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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: joining us. We are so happy to be back on

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Speaker 1: this cold winter day. How are you doing today, Susan,

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Speaker 1: You're chilly in Austin. It's snowing here in Philadelphia. I

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Speaker 1: mean it's cold. I don't like. It's about to get

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Speaker 1: really cold here. We're about to have like a serious

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Speaker 1: cold snap. And you have to remember, homes in Austin

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Speaker 1: don't have basements, so our pipes are on the next air

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Speaker 1: of the walls, so we have to drip faucets all

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Speaker 1: night and bring plants in and put blankets on them.

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Speaker 1: It's a full time job in the winter.

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Speaker 2: Funny feeling. Where I'm going tomorrow it's going to be

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Speaker 2: even colder than it is here in Philadelphia, heading out

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Speaker 2: to Kansas City, so maybe so, Ladies and gentlemen, thanks

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Speaker 2: so much for coming back and listen to us again,

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Speaker 2: and be sure to check out our latest episodes because

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Speaker 2: we've been having a ball talked to so many different

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Speaker 2: people from Jones Bachelorette Show.

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Speaker 1: And today another one. Today we want to welcome a

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Speaker 1: very special guest from Jones season. Please welcome, as he's

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Speaker 1: lovingly referred to as Charles l Hi, Charles, who are you?

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Speaker 3: Thank you? Thank you? I'm doing well, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Hi. Everybody's weird. I just before, I just have seeing you.

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Speaker 1: Now we met you and I and Susan, we've chatted.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry I have to ask and embarrass you straight

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Speaker 1: off the bat. Here. Last time we met Charles, he

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Speaker 1: had a full head of black hair. Today you look

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Speaker 1: a little more age appropriate, still as handsome as ever.

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Speaker 1: That salt and pepper. Look what happened? Did the dye

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Speaker 1: rinse out? What's the deal?

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Speaker 3: No? A little bit of worry, you know, both outside

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Speaker 3: and weather wise.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Probably that's one of the reasons. The outside is politics.

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Speaker 1: You know that.

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Speaker 3: You hear so much news. You know, some some are good,

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Speaker 3: some are just okay, you know whether as Susan said,

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Speaker 3: it's been pretty cold here. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Maybe Where are you charged? Are you in Philadelphia? Where

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Speaker 1: are you?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I mean Marvin, Pennsylvania? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Next Melbourne?

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Speaker 2: Right, yes, about Melbourne from here, Kathy, you've been here?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, right near Melbourne Prep. I have a very good

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Speaker 3: Exactly. I can walk over there literally, really yeah, Malvin Prep?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, wow, great school. So today.

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Speaker 2: We love having you here.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I've been back to the kind of you know,

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Speaker 3: normal life in a sense, you know, like before the show,

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Speaker 3: I have pretty much kind of you know, weekly routines

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Speaker 3: or daily routines. Talking about weekly routines. Sometimes I go

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Speaker 3: to New York, you know, see my grandkids, my daughters

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Speaker 3: and other family members. So that's part of my life

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Speaker 3: and another just regular routine. It's just here. And as

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Speaker 3: we were kidding and started, occasionally I do some day

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Speaker 3: trading in the morning, but not every day.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk about that. I want to hear your career

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Speaker 1: was Tell what was your career.

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Speaker 3: My career is in the statics statistics and from a

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Speaker 3: program in pharmaceutical companies, So that's my career. Well, I

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Speaker 3: have many jobs before, but that's the last one I

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Speaker 3: would refer to. And then trading is literally it's just

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Speaker 3: my hobby. I picked up myself and you like everybody,

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Speaker 3: you know, you made like a you know, a guitar

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Speaker 3: for example, or play piano, yeah, or ballet dance, you know,

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Speaker 3: I don't know, maybe Susan also is a greater ballet dancer.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, you know, just my guest. So this

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Speaker 3: is my hobby, you know, reading sometimes doing some writing

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Speaker 3: and trading. It's just just part of my you know,

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Speaker 1: I actually took a class in money, a banking class,

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Speaker 1: ten thousand dollars of play money. And you know that

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Speaker 1: it was the game. You could do anything, you could

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Speaker 1: short stocks, you could whatever, you you know, if the

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Speaker 1: more knowledge you had, the more things you could try.

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Speaker 1: And and the person who won got an A in

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Speaker 1: the course and didn't have to take a final. Well

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Speaker 1: that's all I needed to hear. Guess who won? I

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Speaker 1: did well, but no, but it was because that's why

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Speaker 1: I'm interested in what you do. Because my dad played

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Speaker 1: do the So that's why i'm mask you. Aren't you

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Speaker 3: And no, no, no, no. Sometimes I when when my

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Speaker 3: a well, of course it's they are not a similar

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Speaker 3: and don't don't fight against the market, you know, follow

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Speaker 3: the market like this money, just very bravely. I bought

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Speaker 3: one hundred years, I should sell one hundred years. I

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Speaker 3: did the one option call.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And the profit, the profit.

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Speaker 2: That is is making you smile right now.

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Speaker 1: You know, all I remember is growing up hearing about

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Speaker 1: soybeans and you know, all the all the commodities. My

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Speaker 3: That's I'm not involved with that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, good for you, other than make millions on

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Speaker 1: the stock market that you're looking to find some woman

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Speaker 1: to spend all that money on you. Did you like that? Segway, Charles,

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Speaker 3: That's probably you know why? Probably curious? How come Charles,

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Speaker 3: why do you you know? Eager to make the money? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: that would be to prepare for the second step.

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Speaker 2: Ah, the woman?

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Speaker 1: Do you mean the second woman?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that the future girlfriend.

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Speaker 2: Have you had any dates or anything?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: No, no, has anybody asked.

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Speaker 3: You because they check my wallet, it's.

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Speaker 1: Not my wallet. Are you serious? Come on kidding? Kathy's kidding. Well,

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Speaker 1: I always say, I always say the next time, I'm

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Speaker 1: and their checkbook balance. Just getting well, you're not quick.

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Speaker 2: We're going to do a question of the Day Charles,

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Speaker 2: so all three of us will answer this, and the

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Speaker 2: question today says, what's something that you love about being

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Speaker 3: Well, I think you have to show you as a

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Speaker 3: good example to your kids. You know, no, God, no

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Speaker 3: matter how little they are, they are very smart. They observed,

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Speaker 3: they listen, and they watch. So any any action, any book,

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Speaker 3: I honestly my daughters when they're very young, they they

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Speaker 3: What is economics? What is you know? Communication, public is speaking,

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Speaker 3: so on and so forth. You know, you don't teach them,

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Speaker 3: but you are surprised.

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Speaker 2: Because they pay attention.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, so that's I to my understanding. So anything,

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Speaker 3: that's why you know, quote unquote, if parents, you know,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think kids tend. I think you bring up

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Speaker 1: a really great point, Charles. Kids tend to listen or sorry,

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Speaker 1: watch what we do. More than listen to what we say,

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Speaker 1: emulate our behavior based on how they see us behave,

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Speaker 1: not how we tell them they should behave.

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Speaker 2: They learn by example.

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Speaker 3: Right, we're like you know, when they were little. We

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Speaker 3: to be rich is important.

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Speaker 2: Really you taught your kids life easier way.

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Speaker 1: Did you teach your kids that to be rich was important?

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Speaker 1: Not exactly, but wait, I want to know because I

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Speaker 1: have a single son, how old your daughter?

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Speaker 3: I mean, how can I say that we try to

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Speaker 1: So did your wife have a career? Did your wife

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Speaker 3: Did her she's she's from very very famous university and

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Speaker 3: her major economics, So you talk about ignow, she knows everything.

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Speaker 1: That's Yeah. Are your kids the economics.

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Speaker 3: The younger one, yes, the old one in management?

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, smart kids here, Susan, smart kids.

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Speaker 3: I mean they are doing very well. Yeah, we are

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, I mean it's it's a great Do you

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Speaker 3: know I really, as you know from the show, you

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Speaker 3: can tell I really really enjoyed every single moment. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Actually I was on phone with Chaka yesterday and they

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Speaker 3: try to invite me to be there. There's a kind

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Speaker 3: I cannot go.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So we know you stole all the hearts of Bachelor Nation,

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Speaker 2: right you.

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Speaker 3: I'm so happy for them, Yeah, Joe and Chuck.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, Well that's what I want to know if

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Speaker 1: I mean, you did since and You're right, so many

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Speaker 1: people on social media they love you. I'm surprised. Are

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Speaker 1: women not reaching into your DM sliding into your dms?

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Speaker 1: As I say, is that happening?

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Speaker 3: This is a Sami secret it is?

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Speaker 3: There are a lot.

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Speaker 2: Well, tell us have you talked to any of them?

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Speaker 1: Are you you're not dating any of them? She screeched.

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Speaker 3: I have not started yet?

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Speaker 1: But what are you waiting for the July fourth fireworks?

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Speaker 2: I mean about paradise? Are you waiting for Golden Paradise

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Speaker 2: to Actually?

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Speaker 3: I was, you know, chatting with Chucking. You know I'm

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Speaker 3: pretty kind of slow in that aspect for whatever reason.

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Speaker 3: You know, I wish I have, you know, half speed

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Speaker 3: off when I do in my trading. You know that'd

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Speaker 3: be different.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, let me say dating is not like the

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Speaker 1: half life of the drug. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't last forever, so you got to get on it. There,

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Speaker 1: you gotta get me.

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Speaker 3: Maybe I kind of inconscious. Maybe I'm waiting for that

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Speaker 2: You know, to chat with them to figure out which

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Speaker 1: He's waiting for a woman to swoop in and heep

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Speaker 1: him off his feet, Am I right? Charles?

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Speaker 3: Okay? Yeah, maybe you coach me.

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Speaker 2: Spring is coming.

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Speaker 2: So, Charles, if you were asked to go if there

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Speaker 1: But you know what, Charles, many steps here right now

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Speaker 2: Let's see, we're something so happy for you and your experience.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I have a question. I have a question, Charles.

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Speaker 1: Well, no, excuse me, wait, Charles, I hate to break

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Plus I think you know, Kathy, you know say you know,

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Speaker 3: we don't know the real situation, right, if they have

444
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Speaker 3: a normal life, you have the mother and the dad, you.

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Speaker 1: Know, right both as I got to interrupt you, who

446
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Speaker 1: has a normal life anymore? But carry on, go ahead.

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Speaker 3: I think at this circumstances, you know that if the

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Speaker 3: data canceled, the ticket, the mom, we the unit stabbed in.

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Speaker 3: Calm the situation down and talk to the daughter, you know,

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Speaker 3: to find out, you know, why things have been doing

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Speaker 3: that extreme. But I mean, honestly, this is this can

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Speaker 3: be very very frustrated as American.

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Speaker 2: Yes, my daughter's going through it with the almost thirteen

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Speaker 2: year old, you know what I mean. Girls do have moods.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I don't I think all kids. I mean

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Speaker 1: I'm sensing that, Charles, and correct me if I'm wrong. Charles,

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Speaker 1: I'm sensing that you think this is more a parental

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Speaker 1: issue of not doing their job correctly.

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Speaker 3: My correct Yeah, not all time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, I'm here to tell you I was a

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Speaker 1: perfect parent, as was my husband perfect and we had

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Speaker 1: problems with all three of our children when they were teenagers.

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Speaker 1: So thanks Charles, made my day, all right, Charles.

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Speaker 2: Now we want to know and Bachelor Nation fans want

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Speaker 2: to know all about you. We have this little fun

466
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Speaker 2: game we'd like to do today before we have to

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Speaker 2: wrap this up. So these are fun, easy questions so

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Speaker 2: Bachelor Nation can get to know you a lot better

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Speaker 2: and know Charles.

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Speaker 1: We've asked these same questions to every guy from Jones

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Speaker 1: season that we've been enrolled, so it's going to be fun.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Kathy my start all right?

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Speaker 1: What's one piece of advice Charles that you wish you

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Speaker 1: could give your younger self?

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Speaker 3: Read the more books.

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Speaker 1: Read more books. How many books do you read?

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Speaker 3: Well? I can't count, but I think I should have

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Speaker 3: read more than I read.

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Speaker 1: That.

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Speaker 3: That's I mean, that's the kind of a device to

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Speaker 3: myself when I was young.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, And how do you unwind after a long day?

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Speaker 3: Well, this is it. If you have a good day,

484
00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:25,160
Speaker 3: you know, it may be easier. If you have a

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00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:29,639
Speaker 3: bad day, will be very, very difficult. Sometimes I would say, ticket,

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Speaker 3: take a deep breast and forget it and move on.

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Speaker 2: But how do you unwind when you get home from

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Speaker 2: a long day? What is it you do that you

489
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Speaker 2: like to do that helps you just unwind?

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Speaker 3: Listen to music?

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Speaker 1: Okay, what's your favorite kind of music?

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Speaker 3: Any you know, I'm not an artist. In a sense,

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Speaker 3: but anything a light classic, you know, like instruments wise

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Speaker 3: violin for example.

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Speaker 1: You know, like do you like classical music?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just you know, calm you down, you know, likes

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Speaker 3: you know, even though I don't interpret the music as

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Speaker 3: many as many you know people, But that's the way,

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Speaker 3: you know, it's it's my way of you know, enjoying music. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I can listen to the ballet dance.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, for example, Chikowski, give me like Chaikowsky like that

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Speaker 1: swan like yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, the Swan lady. You know, you know you

504
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Speaker 3: enjoyed it. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I took my music appreciation course. I know what's up

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Speaker 1: with classics?

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Speaker 2: Like a saxophone, the good saxophone.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, good jazz, so good jazz. Okay, what is

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Speaker 1: what was your favorite male Charles? Growing up?

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Speaker 3: Fish and the rice.

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Speaker 1: Kind of fish.

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Speaker 3: We all we used to eat a lot of fresh

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Speaker 3: water fish. We have many many times. I am not

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Speaker 3: a big fan for the for the fish from the sea,

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Speaker 3: for example, because the area I was brought up, we

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Speaker 3: always eat fresh water fish and in those days it's

517
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 3: not polluted. They are so delicious. Yeah that's my favorite. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Now wait, do you cook?

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00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:12,479
Speaker 3: Yes, I do you know, it's not you know, I

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00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:15,680
Speaker 3: really enjoyed because, as you know, it takes a lot

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Speaker 3: of time.

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Speaker 1: But no, I don't know because I don't cook.

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00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:21,240
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, I need.

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Speaker 3: To, you know, because to eat outside sometimes it's really

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Speaker 3: not healthy.

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Speaker 2: Not especially when we do it a lot, right, Charles,

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Speaker 2: what is something you've always wanted to do but have

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Speaker 2: it done yet?

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Speaker 3: I wanted to be a lawyer, and unfortunately when I

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Speaker 3: was that age, I didn't have the money to go

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Speaker 3: to the law school. You know, it's very difficult to

532
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 3: get a scholarship. It's easier to get other scholarships for

533
00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 3: other majors. But I really really want to be a lawyer.

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00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 1: What kind of law? What kind of law would you

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Speaker 1: have practiced?

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00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 3: Probably criminal law?

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Speaker 1: Really that that surprises me, because am I I'm just

538
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Speaker 1: gonna you know, say what I think here. I think

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Speaker 1: you tend to be more black and white and and

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Speaker 1: law to me, and I've had personal experience with it,

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Speaker 1: is law is not set in stone. It's really how

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Speaker 1: well you can argue your case. The laws a suggestion,

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Speaker 1: not really you.

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Speaker 3: Know, Oh, Kathy, you might be not right, you might.

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Speaker 1: And Charles, that would not be the first time that

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Speaker 1: I have not been correct, But I am tell me why,

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Speaker 1: tell me why.

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Speaker 3: This is the reason I wanted to be a lawyer.

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Speaker 3: It's like my person that I really enjoyed. You know,

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Speaker 3: I love the cases to be you know, heated, you know, argued,

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Speaker 3: debated the end you.

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Speaker 1: Like, and you would have made a great lawyer, Yes,

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Speaker 1: you would have.

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Speaker 2: But that's something I asked about. Something that you always

555
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Speaker 2: wanted to do and have it done. Yet you're not

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Speaker 2: going to now be lawyer. What about an activity like

557
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 2: jumping out of an airplane or something that you always

558
00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:07,560
Speaker 2: wanted to do? Anything like that.

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Speaker 3: I never I never enjoyed those kind of adventure activities

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Speaker 3: in a sense.

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00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:15,440
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I very.

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00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:19,320
Speaker 3: You know I can be quote unquote proto in quote,

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Speaker 3: but nothing in.

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Speaker 1: So what do you want to do, Charles? Give us

565
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:26,080
Speaker 1: one thing that you want to do. You're not going

566
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Speaker 1: to become a lawyer because you know, for obvious reasons

567
00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:32,120
Speaker 1: those that ship has sailed, that cruise ship has sailed.

568
00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:33,800
Speaker 1: What would you like to do? Though?

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Speaker 3: That is probably to improve my dancing.

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Speaker 2: I like to teach you. I think dancing with the stars, Charles, and.

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Speaker 1: I, yeah, I'm gonna sit that one out. Okay, last

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Speaker 1: question here before we I have to wrap this. What

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Speaker 1: would the title of your autobiography be.

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Speaker 3: Charles, Oh, that's time of the title. Yeah, something like

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00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:09,160
Speaker 3: a man's dream to be realized.

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00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 2: Say that again, a man's dreams to be realized.

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00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:17,760
Speaker 1: That's way too many words. How about this one, Charles

578
00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:21,080
Speaker 1: in charge? How about that? Charles?

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Speaker 3: Sure?

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00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:29,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, Charles, Charles take charge charge, Charles.

581
00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:32,440
Speaker 3: I was still probably like the Charles in charge?

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00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:35,240
Speaker 1: All right. I like it. I like it, And you

583
00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:36,600
Speaker 1: know what, Charles, I like you.

584
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:41,320
Speaker 3: We both enjoy super Oh, thank you.

585
00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:44,360
Speaker 1: You're gonna find You're gonna find that person. You're gonna

586
00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:48,640
Speaker 1: it's gonna happen. You know what, Susan waitmant, you know

587
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:52,120
Speaker 1: what's gonna happen. He's gonna find a woman here it is.

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00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:55,160
Speaker 1: Here's my prediction, Charles. You're going to find a woman

589
00:32:55,760 --> 00:33:01,360
Speaker 1: m h who has a nasty little teenage daughter, and

590
00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:06,040
Speaker 1: you are gonna set her straight. That's that's what's gonna happen.

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00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:09,000
Speaker 2: I hope we all get to meet on that cruise

592
00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:10,720
Speaker 2: ship on the Golden Paradise.

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00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 1: Soon's not be dancing with you and I'll be walking

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Speaker 1: around the ship. Get my five miles in.

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Speaker 3: I guarantee buy you all the drinks.

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Speaker 1: You're in Charles, that that that and put you right

597
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:24,600
Speaker 1: over the top.

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Speaker 2: Unfortunately, this is doing it for this episode of Bachelor

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Speaker 2: Happy Hours Golden Hour. I want to thank you, Charles.

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Speaker 2: We loved having you. Thank you for joining us and

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Speaker 2: you dishing out some really great advice.

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Speaker 1: You you did, You gave some great advice. We love

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Speaker 1: getting to chat with you and getting to know you

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00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:46,480
Speaker 1: a little bit better. We hope everyone out there enjoyed

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00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:49,680
Speaker 1: getting to know Charles hell a little bit better. Thank

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Speaker 1: you for joining us, and be sure you're so welcome.

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00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:56,719
Speaker 1: Be sure to follow Bachelor Happy Hour as we have

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00:33:56,800 --> 00:34:00,360
Speaker 1: new episodes coming out every week every week that you

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00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:01,080
Speaker 1: won't want.

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Speaker 2: To miss, and make sure to submit your questions because

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Speaker 2: that's what we're here for. You can go to bachelornation

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Speaker 2: dot com, slash Golden Hour, or dm us on Instagram

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00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:12,040
Speaker 2: at Bachelor Happy Hour.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you never know, Charles may come back and answer

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Speaker 1: some more questions with us. Will you do that, Charles anytime?

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Speaker 1: All right? Perfect? In the meantime, listen to Bachelor Happy

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Speaker 1: Hours Golden Hour.

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Speaker 3: On the I wish you were here. I would be

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Speaker 3: happy to take your guys out for dinner.

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Speaker 2: Oh you are so well, Kasy is coming. I am

621
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Speaker 2: coming to Charles. We can set that up.

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Speaker 1: I'm coming to Philly in a few weeks, so.

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Speaker 2: I will text you and give you the dates and

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Speaker 2: you let us know what night is good for you.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, I'll take you guys out for dinner.

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Speaker 1: It's a date that's a dal on yours and you'll

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Speaker 1: buying all the drinks though.

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Speaker 3: Right, absolutely perfect cover.

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Speaker 1: Oh you're fabulous. Are getting you in a couple of weeks. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'll be there. Okay. In the meantime, every we've got

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Speaker 1: to move along here. Listen to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden

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Speaker 1: Hour on the iHeart Radio app or wherever you listen

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Speaker 1: to podcasts. Until next time, have a great week.

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Speaker 2: Thanks everybody, cheers, Thank you,