1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,599 Speaker 1: You are now. 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:06,080 Speaker 2: Angela what I called her? 3 00:00:06,320 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 3: Ye oh Whoa? What's up? 4 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 4: This way up? 5 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 3: Angela? Yee beat outs here. 6 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:20,640 Speaker 2: I missed you so much yesterday Angela had to come back. 7 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:23,119 Speaker 5: Okay, all right, we like that You're from Queen. You 8 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:24,959 Speaker 5: got on your mob deep hoodie today. 9 00:00:24,760 --> 00:00:27,680 Speaker 6: Absolutely represented for the killers. One hundred dollars billis okay? 10 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:31,000 Speaker 3: I respected. I was about to say, no, that's a curse. 11 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:34,520 Speaker 5: I was about to receive cite some mob deep lyrics 12 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:36,239 Speaker 5: and I was like, we can't say that, can say that? 13 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:40,199 Speaker 3: My favorite my deep song was I for an Eye Classic, Man, 14 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:40,960 Speaker 3: that's a classic. 15 00:00:41,159 --> 00:00:43,559 Speaker 2: He's still shining anything also from the Infamous. 16 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 3: So what about the album before that hit it from? 17 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:49,919 Speaker 3: I can't say that. I know, I forget it all right. 18 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:52,840 Speaker 5: Well, anyway, you guys are gonna love the show today 19 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 5: because last week we had a caller for ask Yee 20 00:00:56,960 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 5: and he was so emotional he only could leave a message. 21 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:02,400 Speaker 5: He couldn't get on the phone. But his question was 22 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:04,319 Speaker 5: about seeing his kids. He hasn't been able to see 23 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 5: his kids, the mothers withholding the children, and it opened 24 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:10,320 Speaker 5: the floodgates for people to call in who are going 25 00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:12,880 Speaker 5: through similar issues now one man is in the middle 26 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 5: of taking care of his issues, and he referenced the 27 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:18,959 Speaker 5: lawyer who was really helpful to him because he was saying, 28 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:22,960 Speaker 5: the lawyer really matters. And somehow we all got connected. 29 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:25,399 Speaker 5: And so Kathy Middleton Esquire is going to be joining 30 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:27,760 Speaker 5: us today. And when I tell you any question that 31 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 5: you might have about how can you see your kids 32 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 5: for women, questions about child support and custody arrangements and visitation, 33 00:01:36,720 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 5: any question that you might have, she can answer that 34 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 5: for you. And so she's going to be joining us 35 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:45,119 Speaker 5: today because of the demand that we saw from last 36 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 5: week's ask Ee. So I'm excited to bring you this information. 37 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 5: But let's start to show up with some love and positivity. 38 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:53,040 Speaker 5: Let's shine a light eight hundred two nine to fifty 39 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 5: one to fifty Call us up, let us know who 40 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:55,800 Speaker 5: you want to shine a light on. 41 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 3: Its way up. 42 00:01:56,840 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 4: Shin turn your. 43 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:03,160 Speaker 7: Lights on, y'all spreading love to those who are doing greatness. 44 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 4: Light, shine light on. It's time to shine a light 45 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 4: on them. 46 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:14,679 Speaker 5: It's way up at Angela Yee beat out today. I 47 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:16,800 Speaker 5: want to shine a light. This kind of has to 48 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 5: do with what I did last night. I hosted the 49 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:22,560 Speaker 5: book launch for Earn your Leisure at the Brooklyn Bank, 50 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 5: where as you can guess, is in Brooklyn. 51 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:29,079 Speaker 3: I deserve to be rich. I deserve to be rich. 52 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:32,360 Speaker 5: But anyway, I want to shout out to the owner 53 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 5: of the Brooklyn Bank. 54 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:34,919 Speaker 3: That's mister Jude Bernard. 55 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:37,799 Speaker 5: Now he has an amazing story, but I met him 56 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:40,160 Speaker 5: even I met him before he opened a Brooklyn Bank. 57 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:43,400 Speaker 5: Just from him doing real estate and learning how to 58 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:46,640 Speaker 5: do things like clip Holmes, become a landlord, all of 59 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:47,680 Speaker 5: the things that he's been doing. 60 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:49,200 Speaker 3: But it's been a long road for him. 61 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 5: But on his page, he details every single step that 62 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:56,079 Speaker 5: he does. He even shows like email correspondence, he shows 63 00:02:56,080 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 5: the landlord tenant relationship, he shows the difficulty that he 64 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:02,520 Speaker 5: has with certain homes. He gives you different options, He'll 65 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:04,360 Speaker 5: show you the checks, the money that like all of 66 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:04,920 Speaker 5: the things. 67 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:06,800 Speaker 3: He's very transparent in what he does. 68 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 5: And when he opened this place called the Brooklyn Bank, 69 00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 5: it's like a venue. It's really something that I've watched 70 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 5: a lot of people use. I've been to events there 71 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 5: and that's where erniea Lisia chose to launch their books. 72 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:19,679 Speaker 5: I thought it was just amazing seeing all these entrepreneurs 73 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 5: in one room coming together. 74 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:23,080 Speaker 2: So shut up. It's not an actual bank. 75 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 5: No it's not. It's called the Brooklyn Bank. Gotch I 76 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:26,640 Speaker 5: like it. I think it maybe it used to be 77 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:28,920 Speaker 5: a bank. All right, Well, who do you guys want 78 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 5: to spread some love to Malik? Who do you want 79 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:31,839 Speaker 5: to shine a light on shore? 80 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:33,919 Speaker 7: She's about to blow the lead about this, but let's 81 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:37,119 Speaker 7: get it. Angelus vieling that yee te Come and get 82 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 7: the tea. 83 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:40,119 Speaker 3: It's way up. I'm here with my guy. 84 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 5: Beat at you ready for some yet, let's do it. 85 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 5: I want to say I see beat out in the 86 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 5: comments on this yet. But we'll started off with Jim 87 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:51,560 Speaker 5: Jones responding to fifty cent and Cameron. Now, this all 88 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 5: started when Jim Jones sat down with Justin le Boy 89 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 5: and he said they need to get off his right 90 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 5: right stop. See I can't even say nothing but anyway, 91 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:07,880 Speaker 5: And then Cameron and Mace responded on there it is 92 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:08,360 Speaker 5: what it is. 93 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:11,800 Speaker 3: And here's what Cameron had to say, you talk about Ran. 94 00:04:11,880 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 2: I would have left. I would have left loan. 95 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 1: But listen, do you remember how you got cool with us? 96 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 4: One day? 97 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:19,160 Speaker 1: I'm leaving Mace's house on the West side, going back 98 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:21,480 Speaker 1: to the east Side. I stopped at Jemorrow since grandmother 99 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 1: died got blessed day and he had a free he 100 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 1: had a free crap, So yeah, I would bring some 101 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 1: over there sometimes. I never needed nowhere to stay. Do 102 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:32,479 Speaker 1: you act like keuch you begged us? 103 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:33,479 Speaker 4: You are a fan? 104 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:36,840 Speaker 3: Okay fan? Right? 105 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:40,400 Speaker 5: Well after that, and I want to say, Mace was 106 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 5: eating popcorn. 107 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, that was hilarious during this. 108 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 5: Now I saw too cool to blog, said Jim Jones 109 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:47,119 Speaker 5: response to fifty cent and Cameron in a song, Please 110 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:48,840 Speaker 5: be honest, how is it sounding? 111 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 3: First comment? Beatot sounding very good. 112 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:55,080 Speaker 5: Jim is at his best over dusty soul samples with 113 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 5: producers like Harry Freud. I've been begging years for him 114 00:04:57,480 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 5: and Pete Rock to do a project together. 115 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:01,160 Speaker 2: Jim Jones' been on the road for the last couple 116 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 2: of years. If you listen to songs like. 117 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:06,240 Speaker 6: El Coppo, Harry Fraud Department, The Fraud Department, those are 118 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 6: really good albums. 119 00:05:06,920 --> 00:05:08,920 Speaker 2: So I think that's Jim Jones and his best. 120 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 5: All right, Well, here is a snippet of that song. 121 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:14,160 Speaker 5: Please be honest. 122 00:05:13,520 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 7: They can't talking about what we had to spears ago. 123 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 6: I was just slammed with talking about the els you 124 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:22,840 Speaker 6: didn't want to post. 125 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:27,000 Speaker 7: No, no, we're not checking that the past that we 126 00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:28,560 Speaker 7: know that, we're not packing that. 127 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, man, listen, I like Jim. That's the kind of 128 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 2: Jim Jones. 129 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 3: I like, let's take it to the booth, all right, 130 00:05:34,160 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 3: dip set. 131 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:37,240 Speaker 5: I talked to Mano after all of this too, because 132 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:41,680 Speaker 5: he was mentioned Yes as well, and he basically was like, man, 133 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:43,560 Speaker 5: I hate to see them arguing because they have so 134 00:05:43,640 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 5: much history together. You know, some of the stuff is 135 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:48,279 Speaker 5: too some isn't whatever. But he was like, I hate 136 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 5: to see them arguing. They you know, they got too much. 137 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 2: I like Mana with a diplomatic approach. 138 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, look a man, he's so grown now. 139 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:58,360 Speaker 5: All right, now you want to hear something nice, something good, 140 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 5: says I was on Juba and Jrew Barrymore talked about 141 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:06,600 Speaker 5: the song on Control that was named after her, right, 142 00:06:06,640 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 5: and here's what Sissy had to say about why she 143 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 5: did it. 144 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:09,680 Speaker 3: I thought this was beautiful. 145 00:06:10,160 --> 00:06:13,279 Speaker 8: It was inspired by you. It wasn't just title after you. 146 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 8: The energy that you carry. Even my outfit is inspired 147 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:19,159 Speaker 8: by the way you've made me feel my entire life 148 00:06:19,279 --> 00:06:23,120 Speaker 8: because you were so yourself. You were quirky. Your smile 149 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:26,360 Speaker 8: wasn't perfect. I have like a slight speech impediment and 150 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:27,480 Speaker 8: people laugh all the time. 151 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 3: You're like, what is this it saying? And it's like 152 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:29,599 Speaker 3: a running joke. 153 00:06:29,920 --> 00:06:32,360 Speaker 8: It just reminds me of all the things about myself 154 00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:36,919 Speaker 8: that make me nervous. But on you, it shine so brightly. 155 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 8: You gave me permission to like be myself and feel 156 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:40,679 Speaker 8: like this is so cool. 157 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:43,720 Speaker 5: I think that was so cute. Drew Barrymore was definitely 158 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:47,120 Speaker 5: touched by that. You could see she was emotional. Yep, 159 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 5: all right, well that is your Yet when we come 160 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:51,719 Speaker 5: back about last night, we'll discuss what we did last night. 161 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:52,960 Speaker 5: I can't wait to hear what you were up to. 162 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 5: But I was actually at the book launch for Earn 163 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:58,600 Speaker 5: Your Leisure. The book is out today and we'll talk 164 00:06:58,640 --> 00:06:58,960 Speaker 5: about it. 165 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:03,600 Speaker 7: It's way up up with Angelae. It's not just right 166 00:07:03,680 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 7: or wrong. It's about what you believe. It's time to 167 00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 7: pick a side and stay there. 168 00:07:09,720 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 3: Pick a side. It's way up. I'm here with Beata. 169 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 4: Well there's beat out. 170 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:13,960 Speaker 2: I'm on the right side. 171 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 3: Okay, let's see about that. Today. 172 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 5: We're talking about if you leave the bottle or take 173 00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 5: it home? When you attend a function, especially if it's 174 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 5: at somebody's home. Now here is what they said on 175 00:07:24,400 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 5: the Shade Room Live. 176 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 9: If you bring a bottle and they don't drink it 177 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 9: at the function, is it okay to take your bottle home? 178 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 3: Hell no, I have. 179 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 2: People to do that to me. 180 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:33,600 Speaker 9: I was. 181 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 6: I used to host a lot of parties in my 182 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 6: house and I stopped it. 183 00:07:38,200 --> 00:07:40,360 Speaker 2: Y'all just ate and drank and free. I made all 184 00:07:40,400 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 2: of this and. 185 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 5: Then what all right, so let's talk about it now? 186 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 5: Beat that you're taking your bottle? 187 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:46,200 Speaker 2: You said, yeah. 188 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:49,280 Speaker 6: I also think it depends on who I'm going to visit, 189 00:07:49,640 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 6: because if it's someone I don't know like that, I'm 190 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:53,000 Speaker 6: taking that home with me. 191 00:07:53,800 --> 00:07:54,760 Speaker 3: But why would you be there? 192 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 2: You know, my presence is a present. 193 00:07:57,200 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 3: That's even worse if you don't know them like that. 194 00:07:59,040 --> 00:08:01,520 Speaker 5: I think if you know the person better, then you 195 00:08:01,560 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 5: can be like sis, I'm taking this bottle home. 196 00:08:03,320 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 6: Yeah, I feel like if I'm going with you somewhere, 197 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:06,560 Speaker 6: I'm a plus one. You know, you don't want to 198 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 6: come in empty handed. You know, you bring something in. 199 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:10,720 Speaker 5: And then you'll take it back. I mean if not, 200 00:08:10,920 --> 00:08:13,320 Speaker 5: then now I gotta apologize for my plus one, no 201 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 5: bottle left behind, and they'd be like, you saw Angela's 202 00:08:15,320 --> 00:08:16,840 Speaker 5: plus one. He came in here with a dou rag 203 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 5: on and he took his bottle back. 204 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 3: Well for me, I would say, it depends. 205 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 5: Normally I'll leave my bottle, but I will say in 206 00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 5: a special situation, I went to go see my family 207 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:29,040 Speaker 5: over the holidays, and I bought a huge bottle. 208 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:32,760 Speaker 3: With me of tequila. And I know they're not going 209 00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:33,959 Speaker 3: to drink that, and I. 210 00:08:33,920 --> 00:08:35,400 Speaker 5: Really bought it because I was like, I like this, 211 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:37,240 Speaker 5: I'll buy this big bottle if we drink some here 212 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 5: and then I could take the rest. 213 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:40,160 Speaker 3: And I took it home. But it's my family. 214 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:43,280 Speaker 5: But if it was and they came from dinner, so 215 00:08:43,320 --> 00:08:46,000 Speaker 5: nobody cooked, so it's not like it was food that 216 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:46,760 Speaker 5: they provided. 217 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 3: So I took the bottle with me, but they knew. 218 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:50,360 Speaker 2: It, you know why, because lock is expensive. 219 00:08:50,559 --> 00:08:53,240 Speaker 5: It is exactly and so yes, and so I think 220 00:08:53,240 --> 00:08:55,559 Speaker 5: in that situation, but if it was somebody's home, it's 221 00:08:55,559 --> 00:08:57,840 Speaker 5: a gift, they have a dinner, I'm leaving it all right. Now, 222 00:08:57,880 --> 00:09:00,360 Speaker 5: let's talk to you guys, Cicily. Are you leaving the 223 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:01,320 Speaker 5: bottle or taking it home? 224 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:04,640 Speaker 10: You leave the bottle. You're taking the bottle as a 225 00:09:04,720 --> 00:09:06,840 Speaker 10: currency to the host. You leave the bottle. 226 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:08,080 Speaker 3: Okay. 227 00:09:08,360 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 5: Is there any condition where you could take it home 228 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:11,600 Speaker 5: if they offer it to you? 229 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:13,559 Speaker 3: Okay, take this bottle with you? 230 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:15,040 Speaker 10: You should say no. 231 00:09:15,160 --> 00:09:16,720 Speaker 2: So that's where you regift the gifts. 232 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:20,600 Speaker 10: No, you say no, it's a gift to the host. 233 00:09:20,679 --> 00:09:22,640 Speaker 10: The host went through a lot of troubles to have 234 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:25,600 Speaker 10: DV and it's actually ruling you to take your bottle back. 235 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:26,320 Speaker 3: Okay. 236 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 6: So what if it was an expensive bottle of crystal 237 00:09:28,880 --> 00:09:29,839 Speaker 6: and nobody drunk it? 238 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 11: You it? 239 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:34,600 Speaker 10: You made a decision about it, extensive bottle of crystal 240 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 10: to take to this event for the host. Why are 241 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 10: you watching to see if your bottle got journey anyway? 242 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, bring it down there right back if you have 243 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:47,719 Speaker 3: a problem, all right, thank you. 244 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:49,400 Speaker 10: Thank you? 245 00:09:49,800 --> 00:09:50,000 Speaker 2: Hey? 246 00:09:50,040 --> 00:09:50,440 Speaker 3: Who's this? 247 00:09:51,440 --> 00:09:52,079 Speaker 10: This is honor? 248 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:52,880 Speaker 2: Hey? 249 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:54,880 Speaker 3: Annah? How are you? I'm doing good? 250 00:09:55,880 --> 00:09:57,600 Speaker 5: Me and be that are good? What do you think 251 00:09:57,640 --> 00:09:59,600 Speaker 5: about bringing the bottle home or leaving it? 252 00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:03,520 Speaker 10: So for me, I will personally bring the bottle home, 253 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:05,240 Speaker 10: depending on how much it's in the bottle. 254 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:07,439 Speaker 3: Okay, so you've done this? 255 00:10:08,120 --> 00:10:11,120 Speaker 10: Yes, absolutely. Sometimes I come to function and I have 256 00:10:11,240 --> 00:10:13,319 Speaker 10: half a bottle left. I'm bringing that half a bottle. 257 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 6: It's almost like, remember we go to the club, right, 258 00:10:16,559 --> 00:10:18,240 Speaker 6: you buy a bottle, it's half joint. 259 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:19,440 Speaker 2: Do you take it home with you? 260 00:10:19,840 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 9: Yes? 261 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 3: You know what? And you do own that bottle? 262 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:22,000 Speaker 9: Do? 263 00:10:22,080 --> 00:10:23,960 Speaker 5: They sometimes have an issue if you take it from 264 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 5: But it's not a club. 265 00:10:24,800 --> 00:10:26,160 Speaker 3: If somebody's home, it's. 266 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 10: A bottle home. 267 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:29,080 Speaker 2: Nowadays, I'm sneak. 268 00:10:29,480 --> 00:10:31,040 Speaker 5: We definitely sneaked the bottle out of the club. If 269 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:32,480 Speaker 5: I pay for a bottle the club, I'm taking it 270 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 5: with me. I'm telling you that right now. 271 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:34,640 Speaker 2: Save concept. 272 00:10:35,400 --> 00:10:37,160 Speaker 3: But it's not a club if someone's. 273 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:40,280 Speaker 10: Homeme, by all means, I try to bring that bottle back. 274 00:10:40,880 --> 00:10:43,440 Speaker 3: I gotta ask you, what bottle would you bring to 275 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:43,920 Speaker 3: a function? 276 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:46,840 Speaker 10: I'll bring don Julio obviously. 277 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:49,120 Speaker 2: I think it depends on the price point. Angela. Now, 278 00:10:49,160 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 2: if you bring a bottle of something from the gas station, 279 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:51,880 Speaker 2: you can keep that. 280 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:52,959 Speaker 3: You shouldn't even bring. 281 00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:54,160 Speaker 10: That, Oh yeah, keep that? 282 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:58,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, enjoy all right? 283 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:03,240 Speaker 5: Thank you for everybody pylos there. What do you do? 284 00:11:03,240 --> 00:11:05,280 Speaker 5: Do you bring the bottle home or leave it there? 285 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:08,480 Speaker 5: At an event that someone's home, you leave it there. 286 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 11: They provided the food the wolves that you're sitting under 287 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 11: and you know the entertainment. 288 00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:17,760 Speaker 10: So yeah, you leave the bottle there for to show 289 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 10: your appreciation. 290 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:20,959 Speaker 2: Okay, damn, I guess I'm the tech. 291 00:11:21,679 --> 00:11:24,679 Speaker 12: Don't nobody wants to ride home drunk anyway? 292 00:11:25,120 --> 00:11:27,520 Speaker 3: All right, thank you, all right, bye. 293 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:30,720 Speaker 6: I can't lie, Angela. I did bring a bottle home once. 294 00:11:30,760 --> 00:11:32,559 Speaker 6: I'm thinking of a scenario when it happened. 295 00:11:32,880 --> 00:11:33,640 Speaker 3: Was it at my house? 296 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 1: No? 297 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:36,199 Speaker 2: Was it? It was fourth of July and had a 298 00:11:36,200 --> 00:11:37,560 Speaker 2: bottle hypnotic. 299 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:41,160 Speaker 3: And you took a bottle hypnotic home. You deserved everything 300 00:11:41,160 --> 00:11:41,560 Speaker 3: you got. 301 00:11:43,320 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 5: If you couldn't get through to leave a message eight 302 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:47,319 Speaker 5: hundred and two ninety two fifty one fifty, you could 303 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:49,559 Speaker 5: leave a message for last word. And when we come back, 304 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 5: we have your yet, and let's talk boxing. When we 305 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:54,719 Speaker 5: come back, we'll tell you about some new things that 306 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 5: are about to happen. 307 00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:56,440 Speaker 3: It's way up. 308 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:01,840 Speaker 7: In the rooms, from industry shade to all the gossip out. 309 00:12:02,360 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 4: Angela's spiling that et. 310 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:07,840 Speaker 5: It's the way I put the Angela yee and beat 311 00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:12,480 Speaker 5: out his hair be where else. Let's get into some 312 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:18,079 Speaker 5: boxing news. Ryan Garcia versus Devin Haney. That rematch is official, okay. 313 00:12:18,320 --> 00:12:21,080 Speaker 5: And you know Devin Haney was suing Ryan Garcia, so 314 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:24,280 Speaker 5: that lawsuit has now been dropped because of this fight 315 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:26,679 Speaker 5: that's going to be happening now. If you guys recalled 316 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:30,240 Speaker 5: last Saturday, Bill and Devin Haney ran into Ryan Garcia 317 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:33,400 Speaker 5: at the Ring Awards in London and as he was leaving, 318 00:12:33,679 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 5: here's Bill Haney. 319 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:39,000 Speaker 6: Talk well, man came all out here for nothing. 320 00:12:39,040 --> 00:12:40,439 Speaker 2: Huh, you're ducking it all. 321 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 5: Stay quiet, okay, And then Ryan Garcia went on social 322 00:12:45,360 --> 00:12:48,040 Speaker 5: media and said, you can smell the desperation that sounds like. 323 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:50,920 Speaker 3: But it is gonna happen. Are you gonna watch this 324 00:12:51,040 --> 00:12:51,640 Speaker 3: fight this year? 325 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:52,000 Speaker 4: Of course? 326 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:52,880 Speaker 3: Rematch? 327 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:55,839 Speaker 5: What do you think is going to happen? Because there 328 00:12:55,880 --> 00:12:59,679 Speaker 5: was an investigation. Ryan Garcia's decision victory was overturned to 329 00:12:59,720 --> 00:13:02,559 Speaker 5: a no contest. He was also suspended a year from 330 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:05,280 Speaker 5: professional boxing, and they want to make sure these drug 331 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:07,640 Speaker 5: tests get done. Devin Haney went on social media and said, 332 00:13:07,679 --> 00:13:09,200 Speaker 5: I guess he's not a duck, he's a goose. 333 00:13:09,520 --> 00:13:10,480 Speaker 3: See you soon, bucco. 334 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:14,720 Speaker 5: And Ryan Garcia said crazy things on his page right 335 00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:17,800 Speaker 5: and he said he is being drug tested, just not 336 00:13:17,840 --> 00:13:19,800 Speaker 5: by Vedas. So everything they said is lies, lies and 337 00:13:19,840 --> 00:13:21,920 Speaker 5: more lies. I came here for business. Bill, You're going 338 00:13:21,960 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 5: to get that call. Just shut up, take the deal, 339 00:13:24,080 --> 00:13:25,680 Speaker 5: drop the lawsuit, and do what you're told. 340 00:13:25,720 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 1: Bum. 341 00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:29,240 Speaker 2: That lawsuit was real crazy. 342 00:13:28,920 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 5: Though, I think that they also were trying to get 343 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:34,080 Speaker 5: the money that they were supposed to get, you know, 344 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 5: from that fight in you know, truthfully, there was a 345 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:39,480 Speaker 5: lot of red flags, like with the drug testing, the weight, 346 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:43,160 Speaker 5: all of that, you know. So this I think, well, 347 00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:46,280 Speaker 5: if everything can be above table and then the way 348 00:13:46,320 --> 00:13:48,360 Speaker 5: they're supposed to, this will really determine because I don't 349 00:13:48,400 --> 00:13:51,200 Speaker 5: know what type of effect that would have had on 350 00:13:51,240 --> 00:13:52,480 Speaker 5: the fight with Ryan Garcia. 351 00:13:52,640 --> 00:13:54,160 Speaker 2: Right, everyone's going to get paid at the end of 352 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:54,720 Speaker 2: the day. 353 00:13:54,720 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 5: All right, Now, Terrence Crawford is going to be fighting 354 00:13:57,480 --> 00:13:58,360 Speaker 5: Canelo Alvarez. 355 00:13:58,440 --> 00:13:59,560 Speaker 3: That's been agreed upon. 356 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:02,240 Speaker 5: Terrence Crawfords that I'm a shock the world watch the 357 00:14:02,240 --> 00:14:03,760 Speaker 5: best is yet to come. I had it in my 358 00:14:03,840 --> 00:14:07,560 Speaker 5: back pocket this whole time. So this was first to discuss. 359 00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:11,720 Speaker 5: Last year, talks died down. Canelo did not want to 360 00:14:11,800 --> 00:14:15,559 Speaker 5: negotiate prior to his September fight, But now they're supposedly 361 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:18,440 Speaker 5: well rested, recharged following their latest fights. 362 00:14:18,520 --> 00:14:19,480 Speaker 3: Who you got in that one? 363 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:20,840 Speaker 2: Now, that's a fight I want to see. 364 00:14:20,920 --> 00:14:21,800 Speaker 3: That's gonna be a good one. 365 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:24,400 Speaker 2: I'm going with the Mexican. Oh Canelo. 366 00:14:24,480 --> 00:14:24,640 Speaker 1: Man. 367 00:14:24,720 --> 00:14:27,720 Speaker 5: Listen, y'all didn't y'all counted out Terrence Crawford before. 368 00:14:27,840 --> 00:14:28,840 Speaker 3: So I feel good. 369 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:30,120 Speaker 2: That's gonna be a good one. We have to go 370 00:14:30,120 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 2: to that one in all right? 371 00:14:31,320 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 3: Where is it? 372 00:14:31,760 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 2: Where is it at? 373 00:14:32,360 --> 00:14:32,520 Speaker 11: Yeah? 374 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:35,000 Speaker 5: Do we know where it's at? I would definitely, I 375 00:14:35,000 --> 00:14:36,720 Speaker 5: would definitely want to go to that one. Let's see 376 00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:38,200 Speaker 5: if we can make it happen. That should be fun. 377 00:14:38,280 --> 00:14:39,760 Speaker 2: Put my mink on, all right. 378 00:14:39,680 --> 00:14:42,640 Speaker 5: And Tyson Fury had an announcement. Here's what he had 379 00:14:42,680 --> 00:14:43,000 Speaker 5: to say. 380 00:14:43,400 --> 00:14:46,280 Speaker 2: I'd like to announce my retirement from boxing. It's been 381 00:14:46,320 --> 00:14:49,160 Speaker 2: a blust. I've loved every single minute of it. Go 382 00:14:49,280 --> 00:14:52,240 Speaker 2: bless everybody. See you on the other side. This is 383 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:53,160 Speaker 2: like his eighth retiring. 384 00:14:53,240 --> 00:14:55,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, he's thirty six years old, y'all don't believe it. 385 00:14:55,320 --> 00:14:56,800 Speaker 2: He always makes these announcements. 386 00:14:56,840 --> 00:14:59,360 Speaker 5: You know, he retired before in twenty twenty two, but 387 00:14:59,360 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 5: then Foggy two months later. 388 00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:03,480 Speaker 3: Then he kept saying he was going to retire. 389 00:15:03,720 --> 00:15:06,280 Speaker 5: It is a really tough sport though, so I can 390 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:08,560 Speaker 5: see why if there's you know, we don't know what's 391 00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:10,960 Speaker 5: going on in people's personalized but maybe there was a reason. 392 00:15:11,200 --> 00:15:13,560 Speaker 3: All right, well that is your Yet when we come back, 393 00:15:13,600 --> 00:15:13,920 Speaker 3: we have. 394 00:15:13,960 --> 00:15:16,080 Speaker 5: Under the radar the stories that are not necessarily in 395 00:15:16,120 --> 00:15:18,560 Speaker 5: the headlines. They are flying under the radar, but you 396 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:21,960 Speaker 5: definitely need to know about it, all of you TikTok users. 397 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:24,680 Speaker 5: What is about to happen in the near future. We'll 398 00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 5: discuss that. And under the radar, it's way up. 399 00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:28,680 Speaker 4: It's the news news. 400 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:31,560 Speaker 7: This in the news that relates to you. These stories 401 00:15:31,640 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 7: are flying under the radar. 402 00:15:33,480 --> 00:15:34,480 Speaker 3: All right, it's way up. 403 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:37,360 Speaker 5: I'm here with my guy beat at and people are 404 00:15:37,400 --> 00:15:40,359 Speaker 5: trying to figure out other alternatives. 405 00:15:39,960 --> 00:15:42,479 Speaker 3: For TikTok Ah. 406 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:45,240 Speaker 5: Yes, So right now, this law that could shut down 407 00:15:45,280 --> 00:15:48,880 Speaker 5: TikTok Nation, why, it may take effect as early as Sunday, 408 00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:52,040 Speaker 5: if the parent company Bite Dance does not sell off 409 00:15:52,040 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 5: the app, and if the Supreme Court does not block 410 00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:57,640 Speaker 5: the law. There's one hundred and seventy million monthly users 411 00:15:57,720 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 5: just in the United States. So right now this is 412 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:01,960 Speaker 5: there's the time that other competitors are really trying to 413 00:16:01,960 --> 00:16:04,240 Speaker 5: step up to the plate. I see people looking for 414 00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:08,040 Speaker 5: other options. People have signed up for a Neptune. They said, 415 00:16:08,080 --> 00:16:09,560 Speaker 5: if we want another TikTok, it is going to have 416 00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 5: to happen naturally. There's all these other ones. It was 417 00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:14,360 Speaker 5: another app that I saw went to like number one, 418 00:16:15,880 --> 00:16:18,000 Speaker 5: you know, on the in the app store. So I 419 00:16:18,000 --> 00:16:19,680 Speaker 5: don't know what's going to end up happening, but there's 420 00:16:19,680 --> 00:16:23,040 Speaker 5: people who also are trying to buy it. TikTok says 421 00:16:23,080 --> 00:16:25,240 Speaker 5: the report of a possible sale to Elon Musk is 422 00:16:25,240 --> 00:16:27,960 Speaker 5: pure fiction that I think should not be allowed to happen. 423 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:32,240 Speaker 5: But they did say that that was a possibility, but 424 00:16:32,280 --> 00:16:34,240 Speaker 5: they're letting you know that it's definitely not going to happen. 425 00:16:34,280 --> 00:16:37,160 Speaker 5: I saw Meek Mill said, sell TikTok to me, so 426 00:16:37,200 --> 00:16:37,920 Speaker 5: he stepped. 427 00:16:37,640 --> 00:16:38,200 Speaker 3: Up to the pulate. 428 00:16:38,400 --> 00:16:39,040 Speaker 2: Maybe you can buy it. 429 00:16:39,040 --> 00:16:41,440 Speaker 5: Angela mster b said, okay, fine, I'll buy TikTok so 430 00:16:41,480 --> 00:16:44,640 Speaker 5: it doesn't get banned. Red note is at the top 431 00:16:44,640 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 5: of the app charts. That's the app I was talking 432 00:16:46,320 --> 00:16:49,440 Speaker 5: about ahead of this potential TikTok band. But it's also 433 00:16:49,520 --> 00:16:54,680 Speaker 5: another Shanghai based Chinese language social media app, so wouldn't 434 00:16:54,680 --> 00:16:57,080 Speaker 5: that face the same problems At some point? 435 00:16:57,600 --> 00:16:59,680 Speaker 2: Maybe you and I should go half then, how about that? 436 00:17:00,360 --> 00:17:03,000 Speaker 5: Or how about I just become an ambassador. You pay 437 00:17:03,080 --> 00:17:05,960 Speaker 5: for it and I'll do some of the legwork. 438 00:17:06,080 --> 00:17:07,240 Speaker 2: We're going to learn the new dances. 439 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:09,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, but listen, I'm sure it's going to be quite 440 00:17:09,480 --> 00:17:12,520 Speaker 5: profitable for whoever decides that they want to do it. 441 00:17:12,560 --> 00:17:16,159 Speaker 5: Look at listen. People thought Elon Musk was crazy. Yeah 442 00:17:16,200 --> 00:17:17,240 Speaker 5: when he bought Twitter. 443 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:19,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I still think he overpaid. 444 00:17:19,080 --> 00:17:22,040 Speaker 5: But listen, he had other he had other goals. Right, 445 00:17:22,440 --> 00:17:24,919 Speaker 5: The goal wasn't just about money. It was about power, 446 00:17:25,280 --> 00:17:27,679 Speaker 5: and it was about the upcoming election and all of 447 00:17:27,720 --> 00:17:28,240 Speaker 5: those things. 448 00:17:28,320 --> 00:17:30,960 Speaker 2: Right, And it's power and freedom of speech all right. 449 00:17:31,000 --> 00:17:31,240 Speaker 13: Now. 450 00:17:32,359 --> 00:17:36,840 Speaker 5: President Joe Biden announced yesterday that his administration had approved 451 00:17:36,840 --> 00:17:39,080 Speaker 5: federal student lonely for more than one hundred and fifty 452 00:17:39,080 --> 00:17:42,119 Speaker 5: thousand borrowers, so that total number of people whose student 453 00:17:42,200 --> 00:17:45,880 Speaker 5: debt has been canceled is over five million. I saw 454 00:17:46,040 --> 00:17:49,040 Speaker 5: our I saw a navy over here looking at me. 455 00:17:49,080 --> 00:17:51,639 Speaker 5: He runs the boards here and he's still waiting. Is 456 00:17:51,640 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 5: yours canceled yet? 457 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:55,200 Speaker 3: Not yet? Okay, Well, there's still some time. 458 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:57,040 Speaker 5: There's still a couple of days, maybe after the show, 459 00:17:57,480 --> 00:17:59,680 Speaker 5: but yeah, maybe later today it should happen. 460 00:18:00,000 --> 00:18:02,000 Speaker 3: All right, Well that is you're under the radar. 461 00:18:02,080 --> 00:18:02,199 Speaker 14: Now. 462 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:04,240 Speaker 5: I'm excited about this guest who's going to be joining 463 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:07,600 Speaker 5: us today. Kathy Middleton Esquire. She is an attorney, but 464 00:18:07,680 --> 00:18:10,480 Speaker 5: she deals a lot with family law. And we had 465 00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:13,119 Speaker 5: a guest last week. Well, we had a caller calling 466 00:18:13,200 --> 00:18:15,280 Speaker 5: for Assie. He was a guest and he was having 467 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:17,400 Speaker 5: issues being able to see his kids. He was paying 468 00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:19,440 Speaker 5: child support, but the mother was not allowing him to 469 00:18:19,440 --> 00:18:21,960 Speaker 5: see his kids. That opened the floodgates for so many 470 00:18:21,960 --> 00:18:24,359 Speaker 5: people dealing with issues similar to that to call in. 471 00:18:24,680 --> 00:18:28,040 Speaker 5: So she's going to give you legal advice for people 472 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:29,600 Speaker 5: who are like I don't want to take this the court. 473 00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:31,760 Speaker 5: I can't win. The woman always wins. She's going to 474 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:33,560 Speaker 5: tell you what you can and cannot do, what the 475 00:18:33,600 --> 00:18:36,560 Speaker 5: courts will say, and what you should do if you 476 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:38,280 Speaker 5: want to be able to see your kids, or set 477 00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:41,879 Speaker 5: a visitation or alternate holidays, anything that has to do 478 00:18:41,960 --> 00:18:44,320 Speaker 5: with your family. She's going to be able to help you, 479 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:46,520 Speaker 5: help you guys out. We also have the way it 480 00:18:46,600 --> 00:18:47,600 Speaker 5: mixed at the top of the hour. 481 00:18:47,800 --> 00:18:48,880 Speaker 3: It's all good. 482 00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:50,639 Speaker 2: It's what was the call of don Trip? 483 00:18:51,280 --> 00:18:53,040 Speaker 3: No, it was not don Trip got it all right. 484 00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:53,600 Speaker 3: It's way up. 485 00:18:53,720 --> 00:18:55,879 Speaker 4: It's like the child like they and Jeli Jean like 486 00:18:55,920 --> 00:18:59,280 Speaker 4: they and Julie Jean Man, she's spilling it all. This 487 00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:01,080 Speaker 4: is ye way up. 488 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:06,280 Speaker 3: It's way up. At Angela, yee hate beat that. Ready 489 00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 3: for this was way for my job? Ready for your drop? 490 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:11,560 Speaker 2: Why you ever got to just say hi, Hi Angela? 491 00:19:11,600 --> 00:19:14,639 Speaker 5: All right, well let's get into this yet. So this woman, 492 00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:16,440 Speaker 5: I feel so bad for her. She's a middle aged 493 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 5: French woman. She got scammed out of eight hundred and 494 00:19:19,080 --> 00:19:20,040 Speaker 5: fifty thousand dollars. 495 00:19:20,040 --> 00:19:21,600 Speaker 3: She thought she was dating Brad Pitt. 496 00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:26,399 Speaker 5: And they have the pictures that he sent or whoever 497 00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:30,439 Speaker 5: it was sent, of Brad Pitt in the hospital holding 498 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:32,440 Speaker 5: up a sign that says, and I love you. 499 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:33,120 Speaker 3: I guess the word. 500 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:34,080 Speaker 2: We see these pictures. 501 00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:37,280 Speaker 5: She was fifty three years old, married to a millionaire 502 00:19:37,280 --> 00:19:39,760 Speaker 5: at the time, and in twenty twenty three she fell 503 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:40,120 Speaker 5: for this. 504 00:19:40,400 --> 00:19:41,919 Speaker 3: She sent him all this money. 505 00:19:42,240 --> 00:19:46,040 Speaker 5: He had these fake hospital bed pictures, and she got 506 00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:48,679 Speaker 5: the money from her divorce settlement because she broke up 507 00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:50,639 Speaker 5: with her husband because she thought she was getting with 508 00:19:50,720 --> 00:19:52,960 Speaker 5: Brad Pitt. He said he couldn't use his own cash 509 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:54,960 Speaker 5: because he was tied up in a divorce with Angelina 510 00:19:55,040 --> 00:19:57,439 Speaker 5: Jolie and she was helping him out. 511 00:19:57,480 --> 00:19:59,840 Speaker 6: I guess that wasn't Brad Pitt, that was Joe Black. 512 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:02,400 Speaker 6: She could have gotten me for way less. 513 00:20:02,440 --> 00:20:04,520 Speaker 3: You know how she caught on and this is heartbreaking. 514 00:20:05,119 --> 00:20:06,080 Speaker 3: She caught him. 515 00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:08,880 Speaker 5: She spotted a picture of Brad Pitt, the real one, 516 00:20:08,920 --> 00:20:10,360 Speaker 5: out with his current girlfriend. 517 00:20:11,359 --> 00:20:14,080 Speaker 6: What was Brad? What would Why would Brad Pitt ask 518 00:20:14,119 --> 00:20:14,720 Speaker 6: her for money? 519 00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:17,679 Speaker 5: And you know she only texted with him because he 520 00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:20,119 Speaker 5: was too busy for calls even while he was in 521 00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:20,720 Speaker 5: the hospital. 522 00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:21,960 Speaker 3: How busy are you in hospital? 523 00:20:21,960 --> 00:20:23,880 Speaker 6: And the pictures that they posted looked like they were 524 00:20:23,880 --> 00:20:25,040 Speaker 6: made on Microsoft paint. 525 00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:27,920 Speaker 5: I felt so bad that this one, But it's also 526 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:30,520 Speaker 5: kind of like did you not tell your friends? Nobody 527 00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:33,399 Speaker 5: was like, Sis, that's not Brad Pitt. I had to 528 00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:36,000 Speaker 5: tell an Uber driver once that he was getting scammed. 529 00:20:36,040 --> 00:20:37,800 Speaker 5: He was telling me about his girlfriend. He was sending 530 00:20:37,840 --> 00:20:40,399 Speaker 5: her money and they were supposed to meet up in Mexico. 531 00:20:40,480 --> 00:20:41,919 Speaker 5: She didn't end up showing up. He bought her a 532 00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:43,439 Speaker 5: new phone, He did all these things for her. I 533 00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:44,960 Speaker 5: was like, have you ever met her in person? Have 534 00:20:45,080 --> 00:20:48,080 Speaker 5: you FaceTime with her? And he hadn't, and I was like, sir, 535 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:52,760 Speaker 5: stop sending this woman money. Whoever, this is all right, Eminem. 536 00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:55,800 Speaker 5: This disc track that he had smack you has leaked. 537 00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:59,359 Speaker 5: Now this sounds like it's from like the early two thousands. 538 00:20:59,560 --> 00:21:01,760 Speaker 5: Apparently there's been a lot of tracks that have gotten 539 00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:05,479 Speaker 5: leaked in recent days. Fred Reck is like the producer, 540 00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:08,840 Speaker 5: Fred Wreck is warning the criminal who's leaking the Eminem music, 541 00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:09,800 Speaker 5: we will find. 542 00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:11,720 Speaker 3: You and street law will be applied. 543 00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:14,480 Speaker 5: So this doesn't feel like something They went out and 544 00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:16,760 Speaker 5: when I listened to it, I clutched my pearls and 545 00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:18,200 Speaker 5: you said, this is the Eminem we love. 546 00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:20,439 Speaker 3: Yes, all right, well here is a little piece of 547 00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:20,920 Speaker 3: that leak. 548 00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:23,760 Speaker 4: Dose one a question. Now we bring our daughter rough. 549 00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:24,640 Speaker 4: You don't even. 550 00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:27,600 Speaker 9: Raise the kids. You're waddling toddle uf, fat ass, tafetable 551 00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:30,359 Speaker 9: white who lives in McDonald's taus You stay in La 552 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:32,960 Speaker 9: it's Runna Polly with all the plugs making soon to 553 00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:35,240 Speaker 9: get him to following you to all the clubs. But 554 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:37,800 Speaker 9: to the see that you're publishing is all he wants, 555 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:40,000 Speaker 9: thinking your friends till he gets it in you. The 556 00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:42,240 Speaker 9: next rap of sitting on the pass and the side 557 00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:44,960 Speaker 9: of that Pins gets hit again and Nelly Peter You'll 558 00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:48,639 Speaker 9: be saying no kit it, but still no body. 559 00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:48,879 Speaker 4: You needs it. 560 00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:51,479 Speaker 6: That's my favorite version of eminem that three album run 561 00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:55,160 Speaker 6: from Slim Shady, Olp Marshall, Mothers and eminem show. 562 00:21:55,160 --> 00:21:56,120 Speaker 2: Love it all right. 563 00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:59,760 Speaker 3: Well, this was aimed at Shuge Knight and John Rule Smack. 564 00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:02,679 Speaker 2: You Poles, Donna smack them oh listen. 565 00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:07,040 Speaker 5: Point all right, and the Grammys. We talked about this yesterday. 566 00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:08,879 Speaker 5: They were talking about whether were they going to delay 567 00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:10,920 Speaker 5: the Grammys, are they going to make it a fundraiser. 568 00:22:11,320 --> 00:22:12,520 Speaker 3: Well, it's still going to happen. 569 00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:16,359 Speaker 5: They shared a statement yesterday acknowledging the natural disasters that 570 00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:20,080 Speaker 5: were tragic. They also detailed various charitable efforts to help. 571 00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:22,520 Speaker 5: But it's going to happen Sunday for February second, still 572 00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:25,879 Speaker 5: at the Crypto dot Com Arena in LA and they 573 00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:29,240 Speaker 5: are also launching this fire relief effort with an initial 574 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:32,720 Speaker 5: one million dollar donation to support music creators and professionals. 575 00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:35,359 Speaker 5: And so they are still going to have this, but 576 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:38,200 Speaker 5: also make sure that this is something that is going 577 00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:41,800 Speaker 5: to amplify the spirit of resilience that defines this great 578 00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:44,119 Speaker 5: city of Los Angeles. There's going to be a renewed 579 00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:48,639 Speaker 5: sense of purpose raising additional funds to support wildfire relief efforts. 580 00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:51,040 Speaker 2: Sounds like a telethon, Yeah, I. 581 00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:53,760 Speaker 5: Mean, I think it's a great opportunity to raise money, 582 00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:57,479 Speaker 5: you know. And Beyonce's delayed her announcement that was supposed 583 00:22:57,520 --> 00:23:00,320 Speaker 5: to happen today because of these LA fires. It'll be 584 00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:04,639 Speaker 5: a later date now. In recognition of people who've been 585 00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:07,720 Speaker 5: going through it. The Weekend canceled his Rose Bowl concert 586 00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:10,919 Speaker 5: and postpone this album amid these fires as well. The 587 00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:14,080 Speaker 5: album is now postponed to January thirty first, out of 588 00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:15,320 Speaker 5: respect and concern. 589 00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:18,159 Speaker 2: So I love the fact that the Grammys are like 590 00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:21,800 Speaker 2: putting the artists on Front Street a little bit, you 591 00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:23,720 Speaker 2: know what I mean, like this, put your money where 592 00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:24,400 Speaker 2: your plaquesaw? 593 00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:29,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, absolutely, all right, Well that is your eet when 594 00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:32,200 Speaker 5: we come back, ask ye eight hundred two ninety two 595 00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:33,119 Speaker 5: fifty one fifty. 596 00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:35,719 Speaker 3: I'm here with my guy beatat yep. Any question you have, 597 00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:37,840 Speaker 3: We're going to help you out. And I know you. 598 00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:40,800 Speaker 5: Love you some Glorilla, So let's play some Glorilla right now. 599 00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:42,760 Speaker 3: T GIF all right. 600 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:46,080 Speaker 7: Everybody since with its relationship with career advice. 601 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:47,520 Speaker 4: Angela's dropping facts. 602 00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:51,159 Speaker 3: You should know this is ask what's up? This way up? 603 00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:53,000 Speaker 3: Put angela? Ye, I'm here with my guy Beata. 604 00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:53,400 Speaker 2: Yep. 605 00:23:53,560 --> 00:23:54,360 Speaker 3: Are you ready for ask? 606 00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:54,600 Speaker 1: Ye? 607 00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:55,560 Speaker 3: Course I am all right. 608 00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:57,960 Speaker 5: Well, we have somebody who has asked to remain anonymous 609 00:23:58,000 --> 00:23:59,000 Speaker 5: on the line with subsis. 610 00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,760 Speaker 3: You doing gay? How are you feeling? I'm okay. 611 00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:06,639 Speaker 13: I went through my sponsors phone and it was a 612 00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:10,280 Speaker 13: bunch of provocative steps between him and this guy who 613 00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:12,720 Speaker 13: you can kind of see like he dresses like a 614 00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:16,240 Speaker 13: woman in a way, but he still like doesn't wear wigs. 615 00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:20,200 Speaker 5: Or okay, so he's gay. You could see that he's dated. 616 00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:24,200 Speaker 5: He's talking to somebody who's gay. Yes, exact what kind 617 00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:25,680 Speaker 5: of conversations were they having? 618 00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:29,800 Speaker 13: Like very provgative like And it was my kid's father 619 00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:34,240 Speaker 13: who was like really like, I can't wait to do this, 620 00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:38,600 Speaker 13: and god, this is so big and extreme stuff. 621 00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:41,320 Speaker 3: So I was like, homework. You must have been devastated. 622 00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:44,160 Speaker 5: I mean not just the cheating, but then finding out that, 623 00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:48,399 Speaker 5: I mean, he could be bisexual or he could you know, 624 00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:50,439 Speaker 5: maybe he's bisexual and he likes men and women. But 625 00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:54,600 Speaker 5: the cheating part is the part that's intolerable too, Yeah, 626 00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:55,600 Speaker 5: because I. 627 00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:59,040 Speaker 13: Kind of suspected to cheating, but I didn't expect that. 628 00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:00,639 Speaker 2: How long have you got been together? 629 00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:01,800 Speaker 4: Ten years? 630 00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:03,960 Speaker 3: Okay, Well, here's the thing. 631 00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,479 Speaker 5: You guys have kids together, no matter what right you 632 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:07,680 Speaker 5: got to is he a good father? 633 00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:10,040 Speaker 3: That's questionable. 634 00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,840 Speaker 5: You know, you have to let him know that you're aware. 635 00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:15,440 Speaker 5: I think that you just have to confront him. 636 00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:16,880 Speaker 3: But also I did. 637 00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:19,000 Speaker 2: Oh he went crazy. 638 00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:21,359 Speaker 13: He's like, no, no, no, why would you touch my phone? 639 00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:24,280 Speaker 13: Is not what it looks like and all this craziness, 640 00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:26,000 Speaker 13: And I'm like, I'm good. 641 00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:28,119 Speaker 3: So now you ask me, what do you want to 642 00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:28,560 Speaker 3: do now? 643 00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:31,760 Speaker 13: I don't want to be with him, and I think that, 644 00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:34,400 Speaker 13: like you said, he might be in a place where 645 00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:35,600 Speaker 13: he likes both. 646 00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:37,080 Speaker 12: And I mean, to each his own. 647 00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:38,360 Speaker 4: I'm not mad at that. 648 00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:41,879 Speaker 13: But it's just like I've questioned this before, but I 649 00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:44,119 Speaker 13: never could like say that was the case. 650 00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:44,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. 651 00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:47,760 Speaker 5: I mean, though, now you got the evidence that you 652 00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:51,000 Speaker 5: need to know that he's clearly at the lowest end 653 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:53,760 Speaker 5: of things. He's a cheater and not honest, and you 654 00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:56,080 Speaker 5: know you don't want to be with him anymore. But 655 00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:58,920 Speaker 5: you guys do still have to deal with each other. 656 00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:01,240 Speaker 5: Because of the kids. So you need to figure that out. 657 00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:02,680 Speaker 3: You know, it's a hard part. 658 00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:06,480 Speaker 13: We live together, we kind of build our lives around 659 00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:08,840 Speaker 13: each other and taking care of our kids. 660 00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:12,000 Speaker 3: So it's just hard. I don't have family here he does. 661 00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:13,080 Speaker 2: It's just are. 662 00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:15,359 Speaker 4: No. 663 00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:17,960 Speaker 13: I love him, but I love him like family. 664 00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:19,760 Speaker 5: But I also want you to go out and find 665 00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:21,840 Speaker 5: your person at some point for sure. And the only 666 00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:24,680 Speaker 5: way you can do that is to separate. And while 667 00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:26,359 Speaker 5: it might be hard, it's going to be just a 668 00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:28,680 Speaker 5: new normal for you of getting used to something else. 669 00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:31,520 Speaker 5: And you guys got to have a cordial relationship. And 670 00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:33,800 Speaker 5: I think you can because you said you love him 671 00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:36,040 Speaker 5: and whatever he's doing, it's not about you. 672 00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:38,280 Speaker 3: It's about whatever issues. Like you said, he has. 673 00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:42,120 Speaker 5: His own things going on with him and so he 674 00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:44,359 Speaker 5: wasn't honest with you. But maybe he's not even honest 675 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:44,920 Speaker 5: with himself. 676 00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:48,280 Speaker 13: Yeah, but we haven't talked about it at all. He 677 00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:50,480 Speaker 13: tried to act like it didn't happen, like. 678 00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:53,440 Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, he's avoiding it. Yeah. 679 00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:59,119 Speaker 5: Ago, you know, for the sake of being how old 680 00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:00,760 Speaker 5: are your kids or how many kids do you have? 681 00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:02,080 Speaker 3: We have four? 682 00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:05,399 Speaker 5: Okay, I think you guys, what you all might need 683 00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:08,160 Speaker 5: to do is he needs to talk to somebody on 684 00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:10,840 Speaker 5: his own to be able to come to terms with 685 00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:13,919 Speaker 5: what's going on with his life, express himself, and then 686 00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:16,199 Speaker 5: you know, I wouldn't be mad at y'all going together 687 00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:17,880 Speaker 5: to try to figure out how do you guys move 688 00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:21,080 Speaker 5: forward as people who are going to be I learned 689 00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:24,560 Speaker 5: this phrase parallel parenting, but parenting together to be able 690 00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:26,600 Speaker 5: to respect each other, for you to understand where he's come, 691 00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:28,720 Speaker 5: for him to understand, because I feel like he don't 692 00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:32,760 Speaker 5: even understand what he's dealing with and he's embarrassed and 693 00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:35,160 Speaker 5: he's not coming to terms with it, and he needs 694 00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:36,160 Speaker 5: to talk to somebody. 695 00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:38,600 Speaker 13: So what are you doing in a situation when like 696 00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:41,239 Speaker 13: he's the person who won't talk to anybody, he's one 697 00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:42,920 Speaker 13: hundred percent against counseling. 698 00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:45,600 Speaker 5: I would tell him that, look, I know that it's 699 00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:47,280 Speaker 5: hard for you to talk to me about this now. 700 00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:49,760 Speaker 5: The only way that I feel like we can even 701 00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:52,119 Speaker 5: like be cordial and figure out what's going to happen 702 00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:55,359 Speaker 5: to still be able to function is do this for 703 00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:57,120 Speaker 5: the kids and for yourself. 704 00:27:57,960 --> 00:27:58,760 Speaker 11: Well, thank you. 705 00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:01,320 Speaker 13: I'm definitely going to try to put this in place. 706 00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:06,119 Speaker 5: All right, Good luck. All right, we want to give 707 00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:08,000 Speaker 5: you a big virtual hug over the phone. 708 00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:10,719 Speaker 3: I appreciate it. Thank you for calling us. 709 00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:13,480 Speaker 5: And you know what, out of that, we're going to 710 00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:15,800 Speaker 5: be talking to Kathy Middleton Esquire when we come back. 711 00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:19,040 Speaker 5: She's a family planning lawyer and so she deals a 712 00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:22,280 Speaker 5: lot when it comes to rights and visitation and child 713 00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:25,120 Speaker 5: supporting all of that. So many people have questions she's 714 00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:29,720 Speaker 5: going to be here to help you out. It's way up, yee, 715 00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:31,320 Speaker 5: but you all been waiting for. 716 00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:35,160 Speaker 4: You're tapped in the way up with Angela Yee. 717 00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:35,919 Speaker 3: What's up? 718 00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:38,240 Speaker 5: It's way up with Angela Yee. And today we're doing 719 00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:40,880 Speaker 5: something really special. I've always said that I always like 720 00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:43,840 Speaker 5: to defer to experts when something is outside of my 721 00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:45,080 Speaker 5: room of expertise. 722 00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:47,560 Speaker 3: And we have Kathy Middleton Esquire with us. Thank you 723 00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:48,400 Speaker 3: for joining us. 724 00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:49,640 Speaker 14: Thank you for having me on the show. 725 00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:51,800 Speaker 5: So the other day we did have an ask EEE caller. 726 00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:54,960 Speaker 5: He left a voicemail and he was discussing issues that 727 00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:57,360 Speaker 5: he was having with seeing his kids. 728 00:28:57,480 --> 00:28:59,000 Speaker 3: Let's play that call for her right now. 729 00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:03,120 Speaker 12: Do I get my kids bag? I ain't screamed my 730 00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:08,160 Speaker 12: kids for three years. I paid child before he smelt 731 00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:11,800 Speaker 12: with my best man own the wednight, So that's why 732 00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:14,960 Speaker 12: the voice happened. He's been because I found out that 733 00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:18,920 Speaker 12: she slept with the best man and the jode. Better 734 00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:21,760 Speaker 12: do tell me how can I give my kids back? 735 00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:22,840 Speaker 13: Please? 736 00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:25,560 Speaker 3: Okay? So you hear his question now. I tried to 737 00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:26,680 Speaker 3: help him as best as I could. 738 00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:29,280 Speaker 5: I told him the earlier that he gets a lawyer 739 00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:31,920 Speaker 5: and establishes some type of visitation, the better it is 740 00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:34,520 Speaker 5: for him. But I want you to answer as somebody 741 00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:37,720 Speaker 5: who you deal with family planning, family law, you deal 742 00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:41,040 Speaker 5: with child support, you deal with visitation, custody, all of 743 00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:43,960 Speaker 5: those things. So what would you tell somebody he hasn't 744 00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:47,080 Speaker 5: seen his children. He pays child support, But what can 745 00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 5: he do? 746 00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:48,040 Speaker 3: Angela? 747 00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:49,200 Speaker 2: You gave him good advice. 748 00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:52,040 Speaker 14: The first thing that he needed to do was to 749 00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:54,640 Speaker 14: reach out to contact legal counsel so that he could 750 00:29:54,640 --> 00:30:00,280 Speaker 14: get a petition started for child custody slash visitation. By 751 00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:03,080 Speaker 14: doing that, what he will do is he'll start the process, 752 00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:07,120 Speaker 14: the ball rolling towards getting access back to his children. 753 00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:09,400 Speaker 14: Because what happened to him is he's become a victim 754 00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:12,560 Speaker 14: of parental alienation. He's not seeing the children he's not 755 00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:16,600 Speaker 14: speaking with the children. There's no communication whatsoever. The longer 756 00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:19,560 Speaker 14: the time lapses between the last time he saw the 757 00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:22,520 Speaker 14: children and the next time he sees them, the likelihood 758 00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:25,600 Speaker 14: shrinks by the year as to whether or not he 759 00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:27,960 Speaker 14: will be able to come back into those children's lives. 760 00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:31,920 Speaker 14: It will probably be supervised visits because he has been 761 00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:34,240 Speaker 14: away from the children's lives for a while. But they 762 00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:37,080 Speaker 14: will put a regular schedule in place with the goal 763 00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:41,680 Speaker 14: of having it moved from supervised to unsupervised bi weekly 764 00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:44,959 Speaker 14: visitation with him. But if the children start reaching the 765 00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:49,400 Speaker 14: age of preteenhood twelve, thirteen, fourteen, and they're saying, I 766 00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:51,400 Speaker 14: don't know this man, I don't want to be around him, 767 00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:53,840 Speaker 14: then the court is going to have a difficult time 768 00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:58,000 Speaker 14: forcing children to have visitation with somebody that they really 769 00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:01,760 Speaker 14: don't know, who's actually a stranger. So his job is 770 00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:03,760 Speaker 14: to really do as much as he can now to 771 00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:05,160 Speaker 14: get the ball rolling in court. 772 00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:08,600 Speaker 5: Right now, I'm talking to lawyer Cathy Middleton, who actually 773 00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:12,160 Speaker 5: specializes in family planning. Let's say the kid is seven 774 00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:14,440 Speaker 5: years old and they're like, I don't want to see 775 00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:17,160 Speaker 5: my dad, I don't know him, I'm scared of him. 776 00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:20,440 Speaker 5: My mom has told me awful things about him. Then 777 00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:21,360 Speaker 5: what does the court do. 778 00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:23,240 Speaker 14: Well, I have a case like that right now. And 779 00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:26,360 Speaker 14: so what the court has done is they established a 780 00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:30,400 Speaker 14: supervised visitation schedule which was being supervised by a social 781 00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:35,200 Speaker 14: worker who was attempting to reconnect or reunite the child 782 00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:37,440 Speaker 14: with the father. The problem with these visits is that 783 00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:40,440 Speaker 14: they were virtual visits, so there was a lot of 784 00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:44,360 Speaker 14: room for mismanagement in terms of the mother poisoning the 785 00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:46,640 Speaker 14: child against the father, saying that the child was not 786 00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:49,040 Speaker 14: interested in the visits and that sort of thing. And 787 00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:51,960 Speaker 14: when the court realized that that was not a suitable 788 00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:55,000 Speaker 14: way of trying to reunite these parties, they then moved 789 00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:58,680 Speaker 14: to a therapeutic supervised visitation schedule, where we now have 790 00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:04,080 Speaker 14: an actual psychiatrist who is overseeing the visitation, counseling the parties, 791 00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:06,560 Speaker 14: dealing with the issues that the child has as a 792 00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:08,920 Speaker 14: result of having been away from the father, as well 793 00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:11,520 Speaker 14: as the issues that the father's having as a result 794 00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:14,320 Speaker 14: of being disconnected with the child. And so we're seeing 795 00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:16,880 Speaker 14: a lot more progress take place. It may be within 796 00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:19,880 Speaker 14: the confines of a doctor's office, but at least the 797 00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:22,600 Speaker 14: process is beginning to take place for reunification. 798 00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:25,760 Speaker 5: Kathy Middleton esquire is here. We have more with her 799 00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:27,680 Speaker 5: when we come back. She'll be answering a lot of 800 00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:30,600 Speaker 5: questions that you guys have. Personally, it's way up. 801 00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:35,360 Speaker 4: You want to know my name? Way up with Angela ye? 802 00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:36,080 Speaker 4: Turn me on? 803 00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:37,360 Speaker 3: What's up? 804 00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:39,160 Speaker 5: Is way up with Angela yee? And we are here 805 00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:41,840 Speaker 5: with family planning lawyers. She also helps people when it 806 00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:44,800 Speaker 5: comes to child support, when it comes to custody visitation. 807 00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:49,200 Speaker 5: Kathy Middleton esquire, So, how does a domestic violence situation 808 00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:52,560 Speaker 5: affect a father's visitation or custody. 809 00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:55,800 Speaker 14: We often at my office as well, have domestic violence cases, 810 00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:58,960 Speaker 14: and we have to navigate the murky warders of being 811 00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:02,640 Speaker 14: able to maintain the integrity of the child's relationship with 812 00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:05,440 Speaker 14: the father and the father's relationship with the child even 813 00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:08,800 Speaker 14: in the midst of a domestic violence order protection situation. 814 00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:11,240 Speaker 3: In New York State, what we tend. 815 00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:14,000 Speaker 14: To do is the court will usually issue an order 816 00:33:14,040 --> 00:33:16,880 Speaker 14: of protection that has a carve out. It allows a 817 00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:20,640 Speaker 14: father to be able to continue to have consistent visits 818 00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:24,920 Speaker 14: with their child even while they're abiding by the terms 819 00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:27,360 Speaker 14: and conditions of an order of protection. So if an 820 00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:30,080 Speaker 14: order protection requires a father to stay away from the mother, 821 00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:33,080 Speaker 14: he still can be able to have access to the child. 822 00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:35,760 Speaker 14: Visitation will take place drop off and pick up, and 823 00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:40,000 Speaker 14: say a police precincta or maybe another relative will facilitate 824 00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:42,600 Speaker 14: the drop off and pick up of the child, and 825 00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:44,920 Speaker 14: the father will be able to then take the child 826 00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:47,640 Speaker 14: to their home and return the child at the end 827 00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:48,160 Speaker 14: of the visit. 828 00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:49,600 Speaker 3: Now, that could be a real issue. 829 00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:49,760 Speaker 2: Though. 830 00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:52,480 Speaker 5: Let's say a woman is frightened because she's like, he 831 00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:54,920 Speaker 5: beat me up, he put his hands on me. I'm 832 00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:57,520 Speaker 5: not comfortable with my child being around somebody that has 833 00:33:57,600 --> 00:33:58,560 Speaker 5: these anger issues. 834 00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:02,320 Speaker 14: Then what happens, we're generally speaking, will look at where 835 00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:05,160 Speaker 14: the violence was directed towards. So if it was directed 836 00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:08,080 Speaker 14: towards the woman and only the woman, the view of 837 00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:10,880 Speaker 14: the court is that it should not be the case 838 00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:14,000 Speaker 14: that we now cut off all relationships that the father 839 00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:16,440 Speaker 14: would have had with any of his children. If, however, 840 00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:20,120 Speaker 14: the domestic violence involves the children as well, then what 841 00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:23,440 Speaker 14: may happen is the visitation with the parent and child 842 00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:26,120 Speaker 14: may be a supervised visitation schedule. 843 00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:29,440 Speaker 5: Right now, I'm talking to lawyer Kathy Middleton, who actually 844 00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:32,400 Speaker 5: specializes in family planning. All right, now we have another 845 00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:34,920 Speaker 5: call it because, like I said, this day, when we 846 00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:37,080 Speaker 5: had this ask e, the phone lines blew up. There 847 00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:39,920 Speaker 5: were so many people leaving messages. All right, here's another question. 848 00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:41,359 Speaker 6: I get to see my. 849 00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:44,200 Speaker 10: Daughter only Thursday to Saturdays. I drop her all Sundays, 850 00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:47,520 Speaker 10: but the other days Monday, Tuesdays, Wednesdays, I cannot call her. 851 00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:48,760 Speaker 14: I cannot speak to her. 852 00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:50,640 Speaker 13: Not because I have anything with the law or anything, 853 00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:51,320 Speaker 13: but my ex. 854 00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:53,200 Speaker 11: Wife won't allow me to. I'm afraid to go to. 855 00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:55,239 Speaker 10: The court because everybody I speak to says that I'm 856 00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:57,239 Speaker 10: gonna lose the case because it's a mother The mother 857 00:34:57,320 --> 00:34:57,960 Speaker 10: always wins. 858 00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:00,560 Speaker 5: People do say that the mother always wins when it 859 00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:02,520 Speaker 5: comes to course. So what do you say to that? Okay, 860 00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:05,080 Speaker 5: I would say that he's getting some bad advice. He 861 00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:06,479 Speaker 5: needs to contact the lawyer right away. 862 00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:09,320 Speaker 14: As a father, he's got a right to have consistent 863 00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:11,680 Speaker 14: visits with his child. On those days when the child 864 00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:14,040 Speaker 14: is not in his home or visiting with him, he's 865 00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:17,120 Speaker 14: supposed to be able to have either telephonic or FaceTime 866 00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:19,560 Speaker 14: visits with the child. There should be like an hour 867 00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:21,960 Speaker 14: set aside. And most of my cases will have like 868 00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:25,319 Speaker 14: seven o'clock every evening. The father's allowed to either have 869 00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:27,720 Speaker 14: a FaceTime call or telephone call with the child. 870 00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:29,320 Speaker 3: That's good. Yes, okay. 871 00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:31,359 Speaker 5: You also, though, work with women, so I don't want 872 00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:33,239 Speaker 5: people to think this is just about men. You do 873 00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:35,520 Speaker 5: also work with women, yes, and helping that because you 874 00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:36,719 Speaker 5: has to have a bug helping women. 875 00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:38,680 Speaker 3: Yes, here a girl get that child? 876 00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:39,120 Speaker 2: Sup work? 877 00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:39,479 Speaker 3: Yes? 878 00:35:39,719 --> 00:35:42,520 Speaker 14: And so we Half of my clients are women, and 879 00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:47,320 Speaker 14: I help women with child support, paternity, custody issues, domestic violence, divorce. 880 00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:51,399 Speaker 14: You know, we're equal opportunity office. We discriminated against no one. 881 00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:53,440 Speaker 5: And I do feel like men it's harder for them 882 00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:55,919 Speaker 5: to get help, and people don't take into consideration people 883 00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:58,080 Speaker 5: who want to be in their kids' lives. True, and 884 00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:01,120 Speaker 5: there's some type of hinderance there. So I don't want 885 00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:03,360 Speaker 5: guys to feel like I just give up. This is 886 00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:05,759 Speaker 5: too difficult. It's not gonna happen. I can't deal with 887 00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:08,640 Speaker 5: this woman and I'd rather just let it go. You know, 888 00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:11,000 Speaker 5: you gotta make it happen. All right, Well, I appreciate 889 00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:12,719 Speaker 5: you so much for coming. I know there's going to 890 00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:14,719 Speaker 5: be a ton of people that are going to be 891 00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:15,840 Speaker 5: hitting you up and. 892 00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:17,600 Speaker 14: So they can reach me at one eight three three 893 00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:20,800 Speaker 14: FAMI Law one, or they could visit my website which 894 00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:24,200 Speaker 14: is www dot Kathy Middleton dot com. 895 00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:26,279 Speaker 5: Well, thank you so much, Kathy, and you should watch 896 00:36:26,320 --> 00:36:28,920 Speaker 5: that full interview with Kathy Middleton Esquire on my YouTube 897 00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:31,160 Speaker 5: channel Way Up with Ye And when we come back, 898 00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:32,920 Speaker 5: you guys have the last word. 899 00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:36,759 Speaker 7: The phone tap to get your voice heard? What the 900 00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:40,480 Speaker 7: words the last word on Way Up with Angela? 901 00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:40,600 Speaker 9: Ye? 902 00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:41,359 Speaker 3: What's up? 903 00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:41,440 Speaker 4: His? 904 00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:44,320 Speaker 5: Way Up with Angela? Yee, I'm here with my guy Beata. Sorry, 905 00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:45,719 Speaker 5: how you feeling beat at? 906 00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:46,840 Speaker 2: Feeling good? Angela? 907 00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:47,440 Speaker 11: All right? 908 00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:49,680 Speaker 3: Good, You're gonnaeel even better. I ordered you some jerk chicken. 909 00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:52,120 Speaker 2: Oh shouldn't have, but I'm glad you did. 910 00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:54,000 Speaker 3: I know you are well. 911 00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:57,400 Speaker 5: Thank you again to Kathy Middleton Esquire for joining us today. 912 00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:01,520 Speaker 5: If anybody needs any help again at the Middleton Esquire amazing. 913 00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:04,840 Speaker 5: When it comes to talking about child support, custody visitation, 914 00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:07,920 Speaker 5: you know the right step fathers do have because too 915 00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:10,400 Speaker 5: many times we see people not allowed to see their kids. 916 00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:13,600 Speaker 5: There's personal relationships with the parents not getting along and 917 00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:15,160 Speaker 5: kids should not be affected by that. 918 00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:15,480 Speaker 11: Work. 919 00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:16,960 Speaker 2: She makes me want to have another baby. 920 00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:21,200 Speaker 3: Okay to know here you have it, ladies. If anybody's uh, 921 00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:22,719 Speaker 3: well you're in a relationship. 922 00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:25,600 Speaker 5: Yeah all right, Well again, thank y'all so much for 923 00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:28,080 Speaker 5: joining us. This is your show, so you have the 924 00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:28,680 Speaker 5: last word. 925 00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:31,200 Speaker 11: What's going on? I want to stand a line on 926 00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:35,320 Speaker 11: this guy. His name is Jacob Horn. This guy hasn't 927 00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:39,080 Speaker 11: had his kids for two years. He's patiently waiting, stressed. 928 00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:42,440 Speaker 11: I know at one point he had thoughts of suicide, 929 00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:45,279 Speaker 11: but he was fatial waiting and now he has cut 930 00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:48,360 Speaker 11: of his kids. He's living a good life. He has 931 00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:51,800 Speaker 11: his career. So I want to share that and shout 932 00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:54,319 Speaker 11: out to him. But I also wanted to be motivation. 933 00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:55,839 Speaker 2: To other guys that are going through the same thing. 934 00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:59,120 Speaker 11: Just be patient, keep your mind focused, don't give up. 935 00:37:59,360 --> 00:37:59,879 Speaker 11: God's got 936 00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:05,040 Speaker 4: Turned it a little little way up, Angela, ye is 937 00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:05,719 Speaker 4: way up.