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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Beca Tilly and Tanya Red and iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, We're scrubbing in. It's Monday.

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Speaker 3: It's like the best Monday ever.

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Speaker 4: We're actually recording the podcast in the morning. We normally

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Speaker 4: do the afternoon, but today we're doing a morning morning show.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, which I'm enjoying. I like this. I'm like repped up.

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Speaker 3: I'm ready.

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Speaker 1: It's like post morning show. I have my full caffeine

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Speaker 1: and my body. I just did at Olivia Rodrigo dance party,

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Speaker 1: so I'm feeling good.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 4: So Olivia Rodrigo is just like breaking records all over

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Speaker 4: the place.

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Speaker 3: Uh huh.

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Speaker 2: She's releasing her album.

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Speaker 4: Do you feel like it's gonna meet our expectations or

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Speaker 4: do you feel like, how does it?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 4: How can it be consistently as good as the three

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Speaker 4: songs she's put out.

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Speaker 1: I think it's going to exceed our expectations because I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna lie. When I discovered and I actually meant

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Speaker 1: to text you because I saw it on TikTok first.

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Speaker 3: This theory.

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Speaker 1: This the cheerleading outfit that she wore in the music

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Speaker 1: video The same one Princess Theresa Mandy Moore and the

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Speaker 1: boyfriend had the same initials and same name.

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Speaker 3: As her ex dude that all the stuff is rumored

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Speaker 3: to be about.

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Speaker 1: And when I discovered that, I literally was like, Olivia

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Speaker 1: Rodrigo is the gift that we don't deserve in this generation.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So I have a question for you.

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Speaker 4: What, as a massive Taylor Swift fan, do you feel

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Speaker 4: like there's I mean, she's a huge Taylor Swift fan,

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Speaker 4: as we all are. Do you feel like there's like

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Speaker 4: she's like Taylor's led the way for Olivia Rodrigo or

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Speaker 4: do you think Olivia Rodrigo is going in her own direction?

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Speaker 4: Do you think there's some Well, here's the thing.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think when you think of Easter Eggs,

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Speaker 1: you obviously think of Taylor Swift and like she's pulling

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Speaker 1: a Taylor Swift, which is fine, but it's like Taylor

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Speaker 1: Swift isn't the only person that can do that, you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 2: But I'm saying, do you feel like it's all similar? Too?

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Speaker 3: Similar? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: No, Oh my god, she reminds me. The song reminds

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Speaker 1: me of Avril Levine, Like.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, it reminds me of Paramore.

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Speaker 4: It sounds just like a It reminds me so much

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Speaker 4: of a Paramore song. I couldn't tell you the name.

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Speaker 3: But I hear she's a little more punky than tailored.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so you think she's like doing her own thing,

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Speaker 4: kind of like having her own style of music and everything.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but her the the deep rooted Easter eggs, such

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Speaker 1: as the cheerleading outfit to match the Mandy Moore's boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: I mean that literally, I was like the emoji with

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Speaker 1: the with the the thing coming out, Like my mind

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Speaker 1: was blown. I thought it was so good and just

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Speaker 1: so well done, and I was like, I want to

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Speaker 1: do more of those things. Like I don't have Easter

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Speaker 1: eggs to lay for anything in my life, but if

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Speaker 1: I did, I would do them like that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I mean, she's she's literally three for three. There's no

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Speaker 4: miss so even I do, I say. I don't know

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Speaker 4: if she wrote the songs for the High School Musical series,

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Speaker 4: but those songs hit too.

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Speaker 3: Don't I'm not familiar with those library.

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Speaker 2: TikTok, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Ginger Chan talks about the the viral songs on TikTok,

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Speaker 4: but there was like some viral songs from the musical series.

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Speaker 3: I don't know those very well.

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Speaker 4: Anyways, I'm really excited about her album and I can't

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Speaker 4: wait to hear all the songs have been a little different.

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Speaker 4: Deja Voo took me to Cruel Summer, Taylors of Cruel Summer.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and the drivers.

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Speaker 4: This one took me to Paaramore Driver's License. I don't know,

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Speaker 4: kind of had a mix.

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Speaker 1: Of some other I mean, just the timing of the

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Speaker 1: release of that song couldn't have just hit me more

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Speaker 4: Was just yeah, took you back to your dark Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 4: Something else significant happened and that was all of the well.

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Speaker 4: I follow Cording Cox and Jennifer Aniston on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, we need to talk about that. And then

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Speaker 1: I also have another thing that I want to talk about.

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Speaker 1: Don't not let me forget about it.

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Speaker 6: What is the topic of the other things?

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Speaker 3: Remind you periods?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we didn't know.

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Speaker 1: The influx of messages I got from scrubbers with the

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Speaker 1: same name recommendation for me is wild and so I

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Speaker 1: did a ill.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so friends, Oh I didn't even get there. So

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Speaker 4: Fortney Cox and.

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Speaker 2: Jennifer Aniston released like this.

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Speaker 3: Just really distracted by your nails?

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Speaker 4: Okay, there, I have so bad to my di y

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Speaker 4: new life in a second. Oh, I have never seen

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Speaker 4: this so ugly. I never hold on. You're distracting me.

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Speaker 1: I don't need I don't need a manicured hand, but

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Speaker 1: a dirt under the nails is.

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Speaker 2: Spray paint.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Tanya doesn't understand the spray paint life.

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Speaker 2: Anyways, Back to friends. Back to Friends, So.

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Speaker 4: They released like a chilling emotional trailer of the four

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Speaker 4: of them walking away like the original there's six of them.

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Speaker 2: What did I say for some fresh fan? You are.

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Speaker 4: Six of them walking away like they are in the

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Speaker 4: original series promo or whatever, with like acoustic version of

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Speaker 4: I'll Be There for You, the theme song.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what is it gonna be?

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Speaker 1: I have so many questions because I don't know if

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Speaker 1: it's like I think I'm imagining that it's going to

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Speaker 1: be a reunion where they kind of are all sitting

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Speaker 1: on that couch and just kind of talking about their

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Speaker 1: lives after the show.

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm envisioning.

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Speaker 1: I didn't think it was gonna be an actual scripted

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Speaker 1: episode like picking up where we left off, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean?

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Speaker 6: Like, but I gotta be honest with you. The news

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Speaker 6: last week that there's gonna be celebrity guests really bummed

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Speaker 6: me out.

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Speaker 1: Can I tell you that's exactly the same issue I had.

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Speaker 1: I saw the list of names, and at first I

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Speaker 1: was like, Oh, cute Reese Witherspoon, she was on the show.

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Speaker 1: That makes sense, yes, like the people who were apart,

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Speaker 1: like Christina Applegate was on the show.

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Speaker 2: Who else is on there? I didn't see this.

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Speaker 6: It's like Lady Gaga, bt Sts, Bieber Labor like pass No.

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Speaker 1: There's a laundry list of names that are going to

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Speaker 1: be guest appearances. And I literally was like, friends, is

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Speaker 3: Them is all we need? Do you know what I mean? Like,

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Speaker 3: that's all we need.

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Speaker 1: We don't need you to pull out celebrities to get

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Speaker 1: us to watch or be invested. Like it feels very

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Speaker 1: try hard to me and I and I don't like

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Speaker 1: that because us friends stands don't need that, do you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean? We don't need that pull We

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Speaker 1: don't need your TikTok star to be a guest appearance

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Speaker 1: on you know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: Like it just it just I don't like it.

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Speaker 6: It just strikes me as you know, HBO, Warner Brothers,

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Speaker 6: corporate dudes in a big boardroom saying, oh, where's your

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Speaker 6: good beat yous thought of that thing? You don't get

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Speaker 6: some younger viewers in there. Let's get Bieber on there.

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Speaker 6: You know, it just seems like overthinking this. Anytime spent

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Speaker 6: on Lady Gaga is time not spent with the original six,

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Speaker 6: which is all we care about.

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Speaker 3: I agree, but I'm with you.

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Speaker 4: I think if they brought some of the guest stars

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Speaker 4: that are like massive celebrities, like like you said, Ellen

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Speaker 4: Pompeo was even on there, like things like that, of

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Speaker 4: like that makes people who kind of had like a

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Speaker 4: after that, that would be so cool.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I don't what I know, it's a long Now,

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Speaker 1: there's a long list of them.

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Speaker 6: I give it to you.

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Speaker 3: I have it here if you want to, Yeah, give it,

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Speaker 3: give it, because he asked.

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Speaker 6: Lady Gaga, David Beckham, Justin Bieber, James Corden, Cindy Crawford,

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Speaker 6: Cara Delaphene, Elliott Gould, makes sense, Mindy Kayling, Thomas Lennon,

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Speaker 6: Christina Pickeles, Tom Selleck.

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Speaker 1: Okay, like, no, no disrespect to those I like all

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Speaker 1: those people individually. They're all fine, fine, But I just

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Speaker 1: don't want it with my friends reunion. I want my

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Speaker 1: friends songs, celebrity guests. I just want the six of

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Speaker 1: them on a couch drinking some coffee, kicking back with

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Speaker 1: a coke.

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Speaker 3: Beer whatever coffee.

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Speaker 7: Are you bummed that it's not like a new episode

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Speaker 7: like or would you prefer that to like them sitting

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Speaker 4: Absolutely no, because I would feel so uncomfortable to see

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Speaker 2: Sudden, like trying to now like doing description.

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Speaker 4: Because they it was all like I mean, granted from

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Speaker 4: but like they just built this thing thing that was

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Speaker 4: i'd want to watch them force it or like try

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Speaker 4: to bring it back for one episode.

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Speaker 3: Like that show like they can't you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, they need to not, because I was thinking

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Speaker 1: about it too. If they picked up where the series

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Speaker 1: twins and the keys on the counter.

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Speaker 3: But I don't want that. I do want them just

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Speaker 3: to kind of all can't do that.

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Speaker 6: They're all twenty years older.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm telling you the amount of like laughter

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Speaker 1: that that like. So you know how I watch a

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Speaker 1: was just like, this is not the way to fall asleep,

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Speaker 1: so I switch over to Friends. Sometimes I'll get to

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Speaker 1: specific episodes where I literally am laughing so hard that

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Speaker 1: I can't fall asleep, Like I have to just switch

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Speaker 1: the episode. And sometimes I fall asleep after Red Star.

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Speaker 1: And He's like, you literally shake the bed like when

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Speaker 1: you're watching Friends, Like the bed actually shakes because you're

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Speaker 1: laughing so hard.

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, what other show does that to me? None?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: You said ted Lasso, which oh yeah, and shit's creak.

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Speaker 4: I feel like you.

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Speaker 1: Also different laughs and not shake the bed last Okay, yeah, okay.

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Speaker 4: The only thing that I can think of, though, is

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Speaker 4: I know you have your specific episodes that like you're

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Speaker 4: how you did with Denny where you just go back

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Speaker 4: and you.

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Speaker 2: Laugh as hard every single time, which.

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Speaker 1: There's this episode and I've watched it three times the

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Speaker 1: last week because it's so funny.

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Speaker 3: But there's Joey's dating this like little girl.

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Speaker 1: She's like little, she's probably like under five foot, and

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Speaker 4: That's me being That means that I've been rough and

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Speaker 3: Yeah it looks peisty today. So yeah, I'm supposed to

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Speaker 2: Can we talk about what we're doing tonight?

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Speaker 4: I don't know, because you didn't. You just said we're

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Speaker 3: Can't come, No, No, just me.

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Speaker 2: Third Wheeling great, A third wheel A third Wheel Eve

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Speaker 4: Like being in a group.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just like that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so we're going to pack a little picnic and yeah,

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Speaker 6: What game is coming up?

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Speaker 1: Awards And that's why I'm seeing the documentary because I'm

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Speaker 6: She was on one of ours, she was on Intimate Knowledge.

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Speaker 6: I don't remember podcasts.

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Speaker 1: The craziness of it is that we are basically men

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Speaker 4: So is it was she saying, like, it's good to

445
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Speaker 4: feed your body what it's craving, like for you to.

446
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Speaker 1: Eat new Like that's what everybody says, Like everybody blames it.

447
00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:08,240
Speaker 1: Everybody's kind of kind of blame. We've just kind of

448
00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:10,760
Speaker 1: put blame on this thing, like our period, and it's

449
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Speaker 1: just our excuse to do whatever. But no, not to

450
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Speaker 1: give in, but that your body does crave certain things,

451
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Speaker 1: like you do need to eat more on your period,

452
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Speaker 1: but not like a pack of Star Wars, you know.

453
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Speaker 4: Yeah, but I feel like if you're craving a burger,

454
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Speaker 4: what's wrong with eating a burger when.

455
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Speaker 1: I don't know, I need to get more into the

456
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Speaker 1: weeds of it. I need to get more into the

457
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Speaker 1: nutritional weeds of it.

458
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Speaker 10: But the.

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Speaker 1: And basically she was saying, like you should do more

460
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Speaker 1: cardio during one of these phases versus like less cardio

461
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Speaker 1: and more strength, because you could be having it could

462
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Speaker 1: be giving you like the reverse effect.

463
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Speaker 3: I don't know.

464
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Speaker 1: It was so wild and I think I can make

465
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Speaker 1: I think if I figure it out, I can crack

466
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Speaker 1: the code and it's not stop having my really crampy

467
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Speaker 1: day and my bleeding niagara falls day.

468
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Speaker 2: Yeah. Maybe, I don't know.

469
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Speaker 1: I think so I've seen the light, and I think

470
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be a changed woman.

471
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Speaker 4: I sent Tanya a video of this girl is like

472
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Speaker 4: a TikTok and she goes, she goes. I just can't

473
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Speaker 4: wrap my mind around the fact that once a month,

474
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Speaker 4: like when we have periods, we just walk around we're

475
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Speaker 4: literally bleeding, and we just walk around as if everything's

476
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Speaker 4: totally fine and normal, like I'm fine, I'm just you know,

477
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Speaker 4: just bleeding.

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Speaker 2: I and I was like, we do.

479
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Speaker 4: We just act like it's just part of our you

480
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Speaker 4: know what I mean. It is, it is part of

481
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Speaker 4: our lives. But there's just I've never really really thought

482
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Speaker 4: that deep into it because it's what happens.

483
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Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's what she was saying.

484
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Speaker 1: She's like, we all have just kind of come under

485
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Speaker 1: this Oh you're on your period or oh you're pms

486
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Speaker 1: ing or oh you're done. It's like, no, those are

487
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Speaker 1: actual reactions, like that's like your body's basically saying you're

488
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Speaker 1: having a fever. And you would treat yourself if you

489
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Speaker 1: were a fever, Like you would take medicine or you

490
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Speaker 1: would do something, you know.

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Speaker 2: Eat bad because you're supposed to feed a fever.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like that's your body. Like now you're not supposed

493
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Speaker 3: to have painful periods.

494
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Speaker 2: Am I supposed to be a raging psycho?

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Speaker 9: No?

496
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Speaker 3: Like that's a hormone of balance.

497
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Speaker 1: Like that is like basically your body having a fever,

498
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Speaker 1: and you should figure out what's like.

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Speaker 3: Causing that, and maybe I should.

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Speaker 4: Do you get rageful?

501
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Speaker 1: No, I'm saying because of you. Oh those days are

502
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Speaker 1: like Homer Simpson over here.

503
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Speaker 4: When have I ever gone off on you because of

504
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Speaker 4: my period?

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Speaker 3: It's seldom? Like, seriously, would it's happened?

506
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Speaker 1: When Like when you used to lock the door when

507
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Speaker 1: we lived in Brentwood, and you would lock the door

508
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Speaker 1: so I couldn't come over.

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Speaker 4: No, I would lock the door because I'd go to

510
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Speaker 4: sleep at night, and then you would come over early

511
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Speaker 4: enough that I hadn't unlocked the door.

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Speaker 1: No, that's not true, because the door would be unlocketh

513
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Speaker 1: all the time, except for when you were on those

514
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Speaker 1: period days it was just mysterious.

515
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Speaker 2: Locked and not with you. I forgot about.

516
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Speaker 4: So my sisters they have a neighbor and she like

517
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Speaker 4: will come. She's like literally right next door to show,

518
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:14,600
Speaker 4: like come and knock on their window or just like

519
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Speaker 4: walk in the door. And I'm like, wow, that is

520
00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:20,280
Speaker 4: so reminiscent of the days Tanya and I lived right

521
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Speaker 4: next door to each other.

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Speaker 3: The fact that we shared a wall is so crazy

523
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Speaker 3: to me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's almost like you know those things that you

525
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Speaker 1: give your best friend and you like tap it and

526
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Speaker 1: then it.

527
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Speaker 2: Like Amy got those for us.

528
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Speaker 3: Yeah, and it like she kind.

529
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Speaker 1: Of it like blinks to your friend whenever, so you're

530
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Speaker 1: you're always together. It's like we had that. But it

531
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Speaker 1: was just a wall and I could just like knock

532
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Speaker 1: on it.

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Speaker 4: No, you would never do that. You just knocked on

534
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Speaker 4: the door until I answered.

535
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Speaker 1: I could just touch the wall, and I knew that

536
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Speaker 1: I could feel your energy.

537
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Speaker 4: Wasn't home Mark.

538
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Speaker 2: You took the words right out of about it.

539
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Speaker 4: I'm excited, and I'm gonna let y'all take the You

540
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Speaker 4: don't if we're pretending that this is happening.

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Speaker 2: Today last week?

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Speaker 6: All right, we did it last week.

543
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Speaker 1: Yeah, We did it last week because she had a

544
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Speaker 1: press day where she was doing all her press because

545
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Speaker 1: she is what's the word launching, No, not, she's launching voting, yes,

546
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:21,360
Speaker 1: but she is efficient, so she like stacks her day

547
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Speaker 1: where she's like, I'm gonna do all my press from

548
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Speaker 1: like eight am to eight.

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Speaker 3: Pm on one day, and I respect it.

550
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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, she's just I had this moment after we

551
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Speaker 4: interviewed her where I was like, I remember so vividly

552
00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:39,680
Speaker 4: my old house watched like growing up, watching Laguna Beach

553
00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:41,560
Speaker 4: and thinking Kristen, Like I was just.

554
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Speaker 2: Like, she's the cool girl.

555
00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:46,560
Speaker 4: Like she is the like she is the epitome of

556
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Speaker 4: what I imagined a California girl being like, and just

557
00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:52,000
Speaker 4: thought she was so cool. And I had that moment

558
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Speaker 4: of being like, oh my god, like I just got

559
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Speaker 4: to hang out and chat with Kristen Cavalary.

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Speaker 2: That was really cool.

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Speaker 6: Well that's the nice thing of pre recording as interviews,

562
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Speaker 6: as we can tell people that this is a really

563
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Speaker 6: fun interview with the three of you just hanging out.

564
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Speaker 6: It's really doesn't feel like an interview at all.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, true, because she's just she is.

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Speaker 1: She's just super cool and super open and transparent while

567
00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 1: at the same time like she's so degaff which I love.

568
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think that's something to do with her having

569
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Speaker 4: been in this spotlight since she was so young.

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Speaker 1: And also efficient, do you know that I that is

571
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Speaker 1: a word that I'm going to put on my vision

572
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Speaker 1: board next year because I am the opposite of efficient.

573
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Speaker 3: I will be working on.

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Speaker 1: A trending rapport and then I'll be making some oatmeal,

575
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:41,040
Speaker 1: and then I'll be listening to a song, and then

576
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Speaker 1: I'll get an email and I'll answer the email, and

577
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:45,800
Speaker 1: like my brain, I just kind of I'm always kind

578
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:47,679
Speaker 1: of doing multiple things, and I feel like if I

579
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:51,119
Speaker 1: just focused and did things in blocks and chunks of time,

580
00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:52,600
Speaker 1: I could be way more efficient.

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Speaker 3: And I think that's how Kristen Cavalariy is.

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Speaker 2: I feel like what you just named is efficient.

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Speaker 4: You were doing a lot of things at one time.

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Speaker 1: But I think it takes me too long to do

585
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:01,960
Speaker 1: all of those things, where if I could just focus,

586
00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:02,800
Speaker 1: I can get.

587
00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:03,720
Speaker 2: One done at a time.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I have to stop myself. I'll be in the

589
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Speaker 6: middle of something and I'll get distracted by an email

590
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:09,680
Speaker 6: or something and I'll go to that and then I

591
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:13,480
Speaker 6: say stop, stop, stop, finish what you're doing, then deal

592
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Speaker 6: with that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not good at that.

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00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:18,439
Speaker 4: That's like all my life is like I never have

595
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 4: long enough time to like focus on one thing.

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Speaker 1: But think about it, like if you just sat down

597
00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:24,920
Speaker 1: and like blocked out your day.

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Speaker 3: I really think I could do this. I'm gonna I

599
00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:28,120
Speaker 3: want to feel like.

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Speaker 4: I'm shocked that you don't. I just be very achievable.

601
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Speaker 1: I have to do lists and I feel like I'm

602
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:34,879
Speaker 1: organizing that way, but I don't. I'm not efficient and

603
00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:36,920
Speaker 1: I and I don't like that about myself.

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Speaker 4: All Right, Well, we're gonna get into that interview person.

605
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:42,840
Speaker 2: I'm like, what is the word I'm gonna say.

606
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:45,360
Speaker 4: We kind of talked about her dating life a little bit,

607
00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 4: so that's a little teaser for you, and we'll be

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Speaker 4: right back with that. Okay, you guys, we have a

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Speaker 4: guest on here that I have been so excited to

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Speaker 4: have on the podcast.

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Speaker 2: Please welcome to the O R. Kristin Cavalarie.

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Speaker 9: Wow In, Hi, guys.

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Speaker 2: I'm so happy you're finally scrubbing in.

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Speaker 9: Me too.

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Speaker 5: I've been dying to for a long time. I'm such

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Speaker 5: fans of you, guys. I always say I know you

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Speaker 5: guys love.

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Speaker 9: Me so much, so I'm really excited to be here.

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Speaker 1: I am just a huge I feel like I just

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Speaker 1: ingest everything that is Kristen. So I'm wearing my Butterfly

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Speaker 1: collection from your jewelry line. I have the earrings and

622
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Speaker 1: the ring on right now as we speak.

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Speaker 3: I use you do.

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Speaker 1: I use your cookbook because I just love all of

625
00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 1: your recipes. I wash my hair with your new shampoo

626
00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:55,520
Speaker 1: for blondes.

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Speaker 3: No, like, it's actually like we have.

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Speaker 1: And now I'm about to use your beauty collection because

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Speaker 1: it really like it's a clean beauty supply.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, clean skincare. It's the We're launching with five core

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Speaker 5: products that I feel like everyone needs in their daily routine.

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00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:20,560
Speaker 5: They're very much a part of my daily routine. And

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Speaker 5: if you guys want, I can walk you through them

634
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Speaker 5: a little bit, or I can just kind of tell

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Speaker 5: you the overall idea behind it, what works for you guys.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, tell us about like, because there's five products total

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Speaker 4: that you'll launch with, So technically there's five hero products

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Speaker 4: you're starting with. Yeah.

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00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:40,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, these are the base of anyone's daily routine, and

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Speaker 5: so a daily foaming powder cleans are a daily moisturizer.

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Speaker 5: My favorite product is are pineapple peptide nectar. This is

642
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:50,640
Speaker 5: vitamin C and peptidze in one, so it's hydrating, it's writening,

643
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Speaker 5: it's anti aging. We have an I cream, we have

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Speaker 5: a lip bomb, and then in January of twenty two,

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Speaker 5: we're going to follow it up with some products that

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Speaker 5: are a little bit more fun, very much a part

647
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Speaker 5: of the routine. Maybe not every day, but things like

648
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Speaker 5: a natural alternative to a retinol. So some stuff that

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Speaker 5: I'm really excited about as well.

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Speaker 1: The lip bomb is very importante because no, I'm serious.

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Speaker 1: So I have a friend who she models, and so

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Speaker 1: she's constantly kind of having like makeup and things put

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Speaker 1: on her. It's part of her job. So every day

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Speaker 1: she's getting makeup put on. And she recently had her

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Speaker 1: like metals checked or something, and she had some crazy

656
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Speaker 1: amount of metals and the I guess her doctor was saying,

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Speaker 1: it's because of all the stuff she puts on her lips.

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Speaker 1: You don't realize if you're not using clean products, you're

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Speaker 1: constantly putting it on your lips and you're ingesting it.

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Speaker 9: It's so it's crazy.

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Speaker 5: About a year ago, it's when I started to deep

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Speaker 5: dive into this clean beauty world and what does it

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Speaker 5: mean and all of these things, And what I found

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Speaker 5: out was that you can actually also say that you're

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Speaker 5: a clean beauty brand and you're.

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Speaker 9: Really kind of not.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, there's all these different lists on the market for

668
00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:57,960
Speaker 5: what qualifies you to be clean. And so the two

669
00:30:58,040 --> 00:31:00,760
Speaker 5: most important things for me were to act be clean.

670
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:02,720
Speaker 5: You know, I wanted these products to be safe enough

671
00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:05,640
Speaker 5: that if my kids decided to rummage through my drawer

672
00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:07,720
Speaker 5: in my bathroom and lathered it all over their face,

673
00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:09,520
Speaker 5: I would have peace of mind knowing that it was

674
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:14,040
Speaker 5: okay then, and that they're also really effective. But what

675
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:16,560
Speaker 5: I learned too, is that the products that I was

676
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:18,760
Speaker 5: using at the time that were high end, you know,

677
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:23,720
Speaker 5: fairly clean, all of these things that they add parabins, petroleum,

678
00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 5: you know, all of these things, they actually age us.

679
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:28,160
Speaker 5: So while we sit here using these products thinking that

680
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:30,840
Speaker 5: we're doing a really good thing, we're actually doing the opposite.

681
00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:35,040
Speaker 5: So they're actually not effective really at all, which was

682
00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:37,400
Speaker 5: really alarming to me. So that was another reason why

683
00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:40,800
Speaker 5: I wanted to do uncommon beauty, to have natural skincare,

684
00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 5: because I want to make sure the products I'm using

685
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 5: are doing what they're.

686
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:44,600
Speaker 9: Supposed to be doing.

687
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:48,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, That's that's some information to take in.

688
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 4: I'm like, I need to go through everything I'm using

689
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:54,760
Speaker 4: and make sure it's not doing the opposite of what

690
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:56,000
Speaker 4: I'm trying to accomplish.

691
00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:58,800
Speaker 1: Right, No, but I feel like the lifestyle that you live,

692
00:31:59,040 --> 00:32:00,560
Speaker 1: just like the way that you eat and the things

693
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 1: that you put like on your body and in your body,

694
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:06,120
Speaker 1: like you're very aware and like that's the level I

695
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:08,920
Speaker 1: strive to be at, you know, Like I'm almost there,

696
00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 1: Like I try really, like I try to be super

697
00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:13,960
Speaker 1: clean and eat like you know, like no refined things

698
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 1: are processed, and I'm almost there, but like I want

699
00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:19,920
Speaker 1: to be Christen Status.

700
00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:23,080
Speaker 9: I love you. Well, I'll be honest with you.

701
00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:25,200
Speaker 5: The one area of my life that I haven't fully

702
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:28,200
Speaker 5: transitioned over is makeup and hair products. And I think

703
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 5: anytime you enter this clean space, you almost have to

704
00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 5: forget everything, you know, because an eyeliner, for example, maybe

705
00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 5: won't smudge the same way because there aren't those those

706
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 5: filler ingredients, and so you have to kind of wrap

707
00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:42,720
Speaker 5: your head around Okay, I know I'm doing a good

708
00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:44,720
Speaker 5: thing for my body, but maybe it's a little bit

709
00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:46,280
Speaker 5: different than I'm used to, So I think it's a

710
00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:49,800
Speaker 5: bit of an adjustment period and I just like makeup

711
00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:52,680
Speaker 5: and hair, sometimes we just gotta do what we gotta do.

712
00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:59,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, that is true. I just like, I feel like

713
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:04,840
Speaker 4: you have been busy since we were watching you on

714
00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 4: Laguna Beach, Like.

715
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:08,600
Speaker 2: I feel like you've never stopped.

716
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:12,600
Speaker 4: True, like you're just consistently. I mean, it's really cool

717
00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 4: to see because a lot of people who are in

718
00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:19,200
Speaker 4: the reality TV space don't have that longevity that you've had.

719
00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:23,640
Speaker 4: And it's like you just continue to like continue to

720
00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:25,920
Speaker 4: do things and like launch products and then it's like

721
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 4: I'm going to do beauty, I'm going to do jewelry,

722
00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:30,120
Speaker 4: I'm going to do this. And it's like, where when

723
00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 4: do you kick up on the couch and like watch

724
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 4: some trash TV.

725
00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:36,920
Speaker 3: Kick up on the couch?

726
00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:37,680
Speaker 9: Well, thank you?

727
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:41,760
Speaker 5: I mean, I think because my whole life, I've moved

728
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:44,200
Speaker 5: around so much, I don't really know how to just

729
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 5: sit still and just relax. I have found that when

730
00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:49,080
Speaker 5: I actually do sit on the couch with my kids

731
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:52,520
Speaker 5: to watch a TV show or something, then I get tired. However,

732
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:55,280
Speaker 5: all of that being said, I think what I've learned

733
00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 5: through the pandemic is to slow down, and I've actually

734
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:02,880
Speaker 5: really enjoyed being at my house and taking a day

735
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:05,959
Speaker 5: to myself. Sometimes I think being the CEO and well,

736
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:09,520
Speaker 5: the founder of Uncommon James, I have had this guilt

737
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:11,680
Speaker 5: of like I need to be in the office Monday

738
00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:14,279
Speaker 5: through Friday, which I am there most days. But now

739
00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 5: I've gone to a place of being like, you know what,

740
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:17,759
Speaker 5: if I want to stay home for a day and

741
00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:19,080
Speaker 5: I don't want to wake up at five to work

742
00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:21,360
Speaker 5: out after I drop off my kids at school, I

743
00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:23,120
Speaker 5: can come home and work out and I can stay

744
00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:25,799
Speaker 5: in leggings all day. I do that more often now,

745
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:28,080
Speaker 5: and I'm giving myself a little bit more grace, and

746
00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 5: that feels really nice.

747
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:32,960
Speaker 9: So I am learning how to just chill out a

748
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:33,399
Speaker 9: little bit.

749
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:38,320
Speaker 1: I respect it because and I'm actually like, I'm not

750
00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:39,880
Speaker 1: even going to ask you this question, because I think

751
00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:41,960
Speaker 1: it's so annoying that women get asked this question and

752
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:43,920
Speaker 1: men never get asked the question of like how do.

753
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:47,359
Speaker 3: You do it all? But I feel like to it's

754
00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 3: so it irritates me.

755
00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:51,440
Speaker 4: I mean, a lot of women do, a lot of

756
00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:53,680
Speaker 4: women do a lot more than what men are doing,

757
00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:57,520
Speaker 4: especially when they have kids, it's like superhuman.

758
00:34:57,120 --> 00:34:57,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it is.

759
00:34:57,960 --> 00:34:59,719
Speaker 1: It's like I try to wrap my head around just

760
00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:02,000
Speaker 1: kind of everything that you have going on on top

761
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:05,239
Speaker 1: of your children and like on top of making I

762
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:07,360
Speaker 1: feel like you always do you make yourself a priority

763
00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:08,000
Speaker 1: and like.

764
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:09,960
Speaker 3: It's really cool to see.

765
00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 1: I just feel like, and I feel like I've told

766
00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:14,960
Speaker 1: you this so many times. I really like admire so

767
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:17,759
Speaker 1: many things about you, because not only is your work

768
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:20,480
Speaker 1: ethic really strong, but I also think you know, like

769
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 1: you're in the tabloids all the time over XYZ, and

770
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:27,360
Speaker 1: you have such a sense of humor about it, like

771
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:29,400
Speaker 1: you can laugh about it and you can just be like,

772
00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:32,120
Speaker 1: this is ridiculous, and I know deep down like it's

773
00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 1: got to affect you and it's got to impact you,

774
00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:35,920
Speaker 1: but you also can kind of roll with it and

775
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:38,200
Speaker 1: laugh at it. And I just think that that's the

776
00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 1: coolest thing about you.

777
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:41,239
Speaker 9: Thank you.

778
00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:43,719
Speaker 5: That's really sweet, I will say. I mean, I've been

779
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:46,360
Speaker 5: in the tabloid world since I was seventeen and before.

780
00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:49,759
Speaker 9: I don't know that it ever gets easier, and I

781
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:51,239
Speaker 9: don't I think the biggest thing for me.

782
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:54,560
Speaker 5: That drives me nuts is people assuming they know what

783
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:56,400
Speaker 5: they're talking about, and I just want to be like,

784
00:35:56,719 --> 00:35:59,000
Speaker 5: you have no clue, no clue.

785
00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:01,400
Speaker 9: I want to shout it from the rooftops and so

786
00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:03,719
Speaker 9: but I know I do have to keep a sense

787
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:05,279
Speaker 9: of humor. I have to laugh about it.

788
00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 5: I think it's important to have friends that you can

789
00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:09,480
Speaker 5: vent to about that stuff who also understand what.

790
00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:11,920
Speaker 9: You're going through. But it's a real thing.

791
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:15,480
Speaker 5: And I actually think with the reality shows, especially ones

792
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:19,719
Speaker 5: like Luguna Beach the Hills, not as much very cavalary,

793
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:23,359
Speaker 5: but there still is there's a level of stress that

794
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:25,480
Speaker 5: comes with those. Yeah, And the level of stress for

795
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:28,239
Speaker 5: me is that I don't care what anybody says. No

796
00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:31,520
Speaker 5: reality show is one hundred percent real, unless it's like

797
00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:34,960
Speaker 5: Jersey Shore where there's cameras on twenty four seven, But

798
00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:37,360
Speaker 5: even then, anyone can play a huge role, and so

799
00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:40,200
Speaker 5: I just there's no way you can tell a full

800
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:41,360
Speaker 5: story when.

801
00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:43,360
Speaker 9: They're only filming with you for a few hours a week.

802
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:47,120
Speaker 5: And so I think for me, people thinking that they

803
00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:49,320
Speaker 5: know everything about me and assuming they know everything about.

804
00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:51,200
Speaker 9: A situation, that's the part that drives me crazy.

805
00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 5: And I'm not going to sit here every day and

806
00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 5: go on social media and be like, Okay, actually what.

807
00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 9: Happened was this and that, like it's just not worth

808
00:36:57,719 --> 00:36:58,320
Speaker 9: my time.

809
00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:01,359
Speaker 5: And energy, but it it never get I don't know.

810
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,520
Speaker 5: I don't know how to just completely let it roll

811
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:04,920
Speaker 5: off my shoulders all the time.

812
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 4: I think if you're someone who is has like empathy

813
00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:13,360
Speaker 4: and compassion at all, then I don't think accepting criticism

814
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:16,560
Speaker 4: from strangers, especially when it's hate and people are trolls,

815
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:17,319
Speaker 4: Like I.

816
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:19,320
Speaker 2: Don't think your brain.

817
00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:22,480
Speaker 4: If you're able to empathize and have compassion for people,

818
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:25,799
Speaker 4: then you're like not able to just ignore that because

819
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 4: everyone's always like ignore the haters whatever. But all those comments,

820
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:33,560
Speaker 4: Like if there's tons of nice comments and two mean comments,

821
00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:36,360
Speaker 4: I'm thinking about the mean ones, you know, sure.

822
00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:37,400
Speaker 9: And that's true.

823
00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:40,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I'm almost like in a weird way, I

824
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:43,839
Speaker 4: don't know if the word is relief, But because you've

825
00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:46,320
Speaker 4: been in this so long, like in my mind, I'm like,

826
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:48,239
Speaker 4: it's something wrong with me that I can't just let

827
00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:50,680
Speaker 4: these rude people roll off my back, you know. But

828
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:54,880
Speaker 4: I've kind of through therapy, I have realized that because

829
00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:57,800
Speaker 4: I have like compassion for other people and I'm sensitive

830
00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 4: to people's feelings, then when people or mean to me,

831
00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:02,239
Speaker 4: I'm always going to take it on and feel it

832
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:05,040
Speaker 4: way more personally than I technically should.

833
00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 2: But I mean, and it's so.

834
00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:09,719
Speaker 9: True what you said.

835
00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:12,759
Speaker 5: Though there can be literally five hundred comments going, I

836
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:15,360
Speaker 5: love you, You're amazing, and then there's the one that's like,

837
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:18,080
Speaker 5: you know, whatever it is, but that's mean, and we

838
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:21,279
Speaker 5: only we just focus on that, and it's so bad for.

839
00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:22,120
Speaker 9: Our mental health.

840
00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:24,800
Speaker 5: Also, what I've realized too, and this is what I'm

841
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:27,759
Speaker 5: going to try to teach my kids, is that what

842
00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:30,240
Speaker 5: I've learned over the years and through pick therapy probably

843
00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:32,520
Speaker 5: as well, and just you know whatever self help book

844
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:35,680
Speaker 5: is that ultimately those negative comments aren't really.

845
00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:38,240
Speaker 9: About us necessarily, it's more about that person.

846
00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:41,640
Speaker 5: Because what I've realized as I've grown into the woman

847
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:43,719
Speaker 5: that I am today and I have actually I do

848
00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:45,960
Speaker 5: feel the happiest and most peace that I ever have,

849
00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:49,719
Speaker 5: is that when you're you know, loving yourself and you're

850
00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:52,560
Speaker 5: happy and you're doing your thing, you're not even worried

851
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:54,840
Speaker 5: about what other people are doing. It doesn't even cross

852
00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:57,040
Speaker 5: my mind. And because I don't you're doing your thing,

853
00:38:57,080 --> 00:38:59,239
Speaker 5: I don't care. It doesn't affect my life and I'm

854
00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:00,560
Speaker 5: not going to sit here in tire to tear you

855
00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:03,640
Speaker 5: down because I feel good about me, and so I

856
00:39:03,680 --> 00:39:06,719
Speaker 5: think that's sort of what I remind myself of when

857
00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:08,839
Speaker 5: people are coming at me, like Okay, this isn't really

858
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 5: about me, and I just have to like breathe through

859
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:11,719
Speaker 5: it and let it go.

860
00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 1: You know something else, it's just going to be like

861
00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:18,600
Speaker 1: a You know, Kristen, I love you talk. But another

862
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:20,759
Speaker 1: thing that I love about you is that you are

863
00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:23,200
Speaker 1: a public figure. You're you're super public. You're you know

864
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:25,720
Speaker 1: what I mean, Like you're on TV and you people

865
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:27,600
Speaker 1: know you and they know your life. But you've made

866
00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:30,759
Speaker 1: this decision to keep your children private. You know, like

867
00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:32,839
Speaker 1: we know obviously you have children, but we don't see

868
00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:36,080
Speaker 1: their faces and they're around, you know what I mean,

869
00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:37,480
Speaker 1: Like we can hear them, we can see them, but

870
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:40,319
Speaker 1: we just don't see like you cover their faces on

871
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:44,040
Speaker 1: social media. And I think that's so cool of you,

872
00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:47,920
Speaker 1: and also kind of just like, at what point or

873
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:50,560
Speaker 1: when did you make that decision and are you ever

874
00:39:50,600 --> 00:39:51,799
Speaker 1: going to show them down the line?

875
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:56,920
Speaker 5: Well, thank you, So we made the decision early on.

876
00:39:57,080 --> 00:39:59,239
Speaker 5: I actually showed a few pictures of Cam and my

877
00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:01,160
Speaker 5: oldest when he was a baby. I think maybe until

878
00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:02,799
Speaker 5: he is about six months or so, so there are

879
00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:05,840
Speaker 5: a couple images of him probably on my Instagram still.

880
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:09,160
Speaker 5: And then we decided, you know what, we actually want

881
00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 5: to keep them private, really for them, because we have

882
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:14,200
Speaker 5: no idea what they're going to grow up and want

883
00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:16,759
Speaker 5: to do. They may want no part of a public life.

884
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:20,080
Speaker 5: Maybe they hate social media. We don't know, and so

885
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:22,319
Speaker 5: we want to just give them that opportunity to make

886
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:25,839
Speaker 5: the choice themselves instead of robbing them of that. And

887
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:28,399
Speaker 5: that's really what it is. I mean, my oldest, he's

888
00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:31,360
Speaker 5: eight going on eighteen. He wants thanks, he wants a

889
00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:34,719
Speaker 5: YouTube channel, and wants to do all of oh okay,

890
00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:35,720
Speaker 5: pump the brakes, buddy.

891
00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:39,240
Speaker 9: But yet they get they will get to an age

892
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:40,319
Speaker 9: whatever that is.

893
00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:42,560
Speaker 5: I don't know yet when they're old enough to have

894
00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:44,359
Speaker 5: a phone and to be on social media, and if

895
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 5: they want to be, then by all means, you know,

896
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:49,000
Speaker 5: And then selfishly, I'll be happy because I would love

897
00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:51,279
Speaker 5: to share my babies too. I would love to share

898
00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:53,479
Speaker 5: how proud I am of them and show how cute

899
00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:56,160
Speaker 5: they are and all of those things. But again, I

900
00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 5: just I want them to have that decision for themselves.

901
00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love.

902
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:04,680
Speaker 4: That, and I have you know, I follow several people

903
00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:06,920
Speaker 4: with kids and that are kind of in the spotlight,

904
00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:11,120
Speaker 4: and it's there's always that conversation surrounding like how do

905
00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:14,560
Speaker 4: you know what's too much to show? Especially with a

906
00:41:14,640 --> 00:41:17,600
Speaker 4: kid who doesn't have, you know, the voice to say

907
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:20,480
Speaker 4: like I don't want to be on camera or I

908
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:22,759
Speaker 4: don't want to be filmed. Like sometimes when I see

909
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:25,400
Speaker 4: my nephews, my youngest nephew will be like no, you know,

910
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:28,040
Speaker 4: and I'm like, okay, yeah.

911
00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:30,840
Speaker 3: Not today, not today.

912
00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:32,520
Speaker 6: I know.

913
00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:35,040
Speaker 5: I mean everyone's different, and you know, it's such a

914
00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:38,240
Speaker 5: weird time now to be raising kids with social media

915
00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:40,560
Speaker 5: and a lot of people I found will already buy

916
00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:42,200
Speaker 5: their baby's Instagram handle.

917
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:43,520
Speaker 9: I'm like, they're in diapers.

918
00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:44,439
Speaker 4: I know.

919
00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:47,640
Speaker 3: I know, it's so wild.

920
00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:51,319
Speaker 9: It is really Hey, you know what to eat your own?

921
00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:57,200
Speaker 1: And I will judge, Yeah, totally. It's like, yeah, do you.

922
00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:01,600
Speaker 4: I know. I It was a recent article I read

923
00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:03,919
Speaker 4: where you were talking about dating life and that you're

924
00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:06,520
Speaker 4: single and focusing on being a mom and your kids,

925
00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:10,839
Speaker 4: and I was thinking, how does someone like how does

926
00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:15,400
Speaker 4: someone like you who is in this weird Spotlight World

927
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:16,320
Speaker 4: for so long?

928
00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:19,359
Speaker 2: How do you even know? How do you date?

929
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:22,080
Speaker 4: Do you are you on when you have dated in

930
00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:26,000
Speaker 4: the past? Are you on dating apps?

931
00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:27,719
Speaker 9: I love Okay, do.

932
00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:28,800
Speaker 2: You really love it?

933
00:42:30,280 --> 00:42:30,880
Speaker 9: I love it.

934
00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:33,880
Speaker 5: I love this question because, Okay, here's the thing, Like

935
00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:35,960
Speaker 5: in the real world. Okay, you could go on a

936
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 5: date with someone you're like kind of feeling them out,

937
00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:39,880
Speaker 5: like I don't know if I like them, like me,

938
00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:42,400
Speaker 5: I'll go out with them again. And then it's like, no,

939
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:44,680
Speaker 5: I'm not don't know whatever, no one knows. You told

940
00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:46,840
Speaker 5: a couple of friends, that's great. Well, if I go

941
00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:48,839
Speaker 5: on one date with someone, all of a sudden he's

942
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:51,400
Speaker 5: my boyfriend, and the tabloids, it's like, welld on, I

943
00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:54,279
Speaker 5: don't even know what's happening with this situation yet. Can

944
00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:56,600
Speaker 5: I figure it out and I'll get back to you guys.

945
00:42:57,000 --> 00:42:59,880
Speaker 9: So that can be tricky, and there are ways to

946
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:00,880
Speaker 9: be a little.

947
00:43:00,640 --> 00:43:02,480
Speaker 5: Bit more secretive about it. I think I got a

948
00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:04,759
Speaker 5: little lazy last fall.

949
00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:08,200
Speaker 9: And I just was I was having fun. Ye're just

950
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:12,760
Speaker 9: living like I also want to go out and public

951
00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:15,440
Speaker 9: that as well. Fine, that's on me.

952
00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:16,120
Speaker 3: I get it.

953
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 5: But yeah, sometimes it is a little like before everyone

954
00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:22,640
Speaker 5: can just you know, everyone jumps the gun and puts

955
00:43:22,640 --> 00:43:24,600
Speaker 5: a label on something, and it's like I went on.

956
00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:26,800
Speaker 9: A date, like everyone calmed down. I don't even know

957
00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:29,320
Speaker 9: what's going to happen, so that can be a little annoying.

958
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:32,440
Speaker 1: I'd say, yeah, I feel like, you know, it's just

959
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:34,320
Speaker 1: I do kind of look at it through a different

960
00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:36,120
Speaker 1: lens though now, because.

961
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:38,399
Speaker 3: I obviously I don't have kids.

962
00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 1: My boyfriend has kids, and I feel like there's this

963
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:45,840
Speaker 1: different lens for me even dating somebody that has kids

964
00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:48,160
Speaker 1: than I ever have ever experienced before, you know what

965
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 1: I mean, Like I never I guess I was to

966
00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:52,279
Speaker 1: dating seriously, but it's just like on a whole other

967
00:43:52,400 --> 00:43:53,760
Speaker 1: level at this point.

968
00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:57,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, like it's going to take the guy I marry

969
00:43:57,760 --> 00:43:59,799
Speaker 5: next for me to introduce them to my kids, Like

970
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:02,040
Speaker 5: my kids will not meet anybody until I know, like

971
00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:05,520
Speaker 5: this is the one which I don't even want to

972
00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:06,600
Speaker 5: happen for a long time.

973
00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:07,719
Speaker 9: I'm really enjoying me.

974
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 5: On my own and figuring out like who I am again,

975
00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:12,319
Speaker 5: and I do want to date and I do want

976
00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:15,160
Speaker 5: to have fun, you know. I mean I got married

977
00:44:15,200 --> 00:44:17,040
Speaker 5: young when I met Jane, when I was twenty three,

978
00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:17,800
Speaker 5: I had Camon.

979
00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:19,719
Speaker 9: At twenty five, I got married, and you know, it

980
00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 9: was just it was live. So I'm just.

981
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:24,480
Speaker 5: I'm really enjoying where I'm at right now and I'm

982
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:27,360
Speaker 5: having a good time. But I am one, one hundred

983
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:28,520
Speaker 5: percent single at the moment.

984
00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:32,279
Speaker 4: I mean, you knew what you were doing when you.

985
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:33,640
Speaker 2: Post that photo with Steven?

986
00:44:33,880 --> 00:44:34,759
Speaker 4: Was that last year?

987
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:38,719
Speaker 2: When was that? Everyone went it was crazy last year?

988
00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 9: I think it was about a year ago. Yeah, you know, yeah,

989
00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:42,960
Speaker 9: I mean sure.

990
00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:44,680
Speaker 5: Did I know that it was going to be a

991
00:44:44,719 --> 00:44:46,840
Speaker 5: little bit of a frenzy, Yeah, I didn't know to

992
00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:50,000
Speaker 5: what degree. That's actually my highest liked photo of all times.

993
00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:55,359
Speaker 5: Love babies over anything. Yes, yeah, so I didn't know

994
00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:57,279
Speaker 5: that it would be to that level. But yeah, I

995
00:44:57,360 --> 00:45:00,160
Speaker 5: knew fans would be excited. And I adore you, I

996
00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:01,719
Speaker 5: love him. We had so much fun in LAGU and

997
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:04,800
Speaker 5: I catching up and so yeah, it was it was fun.

998
00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:08,239
Speaker 1: No, you need like top tier like you need like

999
00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:10,319
Speaker 1: the toppest tier man like you.

1000
00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:14,279
Speaker 3: I swear no, just because like you you don't need

1001
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:16,280
Speaker 3: a man, like you don't need a man.

1002
00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:18,360
Speaker 1: But you want someone you want to do life with,

1003
00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:24,040
Speaker 1: someone you know, and so you need like upper echelon, like,

1004
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:25,319
Speaker 1: send some.

1005
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 9: Guys my way.

1006
00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:29,320
Speaker 4: Wait, I was gonna say, because who is your celebrity

1007
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:30,600
Speaker 4: crush growing up?

1008
00:45:30,680 --> 00:45:31,279
Speaker 2: Like who are you?

1009
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:31,480
Speaker 4: Like?

1010
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:34,520
Speaker 2: That's the guy I want growing up? Well, you know

1011
00:45:34,719 --> 00:45:37,160
Speaker 2: teenager years okay.

1012
00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 5: Well, Leonardo DiCaprio, of course, I'm trying to think of you.

1013
00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:45,319
Speaker 4: Remember Devin saw remember in Casper and he says, can

1014
00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:46,799
Speaker 4: I keep you? Oh my god?

1015
00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:49,359
Speaker 1: That was wasn't he now?

1016
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:50,279
Speaker 3: And then wasn't he now?

1017
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:54,319
Speaker 1: And then yeah, wait wait there's this scene now and

1018
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:57,000
Speaker 1: then where he goes there like they're skinny dipping in

1019
00:45:57,040 --> 00:45:59,120
Speaker 1: the in the lake and he they go to pick

1020
00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:02,080
Speaker 1: up he goes to pick up his clothes and uh,

1021
00:46:02,200 --> 00:46:04,400
Speaker 1: he's wearing like a little thing around himself. And he

1022
00:46:04,440 --> 00:46:05,919
Speaker 1: goes to pick up his clothes and you can see

1023
00:46:05,960 --> 00:46:09,279
Speaker 1: his balls and I used to pause. I used to

1024
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:11,759
Speaker 1: pause that scene and watch it over and over again

1025
00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:14,080
Speaker 1: because his balls were just hanging down under.

1026
00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:19,600
Speaker 9: I love side of his bush.

1027
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:22,759
Speaker 3: And I was like, how old were we? Fourteen? Like

1028
00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:24,759
Speaker 3: how Purby was I at fourteen?

1029
00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:28,319
Speaker 2: Like, well you're it? You were making out there and.

1030
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:33,319
Speaker 9: Richardson that little nugget.

1031
00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:36,799
Speaker 4: All of a sudden, all the views for now and

1032
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:38,880
Speaker 4: then just skyrocket.

1033
00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:44,279
Speaker 9: Where all these views coming, all the.

1034
00:46:44,239 --> 00:46:53,239
Speaker 11: Residuals, they're like whoa, yeah, okay, Well I was gonna say,

1035
00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:55,359
Speaker 11: I feel like you're the type of girl like you

1036
00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:59,400
Speaker 11: could message your celebrity crush and you could be like like, hey.

1037
00:46:59,200 --> 00:47:04,680
Speaker 4: You know if they're single, obviously respectfully, hey, like I

1038
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:06,960
Speaker 4: you know something cool. Because of what you would say

1039
00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:08,960
Speaker 4: as a cool girl, Tanya and I would not be

1040
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:13,160
Speaker 4: the one we will try to draft the message. But

1041
00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:15,480
Speaker 4: what I'm trying to say is you could message him,

1042
00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:19,200
Speaker 4: he'd probably he'd obviously respond in like two seconds, and

1043
00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:20,759
Speaker 4: then you'd be the type that would like play it

1044
00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:23,000
Speaker 4: cool and then you'd like kind of got forget to

1045
00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:25,480
Speaker 4: respond and then he'd be like, hey, like let's go

1046
00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:26,520
Speaker 4: get a drink or something.

1047
00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:30,040
Speaker 2: I just feel like you really have your pick whenever your.

1048
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:34,360
Speaker 9: Game the way that's really good.

1049
00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:36,080
Speaker 2: You know what.

1050
00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:39,799
Speaker 5: I don't know if I am a little traditional in

1051
00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:41,920
Speaker 5: the sense where I would want the guy to the first.

1052
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:46,360
Speaker 9: Move, but I don't know, maybe get a drink in

1053
00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:47,320
Speaker 9: me and I might.

1054
00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:55,719
Speaker 2: One spicy Mark and she's she's.

1055
00:47:55,600 --> 00:47:59,239
Speaker 9: Doing it's so good.

1056
00:47:59,400 --> 00:48:02,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm with you like no time because you're

1057
00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:05,319
Speaker 1: just like taking over the world, you know. Yeah, and

1058
00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 1: let it come when it and let it come when

1059
00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:10,160
Speaker 1: it comes, you know, like you can't hurry love, you

1060
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 1: just have to wait.

1061
00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:13,480
Speaker 3: You just have to wait.

1062
00:48:13,560 --> 00:48:15,960
Speaker 2: Wait. How are you when you got married? Or how

1063
00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:17,640
Speaker 2: old were you when you started dating Jay?

1064
00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:21,080
Speaker 9: So I got Jay at twenty three twenty three? Maybe

1065
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:23,320
Speaker 9: I'm yeah, yeah, so young.

1066
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:24,640
Speaker 2: I realize that.

1067
00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:27,879
Speaker 9: So yeah, And then you know, I got out.

1068
00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:32,000
Speaker 5: We filed over a year ago and then it took

1069
00:48:32,080 --> 00:48:34,320
Speaker 5: me a minute, but then I did. I dated somebody

1070
00:48:34,560 --> 00:48:36,920
Speaker 5: and it was great. He was the perfect guy to

1071
00:48:37,000 --> 00:48:39,879
Speaker 5: date after Jay was really sweet. It made me feel

1072
00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:43,120
Speaker 5: really good. But now I'm just kind of I just

1073
00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:46,799
Speaker 5: want to be by myself and like you said, when

1074
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 5: it's the time, it'll happen, I'm not going to force it,

1075
00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:51,600
Speaker 5: and I just want to I've gotten to a place

1076
00:48:51,680 --> 00:48:53,640
Speaker 5: too where I just want to enjoy the journey. Like

1077
00:48:53,719 --> 00:48:55,880
Speaker 5: life to me now is about the journey instead of

1078
00:48:55,920 --> 00:48:58,640
Speaker 5: always trying to get to the next destination. And I'm

1079
00:48:58,680 --> 00:49:03,120
Speaker 5: okay sitting in sadness or lonely at loneliness or any

1080
00:49:03,160 --> 00:49:06,799
Speaker 5: of those feelings and just experiencing it because we all

1081
00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:08,880
Speaker 5: end up getting to the other side and not that

1082
00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:09,879
Speaker 5: I'm lonely or sad.

1083
00:49:09,920 --> 00:49:10,200
Speaker 6: Right now.

1084
00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:13,840
Speaker 9: I have my moments, yeah, just yeah, I have moments,

1085
00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:14,480
Speaker 9: But right.

1086
00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:17,000
Speaker 5: Now I'm feeling really good and it's kind of nice

1087
00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:19,719
Speaker 5: not even having anyone to text. I don't I don't

1088
00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:21,640
Speaker 5: want to be on my pH you know what I mean, Like,

1089
00:49:21,680 --> 00:49:22,879
Speaker 5: I don't want any of that right now.

1090
00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:23,359
Speaker 6: I know.

1091
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:25,839
Speaker 1: It's so funny because I think that's it's people all

1092
00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:28,920
Speaker 1: Like I was single for so many years and everybody

1093
00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:30,800
Speaker 1: was just like, how are you so happy being single?

1094
00:49:30,840 --> 00:49:33,000
Speaker 1: And I'm like, because you never know like when you're

1095
00:49:33,000 --> 00:49:34,960
Speaker 1: gonna find that person, and I don't have that time

1096
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:37,040
Speaker 1: to like wake up on a Sunday and do whatever

1097
00:49:37,120 --> 00:49:37,839
Speaker 1: the freak I.

1098
00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:38,640
Speaker 3: Want, you know what I mean?

1099
00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:41,040
Speaker 1: Like you don't you just do whatever you want all

1100
00:49:41,080 --> 00:49:42,920
Speaker 1: the time, And I'm like, I just have you kind

1101
00:49:42,920 --> 00:49:45,280
Speaker 1: of have to just yeah, enjoy the journey, because.

1102
00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:49,360
Speaker 4: It really it comes fast too, like all of a sudden,

1103
00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:52,200
Speaker 4: you're just enjoying yourself and single and not texting anyone,

1104
00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:56,400
Speaker 4: and then you meet someone and it's like, okay, I'll

1105
00:49:56,440 --> 00:49:57,120
Speaker 4: do it, I'll date.

1106
00:49:57,360 --> 00:50:02,239
Speaker 3: Yeah. Do you still believe in marriage? Like do you

1107
00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:03,080
Speaker 3: want to get married again?

1108
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:05,399
Speaker 9: Yeah? I mean I do.

1109
00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:08,719
Speaker 5: I definitely believe in marriage, and yeah, I think that

1110
00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:11,560
Speaker 5: I will eventually. But like I was like, the thought

1111
00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:13,359
Speaker 5: of getting married right now is like, oh my god,

1112
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:17,160
Speaker 5: it makes me cringe. But yes, I very much believe

1113
00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:19,520
Speaker 5: in it, and I do think that I'll meet someone eventually.

1114
00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:20,040
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1115
00:50:20,120 --> 00:50:23,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, It's just funny because I like, I I think

1116
00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:25,239
Speaker 1: I've I told you, I think, I I think. I

1117
00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:28,560
Speaker 1: Actually right after I met Red Star, I came to

1118
00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:30,680
Speaker 1: one of your launches and I was talking to you

1119
00:50:30,760 --> 00:50:34,200
Speaker 1: about him, and you know, he was newly divorced and uh,

1120
00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:38,239
Speaker 1: with kids. And it's funny because when I met him,

1121
00:50:38,400 --> 00:50:40,960
Speaker 1: he was just coming out of something and like I,

1122
00:50:41,120 --> 00:50:43,160
Speaker 1: you know me, like I'm like all in, like ready

1123
00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:44,920
Speaker 1: to go. And so it was like this kind of

1124
00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:47,359
Speaker 1: like we both were just at this weird you know,

1125
00:50:47,480 --> 00:50:49,880
Speaker 1: just like totally different stages of life, and so we

1126
00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:53,200
Speaker 1: both had to kind of compromise and be patient with

1127
00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:57,120
Speaker 1: each other because I was asking all of those questions

1128
00:50:57,160 --> 00:50:58,879
Speaker 1: like do you believe in marriage? Like is that something

1129
00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:00,560
Speaker 1: that you want? You know, all those and he was

1130
00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:02,160
Speaker 1: just like whoa, whoa, whoa.

1131
00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:20,240
Speaker 5: Whoa, Like yeah.

1132
00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:13,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, so I'm gonna have Charlie Pooth perform at

1133
00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:15,759
Speaker 1: my wedding. I wanted to play the piano as I'm

1134
00:51:15,800 --> 00:51:16,319
Speaker 1: walking down.

1135
00:51:16,239 --> 00:51:18,000
Speaker 3: The aisle, you know what I mean.

1136
00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:22,280
Speaker 1: So yeah, so I had to like take a moment

1137
00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:25,040
Speaker 1: and just be like, you know what, It's not about again,

1138
00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:26,880
Speaker 1: like the destination, Like it's all going to come when

1139
00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:29,440
Speaker 1: it's supposed to do. It's about like enjoying the process,

1140
00:51:29,719 --> 00:51:33,439
Speaker 1: finding somebody that you know really matches you. And that's

1141
00:51:33,440 --> 00:51:36,120
Speaker 1: like what's most important. So it's a good I think

1142
00:51:36,120 --> 00:51:37,200
Speaker 1: it's a goodnone else too.

1143
00:51:38,080 --> 00:51:42,000
Speaker 9: It's also it's that there's no right path. Everyone's path

1144
00:51:42,080 --> 00:51:46,000
Speaker 9: is different, you know, like maybe maybe what I'm going.

1145
00:51:45,880 --> 00:51:47,640
Speaker 5: Through is not what I had envisioned when I was

1146
00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:50,480
Speaker 5: you know whatever, fifteen sixteen, Right, it's my path, and

1147
00:51:50,520 --> 00:51:51,359
Speaker 5: I'm okay with it.

1148
00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:52,719
Speaker 9: It's just part of my story.

1149
00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:54,279
Speaker 5: Maybe you didn't think you were going to meet a

1150
00:51:54,280 --> 00:51:57,120
Speaker 5: guy that had kids, but it's okay. And I think

1151
00:51:57,120 --> 00:51:59,080
Speaker 5: that if once we can just kind of accept that

1152
00:51:59,200 --> 00:52:02,120
Speaker 5: and embrace it, it almost it's it's just fun.

1153
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:03,640
Speaker 9: It's just we're along for the ride.

1154
00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:05,880
Speaker 1: It's the best way to be And like, you know what,

1155
00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:08,400
Speaker 1: it's like, you're the author of your own story and

1156
00:52:08,440 --> 00:52:11,200
Speaker 1: I think everybody likes to project like oh, this is

1157
00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:12,880
Speaker 1: gonna be so hard and like blah.

1158
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:13,279
Speaker 3: Blah blah blah.

1159
00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:16,680
Speaker 1: But you're like, it's your life, so you can decide

1160
00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:18,040
Speaker 1: what you want to do with it, and if you're

1161
00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:21,239
Speaker 1: like positive and upbeat about it, like you can make

1162
00:52:21,320 --> 00:52:23,600
Speaker 1: it a positive and upbeat experience.

1163
00:52:23,600 --> 00:52:27,480
Speaker 3: It doesn't have to be like exact. Yeah, it's very interesting.

1164
00:52:29,040 --> 00:52:32,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, it may have been the same article I read

1165
00:52:32,160 --> 00:52:34,160
Speaker 4: the what other the the other thing.

1166
00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:36,240
Speaker 2: I read articles about.

1167
00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:40,239
Speaker 4: You and you were saying how you have never gotten

1168
00:52:40,320 --> 00:52:45,759
Speaker 4: botox or filler, and I was just like, how does

1169
00:52:45,880 --> 00:52:49,439
Speaker 4: she How does her skin and face look like that

1170
00:52:49,880 --> 00:52:54,000
Speaker 4: without any assistance? And I was just like blown away,

1171
00:52:54,200 --> 00:52:55,719
Speaker 4: So like, what are the tips?

1172
00:52:57,760 --> 00:52:59,080
Speaker 9: Well, my face moves a lot.

1173
00:52:59,200 --> 00:53:01,360
Speaker 5: I mean that was one thing on Very Cavalary that

1174
00:53:01,440 --> 00:53:04,239
Speaker 5: I noticed right away was I was like, ma, because

1175
00:53:04,360 --> 00:53:06,320
Speaker 5: you know, we're so used to no one's face moving anymore,

1176
00:53:06,360 --> 00:53:07,920
Speaker 5: so that'd be the first thing I've noticed.

1177
00:53:07,960 --> 00:53:10,080
Speaker 9: I'm like, oh my god, you can really see all

1178
00:53:10,200 --> 00:53:11,040
Speaker 9: my expressions.

1179
00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:13,960
Speaker 5: But I'm okay with it, Like I have some you know,

1180
00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:15,000
Speaker 5: fine lines and stuff.

1181
00:53:15,120 --> 00:53:17,160
Speaker 9: They don't bother me. And I've had people tell me

1182
00:53:17,200 --> 00:53:19,040
Speaker 9: to get botox. I'm like, why do you care? They

1183
00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:20,719
Speaker 9: don't bother me, why should they bother you?

1184
00:53:20,600 --> 00:53:20,719
Speaker 4: You?

1185
00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:26,239
Speaker 5: Yeah, but I know it's ridiculous, but I think, you know,

1186
00:53:26,280 --> 00:53:29,520
Speaker 5: because I live such a healthy lifestyle, it just.

1187
00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:31,560
Speaker 9: Doesn't they make.

1188
00:53:31,880 --> 00:53:33,839
Speaker 5: To be honest, botox and everything makes me nervous because

1189
00:53:33,840 --> 00:53:35,560
Speaker 5: I don't think we know the long term effects of it,

1190
00:53:35,719 --> 00:53:38,920
Speaker 5: and you're freezing your face. And to me, our muscle,

1191
00:53:39,120 --> 00:53:41,120
Speaker 5: our face is a muscle, so we need to work

1192
00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:42,600
Speaker 5: it out the same way we would.

1193
00:53:42,360 --> 00:53:43,280
Speaker 9: Any other muscle.

1194
00:53:43,719 --> 00:53:46,279
Speaker 5: So I have this little home device called the Picotner,

1195
00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:48,319
Speaker 5: and it's electric currents and you can just you know,

1196
00:53:48,400 --> 00:53:50,560
Speaker 5: slap it on with pads or it comes with these

1197
00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:52,759
Speaker 5: like electric gloves and you can like move it all

1198
00:53:52,760 --> 00:53:53,200
Speaker 5: over your.

1199
00:53:53,120 --> 00:53:55,279
Speaker 9: Face and it literally works out your face.

1200
00:53:55,320 --> 00:53:57,240
Speaker 5: You can crank it up and you're like, damn, that hurts,

1201
00:53:57,239 --> 00:54:00,440
Speaker 5: but like it's doing something, And to me, that just

1202
00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:01,799
Speaker 5: makes more sense in my head.

1203
00:54:02,239 --> 00:54:04,240
Speaker 9: And then also you couple that with you know, drinking

1204
00:54:04,239 --> 00:54:04,680
Speaker 9: a ton.

1205
00:54:04,560 --> 00:54:07,279
Speaker 5: Of water, eating really well, and then using really good

1206
00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:08,360
Speaker 5: clean products.

1207
00:54:08,600 --> 00:54:10,400
Speaker 9: They all work synergistically together.

1208
00:54:10,600 --> 00:54:14,799
Speaker 5: And and I also think too, your mental health can

1209
00:54:14,840 --> 00:54:17,440
Speaker 5: play a large role when people say, like you're glowing

1210
00:54:17,520 --> 00:54:19,439
Speaker 5: or whatever. I think that comes from here and here

1211
00:54:19,760 --> 00:54:23,839
Speaker 5: from your accent. Yeah, it's your happiness, it's your it's

1212
00:54:23,840 --> 00:54:26,759
Speaker 5: your being comfortable in your own skin, loving yourself. And

1213
00:54:26,800 --> 00:54:29,480
Speaker 5: as cliche as that is, it's honestly the truth. So

1214
00:54:29,520 --> 00:54:32,160
Speaker 5: it's a combination of all of those things. But listen,

1215
00:54:32,200 --> 00:54:34,360
Speaker 5: I'm thirty four. When I'm fifty four, maybe I'll be

1216
00:54:34,400 --> 00:54:35,400
Speaker 5: singing a different tune.

1217
00:54:35,480 --> 00:54:38,400
Speaker 9: I don't know. My goals never get those bucks. But

1218
00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:40,839
Speaker 9: I don't know, but it's true.

1219
00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:42,960
Speaker 1: Like I feel like you don't put like you don't

1220
00:54:43,040 --> 00:54:46,279
Speaker 1: eat refined sugar really, and I feel like that I don't.

1221
00:54:46,320 --> 00:54:46,600
Speaker 10: I don't.

1222
00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:48,399
Speaker 1: I don't think there's a like, there's no I don't

1223
00:54:48,400 --> 00:54:50,480
Speaker 1: think there's a scientific link. I mean, I'm no scientist,

1224
00:54:50,600 --> 00:54:53,759
Speaker 1: but I feel like sugar is definitely no scientists here,

1225
00:54:54,080 --> 00:54:56,279
Speaker 1: But I think sugar is what really messes with a

1226
00:54:56,280 --> 00:54:58,240
Speaker 1: lot of things. And if you don't eat any refined

1227
00:54:58,239 --> 00:55:01,360
Speaker 1: sugar like that, like I I honestly think that plays

1228
00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:02,439
Speaker 1: a big role in it.

1229
00:55:03,719 --> 00:55:05,759
Speaker 5: I do too, So I don't really eat anything white

1230
00:55:05,840 --> 00:55:09,000
Speaker 5: white flour, white salt, white sugar, unless, of course, I'm

1231
00:55:09,000 --> 00:55:10,240
Speaker 5: going enough to eat around one vacation.

1232
00:55:10,360 --> 00:55:12,640
Speaker 9: I'm human, you know, but at home, I don't.

1233
00:55:12,440 --> 00:55:14,080
Speaker 5: Have any of that stuff here, and I really do

1234
00:55:14,280 --> 00:55:16,920
Speaker 5: think that all of that plays a large role.

1235
00:55:18,280 --> 00:55:21,840
Speaker 4: Well, I was in the Taco Bell drive through racing

1236
00:55:21,920 --> 00:55:24,240
Speaker 4: to get here, so maybe I can.

1237
00:55:24,719 --> 00:55:28,440
Speaker 2: Ease up on that gradually.

1238
00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:32,319
Speaker 9: Taco Bell and look like you's off to you.

1239
00:55:32,560 --> 00:55:38,080
Speaker 12: I know, I I just feel I have been eating

1240
00:55:38,760 --> 00:55:41,279
Speaker 12: mildly healthier recently, Like I haven't had a ton of

1241
00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:43,760
Speaker 12: fast food, and I just moved into my new house

1242
00:55:43,800 --> 00:55:45,640
Speaker 12: and so I've just been like, you know, it's like

1243
00:55:45,840 --> 00:55:47,160
Speaker 12: I got busy.

1244
00:55:47,200 --> 00:55:48,920
Speaker 4: I didn't have any of my food in my new place.

1245
00:55:49,000 --> 00:55:51,480
Speaker 4: I was like, I'm just gonna swing by Taco Bell.

1246
00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:54,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's also like plenty of healthy options to swing

1247
00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:56,799
Speaker 1: by around here about here that's neither here nor there.

1248
00:55:56,840 --> 00:55:59,680
Speaker 2: I need a Taco Bell.

1249
00:56:00,239 --> 00:56:02,640
Speaker 9: I'm jealous. I miss Mexican pizza.

1250
00:56:02,680 --> 00:56:03,040
Speaker 2: Trust me.

1251
00:56:03,080 --> 00:56:04,799
Speaker 9: I used to go to talk about all the time

1252
00:56:04,840 --> 00:56:05,399
Speaker 9: growing up.

1253
00:56:05,880 --> 00:56:07,440
Speaker 2: They got rid of the Mexican pizza.

1254
00:56:07,560 --> 00:56:09,920
Speaker 9: So I heard, I heard, I don't want to talk

1255
00:56:09,920 --> 00:56:10,319
Speaker 9: about it.

1256
00:56:11,680 --> 00:56:14,200
Speaker 1: Wait, okay, And I just want because everybody does. To me,

1257
00:56:14,280 --> 00:56:17,440
Speaker 1: you're like ultimate modern woman status. I want you just

1258
00:56:17,480 --> 00:56:18,800
Speaker 1: to kind of walk us through like a day in

1259
00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:21,000
Speaker 1: your life, not like a day like today. We we're

1260
00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:23,080
Speaker 1: doing like tons of press just like a normal, like

1261
00:56:23,320 --> 00:56:23,919
Speaker 1: normal day.

1262
00:56:24,040 --> 00:56:26,800
Speaker 9: Yeah, okay, okay.

1263
00:56:26,880 --> 00:56:30,279
Speaker 5: So I typically wake up between five fifteen and five

1264
00:56:30,280 --> 00:56:31,359
Speaker 5: point thirty to work out.

1265
00:56:31,360 --> 00:56:33,759
Speaker 9: I just work out at my house, and I know,

1266
00:56:33,840 --> 00:56:35,560
Speaker 9: I know, trust me. I never thought in a million years

1267
00:56:35,600 --> 00:56:38,600
Speaker 9: I would be that girl. But once you have kids, everything.

1268
00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:41,759
Speaker 5: Change so that that hour in the morning is my

1269
00:56:41,800 --> 00:56:43,600
Speaker 5: peace and quiet before my kids wake up.

1270
00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:45,480
Speaker 9: It's my time to just get all my stress out

1271
00:56:45,560 --> 00:56:46,799
Speaker 9: and just it's my knee time.

1272
00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:51,439
Speaker 5: Then I come upstairs and I make breakfast for the kids.

1273
00:56:51,480 --> 00:56:54,160
Speaker 5: I packed their lunches. I go and get ready. I

1274
00:56:54,200 --> 00:56:56,160
Speaker 5: help my kids get ready. My boys will get dressed

1275
00:56:56,160 --> 00:56:57,799
Speaker 5: on their own. Sailor once in a blue moon, will

1276
00:56:57,840 --> 00:57:00,440
Speaker 5: want me to pick out her outfit, which I actually enjoy.

1277
00:57:00,920 --> 00:57:03,239
Speaker 9: And then I take the boys to school. Then I

1278
00:57:03,280 --> 00:57:04,480
Speaker 9: take Sailor to preschool.

1279
00:57:04,520 --> 00:57:07,879
Speaker 5: Then I go to the office, and then I leave

1280
00:57:08,160 --> 00:57:10,640
Speaker 5: around two fifteen to go pick up Sailor. At two

1281
00:57:10,680 --> 00:57:13,080
Speaker 5: forty five, we come home. We hang out for an

1282
00:57:13,080 --> 00:57:15,319
Speaker 5: hour or so. The boys take the bus home and

1283
00:57:15,320 --> 00:57:16,640
Speaker 5: they get home around four fifteen.

1284
00:57:16,800 --> 00:57:19,240
Speaker 9: I make dinner. We eat at like five five fifteen.

1285
00:57:19,320 --> 00:57:20,480
Speaker 9: Every night we.

1286
00:57:20,520 --> 00:57:24,280
Speaker 5: Hang out, we do whatever, bath, bedtime routine, boom, and

1287
00:57:24,320 --> 00:57:26,080
Speaker 5: then I usually have like an hour pull my kids

1288
00:57:26,120 --> 00:57:27,680
Speaker 5: about at eight. I usually go to bed at like

1289
00:57:27,800 --> 00:57:30,560
Speaker 5: nine nine fifteen, and so I have an hour to

1290
00:57:30,640 --> 00:57:33,960
Speaker 5: do you know whatever, clean up my closet, if I've

1291
00:57:34,040 --> 00:57:38,320
Speaker 5: closed everywhere, you know, just do mindless stuff like Instagram

1292
00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:41,800
Speaker 5: or whatever it is, and then rinse and repeat. I mean,

1293
00:57:41,840 --> 00:57:46,800
Speaker 5: it's pretty pretty much the same. But you know, the

1294
00:57:46,840 --> 00:57:49,360
Speaker 5: flips side is, so now I'm going through a divorce.

1295
00:57:49,440 --> 00:57:51,400
Speaker 5: I have my kids every other week, so we do

1296
00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:53,240
Speaker 5: week on, week off. So then I have a week

1297
00:57:53,720 --> 00:57:55,560
Speaker 5: like this week. I get my kids back tomorrow. But

1298
00:57:55,640 --> 00:57:58,400
Speaker 5: so this week, I you know, can do press. And

1299
00:57:58,440 --> 00:58:01,040
Speaker 5: then I was at my friend's house last night and

1300
00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:03,040
Speaker 5: he colored my hair, and I can go to dinners

1301
00:58:03,080 --> 00:58:03,680
Speaker 5: and it's freed.

1302
00:58:03,560 --> 00:58:04,880
Speaker 9: Up a little bit more of my time.

1303
00:58:05,520 --> 00:58:08,320
Speaker 5: Or I can really focus on myself and make myself

1304
00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:11,160
Speaker 5: a priority, do hot yoga or whatever it is. It's

1305
00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:14,080
Speaker 5: gonna fuel me and make me then the best mom

1306
00:58:14,120 --> 00:58:15,800
Speaker 5: that I can be when I get my kids back.

1307
00:58:16,800 --> 00:58:20,200
Speaker 4: I was gonna say that blonde is looking fresh.

1308
00:58:20,320 --> 00:58:26,160
Speaker 1: Thanks, It's very fresh, I was messaging. I was messaging

1309
00:58:26,200 --> 00:58:30,800
Speaker 1: Kristen because I use I got fresh highlights before uh

1310
00:58:31,240 --> 00:58:34,760
Speaker 1: oscars and I had Tawny. I'd just gotten your I

1311
00:58:34,760 --> 00:58:37,000
Speaker 1: had just gotten your shampoo for the blondes, and so

1312
00:58:37,040 --> 00:58:39,920
Speaker 1: I had Tawny wash my hair with the Christmi's shampoo

1313
00:58:40,120 --> 00:58:42,760
Speaker 1: and my hair was so blonde. The next day I

1314
00:58:42,800 --> 00:58:44,440
Speaker 1: was like, look at this. Sending Christen photos.

1315
00:58:44,480 --> 00:58:46,760
Speaker 3: I was like, look at blonde your shampoo made me.

1316
00:58:47,440 --> 00:58:50,800
Speaker 9: It looks so good. It looks so good.

1317
00:58:51,080 --> 00:58:51,440
Speaker 12: Thank you.

1318
00:58:51,480 --> 00:58:54,640
Speaker 3: But that stuff is good and it smells good too. Yeah.

1319
00:58:55,000 --> 00:58:58,000
Speaker 4: I mean, what do you do at this point? Like

1320
00:58:58,080 --> 00:59:02,000
Speaker 4: what's your next busy? This venture? Like what haven't you

1321
00:59:02,440 --> 00:59:03,680
Speaker 4: done that you still want to do?

1322
00:59:05,600 --> 00:59:05,960
Speaker 9: You know what?

1323
00:59:06,200 --> 00:59:08,360
Speaker 5: So I'm actually at a place now where i have

1324
00:59:08,440 --> 00:59:11,880
Speaker 5: no plans to add anything else, and I'm really happy

1325
00:59:11,880 --> 00:59:13,680
Speaker 5: about it. I have such a great balance right now

1326
00:59:13,720 --> 00:59:17,200
Speaker 5: between work and life, and I'm just feeling really good

1327
00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:19,400
Speaker 5: about everything. For so long, kind of how we were

1328
00:59:19,440 --> 00:59:21,960
Speaker 5: talking about earlier, I was always so hung up on

1329
00:59:22,000 --> 00:59:23,880
Speaker 5: the future and planning this and planning.

1330
00:59:23,560 --> 00:59:25,440
Speaker 9: That, and now I'm just kind of letting go.

1331
00:59:25,760 --> 00:59:28,640
Speaker 5: And you know, obviously we're launching Uncommon Beauty today and

1332
00:59:28,680 --> 00:59:32,520
Speaker 5: that's huge, But I between the jewelry and beauty, and

1333
00:59:32,640 --> 00:59:34,640
Speaker 5: you know, we have some home products and some other stuff.

1334
00:59:34,640 --> 00:59:35,760
Speaker 9: But I'm good.

1335
00:59:35,920 --> 00:59:37,960
Speaker 5: I think I want to take what we're doing and

1336
00:59:38,040 --> 00:59:41,040
Speaker 5: just do them really well instead of spreading ourselves too.

1337
00:59:41,080 --> 00:59:44,960
Speaker 1: Then yeah, does it all come like the uncommon It's

1338
00:59:45,000 --> 00:59:49,120
Speaker 1: it's because it's uncommon beauty uncommon James. What's like the

1339
00:59:49,120 --> 00:59:51,040
Speaker 1: the is all just uncommon?

1340
00:59:52,800 --> 00:59:57,600
Speaker 5: So uncommon James is realig mama. And then everything falls

1341
00:59:57,880 --> 01:00:00,920
Speaker 5: under it. I mean really, we say, go to uncommon

1342
01:00:01,000 --> 01:00:02,959
Speaker 5: duty dot com for the skincare, but it just takes

1343
01:00:02,960 --> 01:00:05,400
Speaker 5: you to uncommon James, just the beauty landing page. So

1344
01:00:05,400 --> 01:00:07,400
Speaker 5: and then we have little James, but they all fall

1345
01:00:07,480 --> 01:00:10,000
Speaker 5: under the uncommon James umbrella got it.

1346
01:00:10,480 --> 01:00:13,720
Speaker 4: Well, I'm so happy for you. I feel like you're

1347
01:00:14,200 --> 01:00:18,000
Speaker 4: your best self right now. And it was so fun

1348
01:00:18,040 --> 01:00:19,440
Speaker 4: having you on the pot. I felt like we just

1349
01:00:19,560 --> 01:00:23,800
Speaker 4: had like girl chat for how long? Thirty five minutes?

1350
01:00:24,720 --> 01:00:25,640
Speaker 9: I know, I want to hang out.

1351
01:00:25,680 --> 01:00:30,880
Speaker 1: I want to come over, Like, honestly, when can we

1352
01:00:30,960 --> 01:00:31,720
Speaker 1: hang do you ever?

1353
01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:33,680
Speaker 3: Like whenever you come to LA. We're going to be

1354
01:00:33,720 --> 01:00:34,960
Speaker 3: in Nashville in November.

1355
01:00:35,240 --> 01:00:40,000
Speaker 2: Oh yeah you are? Yeah, so let me know you fell.

1356
01:00:39,840 --> 01:00:41,320
Speaker 9: And then I'll let you know when I come out there.

1357
01:00:41,800 --> 01:00:42,120
Speaker 3: Okay.

1358
01:00:42,240 --> 01:00:44,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, I love you guys, Thank you so much for

1359
01:00:44,640 --> 01:00:45,040
Speaker 5: having me.

1360
01:00:45,200 --> 01:00:46,200
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, you're the best.

1361
01:00:46,200 --> 01:00:48,240
Speaker 1: I'm going to continue to wear all my uncommon thing,

1362
01:00:49,320 --> 01:00:53,640
Speaker 1: all my uncommon things. I'm going to keep using my

1363
01:00:54,000 --> 01:00:56,960
Speaker 1: Mike Christen's cookbook, and now I cannot wait to get

1364
01:00:56,960 --> 01:00:58,240
Speaker 1: my hands on uncommon beauty.

1365
01:00:58,400 --> 01:01:01,960
Speaker 3: So you're the best. We love you. We I just

1366
01:01:02,480 --> 01:01:02,960
Speaker 3: adore you.

1367
01:01:03,560 --> 01:01:03,880
Speaker 4: Same.

1368
01:01:04,800 --> 01:01:08,680
Speaker 9: I love you guys so much. Thank you, bye bye

1369
01:01:09,280 --> 01:01:09,919
Speaker 9: bye bye.

1370
01:01:25,760 --> 01:01:28,120
Speaker 2: Oh right, you guys, I hope you enjoyed that. It

1371
01:01:28,200 --> 01:01:28,680
Speaker 2: was so fun.

1372
01:01:28,680 --> 01:01:30,480
Speaker 4: I feel like the Hills girl or the girls from

1373
01:01:30,480 --> 01:01:33,560
Speaker 4: the Hills are good bees. They're also like they feel

1374
01:01:33,560 --> 01:01:35,480
Speaker 4: like we're just hanging out with a girlfriend because they're

1375
01:01:35,520 --> 01:01:38,000
Speaker 4: really open to talk about anything and everything.

1376
01:01:38,120 --> 01:01:40,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, like I never really like I really like Kristin

1377
01:01:40,640 --> 01:01:42,120
Speaker 1: a lot. Like I think I always used to think

1378
01:01:42,120 --> 01:01:44,040
Speaker 1: she was kind of a mean girl, like I was

1379
01:01:44,040 --> 01:01:44,840
Speaker 1: always she.

1380
01:01:45,160 --> 01:01:46,640
Speaker 2: Was presented that way on the show.

1381
01:01:46,760 --> 01:01:48,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, and she's not like that at all.

1382
01:01:48,720 --> 01:01:53,280
Speaker 4: Actually no, Okay, so I think we have an email.

1383
01:01:53,480 --> 01:01:55,520
Speaker 4: Mark's gonna get right into that.

1384
01:01:56,880 --> 01:01:59,920
Speaker 6: Yes, this is Amy, and this is a directed primarily

1385
01:02:00,080 --> 01:02:01,720
Speaker 6: at you, Tanya, but I think the rest of us

1386
01:02:01,760 --> 01:02:03,520
Speaker 6: can weigh in if need be. She says, I started

1387
01:02:03,560 --> 01:02:06,720
Speaker 6: hitting a guy about seven months ago who was is

1388
01:02:06,760 --> 01:02:09,400
Speaker 6: going through a divorce from a ten year relationship. They

1389
01:02:09,400 --> 01:02:11,480
Speaker 6: didn't have children together, but he was super close with

1390
01:02:11,520 --> 01:02:14,440
Speaker 6: her daughter. The reason for this separation was because she

1391
01:02:14,560 --> 01:02:17,200
Speaker 6: cheated on him multiple times. Over the course of the

1392
01:02:17,200 --> 01:02:19,360
Speaker 6: past seven months, We've gone through a couple of week

1393
01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:21,920
Speaker 6: spells of not talking because he decides he needs to

1394
01:02:21,920 --> 01:02:24,680
Speaker 6: focus on himself and wrapping up the divorce and selling

1395
01:02:24,720 --> 01:02:27,800
Speaker 6: their house and finding himself. He's always heavy on the

1396
01:02:28,000 --> 01:02:30,720
Speaker 6: right now. I just know in my heart that this

1397
01:02:30,840 --> 01:02:33,960
Speaker 6: isn't a chapter that is or should be closed. He's

1398
01:02:34,000 --> 01:02:36,480
Speaker 6: the man I've prayed for, other than the baggage he

1399
01:02:36,520 --> 01:02:40,880
Speaker 6: currently has. Tanya, did you reach out to Redstar eventually

1400
01:02:41,000 --> 01:02:43,600
Speaker 6: or just wait it out? I feel like I need

1401
01:02:43,600 --> 01:02:46,440
Speaker 6: to eventually say something because his ego was so bruised

1402
01:02:46,480 --> 01:02:48,040
Speaker 6: from all the cheating. I feel like I need to

1403
01:02:48,080 --> 01:02:51,320
Speaker 6: show him consistency and authenticity. But I know he needs

1404
01:02:51,320 --> 01:02:53,680
Speaker 6: space to find himself in heal, so I don't know

1405
01:02:53,720 --> 01:02:54,080
Speaker 6: what to do.

1406
01:02:57,600 --> 01:03:01,600
Speaker 1: It's interesting because I feel like you can't really and

1407
01:03:01,800 --> 01:03:05,480
Speaker 1: I guess the way I approached everything with our breakup

1408
01:03:05,680 --> 01:03:09,360
Speaker 1: was I can't do anything wrong as long as I'm

1409
01:03:09,400 --> 01:03:13,800
Speaker 1: doing authentically what feels right to me. And so when

1410
01:03:14,360 --> 01:03:16,560
Speaker 1: we broke up, it didn't feel like it was over.

1411
01:03:16,600 --> 01:03:20,040
Speaker 1: I was just like, this is everything just felt right

1412
01:03:20,080 --> 01:03:24,760
Speaker 1: with him, and so, but I did realize he couldn't do.

1413
01:03:24,800 --> 01:03:25,760
Speaker 3: It at that moment.

1414
01:03:25,880 --> 01:03:28,280
Speaker 1: There was something else going on in his life that

1415
01:03:28,840 --> 01:03:31,280
Speaker 1: I just needed to give in that space. So we

1416
01:03:31,400 --> 01:03:33,000
Speaker 1: kind of kept talking for a while, and then I

1417
01:03:33,080 --> 01:03:36,919
Speaker 1: realized that I can't move on if we still talk,

1418
01:03:37,000 --> 01:03:39,040
Speaker 1: so I cut it off cold turkey, and he kept

1419
01:03:39,040 --> 01:03:43,720
Speaker 1: reaching out and I wasn't responding for quite a while,

1420
01:03:43,840 --> 01:03:47,360
Speaker 1: but at that same time, I was still praying for

1421
01:03:47,440 --> 01:03:50,919
Speaker 1: him and like writing in my journal about him and

1422
01:03:51,760 --> 01:03:56,000
Speaker 1: making my honey jar, you know, with intentions for him.

1423
01:03:56,120 --> 01:03:58,280
Speaker 1: He didn't know any of this, obviously, but I was

1424
01:03:58,320 --> 01:04:01,360
Speaker 1: still doing those things for him because I felt so

1425
01:04:01,400 --> 01:04:07,160
Speaker 1: strongly about us in our relationship. And eventually, after a

1426
01:04:07,160 --> 01:04:12,320
Speaker 1: couple reach outs, I responded and we started talking and

1427
01:04:12,480 --> 01:04:18,000
Speaker 1: that's kind of how that all went down. And then

1428
01:04:18,040 --> 01:04:20,480
Speaker 1: I did end up eventually telling him and like that

1429
01:04:20,560 --> 01:04:22,160
Speaker 1: I was doing all of those things like praying for

1430
01:04:22,240 --> 01:04:24,480
Speaker 1: him and I like sent him a picture of the

1431
01:04:24,480 --> 01:04:25,960
Speaker 1: thing that I put in the honey jar, and I

1432
01:04:25,960 --> 01:04:28,640
Speaker 1: think that did like it kind of blew him away

1433
01:04:28,800 --> 01:04:31,400
Speaker 1: because in his mind he thought I was fully fully

1434
01:04:31,560 --> 01:04:33,720
Speaker 1: moved on over because I was so cold Turkey, like

1435
01:04:33,760 --> 01:04:36,920
Speaker 1: I was not responding to him. I didn't reach out

1436
01:04:36,920 --> 01:04:38,720
Speaker 1: to him on his birthday. I was kind of brutal,

1437
01:04:38,760 --> 01:04:41,560
Speaker 1: and that's just very not Tanya, you know, So in

1438
01:04:41,600 --> 01:04:44,400
Speaker 1: his mind, I was like moved on and in love

1439
01:04:44,440 --> 01:04:49,760
Speaker 1: with somebody else. But so I think you can show

1440
01:04:49,840 --> 01:04:52,320
Speaker 1: him all of that consistency, like that stuff that you're

1441
01:04:52,360 --> 01:04:53,840
Speaker 1: like what she was saying is she wants to pray

1442
01:04:53,840 --> 01:04:55,080
Speaker 1: for him and all those things. So you can still

1443
01:04:55,120 --> 01:05:02,000
Speaker 1: do those things. But I think giving somebody space and

1444
01:05:02,080 --> 01:05:04,160
Speaker 1: letting them figure it out on their own, I think

1445
01:05:04,240 --> 01:05:06,640
Speaker 1: is important. But at the end of the day too,

1446
01:05:06,720 --> 01:05:09,120
Speaker 1: I just don't think if you do things that feel

1447
01:05:09,120 --> 01:05:13,160
Speaker 1: good to you and in your heart, you know, feel good,

1448
01:05:14,600 --> 01:05:16,080
Speaker 1: that's the best thing. Because I think I was doing

1449
01:05:16,120 --> 01:05:19,280
Speaker 1: a lot of things, and Becca can also weigh in that,

1450
01:05:19,400 --> 01:05:21,600
Speaker 1: like I was reading Why Men Love Bitches, and I

1451
01:05:21,680 --> 01:05:24,360
Speaker 1: was doing things to kind of mess with his mind,

1452
01:05:24,520 --> 01:05:27,760
Speaker 1: and I didn't like that I did those things because

1453
01:05:27,800 --> 01:05:29,240
Speaker 1: I felt like I needed to, you know, because I

1454
01:05:29,280 --> 01:05:31,160
Speaker 1: was like, well, he didn't like the taunt, like he

1455
01:05:31,240 --> 01:05:32,920
Speaker 1: threw away the tauya, So I need to be this

1456
01:05:33,400 --> 01:05:35,800
Speaker 1: bitch that they say that you know every guy wants

1457
01:05:36,720 --> 01:05:39,600
Speaker 1: and that was not the answer at all.

1458
01:05:40,560 --> 01:05:42,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't really. I mean I've never been in

1459
01:05:42,320 --> 01:05:44,200
Speaker 4: this situation, so it's hard to I mean, you know,

1460
01:05:44,240 --> 01:05:47,600
Speaker 4: it's like such a specific situation. But I do think

1461
01:05:47,640 --> 01:05:52,720
Speaker 4: when someone is going through something and they're hurting and

1462
01:05:52,760 --> 01:05:56,720
Speaker 4: trying to heal from a past relationship or anything where

1463
01:05:56,760 --> 01:06:02,360
Speaker 4: they've been hurt, I do think it's it's like so

1464
01:06:02,480 --> 01:06:05,400
Speaker 4: important and vital for you to give them that space

1465
01:06:05,480 --> 01:06:09,320
Speaker 4: because I don't think that like without them being able

1466
01:06:09,360 --> 01:06:11,120
Speaker 4: to heal and have that time, then they're not going

1467
01:06:11,200 --> 01:06:12,840
Speaker 4: to be able to be what you need them to be,

1468
01:06:12,920 --> 01:06:15,000
Speaker 4: or it's gonna come it's going to come up eventually

1469
01:06:15,000 --> 01:06:18,120
Speaker 4: in your relationship. Would you rather them take care of

1470
01:06:18,160 --> 01:06:20,240
Speaker 4: it now when they're like saying they need the space.

1471
01:06:20,280 --> 01:06:22,400
Speaker 4: But I mean, like I said, I think it's a

1472
01:06:22,520 --> 01:06:27,600
Speaker 4: very specific thing that I think your advice makes more

1473
01:06:27,640 --> 01:06:28,160
Speaker 4: than mine.

1474
01:06:28,600 --> 01:06:33,000
Speaker 1: Also, it is it's like it's so tricky because it's

1475
01:06:33,520 --> 01:06:35,920
Speaker 1: it's something that, And I think I also came to

1476
01:06:35,920 --> 01:06:40,360
Speaker 1: the realization that everybody has their projections, and everyone's going

1477
01:06:40,400 --> 01:06:42,400
Speaker 1: to give their opinions and they're going to say they're things.

1478
01:06:42,400 --> 01:06:44,640
Speaker 1: But the end of the day, every relationship, in every

1479
01:06:44,680 --> 01:06:48,640
Speaker 1: situation is so different, and you kind of have to

1480
01:06:48,640 --> 01:06:51,360
Speaker 1: give yourself grace and know that, Like your story is

1481
01:06:51,400 --> 01:06:54,920
Speaker 1: the way that you it's how you write it, you know,

1482
01:06:55,160 --> 01:06:56,640
Speaker 1: like if you don't want to close the door, Like

1483
01:06:56,680 --> 01:06:58,760
Speaker 1: I never closed the door on him, but I started

1484
01:06:58,760 --> 01:07:01,440
Speaker 1: moving on, like in terms of my life, Like I

1485
01:07:01,560 --> 01:07:04,080
Speaker 1: wasn't crying as much like I was, you know what

1486
01:07:04,080 --> 01:07:05,360
Speaker 1: I mean, like moving on in a different way. I

1487
01:07:05,360 --> 01:07:07,360
Speaker 1: don't mean moving on in terms of like sleeping with

1488
01:07:07,400 --> 01:07:09,080
Speaker 1: somebody else or moving on to somebody else.

1489
01:07:09,080 --> 01:07:10,800
Speaker 6: So are you really moving on if you're doing a

1490
01:07:10,840 --> 01:07:13,320
Speaker 6: honey jar for him, like that seems like not moving on.

1491
01:07:13,480 --> 01:07:14,680
Speaker 2: I don't think there was.

1492
01:07:14,840 --> 01:07:17,600
Speaker 4: I mean, I think I think there was the effort

1493
01:07:17,640 --> 01:07:19,280
Speaker 4: of moving on, But I don't think you ever were

1494
01:07:19,320 --> 01:07:23,520
Speaker 4: like actually moving into director, because y'all were still talking,

1495
01:07:23,600 --> 01:07:25,520
Speaker 4: like even when you were cold turkey, like he was

1496
01:07:25,560 --> 01:07:27,960
Speaker 4: messaging you, and it would kind of you go back

1497
01:07:28,000 --> 01:07:30,040
Speaker 4: to that place of like even if you didn't respond

1498
01:07:30,080 --> 01:07:32,840
Speaker 4: of being like, oh, like that's you know, it's hard.

1499
01:07:32,960 --> 01:07:35,560
Speaker 1: Right, It's so yeah, Like every time he would message

1500
01:07:35,560 --> 01:07:39,400
Speaker 1: me and I wouldn't respond, which was so freaking hard,

1501
01:07:39,640 --> 01:07:43,360
Speaker 1: like literally so hard to do. It would it would

1502
01:07:43,360 --> 01:07:45,200
Speaker 1: take me back to that place and I'd be like, oh, well,

1503
01:07:45,240 --> 01:07:47,760
Speaker 1: like he's thinking about me the same way I'm thinking

1504
01:07:47,760 --> 01:07:49,040
Speaker 1: about him, So what are we doing?

1505
01:07:49,080 --> 01:07:49,800
Speaker 3: And you know what I mean.

1506
01:07:49,840 --> 01:07:51,720
Speaker 1: But again, it was just I had to kind of

1507
01:07:51,720 --> 01:07:54,480
Speaker 1: give it that time for him to kind of realize

1508
01:07:55,160 --> 01:07:57,600
Speaker 1: what he needed to realize, you know, because I think

1509
01:07:57,960 --> 01:08:02,520
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, you can't force someone

1510
01:08:02,560 --> 01:08:04,080
Speaker 1: to get to a place where you are.

1511
01:08:04,840 --> 01:08:07,800
Speaker 4: And I will say, like Tanya's situation doesn't mean that

1512
01:08:07,800 --> 01:08:11,080
Speaker 4: that happens for everyone where it ends up being a

1513
01:08:11,200 --> 01:08:16,280
Speaker 4: happy like reunion, you know, like it's worked out and

1514
01:08:16,479 --> 01:08:19,160
Speaker 4: it was meant to be. But sometimes you have to

1515
01:08:19,280 --> 01:08:23,559
Speaker 4: know like, Okay, this is taking a while, and I like,

1516
01:08:23,600 --> 01:08:27,280
Speaker 4: what is my worth? Like what is my what do

1517
01:08:27,360 --> 01:08:29,720
Speaker 4: I deserve out of a relationship? And if you're not

1518
01:08:29,800 --> 01:08:34,639
Speaker 4: getting that, then I think you let some things go sometimes. Yeah,

1519
01:08:34,680 --> 01:08:36,320
Speaker 4: And I mean you kind of did that, like you

1520
01:08:36,400 --> 01:08:38,200
Speaker 4: kind of had a moment of being like Okay, this

1521
01:08:38,240 --> 01:08:39,920
Speaker 4: is hard and I need to take a step back.

1522
01:08:39,960 --> 01:08:43,760
Speaker 4: And y'all are just respectful of each other. Yeah, I

1523
01:08:43,760 --> 01:08:44,639
Speaker 4: think that's the main thing.

1524
01:08:44,960 --> 01:08:48,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just like.

1525
01:08:48,000 --> 01:08:49,840
Speaker 2: Like essentially it's free therapy here.

1526
01:08:50,040 --> 01:08:50,280
Speaker 4: You know.

1527
01:08:50,520 --> 01:08:53,599
Speaker 2: It's like we're like dear Abby.

1528
01:08:54,160 --> 01:08:56,760
Speaker 4: The isn't that what the old newspaper thing was called,

1529
01:08:56,760 --> 01:08:58,640
Speaker 4: dear Abby?

1530
01:08:58,680 --> 01:08:59,559
Speaker 6: I think it's still a thing.

1531
01:08:59,680 --> 01:09:02,599
Speaker 3: Oh, I don't know it is.

1532
01:09:02,640 --> 01:09:07,519
Speaker 1: It's so interesting because, like and I said this from

1533
01:09:07,560 --> 01:09:09,680
Speaker 1: the beginning, when I met Red Star, I felt like

1534
01:09:09,720 --> 01:09:12,240
Speaker 1: we were each other's karma because.

1535
01:09:13,400 --> 01:09:15,720
Speaker 3: I almost felt like and I don't.

1536
01:09:15,400 --> 01:09:18,680
Speaker 1: Mean to say this to say that I'm like, you know,

1537
01:09:19,720 --> 01:09:24,200
Speaker 1: this angel of a girlfriend or whatever, but I don't

1538
01:09:24,200 --> 01:09:27,000
Speaker 1: think that I am. But I think to him, I

1539
01:09:27,160 --> 01:09:29,519
Speaker 1: he didn't think anybody like me existed, do you know

1540
01:09:29,560 --> 01:09:33,719
Speaker 1: what I mean? And so it would and then vice versa.

1541
01:09:34,120 --> 01:09:42,840
Speaker 4: I don't think anyone else you exist.

1542
01:09:40,360 --> 01:09:42,760
Speaker 1: But like in terms of the way that I take

1543
01:09:42,800 --> 01:09:45,720
Speaker 1: care of him and love him, and I think those

1544
01:09:45,720 --> 01:09:49,479
Speaker 1: were things that he just was not never thought could

1545
01:09:49,920 --> 01:09:52,120
Speaker 1: actually be, you know. And so it takes time, Like

1546
01:09:52,160 --> 01:09:53,600
Speaker 1: I know it sounds silly, but it takes time for

1547
01:09:53,640 --> 01:09:56,240
Speaker 1: people to actually learn to accept that in a way too.

1548
01:09:56,760 --> 01:09:59,120
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I mean that when you are used to

1549
01:09:59,600 --> 01:10:02,120
Speaker 4: being true a certain way, then it takes a minute

1550
01:10:02,160 --> 01:10:06,639
Speaker 4: to a just like do I deserve good like this? Right?

1551
01:10:07,600 --> 01:10:07,960
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1552
01:10:08,280 --> 01:10:08,799
Speaker 4: I mean.

1553
01:10:10,120 --> 01:10:11,200
Speaker 2: Relationships are hard.

1554
01:10:11,200 --> 01:10:14,519
Speaker 4: I don't think people really talk about like, relationships are amazing.

1555
01:10:14,560 --> 01:10:19,200
Speaker 4: Love is amazing, It's like it's really euphoric. But relationships,

1556
01:10:19,280 --> 01:10:24,160
Speaker 4: all of them are complicated. They take effort and like work,

1557
01:10:24,200 --> 01:10:26,280
Speaker 4: and sometimes it's bliss and you don't even feel like

1558
01:10:26,320 --> 01:10:28,120
Speaker 4: you're having to do anything, and then sometimes you're like

1559
01:10:30,280 --> 01:10:33,479
Speaker 4: this is this is way harder sometimes than being single

1560
01:10:33,479 --> 01:10:34,000
Speaker 4: and free.

1561
01:10:34,120 --> 01:10:34,439
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1562
01:10:34,560 --> 01:10:37,400
Speaker 1: And also I think that like for me, going through

1563
01:10:37,479 --> 01:10:42,040
Speaker 1: breakups in my life have been paralyzingly hard. I could

1564
01:10:42,040 --> 01:10:46,080
Speaker 1: not imagine going through divorce, like the trauma that that

1565
01:10:46,120 --> 01:10:50,800
Speaker 1: would do to me would really be an issue. And

1566
01:10:50,880 --> 01:10:52,640
Speaker 1: so I think I had to kind of give him

1567
01:10:52,680 --> 01:10:54,559
Speaker 1: a lot of grace in that sense of just kind

1568
01:10:54,640 --> 01:11:00,479
Speaker 1: of you know, realizing. I think also to you, not

1569
01:11:00,520 --> 01:11:03,000
Speaker 1: so much on yourself, but all the people around you,

1570
01:11:03,000 --> 01:11:04,320
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. When you have kids, you

1571
01:11:04,320 --> 01:11:06,480
Speaker 1: don't you know, you think of them more than yourself,

1572
01:11:06,600 --> 01:11:06,920
Speaker 1: And so.

1573
01:11:07,200 --> 01:11:09,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's pretty wild.

1574
01:11:09,840 --> 01:11:12,040
Speaker 4: I told ninety five P the other day I said,

1575
01:11:12,240 --> 01:11:15,200
Speaker 4: if you ever like cheated or anything, I wouldn't even

1576
01:11:15,880 --> 01:11:17,559
Speaker 4: I would do the worst thing that you can do

1577
01:11:17,600 --> 01:11:20,439
Speaker 4: to someone, which is just like silence, Like you would

1578
01:11:20,479 --> 01:11:21,679
Speaker 4: never hear from me again.

1579
01:11:21,880 --> 01:11:22,640
Speaker 3: Is that what you would do?

1580
01:11:22,920 --> 01:11:26,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, I would just be like, don't even Like if

1581
01:11:27,439 --> 01:11:30,800
Speaker 4: I clearly was not enough for you, so like you

1582
01:11:30,920 --> 01:11:33,040
Speaker 4: go your way, I would just be I'd be sad,

1583
01:11:33,080 --> 01:11:34,000
Speaker 4: I'd be like heartbroken.

1584
01:11:34,080 --> 01:11:37,639
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, but I would be deadly silent.

1585
01:11:37,800 --> 01:11:39,679
Speaker 1: That's so good, I know. And it's almost like when

1586
01:11:39,720 --> 01:11:41,439
Speaker 1: things like that, when you go through a breakup and

1587
01:11:41,680 --> 01:11:44,760
Speaker 1: somebody cheats to me, that would be easier in a

1588
01:11:44,840 --> 01:11:47,680
Speaker 1: sense because you're just like, yeah, there's a screw.

1589
01:11:48,280 --> 01:11:49,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, like I'm done.

1590
01:11:49,640 --> 01:11:51,960
Speaker 1: And when that's not the case and love is still there,

1591
01:11:52,200 --> 01:11:54,640
Speaker 1: and I think that makes it harder because you're just

1592
01:11:54,680 --> 01:11:56,639
Speaker 1: like what are we doing?

1593
01:11:56,760 --> 01:11:59,800
Speaker 4: That's why I always, like with Janna and Mike, I

1594
01:11:59,840 --> 01:12:05,599
Speaker 4: always just like really couldn't even I like really admire

1595
01:12:05,720 --> 01:12:09,480
Speaker 4: Janna because I just was like she really.

1596
01:12:09,280 --> 01:12:13,120
Speaker 3: Just tried, tried, and I could never get past it.

1597
01:12:13,680 --> 01:12:15,840
Speaker 4: I just I don't think I have I don't think

1598
01:12:15,880 --> 01:12:19,559
Speaker 4: i'd be able to or like want to honestly, So.

1599
01:12:19,960 --> 01:12:22,040
Speaker 1: I wouldn't either, because to me, it's not so much

1600
01:12:22,080 --> 01:12:25,320
Speaker 1: that I guess D cheating, it's the lack of character.

1601
01:12:25,920 --> 01:12:27,000
Speaker 3: It's the lack of character.

1602
01:12:27,200 --> 01:12:29,200
Speaker 1: I wouldn't There's no way I would not want to

1603
01:12:29,280 --> 01:12:31,200
Speaker 1: hitch myself to wagon that had no character.

1604
01:12:31,240 --> 01:12:33,800
Speaker 4: Well, and I don't think I would be fair to

1605
01:12:33,800 --> 01:12:35,880
Speaker 4: to the person like I think I would, just it

1606
01:12:35,920 --> 01:12:38,799
Speaker 4: would constantly be a grudge. And if they were able

1607
01:12:38,840 --> 01:12:41,680
Speaker 4: to change and like, you know, really see what they

1608
01:12:41,720 --> 01:12:44,160
Speaker 4: did and try to be better, I don't feel like

1609
01:12:44,200 --> 01:12:45,840
Speaker 4: I'd be able to give them the chance that they

1610
01:12:45,880 --> 01:12:46,559
Speaker 4: would need.

1611
01:12:46,400 --> 01:12:47,880
Speaker 2: To, like be better.

1612
01:12:48,240 --> 01:12:51,800
Speaker 4: So that'd be the the other part that I'm you know,

1613
01:12:51,880 --> 01:12:54,600
Speaker 4: self aware enough to know that I would not be

1614
01:12:54,720 --> 01:12:56,040
Speaker 4: encouraging no.

1615
01:12:56,200 --> 01:12:58,839
Speaker 6: Same before we move, before we wrap up the episode,

1616
01:12:59,040 --> 01:13:01,280
Speaker 6: you would talk about some of the Christian cavalary that

1617
01:13:01,360 --> 01:13:05,200
Speaker 6: I looked into. And we should clarify you did not

1618
01:13:05,400 --> 01:13:09,439
Speaker 6: see Devin SAWA's balls in the movie Now and then.

1619
01:13:10,360 --> 01:13:11,559
Speaker 3: Whose balls did I see?

1620
01:13:14,000 --> 01:13:17,560
Speaker 6: Whatever you saw was not his balls, because he clarified

1621
01:13:17,680 --> 01:13:21,040
Speaker 6: in an interview a few years ago with the news

1622
01:13:21,400 --> 01:13:25,759
Speaker 6: that they were wearing socks over like special sock things

1623
01:13:25,880 --> 01:13:33,920
Speaker 6: over their genitalia, they were not nude for.

1624
01:13:32,280 --> 01:13:34,000
Speaker 3: A sock cod piece.

1625
01:13:34,280 --> 01:13:38,559
Speaker 1: I saw saw the sock, Yeah, I.

1626
01:13:38,479 --> 01:13:42,960
Speaker 3: Saw so queen. Yeah, okay, close enough, close enough.

1627
01:13:43,160 --> 01:13:45,680
Speaker 4: You must have been real horny for that to do

1628
01:13:45,760 --> 01:13:51,080
Speaker 4: it for me. She was like had her Kevin Richardson

1629
01:13:51,200 --> 01:13:55,200
Speaker 4: photo poster and she's like, oh my god, devinss ball.

1630
01:13:55,320 --> 01:13:56,200
Speaker 3: Oh yeah no I would.

1631
01:13:56,200 --> 01:13:59,280
Speaker 1: We would pause it and like slow mow that scene

1632
01:13:59,280 --> 01:14:02,200
Speaker 1: of him like picking up his his whatever his clothes

1633
01:14:02,200 --> 01:14:03,080
Speaker 1: out of the lake and.

1634
01:14:03,120 --> 01:14:04,880
Speaker 6: Just like pas what he talks about?

1635
01:14:05,040 --> 01:14:07,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh it's such Oh it's great.

1636
01:14:07,200 --> 01:14:09,720
Speaker 6: There's screenshots on this article that I read, so I

1637
01:14:09,720 --> 01:14:11,720
Speaker 6: know what you're talking about. But yeah, that wasn't it.

1638
01:14:11,800 --> 01:14:14,120
Speaker 6: That was some sort of cloth appendage.

1639
01:14:14,160 --> 01:14:16,240
Speaker 2: That mark when did the research? He's like, I'm gonna

1640
01:14:16,240 --> 01:14:17,280
Speaker 2: see if this is facts.

1641
01:14:17,439 --> 01:14:19,680
Speaker 6: Sure did? Yeah?

1642
01:14:19,840 --> 01:14:23,839
Speaker 3: I love a sockween. I'll take a sockween at thirteen.

1643
01:14:24,840 --> 01:14:30,760
Speaker 4: Wow, I'll never forget when I googled and saw the

1644
01:14:30,800 --> 01:14:33,040
Speaker 4: first like male penis like a big one.

1645
01:14:33,400 --> 01:14:36,759
Speaker 1: When did you see your first in real life?

1646
01:14:37,280 --> 01:14:40,960
Speaker 2: In real life? Ween, I mean touched?

1647
01:14:42,000 --> 01:14:45,719
Speaker 3: Touched? They are all different questions.

1648
01:14:46,200 --> 01:14:48,599
Speaker 6: Let's start with the first. When you googled? Is that

1649
01:14:48,600 --> 01:14:49,680
Speaker 6: that when you saw your first one?

1650
01:14:49,680 --> 01:14:52,320
Speaker 4: You googled it, I was, yeah, and I was actually

1651
01:14:52,400 --> 01:14:54,280
Speaker 4: pretty young, I was. I didn't have my first kiss

1652
01:14:54,320 --> 01:14:58,880
Speaker 4: un till I was sixteen. I was like, very like, right,

1653
01:14:59,000 --> 01:15:03,680
Speaker 4: that's like an older age or nine.

1654
01:15:04,560 --> 01:15:07,040
Speaker 3: I think I was fourteen. When you're a freshman in

1655
01:15:07,080 --> 01:15:07,800
Speaker 3: high school.

1656
01:15:07,520 --> 01:15:08,880
Speaker 2: How old are you, like fifteen, fourteen?

1657
01:15:08,920 --> 01:15:09,360
Speaker 4: Fifteen? Oh?

1658
01:15:09,400 --> 01:15:09,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I was.

1659
01:15:09,840 --> 01:15:15,479
Speaker 4: Fourteen, yeah, and I was just very like, you know,

1660
01:15:15,720 --> 01:15:18,240
Speaker 4: I grew up in a very like purity culture in

1661
01:15:18,280 --> 01:15:21,439
Speaker 4: the church, so like anything related to sex was just like,

1662
01:15:22,200 --> 01:15:26,960
Speaker 4: don't tempt yourself, you know. And so I googled. I mean,

1663
01:15:27,000 --> 01:15:28,880
Speaker 4: I got a phone when I was well, no, I

1664
01:15:28,880 --> 01:15:30,840
Speaker 4: would I would have. I don't think I ever would

1665
01:15:30,880 --> 01:15:33,599
Speaker 4: have done it on my parents like my family computer though,

1666
01:15:33,640 --> 01:15:36,519
Speaker 4: So I feel like I was older, like when I

1667
01:15:36,560 --> 01:15:38,680
Speaker 4: really saw like a grown man, like a photo of

1668
01:15:38,680 --> 01:15:40,800
Speaker 4: a grown man's ween.

1669
01:15:42,000 --> 01:15:45,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, ween, I don't know.

1670
01:15:45,280 --> 01:15:55,280
Speaker 4: But my first time to touch one, yeah, nineteen, I think, Wow,

1671
01:15:55,880 --> 01:15:56,719
Speaker 4: what was yours?

1672
01:15:57,040 --> 01:15:57,519
Speaker 3: Fifteen?

1673
01:15:57,920 --> 01:15:58,120
Speaker 2: Oh?

1674
01:15:58,120 --> 01:15:58,240
Speaker 4: My?

1675
01:15:58,800 --> 01:15:59,960
Speaker 3: Whoa, that's right.

1676
01:16:01,520 --> 01:16:05,640
Speaker 2: I wouldn't have even known what to do. I was like, so, well, do.

1677
01:16:05,640 --> 01:16:06,799
Speaker 3: You want to know what's interesting?

1678
01:16:07,000 --> 01:16:13,320
Speaker 1: The first ween I ever saw and touched was uncircumcised. Oh,

1679
01:16:13,360 --> 01:16:15,800
Speaker 1: so you were like, I didn't know that they didn't

1680
01:16:15,920 --> 01:16:17,120
Speaker 1: that they didn't all look like that.

1681
01:16:19,000 --> 01:16:21,400
Speaker 4: So what happened when you saw your second one?

1682
01:16:22,520 --> 01:16:23,880
Speaker 3: Who was my second one?

1683
01:16:24,400 --> 01:16:27,960
Speaker 2: Should we call him? Ask if he remembers it.

1684
01:16:32,600 --> 01:16:35,880
Speaker 4: I can only imagine Tanya as like a fifteen year old,

1685
01:16:35,960 --> 01:16:39,599
Speaker 4: like so spastic, just like she had just watched Now

1686
01:16:39,600 --> 01:16:41,760
Speaker 4: and then saw the song Queen, and she's just like,

1687
01:16:43,320 --> 01:16:46,760
Speaker 4: let's go.

1688
01:16:45,360 --> 01:16:47,080
Speaker 10: Slapping it like a heavy bag or something.

1689
01:16:52,920 --> 01:16:57,160
Speaker 1: It's actually so scary that like that at that age,

1690
01:16:57,240 --> 01:17:01,400
Speaker 1: like now that I'm in my thirties, the fact that

1691
01:17:01,439 --> 01:17:07,280
Speaker 1: I was doing that to some man's wien at that age.

1692
01:17:07,040 --> 01:17:09,600
Speaker 4: I mean a man, but like a teenager, right.

1693
01:17:09,920 --> 01:17:11,759
Speaker 1: Actually he was a senior and I was a sophomore,

1694
01:17:11,840 --> 01:17:15,160
Speaker 1: so he was older. But yeah, it's kind of crazy.

1695
01:17:15,400 --> 01:17:23,479
Speaker 3: No, I wish, I wish I knew what I did then,

1696
01:17:23,840 --> 01:17:27,880
Speaker 3: do you know what I mean? Like, I don't even

1697
01:17:28,000 --> 01:17:28,760
Speaker 3: I would love to.

1698
01:17:28,760 --> 01:17:31,360
Speaker 2: Know, like what you said verbally.

1699
01:17:31,120 --> 01:17:31,519
Speaker 4: Me too?

1700
01:17:31,760 --> 01:17:32,479
Speaker 3: Me do.

1701
01:17:34,600 --> 01:17:35,160
Speaker 6: I still?

1702
01:17:35,240 --> 01:17:37,280
Speaker 1: I think I'm still friends with him on Facebook. I

1703
01:17:37,320 --> 01:17:39,439
Speaker 1: know he's married and he has a child. It's probably

1704
01:17:39,439 --> 01:17:41,840
Speaker 1: inappropriate for me to go down that path with him.

1705
01:17:42,000 --> 01:17:45,200
Speaker 4: But yeah, I was joking about reaching out to him

1706
01:17:45,280 --> 01:17:46,360
Speaker 4: or calling him.

1707
01:17:46,120 --> 01:17:51,160
Speaker 3: So I would just like to know, you know, he.

1708
01:17:51,040 --> 01:17:53,280
Speaker 2: Probably doesn't remember as much as you don't remember.

1709
01:17:53,439 --> 01:17:58,000
Speaker 4: That's true, Well not really, that conversation really took an

1710
01:17:58,080 --> 01:18:05,240
Speaker 4: unexpected turn. It's just, you know, it's just funny because

1711
01:18:05,280 --> 01:18:08,760
Speaker 4: like you know, and I think this happens in life,

1712
01:18:08,840 --> 01:18:10,720
Speaker 4: Like as you get older, you look back on things

1713
01:18:10,800 --> 01:18:15,040
Speaker 4: and you're just like, oh wow, cringe, cringe, But like

1714
01:18:15,080 --> 01:18:17,439
Speaker 4: it's part of growing you know, It's just all part

1715
01:18:17,479 --> 01:18:21,360
Speaker 4: of growing up, and everyone has their different times and

1716
01:18:21,439 --> 01:18:24,040
Speaker 4: experiences and it's fun to like I'll say.

1717
01:18:23,960 --> 01:18:26,120
Speaker 6: As a dad, this pandemic couldn't have come at a

1718
01:18:26,120 --> 01:18:26,559
Speaker 6: better time.

1719
01:18:28,360 --> 01:18:31,320
Speaker 3: Yeah. True, it's like forcing yeah, yeah, yeah.

1720
01:18:31,640 --> 01:18:35,320
Speaker 7: Can I share one really quick traumatic memory. When I

1721
01:18:35,400 --> 01:18:38,840
Speaker 7: was a freshman in high school, I had a girlfriend

1722
01:18:38,880 --> 01:18:42,559
Speaker 7: for many months and I just knew we had made

1723
01:18:42,560 --> 01:18:43,360
Speaker 7: out and stuff like that.

1724
01:18:43,439 --> 01:18:46,080
Speaker 10: I knew that touching genitals was the next step.

1725
01:18:46,280 --> 01:18:50,920
Speaker 7: And we were in a hot tub and I said

1726
01:18:50,920 --> 01:18:56,200
Speaker 7: to her, well, I'm going downstairs, and I reached down

1727
01:18:56,240 --> 01:18:57,559
Speaker 7: into her. I didn't know what I was going to do,

1728
01:18:57,920 --> 01:18:59,559
Speaker 7: and she pulled my hand away and broke up with

1729
01:18:59,600 --> 01:19:01,840
Speaker 7: me on the spot, as she should have.

1730
01:19:02,040 --> 01:19:03,400
Speaker 10: And I never spoke to her again.

1731
01:19:03,840 --> 01:19:05,680
Speaker 2: I'm going downstairs.

1732
01:19:05,880 --> 01:19:07,920
Speaker 7: I'm going yeah, because I think I saw it in

1733
01:19:07,960 --> 01:19:10,080
Speaker 7: like American Pie or something like that.

1734
01:19:10,800 --> 01:19:12,559
Speaker 10: He was supposed to make an announcement like that.

1735
01:19:12,640 --> 01:19:13,240
Speaker 9: She grabbed.

1736
01:19:15,200 --> 01:19:18,360
Speaker 7: Yeah, so so Becky Campbell of Afdause, California.

1737
01:19:18,439 --> 01:19:20,360
Speaker 10: I'm sorry, if you're listening.

1738
01:19:20,160 --> 01:19:21,000
Speaker 2: That's epic.

1739
01:19:21,200 --> 01:19:24,559
Speaker 4: That's called some modern moment energy. She said, No, You're

1740
01:19:24,600 --> 01:19:25,840
Speaker 4: not going down.

1741
01:19:26,160 --> 01:19:27,280
Speaker 10: No, I'm going home.

1742
01:19:27,520 --> 01:19:36,360
Speaker 2: I'm going home. Closed, I'm going downstairs. Is so funny,

1743
01:19:36,880 --> 01:19:37,720
Speaker 2: Like what was I gonna do?

1744
01:19:38,360 --> 01:19:40,479
Speaker 3: Said weird things like that. I was probably making out

1745
01:19:40,479 --> 01:19:41,280
Speaker 3: with this guy, and I.

1746
01:19:41,200 --> 01:19:44,280
Speaker 1: Was like, I'm gonna go downstairs, Like I could see

1747
01:19:44,320 --> 01:19:45,240
Speaker 1: myself doing that.

1748
01:19:45,360 --> 01:19:48,080
Speaker 4: Oh my god, I would give anything to hear just

1749
01:19:48,080 --> 01:19:49,920
Speaker 4: like a recording of Tawny too.

1750
01:19:50,200 --> 01:19:53,280
Speaker 1: I'm like I was probably so like this is the

1751
01:19:53,320 --> 01:19:56,200
Speaker 1: same guy that we were like skinny dipping in his

1752
01:19:56,240 --> 01:19:59,840
Speaker 1: backyard and we were just like playing around back there,

1753
01:20:00,360 --> 01:20:02,840
Speaker 1: and his neighbors called the cops, and the cops I

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01:20:02,960 --> 01:20:05,120
Speaker 1: came to the backyard and I was like fully nude

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01:20:05,240 --> 01:20:09,080
Speaker 1: in the in his like pool, with like these cops

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01:20:09,240 --> 01:20:10,719
Speaker 1: telling us to like be quiet.

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01:20:11,960 --> 01:20:13,160
Speaker 3: High school, I'm.

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01:20:12,960 --> 01:20:18,920
Speaker 4: Like Tanya was so different than well, not really actually.

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01:20:18,760 --> 01:20:21,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, and he did last weekend.

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01:20:22,400 --> 01:20:29,719
Speaker 1: Not really but pre Pandy, Oh, pre Pandy. Yeah, I've

1761
01:20:29,760 --> 01:20:31,000
Speaker 1: been in a pool in a minute.

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Speaker 4: Wow, what an exciting episode we had today.

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01:20:37,240 --> 01:20:38,240
Speaker 2: We give you everything.

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01:20:38,320 --> 01:20:41,920
Speaker 4: We give you know, we give you great conversation, we

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01:20:42,040 --> 01:20:47,519
Speaker 4: give you great advice, we give you just awkward sexual stories. Yeah,

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01:20:47,680 --> 01:20:49,800
Speaker 4: it's you really get it all here on scrubbing In.

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01:20:50,080 --> 01:20:52,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm really excited to explore my period. So thank

1768
01:20:52,720 --> 01:20:54,360
Speaker 1: you guys for sending me this woman.

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01:20:54,479 --> 01:20:55,200
Speaker 3: I cannot wait.

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01:20:55,240 --> 01:20:58,120
Speaker 4: And we give you period things from Tanya.

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01:20:58,200 --> 01:21:01,479
Speaker 3: If we can empower the period, that is a That

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01:21:01,600 --> 01:21:01,840
Speaker 3: is no.

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01:21:01,960 --> 01:21:05,360
Speaker 4: We don't want to empower the period. The period's already empowered.

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01:21:05,400 --> 01:21:07,560
Speaker 3: We want to empower our period situations.

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01:21:08,280 --> 01:21:08,680
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

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01:21:08,800 --> 01:21:10,120
Speaker 7: Yeah.

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01:21:10,240 --> 01:21:10,599
Speaker 4: All right.

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01:21:10,680 --> 01:21:14,360
Speaker 2: Well, on that note, we will be back.

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01:21:14,680 --> 01:21:16,400
Speaker 4: I keep thinking about going down stairs.

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01:21:18,280 --> 01:21:20,280
Speaker 2: We will be back next week with.

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01:21:20,320 --> 01:21:23,320
Speaker 4: Another riveting episode of scrubbing In.

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01:21:23,800 --> 01:21:26,479
Speaker 2: We love you all. I hope you have a great week.

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01:21:26,640 --> 01:21:27,400
Speaker 3: Bye bye,