 1: Oh but you're seeing these comments.

626
00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 3: They's literally put in the super chat in the super shot.

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00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 1: I don't know.

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00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:24,840
Speaker 3: It seems like jose Joseph her legs. You are do

629
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Speaker 3: it quick.

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Speaker 1: Let's get this show on the road.

631
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Speaker 2: Gross, whoa, all the butt's gone.

632
00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:38,400
Speaker 3: I'm wearing saggy pore pants.

633
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:40,280
Speaker 1: Apparently we're at four hundred and ninety four.

634
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Speaker 2: Legs.

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Speaker 1: Dang, dang, y'all. L let's get into this next story.

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00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:55,719
Speaker 2: Okay, are you ready? My half yes, my half sister

637
00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:59,680
Speaker 2: claimed she had nothing to wear to a wedding, so

638
00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 2: she wore her wedding dress.

639
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 1: Don't know if that was the right solution.

640
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:09,400
Speaker 2: I think it might be better to wear nothing.

641
00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:11,920
Speaker 1: I think it might be just maybe.

642
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:17,479
Speaker 2: The cast. Oh boy, here we go, John, my brother, Jane,

643
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:21,480
Speaker 2: my sister in law, Susan my half sister, and me.

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Speaker 2: By the way, this comes from user t tall g

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Speaker 2: Bell and you can submit your stories at the r

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Speaker 2: Slashowkay storytime sebur So. Back in the year twenty sixteen,

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Speaker 2: my brother announced that he and his girlfriend of many

648
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:39,960
Speaker 2: years were engaged and were planning on having a wedding

649
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:43,680
Speaker 2: the following year. They gave nine months notice at least

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00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:46,760
Speaker 2: to people who would be invited, and also told what

651
00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:51,440
Speaker 2: the color theme for the wedding would be. Purple, purple,

652
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:58,000
Speaker 2: that's a nice color theme, bur bulph or no, technically

653
00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:03,960
Speaker 2: it's burpulp and then explosion. In that time between the

654
00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:06,720
Speaker 2: announcement and the wedding date, I was easily able to

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00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:10,600
Speaker 2: order address from an online retailer in London, have it

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Speaker 2: sent to me and still had time to replace it

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Speaker 2: if I needed, which I did not.

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00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:17,960
Speaker 3: So that's OK. He's ahead of the game.

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Speaker 2: All that to say, this person has no excuse. Twenty

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Speaker 2: seventeen comes and the wedding weekend has arrived. I live

661
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:29,680
Speaker 2: in a different state to my brother, as my mom

662
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:32,200
Speaker 2: and I moved from our hometown back in twenty thirteen,

663
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:35,560
Speaker 2: so we both had travel across the ocean back to

664
00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:40,280
Speaker 2: the mainland to attend the wedding. The wedding was absolutely gorgeous,

665
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:43,960
Speaker 2: sunny day on the beach. I couldn't help but cry

666
00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:48,440
Speaker 2: because my work, my work of a brother. I couldn't

667
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 2: help but cry because my piece of work of a

668
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:53,840
Speaker 2: brother was actually marrying the mother of his children and

669
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 2: love of his life. He had never seemed happier. Aw,

670
00:32:57,880 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 2: there we go.

671
00:32:58,480 --> 00:32:59,040
Speaker 1: It's lovely.

672
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:03,440
Speaker 2: John and Jane had three kids together already, and the

673
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:07,560
Speaker 2: older two were flower girls, which was sweet. Now John

674
00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:10,800
Speaker 2: is technically only my half brother. We share a mom,

675
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 2: but not a dad yet, but not a dad yet.

676
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:18,760
Speaker 2: Growing up, it was my dad who raised John and I,

677
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:21,960
Speaker 2: so to him, my dad was his dad.

678
00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:22,800
Speaker 3: Oh sweet.

679
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,880
Speaker 2: Okay, So they're brothers but technically half brothers, but raised

680
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:30,720
Speaker 2: by the same guys. Different dads raised by the same dad,

681
00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:33,080
Speaker 2: not confusing.

682
00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:34,280
Speaker 1: Emotionally one dad.

683
00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:39,600
Speaker 2: My dad. Prior to marrying my mom, had a first

684
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:43,160
Speaker 2: wife and a couple of kids with that wife, including Susan.

685
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:46,800
Speaker 2: John and I have always had some issues with Susan.

686
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:51,720
Speaker 2: She was only my half sister, not John's, but he

687
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:54,920
Speaker 2: still included her in the wedding and as such a

688
00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 2: family member and guest. I hadn't noticed at the time,

689
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:00,760
Speaker 2: as I was too caught up up in the whirlwind

690
00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:05,160
Speaker 2: of my brother's wedding ceremony. But Susan wasn't wearing purple.

691
00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:08,680
Speaker 3: No, no, no, she was wearing white.

692
00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:14,680
Speaker 1: Susan, Susan, No, what are you doing, Susan, Susan, what

693
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 1: are you doingan?

694
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:22,200
Speaker 2: To be specific, she was wearing her white wedding dress.

695
00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 2: That's insane to someone else's wedding. Yeah, that's insane.

696
00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:27,360
Speaker 1: It's like to be like to like put on the

697
00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:30,400
Speaker 1: dress and be like, yeah, this is fine, this is

698
00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:30,960
Speaker 1: a good idea.

699
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 2: Like this is the closest thing I have to barkery

700
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:35,480
Speaker 2: guys anything myself.

701
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 1: Everything else was dirty. I couldn't help.

702
00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:40,920
Speaker 2: It, couldn't help it. I only had twelve months to

703
00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 2: find a dress that would work. No, Surrey, John and

704
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:51,040
Speaker 2: Jane were pissed, understandably, especially Jane. Cue the reception. Some

705
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:54,200
Speaker 2: people have changed clothes. It was my first ever wedding,

706
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:56,439
Speaker 2: so I didn't think that far ahead and still wore

707
00:34:56,480 --> 00:35:00,480
Speaker 2: my soft lilac dress without a problem. WHI one ate

708
00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:03,160
Speaker 2: and shared some drinks and interact with the bride and groom,

709
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:08,600
Speaker 2: which what I assume to be a normal wedding type vibe.

710
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:13,680
Speaker 2: But Susan not Susan. Oh, Susan, Susane, And.

711
00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 1: Susan, don't do it to me, Susan, don't do it

712
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 1: to me, Susan.

713
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:22,839
Speaker 2: She was feeling extremely sad and lonely because no one

714
00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:26,600
Speaker 2: was paying attention your Oh, no one.

715
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:29,680
Speaker 3: Was paying your day, Susan else's wedding.

716
00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:32,520
Speaker 1: Maybe that maybe you should wait until your birthday, or

717
00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:34,080
Speaker 1: maybe you should get married if you want to be

718
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:35,640
Speaker 1: able to pay attention to you, Susan.

719
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:39,760
Speaker 3: But think about that, Okay.

720
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 2: The thirty year old woman who wore her wedding dress

721
00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:47,560
Speaker 2: to someone else's wedding was upsetry about not huh.

722
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:49,360
Speaker 1: I was like, maybe you should get married if you

723
00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 1: want to be at the center. Yeah, she's in a

724
00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:52,120
Speaker 1: wedding dress.

725
00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:52,680
Speaker 3: So she did.

726
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:54,960
Speaker 2: It's all right, she can she could get married again.

727
00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:56,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe she'd have another wedding.

728
00:35:56,400 --> 00:36:01,440
Speaker 2: Maybe she's divorced. I don't know. So Yeah, the thirty

729
00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:04,040
Speaker 2: year old woman who wore her wedding dress to someone

730
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:08,200
Speaker 2: else's wedding was mad no one was paying attention. I

731
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:11,840
Speaker 2: wonder why no one wanted to interact with her. Susan

732
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:16,640
Speaker 2: began crying maybe halfway through the reception, openly, loudly and

733
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:19,799
Speaker 2: in a way that clearly begged for someone to come

734
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:20,440
Speaker 2: and notice her.

735
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:22,600
Speaker 1: And everyone's like to ignore her.

736
00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 2: She's literally in the back, madden.

737
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:30,719
Speaker 1: Me, and everyone's like, don't look at Susan, or she'll

738
00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:36,800
Speaker 1: she'll start, she'll start throwing hands Susan.

739
00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:41,080
Speaker 2: Someone goes, what's wrong. She goes, oh nothing, She.

740
00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:47,759
Speaker 1: Just goes and everyone's like, what's wrong, Susan. She's like,

741
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 1: it's fine, it's fine.

742
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:55,080
Speaker 2: It's not my day. Do you like my dread? I

743
00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:56,960
Speaker 2: am a nice person. So I tried to be the

744
00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:59,440
Speaker 2: good half sister that I should be and bit the

745
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:01,480
Speaker 2: bullet to go sit with her for a while. I

746
00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:07,440
Speaker 2: asked her, what's wrong, Susan, No's paying attention to me?

747
00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:13,279
Speaker 2: Me while staring at her, Uh, confused a little. Oh,

748
00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:15,879
Speaker 2: I'm Susan, I get No, You're gonna be me. Oh

749
00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:19,960
Speaker 2: I'm mean okay, Uh.

750
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:22,760
Speaker 3: You say, what do you mean, Susan.

751
00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:26,799
Speaker 2: Everyone is talking with John and Jane, but no one

752
00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:29,400
Speaker 2: is talking to me. And when I try to speak

753
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:35,440
Speaker 2: with John and Jane, they don't talk to me. I

754
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:40,120
Speaker 2: sighed internally or maybe externally, and couldn't help. But wonder

755
00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:42,359
Speaker 2: how she didn't connect the dots me.

756
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:46,760
Speaker 1: Susan, it's their wedding. Of course everyone's gonna be talking

757
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:48,080
Speaker 1: to them, and they're gonna be busy.

758
00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:53,680
Speaker 3: Susan, I don't care. I'm John's sister, so he should

759
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:54,720
Speaker 3: talk with me more.

760
00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:58,840
Speaker 2: Actually, lady, you're not his sister. I am, But okay,

761
00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:02,280
Speaker 2: that's whatever. I was able to slip away and spend

762
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:05,239
Speaker 2: some time with some other family who weren't acting as

763
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:08,240
Speaker 2: if this day were all about them. After the ceremony,

764
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:11,439
Speaker 2: Jane admitted to me that she was livid about how

765
00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:15,200
Speaker 2: Susan wore that wedding dress. She had plenty of time

766
00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:18,840
Speaker 2: to prepare and plan for the wedding and get appropriate attire,

767
00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:21,600
Speaker 2: but when finally confronted, Susan said she.

768
00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:26,040
Speaker 3: Had no other dress she could wear. It's just simply

769
00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 3: just like.

770
00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:29,440
Speaker 1: Just don't have anything else in my closet, simply the

771
00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:33,440
Speaker 1: acting months, but I was busy.

772
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:36,439
Speaker 2: I haven't done laundry in twelve months.

773
00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 1: Twelve months.

774
00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:38,040
Speaker 3: That's not my fault.

775
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:41,160
Speaker 2: I'm constantly buying clothes every day. I don't have the money.

776
00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:46,279
Speaker 1: Trying to crucify me. It's not my fault. I didn't have, oh,

777
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:47,240
Speaker 1: any other options.

778
00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 2: Imagine She's just like, well, what's the hell?

779
00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:49,440
Speaker 1: You know what this is?

780
00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:51,480
Speaker 2: It's a wedding dress. I'm at a wedding.

781
00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:55,080
Speaker 1: I accidentally started doing kind of the Shit's Creek impression,

782
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:58,319
Speaker 1: but I realized this is actually what she does. She's like,

783
00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 1: she wears a white dress to David's wedding, and I

784
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:04,120
Speaker 1: was like, you're wearing a wedding dress. She's like, what

785
00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:05,960
Speaker 1: it's like?

786
00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:06,719
Speaker 3: I didn't even know.

787
00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:08,000
Speaker 1: I didn't even notice.

788
00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:09,640
Speaker 2: I I just thought it looked nice.

789
00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:10,960
Speaker 3: I've never seen shit screak me.

790
00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:15,040
Speaker 2: I also have not seen that. How are you making references?

791
00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:17,320
Speaker 1: I've seen clips too, nice.

792
00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:18,799
Speaker 3: I've oh, I've seen footage.

793
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:20,480
Speaker 2: Oh, I've seen footage.

794
00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:24,200
Speaker 1: Well, let's see footage of this. Yes, oh, so to Stevie,

795
00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:26,000
Speaker 1: maybe not really.

796
00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:29,600
Speaker 2: This is perhaps a boring tale to most, but even

797
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:32,239
Speaker 2: three nearly four years later, I'm still pissed at my

798
00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:35,440
Speaker 2: half sister for doing that. My mom, John, and Jane

799
00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 2: are also pissed about it.

800
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 3: Still.

801
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:40,319
Speaker 2: I've since cut contact with Susan. Her and I never

802
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:42,120
Speaker 2: had a good bond anyway, and as far as I

803
00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:44,400
Speaker 2: could see it, we just shared a dad. But I

804
00:39:44,440 --> 00:39:47,080
Speaker 2: almost never had to deal with my dad's previous family

805
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 2: as far as I know, John and Jane have limited

806
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 2: contact with her, but that can't be helped as they

807
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:55,560
Speaker 2: live in the same city as her now, while I

808
00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:58,680
Speaker 2: happily live in a place where an ocean is between

809
00:39:58,719 --> 00:39:59,160
Speaker 2: me and her.

810
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:04,000
Speaker 1: It's like she is as far as she can possibly

811
00:40:04,080 --> 00:40:04,800
Speaker 1: be from.

812
00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:05,440
Speaker 3: Me, Dude, she is.

813
00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:08,480
Speaker 2: She is swimming as fast as she can across that

814
00:40:08,520 --> 00:40:11,880
Speaker 2: ocean right now. She sends to disturbance in the forest.

815
00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:14,279
Speaker 2: She's like, I must annoy O.

816
00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:18,960
Speaker 1: P No one, No one's annoying, op, It's gotta be me.

817
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:22,360
Speaker 2: There is an edit. I finally had a chance to

818
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:25,719
Speaker 2: speak to my mom about dad's previous marriage, as I

819
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:28,680
Speaker 2: had some comments expressing concern that my dad's lack of

820
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:32,120
Speaker 2: commitment to his other kids was of concern. And here's

821
00:40:32,160 --> 00:40:35,200
Speaker 2: what I found out. My dad was baby trapped in

822
00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:38,840
Speaker 2: the marriage by his first wife when she fell pregnant,

823
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:40,719
Speaker 2: which is a weird way to describe this.

824
00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:42,839
Speaker 1: Apparently a very common way, but I always it always

825
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:45,279
Speaker 1: trips fell pregnant, Yeah, because it sounds like fell ill.

826
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:47,120
Speaker 1: But apparently this is like a thing that people say.

827
00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:48,839
Speaker 2: I feel like you trip and fall and then when

828
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 2: you get up, you're like six months of pregnant.

829
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 1: Dang it. Uh.

830
00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:56,560
Speaker 2: When she fell pregnant, my dad stepped up and did

831
00:40:56,560 --> 00:40:59,480
Speaker 2: what at the time was appropriate and married her, as

832
00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:01,880
Speaker 2: he believed the child was his, and the first wife

833
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:04,439
Speaker 2: said it was his baby. After the baby was born,

834
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:07,040
Speaker 2: she admitted the son was not my dad.

835
00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:13,640
Speaker 1: Whoa, you're not my dad? Or he I'm not your dad?

836
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:18,200
Speaker 2: Okay, never mind. Despite the son not being dad's, he

837
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:20,799
Speaker 2: stayed with the first wife to raise the child. Still

838
00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:26,680
Speaker 2: double wow. First wife then falls pregnant with a second child.

839
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:34,960
Speaker 2: This one is Susan and my dad's Oh wait, this

840
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:38,480
Speaker 2: one is Susan and Susan is my dad's child. Yeah,

841
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:42,239
Speaker 2: got you. First wife had a nasty habit of abandoning

842
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:44,200
Speaker 2: Dad and the kids for days and weeks at a

843
00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:45,600
Speaker 2: time without saying anything.

844
00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:50,000
Speaker 1: Oh, you know, she's just being mysterious, doing a little

845
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:50,719
Speaker 1: gone girl moment.

846
00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:52,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just a little gone girl. She's good, she'll

847
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:56,680
Speaker 2: come back. This left Dad to look after both babies

848
00:41:56,719 --> 00:41:59,600
Speaker 2: alone until she came back. I believe this was some

849
00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:02,719
Speaker 2: of her of fair habits. On a random night, first

850
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:05,480
Speaker 2: wife actually packed all her things and the kids things

851
00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:09,239
Speaker 2: before taking both son and Susan, leaving my dad who

852
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:12,000
Speaker 2: woke the next day to the aftermath of first wife leaving.

853
00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:15,360
Speaker 2: It was the first wife who disassociated from my dad

854
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:19,319
Speaker 2: for no actual reason. Mom told me that Dad had

855
00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:21,799
Speaker 2: no choice but to give up rights to the son

856
00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:24,960
Speaker 2: and Susan because first wife wouldn't let him interact with

857
00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:29,400
Speaker 2: them at all, nor herself. Please note, my dad was

858
00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:32,240
Speaker 2: not abusive to her in any way. Rather, the first

859
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:35,120
Speaker 2: wife was the violent one, and Mom explained that there

860
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:37,879
Speaker 2: was something wrong with her mentally, but she never sought help.

861
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:41,720
Speaker 2: There was also a period of time after Dad married

862
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:44,000
Speaker 2: my mom and after I was born that first wife

863
00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:47,640
Speaker 2: was entirely out of control that Dad took in both

864
00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:52,759
Speaker 2: the son and Susan to live with us for wait. Sorry,

865
00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:54,920
Speaker 2: this is just a very few there's not a lot

866
00:42:54,920 --> 00:43:04,319
Speaker 2: of pronunciation here her punctuation. Rather that first wife was

867
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:08,080
Speaker 2: entirely out of control. And then Dad took in both

868
00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:10,520
Speaker 2: son and Susan to live with us for a few months,

869
00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:14,320
Speaker 2: but the son was a violent child. Susan wasn't any better,

870
00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:17,799
Speaker 2: and both my parents had to contact child welfare after

871
00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:20,799
Speaker 2: an incident where my brother was taken to the hospital

872
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:24,920
Speaker 2: because son had cracked his head open and John needed stitches.

873
00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's not a huge mess. Yeah wow. Because

874
00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:34,879
Speaker 2: first wife son was a clear danger to myself and John,

875
00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 2: it was decided Dad and Mom couldn't keep looking after them.

876
00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:42,040
Speaker 2: But by the way, I want you to look after yourself,

877
00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:46,680
Speaker 2: and you can do so by listening to full episodes

878
00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:48,279
Speaker 2: with stories like this. All you gotta do is go

879
00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:52,680
Speaker 2: to Spotify or Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. Search. Okay, storytime,

880
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:54,520
Speaker 2: just give it a search, Just get it a whirl,

881
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:55,960
Speaker 2: give it a give it a give it a give

882
00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:59,120
Speaker 2: it a try. College And uh yeah, that you can

883
00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:03,280
Speaker 2: listen to infinite number of stories.

884
00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:05,920
Speaker 1: Never ends, but you're a bottomless pit.

885
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:08,600
Speaker 2: But you know it does end this story and we

886
00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:11,440
Speaker 2: do have a little bit of story left. But like,

887
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 2: where where are we at?

888
00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:16,320
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, this is just kind of a seems like

889
00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:18,919
Speaker 1: a mask. Seems like she learned from her mom. Yeah,

890
00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:20,759
Speaker 1: or maybe didn't learn from her mom because her mom

891
00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:21,319
Speaker 1: wasn't there.

892
00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:22,600
Speaker 3: That's sad.

893
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:26,120
Speaker 2: It seems like her Susan's behavior is a byproduct of

894
00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:34,320
Speaker 2: her tumultuous upbringing. Yeah, potentially, I think so doesn't excuse it. However,

895
00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:38,480
Speaker 2: it does shed light onto maybe why.

896
00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:42,120
Speaker 1: Like if I were writing a story like a novel,

897
00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:45,239
Speaker 1: I'd be like, here's the full character arc of how

898
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:49,120
Speaker 1: Susan became terrible person?

899
00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:53,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, how how Susan ended up wearing a wedding dress

900
00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:59,719
Speaker 2: to another person's wedding. It's all unhinged behavior, bed, That's

901
00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:03,120
Speaker 2: why wear a T shirt and jeans before you do that.

902
00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:07,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, but let's hit hit this end.

903
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:11,680
Speaker 2: Oh and it looks like the rest of the story. Okay, Well,

904
00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:13,799
Speaker 2: never mind. There was one bullet point. There's one more

905
00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:17,440
Speaker 2: bullet point here. There were multiple affairs that the first

906
00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:20,320
Speaker 2: wife had while married to my dad, including a third

907
00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:24,560
Speaker 2: child that wasn't my dad's but his best friends. First

908
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 2: wife also had another two children after the divorce and

909
00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:30,120
Speaker 2: tried to claim my dad was the father even though

910
00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:32,960
Speaker 2: this was after my dad had married my mom. DNA

911
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:37,240
Speaker 2: tests were done and all of the children, and of

912
00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:41,360
Speaker 2: all of the children, only Susan, the second born, was

913
00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:44,560
Speaker 2: my dad's child. I hope this helps to clear up

914
00:45:44,560 --> 00:45:47,560
Speaker 2: anything people were worried about. First wife is also an

915
00:45:47,600 --> 00:45:51,040
Speaker 2: extreme narcissist, which could explain Susan's behavior. Yeah.

916
00:45:51,080 --> 00:45:54,640
Speaker 1: I think it does. And that seems like an extreme narcissist.

917
00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:58,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, and ding ding ding. We figured it out, folks.

918
00:46:00,160 --> 00:46:06,160
Speaker 2: Mother infected the daughter with her bad behavior. But that

919
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:07,160
Speaker 2: is the end of that story.

920
00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:07,560
Speaker 4: Yeah,