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Speaker 1: My mother in law said, my wife is cheating with

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Speaker 1: a man, but we're both lesbians. Oh that's kind of gay.

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Speaker 1: It's actually super gay in the good way. So disclaimer

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Speaker 1: for privacy purposes and per the rules of this posting.

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Speaker 2: All names are alternatives and fake.

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Speaker 1: So my now wife, Julie female twenty four and I

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Speaker 1: also female twenty four, first met a freshman year of

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Speaker 1: high school and started dating junior year.

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Speaker 2: They're high school streetlars.

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Speaker 1: Took a second to get there, like our friends that

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Speaker 1: are getting.

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Speaker 2: Married congress name. He doesn't like being in front of

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Speaker 2: the camera. So know, yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 1: So she grew up in a very Christian family who

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Speaker 1: is pretty forward with their opinions on the LGBT community,

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Speaker 1: especially her mom my now mother in law.

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Speaker 2: Lovely God, I love it.

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Speaker 1: So, by the way, this comes from Paulma divine a

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Speaker 1: paloma divine poloma divine on the our side, okay, star

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Speaker 1: times three times of drum. So for that reason, we

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Speaker 1: kept our relationship a secret from her side and open

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Speaker 1: on my welcoming family's end. And if I were to

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Speaker 1: go over to her place, we disguised ourselves.

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Speaker 2: As best friends. You put this wig on, put on

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Speaker 2: a mustache jo.

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Speaker 1: With that context, her mom always was very kind and

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Speaker 1: genuine to me. A lot of time she'd make us

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Speaker 1: cookies dinner, drive.

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Speaker 2: Us to the movies.

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Speaker 1: Little did she know that those were julian I's usual

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Speaker 1: date nights.

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Speaker 2: Oh snap.

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Speaker 1: It was after graduation that Julie decided she wanted to

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Speaker 1: come out. She was tired of hiding, and since we

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Speaker 1: were both going to the same college that fall, she

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Speaker 1: wasn't worried about getting kicked out or anything like that,

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Speaker 1: which was a good thing since they mostly mother in

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Speaker 1: law did not take it.

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Speaker 2: Well. Oh no, I didn't like it.

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Speaker 1: They did not like it, ladies and gentlemen. I immediately lost

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Speaker 1: any decent relationship I had with Julie's.

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Speaker 2: Mother blamed me for my bad by bed got you.

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Speaker 2: We got it. We got it. Ladies and gentlemen even know.

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Speaker 1: Right boom So yeah, the timer is coming, Josephine and

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Speaker 1: everyone else in chat we're working on it as we speak.

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Speaker 1: So Julie, Julie's mother who blamed me for turning her

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Speaker 1: daughter gay and started to pretend I didn't exist.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's that's gonna help.

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Speaker 1: Goodbye, see you later, great solve yep, she all together

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Speaker 1: shunned our relationship as a whole. While the two of

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Speaker 1: us were in college, she and her mom had weekly

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Speaker 1: phone calls, often including her mother asking if she'd found

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Speaker 1: any cute boy she was interested in.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's actually a girl, and she's right here,

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Speaker 2: right now doing me. Who knows what.

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Speaker 1: If she ever tried to mention me and remind her

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Speaker 1: mom that she was completely, absolutely okay in a good way,

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Speaker 1: her mom would either change the subject or tell her

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Speaker 1: that it was just a face, that was it. So

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Speaker 1: fast forward to about a year and a half ago

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Speaker 1: to when I proposed to my.

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Speaker 2: High school sweetheart and we both became fiance.

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Speaker 1: At that point, Julie gave up trying to convince her

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Speaker 1: mom of her identity and went with the flow, which

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Speaker 1: I completely understood, meaning like she just decided not to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, I'm straight.

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Speaker 1: Oh meanwhile, she's just like getting married.

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Speaker 2: Yeah to a woman. She's like, oh, I'm straight. This

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Speaker 2: is just I'm so straight. I'm gonna get more opportunities

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Speaker 2: and laugh. I do this, but I'm still straight.

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Speaker 1: That would be kind of that would be kind of

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Speaker 1: a funny way to do it, so it's like, oh,

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Speaker 1: here's my ring. Boh it's a phase. Well, you know,

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Speaker 1: just just just go like that. Yeah, yeah every time.

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Speaker 2: And you could, you could do all the things and

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Speaker 2: your mom would be okay with it. Win win.

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Speaker 1: Wait, yeah, everybody wins. Nobody loses in that scenario for sure.

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Speaker 1: So she tried for years to get her mom to

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Speaker 1: accept her and it never worked. But after getting engaged,

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Speaker 1: she wanted to tell her about it and sent her.

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Speaker 2: A picture of the ring. Oh what do we think

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Speaker 2: mother in law's gonna say?

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Speaker 3: What do we think?

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Speaker 2: She's gonna be so acceptive and she's gonna love it,

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Speaker 2: and she's gonna be like, you're even a better daughter

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Speaker 2: now because you brought another daughter into my life and

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Speaker 2: I love daughters. Sure, yeah, that's what's gonna say. That's

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Speaker 2: gonna be so good, right, that's what That's what we're Yeah,

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Speaker 3: This is ready. There's gonna be such a happy story.

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Speaker 3: I'm so excited.

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Speaker 2: You're right, you're you're you're wrong, you're wrong. I'm just

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Speaker 2: new guys. It's fine. Of course.

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Speaker 1: Of course, mother in law asked who the man she

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Speaker 1: was marrying was a man? You know it might not

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Speaker 1: be a man, but it is these nuts.

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Speaker 2: What if?

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Speaker 1: That's how she responded, what's a man's name? These nuts

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Speaker 1: got him? Nuts are straight for her?

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Speaker 2: For her, that's too straight? Yeah right? Is that what

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Speaker 2: you wanted? Mom?

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Speaker 1: She told her with absolute confidence it was me, her

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Speaker 1: longtime girlfriend, and of course her mom got pissed. For

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Speaker 1: the months following, I got angry texts and calls from

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Speaker 1: mother in law telling me I'm a sinful disgrace and I.

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Speaker 2: Need to release my hold on her daughter. Gotta get

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Speaker 2: this demon out of her.

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Speaker 1: Oh how, and a bunch of other bowl crap. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: it was more funny than anything, and even Julie was laughing,

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Speaker 2: Was also upset that her mom was still so sobern.

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, you you can't be like I get

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Speaker 1: that she's trying to like play it off, and but

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Speaker 1: there's got to be something deep inside of you, Like

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Speaker 1: my mom is rejecting the person I love it when

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Speaker 1: to share my life with.

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Speaker 2: That's a tough one. It's tough. So as this was

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Speaker 2: all going on, we planned the wedding together.

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Speaker 1: It would be a simple wedding out by a local lake,

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Speaker 1: nothing too fancy, nothing too crazy, and the most expensive

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Speaker 1: things being our matching dresses, the rings, and the cake.

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Speaker 1: We shared bride'smaids as they were all in our friend group.

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Speaker 2: Actually that's kind of cue. Yeah, that's kind of like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: you can get Stacey, but I need to have Brittany.

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Speaker 2: He little draft going on.

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Speaker 1: Bracketless March madness for bride'smaids. That sounds like what Sam's

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Speaker 1: gonna be doing at the wedding.

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Speaker 2: We're going to.

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, I told him, we're all going to

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Speaker 1: a wedding. Yeah. I told Sam. I was like, listen,

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Speaker 1: this is a perfect opportunity for you.

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Speaker 2: He really is. Oh, this is a this is the

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Speaker 2: best opportunity of anything. Right, You're going to wedding soon. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's you have them. Oh, you have them. I

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Speaker 2: have a couple weddings. Something up actually, but it's okay.

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Speaker 2: Are they are? The cakes coming out? The cakes are

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Speaker 2: always out? Oh his cakes? Right, they can't be put away,

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Speaker 2: they can't. Yeah, I'm the wedding cake. Oh dude, so

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Speaker 2: real quick. The Top ten, there's an NFL player that

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Speaker 2: for his birthday, he blows out this candle and he

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Speaker 2: says happy birthday, and then the cake starts jiggling. It's

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Speaker 2: And someone put like sparkling and sprinkles over it to

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Speaker 2: make it look like a cake, like icing on it.

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Speaker 1: So some they somehow hit a whole human. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: the cake and then the and then the but it

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Speaker 2: And he thought it was real. No, he knew it

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Speaker 2: wasn't real. He posted it on Instagram. That's what I

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Speaker 2: think of with Keon's cake.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, dude, I thought I thought they literally like

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Speaker 2: Cake like that? Yeah, it would look like that, dank. Anyways,

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Speaker 1: So we shared bridemaids, we shared bridesmaids as they were

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Speaker 1: all in our friend group, and we decided to invite

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Speaker 1: both of our families, yes including mother in law, which.

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Speaker 2: We unfortunately found out would be a mistake. No end

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Speaker 2: of May. Uh.

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Speaker 1: At the end of May a few months ago was

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Speaker 1: our wedding. A week before everyone was able to attend,

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Speaker 1: came up for the pre wedding festivities, parties, games, hangouts,

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Speaker 1: sounds like a fire wedding.

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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 1: That were absolutely fun and enjoyable. But the first several

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Speaker 1: came up, no sign of mother in law or father

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Speaker 1: in law yet. Of course, this made Julie upset, and

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Speaker 1: she often broke down when we were alone because she

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Speaker 1: wished her mom would just love and accept her.

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Speaker 2: Ah, that's so tall, there it is.

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Speaker 1: Come on, this is your the biggest day of your life,

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Speaker 1: and you're like, they're literally just like flaking. Yeah, that's crazy,

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Speaker 1: grateful my own family is much more open, but hate

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Speaker 2: Awful, awful family.

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Speaker 1: Every day I try to assure her that even if

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Speaker 2: It's been the rest of my life. Okay, in a

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Speaker 2: good way. Got them that was so happy. Yes, who

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Speaker 2: rocks with the gays? We do? Does we do? It's

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Speaker 2: a joke that like, John didn't rock with the gays.

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Speaker 2: That's why I said, John, That's why I said, we do. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I'm new here, so I don't know any of the law. John.

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Speaker 2: Sophia said that John hated the gaze for a little bit,

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Speaker 2: but now we rock like that. She did say that

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Speaker 2: for as a joke one time. You remember, that's why

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Speaker 2: you say I rock. That was the whole thing. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I thought I just said about your own lord. I

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Speaker 2: thought I started saying I rock with the gaze. No. No,

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Speaker 2: it was like and and John hates the gaze.

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Speaker 1: It was like a yeah, and then you're like, no,

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Speaker 1: I rock with the guys, right, And he's like, that's

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Speaker 1: you're right. Anyways, he says, the day before the wedding

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Speaker 1: is when things went askew. We had a small dinner

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Speaker 1: the night before at a small restaurant, Julie's favorite, when

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Speaker 1: out of the blue came in none other then mother

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Speaker 2: Evil mother, right, hey, daughter.

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Speaker 1: She came over to the large table table. She came

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Speaker 1: over to the large table and hugged her daughter as

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Speaker 1: if everything was fine. She told her father in law

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Speaker 1: couldn't make it due to a sickness, but was glad

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Speaker 1: that she could come.

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Speaker 2: Okay, To say.

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Speaker 1: Julie and I were both stunned would be an understatement.

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Speaker 1: Not only was she acting nice, but she seemed accepting.

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Speaker 1: She even hugged me and congratulated us. Oh wow, big

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Speaker 1: after years of pure resentment. It was a bizarre moment,

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Speaker 1: and I had the instant gut feeling that something was off.

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Speaker 2: Let's pause real quick right here. So I see you.

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Speaker 2: There's gonna be a couple of these guys there, Mike's

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Speaker 1: Ah, I have a word to say, right, So she's

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Speaker 2: Look at her.

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Speaker 1: She probably wants to say the same loving thing she's

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Speaker 1: I see you, I see you.

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Speaker 2: What do you think is gonna happen? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I think I think I see that. I'm on the guy.

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Speaker 2: So it is super weird. She went, Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 2: We were getting ready to leave.

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Speaker 1: Father in law was sick, he's got to stay behind,

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Speaker 3: Oh see if we'll see if we catch it. Superstar

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Speaker 3: Jock over here, look at them, Look at them arms.

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Speaker 1: Please, there's more, but just to kind of get some

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Speaker 1: But afterwards do we go to mother in law And

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Speaker 2: I think is cool. Yeah, you're right non low contact

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Speaker 2: no matter what do we are you gonna be okay? Okay,

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Speaker 3: Are we gonna go no contact or not or low

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Speaker 2: I think no contact or not. Okay, we'll do that contest.

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Speaker 2: But you're telling me after your mom that is super

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Speaker 2: and then that you need to get with me. You

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Speaker 2: still would go contact with her after that? Help you

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Speaker 2: ask for me? I'm just the people. It's the poll, okay,

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Speaker 3: But but I want to see what she says after

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Speaker 2: Interesting. So there's kind of like a final like smoken change.

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Speaker 3: Like you try to stop this, you get all the stops.

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Speaker 3: We're still doing it. We did it, We did it

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Speaker 3: in front of you. Yeah, what are you gonna say?

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Speaker 2: Now? What do you have to say for you if

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Speaker 3: But we got to wait and see until what she

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Speaker 1: And to your point, too key On, it's even better

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Speaker 3: I I've tried to be hopeful, but there's zero hope here.

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Speaker 2: So we'll see. Everyone put one or two in the

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Speaker 1: So besides that, though the wedding was great, besides that huge,

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Speaker 1: We figured that she went home entirely. It still hurts

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Speaker 2: Oh man.

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Speaker 1: Nevertheless, I'm happy, she's happy. We're both still in it

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Speaker 2: It's cute you could see Wind's baby love. When you

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Speaker 2: But you did lose a mom. Well you gained another

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Speaker 3: You lost the mom, but you gained a mommy.

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Speaker 2: Where milk? Where's John?

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Speaker 3: Yeah there's not the old man stream though, this is

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Speaker 1: Right, yeah, dude, get this freaking child, this baby out

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Speaker 2: Guys, we got TikTok. We got TikTok, we got everyone.

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Speaker 2: Look a look at those votes though, guys, Oh wow,

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Speaker 2: you two of you said, nah, maybe they're trying to

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Speaker 1: But as you guys might remember last week, me and

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Speaker 1: So Dakota was like, hey, let's all do uh a

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Speaker 1: suit stream and then Kean was like, nah, no.

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Speaker 2: Stop it, stop it, don't do that. Who started this trend?

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Speaker 2: Who started this trend? You know, they want to throw

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Speaker 2: me under the bus. Well that is kind of crazy.

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Speaker 1: Ke everything all right, Keon did the donuts, Keon did

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Speaker 1: the suit.

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Speaker 2: He started everything he did. Everyone's biting his flow. Whoa,

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00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:31,480
Speaker 2: look at this? Look at this? St get that perm Also,

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Speaker 2: I believe we get an extra thirty minutes because of

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Speaker 2: last week. Remember. Oh, yes, right, So I'm gonna help

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Speaker 2: him as John is reading the donations, Yes.

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Speaker 1: Sir, let's read those donuts starting with vix Mix on

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Speaker 1: the tip link.

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Speaker 2: Just kidding, Chocolate X mix and we'll go from there.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yes, Uh John looking nice in the suit. Thank you,

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Speaker 1: appreciate it. I'm gonna wear suits more often. I said

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Speaker 1: I would do that last year. I'm gona try to

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Speaker 1: do it more and then, uh, I abser Thanks for

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Speaker 1: the five bucks.

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Speaker 2: We need a bloopers video. It's a fun idea. It's

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Speaker 2: a fun idea. I like it.

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Speaker 1: Vix Mix, thanks for another ten bucks. The Southern boys chat,

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Speaker 1: I love it. Southern Florida gal girl here, Uh, your

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Speaker 1: and your favorite lunch lady.

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Speaker 2: Let's go.

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Speaker 1: Let's freaking go, uh Lisa the Lady of Rage. Thank

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Speaker 1: you for the twenty five bucks on the Dona link.

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Speaker 1: By the way, guys, we save that thirty percent. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's cool.

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Speaker 2: Uh? Is it just me?

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Speaker 1: Or does Riley keep looking younger and younger every stream.

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Speaker 1: I need some skincare tips.

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Speaker 2: Oh baby water in catheen water. Caffeine.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just drink a thousand milligrams of caffeine today and

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Speaker 1: you'll be good to go. Mount Avs girl. Thanks also

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Speaker 1: for the twenty five bucks. Let's go big Big Donos

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Speaker 1: on the tip link today. Greetings from Montana, MT. I

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Speaker 1: think been watching for a couple of months now. Just

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Speaker 1: wanted to say hi guys. When you guys come in

479
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Speaker 1: after like watching a couple of months and then you

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Speaker 1: just come into the stream, it makes me happy. It's awesome.

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Speaker 2: Just so you know, Moris, thanks for to five bucks.

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Speaker 1: I seeing John in his suit and catching the stream

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Speaker 1: for the first time after listening on Spotify for months.

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Speaker 2: Another one. We've been having so many people coming.

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Speaker 1: Up like, oh, Spotify, I've been listening, or like I've

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Speaker 1: been listening on Spotify and watching on Facebook. I've been

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Speaker 1: YouTube for a year or three months whatever, first time

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Speaker 1: on the stream, I love to see it real quick.

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Speaker 2: I listened to you guys on Spotify for a while

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Speaker 2: and I thought your voice was Sam's face and Sam's

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Speaker 2: face was your voice, or like I thought it was flipped.

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Speaker 2: That's is that why sometimes you still call us Tea.

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Speaker 1: Every once in a while, Riley will will call me.

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Speaker 2: Sam or Sam John. They're just like brothers at this yeah,

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Speaker 2: at this point.

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Speaker 1: It's just it makes me smile. We have slowly morphed

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Speaker 1: into one person, like wolve, Like this is true.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is This is gonna be a hard week

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Speaker 2: for oh Johnny boy, because Sam's gonna be gone for

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Speaker 2: a nice I'm I'm running the ship solo guy. Well,

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Speaker 2: I'm not running the ship.

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Speaker 1: So we got you got your first actually got Yeah, dude,

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Speaker 1: right Riley, Riley's manning the ship, Nina Leanne.

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Speaker 2: Everyone's everyone doing great. Keon's crushing it.

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Speaker 1: Dakota is doing great when he's when he's not dead.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, everyone in the chat, get prayers to both Dakota

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Speaker 3: and Sofia there.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Sofia. We're down. We're down. That the team.

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Speaker 1: The team has been now the survivors left. Let's let's

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Speaker 1: check out the YouTube super chats, could you give me

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Speaker 1: like one or two? Yes, Command plus.

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Speaker 2: Josephine Modolo Berqueste, thanks for twenty seven sec. By the way,

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Speaker 2: the giant o k ST compilation has been uploaded. What

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Speaker 2: does that mean?

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Speaker 1: Is that a fan made thing or is that because

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Speaker 1: we're working on we're on our own compilation more of

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Speaker 1: a compilation complation.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, when it's all like all strung together. Yeah yeah.

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Speaker 2: Is that tell us more? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, please actually tell us more, Josephine, can we turn

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Speaker 3: on you? Let me turn on the ear? You want

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Speaker 3: to turn there?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, just we're gonna read these donos here we

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Speaker 2: just zen? Or is how do you say that? Zen? Zen?

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Speaker 2: Shen Shen peachez. Thank you for the forty five d

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Speaker 2: d d KK? What's dkk? Let's look it up by

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Speaker 2: the way, turn by the way. I love you guys.

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Speaker 2: Watch your videos every day while I work so I

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Speaker 2: can have good stories and my brain can get stimulated.

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Speaker 2: Let's go. We love stimulating brains. Kelsey Reid, thanks for

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Speaker 2: gifting one. Okay story time membership. He oh my gosh, wow,

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Speaker 2: I forget you guys have to do this sometimes. I

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Speaker 2: love seeing this.

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Speaker 1: Uh uh ke on, scroll up, scrolled up, scroll up.

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Speaker 2: Key. Riley's really getting into his host vibes today. I

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Speaker 2: can like really like get into it all the way up,

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Speaker 2: all the way up, all the way up. He's like,

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Speaker 2: I get to yell at them today Haley K. Thanks

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Speaker 2: for becoming any along with Andrea. All Right, you do

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Speaker 2: the rest. Let's go.

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Speaker 1: It's all we get out of vix Mix, a sort

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Speaker 1: of five gifted memberships.

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Speaker 2: Let's go.

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Speaker 1: We need we need an emoji, like a swirl emoji

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Speaker 1: for vix Mix. Oh yeah, I want to see some

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Speaker 1: swirl emojis in the chat for vix Mix.

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Speaker 2: That's that's crazy. Josephine, thanks for the twenty seven se

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Speaker 2: k going on. You got to go to TikTok TikTok. Oh,

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Speaker 2: is that like a TikTok donation or something. No, it's

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Speaker 2: like TikTok's like pay attention to me.

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Speaker 3: Oh, that's so weird. It usually does it after an hour.

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Speaker 3: That was thirty minutes, right, That's the cake I want

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Speaker 3: on my B day. If it's key on, Josephine, this

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Speaker 3: Bada cake eight for sale. Unless it's us then it is.

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Speaker 2: You can you can watch, but you can't touch that.

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Speaker 1: That that part, that part, Jasmine, thanks for the two euros.

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Speaker 2: My first live greetings from Germany. Well gutten dog prost

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Speaker 2: prostro chair.

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Speaker 1: I love painting to an empty chair empty chare r

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Speaker 1: right you uh sam E. Thanks for the five gifted

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Speaker 1: memberships two. Let's go the Foxy Gamer thanks to the

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Speaker 1: five bucks. Hello, okay, first time watching you live. Love

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Speaker 1: listening to you on Spotify while I work. Hell yeah,

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00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:23,040
Speaker 1: and yes I am a furry if my profile page

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Speaker 1: uh and my name.

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Speaker 2: Don't give it away. Lol. Uh we love it. So welcome.

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Speaker 2: Let's go. Shout out to the Furries. Shout out to Furries.

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Speaker 2: M J Grow thanks for the ten bucks.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so I had a pretty flirty dream about John.

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Speaker 2: Opened the live and see him in a suit? The

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Speaker 2: good man? How dare you? I'm trying to be respectful

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00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 2: of your girlfriend? Uh, he's looking hot. Please look look

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Speaker 2: at that chest there, guys, have he's taking everything in

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00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 2: me right now? Not to come with her and call

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Speaker 2: all over. Have a little respects. Okay, we're gonna we're

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Speaker 2: gonna button it up. We're gonna button it up. Respect

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00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:56,960
Speaker 2: all right, you gotta have. You know, when they hit

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Speaker 2: the next goal, you have to do a little spin

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Speaker 2: for us. I can't do spin. He really really really can't.

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Speaker 2: He really can he really can. I can't do it.

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Speaker 2: Why can't you do spend? Do you want him to

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Speaker 2: be in a happy relationship? Yeah, he's in a great hoigh. Okay,

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Speaker 2: then don't let him do his spin. These cakes are

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Speaker 2: for one Yeah, dude, he spin these cakes for you

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Speaker 2: can still spin for us. Not show us your butt. No,

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Speaker 2: everything they need to see is on his front half.

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Speaker 1: I will, Here's what I will do. I just want

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Speaker 1: to see John's I will. I will squat and spin

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Speaker 1: at this. That's what That's what I'll do.

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Speaker 3: Ok zero cakes, that's what the people want to Just

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Speaker 3: just think, just to see see the suit.

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Speaker 1: People want to see the suit. Yeah you don't want

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Speaker 1: see the suits. That's nice and platonic. We keep it platonic,

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Speaker 1: one hundred percent platonic. Yeah, there's nothing more. Yeah that

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Speaker 1: can be done.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that's fine. Okay.

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Speaker 1: Anyways, Juliana Lorana, thanks for being a member for seven months.

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Speaker 1: Time flies by Hard Emoji still the only channel I'm

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Speaker 1: a member of. Love y'all, we love you back. Kelsey

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Speaker 1: Reid tanks out of five gifted memberships. Amy, Welcome to

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Speaker 1: the Night's uh zen Peachy, omg, wait we already read that.

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Speaker 2: We didn't shoot it too, We shoot it too? Wait

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Speaker 2: you didn't we didn't read that one?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, sorry, zen Peachy, thanks again for the forty

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Speaker 1: five dkk omg am.

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Speaker 2: I finally catching a stream.

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Speaker 1: Yay, I might be awake because my cat got injured

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Speaker 1: and anxiety, but at least I catch it Okay live.

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Speaker 2: Uh yeah, part to the chat for we got thirty

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Speaker 2: more men. Oh dude, John, every day make sure that

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Speaker 2: his cat is watching Okay see every day every single day.

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Speaker 1: I so our our cat also has anxiety. Uh and

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Speaker 1: other it literally shows up in her pea. Oh crazy,

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Speaker 1: like physical manifestations of it. So we have proteins show

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Speaker 1: up in my p That's true. If we if we

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Speaker 1: protein tested Riley, he would fail every.

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Speaker 2: Day, do it again, do it again? You know he

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Speaker 2: would do it. No, no, go into your cute story

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Speaker 2: just kidding. Oh yeah.

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Speaker 1: So we realized that like, oh, if we put on

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Speaker 1: Okay Storytime, then my cat can like hear my voice

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Speaker 1: and like the gang, and she knows Riley. She loves Riley,

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Speaker 1: our cat Kadisa and uh so every day I turn

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Speaker 1: on Okay story Time, and I kept I kept running

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Speaker 1: into this issue where it would like stop, it would

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Speaker 1: just like turn off a TV or like go black.

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Speaker 1: After a while, I've realized now because I was doing

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Speaker 1: like the play like YouTube is like the play mix.

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Speaker 1: I realized, now if I just.

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Speaker 2: Pick a long.

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Speaker 1: A long stream, like a four hour stream, it will

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Speaker 1: suggest one more long stream and then that will go

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Speaker 1: the full.

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Speaker 2: Like like eight to eleven hours complete up. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: and it'll just keep playing the whole day. So anyway,

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Speaker 2: fun for that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we would go Kelsey Reid, thanks for the one

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Speaker 1: gifted membership. Let's go Josephine, thanks for twenty seven sek

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Speaker 1: I made it. It's almost an hour long. Here we

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Speaker 1: are shout out.

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Speaker 3: To because this is from last week's don't know when

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Speaker 3: we ended the stream after Yeah, Chris Christen four hat

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00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 3: when you guys are all at Hot Pot and left

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Speaker 3: me in Dakota and Sam here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was great and we're just way face. We

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Speaker 2: could have not checked on you guys. We could have

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Speaker 2: just ate our hop and not checked up on you guys. Yep,

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Speaker 2: you know what. We were having a blast over here.

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Speaker 2: I'm goae. Did we have a We had a good

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Speaker 2: stream that night. We were literally all of us.

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00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:13,480
Speaker 1: Were like at hot We should have been talking to

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Speaker 1: each other. There's a point where we're just all on

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Speaker 1: the phones just laughing and donating and donating.

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Speaker 3: We were learning we were learning about Waterhorse and how

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659
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660
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661
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Speaker 2: has like hundreds of sweaters had like overalls and like

662
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668
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669
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Speaker 1: have no idea how much I appreciate y'all.

670
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Speaker 2: We're here for you. Who else we got?

671
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Speaker 3: Uh?

672
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Speaker 2: I think we got that one. I think we got

673
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Speaker 2: that one. Yeah, yeah, we got that one. Boom. That

674
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Speaker 2: was really nice, Right, guys, we're here for We do

675
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Speaker 2: be working hard, we really do, but but we love it.

676
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677
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Speaker 2: what what did we have today, guys. Oh my goodness,

678
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Speaker 2: little little okay story time. We had a chef shout

679
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Speaker 2: out to Evans and cook us food. Dude, I have

680
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:38,960
Speaker 2: never seen John eat food before. Really. John is literally

681
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:41,640
Speaker 2: like he'll just pick up food all day. He'll have

682
00:34:41,719 --> 00:34:45,520
Speaker 2: the same bowl of granola cereal all day. And I'm like, dude,

683
00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:48,800
Speaker 2: are you okay? And now he ate two full meals.

684
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 2: Look how energetic he is. How are you feeling a suit?

685
00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:55,800
Speaker 2: I feel on fire. I don't think that's what you

686
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 2: should feel like, but you know what, keep doing it. Yeah, dude,

687
00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 2: he should feel on fire. Look at him. He looks

688
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:05,200
Speaker 2: on fire. But yeah, deep ocean blue eyes. I'm drowning.

689
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:09,360
Speaker 2: I'm drowning. It was amazing.

690
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Speaker 1: Yeah, that was great, good times. A little insider baseball

691
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Speaker 1: for you guys. That's not inside baseball. It's just a

692
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Speaker 1: fun fact.

693
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:19,759
Speaker 2: Water or it's an inside joke with the chat. You

694
00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:22,439
Speaker 2: guys don't get it, takes chat. I get it. Wait wait, wait, wait,

695
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:33,200
Speaker 2: hort part water horse. We should read his story. Next

696
00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:35,200
Speaker 2: door's the next door? Are you reading the next one?

697
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:37,400
Speaker 1: Go for it?

698
00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:40,520
Speaker 2: I can read it. He trusts me. Go ahead. It's

699
00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:43,279
Speaker 2: my sister in law, my sister all excluded? You got

700
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Speaker 2: that one? You ready?

701
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Speaker 1: Yes?

702
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:47,680
Speaker 2: Let me go ahead? You when you set the time

703
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:53,920
Speaker 2: or two? Does that do the clapping? Still? Maybe? I

704
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:55,719
Speaker 2: don't know how that happened. I kind of love that

705
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:58,920
Speaker 2: we should get a soundboard. Soundboard. I'm on a soundboard.

706
00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:05,839
Speaker 2: Addie on board. All right, the time resets, the TLDR

707
00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 2: is up, and you are good to go, mister Riley.

708
00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:17,040
Speaker 2: All right. My sister in law excluded me from her

709
00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:20,720
Speaker 2: bridal party, so I'm going to outshine her at her wedding.

710
00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 2: Oh that's the best way to get back at her.

711
00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:28,080
Speaker 2: Oh my, I look like I'm out of wedding. It

712
00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:34,239
Speaker 2: really does. Are you gonna marry? Made this account for

713
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 2: burner purposes. No real names are used. This story really

714
00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:42,439
Speaker 2: has many elements. It was hard to choose just one

715
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:46,280
Speaker 2: hashtag petty revenge. Am I the a hole wedding drama?

716
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:50,239
Speaker 2: Lama I thirty six female, met my husband in two

717
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:53,000
Speaker 2: thousand and nine and we married in twenty thirteen. I

718
00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 2: was overjoyed and looking forward to having somewhat of a

719
00:36:56,800 --> 00:37:00,440
Speaker 2: normal family dynamic with his side of the family. I

720
00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:03,759
Speaker 2: have very little communication with my own immediate family due

721
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:07,719
Speaker 2: to extreme dysfunction. By the way, this comes from here

722
00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:11,359
Speaker 2: for the party on the r slash. Okay, story time,

723
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 2: so I read it. So my husband, King thirty eight

724
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:18,960
Speaker 2: mal adopted all three of my daughters from my previous marriage.

725
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Speaker 1: Let's go, w husband, that's King move w K move. Yeah,

726
00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:26,319
Speaker 1: crowned freaking crowning dude, what we're talking about.

727
00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:31,360
Speaker 2: My husband's immediate family consists of three younger sisters, Tina, Kelly,

728
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:35,640
Speaker 2: and Layla, and his mom Jean. Since our kids were

729
00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 2: the only grandchildren, they treated our children good Christmas parties, birthdays, graduations,

730
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:47,200
Speaker 2: et cetera. I always felt welcome, always got along with everyone.

731
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:51,920
Speaker 2: Everything was great, that is, yep, until I lost a

732
00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:57,160
Speaker 2: significant amount of weight one hundred and forty nine pounds

733
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Speaker 2: for everyone, that's kilo's that's around seventy five pounds, seventy

734
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:07,520
Speaker 2: five kilosi. Thank you, thank you, around seventy kilos. Sorry,

735
00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:11,960
Speaker 2: but wow, that my god, that's like the whole person.

736
00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:15,120
Speaker 2: That is, you lost a whole person. Yeah, whoa crazy?

737
00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:18,800
Speaker 2: For reference, I am now five foot, one hundred and

738
00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:22,359
Speaker 2: twenty eight pounds. My sister in law gained weight after

739
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:25,719
Speaker 2: I lost weight. Tough with the youngest sister gaining the most.

740
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:30,800
Speaker 2: Remember that later uh uh okay, I began to feel

741
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 2: somewhat excluded in family activities. They would do things together,

742
00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:38,880
Speaker 2: go on cruises, trips, girls, shopping days, but I wouldn't

743
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:44,839
Speaker 2: know about these trips until after they occurred. To this day,

744
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 2: I still have yet to be invited to any of

745
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:51,160
Speaker 2: these types of trips slash outings after my weight loss.

746
00:38:51,520 --> 00:39:00,200
Speaker 2: So basically the eight past eight years. That's two presidential terms. Dude,

747
00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 2: that's wild. Dude, Riley with the quick maths today. Yeah,

748
00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:08,440
Speaker 2: he's actually on fire, guys. Two Olympic games have passed,

749
00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:15,480
Speaker 2: Two leapyers have passed. Uh Skipping forward, the youngest sister, Laila,

750
00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:19,280
Speaker 2: is getting married early winter twenty twenty five to Felix.

751
00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:22,719
Speaker 2: She has about one hundred and fifty on the guest list,

752
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:27,000
Speaker 2: seven bridesmaids, both sisters, my three teenage daughters who will

753
00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:31,800
Speaker 2: be dow nineteen seventeen and sixteen, and two friends of

754
00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:33,520
Speaker 2: the bride. She's including the whole family. I love that.

755
00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:37,440
Speaker 2: This is Yeah, everyone there, the Grusman, two brother in laws,

756
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:41,440
Speaker 2: Tim and Sam, Felix's three friends. The other two sisters

757
00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:45,400
Speaker 2: are married to Tim and Sam. For reference, okay, my

758
00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:48,840
Speaker 2: husband king is walking her down the aisle since she

759
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:52,840
Speaker 2: has literally been the only consistent male figure in her life.

760
00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:59,120
Speaker 2: Oh then, obviously my mother in law gin is m

761
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:02,040
Speaker 2: the mother of the bride. Aha, mother of the bride.

762
00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:07,600
Speaker 2: Good job, wow, acronym man over here Hello. This means

763
00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:11,400
Speaker 2: I am literally the only one in our immediate extended

764
00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:16,520
Speaker 2: family that is not in slash a part of the wedding. Oo.

765
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:21,640
Speaker 2: Mm so everyone's like a bridesmaid's a groomsman except for

766
00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:25,000
Speaker 2: her maid of honor or mother of the bride, father

767
00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:29,919
Speaker 2: of the bride. Even even her husband is playing a role. Yeah,

768
00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:33,360
Speaker 2: and she is literally just be sister in law of

769
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Speaker 2: the bride. Make that happen, ye, come on, stupid. Honestly,

770
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Speaker 2: I'm not sure if I should count this as a blessing.

771
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:43,759
Speaker 2: I'll be the only one to enjoy the wedding for

772
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:46,880
Speaker 2: what it is. But that also means that the wedding

773
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:50,400
Speaker 2: photos will show everyone who I count as my real family,

774
00:40:50,719 --> 00:40:53,840
Speaker 2: even my own children, except me, with the exception of

775
00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:57,319
Speaker 2: entire family photos. Who knows, she might kick me out

776
00:40:57,360 --> 00:40:59,800
Speaker 2: of that too. I couldn't help but feel like this

777
00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:04,879
Speaker 2: was done on purpose, but I said nothing. I've never

778
00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:08,480
Speaker 2: been nothing but nice to all of them. We've never

779
00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:13,480
Speaker 2: had any falling out, So what gives any any thoughts

780
00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:15,319
Speaker 2: on that? Yeah? Okay, so you think it's a weight thing.

781
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:18,640
Speaker 1: So yeah, So quickly breaking it down, So basically, eight

782
00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:21,200
Speaker 1: years ago, Opie lost one hundred and twenty pounds, just

783
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:23,840
Speaker 1: dropped a ton of weight. Meanwhile, both of her sisters

784
00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:26,799
Speaker 1: gained weight yep around that time. Ever since that point

785
00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:29,359
Speaker 1: in time, eight years ago, they've just like not invited her,

786
00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:30,239
Speaker 1: not included her.

787
00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 2: Not invited in any girls' trips.

788
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:34,839
Speaker 1: Now one of the sisters is getting married, right, Yeah,

789
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:36,880
Speaker 1: one of the sisters is, and so now it's like

790
00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:40,160
Speaker 1: everyone's included, Her children's included, her husband's included.

791
00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:43,239
Speaker 3: And literally Opie is the only one not included. Some

792
00:41:43,440 --> 00:41:44,759
Speaker 3: put some jam in the chat because you know what

793
00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 3: they are. They're a little jelly.

794
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:49,960
Speaker 2: Can we talk about it? Can we talk about it?

795
00:41:49,960 --> 00:41:51,440
Speaker 2: Can we get some peanut butter? I would say, they're

796
00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:54,120
Speaker 2: can we level of house? Yeah, put some jelly out there,

797
00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:57,080
Speaker 2: put some bread, put some sandwiches because they're real. We'll

798
00:41:57,160 --> 00:41:58,440
Speaker 2: do a real can we sorry, can we do a

799
00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:02,480
Speaker 2: real quick poll on purpose or not excluding? Like excluding

800
00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:03,319
Speaker 2: or not? Yeah?

801
00:42:03,719 --> 00:42:05,960
Speaker 1: What are you gonna say, what if this is some

802
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:10,520
Speaker 1: crazy plot by either the sister getting married or one

803
00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 1: of the sisters either this is getting married.

804
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:13,319
Speaker 2: Or the other to.

805
00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:21,520
Speaker 3: Get her should exclude to get her husband, exclude excluding, okay, excluding.

806
00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:27,040
Speaker 2: Incest. Tail may no, not incest, said one of the

807
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:31,920
Speaker 2: sisters getting with her husband. She okay, so open. Uh,

808
00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:34,080
Speaker 2: she doesn't have any contact with her immediate family, so

809
00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:35,280
Speaker 2: this is all King's family.

810
00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:35,719
Speaker 3: Ah.

811
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:38,799
Speaker 2: Sorry, makes sense. That also makes a ton of sense

812
00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:41,200
Speaker 2: why King is involved. Okay. That's another reason why she's

813
00:42:41,239 --> 00:42:44,440
Speaker 2: so hurt is because op isn't connected to any of

814
00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 2: her family and she's all relying on the other side.

815
00:42:46,400 --> 00:42:48,680
Speaker 1: Of Right, She's like, hey, you guys were my like

816
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 1: adopted family in a way through King, and we were

817
00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:55,520
Speaker 1: doing great. But ever since this moment happened nothing, m

818
00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:59,640
Speaker 1: I think this is probably something for King to help

819
00:42:59,680 --> 00:43:02,880
Speaker 1: with them. Yeah, because like I I generally think like

820
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 1: if it's the other it's it's like, all right, it's

821
00:43:05,080 --> 00:43:10,040
Speaker 1: King's family, that's like ousting her. King should help uh

822
00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:12,960
Speaker 1: figure out, you know, just just kind of helping me

823
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:16,520
Speaker 1: the conduct because it's like, okay, you're the you're their brother, yeah, right,

824
00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:18,799
Speaker 1: and you know, this is this is so op Op.

825
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:21,920
Speaker 1: It doesn't have the home field advantage. Gods, I'm coming

826
00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:25,120
Speaker 1: into the other family. King does so, like, how can

827
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:29,799
Speaker 1: King help to ideally goes to them first and is like, hey,

828
00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:34,759
Speaker 1: like what gives honestly, kind of a little bit sus

829
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:37,240
Speaker 1: that why hasn't been this addressed in eight years?

830
00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:40,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, that is a little something. This happened with my

831
00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:44,120
Speaker 2: mom and her sister, with my grandma. My grandma and

832
00:43:44,239 --> 00:43:46,320
Speaker 2: her sister would go out all the time and not

833
00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:49,560
Speaker 2: include my mom, and she like she finally said something.

834
00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:52,080
Speaker 1: Right right, yeah, Like it feels like there's a tipping

835
00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:53,520
Speaker 1: point where you have to address it. And I feel

836
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:55,680
Speaker 1: like the tipping point is way before eight years. Oh,

837
00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:56,759
Speaker 1: way before this way Oh.

838
00:43:56,800 --> 00:44:01,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, first time, okay, second time, okay, like the first

839
00:44:01,840 --> 00:44:04,480
Speaker 3: after seven years, eight years, you're like, I think there's

840
00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:04,920
Speaker 3: a pattern.

841
00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:09,680
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's something going on, No detective, but there

842
00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:13,319
Speaker 2: might be something going on here. Yeah, and ninety four

843
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:16,160
Speaker 2: percent of us believe that she is excluded on purpose.

844
00:44:17,719 --> 00:44:21,320
Speaker 2: For me, I could see how it like so happens

845
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:24,239
Speaker 2: not to be but we forgot like, oh yeah, you're

846
00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:25,360
Speaker 2: the sister eight.

847
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:29,000
Speaker 1: Years unless unless op is an unreliable narrator, and it's

848
00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:29,960
Speaker 1: like missing something.

849
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:31,800
Speaker 2: They're definitely excluding.

850
00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 3: Her, like if they're like close trips, like they don't

851
00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:37,200
Speaker 3: go anywhere, like it's like nearby and they're I don't know,

852
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:40,560
Speaker 3: that's just a weird little marry suss backtracking.

853
00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:43,839
Speaker 2: When the bride and groom asked everyone, they made an

854
00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:46,239
Speaker 2: event out of it, like a family gathering at my

855
00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:48,960
Speaker 2: mother in law's house. We's leading up to it. Leila

856
00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:51,960
Speaker 2: kept telling me she had a surprise for the girls

857
00:44:52,080 --> 00:44:54,839
Speaker 2: and wanted to make sure they were there. It wasn't

858
00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:57,160
Speaker 2: until my mother in law called me and said, don't

859
00:44:57,200 --> 00:44:59,880
Speaker 2: tell Layla. I told you, but she is going to

860
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:03,759
Speaker 2: ask the girls to be her bridesmaids. That's why she

861
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:06,640
Speaker 2: wants them there. I told her to tell you, but

862
00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:11,400
Speaker 2: she wouldn't listen. Later in the evening one of the

863
00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:14,000
Speaker 2: uh Later in the evening of the will you be

864
00:45:14,160 --> 00:45:18,040
Speaker 2: My Bridesmaids slash groomsman party, Leyla mentioned sorry for not

865
00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:23,399
Speaker 2: including you already have seven bridesmaids. Like that isn't enough,

866
00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:24,719
Speaker 2: Like that isn't a lot of hard for me.

867
00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:28,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, dude, having a giant like bridal party or

868
00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:32,319
Speaker 1: grooms party, fire Oh yeah, you're all just oh oh,

869
00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:34,080
Speaker 1: there's too many friends and people who love me.

870
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:40,120
Speaker 2: Oh wow, that's sorry. I'm so sorry. What are we

871
00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:43,000
Speaker 2: talking about? Yeah, dude, what are we doing? Dude? Real quick.

872
00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:45,920
Speaker 2: I can't wait. Whenever I get married, I'm gonna have

873
00:45:46,000 --> 00:45:51,520
Speaker 2: a grooms and bridesmaids like bachelotte party together. That's I

874
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:53,480
Speaker 2: actually like that, and like it'll be a weekend and

875
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:55,120
Speaker 2: like the grooms will go do their things about the

876
00:45:55,160 --> 00:45:56,960
Speaker 2: girls will go do their things, but it's a party together.

877
00:45:57,120 --> 00:45:59,440
Speaker 3: Oh okay, I thought you were like whatever everyone does,

878
00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:01,480
Speaker 3: they all do together. I'm like, that's you kind of

879
00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:03,160
Speaker 3: need to have, like, you know, let the bridegoer thing.

880
00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:06,080
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, no, no, no, no, okay, okay, I misunderstood.

881
00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:08,759
Speaker 2: No, I think it's cool. I think interesting and op

882
00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:11,000
Speaker 2: being the angel she is, m I told her it

883
00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:14,239
Speaker 2: was fine and I understood. About a one to two

884
00:46:14,280 --> 00:46:18,160
Speaker 2: months later, my three daughters brought uh brought it up. Uh, sorry,

885
00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:20,279
Speaker 2: gon do that again. About one to three two months later,

886
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:22,920
Speaker 2: my three daughters brought it up. They asked if I

887
00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:26,040
Speaker 2: was sad that Aunt Layla didn't ask me to be

888
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:28,759
Speaker 2: a bride'smaids. I said, you know, I'm not sure how

889
00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:31,080
Speaker 2: to feel about it, but it's her wedding and so

890
00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:34,239
Speaker 2: I feel, so how I feel doesn't matter. They all

891
00:46:34,320 --> 00:46:37,200
Speaker 2: informed me that they wish they hadn't been asked since

892
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:40,560
Speaker 2: I was so blatantly excluded, and they feel she did

893
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:42,920
Speaker 2: it on purpose. So the daughters even know too. All

894
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:47,799
Speaker 2: of her daughter's like, yo, Mom, this ain't it. Ah,

895
00:46:48,360 --> 00:46:52,319
Speaker 2: My oldest daughter who was quiet, My oldest daughter who

896
00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:56,520
Speaker 2: is quiet, brutally in her I'm so sorry. My oldest daughter,

897
00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:59,080
Speaker 2: who was quite brutal in her explanation of the theory,

898
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:02,840
Speaker 2: said Mama, I honestly think aunt Layla is jealous of

899
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:06,439
Speaker 2: you and fears that you will be upstaging her. Think

900
00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:09,160
Speaker 2: about it, even before you lost all that weight, you

901
00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:12,240
Speaker 2: have legit always been the gorgeous one in the family.

902
00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:14,800
Speaker 4: Oh oh.

903
00:47:16,760 --> 00:47:21,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, you ugly, Auntie, Yeah, you ugly, and their girls

904
00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:24,239
Speaker 1: know it and everyone knows it.

905
00:47:26,440 --> 00:47:32,279
Speaker 2: But my jeljell. But my girls are more gorgeous in

906
00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:38,200
Speaker 2: my opinion, Let's be real. Of grandma's grandchildren. Of grandma's children,

907
00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:40,880
Speaker 2: Daddy got the better end of the deal for jeans.

908
00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:44,200
Speaker 2: Of course, she doesn't want you up standing next to her.

909
00:47:44,520 --> 00:47:47,719
Speaker 2: Being twelve years older than her, but still stealing the spotlight.

910
00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:52,000
Speaker 2: My girls are truly my biggest fans. They always make

911
00:47:52,040 --> 00:47:55,560
Speaker 2: me feel good about myself. I am certainly not a ten,

912
00:47:55,800 --> 00:47:58,920
Speaker 2: but looks wise, I have to agree that perhaps I

913
00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:03,560
Speaker 2: was dealt at her hand. That is trying to be polite,

914
00:48:03,680 --> 00:48:06,839
Speaker 2: but you know, you know, hey, put me side by side.

915
00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:12,560
Speaker 2: I'll let you side. Let's go. My husband heard this

916
00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:15,680
Speaker 2: conversation and chimes in. He agrees with the girl, saying

917
00:48:15,719 --> 00:48:19,200
Speaker 2: that there's no doubt she's jealous and that at least

918
00:48:19,400 --> 00:48:23,280
Speaker 2: I'll have no responsibility for the wedding. I can simply

919
00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:26,480
Speaker 2: enjoy the reception. Fast forward to the day of the

920
00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:30,680
Speaker 2: bridesmaid's dress fitting day. The girls come home. My youngest daughter,

921
00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:33,640
Speaker 2: who is now fifteen but super witty, walks in the

922
00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:36,560
Speaker 2: door and she has a look of deer in headlights.

923
00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:41,840
Speaker 2: She says, OMG, the dresses are hideous, and now we

924
00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:45,160
Speaker 2: definitely think you were excluded because she doesn't want anyone

925
00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:48,640
Speaker 2: looking better than her. Trust me, you aren't missing out

926
00:48:48,719 --> 00:48:54,839
Speaker 2: on anything intentionally getting super ugly dresses. Called it that's crazy,

927
00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:55,320
Speaker 2: called it.

928
00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:59,080
Speaker 3: I called it just jealous. But oh yeah, yeah, he

929
00:48:59,120 --> 00:49:02,000
Speaker 3: did call that. I mean I'll was the most obvious choice,

930
00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:05,680
Speaker 3: but you still called it. I calls it as I

931
00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:08,280
Speaker 3: sees it, he reads stories.

932
00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:13,560
Speaker 2: My other two daughters agree. My oldest goes on to

933
00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 2: say she basically admitted it. My oldest express she wasn't

934
00:49:18,080 --> 00:49:21,000
Speaker 2: super into the dresses that were picked, and Leila straight

935
00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:24,080
Speaker 2: up said, well, the bridesmaids aren't supposed to look better

936
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:28,480
Speaker 2: than the bride. My youngest starts laughing and says, Mama,

937
00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:32,080
Speaker 2: I think she Leila actually messed up by not making

938
00:49:32,200 --> 00:49:35,280
Speaker 2: you a bridesmaid, because then at least she could control

939
00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:39,600
Speaker 2: what you wear. My daughter moves into the shadows. Okay,

940
00:49:39,680 --> 00:49:43,080
Speaker 2: she's my mini me. She suggests, I find the wedding

941
00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:46,880
Speaker 2: guest outfits of the century, just to make a point

942
00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:50,640
Speaker 2: and to get somewhat of revenge for always being of

943
00:49:50,719 --> 00:49:53,000
Speaker 2: always leaving me out. But we will never leave you out.

944
00:49:53,040 --> 00:49:55,359
Speaker 2: Every week there at three PMBSD because we go live

945
00:49:55,800 --> 00:50:00,600
Speaker 2: just tap our profile, great transition. Should we do that?

946
00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:04,759
Speaker 2: Should we just look hot? Honestly? Wear white? No, I

947
00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:07,120
Speaker 2: was gonna say, don't wear white, don't wear whate that's

948
00:50:07,160 --> 00:50:10,359
Speaker 2: the one thing, Oh my god, that would be Yeah.

949
00:50:10,360 --> 00:50:12,200
Speaker 3: I always say that if you do wear whoever wears

950
00:50:12,239 --> 00:50:14,000
Speaker 3: the white dress at the wedding is such an a

951
00:50:14,120 --> 00:50:14,600
Speaker 3: whole move.

952
00:50:14,840 --> 00:50:19,000
Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, okay, So as much as I would

953
00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:22,800
Speaker 1: love to see that happen, come on, I think op

954
00:50:23,480 --> 00:50:23,799
Speaker 1: do it.

955
00:50:26,120 --> 00:50:28,799
Speaker 2: Has Look it's what we all want.

956
00:50:29,239 --> 00:50:33,480
Speaker 3: It's what we all want. We all want this, but

957
00:50:33,560 --> 00:50:36,719
Speaker 3: we don't want the easy way. Come on, we're we're uh.

958
00:50:37,520 --> 00:50:40,880
Speaker 3: Opie takes the high road, right, op is an angel?

959
00:50:41,120 --> 00:50:42,280
Speaker 3: So many not an angel?

960
00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:45,520
Speaker 2: But John likes talk to me. Op has been taking

961
00:50:45,560 --> 00:50:51,200
Speaker 2: the high road for eight When is Opie gonna put

962
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:55,880
Speaker 2: her foot down with her heels and show up? When's

963
00:50:55,880 --> 00:50:56,440
Speaker 2: she gonna do that?

964
00:50:56,600 --> 00:50:58,399
Speaker 1: If you drive on the same road and never get

965
00:50:58,440 --> 00:51:00,640
Speaker 1: your destination, you gotta you gotta take a different.

966
00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:02,400
Speaker 2: Sho Should I pull a white dress or not?

967
00:51:03,120 --> 00:51:05,640
Speaker 1: Dude, white dress or not? I want to see what

968
00:51:05,719 --> 00:51:07,520
Speaker 1: Chad says. I want to see what says.

969
00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:10,719
Speaker 2: Because alease call out the people who I know?

970
00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:12,480
Speaker 3: Do it?

971
00:51:12,880 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 2: Do it? Wear the white dress? Wear it?

972
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:16,719
Speaker 3: Yeah?

973
00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:19,200
Speaker 2: I mean, just worse something that makes you look good,

974
00:51:19,840 --> 00:51:21,680
Speaker 2: and that's all you gotta do. But do you like

975
00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:25,160
Speaker 2: do you go like all out and like you know,

976
00:51:26,480 --> 00:51:29,920
Speaker 2: with the intention of upstaging the bride? Do you do

977
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:32,440
Speaker 2: you think, oh, people will be invited to another thing

978
00:51:32,520 --> 00:51:34,239
Speaker 2: after this wedding even if she doesn't. Do you think

979
00:51:34,239 --> 00:51:38,000
Speaker 2: they're going to include her in anything? No, Well, here's

980
00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:40,280
Speaker 2: the thing. Do you think that she's going to include

981
00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:41,440
Speaker 2: them into anything afterwards?

982
00:51:41,560 --> 00:51:45,399
Speaker 1: I think my guess is what's happening is that they

983
00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:48,080
Speaker 1: would not invite her even to this wedding, but they

984
00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:50,680
Speaker 1: know that the pressure of the family is there, so

985
00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:53,600
Speaker 1: they're like, Okay, we'll invite her, which is enough to

986
00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:56,239
Speaker 1: hopefully assuage and not get people to attack us.

987
00:51:56,640 --> 00:51:59,359
Speaker 2: Gotcha. But what I was saying, you know, I were saying,

988
00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:00,960
Speaker 2: if you don't think that she's going to be invited

989
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:03,440
Speaker 2: to any more ounies, girls, strips, anything like that, she

990
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:09,520
Speaker 2: has Opie has nothing to lose. Make a point. Yeah, okay,

991
00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:11,719
Speaker 2: we got everyone's saying, No, you don't wear.

992
00:52:11,640 --> 00:52:14,120
Speaker 3: Her white dress. It's just that's that's bad karma. You

993
00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:15,640
Speaker 3: don't wear the white dress. That's just a bad and

994
00:52:15,800 --> 00:52:16,239
Speaker 3: we got one.

995
00:52:16,320 --> 00:52:17,520
Speaker 2: We got one. You don't.

996
00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:20,759
Speaker 1: This is actually this is so great and sorry to

997
00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:23,279
Speaker 1: cut you, but this is so this is like, uh,

998
00:52:23,640 --> 00:52:27,239
Speaker 1: there's two things that chat is is always petty and

999
00:52:27,560 --> 00:52:29,040
Speaker 1: about not wearing white dresses.

1000
00:52:29,080 --> 00:52:33,240
Speaker 2: To win it. So this is this is taken chats

1001
00:52:33,360 --> 00:52:36,480
Speaker 2: two like favorite things and put them in to head

1002
00:52:36,480 --> 00:52:38,439
Speaker 2: and you know what, so far not wearing the white

1003
00:52:38,480 --> 00:52:43,800
Speaker 2: dresses winning out. But I'm actually floored ed. He even says, too, Wow,

1004
00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:46,000
Speaker 2: I love.

1005
00:52:45,880 --> 00:52:48,759
Speaker 3: You, I said, I say, I said, I say, is

1006
00:52:49,200 --> 00:52:52,440
Speaker 3: where wear something spectacular? No whit, but show her up,

1007
00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:55,600
Speaker 3: show up and show out, show up and show out.

1008
00:52:56,640 --> 00:52:59,959
Speaker 2: After four months of searching, I have found a stunt

1009
00:53:00,560 --> 00:53:05,520
Speaker 2: blue junk suit with deep but tasteful front and back plunge.

1010
00:53:06,320 --> 00:53:09,520
Speaker 2: I kind of understand what this is. Do you know

1011
00:53:09,600 --> 00:53:11,560
Speaker 2: what this is? I know the jump suit. What's the

1012
00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:12,160
Speaker 2: back plunch?

1013
00:53:12,520 --> 00:53:14,640
Speaker 1: I think it's just like deep it's deep. Oh, it's

1014
00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:16,320
Speaker 1: probably like it just goes down. It just shows a

1015
00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:19,920
Speaker 1: lot of back. I guess, yeah, I know that dress.

1016
00:53:20,680 --> 00:53:27,280
Speaker 1: It's I've seen that. It's a good dress.

1017
00:53:27,600 --> 00:53:32,400
Speaker 2: It's beautifully extra with air quotes, if you know what

1018
00:53:32,560 --> 00:53:35,520
Speaker 2: I mean. And my husband loves it too. My only

1019
00:53:35,640 --> 00:53:38,640
Speaker 2: thing is I do not want to be deliberate ass

1020
00:53:39,520 --> 00:53:41,120
Speaker 2: The only thing is I don't want to be a deliberate.

1021
00:53:41,200 --> 00:53:43,920
Speaker 2: But tell me, am I in the wrong? Should I

1022
00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:46,759
Speaker 2: not worry about putting so much focus into myself and

1023
00:53:46,960 --> 00:53:50,040
Speaker 2: just let her have the day despite the seemingly obvious

1024
00:53:50,160 --> 00:53:53,160
Speaker 2: slight against me. Tell me, am, I the a hole

1025
00:53:53,280 --> 00:53:56,040
Speaker 2: for plenty of revenge outfit for my sister in law's wedding.

1026
00:53:56,719 --> 00:53:58,520
Speaker 2: That's the end of the story, dude. Let me ask

1027
00:53:58,560 --> 00:54:02,520
Speaker 2: you this, Okay, tell me say six votes. Guys, By

1028
00:54:02,560 --> 00:54:06,400
Speaker 2: the way, seventy this is that's kind of crazy.

1029
00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:08,160
Speaker 1: Shot chat chowing crazy on this. Who are the four

1030
00:54:08,200 --> 00:54:10,560
Speaker 1: people who said white dress? This is maybe my favorite

1031
00:54:10,600 --> 00:54:12,839
Speaker 1: pole ever? This is so let me let me let

1032
00:54:12,880 --> 00:54:14,160
Speaker 1: me give you, guys a scenario.

1033
00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:15,200
Speaker 2: I have a wedding.

1034
00:54:15,600 --> 00:54:21,719
Speaker 1: Right, Keon shows up right inted, yes, and uh, his

1035
00:54:24,080 --> 00:54:28,600
Speaker 1: dumper is just going crazy right, and I'm like, hey,

1036
00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:30,440
Speaker 1: I've been doing you know, I've been doing a lot

1037
00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:34,439
Speaker 1: of legs, you know, working on the glutes. Keon's cakes

1038
00:54:34,480 --> 00:54:35,720
Speaker 1: are outshining my cakes.

1039
00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:40,160
Speaker 2: But guess what what. I can't be mad. God blessed

1040
00:54:40,239 --> 00:54:44,200
Speaker 2: Keon with the cakes. I worked for it. God chose you,

1041
00:54:44,480 --> 00:54:47,120
Speaker 2: and you worked for it, right, Uh, you have the

1042
00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:48,879
Speaker 2: chosen cakes. I can't be mad.

1043
00:54:49,400 --> 00:54:52,200
Speaker 1: I can't be so op OPI didn't wear the white

1044
00:54:52,280 --> 00:54:55,800
Speaker 1: dress like I think maybe if if if she was

1045
00:54:55,840 --> 00:54:58,120
Speaker 1: like oh and then I went to the I dropped

1046
00:54:58,160 --> 00:54:59,800
Speaker 1: like a thousand dollars on hair and make him a

1047
00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:02,360
Speaker 1: the nails and like, okay, maybe if op was like

1048
00:55:02,880 --> 00:55:06,080
Speaker 1: trying to go like eleven out of tenper extra even

1049
00:55:06,160 --> 00:55:08,000
Speaker 1: without the white dresses, Like okay, that's too much. He's

1050
00:55:08,040 --> 00:55:10,439
Speaker 1: just like, I just got a really really nice, hot

1051
00:55:10,520 --> 00:55:12,960
Speaker 1: looking uh jumpsuit, and.

1052
00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:15,160
Speaker 2: That's all she had to do. She's just showing up

1053
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:15,520
Speaker 2: as her.

1054
00:55:15,640 --> 00:55:18,320
Speaker 1: Basically, she's just basically showing up at her and she

1055
00:55:18,440 --> 00:55:21,520
Speaker 1: looks great allegedly, So there it is.

1056
00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:30,160
Speaker 2: Saying allegedly, we don't know. Well, I tell you meant

1057
00:55:30,200 --> 00:55:31,960
Speaker 2: to say that because you're John, I have a girlfriend

1058
00:55:32,000 --> 00:55:38,040
Speaker 2: for it's a double on topic. Could you hit these donuts?

1059
00:55:38,080 --> 00:55:40,480
Speaker 2: Why I hit the I was gonna say, I have

1060
00:55:40,560 --> 00:55:42,320
Speaker 2: to do it too, so oh yeah, just put the

1061
00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:45,760
Speaker 2: first Yeah okay, let me well just put the YouTube

1062
00:55:45,800 --> 00:55:48,320
Speaker 2: on my screen and put it on me. Yeah, and

1063
00:55:48,360 --> 00:55:50,040
Speaker 2: then we can both go and then and then you

1064
00:55:50,120 --> 00:55:52,480
Speaker 2: guys can all go put it on me, making sure

1065
00:55:52,480 --> 00:55:56,279
Speaker 2: it's scold. You got it. You're good, you're good, all right, Yeah,

1066
00:55:56,320 --> 00:55:58,640
Speaker 2: you're good. Just go everyone, tinkle, go tinkle, you can

1067
00:55:58,760 --> 00:56:02,160
Speaker 2: use this bedroom. Yeah, go John, put on me put

1068
00:56:02,200 --> 00:56:05,319
Speaker 2: it on me. Yeah, nice, all right, Matt hatter Gal,

1069
00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:07,920
Speaker 2: thanks for the five bucks. As a person who is

1070
00:56:07,960 --> 00:56:10,560
Speaker 2: getting married, is hard to find address that would fit

1071
00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:14,960
Speaker 2: all my girlfriends right is tough. But excluding someone because

1072
00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:18,000
Speaker 2: of wait and beauty. Sorry princess, but no matter the

1073
00:56:18,080 --> 00:56:20,280
Speaker 2: amount of makeup you put on, you were still ugly.

1074
00:56:21,400 --> 00:56:25,480
Speaker 2: Ys Matt Haddigau, I hope your wedding is going well

1075
00:56:26,040 --> 00:56:27,799
Speaker 2: and that all the planning is going well because after

1076
00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:30,560
Speaker 2: reading a lot of wedding stories. Oh my freaking gosh,

1077
00:56:32,320 --> 00:56:36,759
Speaker 2: the Terror, the Terror pause story, me too. Pink the

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00:56:36,920 --> 00:56:39,839
Speaker 2: Slayer only in the West, in Japan and China, red

1079
00:56:39,960 --> 00:56:44,560
Speaker 2: is a traditional wedding color. Did not know? Did not know? Huh,

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00:56:46,160 --> 00:56:49,600
Speaker 2: oh my gosh. Monica or Colon or Colin let me

1081
00:56:49,719 --> 00:56:53,479
Speaker 2: say Colin, not Colin. Monica, thanks for the gifted one okay,

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00:56:53,520 --> 00:56:57,880
Speaker 2: storytime membership and Matt hatter Gal fifteen Holy cow, we

1083
00:56:58,000 --> 00:57:01,960
Speaker 2: have fifteen new members in this I missed you too,

1084
00:57:02,200 --> 00:57:04,440
Speaker 2: nice seeing you read and not in the screen too much.

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00:57:04,880 --> 00:57:08,520
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I'm like, I'm like giving passing the batonon

1086
00:57:08,600 --> 00:57:12,399
Speaker 2: off to keon and hopping in this stream. But big

1087
00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:15,440
Speaker 2: things are happening where you may if you want can

1088
00:57:15,520 --> 00:57:20,360
Speaker 2: see me even more, a lot more, a lot more.

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00:57:21,280 --> 00:57:24,960
Speaker 2: But yeah, I'm scrollless, so I haven't. I can't read

1090
00:57:24,960 --> 00:57:27,240
Speaker 2: all the donos, but we're getting there. Oh look at that.

1091
00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:36,440
Speaker 2: Just this the timing, it's come. Yeah. Uh let's go

1092
00:57:36,720 --> 00:57:38,480
Speaker 2: this donor leak over here? Which one?

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00:57:38,680 --> 00:57:38,800
Speaker 1: Uh?

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00:57:38,960 --> 00:57:40,480
Speaker 2: Jenna, I think we did Regenae?

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00:57:41,200 --> 00:57:41,320
Speaker 1: Did?

1096
00:57:41,360 --> 00:57:42,200
Speaker 2: We did?

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00:57:42,280 --> 00:57:42,320
Speaker 3: Not?

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00:57:42,400 --> 00:57:46,800
Speaker 2: Reagenae? Scroll down? Please? Thank you? H Jenna Lee Rosenby,

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00:57:47,280 --> 00:57:49,880
Speaker 2: thanks for the six bucks. What's up? I always outshine

1100
00:57:49,920 --> 00:57:52,680
Speaker 2: people at weddings. I'm not gonna say JK because I

1101
00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:55,000
Speaker 2: know you mean it. With every joke there is a

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00:57:55,040 --> 00:57:56,400
Speaker 2: bit of truth and that's your truth.

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00:57:57,000 --> 00:57:57,120
Speaker 3: Uh.

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00:57:57,240 --> 00:58:01,760
Speaker 2: And then on the YouTube donos, can we scroll up? Oh, Peach,

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00:58:02,440 --> 00:58:05,400
Speaker 2: thank you for the seventeen d KK Big w To

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00:58:05,520 --> 00:58:13,840
Speaker 2: production scene changes so smooth one and only key built it.

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00:58:13,920 --> 00:58:17,400
Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen. Yea true greatest producers on Earth right here? Wait,

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00:58:17,440 --> 00:58:22,240
Speaker 2: who's the chick in freaking uh Star Wars with the

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00:58:22,400 --> 00:58:25,680
Speaker 2: with the Blue with the Blue the Blue Chick? Yeah

1110
00:58:25,720 --> 00:58:29,080
Speaker 2: that's you because I'm Anakin and he's my obi wan.

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00:58:30,960 --> 00:58:34,080
Speaker 2: Oh you mean a so Katano? Yeah it's blue and

1112
00:58:34,120 --> 00:58:40,480
Speaker 2: white brother. Okay, sorry, sorry, guys, I star Wars out

1113
00:58:40,480 --> 00:58:44,120
Speaker 2: there because I love Star Wars War Stars. Sam e

1114
00:58:44,280 --> 00:58:45,920
Speaker 2: thanks for the five gifted memberships.

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00:58:46,360 --> 00:58:48,040
Speaker 3: I think we got we already got that, I think.

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00:58:48,040 --> 00:58:50,200
Speaker 3: I think, dude, that's all. Then that's all the donuts

1117
00:58:50,200 --> 00:58:51,960
Speaker 3: from there getting Matt girl.

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00:58:52,920 --> 00:58:55,760
Speaker 2: We're good, awesome, we got we catch up with the donuts.

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00:58:55,840 --> 00:58:58,280
Speaker 2: Let's go. H oh oh, I think did we get

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Speaker 2: another dono? No, we didn't know. You scrolled. I spilled down. Yeah, Marson,

1121
00:59:02,840 --> 00:59:04,200
Speaker 2: what's going on? I don't know what's going on with

1122
00:59:04,280 --> 00:59:10,160
Speaker 2: you and cast Nerd? Such a freaking nerd? What proud?

1123
00:59:10,400 --> 00:59:13,960
Speaker 2: I'll wear it, proud, loud and proud. Baby. Keon was

1124
00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:16,760
Speaker 2: looking real cute into Star Wars yesterday.

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00:59:17,240 --> 00:59:21,520
Speaker 1: I complimented Keon and then like not even five minutes later,

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00:59:21,600 --> 00:59:22,800
Speaker 1: so f he was like, Oh that's a great that's

1127
00:59:22,840 --> 00:59:23,840
Speaker 1: a great sweater on you.

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00:59:24,160 --> 00:59:26,000
Speaker 3: It was like, you gotta look a great. Look Like,

1129
00:59:26,040 --> 00:59:27,280
Speaker 3: should I do like a little fit check?

1130
00:59:27,680 --> 00:59:30,160
Speaker 2: I'm kidding? Wait, no, would you want to do a

1131
00:59:30,160 --> 00:59:32,120
Speaker 2: little fit check for us? Oh? Yeah, do it? Three sixty.

1132
00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:35,400
Speaker 2: Get on, get on your knees, Get on your knees. Boy,

1133
00:59:36,280 --> 00:59:39,720
Speaker 2: there he goes, here he goes everyone, This is how

1134
00:59:39,840 --> 00:59:46,240
Speaker 2: tall John is actually in real life. Oh three sixty.

1135
00:59:46,360 --> 00:59:48,880
Speaker 2: There you go. That's what you get. That's what you get. Also,

1136
00:59:49,280 --> 00:59:51,560
Speaker 2: Jian's milk is back. Giants milk. I called for you

1137
00:59:51,640 --> 00:59:56,200
Speaker 2: earlier and you came. Thank goodness, milk, nice giants milk,

1138
00:59:56,240 --> 00:59:57,760
Speaker 2: Thanks for being here for eight months. I miss you

1139
00:59:57,840 --> 01:00:00,600
Speaker 2: guys so much. We missed you, dude, Giants milk. You

1140
01:00:00,720 --> 01:00:03,200
Speaker 2: know you know the love. We know we got you.

1141
01:00:03,480 --> 01:00:06,400
Speaker 2: We we love you and we miss you. Good stuff. John,

1142
01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:09,240
Speaker 2: give me let's let's let's go, Am I am? I

1143
01:00:09,240 --> 01:00:13,720
Speaker 2: ready to go here? Of course we gotta wait on

1144
01:00:13,760 --> 01:00:19,600
Speaker 2: that guy. Yeah, I kind of like there's a butt

1145
01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:22,080
Speaker 2: for context, there's a button on our stream deck that

1146
01:00:22,280 --> 01:00:24,880
Speaker 2: collaps does a little clapping thing every time we press it,

1147
01:00:25,240 --> 01:00:27,480
Speaker 2: and I honestly do not know why it's there, but

1148
01:00:28,720 --> 01:00:30,800
Speaker 2: it's kind of great. It's kind of funny. It's really funny.

1149
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Speaker 1: Act Also, before we get into the story, TikTok Chat

1150
01:00:34,160 --> 01:00:38,040
Speaker 1: TikTok here, that's awesome. Yeah, dude, what's up TikTok? What's

1151
01:00:38,120 --> 01:00:38,439
Speaker 1: up tiky?

1152
01:00:38,760 --> 01:00:40,920
Speaker 2: Comment comment? If you're watching on TikTok right now, I

1153
01:00:40,960 --> 01:00:42,960
Speaker 2: want to say, how do you anyways? And where you're from?

1154
01:00:43,040 --> 01:00:43,080
Speaker 3: Me?

1155
01:00:43,120 --> 01:00:45,000
Speaker 2: Fix this. Hold on, let me fix this. We're getting it.

1156
01:00:45,040 --> 01:00:46,440
Speaker 2: We getting it. Yeah, a lot of milky love in

1157
01:00:46,480 --> 01:00:49,080
Speaker 2: the chat, guys. I want to see. I want to

1158
01:00:49,120 --> 01:00:54,000
Speaker 2: see the chat flooded, flooded with milk like you're supposed

1159
01:00:54,000 --> 01:00:58,160
Speaker 2: to be pumped yesterday. Yep, we're milked. That's right. I

1160
01:00:58,240 --> 01:01:00,800
Speaker 2: don't want to get milk straight or I die my

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01:01:00,880 --> 01:01:06,320
Speaker 2: hair blonder than John's today. I like that, Jordan and Discord. Yeah,

1162
01:01:06,360 --> 01:01:10,360
Speaker 2: let's see it. John, you are ready. Let's go. My daughter, Yeah,

1163
01:01:10,400 --> 01:01:11,160
Speaker 2: my daughter, let's go.

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01:01:11,840 --> 01:01:14,479
Speaker 1: My daughter didn't think her grandma in her graduation post

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01:01:14,880 --> 01:01:15,920
Speaker 1: because she never helped her.

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Speaker 2: Yes, y yeah, yeah, yeah, what do you want to

1167
01:01:21,920 --> 01:01:25,240
Speaker 2: do that? One more time? Wait? You got this? Come on?

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01:01:25,920 --> 01:01:29,439
Speaker 2: What do you say? What's your whispering over there? What's

1169
01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:32,200
Speaker 2: he whispering over there? I gotta think of another one line? Right?

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01:01:33,520 --> 01:01:35,240
Speaker 2: That was amazing. One more time?

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01:01:35,400 --> 01:01:38,120
Speaker 3: Should we give Riley? Do you want to go over time? Y?

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Speaker 3: Fifteen Second'll give you fifteen seconds.

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Speaker 2: You're ready? No, no, thanks to you? Do you want

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01:01:44,920 --> 01:01:50,440
Speaker 2: to do it one more time? So? My brother in

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01:01:50,560 --> 01:01:54,360
Speaker 2: law favors her youngest child and her children. Uh that

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01:01:54,600 --> 01:01:55,920
Speaker 2: is that is fact.

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Speaker 1: And there are a million examples of this as my

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Speaker 1: kids grew up. Let me yep, your favorites youngest child

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Speaker 1: and her children. But since it never bothered me, uh,

1180
01:02:05,480 --> 01:02:07,720
Speaker 1: since it never bothered my husband, and since I have

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01:02:07,920 --> 01:02:10,760
Speaker 1: a big enough village, I have never said anything about it.

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01:02:11,240 --> 01:02:14,400
Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from Miserable found in ninety

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01:02:14,600 --> 01:02:17,080
Speaker 1: seventy eight on the r slash Okay storytime, so about it. So,

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Speaker 1: when my kids started to notice the blatant favoritism, I

1185
01:02:20,400 --> 01:02:22,919
Speaker 1: told him that Grannie loves all of her grands the same,

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01:02:23,560 --> 01:02:26,760
Speaker 1: but that Josh and Stephie need her attention more. And

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Speaker 1: they never really questioned things. Since they didn't seem to

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Speaker 1: be deeply bothered, I let it ride. And I'm double

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Speaker 1: checking for myself here. It's uh, Grannie, Granny favors her

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Speaker 1: youngest child and her children, so doesn't favor op and

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Speaker 1: Ope's kids, but favors like the other grandchildren that.

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Speaker 2: She likes the little baby. Yeah right, got it, got it? Yeah, Yeah,

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01:02:55,640 --> 01:02:58,520
Speaker 2: you're you're old and gross. We're old and gross. John.

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01:02:59,160 --> 01:03:01,200
Speaker 2: You'll get Riley over there. He's the baby of the group.

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01:03:01,400 --> 01:03:02,240
Speaker 2: Apparently he's young.

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Speaker 3: He's so cute. Look at him, Look at him. Go

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01:03:07,040 --> 01:03:11,040
Speaker 3: give me your skin routine. Uh, water and caffeine and

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Speaker 3: protein and basketball.

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Speaker 1: When Josh's When Josh, sister in law's oldest child graduated

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Speaker 1: high school, his grandmother bought him a nice car.

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01:03:22,680 --> 01:03:24,440
Speaker 2: It was used, but it was a very good brand

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01:03:24,480 --> 01:03:25,280
Speaker 2: with low mileage.

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01:03:25,480 --> 01:03:29,160
Speaker 1: They spilt. They spent around twelve thousand dollars us. I

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01:03:29,280 --> 01:03:31,440
Speaker 1: was really happy for Joshi. He was a good kid,

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01:03:31,560 --> 01:03:33,800
Speaker 1: and since he went straight to the workforce, he needed

1206
01:03:33,800 --> 01:03:36,960
Speaker 1: a vehicle. I knew my kids would not get the

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01:03:37,040 --> 01:03:39,960
Speaker 1: same kind of gift at their graduation, and I know

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01:03:40,280 --> 01:03:43,320
Speaker 1: my husband and kids didn't expect it either. There was

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01:03:43,360 --> 01:03:45,640
Speaker 1: no jealousy since this kind of thing was par for

1210
01:03:45,760 --> 01:03:47,440
Speaker 1: the course. That's so sad when it's like you're just.

1211
01:03:47,520 --> 01:03:51,560
Speaker 2: Used to it. Yeah sucks Josh's Josh's got his horse

1212
01:03:51,600 --> 01:03:54,360
Speaker 2: and I got my only harmonica growing up, you had

1213
01:03:54,360 --> 01:03:56,320
Speaker 2: a toy horse, like like Josh got a pony and

1214
01:03:56,360 --> 01:03:57,640
Speaker 2: I got a harmonica. Dude.

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Speaker 1: That's that's a very sad grouping of gifts right there.

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01:04:01,640 --> 01:04:04,400
Speaker 1: Fast forward to my oldest graduation from high school. She

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Speaker 1: was accepted into her dream school with scholarships, but after

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01:04:07,760 --> 01:04:10,880
Speaker 1: budgeting out everything, she realized that we might have a

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01:04:10,920 --> 01:04:14,000
Speaker 1: shortfall of about two thousand dollars for the first year.

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Speaker 2: Dude, honestly, that's w that's w better than one hundred. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: She did not want to ask my husband and I

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Speaker 1: because she felt that between the college fund and having

1224
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Speaker 1: to prepare for her sister's graduation impossible college.

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Speaker 2: She did not want to overburden us. That is that

1226
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Speaker 2: is sweet.

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Speaker 1: She told us that she really wanted to figure it

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Speaker 1: out on her own. She applied for a loan but

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Speaker 1: needed a co signer. My husband and I are very

1230
01:04:39,600 --> 01:04:42,920
Speaker 1: overextended and we could not get approved as co signers.

1231
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Speaker 1: So who do we have left to turn to? She

1232
01:04:46,720 --> 01:04:50,280
Speaker 1: went to her grandmother, evil Granny, and asked if she

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01:04:50,440 --> 01:04:53,800
Speaker 1: could be the co signer instead of giving her a

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01:04:53,920 --> 01:04:57,200
Speaker 1: graduation gift or any birthday slash Christmas gifts that year

1235
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Speaker 1: literally the fairest thing ever. Yeah, that's like, that's nice

1236
01:05:00,080 --> 01:05:01,680
Speaker 1: to be a co signer. I'm going to pay for it,

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01:05:01,760 --> 01:05:03,680
Speaker 1: you know, the worst case, the worst cases you would

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Speaker 1: probably pay. Well, I mean two thousand bucks for some people,

1239
01:05:06,320 --> 01:05:09,000
Speaker 1: that is a graduation gift. Yeah, it's a big it's big,

1240
01:05:09,080 --> 01:05:10,480
Speaker 1: but some people do that.

1241
01:05:10,680 --> 01:05:16,439
Speaker 2: Some I didn't get that crazy rich people not me. Okay, John, okay, trust,

1242
01:05:16,880 --> 01:05:17,560
Speaker 2: she explained.

1243
01:05:18,120 --> 01:05:20,480
Speaker 1: She explained that she would definitely pay the loan since

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01:05:20,520 --> 01:05:23,360
Speaker 1: it was a relatively small amount and her grandmother would

1245
01:05:23,400 --> 01:05:26,360
Speaker 1: not have to worry about her defaulting. She's a super

1246
01:05:26,440 --> 01:05:29,120
Speaker 1: responsible kid who has always been a hard worker. Her

1247
01:05:29,160 --> 01:05:33,040
Speaker 1: grandmother told her that she could not co sign. She

1248
01:05:33,200 --> 01:05:36,560
Speaker 1: explained that she was already a co signers on her

1249
01:05:36,680 --> 01:05:38,960
Speaker 1: youngest daughter's car, Lise.

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Speaker 2: Dude, and she.

1251
01:05:41,760 --> 01:05:44,640
Speaker 1: Didn't want the responsibility in case something happened and my

1252
01:05:44,880 --> 01:05:46,120
Speaker 1: daughter couldn't pay it.

1253
01:05:48,160 --> 01:05:50,760
Speaker 2: Come on, come on, it's so blatant. It's so blatant.

1254
01:05:51,000 --> 01:05:53,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, a car versus her education and it's only two

1255
01:05:53,320 --> 01:05:55,040
Speaker 1: thousand dollars. I mean, hey, a car is going to

1256
01:05:55,080 --> 01:05:59,000
Speaker 1: get you places of education? Skiddy nowhere, nowhere? Have you

1257
01:05:59,040 --> 01:06:00,840
Speaker 1: heard of a little thing called inflation?

1258
01:06:02,920 --> 01:06:04,880
Speaker 2: Does it apply? I don't know, but I just said it.

1259
01:06:05,040 --> 01:06:07,760
Speaker 2: So it's great being I got something. You had something there,

1260
01:06:07,760 --> 01:06:11,120
Speaker 2: and you're like inflation, that'll get inflation. I might as

1261
01:06:11,160 --> 01:06:12,480
Speaker 2: well just inflate my car tires.

1262
01:06:12,600 --> 01:06:15,400
Speaker 1: I do a podcast. This is a great banter, so

1263
01:06:16,240 --> 01:06:18,240
Speaker 1: in case something happened and my daughter can pay for it.

1264
01:06:18,640 --> 01:06:21,160
Speaker 1: My husband told his mom that he would pay it

1265
01:06:21,240 --> 01:06:23,720
Speaker 1: if Lena wasn't able to, but his mom just wasn't

1266
01:06:23,720 --> 01:06:26,760
Speaker 1: comfortable with that, and that maybe Lena should stay home

1267
01:06:26,840 --> 01:06:29,640
Speaker 1: and work until she has enough money from school or

1268
01:06:29,720 --> 01:06:30,760
Speaker 1: go to a different school.

1269
01:06:30,880 --> 01:06:35,000
Speaker 2: Oh my god, no big deal. Come on what Lena

1270
01:06:35,120 --> 01:06:37,560
Speaker 2: went to one of our close family friends who immediately

1271
01:06:37,680 --> 01:06:39,800
Speaker 2: co signed for her. That was so sweet and beautiful,

1272
01:06:41,000 --> 01:06:42,919
Speaker 2: no questions asked. All is good.

1273
01:06:43,480 --> 01:06:46,520
Speaker 1: Lena graduated early, did a five plus one program for

1274
01:06:46,600 --> 01:06:50,200
Speaker 1: her advanced degree, and got a really impressive job after graduation.

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01:06:50,640 --> 01:06:52,560
Speaker 2: W do you know what a five plus one is? Yeah,

1276
01:06:52,600 --> 01:06:57,840
Speaker 2: so basically six. It's good. Ken.

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01:06:58,520 --> 01:07:00,280
Speaker 1: If you toss it up to me. Man, if your

1278
01:07:00,360 --> 01:07:05,240
Speaker 1: cakes weren't so fat, I would Lord knows.

1279
01:07:05,080 --> 01:07:08,040
Speaker 2: What I would do. What's he doing? Here we go?

1280
01:07:08,480 --> 01:07:16,320
Speaker 2: What are we doing here? Here we go? We're making pizza? No,

1281
01:07:16,440 --> 01:07:21,200
Speaker 2: we're making booth. No, we're making ca We're making straight.

1282
01:07:21,360 --> 01:07:25,600
Speaker 2: I'm about to slap that dough. You know what I mean, dude?

1283
01:07:25,640 --> 01:07:30,880
Speaker 2: What's what's wrong with grandma? Girls? Sucks? That's so sad. Yeah,

1284
01:07:30,920 --> 01:07:33,560
Speaker 2: I just need your name on a paper. I mean,

1285
01:07:33,680 --> 01:07:37,880
Speaker 2: like it. It's not fair. It's not fair, that's the thing.

1286
01:07:38,040 --> 01:07:40,480
Speaker 2: Like twelve k versus like two that you don't even know.

1287
01:07:40,640 --> 01:07:41,200
Speaker 2: She was really.

1288
01:07:41,120 --> 01:07:44,600
Speaker 1: Uncomfortable, then she shouldn't have done. Twelve k is six

1289
01:07:44,680 --> 01:07:47,280
Speaker 1: times more than two k math quick math.

1290
01:07:48,000 --> 01:07:50,120
Speaker 3: Hey five plus one I could do, but the five

1291
01:07:50,120 --> 01:07:52,720
Speaker 3: plus one is like some degrees you needs six years.

1292
01:07:53,000 --> 01:07:54,760
Speaker 2: So she got it in five and I think she

1293
01:07:54,920 --> 01:07:57,040
Speaker 2: didn't want something like that, like a master's degree in

1294
01:07:57,120 --> 01:07:59,320
Speaker 2: five years. So that's what it seems like. Got you,

1295
01:07:59,400 --> 01:08:03,960
Speaker 2: got you cool? So so like, yeah, graduated a year earlier. Yeah, yeah, Yeah.

1296
01:08:04,680 --> 01:08:06,840
Speaker 1: My friends have a pretty large property near where my

1297
01:08:06,920 --> 01:08:09,400
Speaker 1: daughter went to college, and they hosted a big celebration,

1298
01:08:09,840 --> 01:08:12,080
Speaker 1: but space was somewhat limited because they only had a

1299
01:08:12,120 --> 01:08:16,920
Speaker 1: certain number of accommodations available. Lena made Lena made her list,

1300
01:08:17,000 --> 01:08:20,400
Speaker 1: and my mother in law was not on the invite list.

1301
01:08:21,439 --> 01:08:25,280
Speaker 1: My husband convinced her that this would be problematic. Lena

1302
01:08:25,439 --> 01:08:28,360
Speaker 1: argued that Granny probably wouldn't want to go since she

1303
01:08:28,680 --> 01:08:31,600
Speaker 1: never came to any of her other events, but my

1304
01:08:31,720 --> 01:08:33,040
Speaker 1: husband convinced her.

1305
01:08:33,080 --> 01:08:35,559
Speaker 2: To include his mother. Well.

1306
01:08:36,439 --> 01:08:38,680
Speaker 1: Mother in law said she couldn't make the drive out

1307
01:08:38,760 --> 01:08:41,680
Speaker 1: to the college for the graduation or celebration because she

1308
01:08:41,800 --> 01:08:46,240
Speaker 1: doesn't like to drive too far, and my husband's younger

1309
01:08:46,320 --> 01:08:47,280
Speaker 1: sister couldn't make it.

1310
01:08:51,080 --> 01:08:53,600
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, what are we doing? Yeah, I mean

1311
01:08:53,680 --> 01:08:58,519
Speaker 2: she's not coming anyway, So that's true. She doesn't deserve too. Ao.

1312
01:08:59,439 --> 01:09:01,759
Speaker 1: My husband offered to pick her up, and she declined

1313
01:09:01,840 --> 01:09:04,120
Speaker 1: by saying, long car rides are inter thing.

1314
01:09:04,360 --> 01:09:10,599
Speaker 2: Oh dude, I'm I'm about to hear a hypocritical.

1315
01:09:10,160 --> 01:09:12,200
Speaker 1: I believe and and and you know what's gonna happen

1316
01:09:12,280 --> 01:09:15,680
Speaker 1: next the other grand child's be like, oh hey, so like, uh,

1317
01:09:16,120 --> 01:09:18,519
Speaker 1: I'm just throwing like a little Taco Tuesday. But it's

1318
01:09:18,640 --> 01:09:21,040
Speaker 1: in Mexico, So can you just like drive twenty four

1319
01:09:21,080 --> 01:09:25,800
Speaker 1: hours straight? Granyat in the car boom going beat side.

1320
01:09:25,880 --> 01:09:28,759
Speaker 1: Note she had just gone on vacation a month prior

1321
01:09:28,840 --> 01:09:31,320
Speaker 1: to a spot a little farther than where we are

1322
01:09:31,400 --> 01:09:35,000
Speaker 1: going by car with sister launer kids.

1323
01:09:36,280 --> 01:09:40,120
Speaker 2: I'm dead, this granny is, I'm dead. It was fine.

1324
01:09:40,560 --> 01:09:43,360
Speaker 1: Lena obviously didn't care and kind of gave her dad

1325
01:09:43,479 --> 01:09:44,919
Speaker 1: the told you, grin.

1326
01:09:46,479 --> 01:09:49,880
Speaker 2: Come on, dad. I appreciate that they're not affected by this.

1327
01:09:50,000 --> 01:09:53,400
Speaker 2: They're just laughing out there activities. Yeah, they're just like

1328
01:09:53,479 --> 01:09:55,519
Speaker 2: it's so outlandish for them. There was like this is

1329
01:09:55,600 --> 01:09:56,879
Speaker 2: just all one big joke.

1330
01:09:56,920 --> 01:10:01,880
Speaker 1: And honestly, good on the daughter for saying that, because, like,

1331
01:10:01,960 --> 01:10:04,200
Speaker 1: you know what, it's like, Okay, if you're gonna spend

1332
01:10:04,280 --> 01:10:06,880
Speaker 1: my whole life, she's graduated college now, she's an adult.

1333
01:10:07,000 --> 01:10:09,880
Speaker 1: She's like, if you didn't value me from birth to

1334
01:10:10,400 --> 01:10:12,680
Speaker 1: now graduating college in my adulthood.

1335
01:10:12,960 --> 01:10:15,400
Speaker 2: Go ahead on, go ahead, and go ahead not be involved.

1336
01:10:16,360 --> 01:10:19,000
Speaker 1: So after the celebrations, Lena posted to her social media

1337
01:10:19,040 --> 01:10:21,080
Speaker 1: with a ton of picks and called out various friends

1338
01:10:21,120 --> 01:10:23,560
Speaker 1: and family by name. My mother in law was not

1339
01:10:23,880 --> 01:10:27,320
Speaker 1: included in the shout outs because she wasn't there. Uh

1340
01:10:27,400 --> 01:10:31,519
Speaker 1: this was literally months ago, back in May. Okay, I

1341
01:10:31,880 --> 01:10:35,880
Speaker 1: think we're building up to something. Bit oh grandma found

1342
01:10:35,880 --> 01:10:37,280
Speaker 1: an Internet explorer and.

1343
01:10:38,760 --> 01:10:45,000
Speaker 2: Right, I'm not just gott an America OLNE account. Come on,

1344
01:10:45,200 --> 01:10:53,920
Speaker 2: dude on seven got you? Oh a press that can't

1345
01:10:53,960 --> 01:10:57,040
Speaker 2: think I'm a red flag? Yeah, I'll fix it. There

1346
01:10:57,120 --> 01:10:58,040
Speaker 2: we go. Thanks my job.

1347
01:10:59,080 --> 01:11:01,800
Speaker 1: Sister in law Reesa showed mother in law the post,

1348
01:11:01,920 --> 01:11:04,759
Speaker 1: and mother in law called husband to ask if Lena

1349
01:11:05,000 --> 01:11:07,679
Speaker 1: was dense or trying to be hurtful since she named

1350
01:11:07,880 --> 01:11:11,880
Speaker 1: my parents but not mother in law. Uh, I would

1351
01:11:11,880 --> 01:11:15,200
Speaker 1: have been like, oh I just took attendance. Yeah, exactly,

1352
01:11:15,400 --> 01:11:18,439
Speaker 1: and you weren't there. My husband doesn't do any kind

1353
01:11:18,439 --> 01:11:20,880
Speaker 1: of social media, so he was clueless and put her

1354
01:11:20,920 --> 01:11:23,280
Speaker 1: on speakerphone to ask me. Mother in law said she

1355
01:11:23,400 --> 01:11:26,840
Speaker 1: was very hurt that Lena seemingly went out of her

1356
01:11:26,880 --> 01:11:29,519
Speaker 1: way to exclude her when she talked about her amazing

1357
01:11:29,600 --> 01:11:32,520
Speaker 1: family and even included people who were not blood relatives

1358
01:11:32,880 --> 01:11:36,160
Speaker 1: but not her well. She said it was rude and

1359
01:11:36,240 --> 01:11:39,280
Speaker 1: mean spirited. And I told her that Lenn was probably

1360
01:11:39,479 --> 01:11:42,960
Speaker 1: just thinking about the folks who made it to her party.

1361
01:11:43,120 --> 01:11:46,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, that makes sense. It literally makes sense. Let me

1362
01:11:46,479 --> 01:11:50,599
Speaker 2: thank someone from the party for being at the party.

1363
01:11:50,720 --> 01:11:52,920
Speaker 2: And how could you be mad? I mean, how many

1364
01:11:53,080 --> 01:11:55,360
Speaker 2: likes did this post? Git? How many views does this post? Git? Guys?

1365
01:11:55,439 --> 01:11:57,519
Speaker 2: And why are we getting mad over it? The only

1366
01:11:57,560 --> 01:11:59,080
Speaker 2: way you could get mad about it is if it

1367
01:11:59,160 --> 01:12:01,439
Speaker 2: had like a million few And you're like, I could

1368
01:12:01,479 --> 01:12:06,320
Speaker 2: have significantly my business could have like flourished from a

1369
01:12:06,360 --> 01:12:06,720
Speaker 2: shout out.

1370
01:12:06,760 --> 01:12:09,840
Speaker 1: Think about this from Grannie's perspective, right, Grannie's Granny's.

1371
01:12:09,520 --> 01:12:12,280
Speaker 2: Scrolling on on old book face. Right, if she sees

1372
01:12:12,320 --> 01:12:14,759
Speaker 2: something with a hundred likes, She's like, this is viral?

1373
01:12:15,000 --> 01:12:18,760
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, right, yeah, Grannie's got

1374
01:12:18,840 --> 01:12:21,400
Speaker 2: no concept. Grannie don't know mister beeasts.

1375
01:12:23,960 --> 01:12:27,320
Speaker 1: So I told her that Lenn was probably thinking about

1376
01:12:27,320 --> 01:12:29,880
Speaker 1: the folks who made it to the party. She points

1377
01:12:29,920 --> 01:12:33,880
Speaker 1: out that she also included some folks who weren't there

1378
01:12:34,280 --> 01:12:38,360
Speaker 1: and excluded her, and excluding her seemed deliverate, deliberate.

1379
01:12:39,600 --> 01:12:42,519
Speaker 2: I know, my kid, she was. She is not going

1380
01:12:42,600 --> 01:12:44,519
Speaker 2: to actively try to hurt anyone.

1381
01:12:44,680 --> 01:12:48,120
Speaker 1: It's not in her nature. So I said, honestly, I

1382
01:12:48,200 --> 01:12:50,719
Speaker 1: don't think she was trying to upset you. I don't

1383
01:12:50,760 --> 01:12:53,439
Speaker 1: think she thought of you at all. And really, why

1384
01:12:53,520 --> 01:13:00,559
Speaker 1: would she. You haven't gone to a single competition, game, graduation, concert,

1385
01:13:00,920 --> 01:13:05,200
Speaker 1: awards ceremony, and you even copped out on her birthday

1386
01:13:05,280 --> 01:13:06,919
Speaker 1: parties many times.

1387
01:13:06,720 --> 01:13:07,200
Speaker 2: Over the years.

1388
01:13:09,200 --> 01:13:13,160
Speaker 1: What she's supposed to do, what she's supposed to do.

1389
01:13:14,520 --> 01:13:17,120
Speaker 1: Mother in law started to get upset. Husband took the

1390
01:13:17,200 --> 01:13:20,160
Speaker 1: phone and I went back to business. Afterwards, my husband

1391
01:13:20,200 --> 01:13:22,160
Speaker 1: came up to me and told me that while he

1392
01:13:22,240 --> 01:13:25,439
Speaker 1: agrees that Lenn wasn't trying to be disrespectful, I was

1393
01:13:25,600 --> 01:13:29,160
Speaker 1: intentionally hurtful and owe her mother and owe his mother

1394
01:13:29,280 --> 01:13:33,040
Speaker 1: an apology for my rudeness and dismissiveness of her part

1395
01:13:33,120 --> 01:13:34,400
Speaker 1: in the lives of my kids.

1396
01:13:35,560 --> 01:13:39,080
Speaker 2: Uh kind of sounds like she was just spitting backs. Yeah, dude,

1397
01:13:39,120 --> 01:13:39,880
Speaker 2: that's just the truth.

1398
01:13:40,000 --> 01:13:42,439
Speaker 1: It kind of sounds like maybe you should have asked

1399
01:13:42,560 --> 01:13:46,639
Speaker 1: your mother why she is uh neglecting your children?

1400
01:13:46,840 --> 01:13:48,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, everything about that. Here we go, Here we go.

1401
01:13:48,560 --> 01:13:50,479
Speaker 2: This is other phone conversation. Should go and talk to me. Hey,

1402
01:13:50,560 --> 01:13:56,200
Speaker 2: mother in law, I'm sorry you feel that way. Done beautiful.

1403
01:13:56,360 --> 01:13:59,720
Speaker 2: I love it. Oscar Oscar Golden Globe. If it were so,

1404
01:14:02,240 --> 01:14:05,559
Speaker 2: that's the movie. I told him that it's a freaking

1405
01:14:05,760 --> 01:14:09,320
Speaker 2: social media post. It's on a platform that mother in

1406
01:14:09,400 --> 01:14:10,400
Speaker 2: law doesn't even have.

1407
01:14:10,920 --> 01:14:13,960
Speaker 1: And I think she was out of pocket for insinuating

1408
01:14:14,080 --> 01:14:16,680
Speaker 1: that my child was being rude or wrong for not

1409
01:14:16,800 --> 01:14:20,840
Speaker 1: including her when she spent decades treating our kids like

1410
01:14:20,960 --> 01:14:24,479
Speaker 1: they were less important than her other grandkids. He said,

1411
01:14:24,560 --> 01:14:26,960
Speaker 1: he gets it, but I chose not to push for

1412
01:14:27,120 --> 01:14:30,680
Speaker 1: involvement or fairness for all these years. It's unfair to

1413
01:14:30,880 --> 01:14:34,200
Speaker 1: unload now. I did confirm with Len that it wasn't

1414
01:14:34,240 --> 01:14:37,040
Speaker 1: a deliberate slight. She was being mushy and speaking from

1415
01:14:37,080 --> 01:14:39,920
Speaker 1: the heart and trying to be extra for some folks

1416
01:14:39,920 --> 01:14:42,439
Speaker 1: who have really helped her, which makes sense. Think about

1417
01:14:42,479 --> 01:14:44,360
Speaker 1: the people that did the loan and everything else right

1418
01:14:44,640 --> 01:14:46,840
Speaker 1: goes on the loan. She took the post down and

1419
01:14:47,160 --> 01:14:49,200
Speaker 1: reposted some photos without the shout outs.

1420
01:14:49,479 --> 01:14:50,519
Speaker 2: That sucks. I hate that.

1421
01:14:50,920 --> 01:14:53,800
Speaker 1: Also, she did said mother in law a thank you card,

1422
01:14:53,880 --> 01:14:56,680
Speaker 1: but the heartfelt note for her gift when she did

1423
01:14:57,080 --> 01:14:59,080
Speaker 1: when she did her thank you cards last month. She

1424
01:14:59,200 --> 01:15:01,760
Speaker 1: also called Grannie know that it wasn't meant to be

1425
01:15:01,840 --> 01:15:04,240
Speaker 1: exclusionary and she is sorry that she was upset by it.

1426
01:15:04,400 --> 01:15:07,080
Speaker 1: Grannie thanked her for clarifying, but has been pretty cold

1427
01:15:07,160 --> 01:15:11,519
Speaker 1: with my husband and I since I snapped. She usually

1428
01:15:11,640 --> 01:15:15,240
Speaker 1: has family supper every Sunday, but she canceled last week

1429
01:15:15,400 --> 01:15:17,439
Speaker 1: and called to tell us that she's not doing it

1430
01:15:17,520 --> 01:15:20,479
Speaker 1: this week either. Husband asked if she wanted to come

1431
01:15:20,560 --> 01:15:22,479
Speaker 1: over to our house and we'd host it, but she

1432
01:15:22,560 --> 01:15:24,080
Speaker 1: said she can't.

1433
01:15:27,000 --> 01:15:29,800
Speaker 2: She can't. Why can't you take anything? Can't do it.

1434
01:15:30,280 --> 01:15:32,920
Speaker 1: I can't drive, I can't eat, I can't walk, I

1435
01:15:33,000 --> 01:15:36,040
Speaker 1: can't talk, I can't co sign loans. I can't do anything.

1436
01:15:36,120 --> 01:15:38,800
Speaker 2: Can't take criticism. I can't take criticism. I can't do it,

1437
01:15:38,800 --> 01:15:39,080
Speaker 2: any of it.

1438
01:15:39,240 --> 01:15:43,000
Speaker 1: Ah, So am I the a hole should I apologize

1439
01:15:43,040 --> 01:15:46,000
Speaker 1: for getting snappy when I've actively made the decision to

1440
01:15:46,160 --> 01:15:49,800
Speaker 1: let the favoritism slide forever. I honestly don't want to

1441
01:15:49,880 --> 01:15:53,320
Speaker 1: apologize because I spoke only the truth. But I also

1442
01:15:53,439 --> 01:15:55,800
Speaker 1: know that I am sometimes just subburn for the sake

1443
01:15:55,880 --> 01:15:57,960
Speaker 1: of being stubborn. We have an update, so I don't

1444
01:15:57,960 --> 01:15:58,479
Speaker 1: go anywhere.

1445
01:15:59,600 --> 01:16:01,560
Speaker 2: We off to talk. What are you doing? John? We

1446
01:16:01,640 --> 01:16:05,920
Speaker 2: have to sit down? Okay, we are sitting down. Well,

1447
01:16:06,120 --> 01:16:08,680
Speaker 2: stand up, stand up, everyone stand I know you stand up.

1448
01:16:09,040 --> 01:16:12,519
Speaker 2: That's you, stand up to you right now? Sit down,

1449
01:16:13,600 --> 01:16:16,639
Speaker 2: sit down, No case today. I know what you're trying

1450
01:16:16,680 --> 01:16:17,640
Speaker 2: to do. There. You're not getting it.

1451
01:16:19,000 --> 01:16:25,760
Speaker 1: So Op has done the husband a solid for it

1452
01:16:25,920 --> 01:16:30,160
Speaker 1: sounds like, you know, two to three decades of letting

1453
01:16:30,240 --> 01:16:33,200
Speaker 1: the favoritism slide and not calling her out, and you

1454
01:16:33,280 --> 01:16:35,360
Speaker 1: know what we hear all the time, quote unquote keeping

1455
01:16:35,400 --> 01:16:39,000
Speaker 1: the peace right. So she's if I was Op and

1456
01:16:39,400 --> 01:16:42,599
Speaker 1: and Len, I would be like, you've let this slide

1457
01:16:42,640 --> 01:16:46,200
Speaker 1: and not defended us for uh dang near probably three decades.

1458
01:16:47,960 --> 01:16:52,040
Speaker 1: This is now the time, almost three decades in to

1459
01:16:52,520 --> 01:16:58,280
Speaker 1: call her out. Because a crime deserves the punishment. It

1460
01:16:58,400 --> 01:16:59,639
Speaker 1: deserves a just punishment.

1461
01:17:00,120 --> 01:17:04,240
Speaker 2: John, she's seventy five years old and old good. She

1462
01:17:04,360 --> 01:17:08,360
Speaker 2: doesn't know any better. Let her die, She's John, go

1463
01:17:09,520 --> 01:17:13,800
Speaker 2: go ahead. Feeling John's solution, Gret, I couldn't say that

1464
01:17:13,920 --> 01:17:16,439
Speaker 2: with my age and experience, but at John's agent experience,

1465
01:17:16,479 --> 01:17:19,240
Speaker 2: I guess that's what. Hey, respect your elders and you two, Okay,

1466
01:17:20,479 --> 01:17:23,040
Speaker 2: dang spect him agree. I agree. This is something my

1467
01:17:23,160 --> 01:17:26,040
Speaker 2: mom would do. And I feel like I would be

1468
01:17:26,120 --> 01:17:28,680
Speaker 2: Lynn in the situation, because like Lynn went back and

1469
01:17:28,800 --> 01:17:30,840
Speaker 2: was like, sorry, Grandma, Like I would be doing that. Yeah, yeah,

1470
01:17:30,840 --> 01:17:32,640
Speaker 2: You're like okay, so you're like it's not worth it.

1471
01:17:33,360 --> 01:17:36,960
Speaker 1: But I honestly think that like OP should be like, hey,

1472
01:17:37,000 --> 01:17:41,320
Speaker 1: you know what, I I won't go and you know, uh,

1473
01:17:42,200 --> 01:17:43,240
Speaker 1: mess with your mom anymore.

1474
01:17:43,960 --> 01:17:44,800
Speaker 2: It's your turn.

1475
01:17:45,600 --> 01:17:47,600
Speaker 1: You're my husband. You should be standing up for me,

1476
01:17:47,720 --> 01:17:50,040
Speaker 1: your wife. You should be standing up for your daughters.

1477
01:17:50,360 --> 01:17:53,720
Speaker 2: You should be the man of the house. I saw

1478
01:17:53,760 --> 01:17:56,400
Speaker 2: a comment earlier. It was Josie that said, hot take

1479
01:17:56,479 --> 01:17:57,320
Speaker 2: divorced the husband.

1480
01:17:58,120 --> 01:18:03,360
Speaker 3: Oh hm, who's the bigger I mean we I think

1481
01:18:03,400 --> 01:18:05,040
Speaker 3: I was gonna say who's the bigger a hole here?

1482
01:18:05,200 --> 01:18:08,360
Speaker 3: But like the granny or the husband, obviously the granny

1483
01:18:08,400 --> 01:18:09,080
Speaker 3: is a real a hole.

1484
01:18:09,120 --> 01:18:11,559
Speaker 2: But it's a good question. Nah, the husband's just trying

1485
01:18:11,560 --> 01:18:14,519
Speaker 2: to keep the peace. I don't think he's not the

1486
01:18:14,560 --> 01:18:16,840
Speaker 2: bigger a hole, but he's not, is he an Ah?

1487
01:18:17,760 --> 01:18:20,320
Speaker 2: I think yes, I think yes. I think so.

1488
01:18:20,640 --> 01:18:24,400
Speaker 1: I think so because for that long, for this much

1489
01:18:25,439 --> 01:18:29,080
Speaker 1: of a slight, I feel like it's not worth letting

1490
01:18:29,160 --> 01:18:32,880
Speaker 1: your wife and children go through that that at a

1491
01:18:33,000 --> 01:18:37,880
Speaker 1: bare minimum, I think you need to say, hey, maybe

1492
01:18:37,920 --> 01:18:40,240
Speaker 1: I can't change you, but the way that you treat

1493
01:18:40,320 --> 01:18:44,640
Speaker 1: my wife and children is not okay. Yeah, especially especially

1494
01:18:44,840 --> 01:18:45,960
Speaker 1: because it's his own mother.

1495
01:18:46,920 --> 01:18:49,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, everyone in this family reminds me of my own

1496
01:18:49,720 --> 01:18:51,400
Speaker 2: family members, And I'm like, yeah, I could see my

1497
01:18:51,479 --> 01:18:54,320
Speaker 2: dad doing that and like trying to keep the peace

1498
01:18:54,360 --> 01:18:56,800
Speaker 2: and my mom being stubborn and be like, no, Sid,

1499
01:18:57,080 --> 01:19:01,680
Speaker 2: that's not how we do this. I think that one

1500
01:19:01,720 --> 01:19:04,120
Speaker 2: felt personal. I think it's like in between.

1501
01:19:04,320 --> 01:19:06,600
Speaker 1: It's like, Okay, we don't have to be like, uh,

1502
01:19:07,000 --> 01:19:10,200
Speaker 1: intentionally petty, but we also don't need to just completely

1503
01:19:10,360 --> 01:19:12,640
Speaker 1: roll over and let everything happen. I think it's right

1504
01:19:12,680 --> 01:19:15,080
Speaker 1: in the middle where we say, like, look like the

1505
01:19:15,200 --> 01:19:17,679
Speaker 1: husband or whoever, like all right, look mom, look granny,

1506
01:19:18,320 --> 01:19:20,880
Speaker 1: you have been treating us like this and it's not okay.

1507
01:19:21,040 --> 01:19:24,519
Speaker 2: It hurts that I would bring it up and be like, hey,

1508
01:19:24,520 --> 01:19:27,320
Speaker 2: I want you to stand up for me. Please. I

1509
01:19:27,360 --> 01:19:29,280
Speaker 2: was gonna say, again, respect your elders, but not this

1510
01:19:29,439 --> 01:19:33,040
Speaker 2: granny talk about it. Respect the elders that respect you.

1511
01:19:33,400 --> 01:19:40,960
Speaker 2: Oh that's that's a whoa disrespect me, Johnny?

1512
01:19:42,080 --> 01:19:45,040
Speaker 3: Oh stop anyways, stop I made eye contact with that.

1513
01:19:45,360 --> 01:19:46,960
Speaker 3: If I made eye contact with that, then everyone else

1514
01:19:47,000 --> 01:19:49,160
Speaker 3: made eye contact with that. That's not okay.

1515
01:19:50,960 --> 01:19:52,880
Speaker 2: You don't have to look. You're supposed to look away.

1516
01:19:53,240 --> 01:19:58,439
Speaker 2: It's like an explosion. I can't look away. Update kind

1517
01:19:58,520 --> 01:20:00,679
Speaker 2: of I showed my in this post.

1518
01:20:01,040 --> 01:20:04,360
Speaker 1: He wanted me to note that he did not exactly

1519
01:20:04,560 --> 01:20:08,760
Speaker 1: tell me to apologize revisionist history much. I asked him

1520
01:20:08,800 --> 01:20:11,920
Speaker 1: if I should apologize. He doesn't care one way or

1521
01:20:12,000 --> 01:20:14,720
Speaker 1: the other, but said, if I value my relationship with

1522
01:20:14,800 --> 01:20:16,800
Speaker 1: his mom, then I should probably apologize. I don't like

1523
01:20:16,840 --> 01:20:20,200
Speaker 1: this husband because I intended to be disrespectful.

1524
01:20:21,920 --> 01:20:22,519
Speaker 2: Just really quick.

1525
01:20:22,800 --> 01:20:27,880
Speaker 1: He's not acknowledging that the mom let the favoritism and

1526
01:20:28,160 --> 01:20:31,960
Speaker 1: the low key like dissing in hatred slide for thirty years.

1527
01:20:32,320 --> 01:20:34,120
Speaker 3: Sorry, he's not. He's not acknowledging that he just went

1528
01:20:34,160 --> 01:20:36,160
Speaker 3: over his head. He's like, Oh, that's that's what I went.

1529
01:20:38,240 --> 01:20:40,400
Speaker 2: But my sister always got nice things and I didn't.

1530
01:20:40,439 --> 01:20:44,400
Speaker 2: That's always how it's been, how it goes. That's called favoritism. Damn,

1531
01:20:44,600 --> 01:20:48,960
Speaker 2: that's that's just what it was being a sister. Oh man, Yeah,

1532
01:20:49,000 --> 01:20:50,479
Speaker 2: you're the sister. Husband.

1533
01:20:51,960 --> 01:20:53,920
Speaker 1: He also said he doesn't care one way or the

1534
01:20:53,960 --> 01:20:56,120
Speaker 1: other and would be fine if we never go over

1535
01:20:56,200 --> 01:20:57,479
Speaker 1: to his mother's again.

1536
01:20:58,560 --> 01:20:58,920
Speaker 2: Okay.

1537
01:20:59,600 --> 01:21:02,400
Speaker 1: He also said he can acknowledge that he was an

1538
01:21:02,479 --> 01:21:04,679
Speaker 1: a hole for not sticking up for Len in that moment.

1539
01:21:05,080 --> 01:21:07,160
Speaker 2: Dude, that's something. He read the posts and saw a

1540
01:21:07,200 --> 01:21:09,479
Speaker 2: few comments about being divorced, and he's like, I have to.

1541
01:21:09,920 --> 01:21:11,880
Speaker 2: I gotta switch it up. I gotta switch it up.

1542
01:21:12,360 --> 01:21:14,760
Speaker 1: By the way, if you don't want us to divorce you,

1543
01:21:15,120 --> 01:21:17,960
Speaker 1: you need to tap my profile right now. Join the

1544
01:21:18,040 --> 01:21:21,519
Speaker 1: Live every weekday at three pm PSD or So help me, God,

1545
01:21:22,040 --> 01:21:23,640
Speaker 1: so help me, He.

1546
01:21:23,640 --> 01:21:27,040
Speaker 2: Will crawl through the screen. I'll help you. No, I'm

1547
01:21:27,120 --> 01:21:28,599
Speaker 2: doing this alone. Kay.

1548
01:21:29,479 --> 01:21:33,760
Speaker 1: So we have just decided to let it simmer. They

1549
01:21:33,840 --> 01:21:36,080
Speaker 1: aren't doing family dinner this week. Next week we're going

1550
01:21:36,120 --> 01:21:38,600
Speaker 1: out of town, and the following week is Thanksgiving. And

1551
01:21:38,840 --> 01:21:42,040
Speaker 1: it's our year with my family. After that we will

1552
01:21:42,120 --> 01:21:44,120
Speaker 1: decide the next course of actions. So they've got like

1553
01:21:44,200 --> 01:21:46,640
Speaker 1: a good few weeks before they have Okay, are we

1554
01:21:46,760 --> 01:21:49,040
Speaker 1: really gonna because there comes a point like Christmas?

1555
01:21:50,120 --> 01:21:54,720
Speaker 2: What are we doing? That's like D's Christmas is D's

1556
01:21:54,800 --> 01:21:57,120
Speaker 2: that's go time. You gotta make a decision. Game time,

1557
01:21:57,160 --> 01:21:57,680
Speaker 2: play over here.

1558
01:21:57,920 --> 01:22:00,000
Speaker 1: I told him that I would like him to address

1559
01:22:00,080 --> 01:22:03,040
Speaker 1: the elevant of the room in the room favoritism. He

1560
01:22:03,200 --> 01:22:06,000
Speaker 1: said he doesn't want to because his mother will deny

1561
01:22:06,080 --> 01:22:07,160
Speaker 1: it and gaslight and cry.

1562
01:22:07,640 --> 01:22:09,599
Speaker 2: Exactly why you should address it? For the video?

1563
01:22:10,040 --> 01:22:14,439
Speaker 3: You grandma cry cry yeah or die? Oh my gosh,

1564
01:22:14,520 --> 01:22:19,960
Speaker 3: Jean just just got by get out of here, choke

1565
01:22:20,040 --> 01:22:22,840
Speaker 3: on your dentures. I don't know, Jeezy John is it

1566
01:22:22,960 --> 01:22:23,320
Speaker 3: the suit?

1567
01:22:24,080 --> 01:22:27,720
Speaker 2: I don't know. And he's honestly rather not.

1568
01:22:31,240 --> 01:22:36,519
Speaker 1: Boys And he's honestly would rather not go over there

1569
01:22:36,600 --> 01:22:38,080
Speaker 1: again than deal with that mess.

1570
01:22:38,760 --> 01:22:40,639
Speaker 2: Okay, husband has no backmun we see.

1571
01:22:41,600 --> 01:22:45,960
Speaker 1: He said he will just invite uh paw grandpa over

1572
01:22:46,120 --> 01:22:48,160
Speaker 1: for beers and sports a few times a month.

1573
01:22:48,280 --> 01:22:48,519
Speaker 2: Loll.

1574
01:22:48,920 --> 01:22:51,160
Speaker 1: So basically the story has ended with the husband is

1575
01:22:51,240 --> 01:22:54,600
Speaker 1: like I would literally rather never see my mother in

1576
01:22:54,800 --> 01:22:58,000
Speaker 1: my life ever again. Than confront her about this, I'll

1577
01:22:58,120 --> 01:23:01,320
Speaker 1: just hang out with with my dad, my old ass dad,

1578
01:23:02,640 --> 01:23:05,360
Speaker 1: like once a month and drink a beer. I'd rather

1579
01:23:05,720 --> 01:23:07,960
Speaker 1: I'd rather see the bottom of this bottle than to

1580
01:23:08,080 --> 01:23:11,320
Speaker 1: hear her yeap. Honestly, Okay, when I don't know who

1581
01:23:11,400 --> 01:23:15,320
Speaker 1: said the hot take of divorce the husband. At first,

1582
01:23:15,360 --> 01:23:17,760
Speaker 1: I was like, come on, this is this is too

1583
01:23:17,840 --> 01:23:21,320
Speaker 1: much at this point now I would never I would

1584
01:23:21,400 --> 01:23:25,640
Speaker 1: rather never see my mother again than address this. That

1585
01:23:25,840 --> 01:23:30,920
Speaker 1: is the hugest red flag. Yeah, you're telling me you

1586
01:23:31,000 --> 01:23:33,240
Speaker 1: don't want to see your mother again till the.

1587
01:23:33,360 --> 01:23:36,840
Speaker 2: Day you die. More. She does disagreement like this, Yeah,

1588
01:23:37,280 --> 01:23:38,960
Speaker 2: because John, you really want her to I mean I

1589
01:23:39,080 --> 01:23:43,960
Speaker 2: wanted to die. I wanted to drop debt. She's John,

1590
01:23:44,280 --> 01:23:46,599
Speaker 2: now is it? I really think it's the suit going

1591
01:23:46,760 --> 01:23:53,519
Speaker 2: make it happen? He and old people's gracious. He just

1592
01:23:53,600 --> 01:24:01,680
Speaker 2: says his spine is like what does he yo? Yeah?

1593
01:24:01,760 --> 01:24:02,920
Speaker 2: The husband? The husband doesn't.

1594
01:24:03,080 --> 01:24:09,720
Speaker 3: He's like nobody nobody wins, but I guess like, like, honestly, Kean's.

1595
01:24:09,360 --> 01:24:15,479
Speaker 1: Earlier question, which is aging even better, is the husband

1596
01:24:15,560 --> 01:24:18,519
Speaker 1: the worst a hole for I'd rather never.

1597
01:24:18,439 --> 01:24:22,200
Speaker 2: See my mom again? That is that is a wide statement.

1598
01:24:22,600 --> 01:24:24,240
Speaker 2: We'll close it out there. We'll let you guys decide

1599
01:24:24,240 --> 01:24:24,679
Speaker 2: in the comments.

1600
01:24:24,720 --> 01:24:27,000
Speaker 3: But he yeah, the fact that he he's like, I

1601
01:24:27,000 --> 01:24:28,559
Speaker 3: don't get to see my mom and I won't defend

1602
01:24:28,640 --> 01:24:29,000
Speaker 3: my daughter.

1603
01:24:29,160 --> 01:24:33,800
Speaker 2: Yeah win win, right guys. Yeah, Yeah, there we go.

1604
01:24:34,000 --> 01:24:35,920
Speaker 2: That's the end of the story. That's it. That's it.

1605
01:24:36,040 --> 01:24:41,880
Speaker 2: That's it. Let me oh sorry, chat, It's not bad.

1606
01:24:45,600 --> 01:24:48,519
Speaker 2: I'm a swag. Thanks for the five bucks. I'm not

1607
01:24:48,640 --> 01:24:51,639
Speaker 2: sure if my last dona went through, so I'll try again.

1608
01:24:52,000 --> 01:24:54,400
Speaker 2: I simply adore you guys, thank you for giving my

1609
01:24:54,520 --> 01:24:58,479
Speaker 2: smile back that we'll do anything we can. I like,

1610
01:24:58,680 --> 01:25:00,840
Speaker 2: I like making people smile. I was talking to Angie

1611
01:25:00,840 --> 01:25:02,559
Speaker 2: the other day. I was like, I think my mission

1612
01:25:02,720 --> 01:25:06,240
Speaker 2: lasses to make others smile, and that's what you do

1613
01:25:06,320 --> 01:25:11,560
Speaker 2: every day. What tried do? Pinker pink pinkyrarian, picker in,

1614
01:25:11,880 --> 01:25:15,640
Speaker 2: picker in, picker in bigger in past my pediatric and

1615
01:25:17,000 --> 01:25:22,040
Speaker 2: geriatric geriatric block with flying colors. I owe to you guys, dude,

1616
01:25:22,640 --> 01:25:25,960
Speaker 2: we're pediatrics. Now, let's go. I don't think that's how

1617
01:25:26,000 --> 01:25:28,040
Speaker 2: it works. That is how it works, she said, Thanks

1618
01:25:28,080 --> 01:25:30,360
Speaker 2: to us, She owes it does give us your degree

1619
01:25:30,880 --> 01:25:34,720
Speaker 2: and now we can practice medicine. All right, I don't

1620
01:25:34,720 --> 01:25:37,120
Speaker 2: even know what is what does the pediatric do? I

1621
01:25:37,240 --> 01:25:41,559
Speaker 2: thought of feat or kids? I see pediatric is let's

1622
01:25:41,600 --> 01:25:44,840
Speaker 2: look it up. That's when we both don't sound both

1623
01:25:44,880 --> 01:25:49,200
Speaker 2: sound terrible, terrible. We probably should not. No, that's right,

1624
01:25:49,200 --> 01:25:53,800
Speaker 2: we should avoid both of those topics completely. Oh, Matt

1625
01:25:53,800 --> 01:25:56,439
Speaker 2: hatter Goal, thanks for the five bucks, Thank you for

1626
01:25:56,600 --> 01:25:59,480
Speaker 2: the concern. Riley plans are going well, but the negotiation

1627
01:25:59,640 --> 01:26:04,200
Speaker 2: with my translation translational Italian father is not going so well.

1628
01:26:04,320 --> 01:26:07,680
Speaker 2: Apparently having a wedding close to Halloween and making it

1629
01:26:07,760 --> 01:26:14,519
Speaker 2: Gothic is not traditions whatever that means. In the chat

1630
01:26:14,880 --> 01:26:18,240
Speaker 2: Arsenal chat for Matt had her married. Yeah, she's getting married,

1631
01:26:20,640 --> 01:26:22,680
Speaker 2: she's getting married near here, But that sounds like so

1632
01:26:22,800 --> 01:26:24,280
Speaker 2: much fun. Do we have black hearts in the chat?

1633
01:26:24,320 --> 01:26:26,200
Speaker 2: That sounds really sick? Black hearts in the chat? I

1634
01:26:26,200 --> 01:26:28,680
Speaker 2: feel like Matt would appreciate. She would absolutely love that.

1635
01:26:29,280 --> 01:26:32,439
Speaker 2: Let's called the YouTube, don't know, Yeah, we already got

1636
01:26:32,439 --> 01:26:38,120
Speaker 2: that one. Also, pediatric means kids, so like pediatrician. Dude,

1637
01:26:38,240 --> 01:26:42,840
Speaker 2: I love my pediatrician. Thank you, doctor, you're anymore? He

1638
01:26:43,000 --> 01:26:45,960
Speaker 2: loves him so much. Forgot his name. It was just

1639
01:26:46,600 --> 01:26:51,360
Speaker 2: doctor love my God, I love I love doctor love Hey,

1640
01:26:51,479 --> 01:26:54,840
Speaker 2: doctor love Hey. I just remember how he made me

1641
01:26:54,880 --> 01:26:59,120
Speaker 2: feel like you like I felt so on. He always

1642
01:26:59,120 --> 01:27:01,000
Speaker 2: asked me like how sex off going, and be like,

1643
01:27:01,000 --> 01:27:02,320
Speaker 2: I don't have one. He's like, well, if you ever do,

1644
01:27:03,200 --> 01:27:07,400
Speaker 2: I'm like, this is this is the most sexual like

1645
01:27:07,479 --> 01:27:09,080
Speaker 2: he was like, are you having sex? He's like, well,

1646
01:27:09,120 --> 01:27:12,240
Speaker 2: make sure you wear protection? How's everything else going? Are

1647
01:27:12,240 --> 01:27:14,760
Speaker 2: you smoking? Stuff like that? Okay, okay, so yeah my

1648
01:27:14,840 --> 01:27:18,160
Speaker 2: pediatrician did that too. Am I supposed to love my pediatrician. Well,

1649
01:27:18,200 --> 01:27:19,920
Speaker 2: he just was a nice guy. He asked out. He

1650
01:27:20,000 --> 01:27:23,280
Speaker 2: asked things outside of my health. Kean, it's your health.

1651
01:27:24,360 --> 01:27:26,840
Speaker 2: I love your health. Life, your spicy sleep life is

1652
01:27:26,880 --> 01:27:29,639
Speaker 2: your health. Life. Smoking is your health life, life health.

1653
01:27:30,560 --> 01:27:32,639
Speaker 2: He was just doing his jump.

1654
01:27:33,240 --> 01:27:37,200
Speaker 1: He was gonna get a jump out though. I love

1655
01:27:38,360 --> 01:27:41,400
Speaker 1: I liked my pediatrician. But he told me, I think

1656
01:27:41,400 --> 01:27:44,080
Speaker 1: I've said this on the pod before, but whoa.

1657
01:27:45,840 --> 01:27:45,880
Speaker 3: Me?

1658
01:27:46,400 --> 01:27:49,599
Speaker 1: Mother f and mixed with the fifty dollars do'no love

1659
01:27:49,720 --> 01:27:51,920
Speaker 1: the boys dream my daughter and.

1660
01:27:51,960 --> 01:27:54,960
Speaker 2: I love calling you her YouTuber name that I stole

1661
01:27:55,040 --> 01:27:58,240
Speaker 2: from her, loll what is that? I think she that's

1662
01:27:58,320 --> 01:28:02,600
Speaker 2: her name is mix mix maybe oh oh, oh, like

1663
01:28:02,680 --> 01:28:05,120
Speaker 2: she stole her user name. That's actually adorable. That's like

1664
01:28:05,160 --> 01:28:10,080
Speaker 2: that was adorable probably on your kids account. True, oh

1665
01:28:10,320 --> 01:28:13,280
Speaker 2: quickly to finish my story, my pediutrician.

1666
01:28:13,400 --> 01:28:15,920
Speaker 1: So when I was like like maybe thirteen fourteen, my

1667
01:28:16,040 --> 01:28:18,000
Speaker 1: doctor was like, oh, you're gonna be like oh, because

1668
01:28:18,040 --> 01:28:20,320
Speaker 1: my grandpa is maybe like six three six four. So

1669
01:28:20,400 --> 01:28:22,439
Speaker 1: he's like, oh, you're gonna be like over six feet, dude,

1670
01:28:22,439 --> 01:28:24,720
Speaker 1: you're crushing it. I'm like, oh great, and then like

1671
01:28:24,840 --> 01:28:28,400
Speaker 1: fifteen he's like yeah, like oh probably.

1672
01:28:28,280 --> 01:28:32,800
Speaker 2: Oh, were's not there yet. Oh okay, sorry, I didn't

1673
01:28:32,800 --> 01:28:34,320
Speaker 2: want to interrupt you, John, Yeah, no, you're fine.

1674
01:28:35,400 --> 01:28:38,200
Speaker 1: I'll just finish quickly, finish it out. Fifteen he's like, oh,

1675
01:28:38,280 --> 01:28:40,000
Speaker 1: you'll just be six feet. I'm like, oh, that's fine.

1676
01:28:40,040 --> 01:28:42,120
Speaker 1: And then he's like, yeah, you're not gonna break six feet?

1677
01:28:44,000 --> 01:28:45,640
Speaker 2: What heck? Wait? So how old were you on the

1678
01:28:45,640 --> 01:28:46,519
Speaker 2: first one when he told you?

1679
01:28:47,479 --> 01:28:49,320
Speaker 1: Maybe I'd get the age wrong, but I thought probably

1680
01:28:49,360 --> 01:28:52,080
Speaker 1: like early to like twelve thirteen or something like that.

1681
01:28:52,160 --> 01:28:54,599
Speaker 1: And then I feel like thirteen fourteen, fifteen, he's like, oh,

1682
01:28:54,640 --> 01:28:56,800
Speaker 1: you're gonna just break six feet. But you're not going

1683
01:28:56,840 --> 01:28:58,679
Speaker 1: over like I said before, I'm like, bro, why didn't

1684
01:28:58,680 --> 01:29:00,680
Speaker 1: you just say nothing? Because then I wouldn't have had

1685
01:29:00,720 --> 01:29:04,519
Speaker 1: the expectation. I didn't have any expectations. So it's all good, dude,

1686
01:29:04,960 --> 01:29:05,439
Speaker 1: real quick.

1687
01:29:05,640 --> 01:29:09,000
Speaker 2: My uh little brothers they said, yeah, you're definitely gonna

1688
01:29:09,000 --> 01:29:11,240
Speaker 2: be like six five six six, And they told me

1689
01:29:11,560 --> 01:29:14,800
Speaker 2: I'd only be like not that big. It didn't tell

1690
01:29:14,840 --> 01:29:16,479
Speaker 2: me I was gonna be that big. Now hopefully that

1691
01:29:16,600 --> 01:29:18,680
Speaker 2: they don't. I don't even know what I'm gonna do

1692
01:29:18,680 --> 01:29:22,000
Speaker 2: when my kid brothers get taller than me. We don't know.

1693
01:29:22,640 --> 01:29:24,160
Speaker 3: We don't know if I don't happen. But also, we

1694
01:29:24,240 --> 01:29:27,600
Speaker 3: got thirty more minutes, guys. Oh yeah, let's read it

1695
01:29:28,560 --> 01:29:29,599
Speaker 3: handas was fifty.

1696
01:29:29,960 --> 01:29:32,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, go to the go to the tiplink and refresh,

1697
01:29:33,240 --> 01:29:39,040
Speaker 2: Refrenishkay like our cloud guys. Oh Hannah, whoa, whoa, whoa whoa.

1698
01:29:39,520 --> 01:29:42,040
Speaker 2: Now you're good, You're good, You're okay freaking out here, Hanah,

1699
01:29:42,240 --> 01:29:45,600
Speaker 2: thanks for the fifty buck of runos. Both granny and

1700
01:29:45,800 --> 01:29:47,240
Speaker 2: husband are kind of lame.

1701
01:29:47,360 --> 01:29:49,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, dude, maybe they should both die. I don't know,

1702
01:29:50,640 --> 01:29:58,040
Speaker 1: John John Wow death today whoa yes see, love you guys,

1703
01:29:58,479 --> 01:29:58,800
Speaker 1: Love you.

1704
01:29:59,040 --> 01:30:02,840
Speaker 2: Yes, you love you. Oh my gosh love dang it

1705
01:30:03,160 --> 01:30:05,519
Speaker 2: freaking look oh man, look at that.

1706
01:30:05,600 --> 01:30:09,360
Speaker 1: Look at bang bang bang Wow crazy and then uh

1707
01:30:09,400 --> 01:30:10,880
Speaker 1: oh we already read VIX mixes.

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01:30:11,000 --> 01:30:12,880
Speaker 2: We did, we did, We did, we did? Then Amy

1709
01:30:12,920 --> 01:30:16,880
Speaker 2: with the three dollars sticker, Let's freaking go Winter ninety

1710
01:30:16,880 --> 01:30:18,639
Speaker 2: six girl. Thanks for the gifted membership.

1711
01:30:19,560 --> 01:30:19,920
Speaker 3: Go for it.

1712
01:30:20,479 --> 01:30:23,920
Speaker 1: O MG, thanks for the five pounds. Great stream, especially

1713
01:30:24,000 --> 01:30:25,400
Speaker 1: John wanting to kill the elderly woman.

1714
01:30:25,479 --> 01:30:28,599
Speaker 2: See people love it. I love seeing Riley reading the stories.

1715
01:30:28,640 --> 01:30:31,160
Speaker 2: To love you guys, We love you back you like

1716
01:30:31,320 --> 01:30:34,720
Speaker 2: Jang's bond. That's what you are. Do do do do do? Dude?

1717
01:30:34,880 --> 01:30:37,600
Speaker 1: Did you do you remember playing old an Eye on

1718
01:30:38,040 --> 01:30:42,040
Speaker 1: Dude the N sixty four Bro, see not not these kids,

1719
01:30:42,160 --> 01:30:44,400
Speaker 1: Riley's trying to yell for yah.

1720
01:30:44,479 --> 01:30:46,519
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, these these kids don't know nothing about No.

1721
01:30:46,640 --> 01:30:47,240
Speaker 2: N sixty four.

1722
01:30:48,000 --> 01:30:52,879
Speaker 3: Uh Mario kar and sixty four, Super Smash Brothers, Super original.

1723
01:30:53,080 --> 01:30:55,200
Speaker 2: Are you are you kidding me?

1724
01:30:55,320 --> 01:30:55,400
Speaker 3: Bro?

1725
01:30:56,320 --> 01:30:57,719
Speaker 2: The original super Smile.

1726
01:30:57,760 --> 01:31:00,439
Speaker 1: But we're not talking no we we no with the

1727
01:31:00,479 --> 01:31:03,280
Speaker 1: we one is great Mario sixty four, Mario sixty four,

1728
01:31:03,280 --> 01:31:05,720
Speaker 1: I mean, come on, we're talking about certified class and

1729
01:31:05,720 --> 01:31:07,400
Speaker 1: we're talking about games I could we're talking about Also,

1730
01:31:07,760 --> 01:31:08,640
Speaker 1: I do know about.

1731
01:31:08,360 --> 01:31:10,880
Speaker 2: The Nintindo sixty four because my old uncle has all

1732
01:31:10,920 --> 01:31:12,800
Speaker 2: those games and I would play them with him. To Bond,

1733
01:31:14,439 --> 01:31:17,080
Speaker 2: Why do you talk about the goal the James Bond GoldenEye?

1734
01:31:18,120 --> 01:31:20,400
Speaker 2: Because he's your guys's age, so we're old.

1735
01:31:20,600 --> 01:31:20,680
Speaker 3: Ye.

1736
01:31:21,080 --> 01:31:24,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's probably like fifty. It's like, oh, he's like

1737
01:31:24,320 --> 01:31:26,000
Speaker 1: your guy's age, like a little bit older, you know,

1738
01:31:26,120 --> 01:31:28,479
Speaker 1: just a little bit. Meanwhile, he's like a hole twice

1739
01:31:28,520 --> 01:31:28,920
Speaker 1: our age.

1740
01:31:29,000 --> 01:31:30,160
Speaker 2: He was born in eighty seven.

1741
01:31:31,040 --> 01:31:33,720
Speaker 3: Okay, do you know what year we were born? You're

1742
01:31:33,920 --> 01:31:38,120
Speaker 3: me no Us John and high? What year like seventy nine?

1743
01:31:38,439 --> 01:31:41,000
Speaker 2: Jesus scrub. If I was born in seventy nine, then

1744
01:31:41,000 --> 01:31:44,040
Speaker 2: I'm looking great. That's true. Honestly. Do we just buy

1745
01:31:44,040 --> 01:31:45,000
Speaker 2: it and say that God love it?

1746
01:31:46,520 --> 01:31:46,600
Speaker 3: Oh?

1747
01:31:46,680 --> 01:31:49,040
Speaker 2: Yes, Amy, thanks for being a member for five months. Riley.

1748
01:31:49,120 --> 01:31:52,360
Speaker 1: I swear people from Pennsylvania are obsessed with South Carolina

1749
01:31:52,439 --> 01:31:55,040
Speaker 1: for some reason, so many sc stickers on cars.

1750
01:31:55,080 --> 01:31:57,000
Speaker 2: Lowll you better watch out because people from South Carolina

1751
01:31:57,080 --> 01:32:02,120
Speaker 2: can drive, can can't, can't? All right, you guys heard

1752
01:32:02,160 --> 01:32:05,519
Speaker 2: it here, first heard it here first? Giants milk be

1753
01:32:05,560 --> 01:32:06,639
Speaker 2: a memory of eight months.

1754
01:32:06,720 --> 01:32:08,360
Speaker 1: I missed everyone. Sorry, I'd been gone a bit. I

1755
01:32:08,400 --> 01:32:09,920
Speaker 1: think I read that twice, but I don't care because

1756
01:32:09,960 --> 01:32:10,679
Speaker 1: I love giants milk.

1757
01:32:10,960 --> 01:32:13,080
Speaker 2: Earlier, whenever we were saying put milks in the chat,

1758
01:32:13,320 --> 01:32:15,760
Speaker 2: someone was like, I'm breast pumping right now. I feel

1759
01:32:15,800 --> 01:32:17,800
Speaker 2: so included. That made my day.

1760
01:32:18,240 --> 01:32:20,439
Speaker 1: That one bed my day, or in closed to berts

1761
01:32:20,479 --> 01:32:24,880
Speaker 1: On Soon two Birds on Stone. That's greatest show on Earth.

1762
01:32:24,880 --> 01:32:26,800
Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. That's all I'm saying. I'm dressed

1763
01:32:26,840 --> 01:32:30,519
Speaker 1: like a freakin' like it's Pat Oswald or whatever. Who's

1764
01:32:30,560 --> 01:32:34,519
Speaker 1: the old Alex Trebek? What Patton Oswald is a totally

1765
01:32:34,520 --> 01:32:37,479
Speaker 1: different Yeah, I think say.

1766
01:32:37,400 --> 01:32:40,160
Speaker 2: Jack No, Yeah, Pat Sack is the wheel fortune guy,

1767
01:32:40,280 --> 01:32:45,679
Speaker 2: will Fortune, James Bond, Sean Connery. I was like Sean Connory,

1768
01:32:45,680 --> 01:32:45,920
Speaker 2: I mean.

1769
01:32:45,920 --> 01:32:49,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, you kind of look like a long haired Sean Connery.

1770
01:32:50,760 --> 01:32:58,519
Speaker 2: Bond James Bond, except he wasn't. Also, I I don't

1771
01:32:58,560 --> 01:33:01,840
Speaker 2: mean anyone that is actually born in nineties or seventy

1772
01:33:01,920 --> 01:33:03,879
Speaker 2: nine he does. I'm just talking about.

1773
01:33:03,640 --> 01:33:06,679
Speaker 1: Its complete disrespects Riley.

1774
01:33:06,720 --> 01:33:08,559
Speaker 2: He's so disrespectful. He needs all the hate right now.

1775
01:33:08,640 --> 01:33:10,479
Speaker 2: Look how young he is, Look out, look look at

1776
01:33:10,560 --> 01:33:14,599
Speaker 2: a baby. Yeah, look at that baby. Just attack him

1777
01:33:14,680 --> 01:33:17,559
Speaker 2: right now. I do everything to attack with you, not you, guys.

1778
01:33:18,120 --> 01:33:20,920
Speaker 2: Every woman is still twenty one in my eyes. Attacking

1779
01:33:20,960 --> 01:33:25,960
Speaker 2: woman past the age of twenty one. The saying, hey,

1780
01:33:26,040 --> 01:33:30,200
Speaker 2: call me and gentlemen, we are on you mega, we

1781
01:33:30,320 --> 01:33:33,559
Speaker 2: are My boyfriend refuses to ask my parents. Very nice.

1782
01:33:33,720 --> 01:33:37,519
Speaker 2: Heck yeah, baby, are you Reley? Are you eating? I'm reading? Okay,

1783
01:33:37,720 --> 01:33:41,400
Speaker 2: let's gonna shift me slightly on one camera, move the

1784
01:33:41,400 --> 01:33:45,400
Speaker 2: camera over. Yeah, he's not he's not centered. Don't bring

1785
01:33:45,479 --> 01:33:48,479
Speaker 2: Sean Connery into this. Daddy issues made him my favorite bond.

1786
01:33:49,760 --> 01:33:52,479
Speaker 2: Let's talk. Let's talk about it. Riley is canceled. What

1787
01:33:52,560 --> 01:33:54,519
Speaker 2: did I say now that the gamer Riley? You better

1788
01:33:54,560 --> 01:33:57,160
Speaker 2: not be rude to slim Shady or doctor Trey. I

1789
01:33:57,240 --> 01:34:00,960
Speaker 2: love slim Shady. It's perfect. I love it, Hotty Brownie. Riley.

1790
01:34:00,960 --> 01:34:04,160
Speaker 2: I was born in seventy nine. Congrats. See how can

1791
01:34:04,200 --> 01:34:05,920
Speaker 2: you be born in seventy nine and still be twenty one?

1792
01:34:07,400 --> 01:34:07,519
Speaker 3: Uh?

1793
01:34:07,720 --> 01:34:09,240
Speaker 2: Caspiar, that could be Ridley.

1794
01:34:09,280 --> 01:34:09,400
Speaker 3: Oh.

1795
01:34:09,520 --> 01:34:14,240
Speaker 2: Riley needs to be spanked. Hey, no cheeks, there's nothing

1796
01:34:14,320 --> 01:34:19,799
Speaker 2: to spank. John Keon took my cake as a producer. Amy,

1797
01:34:20,240 --> 01:34:22,360
Speaker 2: can I say that kids don't know anything from original

1798
01:34:22,439 --> 01:34:25,240
Speaker 2: Nintendo from the eighties. Riley, I was born in nineteen

1799
01:34:25,400 --> 01:34:29,519
Speaker 2: eighty that is close enough. Hey yo, all right, all right, okay,

1800
01:34:29,760 --> 01:34:31,679
Speaker 2: what you done? What happened?

1801
01:34:33,240 --> 01:34:36,360
Speaker 1: I love the tide turning on Riley because he's been

1802
01:34:36,439 --> 01:34:40,120
Speaker 1: calling me old for forever and then finally the old rose.

1803
01:34:40,720 --> 01:34:43,400
Speaker 2: Dude, this is tough, all right? You ready?

1804
01:34:43,439 --> 01:34:43,639
Speaker 1: Keon?

1805
01:34:43,840 --> 01:34:47,800
Speaker 2: Did we get these? Oh little burb thanks for the

1806
01:34:47,960 --> 01:34:55,679
Speaker 2: ten gifted membership? Little Bury whoa sorry only cow, Josephine Zaddy,

1807
01:34:55,800 --> 01:34:57,560
Speaker 2: I have a headcake. Please give me a wink and

1808
01:34:57,600 --> 01:35:06,080
Speaker 2: a kuite. Guys, Kean, you never have to. You never

1809
01:35:06,240 --> 01:35:09,400
Speaker 2: have to. Oh, I don't know, you don't know. We

1810
01:35:09,479 --> 01:35:12,400
Speaker 2: didn't tell him that, Yeah, you didn't. The cheeks, Oh

1811
01:35:12,439 --> 01:35:15,000
Speaker 2: my god, this sounds like it. That was like a start.

1812
01:35:15,120 --> 01:35:17,720
Speaker 2: You know, we had to clap the cheeks first. But

1813
01:35:17,800 --> 01:35:20,519
Speaker 2: now the cheeks don't have to clap. You know they're clapping.

1814
01:35:24,479 --> 01:35:26,160
Speaker 2: We had to clap the cheeks. Giants milk, thank you

1815
01:35:26,200 --> 01:35:27,840
Speaker 2: for the ten gifted membership.

1816
01:35:29,479 --> 01:35:33,479
Speaker 3: Mounted in the chat, mounted in the chat pumping let

1817
01:35:33,560 --> 01:35:36,920
Speaker 3: me know, so no, don't don't don't let him know.

1818
01:35:37,080 --> 01:35:37,920
Speaker 3: Please don't let him know.

1819
01:35:38,439 --> 01:35:40,760
Speaker 2: I'm all about pump. I'm pro pomp are you? Are

1820
01:35:40,800 --> 01:35:43,799
Speaker 2: you not pro pomp? Are you not? About women feeding

1821
01:35:43,840 --> 01:35:45,800
Speaker 2: their babies their own breast milk? Is that where you can?

1822
01:35:46,560 --> 01:35:47,880
Speaker 2: Which is okay? You can?

1823
01:35:48,400 --> 01:35:51,880
Speaker 3: Just don't don't let Riley know they wanted to feel

1824
01:35:53,200 --> 01:35:56,040
Speaker 3: this thing. Yeah, do the suckle thing. No, don't do

1825
01:35:56,360 --> 01:36:03,439
Speaker 3: exactly see John knows. Oh my god, yes, they love

1826
01:36:03,520 --> 01:36:04,240
Speaker 3: to donate.

1827
01:36:04,160 --> 01:36:07,160
Speaker 2: Catching as much as I love you, thanks mix mix.

1828
01:36:07,360 --> 01:36:09,360
Speaker 2: I was born in seventy nine. I'm not talking to you,

1829
01:36:09,560 --> 01:36:15,600
Speaker 2: talking to John. Yes, out for the baby, have turned.

1830
01:36:17,520 --> 01:36:17,560
Speaker 3: It?

1831
01:36:18,320 --> 01:36:18,920
Speaker 2: Okay, I love it.

1832
01:36:19,040 --> 01:36:22,120
Speaker 1: Let's read all right, let's do Briley's tired of the

1833
01:36:22,800 --> 01:36:24,080
Speaker 1: tidal wave turning against him.

1834
01:36:24,600 --> 01:36:29,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's do this. My boyfriend was my boyfriend refuses

1835
01:36:29,439 --> 01:36:31,840
Speaker 2: to ask my parents for my hand, So my parents

1836
01:36:31,880 --> 01:36:38,880
Speaker 2: are boycotting my wedding. Auchi uh, don't bite the hand

1837
01:36:38,960 --> 01:36:44,080
Speaker 2: that feeds you. I don't know, don't don't you. I've

1838
01:36:44,240 --> 01:36:47,120
Speaker 2: been with my boyfriend Mel twenty five for three years.

1839
01:36:47,479 --> 01:36:50,080
Speaker 2: We both just finished school and are finally ready for

1840
01:36:50,240 --> 01:36:54,600
Speaker 2: marriage now rage He proposed last week and I'm and

1841
01:36:54,720 --> 01:36:58,280
Speaker 2: I happily said yes. I could not be happier. I

1842
01:36:58,439 --> 01:37:00,400
Speaker 2: love him and he is going to be an awesome

1843
01:37:00,479 --> 01:37:04,439
Speaker 2: dad someday. No, but my boyfriend is very new school

1844
01:37:04,560 --> 01:37:08,000
Speaker 2: and my dad is sort of old school. A tale

1845
01:37:08,000 --> 01:37:10,559
Speaker 2: as old as time. By the way, this comes from

1846
01:37:10,880 --> 01:37:14,400
Speaker 2: Throwaway and Panic on the r slash Okay storytimes Upredding.

1847
01:37:15,560 --> 01:37:18,760
Speaker 2: So my dad was beyond made that my boyfriend did

1848
01:37:18,840 --> 01:37:22,040
Speaker 2: not ask my dad for my hand before proposal. My

1849
01:37:22,160 --> 01:37:25,240
Speaker 2: dad said he was willing to hear my boyfriend's apology

1850
01:37:25,360 --> 01:37:28,320
Speaker 2: if my boyfriend formally asked for my hand at dinner

1851
01:37:28,800 --> 01:37:31,040
Speaker 2: that my dad said he would pay for at the

1852
01:37:31,200 --> 01:37:35,120
Speaker 2: restaurant of my boyfriend's choosing. My dad feels like he

1853
01:37:35,280 --> 01:37:39,280
Speaker 2: is being very accommodating. He will bring my boyfriend's favorite

1854
01:37:39,320 --> 01:37:42,120
Speaker 2: wine to celebrate. I spoke to my boyfriend last night,

1855
01:37:42,320 --> 01:37:46,080
Speaker 2: and he won't budge. He doesn't believe in that tradition.

1856
01:37:53,439 --> 01:37:55,559
Speaker 2: You don't like that, I think you need I don't

1857
01:37:55,600 --> 01:37:59,560
Speaker 2: like it either, Yeah, you need your respectful I understand

1858
01:37:59,800 --> 01:38:04,040
Speaker 2: him him maybe like not thinking of it or or

1859
01:38:04,280 --> 01:38:05,240
Speaker 2: like that kind of thing.

1860
01:38:05,400 --> 01:38:07,160
Speaker 1: But I feel like once the dad is upset and

1861
01:38:07,920 --> 01:38:10,840
Speaker 1: it seems like it's reasonable, he's like, hey, I still

1862
01:38:10,840 --> 01:38:11,439
Speaker 1: want to celebrate it.

1863
01:38:11,560 --> 01:38:13,559
Speaker 2: Let's let's pop a bottle. Let's let's drink together.

1864
01:38:14,160 --> 01:38:17,439
Speaker 1: I think there's I think the dad seems reasonable enough

1865
01:38:17,479 --> 01:38:18,840
Speaker 1: to It's like, hey, you know what I didn't mean

1866
01:38:18,880 --> 01:38:22,320
Speaker 1: to yeh, your feelings and maybe he could, you know, formally,

1867
01:38:22,479 --> 01:38:24,320
Speaker 1: you know, ask for I think it would be okay.

1868
01:38:24,720 --> 01:38:27,200
Speaker 2: I think it's okay. My boyfriend showed me an article

1869
01:38:27,280 --> 01:38:30,679
Speaker 2: online where a Pakistani woman was stoned to death outside

1870
01:38:30,680 --> 01:38:33,680
Speaker 2: a courthouse because she married a man against her family's

1871
01:38:33,800 --> 01:38:40,639
Speaker 2: wishesh yoah oh man, just this just happened. My boyfriend,

1872
01:38:40,680 --> 01:38:43,760
Speaker 2: who witnessed his father be not so good, so I

1873
01:38:43,760 --> 01:38:46,719
Speaker 2: should possessive with his mom as a child, has always

1874
01:38:46,760 --> 01:38:50,120
Speaker 2: felt strongly that women are not property. He thinks the

1875
01:38:50,240 --> 01:38:54,920
Speaker 2: tradition of asking for her hand is repulsive. His point

1876
01:38:55,120 --> 01:38:57,720
Speaker 2: is that he met my whole family and gotten to

1877
01:38:57,840 --> 01:39:03,000
Speaker 2: know them. He says, they have always known his intentions,

1878
01:39:03,120 --> 01:39:05,320
Speaker 2: and he has never made it a secret that he

1879
01:39:05,600 --> 01:39:07,680
Speaker 2: was in love with me and wanted to marry me

1880
01:39:07,920 --> 01:39:12,479
Speaker 2: and have children. He feels, he feels he he feels

1881
01:39:12,560 --> 01:39:15,760
Speaker 2: he was done enough to announce his intentions, and all

1882
01:39:15,840 --> 01:39:19,400
Speaker 2: of them seem to approve of him. He says, at

1883
01:39:19,439 --> 01:39:21,960
Speaker 2: that point, he only needs my approval to marry him

1884
01:39:22,120 --> 01:39:27,760
Speaker 2: and nobody else's true. Yeah, I think like I think

1885
01:39:27,800 --> 01:39:29,600
Speaker 2: he should sit down with the dad and explain that.

1886
01:39:29,800 --> 01:39:34,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's like, listen, this is why I don't want uh,

1887
01:39:34,760 --> 01:39:36,880
Speaker 1: you know, this is my perspective, and like I I

1888
01:39:37,000 --> 01:39:40,200
Speaker 1: don't want it to because there is absolutely.

1889
01:39:39,920 --> 01:39:47,439
Speaker 2: A thing that yeah, slideshow say what slideshow slyddenner. Yeah,

1890
01:39:47,600 --> 01:39:49,559
Speaker 2: article of the woman being stoned. If you can't find

1891
01:39:49,560 --> 01:39:52,200
Speaker 2: the video, find another video of someone getting stoned and

1892
01:39:52,240 --> 01:39:53,160
Speaker 2: then just kind of walking through.

1893
01:39:53,280 --> 01:39:58,880
Speaker 1: Yikes, that's graphic. But uh, there's there's definitely a way

1894
01:39:59,160 --> 01:40:01,479
Speaker 1: words might be myightier than the sword or the video

1895
01:40:01,680 --> 01:40:04,400
Speaker 1: this in this, in this specific scenario. But I feel

1896
01:40:04,439 --> 01:40:08,040
Speaker 1: like if he sat like because I think he's absolutely right,

1897
01:40:08,160 --> 01:40:10,840
Speaker 1: like he I think he should sit down and be like, listen,

1898
01:40:11,000 --> 01:40:14,960
Speaker 1: this is why you know what I mean and like, yeah,

1899
01:40:15,080 --> 01:40:17,080
Speaker 1: I think that's uh and and and he could say

1900
01:40:17,280 --> 01:40:21,320
Speaker 1: it's not that I don't want to build a good relationship.

1901
01:40:21,439 --> 01:40:23,080
Speaker 2: This is where I stand with it. This is this

1902
01:40:23,200 --> 01:40:24,040
Speaker 2: is where I stand with it.

1903
01:40:24,080 --> 01:40:26,439
Speaker 1: And like, of course I want to build an amazing

1904
01:40:26,520 --> 01:40:29,360
Speaker 1: relationship with you, and I'm so excited to celebrate and

1905
01:40:29,439 --> 01:40:34,040
Speaker 1: you be my father in law and everything but yeah,

1906
01:40:34,200 --> 01:40:36,599
Speaker 1: I feel like that conversation should be had and then

1907
01:40:36,680 --> 01:40:40,000
Speaker 1: the I feel like if the dad is as reasonable

1908
01:40:40,640 --> 01:40:42,479
Speaker 1: as he seems, then he should be.

1909
01:40:42,520 --> 01:40:46,120
Speaker 2: Able to make it down, understand and understand. I think so, Yeah,

1910
01:40:46,280 --> 01:40:46,680
Speaker 2: I think so.

1911
01:40:47,360 --> 01:40:47,400
Speaker 3: So.

1912
01:40:47,560 --> 01:40:50,280
Speaker 2: Yesterday my mom told me that my dad, who is

1913
01:40:50,479 --> 01:40:52,840
Speaker 2: not even speaking to me because I won't set my

1914
01:40:52,920 --> 01:40:55,719
Speaker 2: foot down with my boyfriend, is calling the whole family

1915
01:40:55,880 --> 01:41:00,360
Speaker 2: and telling them not to attend my wedding. He's calling

1916
01:41:00,400 --> 01:41:04,439
Speaker 2: the whole family. Grandma, don't show up, Auntie, don't show up, cousin,

1917
01:41:04,760 --> 01:41:08,800
Speaker 2: don't even go. That's a lot. My mom says that

1918
01:41:08,880 --> 01:41:12,080
Speaker 2: my boyfriend is the one treating me like property by

1919
01:41:12,160 --> 01:41:14,920
Speaker 2: not letting me have a say in this decision to

1920
01:41:15,120 --> 01:41:19,360
Speaker 2: not observe a tradition that my two older sisters husbands observed.

1921
01:41:20,320 --> 01:41:24,280
Speaker 2: So it's like, you're not respecting my tradition. It's not true. Yeah,

1922
01:41:24,479 --> 01:41:27,360
Speaker 2: that's what the dad says. Yeah. Yeah. I told my

1923
01:41:27,439 --> 01:41:30,000
Speaker 2: mother that I understand where my boyfriend is coming from

1924
01:41:30,400 --> 01:41:32,920
Speaker 2: and that I have decided to do away with the

1925
01:41:33,000 --> 01:41:35,439
Speaker 2: tradition of asking him for my hand. Yeah. So my

1926
01:41:35,600 --> 01:41:38,160
Speaker 2: mother is obviously mad and said that I should be

1927
01:41:38,240 --> 01:41:45,200
Speaker 2: ready for serious consequences. You know, consequences sometimes means good things,

1928
01:41:46,000 --> 01:41:49,320
Speaker 2: like what when did? But yeah, consequences mean good or

1929
01:41:49,360 --> 01:41:52,120
Speaker 2: bad things that come from an action. It's not always bad,

1930
01:41:53,479 --> 01:41:57,679
Speaker 2: so she might mean good things. We'll see, we'll see.

1931
01:41:57,960 --> 01:42:00,760
Speaker 2: It could be a warning or like the opposite of

1932
01:42:00,800 --> 01:42:04,600
Speaker 2: a warning in a good way. What's that called? What

1933
01:42:04,680 --> 01:42:08,200
Speaker 2: do you call it? Like a good warning? Premonition? I

1934
01:42:08,200 --> 01:42:12,400
Speaker 2: don't know. Yeah, premonition, that's a good word. Good job guy,

1935
01:42:12,479 --> 01:42:17,800
Speaker 2: smart ooh. I asked her what. I asked her what,

1936
01:42:18,200 --> 01:42:21,120
Speaker 2: and she said and she would not say what. I

1937
01:42:21,240 --> 01:42:25,000
Speaker 2: asked her what, and she would not say. But from

1938
01:42:25,080 --> 01:42:28,040
Speaker 2: talking to my sister, she said that they would bat

1939
01:42:28,280 --> 01:42:33,519
Speaker 2: they would blackball us, blackball us. Okay, sorry, I'm so sorry.

1940
01:42:33,760 --> 01:42:37,240
Speaker 2: I was not ready for that. Man, It's okay. But

1941
01:42:37,439 --> 01:42:39,719
Speaker 2: from talking to my sister, she said that they would

1942
01:42:39,800 --> 01:42:45,400
Speaker 2: blackball us from all family gatherings. My two sisters and

1943
01:42:45,600 --> 01:42:48,839
Speaker 2: my mom have told me, and my boyfriend is being selfish.

1944
01:42:49,400 --> 01:42:52,000
Speaker 2: The wedding is set for August ninth. I'm worried that

1945
01:42:52,160 --> 01:42:54,720
Speaker 2: nobody in my family will attend my wedding. And we

1946
01:42:54,800 --> 01:42:59,519
Speaker 2: got to edit. We'll read this edit ye edit. I'm

1947
01:42:59,560 --> 01:43:02,920
Speaker 2: getting some comments about my boyfriend asking for my parents

1948
01:43:03,000 --> 01:43:06,880
Speaker 2: blessing instead of permission or hand. I just can't see

1949
01:43:06,920 --> 01:43:09,400
Speaker 2: the difference. There might be one, but I don't see it.

1950
01:43:09,720 --> 01:43:15,760
Speaker 2: Is there a difference poll difference or not? Is there

1951
01:43:15,800 --> 01:43:21,360
Speaker 2: a difference between asking for someone's hand slash blessing? Yeah?

1952
01:43:21,520 --> 01:43:24,600
Speaker 2: Or maybe? Like, uh, I feel like should we do

1953
01:43:25,520 --> 01:43:28,800
Speaker 2: ah ask for the hand or na? Ask for okay,

1954
01:43:29,000 --> 01:43:33,360
Speaker 2: ask ask for hand or not? With the with the

1955
01:43:33,439 --> 01:43:36,800
Speaker 2: number four hand? Ask four hands. I like that, ask

1956
01:43:36,880 --> 01:43:38,599
Speaker 2: four hands. I just set the poll, but that's fine,

1957
01:43:38,680 --> 01:43:42,719
Speaker 2: I'll do it again, Yes, thank you. Just say black

1958
01:43:42,800 --> 01:43:45,800
Speaker 2: balld Yeah, I've heard of blue bold, not black.

1959
01:43:45,960 --> 01:43:49,280
Speaker 1: Black Balling means like you are like cutting like cutting

1960
01:43:49,320 --> 01:43:51,519
Speaker 1: them out, excluding them, like the Kanye line they forgot

1961
01:43:51,560 --> 01:43:53,880
Speaker 1: about two things, my black balls, because they.

1962
01:43:55,280 --> 01:43:57,400
Speaker 2: They forgot about two things black balls. This man loves

1963
01:43:57,400 --> 01:44:02,360
Speaker 2: going you walked in the walk in to it? Oh man.

1964
01:44:04,400 --> 01:44:07,639
Speaker 2: I think they're both intentionally the same thing. Asking for permission,

1965
01:44:07,720 --> 01:44:10,439
Speaker 2: asking for hand, asking for a blessing. Yeah, you're getting

1966
01:44:10,439 --> 01:44:10,840
Speaker 2: the same.

1967
01:44:10,840 --> 01:44:13,920
Speaker 3: On the same verbiage, I guess, yeah, the same ideal

1968
01:44:13,960 --> 01:44:15,040
Speaker 3: at the at the end of the day, it's like

1969
01:44:15,520 --> 01:44:17,439
Speaker 3: I'm going to marry Yeah.

1970
01:44:17,520 --> 01:44:20,600
Speaker 1: I think there was some really, Schmid's commented this was

1971
01:44:20,720 --> 01:44:28,479
Speaker 1: earlier before Op kind of like basically initially OPI didn't

1972
01:44:28,560 --> 01:44:30,840
Speaker 1: kind of voice like what she preferred, and then later

1973
01:44:30,920 --> 01:44:33,280
Speaker 1: she was like, Okay, I agree with my boyfriend. But

1974
01:44:33,400 --> 01:44:36,400
Speaker 1: before she did that, Schmid said, uh, well, one thing

1975
01:44:36,479 --> 01:44:39,160
Speaker 1: to consider is like what does she want? Right, because

1976
01:44:39,240 --> 01:44:42,400
Speaker 1: ultimately this is this is like revolving around Ope. And

1977
01:44:42,479 --> 01:44:46,120
Speaker 1: then ultimately Op was like, hey, I I don't need this,

1978
01:44:46,360 --> 01:44:48,240
Speaker 1: like like we're we're and then and then the parents

1979
01:44:48,280 --> 01:44:53,720
Speaker 1: went crazy, right, So I feel like and a lot

1980
01:44:53,760 --> 01:44:55,840
Speaker 1: of people in the chat to address what you guys

1981
01:44:55,880 --> 01:44:57,760
Speaker 1: were saying, made a very very good point of like

1982
01:44:58,040 --> 01:44:59,240
Speaker 1: women are not property.

1983
01:44:59,560 --> 01:45:03,480
Speaker 2: They do not need anyone's permission. They are their own human.

1984
01:45:03,400 --> 01:45:07,040
Speaker 1: Being who can decide what they want to do. Shocking, right,

1985
01:45:08,520 --> 01:45:12,200
Speaker 1: And that's absolutely true. And I don't think there's anything.

1986
01:45:12,400 --> 01:45:14,880
Speaker 1: It's almost like you're going to them and more so

1987
01:45:15,680 --> 01:45:19,439
Speaker 1: telling them and celebrating in that moment the same the

1988
01:45:19,520 --> 01:45:22,880
Speaker 1: same way how you're like, oh I got into this school,

1989
01:45:22,920 --> 01:45:25,240
Speaker 1: I got it hard over it or whatever. Oh, we're celebrating, right,

1990
01:45:25,360 --> 01:45:29,000
Speaker 1: Like I think that's the vibe Harvard. Yeah, and you're

1991
01:45:29,040 --> 01:45:32,760
Speaker 1: and you're telling them yeah right, yeah, exactly. Uh, and

1992
01:45:34,120 --> 01:45:36,120
Speaker 1: then you get a chance to celebrate. The vibes are

1993
01:45:36,160 --> 01:45:38,000
Speaker 1: good and yeah.

1994
01:45:39,680 --> 01:45:42,080
Speaker 2: I don't see the dad or the mother in law

1995
01:45:42,560 --> 01:45:45,479
Speaker 2: being okay with it. I just hope they can disagree

1996
01:45:45,520 --> 01:45:48,720
Speaker 2: on this, be disappointed, sure, whatever, but still carry on

1997
01:45:48,840 --> 01:45:51,040
Speaker 2: and be civil. Exactly. Okay.

1998
01:45:51,120 --> 01:45:53,479
Speaker 1: Maybe, And you know what too, I'll also say, uh,

1999
01:45:54,120 --> 01:45:56,800
Speaker 1: for someone who's just had this and maybe there's like

2000
01:45:56,880 --> 01:46:01,840
Speaker 1: a much much deeper cultural roots here to it. Maybe

2001
01:46:01,880 --> 01:46:03,680
Speaker 1: they've had this baked into their brains for who knows

2002
01:46:03,720 --> 01:46:07,599
Speaker 1: how well they are fifty sixty years. I that doesn't

2003
01:46:07,680 --> 01:46:10,800
Speaker 1: excuse it, but I understand that that's hard to you know,

2004
01:46:11,400 --> 01:46:13,880
Speaker 1: rewire and accept accept these new things. But I think

2005
01:46:13,920 --> 01:46:17,519
Speaker 1: it's unacceptable to say, like, oh, we're not gonna come

2006
01:46:17,520 --> 01:46:20,680
Speaker 1: to the wedding. At the same token, I think it's

2007
01:46:23,439 --> 01:46:26,040
Speaker 1: very unacceptable for the boyfriend to start calling up other

2008
01:46:26,200 --> 01:46:29,360
Speaker 1: members of her family who did nothing wrong and say

2009
01:46:29,400 --> 01:46:30,160
Speaker 1: you're uninvited.

2010
01:46:30,439 --> 01:46:34,240
Speaker 2: Dad calling up all members. Oh so I'm so sorry, Rewind.

2011
01:46:34,520 --> 01:46:36,559
Speaker 2: The dad called up the other members and said don't

2012
01:46:36,560 --> 01:46:38,519
Speaker 2: go to the wedding. Yep, okay, I thought that was

2013
01:46:38,560 --> 01:46:39,000
Speaker 2: a boyfriend.

2014
01:46:39,040 --> 01:46:42,600
Speaker 1: Okay, no, Rewind, Yeah, yeah, the dad doing that is

2015
01:46:42,720 --> 01:46:45,760
Speaker 1: absolutely unacceptable. I think they should have got together, had

2016
01:46:45,800 --> 01:46:49,200
Speaker 1: that dinner, you know, broke bread, have the boyfriend explain

2017
01:46:49,720 --> 01:46:52,720
Speaker 1: and just come to an understanding and recognize that.

2018
01:46:52,920 --> 01:46:54,680
Speaker 2: Like he's like, I don't want to treat your daughter

2019
01:46:54,760 --> 01:46:58,000
Speaker 2: like property. Is that not a great thing? Is that

2020
01:46:58,160 --> 01:46:59,639
Speaker 2: not amazing? That is good?

2021
01:46:59,800 --> 01:47:02,320
Speaker 1: Well he's old school, man, but he's freaking old school

2022
01:47:02,360 --> 01:47:06,479
Speaker 1: and he's being a butthole. So yeah, I I think, uh,

2023
01:47:06,920 --> 01:47:11,000
Speaker 1: now that I've got the story straight, dad, mother in law,

2024
01:47:11,040 --> 01:47:15,120
Speaker 1: father in law, dad, mom are a holes and the

2025
01:47:15,240 --> 01:47:16,880
Speaker 1: boyfriend the boyfriend's just.

2026
01:47:20,640 --> 01:47:21,200
Speaker 2: What he believes.

2027
01:47:21,720 --> 01:47:26,360
Speaker 3: We vote though, forty three votes, any three percent of

2028
01:47:26,400 --> 01:47:30,800
Speaker 3: you you say nard and don't ask for the hand,

2029
01:47:30,920 --> 01:47:32,640
Speaker 3: and they do do ask for.

2030
01:47:32,640 --> 01:47:36,680
Speaker 2: The h Well, so, miss miss Romey, a dad is

2031
01:47:36,680 --> 01:47:40,880
Speaker 2: an idiot, Go no contact with him? All right? Cool?

2032
01:47:41,720 --> 01:47:43,599
Speaker 2: Well let's see what happens. We got an update. Oh,

2033
01:47:44,280 --> 01:47:47,320
Speaker 2: the wedding went on as planned. My parents stuck to

2034
01:47:47,520 --> 01:47:50,959
Speaker 2: their guns and boycotted. One of my two sisters attended

2035
01:47:51,280 --> 01:47:55,800
Speaker 2: and is now happily blacklisted from our family. They even

2036
01:47:55,840 --> 01:47:59,479
Speaker 2: blacklisted the sister. Yeah, these parents are looking worse and

2037
01:47:59,560 --> 01:48:02,519
Speaker 2: worse nobody else from my entire family showed up, including

2038
01:48:02,600 --> 01:48:06,320
Speaker 2: my two brothers. The wedding was a little unconventional. My

2039
01:48:06,400 --> 01:48:09,160
Speaker 2: sister walked my husband down the aisle, and then his

2040
01:48:09,280 --> 01:48:12,160
Speaker 2: sister walked me down the aisle. I wanted this because

2041
01:48:12,200 --> 01:48:15,120
Speaker 2: my sister in law actually introduced us and helped me

2042
01:48:15,560 --> 01:48:18,240
Speaker 2: get my first day with him. There was no question

2043
01:48:18,400 --> 01:48:21,480
Speaker 2: about who gives away the bride or even about objections.

2044
01:48:22,120 --> 01:48:25,160
Speaker 2: It was normal then, it was normal than Other than that,

2045
01:48:26,600 --> 01:48:29,200
Speaker 2: there has been no contact between me and my family

2046
01:48:29,760 --> 01:48:32,479
Speaker 2: other than one of my sisters. My mom has made

2047
01:48:32,560 --> 01:48:34,880
Speaker 2: it a point to send me a card every time

2048
01:48:35,040 --> 01:48:38,280
Speaker 2: that they have a family gathering for holidays or birthdays

2049
01:48:38,320 --> 01:48:40,840
Speaker 2: at their house to let me know that my father says,

2050
01:48:40,880 --> 01:48:44,880
Speaker 2: I'm not invited. It's like, it's like that Freddy. Remember

2051
01:48:44,960 --> 01:48:49,880
Speaker 2: did you ever watch Freddy on Nickelodeon. I refreshed Freddy

2052
01:48:50,360 --> 01:48:52,479
Speaker 2: told John, Okay, you guys are too old. But there

2053
01:48:52,560 --> 01:48:56,200
Speaker 2: was this there was this thing on nickelodon There's this

2054
01:48:56,280 --> 01:48:58,880
Speaker 2: thing on Nickelodeon where this guy with a high speaking voice.

2055
01:48:58,960 --> 01:49:04,120
Speaker 2: His name was you mean fred Fred Yeah, of course, dude, Yeah, Freddy, dude,

2056
01:49:04,160 --> 01:49:09,040
Speaker 2: that's my bad. Apologies, But fred whenever he would invite

2057
01:49:09,040 --> 01:49:11,960
Speaker 2: people not invite people to his party, like, you're not

2058
01:49:12,120 --> 01:49:13,240
Speaker 2: invited my party.

2059
01:49:14,760 --> 01:49:15,040
Speaker 3: Party.

2060
01:49:15,240 --> 01:49:17,960
Speaker 2: Stop being Fred. I wonder what he's doing. We should

2061
01:49:18,000 --> 01:49:21,760
Speaker 2: get Fred on the show. We should get Fred, I mean,

2062
01:49:22,120 --> 01:49:26,280
Speaker 2: come on, is that not perfect? Come on man? Right?

2063
01:49:26,920 --> 01:49:29,800
Speaker 2: Riley right? Riley looks really exciting. We gotta get like Fred,

2064
01:49:29,920 --> 01:49:30,920
Speaker 2: like Josh Peck. I don't know.

2065
01:49:31,040 --> 01:49:31,080
Speaker 3: Like.

2066
01:49:31,200 --> 01:49:32,680
Speaker 2: We gotta call my mom because she wouldn't let me

2067
01:49:32,720 --> 01:49:36,320
Speaker 2: watch him. Yeah, get Miranda cosgrub on here. We gotta change,

2068
01:49:36,400 --> 01:49:39,160
Speaker 2: oh dude, which she's so fun. We need to get

2069
01:49:39,240 --> 01:49:42,160
Speaker 2: Victoria Justice on here. Let's do it. I dance with

2070
01:49:42,240 --> 01:49:42,599
Speaker 2: her once.

2071
01:49:43,439 --> 01:49:47,280
Speaker 5: You dance with her once? Yeah, okay, your TV screen

2072
01:49:47,320 --> 01:49:48,960
Speaker 5: does not count. Key on, No, I dance with her

2073
01:49:49,000 --> 01:49:54,479
Speaker 5: out of bar. I had witnesses after the story. It's

2074
01:49:54,640 --> 01:49:55,120
Speaker 5: kind of crazy.

2075
01:49:55,160 --> 01:49:59,479
Speaker 2: I love la I get one almost every month. I

2076
01:49:59,560 --> 01:50:02,040
Speaker 2: don't even I don't even read them anymore. I just

2077
01:50:02,120 --> 01:50:04,800
Speaker 2: toss them. I don't know why they keep sending them

2078
01:50:04,880 --> 01:50:07,400
Speaker 2: because I've made no effort to contact them, and I

2079
01:50:07,560 --> 01:50:09,800
Speaker 2: live over three hours away, so it's not like I

2080
01:50:09,840 --> 01:50:13,000
Speaker 2: would run into them by accident. The reason I came

2081
01:50:13,080 --> 01:50:15,800
Speaker 2: back to post this here is because some people here

2082
01:50:15,920 --> 01:50:19,120
Speaker 2: made a prediction that came true that they would come

2083
01:50:19,200 --> 01:50:24,959
Speaker 2: calling back when we had children. Yup, yup, just like clockwork.

2084
01:50:25,360 --> 01:50:29,720
Speaker 2: I am now expecting our first child, a girl. Yeah,

2085
01:50:29,800 --> 01:50:33,160
Speaker 2: let's go. Yeah yeah. She will be the first grandchild

2086
01:50:33,280 --> 01:50:39,479
Speaker 2: for my parents. High steaks. I love it. I love it.

2087
01:50:39,640 --> 01:50:42,040
Speaker 2: My parents found out about the pregnancy a few months

2088
01:50:42,080 --> 01:50:44,960
Speaker 2: ago through a family friend. They didn't waste any time

2089
01:50:45,040 --> 01:50:49,200
Speaker 2: in making demands, not requests, demands. My boyfriend and I

2090
01:50:49,360 --> 01:50:52,320
Speaker 2: are not religious, but I had a Catholic upbringing. I

2091
01:50:52,400 --> 01:50:58,400
Speaker 2: don't practice at all by choice my past. Wow, thirty

2092
01:50:58,439 --> 01:51:06,080
Speaker 2: more minutes, Holy cow, who did Coco ninety ninety? Coco ninety?

2093
01:51:06,360 --> 01:51:06,720
Speaker 2: There we go.

2094
01:51:07,439 --> 01:51:10,840
Speaker 1: You guys should do a stream in orange suits. A

2095
01:51:10,920 --> 01:51:14,120
Speaker 1: throwback would be fun. A throwback would be fun.

2096
01:51:14,160 --> 01:51:16,599
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yea yeah, you guys would wear all the time.

2097
01:51:16,760 --> 01:51:22,360
Speaker 1: So we for like probably a year, we wore neon orange.

2098
01:51:22,400 --> 01:51:24,840
Speaker 1: I still have the one of the old like I

2099
01:51:24,960 --> 01:51:31,760
Speaker 1: look like a like a community college football coach. No, no,

2100
01:51:31,880 --> 01:51:34,560
Speaker 1: I know, okay, yeah yeah, you probably I can picture it.

2101
01:51:34,600 --> 01:51:36,240
Speaker 1: I can, I can picture it. I've definitely seen them.

2102
01:51:36,400 --> 01:51:40,080
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah yeah. Because they got more retention with that,

2103
01:51:40,200 --> 01:51:42,400
Speaker 2: we realized that there was it was it's a scroll stopper.

2104
01:51:42,560 --> 01:51:45,000
Speaker 2: Who are these guys? Who are these traffic cones reading

2105
01:51:45,040 --> 01:51:46,760
Speaker 2: red of stories to me? Yeah, now you have a

2106
01:51:46,800 --> 01:51:51,600
Speaker 2: new school stopper. The crocheted shirts. That's true crochet Sam.

2107
01:51:52,000 --> 01:51:53,559
Speaker 3: Can we do like the Can we get like actual

2108
01:51:53,600 --> 01:51:56,120
Speaker 3: orange suits like the ones from Dumb and Dumber?

2109
01:51:56,560 --> 01:51:59,000
Speaker 2: You know what I'm talking about? Kind of I'll pull

2110
01:51:59,040 --> 01:52:00,760
Speaker 2: a photo for you, guys. Yeah, just be the story.

2111
01:52:00,840 --> 01:52:02,439
Speaker 2: We'll think about it. Get back to the story. But

2112
01:52:02,520 --> 01:52:06,880
Speaker 2: thank you thirty minutes. They appreciate it. Thanks, guys. I

2113
01:52:06,960 --> 01:52:10,160
Speaker 2: don't practice at all by choice. Someone said it, Sarah, Sarah,

2114
01:52:10,160 --> 01:52:14,240
Speaker 2: be sorry them dummer suits. Ah Uh. My mother called

2115
01:52:14,280 --> 01:52:16,719
Speaker 2: me back in April, telling me that my father wanted

2116
01:52:16,800 --> 01:52:19,360
Speaker 2: our daughter's middle name to be his mother's first name.

2117
01:52:19,720 --> 01:52:22,479
Speaker 2: I said no, my father was listening on speakers, so

2118
01:52:22,760 --> 01:52:25,559
Speaker 2: I went ahead and told them that they were officially

2119
01:52:25,720 --> 01:52:30,160
Speaker 2: uninvited from all birthdays, graduations, and any other important dates

2120
01:52:30,240 --> 01:52:33,599
Speaker 2: in her life. My father called me half an hour later,

2121
01:52:33,720 --> 01:52:36,240
Speaker 2: crying and begging me to come and stay with them

2122
01:52:36,360 --> 01:52:38,680
Speaker 2: for the birth so my mother could care for me.

2123
01:52:39,400 --> 01:52:43,040
Speaker 2: I said no, nope. Kind of crazy. The boyfriend Loki

2124
01:52:43,160 --> 01:52:46,680
Speaker 2: called this a mile away Yeah, and it seems like

2125
01:52:46,840 --> 01:52:48,880
Speaker 2: I wonder if we're gonna get some backstory later. It

2126
01:52:48,960 --> 01:52:49,519
Speaker 2: seems like op.

2127
01:52:49,560 --> 01:52:51,559
Speaker 1: He was almost ready to they probably had a bunch

2128
01:52:51,560 --> 01:52:54,240
Speaker 1: of past behavior that yeah, that broke the killings.

2129
01:52:54,360 --> 01:52:59,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, agreed. He also said that he had already made

2130
01:52:59,439 --> 01:53:03,439
Speaker 2: arrangements for his priests that could baptize her at his church,

2131
01:53:03,880 --> 01:53:06,439
Speaker 2: but that I needed to agree into naming her after

2132
01:53:06,560 --> 01:53:08,599
Speaker 2: his mother if I wanted this to happen.

2133
01:53:08,840 --> 01:53:14,519
Speaker 4: You know who They can baptize these nuts. Go ahead,

2134
01:53:14,840 --> 01:53:20,479
Speaker 4: baptize them. Got t bagham bagam o.

2135
01:53:23,479 --> 01:53:25,800
Speaker 2: Sorry. I just thought of the noise that a wet

2136
01:53:25,840 --> 01:53:28,200
Speaker 2: tea bagroom someone's face would sound like. And that's what

2137
01:53:28,320 --> 01:53:34,519
Speaker 2: I came up with. Boys, he loves it. Shout out here,

2138
01:53:34,520 --> 01:53:36,280
Speaker 2: you love it. Someone has to be the mature one here,

2139
01:53:36,320 --> 01:53:41,160
Speaker 2: and it's gonna be the oldest man here. Yeah, me maturity,

2140
01:53:42,080 --> 01:53:45,280
Speaker 2: I'm the oldest one here. He said that he'd already

2141
01:53:45,320 --> 01:53:48,160
Speaker 2: planned a big celebration for the birth and the baptism

2142
01:53:48,240 --> 01:53:51,320
Speaker 2: that he was paying for. I said no to all

2143
01:53:51,400 --> 01:53:55,639
Speaker 2: of it. Good. He went from meekly trying to sweet

2144
01:53:55,680 --> 01:53:58,800
Speaker 2: talk me to raising his voice at me. I hung up.

2145
01:54:00,760 --> 01:54:03,120
Speaker 2: He called a couple of more times to apologize for

2146
01:54:03,240 --> 01:54:06,639
Speaker 2: losing his temper, and again begged me to reconsider giving

2147
01:54:06,680 --> 01:54:09,720
Speaker 2: birth at a hospital near them so they could visit us.

2148
01:54:10,200 --> 01:54:12,920
Speaker 2: He did, not having any knowledge of my mother sending

2149
01:54:13,000 --> 01:54:16,080
Speaker 2: me cards to uninvite us to any family functions. It

2150
01:54:16,200 --> 01:54:18,920
Speaker 2: even said that he specifically asked her to invite us,

2151
01:54:19,360 --> 01:54:23,559
Speaker 2: but he was told I declined every time. That's straight

2152
01:54:23,640 --> 01:54:27,000
Speaker 2: up BSh. What are you talking about. He lets my

2153
01:54:27,080 --> 01:54:29,880
Speaker 2: mom do the dirty work so he can later hide

2154
01:54:29,960 --> 01:54:33,640
Speaker 2: behind her and deny he had any knowledge. He's done

2155
01:54:33,640 --> 01:54:35,800
Speaker 2: this since I was a little girl. He does this

2156
01:54:35,960 --> 01:54:38,360
Speaker 2: every time he wants to drop the hammer on somebody,

2157
01:54:38,480 --> 01:54:42,880
Speaker 2: but be the good cop. Also, he'll never change. He did,

2158
01:54:42,960 --> 01:54:46,040
Speaker 2: not having any knowledge of why anybody in the family

2159
01:54:46,120 --> 01:54:53,520
Speaker 2: missed my wedding. Ah, I told him our daughter would

2160
01:54:53,560 --> 01:54:56,760
Speaker 2: not be baptized or Catholic at all. No offense to Catholics,

2161
01:54:57,920 --> 01:55:02,120
Speaker 2: I told him, I don't just like the no offensive

2162
01:55:02,120 --> 01:55:04,040
Speaker 2: Catholic I think it just brought back some trauma for you,

2163
01:55:05,080 --> 01:55:11,320
Speaker 2: and you dismissed trauma by laughing. I'm baptized, I know,

2164
01:55:11,480 --> 01:55:13,600
Speaker 2: but you were. You had some religious trauma, so that's

2165
01:55:13,640 --> 01:55:15,200
Speaker 2: why you laughed at the Catholic thing. I meant, your

2166
01:55:15,200 --> 01:55:23,080
Speaker 2: therapist right now read the story. Sorry, my bad, my bad. Sorry. Uh.

2167
01:55:23,280 --> 01:55:26,040
Speaker 2: I told him he was too manipulative and controlling, and

2168
01:55:26,160 --> 01:55:29,000
Speaker 2: I didn't want my daughter exposed to that. He's two

2169
01:55:29,200 --> 01:55:33,560
Speaker 2: toxis and just venomous. I'm gonna start using that word.

2170
01:55:33,640 --> 01:55:33,800
Speaker 3: Word.

2171
01:55:33,960 --> 01:55:45,880
Speaker 2: That's a good one. Condensolently coincidentally condensed milk, condensate whoa coincidentally, coincidentally,

2172
01:55:45,920 --> 01:55:49,040
Speaker 2: there we go, coincidentally. The day and for several days

2173
01:55:49,160 --> 01:55:51,840
Speaker 2: after that phone call, I got tons of calls and

2174
01:55:52,040 --> 01:55:55,920
Speaker 2: emails from my brothers, their wives, my sisters, and all

2175
01:55:56,200 --> 01:55:59,480
Speaker 2: my aunts. They all want to apologize for missing my wedding,

2176
01:56:00,080 --> 01:56:03,120
Speaker 2: and they all had specific excuses and wanted to make

2177
01:56:03,200 --> 01:56:05,840
Speaker 2: plans to be there for my daughter's birth. M he

2178
01:56:05,960 --> 01:56:07,120
Speaker 2: called the army, dude.

2179
01:56:07,920 --> 01:56:10,680
Speaker 1: Well, also, I feel like it's like it might be

2180
01:56:10,720 --> 01:56:13,320
Speaker 1: a combination of like he called the army, and they're like, oh,

2181
01:56:13,400 --> 01:56:15,360
Speaker 1: I want to see the new new my new niece,

2182
01:56:15,440 --> 01:56:16,560
Speaker 1: my new cousin, my new whatever.

2183
01:56:16,720 --> 01:56:19,000
Speaker 2: Everyone want said on the new baby. Who doesn't? Who does?

2184
01:56:19,040 --> 01:56:19,120
Speaker 1: Oh?

2185
01:56:19,200 --> 01:56:23,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, who doesn't? Dude? And guess what, guys, you made

2186
01:56:23,680 --> 01:56:26,400
Speaker 2: your bed now you got to die in it real

2187
01:56:26,480 --> 01:56:28,240
Speaker 2: Quick's with you? And people dying.

2188
01:56:28,360 --> 01:56:33,280
Speaker 3: Now, John have to wither away, John and never wake up.

2189
01:56:33,440 --> 01:56:36,360
Speaker 3: The suit's making you a villain. It's like his Uh,

2190
01:56:36,440 --> 01:56:41,000
Speaker 3: it's like Spider Man's Yeah, you're venomous.

2191
01:56:42,160 --> 01:56:44,400
Speaker 2: I'm so venomous right now? Do you remember that uh?

2192
01:56:44,880 --> 01:56:44,960
Speaker 3: Uh?

2193
01:56:45,840 --> 01:56:48,720
Speaker 2: Child story about this chicken. She was a chicken and

2194
01:56:48,800 --> 01:56:50,760
Speaker 2: she was baking a cake and she's like, will you

2195
01:56:50,840 --> 01:56:52,600
Speaker 2: help me get the wheat? Will you help me milk

2196
01:56:52,640 --> 01:56:53,920
Speaker 2: the cow? Will you help me do this? And everyone's

2197
01:56:53,920 --> 01:56:56,040
Speaker 2: like no, no, no, And then whenever the cake is baked,

2198
01:56:56,520 --> 01:56:58,440
Speaker 2: everyone's want once a size, but she's like, you didn't

2199
01:56:58,440 --> 01:57:01,800
Speaker 2: help me. You don't get a piece of cake. No idea?

2200
01:57:01,840 --> 01:57:04,440
Speaker 2: What the story is? Okay, well that's what thank Yeah,

2201
01:57:05,560 --> 01:57:09,320
Speaker 2: someone put the name of it there. Uh. They all

2202
01:57:09,360 --> 01:57:11,600
Speaker 2: wanted to apologize for missing my wedding. They all have

2203
01:57:11,720 --> 01:57:14,040
Speaker 2: specific excuses and wanted to make plans to be there

2204
01:57:14,080 --> 01:57:17,720
Speaker 2: for my daughter's birth. I banned all of them from

2205
01:57:17,800 --> 01:57:20,360
Speaker 2: her life until she's old enough to decide for herself.

2206
01:57:20,680 --> 01:57:23,000
Speaker 2: To let them in, and please let us in. Every

2207
01:57:23,040 --> 01:57:26,920
Speaker 2: weekday at three pm PSD, just do what tap the

2208
01:57:27,000 --> 01:57:31,000
Speaker 2: profile or I'll kill you. I knew you were gonna

2209
01:57:31,000 --> 01:57:37,400
Speaker 2: say it. Oh, die of it just.

2210
01:57:41,720 --> 01:57:47,560
Speaker 1: Set death to this family. I think that everyone like

2211
01:57:48,040 --> 01:57:50,440
Speaker 1: it's crazy and who knows. We don't know what the

2212
01:57:50,520 --> 01:57:53,120
Speaker 1: dad said to them, so maybe he said some crazy

2213
01:57:53,160 --> 01:57:56,400
Speaker 1: stuff that didn't actually has manipulative He can manipulate if

2214
01:57:56,400 --> 01:58:00,160
Speaker 1: he could, so he could have said anything super crazy. Right, Oh,

2215
01:58:00,280 --> 01:58:02,480
Speaker 1: he punched me in the face and then he wants

2216
01:58:02,520 --> 01:58:05,160
Speaker 1: everyone to come to the wedding and actually nothing, who knows,

2217
01:58:05,160 --> 01:58:05,440
Speaker 1: who knows?

2218
01:58:05,480 --> 01:58:05,800
Speaker 2: Who knows?

2219
01:58:05,880 --> 01:58:10,760
Speaker 1: Right? But I think that every one of these people

2220
01:58:11,040 --> 01:58:15,040
Speaker 1: made this decision, and it's like, honestly, I do think

2221
01:58:15,080 --> 01:58:18,440
Speaker 1: that probably he did just say like, oh, he wouldn't

2222
01:58:18,440 --> 01:58:19,720
Speaker 1: ask for my hand and refuse to ask my head

2223
01:58:19,720 --> 01:58:21,080
Speaker 1: bla bla blah blah blah, and that was.

2224
01:58:21,200 --> 01:58:23,320
Speaker 2: Enough for people like, oh, I'm not going to wedding.

2225
01:58:23,440 --> 01:58:27,080
Speaker 2: That's crazy. So it's like you've picked your side. Now

2226
01:58:27,200 --> 01:58:29,520
Speaker 2: that there's a grand baby in the picture. You don't

2227
01:58:29,600 --> 01:58:31,720
Speaker 2: just get to have what you want. You don't. You

2228
01:58:31,840 --> 01:58:34,280
Speaker 2: can't have Keon's cake and eat it too. You can't.

2229
01:58:34,440 --> 01:58:35,320
Speaker 2: You can't do it.

2230
01:58:35,600 --> 01:58:37,040
Speaker 3: I mean you got to bake it or eat it.

2231
01:58:37,560 --> 01:58:42,360
Speaker 3: I mean, Keon, take me out to dinner for at

2232
01:58:42,440 --> 01:58:44,560
Speaker 3: least at least take me out to dinner first, dude,

2233
01:58:44,560 --> 01:58:45,880
Speaker 3: you got to show value in yourself.

2234
01:58:45,960 --> 01:58:46,080
Speaker 4: Man.

2235
01:58:46,560 --> 01:58:49,000
Speaker 2: The book is Little Red Chicken, Little Red Chicken, Thank

2236
01:58:49,040 --> 01:58:53,080
Speaker 2: you and thanks you for the two bucks. Thank you. Yeah,

2237
01:58:53,280 --> 01:58:54,600
Speaker 2: a Little Red Chicken. Great book.

2238
01:58:54,760 --> 01:58:59,120
Speaker 1: But yeah, I think that everyone and you know what, uh,

2239
01:59:00,200 --> 01:59:02,960
Speaker 1: good on them, because like I feel like if it's like, oh, yeah,

2240
01:59:02,960 --> 01:59:04,520
Speaker 1: I don't want to treat I don't want to treat

2241
01:59:04,560 --> 01:59:09,000
Speaker 1: your daughter, cousin, niece, et cetera, sister like property, and

2242
01:59:09,040 --> 01:59:12,320
Speaker 1: that's why I'm doing it. Everyone's like, you know what, yes, absolutely.

2243
01:59:11,920 --> 01:59:13,440
Speaker 2: Can we do a poll real quick? I just saw

2244
01:59:13,760 --> 01:59:17,040
Speaker 2: someone say everyone sucks here? Can we do everyone sucks here?

2245
01:59:17,680 --> 01:59:18,680
Speaker 3: Or nah?

2246
01:59:19,880 --> 01:59:23,520
Speaker 2: Is that okay? Or everyone sucks here? Or parents? Parents?

2247
01:59:23,560 --> 01:59:25,720
Speaker 2: Do you want to say everyone's a whole or parents

2248
01:59:25,760 --> 01:59:31,920
Speaker 2: a whole? Yes a yes h? Yes h? Or parents

2249
01:59:31,960 --> 01:59:34,600
Speaker 2: a whole? Yeah h? Your parents everyone sucks here? Or

2250
01:59:34,640 --> 01:59:37,640
Speaker 2: the or just that is interesting that everyone sucks here? Yeah?

2251
01:59:37,720 --> 01:59:39,440
Speaker 2: Let me just should I just do everyone or parents?

2252
01:59:39,600 --> 01:59:44,320
Speaker 2: I think that's better, right, everyone sucks here? Parents? Okay,

2253
01:59:44,320 --> 01:59:46,440
Speaker 2: I'm just do h guys and then parents? Yes?

2254
01:59:47,960 --> 01:59:51,840
Speaker 1: So yeah, I think because yeah, like I again, maybe

2255
01:59:51,880 --> 01:59:56,000
Speaker 1: there's Paul culture, but listen, we at the end of

2256
01:59:56,040 --> 01:59:58,440
Speaker 1: the day, if we sit down as humans with common sense,

2257
01:59:58,640 --> 02:00:01,040
Speaker 1: He's like, Yeah, I don't want to treat daughter like property.

2258
02:00:01,200 --> 02:00:04,120
Speaker 1: I love this woman and that's not what I want

2259
02:00:04,160 --> 02:00:08,960
Speaker 1: to do any reasonable human. Maybe they have their cultural whatever,

2260
02:00:09,000 --> 02:00:10,600
Speaker 1: Da da da da, But I feel like, if you're

2261
02:00:10,600 --> 02:00:12,280
Speaker 1: a reasonable person, you should see through that and be like,

2262
02:00:12,600 --> 02:00:17,400
Speaker 1: this man clearly loves and and he he respects my

2263
02:00:17,520 --> 02:00:20,840
Speaker 1: daughter so much that he's willing to go against me,

2264
02:00:21,040 --> 02:00:23,240
Speaker 1: her her parents and risk that.

2265
02:00:23,880 --> 02:00:25,760
Speaker 2: I should be like, you know what that is? Someone

2266
02:00:25,760 --> 02:00:30,640
Speaker 2: who will go to bath for my daughter? Yeah? Yeah, uh, Kean,

2267
02:00:30,720 --> 02:00:34,400
Speaker 2: can you pause real quick the chat and then scroll up?

2268
02:00:39,480 --> 02:00:41,680
Speaker 2: She needs to have okay, Cheryl says she needs to

2269
02:00:41,720 --> 02:00:44,880
Speaker 2: have boundaries with these toxic people. She can always update

2270
02:00:44,920 --> 02:00:48,200
Speaker 2: them about their happiness from Afar by sharing pictures until

2271
02:00:48,240 --> 02:00:51,000
Speaker 2: the day she sees real change. I like that. I

2272
02:00:51,160 --> 02:00:51,640
Speaker 2: like that a lot.

2273
02:00:51,840 --> 02:00:53,600
Speaker 1: You know, we we we say a lot on the

2274
02:00:53,680 --> 02:00:58,640
Speaker 1: show pretty go low contact because like, if something crazy,

2275
02:00:58,960 --> 02:00:59,480
Speaker 1: you never know.

2276
02:01:01,040 --> 02:01:03,120
Speaker 2: So I don't even know that you necessarily have to

2277
02:01:03,160 --> 02:01:03,360
Speaker 2: do that.

2278
02:01:03,440 --> 02:01:05,960
Speaker 1: But yeah, I think there's in the we're I think

2279
02:01:06,000 --> 02:01:08,720
Speaker 1: we're in the low context oh category.

2280
02:01:08,360 --> 02:01:11,560
Speaker 2: Right, I think we've already established that yeah, low contact

2281
02:01:11,600 --> 02:01:14,000
Speaker 2: by them sending letters that you're not anything else? Rightly

2282
02:01:14,000 --> 02:01:15,640
Speaker 2: you want to keep going up? Uh no, that's good,

2283
02:01:15,680 --> 02:01:18,120
Speaker 2: you can just yeah, got you good comment to discuss,

2284
02:01:18,840 --> 02:01:22,040
Speaker 2: like nice, cool cool. Well there we go. Now we'll

2285
02:01:22,080 --> 02:01:24,720
Speaker 2: read the rest. Oh yeah, DoD didn't even realize there

2286
02:01:24,800 --> 02:01:28,320
Speaker 2: was Uh. My husband was a little surprised and not

2287
02:01:28,560 --> 02:01:32,880
Speaker 2: sure about banning everyone forever. He's more leaning towards supervised

2288
02:01:33,000 --> 02:01:35,840
Speaker 2: visits if they want to drive to us. My dad

2289
02:01:36,160 --> 02:01:39,360
Speaker 2: has been calling him like crazy, but we are united front.

2290
02:01:39,760 --> 02:01:43,000
Speaker 2: My husband is deferring to me, but giving me ideas

2291
02:01:43,120 --> 02:01:45,760
Speaker 2: as to how I can give a little if I

2292
02:01:45,960 --> 02:01:48,920
Speaker 2: decide to. But with my family there is no giving

2293
02:01:48,960 --> 02:01:51,760
Speaker 2: a little. So probably take a mile, give the manage

2294
02:01:51,760 --> 02:01:55,640
Speaker 2: to go mile big facts. They want it all. For now,

2295
02:01:55,960 --> 02:01:59,400
Speaker 2: they're all banned. I'll reconsider when my youngest of our

2296
02:01:59,520 --> 02:02:03,920
Speaker 2: children turns eighteen, smiley face. For now, my dad will

2297
02:02:04,040 --> 02:02:06,920
Speaker 2: have to settle for sucking up to my husband while

2298
02:02:06,960 --> 02:02:09,160
Speaker 2: I stick it to while I stick to my guns,

2299
02:02:09,480 --> 02:02:12,720
Speaker 2: unlike him, I don't mind owning my decisions, even if

2300
02:02:12,760 --> 02:02:15,520
Speaker 2: it means I am a bad cop. I'm not ready

2301
02:02:15,600 --> 02:02:18,600
Speaker 2: to give up A relatively drama free, stress free life

2302
02:02:18,960 --> 02:02:21,480
Speaker 2: to allow my dad and all his sheep back into

2303
02:02:21,680 --> 02:02:26,480
Speaker 2: our lives. Wow. Wow, that was hard right there. Yeah,

2304
02:02:26,480 --> 02:02:26,920
Speaker 2: that was art.

2305
02:02:28,120 --> 02:02:31,920
Speaker 1: I feel like there was almost maybe going slightly when

2306
02:02:31,920 --> 02:02:34,800
Speaker 1: she said about the husband, like I'm willing to stand

2307
02:02:34,920 --> 02:02:36,640
Speaker 1: behind my h whatever.

2308
02:02:36,760 --> 02:02:42,280
Speaker 2: But that aside, Yes, you know, like the kid can

2309
02:02:42,360 --> 02:02:42,840
Speaker 2: now grow up.

2310
02:02:42,880 --> 02:02:46,440
Speaker 1: I mean, think about all the toxicity venom and manipulation

2311
02:02:47,160 --> 02:02:49,840
Speaker 1: the kid could be growing up around with the parents

2312
02:02:49,920 --> 02:02:54,480
Speaker 1: that are refusing to acknowledge or like change or anything.

2313
02:02:54,560 --> 02:02:56,480
Speaker 2: Right, So, and you know, at the end of the day,

2314
02:02:56,560 --> 02:02:58,000
Speaker 2: this is Opie's kid, you know.

2315
02:02:58,320 --> 02:03:01,440
Speaker 1: Op they they they did the deed it so they

2316
02:03:01,920 --> 02:03:05,960
Speaker 1: have the creed to decide for the child's future until

2317
02:03:05,960 --> 02:03:08,400
Speaker 1: the kid is eighteen and as an adult and can say, hey,

2318
02:03:08,480 --> 02:03:09,800
Speaker 1: this is what I want to do with my life.

2319
02:03:09,960 --> 02:03:12,000
Speaker 1: And then I also like that too, where it's like, hey, listen,

2320
02:03:12,040 --> 02:03:13,520
Speaker 1: if my kid wants to be in contact with him,

2321
02:03:13,680 --> 02:03:15,400
Speaker 1: I gotta respect what they want to do, the same

2322
02:03:15,440 --> 02:03:18,360
Speaker 1: way that I would have expected my parents to respect.

2323
02:03:18,120 --> 02:03:21,920
Speaker 2: What I as an adult gotta keep. Gotta not be

2324
02:03:21,960 --> 02:03:25,560
Speaker 2: a hypocrite. He's not. Stop being hypocrites parents, Gosh, and

2325
02:03:25,640 --> 02:03:29,240
Speaker 2: stop sending letters. Guys, what the heck, it's twenty twenty four.

2326
02:03:29,600 --> 02:03:33,640
Speaker 2: Come on, pigeon mail, pigeon pigeon man. Let's go pigeon man. Yeah,

2327
02:03:33,960 --> 02:03:37,400
Speaker 2: give give Sam a big pigeon suit, send him, Send

2328
02:03:37,480 --> 02:03:37,760
Speaker 2: them over,