WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: Date Night Detour + Barista Foam Job 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:02.320 Oh my god, the to do list is so long 0:00:02.400 --> 0:00:06.280 on a Saturday before Thanksgiving. Ooh go, we're here for you, 0:00:06.519 --> 0:00:08.680 just so you know. It's Brook and Jeffrey and we've 0:00:08.720 --> 0:00:11.480 got two back to back classics for you, so you 0:00:11.520 --> 0:00:13.600 can just get done whatever you need to get done 0:00:13.640 --> 0:00:16.279 and not think too hard about it. Yeah, we love that. 0:00:16.360 --> 0:00:18.640 We hope you enjoy it, and we love to start 0:00:18.640 --> 0:00:20.200 with a comment from one of our listeners. 0:00:20.280 --> 0:00:24.200 Yes, actually it's from one of our show friends, Jamie Glassman. 0:00:24.440 --> 0:00:25.680 Jamie the artist. 0:00:26.000 --> 0:00:31.760 Yes, Jamie has drawn and painted us multiple different caricatures 0:00:32.000 --> 0:00:32.960 and portraits. 0:00:33.080 --> 0:00:35.960 And Jamie, if you're listening your fairy god. 0:00:36.000 --> 0:00:36.920 That's fairly odd parents. 0:00:37.159 --> 0:00:39.720 Fairly odd parents drawing me is still my discord. It's 0:00:39.760 --> 0:00:40.920 still the Giggle Gang. 0:00:42.479 --> 0:00:44.840 I have one of her drawings up in my office, 0:00:44.920 --> 0:00:47.400 right yeah, really odd parents is top one. Yeah, yeah, 0:00:48.080 --> 0:00:49.200 it's really cute. 0:00:49.600 --> 0:00:53.560 But anyways, sorry, not just jam Jamie did comment okay 0:00:53.680 --> 0:00:56.520 and said, I've been listening for almost ten years and 0:00:56.600 --> 0:00:59.880 I've converted my dad and I'm trying to convert my sister. 0:01:00.080 --> 0:01:01.120 Oh you can do it, Jamie. 0:01:01.200 --> 0:01:04.240 We believe it, you believe you. Just turn it on. 0:01:04.319 --> 0:01:06.160 In the background, whenever you're around him. 0:01:07.040 --> 0:01:08.880 All right, Hey, thanks for being here and for all 0:01:08.880 --> 0:01:11.640 the love, Jamie, and your back to back classics start 0:01:11.720 --> 0:01:12.120 right now. 0:01:13.480 --> 0:01:16.160 I always hear people say there's a lot of weirdos 0:01:16.200 --> 0:01:19.600 on the dating apps. Yeah, yeah, Well guess what, after 0:01:19.640 --> 0:01:21.880 today's call, you're gonna think there's a lot of weirdos 0:01:21.880 --> 0:01:22.720 in real life too. 0:01:22.920 --> 0:01:25.280 Ah Okay, wait, I think they already do that if 0:01:25.319 --> 0:01:26.080 they listen to the show. 0:01:26.160 --> 0:01:28.039 Well, that's for sure. I say that because of the 0:01:28.120 --> 0:01:30.880 last second surprise that one of our listeners had for 0:01:30.920 --> 0:01:33.360 the woman that he went out with. And if you 0:01:33.400 --> 0:01:37.800 asked a million people, not one would say, yeah, I 0:01:37.840 --> 0:01:40.800 think that's a good, well thought out idea. You should 0:01:40.800 --> 0:01:43.679 totally go through with them. Oh boy, you're gonna hear 0:01:43.720 --> 0:01:46.240 it in your second date update coming up right after 0:01:46.280 --> 0:01:52.280 this second date update, Where's the worst place to take 0:01:52.320 --> 0:01:53.880 a woman on a first date? 0:01:54.680 --> 0:01:55.360 The worst? 0:01:56.120 --> 0:01:58.160 Brook and Jeffrey in the morning home of the Second 0:01:58.200 --> 0:02:00.720 Date update? But I mean, garbage. 0:02:01.000 --> 0:02:02.560 Are you going to give us options? Because I have 0:02:02.640 --> 0:02:03.160 some ideas? 0:02:03.440 --> 0:02:09.200 Yeah, I mean crematorium comes to mind. The garbage, especially 0:02:09.280 --> 0:02:13.280 if you talked about having barbecue already that gosh. 0:02:14.520 --> 0:02:16.240 Smoky flavor is always. 0:02:17.639 --> 0:02:20.200 There is something that might be worse than that. 0:02:20.560 --> 0:02:22.239 There's no way, Jeff Well. 0:02:22.160 --> 0:02:23.880 I was gonna say, chure Nobyl, but you know what, 0:02:24.000 --> 0:02:27.560 Let's okay, let's talk to our listener, Reht because he 0:02:27.720 --> 0:02:32.559 thinks he may have taken his date someplace pretty regrettable crematorium. 0:02:35.080 --> 0:02:36.240 I mean, that's all you have to do is come 0:02:36.240 --> 0:02:37.919 on our show and you'll feel better by comparison. 0:02:38.440 --> 0:02:40.640 Before we find out about this woman, just tell us 0:02:40.639 --> 0:02:41.840 the place that you took her. 0:02:42.440 --> 0:02:44.760 Yeah, I took her to my ex's house. 0:02:45.040 --> 0:02:47.960 Oh god, what I am? 0:02:48.440 --> 0:02:51.000 Okay, Yeah, we got a backup, not even like the 0:02:51.040 --> 0:02:52.519 restaurant where my ex works. 0:02:52.800 --> 0:02:55.079 Yeah, I know the bad idea. 0:02:55.120 --> 0:02:58.880 Now, okay, it's good that you realize that. But let's 0:02:58.880 --> 0:03:01.720 go back and start from the beginning. Where did you 0:03:01.840 --> 0:03:03.639 meet this woman? And what's her name? 0:03:03.800 --> 0:03:04.480 And not your ask? 0:03:04.919 --> 0:03:05.959 You actually took. 0:03:05.720 --> 0:03:09.280 Out the girl that I took out. Her name's Christina. 0:03:09.440 --> 0:03:13.000 We met at a hiking club, a small group of 0:03:13.000 --> 0:03:15.680 people that get together and take hikes on the weekend. 0:03:15.840 --> 0:03:17.720 Let me guess you reached for the same cashew in 0:03:17.760 --> 0:03:20.520 the bag of trail mix, and that's cute. 0:03:23.960 --> 0:03:25.959 How did you turn it from hiking to a date. 0:03:26.600 --> 0:03:29.119 So we're both cat people. So that's kind of how 0:03:29.160 --> 0:03:31.560 we came together a little bit on that. 0:03:31.800 --> 0:03:38.400 Okay, okay, bond hiking and cat people. Yeah, that's true. 0:03:38.440 --> 0:03:40.680 So I mean you guys had a pretty good relationship then, 0:03:40.720 --> 0:03:44.760 probably before you actually moved into the romantic world, right, Yeah. 0:03:44.800 --> 0:03:46.440 I mean we had tons of talks, and I mean 0:03:46.480 --> 0:03:49.480 I showed her tons of pictures. My cat's name is Sorbet. 0:03:49.960 --> 0:03:52.720 So I set up a date at my house to 0:03:52.840 --> 0:03:53.840 help meet my cat. 0:03:53.960 --> 0:03:56.200 Okay, I like how you said your house. That's good. 0:03:56.720 --> 0:03:59.440 Yeah, we were gonna make pizzas at my place. I 0:03:59.440 --> 0:04:03.640 got a face empty pizza oven. Nice, so we wanted 0:04:03.640 --> 0:04:06.120 to do that. Introduced her to the cat. She looked 0:04:06.160 --> 0:04:09.960 real nice. We didn't burn anything. That's usually a good sign. 0:04:10.080 --> 0:04:11.800 I mean, were you able to have because you guys 0:04:11.840 --> 0:04:13.640 had been friends already, were you able to have like 0:04:13.680 --> 0:04:15.200 some flirty moments. 0:04:15.080 --> 0:04:17.440 Like come up behind her and need the pizza, like 0:04:17.680 --> 0:04:20.240 show her like grab her hands and show her, show 0:04:20.240 --> 0:04:20.960 her how to toss it. 0:04:21.320 --> 0:04:24.280 Yeah, we got like a little ghost moment with the pizza. 0:04:24.360 --> 0:04:26.720 Do not say you did that. 0:04:27.320 --> 0:04:30.039 I'm just kidding. Yeah, it was still flirty. A little 0:04:30.040 --> 0:04:32.719 flower getting everywhere, but nothing crazy. 0:04:32.360 --> 0:04:35.599 Oh yeah, all right, that's cute. I mean it sounds 0:04:35.640 --> 0:04:37.200 like a setup to a great evening. 0:04:37.560 --> 0:04:39.360 Yeah, it sounds like a great setup to go over 0:04:39.400 --> 0:04:42.279 to your ex's house, because how does that come into 0:04:42.279 --> 0:04:42.719 the picture. 0:04:43.160 --> 0:04:46.400 So, I mean I kept calling for the cat. The 0:04:46.440 --> 0:04:48.960 cat likes to hide when new people are there, so 0:04:49.000 --> 0:04:52.080 I figured they needed a little bit of time to 0:04:52.080 --> 0:04:52.880 get used to her. 0:04:53.000 --> 0:04:55.359 And right, I mean, cats notoriously don't come when you 0:04:55.400 --> 0:04:57.440 call them, you know, right. 0:04:57.520 --> 0:05:00.880 And then I remembered that I actually had dropped the 0:05:00.920 --> 0:05:03.480 cat off at the cat moms that morning. 0:05:03.600 --> 0:05:06.400 What do you remembered? 0:05:07.120 --> 0:05:10.040 You and your ex split custody of your cat. 0:05:10.800 --> 0:05:13.000 Yeah, yeah, I mean it was kind of a contentious 0:05:13.040 --> 0:05:15.320 part of the breakup there, but I mean we're good now. 0:05:15.560 --> 0:05:18.920 How could you forget that? It was the whole date center? 0:05:19.360 --> 0:05:19.760 Did I go? 0:05:21.320 --> 0:05:23.320 That makes you look so bad? You're a cat dad 0:05:23.320 --> 0:05:25.320 that doesn't remember where he left his cat. 0:05:26.200 --> 0:05:28.920 I had a pretty busy day and it split my mind. 0:05:28.960 --> 0:05:30.720 I mean I had all the things to worry about. 0:05:30.800 --> 0:05:33.520 Okay, okay, that is a lot to tackle, both pepperoni 0:05:33.600 --> 0:05:37.440 and cheese, So I can understand your head was totally full. 0:05:37.880 --> 0:05:39.880 I still don't get how did you end up at 0:05:39.880 --> 0:05:40.640 your ex's house? 0:05:41.160 --> 0:05:44.040 So right after we ate, I was pretty disappointed that 0:05:44.080 --> 0:05:45.359 she couldn't meet Sorbet. 0:05:45.640 --> 0:05:47.960 Yeah, okay, yeah, but just chalk it up and you 0:05:48.000 --> 0:05:49.960 make a plan for the next time, right. 0:05:50.120 --> 0:05:51.800 Yeah, I wish I would have done that. That's a 0:05:51.839 --> 0:05:55.760 good point. On our way home, I just figured i'd 0:05:55.960 --> 0:05:58.679 swing by my exes and introduce her to Sorbet. 0:05:58.800 --> 0:06:00.719 No making her home. 0:06:00.839 --> 0:06:03.640 You brought Christina over to your ex's house. 0:06:03.720 --> 0:06:06.520 Oh no, it sounds really bad when you say it 0:06:06.600 --> 0:06:08.159 like that. 0:06:08.279 --> 0:06:12.039 You didn't warn either woman. So you show up unexpectedly 0:06:12.080 --> 0:06:15.159 with a date on your ex's door and Christina doesn't 0:06:15.200 --> 0:06:16.440 even know that's where she's going. 0:06:16.960 --> 0:06:19.240 Yeah, but usually my ex is pretty cool if I 0:06:19.279 --> 0:06:21.440 need to sling by and see the cat, you know. 0:06:24.880 --> 0:06:25.279 Yeah. 0:06:26.760 --> 0:06:29.400 So, I mean when when we showed up, it was fine, 0:06:29.720 --> 0:06:32.239 but I could kind of tell that she wasn't really 0:06:32.279 --> 0:06:35.880 digging it. X wasn't really happy that we showed up, 0:06:36.360 --> 0:06:37.679 uh to see the cat? 0:06:37.920 --> 0:06:38.400 Yeah? 0:06:38.440 --> 0:06:38.800 Really? 0:06:39.040 --> 0:06:39.880 Yeah shocking. 0:06:40.080 --> 0:06:42.200 I can see why you you guys broke up. She's 0:06:42.240 --> 0:06:43.520 not not accepting woman. 0:06:43.760 --> 0:06:44.840 Yeah, that's it. 0:06:45.040 --> 0:06:47.440 Yeah, it was a lot of silence and patting the 0:06:47.480 --> 0:06:50.039 cat on the couch, and it was real awkward. She 0:06:50.160 --> 0:06:52.000 was just staring at my date the whole time. 0:06:52.960 --> 0:06:54.640 You're all sitting on the couch together. 0:06:54.760 --> 0:06:57.080 Why did I imagine this just at a doorstep? 0:06:57.200 --> 0:06:57.880 You know what I mean? 0:06:57.960 --> 0:06:58.840 Like say hi to the cat. 0:06:58.880 --> 0:07:01.799 Then everybody parts you like a scene to a funny movie. 0:07:01.920 --> 0:07:02.880 You're inside. 0:07:03.000 --> 0:07:04.840 Okay, So you guys all spent the night at your 0:07:04.839 --> 0:07:06.920 ex's house and then when you left the next morning, 0:07:06.920 --> 0:07:07.479 how did that go? 0:07:07.920 --> 0:07:09.240 That didn't happen? Thank god? 0:07:09.480 --> 0:07:10.080 Okay, good. 0:07:10.480 --> 0:07:13.280 The whole time ended in like a real big fight. 0:07:14.080 --> 0:07:16.480 Wait, a fight with who you in the ex or what? 0:07:16.680 --> 0:07:17.240 You and the cat? 0:07:17.600 --> 0:07:21.160 Everybody kind of ended up shouting, yeah, Christina didn't like 0:07:21.640 --> 0:07:24.320 my ex is being rude, my my accident, like that 0:07:24.400 --> 0:07:26.440 I brought a girl there. It was It was the 0:07:26.480 --> 0:07:26.960 whole thing. 0:07:28.480 --> 0:07:31.800 Why are you wanting to call this girl again? Christina 0:07:31.840 --> 0:07:33.360 doesn't want to have anything. 0:07:32.960 --> 0:07:33.560 To do with you. 0:07:33.880 --> 0:07:36.680 Yeah, but your show says you help people get second 0:07:36.720 --> 0:07:37.320 dates and. 0:07:38.120 --> 0:07:40.600 The Apostle miracle workers over here. 0:07:40.640 --> 0:07:43.280 But oh my gosh, can I just ask when you 0:07:43.360 --> 0:07:45.720 drop Christina off at her door, what was the last 0:07:45.720 --> 0:07:46.600 thing she said to you? 0:07:47.360 --> 0:07:50.200 She actually gave me the finger, but I don't think 0:07:50.240 --> 0:07:51.000 she mentioned. 0:07:53.120 --> 0:07:55.000 If it's a finger that I'm thinking of, then it 0:07:55.040 --> 0:08:02.520 could be a good thing. Took the right and the wow. 0:08:02.440 --> 0:08:05.440 She was emotional. Now that we've had some space, it's 0:08:05.480 --> 0:08:07.280 been about a week or so, so I figured we 0:08:07.320 --> 0:08:09.240 could give it another shot and you guys could help 0:08:09.280 --> 0:08:09.600 me out. 0:08:09.680 --> 0:08:12.080 Guys, at least this will be a great story, right, Yeah, 0:08:12.440 --> 0:08:16.320 I'm very eager to hear how Christina felt the experience. 0:08:16.800 --> 0:08:17.920 This one was gonna be cussing. 0:08:18.200 --> 0:08:19.960 We don't know. We're gonna call her, we'll see how 0:08:20.000 --> 0:08:22.880 she's doing, but we knew your second date update right 0:08:22.920 --> 0:08:29.360 after this second date update. What went wrong on Rhett's 0:08:29.480 --> 0:08:35.040 first date a little hard to say because there was Pizza's, 0:08:35.520 --> 0:08:39.400 there was cute cats, and the one tiny mistake and 0:08:39.440 --> 0:08:42.640 when I say tiny, I mean like minuscule. There was 0:08:42.880 --> 0:08:46.280 kind of a fight at his ex's house that involved him, 0:08:46.400 --> 0:08:50.839 his date, and his ex girlfriend, resulting at the end 0:08:50.880 --> 0:08:53.880 in a certain finger being pointed at Rhett when he 0:08:54.000 --> 0:08:55.480 dropped Christina off at home. 0:08:55.559 --> 0:08:57.559 And it wasn't a proposal with the wedding ring. 0:08:58.720 --> 0:09:03.960 Other than that, though a plus date. Really you would agree, right, Yeah? 0:09:04.000 --> 0:09:06.040 Other than all of that, I guess it was fine. 0:09:08.280 --> 0:09:11.000 Okay, okay, wait, I have a question. Have you had 0:09:11.000 --> 0:09:13.640 a chance to apologize to Christina. 0:09:14.280 --> 0:09:16.840 Well, that's the biggest thing is I just haven't seen 0:09:16.880 --> 0:09:20.120 her in the hiking group at all, and it's not 0:09:20.200 --> 0:09:23.080 often you get to go from friends into dating. So 0:09:23.120 --> 0:09:25.280 I just I didn't want to mess that up. 0:09:25.840 --> 0:09:28.200 Yeah, yeah, and you didn't. 0:09:28.280 --> 0:09:31.719 I'm sure necessarily think you're the one who needs to apologize. 0:09:31.760 --> 0:09:34.840 It sounds like your ex girlfriend owes her an apology 0:09:34.920 --> 0:09:35.959 for not being cool about that. 0:09:36.240 --> 0:09:38.520 He needs to apologize to both women. 0:09:41.480 --> 0:09:41.720 House. 0:09:41.880 --> 0:09:45.040 You can't bring a date to your ex's house, especially unannounced. 0:09:45.720 --> 0:09:48.800 I don't know who does that. I'm just clearly read 0:09:48.840 --> 0:09:51.360 as somebody that wants everybody to get along. Feels like 0:09:51.559 --> 0:09:55.320 you should be able to move past ex grievances the ladies, 0:09:55.440 --> 0:09:57.480 I don't know why you guys are holding onto this like. 0:09:57.440 --> 0:09:59.280 It's a big deal your ex shows up at your 0:09:59.280 --> 0:09:59.720 house today. 0:10:00.640 --> 0:10:05.400 I don't have one, all right, But we don't know 0:10:05.440 --> 0:10:07.600 the whole story. We have a hunch of what went wrong. 0:10:07.720 --> 0:10:10.360 We need to get Christina's angle to really understand the 0:10:10.360 --> 0:10:10.839 full scope. 0:10:11.080 --> 0:10:12.920 I can't wait to hear her story, and the thing 0:10:13.000 --> 0:10:15.040 is is that you actually sound like a really nice 0:10:15.080 --> 0:10:17.480 guy that just made dumb choices. 0:10:18.080 --> 0:10:20.680 Yeah. I'm just a really nice guy who made one 0:10:20.800 --> 0:10:23.360 dumb choice, and I told you the whole story. 0:10:23.679 --> 0:10:26.360 Okay, yeah, but her perspective is going to be interesting. 0:10:26.920 --> 0:10:29.480 Yeah, perspective. Well, let's find out what that is. I'm 0:10:29.480 --> 0:10:32.160 going to dial her right now. Hopefully she has nothing 0:10:32.200 --> 0:10:32.880 but good things to. 0:10:32.800 --> 0:10:34.880 Say about you, or she doesn't just cuss at us 0:10:34.880 --> 0:10:35.320 and hang up. 0:10:35.480 --> 0:10:37.960 Okay, we'll see how this goes. I'm dialing she flips 0:10:38.000 --> 0:10:40.200 us off as she answers the phone able to see it, 0:10:40.720 --> 0:10:49.840 we'll be able to feel it here. Hello, Hey is 0:10:49.840 --> 0:10:57.480 this Christina? Yeah, Hey Christina, good morning. We've all been 0:10:57.640 --> 0:10:59.720 very eager to talk to you. Where a radio show 0:11:00.040 --> 0:11:04.400 called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, And I don't 0:11:04.440 --> 0:11:05.160 even know where to begin. 0:11:05.920 --> 0:11:07.120 Christina, how are you doing. 0:11:08.480 --> 0:11:08.840 Fine? 0:11:09.000 --> 0:11:11.600 What is this? 0:11:10.880 --> 0:11:11.040 Yeah? 0:11:11.080 --> 0:11:14.679 This is a radio show and we're doing a segment 0:11:14.760 --> 0:11:16.560 trying to help out one of our listeners that you 0:11:16.559 --> 0:11:20.680 went on a date with recently. His name is Rhett. 0:11:21.040 --> 0:11:24.640 Uh what Yeah? 0:11:23.720 --> 0:11:26.760 Yeah, I mean, actually that's a better response than I 0:11:26.800 --> 0:11:29.880 expected from you. To be honest, I'm being serious. 0:11:29.559 --> 0:11:32.559 Because we heard about your guys' hangout. We won't rehash 0:11:32.640 --> 0:11:33.320 the whole story. 0:11:33.440 --> 0:11:37.160 Wait a second, Yeah, yeah, he emailed us. 0:11:37.400 --> 0:11:41.200 Why is he doing that? Well, obviously because he likes you. 0:11:42.080 --> 0:11:44.440 Well, I mean just that, like you guys were friends 0:11:44.440 --> 0:11:46.679 in the hiking group and then and then you had 0:11:46.679 --> 0:11:48.840 one date and he knows he screwed it up. 0:11:49.200 --> 0:11:49.400 Yeah. 0:11:49.480 --> 0:11:51.280 Can I just hear the story? Like I want to 0:11:51.280 --> 0:11:53.520 hear from your perspective, Like, you show up to his 0:11:53.600 --> 0:11:55.880 ex's house. Did you know that's where you were going? 0:11:56.480 --> 0:11:56.560 No? 0:11:56.760 --> 0:11:58.679 He was like, Oh, I've got something to show you. 0:11:58.760 --> 0:11:59.920 I really want you to see that. 0:12:01.080 --> 0:12:02.480 I've fallen before. 0:12:04.200 --> 0:12:06.760 Yeah, okay, I mean at first I just thought it 0:12:06.800 --> 0:12:08.960 was like his friend or something. I didn't realize it 0:12:09.000 --> 0:12:11.480 was his X. And then when we get into this argument, 0:12:11.559 --> 0:12:13.720 she called me, ah. 0:12:13.280 --> 0:12:18.800 Oh god, okay, but what will go from petting the 0:12:18.920 --> 0:12:20.079 cat to that diet? 0:12:20.200 --> 0:12:24.920 Some major insecurity issues or jumping because she was like, oh, 0:12:24.920 --> 0:12:26.440 do you know what he likes? Because I know what 0:12:26.480 --> 0:12:26.920 he likes? 0:12:27.000 --> 0:12:31.320 Oh god, okay, we did not know that part of 0:12:31.360 --> 0:12:31.800 the story. 0:12:32.080 --> 0:12:34.240 Yeah, Like I said, she yelled at me and called 0:12:34.240 --> 0:12:34.440 me a. 0:12:34.920 --> 0:12:38.400 What did Yes, he was. 0:12:38.440 --> 0:12:41.160 Yealing back at her. It was just it was so dramatic, 0:12:41.200 --> 0:12:42.479 and if this is the first. 0:12:42.280 --> 0:12:45.640 Date, yeah, okay, I'm gonna tell you on the thirty 0:12:45.760 --> 0:12:47.480 second date that would not be okay. 0:12:47.720 --> 0:12:50.400 Look, I I know that we all feel terrible about that. 0:12:50.600 --> 0:12:53.840 Rhett feels sorry for even making the decision to bring 0:12:53.880 --> 0:12:54.480 you over there. 0:12:54.840 --> 0:12:57.520 Yeah, I mean, he honestly sounds like a nice guy 0:12:57.559 --> 0:12:58.800 that made a dumb choice. 0:12:58.960 --> 0:13:02.760 I don't know he lied to me, okay, that like 0:13:02.760 --> 0:13:05.640 about bringing you over there to introduce you to his cat. 0:13:05.800 --> 0:13:08.480 No before that, so I knew him from hiking, Like 0:13:08.520 --> 0:13:11.040 we hiked together with like a group and we were 0:13:11.040 --> 0:13:14.120 talking about our cats, and he told me that Sorbet 0:13:14.640 --> 0:13:18.560 is five and my cat is five two. So I 0:13:18.600 --> 0:13:20.719 was like, oh, that's cool, to the same age. But 0:13:20.760 --> 0:13:26.000 then his ex told me that Sorbet is nine. 0:13:27.120 --> 0:13:27.559 I don't know. 0:13:31.800 --> 0:13:32.880 The name Colin. 0:13:32.720 --> 0:13:35.760 White doesn't loost a five year difference. That's crazy, Okay. 0:13:36.240 --> 0:13:38.360 That was worse to you than the argument that broke 0:13:38.400 --> 0:13:40.560 out between the three years. 0:13:40.760 --> 0:13:43.320 Honestly, I think that he lied about his cat's age 0:13:43.360 --> 0:13:44.960 on purpose. I think he was trying to say that 0:13:44.960 --> 0:13:46.400 it was the same age as my cat so that 0:13:46.480 --> 0:13:47.240 they would get along. 0:13:47.360 --> 0:13:49.520 Okay, I mean we do hear a lot of people 0:13:49.600 --> 0:13:52.320 lying about their age on dating apps to impress somebody, 0:13:52.360 --> 0:13:55.120 not usually lying about their cat's age to impress each other. 0:13:55.200 --> 0:13:57.360 But well, yeah, but like that's important to me. 0:13:57.679 --> 0:13:58.959 I have something to say here. 0:14:00.080 --> 0:14:01.079 I'm not friend. 0:14:01.280 --> 0:14:02.640 You shut your mouth, you liar. 0:14:02.760 --> 0:14:05.400 I really hope you would, because we need to tell you, 0:14:05.480 --> 0:14:07.560 Christina that Red's been on the other line listening to 0:14:07.600 --> 0:14:10.040 this call, wanting to clearly speak. 0:14:10.080 --> 0:14:11.520 And hopefully apologize. 0:14:12.000 --> 0:14:14.319 Well, yeah, I mean I'm gonna apologize for the fight, 0:14:14.400 --> 0:14:16.920 but not not for my cat being a different age. 0:14:17.040 --> 0:14:22.280 I mean, those are just details. 0:14:19.640 --> 0:14:25.320 Well you might not think that's important, but I do. 0:14:25.440 --> 0:14:27.400 I don't have kids, and not painting on having kids 0:14:27.400 --> 0:14:30.600 anytime soon. My cat is my world. Like, I don't 0:14:30.600 --> 0:14:33.560 want my cat to be the little second side kit 0:14:33.640 --> 0:14:36.120 cat because you have this older, leader mean cat. 0:14:36.800 --> 0:14:39.560 Well maybe if your cat was more mature, it'd be okay, 0:14:39.720 --> 0:14:41.640 hanging out with my old cat. 0:14:41.800 --> 0:14:44.520 Okay, my cat is plenty mature. 0:14:45.920 --> 0:14:48.800 It sounds like it's where's the top hat? 0:14:49.360 --> 0:14:51.280 I don't get it in. I thought we'd really be 0:14:51.360 --> 0:14:55.080 concentrated on the name college. Yeah, Ax's house here, Well that. 0:14:55.120 --> 0:14:57.320 Wasn't cool, but neither in lying about the age of 0:14:57.360 --> 0:14:59.400 your cat, Why would you do that? Why don't you 0:14:59.400 --> 0:15:00.560 why about any like that? 0:15:01.240 --> 0:15:03.760 What if the ex is lying? 0:15:03.800 --> 0:15:06.080 I mean, MYX wasn't lying about that. 0:15:06.360 --> 0:15:07.360 He is nine. 0:15:07.440 --> 0:15:09.800 And then if that's the only thing standing in the 0:15:09.800 --> 0:15:11.800 way of this, I mean, we can always go get 0:15:11.840 --> 0:15:13.000 a five year old cat. 0:15:13.520 --> 0:15:15.360 Okay, there are a lot of cats that need to 0:15:15.360 --> 0:15:15.600 talk to. 0:15:17.320 --> 0:15:17.880 You're dating. 0:15:17.960 --> 0:15:19.880 I like the problem solving. That's a positive. 0:15:20.280 --> 0:15:21.480 So my cat's a third wheel. 0:15:21.560 --> 0:15:22.280 Now that's great. 0:15:22.400 --> 0:15:27.400 What what you're upset at? Yeah, you find very interesting 0:15:27.480 --> 0:15:29.240 things important for your dating life. 0:15:29.360 --> 0:15:31.680 You got to think of it from my perspective. If 0:15:31.680 --> 0:15:34.720 this does work out and we're together, now we've got 0:15:34.800 --> 0:15:37.280 two full time cats and one part time cat that 0:15:37.280 --> 0:15:39.640 we're suffling back and forth between a deck who thinks 0:15:39.640 --> 0:15:40.160 I'm a whore? 0:15:40.400 --> 0:15:40.560 What? 0:15:40.840 --> 0:15:41.000 Oh? 0:15:42.520 --> 0:15:44.920 Yeah, I mean I could see that part, But I 0:15:44.920 --> 0:15:46.440 mean it's nine. It's not like you're gonna have to 0:15:46.480 --> 0:15:49.280 do it for many years. 0:15:49.320 --> 0:15:53.320 Like I take offense to that because my cat maybe nine, 0:15:53.560 --> 0:15:55.480 but she looks seven at worst. 0:15:57.240 --> 0:15:58.360 Hows left? 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:01.960 But we are really stuck on this. 0:16:02.080 --> 0:16:04.560 I know she's very upset that she got cat catfished. 0:16:05.280 --> 0:16:06.280 That's the big issue. 0:16:06.320 --> 0:16:07.440 I think fish cat. 0:16:07.560 --> 0:16:08.440 I think it's just cat fit. 0:16:08.440 --> 0:16:10.160 It is you good cat catfish me. 0:16:10.480 --> 0:16:13.680 Okay, going to the double cat rat. 0:16:13.720 --> 0:16:16.080 You're very sorry, right, tell her how sorry you are 0:16:16.080 --> 0:16:16.600 for doing that. 0:16:16.800 --> 0:16:19.640 Yah? Yeah, I mean, I'm I'm very sorry for telling 0:16:19.640 --> 0:16:21.880 you the wrong age of my cat. And I mean, 0:16:22.000 --> 0:16:25.040 going forward, I swear I won't lie to you about 0:16:25.080 --> 0:16:26.080 something like that. 0:16:26.320 --> 0:16:27.080 Something like that. 0:16:27.160 --> 0:16:30.400 Why would you? Why would you just say I swear 0:16:30.760 --> 0:16:32.960 not lie to you anything. 0:16:33.560 --> 0:16:35.600 Well, because that's like super important. I want her to 0:16:35.680 --> 0:16:38.760 know how important it is that I'm taking her cat 0:16:38.800 --> 0:16:40.960 age very importantly. I won't lie at all. 0:16:41.200 --> 0:16:44.920 Okay, I mean, honestly, Christina, he is taking it into account, 0:16:45.000 --> 0:16:47.600 and I think a lot of people would not be 0:16:47.640 --> 0:16:48.160 so patient. 0:16:48.200 --> 0:16:51.040 Brook is basically saying team rat, team rat. And so 0:16:51.160 --> 0:16:53.000 we would like to offer to send you out on 0:16:53.080 --> 0:16:55.400 another date with him, and we would pay for it. 0:16:55.640 --> 0:16:58.240 I don't know, two cats, three cats, one cat, no 0:16:58.360 --> 0:17:01.880 cat whatever, however many cats you want, don't want on it? 0:17:02.040 --> 0:17:02.200 Yeah? 0:17:02.320 --> 0:17:03.400 Fine, a five year old one? 0:17:04.320 --> 0:17:04.800 Perfect? 0:17:05.320 --> 0:17:05.520 Well? 0:17:05.600 --> 0:17:11.560