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Speaker 1: These stories are about how should we approach divorce? What's

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Speaker 3: It is that what I probably heard meet my parents

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Speaker 2: Who the thing is? Who would would you go up?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is and something that we Kansas says, well,

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Speaker 1: don't blame her if it's postpartum. I think we actually

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Speaker 1: had this conversation about mental health before, and we talked

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Speaker 1: to some of y'all who have struggled with mental health stuff.

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Speaker 1: And someone can be an a hole and suffer from

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Speaker 1: mental health issues. Having mental health issues does not give

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Speaker 1: someone free reign to be terrible to their husband, terrible

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Speaker 1: to their kids, terrible to their family and friends. But

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Speaker 1: what it does do is when you understand why they

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Speaker 1: might be acting that, why they may have postpartum depression,

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Speaker 1: what that means is you have a better idea of

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Speaker 1: how to treat that and go through that. But it

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Speaker 1: doesn't it doesn't excuse the answer because you know, if

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Speaker 1: we boil it down, anything negative that we do any

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Speaker 1: a whole behavior is because there's chemicals in the brain

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Speaker 1: and they're acting a certain way, right, and it all

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Speaker 1: comes you know, everything can be explained. Someone who is

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Speaker 1: acting terribly could because childhood trauma. Just because they have

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Speaker 1: childhood trauma doesn't take away from the fact that they've

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Speaker 1: done it. But what it does have help us do

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Speaker 1: is it helps us know and empathize with why they've

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Speaker 1: done it and maybe we can help them in the future. Wow, therapists,

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Speaker 1: right here, got you guys, I've read I've read it

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Speaker 1: stories to be a therapist.

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Speaker 2: Go get the card. Let me read the donos and

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Speaker 2: then we'll get it ready after the story.

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Speaker 1: We got some we know, we got some comments.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, okay, Okay, let's.

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Speaker 1: Read comments and the update. There's an update in from

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Speaker 1: op in the comments.

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Speaker 2: Okay, unless you want to want me to read this,

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Speaker 2: then do the comments first.

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Speaker 1: Comments first. So Franny K. Tenady two says, call an

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Speaker 1: attorney pronto. I would also call a psychologist if you can,

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Speaker 1: to try to get help for yourself and how to

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Speaker 1: navigate her delusions, and also get records going for yourself

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Speaker 1: that this is going to be, that this is going

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Speaker 1: on and you are seeking help. But definitely call an attorney.

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Speaker 1: Also look up recording permission in your state and try

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Speaker 1: to get her on tape, because this is something that

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Speaker 1: when you tell them is hard to believe, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean, If you told them this, I would

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Speaker 1: think no way or even get her going on text.

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Speaker 1: She knows that she knows that's documentation and you don't

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Speaker 1: have to tell her she's being recorded. Text and voicemail

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Speaker 1: are two places you don't have to tell them. Some

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Speaker 1: states you don't when recording. Protect those children alone. Alternative

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Speaker 1: two six nine three says informed the midwife, gynecologist's medical

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Speaker 1: professional who was involved in the birth of the baby.

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Speaker 1: If this is some sort of postpartum depression or psychosis,

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Speaker 1: they can assess that and get her more help. Agitated

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Speaker 1: AD three four seven one says, Hey, I'm a psych

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Speaker 1: nurse practitioner. I commented on your last post two.

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Speaker 2: I don't know the full.

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Speaker 1: Story, of course, but from what I'm hearing, this is

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Speaker 1: postpartum psychosis with religious preoccupation. You need to go to

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Speaker 1: the magistrate's office and tell her she is a harm

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Speaker 1: to other of the kids. They will get a TDO

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Speaker 1: temporary hold order and she will be admitted to a

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Speaker 1: psych ward for seventy two hours. Might be slightly different

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Speaker 1: depending on where you live. This is the best bet

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Speaker 1: on getting her quickly stabilized treatment, then further follow up outpatient,

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Speaker 1: and then expression Little says, is this a cult if

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Speaker 1: all these people are on the wife's side, even though

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Speaker 1: this is nuts. There's got to be something going on

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Speaker 1: in the background. Which, yeah, I'm I am floor that

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Speaker 1: this like everyone's on board, and OP responds, this is

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Speaker 1: a genuine question, But what are some warning signs of

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Speaker 1: occult I was never religious, and my wife always said

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Speaker 1: she was raised religiously but never practiced. After she left home,

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Speaker 1: I assumed she had some sort of traumatic experience with

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Speaker 1: the religion and that's why she never brings it up.

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Speaker 1: This was up until the birth of my son, who

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Speaker 1: she fully believed would be twins until the ultrasound. She

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Speaker 1: suddenly became superligious and got back into contact with her

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Speaker 1: family and old friends, even getting us to move states

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Speaker 1: to be with them. She's always mentioned that her mother

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Speaker 1: wanted her to have twins, which at the time didn't

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Speaker 1: sound as weird as it does now. This is freaky.

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Speaker 2: This is really freaky.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think the thing to do. I think

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Speaker 1: the thing to do is make sure that she gets

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Speaker 1: the help that she needs. But this needs to be addressed. ASAPO.

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Speaker 2: I am concerned about her family agreeing with her. At

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Speaker 2: least wife has psychiatric postprodum issues. Rest of family has

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Speaker 2: no excuse. Yeah, the family.

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Speaker 1: Agreeing Yeah, that's what I'm I'm concerned about. That's what

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Speaker 1: I'm concerned about. But definitely get your wife, as you know,

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Speaker 1: get as much information about this as possible. But mis

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Speaker 1: killed It says, I think there should be some leniency

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Speaker 1: if they have postpartum, but only for the behavior before

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Speaker 1: the diagnosis, no physical violence. But once you know, there

529
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Speaker 1: are no more excuses. So like I guess, like, once

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Speaker 1: you know and get it treated, Siana Te says, almost

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Speaker 1: starting to sound like Rosemary's Baby. Yeah, dude, I mean

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Speaker 1: this goes to show it's just like things can Things

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Speaker 1: can change in a marriage, especially with big changes like

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Speaker 1: having kids. Yeah, so just make sure you uh yeah,

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Speaker 1: just make sure you actually address it as soon as

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Speaker 1: possible and protect those babies. Deadly Cat says, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: go to a bathroom. Well Rightley, read some Dodos, grab.

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Speaker 1: MJ.

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Speaker 2: Do you remember how your Thursdays used to be you

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Speaker 2: The only way he will show up is if we

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Speaker 2: have ten million subs, so you guys can make that happen.

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Speaker 2: We are nowhere close to that, but that's the only

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Speaker 2: you for the five sixty nine. If we keep Sam hostage,

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Speaker 2: I curse you guys with a long stream. It's stop

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Speaker 2: while I finish up topping my story and adding the

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Speaker 2: is sutch, a kind man, and it really upset me

651
00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:35,480
Speaker 2: to see him being spoken to like this. Yeah, stand up, girl,

652
00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:37,920
Speaker 2: stand up. Yeah, no, no one should be talking to

653
00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 2: your man's like that. Gosh, the lady sat down at

654
00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:45,520
Speaker 2: our table and started insulting up. My partner said, it's

655
00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 2: a casual place and it's commonly done, no shirt, no shoes,

656
00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:52,360
Speaker 2: sort of op. Yeah, you're at the freaking beach, of course,

657
00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 2: not a fancy restaurant. And no, he wouldn't be moving.

658
00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:03,879
Speaker 2: WHOA stand on business, my dude, standing on business. I

659
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:04,640
Speaker 2: appreciate that.

660
00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:06,400
Speaker 1: Standing on businessman.

661
00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:11,200
Speaker 2: That means like like like, if you tell me something

662
00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:11,760
Speaker 2: and I tell.

663
00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:13,480
Speaker 1: Your back, you're standing on business.

664
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:16,360
Speaker 2: I'm standing on business, like I'm like reinforcing what I

665
00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:16,759
Speaker 2: just said.

666
00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:18,600
Speaker 1: You're like, I stand with that.

667
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:23,080
Speaker 2: I stand with that. Yeah, so partner clapp back. We

668
00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:25,880
Speaker 2: turned around and tried to continue our conversation, but the

669
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:30,840
Speaker 2: leddy kept antagonizing. Ours have I mentioned she was dressed

670
00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:35,200
Speaker 2: head to toe in purple with an accompanying purple handbag

671
00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:38,280
Speaker 2: and water bottle. Oh, I'm not sure if this's relevant,

672
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:43,120
Speaker 2: just extra details about her. So she likes to match? H.

673
00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 2: I ended up snapping.

674
00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:48,239
Speaker 1: I mean, like, that's a funny extra comment. It's like,

675
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:51,719
Speaker 1: and do you know what she was wearing? All matching,

676
00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:56,439
Speaker 1: all purple, Everything was purple. Tell me you're unclassy without

677
00:36:56,480 --> 00:36:59,719
Speaker 1: telling me I'm glassy. She looked like you know that guy,

678
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:03,840
Speaker 1: the McDonald's purple guy. Yeah, yeah, I look like that

679
00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:08,400
Speaker 1: guy or Grimace grip. Yes, she looked like Grimace.

680
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:11,600
Speaker 2: Probably had like a bobcat going on. Nothing against the

681
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:13,400
Speaker 2: pending it, but like curly.

682
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:15,279
Speaker 1: Bobcat, like what you have?

683
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:21,000
Speaker 2: I see my I just like purple when I was little.

684
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 1: Anyway, Hey, dude, you like purple if you like the show?

685
00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:27,120
Speaker 1: Because purple background. Yeah.

686
00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:31,080
Speaker 2: I ended up snapping back. Okay, she kept wait, ended

687
00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:38,680
Speaker 2: up snapping, Oh details about end up snapping. I ended

688
00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:41,920
Speaker 2: up snapping and telling her she was the worst person

689
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:45,400
Speaker 2: I've ever come across, and asked her how miserable it

690
00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:47,799
Speaker 2: must be to be so rude to us, like that

691
00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:54,600
Speaker 2: snap back was like thanks. He kept going and calling

692
00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:59,719
Speaker 2: us disgusting and a few other things, saying she was

693
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:01,399
Speaker 2: raised better in her day.

694
00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:05,399
Speaker 1: We were both been around for a while, so.

695
00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:10,359
Speaker 2: We were both in our early thirties. No children, I

696
00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:14,759
Speaker 2: don't know. Call me ignorant, but I never thought I

697
00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:18,280
Speaker 2: but I never would have thought it was so offensive

698
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 2: to sit on a table at the beach. Our coffees

699
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:23,200
Speaker 2: were called, so we got up and left, but not

700
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 2: before I told her I hope she died soon.

701
00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:32,279
Speaker 1: I also like, how your rida get And I was like,

702
00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:35,479
Speaker 1: not before she told him that she would die soon.

703
00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:40,879
Speaker 1: And we're like, what you said it so casually? Yeah,

704
00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:42,080
Speaker 1: I just told her to die soon.

705
00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:47,440
Speaker 2: WHOA, Yeah, that's too much. That's too much, Yeah, I

706
00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 2: would say, even.

707
00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:53,640
Speaker 3: Though she was rude to you, beijin, I just don't

708
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:56,360
Speaker 3: think you should tell people to go die.

709
00:38:56,440 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 2: Hey, Sam, go off yourself? Make you.

710
00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 1: Not great? Unless it was go get yourself off?

711
00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 2: And how do you feel about that?

712
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:13,000
Speaker 1: You know, self care day.

713
00:39:14,600 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 2: You can say that. So if you want to tell

714
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:19,759
Speaker 2: someone a k K y s, stay get yourself off,

715
00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:21,040
Speaker 2: because they can take it two ways.

716
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:25,680
Speaker 1: Get yourself off, Yeah, don't get yourself off off, go

717
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 1: get yourself off.

718
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:32,200
Speaker 2: Yeah that yeah, m hmm, okay, keep reading.

719
00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:37,600
Speaker 1: Oh, drop dead is kind of sick though, drop dead,

720
00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 1: drop dead, drop dead? Yeah, catword to stayth them? Is

721
00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:45,680
Speaker 1: it not cool to say drop dead anymore? Drop dead

722
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:47,719
Speaker 1: is pretty great though, But that like doesn't feel like

723
00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:51,040
Speaker 1: it's not like saying like go off yourself. Yeah, you know,

724
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:55,200
Speaker 1: like that's like that's just like, yeah, drop dead, drop

725
00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:56,040
Speaker 1: Dead's pretty great.

726
00:39:56,320 --> 00:39:58,880
Speaker 2: Drop dad, that's simple, right to the point. Yeah, if

727
00:39:58,880 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 2: you have any other ways to.

728
00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 1: Drop that, no one says drop dead anymore.

729
00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:05,359
Speaker 2: I'm bringing it back. We are all going to bring

730
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:05,640
Speaker 2: it back.

731
00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:07,800
Speaker 1: Well, we're kind of bringing back the eighties and nineties anyway,

732
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:11,480
Speaker 1: like with stranger things and stuff. Yes, dropped I think

733
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:12,839
Speaker 1: and like what.

734
00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:17,120
Speaker 2: You said, John's day back in my day, back in.

735
00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 1: Many Yeah, John misses the eighties man. Yeah, poor the

736
00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:22,680
Speaker 1: poor guy.

737
00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:25,000
Speaker 2: You just don't tell him that because it might happen.

738
00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:27,080
Speaker 1: He might drop that.

739
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:32,200
Speaker 2: As his girlfriend, he feels about these and like, yeah,

740
00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:34,600
Speaker 2: sometimes he gets triggered. I think we need to take

741
00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:36,520
Speaker 2: a break from it just for a month, just like

742
00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:37,280
Speaker 2: take a month.

743
00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 1: And you're so so funny, it's so hard not to

744
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:47,839
Speaker 1: does does he actually get triggered. I don't think he does.

745
00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:50,799
Speaker 1: He literally says, I want you guys to do it.

746
00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:53,200
Speaker 1: It's good, it's funny.

747
00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:56,839
Speaker 2: He's just nice. I think he's just nice.

748
00:40:56,840 --> 00:40:58,879
Speaker 1: I think he's just nice. My mom said, we need

749
00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 1: to stop. Ah.

750
00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:06,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, tell me I wouldn't be getting into heaven and

751
00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:11,160
Speaker 2: call me something dirty. Wait. Oh, sorry, I hope she

752
00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:14,160
Speaker 2: does something. This shocked her and be and she told

753
00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:15,280
Speaker 2: me I wouldn't be getting into.

754
00:41:15,120 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 1: Heaven because I'm not dead yet like you will be.

755
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:26,400
Speaker 2: Yeah. Oh man, I'm I immediately felt horrible for the

756
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:29,960
Speaker 2: way I reacted and for what I said, not how

757
00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:32,239
Speaker 2: I want to show up in my life. It shocked me.

758
00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:35,440
Speaker 2: I was embarrassed, and my fiance saw me stoop so

759
00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:39,560
Speaker 2: low to say what I said, uh, and and say

760
00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:41,920
Speaker 2: what I did. I wish I could take it back

761
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:45,920
Speaker 2: and respond differently. I was so angry would approach us

762
00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:50,680
Speaker 2: blank blank herself down at our table and assult us

763
00:41:50,680 --> 00:41:53,399
Speaker 2: like that. Yeah, it's hard to what do you say

764
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:56,440
Speaker 2: to Karen's that's the question I'm asking for this episode. Silence.

765
00:41:56,719 --> 00:42:01,920
Speaker 1: It's silence to Karen's ignore and move away. They're like,

766
00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:06,560
Speaker 1: it's kind of like uh, like a yappy dog. You know,

767
00:42:06,600 --> 00:42:08,960
Speaker 1: you don't talk to a yappy dog like when a dog,

768
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:11,600
Speaker 1: when a when a little chihuahua dog barks at you

769
00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:15,720
Speaker 1: and yep and not like the warm fireplace kind of yapping,

770
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:17,839
Speaker 1: like the annoying dog kind of yeah yeah, yeah, yeah,

771
00:42:17,880 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 1: what what do you go and talk to that chihuahua?

772
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:23,920
Speaker 2: I think I'd be like, hey, Bob, that's.

773
00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:26,200
Speaker 1: What uas doesn't doesn't understand you.

774
00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:28,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why I don't like small dogs.

775
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:31,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just like Karen's. You just don't. You just

776
00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:32,400
Speaker 1: don't interact with them.

777
00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:34,160
Speaker 2: If you have a small dog, nothing against it, But

778
00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:36,279
Speaker 2: where I grew up, if you had small dog, it

779
00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:37,440
Speaker 2: wasn't gonna last the night.

780
00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, because if because wait what we get it?

781
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:41,480
Speaker 2: Cootes, popcats?

782
00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:43,640
Speaker 1: You guys got coyotes? Really?

783
00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:45,800
Speaker 2: Yeah? I live in the mountains of North Carolina.

784
00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:47,640
Speaker 1: I didn't know coyotes were everywhere.

785
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:50,040
Speaker 2: Dude. I did a paper about the invasive species of

786
00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:51,280
Speaker 2: coyotes and how they started.

787
00:42:51,520 --> 00:42:53,399
Speaker 1: Are coyotes invasives? Yes?

788
00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:54,839
Speaker 2: I have an Okay, story time about it.

789
00:42:55,040 --> 00:42:55,640
Speaker 1: Are we done with?

790
00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:56,719
Speaker 2: Uh? We have one more?

791
00:42:57,800 --> 00:42:58,160
Speaker 1: Okay.

792
00:42:58,520 --> 00:43:01,359
Speaker 2: I had a lot of drama growing up, growing up,

793
00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:04,200
Speaker 2: and I guess I still have hard time regulating my

794
00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:07,400
Speaker 2: emotions of the situation. My brain perceives things as threatening.

795
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:10,160
Speaker 2: I just feel terrible about what I said, even though

796
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:13,560
Speaker 2: I do believe this woman was in confirmation. How can

797
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:16,080
Speaker 2: I move past this and put it behind me?

798
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:20,160
Speaker 1: Forgive yourself, forgive yourself, and forgive her.

799
00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:24,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, just give her. Yeah, I think you gotta. We're

800
00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:26,440
Speaker 2: human and we can't, you know, put ourselves on the

801
00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:29,959
Speaker 2: pedestal like that. And I mean I do things that's wrong,

802
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:32,040
Speaker 2: and I have to ask for forgiveness and you know,

803
00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:35,120
Speaker 2: and forgive yourself. I think that's the most important thing.

804
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:35,839
Speaker 2: Mm hm.

805
00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:40,319
Speaker 1: You learn live, keep living. Yeah, and do not drop that.

806
00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:43,920
Speaker 1: Don't drop that anything you do. I want to I

807
00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:46,920
Speaker 1: want to know about this this uh so coyote business.

808
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:50,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, so there was coyotes paper that I did. There

809
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:53,919
Speaker 2: were two ways that people believe that coyotes got loose.

810
00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:59,680
Speaker 2: One these hunters had dogs and they were hoping that

811
00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:03,120
Speaker 2: the they would train the dogs behind like finding the coyotes.

812
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:06,880
Speaker 2: And they believe that one time when they did a

813
00:44:07,239 --> 00:44:08,840
Speaker 2: I don't know, like a test trial for the dogs,

814
00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:11,560
Speaker 2: two coyotes, a male and a female, got loose and

815
00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:14,200
Speaker 2: then they started reading that's how it happened.

816
00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:16,040
Speaker 1: So it literally started from two dogs.

817
00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:18,680
Speaker 2: That's the first thing, because they were trying to train

818
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:21,600
Speaker 2: their dogs. The second thing was they believed an insurance

819
00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:27,360
Speaker 2: company released the coyotes and the I don't know, profit

820
00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:28,240
Speaker 2: off of that somehow.

821
00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:34,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, the insurance companies. That sounds like one of a

822
00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:35,960
Speaker 1: classic Riley conspiracy theory.

823
00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:37,560
Speaker 2: Well that's why I put it in the paper because

824
00:44:37,560 --> 00:44:38,360
Speaker 2: it was so interesting.

825
00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:41,160
Speaker 1: Dude, I do.

826
00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:43,879
Speaker 2: I don't believe them, but I just love looking at

827
00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:47,279
Speaker 2: like how it connects. Like I saw a recent conspiracy

828
00:44:47,320 --> 00:44:49,759
Speaker 2: theory that the Earth isn't flat, we just live on

829
00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:52,440
Speaker 2: a bigger Earth and we're stuck in like an ice

830
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:57,759
Speaker 2: thing and there's multiple ice circles around. I just love

831
00:44:57,800 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 2: what the internet that way.

832
00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:03,000
Speaker 1: It's it's like, uh, it's ice wall Earth. Yes, yes,

833
00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:04,479
Speaker 1: I know about ice wall Earth.

834
00:45:04,680 --> 00:45:07,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, that one. I love that conspiracy theory.

835
00:45:07,560 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

836
00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:12,600
Speaker 2: I grew up leaving a Bigfoot and I don't think

837
00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:15,680
Speaker 2: he's real. We have so much cameras by now and he's.

838
00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:17,680
Speaker 1: Seeing Maybe he's just good at dodging cameras.

839
00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:18,919
Speaker 2: Dude, come back.

840
00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:21,520
Speaker 1: He could be very good at dodging cameras.

841
00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:23,920
Speaker 2: Bigfoot he's probably dead by now.

842
00:45:23,760 --> 00:45:25,800
Speaker 1: Though, No, I feel like he lives forever.

843
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:29,879
Speaker 2: Come on, you need nothing. Everything's mortal on this earth.

844
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:32,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, but like Bigfoot lasts for a while. It's like

845
00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:35,719
Speaker 1: that shark in Greenland that's like five hundred years old

846
00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:39,879
Speaker 1: Omas not well lockness. But there's also like that. There's

847
00:45:39,920 --> 00:45:43,479
Speaker 1: like this shark that's literally that has been it has

848
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:46,960
Speaker 1: been spotted, and it's like four hundred, five hundred years old.

849
00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:51,160
Speaker 1: It's like, hella old, wow, all right, hit it.

850
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:58,720
Speaker 2: I like, I like doing the John Way where he goes, okay,

851
00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:03,719
Speaker 2: He'll this is what John Doe's he goes, am I

852
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:06,920
Speaker 2: the a hole for wanting to end my friendship because

853
00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:10,600
Speaker 2: they body shamed my child. This is okop where we

854
00:46:10,640 --> 00:46:11,000
Speaker 2: read the.

855
00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:16,080
Speaker 1: This is okayop where we need the craziest stories on Earth.

856
00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:18,400
Speaker 1: I'm Sam and Riley.

857
00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:23,480
Speaker 2: What do you think? Uh? Because they body shame my child.

858
00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:25,960
Speaker 2: I think everyone has a right to their own opinion.

859
00:46:27,200 --> 00:46:28,839
Speaker 1: I agree, so.

860
00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:33,560
Speaker 2: Doodoo Queen four twenty says reaching out to Reddit because

861
00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 2: I could not stop thinking about this and I need

862
00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:39,080
Speaker 2: to know if I'm overreacting in the situation. I twenty

863
00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:41,680
Speaker 2: seven female at a friend's house last night with a

864
00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:45,399
Speaker 2: group of friends over a decade on friends. I had

865
00:46:45,400 --> 00:46:46,200
Speaker 2: a kid.

866
00:46:46,040 --> 00:46:48,719
Speaker 1: Ten years Dang, I don't have a friend.

867
00:46:48,920 --> 00:46:50,120
Speaker 2: I have one friend.

868
00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:54,080
Speaker 1: I have a friend in this house. How long shout

869
00:46:54,120 --> 00:46:55,719
Speaker 1: out Christian? Who are you?

870
00:46:55,760 --> 00:46:56,080
Speaker 2: Guys?

871
00:46:56,120 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 1: Won't let me hang out with.

872
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:04,200
Speaker 3: That's okay, that's okay. Eat out the rich, eat out

873
00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:08,000
Speaker 3: of the rich. Will always look for it for you.

874
00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:12,759
Speaker 3: In my head, same, I didn't mean to AnyWho. I

875
00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:15,040
Speaker 3: had a kid when I was on the younger side,

876
00:47:15,080 --> 00:47:17,360
Speaker 3: and I'm a single mother, so I am the only

877
00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:19,440
Speaker 3: one of my friend group with a child besides my

878
00:47:19,520 --> 00:47:22,799
Speaker 3: older sister who is also there. My son will call

879
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:26,239
Speaker 3: him Adam is seven. I would be fully transparent. He

880
00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:29,799
Speaker 3: is a chubby kid. We love chubby kidd They're fun.

881
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:30,280
Speaker 2: Yo.

882
00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:35,959
Speaker 1: Oh, her son is a chubby, chubby kid. He dead

883
00:47:36,040 --> 00:47:43,520
Speaker 1: named the channel during Pride month. Huh Caroselsa. What do

884
00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:47,560
Speaker 1: you get that dead name? Oh? Name is like I

885
00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:49,279
Speaker 1: think in the Chans community, it's like your old name

886
00:47:49,360 --> 00:47:50,240
Speaker 1: before you transition.

887
00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:58,440
Speaker 2: I did that name? Oops, don't canceled me. My ethnic

888
00:47:58,600 --> 00:47:59,719
Speaker 2: background results?

889
00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:06,560
Speaker 1: Wait what and my ethnic background results? Oh, my ethnic

890
00:48:06,680 --> 00:48:10,520
Speaker 1: background results twenty three and me out.

891
00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:17,520
Speaker 2: Here DNA story right in the middle on my building

892
00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:21,440
Speaker 2: being very fairly tall for a woman. That wasn't me.

893
00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:22,360
Speaker 2: That's the story.

894
00:48:22,560 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 1: My ethnic background results in me in my build being

895
00:48:28,600 --> 00:48:29,719
Speaker 1: fairly tall for a woman.

896
00:48:30,120 --> 00:48:33,760
Speaker 2: Thank you, Sam. And I've always been on the thicker

897
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:36,360
Speaker 2: side with playing a muscle. However, since having a child,

898
00:48:36,400 --> 00:48:39,400
Speaker 2: the pandemic and working from home again, I'll be transparent,

899
00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:43,800
Speaker 2: I've gained a little more weight than usual. My son's

900
00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:47,879
Speaker 2: biological father also has an ethnic background and is known

901
00:48:47,920 --> 00:48:50,759
Speaker 2: for being thicker built. As a result, my son had

902
00:48:50,800 --> 00:48:53,719
Speaker 2: a large build since birth, even when he was skinnier.

903
00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:56,800
Speaker 2: I hate reverencing my son's body like this. He always

904
00:48:56,840 --> 00:49:00,000
Speaker 2: had thick legs, arms, and felt heavier than he looked.

905
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:03,479
Speaker 1: Put man into rugby dude, Yeah, dude, he's literally built

906
00:49:03,480 --> 00:49:05,040
Speaker 1: as a giant. He's built as a tank.

907
00:49:05,239 --> 00:49:09,839
Speaker 2: Yeah that's good. That's a good thing. Yeah, he just

908
00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:13,440
Speaker 2: got the genes for this. Now back to the story.

909
00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:15,520
Speaker 2: Last night, one of my closest friends out of the

910
00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:19,280
Speaker 2: group kind of came out of nowhere saying a comment

911
00:49:20,120 --> 00:49:23,840
Speaker 2: walking is very important. We should all get to walking,

912
00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:27,560
Speaker 2: especially Op and Adam.

913
00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:32,400
Speaker 1: What that is wild to randomly.

914
00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:36,239
Speaker 2: Say that's crazy. What that all dude?

915
00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:37,040
Speaker 1: Uncalled for?

916
00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:38,400
Speaker 2: Very wow?

917
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:40,000
Speaker 1: What the hell uncalled for?

918
00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:42,759
Speaker 2: What was wrong with this person? Dude?

919
00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:48,560
Speaker 1: She needs a muffin to just chill out, so she

920
00:49:48,600 --> 00:49:56,879
Speaker 1: can chill out, muff icy is not substantially he needs

921
00:49:56,920 --> 00:50:00,239
Speaker 1: something with carbs to like, uh a sway.

922
00:50:00,680 --> 00:50:04,839
Speaker 2: But muffins nut are not cold chill Oh, I see

923
00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:08,120
Speaker 2: I'm here to ungness. I see snickers.

924
00:50:09,239 --> 00:50:13,760
Speaker 1: You and you're hungry. Sponsor, stop stop sponsoring these people.

925
00:50:14,080 --> 00:50:14,759
Speaker 1: Come on, all right?

926
00:50:16,640 --> 00:50:19,080
Speaker 2: I sort of shot a look back at him. Oh

927
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:22,200
Speaker 2: it was a guy, and it fell out of nowhere.

928
00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:25,680
Speaker 2: But I didn't say anything because honestly, he's right. Walking

929
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:27,400
Speaker 2: is good for you after all. And then he continued

930
00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:31,319
Speaker 2: to say okay, but okay, listen, I'm gonna just say,

931
00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:34,960
Speaker 2: Adam is too big. You guys need to lose some weight. Asaps.

932
00:50:35,160 --> 00:50:39,719
Speaker 2: He just kept going, He just kept pushing the pedal in. Hey,

933
00:50:39,719 --> 00:50:41,320
Speaker 2: did you not get it? I called you fat?

934
00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:47,960
Speaker 1: You're fat, You're too big. You're taking up the entire room.

935
00:50:49,000 --> 00:50:52,279
Speaker 1: I have no space. Have you seen Willie Walker in

936
00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:54,879
Speaker 1: the chocolate factory? You're blueberry girl?

937
00:50:57,200 --> 00:51:00,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's just Wow, Why is he coming after him

938
00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:00,640
Speaker 2: like this.

939
00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:03,080
Speaker 1: I don't know, because maybe he's insecure and this is

940
00:51:03,120 --> 00:51:04,920
Speaker 1: all he can do. He just needs to stomp on

941
00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:07,600
Speaker 1: the dreams of people that he thinks are inferior to him,

942
00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:09,160
Speaker 1: but actually he's the inferior one.

943
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:12,160
Speaker 2: First, I think that's what happens.

944
00:51:12,640 --> 00:51:12,880
Speaker 1: This is going.

945
00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:15,319
Speaker 2: What happened is completely took me back, and I said

946
00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:19,000
Speaker 2: something immediately. You can't just say something like that. You

947
00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:21,840
Speaker 2: have apologize while laughing and continue to talk about the

948
00:51:21,880 --> 00:51:25,160
Speaker 2: way he's not in sports and that I clearly don't

949
00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:28,920
Speaker 2: motivate him to do anything. I guess because I'm also chubby.

950
00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:32,080
Speaker 2: He's always laughing hysterically making fun of how my son

951
00:51:32,160 --> 00:51:36,080
Speaker 2: looked and his body, and it felt so horrible for

952
00:51:36,200 --> 00:51:39,960
Speaker 2: all man, he's like seven. Then he went on to

953
00:51:40,000 --> 00:51:43,239
Speaker 2: say that he would do better as a mentor for

954
00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:45,960
Speaker 2: my son, trying to curb the conversation and positive way.

955
00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:49,120
Speaker 2: I said, you know what, that would be helpful. Actually,

956
00:51:49,120 --> 00:51:51,719
Speaker 2: I'm a single mom and it's difficult to always get

957
00:51:51,800 --> 00:51:53,960
Speaker 2: him to do sports or get out and going. And

958
00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:56,520
Speaker 2: I would definitely like to work out more and get

959
00:51:56,520 --> 00:51:59,560
Speaker 2: into shape. Why don't we all do something together? And

960
00:51:59,600 --> 00:52:03,200
Speaker 2: he starts going on about how much better he's going

961
00:52:03,239 --> 00:52:05,640
Speaker 2: to do, and how Adam needs to stop being lazy

962
00:52:06,320 --> 00:52:10,040
Speaker 2: and needs real guidance. You're talking like he's a teenager.

963
00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:10,720
Speaker 2: He's seven.

964
00:52:10,920 --> 00:52:14,520
Speaker 1: Also, also, I love how he's like, oh, like I

965
00:52:14,560 --> 00:52:18,120
Speaker 1: would be such a better role model for him, and

966
00:52:18,160 --> 00:52:21,680
Speaker 1: then oh, he's like, oh you think he would be?

967
00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:25,600
Speaker 1: Why don't you take him to some games? And he's like, nah,

968
00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:27,759
Speaker 1: I just want to feel like I'm better than you.

969
00:52:28,000 --> 00:52:30,080
Speaker 1: That's literally all he's doing is just I want to

970
00:52:30,120 --> 00:52:32,440
Speaker 1: feel like I'm better than you. And he just like

971
00:52:32,640 --> 00:52:35,799
Speaker 1: he just he just wants to feel like a big man.

972
00:52:36,760 --> 00:52:38,600
Speaker 1: You feel like a big man. They'll get on a

973
00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:44,280
Speaker 1: seven year old. Come on, grow up, grow up, drop dead,

974
00:52:44,600 --> 00:52:46,759
Speaker 1: drop dead, drop dead. We're bringing it back or bringing

975
00:52:46,760 --> 00:52:48,359
Speaker 1: it back now.

976
00:52:48,440 --> 00:52:51,520
Speaker 2: I'm not going to get now. I'm not going to

977
00:52:51,640 --> 00:52:55,160
Speaker 2: list excuses or deep down into this stuff we've been

978
00:52:55,200 --> 00:52:56,960
Speaker 2: going through in the past few years, but I will

979
00:52:56,960 --> 00:52:59,320
Speaker 2: say it's been a lot. What I will say though,

980
00:52:59,440 --> 00:53:02,760
Speaker 2: is this and I are very close, but I've lived

981
00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:06,000
Speaker 2: in a different state for several years. He definitely doesn't

982
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:09,200
Speaker 2: know about our home life. And to make to me

983
00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:13,600
Speaker 2: who have made those comments, I've played women's professional football

984
00:53:13,640 --> 00:53:17,360
Speaker 2: for two years, and my son also in football soccer

985
00:53:17,400 --> 00:53:19,680
Speaker 2: and we go on walks daily with her dog. A

986
00:53:19,760 --> 00:53:23,360
Speaker 2: recent traumatic event left me severely injured in a result

987
00:53:23,400 --> 00:53:27,280
Speaker 2: in my son being traumatized as well. So they are active.

988
00:53:27,360 --> 00:53:30,200
Speaker 2: It's just like life happened. Yeah, and they're not able

989
00:53:30,239 --> 00:53:32,640
Speaker 2: to do this. He's seven and he's already played football, soccer.

990
00:53:33,640 --> 00:53:36,239
Speaker 1: I mean he seems he seems to have a good

991
00:53:36,520 --> 00:53:40,640
Speaker 1: foot on his ankle. Yeah, to play all those sports.

992
00:53:41,080 --> 00:53:46,440
Speaker 1: That was the weirdest way to say that. He's he's

993
00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:50,560
Speaker 1: like timber. I don't know, like I it sounds like

994
00:53:50,680 --> 00:53:54,279
Speaker 1: everything was going well until whatever traumatic event. But it's

995
00:53:54,320 --> 00:53:55,920
Speaker 1: just it just takes time to get back on the feet.

996
00:53:56,080 --> 00:53:56,360
Speaker 2: Yep.

997
00:53:57,040 --> 00:53:59,880
Speaker 1: And what you don't need is someone saying, hey, hit

998
00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:03,240
Speaker 1: the tread, bro, Yeah at seven, dude, come on at seven.

999
00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:06,799
Speaker 1: Well ask you this, when do you tell a seven

1000
00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:07,800
Speaker 1: year old to hit the tread?

1001
00:54:08,080 --> 00:54:09,279
Speaker 2: You don't tell a seven year old that.

1002
00:54:09,520 --> 00:54:11,520
Speaker 1: But what if they like start becoming obese.

1003
00:54:12,480 --> 00:54:14,719
Speaker 2: You'll figure it out an eight You don't tell seven

1004
00:54:14,760 --> 00:54:15,160
Speaker 2: year old that.

1005
00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:20,080
Speaker 1: All right, let me ask you this. Okay, you have

1006
00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:26,719
Speaker 1: a seven year old they keep sneaking unhealthy food. Do

1007
00:54:26,800 --> 00:54:30,160
Speaker 1: you not be like, you can't eat that unhealthy food.

1008
00:54:30,239 --> 00:54:31,839
Speaker 2: I'll stop buying the unhealthy food.

1009
00:54:32,200 --> 00:54:35,120
Speaker 1: What if they start sneaking, like they become a successful entrepreneur,

1010
00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:38,680
Speaker 1: they're selling lemonade on the streets to buy snickers.

1011
00:54:39,080 --> 00:54:41,239
Speaker 2: I would probably sit them down and find some healthier

1012
00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:44,840
Speaker 2: options and be like, hey, look.

1013
00:54:44,719 --> 00:54:45,600
Speaker 1: Do you have a health talk?

1014
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:47,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, have a health talk. Have a health talk, but

1015
00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:51,160
Speaker 2: not like a you're fat, go hit the treadmill. No no, no,

1016
00:54:51,400 --> 00:54:52,720
Speaker 2: that's so demoralizing.

1017
00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:54,799
Speaker 1: But maybe like let's work out together.

1018
00:54:54,880 --> 00:54:57,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's do something fun to a sport. Yeah, because

1019
00:54:57,200 --> 00:54:59,120
Speaker 2: if I'm enjoying it, my kid will enjoy it.

1020
00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, I feel it's you know, it's it's it's hard,

1021
00:55:02,800 --> 00:55:06,239
Speaker 1: like you just I don't know. I think it's now.

1022
00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:09,800
Speaker 2: It's easy, I believe, which I've just been on parent

1023
00:55:09,840 --> 00:55:14,520
Speaker 2: talk like TikTok. I'm not actually a parent, but someone.

1024
00:55:14,280 --> 00:55:16,560
Speaker 1: Said he's trying to speed run this relationship right now.

1025
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:20,680
Speaker 2: Oh no, I'm not. It's this a conscious southern boy

1026
00:55:20,719 --> 00:55:22,719
Speaker 2: in me wants to get married and have kids and

1027
00:55:22,760 --> 00:55:24,960
Speaker 2: I don't want it. But it's just what everyone in

1028
00:55:25,000 --> 00:55:27,960
Speaker 2: my family has done for the past hundreds of years.

1029
00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:32,200
Speaker 2: And I'm like fighting that that's why I feel this way. Anyways,

1030
00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:36,000
Speaker 2: as a kid, if you are a parent and you

1031
00:55:36,040 --> 00:55:38,640
Speaker 2: include your kid in activities, they'll enjoy it and think

1032
00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:40,480
Speaker 2: that it's fun because kids don't know the difference between

1033
00:55:40,520 --> 00:55:43,360
Speaker 2: play and cleaning. So if you're like, oh, I love cleaning,

1034
00:55:43,480 --> 00:55:45,319
Speaker 2: you want to help me clean, and the kid's like, yeah,

1035
00:55:45,440 --> 00:55:48,560
Speaker 2: I love cleaning, That's how I imagine it to be. So

1036
00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:50,440
Speaker 2: if I'm like I love basketball, they're gonna be like,

1037
00:55:50,480 --> 00:55:52,399
Speaker 2: I want to play basketball, I want to work out

1038
00:55:52,400 --> 00:55:54,200
Speaker 2: with you, dad, I want to cut lumber.

1039
00:55:55,239 --> 00:55:56,680
Speaker 1: You're gonna have your kids cut lumber.

1040
00:55:56,719 --> 00:55:59,280
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, they're going to a saw mill. They're gonna

1041
00:55:59,280 --> 00:56:01,200
Speaker 2: get that backbone. Yeah.

1042
00:56:01,360 --> 00:56:04,600
Speaker 1: I mean like so like there there's I think what

1043
00:56:04,680 --> 00:56:08,640
Speaker 1: we're boiling down to is like, yes, maybe there is

1044
00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:13,920
Speaker 1: a thing for both op and their son to be healthier,

1045
00:56:14,320 --> 00:56:16,279
Speaker 1: But if that is the case that they need to

1046
00:56:16,280 --> 00:56:19,399
Speaker 1: be healthier, this is not the person to do this

1047
00:56:19,920 --> 00:56:21,040
Speaker 1: and not in this way.

1048
00:56:21,320 --> 00:56:25,520
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, exactly, not at all, Jebela, thank you for

1049
00:56:25,640 --> 00:56:26,400
Speaker 2: that reassurance.

1050
00:56:27,480 --> 00:56:31,360
Speaker 1: Shan Zy Max says Riley is just a huge romantic

1051
00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:32,919
Speaker 1: and a family man at heart.

1052
00:56:33,840 --> 00:56:36,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, it helps that she has a family nearby. And

1053
00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:40,840
Speaker 2: I could just be like, oh, family, nice, Yeah, okay.

1054
00:56:41,680 --> 00:56:47,680
Speaker 2: He now has severe separation anxiety and only just and

1055
00:56:47,719 --> 00:56:55,040
Speaker 2: we only just now worked up to me, am I

1056
00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:59,520
Speaker 2: saying this right? What me? Or for the author what

1057
00:57:00,200 --> 00:57:01,040
Speaker 2: I'm trying to read this?

1058
00:57:01,239 --> 00:57:04,319
Speaker 1: He now has severe separation anxiety and we only just

1059
00:57:04,440 --> 00:57:07,400
Speaker 1: now worked up to me being able to leave for

1060
00:57:07,480 --> 00:57:10,520
Speaker 1: the store around the corner while he's with my mom's sister,

1061
00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:15,920
Speaker 1: nephew and dad. Right, you do it, great, you do

1062
00:57:15,960 --> 00:57:16,440
Speaker 1: it great.

1063
00:57:18,200 --> 00:57:23,960
Speaker 2: My son also has a lot of century sensory sensory

1064
00:57:24,040 --> 00:57:26,880
Speaker 2: issues and phobia of bugs. I wish I was kidding.

1065
00:57:26,880 --> 00:57:29,680
Speaker 2: It got so bad that it's hard for him to

1066
00:57:30,080 --> 00:57:33,680
Speaker 2: go outside, hard to take him to outside events without

1067
00:57:33,680 --> 00:57:36,600
Speaker 2: complete meltdowns. And yes, we have been working on it,

1068
00:57:36,640 --> 00:57:40,000
Speaker 2: but it's difficult, especially in the summer months. I still

1069
00:57:40,040 --> 00:57:42,640
Speaker 2: have found ways to get him to do indoor sports

1070
00:57:42,720 --> 00:57:45,240
Speaker 2: and still get time in the sun at park SEUs

1071
00:57:45,240 --> 00:57:46,000
Speaker 2: and aquariums.

1072
00:57:46,040 --> 00:57:46,439
Speaker 1: That's good.

1073
00:57:46,600 --> 00:57:49,720
Speaker 2: Wow, those are where big bugs live. The aquariums.

1074
00:57:49,760 --> 00:57:57,200
Speaker 1: The big bugs. What bugs live in an aquarium? And bugs?

1075
00:57:57,400 --> 00:57:58,320
Speaker 2: They are sea bugs.

1076
00:57:59,080 --> 00:58:02,560
Speaker 1: I guess you can make the argument that they're sea bugs.

1077
00:58:02,960 --> 00:58:05,040
Speaker 2: Wow, take a breathriend, you got this I need to

1078
00:58:05,080 --> 00:58:08,880
Speaker 2: read I've made my best effort as a single parent,

1079
00:58:08,880 --> 00:58:11,200
Speaker 2: and I will admit I have failed. Don't do that

1080
00:58:11,280 --> 00:58:13,280
Speaker 2: to yourself. You're doing your best.

1081
00:58:13,520 --> 00:58:14,520
Speaker 1: Stop you're trying.

1082
00:58:16,720 --> 00:58:19,560
Speaker 2: There's been times that we couldn't afford the healthy option,

1083
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Speaker 2: or sometimes I work twelve hour shifts and haven't been

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Speaker 2: able to cook. I will take responsibility as a parent

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Speaker 2: that my child has gotten chobbier. But why make fun

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Speaker 2: and comment on a child's weight? Yeah? Why? I would

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Speaker 2: understand if he was severely overweight or a beast and

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Speaker 2: a doctor or family member had to step in and

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Speaker 2: say something. But even then, I don't feel like the

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Speaker 2: way it was said was kind or constructive. It kind

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Speaker 2: of felt like he was waiting for an opportunity to

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Speaker 2: make fun of mine and my son's weight.

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Speaker 1: Which is literally what he was doing. All all he

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Speaker 1: was doing is trying to feel superior. He was just

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Speaker 1: trying to dunk on a seven year old.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, he's like, let me give my ego, well,

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Speaker 2: proal quick. Yeah, And to outrouts say that you could

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Speaker 2: parent my child better is way over the line, especially

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Speaker 2: as a childless male.

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Speaker 1: Oh exactly. It's like, oh, yeah, I could do better.

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Speaker 1: I've raised a dog.

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Speaker 2: Their dog's probably like.

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Speaker 1: I've raised that way. What was the dog that we

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Speaker 1: said that was a child? Like halfway to a kid?

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Speaker 1: If we do? You remember that? Remember that we were like, oh,

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Speaker 1: if you raise a what was the dog that dies?

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Speaker 1: Like really?

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Speaker 2: Oh the mass?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you said.

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Speaker 2: To raise a dog that will die as soon possible.

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Speaker 1: No, it's just that was that was context for another thing.

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Speaker 1: All right, keep going.

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Speaker 2: I've talked to my sister and other family members about it,

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Speaker 2: and she was also uncomfortable with the comments. I think

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00:59:51,760 --> 00:59:53,760
Speaker 2: I will be going to talk to him because I

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00:59:53,800 --> 00:59:56,120
Speaker 2: do value our friendship. But would I be overreacting if

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00:59:56,120 --> 00:59:58,400
Speaker 2: I took a step back from our friendship entirely.

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Speaker 1: You would not be a reacting to take a step back.

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Speaker 1: I think that was way over the line to say that.

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Speaker 1: Even even if it was true, it would be way

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Speaker 1: over the line to say it, especially in this way.

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Speaker 1: There was no tact in doing it. It was purely

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Speaker 1: done out of ego reasons. Really terrible. Yeah, but right,

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Speaker 1: I think it's done. To end the stream, let's finish

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Speaker 1: off these donos. We are done gamer Gemini. Today is

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Speaker 1: a good day. Caught the live It was last day

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Speaker 1: of school. I'm a music teacher and my dad is

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Speaker 1: out of the ICU. Thank you for a pot or

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01:00:33,480 --> 01:00:39,240
Speaker 1: for being a a You're a positive for this crappy week.

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Speaker 1: My huskies say hi Gamer Gemini, thanks for the six bucks.

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Speaker 1: Matt Hatter Gal Sam, Welcome to the Old People's Club

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01:00:47,960 --> 01:00:51,840
Speaker 1: where seven pm hits you and you're tired as heck

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01:00:52,240 --> 01:00:56,439
Speaker 1: and ready for bed. Lowell, thanks for the five buck.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for the five bugs, mad Adder Gal. Which should

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Speaker 1: we tell them about the Can we tell them about

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01:01:02,560 --> 01:01:04,680
Speaker 1: the secret new subredit? Yet?

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01:01:05,840 --> 01:01:06,600
Speaker 2: Why not? They're here?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, y'all. We're gonna give a full thing on.

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01:01:13,200 --> 01:01:16,440
Speaker 1: We're gonna give a full announcement, but we have to

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01:01:16,440 --> 01:01:18,800
Speaker 1: create a new subredit. We're gonna give the reasons why

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01:01:18,840 --> 01:01:20,840
Speaker 1: it sucks, but we're gonna do the reasons why. If

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01:01:20,880 --> 01:01:23,400
Speaker 1: you want to support us, go to our slash Okay

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01:01:23,520 --> 01:01:27,959
Speaker 1: story time. That is the new subreddit it. We wish

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01:01:27,960 --> 01:01:30,840
Speaker 1: we could have kept the old one. We literally got

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01:01:30,960 --> 01:01:32,640
Speaker 1: I mean it says we got banned, so we have

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01:01:32,680 --> 01:01:34,120
Speaker 1: to create a new one. We're gonna tell all the

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01:01:34,160 --> 01:01:37,400
Speaker 1: reasons why, but go to our slash Okay storytime if

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01:01:37,440 --> 01:01:39,040
Speaker 1: you want to send up stories. We're gonna pick from there.

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01:01:40,080 --> 01:01:41,000
Speaker 2: They just hit the wheels.

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01:01:43,560 --> 01:01:45,360
Speaker 1: No way, they're gonna get it the ten minutes. All right,

1151
01:01:45,440 --> 01:01:49,360
Speaker 1: let's hit the wheel. Let's hit the wheel. But yeah,

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01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:52,760
Speaker 1: go to our slash. Okay, story time. It'll just be

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01:01:52,800 --> 01:02:01,520
Speaker 1: for the stream members and then we'll announce it everyone else. Yep, oh,

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01:02:02,040 --> 01:02:06,880
Speaker 1: Jeopardy Jeopardy and it's okay story time. Not okay a y.

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01:02:07,840 --> 01:02:16,880
Speaker 2: Okay Jeopardy, Jeopardy Jeopardy. We'll do random jeopardy.

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01:02:16,360 --> 01:02:23,160
Speaker 1: If me, Coffee Girl will tell more about the subreddit.

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01:02:23,200 --> 01:02:26,200
Speaker 1: There's some tea. There's some tea there. Let me tell you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Oh well, all right, World History.

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01:02:32,520 --> 01:02:34,520
Speaker 1: I'm playing against myself. I guess I'm play against chat.

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01:02:34,600 --> 01:02:36,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm playing against chat. You have a twenty second

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Speaker 2: head start too. This empire, established by Gingis Kong in

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01:02:42,280 --> 01:02:48,640
Speaker 2: the early thirteenth century, became the world's largest cogni continuous

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01:02:48,920 --> 01:02:51,480
Speaker 2: empire in history.

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Speaker 1: Genghis Is Empire, the oh buzz Mongolian Empire. Stay right,

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01:02:57,200 --> 01:02:58,520
Speaker 1: what is the Mongolian Empire?

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01:02:58,560 --> 01:02:59,080
Speaker 2: Ding? Ding? Ding?

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01:02:59,520 --> 01:03:01,680
Speaker 1: Yes me, Chat, let's go all right. Uh.

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01:03:01,920 --> 01:03:05,200
Speaker 2: Science, this is the process by which cells divide in

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01:03:05,280 --> 01:03:11,520
Speaker 2: It's nucleus and can and contents to produce two identical

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01:03:11,680 --> 01:03:12,800
Speaker 2: daughter cells.

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01:03:14,280 --> 01:03:25,160
Speaker 1: Uh but buzz? What is cell division? What is a?

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01:03:26,400 --> 01:03:26,440
Speaker 2: Do?

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01:03:26,480 --> 01:03:27,960
Speaker 1: Is it start with an? A? No?

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01:03:28,120 --> 01:03:30,200
Speaker 2: Starts with uh?

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01:03:30,760 --> 01:03:32,200
Speaker 1: That's my tostis chat eat me?

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01:03:32,760 --> 01:03:34,480
Speaker 2: Oh nice nice chat one?

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01:03:34,680 --> 01:03:37,320
Speaker 1: All right, chat one sam one.

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Speaker 2: This Dutch painter, known for its expressive use of color

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01:03:43,160 --> 01:03:47,240
Speaker 2: and bold brushstrokes, created the famous painting sorry night.

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01:03:47,960 --> 01:03:54,840
Speaker 1: Oh buzz? Uh van Go? What is Vango? Who is

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01:03:54,920 --> 01:03:57,640
Speaker 1: van Go? Who is van Go?

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01:03:57,840 --> 01:03:58,280
Speaker 2: Full name?

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01:03:59,640 --> 01:04:01,720
Speaker 1: What? Uh? Who is?

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01:04:02,640 --> 01:04:02,840
Speaker 2: Oh?

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01:04:03,360 --> 01:04:03,880
Speaker 1: Edward?

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01:04:05,360 --> 01:04:05,760
Speaker 2: Uh?

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01:04:06,080 --> 01:04:06,840
Speaker 1: Vincent van Goo?

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01:04:08,680 --> 01:04:15,320
Speaker 2: Good job? Okay? This term is for to sam a.

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01:04:15,920 --> 01:04:21,880
Speaker 2: This this is the region of space having a gravitational

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01:04:21,960 --> 01:04:23,320
Speaker 2: field so intense that no matter.

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01:04:24,240 --> 01:04:26,080
Speaker 1: But what is a black hole?

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01:04:26,160 --> 01:04:30,560
Speaker 2: Good job? Uh? Dis Greek god of the underworld is often.

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01:04:30,320 --> 01:04:33,520
Speaker 1: Just because what is Hades? Who is Hades?

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01:04:35,320 --> 01:04:37,200
Speaker 2: Okay? I need a harder ones? What the heck?

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01:04:37,520 --> 01:04:40,320
Speaker 1: Keep going, keep giving me one. It's like I got

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01:04:40,320 --> 01:04:43,240
Speaker 1: like three in a row. I freaking crushed it against

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01:04:43,360 --> 01:04:46,680
Speaker 1: chat chanty back, says Edward.

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Speaker 2: Okay, dude, what the heck are these? These are hard?

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Speaker 1: Hard? They are saying this separate, It doesn't doesn't exist

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Speaker 1: our sash Okay, story time, let me go make it public.

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01:05:00,320 --> 01:05:01,560
Speaker 1: It might not be Oh is it not public?

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01:05:01,560 --> 01:05:04,080
Speaker 2: I thought I made a public. It might not be public.

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01:05:05,200 --> 01:05:06,720
Speaker 2: Let me let me go, actually, let me go.

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01:05:06,760 --> 01:05:17,240
Speaker 1: Look right now, let me check two Okay, sorry, time bread,

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01:05:22,080 --> 01:05:22,800
Speaker 1: I don't see it.

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01:05:24,280 --> 01:05:26,120
Speaker 2: I made a public. Okay, I'm gonna make a puppet

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01:05:26,160 --> 01:05:35,520
Speaker 2: right now. Alright, guys know how to make a public?

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01:05:35,680 --> 01:05:37,880
Speaker 1: Oh said, yeah, it says okay, Storytime is private.

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01:05:38,520 --> 01:05:43,200
Speaker 2: I made it up private. Oh, I see, all right? Public?

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01:05:43,320 --> 01:05:46,680
Speaker 2: Save changes, all right, save the changes.

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Speaker 1: Okay, wait, let me just throw it, throw it, throw

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01:05:49,120 --> 01:05:52,600
Speaker 1: it in the third in the chat the link signal

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01:05:52,600 --> 01:06:00,000
Speaker 1: imagination sixteen thing for the two bucks. Okay, we'll play

1214
01:06:00,160 --> 01:06:07,240
Speaker 1: it in right now, putting in the chat deadly cats.

1215
01:06:07,240 --> 01:06:09,680
Speaker 1: What Canadian band is named after part of the ocean?

1216
01:06:11,880 --> 01:06:14,320
Speaker 1: Pacific Ocean?

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01:06:14,640 --> 01:06:19,600
Speaker 2: Thirteen members? Boom, there we go, team members boom, Let's go.

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01:06:19,720 --> 01:06:23,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, Joey or our slash. Okay, story Time team members.

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01:06:24,400 --> 01:06:28,320
Speaker 1: We're gonna explain what happened before. But before members, remember

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01:06:28,320 --> 01:06:30,240
Speaker 1: that you can start submitting stories there again if you

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01:06:30,240 --> 01:06:34,640
Speaker 1: want so. We can read people. But y'all are awesome.

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01:06:34,800 --> 01:06:40,720
Speaker 1: Y'all are awesome. What is the field that starts with electrons? Moving,

1223
01:06:42,720 --> 01:06:46,760
Speaker 1: bores bord? Is it bores Field? Por pores poor something?

1224
01:06:48,280 --> 01:06:49,600
Speaker 1: Or give me one more, Give me one more.

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01:06:51,840 --> 01:06:56,000
Speaker 2: This president, president serving from eighty five to eighteen eighty

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Speaker 2: five to eighteen eighty nine, again from eighteen ninety three

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Speaker 2: to eighteen ninety seven, is the only one who has

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01:07:04,160 --> 01:07:06,200
Speaker 2: served two non consecutive terms.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I don't know. It's not Garfield, right, Nope?

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01:07:13,040 --> 01:07:13,280
Speaker 2: Is it?

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01:07:13,840 --> 01:07:17,200
Speaker 1: Chat's gonna win? This is it?

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01:07:20,760 --> 01:07:20,960
Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Also, does anyone have Subreddit moderation experience? We're having some

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01:07:27,440 --> 01:07:29,640
Speaker 1: it is. We have someone to moderate it, but if

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01:07:29,680 --> 01:07:34,600
Speaker 1: anyone has Subreddit moderation experience, message Riley in the discord

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01:07:35,400 --> 01:07:38,400
Speaker 1: because we need we need help moderating it, and we

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01:07:38,400 --> 01:07:40,960
Speaker 1: would love it for it be to be someone from

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Speaker 1: the community.

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Speaker 2: Fifty five members.

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Speaker 1: Let's go with it. Grover Cleveland, Yeah, Grover Cleveland, Rihanna,

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01:07:49,440 --> 01:07:50,040
Speaker 1: you crushed it.

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01:07:50,080 --> 01:07:50,960
Speaker 2: That's crazy.

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01:07:51,320 --> 01:07:51,560
Speaker 1: Yeah?

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01:07:51,640 --> 01:07:57,680
Speaker 2: All right? This landlocked Central Asian Wait, this landlocked country

1245
01:07:57,680 --> 01:08:00,480
Speaker 2: in Central Asia is the world's largest by area without

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01:08:00,520 --> 01:08:01,800
Speaker 2: any ocean coastline.

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01:08:06,840 --> 01:08:13,720
Speaker 1: Asian Central Asian country Kazakhstan. What is Kazakhstan? Boom, got's

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01:08:13,760 --> 01:08:14,200
Speaker 1: freaking go?

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01:08:15,160 --> 01:08:16,800
Speaker 2: Do we end there?

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01:08:17,080 --> 01:08:19,720
Speaker 1: Awesome? All right? Well, I think that's the end of

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01:08:19,720 --> 01:08:24,640
Speaker 1: the stream, y'all. If you want to go to if

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01:08:24,640 --> 01:08:27,639
Speaker 1: you want to go to our subbreddit Okay, story time

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01:08:27,760 --> 01:08:30,280
Speaker 1: it's new. Start submitting stories there. If you would like

1254
01:08:30,439 --> 01:08:34,160
Speaker 1: to maybe be a moderator so we don't get banned again,

1255
01:08:36,000 --> 01:08:44,400
Speaker 1: go go dm Riley. We're gonna set that up. Signal Imagination.

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01:08:44,520 --> 01:08:46,200
Speaker 1: Thanks for the two bucks. Didn't you go to school

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01:08:46,200 --> 01:08:51,559
Speaker 1: for engineering? Wow? Just throwing it in my face. I did.

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Speaker 1: But with that, if you love us, make sure to subscribe.

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01:08:56,280 --> 01:08:58,840
Speaker 2: We love you and see it tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: H