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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Stephen Ferdick. I'm the pastor of Elevation

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Speaker 1: Church and this is our podcast. I wanted to thank

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Speaker 1: you for joining us today. Hope this inspires you. Hope

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Speaker 1: it builds your faith. Hope it gives your perspective to

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Speaker 1: see God as moving in your life. Enjoy the message.

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Speaker 1: If you don't know me, my name is Wade Joy.

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Speaker 1: I'm the worship pastor here at the church, and I

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Speaker 1: have the incredible honor and privilege to preach and bring

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Speaker 1: God's word to you this weekend. I am excited. So

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Speaker 1: are you ready for the work? All right, I'm ready

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Speaker 1: to preach. Here we go. We're going to be in

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Speaker 1: Philippians chapter four for our short time together. This is

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Speaker 1: verse verse six through thirteen. It says this, stay standing,

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Speaker 1: do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation,

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Speaker 1: by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your request to God.

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Speaker 1: And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will

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Speaker 1: guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Now Finally,

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Speaker 1: brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever

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Speaker 1: If anything is excellent or praise worthy. Think about such things,

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Speaker 1: and whatever you've learned or received or heard from me

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Speaker 1: or seen in me, put it into practice, and the

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Speaker 1: God of Peace will be with you. I've rejoiced greatly

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Speaker 1: in the Lord that at last you renewed your concern

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Speaker 1: for me. Indeed, you were concerned, but you had no

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Speaker 1: opportunity to show it. And I'm not saying this because

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Speaker 1: I am in need, for I've learned to be content

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Speaker 1: Him who gives me strength. So the title the message

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Speaker 1: that God's given me for our church today is chasing contentment.

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Speaker 1: Chasing contentment. Lord, I pray that you speak to us

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Speaker 1: through your word. I pray God that you will give

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Speaker 1: in the faith to obey, and Jesus name, we pray. Amen.

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Speaker 1: All right, go ahead and give about five or six

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Speaker 1: I'm the worship pastor here at the church, so naturally

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Speaker 1: I love music. I'm a retired worship leader, retired songwriter.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Pastor Stephen, but I grew up in Columbia

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Speaker 1: you know, I was satisfied, but now I'm not. Because

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Speaker 1: to God and telling them all that, saying, you know, Lord,

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Speaker 1: I know that You're supposed to be the source of

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Speaker 1: my encouragement and my validation, and I'm not supposed to

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Speaker 1: need other people's encouragement, but just this once, if just

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Speaker 1: I could hear your approval of me through the lips

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Speaker 1: of another. That would be awesome. But if you say no,

432
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Speaker 1: I get it, you're probably trying to teach me that

433
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Speaker 1: I don't need that. And then I just kind of

434
00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:50,120
Speaker 1: threw the prayer out, kind of like, hey, Genghis, it's

435
00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:54,280
Speaker 1: right over there, and I didn't think about it well.

436
00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:57,040
Speaker 1: That night, I get home and I get two unsolicited

437
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Speaker 1: texts from two people who are not prone to give

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Speaker 1: me encouragement. But it was very specific, it was very timely,

439
00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:07,040
Speaker 1: and it was almost like God heard my prayer and

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00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:10,639
Speaker 1: answered it. And it started to like stir up faith

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00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:13,480
Speaker 1: in my heart. And you might call it coincidence, and

442
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:16,879
Speaker 1: maybe it was, but that doesn't change the fact that

443
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:18,960
Speaker 1: it made me think, Okay, God does listen to me,

444
00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:21,600
Speaker 1: and maybe I'm starting to look over here and say, well,

445
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:25,520
Speaker 1: maybe that's God working there, and maybe that's God working here.

446
00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:28,920
Speaker 1: And I started to begin to make bolder petitions about

447
00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:31,479
Speaker 1: bigger things. And I remember that, yes, my daughter Sidney

448
00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:36,080
Speaker 1: has cystic fibrosis and she's healthy now, but i'd kind

449
00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:38,920
Speaker 1: of gotten complacent and praying for her healing and life

450
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:42,119
Speaker 1: expectancy for that is age forty, and so God was

451
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Speaker 1: like stop stop just accepting that, but like, be bold

452
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Speaker 1: in your petition, be bold in your faith, start hoping again.

453
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Speaker 1: And I wonder if there are things in your life

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Speaker 1: where you've given up hope and God has sent a

455
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:03,320
Speaker 1: five foot six inch blonde man to tell you to

456
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:07,760
Speaker 1: hope again. That God, he's an authority over your life.

457
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 1: He has the power to act. But we've got to

458
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Speaker 1: bring our whole heart, our whole self to him. We

459
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Speaker 1: have to stop hiding from God, start hoping in God.

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Speaker 1: That's the only way we're ever going to be able

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Speaker 1: to cultivate a heart that's content, because even when the

462
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Speaker 1: answer is no, the posture of forgiveness is just submitting

463
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Speaker 1: to our authority and saying God, I trust you, I

464
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Speaker 1: love you, I know even if your answer is know

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Speaker 1: now that you can work all things together for good.

466
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Speaker 1: So we've got to practice the petition. Here's the second

467
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Speaker 1: skill to practice, and that is practice the pivot. Practice

468
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Speaker 1: the pivot. So here's Paul in prison, not denying the

469
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Speaker 1: reality of his situation, but he's trying to teach the

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Speaker 1: church that even in the worst situation possible, you can

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Speaker 1: still choose your focus. So you can say, either I'm

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Speaker 1: going to focus on the thing that feeds my fear,

473
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Speaker 1: or I'm going to pivot my heart and my focus

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Speaker 1: to the thing that fuels my faith. I can focus

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Speaker 1: on the source of my worry and I can obsess

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Speaker 1: over that, or I can pivot my heart to the whatever.

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Speaker 1: And this is the whatever that he's talking about. Verse eight.

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Speaker 1: I love this verse. It says, whatever is true, whatever

479
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Speaker 1: is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely,

480
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Speaker 1: whatever is admirable, if anything is excellent or praise worthy,

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Speaker 1: think about such things. Paul is saying that there is

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Speaker 1: a whatever in any season, in any circumstance, no matter

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Speaker 1: how bad it is. We can find a whatever if

484
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Speaker 1: we learn to pivot. One of my favorite series, Pastors

485
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:48,680
Speaker 1: E when ever taught is God's Will is whatever. Any

486
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Speaker 1: of y'all are around for that. It's an amazing series.

487
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Speaker 1: And I would like to humbly just suggest and propose

488
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Speaker 1: that maybe this could be a sequel. And that is

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Speaker 1: your contentment is whatever. It's whatever you feed, whatever you

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Speaker 1: focus on, whatever you gaze at with your heart. We

491
00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:10,639
Speaker 1: have to learn the art of the whatever, of the pivot,

492
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Speaker 1: because it's not whatever feels true or feels right, it's

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Speaker 1: whatever is true. Whatever is, there's a big difference. Contentment

494
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:21,320
Speaker 1: is not a feeling, it's a focus, and that heart

495
00:27:21,359 --> 00:27:24,600
Speaker 1: pivot is not natural. It takes practice. So, you know

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Speaker 1: Paul saying, don't just say this situation isn't good. Pivot

497
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Speaker 1: your heart to say, but I know God is good.

498
00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:36,160
Speaker 1: He's not just saying, you know, obsess over the betrayal.

499
00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:38,720
Speaker 1: He's saying, pivot your heart to say, I'm going to

500
00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:42,080
Speaker 1: actually act on and move on forgiveness. Yes, you can

501
00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:44,440
Speaker 1: recognize this is the hardest thing I've ever been through,

502
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:46,679
Speaker 1: but learn to pivot your heart to remember that I

503
00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:50,000
Speaker 1: can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me. It's

504
00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:54,920
Speaker 1: the art of the pivot. And that's why what we're

505
00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:57,399
Speaker 1: doing in here right now, and what we do every

506
00:27:57,440 --> 00:28:01,760
Speaker 1: single weekend is so so in because your greatest weapon

507
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:05,919
Speaker 1: and the fight for contentment is worship. Because there's no

508
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:09,400
Speaker 1: greater thing to help you pivot your eyes off of yourself,

509
00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:12,119
Speaker 1: your eyes off of your circumstances, and onto Jesus and

510
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:15,119
Speaker 1: onto God and onto the higher authority. Then worship this

511
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 1: atmosphere of faith. We have to make sure we prioritize

512
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:21,720
Speaker 1: that because this is it's pivot practice. It's contentment practice

513
00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:25,600
Speaker 1: every time we're in the House of God. So Friday,

514
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Speaker 1: I came in here to practice my message because this

515
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:30,639
Speaker 1: is not my default setting, and so I wanted to

516
00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:33,240
Speaker 1: run it. I was hoping there'd be nobody in here

517
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:36,639
Speaker 1: and so I could work out some things. And I

518
00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:38,520
Speaker 1: start the message, and then all of a sudden, somebody

519
00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 1: walks in and they were hired to fix some things

520
00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:44,240
Speaker 1: in the auditorium. And at first I was pretty bummed

521
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:46,560
Speaker 1: out because I was like, Ah, this is gonna be awkward.

522
00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:48,880
Speaker 1: Now I'm gonna have to like mumble and I'm over

523
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:52,120
Speaker 1: here kind of whispering the message to myself. And so

524
00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 1: halfway through the message, he raises his hand and he says,

525
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Speaker 1: excuse me, sir, are you practicing the word for this weekend?

526
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Speaker 1: And I thought if I told him yes, then maybe

527
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:05,720
Speaker 1: he'd actually leave, and so I just honesty and I said,

528
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:08,320
Speaker 1: yes I am. And he's like, well, you don't have

529
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:10,280
Speaker 1: to mumble to yourself. I love a good word. I'd

530
00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:14,400
Speaker 1: love to hear it. It's like, okay, change of plans.

531
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 1: So then he comes down and he sits right here

532
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:22,840
Speaker 1: where Philip is, and so he is right here looking

533
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 1: at me, right there, empty auditorium. Imagine how awkward it is.

534
00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:29,600
Speaker 1: This whole sermon is just you and me. It was great.

535
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:33,800
Speaker 1: So I looked down at my notes and it says

536
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Speaker 1: practice the pivot. I'm like, of course you would, God,

537
00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:42,840
Speaker 1: thank you. So in that moment, practice what you preached.

538
00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:45,479
Speaker 1: I had to pivot away from frustration to this new

539
00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 1: assignment God had given me. And so I finished the message,

540
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:50,680
Speaker 1: and I ended up talking to him when we pray together,

541
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:52,480
Speaker 1: and he said, you know, I watch Pastor Stephen on

542
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 1: TV every week, but I feel like God said, you know,

543
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:59,400
Speaker 1: it's time for you to get back in church. And

544
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 1: we had a conversation about how important it is to

545
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:04,960
Speaker 1: surround yourself with the right people because people help you

546
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 1: pivot to one way or the other. And I realize,

547
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:15,160
Speaker 1: I realized if I just stayed focused on my frustration,

548
00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:18,280
Speaker 1: I would have missed that moment. And so many of

549
00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:22,760
Speaker 1: us were missing opportunities for contentment and opportunities for purpose

550
00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:25,880
Speaker 1: because we're so busy focused on the frustration. We have

551
00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:32,240
Speaker 1: to practice the pivot. And here's the final thing. Here's

552
00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:34,360
Speaker 1: the final thing we're going to practice together, and that

553
00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:41,680
Speaker 1: is practice the present, Practice the present. So I think

554
00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:45,880
Speaker 1: one of my greatest struggles every day is just being

555
00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:49,960
Speaker 1: present in this moment and the season God has me in.

556
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 1: And if I'm honest, I think it's probably one of

557
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 1: the biggest struggles of our generation because we're just staring

558
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 1: at this all day, looking at everybody else's moment, everybody

559
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:08,360
Speaker 1: else's season, just standing at the stop sign, just scrolling. Oh,

560
00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:10,680
Speaker 1: I didn't know. I don't know there was a party

561
00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:13,400
Speaker 1: this weekend. I guess I wasn't. I guess I wasn't invited.

562
00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:23,160
Speaker 1: Nobody understands me. Oh, man, we couldn't go on a

563
00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:25,360
Speaker 1: vacation this year. That Disney cruise must have been nice.

564
00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 1: Nobody understands me, Oh she got a ring? Man, Am

565
00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:37,120
Speaker 1: I ever gonna? This has become my new stop sign?

566
00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:42,000
Speaker 1: And if I could just get through this screen to

567
00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 1: their life, to their job, to their family, to their situation,

568
00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 1: then just maybe I could be content. But I think

569
00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:53,760
Speaker 1: God is telling us today contentment is never in the

570
00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 1: next season if we can't cultivate it in the present one.

571
00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:03,040
Speaker 1: Contentment is not in the net. It's to now. So

572
00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 1: we've got to practice being present, which is so hard

573
00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 1: because there's some legitimate situations that are hurtful, and they're painful,

574
00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:11,680
Speaker 1: and we want to escape from them. But Paul's writing

575
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:14,440
Speaker 1: from one of those right here in Philippians four. Because

576
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Speaker 1: Paul was not some super Christian who was immune from struggles.

577
00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:21,720
Speaker 1: I mean, if you read Paul's writings a lot of times,

578
00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 1: it looks like he actually struggled with depression and he was,

579
00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:26,160
Speaker 1: you know, it was hard for him to believe the

580
00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 1: things he was writing. But I have to think as

581
00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 1: he's in his prison cell and he begins to stop

582
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 1: chasing and stop scrolling and really quiet his mind and

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00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:39,520
Speaker 1: pivotou his heart to Jesus and just be present because

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00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 1: he had to. He's in a prison cell. There's nowhere

585
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:45,280
Speaker 1: he could go. And as he quieted his heart, I

586
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:49,040
Speaker 1: wonder if he started to recognize that there was another

587
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:53,240
Speaker 1: presence that was with him in that prison cell and

588
00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:55,800
Speaker 1: had been with him in every part of his life,

589
00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 1: because he writes about it in verse nine. And these

590
00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:00,840
Speaker 1: are just a couple words that you could miss if

591
00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:03,080
Speaker 1: you're not careful. But this, I think is the hinge

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00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:06,560
Speaker 1: that Contentment swings on verse nine says the God of

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00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:12,080
Speaker 1: Peace will be with you, Paul saying, as I look

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00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 1: back over my life. If I look at when I

595
00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 1: was on the platform, when I was being persecuted, when

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Speaker 1: I was being celebrated, when I'm in the prison cell,

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00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:26,840
Speaker 1: in every single season, God was there. God never left me.

598
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 1: His presence was there with me. And I believe that

599
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:35,400
Speaker 1: part of being present and practicing being present is not

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00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 1: trying to bypass how we feel. Because sometimes all you

601
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:41,440
Speaker 1: can feel is hurt, all you can feel is pain.

602
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:44,440
Speaker 1: There are some horrible things that you may be walking through,

603
00:33:45,160 --> 00:33:48,480
Speaker 1: and the Bible says, mourn with those who mourn, weep

604
00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:50,960
Speaker 1: with those who weep. Sometimes you just have to feel it,

605
00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:53,200
Speaker 1: and there's no other response but crying out to God

606
00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:57,800
Speaker 1: saying God, I do not understand this, but I think

607
00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:02,080
Speaker 1: contentment is realized, saying that even when I don't feel peace,

608
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:06,680
Speaker 1: the God of Peace is with you, and He's with

609
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:11,439
Speaker 1: you in your situation. And there was nobody who knew

610
00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:13,360
Speaker 1: the Old Testament better than Paul, so I have to

611
00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:15,560
Speaker 1: believe he was thinking somewhere in the back of his

612
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:18,400
Speaker 1: mind Psalm one thirty nine. And I want you to

613
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 1: get this truth deep in your spirit today says where

614
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:24,479
Speaker 1: can I go from your spirit? Where can I flee

615
00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:26,760
Speaker 1: from your presence? If I go up to the heavens,

616
00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:28,840
Speaker 1: you are there. If I make my bed in the depths,

617
00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:30,680
Speaker 1: you are there. If I rise on the wings of

618
00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:32,320
Speaker 1: the dawn, if I settle on the far side of

619
00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 1: the sea, even there, your hand will guide me. Your

620
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:37,360
Speaker 1: right hand will hold me fast. If I say surely,

621
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Speaker 1: the darkness will hide me, and the light become night

622
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:42,600
Speaker 1: around me, even the darkness will not be dark to you.

623
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Speaker 1: The night will shine like the day, for darkness is

624
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:49,640
Speaker 1: as light to you. In your story, You're not the

625
00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:53,320
Speaker 1: only one who's been doing the chasing. I think God

626
00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:56,759
Speaker 1: is wanting to remind us that even in the seasons

627
00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:00,839
Speaker 1: when you're chasing after contentment and someone else chasing after

628
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:04,759
Speaker 1: contentment in a new job, in a new relationship, in

629
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:09,080
Speaker 1: every season, God has been chasing after you. You have

630
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:13,040
Speaker 1: never once escaped his spirit. You have never once escaped

631
00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:16,440
Speaker 1: his presence. And you can stop chasing contentment because contentment

632
00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:19,360
Speaker 1: has been chasing you in the person of Jesus Christ,

633
00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:25,279
Speaker 1: and He is offering that up to you today. You

634
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:29,280
Speaker 1: don't have to like your situation to recognize that Christ

635
00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:31,560
Speaker 1: will never leave you in it. He's always there. You

636
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:34,000
Speaker 1: don't have to be good with it. To recognize that

637
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:35,520
Speaker 1: there is good in it. And if you are having

638
00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:39,080
Speaker 1: trouble finding your whatever, Christ is your whatever. He's whatever

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Speaker 1: is good, whatever is pure, whatever is noble, and He

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Speaker 1: is there with you. And even if you are in

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Speaker 1: a dark season right now. The word of the Lord

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Speaker 1: if you today is this. He sees you, he knows you,

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Speaker 1: He is for you. His grace covers you, and he

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Speaker 1: is with you, and he loves you. So I want

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Speaker 1: us to stand together. We're going to close with a

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Speaker 1: little contentment practice. I want to give you just a

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Speaker 1: short prayer, two sentences that you can pray every day

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Speaker 1: this week. You can pray it multiple times a day.

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Speaker 1: You can pray it in your car, you can pray

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Speaker 1: it in your cubicle. But this is just a tangible

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Speaker 1: way that we can pivot our hearts to God. So

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Speaker 1: this is what you say to him this week. I

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Speaker 1: want you to say, you are good and you're with me.

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Speaker 1: Say it like you believe it. You are good and

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Speaker 1: you are with me. You can say this even under

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Speaker 1: your breath in the cubicle, so people don't look at

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Speaker 1: you weird. Say you are good, you are with me.

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Speaker 1: You can say that even after you leave that meeting

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Speaker 1: and you just lost your job and you have no

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Speaker 1: idea how God's going to provide. You just need to

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Speaker 1: remind yourself say you are good, you are with me,

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Speaker 1: even if you have to say it through tears. Say

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Speaker 1: it out in faith. That's not faking it, it's faith.

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Speaker 1: Just believe it in your heart. Come on, you are good.

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Speaker 1: You're with me. You're good in the valley, You're with

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Speaker 1: me on the mountaintop. Come on, you are good, you

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Speaker 1: are with me. Thank you for joining us. Special thanks

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Speaker 1: to those of you who give generously to this ministry.

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Speaker 1: Is because of you that this ministry is possible. You

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Speaker 1: for listening. God bless you