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Speaker 1: Do we have a thief in our midst again? First,

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Speaker 1: there is there a thief. There are people coming in

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Speaker 1: our house on the weekends stealing our things. Can you

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Speaker 1: hear me? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Sure, I'm say to your lips, guys, I don't know

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Speaker 3: someone in my headphones.

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Speaker 4: I'm very upset. Let's have some headphone like tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: Man, Paulina. People are stealing from you.

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Speaker 4: I'm putting a camera in here and it's not a joke,

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Speaker 4: that's that's that's a promise, not a threat.

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Speaker 1: And they put a ring camera in our studio. Yes,

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Speaker 1: album who's stealing.

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Speaker 4: My daughter's nanet camera? Every camera? You think there you

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Speaker 4: go for what nose the nanet? Oh that's the.

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Speaker 1: One that we use.

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Speaker 4: Like are your minds with the breathing, it's.

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Speaker 5: Great to the breathing of the of the steeler.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the stealer, person who's taking our things? I'm so mad?

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Speaker 1: Morning everyone, Monday, October sixth Fred shows Hi, Kaitlin, good morning, Hi,

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Speaker 1: Jason Brown, Paulina, can you hear me here? A good high? Kiki?

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Speaker 1: Are you going June? They are?

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Speaker 4: But I think I stolen myself.

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Speaker 6: I hope they somewhere not in Crete, Illinois.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, no, boy, Mela means here in the front

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Speaker 1: of the text. Show b Shelley is here as well,

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Speaker 1: and she has money in the showdown this morning. Oh

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Speaker 1: she us on Friday. That's right. A hundred bucks is surprise,

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Speaker 1: no wind streak. Will you hand her lost number seventy five?

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Speaker 1: She's never lost to in a row? One hundred bucks?

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Speaker 1: That's what you can win. Waiting by the phone he's

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Speaker 1: doing this morning. Why does somebody get ghosted? But else

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Speaker 1: we do? On Mondays? What is Mondays? I don't know?

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Speaker 1: Oh that's right. Kiki's core evident of coffee at this morning.

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Speaker 1: Someone stole my coffee. He's going but a bump girl?

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Speaker 4: Are you working or flirting?

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Speaker 1: We'll get to headlines. We'll get to the entertamber report

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Speaker 1: and blogs this hour, guys, the latest dating trend. I'm

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Speaker 1: here for you. I want you to know what it is. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Each day I find these for you so you can

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Speaker 1: be on the pulse. What's happening in the dating world.

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Speaker 1: The zip coding This is a wild one. There's a

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Speaker 1: new dating discording to the USA today which I didn't

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Speaker 1: realize they printed that anymore. With you, but I don't

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Speaker 1: if they do. Maybe it's just on the internet. A

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Speaker 1: new dating trend called zip coding, where people look for

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Speaker 1: dates close to their own ZIP code. Isn't that called

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Speaker 1: convenience right?

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Speaker 4: Normal?

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Speaker 7: Right?

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Speaker 1: As opposed to what like trying to find someone who

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Speaker 1: lives as far away as possible. I don't know if

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Speaker 1: that's a trend. I'm not sure. The idea is that

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Speaker 1: dating nearby makes it easier to meet in person and

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Speaker 1: share local experiences. This is a real article in the USA.

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Speaker 1: Maybe that's why I don't print it anymore, or I

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Speaker 1: can't find him. It can help build a sense of

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Speaker 1: community and convenience.

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Speaker 2: I here me is the researcher because I could do

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Speaker 2: this and probably maybe a little bit better.

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Speaker 1: But it might also limit your options since you're only

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Speaker 1: looking close to home. Basically, it's about dating local, but

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Speaker 1: you shouldn't ignore potential matches farther away. Thank you for that.

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Speaker 2: Are straight people dating apps like Grinder where like it

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Speaker 2: gives you, oh, this person is two miles away.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, half a mile away, not quite like that.

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Speaker 1: You set your range and then you get people somewhere

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Speaker 1: that I've not seen a dating app where a dating app,

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Speaker 1: I'm not tating app where it gives you like actual

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Speaker 1: location right now? Oh okay, yeah, Grinder does it does.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, you can turn your location off, but it'll

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Speaker 2: put it like it'll organize it by like how close

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Speaker 1: It's called zip coding. Yeah, the game's been doing it forever.

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Speaker 1: Catch up straight right.

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Speaker 6: On like Twitter, and it's like, you know, Melissa is

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Speaker 6: two miles away.

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Speaker 4: If you I don't.

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Speaker 1: Think Melissa is real. Ok I hate to break it

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Speaker 1: to you. I think Melissa might be an AI actress.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, I think she may have a record deal coming.

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Speaker 1: Shit you just got signed to a major label in La.

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Speaker 6: Oh, well they always two miles away from me for

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Speaker 5: Well they always the girls are always two miles away,

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Speaker 5: miles away. Yeah, I'm thinking maybe not, but may could be,

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Speaker 5: you know, because every now, you know, see an ad.

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Speaker 5: I'll see ad for like you know, one of the

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Speaker 5: dating apps. The person's hot, and I'm like, okay, great,

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Speaker 5: where's that person? I never see that person on there?

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Speaker 5: That's a model. It turns I turned out that person's

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Speaker 5: married with a kid, not even single. I wonder there's

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Speaker 5: a class action lawsuit to be had by that, like

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Speaker 5: I got hooked by them. I will tell you this,

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Speaker 5: I don't even know on the dating apps mean more,

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Speaker 5: how many people are actually real? Because there are bots

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Speaker 5: and I guess that you know there are plants, and

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Speaker 5: then people's profiles get left up longer than you know

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Speaker 5: because I've been paused forever, and I guess I still

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Speaker 5: show up on there, but I've been paused, So if

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Speaker 5: you're matching with me, I won't see it.

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Speaker 1: But that is there a class action lawsuit there? When

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Speaker 1: I match with someone very hot only to find out

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Speaker 1: that they're not real or they're not even near me.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to zip code your eyes but I can't.

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Speaker 1: But I wonder if because the straight because straits are

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Speaker 1: like more predatory if they can't put how close like

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Speaker 1: you actually are to someone? Straight guys are weird? Yeah? No,

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Speaker 1: I wonder, Yes they are. Yes, they are. I'm not

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Speaker 1: gonna say it's weird, but grinder, lets you know exactly

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Speaker 1: who could get there faster? Yeah, I mean, it really

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Speaker 1: does say something about about the culture. I suppose it's

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Speaker 1: like I'd be more likely to match with somebody who's

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Speaker 1: two miles away than four, because well, it's you know, traffic,

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Speaker 1: right exactly. Yeah. A twenty three year old woman has

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Speaker 1: shared on her twenty five year old boyfriend's loud reactions

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Speaker 1: during football games, like yelling at the TV and cursing

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Speaker 1: at players and cheering loudly, it's causing her anxiety. She

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Speaker 1: explained that her father had been abusive, and any raised

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Speaker 1: voices in her childhood home often followed by something worse.

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Speaker 1: Her boyfriend has never directed his anger at her. The

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Speaker 1: sound of him yelling at the TV made her feel

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Speaker 1: uncomfortable and triggered past trauma. When she asked him a

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Speaker 1: tona down, he became upset, claiming that she was overreacting

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Speaker 1: and expressing hurt over being perceived as aggressive. Since then,

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Speaker 1: he's been avoiding her, making her to feel guilty and

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Speaker 1: unsure if her request was reasonable. This was on rereadit,

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Speaker 1: most people empathized with her that a loving partner should

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Speaker 1: be sensitive to past trauma and willing to adjust behavior. Accordingly, Man,

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Speaker 1: he pointed out that passion for football shouldn't override someone

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Speaker 1: else's emotional well being. However, if someone is yelling at

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Speaker 1: the TV and not at you, do you think that

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Speaker 1: within the household relationship, we would have to your roommate,

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Speaker 1: can you say something? Or is it? Is it like,

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Speaker 1: is that you being a little dramatic because they're yelling

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Speaker 1: at the Lions? It's Kaylin actually, and she's and this

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Speaker 1: is from Shane, her boyfriend. Her boyfriend wrote this, and

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Speaker 1: he you know, he apparently you don't care. You just

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Speaker 1: ignore him now and continue to scream at the TV.

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Speaker 4: He can leave.

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Speaker 1: It's wildly triggerating for him.

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Speaker 4: That's where you could go.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I understand that this, you know that that

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Speaker 1: kind of behavior could be problematic for you, But I mean,

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Speaker 1: but when you're directing it at the sporting event and

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Speaker 1: and not at you, And it would be one thing

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Speaker 1: I think if like you're anger because I've had this.

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Speaker 1: I've had it where my team lost and I was

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Speaker 1: mad the rest of the day at everything, So that

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Speaker 1: that's like something you'd have to have under control, you know,

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Speaker 1: like if your team loses and then you're just you know,

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Speaker 1: sort of lashing out on people because you're in a

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Speaker 1: bad mood. You know, any for any reason that you're

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Speaker 1: in a bad mood. You go to work, have bad

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Speaker 1: day at work, you don't get a promotion, you I

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Speaker 1: don't know, lost something, your headphones got stolen, Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: then take it out on hobby all the rest of

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Speaker 1: the day. Like that's not cool. But I mean, if

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Speaker 1: I'm if I'm emotional about whatever I'm consuming, whatever content

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Speaker 1: I'm consuming, should that is that something that my partner

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Speaker 1: can say like, hey, I mean I can't do that.

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Speaker 1: I need you to stop doing that because well, it

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Speaker 1: brings up something from my past.

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Speaker 3: See I'm somebody who also doesn't like the yelling, and like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: it does for me, It sparks a little something in me.

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Speaker 3: It's just my own personal issue that I'm dealing with.

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Speaker 3: As far as like childhood and the yelling and stuff.

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Speaker 3: But I just want to know, you know, how such

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Speaker 3: straight men are weird or whatever he said, I to go.

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Speaker 3: I want to know why men love being cheerleaders so

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Speaker 3: hard on weekends.

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Speaker 4: It's for these sports devients.

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Speaker 3: Like I'm so serious, Like I'm so tired of people

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Speaker 3: yelling and screaming over teams, Like it's not like you're playing,

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Speaker 3: Like how you are not playing on the Cubs, Like

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Speaker 3: you know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: But you would think the passion.

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Speaker 1: No, in the past, I thought he was a Cubs player.

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Speaker 3: You would think with the way my basement looks and

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Speaker 3: like just the way that like he's got out the

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Speaker 3: jerseys and the hats and the bottle heads, but like.

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Speaker 1: I those from all his teammates.

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Speaker 3: Do you think I want to freak out every time

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Speaker 3: I just see him even watch a game, because to me,

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Speaker 3: it bothers me, like this it is not real.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's an outsider. Like if you were just to

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Speaker 2: look at dudes watching sports and like how they act

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Speaker 2: watching sports, Yeah, it's very interesting and I'm not and they.

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Speaker 1: Can't hear you. It's like you're not even there. If

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Speaker 1: you're a scream, if you're at the game and you're

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Speaker 1: getting into it. I mean, at least they could hear

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Speaker 1: you a little bit.

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Speaker 4: Right right, you're at an event.

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Speaker 1: But I see the problem, Like, I mean, I see

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Speaker 1: a problem. If it's that triggering for you, Can I

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Speaker 1: tone down my enthusiasm, my screaming at the television? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think I probably can. Or can I just move

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Speaker 1: it to a different venue. Maybe you know, like, hey,

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Speaker 1: you don't like that, Okay, maybe maybe you're you don't

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Speaker 1: hang out in the house while I watch the game,

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Speaker 1: or maybe I watch some of the games somewhere else

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Speaker 1: and then we don't have to do that. But I mean,

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Speaker 1: I'm directing it at the TV, like I don't know,

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Speaker 1: I'm into it. I'm passionate about him. I mean, you

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Speaker 1: watch a Bad Money concert, You're yelling and screaming and

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Speaker 2: It's like, I don't know, I think this happens every time,

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Speaker 1: This is too deep, it's too so okay, it doesn't

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Speaker 2: Taylor, Yeah, when you're like the biggest touring artist of

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Speaker 1: Like there's just too many people that want to say

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you in a minute. Why. So she's like

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Speaker 10: Hyle, She's broken eight records since we started talking today.

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Speaker 4: I mean, you know what I mean, like, she does

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Speaker 10: I think she wanted this album to just be light

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Speaker 1: We have the results from Jason's NFL picks. I believe

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Speaker 1: this was week I don't know where it was five,

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Speaker 1: So you picked even though the game was actually the

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Speaker 1: this is a sports reportage to the stars, VP of

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Speaker 4: So overall, so far, he's got nine out of fourteen.

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Speaker 10: We're waiting on the Jags, Chiefs games got doing bad

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Okay. Vikings over the Browns, Broncos over the Eagles, Saints

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Speaker 1: That makes that makes a good day for all of us.

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Speaker 1: Run your Kailin's happen. Taylor Swift is winning and the

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Speaker 4: I'm not yelling at the time, not.

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Speaker 1: No, no, Usually it's she's still yelling at it walking

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Speaker 1: Personal kids, maybe on the backyard, there was a simulated

433
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Speaker 1: touchdown of some kind.

434
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Speaker 4: Perhaps, Yeah, how did you find Darnell Mooney?

435
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Speaker 1: I just googling hot football players?

436
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Speaker 4: Okay, that's what That's exactly what I guess.

437
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Speaker 1: MAE for sure you were typing this in Chad GPT Now, oh, well,

438
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Speaker 1: that's a good idea, GPTs Parsley this weekend, I can't wait,

439
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Speaker 1: call us.

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Speaker 4: Don't put that on me.

441
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Speaker 1: Would be like, wait a minute, he's not playing this

442
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Speaker 1: week bro. For any of the what were the other ones.

443
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Speaker 10: So Taekwon Thornton will have two catches. We'll find out

444
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Speaker 10: tonight and then Gino Smith will not score it all.

445
00:20:01,200 --> 00:20:03,280
Speaker 10: And yes, he did not score it all. So you

446
00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:05,800
Speaker 10: got one part right. We need to find out the

447
00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:08,080
Speaker 10: second leg tonight and then Darneld Mooney again, is you

448
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Speaker 10: know drinking coffee at home on Yes.

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Speaker 1: So you actually typed in hot NFL players and that's

450
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Speaker 1: how you Okay.

451
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Speaker 4: It's literally what I guessed, un told Bella. It's so funny.

452
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Speaker 1: I hate you. At least you did it yourself, your research.

453
00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:22,440
Speaker 1: So no, here you go, I got it. So here's

454
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Speaker 1: Taylor Swift's last three days. She's matched Prince in number ones.

455
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Speaker 1: Taylor Swift is now in the same company as Prince.

456
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Speaker 1: Back when Purple Rain came out, Prince became the first

457
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Speaker 1: album to have a film album and single be number

458
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Speaker 1: one at the same time. Now she's repeated the feat.

459
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Speaker 1: Her latest album, The Life of a Show Grow Perhaps

460
00:20:39,680 --> 00:20:43,040
Speaker 1: you heard about it sold two point seven million copies

461
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Speaker 1: on its first day of release on Friday. It also

462
00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:48,440
Speaker 1: became which that you got to remember that really said

463
00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:50,400
Speaker 1: something In a world where you don't have to buy

464
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Speaker 1: anything to hear it, you could just have a subscription

465
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Speaker 1: and listen to it. Imagine what this would have been

466
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Speaker 1: back in the day when the only way you were

467
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Speaker 1: going to hear it is you know, listening to it

468
00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:04,360
Speaker 1: records or right waiting line somewhere. So that, I mean,

469
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Speaker 1: that means a lot more than it means, like you know,

470
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Speaker 1: in itself. It also became Spotify's most streamed album in

471
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Speaker 1: a single day in twenty twenty five. On top of that,

472
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Speaker 1: the song The Fate of Ophelia became the most stream

473
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Speaker 1: song in a single day in the streaming platform's history. Meanwhile,

474
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Speaker 1: Taylor Swift the official release party of A Showgirl, topped

475
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Speaker 1: the weekend box office, bringing in thirty three million dollars.

476
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Speaker 1: And Swift Isn't done, and she announced four new versions

477
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Speaker 1: of the album, with two special acoustic versions of songs

478
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Speaker 1: she sold online Over the weekend. The Billboard charts showed

479
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Speaker 1: the album and Aphelia at number one. And then she

480
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Speaker 1: dropped a video for Aphelia yesterday. And then you went

481
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Speaker 1: to the movie theater you both of you did separately. Yeah,

482
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Speaker 1: okay badly I needed to be alone, right, you needed

483
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Speaker 1: to see this? Yes, So talking about screaming at the screen.

484
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Speaker 1: I mean, my god, that may have been triggering for

485
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Speaker 1: some people. What was the movie experience like for free

486
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Speaker 1: you both.

487
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Speaker 10: I I went to the movies for the first time

488
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Speaker 10: by my loansome, so that was like a big step

489
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Speaker 10: for me.

490
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Speaker 4: I loved it.

491
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Speaker 10: The guy next to me was also alone, so we

492
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Speaker 10: kind of like, you know, I felt like I wasn't

493
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Speaker 10: a weirdo. I forgot my credit card so I couldn't

494
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Speaker 10: get a frozen coke. But the movie was good. It

495
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Speaker 10: was just like no big surprises or anything. She was

496
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Speaker 10: just explaining each song and then we got to see

497
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Speaker 10: the making of the music video.

498
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Speaker 4: But I loved it.

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Speaker 10: I mean, I think it's really cool to like ingest

500
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Speaker 10: the album and then hear her talking about everything. I

501
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Speaker 10: thought it was a cool idea.

502
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Speaker 1: Was it packed?

503
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Speaker 4: I want it too? So it wasn't super packed by

504
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Speaker 4: the kids were in school? Yeah, kids were in school.

505
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Speaker 10: But I love that she bleeped out everything and made

506
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Speaker 10: it all pg for the parents who wanted to bring

507
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Speaker 10: their kids.

508
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Speaker 2: But I wish there was like an R rated because

509
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Speaker 2: I have definitely bought tickets to that same because it

510
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Speaker 2: was worth hearing the swears yeah you know, or.

511
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Speaker 1: Like would she really gets into that stuff like which

512
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Speaker 1: she probably isn't going to, but like it would have

513
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Speaker 1: been interesting if she'd had like another version, a Taylor's

514
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Speaker 1: version before we got to hear like version, Hey, you

515
00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:02,359
Speaker 1: want you want to throw shade on people, like, go ahead,

516
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Speaker 1: go to AMC theaters and tell us what you really did.

517
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Speaker 1: I can tell us what you really meant, so we

518
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Speaker 1: could stop speculating. I know there'll be more on that

519
00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:11,040
Speaker 1: and more on this story throughout the morning. But Sean

520
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Speaker 1: Didti Colms has been sentenced to four years and two

521
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Speaker 1: months in prison following his conviction on federal prostitution and

522
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Speaker 1: charges involving his two ex girlfriends, who also have to

523
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Speaker 1: pay five hundred grand in five hundred thousand dollars in fines.

524
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Speaker 1: I saw one person speculate that between different programs he's

525
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Speaker 1: eligible for and then time served, he could serve as

526
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Speaker 1: few as six months, six to nine months, which is

527
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Speaker 1: what I which is what I read. Now this is

528
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Speaker 1: one lawyer on TikTok, So I don't know if that's true.

529
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Speaker 1: You know, don't at me, but that would be very

530
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Speaker 1: disappointing if that's the case. But people have, you know,

531
00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:47,600
Speaker 1: varied opinions on this. So, another very strange story from

532
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Speaker 1: over the weekend. A former NFL quarterback and current Fox

533
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Speaker 1: Sports commentator named Mark Sanchez was arrested in an incident

534
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Speaker 1: in Indianapolis where he was also stabbed and taken to

535
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Speaker 1: the hospital. So, first, the story is this former NFL

536
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Speaker 1: quarterback is stabbed at night in Indianapolis. Oh my god,

537
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 1: it's crazy. You think like robbing it a lot of

538
00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:11,720
Speaker 1: different things, you think, like what happened. He was arrested though,

539
00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:14,720
Speaker 1: and taken to the hospital, or actually at the hospital

540
00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:16,639
Speaker 1: after being taken to the hospital, but he was not

541
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Speaker 1: booked into a detention center until last night. He's facing

542
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Speaker 1: charges of battery with injury on lawful entry of a

543
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Speaker 1: motor vehicle, and public intoxication. Police said that they're looking

544
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Speaker 1: into an incident between Sanchez and another man, a food

545
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Speaker 1: delivery driver. The other guy suffered lacerations in the incident.

546
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Speaker 1: Sanchez is in stable condition. I guess the details of

547
00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:38,679
Speaker 1: this that the driver parked his box truck at a

548
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Speaker 1: loading doc to collect used cooking oil from a hotel kitchen.

549
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Speaker 1: Sanchez appeared and then approached the driver and told him

550
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Speaker 1: he wasn't allowed to park there. The driver then said

551
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Speaker 1: that he would contact his boss to find out what

552
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Speaker 1: was going on. Sanchez then reportedly climbed into the guy's

553
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Speaker 1: truck and began looking around. The driver informed and he

554
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Speaker 1: wasn't allowed to do that. The victims said that Sanchez

555
00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:00,600
Speaker 1: smelled like alcohol and kept repeating that he had spoken

556
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:04,080
Speaker 1: to a manager and they didn't want him to replace

557
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:07,560
Speaker 1: the oil. Sanchez and reportedly began following the guy around

558
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Speaker 1: his truck, blocking him from entering the vehicle. Security footage

559
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:13,240
Speaker 1: also appears to show Sanchez knocking the guy against the

560
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Speaker 1: wall and then onto the ground. The victim retaliated with

561
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Speaker 1: pepper spray, but it only momentarily faced Sanchez before he

562
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Speaker 1: resumed the pressure. Then, apparently fearing for his life, the

563
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Speaker 1: driver pulled out a knife and stabbed the former quarterback

564
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Speaker 1: two or three times in the chest, and then the

565
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Speaker 1: quarterback left the scene. And then people are not happy

566
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Speaker 1: with Fox yesterday because they had two different anchors and

567
00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:37,640
Speaker 1: two different clips. I saw read the same sort of befuddled.

568
00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:41,400
Speaker 1: It was the exact same wording, so they were obviously

569
00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:44,359
Speaker 1: reading it. They probably could have changed the wording, so

570
00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:47,400
Speaker 1: it looked like two different people had similar but different thoughts.

571
00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:49,959
Speaker 1: But it was we're all just scratching our heads here

572
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 1: at Fox the same way you are thoughts in prayers.

573
00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:56,919
Speaker 1: And it was kind of like I realized, as you know,

574
00:25:57,960 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 1: we've been through things around here where we're not allowed

575
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Speaker 1: to act actually say anything, a lot of things where

576
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 1: we can't actually say anything, and people don't really understand

577
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:06,600
Speaker 1: that that we work for a company and we can't

578
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:09,040
Speaker 1: really get into like particulars or give our opinions on

579
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:12,240
Speaker 1: certain matters. So I empathize in that regard. But it

580
00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:14,040
Speaker 1: was like, hey, how about make it look like an

581
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:17,720
Speaker 1: original thought as opposed to having Carrissa Thompson and someone

582
00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:21,320
Speaker 1: else it was exactly the same thing. Not great, right,

583
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:24,680
Speaker 1: I didn't know, But in thoughts and prayers, how about

584
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:26,440
Speaker 1: just like, yeah, we're aware of the incident and this

585
00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:29,200
Speaker 1: being investigated. I mean, they can't say nothing, I guess,

586
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Speaker 1: but like, at the same time, thoughts and prayers for who,

587
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:35,600
Speaker 1: right the do the gut stabbed? Right? Yeah, that's just

588
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:37,879
Speaker 1: a random thing. And unfortunately it seems like he was

589
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:42,679
Speaker 1: just really drunk. And everyone online was going, well, how

590
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:44,639
Speaker 1: about the statement that he's been fired? You know, but

591
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:47,320
Speaker 1: it's been forty eight hours, So I guess they don't.

592
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:49,960
Speaker 1: Their legal team is too busy screaming at the TV

593
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:51,720
Speaker 1: for their favorite sporting event. They haven't had time to

594
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:53,680
Speaker 1: look at it yet. It's so confusing. Yeah, I don't

595
00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 1: know why to figure it right? Right?

596
00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:55,280
Speaker 9: Right?

597
00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:57,000
Speaker 1: They can't fire the guy until they are sure. I

598
00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:59,959
Speaker 1: would imagine what exactly happened, But yeah, it's a weird story.

599
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 1: Jeff Bezos, the billionaire founder of Amazon and rocket company

600
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Speaker 1: Blue Origin, so that millions of people will be living

601
00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:08,960
Speaker 1: in space in the next couple of decades. Take me.

602
00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:13,200
Speaker 1: Speaking at Italian Tech Week, Okay, he outlined a vision

603
00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 1: of outer space inhabitants supported by advanced robotics and data centers,

604
00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:21,760
Speaker 1: emphasizing this could happen faster than many anticipate. He said

605
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Speaker 1: that space pioneers will mostly be living there because they

606
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:28,800
Speaker 1: want to, But what about the other ones? Mostly be

607
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:30,359
Speaker 1: living there because they want to? Well, who are the

608
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:34,080
Speaker 1: ones that aren't wanting to? And how did they get there? Well?

609
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Speaker 1: You really, you're ready? You want to go now? All

610
00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:36,720
Speaker 1: of a sudden, you want to go to space?

611
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Speaker 4: Get me out of here.

612
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:39,520
Speaker 1: No, you've had enough.

613
00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:40,200
Speaker 4: I've had enough.

614
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:42,119
Speaker 6: I thought the rapture was coming, so like I was

615
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:45,560
Speaker 6: really like, hey, it's time, and then that didn't go through.

616
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:48,159
Speaker 6: So now I'm like, what's next? And you were sure

617
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 6: they were going to take you? Oh I know, I'm good. Yeah,

618
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:59,040
Speaker 6: oh yeah, for sure. Okay, okay, ye stars, Yes.

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Speaker 1: That's true, but not everyone will be able to go, Like, well,

620
00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:04,440
Speaker 1: maybe that's a good thing. Maybe that way you could

621
00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 1: really slim down the budget and in the invite list,

622
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:10,040
Speaker 1: op bar Yeah, can.

623
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Speaker 10: I dress like Katy Perry and that fitted fashion nova

624
00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:13,160
Speaker 10: like space suits?

625
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 1: Well I think she would be anat at that point,

626
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:17,760
Speaker 1: like if you really lived in space, like you truly

627
00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:19,119
Speaker 1: are an astronaut.

628
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:19,200
Speaker 4: That's my dream.

629
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Speaker 1: I mean, so is she of course. Yeah, and Gail King,

630
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 1: but you could be just like that. Okay, yeah, I

631
00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:26,840
Speaker 1: didn't realize Kiki, you were so committed to the idea

632
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:29,399
Speaker 1: of moving away forever. Man, Because I know they got

633
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:30,960
Speaker 1: a way to get us to Mars. I don't know

634
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 1: that they have a way to get us back yet, though,

635
00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 1: not worried about Okay, I'm not sure yet. I mean,

636
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:42,680
Speaker 1: this is kind of a bad deal in my opinion,

637
00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 1: But Cracker Barrel fired the marketing gurus behind their rebrand disaster. Really,

638
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:51,000
Speaker 1: here's my thing. I mean, the marketing company didn't go

639
00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 1: to Cracker Barrel and knock on the door and go, hey,

640
00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:57,800
Speaker 1: Cracker Barrel, you must make these things look like Apple

641
00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:03,120
Speaker 1: stores immediately. I'm sure that somebody at Cracker Barrel hired

642
00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:05,280
Speaker 1: a bunch of marketing firms and said, hey, what should

643
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:07,680
Speaker 1: we do to revitalize this brand and make it you

644
00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:09,760
Speaker 1: make it more appealing to people who've never been a

645
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:11,920
Speaker 1: Cracker Barrel or who who think it's too old timing

646
00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 1: for them, and then they wound up hiring the people

647
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,480
Speaker 1: who had the best modernization ideas. That's what they did,

648
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:18,800
Speaker 1: and now didn't make it look like it was their fault,

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Speaker 1: but they fired the marketing agency that they hired to

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Speaker 1: refresh their image. Following massive backlash over its rebrand, the

651
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Speaker 1: restaurant chain was criticized for its decision to update their

652
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Speaker 1: old timer logo. Cracker Barrel said Thursday it had ended

653
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Speaker 1: its deal with an international marketing agency. That move is

654
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Speaker 1: being a companied by changes to the restaurant change leadership

655
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Speaker 1: structure could fire some people too. The company scrambled to

656
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Speaker 1: try and undo any damage it may have done with

657
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Speaker 1: its fans. The logo revamp was discarded as were designed

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Speaker 1: for a modern restaurant layout and other policies. So, yeah,

659
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Speaker 1: a bunch of people getting fired, you know, the people

660
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Speaker 1: at the very top the board or whomever was like, look, guys,

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Speaker 1: we get we got to make this thing bigger. We

662
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Speaker 1: got to make this thing bigger. That Cracker Barel should

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Speaker 1: be like Denny's and there should be one everywhere and

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Speaker 1: everyone should be going there. Okay, So do what you

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Speaker 1: got to do. Make it look all shiny and nice

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Speaker 1: in there, and then people will totally love it. And

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Speaker 1: then that's what they did, exactly what they were told

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Speaker 1: to do, and then they fired everybody who didn't. It's

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Speaker 1: National Coaches Day, National Plus Size Appreciation Day day. There

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Speaker 1: you go, hey, shout out National Consignment Day, National Child

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Speaker 1: Health Day, and National German American DAYO. Okay, yeah, well

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Speaker 1: you celebrated Plus Size Appreciation Day, but the next to

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Speaker 1: German Day, it says, shout out to me. Okay, so

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Speaker 1: she's German American, so it's my day.

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Speaker 5: Caitlin's Entertainment report, he's on the Fred Show.

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Speaker 10: Has bred just mentioned Sean Diddy Combs has been sentenced

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Speaker 10: to four years two months in prison following his conviction

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Speaker 10: on federal prostitution charges involving two ex girlfriends, Cassie Ventura

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Speaker 10: and a woman who went by Jane Doe. You will

680
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Speaker 10: also have to pay five hundred thousand dollars in fines.

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Speaker 10: He's been held at the Brooklyn Metropolitan Detention Center since

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Speaker 10: being a rested last September, and the thirteen months that

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Speaker 10: he's already served behind bars will count towards his fifty

684
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Speaker 10: month sentence. The judge also ruled that he will have

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Speaker 10: five years of supervised release after getting out. Before being sentenced,

686
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Speaker 10: he apologized to his former girlfriends, his family, all the

687
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Speaker 10: victims of domestic violence, and his community. Bad Bunny hosted

688
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Speaker 10: Saturday Night Live over the weekend and address criticism over

689
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Speaker 10: his upcoming Super Bowl halftime performance. During his opening monologue,

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Speaker 10: switching to Spanish, he emphasized that his performance was a

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Speaker 10: victory for the Latino community in the US, highlighting their

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Speaker 10: contributions and resilience, and he told the audience if you

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Speaker 10: didn't understand what I just said, don't worry. You have

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Speaker 10: four months to learn with a big old smile. Now

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Speaker 10: I did hear something. As for now, it's just a rumor.

696
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Speaker 10: But I did hear that he actually asked Drake to

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Speaker 10: join him on stage during the halftime show. The rappers

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Speaker 10: collaborated in twenty eighteen on the song Mia and So,

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Speaker 10: I mean it wouldn't be super shocking.

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Speaker 4: Drake loves like Latin music.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, we'll see on ham on stage with

702
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Speaker 1: him because it has an element. He joked about one

703
00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:05,880
Speaker 1: Hamon he drove by some of the celebrities were at

704
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Speaker 1: his thirty one night residency and some of them were

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Speaker 1: on drugs, and then he was like, I'm not going

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Speaker 1: to say who John Hamm. And then they go to

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Speaker 1: an audience and there's John Hamm the front row. No,

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Speaker 1: I love him me too, and he has.

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Speaker 4: The time of his life at those No, he does.

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Speaker 1: One hamone at I'll bet at the super Bowl, right

711
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Speaker 1: because you know he'll be there.

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Speaker 4: Oh, Juan Harmon will hung there.

713
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Speaker 1: I need one Harmona on the stage without question exactly.

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Speaker 10: Speaking of rappers, fifty Cent was absolutely jacked to be

715
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Speaker 10: the only person mentioned on the Life of a Showgirl.

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Speaker 10: After being mentioned on the song ruined the friendship, he

717
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Speaker 10: wrote on Instagram in the comments, Taylor Swift spit popping

718
00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:47,200
Speaker 10: right now. She shout me out, she don't shout you out. Lol,

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Speaker 10: this is for big timers only. Wait, I'm the only

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Speaker 10: shout out on the whole album. The song is about

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00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:54,160
Speaker 10: a high school memory when she sings and it was

722
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 10: not an invitation, but as the fifty cent song played,

723
00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:58,800
Speaker 10: should have kissed you anyway for what it's worth. Her

724
00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 10: high school bestie was also name in that song, but

725
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Speaker 10: fifty cent probably didn't realize that. Also elsewhere on the

726
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Speaker 10: album is a song called Wood about her fiance, Travis

727
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Speaker 10: Kelsey's member. So when he turned thirty six yesterday and

728
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Speaker 10: the Chiefs posted a TikTok to celebrate him, they call him,

729
00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 10: I guess the Archer for like a bow and arrow

730
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Speaker 10: move that he does when he's running out of the tunnel.

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Speaker 10: But Swifty's flooded the comments, with one person saying I

732
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:24,200
Speaker 10: can't even look at Travis without blushing anymore. Another says

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Speaker 10: that they are taking the day to celebrate quote the

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Speaker 10: biggest tree in the forest. In the song, she compared

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Speaker 10: his you know to a redwood tree.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with okay, but we all you know

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Speaker 1: how I feel about when people are too boastful about manhood.

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Speaker 4: He's not boasting.

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Speaker 1: Well, but what's she supposed to say? He has a

740
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Speaker 1: tiny tree, like that's not gonna be a song. I

741
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Speaker 1: just I don't know.

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Speaker 4: She wouldn't write a song.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not giving that. I don't know. I feel

744
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Speaker 1: like I could usually tell you can't I'm gonna go

745
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Speaker 1: with Okay, I just I might have been. I might

746
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Speaker 1: have said, hey, Tay, we don't, we don't need that one,

747
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Speaker 1: because that one's just gonna lead to people saying that

748
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:03,680
Speaker 1: if thou doth protest too much, which is another Shakespeare.

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Speaker 1: You know a lot about Shakespeare, Jesus, you learned a

750
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Speaker 1: lot about him. I don't know. I might have said,

751
00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:10,560
Speaker 1: we don't need to gash me up like that in

752
00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:16,040
Speaker 1: this public way, because because it seems like it's it's

753
00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:17,480
Speaker 1: over compensating.

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Speaker 4: When your exada, you didn't seem too mad.

755
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Speaker 1: I didn't ask her to write a song about it.

756
00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:23,359
Speaker 1: I didn't ask her to say it. I didn't ask

757
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Speaker 1: her to put the song on an album. I didn't

758
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Speaker 1: ask it to be widely publicized. And I was embarrassed

759
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Speaker 1: when it happened. Okay, I wasn't. I wasn't there. I

760
00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:33,799
Speaker 1: wasn't even there. It was an Ax. I would never

761
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Speaker 1: have expected that kind of press.

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Speaker 4: I don't know about this.

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Speaker 6: I feel like every six months, you'd be like, y'all

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Speaker 6: will never believe what was said about me?

765
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Speaker 4: We say what was said about you?

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Speaker 1: You say once, No, I tell a lot of other

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Speaker 1: stories over and over again. That is not one that

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Speaker 1: will tell about you.

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Speaker 4: That is that is unreal. To get an AX to

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Speaker 4: speak of you in that way.

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Speaker 1: You should take the w I realized that. But that's true. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so there you go. It would have meant more than

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Speaker 1: me if Taylor had written the song about him and

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Speaker 1: they weren't together, and he more because that means it's real. Yeah,

775
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:04,840
Speaker 1: because she's giving good press to someone she's not with anymore.

776
00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:07,719
Speaker 1: But to be with someone to be like, oh yeah, yeah,

777
00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:12,920
Speaker 1: swinging around? You know, what are you gonna say what?

778
00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:16,080
Speaker 1: You don't have an option? You're marrying this guy. You

779
00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:18,839
Speaker 1: would not write a song about you know, it's an

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Speaker 1: average tree? Would you know?

781
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Speaker 4: If it was average, you just wouldn't write a song.

782
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Speaker 4: You'd be like, I can't dedicate a whole song, or.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you just don't write the song at all. I

784
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Speaker 1: don't like.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you do have to be careful with that, because

786
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:33,600
Speaker 6: then it's really advertisement for these little skanks to come

787
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Speaker 6: after you.

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Speaker 1: Manh Yeah, I'm going with it's probably true, but I'm

789
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:42,239
Speaker 1: also going with not necessary. Okay, yeah, all right, I'm

790
00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 1: just wrap it up. I don't know if.

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Speaker 4: You want to catch up on anything you missed by

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00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 4: you take the French jointyman on the free I.

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Speaker 1: Heard radio report. I don't know. You can tell me

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Speaker 1: when you're done.

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Speaker 4: I just want to make sure you got it all out.

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Speaker 1: No I did. I just I don't know. I might

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Speaker 1: have said we can go ahead with twelve songs we

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00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:01,680
Speaker 1: don't need or even or maybe we one of the

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Speaker 1: other ones. Hey, you know where you just.

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Speaker 10: Somebody else, somebody wants to write a song about how

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Speaker 10: good I am.

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Speaker 4: They're welcome to I just.

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Speaker 1: If you're together, then I just assume, like what else

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00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 1: we're just saying is all. That's all I'm saying about that.

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00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:15,960
Speaker 1: Lets you blogg your audio journalist waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 1: Why does somebody get goes to Shelley in the showdown,

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Speaker 1: is the Pread Show. All right, guys, your celebrity book events,

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Speaker 1: which you know, we're on the pulse of book events

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Speaker 1: on this show. But Naperville Anderson's bookshop. Bobby Brown, the

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00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:14,360
Speaker 1: Bobby Brown, the world famous Bobby Brown. Bobby do you

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Speaker 1: know that you and Steve Jobs are the same person? Basically?

824
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:17,680
Speaker 1: Do you know that?

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00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:18,839
Speaker 11: Well?

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00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 1: I do like wearing a wardrobe. Oh yo, that's the thing.

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Speaker 1: If you just were all black all the time, how

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00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:25,800
Speaker 1: easy was that me? Don't you know what are you

829
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 1: wearing on the cover of this book? I don't have

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00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:29,080
Speaker 1: any front of me you were basically all black?

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Speaker 12: Maybe then I know, maybe I've kind of botened my

832
00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:34,120
Speaker 12: black to maybe.

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00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:34,920
Speaker 13: It's much more flattering.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's good to know. She's Bobby Brown already giving

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00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:38,880
Speaker 1: me advice. And I gotta say, I used to I

836
00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:41,479
Speaker 1: used to be a Bobby Brown cosmetics guy, but then

837
00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:44,880
Speaker 1: you sold it. And the comparison to Steve Jobs is

838
00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 1: then they fired you from your own company. So now

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Speaker 1: you know me Jones Road all day. That's the only

840
00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:53,040
Speaker 1: thing I wear. But to get fired from your own company,

841
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Speaker 1: I know it's in the book, but how.

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00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 12: It is definitely in the book, and it was a

843
00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:01,960
Speaker 12: definite first of well, when they bought Bobby Brown, I

844
00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 12: stayed twenty two years as an employee, so from many

845
00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:06,960
Speaker 12: of the years it was great. And then at the

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00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 12: end it wasn't just like you know, many people's situation,

847
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:11,800
Speaker 12: and we did.

848
00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:13,560
Speaker 13: Not see eye to eye on most things.

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Speaker 12: And they canceled my work contract one day unexpectedly, and

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00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:20,840
Speaker 12: you know, honestly gave me an opportunity to stay around

851
00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:24,200
Speaker 12: but keep my mouth shut, and that really didn't work

852
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:24,480
Speaker 12: for me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. See, Kiki, I know you, you know you, Paulina.

854
00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:30,320
Speaker 1: We have some women in here, you know, business moguls

855
00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:32,880
Speaker 1: in Chicago and surrounding you got to watch out. You

856
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 1: can get fired from your own named business. This is

857
00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:36,359
Speaker 1: not a good thing, listen.

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Speaker 13: You know, yeah, but it wasn't my business.

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00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:42,320
Speaker 12: They bought me, so you know, they own they owned

860
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:45,960
Speaker 12: the company, and they could do whatever they want. And honestly,

861
00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:49,280
Speaker 12: I'm not the only one that's been through things that happen.

862
00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:52,200
Speaker 12: But the book really talks about what you do with

863
00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:54,680
Speaker 12: this stuff when it's handed to you, Like, so what not?

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Speaker 1: What? All? Right?

865
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Speaker 13: Now? What am I going to do?

866
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Speaker 12: I had four and a half years left on a

867
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Speaker 12: noncompete and I left, and I'm like, oh my god,

868
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:04,440
Speaker 12: I was fifty nine years old. What was I going

869
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Speaker 12: to do?

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Speaker 1: You were going to be a rich Bobby is what

871
00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:08,440
Speaker 1: you were going to do? But that you know, I

872
00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 1: understand what you mean.

873
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Speaker 12: You know, but it's honestly, yeah, I've been very successful.

874
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:15,239
Speaker 13: I've worked really hard for it.

875
00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:18,359
Speaker 12: I've had people on my team, my husband, you know,

876
00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:21,839
Speaker 12: now my son runs our company. But you know, when

877
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:24,880
Speaker 12: you're someone that has worked your whole life in addition

878
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:28,680
Speaker 12: to raising three kids and you know, a long term marriage,

879
00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:30,960
Speaker 12: it's like, now what do I do? Like, I wasn't

880
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:33,600
Speaker 12: about to go play pick a ball? Right, that's just

881
00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:36,959
Speaker 12: not me right right, So I had to figure stuff out.

882
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:39,839
Speaker 1: And you've done so much Bobby Brown Cosmetics. Of course,

883
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:43,200
Speaker 1: you've been recognized by every major publication. Then you've gone

884
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:46,719
Speaker 1: on to build another huge company, Jones Road, and you've

885
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:49,319
Speaker 1: written nine books. This is the tenth. Will be at

886
00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 1: Anderson's Bookshop in Naborville tonight from seven to eight. But yes,

887
00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 1: we do have a lot of women who listen to

888
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:56,120
Speaker 1: the show in business A couple in the room. What

889
00:39:56,200 --> 00:39:57,960
Speaker 1: would be and I know it's probably hard to narrow

890
00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:00,279
Speaker 1: it down, what would be a main sort of piece

891
00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:02,799
Speaker 1: of advice that you would give to really anybody, but

892
00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:06,200
Speaker 1: maybe especially a woman who's you building a brand and

893
00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:07,560
Speaker 1: trying to start a business.

894
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Speaker 12: Well, first of all, your life is more important than

895
00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:14,520
Speaker 12: your work. Your health is the most important thing. If

896
00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:16,680
Speaker 12: you don't feel good and you don't eat right, and

897
00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 12: you don't exercise, how are you going to have the

898
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:21,920
Speaker 12: stamina to do all the things that needs to get done.

899
00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:24,360
Speaker 12: Because you can't ignore anything, you have to kind of

900
00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:26,960
Speaker 12: be over all of it. And for women particularly, I

901
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:30,640
Speaker 12: really do believe women we are the ultimate multitaskers. So

902
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:33,759
Speaker 12: we can do all these things if we're creative and

903
00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:36,479
Speaker 12: organized and just figure stuff out.

904
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Speaker 13: I had to do it kind of on the run,

905
00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:39,839
Speaker 13: and so I've added.

906
00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:42,759
Speaker 12: A whole bunch of hacks in my book for working moms,

907
00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:45,360
Speaker 12: like how you get how you do this, and mostly

908
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:48,680
Speaker 12: like the real story about it's not all perfect. Sometimes

909
00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:51,440
Speaker 12: it's a big old mess and you just got to

910
00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:52,319
Speaker 12: get on with it.

911
00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:55,480
Speaker 1: That's great advice. What is the worst advice anyone has

912
00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:57,359
Speaker 1: ever given you? In all the different ventures that you've

913
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Speaker 1: been involved with.

914
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Speaker 12: No one wants to take advance from a soccer mom.

915
00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:05,520
Speaker 12: I've had so many like dumb advices. Someone once told

916
00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:08,080
Speaker 12: me that I was very demure. I'm five foot tall

917
00:41:08,440 --> 00:41:10,920
Speaker 12: and I need something so people notice me when I

918
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:13,360
Speaker 12: walk in a room. Perhaps I get a hat with

919
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Speaker 12: a feather in it.

920
00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:18,480
Speaker 13: Oh, I'm like, great advice, great advice.

921
00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:21,080
Speaker 12: Yeah, can you imagine me walking into the hat and

922
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:21,560
Speaker 12: a feather?

923
00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:25,279
Speaker 1: You know, So you did some sort of signature and

924
00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:27,400
Speaker 1: that was it. Huh you do you do?

925
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:30,080
Speaker 12: But you know what, I didn't come to this, you know,

926
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Speaker 12: confidence when I was young. I mean, it really took

927
00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:36,319
Speaker 12: me a long time to realize. You know, guys, I

928
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:38,600
Speaker 12: don't need to be what you are telling me to be.

929
00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:41,640
Speaker 12: I just need to be myself and that's really, you know,

930
00:41:41,719 --> 00:41:44,799
Speaker 12: the secret to being confident. So I do tell all

931
00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:47,839
Speaker 12: these all these stories in the book that somehow you know,

932
00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:50,680
Speaker 12: I still remember, thank goodness, because there's a lot of them.

933
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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's Bobby Brown, It's still Bobby. That's the book.

934
00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:57,439
Speaker 1: Tonight Naperville Anderson's Bookshop. You'll be there from seven to eight.

935
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Speaker 1: And we also have a lot of young women who

936
00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:05,359
Speaker 1: listen to us. What would you tell yourself all these

937
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:08,040
Speaker 1: years ago before you started down this road to learn

938
00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:08,800
Speaker 1: how to chill?

939
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Speaker 12: I have not done that, by the way, That's the

940
00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:13,160
Speaker 12: thing I'm most unsuccessful.

941
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:16,399
Speaker 13: How to chill and how to you.

942
00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:19,839
Speaker 12: Know, like lower my cortisol and you know, calm down.

943
00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:22,680
Speaker 12: It doesn't mean I can't do everything I want to do.

944
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Speaker 13: So that's my biggest advice.

945
00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:27,439
Speaker 12: And just just honestly, just know there are so many

946
00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:30,719
Speaker 12: possibilities out there and you could really like create your

947
00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:33,759
Speaker 12: own story. You just have to be comfortable that to

948
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:36,520
Speaker 12: know that you're able to do this. And also you

949
00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:40,120
Speaker 12: don't know everything. Be a sponge and learn. I'm still learning.

950
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Speaker 1: I've learned so much in the last five minutes. It's

951
00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:45,839
Speaker 1: and I don't mean to say, but navy being more

952
00:42:45,880 --> 00:42:48,240
Speaker 1: flattering than black is the main takeaway.

953
00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:51,279
Speaker 12: And then I get to wear blue jeans, and then

954
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:53,359
Speaker 12: you get to wear blue jeans all the time, and

955
00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:56,480
Speaker 12: I don't have to spend money dry cleaning my black pants.

956
00:42:56,600 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 1: So you know this is I'm going to go read

957
00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 1: the book. I'm sure I'm going to be inspired. This

958
00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:02,920
Speaker 1: changed things for me right now because I thought black

959
00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:04,520
Speaker 1: was the way to get away with it. But night

960
00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:07,359
Speaker 1: now Bobby Brown's telling me it's navy, So navy it is.

961
00:43:08,239 --> 00:43:10,080
Speaker 12: And you can do navy and black if you're not

962
00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:11,120
Speaker 12: quite all navy yet.

963
00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:13,000
Speaker 1: Okay, I think that's a little That's what that Matt's

964
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:16,000
Speaker 1: getting risky for me because I'm not you. But go

965
00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:18,479
Speaker 1: see Bobby Brown tonight. Buy everyone, buy the book wherever

966
00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:21,160
Speaker 1: you are, but then Anderson's Bookshop in Aprilville from seven

967
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:23,640
Speaker 1: to eight. You'll be there.

968
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Speaker 6: I am not salty, okay, I am single and sweet.

969
00:43:27,520 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 1: You should listen just to see what's going to happen

970
00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:34,200
Speaker 1: next Fred's show. Is I have to delete that one?

971
00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:38,480
Speaker 1: What I'm single and sweet? Technically we're still doing that.

972
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:41,720
Speaker 6: No, no, no, it's not I'm not doing anything.

973
00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:43,440
Speaker 1: The rules change all the time.

974
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Speaker 6: No, no, no, I am engaged, but when I file

975
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:49,640
Speaker 6: taxes I am technically still single.

976
00:43:49,680 --> 00:43:53,839
Speaker 1: Oh lord, yes, okay, it's Monday, October sixth of fread

977
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Speaker 1: shows on High Kayler Hi, Jason Brown, Hi, good morning.

978
00:43:57,760 --> 00:43:59,879
Speaker 1: She Shelley one hundred bucks in the show down lost

979
00:43:59,880 --> 00:44:03,040
Speaker 1: on Friday. She's never launched two in a row? Will

980
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:04,960
Speaker 1: it happen today? Waiting by the phone is new? And next?

981
00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:07,600
Speaker 1: Why does somebody get gohoes? Should be entertainment report? What's

982
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Speaker 1: in there? Case?

983
00:44:08,280 --> 00:44:11,080
Speaker 10: I have your reason to be mad today it is

984
00:44:11,120 --> 00:44:14,520
Speaker 10: at Amazon Prime for something they did to a very

985
00:44:14,560 --> 00:44:16,319
Speaker 10: popular movie franchise.

986
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:19,480
Speaker 1: Okay, and blogs right now, and we're commercial free the

987
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Speaker 1: next forty five minutes. No commercial Yeah, they talk better

988
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Speaker 1: than the excited. These are the radio blogs on the

989
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Speaker 1: Fresh like're riding in our diaries, except we say them aloud.

990
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Speaker 1: We call them blogs ki kig.

991
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Speaker 6: Yes, dear blog. And I hope this is just a

992
00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:38,520
Speaker 6: safe space because honestly, the way this Morg did I

993
00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:40,520
Speaker 6: don't know, but I need it to be because the

994
00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:43,880
Speaker 6: way that this morning has gone for me. Please just

995
00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:47,239
Speaker 6: handle me with caution, because I am I am, I'm

996
00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:49,880
Speaker 6: at my wits end. Bro, Have you ever just like

997
00:44:50,040 --> 00:44:52,120
Speaker 6: waking up and it's like you should go to bed,

998
00:44:52,160 --> 00:44:54,279
Speaker 6: you should go back to bed and just start this

999
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:57,720
Speaker 6: whole thing over, because it's just not it's not going well.

1000
00:44:58,160 --> 00:45:00,480
Speaker 6: And that is how this morning has gone for me,

1001
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:04,680
Speaker 6: literally from the moment I opened these eyes, these hazel eyes.

1002
00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:06,680
Speaker 1: I behind them. What was happening behind them?

1003
00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:10,200
Speaker 6: First of all? And I won't I know, y'all get

1004
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:12,160
Speaker 6: mad when I bag on Big Tim. But the man

1005
00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:15,880
Speaker 6: did a deep cleaning yesterday. Okay, that was his contribution

1006
00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:18,719
Speaker 6: to the house yesterday. Nobody asked for that. So all

1007
00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:21,840
Speaker 6: of my clothes are mixed up. I don't know where

1008
00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:22,640
Speaker 6: anything is.

1009
00:45:22,800 --> 00:45:25,120
Speaker 1: Oh he organized your clothes, shoes, yes.

1010
00:45:25,400 --> 00:45:27,799
Speaker 6: Boy, And no one asks for this. I was out

1011
00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:30,520
Speaker 6: looking at wedding venues with my sister. I come back,

1012
00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:33,920
Speaker 6: I smell chlorocks. I'm already nervous, you know how I

1013
00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:35,920
Speaker 6: feel about that. So I'm like, oh boy.

1014
00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:38,000
Speaker 4: Then I go into my glam room.

1015
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:41,200
Speaker 6: I'm talking about this man has rearranged my wigs, my shoes.

1016
00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:44,520
Speaker 6: I'm like, okay, you know, but I'm trying to be grateful,

1017
00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:47,359
Speaker 6: So I'm like thanks, yes and so.

1018
00:45:47,680 --> 00:45:50,399
Speaker 4: And I lived in a denial room in the glam room,

1019
00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:51,319
Speaker 4: I'm like, what are you doing?

1020
00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:54,520
Speaker 1: Should Why is he organizing your room? Like I could

1021
00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:57,040
Speaker 1: see the house maybe like shared things, but like I

1022
00:45:57,080 --> 00:45:58,880
Speaker 1: wouldn't want anybody touching the my stuff.

1023
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:01,840
Speaker 6: I really think he was to prepare for my downfall, honestly,

1024
00:46:02,040 --> 00:46:04,080
Speaker 6: because when I was like yesterday, I just lived in

1025
00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:05,319
Speaker 6: a denial of it all right.

1026
00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:07,080
Speaker 4: I was on a waiting hide. So I came in.

1027
00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:08,720
Speaker 4: I was like, oh, you're cleaning the house. Okay.

1028
00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:10,919
Speaker 6: In the back of my mind, I said, that's gonna

1029
00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:13,720
Speaker 6: be terrible for you tomorrow morning, but let's just basking

1030
00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:16,000
Speaker 6: it right now. So I wake up this morning. I

1031
00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:18,120
Speaker 6: can't find a sock from a pair of underwear. I

1032
00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:21,280
Speaker 6: don't know where anything is. So I'm running late, and

1033
00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:23,279
Speaker 6: then my wig is lifting. Because I'm running late, I

1034
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:25,399
Speaker 6: haven't had enough time to lay it down. So then

1035
00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:27,480
Speaker 6: I get in the car. This car almost ran me

1036
00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:29,279
Speaker 6: off the road this morning on the expressway.

1037
00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:31,040
Speaker 4: Then I get downtown.

1038
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:34,120
Speaker 6: They're filming some TV show somewhere, so I'm running into

1039
00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 6: Cones trying to get into the parking garage.

1040
00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:37,319
Speaker 1: I get into the.

1041
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:43,840
Speaker 6: I get in the garage, somebody is in my parking space. No,

1042
00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:45,919
Speaker 6: we don't have a signed parking sway, but I feel

1043
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:48,399
Speaker 6: like it's fine, you know, like any other day is mine.

1044
00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:50,359
Speaker 6: Why are you in there? So then I gotta find

1045
00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:53,160
Speaker 6: other parking space. I get on the elevator, I see

1046
00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:54,400
Speaker 6: Jason's beautiful face.

1047
00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:56,680
Speaker 4: We ride up together. I tell him all of this.

1048
00:46:57,120 --> 00:46:58,040
Speaker 4: Then I can get here.

1049
00:46:58,160 --> 00:47:00,720
Speaker 6: I try to be positive with my egg from Duckett,

1050
00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:02,560
Speaker 6: like sitting here to start to show my.

1051
00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:03,480
Speaker 4: Headphones are missing.

1052
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:04,479
Speaker 1: You're okay.

1053
00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:06,080
Speaker 4: Now I need to go home.

1054
00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:09,680
Speaker 1: These sorts of days are self fulfilling, and so I

1055
00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:13,240
Speaker 1: am typically not kept in positivity. But you must change.

1056
00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:17,160
Speaker 1: You must revert to a positive mental attitude, because what

1057
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:20,160
Speaker 1: happens is you start to piece these things together and

1058
00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:22,719
Speaker 1: then you put this energy out and then everything you

1059
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:25,640
Speaker 1: start to see, things that wouldn't have irritated you before

1060
00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:28,080
Speaker 1: that contribute to the kind of day you're having. We

1061
00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:31,319
Speaker 1: must turn this around right now? How I don't know

1062
00:47:31,560 --> 00:47:32,239
Speaker 1: how do we do it?

1063
00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:34,160
Speaker 6: And then I looked up to the moon because I

1064
00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:36,480
Speaker 6: was like, somebody, come give me. The Lord got to

1065
00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:39,399
Speaker 6: do something, and I look, it's a full moon. Now

1066
00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:41,239
Speaker 6: I'm like, is that does that play a part in

1067
00:47:41,320 --> 00:47:42,680
Speaker 6: all of this, Caitlin.

1068
00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:43,799
Speaker 4: I know you believe in.

1069
00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:46,560
Speaker 10: Us though, yes, but also it's just science. Think about

1070
00:47:46,560 --> 00:47:48,600
Speaker 10: how much water makes up your body and then think

1071
00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:50,839
Speaker 10: about the fact that the moon controls the tides, like and.

1072
00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:51,960
Speaker 1: It's pulling on your wig right now.

1073
00:47:54,640 --> 00:47:56,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, I just need to go to be it.

1074
00:47:56,200 --> 00:47:58,080
Speaker 6: And and I want to just say to anyone listen,

1075
00:47:58,120 --> 00:47:59,879
Speaker 6: if you have this type of morning press on.

1076
00:48:02,360 --> 00:48:03,719
Speaker 4: It seems like Jason is too.

1077
00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:07,280
Speaker 2: So yeah, it's been a it's been a rough weekend,

1078
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:09,000
Speaker 2: a rough morning. But I'm having the same thing. So

1079
00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:12,000
Speaker 2: we were trying to commission. We have to turn it around.

1080
00:48:12,040 --> 00:48:12,960
Speaker 2: I don't know what I can do.

1081
00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:15,000
Speaker 1: I'm not sure what I could do, but you must

1082
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:18,960
Speaker 1: turn it around because again, like you, it's like like

1083
00:48:19,040 --> 00:48:22,080
Speaker 1: that character in the Peanuts with little cloud over him

1084
00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:24,439
Speaker 1: all the time, Like you can't have that. I think

1085
00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:26,319
Speaker 1: it's dust or dirt over him. I think he's good,

1086
00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:28,840
Speaker 1: he's dirty, is it pig pen, Yeah, it's good. He

1087
00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:30,600
Speaker 1: didn't take it shut. But that's not what That's not

1088
00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:32,440
Speaker 1: the case here. I just mean, like you can walk

1089
00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:35,120
Speaker 1: around that little cloud just raining on you, but and

1090
00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:38,160
Speaker 1: then everything sort of contributes, like you start looking at

1091
00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:41,120
Speaker 1: it through that filter, and then you start noticing things

1092
00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:42,880
Speaker 1: that wouldn't have because you know, like when you're on

1093
00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:45,120
Speaker 1: cloud nine, you know, when it's the opposite of the

1094
00:48:45,160 --> 00:48:47,160
Speaker 1: day you're having and someone like kicks you in the

1095
00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:50,719
Speaker 1: balls and you're like, I didn't feel it, couldn't possibly

1096
00:48:50,800 --> 00:48:52,920
Speaker 1: feel it, you know what I mean? But so we

1097
00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:54,919
Speaker 1: need But then now, right now, you're in the mode

1098
00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:57,880
Speaker 1: that like anything that's out of place, you see, it

1099
00:48:57,920 --> 00:49:00,480
Speaker 1: contributes to this bad day. So we gotta turn it around.

1100
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:03,480
Speaker 4: Guys, all right, I mean I'm trying. I'm trying, y'all.

1101
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 4: Well you look pretty well. Thank you, enough of you.

1102
00:49:07,280 --> 00:49:09,520
Speaker 1: I couldn't even tell the wig wasn't sitting right, Yeah

1103
00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:11,640
Speaker 1: it's Jason. I couldn't tell yours wasn't either. Hey, it's

1104
00:49:11,680 --> 00:49:12,759
Speaker 1: barely hanging around.

1105
00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:14,920
Speaker 4: Bro, you got a wig after that bald spot?

1106
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:18,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's my two pegs. I'm bald. What's funny is

1107
00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:20,960
Speaker 1: you weren't bald until you stuck another piece of hair

1108
00:49:21,000 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 1: on top of your hair. Right now, all of a sudden,

1109
00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:25,360
Speaker 1: I think you have a problem. Ever been left waiting

1110
00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:29,839
Speaker 1: by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Hey, Shannon, good morning,

1111
00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:32,520
Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. How are you, Hey? Doing all right,

1112
00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:35,759
Speaker 1: what's going on with this guy? Adam on waiting by

1113
00:49:35,760 --> 00:49:37,439
Speaker 1: the phone? We got to know how you met? About

1114
00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:39,560
Speaker 1: any dates that you've been on? Tell us about those,

1115
00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:43,000
Speaker 1: and then why do you think maybe you're being ghosted? Okay?

1116
00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:48,800
Speaker 14: Yeah, I met Adam on Hinge. We matched, we started chatting.

1117
00:49:49,160 --> 00:49:53,280
Speaker 15: It was going well, we'll like shame send the humor,

1118
00:49:53,560 --> 00:49:55,520
Speaker 15: same music taste.

1119
00:49:57,160 --> 00:49:58,839
Speaker 14: And then so after like.

1120
00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:03,359
Speaker 15: A week of talking, we went out for drinks and

1121
00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:07,880
Speaker 15: I don't know, we had a really good time, and honestly,

1122
00:50:07,960 --> 00:50:12,960
Speaker 15: like after like a couple of drinks, got like a

1123
00:50:13,000 --> 00:50:16,200
Speaker 15: little touchy, and I was like, come back to my place.

1124
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:18,600
Speaker 15: And I normally wouldn't say that on the radio, but

1125
00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:20,680
Speaker 15: I feel like it's really important to the story.

1126
00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:23,640
Speaker 1: I normally don't do this. I normally I don't normally

1127
00:50:23,640 --> 00:50:26,280
Speaker 1: do this kind of thing. Yeah I've heard that before. Okay,

1128
00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:29,799
Speaker 1: but normally that's true. You normally don't do this kind

1129
00:50:29,800 --> 00:50:31,719
Speaker 1: of thing. So it was back to your place and

1130
00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:32,120
Speaker 1: then what.

1131
00:50:32,680 --> 00:50:35,480
Speaker 14: Okay, So everything was going great.

1132
00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:40,399
Speaker 15: We were in the cab, it was a vibe, and

1133
00:50:40,440 --> 00:50:46,160
Speaker 15: then once we got there everything changed, he like got

1134
00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:46,800
Speaker 15: really weird.

1135
00:50:48,800 --> 00:50:50,759
Speaker 16: We didn't even get to the front door. And he

1136
00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:54,160
Speaker 16: got really sweaty and told me that he wasn't feeling

1137
00:50:54,160 --> 00:51:00,160
Speaker 16: well and had to leave, like super abroughly honestly, like

1138
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:03,239
Speaker 16: I thought like, okay, maybe he drank too much. But

1139
00:51:03,280 --> 00:51:05,399
Speaker 16: then like when I checked on him later to see

1140
00:51:05,400 --> 00:51:07,280
Speaker 16: if he was okay, he just didn't answer.

1141
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 1: Oh, so he goes from this, this is like gonna

1142
00:51:12,040 --> 00:51:13,640
Speaker 1: be a lot of fun. We're going back to my place,

1143
00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:16,520
Speaker 1: We're gonna do whatever. It goes from that too, he's sick,

1144
00:51:16,560 --> 00:51:20,680
Speaker 1: has to leave, and now he's ghosting you. Yep, huh

1145
00:51:20,719 --> 00:51:24,120
Speaker 1: how do we get there? Yeah? So let's yeah, that's interesting.

1146
00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:26,399
Speaker 1: Let's call Adam. We're gonna play a song. We'll call Adam.

1147
00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:28,080
Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone at the same time, and

1148
00:51:28,080 --> 00:51:30,040
Speaker 1: we're gonna try and figure out what's going on, see

1149
00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:32,120
Speaker 1: kind of what happened there, and hopefully we can straighten

1150
00:51:32,160 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 1: things out and then set you guys up on another

1151
00:51:34,120 --> 00:51:38,080
Speaker 1: date that we pay for. Sound good, okay? Yeah? Hey, Shannon, yep,

1152
00:51:38,160 --> 00:51:40,600
Speaker 1: all right, let's call this guy Adam. You met on Hinge.

1153
00:51:40,719 --> 00:51:42,560
Speaker 1: You went on a date. The date went well well

1154
00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:45,120
Speaker 1: enough that you invited him back to your place. But

1155
00:51:45,160 --> 00:51:47,040
Speaker 1: between the time that you invited him in the time

1156
00:51:47,080 --> 00:51:48,960
Speaker 1: you got to your front door. The guy was like,

1157
00:51:49,160 --> 00:51:53,640
Speaker 1: look visibly ill left and then now you have not

1158
00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:56,000
Speaker 1: heard from him since he hasn't responded to you. You've

1159
00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:57,879
Speaker 1: reached out to him to check on him. Nothing, he's

1160
00:51:57,920 --> 00:52:00,600
Speaker 1: ghosting you. You want to know why? Yeah, all right,

1161
00:52:00,680 --> 00:52:09,200
Speaker 1: let's call him right now. Good luck, Shannon. Hello, Hi,

1162
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:13,200
Speaker 1: is this Adam? Yes, Adam, good morning. My name is Fred.

1163
00:52:13,200 --> 00:52:15,439
Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Fred Show, the morning radio show.

1164
00:52:15,480 --> 00:52:16,520
Speaker 1: I have to tell you that we are on the

1165
00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:19,120
Speaker 1: radio right now and I would need your permission to

1166
00:52:19,120 --> 00:52:20,520
Speaker 1: continue with the call. Is it okay? If we ch

1167
00:52:20,600 --> 00:52:24,120
Speaker 1: have for just a second, you can hang up anytime. Okay,

1168
00:52:24,400 --> 00:52:26,480
Speaker 1: thank you. I know it's kind of an awkward thing,

1169
00:52:26,480 --> 00:52:29,240
Speaker 1: but we're calling on behalf of a woman named Shannon,

1170
00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:31,959
Speaker 1: who I guess you met on Hinge and you guys

1171
00:52:31,960 --> 00:52:36,200
Speaker 1: went on a date recently. Do you remember her?

1172
00:52:37,880 --> 00:52:38,560
Speaker 17: Yeah?

1173
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:44,160
Speaker 1: That was a strange noise. Okay, Well, did I get

1174
00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:47,040
Speaker 1: you in the middle of something or Hey, we're calling

1175
00:52:47,080 --> 00:52:48,920
Speaker 1: because she reached out to us and said that you

1176
00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:51,200
Speaker 1: guys had matched and that you went on a date

1177
00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:54,120
Speaker 1: and that the date went well except somewhere between the

1178
00:52:54,200 --> 00:52:55,839
Speaker 1: end of the date and maybe going back to her

1179
00:52:55,880 --> 00:52:59,120
Speaker 1: place you were ill and that you you've been missing

1180
00:52:59,120 --> 00:53:01,360
Speaker 1: an action and we had no problem getting hold of you.

1181
00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:03,120
Speaker 1: So what's going on? Why are you ignoring her?

1182
00:53:03,760 --> 00:53:09,040
Speaker 17: It's not going to be a mask? Okay, it's why

1183
00:53:09,080 --> 00:53:09,319
Speaker 17: is it?

1184
00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:11,080
Speaker 1: Why is it not going to be? Are you? Are

1185
00:53:11,080 --> 00:53:13,799
Speaker 1: you okay right now? Like what's going on?

1186
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:21,920
Speaker 17: Okay? This is gonna sound odd, but I I hate

1187
00:53:22,800 --> 00:53:30,760
Speaker 17: those inflatable lawn decorations, hate and and and her entire

1188
00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:35,560
Speaker 17: lawn is comfort with them for Halloween?

1189
00:53:36,120 --> 00:53:39,279
Speaker 1: Okay. So you so you go to her house and

1190
00:53:39,320 --> 00:53:43,360
Speaker 1: she's got like a pumpkin and I don't know whatever

1191
00:53:43,560 --> 00:53:49,440
Speaker 1: goblin or whatever. Yeah, yeah, like a skeleton or something

1192
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:52,480
Speaker 1: that's all blown up in the front yard. So she's festive.

1193
00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:55,319
Speaker 1: She she got into Halloween a little bit. And but

1194
00:53:55,400 --> 00:53:58,680
Speaker 1: why did you start sweating? And like and you sound

1195
00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:01,560
Speaker 1: like things aren't okay right now? Like are you scared

1196
00:54:01,600 --> 00:54:03,000
Speaker 1: of it? Or what's the problem?

1197
00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:09,440
Speaker 17: I I I dislike them. I I guess you could.

1198
00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:12,560
Speaker 18: Say I have more than just like I have a ptobia.

1199
00:54:13,840 --> 00:54:17,080
Speaker 10: Yeah, okay, are you are you having like an episode

1200
00:54:17,520 --> 00:54:18,359
Speaker 10: right now?

1201
00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:21,080
Speaker 1: I mean, did she have like a like a coffin

1202
00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:23,120
Speaker 1: and something like it with it. It was it was

1203
00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:25,279
Speaker 1: it very realistic because the ones I've seen that you

1204
00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:28,560
Speaker 1: buy it like Home Depot, are not they're not super realistic.

1205
00:54:30,680 --> 00:54:34,400
Speaker 17: She had every everything, pump and coffin.

1206
00:54:34,840 --> 00:54:41,000
Speaker 1: Are you did she have that DJ guy, you know,

1207
00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:43,759
Speaker 1: the skeleton DJ that played music with the bluetooth, Because

1208
00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:46,000
Speaker 1: that's kind of that's that's kind of cool, right, that's

1209
00:54:46,040 --> 00:54:47,560
Speaker 1: new for this season, you know what I mean?

1210
00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:49,479
Speaker 4: I saw that when I hear music makes me dance.

1211
00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:52,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I like that right right, Hey, Shannon, this dude's

1212
00:54:52,680 --> 00:54:55,719
Speaker 1: having a real problem right now with your Halloween decorations,

1213
00:54:55,760 --> 00:54:57,920
Speaker 1: which is a new one. We haven't heard that one before.

1214
00:54:58,120 --> 00:55:00,759
Speaker 1: I mean he sounds like I'm actually little concerned, Adam,

1215
00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 1: Are you okay?

1216
00:55:02,080 --> 00:55:02,840
Speaker 17: Sure?

1217
00:55:10,760 --> 00:55:11,200
Speaker 4: My thoughts?

1218
00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:16,880
Speaker 1: I mean I'm confused, Like, I mean, how realistic are

1219
00:55:16,920 --> 00:55:20,320
Speaker 1: these decorations? Like is it is like a man changing

1220
00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:22,440
Speaker 1: people around with a change saw in your yard? Like

1221
00:55:22,440 --> 00:55:28,360
Speaker 1: why why he's so scarred by this and the noises

1222
00:55:28,400 --> 00:55:28,960
Speaker 1: he's making?

1223
00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:33,040
Speaker 15: I don't even really know what to say here, So

1224
00:55:33,080 --> 00:55:35,680
Speaker 15: you I really don't even have that many like I

1225
00:55:35,719 --> 00:55:39,240
Speaker 15: have like a witch, I have like a pumpkin.

1226
00:55:40,000 --> 00:55:42,960
Speaker 14: Oh my god, Okay, I don't know if.

1227
00:55:42,840 --> 00:55:46,640
Speaker 1: These noises are I'm not certain these noises are associated

1228
00:55:46,680 --> 00:55:51,200
Speaker 1: with this call. I thought like.

1229
00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:53,320
Speaker 4: Phobia of some sort of I don't know.

1230
00:55:53,520 --> 00:55:55,040
Speaker 1: I don't want to make fun of you, man, but

1231
00:55:55,080 --> 00:55:57,279
Speaker 1: it's just like I don't know, you sound uncomfortable, like

1232
00:55:57,320 --> 00:55:59,360
Speaker 1: physically uncomfortable, and I don't want you to be that

1233
00:55:59,400 --> 00:56:00,239
Speaker 1: way that.

1234
00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:02,480
Speaker 13: They're just they're discrusting, they're disgusting.

1235
00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:07,000
Speaker 14: Okay, okay, okay, okay.

1236
00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:08,680
Speaker 1: Like I've seen the light displays where it looks like

1237
00:56:08,760 --> 00:56:11,120
Speaker 1: bugs are you know, all over you know what I mean. Like,

1238
00:56:11,160 --> 00:56:12,640
Speaker 1: but none of that I have.

1239
00:56:12,680 --> 00:56:16,640
Speaker 15: Like your you have, like your standard like cute. It's

1240
00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:21,200
Speaker 15: like cute, it's like family friendly, it's and it's nice.

1241
00:56:21,880 --> 00:56:22,200
Speaker 9: They're not.

1242
00:56:22,400 --> 00:56:25,440
Speaker 14: Oh my god, Okay, well this weird.

1243
00:56:26,040 --> 00:56:30,120
Speaker 1: Actually Okay, look I actually do. Yeah. I don't want

1244
00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:33,200
Speaker 1: to continue to make you feel however you feel right now.

1245
00:56:37,880 --> 00:56:41,319
Speaker 1: Yah seems excessive, but I don't want to make fun

1246
00:56:41,360 --> 00:56:44,080
Speaker 1: of someone's phobia. Som Look, you must have a real

1247
00:56:44,120 --> 00:56:46,799
Speaker 1: time with the month of October, like in general, are

1248
00:56:46,800 --> 00:56:48,120
Speaker 1: you able to go to like a store?

1249
00:56:48,680 --> 00:56:51,600
Speaker 17: I hate you? No, I hate October.

1250
00:56:52,719 --> 00:56:53,279
Speaker 14: Oh my god.

1251
00:56:53,560 --> 00:56:55,440
Speaker 1: I guess it's all makes sense now, But look, Okay,

1252
00:56:55,560 --> 00:56:58,840
Speaker 1: so Adam is scared of Halloween and and you're a

1253
00:56:58,840 --> 00:57:02,359
Speaker 1: Halloween person and so and he's making strange noises still,

1254
00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:04,520
Speaker 1: So I'm just gonna end this call because I don't

1255
00:57:04,560 --> 00:57:06,120
Speaker 1: I don't want him to be in any you know.

1256
00:57:06,320 --> 00:57:07,960
Speaker 1: And he could have hung up at any time he

1257
00:57:08,000 --> 00:57:15,120
Speaker 1: wanted to. He okay, yeah, ok yeah, I got yeah, yeah,

1258
00:57:15,160 --> 00:57:17,479
Speaker 1: I don't know. I wish you the best, man. I'm sorry.

1259
00:57:17,520 --> 00:57:19,320
Speaker 1: I hope you you know, you work it all out.

1260
00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:21,080
Speaker 1: And I'm sorry about the month of October for you

1261
00:57:21,160 --> 00:57:23,320
Speaker 1: and Shannon obviously not a match.

1262
00:57:23,680 --> 00:57:25,600
Speaker 14: Yeah.

1263
00:57:25,720 --> 00:57:28,439
Speaker 1: Caron is Entertainment Report. He's on the Bread Show.

1264
00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:30,040
Speaker 4: You can see this story.

1265
00:57:30,240 --> 00:57:33,840
Speaker 10: Actor and singer Tyrese Gibson was arrested Friday in Georgia

1266
00:57:33,880 --> 00:57:38,640
Speaker 10: for misdemeanor animal cruelty after his four Cane Corso dogs

1267
00:57:38,640 --> 00:57:41,760
Speaker 10: fatally mauled a neighbor's five year old King Charles.

1268
00:57:42,040 --> 00:57:43,720
Speaker 4: Tyrese initially missed a.

1269
00:57:43,720 --> 00:57:46,880
Speaker 10: Surrender deadline, but later turned himself in and was released

1270
00:57:46,920 --> 00:57:49,760
Speaker 10: on twenty thousand dollars bond. He said he was away

1271
00:57:50,160 --> 00:57:52,919
Speaker 10: at the time that the dogs attacked his neighbor's dog,

1272
00:57:53,360 --> 00:57:55,680
Speaker 10: and he said the dogs have since been rehomed. He

1273
00:57:55,840 --> 00:57:59,720
Speaker 10: expressed his condolences to his neighbor, but cops called the

1274
00:57:59,760 --> 00:58:04,040
Speaker 10: in negligent, saying it is a pet owner's responsibility to

1275
00:58:04,120 --> 00:58:07,200
Speaker 10: control their pets, and it's I cannot imagine what his

1276
00:58:07,280 --> 00:58:08,160
Speaker 10: neighbor is feeling.

1277
00:58:08,600 --> 00:58:10,680
Speaker 4: Amazon, And this is your reason to be mad today.

1278
00:58:10,720 --> 00:58:11,280
Speaker 4: I know the world.

1279
00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:16,240
Speaker 1: I was a just several Yeah, so she already mad,

1280
00:58:16,280 --> 00:58:17,120
Speaker 1: but like, no, tell me.

1281
00:58:17,120 --> 00:58:19,320
Speaker 10: Yeah, I'm gonna I'm gonna give you a reason, because

1282
00:58:19,320 --> 00:58:21,640
Speaker 10: we always need a reason to be mad in this climate,

1283
00:58:21,680 --> 00:58:25,000
Speaker 10: I guess. Amazon Prime Video has re released the entire

1284
00:58:25,120 --> 00:58:29,400
Speaker 10: James Bond film catalog, but fans notice a significant change.

1285
00:58:29,720 --> 00:58:32,320
Speaker 10: The guns held by Double O seven on the movie

1286
00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:37,000
Speaker 10: postered posters have been digitally removed. In some instances, the

1287
00:58:37,120 --> 00:58:41,680
Speaker 10: firearms have been entirely cropped out, leaving Bond's hands awkwardly positioned,

1288
00:58:41,720 --> 00:58:44,400
Speaker 10: so he'd be like this and the gun is just missing.

1289
00:58:44,440 --> 00:58:48,360
Speaker 10: Of course, the decision sparked backlash among people who have

1290
00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:52,120
Speaker 10: way too much time on their hands. During her performance

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Speaker 10: at the Austin City Limits Festival over the weekend, Sabrina

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Speaker 10: Carpenter surprised the crowd by bringing out the Queen Shania

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Speaker 10: Twain to do her that don't impress me much. During

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Speaker 10: the duet, Shaniah changed the lyrics from Okay, so You're

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Speaker 10: a Brad Pitt to okay, so You're from Austin, Texas,

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Speaker 10: and the crowd went absolutely crazy.

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Speaker 4: Taylor Swift says she has.

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Speaker 10: No plans to tour for her new album, The Life

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Speaker 10: of a Showgirl, which dropped on Friday. No one was

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Speaker 10: talking about it, so I'm sure you didn't hear. She

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Speaker 10: told BBC Radio. I'm gonna be really honest with you,

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Speaker 10: I am so tired when I think about doing it again,

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Speaker 10: because I would really really want to do it well,

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Speaker 10: which I'm happy to hear that she's finally tired, because

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Speaker 10: she never admits that. Remember, during the Eras tour, which

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Speaker 10: ran from March of twenty twenty three to December of

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Speaker 10: last year, she had one hundred and forty nine shows

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Speaker 10: in fifty one cities. Most of the time she did

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Speaker 10: three three and a half hour shows in a row,

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Speaker 10: back to back to back, and she called it the

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Speaker 10: most exhausting challenge ever physically.

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Speaker 4: So I don't know.

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Speaker 10: I don't know if she's telling the truth or not,

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Speaker 10: but I'm glad to hear she's finally tired.

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Speaker 4: Over the weekend.

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Speaker 10: Also, she became the first woman to have a number

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Speaker 10: one album, song, and movie in the US and the

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Speaker 10: first artist sent Prince to do that.

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Speaker 4: I think he did it in the eighties.

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Speaker 10: The official release party of a Showgirl top the off

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Speaker 10: box office charts with thirty three million. It collected another

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Speaker 10: thirteen internationally, leaving a total of forty six And if

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Speaker 10: you are a parent who wants to take a little swifties,

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Speaker 10: she did make it family friendly, family friendly for you.

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Speaker 10: And the other hit smash over the weekend, The Rocks

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Speaker 10: the Smashing Machine took third place with six million, if

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Speaker 10: you were wondering about that, and people are saying really

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Speaker 10: good things about the movie. If you want to catch

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Speaker 10: up on anything that you missed from our show, you

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Speaker 10: can do so by typing the Fred Show on demand

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Speaker 10: and setting us as a preset.

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Speaker 4: If you can on the free iheartrate.

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Speaker 1: Do you have what it takes to battle show biz?

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Speaker 1: Shelley in the show Biz Showdown.

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Speaker 7: Shelley Oh coome winning high showbiz? Hi, how was your weekend?

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Speaker 1: It was good?

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Speaker 4: I would say the highlight. I got a Halloween decoration,

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Speaker 4: so that's exciting.

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Speaker 1: Stay away from the guy from waiting on the phone,

1340
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Speaker 1: he'll start making yeah.

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Speaker 10: So yeah, I would say that's probably the highlight of

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Speaker 10: I mean, you do that for the last few weeks,

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Speaker 10: so well, I.

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Speaker 1: Mean you got to it at least, you know, you

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Speaker 1: got three weeks until Halloween.

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Speaker 4: Well, you know, so do you put up any bread

1347
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Speaker 4: or No?

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Speaker 14: Not your little apartment.

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01:01:19,320 --> 01:01:23,760
Speaker 1: No, my little apartment doesn't tell me. I don't know

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Speaker 1: if I think the HOA would like find me or

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01:01:25,680 --> 01:01:27,960
Speaker 1: something if I put anything up. I can't be the

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Speaker 1: one guy. But Halloween lights up on my balcony in

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01:01:31,200 --> 01:01:34,160
Speaker 1: the building, I feel like they'd spot me or something. No,

1354
01:01:34,240 --> 01:01:35,439
Speaker 1: I know, nobody really does.

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Speaker 4: That probably would stick out.

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Speaker 1: I mean I live in a hotel. Basically, nobody really

1357
01:01:38,680 --> 01:01:41,360
Speaker 1: does anything like that. Nothing festive. I think the lobby

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01:01:41,400 --> 01:01:43,640
Speaker 1: puts up like a you know, some sort of non

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Speaker 1: offensive approved approved by the HOA board, you know, because

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Speaker 1: then comes a certain time of year. We have to

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Speaker 1: put up something for every possible holiday so that no

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Speaker 1: one's offended, you know what I mean, that kind of thing. Hey, Julie,

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Speaker 1: Hi Julie, good morning, Welcome, thank you for being part

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Speaker 1: of the thirteen Tell Me about You Fun fact about you.

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Speaker 13: Is what I decided to go back to school this year.

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Speaker 8: You did to become what acenographer? Okay, oh my god, wow,

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Speaker 8: good for you. All right, we look at it. We

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Speaker 8: got people who do it a little bit of everything.

1369
01:02:18,160 --> 01:02:21,479
Speaker 8: Listen to this program. One hundred bucks is the prize today?

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Speaker 8: Which one went out?

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Speaker 1: But Shelley has never lost this game twice in a row, Julie,

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01:02:26,720 --> 01:02:29,919
Speaker 1: today this could be a historical day and you could

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Speaker 1: go into history books.

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Speaker 14: I'm ready, Julie.

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Speaker 4: Good luck.

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Speaker 1: With all the respect Shelley, get the heck out. Question

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Speaker 1: number one for you, Julie. Miley Cyrus said her song

1378
01:02:41,800 --> 01:02:45,440
Speaker 1: Secrets brought she and her dad closer? Who's her dad?

1379
01:02:46,440 --> 01:02:46,880
Speaker 13: Hilly?

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01:02:47,360 --> 01:02:51,479
Speaker 1: Singers from this popular movie sang Golden on Saturday Night Live.

1381
01:02:51,520 --> 01:02:56,400
Speaker 1: Over the Weekend. What popular movie is that song? From

1382
01:02:56,880 --> 01:03:00,240
Speaker 1: the internet continued to buzz over Taylor Swift's song actually

1383
01:03:00,400 --> 01:03:03,160
Speaker 1: Romantic and rumors that it's about this pop star over

1384
01:03:03,200 --> 01:03:04,200
Speaker 1: the weekend name a singer?

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Speaker 14: Three oh Man two I don't know.

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01:03:10,120 --> 01:03:13,040
Speaker 1: Speaking of Taylor, Curtis Jackson hopped online to brag about

1387
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Speaker 1: being the only shout out on the life of a showgirl.

1388
01:03:16,960 --> 01:03:17,960
Speaker 1: What is he better known?

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Speaker 13: As Oh my god, I.

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01:03:20,600 --> 01:03:21,760
Speaker 4: Don't know, guess a rapper?

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Speaker 8: Three?

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01:03:23,040 --> 01:03:27,520
Speaker 1: Two one okay? And which dancer TikToker and Diet Pepsi

1393
01:03:27,640 --> 01:03:29,160
Speaker 1: singer is twenty five today?

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Speaker 13: Three?

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01:03:30,680 --> 01:03:33,400
Speaker 1: All right? To three? Not a bad score. I'm not

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01:03:33,440 --> 01:03:37,920
Speaker 1: sure if it's gonna be historical. You, Julie, are historically

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Speaker 1: you as an individual? Historical?

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Speaker 8: Is this?

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Speaker 1: I don't know? A? Three?

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Speaker 15: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Three is the score to meet? All right? You ready? Yes?

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01:03:45,720 --> 01:03:48,360
Speaker 1: Amty Cyrus and her song Secrets brought she and her

1403
01:03:48,440 --> 01:03:49,680
Speaker 1: dad closer? Who's her dad?

1404
01:03:50,480 --> 01:03:51,200
Speaker 4: Billy racers?

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01:03:51,320 --> 01:03:54,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, singers from this popular movie saying Golden on Saturday

1406
01:03:54,560 --> 01:03:56,520
Speaker 1: Night Live over the weekend? What popular movie is that?

1407
01:03:56,600 --> 01:03:58,520
Speaker 4: From K pop demon Hunt?

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01:03:58,720 --> 01:03:58,880
Speaker 17: Yeah?

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01:03:58,920 --> 01:04:02,160
Speaker 1: The internet continued to over Taylor Swift song actually romantic

1410
01:04:02,240 --> 01:04:04,680
Speaker 1: in rumors that it's about this pop star named the

1411
01:04:04,760 --> 01:04:09,600
Speaker 1: singer Charlie Yeah. Speaking of Taylor, Curtis Jackson hopped online

1412
01:04:09,600 --> 01:04:12,120
Speaker 1: to brag about being the only shout out on the

1413
01:04:12,160 --> 01:04:16,040
Speaker 1: life of a showgirl. What is he better known as? Yeah?

1414
01:04:16,080 --> 01:04:19,320
Speaker 1: And which singer TikToker and Diet Pepsi singer is twenty

1415
01:04:19,400 --> 01:04:20,000
Speaker 1: five today?

1416
01:04:21,600 --> 01:04:21,920
Speaker 14: Abson?

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01:04:22,200 --> 01:04:22,600
Speaker 1: That's all right?

1418
01:04:22,720 --> 01:04:23,040
Speaker 17: So five?

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01:04:23,120 --> 01:04:25,640
Speaker 1: That's a win. Julie, you did a good job, but

1420
01:04:25,680 --> 01:04:27,360
Speaker 1: you're gonna have to say my name is Julie, I

1421
01:04:27,360 --> 01:04:29,480
Speaker 1: got showed up on the showdown and you can't hang

1422
01:04:29,520 --> 01:04:30,160
Speaker 1: with the gorilla.

1423
01:04:30,200 --> 01:04:33,320
Speaker 11: Go my name is Julie. I got showed up on

1424
01:04:33,360 --> 01:04:35,840
Speaker 11: the showdown and I can't hang with the gorilla.

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01:04:36,960 --> 01:04:45,840
Speaker 1: Okay, It's all right, Julie. You can't hang with Rent

1426
01:04:45,920 --> 01:04:48,480
Speaker 1: can't cash.

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Speaker 6: Shout out to Curly's Chicksamoo.

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Speaker 1: This is the Bread Show. Each time. Celebrate the holiday

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Speaker 1: season with Carries Christmas Time in Las Vegas this November

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Speaker 1: twenty eight through December thirteenth, Adobe Live at Park MGM

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Speaker 1: and you could be going a trip for two to

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Speaker 1: the December twelfth show at two Night's Day at Park

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Speaker 1: MGM December twelfth through the fourteenth and round trip airfare.

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Speaker 1: Texts Fantasy to five seven, seven, three nine right now

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Speaker 1: for a chance to win. A confirmation text will be

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Speaker 1: sent standard message and data rates may apply. It's all

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Speaker 1: thanks to Live Nation.

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Speaker 14: Hey, wake up week.

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Speaker 4: Do you think I'm bilding a picture here? I'm on

1440
01:05:37,240 --> 01:05:38,640
Speaker 4: the picture, so then.

1441
01:05:38,760 --> 01:05:42,760
Speaker 1: Building a picture?

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Speaker 4: Yes, amazing a Yesing.

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Speaker 1: Freends show is on. It's Monday. Kiggi's stay getting better.

1444
01:05:50,520 --> 01:05:53,000
Speaker 6: You know what it is. Shout out to the thirteen.

1445
01:05:53,040 --> 01:05:57,400
Speaker 6: They sent me a lot of positive messages. Okay, good, Yes,

1446
01:05:57,480 --> 01:05:59,800
Speaker 6: I feel I feel stronger, better.

1447
01:06:00,360 --> 01:06:05,240
Speaker 1: We got to improve the mental attitude. Yes, we gotta

1448
01:06:05,280 --> 01:06:07,040
Speaker 1: have a positive mental attitude.

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Speaker 4: Yes.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why I'm the one saying it, but

1451
01:06:10,040 --> 01:06:11,840
Speaker 1: I'm the one saying it because if you don't, then

1452
01:06:12,600 --> 01:06:14,440
Speaker 1: you put it through the filter of having a bad day.

1453
01:06:14,440 --> 01:06:16,880
Speaker 1: Everything's bad, everything's bad, so it.

1454
01:06:16,840 --> 01:06:18,040
Speaker 4: Can only get better from here.

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01:06:18,120 --> 01:06:23,240
Speaker 1: That's right. Yeah, there we go. There we are, Hiki Ki,

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01:06:23,400 --> 01:06:27,800
Speaker 1: good morning, Hi, Caitlin, Hi, Jason Brown, Hi, Paulina, Hey, Joby,

1457
01:06:27,840 --> 01:06:30,360
Speaker 1: Shelley is here? Belahemin eight five five five nine one

1458
01:06:30,480 --> 01:06:32,600
Speaker 1: one three five Collin text the same number on all

1459
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Speaker 1: the socials. It's the Fred Show, The Fred Show, TikTok

1460
01:06:36,080 --> 01:06:38,360
Speaker 1: on YouTube and the iHeart app. Search for the freend Show.

1461
01:06:38,400 --> 01:06:40,680
Speaker 1: Watch throughout the morning, Listen throughout the morning, they catch

1462
01:06:40,760 --> 01:06:44,320
Speaker 1: up all day. Kiky's Cordy's next, Mad, I'm pump girl?

1463
01:06:44,680 --> 01:06:49,120
Speaker 1: Are you working or flirting? And you guys, guys of

1464
01:06:49,200 --> 01:06:52,080
Speaker 1: the Jury will need you. Next, The Entertainment Report, Biggest

1465
01:06:52,120 --> 01:06:53,880
Speaker 1: stories of the day, and the fun Fact coming up.

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Speaker 1: What are you working on?

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Speaker 10: K We are talking Diddy as well as an iconic

1468
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Speaker 10: K pop.

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Speaker 4: Demon Hunter's reunion, The Fresh Show.

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Speaker 1: It's oh all right, Chess, Kiki, all right, what say you?

1471
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Speaker 6: Let's get in the courtroom. The gabble has been hits.

1472
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Speaker 6: It says, hey, Kiki, I need your honest opinion because

1473
01:07:17,080 --> 01:07:19,479
Speaker 6: my family thinks I've lost my mind.

1474
01:07:20,000 --> 01:07:22,440
Speaker 4: I canceled my wedding three years ago.

1475
01:07:22,680 --> 01:07:25,320
Speaker 6: My fiance cheated on me while we were on We

1476
01:07:25,400 --> 01:07:30,280
Speaker 6: were dating, we did the whole therapy forgiveness, rebuilding trust thing.

1477
01:07:30,760 --> 01:07:33,840
Speaker 6: Eventually he proposed and I really thought we were in

1478
01:07:33,920 --> 01:07:37,680
Speaker 6: a solid spot. Fast forward to last week. We were

1479
01:07:37,760 --> 01:07:40,880
Speaker 6: at the bar with his coworkers and one of them

1480
01:07:41,160 --> 01:07:45,520
Speaker 6: casually mentions, oh yeah, Carrie, the woman he cheated with,

1481
01:07:46,160 --> 01:07:47,919
Speaker 6: joined our team a few months ago.

1482
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Speaker 4: I froze.

1483
01:07:49,960 --> 01:07:52,880
Speaker 6: He never told me that she worked there, and for

1484
01:07:53,080 --> 01:07:57,120
Speaker 6: six months at that I felt humiliated, blindsided.

1485
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Speaker 4: So I left him at the bar, went home, and

1486
01:08:00,320 --> 01:08:01,080
Speaker 4: off our wedding.

1487
01:08:01,800 --> 01:08:04,520
Speaker 6: Now my mom and sister are saying that I overreacted

1488
01:08:04,560 --> 01:08:07,760
Speaker 6: because he didn't actually cheat again, and you can't control

1489
01:08:07,840 --> 01:08:11,880
Speaker 6: where people work. But to me, the lion by omission

1490
01:08:11,960 --> 01:08:14,840
Speaker 6: feels just as bad and if he was a trustworthy man,

1491
01:08:15,240 --> 01:08:17,880
Speaker 6: why would he hide it? So am I wrong for

1492
01:08:17,960 --> 01:08:21,200
Speaker 6: calling off our wedding over something that technically happened years ago?

1493
01:08:21,600 --> 01:08:24,519
Speaker 4: But it feels brand new all over again. What do

1494
01:08:24,600 --> 01:08:26,280
Speaker 4: you think, Judge?

1495
01:08:26,360 --> 01:08:30,479
Speaker 6: Kiki girl almost called off my wedding over socks this morning?

1496
01:08:30,680 --> 01:08:33,920
Speaker 6: So you know, sister, I feel you and you know

1497
01:08:34,000 --> 01:08:37,200
Speaker 6: how I feel about withholding information in a relationship. You

1498
01:08:37,280 --> 01:08:39,160
Speaker 6: know you can hide it from the world, but you

1499
01:08:39,200 --> 01:08:41,519
Speaker 6: should tell your partner. I feel like I should have known,

1500
01:08:41,840 --> 01:08:44,479
Speaker 6: or she should have known, that that woman is now

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01:08:44,560 --> 01:08:45,479
Speaker 6: working at his job.

1502
01:08:45,640 --> 01:08:48,519
Speaker 4: I do think he made a big mistake by not

1503
01:08:48,640 --> 01:08:49,000
Speaker 4: telling her.

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Speaker 6: Well, technically I think you did, because you know, if

1505
01:08:55,720 --> 01:08:58,160
Speaker 6: Carrie is now your coworker, and you know the history

1506
01:08:58,200 --> 01:09:00,680
Speaker 6: that you and Carrie have, you don't think to bring

1507
01:09:00,760 --> 01:09:01,840
Speaker 6: that up over dinner one night.

1508
01:09:01,920 --> 01:09:03,360
Speaker 1: Why would you do that to yourself? Though?

1509
01:09:03,600 --> 01:09:05,800
Speaker 4: But Dan, if you don't and your and your friend

1510
01:09:05,880 --> 01:09:07,960
Speaker 4: tells me about it, now we're in a worse spot.

1511
01:09:08,080 --> 01:09:08,639
Speaker 4: So I don't think.

1512
01:09:08,680 --> 01:09:10,280
Speaker 6: I think you're a little dramatic by calling off your

1513
01:09:10,320 --> 01:09:11,640
Speaker 6: wed and I will be honest, I think this is

1514
01:09:11,680 --> 01:09:13,040
Speaker 6: something that you guys can work through.

1515
01:09:13,760 --> 01:09:16,840
Speaker 4: But I don't feel that he was completely innocent by

1516
01:09:16,920 --> 01:09:17,960
Speaker 4: not bringing this up.

1517
01:09:18,320 --> 01:09:20,439
Speaker 1: You guys are the jury eight five, five, five, nine,

1518
01:09:20,520 --> 01:09:22,560
Speaker 1: one one oh three five coll In textas say number No,

1519
01:09:23,000 --> 01:09:24,800
Speaker 1: I don't know why you'd walk into that again. I

1520
01:09:24,840 --> 01:09:27,639
Speaker 1: mean because it just it just sort of opens the wound. Okay,

1521
01:09:27,720 --> 01:09:31,680
Speaker 1: you know if you're like, so he cheated, he got

1522
01:09:31,720 --> 01:09:34,639
Speaker 1: caught or acknowledged it or whatever happened. They went through

1523
01:09:34,720 --> 01:09:38,040
Speaker 1: the process. He's been forgiven. She she's good with him,

1524
01:09:38,520 --> 01:09:41,920
Speaker 1: they're they're engaged, they're getting married. Everything is fine. So

1525
01:09:42,000 --> 01:09:43,760
Speaker 1: why would he sit down and go, oh, by the way,

1526
01:09:44,439 --> 01:09:46,920
Speaker 1: remember that threat from the past, Remember that that that

1527
01:09:47,280 --> 01:09:49,960
Speaker 1: woman with whom I made poor decisions. Yeah, she's in

1528
01:09:50,040 --> 01:09:54,000
Speaker 1: my life again now every single day, and so nothing

1529
01:09:54,040 --> 01:09:55,720
Speaker 1: to worry about here, nothing to see. I just want

1530
01:09:55,760 --> 01:09:57,720
Speaker 1: you to know that I don't know. I mean, I

1531
01:09:58,080 --> 01:09:59,840
Speaker 1: can see both sides. I can see why you would

1532
01:10:00,000 --> 01:10:02,519
Speaker 1: say something. I can very much see why you would not.

1533
01:10:03,000 --> 01:10:05,840
Speaker 6: But we moved past it, go on to the holiday party,

1534
01:10:06,400 --> 01:10:08,519
Speaker 6: you know, and then it's like, oh, what is she

1535
01:10:08,720 --> 01:10:09,080
Speaker 6: doing here?

1536
01:10:09,160 --> 01:10:10,080
Speaker 4: Or what is he doing here?

1537
01:10:10,320 --> 01:10:12,320
Speaker 6: You wouldn't want your partner to have given you a

1538
01:10:12,360 --> 01:10:14,240
Speaker 6: heads up that this person is not working with them

1539
01:10:14,280 --> 01:10:14,680
Speaker 6: every day.

1540
01:10:15,479 --> 01:10:17,599
Speaker 1: I just think you're asking for problems. I think you're

1541
01:10:17,640 --> 01:10:20,280
Speaker 1: asking for it all to be dug up again. But

1542
01:10:20,640 --> 01:10:23,559
Speaker 1: it's already been forgiven and we've moved past it. I mean,

1543
01:10:23,880 --> 01:10:25,679
Speaker 1: if he wanted to cheat with this woman, he would

1544
01:10:25,720 --> 01:10:26,800
Speaker 1: do it whether she worked there or not.

1545
01:10:27,080 --> 01:10:28,920
Speaker 4: I agree. How do I know you didn't get her

1546
01:10:28,960 --> 01:10:30,040
Speaker 4: to get her the job?

1547
01:10:30,120 --> 01:10:31,200
Speaker 1: Well, to see, there you go. This is what I'm

1548
01:10:31,200 --> 01:10:33,240
Speaker 1: talking about here, we go down this rabbit hole. This

1549
01:10:33,400 --> 01:10:35,960
Speaker 1: is the rabbit hole where you're just saying things now, yes,

1550
01:10:36,200 --> 01:10:39,320
Speaker 1: and you have no evidence of that, no proof of that.

1551
01:10:39,439 --> 01:10:41,280
Speaker 1: He may have had nothing to do with it whatsoever,

1552
01:10:41,520 --> 01:10:44,560
Speaker 1: And it doesn't matter because we've already forgiven him for

1553
01:10:44,680 --> 01:10:47,200
Speaker 1: the indiscretion and we're trusting him moving forward. This is

1554
01:10:47,200 --> 01:10:49,720
Speaker 1: the only way this works, except we're not if we're

1555
01:10:49,720 --> 01:10:50,479
Speaker 1: saying things like that.

1556
01:10:51,040 --> 01:10:51,880
Speaker 4: Okay, But I just.

1557
01:10:51,880 --> 01:10:54,559
Speaker 6: Don't believe you should withhold information because you're worried about

1558
01:10:54,600 --> 01:10:55,120
Speaker 6: my reaction.

1559
01:10:55,720 --> 01:10:57,080
Speaker 4: Tell me and let me process it.

1560
01:10:57,120 --> 01:11:01,040
Speaker 1: Don't maybe world ask if it happened. He just tell her, Yeah,

1561
01:11:01,120 --> 01:11:01,720
Speaker 1: you didn't tell me.

1562
01:11:02,000 --> 01:11:02,840
Speaker 4: Somebody else telling me.

1563
01:11:02,920 --> 01:11:06,519
Speaker 1: But withholding would mean that that you that you asked

1564
01:11:06,600 --> 01:11:10,479
Speaker 1: and he said no, or that you know, lie no

1565
01:11:12,160 --> 01:11:14,120
Speaker 1: because he does. Don't want to go there again, because

1566
01:11:14,200 --> 01:11:16,040
Speaker 1: this is what happens. We started asking a bunch of

1567
01:11:16,200 --> 01:11:18,280
Speaker 1: a bunch of crazy things start coming in your brain,

1568
01:11:19,000 --> 01:11:21,839
Speaker 1: like oh, well night, now you're you're you're in close proximity,

1569
01:11:21,920 --> 01:11:23,439
Speaker 1: so you're going to slip and fall in a meeting

1570
01:11:23,520 --> 01:11:25,599
Speaker 1: and stick it in her or something like no, you're

1571
01:11:25,640 --> 01:11:27,560
Speaker 1: not like you know, you're not. You're not going to

1572
01:11:27,880 --> 01:11:33,599
Speaker 1: You're not going to do that. Hey Marcy, Hello, Hi

1573
01:11:33,760 --> 01:11:35,880
Speaker 1: Marcy Kiki's court, you're the jury. What say you?

1574
01:11:37,960 --> 01:11:40,800
Speaker 19: Well, what I say is that on one end, I

1575
01:11:40,880 --> 01:11:42,759
Speaker 19: do believe she's being a little over dramatic.

1576
01:11:43,000 --> 01:11:45,840
Speaker 18: However, he's also not completely off the hook with this one.

1577
01:11:45,920 --> 01:11:48,559
Speaker 20: I feel like transparency is to you to rebuilding that trust,

1578
01:11:48,840 --> 01:11:51,560
Speaker 20: and the work was done for them to forgive and

1579
01:11:51,680 --> 01:11:54,640
Speaker 20: rebuild the trust. Then, yes, being transparent, he's part of

1580
01:11:54,680 --> 01:11:55,680
Speaker 20: the work that everybody put in.

1581
01:11:56,400 --> 01:11:57,880
Speaker 4: So why not bring it up?

1582
01:11:57,880 --> 01:11:58,719
Speaker 20: Why not say anything?

1583
01:11:58,800 --> 01:11:58,880
Speaker 1: Right?

1584
01:11:58,960 --> 01:12:01,280
Speaker 20: Unless somebody has something to hi, that's the only reason

1585
01:12:01,280 --> 01:12:03,160
Speaker 20: they would keep that valuable information. I feel like we

1586
01:12:03,160 --> 01:12:04,679
Speaker 20: which give the other person peace of mind.

1587
01:12:05,000 --> 01:12:07,200
Speaker 11: But yes, she is a but traumatic.

1588
01:12:07,360 --> 01:12:09,800
Speaker 21: I feel like this is something that could take a conversation.

1589
01:12:09,520 --> 01:12:12,960
Speaker 11: Clarity, maybe another couple of therapy sessions and uh, you know,

1590
01:12:13,120 --> 01:12:13,600
Speaker 11: work through it.

1591
01:12:13,680 --> 01:12:15,960
Speaker 18: If the love is there, then just work through the issue.

1592
01:12:17,400 --> 01:12:19,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, all right, thank you, Marcy.

1593
01:12:20,439 --> 01:12:21,000
Speaker 11: You're welcome.

1594
01:12:21,040 --> 01:12:22,680
Speaker 1: You have a good day. Now, I'm here, I'm here,

1595
01:12:22,880 --> 01:12:27,720
Speaker 1: I'm here in different respectives. Here, Hi, Lucy, how you're

1596
01:12:27,720 --> 01:12:30,240
Speaker 1: going guys? God morning, Lucy, Good morning. Kiki's Court. So

1597
01:12:30,320 --> 01:12:35,920
Speaker 1: basically peeboard together, male female there together, and dude cheated

1598
01:12:35,960 --> 01:12:39,080
Speaker 1: with a woman. Now woman works, and they've moved on.

1599
01:12:39,200 --> 01:12:41,439
Speaker 1: The couple's moved on, the forgiveness and the whole thing,

1600
01:12:41,720 --> 01:12:45,400
Speaker 1: and they're engaged, are getting married, and now the woman

1601
01:12:45,680 --> 01:12:49,640
Speaker 1: that dude cheated with now works with dude, and and

1602
01:12:49,760 --> 01:12:51,600
Speaker 1: he didn't come home and just tell her that, and

1603
01:12:51,680 --> 01:12:54,280
Speaker 1: now she's canceling the wedding and the whole thing. He

1604
01:12:54,360 --> 01:12:56,599
Speaker 1: didn't necessarily go back there. We don't think he went

1605
01:12:56,680 --> 01:12:58,840
Speaker 1: back there. We don't know that she's just mad because

1606
01:12:58,840 --> 01:13:01,320
Speaker 1: this ladies at work every day and he didn't tell her.

1607
01:13:01,360 --> 01:13:04,519
Speaker 22: What do you think I think what he key said,

1608
01:13:04,600 --> 01:13:08,040
Speaker 22: I mean, he could have avoided any type of even

1609
01:13:08,280 --> 01:13:11,320
Speaker 22: minor and insecurity that the girlfriend's going to have the

1610
01:13:11,400 --> 01:13:14,000
Speaker 22: fiance is going to have by saying, hey, babe, really quick,

1611
01:13:14,120 --> 01:13:14,679
Speaker 22: super weird.

1612
01:13:14,880 --> 01:13:17,760
Speaker 21: She works here and I know what on happened, just

1613
01:13:17,840 --> 01:13:20,000
Speaker 21: so you know, and you leave it there, and then

1614
01:13:20,040 --> 01:13:22,080
Speaker 21: obviously she might be on guard.

1615
01:13:22,320 --> 01:13:24,519
Speaker 13: But I mean, that's what a relationship is.

1616
01:13:24,600 --> 01:13:25,160
Speaker 11: It's awkward.

1617
01:13:25,640 --> 01:13:26,960
Speaker 13: You know, you got to get through it.

1618
01:13:27,080 --> 01:13:29,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess, I guess you could. But that means

1619
01:13:29,680 --> 01:13:31,600
Speaker 1: that you trust that you're not going to continue to

1620
01:13:31,640 --> 01:13:34,040
Speaker 1: be penalized for the past, or that you're not digging

1621
01:13:34,160 --> 01:13:35,599
Speaker 1: up all this stuff again.

1622
01:13:35,880 --> 01:13:38,320
Speaker 13: Trust like, hey, I trust that you're working with her.

1623
01:13:38,400 --> 01:13:39,240
Speaker 11: Thanks for letting me know.

1624
01:13:39,680 --> 01:13:43,360
Speaker 18: Listen, I was previously married and a lot was withheld,

1625
01:13:43,439 --> 01:13:43,880
Speaker 18: and if.

1626
01:13:43,760 --> 01:13:45,800
Speaker 21: It would have just been told to me, I'd still

1627
01:13:45,840 --> 01:13:48,000
Speaker 21: be married. So let me just tell you that.

1628
01:13:49,080 --> 01:13:51,599
Speaker 1: See, he screwed up, right, he screwed up by cheating,

1629
01:13:51,680 --> 01:13:54,680
Speaker 1: But he I'm guessing he doesn't trust that bringing that

1630
01:13:54,760 --> 01:13:58,000
Speaker 1: information up is going to result in her going Okay,

1631
01:13:58,360 --> 01:14:01,040
Speaker 1: now I remember that we've moved ask this, So I'm

1632
01:14:01,080 --> 01:14:03,160
Speaker 1: not saying it's her fault at all. But I think

1633
01:14:03,200 --> 01:14:05,519
Speaker 1: the reason he's not telling her is because he's afraid

1634
01:14:05,560 --> 01:14:07,800
Speaker 1: of her reaction. And I don't know that he should

1635
01:14:07,840 --> 01:14:08,519
Speaker 1: be afraid of her.

1636
01:14:09,000 --> 01:14:10,639
Speaker 11: That's valid, But that's valid.

1637
01:14:10,680 --> 01:14:12,920
Speaker 21: We all have fears, Like if he loves her so

1638
01:14:13,040 --> 01:14:14,960
Speaker 21: much and he's like, okay, chardy forgave me once. What

1639
01:14:15,040 --> 01:14:17,479
Speaker 21: if his pushes are over the edge? I get all that,

1640
01:14:17,720 --> 01:14:19,559
Speaker 21: But at the end of the day, like I guess,

1641
01:14:19,600 --> 01:14:21,519
Speaker 21: we all don't have a handbook on what's right and

1642
01:14:21,600 --> 01:14:25,400
Speaker 21: what's wrong. But I just honesty. I mean, if he

1643
01:14:25,520 --> 01:14:28,960
Speaker 21: learns now like honesty will always win, even if it's

1644
01:14:29,000 --> 01:14:31,120
Speaker 21: super awkward, you know, you'll feel better at the end.

1645
01:14:31,040 --> 01:14:31,360
Speaker 14: Of the day.

1646
01:14:31,520 --> 01:14:34,439
Speaker 1: Thank you, Lucy, have a good day. Thanks guys, adore you.

1647
01:14:34,640 --> 01:14:34,840
Speaker 19: Bye.

1648
01:14:34,880 --> 01:14:35,400
Speaker 18: I have a good more.

1649
01:14:35,479 --> 01:14:38,200
Speaker 1: Thank you. I adore you. That's nice thing to say.

1650
01:14:38,439 --> 01:14:43,160
Speaker 1: Fred I. I don't disagree with you often, but Kiki

1651
01:14:43,280 --> 01:14:45,880
Speaker 1: is right withholding is not telling your partner. Your partner

1652
01:14:45,920 --> 01:14:48,680
Speaker 1: shouldn't have to ask. But if your partner does, as

1653
01:14:48,720 --> 01:14:50,840
Speaker 1: you don't disclose, that's a lie. I guess what I

1654
01:14:50,960 --> 01:14:57,240
Speaker 1: mean is if she asked me and I lied, But like,

1655
01:14:57,320 --> 01:14:59,880
Speaker 1: what are you asking about this woman constantly? Because again,

1656
01:15:00,080 --> 01:15:03,600
Speaker 1: we supposedly moved on here. That's the biggest part of this.

1657
01:15:03,880 --> 01:15:06,800
Speaker 1: I'm not saying forgiveness is easy, but she forgave him.

1658
01:15:06,840 --> 01:15:10,280
Speaker 1: There should be zero penalty for whatever happens moving forward

1659
01:15:10,320 --> 01:15:12,280
Speaker 1: if she forgave him and he's holding up his end

1660
01:15:12,320 --> 01:15:15,240
Speaker 1: of the bargain and there's trust. For whatever reason, he

1661
01:15:15,360 --> 01:15:17,439
Speaker 1: thought he would be penalized for bringing this up again.

1662
01:15:17,600 --> 01:15:20,200
Speaker 1: And I'm not saying that that's that she did anything wrong,

1663
01:15:20,640 --> 01:15:23,040
Speaker 1: but I just think like he doesn't want he doesn't

1664
01:15:23,080 --> 01:15:24,120
Speaker 1: want that smoke anymore.

1665
01:15:24,240 --> 01:15:26,120
Speaker 6: I understand what you don't want, but you brought the

1666
01:15:26,160 --> 01:15:27,880
Speaker 6: smoke in the house, and so I need to know

1667
01:15:27,920 --> 01:15:30,000
Speaker 6: that there's a new fire, and I need to know.

1668
01:15:30,120 --> 01:15:32,320
Speaker 1: But there isn't a new Fire's a fire.

1669
01:15:32,439 --> 01:15:33,240
Speaker 4: The house is on fire.

1670
01:15:34,760 --> 01:15:40,160
Speaker 1: Hey, Christina, Hi, good morning, Hi, good morning.

1671
01:15:40,479 --> 01:15:40,599
Speaker 15: Hi.

1672
01:15:40,880 --> 01:15:42,840
Speaker 1: It was Kicky's court. You're the jury, what say you?

1673
01:15:44,640 --> 01:15:44,960
Speaker 17: Okay?

1674
01:15:45,280 --> 01:15:49,160
Speaker 11: So I just called old Joss a couple of months

1675
01:15:49,160 --> 01:15:53,320
Speaker 11: ago call off my wedding because I found out.

1676
01:15:55,040 --> 01:15:55,840
Speaker 13: Was cheating on me.

1677
01:15:57,000 --> 01:15:57,800
Speaker 1: I'm sorry that happened.

1678
01:16:00,400 --> 01:16:04,439
Speaker 11: I mean, that's his life, and I'm kinda the worst,

1679
01:16:04,880 --> 01:16:08,800
Speaker 11: but for her, like I tried to make it work too.

1680
01:16:09,240 --> 01:16:13,559
Speaker 11: And then you just find out new information and though

1681
01:16:13,600 --> 01:16:16,240
Speaker 11: it's old information to them, it's new information to you.

1682
01:16:16,880 --> 01:16:20,080
Speaker 11: And when you try to have moved past like the cheating.

1683
01:16:20,880 --> 01:16:24,720
Speaker 11: The cheating is always there, but the transparency is what

1684
01:16:24,880 --> 01:16:28,040
Speaker 11: helps gets you through it. And if he's nothing transparent,

1685
01:16:28,200 --> 01:16:31,519
Speaker 11: especially about this person he cheated with now working with him,

1686
01:16:32,040 --> 01:16:35,479
Speaker 11: like he's completely in the wrong, that is, she has

1687
01:16:35,560 --> 01:16:39,560
Speaker 11: every right to be upset about that, because omission of

1688
01:16:39,680 --> 01:16:40,920
Speaker 11: information is lying.

1689
01:16:42,520 --> 01:16:48,240
Speaker 1: But we're implying here, we're projecting onto him that this

1690
01:16:48,439 --> 01:16:52,639
Speaker 1: is automatically a problem, that any overlap between these two

1691
01:16:52,760 --> 01:16:54,280
Speaker 1: is going to be an issue. And this is a

1692
01:16:54,360 --> 01:16:56,120
Speaker 1: guy who I don't know why we're not giving him

1693
01:16:56,160 --> 01:16:58,599
Speaker 1: the benefit of the doubt. And again, the only reason

1694
01:16:58,640 --> 01:17:00,720
Speaker 1: I would say this is because he screwed up for

1695
01:17:01,240 --> 01:17:04,960
Speaker 1: how Connery came clean and she chose to forgive him.

1696
01:17:05,000 --> 01:17:08,600
Speaker 1: What I cannot stand is situations where I forgive you,

1697
01:17:08,720 --> 01:17:10,360
Speaker 1: but I'm going to it's going to be an issue

1698
01:17:10,400 --> 01:17:11,960
Speaker 1: for the rest of our lives. Well, then you didn't.

1699
01:17:12,439 --> 01:17:14,439
Speaker 1: Then you didn't, because this guy's got to have a

1700
01:17:14,560 --> 01:17:17,000
Speaker 1: chance to redeem himself and you don't know him that,

1701
01:17:17,160 --> 01:17:19,840
Speaker 1: by the way, But if you give him that, then

1702
01:17:19,880 --> 01:17:22,280
Speaker 1: he can't be And I'm assuming he was afraid to

1703
01:17:22,439 --> 01:17:26,880
Speaker 1: tell her, as he should be, but he lost.

1704
01:17:26,640 --> 01:17:28,439
Speaker 11: The benefit of the doubt once he jee did a

1705
01:17:28,479 --> 01:17:31,439
Speaker 11: couple of years ago. So whatever you don't tell her,

1706
01:17:31,720 --> 01:17:33,599
Speaker 11: she has all the right to be obsessed.

1707
01:17:36,439 --> 01:17:39,360
Speaker 1: I would agree that he doesn't need to fear her

1708
01:17:39,439 --> 01:17:42,080
Speaker 1: reaction if in fact, he's living up to his end

1709
01:17:42,120 --> 01:17:45,160
Speaker 1: of the bargain. So I don't know. I guess I

1710
01:17:45,479 --> 01:17:50,439
Speaker 1: understand exactly what you're saying, because we have to because

1711
01:17:50,479 --> 01:17:53,120
Speaker 1: we because we forgave and we're trusting now, or we're not.

1712
01:17:53,720 --> 01:17:55,600
Speaker 1: And you again, I'm gonna say one more time, you

1713
01:17:55,760 --> 01:17:57,479
Speaker 1: don't know anyone that you don't have to do that,

1714
01:17:57,560 --> 01:18:00,920
Speaker 1: but then break up because it'll never work if we're

1715
01:18:01,000 --> 01:18:05,400
Speaker 1: constantly living in a world where this person's a threat. Yeah,

1716
01:18:05,960 --> 01:18:06,920
Speaker 1: that's all I'm saying about.

1717
01:18:07,160 --> 01:18:12,400
Speaker 11: She found she found out, so that is that is

1718
01:18:12,479 --> 01:18:14,559
Speaker 11: a big deal. If you would have told her up front,

1719
01:18:15,200 --> 01:18:18,000
Speaker 11: I feel like the transparency would have been more, okay,

1720
01:18:18,439 --> 01:18:20,760
Speaker 11: work through this. But now she found out, so now

1721
01:18:20,880 --> 01:18:23,080
Speaker 11: it's kind of like for me, I would be like,

1722
01:18:23,640 --> 01:18:28,240
Speaker 11: you lost, you lost any chance of forgiveness, or we're

1723
01:18:28,280 --> 01:18:31,880
Speaker 11: trying to make it work because you weren't being transparently.

1724
01:18:32,439 --> 01:18:34,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, here's what I would have done, Christina. I would

1725
01:18:34,320 --> 01:18:36,760
Speaker 1: have said, I would have come clean if this woman

1726
01:18:36,880 --> 01:18:39,880
Speaker 1: comes in my proximity ever again, whether I see her

1727
01:18:39,920 --> 01:18:42,640
Speaker 1: at the mall or at the car wash or at Starbucks,

1728
01:18:43,120 --> 01:18:45,040
Speaker 1: or if I see her if she now works at

1729
01:18:45,080 --> 01:18:48,679
Speaker 1: my business, if if my hands are clean, I would

1730
01:18:48,720 --> 01:18:51,439
Speaker 1: have been transparent. But if I were to pay any

1731
01:18:51,520 --> 01:18:54,719
Speaker 1: penalty for that, now we have now gets to decide

1732
01:18:54,800 --> 01:18:58,160
Speaker 1: that I do know Kiki, because because when you forgive

1733
01:18:58,280 --> 01:19:01,200
Speaker 1: someone and you move on, that we can't every time

1734
01:19:01,320 --> 01:19:04,080
Speaker 1: this person's name comes up, where every time you feel vulnerable,

1735
01:19:04,320 --> 01:19:07,680
Speaker 1: make me pay again. But because we're moving forward.

1736
01:19:07,439 --> 01:19:09,320
Speaker 6: How I'm going to react if you don't give me

1737
01:19:09,400 --> 01:19:12,320
Speaker 6: the opportunity. So give me the chance to see how

1738
01:19:12,320 --> 01:19:12,880
Speaker 6: I'm going to react.

1739
01:19:12,920 --> 01:19:14,800
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is if I if you do

1740
01:19:15,000 --> 01:19:18,839
Speaker 1: react poorly beyond a certain point, now I have issue.

1741
01:19:19,280 --> 01:19:21,439
Speaker 1: Now I have issue to say. Now, wait a minute.

1742
01:19:21,840 --> 01:19:25,080
Speaker 1: I thought if I thought we were moving forward, I

1743
01:19:25,200 --> 01:19:27,680
Speaker 1: thought we acknowledged that I screwed up. Did I acknowledge

1744
01:19:27,720 --> 01:19:29,880
Speaker 1: that we went through the process? So I don't know.

1745
01:19:29,960 --> 01:19:32,600
Speaker 1: I would cover my ass. But I also think I

1746
01:19:32,600 --> 01:19:35,160
Speaker 1: would have every right if you freak out on me,

1747
01:19:35,640 --> 01:19:36,599
Speaker 1: to be like, now hold.

1748
01:19:36,439 --> 01:19:38,639
Speaker 4: On, yeah, and I thought we were good. She may

1749
01:19:38,720 --> 01:19:40,000
Speaker 4: not freak out on you though.

1750
01:19:39,880 --> 01:19:42,200
Speaker 1: If any right, And he doesn't know that because you

1751
01:19:42,240 --> 01:19:44,200
Speaker 1: didn't tell her, so I would have said something.

1752
01:19:44,439 --> 01:19:46,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you let someone else come into.

1753
01:19:46,439 --> 01:19:48,560
Speaker 11: So he wasn't wrong for not being transferred in the

1754
01:19:48,600 --> 01:19:49,080
Speaker 11: first place.

1755
01:19:49,120 --> 01:19:51,280
Speaker 4: That's well, he was wrong.

1756
01:19:51,400 --> 01:19:53,320
Speaker 1: I'm telling you what I would have done, whether I what.

1757
01:19:53,400 --> 01:19:55,040
Speaker 1: I don't think he's wrong or not, except to you,

1758
01:19:55,439 --> 01:19:57,439
Speaker 1: and you think he's wrong, so that's fair. Thank you, Christina.

1759
01:19:57,479 --> 01:19:59,920
Speaker 1: I'm sorry for what happened to you. But onward and upward, yeps.

1760
01:20:00,080 --> 01:20:04,760
Speaker 1: More fish in a sea girl, a couple. You will

1761
01:20:04,800 --> 01:20:09,040
Speaker 1: be okay, Christina, have a good day, okay, by she

1762
01:20:09,080 --> 01:20:11,800
Speaker 1: gonna be fine. Ready, No, she's not ready to hear it. No,

1763
01:20:11,920 --> 01:20:14,479
Speaker 1: she's not, But that's okay. She's gonna be fined. Uh. Noel,

1764
01:20:14,640 --> 01:20:16,880
Speaker 1: how you doing good?

1765
01:20:17,040 --> 01:20:17,560
Speaker 8: How are you?

1766
01:20:17,960 --> 01:20:19,080
Speaker 11: I love you guys so much?

1767
01:20:20,000 --> 01:20:20,920
Speaker 19: You getting married?

1768
01:20:22,120 --> 01:20:24,360
Speaker 1: You are you excited that you're getting married after hearing

1769
01:20:24,400 --> 01:20:26,519
Speaker 1: all these kiggies court stories about people doing this and that.

1770
01:20:26,720 --> 01:20:28,680
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, because it's strict in his courting room.

1771
01:20:30,040 --> 01:20:34,360
Speaker 1: Well let me let me just recap here quickly. And

1772
01:20:34,479 --> 01:20:35,840
Speaker 1: this is kind of a hard one to recap. But

1773
01:20:36,280 --> 01:20:39,800
Speaker 1: we have a couple. The dude cheated three years ago

1774
01:20:39,880 --> 01:20:42,599
Speaker 1: with a woman. They moved past, it went through the process,

1775
01:20:42,680 --> 01:20:45,280
Speaker 1: she forgave him, therapy, all these different things, and they've

1776
01:20:45,320 --> 01:20:48,080
Speaker 1: moved forward. They're engaged, and there they had a wedding planned.

1777
01:20:48,720 --> 01:20:48,840
Speaker 17: Uh.

1778
01:20:49,080 --> 01:20:51,680
Speaker 1: This woman finds out that the woman with whom her

1779
01:20:51,760 --> 01:20:55,080
Speaker 1: fiance cheated now works where he does, and he didn't

1780
01:20:55,200 --> 01:20:58,400
Speaker 1: tell her, and so she cancels the wedding. I'm saying,

1781
01:20:59,640 --> 01:21:02,439
Speaker 1: that's not I don't think that's fair to him if

1782
01:21:02,560 --> 01:21:06,560
Speaker 1: in fact, we truly forgave and move forward. Noel, what

1783
01:21:06,720 --> 01:21:07,000
Speaker 1: say you?

1784
01:21:08,600 --> 01:21:08,880
Speaker 17: Okay?

1785
01:21:09,040 --> 01:21:11,479
Speaker 19: So I'm getting married in two months and I found

1786
01:21:11,479 --> 01:21:14,800
Speaker 19: out that the woman who my fiance teated on me

1787
01:21:14,880 --> 01:21:18,080
Speaker 19: with is now working with him every single day and

1788
01:21:18,280 --> 01:21:21,160
Speaker 19: he did not tell me. I would call the wedding

1789
01:21:21,240 --> 01:21:24,040
Speaker 19: off because obviously I did forgive you in the past,

1790
01:21:24,280 --> 01:21:27,439
Speaker 19: but you're still proving to me that I cannot trust you.

1791
01:21:27,640 --> 01:21:30,519
Speaker 19: Because if you have nothing to hide and.

1792
01:21:30,560 --> 01:21:33,200
Speaker 18: We're going to be transparent and we're working on trust,

1793
01:21:33,600 --> 01:21:36,599
Speaker 18: you should have told me in the beginning that she's

1794
01:21:36,680 --> 01:21:40,439
Speaker 18: worked with you. Now, if he worked late at the

1795
01:21:40,560 --> 01:21:44,320
Speaker 18: office or they go out for a company happy hours,

1796
01:21:44,840 --> 01:21:47,080
Speaker 18: it's going to cripple you. Like it's going to literally

1797
01:21:47,160 --> 01:21:50,240
Speaker 18: cripple your mental state and you're never going to trust

1798
01:21:50,320 --> 01:21:53,040
Speaker 18: him again. And I love you, Fred with my whole,

1799
01:21:53,200 --> 01:21:57,360
Speaker 18: entire heart. But no, my reaction is valid.

1800
01:21:57,520 --> 01:21:58,240
Speaker 4: It has you.

1801
01:21:58,640 --> 01:22:02,640
Speaker 19: Chose to not tell me, and you made this whole fire.

1802
01:22:02,479 --> 01:22:06,679
Speaker 18: Yourself, like you chose this life. And that's my reaction

1803
01:22:07,000 --> 01:22:08,519
Speaker 18: is because I can't trust you anymore.

1804
01:22:08,640 --> 01:22:11,400
Speaker 1: I don't think this woman coming in my proximity three

1805
01:22:11,479 --> 01:22:15,479
Speaker 1: years later or whatever makes me untrustworthy for not wanting

1806
01:22:15,600 --> 01:22:19,040
Speaker 1: to open that wound again again. What would I do?

1807
01:22:19,479 --> 01:22:22,479
Speaker 1: I would cover my butt and watch your reaction, and

1808
01:22:22,600 --> 01:22:24,719
Speaker 1: if you flip off, if you fly off the handle,

1809
01:22:25,120 --> 01:22:27,760
Speaker 1: then I know where I stand. You haven't forgiven me,

1810
01:22:27,800 --> 01:22:29,080
Speaker 1: and we have a different problem.

1811
01:22:29,240 --> 01:22:29,760
Speaker 15: No, you didn't.

1812
01:22:29,840 --> 01:22:31,640
Speaker 6: She didn't just come in your proximity. You didn't just

1813
01:22:31,640 --> 01:22:32,880
Speaker 6: see her at the stoplight, bro.

1814
01:22:35,479 --> 01:22:36,400
Speaker 13: I did every day.

1815
01:22:36,520 --> 01:22:38,880
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm going to give him the benefit of

1816
01:22:38,960 --> 01:22:40,880
Speaker 1: the death. I'm going to give him bett. I'm going

1817
01:22:41,920 --> 01:22:44,880
Speaker 1: because I don't think. I don't think he got her

1818
01:22:45,000 --> 01:22:47,320
Speaker 1: the job. I don't think he's out seeking her and

1819
01:22:47,400 --> 01:22:50,120
Speaker 1: communicated with her to being close. If he is, then

1820
01:22:50,200 --> 01:22:52,120
Speaker 1: he's in the wrong, and then he he should have

1821
01:22:52,160 --> 01:22:55,120
Speaker 1: been forgiven. If he kne all that the dump is

1822
01:22:55,160 --> 01:22:57,439
Speaker 1: as But I don't know. I don't know how we

1823
01:22:57,520 --> 01:22:59,519
Speaker 1: live in this world whereas I forgave you, but I

1824
01:22:59,640 --> 01:23:02,320
Speaker 1: kind of well, there forever, but here's the term.

1825
01:23:02,600 --> 01:23:03,080
Speaker 4: It's forever.

1826
01:23:03,280 --> 01:23:05,840
Speaker 1: No one's asking you to forget, but we can't just

1827
01:23:05,960 --> 01:23:08,479
Speaker 1: every time you feel like it, Pauline, it just well

1828
01:23:08,520 --> 01:23:09,080
Speaker 1: I will, but.

1829
01:23:10,600 --> 01:23:12,800
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna freak out. But I just don't want

1830
01:23:12,800 --> 01:23:14,479
Speaker 3: to be the clown in the background that I didn't know.

1831
01:23:14,680 --> 01:23:16,680
Speaker 3: That's all this really is, Like, yeah, it might hurt

1832
01:23:16,680 --> 01:23:18,240
Speaker 3: when you tell me I might throw a fit. I

1833
01:23:18,320 --> 01:23:19,760
Speaker 3: might you know, punch a wall, I might do all

1834
01:23:19,800 --> 01:23:22,240
Speaker 3: these things that I might just do. The point is,

1835
01:23:22,320 --> 01:23:24,040
Speaker 3: if I forgave you, I'm with you, like, let me

1836
01:23:24,200 --> 01:23:26,760
Speaker 3: work through my emotions. But be honest, just be straight up, like,

1837
01:23:26,880 --> 01:23:28,840
Speaker 3: this is happening at the office. This person is here.

1838
01:23:29,200 --> 01:23:30,720
Speaker 3: I don't talk to her whatever, I'm just letting you

1839
01:23:30,800 --> 01:23:32,879
Speaker 3: know she is in the office withholding.

1840
01:23:32,960 --> 01:23:35,679
Speaker 10: Sometimes I feel feels like people are trying to control

1841
01:23:35,840 --> 01:23:38,920
Speaker 10: the other person's reaction. Yes, fortunately, like you have to

1842
01:23:38,960 --> 01:23:40,960
Speaker 10: do the right thing, but be prepared that they might

1843
01:23:41,040 --> 01:23:41,800
Speaker 10: not react.

1844
01:23:41,880 --> 01:23:43,839
Speaker 4: Well, but that's not on you. And you can't control

1845
01:23:43,920 --> 01:23:44,479
Speaker 4: that period.

1846
01:23:44,600 --> 01:23:46,280
Speaker 1: Thank you, Noell, have a good day, love. People are

1847
01:23:46,360 --> 01:23:48,040
Speaker 1: blowing me up. Oh I'm so wrong. I'm strong. I

1848
01:23:48,280 --> 01:23:49,840
Speaker 1: told you exactly what I would do, and it's the

1849
01:23:49,920 --> 01:23:51,800
Speaker 1: thing that you want me to do. But what I'm

1850
01:23:51,880 --> 01:23:54,559
Speaker 1: hung up on is that everyone is in here calling, going,

1851
01:23:54,600 --> 01:23:57,600
Speaker 1: see he can't be trusted. What do you mean he

1852
01:23:57,680 --> 01:24:03,400
Speaker 1: didn't do anything, but see what you're doing. But you're

1853
01:24:03,479 --> 01:24:05,400
Speaker 1: doing the thing I'm talking about is we've jumped to

1854
01:24:05,479 --> 01:24:08,880
Speaker 1: all these conclusions. We don't have any information. We automatically

1855
01:24:08,960 --> 01:24:11,680
Speaker 1: assume that this guy went and called her up and

1856
01:24:11,800 --> 01:24:14,520
Speaker 1: he was like physically humping her and was like, I'm

1857
01:24:14,520 --> 01:24:21,000
Speaker 1: going I'm gonna get you. I gotta be next to

1858
01:24:21,040 --> 01:24:23,200
Speaker 1: you every day so I can physically hump you some more.

1859
01:24:23,520 --> 01:24:27,920
Speaker 4: I'm you see, it's physically humping guys.

1860
01:24:28,000 --> 01:24:28,880
Speaker 12: This is what I mean.

1861
01:24:29,120 --> 01:24:31,000
Speaker 1: You guys are saying you guys are telling me I'm wrong.

1862
01:24:31,080 --> 01:24:33,120
Speaker 1: But you're saying that you're you're jumping to all the

1863
01:24:33,160 --> 01:24:34,800
Speaker 1: conclusions that concerned.

1864
01:24:34,400 --> 01:24:36,720
Speaker 6: Me, and you told me the conclusions would not be

1865
01:24:36,920 --> 01:24:39,160
Speaker 6: there because I would have you on FaceTime at work

1866
01:24:39,200 --> 01:24:39,599
Speaker 6: all day.

1867
01:24:42,040 --> 01:24:45,400
Speaker 1: And then Calen's point is true, is I think he's

1868
01:24:45,479 --> 01:24:47,240
Speaker 1: probably not telling her because of this.

1869
01:24:47,600 --> 01:24:50,800
Speaker 4: Yes, I understand, but no, but that's up to me.

1870
01:24:51,000 --> 01:24:53,320
Speaker 4: I get to choose how I react. I don't care

1871
01:24:53,360 --> 01:24:53,880
Speaker 4: what's fair to you.

1872
01:24:56,960 --> 01:24:59,600
Speaker 1: You guys are saying, you're saying all the things that

1873
01:24:59,720 --> 01:25:02,920
Speaker 1: I'm saying would prevent would prevent a lot of people

1874
01:25:03,000 --> 01:25:05,920
Speaker 1: from going back there. That's it, Hey, Jill, how do

1875
01:25:05,920 --> 01:25:06,280
Speaker 1: you do it?

1876
01:25:08,320 --> 01:25:08,400
Speaker 18: Hi?

1877
01:25:08,600 --> 01:25:10,880
Speaker 1: Jill, I'm gonna give you. The final sake is the

1878
01:25:10,920 --> 01:25:11,880
Speaker 1: gott to move on. What do you think?

1879
01:25:13,160 --> 01:25:13,479
Speaker 18: All right?

1880
01:25:13,640 --> 01:25:16,040
Speaker 11: So, I mean I'm all about this forgive and forget

1881
01:25:16,320 --> 01:25:20,519
Speaker 11: because I've done it. My ex husband left me twice

1882
01:25:20,560 --> 01:25:22,640
Speaker 11: for the same woman, and he's now happily married to

1883
01:25:22,680 --> 01:25:25,719
Speaker 11: her and am happily with someone else. So it worked

1884
01:25:25,720 --> 01:25:28,600
Speaker 11: out for the best good. And I will say I

1885
01:25:28,800 --> 01:25:32,240
Speaker 11: forgave and I forget. And he didn't tell me when

1886
01:25:32,280 --> 01:25:33,920
Speaker 11: she came back into his life, and I said, you

1887
01:25:33,960 --> 01:25:37,320
Speaker 11: know what, I forget. It's okay, it didn't work out.

1888
01:25:37,439 --> 01:25:40,400
Speaker 11: Bred he should have been honest with her if she's

1889
01:25:40,479 --> 01:25:43,880
Speaker 11: back in his life in any capacity. Now those terms

1890
01:25:43,920 --> 01:25:46,400
Speaker 11: have changed. She forgave and forgot, but she was gone.

1891
01:25:46,840 --> 01:25:48,879
Speaker 11: The other part of the puzzle was removed.

1892
01:25:49,200 --> 01:25:50,759
Speaker 1: Here's my other question comes.

1893
01:25:50,560 --> 01:25:53,640
Speaker 11: Back into the puzzle. You have to communicate and you

1894
01:25:53,760 --> 01:25:54,000
Speaker 11: have to.

1895
01:25:54,040 --> 01:25:54,560
Speaker 19: Work through it.

1896
01:25:54,920 --> 01:25:57,680
Speaker 1: I hear all that, and again, that's probably what I

1897
01:25:57,720 --> 01:26:00,360
Speaker 1: would do in this situation. What I would do and

1898
01:26:00,520 --> 01:26:03,840
Speaker 1: what and me try me understanding maybe where he's coming

1899
01:26:03,880 --> 01:26:07,160
Speaker 1: from her? Two different things. But okay, So I come

1900
01:26:07,240 --> 01:26:09,760
Speaker 1: home and I tell you, Hey, this woman who is

1901
01:26:09,960 --> 01:26:12,559
Speaker 1: I caused you amends? I did it? She didn't, I mean,

1902
01:26:12,640 --> 01:26:14,519
Speaker 1: she was part of it. But I was married to you.

1903
01:26:14,720 --> 01:26:17,080
Speaker 1: I'm the or I'm with you, I made the commitment

1904
01:26:17,160 --> 01:26:19,200
Speaker 1: to you. I cause you great pain by being with

1905
01:26:19,320 --> 01:26:22,679
Speaker 1: this woman is now is now in my presence every

1906
01:26:22,760 --> 01:26:26,040
Speaker 1: day at my work. What am I putting you? And again,

1907
01:26:26,240 --> 01:26:28,800
Speaker 1: I'm assuming that you're going to dislike that most people would.

1908
01:26:28,880 --> 01:26:31,720
Speaker 1: But now you get to relive all of that, and

1909
01:26:31,920 --> 01:26:35,240
Speaker 1: for what Because I'm just assuming this guy's not going

1910
01:26:35,320 --> 01:26:37,160
Speaker 1: back there now. If he is, we have a whole

1911
01:26:37,200 --> 01:26:39,760
Speaker 1: different problem. But if we forgave him and we trust him,

1912
01:26:39,880 --> 01:26:42,200
Speaker 1: then we're assuming that until we find out otherwise that

1913
01:26:42,280 --> 01:26:44,439
Speaker 1: he is not. But now every day when I go

1914
01:26:44,520 --> 01:26:47,320
Speaker 1: to work, you get to relive this until you don't.

1915
01:26:47,400 --> 01:26:49,719
Speaker 1: And I'm saying that's not fair to her either.

1916
01:26:51,000 --> 01:26:51,679
Speaker 9: No, it isn't.

1917
01:26:51,880 --> 01:26:53,000
Speaker 13: But isn't it worse?

1918
01:26:53,680 --> 01:26:55,560
Speaker 11: Isn't it so much worse that she does go to

1919
01:26:55,640 --> 01:26:59,439
Speaker 11: the holiday party? Someone said, go to a holiday party.

1920
01:27:00,200 --> 01:27:03,360
Speaker 11: He's been working there for almost a year. You at what,

1921
01:27:03,439 --> 01:27:06,280
Speaker 11: at some point found out this Carson had been sleeping

1922
01:27:06,400 --> 01:27:07,200
Speaker 11: with your partner.

1923
01:27:07,880 --> 01:27:09,599
Speaker 1: But is it worse when you find out he didn't

1924
01:27:09,680 --> 01:27:10,639
Speaker 1: he wasn't doing anything?

1925
01:27:10,800 --> 01:27:12,000
Speaker 4: Or better, you're back too.

1926
01:27:12,240 --> 01:27:14,000
Speaker 11: He cheated on you behind your back.

1927
01:27:14,479 --> 01:27:16,880
Speaker 1: But we're assuming he's not doing anything now just because

1928
01:27:16,920 --> 01:27:20,280
Speaker 1: she's there. Yeah, I don't know sure, just because.

1929
01:27:20,040 --> 01:27:22,800
Speaker 11: She's there, but that it's the sense of betrayal that

1930
01:27:22,920 --> 01:27:25,960
Speaker 11: he's now reignited by withholding the impromation.

1931
01:27:26,040 --> 01:27:27,519
Speaker 1: I hear, I hear all of this. I think he's

1932
01:27:27,560 --> 01:27:29,160
Speaker 1: dan if he does, and dan if he doesn't. In

1933
01:27:29,240 --> 01:27:31,559
Speaker 1: this honestly, i'd probably, you know what I'd do. I'd

1934
01:27:31,600 --> 01:27:36,760
Speaker 1: get another job. I quit my damn Joe, I quit

1935
01:27:36,840 --> 01:27:37,439
Speaker 1: my damn job.

1936
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Speaker 11: Sound terrible.

1937
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Speaker 1: I'm moving. I work at Wendy's now more important. Forget

1938
01:27:42,560 --> 01:27:46,320
Speaker 1: Taco Bell. I've moved on. Jill, Jill, Jill, Jill. I

1939
01:27:46,320 --> 01:27:50,439
Speaker 1: don't work there anymore. We're fine. I quit more important

1940
01:27:50,560 --> 01:27:56,800
Speaker 1: Taco Bell. Have a good day, Jill, thank you for calling.

1941
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Speaker 18: Love you.

1942
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Speaker 1: I love Jill.

1943
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Speaker 4: Now I'm at the holiday party. We got shrimp cocktails.

1944
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Speaker 1: Come on going to a holiday party because I don't

1945
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Speaker 1: work there.

1946
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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, tell me and they now get a

1947
01:28:06,680 --> 01:28:07,800
Speaker 4: job there now three of us.

1948
01:28:09,760 --> 01:28:12,840
Speaker 1: Now here we go Entertainer Report and he's on the

1949
01:28:12,960 --> 01:28:13,479
Speaker 1: Bread Show.

1950
01:28:13,960 --> 01:28:17,160
Speaker 10: Bad Bunny hosted Saturday Night Live over the weekend with

1951
01:28:17,280 --> 01:28:21,360
Speaker 10: one of the sketches featuring him, and he's playing a

1952
01:28:21,479 --> 01:28:24,839
Speaker 10: dude with a major K pop demon hunter's obsession.

1953
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Speaker 4: It was hysterical.

1954
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Speaker 10: So we played this guy named Thomas meeting up with

1955
01:28:28,000 --> 01:28:30,160
Speaker 10: his friends at a restaurant and they're catching up, but

1956
01:28:30,280 --> 01:28:33,320
Speaker 10: he couldn't help but share his obsession with the Netflix

1957
01:28:33,400 --> 01:28:36,720
Speaker 10: hit animated musical movie K Pop Demon Hunters, and they

1958
01:28:36,800 --> 01:28:39,200
Speaker 10: kept telling him the movie was for kids. He started

1959
01:28:39,240 --> 01:28:42,640
Speaker 10: getting pissed, but eventually the group needed saving when the

1960
01:28:42,720 --> 01:28:45,439
Speaker 10: three singers who sing that hit song Golden from the

1961
01:28:45,520 --> 01:28:48,479
Speaker 10: movie up here and they start to sing, making the

1962
01:28:48,560 --> 01:28:50,960
Speaker 10: audience go absolutely crazy. As far as I know, this

1963
01:28:51,160 --> 01:28:54,320
Speaker 10: was the first time they've ever performed live together. The

1964
01:28:54,400 --> 01:28:58,440
Speaker 10: movie made history as the first soundtrack with four simultaneous

1965
01:28:58,479 --> 01:29:00,920
Speaker 10: top ten songs on the Billboard Hot one hundred, racking

1966
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Speaker 10: up over three billion global streams, with Golden being submitted.

1967
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Speaker 4: For some sort of awards consideration.

1968
01:29:07,360 --> 01:29:09,839
Speaker 10: So that song is really huge, and I know everybody's

1969
01:29:09,880 --> 01:29:12,680
Speaker 10: obsessed with it and kind of went crazy over the

1970
01:29:12,720 --> 01:29:14,800
Speaker 10: weekend when that aired. If you miss any part of

1971
01:29:14,880 --> 01:29:16,479
Speaker 10: our show and you want to catch up, it's all

1972
01:29:16,560 --> 01:29:18,320
Speaker 10: up there. Just type the Fred Show on demand and

1973
01:29:18,400 --> 01:29:20,320
Speaker 10: if you couldn't really help, set us as a preset

1974
01:29:20,640 --> 01:29:22,120
Speaker 10: on the free iHeartRadio app.

1975
01:29:22,200 --> 01:29:26,360
Speaker 1: The Fread Show is on Fread's Fun Fact Fred Fun

1976
01:29:32,640 --> 01:29:37,320
Speaker 1: so much, so much. Guys, did you know that Ben

1977
01:29:37,400 --> 01:29:41,120
Speaker 1: and Jerry's made a graveyard for all of their former flavors?

1978
01:29:42,200 --> 01:29:45,839
Speaker 1: So all the flavors consist of discontinued ice cream flavors.

1979
01:29:45,880 --> 01:29:49,360
Speaker 1: Each flavor has its photo as well as its lifespan.

1980
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Speaker 1: Each one even has an epitaph for people to remember

1981
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Speaker 1: it by. So every time that they, I don't know,

1982
01:29:56,880 --> 01:29:59,320
Speaker 1: stop making a flavor of some kind, then they put

1983
01:29:59,360 --> 01:30:03,240
Speaker 1: it in their gravyar atah. Yeah, that's like a little

1984
01:30:03,360 --> 01:30:06,280
Speaker 1: you never had, like a little slogan for like, yeah you,

1985
01:30:06,880 --> 01:30:07,560
Speaker 1: what would yours be?

1986
01:30:07,760 --> 01:30:07,800
Speaker 7: Like?

1987
01:30:09,120 --> 01:30:11,280
Speaker 1: I try a lot swifty and overly emotional what I

1988
01:30:11,360 --> 01:30:14,200
Speaker 1: was going to say, swifty and overly emotional, but overly

1989
01:30:14,320 --> 01:30:17,000
Speaker 1: Overleason tag that that would imply that you shouldn't be

1990
01:30:17,080 --> 01:30:18,679
Speaker 1: that much. I wasn't going to say that loud.

1991
01:30:18,800 --> 01:30:19,439
Speaker 4: You should be less.

1992
01:30:19,520 --> 01:30:20,920
Speaker 1: You could be as emotional as you want.

1993
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Speaker 4: Thanks. I don't believe that, but thank you.

1994
01:30:24,280 --> 01:30:26,519
Speaker 1: Well, you're you and you can be as long as

1995
01:30:26,760 --> 01:30:30,360
Speaker 1: you know. I don't have to feel bad about it private,

1996
01:30:30,960 --> 01:30:33,040
Speaker 1: as long as it's that directed to me being swift

1997
01:30:33,120 --> 01:30:37,000
Speaker 1: and overly Kaylin. But you're not dead, thank god. So yeah,

1998
01:30:37,280 --> 01:30:39,240
Speaker 1: you're not in the Ben and Jerry's ice cream flavor.

1999
01:30:39,400 --> 01:30:41,320
Speaker 1: If you were a flavor. If you were a flavor,

2000
01:30:41,360 --> 01:30:41,880
Speaker 1: what would you be?

2001
01:30:42,760 --> 01:30:46,200
Speaker 4: I think I would be, Oh, okay.

2002
01:30:46,040 --> 01:30:50,720
Speaker 1: Sure, pickle flavored kailin a swifty and overly emotional wow

2003
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Speaker 1: out of context. Actually more Fred Show next right here