1 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:15,360 Speaker 1: Good morning, peeps, and welcome to wok Api Daily with 2 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:20,080 Speaker 1: Meet your Girl Danielle Moody recording at the Home Bunker. Folks, 3 00:00:20,280 --> 00:00:24,360 Speaker 1: I can not believe it. We have made it to 4 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 1: the last woke f Daily episode of twenty twenty two. 5 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 1: First of all, special announcement. We will be this very 6 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 1: hard working team that is made up of myself and 7 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:43,279 Speaker 1: my producer Andrew, who have been working together for the 8 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 1: last five years, are taking a break between Christmas and 9 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 1: New Year, so there will not be new content because 10 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:54,920 Speaker 1: what we've decided is that we're going to take our 11 00:00:55,120 --> 00:00:58,639 Speaker 1: own advice, which is I tell folks to rest all 12 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 1: the time, to take a break so that you don't 13 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 1: have a breakdown. And you know, what you don't know 14 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 1: is that in order to have content between the week 15 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:12,680 Speaker 1: of Christmas and New Year's it requires a lot, a lot, 16 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 1: a lot, a lot, a lot, a lot of pretaping. 17 00:01:15,120 --> 00:01:17,479 Speaker 1: And as you all know, I am also the host 18 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:21,760 Speaker 1: of two other shows, and so our gift to ourselves 19 00:01:21,800 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 1: this year was to say, hey, we're actually going to 20 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 1: take a real break and allow ourselves to breathe. So 21 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:35,240 Speaker 1: today's episode will be the last episode until we return 22 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 1: with fresh content in January. So folks, let's now that 23 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 1: housekeeping is out of the way, take a look back 24 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 1: at twenty twenty two. You know, I've been doing a 25 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:56,640 Speaker 1: lot of reflective urine review TV shows quick Plug. I 26 00:01:56,680 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 1: will be on Simone Show on Christmas Eve at four 27 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 1: pm on MSNBC. So if you are cooking and preparing 28 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:09,799 Speaker 1: for Christmas dinner and you want to still keep up 29 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:12,799 Speaker 1: on the news or watch her year in review, check 30 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 1: that out at four pm Eastern on Christmas Eve. I 31 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 1: will also be joining did a wonderful pre tape which 32 00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 1: I'm really excited about, folks seeing with the Reverend Al 33 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 1: Sharpton for his twelfth annual Reavie Awards, which will take 34 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 1: place on both Christmas Eve and Christmas Day at five 35 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:33,680 Speaker 1: pm Eastern. And if you don't want to watch it 36 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 1: on the holiday, then just dbr it. But I will 37 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:41,119 Speaker 1: be on your television on both of those days. So, 38 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 1: as I've been doing these Year in reflection, I have 39 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:47,400 Speaker 1: been kind of thinking about my own, you know, year 40 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 1: of reflection. What have I been through this year and 41 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 1: for the past couple of years since COVID probably right, 42 00:02:55,480 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 1: So since twenty twenty I have spent New Year's Eve 43 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 1: in my wonderful apartment, saging, journaling, lighting candles, setting intentions, 44 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:13,920 Speaker 1: and it has been a really wonderful way to end 45 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:18,880 Speaker 1: the year. I realized that in my youth, when I 46 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:22,920 Speaker 1: was younger, I wanted to be at every party, do everything. 47 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 1: I've watched the ball drop in Times Square, I've gone 48 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 1: to house parties, I've gone to big club parties. I've 49 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 1: gone to sleepovers and hang out said you know, New 50 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 1: Year's Eve for my entire life, even as a kid, 51 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:38,120 Speaker 1: was always a big deal. My grandparents used to throw 52 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:41,200 Speaker 1: you know, huge family parties and people would come in 53 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 1: from all over to their holiday parties. So New Year's 54 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 1: Eve in my household, in my life has always played 55 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 1: a major part. And I think that as I got older, 56 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 1: and you know, we all went through this thing called 57 00:03:57,000 --> 00:04:01,760 Speaker 1: a global health pandemic and slowed down a bit and 58 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:04,960 Speaker 1: started to ask ourselves, well, how do I really want 59 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 1: to start the new year? Do I want to start 60 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 1: it hungover and clinging to a toilet because I have 61 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 1: imbibed too much the night before? Do I want to 62 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 1: start it out exhausted? And because of the last couple 63 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:20,000 Speaker 1: of years, you know, all of those big plans that 64 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 1: that you're usually deciding in between, you know, weren't happening. 65 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:28,120 Speaker 1: And so I found myself on you know, one year, 66 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 1: having a wonderful you know, early New Year's Eve lunch 67 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:34,720 Speaker 1: with one of my best friends and then you know, 68 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:36,920 Speaker 1: off to go do our own thing in the evening. 69 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 1: I have, you know, had wonderful dinners, early dinners with 70 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 1: my sister because she would usually fly out to head 71 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 1: back abroad on New Year's Eve, and so that had 72 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:53,159 Speaker 1: become our tradition. And I found myself really enjoying this 73 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 1: solitude and kind of being with my thoughts and not alone. 74 00:04:56,320 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm facetiming all, you know, throughout after the 75 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:05,359 Speaker 1: ball drops, facetiming and connecting with people and wishing everyone well. 76 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:08,919 Speaker 1: But there is something if you do have the ability 77 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:11,919 Speaker 1: to even entertain the idea. And I know many of 78 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:15,479 Speaker 1: you are parents or grandparents or caregivers, and so you 79 00:05:15,520 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 1: probably don't have the opportunity to be in solitude, But 80 00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:22,039 Speaker 1: if you do, even for an hour, even for an hour, 81 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:25,040 Speaker 1: not even the whole night, even for an hour, I mean, 82 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:27,039 Speaker 1: if it's before you're getting ready to go out and 83 00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 1: do your big New Year's Eve thing, take an hour 84 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:37,039 Speaker 1: to yourself, you know, clear the space out wherever you are, 85 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 1: light a few candles, sit down in quiet or listening 86 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 1: to some type of meditative track or classical music or 87 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:49,920 Speaker 1: something whatever helps you get into the zone of just 88 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:54,800 Speaker 1: being at ease, being you know, equal at equilibrium, being 89 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 1: in flow and not in a rush. In quieting your 90 00:05:57,800 --> 00:06:06,120 Speaker 1: mind and really reflect and find, let's say, five things 91 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 1: to be grateful for that happened in twenty twenty two 92 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:16,839 Speaker 1: to you personally. Could be, you know, things with work. 93 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 1: It could be things with home. It could be I 94 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:22,360 Speaker 1: kept my plant alive all year. It could be I 95 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:26,080 Speaker 1: cooked something different that I never cooked before, or I 96 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:28,720 Speaker 1: called that person instead of waiting for them to call me. 97 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:32,599 Speaker 1: But think of five things to be grateful for for 98 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 1: the year and then set your intention, because you know, folks, 99 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:44,400 Speaker 1: regardless of how the year actually twenty twenty three shapes 100 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:49,040 Speaker 1: up and we don't know right but regardless of what 101 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:52,680 Speaker 1: is happening on the outside, because we know that there 102 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 1: will be turmoil and we know that there will be pain. 103 00:06:55,120 --> 00:06:58,719 Speaker 1: We know that there will be more historic political events, 104 00:06:58,760 --> 00:07:02,760 Speaker 1: in historic cateshy strophic storms. We know that there'll be 105 00:07:02,800 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 1: more death. We know that they'll be more anxiety. You 106 00:07:09,720 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 1: can't control everything that is happening around you, but the 107 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:18,520 Speaker 1: things that you can control is what is happening inside 108 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:24,200 Speaker 1: of you. And the gift that I have received over 109 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 1: the last couple of years is really being able to 110 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:32,640 Speaker 1: be more focused on how I am feeling about a thing, 111 00:07:33,280 --> 00:07:37,800 Speaker 1: what my perception is about something that is happening, The 112 00:07:37,840 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 1: ability to disrupt old records that are playing in the 113 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:43,480 Speaker 1: back of our minds that are telling us that we 114 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:46,680 Speaker 1: need to be doing more or producing this, or we 115 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:49,119 Speaker 1: are not worthy of rest, or why am I taking 116 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 1: a nap and recognize that. You know, I believe that 117 00:07:58,040 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 1: it was Gandhi, you know who said that if you 118 00:08:01,480 --> 00:08:04,920 Speaker 1: really want to change the world, start with yourself. And 119 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:10,120 Speaker 1: I find that those things, those kind of cliche quotes 120 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:15,360 Speaker 1: or things that affirmations that people say, they're really true. 121 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:20,600 Speaker 1: They're based in a lot of facts that if you 122 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 1: really do want to see changes in the world, then 123 00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:28,560 Speaker 1: start to model that. Because what I have found and 124 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 1: what we all know, is that marinating in the madness 125 00:08:33,640 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 1: telling ourselves that we're not deserving of rest, that we're 126 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 1: only worth what we can produce, never getting off of 127 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:44,360 Speaker 1: that treadmill, beating ourselves up for the littlest things doesn't 128 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:47,160 Speaker 1: serve us. You know, I joked with a friend the 129 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:50,959 Speaker 1: other day and I said that if calling myself every 130 00:08:51,080 --> 00:08:54,320 Speaker 1: name in the book every time that my weight goes 131 00:08:54,480 --> 00:08:58,480 Speaker 1: up and down and up and down, if being mean 132 00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:00,960 Speaker 1: to myself was the key to being thin, than I 133 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:06,720 Speaker 1: would be a supermodel. Right if beating myself up for 134 00:09:07,800 --> 00:09:11,200 Speaker 1: not fitting into the right dress or the right size 135 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:15,720 Speaker 1: at the right time, in the right moment, pressuring myself 136 00:09:15,760 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 1: to say, well, oh my god, I'm going to see 137 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 1: these people in two weeks, so I must lose twenty 138 00:09:19,720 --> 00:09:26,120 Speaker 1: five pounds in two weeks. If that were helpful, then 139 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 1: it would have worked by now, right, And I just 140 00:09:28,600 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 1: use that as one example. The point is that the 141 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:39,199 Speaker 1: world is mean enough, the world is angry enough. The world, 142 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:42,920 Speaker 1: if you allow it, will kick your ass up and 143 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:51,560 Speaker 1: down the street, unrelenting. It is the loving of ourselves 144 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:55,720 Speaker 1: and allowing that love to really grow, to really root 145 00:09:55,920 --> 00:09:59,360 Speaker 1: in us that allows us to have the light and 146 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 1: the enter to love up on those around us. And 147 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 1: then through that love, through that piece, through that light, 148 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 1: we make cracks into the darkness. Right, we find some 149 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:24,200 Speaker 1: light in the tunnel. That we find ourselves in at times. 150 00:10:24,240 --> 00:10:27,840 Speaker 1: And no, it is in the oncoming train, right. It 151 00:10:28,000 --> 00:10:31,400 Speaker 1: is growing that light that we allow to get dimmed 152 00:10:31,520 --> 00:10:38,080 Speaker 1: throughout the year, dimmed and dimmed by other people's outside opinions, 153 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:42,880 Speaker 1: by their expectations. That sometimes by the time that we 154 00:10:42,920 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 1: get to this time of year, we're exhausted and overrun 155 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 1: with obligations, grief. You know, the end of the year 156 00:10:51,880 --> 00:10:55,960 Speaker 1: is not always happy for people. It is just yet 157 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:58,600 Speaker 1: another stress or another thing that they have to do. 158 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:05,720 Speaker 1: And so I say to you, shift the narrative. Give 159 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:11,640 Speaker 1: yourself back some peace, give yourself back some gratitude from 160 00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:15,760 Speaker 1: making it through this year, because frankly, too many people 161 00:11:15,840 --> 00:11:23,640 Speaker 1: did not. Whether it were celebrities that we lost tragically, 162 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:29,959 Speaker 1: whether it was family members that you lost abruptly, or 163 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:36,000 Speaker 1: loved ones or pets. They call it the present because 164 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:39,960 Speaker 1: it really is a gift. And I also find that 165 00:11:40,040 --> 00:11:45,920 Speaker 1: reflection is a gift. Not the turning over our shoulders 166 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 1: and saying well I should have and I could have 167 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 1: in all of that, No, but deep reflection that is 168 00:11:52,520 --> 00:12:00,880 Speaker 1: actually rooted in gratitude. For me, the last couple of years, 169 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:04,600 Speaker 1: in building my own gratitude practice, I can't express to 170 00:12:04,640 --> 00:12:08,880 Speaker 1: you how much it has really fundamentally changed my life 171 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:15,439 Speaker 1: because things that used to send me into a downward 172 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:21,080 Speaker 1: spiral of just darkness and despair. Now I have the 173 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 1: power to disrupt that thought and ask myself, is that real? 174 00:12:28,200 --> 00:12:32,880 Speaker 1: Is that true? We always speak and I just used 175 00:12:32,920 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 1: it in absolutes, the always and the never. But our 176 00:12:39,040 --> 00:12:47,079 Speaker 1: stories that we tell ourselves are they true? Or is 177 00:12:47,120 --> 00:12:51,360 Speaker 1: it a matter of shifting our perspective of having gratitude 178 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:53,719 Speaker 1: for what is inside us and what is around us? 179 00:12:56,559 --> 00:13:00,360 Speaker 1: Is that really the truth? Is that what meant matters? 180 00:13:04,240 --> 00:13:07,600 Speaker 1: And I think that reflection and the ability to pause 181 00:13:08,080 --> 00:13:10,840 Speaker 1: and again, even if it is just even if you 182 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:13,120 Speaker 1: don't have an hour, if it is a few minutes 183 00:13:13,679 --> 00:13:19,559 Speaker 1: of being intentional, of breathing, of reflecting, of honoring yourself 184 00:13:21,640 --> 00:13:27,000 Speaker 1: and how far you've come this year, give that gift 185 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:33,880 Speaker 1: to yourself. Because I think that this life train, y'all 186 00:13:33,920 --> 00:13:39,599 Speaker 1: this spinning. You know, what would we cover that scientists 187 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:42,640 Speaker 1: had said that the Earth is now spinning faster this year, 188 00:13:42,800 --> 00:13:49,120 Speaker 1: right because of climate change. Things aren't slowing down. And 189 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:52,120 Speaker 1: so if we're waiting for everything around us to slow down, 190 00:13:52,280 --> 00:13:57,000 Speaker 1: rather than taking a queue from our exhaustion and slowing 191 00:13:57,040 --> 00:14:03,000 Speaker 1: ourselves down, then we're not really listening. And I think 192 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:06,880 Speaker 1: that the opportunity to pause, to listen, to reflect is 193 00:14:06,920 --> 00:14:10,840 Speaker 1: indeed a privilege, because there are a lot of people 194 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:15,400 Speaker 1: that don't have the time for that, that literally can't. 195 00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:20,920 Speaker 1: Every second of every day is accounted for to somebody 196 00:14:20,960 --> 00:14:26,400 Speaker 1: else other than themselves. And so if you do find 197 00:14:26,440 --> 00:14:31,520 Speaker 1: yourself actually being able to shut down between Christmas and 198 00:14:31,600 --> 00:14:36,520 Speaker 1: New Year's, being able to spend time that you want 199 00:14:36,640 --> 00:14:40,960 Speaker 1: to spend time with family and friends, chosen family and 200 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:46,560 Speaker 1: friends as well, make sure to make some time for yourself. 201 00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:52,040 Speaker 1: What I'm thinking this year is that I am going 202 00:14:52,160 --> 00:14:55,760 Speaker 1: to I'm not going to commit to journaling every day, 203 00:14:55,840 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 1: but I am going to commit to writing down my 204 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:01,600 Speaker 1: thoughts of how I'm feeling at the end of this 205 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:06,440 Speaker 1: year on New Year's and what my hopes are in 206 00:15:07,960 --> 00:15:10,760 Speaker 1: what I hope to manifest in twenty twenty three, my 207 00:15:10,760 --> 00:15:15,880 Speaker 1: hopes for myself and my hopes for the world. And 208 00:15:17,080 --> 00:15:23,040 Speaker 1: I want to check in with those thoughts every couple 209 00:15:23,080 --> 00:15:27,640 Speaker 1: of months, not as a well you need to do this, 210 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:34,480 Speaker 1: but just as a moment to say, did I accomplish 211 00:15:34,520 --> 00:15:37,480 Speaker 1: what it was that I set out to do. Am 212 00:15:37,480 --> 00:15:47,120 Speaker 1: I closer or have I changed my goals altogether? And 213 00:15:47,240 --> 00:15:50,040 Speaker 1: being nimble and allowing myself the ability to do that. 214 00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:54,160 Speaker 1: But I think it's important, particularly as time just seems 215 00:15:54,200 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 1: to move faster, to really take pauses, write things down, 216 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:06,920 Speaker 1: do a voice diary, and mark the moments because they 217 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:13,840 Speaker 1: are fleeting. So my wish for all of you as 218 00:16:13,880 --> 00:16:19,440 Speaker 1: we mark this new year is more groundedness, more peace, 219 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 1: and more joy. That is about not what we can produce, 220 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 1: but just steeped in who we are, finding things that 221 00:16:30,600 --> 00:16:34,320 Speaker 1: really do give us a spark, give us a light, 222 00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:39,760 Speaker 1: and doing more of that, and stumbling through the process 223 00:16:39,800 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 1: of finding what those things are and enjoying being in 224 00:16:46,120 --> 00:16:48,920 Speaker 1: the present and not as I said, and I have 225 00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:55,200 Speaker 1: said to my girlfriend, not future casting, right, because manifestation 226 00:16:55,360 --> 00:16:59,520 Speaker 1: is not about future casting. It's about setting your intentions. 227 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:05,280 Speaker 1: You know, the past is done, the present is happening, 228 00:17:05,280 --> 00:17:08,879 Speaker 1: in the future is unknown. We can still desire and 229 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:12,080 Speaker 1: have desires for things that are we hope to come. 230 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:17,040 Speaker 1: But I find that I prefer to manifest than hope 231 00:17:17,040 --> 00:17:23,159 Speaker 1: because manifesting, to me requires more action and intention. And 232 00:17:23,200 --> 00:17:25,760 Speaker 1: so I wish for all of you the ability to 233 00:17:25,800 --> 00:17:33,120 Speaker 1: manifest your intentions and the space to do that, and 234 00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:37,600 Speaker 1: the care that it takes, the self care that it 235 00:17:37,640 --> 00:17:43,760 Speaker 1: takes in order to make that happen. So, dear friends, now, 236 00:17:43,960 --> 00:17:50,280 Speaker 1: with the minutes that we have left, I want to 237 00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:53,960 Speaker 1: think about you know, I do this and I'm sure 238 00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:56,680 Speaker 1: many of you do this too, with your family and friends. 239 00:17:57,000 --> 00:18:00,600 Speaker 1: I like to do roses and thorns, right, the roses 240 00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:03,959 Speaker 1: and thorns of the year, And we're going to do 241 00:18:04,000 --> 00:18:07,960 Speaker 1: this the political style, the roses and thorns of this year, 242 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:12,239 Speaker 1: because my God, so much has happened. And I you know, 243 00:18:12,320 --> 00:18:14,600 Speaker 1: I'm one of those people that do love watching all 244 00:18:14,600 --> 00:18:17,879 Speaker 1: the year in review shows because so much happens that 245 00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:22,480 Speaker 1: you actually forget, and it's good to be reminded all 246 00:18:22,560 --> 00:18:24,560 Speaker 1: of the times that we thought that we were not 247 00:18:24,800 --> 00:18:26,879 Speaker 1: going to get through, that we were not going to 248 00:18:26,920 --> 00:18:29,520 Speaker 1: get to the other side, that we did. And I 249 00:18:29,560 --> 00:18:32,040 Speaker 1: think that that's one of the powerful things about years 250 00:18:32,040 --> 00:18:39,880 Speaker 1: in review. So roses and thorns, because chronologically I will 251 00:18:39,920 --> 00:18:43,399 Speaker 1: never remember all of the things that have happened. A 252 00:18:43,600 --> 00:18:48,520 Speaker 1: thorn of twenty twenty two was the overturning of Rob 253 00:18:48,640 --> 00:18:55,679 Speaker 1: Wade fifty years of precedent, a woman and people with 254 00:18:55,840 --> 00:19:06,600 Speaker 1: Uterus's bodily autonomy just gone. And I have admonished people 255 00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:09,760 Speaker 1: for not taking to the streets and staying in the 256 00:19:09,840 --> 00:19:13,000 Speaker 1: streets in the way frankly that the Iranian women and 257 00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:17,320 Speaker 1: young people are in order to make it known that 258 00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:22,800 Speaker 1: they will not be overrun be told what they can 259 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:28,120 Speaker 1: and cannot do. That was a real thorn of the year. 260 00:19:29,359 --> 00:19:38,639 Speaker 1: To state it mildly, the Rose mid term elections. The 261 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:43,359 Speaker 1: polsters were wrong again. There was no red fucking wave. 262 00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:49,600 Speaker 1: There wasn't even a red drip. Americans, particularly gen Z, 263 00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:55,080 Speaker 1: people of color, black women, did the work that needed 264 00:19:55,119 --> 00:19:57,240 Speaker 1: to be done and showed up at the polls in 265 00:19:57,440 --> 00:20:01,440 Speaker 1: mass Why because democracy. He was on the line. Their 266 00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:06,119 Speaker 1: lives were on the line. And while mainstream media wanted 267 00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:08,880 Speaker 1: us to believe that, oh no, it's just the economy 268 00:20:08,920 --> 00:20:11,360 Speaker 1: and people only care about their gas tank. No, no, 269 00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:15,840 Speaker 1: people actually care about democracy. The election deniers did not 270 00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:19,720 Speaker 1: win office in the way that they wanted to. Donald 271 00:20:19,760 --> 00:20:22,000 Speaker 1: Trump does not have the Midas touch. As a matter 272 00:20:22,040 --> 00:20:24,800 Speaker 1: of fact, everything that he touches turns into a lawsuit 273 00:20:24,880 --> 00:20:30,480 Speaker 1: or shit. So that is the highlight that there is 274 00:20:30,520 --> 00:20:34,119 Speaker 1: still a spark in all of us. The fight in 275 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:37,960 Speaker 1: all of us to hold on to our democracy, and 276 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:40,120 Speaker 1: I hope that it continues, because I will tell you 277 00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:46,280 Speaker 1: that the push for authoritarianism and fascism hasn't gone away 278 00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:52,480 Speaker 1: and hasn't eased up, and neither can we another thorn 279 00:20:54,080 --> 00:21:01,200 Speaker 1: climate change run amok. We saw three quarters of Pakistan underwater. 280 00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:09,480 Speaker 1: We have seen extreme weather across this country. In Nigeria, 281 00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 1: in remote places, in close places, every single storm and 282 00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:25,520 Speaker 1: fire was historic. And the rose in that is that 283 00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:27,879 Speaker 1: I think that people are starting to wake up and 284 00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:31,080 Speaker 1: realize that climate change is in something that is impending, 285 00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:35,000 Speaker 1: it is actually happening. And it's one of the reasons 286 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:39,439 Speaker 1: why Generations Z came out in mass for midterm elections 287 00:21:39,560 --> 00:21:43,640 Speaker 1: because they're like, we're inheriting this planet that you all 288 00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:49,080 Speaker 1: are turning into a fucking trash heap. And there is 289 00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:53,359 Speaker 1: no debate with our generation about whether or not it exists. 290 00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:55,720 Speaker 1: It's like, how long is it going to take you 291 00:21:55,840 --> 00:21:57,640 Speaker 1: all to get the fuck out of the way so 292 00:21:57,680 --> 00:22:01,520 Speaker 1: we can actually do something about it? So that to 293 00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:12,679 Speaker 1: me is a rose a thorn. So many mass shootings, 294 00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:19,919 Speaker 1: so many mass shootings from Buffalo to Uvaldi to Club 295 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:28,080 Speaker 1: Q and to the countless countless shootings in between. America 296 00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:37,480 Speaker 1: is sick. America has an obscene addiction to guns to violence. 297 00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:48,479 Speaker 1: The Rose. President Biden pass gun safety legislation. Gun safety 298 00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:51,840 Speaker 1: legislation hasn't been passed in this country for decades. Do 299 00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:54,919 Speaker 1: I think that it went far enough? No? I don't. 300 00:22:55,720 --> 00:23:00,560 Speaker 1: Did it ban assault rifles? No it didn't. It did 301 00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:04,680 Speaker 1: some things, and so for that you get a rose. 302 00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:15,480 Speaker 1: America's infrastructure crumbling so many ways, Thorn, And guess what. 303 00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:18,400 Speaker 1: The infrastructure is only going to get beaten down more 304 00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:24,240 Speaker 1: by what? Climate change? The Rose. The Biden administration did 305 00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:26,439 Speaker 1: what the Trump administration said they were going to do 306 00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:29,880 Speaker 1: but never did, which was actually pass an infrastructure bill 307 00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:36,919 Speaker 1: that will begin to reshape this country and make investments 308 00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:51,440 Speaker 1: right into smart technology, green technology, sustainable energies. So for that, 309 00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:59,200 Speaker 1: get a rose. Donald Trump. Thorn has continued his crime 310 00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:03,399 Speaker 1: spree against to America, ending the year with selling NFTs 311 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:06,879 Speaker 1: which are now funny enough losing value, as is Donald Trump. 312 00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:12,919 Speaker 1: So that makes sense. And another thorn is will Merritt 313 00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:16,879 Speaker 1: Garland do what he needs to do? The Rose being 314 00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:22,000 Speaker 1: the January sixth Bipartisan Committee did they laid out with 315 00:24:22,160 --> 00:24:29,520 Speaker 1: ten hearings a million plus documents, hundreds of interviews. Donald 316 00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:32,879 Speaker 1: Trump knew what he was doing. This wasn't an accident. 317 00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:36,840 Speaker 1: January sixth wasn't an accident. It was planned. It was 318 00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:42,360 Speaker 1: premeditated and done so at the behest of the criminal 319 00:24:42,400 --> 00:24:45,439 Speaker 1: in chief, who wanted to thwart the will of the 320 00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:50,960 Speaker 1: people and overturn a free and fair election. I can 321 00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:56,280 Speaker 1: think of no greater crime than to not prosecute Donald Trump. 322 00:24:56,520 --> 00:25:02,359 Speaker 1: I don't even care if they lose. Want them to try, 323 00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:07,959 Speaker 1: because the trying will say more about this country than 324 00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:15,240 Speaker 1: ignoring it all together. Folks, there were so many ups 325 00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:25,399 Speaker 1: and downs, and you know, we got a little air 326 00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:31,240 Speaker 1: back in our sales with the midterm elections. No, we 327 00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:35,560 Speaker 1: didn't keep the House, but they didn't really gain the 328 00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:39,600 Speaker 1: House either. Anything can happen to five members of Congress 329 00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:44,440 Speaker 1: just saying, and it has in the past, and so 330 00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:51,880 Speaker 1: their margin of victory yes, very slim. What I believe, 331 00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:56,920 Speaker 1: dear friends, is that America is and has been, at 332 00:25:56,920 --> 00:26:03,040 Speaker 1: a crossroads. It needs to reckon with its past in 333 00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:07,879 Speaker 1: order to understand its present and chart its future. Whether 334 00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:11,600 Speaker 1: or not we actually do that, I don't know. But 335 00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:15,440 Speaker 1: what I have said before, unwokeapp is that I've let 336 00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:19,720 Speaker 1: go of my ego in this work. I've let go 337 00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:24,159 Speaker 1: of the belief that I'm going to see all of 338 00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:27,320 Speaker 1: the freedoms and the rights and the perfection of this 339 00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:31,560 Speaker 1: union that I want to see in my lifetime. But 340 00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:33,840 Speaker 1: the work that I am doing, that each of us 341 00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:36,560 Speaker 1: are doing, with the platforms that we have created and 342 00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:41,240 Speaker 1: that have been provided for us, is to move that needle, 343 00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:47,879 Speaker 1: is to bend that arc even further. And so I 344 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:50,200 Speaker 1: wish for you all at the end of this year, 345 00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:58,760 Speaker 1: rest restoration, rejuvenation, so that we can continue the work 346 00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:06,119 Speaker 1: together to secure and to fortify our democracy for generations 347 00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:13,719 Speaker 1: to come. I can't thank you all enough for allowing 348 00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:17,080 Speaker 1: me to do what it is I believe that I 349 00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:20,760 Speaker 1: am called to do, which is to be a messenger, 350 00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:24,760 Speaker 1: which is to use the platform that I have by 351 00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:28,160 Speaker 1: virtue of you all tuning in each and every day, 352 00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:32,800 Speaker 1: following me, tweeting at me, listening to the show, sharing 353 00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:37,679 Speaker 1: the shows, giving me the energy to do the work 354 00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:41,359 Speaker 1: that I believe that I was called to do, which 355 00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:44,640 Speaker 1: is wake people up to their power and to their purpose. 356 00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:48,760 Speaker 1: And once they are woke, then they will take their 357 00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:52,680 Speaker 1: energy to wake up more people. If all of us 358 00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:59,720 Speaker 1: right decide that it is our jobs to educate those. 359 00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:05,520 Speaker 1: Once we become educated, to activate those. Once we become activated, 360 00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:11,119 Speaker 1: Then I believe that we will make it that we 361 00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:14,680 Speaker 1: will win. And what does winning look like. It looks 362 00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:20,359 Speaker 1: like a secure democracy. It looks like children and adults 363 00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:24,359 Speaker 1: being able to live free in their skin. It looks 364 00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:29,040 Speaker 1: like people being able to love and declare that love 365 00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:38,280 Speaker 1: to whomever, wherever. It looks like bodily autonomy. It looks 366 00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:41,600 Speaker 1: like the best person getting the job, not the person 367 00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:46,960 Speaker 1: with the most connections and the greatest wealth. It looks 368 00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:51,000 Speaker 1: like being able to rest while also having the ability 369 00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:54,240 Speaker 1: to provide for yourself and for those that you love. 370 00:28:57,680 --> 00:29:04,480 Speaker 1: It looks like being and receiving love and sharing love. 371 00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:12,320 Speaker 1: Thank you all for an amazing twenty twenty two. I 372 00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:18,760 Speaker 1: will see you all in the new year. As always, 373 00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:22,240 Speaker 1: Power to the people and to all the people. Power, 374 00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:27,640 Speaker 1: Get woke and stay woke as fuck. Happy holidays, friends,