WEBVTT - A Year of Reflection

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, peeps, and welcome to wok Api Daily with

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<v Speaker 1>Meet your Girl Danielle Moody recording at the Home Bunker. Folks,

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<v Speaker 1>I can not believe it. We have made it to

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<v Speaker 1>the last woke f Daily episode of twenty twenty two.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, special announcement. We will be this very

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<v Speaker 1>hard working team that is made up of myself and

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<v Speaker 1>my producer Andrew, who have been working together for the

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<v Speaker 1>last five years, are taking a break between Christmas and

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<v Speaker 1>New Year, so there will not be new content because

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<v Speaker 1>what we've decided is that we're going to take our

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<v Speaker 1>own advice, which is I tell folks to rest all

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<v Speaker 1>the time, to take a break so that you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have a breakdown. And you know, what you don't know

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<v Speaker 1>is that in order to have content between the week

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<v Speaker 1>of Christmas and New Year's it requires a lot, a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, a lot, a lot, a lot of pretaping.

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<v Speaker 1>And as you all know, I am also the host

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<v Speaker 1>of two other shows, and so our gift to ourselves

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<v Speaker 1>this year was to say, hey, we're actually going to

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<v Speaker 1>take a real break and allow ourselves to breathe. So

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<v Speaker 1>today's episode will be the last episode until we return

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<v Speaker 1>with fresh content in January. So folks, let's now that

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<v Speaker 1>housekeeping is out of the way, take a look back

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<v Speaker 1>at twenty twenty two. You know, I've been doing a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of reflective urine review TV shows quick Plug. I

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<v Speaker 1>will be on Simone Show on Christmas Eve at four

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<v Speaker 1>pm on MSNBC. So if you are cooking and preparing

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<v Speaker 1>for Christmas dinner and you want to still keep up

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<v Speaker 1>on the news or watch her year in review, check

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<v Speaker 1>that out at four pm Eastern on Christmas Eve. I

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<v Speaker 1>will also be joining did a wonderful pre tape which

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really excited about, folks seeing with the Reverend Al

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<v Speaker 1>Sharpton for his twelfth annual Reavie Awards, which will take

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<v Speaker 1>place on both Christmas Eve and Christmas Day at five

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<v Speaker 1>pm Eastern. And if you don't want to watch it

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<v Speaker 1>on the holiday, then just dbr it. But I will

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<v Speaker 1>be on your television on both of those days. So,

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<v Speaker 1>as I've been doing these Year in reflection, I have

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<v Speaker 1>been kind of thinking about my own, you know, year

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<v Speaker 1>of reflection. What have I been through this year and

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<v Speaker 1>for the past couple of years since COVID probably right,

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<v Speaker 1>So since twenty twenty I have spent New Year's Eve

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<v Speaker 1>in my wonderful apartment, saging, journaling, lighting candles, setting intentions,

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<v Speaker 1>and it has been a really wonderful way to end

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<v Speaker 1>the year. I realized that in my youth, when I

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<v Speaker 1>was younger, I wanted to be at every party, do everything.

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<v Speaker 1>I've watched the ball drop in Times Square, I've gone

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<v Speaker 1>to house parties, I've gone to big club parties. I've

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<v Speaker 1>gone to sleepovers and hang out said you know, New

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<v Speaker 1>Year's Eve for my entire life, even as a kid,

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<v Speaker 1>was always a big deal. My grandparents used to throw

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<v Speaker 1>you know, huge family parties and people would come in

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<v Speaker 1>from all over to their holiday parties. So New Year's

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<v Speaker 1>Eve in my household, in my life has always played

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<v Speaker 1>a major part. And I think that as I got older,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, we all went through this thing called

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<v Speaker 1>a global health pandemic and slowed down a bit and

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<v Speaker 1>started to ask ourselves, well, how do I really want

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<v Speaker 1>to start the new year? Do I want to start

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<v Speaker 1>it hungover and clinging to a toilet because I have

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<v Speaker 1>imbibed too much the night before? Do I want to

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<v Speaker 1>start it out exhausted? And because of the last couple

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<v Speaker 1>of years, you know, all of those big plans that

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<v Speaker 1>that you're usually deciding in between, you know, weren't happening.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I found myself on you know, one year,

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<v Speaker 1>having a wonderful you know, early New Year's Eve lunch

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<v Speaker 1>with one of my best friends and then you know,

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<v Speaker 1>off to go do our own thing in the evening.

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<v Speaker 1>I have, you know, had wonderful dinners, early dinners with

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<v Speaker 1>my sister because she would usually fly out to head

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<v Speaker 1>back abroad on New Year's Eve, and so that had

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<v Speaker 1>become our tradition. And I found myself really enjoying this

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<v Speaker 1>solitude and kind of being with my thoughts and not alone.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm facetiming all, you know, throughout after the

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<v Speaker 1>ball drops, facetiming and connecting with people and wishing everyone well.

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<v Speaker 1>But there is something if you do have the ability

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<v Speaker 1>to even entertain the idea. And I know many of

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<v Speaker 1>you are parents or grandparents or caregivers, and so you

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<v Speaker 1>probably don't have the opportunity to be in solitude, But

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<v Speaker 1>if you do, even for an hour, even for an hour,

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<v Speaker 1>not even the whole night, even for an hour, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if it's before you're getting ready to go out and

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<v Speaker 1>do your big New Year's Eve thing, take an hour

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<v Speaker 1>to yourself, you know, clear the space out wherever you are,

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<v Speaker 1>light a few candles, sit down in quiet or listening

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<v Speaker 1>to some type of meditative track or classical music or

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<v Speaker 1>something whatever helps you get into the zone of just

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<v Speaker 1>being at ease, being you know, equal at equilibrium, being

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<v Speaker 1>in flow and not in a rush. In quieting your

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<v Speaker 1>mind and really reflect and find, let's say, five things

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<v Speaker 1>to be grateful for that happened in twenty twenty two

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<v Speaker 1>to you personally. Could be, you know, things with work.

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<v Speaker 1>It could be things with home. It could be I

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<v Speaker 1>kept my plant alive all year. It could be I

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<v Speaker 1>cooked something different that I never cooked before, or I

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<v Speaker 1>called that person instead of waiting for them to call me.

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<v Speaker 1>But think of five things to be grateful for for

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<v Speaker 1>the year and then set your intention, because you know, folks,

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<v Speaker 1>regardless of how the year actually twenty twenty three shapes

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<v Speaker 1>up and we don't know right but regardless of what

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<v Speaker 1>is happening on the outside, because we know that there

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<v Speaker 1>will be turmoil and we know that there will be pain.

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<v Speaker 1>We know that there will be more historic political events,

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<v Speaker 1>in historic cateshy strophic storms. We know that there'll be

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<v Speaker 1>more death. We know that they'll be more anxiety. You

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<v Speaker 1>can't control everything that is happening around you, but the

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<v Speaker 1>things that you can control is what is happening inside

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<v Speaker 1>of you. And the gift that I have received over

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<v Speaker 1>the last couple of years is really being able to

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<v Speaker 1>be more focused on how I am feeling about a thing,

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<v Speaker 1>what my perception is about something that is happening, The

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<v Speaker 1>ability to disrupt old records that are playing in the

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<v Speaker 1>back of our minds that are telling us that we

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<v Speaker 1>need to be doing more or producing this, or we

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<v Speaker 1>are not worthy of rest, or why am I taking

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<v Speaker 1>a nap and recognize that. You know, I believe that

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<v Speaker 1>it was Gandhi, you know who said that if you

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<v Speaker 1>really want to change the world, start with yourself. And

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<v Speaker 1>I find that those things, those kind of cliche quotes

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<v Speaker 1>or things that affirmations that people say, they're really true.

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<v Speaker 1>They're based in a lot of facts that if you

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<v Speaker 1>really do want to see changes in the world, then

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<v Speaker 1>start to model that. Because what I have found and

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<v Speaker 1>what we all know, is that marinating in the madness

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<v Speaker 1>telling ourselves that we're not deserving of rest, that we're

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<v Speaker 1>only worth what we can produce, never getting off of

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<v Speaker 1>that treadmill, beating ourselves up for the littlest things doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>serve us. You know, I joked with a friend the

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<v Speaker 1>other day and I said that if calling myself every

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<v Speaker 1>name in the book every time that my weight goes

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<v Speaker 1>up and down and up and down, if being mean

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<v Speaker 1>to myself was the key to being thin, than I

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<v Speaker 1>would be a supermodel. Right if beating myself up for

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<v Speaker 1>not fitting into the right dress or the right size

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<v Speaker 1>at the right time, in the right moment, pressuring myself

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<v Speaker 1>to say, well, oh my god, I'm going to see

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<v Speaker 1>these people in two weeks, so I must lose twenty

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<v Speaker 1>five pounds in two weeks. If that were helpful, then

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<v Speaker 1>it would have worked by now, right, And I just

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<v Speaker 1>use that as one example. The point is that the

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<v Speaker 1>world is mean enough, the world is angry enough. The world,

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<v Speaker 1>if you allow it, will kick your ass up and

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<v Speaker 1>down the street, unrelenting. It is the loving of ourselves

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<v Speaker 1>and allowing that love to really grow, to really root

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<v Speaker 1>in us that allows us to have the light and

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<v Speaker 1>the enter to love up on those around us. And

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<v Speaker 1>then through that love, through that piece, through that light,

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<v Speaker 1>we make cracks into the darkness. Right, we find some

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<v Speaker 1>light in the tunnel. That we find ourselves in at times.

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<v Speaker 1>And no, it is in the oncoming train, right. It

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<v Speaker 1>is growing that light that we allow to get dimmed

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<v Speaker 1>throughout the year, dimmed and dimmed by other people's outside opinions,

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<v Speaker 1>by their expectations. That sometimes by the time that we

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<v Speaker 1>get to this time of year, we're exhausted and overrun

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<v Speaker 1>with obligations, grief. You know, the end of the year

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<v Speaker 1>is not always happy for people. It is just yet

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<v Speaker 1>another stress or another thing that they have to do.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I say to you, shift the narrative. Give

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<v Speaker 1>yourself back some peace, give yourself back some gratitude from

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<v Speaker 1>making it through this year, because frankly, too many people

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<v Speaker 1>did not. Whether it were celebrities that we lost tragically,

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<v Speaker 1>whether it was family members that you lost abruptly, or

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<v Speaker 1>loved ones or pets. They call it the present because

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<v Speaker 1>it really is a gift. And I also find that

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<v Speaker 1>reflection is a gift. Not the turning over our shoulders

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<v Speaker 1>and saying well I should have and I could have

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<v Speaker 1>in all of that, No, but deep reflection that is

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<v Speaker 1>actually rooted in gratitude. For me, the last couple of years,

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<v Speaker 1>in building my own gratitude practice, I can't express to

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<v Speaker 1>you how much it has really fundamentally changed my life

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<v Speaker 1>because things that used to send me into a downward

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<v Speaker 1>spiral of just darkness and despair. Now I have the

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<v Speaker 1>power to disrupt that thought and ask myself, is that real?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that true? We always speak and I just used

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<v Speaker 1>it in absolutes, the always and the never. But our

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<v Speaker 1>stories that we tell ourselves are they true? Or is

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<v Speaker 1>it a matter of shifting our perspective of having gratitude

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<v Speaker 1>for what is inside us and what is around us?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that really the truth? Is that what meant matters?

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that reflection and the ability to pause

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<v Speaker 1>and again, even if it is just even if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have an hour, if it is a few minutes

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<v Speaker 1>of being intentional, of breathing, of reflecting, of honoring yourself

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<v Speaker 1>and how far you've come this year, give that gift

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<v Speaker 1>to yourself. Because I think that this life train, y'all

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<v Speaker 1>this spinning. You know, what would we cover that scientists

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<v Speaker 1>had said that the Earth is now spinning faster this year,

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<v Speaker 1>right because of climate change. Things aren't slowing down. And

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<v Speaker 1>so if we're waiting for everything around us to slow down,

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<v Speaker 1>rather than taking a queue from our exhaustion and slowing

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<v Speaker 1>ourselves down, then we're not really listening. And I think

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<v Speaker 1>that the opportunity to pause, to listen, to reflect is

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<v Speaker 1>indeed a privilege, because there are a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>that don't have the time for that, that literally can't.

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<v Speaker 1>Every second of every day is accounted for to somebody

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<v Speaker 1>else other than themselves. And so if you do find

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<v Speaker 1>yourself actually being able to shut down between Christmas and

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<v Speaker 1>New Year's, being able to spend time that you want

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<v Speaker 1>to spend time with family and friends, chosen family and

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<v Speaker 1>friends as well, make sure to make some time for yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>What I'm thinking this year is that I am going

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<v Speaker 1>to I'm not going to commit to journaling every day,

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<v Speaker 1>but I am going to commit to writing down my

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<v Speaker 1>thoughts of how I'm feeling at the end of this

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<v Speaker 1>year on New Year's and what my hopes are in

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<v Speaker 1>what I hope to manifest in twenty twenty three, my

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<v Speaker 1>hopes for myself and my hopes for the world. And

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<v Speaker 1>I want to check in with those thoughts every couple

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<v Speaker 1>of months, not as a well you need to do this,

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<v Speaker 1>but just as a moment to say, did I accomplish

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<v Speaker 1>what it was that I set out to do. Am

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<v Speaker 1>I closer or have I changed my goals altogether? And

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<v Speaker 1>being nimble and allowing myself the ability to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think it's important, particularly as time just seems

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<v Speaker 1>to move faster, to really take pauses, write things down,

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<v Speaker 1>do a voice diary, and mark the moments because they

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<v Speaker 1>are fleeting. So my wish for all of you as

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<v Speaker 1>we mark this new year is more groundedness, more peace,

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<v Speaker 1>and more joy. That is about not what we can produce,

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<v Speaker 1>but just steeped in who we are, finding things that

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<v Speaker 1>really do give us a spark, give us a light,

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<v Speaker 1>and doing more of that, and stumbling through the process

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<v Speaker 1>of finding what those things are and enjoying being in

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<v Speaker 1>the present and not as I said, and I have

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<v Speaker 1>said to my girlfriend, not future casting, right, because manifestation

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<v Speaker 1>is not about future casting. It's about setting your intentions.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, the past is done, the present is happening,

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<v Speaker 1>in the future is unknown. We can still desire and

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<v Speaker 1>have desires for things that are we hope to come.

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<v Speaker 1>But I find that I prefer to manifest than hope

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<v Speaker 1>because manifesting, to me requires more action and intention. And

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<v Speaker 1>so I wish for all of you the ability to

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<v Speaker 1>manifest your intentions and the space to do that, and

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<v Speaker 1>the care that it takes, the self care that it

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<v Speaker 1>takes in order to make that happen. So, dear friends, now,

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<v Speaker 1>with the minutes that we have left, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>think about you know, I do this and I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>many of you do this too, with your family and friends.

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<v Speaker 1>I like to do roses and thorns, right, the roses

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<v Speaker 1>and thorns of the year, And we're going to do

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<v Speaker 1>this the political style, the roses and thorns of this year,

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<v Speaker 1>because my God, so much has happened. And I you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm one of those people that do love watching all

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<v Speaker 1>the year in review shows because so much happens that

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<v Speaker 1>you actually forget, and it's good to be reminded all

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<v Speaker 1>of the times that we thought that we were not

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<v Speaker 1>going to get through, that we were not going to

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<v Speaker 1>get to the other side, that we did. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think that that's one of the powerful things about years

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<v Speaker 1>in review. So roses and thorns, because chronologically I will

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<v Speaker 1>never remember all of the things that have happened. A

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<v Speaker 1>thorn of twenty twenty two was the overturning of Rob

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<v Speaker 1>Wade fifty years of precedent, a woman and people with

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<v Speaker 1>Uterus's bodily autonomy just gone. And I have admonished people

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<v Speaker 1>for not taking to the streets and staying in the

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<v Speaker 1>streets in the way frankly that the Iranian women and

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<v Speaker 1>young people are in order to make it known that

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<v Speaker 1>they will not be overrun be told what they can

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<v Speaker 1>and cannot do. That was a real thorn of the year.

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<v Speaker 1>To state it mildly, the Rose mid term elections. The

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<v Speaker 1>polsters were wrong again. There was no red fucking wave.

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<v Speaker 1>There wasn't even a red drip. Americans, particularly gen Z,

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<v Speaker 1>people of color, black women, did the work that needed

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<v Speaker 1>to be done and showed up at the polls in

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<v Speaker 1>mass Why because democracy. He was on the line. Their

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<v Speaker 1>lives were on the line. And while mainstream media wanted

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<v Speaker 1>us to believe that, oh no, it's just the economy

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<v Speaker 1>and people only care about their gas tank. No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>people actually care about democracy. The election deniers did not

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<v Speaker 1>win office in the way that they wanted to. Donald

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<v Speaker 1>Trump does not have the Midas touch. As a matter

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<v Speaker 1>of fact, everything that he touches turns into a lawsuit

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<v Speaker 1>or shit. So that is the highlight that there is

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<v Speaker 1>still a spark in all of us. The fight in

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<v Speaker 1>all of us to hold on to our democracy, and

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<v Speaker 1>I hope that it continues, because I will tell you

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<v Speaker 1>that the push for authoritarianism and fascism hasn't gone away

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<v Speaker 1>and hasn't eased up, and neither can we another thorn

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<v Speaker 1>climate change run amok. We saw three quarters of Pakistan underwater.

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<v Speaker 1>We have seen extreme weather across this country. In Nigeria,

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<v Speaker 1>in remote places, in close places, every single storm and

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<v Speaker 1>fire was historic. And the rose in that is that

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<v Speaker 1>I think that people are starting to wake up and

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<v Speaker 1>realize that climate change is in something that is impending,

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<v Speaker 1>it is actually happening. And it's one of the reasons

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<v Speaker 1>why Generations Z came out in mass for midterm elections

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<v Speaker 1>because they're like, we're inheriting this planet that you all

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<v Speaker 1>are turning into a fucking trash heap. And there is

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<v Speaker 1>no debate with our generation about whether or not it exists.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, how long is it going to take you

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<v Speaker 1>all to get the fuck out of the way so

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<v Speaker 1>we can actually do something about it? So that to

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<v Speaker 1>me is a rose a thorn. So many mass shootings,

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<v Speaker 1>so many mass shootings from Buffalo to Uvaldi to Club

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<v Speaker 1>Q and to the countless countless shootings in between. America

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<v Speaker 1>is sick. America has an obscene addiction to guns to violence.

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<v Speaker 1>The Rose. President Biden pass gun safety legislation. Gun safety

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<v Speaker 1>legislation hasn't been passed in this country for decades. Do

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<v Speaker 1>I think that it went far enough? No? I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Did it ban assault rifles? No it didn't. It did

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<v Speaker 1>some things, and so for that you get a rose.

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<v Speaker 1>America's infrastructure crumbling so many ways, Thorn, And guess what.

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<v Speaker 1>The infrastructure is only going to get beaten down more

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<v Speaker 1>by what? Climate change? The Rose. The Biden administration did

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<v Speaker 1>what the Trump administration said they were going to do

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<v Speaker 1>but never did, which was actually pass an infrastructure bill

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<v Speaker 1>that will begin to reshape this country and make investments

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<v Speaker 1>right into smart technology, green technology, sustainable energies. So for that,

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<v Speaker 1>get a rose. Donald Trump. Thorn has continued his crime

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<v Speaker 1>spree against to America, ending the year with selling NFTs

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<v Speaker 1>which are now funny enough losing value, as is Donald Trump.

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<v Speaker 1>So that makes sense. And another thorn is will Merritt

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<v Speaker 1>Garland do what he needs to do? The Rose being

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<v Speaker 1>the January sixth Bipartisan Committee did they laid out with

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<v Speaker 1>ten hearings a million plus documents, hundreds of interviews. Donald

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<v Speaker 1>Trump knew what he was doing. This wasn't an accident.

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<v Speaker 1>January sixth wasn't an accident. It was planned. It was

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<v Speaker 1>premeditated and done so at the behest of the criminal

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<v Speaker 1>in chief, who wanted to thwart the will of the

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<v Speaker 1>people and overturn a free and fair election. I can

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<v Speaker 1>think of no greater crime than to not prosecute Donald Trump.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even care if they lose. Want them to try,

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<v Speaker 1>because the trying will say more about this country than

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<v Speaker 1>ignoring it all together. Folks, there were so many ups

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<v Speaker 1>and downs, and you know, we got a little air

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<v Speaker 1>back in our sales with the midterm elections. No, we

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<v Speaker 1>didn't keep the House, but they didn't really gain the

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<v Speaker 1>House either. Anything can happen to five members of Congress

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<v Speaker 1>just saying, and it has in the past, and so

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<v Speaker 1>their margin of victory yes, very slim. What I believe,

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<v Speaker 1>dear friends, is that America is and has been, at

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<v Speaker 1>a crossroads. It needs to reckon with its past in

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<v Speaker 1>order to understand its present and chart its future. Whether

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<v Speaker 1>or not we actually do that, I don't know. But

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<v Speaker 1>what I have said before, unwokeapp is that I've let

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<v Speaker 1>go of my ego in this work. I've let go

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<v Speaker 1>of the belief that I'm going to see all of

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<v Speaker 1>the freedoms and the rights and the perfection of this

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<v Speaker 1>union that I want to see in my lifetime. But

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<v Speaker 1>the work that I am doing, that each of us

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<v Speaker 1>are doing, with the platforms that we have created and

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<v Speaker 1>that have been provided for us, is to move that needle,

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<v Speaker 1>is to bend that arc even further. And so I

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<v Speaker 1>wish for you all at the end of this year,

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<v Speaker 1>rest restoration, rejuvenation, so that we can continue the work

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<v Speaker 1>together to secure and to fortify our democracy for generations

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<v Speaker 1>to come. I can't thank you all enough for allowing

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<v Speaker 1>me to do what it is I believe that I

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<v Speaker 1>am called to do, which is to be a messenger,

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<v Speaker 1>which is to use the platform that I have by

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<v Speaker 1>virtue of you all tuning in each and every day,

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<v Speaker 1>following me, tweeting at me, listening to the show, sharing

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<v Speaker 1>the shows, giving me the energy to do the work

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<v Speaker 1>that I believe that I was called to do, which

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<v Speaker 1>is wake people up to their power and to their purpose.

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<v Speaker 1>And once they are woke, then they will take their

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<v Speaker 1>energy to wake up more people. If all of us

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<v Speaker 1>right decide that it is our jobs to educate those.

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<v Speaker 1>Once we become educated, to activate those. Once we become activated,

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<v Speaker 1>Then I believe that we will make it that we

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<v Speaker 1>will win. And what does winning look like. It looks

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<v Speaker 1>like a secure democracy. It looks like children and adults

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<v Speaker 1>being able to live free in their skin. It looks

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<v Speaker 1>like people being able to love and declare that love

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<v Speaker 1>to whomever, wherever. It looks like bodily autonomy. It looks

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<v Speaker 1>like the best person getting the job, not the person

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<v Speaker 1>with the most connections and the greatest wealth. It looks

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<v Speaker 1>like being able to rest while also having the ability

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<v Speaker 1>to provide for yourself and for those that you love.

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<v Speaker 1>It looks like being and receiving love and sharing love.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you all for an amazing twenty twenty two. I

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<v Speaker 1>will see you all in the new year. As always,

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<v Speaker 1>Power to the people and to all the people. Power,

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<v Speaker 1>Get woke and stay woke as fuck. Happy holidays, friends,