WEBVTT - THE SINGLE CHEEKED MAN

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<v Speaker 2>Call from Crow.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Hi, Hi, how are you hi?

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<v Speaker 2>Good? So I'll get right into what I would like

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<v Speaker 2>to talk about. I've been wanting to talk about for

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<v Speaker 2>a long time, So per se you are going to

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<v Speaker 2>hook up or date somebody and you only have a

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<v Speaker 2>singular butt cheek? Do you, uh, do you feel that

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<v Speaker 2>you must discuss our preface to that person that you

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<v Speaker 2>are missing an ash cheek?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, look you do you you you said.

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<v Speaker 3>Must, I guess not must, but like you.

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<v Speaker 1>Would obligated forget about obligate, you hit it in must

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<v Speaker 1>because those are what is There's no authority in this

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<v Speaker 1>in this universe that you, oh yeah, operating in so

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<v Speaker 1>uh are you talking about? For your own sake?

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<v Speaker 2>It's something that has happened to me in the past

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<v Speaker 2>that I just think about a lot. I have both

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<v Speaker 2>of my butt cheeks, but I have met people who

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<v Speaker 2>have not.

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<v Speaker 1>You've had You've met multiple people who don't have. How

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<v Speaker 1>did I'm trying to I'm imagining in my head with that?

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<v Speaker 1>Does that look like a guy with one leg?

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<v Speaker 2>So like in in the instance of somebody that I

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<v Speaker 2>had dated before who didn't say anything about it, it

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<v Speaker 2>was kind of like Nemo's little fin where there was

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<v Speaker 2>like a little bit of a little bit of cushion

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<v Speaker 2>on the skin but no cheek.

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<v Speaker 1>Cushion on the skin but no cheek, So was was

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<v Speaker 1>it was his ass completely flat?

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<v Speaker 2>He hadn't the other cheeks, but his he had a

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<v Speaker 2>good portion of his other one amputated.

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<v Speaker 1>I forget Marsa after he got what MRSA, is that

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<v Speaker 1>a butt cheek disease?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh, it's infection in your blood?

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<v Speaker 1>I think, oh, okay, okay, so this is not you, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>because I thought you had a one butt cheek and

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<v Speaker 1>you were debating with it. To tell this is you

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<v Speaker 1>have somehow, this is kind You're like a statistical anonymy.

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<v Speaker 1>You've hooked up with multiple guys that only have one

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<v Speaker 1>butt cheek.

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<v Speaker 2>No, just just the one. But I can't assume everybody

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<v Speaker 2>has two butt cheeks after I've met like somebody that hasn't.

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<v Speaker 2>So I just try not to.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, that's you know what, that's good, it's good. Easy.

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<v Speaker 1>You shouldn't assume anything, but you know, can I just

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<v Speaker 1>this has nothing to do with anything, But I like

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<v Speaker 1>a girl hooking up with a guy. You I feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>from the woman's perspective, you don't really see I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>when I'm thinking about various sexual positions, you don't even

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<v Speaker 1>really see the guys.

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<v Speaker 2>But that much, No, that's that's that's why it took

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<v Speaker 2>a while for me to like kind of find out

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<v Speaker 2>I can't even in the room with me, And I like,

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<v Speaker 2>are you are you missing a cheeks? And he was

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<v Speaker 2>just like so nochal He was like yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Well he well, I mean he was nonchalant because that's

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<v Speaker 1>his life. But for you, it's like, yeah, shit, this

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<v Speaker 1>guy's missing a buttcheet. But no, I'm trying to think

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<v Speaker 1>of any I don't think there. I'm trying to think

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<v Speaker 1>of any sexual position where you are even looking at

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<v Speaker 1>a guy's but unless if you would be like pegging him.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that I can't think of as any either. The

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<v Speaker 2>thing is he also had an entire upper row of teeth,

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<v Speaker 2>an extra one behind his front or yeah, behind his

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<v Speaker 2>upper teeth. And I used to make the joke too him,

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<v Speaker 2>how many teeth can you trade for a buttcheet? And

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<v Speaker 2>he gets so mad.

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<v Speaker 1>He sounds like you're bullying this man.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh entirely.

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<v Speaker 1>Why did you guys meet?

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<v Speaker 2>We went to school together.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, and so you okay, And you started this conversation

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<v Speaker 1>by asking me if I feel as though somebody is

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<v Speaker 1>obligated to disclose their missing butt cheek before hook or.

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<v Speaker 2>If personally you would be like, hey, I'm missing a

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<v Speaker 2>butt cheek.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you saying that because did you feel swindled? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you feel as though you signed up for a full

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<v Speaker 1>cheeks man and received a single cheeks man? What was that?

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<v Speaker 2>No, No, not at all. I just was like reflecting on

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<v Speaker 2>the situation myself because like I need to like walk

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<v Speaker 2>with crutches and stuff, and sometimes like if I were

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<v Speaker 2>to meet somebody like that I was first talking to online,

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<v Speaker 2>I would prepase. I'm like, oh, yeah, I walk with crutches,

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<v Speaker 2>And I was just like, I wonder if i'd do

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<v Speaker 2>that if I was missing a butt cheek that was

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<v Speaker 2>a properability or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I think if I were a little bit depends.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I would bring it up on the

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<v Speaker 1>first I wouldn't bring it up at dinner. I would

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<v Speaker 1>probably if I would probably if if I only had

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<v Speaker 1>one butt cheek and I was getting intimate with somebody new,

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<v Speaker 1>I would probably bring it up, like right before we

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<v Speaker 1>would take our clothes off, just so that they're not

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<v Speaker 1>thrown off.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's like, you know, you asked like the SDD question,

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<v Speaker 2>you asked the butt cheat question. God, get everything on

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<v Speaker 2>the table.

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<v Speaker 1>So ever since you met this guy, have you started

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<v Speaker 1>asking men how many butt cheeks they have, and if so,

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<v Speaker 1>how is that? How what have The response has been,

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<v Speaker 1>like I've.

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<v Speaker 2>Thought about it. I never have and everybody since has

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<v Speaker 2>had bulf of their butt cheeks.

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<v Speaker 1>Did now the did you? Did you? Did you have

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<v Speaker 1>a problem with the lack of the butt cheek? Did it?

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<v Speaker 1>Was it a Did it impede your sexual experience at all?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 2>And I mean it's made a funny story for themainder

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<v Speaker 2>of my days.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so funny that you you were making fun of

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<v Speaker 1>this guy for having no What the fuck was that?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you hear that? Just now?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, never mind, all right, we can't cut that product,

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<v Speaker 1>or we can leave an on a good book anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, Oh, it's just funny to me that you

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<v Speaker 1>were making fun of this guy, uh for like having

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<v Speaker 1>one butt cheek, and he got he was upset by that.

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<v Speaker 1>And now, however many years it's been since you stopped

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<v Speaker 1>talking to him, you continue you can you continue to

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<v Speaker 1>bully him for having one butt cheek?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he tried to kill me.

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<v Speaker 1>It's fine, he already tried to kill you.

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<v Speaker 2>He uh held me up against the wall by my

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<v Speaker 2>neck and then pushed a knife to my stomach. Oh Jesus, Ye, well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I think might have been all the anger

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<v Speaker 2>from his buttons being gone. I think it really like torn.

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<v Speaker 1>Apart or so this is did you like date this

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<v Speaker 1>guy or you were just kind of hooked out with him?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I did the guy year.

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<v Speaker 1>How did what? How did things escalate to that?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't. He was He's a little little unhinged. He

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<v Speaker 2>just kind of wanted to do the thing of being like,

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<v Speaker 2>I want to prove to you that I could kill you,

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<v Speaker 2>so that you're like kind of afraid of me, so

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna like kind of try.

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<v Speaker 3>To kill you.

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<v Speaker 1>Holy fuck.

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<v Speaker 2>We didn't stay together much longer after that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I feel like that would turn me off of

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<v Speaker 1>one cheeked men forever. I would if I were you,

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<v Speaker 1>I would forever look at, uh, the lack of two

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<v Speaker 1>cheeks as an indicator of something much darker.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we should like maybe on dating profiles or something

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<v Speaker 2>like all right, age, height, zodiac sign, what cheeks data?

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<v Speaker 1>Not necessarily I got there are probably guys listening to

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<v Speaker 1>this who only have one but cheet that are like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not all of us, but you're one for You're

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<v Speaker 1>one for one on single cheeked guys being maniacs. How's

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<v Speaker 1>your how's your dating life?

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<v Speaker 2>Now?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you with the two cheeks a two cheeker?

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<v Speaker 2>Yep, he's got He's got both of his cheek and

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<v Speaker 2>maybe a few extra in his basement.

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<v Speaker 1>That that that makes him sound worse than the first guy?

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<v Speaker 2>What you No? Not at all? He's great. We whip together.

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<v Speaker 1>That's good? Well, Crow, Is there anything else that you

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to talk about before we go?

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly, I think that was it I got. My answer

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<v Speaker 2>is great? Talking to you?

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<v Speaker 1>Great? Talking to you too. I wish you many more

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<v Speaker 1>years of not getting threatened to buy knife point and

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<v Speaker 1>of living a happy, healthy, beautiful life.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you do? What do you do with your life?

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<v Speaker 2>I love pull prime artists?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh cool? What do you? What can art you?

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<v Speaker 2>Mac so? I make a lot of it out of

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<v Speaker 2>recycled toys. I have a project with waste conservation of

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<v Speaker 2>teaching like classes at libraries and stuff of kids and adults,

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<v Speaker 2>or how to make different objects for things so they

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<v Speaker 2>don't go in the garbage?

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<v Speaker 1>Nice? What so? Like you take things that people you'll

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<v Speaker 1>take like a cup and turn it into a barbie.

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<v Speaker 2>More like you'll we'll take old barbies and tear them

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<v Speaker 2>apart and turn the heads in the ear rings. Or

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<v Speaker 2>my main thing is we'll take old like teddy bears

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<v Speaker 2>and stuff and we'll we'll gut them and everything, and

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<v Speaker 2>then we'll turn them into bags to backpacks.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh dude, you make the kind of ship from like

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<v Speaker 1>Sid's Room from toy stories.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I've heard that one a lot. That's a that's

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<v Speaker 2>a nickname.

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<v Speaker 1>So you make terrifying looking toys.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I've done that before too. Some of them are

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<v Speaker 2>genuinely really cute. But like a lot of times people

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<v Speaker 2>request that I make them a bag and they like

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<v Speaker 2>want an extra head out of it or something like, oh, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I could do that. I'm like, well, I got this

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<v Speaker 2>body lighting around, so like I made like an elephant

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<v Speaker 2>body baby head purse. That went's still for sett.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever made a doll with one but cheek?

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<v Speaker 1>That kind of sounds like it's in the same vein.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey I didn't, But that sounds like a very therapeutic

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<v Speaker 2>art project.

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<v Speaker 1>Or would it be like a reminder.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not sure. One of my recent art pieces that

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<v Speaker 2>I did is I took a big ball gown skirt,

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<v Speaker 2>and I like sewn a bunch of old toys and

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<v Speaker 2>stuff that was like from my house and stuff as

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<v Speaker 2>a kid, and some new ones too, And my partner

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<v Speaker 2>and I went out of the backyard and we lit

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<v Speaker 2>the toys and stuff on fire, so they're all singed

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<v Speaker 2>and melted and burned. And then I put it on

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<v Speaker 2>a mannequin and the piece is called let go, and

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<v Speaker 2>there was a little signe on the fid let go.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that. That's cool. Do you when you're looking

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<v Speaker 1>at the toys melting, do you are you imagining them

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<v Speaker 1>screaming in your head?

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<v Speaker 2>No? Not necessarily. It was kind of windy that day,

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<v Speaker 2>so as the toys are melting, I'm going, oh shit,

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<v Speaker 2>oh shit, oh shit. My partners like whacking fire with

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<v Speaker 2>a oven.

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<v Speaker 3>Mit.

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<v Speaker 1>Mmm, this is quite you. And this is your full

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<v Speaker 1>time job, is making these these crazy things.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I have an Etsy store and everything too, so

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<v Speaker 2>that's been like part of my uh income as well.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Drop your shiit. What's your Instagram.

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<v Speaker 2>Casual underscore crow?

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<v Speaker 1>Casual underscore crow. All right, I'll check out what's the

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<v Speaker 1>most fucked up looking thing you've ever made?

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<v Speaker 2>Um? Okay, so this one there's a two part series

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<v Speaker 2>where I had a Mario body that was a backpack

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<v Speaker 2>with Chuck E. Cheese's head, and that one was named

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<v Speaker 2>rat Face Stanley, and then there was another one that

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<v Speaker 2>was Luigi's body with Garfield's head that was garfo.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, are you afraid? Are you ever afraid that like

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<v Speaker 1>Nintendo is gonna come after you? Or who makes Garfield?

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<v Speaker 3>The Garfield kind kind of deal.

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<v Speaker 2>I've had copyright issues with like uh Etsy and stuff before,

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<v Speaker 2>but a lot of the stuff I could like definitely

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<v Speaker 2>say is parody. So there's yeah, but uh Etsy is

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<v Speaker 2>like original piece of iman, Like, oh no, oh no,

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<v Speaker 2>that's copyright. I'm like, this is a picture that I

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<v Speaker 2>like thinking of my turtles.

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<v Speaker 1>But now, okay, now before we go, do you have

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<v Speaker 1>what's your dream creation? What's your like thing that you

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<v Speaker 1>let's say you had unlimited resources to create the most

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<v Speaker 1>fucked up abomination that your your brain can conceive of?

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<v Speaker 1>What what? What's? What's? What are we doing?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm imagining like a whole Have you seen the the

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<v Speaker 2>art piece of the of the robot that bleeds and

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<v Speaker 2>cleans itself up?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I'm I'm going to look that up.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't remember the official name of that. It's really cool.

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<v Speaker 2>It's very sad, it's really cool. So I'm picturing like

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<v Speaker 2>a like a white room and then uh on the floor,

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<v Speaker 2>just like entirely melted mannequins, but there's still like parts

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<v Speaker 2>of their scalp and tufts of hair, so you know

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<v Speaker 2>what it was like supposed to be, although it's you know,

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<v Speaker 2>just a pile of like skin tones.

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<v Speaker 1>How long have you been doing this for? How does

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<v Speaker 1>one even get into this?

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<v Speaker 2>So I've done art for most of my life. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>twenty three right now, and I went to school for

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<v Speaker 2>graphic design and like kind of kicked and screened through

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<v Speaker 2>the whole thing. But the time I was homeless, so

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, well, I have to stay in college

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<v Speaker 2>because like I don't have anywhere else to go. So

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<v Speaker 2>I finished that degree and then I left, and I

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<v Speaker 2>was just like, man, don't I don't know what to do.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't really want to see your graphic design jobs.

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<v Speaker 2>So I had started doing this and I was lucky

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<v Speaker 2>enough on TikTok to kind of blow up a while ago,

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<v Speaker 2>and that was able to like kind of secure my

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<v Speaker 2>income that I was like bouncing around out sarch for

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<v Speaker 2>a while too, so I was really grateful to have

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<v Speaker 2>that and be able to like figure myself out.

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<v Speaker 1>That's awesome. It sounds like you've been through a ton

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<v Speaker 1>of bullshit. I'm glad to hear that you're you're thriving

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<v Speaker 1>doing something cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>What a casual underscore Crow? Yep, all right, man, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>check you out. I gotta do you have a picture

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<v Speaker 1>on there of the Luigi Garfield. That's what I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be looking for.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not sure there might be family.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you make Can you put my head on Spider

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<v Speaker 1>Man's body and Scooby Doo's legs?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, I would just need to like either find

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<v Speaker 2>all the parts who are like order it. I get

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<v Speaker 2>stuff for mikey Bay and stuff too of people that

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<v Speaker 2>are just like, well, I don't want to throw this

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<v Speaker 2>out and it's like broken too. Ways, I'm like, ah, part.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, No, I love this sounds like a cool idea.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna check you out, casual underscore Crow. All right, Crow,

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<v Speaker 1>is there anything else that you want to say to

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<v Speaker 1>the people of the computer or to me or to

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<v Speaker 1>God before we go.

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<v Speaker 2>See after sex, keep both of your butt cheeks. Have

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<v Speaker 2>a good night.

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<v Speaker 1>God, bless you, Carol, thank you all right, but my

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<v Speaker 1>feet he man's uh legs, Homer Simpson's penis, uh sonics

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<v Speaker 1>torso and give me what's ahead? Give me a head?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh the penguin from surfs Up's head. Let's do that.

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<v Speaker 4>All from J Wally Hello, Hello, Hi, Hey, what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>Not much? What what's up with you?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's it's it's a it's a lonely night for me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>And I was watching the stream and stuff, so I

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<v Speaker 4>figured I just call and chat with you.

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<v Speaker 1>What what's uh? Why is it so lonely?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm in a hotel right now, I'm on the road

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<v Speaker 4>away from home for work, and uh, I was just

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<v Speaker 4>watching the stream and stuff. Uh so yeah, that's why

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<v Speaker 4>I tried to call. And I didn't expect to be

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<v Speaker 4>on the line right now. I'm gonna I'm kind of scared.

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<v Speaker 1>What what are you traveling for for work? Okay? What

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<v Speaker 1>do you do? I?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh, I do boring government stuff for a specific place

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<v Speaker 4>in the world at the Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all right, you work for the government of Does

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<v Speaker 1>Canada have a government? I don't like, just what's going

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<v Speaker 1>on over there? Do you guys do stuff? What's going on?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh yeah, I guess we're just a bunch of happy

0:19:20.520 --> 0:19:24.439
<v Speaker 4>people drink maple syrup and stuff. But no, it's like

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<v Speaker 4>it's like a USA two point zero, but with less

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<v Speaker 4>guns and more thank you, more thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>Do do you feel? Do people say thank you more

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<v Speaker 1>in Canada than in the US?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, for sure. I went to the US a little bit,

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<v Speaker 4>and I mean when people order stuff in restaurant, you

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<v Speaker 4>rarely hear them say oh can I have this please?

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<v Speaker 4>And then thank you. It's more like, yeah, I'm going

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<v Speaker 4>to get that. But in Canada, if you don't say

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<v Speaker 4>please and thank you, you're like a big asshole, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So do you you're you're feeling lonely? Do you have

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<v Speaker 1>Do you in general? Do you have friends and family?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, no, it's just that I'm like probably ten

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<v Speaker 4>hours away from from my home right now, so I'm

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<v Speaker 4>just staying in a hotel by myself tonight. But no,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not lonely in general. I have a pretty decent

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<v Speaker 4>family and a really hot wife.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, So what the fuck are you calling me for?

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<v Speaker 1>Go call your hot wife.

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<v Speaker 4>She's at a dinner right now. So that's why I'm lonely.

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<v Speaker 4>She normally I would call her, but she's at a

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<v Speaker 4>dinner with some friends.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, that's a hilarious you Just the way

0:20:48.560 --> 0:20:51.040
<v Speaker 1>you described that was hilarious. You said, I have a

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<v Speaker 1>pretty decent family and a hot wife. So yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>like what makes them pretty decent?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I mean, it depends of your interpretation of pretty decent.

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<v Speaker 4>But for me, pretty decent is like very very good.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you know what's because when you say pretty decent,

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<v Speaker 1>that's like you you were like referring to your children

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<v Speaker 1>as like they're okay, which, by the way, is just

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a perfectly legitimate way.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh no, but I was more. I was more talking

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<v Speaker 4>about my extended family because I don't have any kids.

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<v Speaker 4>I just have a cat, a wife, and just like brothers,

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<v Speaker 4>sisters and parents, that's who I was referring to. But no,

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<v Speaker 4>we don't have any kids yet.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, where did you meet your hot wife?

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<v Speaker 4>You know you're asking that question, and I feel like

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<v Speaker 4>that's a great story to tell. I wasn't calling to

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<v Speaker 4>tell that story, but if you want to hear it

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<v Speaker 4>and tell you about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you said, were you calling for something? You weren't

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<v Speaker 1>calling for any particular reason.

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<v Speaker 4>Not really. I figured I was just gonna go on

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<v Speaker 4>the fly and see what would happen. But now that

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<v Speaker 4>you asked that question, I feel like it's a pretty decent,

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<v Speaker 4>decent story to tell.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, now that I know that for you, decent

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<v Speaker 1>is a good thing, I would love to hear the story.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I'll try to make it short. So I was

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<v Speaker 4>working out of the province, and so for the American listeners,

0:22:39.320 --> 0:22:45.000
<v Speaker 4>province it's just the Canadian word for states. So I

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<v Speaker 4>was working out of province on construction back in the days,

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<v Speaker 4>i'd say, like ten years ago, and I decided to

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<v Speaker 4>sell my car when I came back from in my

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<v Speaker 4>original province.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh.

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<v Speaker 4>So, I put my car on sale on a website

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<v Speaker 4>that's called the KEYGGI it's like Craigslist, I guess, but

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<v Speaker 4>we don't have Craigslist in Canada. So I was using

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<v Speaker 4>that website. So I came back home from work and

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<v Speaker 4>someone came to visit me to buy my car. And

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<v Speaker 4>it's that hot lady that came. So we spent a

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<v Speaker 4>couple hours together looking at the car drove and then

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<v Speaker 4>she wasn't sure if she was gonna buy it or not.

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<v Speaker 4>And she ended up deciding to buy it. So after

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<v Speaker 4>because I'm a good person, I provided her with after

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<v Speaker 4>sale consultation and some texts to understand how the car

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<v Speaker 4>was going if she she was all right with the

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<v Speaker 4>car and stuff. And a week later we went on

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<v Speaker 4>our first date. And now she's my wife. She's been

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<v Speaker 4>my wife for ten years.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, that's pretty cool. Well that's cool that you

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<v Speaker 1>still find her hot after ten years old.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean we're still pretty young too, so like I'm

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<v Speaker 4>twenty nine and she's twenty nine two, so I mean

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<v Speaker 4>we're not really old. So she's still hot and I

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<v Speaker 4>think she has a lot of hotness left in her,

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<v Speaker 4>if you know what I mean. So when people ask

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<v Speaker 4>where we meet, I say, well we meet. We met

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<v Speaker 4>on a car sales website. It's kind of weird, but

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<v Speaker 4>that's how it happened. Some people meet him Tinder or

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<v Speaker 4>Facebook dating. I guess we met on autotrader dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, that's cool that you guys could say a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of For some reason, people are like they think

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<v Speaker 1>of twenty nine as like old, which is crazy to me.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh yeah, I mean they some people do think that

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<v Speaker 4>it's kind of old. But for me. I don't think

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<v Speaker 4>of it like that. I still have a because one

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<v Speaker 4>thing I noticed is that when I turned eighteen, I

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<v Speaker 4>feel like everything after that is just a number. Like

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like I stayed pretty much the same person

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<v Speaker 4>from eighteen to now. But I'm just getting older with

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<v Speaker 4>the number, and also my body is getting shittier, but

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<v Speaker 4>like you know that, the brain kind of stays the same.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know if you know what I where I'm

0:25:46.520 --> 0:25:47.280
<v Speaker 4>getting at with that.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, do you feel as though you're the same

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<v Speaker 1>person at twenty nine as you were when you were nineteen?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, kind of yeah. I mean a little bit more

0:25:59.119 --> 0:26:04.080
<v Speaker 4>responsibility with like money and adulting shit, But like I

0:26:04.119 --> 0:26:06.399
<v Speaker 4>still feel like I'm the same person, because when you

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<v Speaker 4>compare like twelve years old to fifteen to sixteen to eighteen,

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<v Speaker 4>it feels like you're you're a different person every step

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<v Speaker 4>of the way. But like now that I'm twenty nine,

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<v Speaker 4>when I look back at when I was twenty, I

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<v Speaker 4>feel like same person, just different age number.

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<v Speaker 1>No hmmm, uh yeah, I mean that's good. Like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I every dude, I mean, for me,

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<v Speaker 1>every fucking month of my life, I feel like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a different person every month. I'm like, man, last month,

0:26:46.440 --> 0:26:49.840
<v Speaker 1>I was really fucking stupid, but this month I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 1>finally a real adult.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and what what is it that you did recently

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<v Speaker 4>that make you think of yourself as too good person

0:27:00.920 --> 0:27:04.480
<v Speaker 4>or as that you did something stupid? I'd like you

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<v Speaker 4>to share that with us.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, man, now you're the therapy. Get go. Let me

0:27:09.040 --> 0:27:13.240
<v Speaker 1>think that's a good question. Man, that's a good question.

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<v Speaker 1>I think. Ah, Man, just a lot of like, like

0:27:21.520 --> 0:27:24.520
<v Speaker 1>I know, I'll get into an argument with somebody and

0:27:24.520 --> 0:27:28.160
<v Speaker 1>then I'll be like, why was I upset about that thing?

0:27:29.000 --> 0:27:29.240
<v Speaker 3>You know?

0:27:30.160 --> 0:27:36.119
<v Speaker 1>Or like I'll uh uh, I don't know, just just

0:27:35.880 --> 0:27:37.679
<v Speaker 1>just I had a funck. I wish I had a

0:27:37.680 --> 0:27:43.480
<v Speaker 1>more specific example, but just general irresponsibility that I feel

0:27:43.520 --> 0:27:49.359
<v Speaker 1>as though I uh uh learned from each day.

0:27:50.520 --> 0:27:54.040
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, I get it. But I mean if if,

0:27:54.240 --> 0:27:56.919
<v Speaker 4>if you're not really able to find like a really

0:27:57.000 --> 0:28:01.120
<v Speaker 4>precise explanation, maybe you're not a thing as stupid as

0:28:01.440 --> 0:28:05.199
<v Speaker 4>you think you are. Right. Sometimes maybe it's just a

0:28:05.240 --> 0:28:07.760
<v Speaker 4>matter of stopping looking where you are in life and

0:28:07.800 --> 0:28:09.360
<v Speaker 4>being like, eh, the fuck I got it?

0:28:09.680 --> 0:28:14.040
<v Speaker 1>You know, Maybe maybe you're right. Maybe I'm too hard

0:28:14.080 --> 0:28:14.640
<v Speaker 1>on myself.

0:28:15.800 --> 0:28:19.480
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean, you're you're sitting I don't know if

0:28:19.520 --> 0:28:21.840
<v Speaker 4>I don't know if you're sitting at home right now,

0:28:21.920 --> 0:28:24.440
<v Speaker 4>or if it's like an office or anything. You don't

0:28:24.560 --> 0:28:28.040
<v Speaker 4>You don't have to say that, but you have to

0:28:28.080 --> 0:28:31.600
<v Speaker 4>look at what you've built. Right You have an audience

0:28:31.720 --> 0:28:36.160
<v Speaker 4>right now. People are are watching you and they're obviously

0:28:36.359 --> 0:28:39.240
<v Speaker 4>entertained by what you're doing. So I feel like you

0:28:39.280 --> 0:28:40.520
<v Speaker 4>should be proud of yourself.

0:28:40.560 --> 0:28:43.760
<v Speaker 1>No Ah, thanks man, geez, you guys really are a

0:28:43.800 --> 0:28:46.440
<v Speaker 1>lot nicer in Canada.

0:28:47.320 --> 0:28:52.719
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm trying to represent my fellow Canadian's friend.

0:28:52.880 --> 0:28:56.600
<v Speaker 1>Well, you know, man, you man, you really called in

0:28:56.760 --> 0:28:58.960
<v Speaker 1>like I'm alone in a hotel. I thought you were

0:28:58.960 --> 0:28:59.760
<v Speaker 1>like suicidal.

0:28:59.800 --> 0:28:59.960
<v Speaker 4>Man.

0:29:00.160 --> 0:29:02.520
<v Speaker 1>You called in like I'm alone in a hotel room

0:29:02.560 --> 0:29:05.960
<v Speaker 1>and what I'm gonna do? And I was like, you know,

0:29:06.080 --> 0:29:10.200
<v Speaker 1>be your friend for you know, ten minutes and here

0:29:10.240 --> 0:29:14.440
<v Speaker 1>and it's totally flipped. You've you've fucking you know, you

0:29:14.480 --> 0:29:15.400
<v Speaker 1>got into my brain.

0:29:16.600 --> 0:29:21.760
<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Yeah, well, I mean the helper always needs to

0:29:21.800 --> 0:29:23.080
<v Speaker 4>get help once in a while.

0:29:23.080 --> 0:29:25.960
<v Speaker 1>You know, what part of Canada are you in?

0:29:26.160 --> 0:29:26.240
<v Speaker 4>You?

0:29:26.280 --> 0:29:27.120
<v Speaker 1>Do you are?

0:29:27.160 --> 0:29:27.440
<v Speaker 3>You?

0:29:27.520 --> 0:29:31.560
<v Speaker 1>Are you anywhere near Toronto or Vancouver? Uh?

0:29:32.280 --> 0:29:37.000
<v Speaker 4>No, neither of neither of. I'm from the the only

0:29:37.440 --> 0:29:40.040
<v Speaker 4>French part of Canada.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, Montreal.

0:29:44.480 --> 0:29:48.400
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, well, Montreal is the biggest city of the province.

0:29:48.480 --> 0:29:48.680
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:29:49.640 --> 0:29:51.840
<v Speaker 1>Do you I do you speak are you? Like, do

0:29:51.840 --> 0:29:52.560
<v Speaker 1>you speak French?

0:29:53.680 --> 0:29:53.840
<v Speaker 3>Oh?

0:29:53.920 --> 0:29:57.480
<v Speaker 4>Yes, my first language is uh French. But I did

0:29:57.560 --> 0:30:04.760
<v Speaker 4>work for over three four years in English provinces, so

0:30:05.160 --> 0:30:08.800
<v Speaker 4>I'm able to learn English that way. Well.

0:30:08.800 --> 0:30:12.560
<v Speaker 1>It's funny because you I you your accent sounds Canadian,

0:30:12.600 --> 0:30:15.480
<v Speaker 1>but there's you also do sound a little European, maybe,

0:30:15.520 --> 0:30:17.080
<v Speaker 1>like like I would like if you told me you

0:30:17.080 --> 0:30:19.400
<v Speaker 1>were German, I would believe you.

0:30:20.000 --> 0:30:24.200
<v Speaker 4>Well, I I guess that's uh, that's probably the the

0:30:24.280 --> 0:30:30.240
<v Speaker 4>mixture of Canadian and uh, the French Canadian. Yeah, and

0:30:30.440 --> 0:30:35.160
<v Speaker 4>I also learned my English and Alberta, so it probably

0:30:35.200 --> 0:30:40.520
<v Speaker 4>sounds a little bit uh redneck Canadian. That's probably a

0:30:40.600 --> 0:30:42.960
<v Speaker 4>reason too. So I have like probably I guess, three

0:30:43.040 --> 0:30:45.680
<v Speaker 4>different accents in there. Mumm hmm.

0:30:46.320 --> 0:30:48.600
<v Speaker 1>So what does your wife do if you I still

0:30:48.760 --> 0:30:49.840
<v Speaker 1>don't really know what you do.

0:30:54.200 --> 0:30:58.120
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that that's pretty much it. I feel like it

0:30:58.160 --> 0:31:01.760
<v Speaker 4>would be too boring and more complicated to get into

0:31:01.800 --> 0:31:05.440
<v Speaker 4>that and in in back all and and that's not

0:31:05.560 --> 0:31:10.680
<v Speaker 4>really the important thing. But my lovely hot wife works

0:31:11.600 --> 0:31:16.640
<v Speaker 4>in uh, I guess, in the hospital healthcare kind of

0:31:16.800 --> 0:31:20.280
<v Speaker 4>kind of thing. She do tests for hearts, brains, and

0:31:20.320 --> 0:31:25.200
<v Speaker 4>nerves and ship some smart people. Thing that I can't

0:31:25.240 --> 0:31:25.960
<v Speaker 4>really understand.

0:31:25.960 --> 0:31:33.080
<v Speaker 1>You know, sounds hot what I said, it sounds hot.

0:31:34.520 --> 0:31:38.000
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it kind of sounds hot. Because one one of

0:31:38.040 --> 0:31:43.440
<v Speaker 4>the tests she actually does is for for I guess,

0:31:43.520 --> 0:31:48.600
<v Speaker 4>guys in general that have problem for their for their

0:31:48.680 --> 0:31:54.000
<v Speaker 4>wieners to go up, you know, racild dysfunction. So there's

0:31:54.040 --> 0:32:00.560
<v Speaker 4>a test that she puts electrodes on those guys is penises,

0:32:01.560 --> 0:32:04.840
<v Speaker 4>and she fucking shocks them.

0:32:05.000 --> 0:32:08.320
<v Speaker 1>Have you ever asked her to do that to you?

0:32:08.360 --> 0:32:13.520
<v Speaker 4>No, I thought about it, but I never asked her.

0:32:15.600 --> 0:32:18.760
<v Speaker 4>But now that you say it, I mean, I guess

0:32:18.360 --> 0:32:20.440
<v Speaker 4>I should.

0:32:20.480 --> 0:32:23.520
<v Speaker 1>I well, I don't know. I don't know if is that.

0:32:25.000 --> 0:32:27.640
<v Speaker 1>I think in the US, at least, like there's a

0:32:27.720 --> 0:32:33.240
<v Speaker 1>thing you can't like be the patient of one of

0:32:33.280 --> 0:32:36.600
<v Speaker 1>your family members. I think, like you can't have like

0:32:36.640 --> 0:32:41.120
<v Speaker 1>your dad be your doctor and shit. But like I

0:32:41.120 --> 0:32:43.560
<v Speaker 1>don't know, Canada, there's no fucking laws or anything, so

0:32:43.600 --> 0:32:44.560
<v Speaker 1>you could probably do it there.

0:32:47.080 --> 0:32:47.360
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:32:47.680 --> 0:32:51.800
<v Speaker 4>Well, with like I mean, if I don't know if

0:32:51.800 --> 0:32:54.000
<v Speaker 4>you have a girlfriend or not, and you don't have

0:32:54.080 --> 0:32:56.560
<v Speaker 4>to divulge that information. But I mean, if you had

0:32:56.600 --> 0:33:01.200
<v Speaker 4>a girlfriend and she she was to be like a

0:33:01.200 --> 0:33:06.760
<v Speaker 4>professional at shocking penises, yeah, would you like and and

0:33:06.880 --> 0:33:10.640
<v Speaker 4>there's no like there's no issue with like policies and

0:33:10.760 --> 0:33:14.200
<v Speaker 4>rules in regulation and like she's free to do anything

0:33:14.320 --> 0:33:18.560
<v Speaker 4>she wants. Would you like ask her to shock your penis?

0:33:20.720 --> 0:33:27.160
<v Speaker 1>Ah, well, your your wife. Is she shocking hard penises

0:33:27.240 --> 0:33:28.280
<v Speaker 1>or soft penises?

0:33:29.040 --> 0:33:31.960
<v Speaker 4>No, she's I assume.

0:33:31.640 --> 0:33:33.720
<v Speaker 1>Well if it's because if it's guys who are having

0:33:34.000 --> 0:33:37.680
<v Speaker 1>a Rechtyle's function, I assume I assume she's shocking soft

0:33:37.760 --> 0:33:39.960
<v Speaker 1>penises to make to like wake them up, make them

0:33:39.960 --> 0:33:40.440
<v Speaker 1>hard again.

0:33:41.600 --> 0:33:41.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:33:41.920 --> 0:33:47.000
<v Speaker 4>I I well, I mean I'm not really sure, but

0:33:47.840 --> 0:33:52.480
<v Speaker 4>I guess if she's doing it because they can't have

0:33:52.560 --> 0:33:56.840
<v Speaker 4>a boner. I mean, I I guess they're doing it

0:33:56.920 --> 0:33:58.320
<v Speaker 4>to test the nerves.

0:33:58.640 --> 0:34:00.720
<v Speaker 1>And I haven't asked back. I have an answer to

0:34:00.760 --> 0:34:03.640
<v Speaker 1>your question. The answer is no. And here's why, because

0:34:06.040 --> 0:34:07.920
<v Speaker 1>of one of two things is gonna happen. Right, Either

0:34:08.000 --> 0:34:10.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna like it or I'm not. And if I

0:34:10.800 --> 0:34:13.640
<v Speaker 1>don't like it, it's probably gonna be an unpleasant experience

0:34:13.680 --> 0:34:15.839
<v Speaker 1>for me, and if I do like it now, I'm

0:34:15.840 --> 0:34:18.319
<v Speaker 1>gonna have to fucking shock my penis every time I

0:34:18.360 --> 0:34:25.080
<v Speaker 1>wanna come. And so I would I would rather even

0:34:25.120 --> 0:34:29.359
<v Speaker 1>if like it was some undiscovered thing that is very

0:34:29.360 --> 0:34:35.200
<v Speaker 1>sexually pleasurable, I'd rather be ignorant to it because if

0:34:35.280 --> 0:34:37.000
<v Speaker 1>if I realized that's what I was into, I'd have

0:34:37.040 --> 0:34:39.440
<v Speaker 1>to buy a bunch of expensive equipment and i'd have

0:34:39.520 --> 0:34:42.439
<v Speaker 1>to read, you know, go wash the pads every five,

0:34:42.680 --> 0:34:45.120
<v Speaker 1>you know times, and it'd be it'd be a whole thing.

0:34:45.160 --> 0:34:47.919
<v Speaker 1>So I don't think it's a beneficial No benefit could

0:34:47.920 --> 0:34:52.799
<v Speaker 1>come from it. Yeah, what about you? Would you let

0:34:52.840 --> 0:34:54.440
<v Speaker 1>your wife shock your penis?

0:34:55.920 --> 0:34:57.920
<v Speaker 4>I guess I guess i'd try it.

0:34:58.200 --> 0:35:00.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she's a professional penis show.

0:35:00.960 --> 0:35:03.560
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean she knows what is. She knows what

0:35:03.600 --> 0:35:10.399
<v Speaker 4>she's doing, right, What like I mean the question, I mean,

0:35:10.640 --> 0:35:14.880
<v Speaker 4>I feel like your response is is not a great

0:35:14.920 --> 0:35:20.600
<v Speaker 4>one because I feel like you decided decide more on

0:35:20.600 --> 0:35:24.560
<v Speaker 4>on on the fear side of your brain than like

0:35:25.160 --> 0:35:29.680
<v Speaker 4>being adventurous. Uh, don't you think you're Like? Yeah, I

0:35:30.239 --> 0:35:33.080
<v Speaker 4>feel like you prefer not to try just in case

0:35:33.160 --> 0:35:37.399
<v Speaker 4>I like it. But what what's bad about liking it?

0:35:37.719 --> 0:35:41.560
<v Speaker 4>You know, like, what are you afraid of about liking

0:35:41.560 --> 0:35:42.760
<v Speaker 4>your penis getting shot?

0:35:43.880 --> 0:35:46.520
<v Speaker 1>Dude? Will you be my therapist? I actually need you

0:35:46.560 --> 0:35:52.759
<v Speaker 1>in my life to tell me these things, correct, you

0:35:52.760 --> 0:35:54.319
<v Speaker 1>know what. I don't know why, I don't know where.

0:35:54.360 --> 0:35:57.279
<v Speaker 1>Over the years, I've like just lost myself. You know,

0:35:57.520 --> 0:36:00.640
<v Speaker 1>You're right, man, You're right, I do know what. I'm

0:36:00.680 --> 0:36:02.839
<v Speaker 1>being a little bit serious here. I I do live

0:36:02.880 --> 0:36:05.560
<v Speaker 1>a lot of I I you know, I I put

0:36:05.640 --> 0:36:09.719
<v Speaker 1>on a show like I'm you know, uh uh, not

0:36:09.920 --> 0:36:13.880
<v Speaker 1>scared of anything. But I've been living by fear too much.

0:36:13.920 --> 0:36:16.799
<v Speaker 1>And this thing that we're talking about right now, of

0:36:16.840 --> 0:36:18.800
<v Speaker 1>me saying that I would be too scared to shock

0:36:18.840 --> 0:36:22.719
<v Speaker 1>my penis is a great example of that. And you're right.

0:36:22.760 --> 0:36:24.360
<v Speaker 1>I needed you to tell me that I'm going to

0:36:24.400 --> 0:36:30.000
<v Speaker 1>try to stop living by my fear and if, for

0:36:30.040 --> 0:36:33.879
<v Speaker 1>whatever reason, we get into a situation where your wife

0:36:33.960 --> 0:36:34.480
<v Speaker 1>asks me.

0:36:35.960 --> 0:36:40.560
<v Speaker 4>To shock my penis, y, Yeah, I don't feel like

0:36:40.800 --> 0:36:44.719
<v Speaker 4>my wife would would ask you to shock your penis.

0:36:44.760 --> 0:36:48.600
<v Speaker 4>But I was more talking about like your wife, if

0:36:48.640 --> 0:36:53.840
<v Speaker 4>you had one, right, like my wife unfortunately is not

0:36:53.960 --> 0:37:00.399
<v Speaker 4>for rent or for sale. So that's that's number one,

0:37:00.520 --> 0:37:04.600
<v Speaker 4>but I would encourage you to find yourself a wife

0:37:04.640 --> 0:37:07.480
<v Speaker 4>that could shock your penis. But coming back to that fear, I.

0:37:07.520 --> 0:37:10.200
<v Speaker 1>Made a picture of you with that quote underneath it

0:37:10.239 --> 0:37:11.879
<v Speaker 1>to look at every morning when I wake up.

0:37:12.960 --> 0:37:16.360
<v Speaker 4>Do you think that the costume and the face paint

0:37:16.480 --> 0:37:20.680
<v Speaker 4>you put is a way for you to like express

0:37:20.719 --> 0:37:27.000
<v Speaker 4>your personality without actually being yourself, because yeah, you're afraid

0:37:27.120 --> 0:37:30.320
<v Speaker 4>to express who you are wild being yourself.

0:37:30.960 --> 0:37:35.600
<v Speaker 1>No, it's not a fear thing, but it's a I mean, look,

0:37:35.640 --> 0:37:37.800
<v Speaker 1>most most people who are going to hear this conversation

0:37:37.920 --> 0:37:40.120
<v Speaker 1>right now, they hear it on audio, so they don't

0:37:40.120 --> 0:37:42.880
<v Speaker 1>even like know that I'm wearing a costume right now.

0:37:42.920 --> 0:37:47.920
<v Speaker 1>It's it's my voice, it's me. But you know, I mean,

0:37:47.960 --> 0:37:50.560
<v Speaker 1>as far as the costume goes, h well, I just

0:37:50.760 --> 0:37:53.279
<v Speaker 1>look if I if I had like a if I

0:37:53.320 --> 0:37:55.719
<v Speaker 1>got on here and I was like, hey, folks, I'm

0:37:55.920 --> 0:37:59.680
<v Speaker 1>Lyle and this is the Lyle Show starring me Lyle,

0:38:00.080 --> 0:38:03.239
<v Speaker 1>you know, I'd feel like such a fucking douchebag. I

0:38:03.280 --> 0:38:07.480
<v Speaker 1>don't want to do that. I like being a weird, unexplainable,

0:38:09.360 --> 0:38:14.200
<v Speaker 1>cryptid thing. Ye, I'm like a little creature. It's fun.

0:38:14.320 --> 0:38:16.640
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And that's yeah, I guess, and that that's how

0:38:16.680 --> 0:38:22.360
<v Speaker 4>you were able to become famous by being the therapy gecko.

0:38:22.719 --> 0:38:25.280
<v Speaker 1>Right, what's in what's in the mini bar of this hotel?

0:38:27.160 --> 0:38:32.200
<v Speaker 4>Uh? Do you mean like in my room?

0:38:33.080 --> 0:38:34.360
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:38:34.520 --> 0:38:37.520
<v Speaker 4>No, there's a mini bars in hotels aren't really a

0:38:37.560 --> 0:38:39.080
<v Speaker 4>thing in Canada, unfortunately, I.

0:38:39.040 --> 0:38:43.759
<v Speaker 1>Guess there's nothing in there. It's just like an empty refrigerator.

0:38:43.800 --> 0:38:47.520
<v Speaker 1>Are you a drinker? Are Canadians big drinkers?

0:38:47.880 --> 0:38:48.440
<v Speaker 2>Uh?

0:38:48.560 --> 0:38:55.280
<v Speaker 4>They I'd say, yeah, I guess, I kid, probably probably

0:38:55.320 --> 0:38:58.160
<v Speaker 4>more than in the US.

0:38:59.200 --> 0:38:59.399
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:38:59.440 --> 0:39:03.880
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, especially i'd say in the eastern part of Canada.

0:39:04.080 --> 0:39:06.840
<v Speaker 4>I guess we're pretty big beer drinker.

0:39:07.840 --> 0:39:08.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:39:09.440 --> 0:39:15.719
<v Speaker 4>But yeah, Is there is there anything else that you

0:39:15.800 --> 0:39:17.480
<v Speaker 4>wanted to share with me tonight?

0:39:18.520 --> 0:39:21.080
<v Speaker 1>You're you are? You were really pulling the fucking reverse

0:39:21.120 --> 0:39:25.160
<v Speaker 1>Uno card on me right now. I was just about

0:39:25.160 --> 0:39:26.239
<v Speaker 1>to say. I was like, all right, what do I

0:39:26.280 --> 0:39:28.480
<v Speaker 1>know about you? You? You have a hot wife who

0:39:28.520 --> 0:39:35.880
<v Speaker 1>shocks people's penises. Yeah, you work for the Canadian governments. Uh,

0:39:35.920 --> 0:39:38.040
<v Speaker 1>you're in a hotel room right now?

0:39:38.560 --> 0:39:38.759
<v Speaker 3>Wait?

0:39:38.800 --> 0:39:39.640
<v Speaker 1>I forgot your name.

0:39:42.840 --> 0:39:45.200
<v Speaker 4>You can call me j J.

0:39:46.320 --> 0:39:47.880
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't know Jay. Is there anything else? You

0:39:47.880 --> 0:39:50.120
<v Speaker 1>seem like an interesting guy, I know that you're twenty nine.

0:39:50.280 --> 0:39:52.680
<v Speaker 1>Is there anything else that you want to say or

0:39:52.800 --> 0:39:54.040
<v Speaker 1>tell us before we go?

0:39:55.040 --> 0:39:58.720
<v Speaker 4>No, I I feel like I'll let some other people

0:39:59.440 --> 0:40:04.000
<v Speaker 4>share their live story with you. But uh, it was

0:40:04.080 --> 0:40:07.560
<v Speaker 4>great talking to you and also fun. Fun fact, for

0:40:07.600 --> 0:40:11.600
<v Speaker 4>the last week, I've been going to sleep while listening

0:40:11.640 --> 0:40:15.200
<v Speaker 4>to your podcast because your voice is it's so calming.

0:40:16.120 --> 0:40:19.680
<v Speaker 4>Thanks man, And I know you're wondering, but no, I

0:40:19.960 --> 0:40:23.520
<v Speaker 4>I haven't had any wet dreams because I've been listening

0:40:23.520 --> 0:40:24.080
<v Speaker 4>to your party.

0:40:24.800 --> 0:40:25.799
<v Speaker 1>I was wondering that.

0:40:26.800 --> 0:40:34.080
<v Speaker 4>Because I know you were I just know it. I

0:40:34.200 --> 0:40:36.520
<v Speaker 4>read you like a book, that's.

0:40:36.320 --> 0:40:38.280
<v Speaker 1>All you know. I like you, man. I totally thought

0:40:38.320 --> 0:40:39.759
<v Speaker 1>this was going to be a bummer and I would

0:40:39.760 --> 0:40:43.200
<v Speaker 1>have to convince you to, you know, fucking put the

0:40:43.239 --> 0:40:47.120
<v Speaker 1>pills down. But you, you, you convinced me to fucking

0:40:47.160 --> 0:40:52.520
<v Speaker 1>do that. So well. Thanks, thank you. Let me know what,

0:40:53.040 --> 0:40:56.360
<v Speaker 1>uh you know where where I can pay you for

0:40:56.400 --> 0:40:58.400
<v Speaker 1>your services? Just kidding, I'm not gonna do that, but

0:41:00.080 --> 0:41:05.200
<v Speaker 1>ja from from from the French Canadian Province. Good talking

0:41:05.239 --> 0:41:08.960
<v Speaker 1>to you, man, and keep living your your best life.

0:41:09.120 --> 0:41:10.600
<v Speaker 1>Do you feel less lonely now?

0:41:12.080 --> 0:41:12.279
<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

0:41:12.280 --> 0:41:16.799
<v Speaker 4>I do feel less lonely. But I also hope that

0:41:17.960 --> 0:41:21.880
<v Speaker 4>you will from from now on, you'll start, uh living

0:41:21.960 --> 0:41:26.680
<v Speaker 4>your life a little bit further away from the fear

0:41:26.760 --> 0:41:29.880
<v Speaker 4>side of your brain and be more adventurous.

0:41:30.000 --> 0:41:33.040
<v Speaker 1>All right, all right, I will don't need to pay me.

0:41:33.840 --> 0:41:36.040
<v Speaker 4>You don't need to pay me. You just you just

0:41:36.120 --> 0:41:40.799
<v Speaker 4>needed to do that, and and it'll it'll make me

0:41:40.880 --> 0:41:41.520
<v Speaker 4>go to heaven.

0:41:42.120 --> 0:41:46.120
<v Speaker 1>Right, I will shock my penis so that you can

0:41:46.160 --> 0:41:46.640
<v Speaker 1>go to heaven.

0:41:48.200 --> 0:41:52.120
<v Speaker 4>That's great. My my hot wife and and and myself

0:41:52.800 --> 0:41:55.319
<v Speaker 4>will be happy that you shocked your penis.

0:41:56.480 --> 0:42:02.800
<v Speaker 1>Hey, stay, stay frosting. Hey, you do see. I know

0:42:02.840 --> 0:42:05.839
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna like it. I know I'm gonna like it,

0:42:07.120 --> 0:42:09.760
<v Speaker 1>And then I have to fucking go on Amazon and search.

0:42:09.760 --> 0:42:12.319
<v Speaker 1>I don't even know what the medical term is for

0:42:12.400 --> 0:42:16.720
<v Speaker 1>a penis shocking machine, and it probably costs several hundreds

0:42:16.719 --> 0:42:21.319
<v Speaker 1>of dollars. But that's fear talking. God damn it, and

0:42:21.360 --> 0:42:22.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm not living by that anymore.

0:42:24.080 --> 0:42:27.760
<v Speaker 3>Paul from Caroline.

0:42:28.880 --> 0:42:34.359
<v Speaker 1>Hello, whoa, what's up?

0:42:36.040 --> 0:42:37.480
<v Speaker 3>I got in that's crazy.

0:42:38.040 --> 0:42:39.080
<v Speaker 1>How you doing, Caroline?

0:42:40.239 --> 0:42:41.799
<v Speaker 3>I'm doing pretty good. How are you doing?

0:42:42.520 --> 0:42:44.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm doing good? Have we ever spoken before, Caroline?

0:42:45.600 --> 0:42:46.120
<v Speaker 2>No, we have not.

0:42:47.719 --> 0:42:51.279
<v Speaker 1>Well, Uh, what's up? With you. What's going on?

0:42:52.719 --> 0:42:56.799
<v Speaker 3>Oh, you know, just living life, trying to exist.

0:42:57.160 --> 0:43:04.359
<v Speaker 1>Okay, living life and trying to exist. That's the best

0:43:04.360 --> 0:43:06.520
<v Speaker 1>thing you could ever try. That's really That's really what

0:43:06.560 --> 0:43:08.920
<v Speaker 1>everybody's doing, whether they know they are or not.

0:43:10.400 --> 0:43:11.520
<v Speaker 3>That's fair, that's fair.

0:43:13.200 --> 0:43:15.920
<v Speaker 1>It's totally cool. If not, we can, uh, you know,

0:43:16.040 --> 0:43:18.000
<v Speaker 1>just shoot the ship. But is there anything in particular

0:43:18.040 --> 0:43:19.440
<v Speaker 1>that you called in to want to talk about?

0:43:20.680 --> 0:43:25.359
<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Actually, uh so, uh have a therapist, I rail,

0:43:25.400 --> 0:43:27.279
<v Speaker 3>but why not talk to a get goo too about it?

0:43:27.320 --> 0:43:27.520
<v Speaker 3>You know?

0:43:28.160 --> 0:43:28.480
<v Speaker 1>Sure?

0:43:30.160 --> 0:43:35.719
<v Speaker 3>So? Uh, I'm a lesbian woo uh and I've been

0:43:35.760 --> 0:43:40.960
<v Speaker 3>dating my girlfriend for six years nice and we are

0:43:42.680 --> 0:43:47.000
<v Speaker 3>trying to start getting into like open relationships stuff. Oh okay,

0:43:49.040 --> 0:43:52.680
<v Speaker 3>and it's really scary.

0:43:53.680 --> 0:43:59.400
<v Speaker 1>Mmmm mmm tell me tell okay, so tell me what

0:43:59.520 --> 0:44:02.960
<v Speaker 1>the uh uh? What led up to the trying?

0:44:03.239 --> 0:44:03.640
<v Speaker 3>Who?

0:44:03.680 --> 0:44:06.680
<v Speaker 1>Who brought it up? What? What? How did you? How

0:44:06.680 --> 0:44:07.359
<v Speaker 1>did you get here?

0:44:08.600 --> 0:44:13.879
<v Speaker 3>I she brought it up first? Actually she so again,

0:44:13.920 --> 0:44:15.960
<v Speaker 3>like about a year after us dating, she was just

0:44:16.040 --> 0:44:20.040
<v Speaker 3>kind of like, hey, I think I'm a sexual and

0:44:20.080 --> 0:44:22.400
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, okay, well I'm not, but I like what

0:44:22.400 --> 0:44:24.560
<v Speaker 3>we have going on. And we've been riding that for

0:44:25.600 --> 0:44:28.760
<v Speaker 3>about five years really?

0:44:30.080 --> 0:44:32.840
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, m okay, Yeah.

0:44:33.880 --> 0:44:35.520
<v Speaker 3>So I don't know. It's some of those things like

0:44:36.120 --> 0:44:37.960
<v Speaker 3>the more I've looked into it, the more I've realized

0:44:38.040 --> 0:44:42.560
<v Speaker 3>other people deal with this, and I wanted to become

0:44:42.600 --> 0:44:44.719
<v Speaker 3>like a norm of like, hey, like it's okay to

0:44:44.960 --> 0:44:46.560
<v Speaker 3>be nominogamous.

0:44:46.960 --> 0:44:51.640
<v Speaker 1>Mm. So your girlfriend, So your girlfriend told you she

0:44:51.680 --> 0:44:54.000
<v Speaker 1>was a sexual, you said, five years ago? And so

0:44:55.040 --> 0:44:56.759
<v Speaker 1>have you not had then?

0:44:57.560 --> 0:44:57.759
<v Speaker 2>Oh?

0:44:57.880 --> 0:45:00.840
<v Speaker 3>No, no, it's been it's been pu it was January

0:45:00.920 --> 0:45:02.920
<v Speaker 3>or last year, not that I'm keeping tracks.

0:45:03.080 --> 0:45:07.360
<v Speaker 1>Okay, And so was it? So did she bring it

0:45:07.440 --> 0:45:10.040
<v Speaker 1>up as kind of a like, listen, I'm asexual, and

0:45:10.120 --> 0:45:12.840
<v Speaker 1>I know that you have a a desire which I

0:45:12.880 --> 0:45:16.279
<v Speaker 1>cannot fail, and I I love you and want you

0:45:16.320 --> 0:45:18.680
<v Speaker 1>to be able to fulfill your desire, So we should

0:45:18.719 --> 0:45:21.960
<v Speaker 1>open open the gates essentially.

0:45:22.040 --> 0:45:25.080
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Like she just she's she just knows that there's

0:45:25.120 --> 0:45:29.080
<v Speaker 3>like things that she can't provide for me. But we

0:45:29.160 --> 0:45:31.600
<v Speaker 3>have a very healthy and happy relationship otherwise.

0:45:32.040 --> 0:45:37.120
<v Speaker 1>Right, So what you're saying, you're scared? Why are you?

0:45:37.400 --> 0:45:40.680
<v Speaker 1>What you tell me what the scaredness is about?

0:45:41.280 --> 0:45:43.719
<v Speaker 3>It's just the unknown. And also haven't like tried to

0:45:43.880 --> 0:45:46.720
<v Speaker 3>date or flirt or hook up with anybody in six years,

0:45:47.239 --> 0:45:48.280
<v Speaker 3>so you know it's kind of weird.

0:45:49.640 --> 0:45:52.960
<v Speaker 1>Well, is that is is the idea of like, I

0:45:53.000 --> 0:45:56.120
<v Speaker 1>don't know what your what the game plan would be,

0:45:56.200 --> 0:46:00.239
<v Speaker 1>but is the idea of like going hopping on the

0:46:00.320 --> 0:46:04.400
<v Speaker 1>tinder or the the going to the club or doing

0:46:04.480 --> 0:46:07.280
<v Speaker 1>whatever to try to go and like hook up with people.

0:46:07.320 --> 0:46:09.239
<v Speaker 1>Is that is that like an exciting idea to you

0:46:09.320 --> 0:46:09.600
<v Speaker 1>at all?

0:46:12.120 --> 0:46:17.680
<v Speaker 3>A little bit like I like, like I like things

0:46:17.719 --> 0:46:21.799
<v Speaker 3>started with so that's nice, but like I'm just a

0:46:21.920 --> 0:46:24.160
<v Speaker 3>generally awkward person.

0:46:25.040 --> 0:46:33.880
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmmm hmm. Yeah. Well, well if you're if the

0:46:33.920 --> 0:46:38.280
<v Speaker 1>whole thing is like, oh I'm I hate the idea

0:46:38.360 --> 0:46:41.399
<v Speaker 1>of going out and trying to get laid, is that it?

0:46:42.400 --> 0:46:44.319
<v Speaker 1>Or is that not yet? But is that a part

0:46:44.320 --> 0:46:49.480
<v Speaker 1>of it for me? Yeah?

0:46:50.120 --> 0:46:52.440
<v Speaker 3>No, not really, because like I don't know, I'm like,

0:46:52.480 --> 0:46:54.960
<v Speaker 3>I'm not really like a one night stand kind of person.

0:46:55.239 --> 0:46:56.879
<v Speaker 3>I've done it a couple of times and always felt

0:46:56.920 --> 0:46:59.520
<v Speaker 3>really weird and bad. Okay, but it's also when I

0:46:59.560 --> 0:47:01.360
<v Speaker 3>was trying to be straight and hook me up with

0:47:01.440 --> 0:47:08.120
<v Speaker 3>guys and that sucked no offenseman, So so then what

0:47:08.400 --> 0:47:14.560
<v Speaker 3>tell me, what is what's your ideal situation? I guess

0:47:14.840 --> 0:47:20.600
<v Speaker 3>someone like that I'm like friends with that we can

0:47:20.640 --> 0:47:25.440
<v Speaker 3>hook up with, like you know, yeah, but also like

0:47:25.520 --> 0:47:28.239
<v Speaker 3>not like she like again like my girlfriend, like she

0:47:28.320 --> 0:47:29.839
<v Speaker 3>wants to be like aware, like it's not some big

0:47:29.880 --> 0:47:32.080
<v Speaker 3>secret thing. But also I don't think she's like really

0:47:32.120 --> 0:47:34.000
<v Speaker 3>wanting to be like, oh I have to know every

0:47:34.000 --> 0:47:35.640
<v Speaker 3>single detail of what's happening.

0:47:36.360 --> 0:47:45.719
<v Speaker 1>Okay, are you like, what's your what's your therapist told you?

0:47:45.920 --> 0:47:48.279
<v Speaker 1>You said you've talked to a therapist? What do they say.

0:47:49.600 --> 0:47:53.000
<v Speaker 3>That? Well, wait, we didn't get a ton into it.

0:47:53.080 --> 0:47:56.799
<v Speaker 3>She was just kind of more affirming the like that

0:47:56.880 --> 0:47:59.239
<v Speaker 3>it's okay to be scared and it's okay to be

0:48:01.120 --> 0:48:06.040
<v Speaker 3>uncomfortable with things like this, and like, good job me

0:48:06.200 --> 0:48:10.160
<v Speaker 3>and my girlfriends for trying to start something new and

0:48:10.719 --> 0:48:12.160
<v Speaker 3>be open and communicate about it.

0:48:13.480 --> 0:48:15.439
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I mean.

0:48:15.320 --> 0:48:20.120
<v Speaker 3>And she recommended a She recommended a book an audiobook

0:48:20.160 --> 0:48:26.239
<v Speaker 3>I've been listening to it called panned pan Secure by

0:48:26.520 --> 0:48:30.200
<v Speaker 3>Oh gosh, what's the what's the author's name, Jessica Firn

0:48:30.520 --> 0:48:34.680
<v Speaker 3>pan Secure by Jessica Fern. It's all about different consensual

0:48:34.760 --> 0:48:35.560
<v Speaker 3>non monogamy.

0:48:36.560 --> 0:48:42.040
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm, okay, what's it? Pan secure? Yeah?

0:48:42.080 --> 0:48:44.160
<v Speaker 3>Sorry, polysecure polysecure, Oh.

0:48:44.040 --> 0:48:47.480
<v Speaker 1>Poly secure, poly secure. Okay, so you're trying to practice

0:48:47.520 --> 0:48:52.640
<v Speaker 1>what what what they call ethical non monogamy? Yeah, okay,

0:48:52.719 --> 0:48:53.120
<v Speaker 1>And like.

0:48:53.400 --> 0:48:55.160
<v Speaker 3>From what I've listened to of this book so far,

0:48:55.200 --> 0:48:57.440
<v Speaker 3>it makes it seem like it's actually something that like

0:48:58.680 --> 0:49:03.440
<v Speaker 3>a lot of people might benefit from, I'm sure, and

0:49:03.520 --> 0:49:06.120
<v Speaker 3>like it's just not like a social norm and there's

0:49:06.160 --> 0:49:10.000
<v Speaker 3>a lot of I guess, stigma around it and misunderstanding

0:49:10.040 --> 0:49:12.920
<v Speaker 3>of what that means because there's so many Like the

0:49:12.960 --> 0:49:14.520
<v Speaker 3>things that I've learned from this book so far is

0:49:14.520 --> 0:49:17.840
<v Speaker 3>that there's so many different levels of consensual non monogamy.

0:49:19.400 --> 0:49:22.640
<v Speaker 1>Mmmm, what tell me about the like, like, is there

0:49:22.680 --> 0:49:25.279
<v Speaker 1>an I don't know, there's a stupid question, but is

0:49:25.280 --> 0:49:30.000
<v Speaker 1>there like a level that you identify with on these

0:49:30.040 --> 0:49:32.120
<v Speaker 1>on these these levels that have been laid out for you?

0:49:33.160 --> 0:49:35.319
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, No, definitely, that's not a stupid question at all.

0:49:36.239 --> 0:49:41.600
<v Speaker 3>I think it's kind of more of like there's like monogamish.

0:49:40.920 --> 0:49:43.400
<v Speaker 1>And monogamish.

0:49:44.360 --> 0:49:44.560
<v Speaker 2>Hate.

0:49:45.800 --> 0:49:47.520
<v Speaker 3>I hate that that's the term because it sounds no,

0:49:47.560 --> 0:49:48.400
<v Speaker 3>what do you mean you hate that?

0:49:48.400 --> 0:49:51.240
<v Speaker 1>That's the term. That's a fantastic term, monogamish.

0:49:51.320 --> 0:49:52.960
<v Speaker 3>And also I didn't come up with it so I

0:49:53.440 --> 0:49:53.839
<v Speaker 3>learned it.

0:49:54.239 --> 0:49:56.760
<v Speaker 1>That's you never heard that before. That's a great term

0:49:56.840 --> 0:49:58.480
<v Speaker 1>to describe something.

0:49:59.360 --> 0:50:02.239
<v Speaker 3>It's you know, agama slash like open relationship where like

0:50:02.600 --> 0:50:08.320
<v Speaker 3>most of the emotional and most like the emotional support

0:50:08.560 --> 0:50:12.600
<v Speaker 3>you get comes from your main relationship. Again, I pardon

0:50:12.680 --> 0:50:14.920
<v Speaker 3>anyone who's listening who I'm getting this wrong. I don't

0:50:14.920 --> 0:50:20.600
<v Speaker 3>want to misquote the book, but you get essentially your

0:50:20.719 --> 0:50:26.360
<v Speaker 3>emotional support from your main partner, and then any sexual

0:50:26.400 --> 0:50:28.920
<v Speaker 3>support that you don't feel like you're lacking you can

0:50:28.960 --> 0:50:29.680
<v Speaker 3>seek elsewhere.

0:50:30.800 --> 0:50:35.160
<v Speaker 1>M hm. You know you said that the book is

0:50:35.200 --> 0:50:37.520
<v Speaker 1>making you realize that that there's a lot more people

0:50:37.560 --> 0:50:39.600
<v Speaker 1>out there doing this than than maybe you had thought.

0:50:39.960 --> 0:50:44.400
<v Speaker 1>And it's like, yeah, I mean, do you fucking human

0:50:44.800 --> 0:50:52.320
<v Speaker 1>sexuality and emotions and relationships are like so infinitely complicated

0:50:52.360 --> 0:50:56.920
<v Speaker 1>and very infinitely across the eight trillion people that live

0:50:56.960 --> 0:51:00.400
<v Speaker 1>on the earth that like, you know, to con find

0:51:00.440 --> 0:51:06.279
<v Speaker 1>it to one thing you know, is a crazy is

0:51:06.840 --> 0:51:11.520
<v Speaker 1>to me a crazier idea than uh, you know, deviating

0:51:11.520 --> 0:51:15.680
<v Speaker 1>from the norm. Okay, so you're reading this book and

0:51:15.760 --> 0:51:17.279
<v Speaker 1>you're like, oh, I think I might want to be

0:51:17.400 --> 0:51:23.440
<v Speaker 1>monogami ish what and so like, do you have a

0:51:24.520 --> 0:51:28.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, a a a game plan at all

0:51:28.120 --> 0:51:31.600
<v Speaker 1>of how you want to go out and meet people

0:51:32.080 --> 0:51:35.600
<v Speaker 1>or like how you want to kind of what you

0:51:35.640 --> 0:51:39.440
<v Speaker 1>want to do to move forward in this next phase

0:51:39.520 --> 0:51:41.800
<v Speaker 1>of your relationship that you're looking into exploring.

0:51:45.040 --> 0:51:48.520
<v Speaker 3>Uh, that's just what I'm figuring out. There's this app

0:51:48.760 --> 0:51:50.799
<v Speaker 3>that I downloaded. I already forgot the name of it,

0:51:51.280 --> 0:51:54.680
<v Speaker 3>but it's for like people like looking for you know,

0:51:55.239 --> 0:52:00.239
<v Speaker 3>unconventional interactions and relationships and stuff, and like I don't

0:52:00.239 --> 0:52:01.840
<v Speaker 3>live in a small town, but it's also not like

0:52:01.880 --> 0:52:05.000
<v Speaker 3>a big city. So like I kind of scrolled through

0:52:05.000 --> 0:52:17.000
<v Speaker 3>the entire the entire uh listing essentially already. I don't

0:52:17.040 --> 0:52:18.280
<v Speaker 3>think that's gonna be the answer.

0:52:19.239 --> 0:52:21.759
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you're not an app kind of gal.

0:52:22.840 --> 0:52:24.719
<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean to be fair, My my girlfriend and

0:52:24.760 --> 0:52:28.359
<v Speaker 3>I we met on tender again six years ago, so like,

0:52:28.440 --> 0:52:31.320
<v Speaker 3>I like, I do believe there's there's something.

0:52:30.960 --> 0:52:34.760
<v Speaker 4>To it, sure, And I don't know, I don't.

0:52:34.680 --> 0:52:36.719
<v Speaker 3>Even remember how to meet people, Like I've just been

0:52:36.719 --> 0:52:41.120
<v Speaker 3>in a relationship for so long, so you.

0:52:41.080 --> 0:52:44.520
<v Speaker 1>Know, it's a weird. It's a weird thing being single

0:52:44.600 --> 0:52:48.080
<v Speaker 1>because there's, uh, there's excitement to it as well. As

0:52:48.080 --> 0:52:49.040
<v Speaker 1>anxiety to it.

0:52:50.560 --> 0:52:53.600
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and the thing is like, it's I don't know,

0:52:53.600 --> 0:52:55.360
<v Speaker 3>it's kind of the excitement of being like, oh, like

0:52:55.400 --> 0:53:01.680
<v Speaker 3>maybe this will be something, but also not because I

0:53:01.719 --> 0:53:06.040
<v Speaker 3>have a lot of supportant stuff that I need already, right,

0:53:06.800 --> 0:53:11.040
<v Speaker 3>I'm not. I don't know. I was out with some

0:53:11.080 --> 0:53:14.000
<v Speaker 3>friends the other night and like one of them who's by,

0:53:14.160 --> 0:53:16.239
<v Speaker 3>she was like kind of flirting with me, and I

0:53:16.280 --> 0:53:17.680
<v Speaker 3>was like, oh wow, I forgot what this is like

0:53:17.719 --> 0:53:20.840
<v Speaker 3>because she's like aware of the whole becoming open situation.

0:53:20.920 --> 0:53:23.399
<v Speaker 3>I don't think she's actually interested in becoming a part

0:53:23.400 --> 0:53:27.640
<v Speaker 3>of that, but I was just okay by someone else

0:53:27.800 --> 0:53:29.400
<v Speaker 3>that's okay.

0:53:29.520 --> 0:53:31.200
<v Speaker 1>It felt so it felt nice to be to be

0:53:31.400 --> 0:53:34.399
<v Speaker 1>to be flirted with with this person. Did that did

0:53:34.440 --> 0:53:42.000
<v Speaker 1>her flirting with you kind of like, uh make you?

0:53:42.080 --> 0:53:44.160
<v Speaker 1>Because you said you were feeling scared about this whole

0:53:44.200 --> 0:53:47.080
<v Speaker 1>thing and then here's a little sliver of it you're getting.

0:53:47.280 --> 0:53:50.640
<v Speaker 1>You're you're flirting with somebody outside of your relationship. Uh

0:53:50.800 --> 0:53:53.160
<v Speaker 1>that was that exciting to you? Did that? Did that

0:53:53.560 --> 0:53:56.239
<v Speaker 1>help you navigate your your scaredness at all?

0:53:57.520 --> 0:53:57.719
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

0:53:57.719 --> 0:54:00.839
<v Speaker 3>I definitely think so. And also just knowing that like

0:54:01.000 --> 0:54:05.480
<v Speaker 3>my girlfriend is okay, with this. So it was just

0:54:05.560 --> 0:54:10.680
<v Speaker 3>kind of like there was like no guilt involved.

0:54:11.640 --> 0:54:12.960
<v Speaker 1>Hmm.

0:54:13.000 --> 0:54:15.920
<v Speaker 3>And so it's like a whole new world because like

0:54:16.440 --> 0:54:20.080
<v Speaker 3>it's just this whole thing where I don't know, society

0:54:20.120 --> 0:54:21.400
<v Speaker 3>is just told us like, no, you're not supposed to

0:54:21.440 --> 0:54:24.360
<v Speaker 3>do that. You're in a relationship. But like if the

0:54:24.360 --> 0:54:28.839
<v Speaker 3>boundaries are set, you can act within those boundaries as

0:54:28.880 --> 0:54:29.520
<v Speaker 3>much as you want.

0:54:30.360 --> 0:54:34.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, I don't I think that. You know, it's

0:54:34.480 --> 0:54:39.680
<v Speaker 1>you can to two consenting adults can live beyond what society,

0:54:40.000 --> 0:54:42.440
<v Speaker 1>uh you know tells them is what they're supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>be doing. Yeah, And uh, I don't know. Also, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just like it's not who gives a ship. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>anyone else's life but yours, you know exactly. And people

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<v Speaker 1>I've heard people say like, oh, polyamory doesn't work and whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>I have no fucking idea, but people are people that

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<v Speaker 1>poly amory doesn't we nothing, fucking monogamy doesn't we nothing

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<v Speaker 1>for it works, nothing works at all. Uh, We're just

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<v Speaker 1>giving everything our best shot.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Life's weird and relationships are weird, and I don't understand

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<v Speaker 3>why we've made these rules that we live.

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<v Speaker 1>With Yeah, I agree. I mean, look, and that's not

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<v Speaker 1>to say that people who who do have conventional relationships,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, are doing it. Nobody are doing it wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody's doing it.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, absolutely not, absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and then there's there's just everyone's just figuring out

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<v Speaker 1>what works for them. What is your name again? It's Caroline, Caroline.

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<v Speaker 1>How many times did ask you your name on this

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<v Speaker 1>phone call?

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<v Speaker 3>Just once? Just one?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's see, well what what? Uh? What's next for you? Caroline?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you what? What's next in this journey that

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<v Speaker 1>you're on.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the part I'm trying to figure out. It's kind

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<v Speaker 3>of weird, like and I I don't know. My girlfriend

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<v Speaker 3>I had like a long talk about it yesterday about like, sorry,

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<v Speaker 3>like what does this look like? And a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>it is unknown and we're just gonna kind of figure

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<v Speaker 3>it out as we go.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know, I have to. I take relationship calls

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<v Speaker 1>on here a lot because it's you know, such a

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<v Speaker 1>It's not only the thing that people on here want

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about, uh the most, but also just what everybody,

0:56:45.200 --> 0:56:48.960
<v Speaker 1>I mean, people are obsessed with. They're obsessed with fucking

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<v Speaker 1>each other and being in love with each other. And

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<v Speaker 1>you can tell that because all every every song ever

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<v Speaker 1>written is about you know, a guy who wants to

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<v Speaker 1>fuck a girl, or a girl who wants to fuck

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<v Speaker 1>a guy or be in love with them or it's

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<v Speaker 1>all everyone wants to talk about, is you know, uh,

0:57:10.760 --> 0:57:15.080
<v Speaker 1>the romance, just the general romantic sexual sphere of life.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's so uh and it's complicate. I don't think

0:57:18.600 --> 0:57:21.040
<v Speaker 1>anyone ever has I don't think there it exists to

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<v Speaker 1>have it figured it out, you know, I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>present that.

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<v Speaker 2>And again that's the whole.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the whole thing too, is like with you know,

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<v Speaker 3>like again like the thing with society, and like again

0:57:31.880 --> 0:57:34.360
<v Speaker 3>the media with songs and movies and everything. It's always

0:57:34.400 --> 0:57:38.920
<v Speaker 3>like guy gets girl happy, two people together and everything's perfect.

0:57:38.920 --> 0:57:41.960
<v Speaker 3>But that's not the case a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Of the time, not at all.

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<v Speaker 3>Like it's so I don't know, I just I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Part of me just wants to put that out there

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<v Speaker 3>for anyone who's like, has dealt or is dealing with

0:57:53.320 --> 0:57:55.480
<v Speaker 3>anything similar or will deal with in the future. Like

0:57:55.640 --> 0:57:59.960
<v Speaker 3>you're not alone, Caroline.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there anything else you want to say to the

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<v Speaker 1>people of the computer before we go.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh be chill and you know, live and let live.

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<v Speaker 1>Live live, unless if you're uh an ant in my car.

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<v Speaker 1>My car was infested with ants a few months ago. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I hired somebody. I hired somebody to kill all of

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<v Speaker 1>those and I did not let those ants live. So

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<v Speaker 1>I can't as someone who's had.

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<v Speaker 3>An antifestation in their car as well, they deserve to die.

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<v Speaker 1>So there we go. We put a little asterisk nextill,

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<v Speaker 1>next to live and let live that needed to be there.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you very much. Yeah, I have a good night

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<v Speaker 1>care on.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>You do.

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<v Speaker 1>You know? I bet an I bet ant relations I

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<v Speaker 1>bet you know I'm talking all about all hell relationships

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<v Speaker 1>are complicated. I bet ant relationships aren't complicated. I bet ants, well,

0:59:08.680 --> 0:59:11.240
<v Speaker 1>ants talk, do they do the little antenna thing? But

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<v Speaker 1>I bet ants just kind of fuck and that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think ants get married. Are animals monogamous? People

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<v Speaker 1>have done research about this, I'm sure, but I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I'm just a guy in a gecko

0:59:27.200 --> 0:59:31.960
<v Speaker 1>costume pontificating about science that I'm really sitting at a computer.

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<v Speaker 1>I could google it. I'm gonna google this right now

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<v Speaker 1>while I'm on the stream. Hold on we're gonna put

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<v Speaker 1>this in the podcast. Are animals monogamous?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay? All apparently wolves animals that mate for life gray

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<v Speaker 1>wolf and an alpha male and his female partner are

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<v Speaker 1>basically a power a couple in the wolf. To place

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<v Speaker 1>in wolves, monogamy in animals, Now I'm on Wikipedia, there's

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<v Speaker 1>social monogamy. I just realized, I'm trying to put this

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<v Speaker 1>as like a one minute, end end book to this

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<v Speaker 1>phone call.

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<v Speaker 3>But.

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<v Speaker 1>There's too much information here. Just go to the Wikipedia

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<v Speaker 1>page for monogamy in animals and you know, scroll down

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<v Speaker 1>it for about two seconds and then go play Minecraft.

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<v Speaker 1>The relative size of male chesticles often reflect mating systems.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, I'm gonna get off of this. Goes on

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<v Speaker 1>the line, taking your phone calls every nine, everything goes.

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<v Speaker 1>He's teaching you

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<v Speaker 2>The memory line, an expert