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Speaker 1: Of thank you nephew. Subject he doesn't care what I do.

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I've known my husband for ten years

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Speaker 1: and we've been married for seven years. We have five children,

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Speaker 1: and he has a grown son that I helped him raise.

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Speaker 1: He's cheated on me three times and admitted it each

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Speaker 1: time he did it. He's always told me that we're soulmates,

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Speaker 1: so he can tell me anything. I appreciate his honesty.

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Speaker 1: It helps me feel better about what I do in

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Speaker 1: my spare time. See, I am not as honest as

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Speaker 1: he is. I had a big secret that came out recently,

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Speaker 1: and I lied my way out of it. I didn't

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Speaker 1: know I be quiet. I didn't know if our last

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Speaker 1: child was his or not. So I had a paternity

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Speaker 1: test done with my boyfriend. I figured if it wasn't

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Speaker 1: his baby, then it has to be my husband's baby.

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Speaker 1: Before we could get the test results, my boyfriend told

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Speaker 1: his coworker that he might be a daddy. He said

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Speaker 1: he was so excited that he had to go tell somebody. Well.

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Speaker 1: The coworker gossip to her hairstylist without saying any names.

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Speaker 1: The hairstylist is my husband's aunt. So they put the

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Speaker 1: rumor died down. But a week ago I got the

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Speaker 1: DNA results and it's not my husband's child. I told

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Speaker 1: doesn't care what I do, and he hung up on me.

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Speaker 1: I went up to his job, but he wouldn't come out.

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Speaker 1: I called him for two days and he won't answer.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out what happened. If he was

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Speaker 1: not ready to be a father, why did he ask

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Speaker 1: me to have his baby and beg me to leave

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Speaker 1: my husband since he doesn't care what I do. Is

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Speaker 1: it best to let my husband assume this is his baby?

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Speaker 1: Please advise? This really is a mess right here. And

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Speaker 1: what kind of marriage do you guys have? So he

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Speaker 1: cheated on you three times, but he told you after

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Speaker 1: each time he cheated, and I'm sure you know after

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Speaker 1: it was after he cheated, of course, But anyway, you

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Speaker 1: appreciated his honesty, that's what you said, and you stay

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Speaker 1: him about everything. I'm trying to make sense of all this.

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Speaker 1: But the reason yours is worse is because there's a

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Speaker 1: That's beyond a lie. You deceived your husband. This is

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Speaker 1: not good. And who's the guy the baby daddy? What

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Speaker 1: is he running his mouth to his coworker for? Why

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Speaker 1: he's so excited. That was before he even knew that

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Speaker 1: it was his baby. So now the truth is out,

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Speaker 1: he's no longer speaking to you. And you want to

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Speaker 1: know why what happened? Because you said you wanted to

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Speaker 1: tell your husband and he got upset about that. I

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Speaker 1: think you need to tell your husband. I think you do.

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Speaker 1: I think the truth matters. Why are you letting your

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Speaker 1: husband go around thinking that this is his baby and

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Speaker 1: it's not. And once you tell your husband, do not

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Speaker 1: mean he might ask for a divorce.

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Speaker 3: Steve, Uh, you know this is nothing but a ball

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Speaker 3: of confusion.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this probably.

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Speaker 3: Ain't the letter to be funny on. So let me

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Speaker 3: just say this right here. I will say this right here.

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Speaker 3: There's too many people in this letter who don't know

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Speaker 3: how to lie. It's too many people that don't know

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Speaker 3: where to place the lie. This is a letter full

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Speaker 3: wrong with this letter? The lie you told, the timing

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Speaker 3: that you told, when and how and why to lie?

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Speaker 3: They just failed in so many categories, which now makes

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Speaker 3: this letter even more murky. You've known your husband for

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Speaker 3: ten years, you've been married for seven. Y'all got five children, five,

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Speaker 3: he got a grown son. You helped him raise. He

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Speaker 3: cheated on me three times and admitted it each.

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Speaker 2: Time he did it.

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Speaker 3: Why why to both of those questions? Is he on

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Speaker 2: Question Mark? Question Mark.

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Speaker 3: He's always told me that we're soul mate, so he

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Speaker 3: could tell me anything. Here's the puzzling part. I appreciate

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Speaker 3: for the lie that she been telling and living because

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Speaker 2: That that ain't.

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Speaker 3: See this right here, this, all this honesty dishonesty is

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Speaker 3: the core of destroying this marriage right here. Cheated three

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Speaker 3: times and walked in there and admitted it. Now I

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Speaker 3: guess what that then did, or mister honesty, now that

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Speaker 3: it gave her the green light? You know, See, I'm

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Speaker 3: not as honest as he is. I have a big

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Speaker 3: secret that came out, and I lied my way out

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Speaker 3: of it. Now now here we go. See these is

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Speaker 3: misplaced lies, y'all. I can't tell you how confusing this

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Speaker 3: he is right now, because here's people who are lying

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Speaker 3: about things you shouldn't lie about, and they walking in

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Speaker 2: Does that make sense to you? Surely what I'm saying?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, in a strange way, it absolutely does.

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Speaker 3: See.

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Speaker 2: I know it's strange. When we come back, I'll try

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Speaker 2: to be a little more clear, but it's really odd, y'all.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it does okay, and we will have part two

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Speaker 1: of your response coming up Steve at twenty three minutes

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Speaker 1: after the hour. Today's strawberry letter subject is he doesn't

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Speaker 1: care what I do. We'll get back into it right

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Speaker 1: All right? Come on, Steve, this letter today is crazy,

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Speaker 1: but let's you know, let's go ahead and recap it.

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Speaker 1: The title is he doesn't care what I do?

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Speaker 3: Well, see, once again, the reason I'm reading this letter

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Speaker 3: from this perspective everybody is the use of lies, the

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Speaker 3: lack of use of lies, and the misplaced meant of

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Speaker 3: the lie, because there's times when line is necessary. I

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Speaker 3: keep telling you all that if you're in a relationship,

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Speaker 3: but it's times where you you can't use a lie

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Speaker 3: because it's a misplaced line, because it's too big of

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Speaker 3: let me show you what happens. Okay, this couple been

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Speaker 3: together for ten years, married for seven, They got five

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Speaker 3: and admitted each time that he did it. Right there,

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Speaker 3: that's when you should have lied. But you know why

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Speaker 3: he didn't lie. Guess why because he's always told me

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Speaker 3: And then guess what this stupid woman said. I appreciate

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Speaker 3: here'll come see. I'm not as honest as he is.

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Speaker 3: I had a big secret that came out recently, and

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Speaker 3: I lied in my way, and oh, now you want

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Speaker 3: on this letter right now, I don't know what the

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Speaker 3: the lies about. This lie is a misplaced line. I

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Speaker 3: understand you lies your way out of it, but this

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Speaker 3: is a misplace line. And I'll tell you why what

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Speaker 3: on to say, this is where they start writing these letters.

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Speaker 3: That really ticked me off, and they try to act

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Speaker 3: If our last child was his or not. So I

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Speaker 2: What where that comes from? Where did it comes from?

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Speaker 3: Lady? Were just going on through the thing, and now

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Speaker 3: your big secret is you done had a baby with

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Speaker 3: and told him to you because you here sold me

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Speaker 3: boy first. Well, y'all should stop using the term soul mate. Okay.

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Speaker 3: Then said I'm going to get a paternity test. Figure it.

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Speaker 3: I figured it wasn't his baby, then it has to

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Speaker 2: Now a halfstylist is my husband's arm.

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Speaker 3: Because it's just.

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Speaker 2: A small town. Everybody know everybody right now.

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Speaker 3: When it came out, I denied it, and the rumor

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Speaker 3: Here The problem, though, the other lie you told was

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Speaker 2: But it's actually your boyfriend's baby.

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Speaker 3: You can't lie about paternity tests with the who's the

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Speaker 3: I denied it for a week ago. I got the

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Speaker 3: DNA results and it's not my husband's child.

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Speaker 2: Oh lord, him see that you lie? That was a

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Speaker 3: Get the room off you. But now the DNA test

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Speaker 3: You've been cheating on him. Okay, let's see how this

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Speaker 3: work out. He said he don't care what I do

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Speaker 3: and hung up on me. Then you went down to

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Speaker 3: his job, but he wouldn't come out.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 3: So I guess you got to the job and you

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Speaker 3: called and he said he wouldn't come out. Or you

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Speaker 3: was in the parking lot, Holly.

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Speaker 5: Come out here, that tame is. Don't you leave me?

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Speaker 5: Stand out there, Bregant with your baby. I'm in the

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Speaker 5: fog lot in his rainow.

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Speaker 3: Okay, anyway, I called him for two days and he

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Speaker 3: won't answer. I'm trying to figure out what happened. He

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Speaker 3: was not if he's not ready to be a father,

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Speaker 3: why did he ask me to have his baby and.

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Speaker 2: Beg me to leave my husband?

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Speaker 3: Lady, all this late information you've given us, Since he

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Speaker 3: doesn't care what I do, is it best to let

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Speaker 2: Please advise?

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Speaker 3: No, you cannot let this man assume that this is

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Speaker 3: his baby because it's not. Y'all got to stop doing

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Speaker 3: this to these me and out here. You're playing with

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Speaker 3: people's lives. Now what the baby grow up and find

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Speaker 3: out that it ain't his father? You know the damage

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Speaker 3: the therapy thist boy of girl gonna have to go through. No,

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Speaker 3: this is where you have to tell the truth.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, truth matters.

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Speaker 3: And you might have to tell the truth if you

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Speaker 3: hadn't a told all these lies in the wrong place.

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