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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Beca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in?

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Speaker 3: Is that scrubbing in life with my scrubbing in wife?

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Speaker 2: What's going on?

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Speaker 1: Love is in the air. That's really the theme of

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Speaker 1: twenty twenty five. Actually it is the theme of twenty

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Speaker 1: twenty five because I got married this year and you

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Speaker 1: got proposed to and you proposed Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So twenty twenty five was the year of.

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Speaker 2: Love, l ov love, love and commitment.

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Speaker 1: Yes, locking it down? Yeah, the old ball and chain, right, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the old volunteer. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I feel like there was still stuff we didn't get

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Speaker 1: to about your proposal. But do you feel like we

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Speaker 1: covered everything?

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Speaker 2: I feel like we did. Is there anything that I missed?

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Speaker 2: I felt like we covered everything.

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Speaker 4: And I'm trying to think if I have any lingering questions, I.

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Speaker 5: Will say picking on an outfit was interesting because first

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Speaker 5: of all, I sent us like, I sent a voted

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Speaker 5: to Tanya of like I think this is the outfit

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Speaker 5: I was gonna wear.

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Speaker 2: And it wasn't the exact outfit. It was similar, but like.

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Speaker 5: Whatever, and she goes cute, no, excellent, nothing, so like

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Speaker 5: not Tanya energy.

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Speaker 2: It was like she does not like the outfit.

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Speaker 1: I need to preface this because the picture that you

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Speaker 1: sent me wasn't even like a good photo.

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Speaker 3: It was like a photo of like a TikTok.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because it's all I had. It was like a

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Speaker 5: screenshot from a TikTok. Okay, so you see the outfit.

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Speaker 1: Oh, it's blurry and it's like far away. It was

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Speaker 1: not a good photo. Yes, show the people the photo.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna ask.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna ask what chatchypt easton? Actually, oh thank you.

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Speaker 3: I thought you're gonna ask.

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Speaker 1: Uh And I would like to give you my second

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Speaker 1: uh rebuttal.

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Speaker 2: Okay, can you see that that's a very cute outfit.

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Speaker 5: Cute?

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Speaker 1: I said, cute, but you understand that, like yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: it's also jingle ball day. Okay, So I see it,

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Speaker 1: and I do feel I felt bad when you were

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Speaker 1: like not the response I needed. I was like, oh

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Speaker 1: my gosh, I'm a horrible friend. She's literally proposing to somebody.

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Speaker 1: She sent me a picture of her outfit, but like

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Speaker 1: she's proposing today and she sends me this picture and

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Speaker 1: I just said cute like I. In hindsight, I felt

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Speaker 1: very bad and I felt like a horrible friend. But

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Speaker 1: I did, like I got the on jingle ball days,

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Speaker 1: it's just like so frantic, do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: And so I was like very just frantic, Like I

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Speaker 1: was like getting my hair makeup done, trying to get

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Speaker 1: out the door, running late, like all the things. And

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Speaker 1: I didn't give you the attention that you deserved.

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Speaker 5: And an exclamation point would have gone far. It wasn't

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Speaker 5: like you saying cute, even if you're like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 5: that's so cute.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry I'm running late for jingle ball. That would

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Speaker 2: have worked.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I should have given a little more content, but

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Speaker 1: it's okay. You know, I'm learning a lot about myself

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Speaker 1: and there's room to grow.

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Speaker 2: It's okay, and there's room to be better. I ended

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Speaker 2: up change I like I had the same back.

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Speaker 5: It was basically the same outfit. I just had the

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Speaker 5: jacket on the match's skirt. That's what I changed. Yes,

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Speaker 5: And I posted the fit before I posted anything about

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Speaker 5: the proposal, and I got a lot of validation. So

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Speaker 5: I was like, it doesn't matter. I'm saying my my

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Speaker 5: like sadness was gone. I was like, Okay, it was cute.

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Speaker 5: But my other thought was like I didn't know what

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Speaker 5: she was gonna wear. And I kept telling to him

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Speaker 5: because Haley's very she loves cozy, she loves casual, and

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Speaker 5: I was like, she might go to the tea ceremony

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Speaker 3: And I was like, you like cute sweats, elevated sweats.

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Speaker 2: No, no, maybe, I don't know, maybe a row.

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Speaker 5: Don't know how shoot, So I was like, can you

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Speaker 2: Let her know it's something she should be dress. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So when I was.

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Speaker 5: Picking my outfit, I was like, I have to kind

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Speaker 5: So that was that was fun, like choosing my outfit

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Speaker 5: that was like the cutest outfit I had for the trip.

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Speaker 5: Everything else was pretty chilling casual.

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Speaker 2: So I was like this is.

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Speaker 5: Because oh and then the day that they got to

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Speaker 5: the hotel the day before I proposed they had gotten

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Speaker 5: there in the morning.

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Speaker 2: I just stayed to my room the whole day. I

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Speaker 2: did not leave my room.

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Speaker 5: Because I was and I had her location so I

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Speaker 5: could see she wasn't at the hotel. But I was like,

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Speaker 5: what if it's.

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Speaker 1: Wrong, or like, what if you're like enjoying a nice

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Speaker 5: That's what I'm saying, Yeah, because I was like, maybe

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Speaker 2: But I was like, what if they come down to

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Speaker 2: was just locked in my room all day.

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Speaker 3: Did you watch anything good?

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Speaker 5: No? Because I didn't have my VP, I couldn't get

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Speaker 1: So I was just raw dogging twenty four hours and

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Speaker 1: tell a lot of TikTok.

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Speaker 5: I called a lot of people that day, So I

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Speaker 5: did that, but yeah, a lot of that. I gone

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Speaker 5: to seven eleven because the Japan and the seven Eleven's

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Speaker 5: in Japan have like the best snacks.

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Speaker 4: I've heard stories.

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Speaker 2: You would, and so I stocked up the night before.

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Speaker 2: So I had a lot of snackies that I was

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Speaker 2: eating and stuff. But yeah, it was a full day

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Speaker 2: of solitude with my thoughts. Wow, but I do well,

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Speaker 2: I do fine with that.

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Speaker 3: So now you're officially you're engaged. Hayley's engaged. The year

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Speaker 3: is ending and a new year is upon us, the

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Speaker 3: year of mom.

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Speaker 1: M m, yes, it is the year of mom. I

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Speaker 1: was thinking more along lines of for you, the year

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Speaker 1: of planning.

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Speaker 5: Oh, wedding planning. Yeah, I mean, I'm assuming this will

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Speaker 5: be the year. If the plan is to have the

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Speaker 5: wedding in twenty twenty seven, which is kind of what

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Speaker 2: This would be the year that we planned.

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Speaker 5: Although you planned your quite fast and it's starting the

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Speaker 5: next year.

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Speaker 1: When I think about it, I'm like, even though it

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Speaker 1: took us a year and a half from proposal to marriage,

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Speaker 1: we really planned. We locked in our venue in October,

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Speaker 1: so we had basically November, December, January, February. We had

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but it was amazing.

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Speaker 5: So it makes me feel less daunted by the idea

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Speaker 5: of planning for a long time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you really can take your time, like you can

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Speaker 1: like to like find you know what I mean, like

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Speaker 1: find your plan, like step by step you do the planner,

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Speaker 1: and then you you can give yourself so much time

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Speaker 1: to meet with various different planners. Then you can scout locations,

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Speaker 1: like you can spend a couple of months like scouting

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Speaker 1: different venues, you know, like we did it all.

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Speaker 5: I've had a lot of planners reach out, you know,

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Speaker 5: the best fit. But I also thinking about the location

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Speaker 5: in Japan, because he was like, do we get married here?

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Speaker 5: And I'm like, this is so far like if we

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Speaker 2: But you could do though, I know.

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Speaker 1: That was like we know we wanted to do Europe.

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Speaker 1: Europe was like our first Like.

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Speaker 5: Well, you can just get places and venues for so

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Speaker 5: much cheaper than you can out here in the States.

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Speaker 5: It's so expensive here, yeah, and you can get like

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Speaker 1: That was like our big thing, like we were like

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Speaker 3: But we were like fully in Italy for like three

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Speaker 1: We had like a spreadsheet with like venues and costs

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we have to kind of narrow that down.

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Speaker 1: So it is so special too, It's like it really

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Speaker 3: That was the other thing.

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Speaker 2: Year for it for Europe. Yeah, yeah, I know, and

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Speaker 2: what you did was great.

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Speaker 5: Because everyone got to have a weekend and experience, but

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Speaker 5: it wasn't like so far.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it wasn't so far.

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Speaker 3: So that's how we landed on Mexico.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 5: So we just have to kind of narrow that down

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Speaker 5: and then figure out where to go from there. But

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Speaker 5: I think our location is going to be like the

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Speaker 5: biggest thing, and then from there I'm not looking forward

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Speaker 5: to like the little details because in my mind, I'm

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Speaker 5: like I don't pay attention to that stuff at weddings

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Speaker 5: and it's like you have to pick the cutlery and

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Speaker 3: So we did it all literally in like a day.

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Speaker 2: I know, you just have to like sit down and

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Speaker 3: We flew out to our venue.

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Speaker 1: Our wedding planner had the whole Like we showed up

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Speaker 5: I was watching you to see when you were gonna

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Speaker 3: It was wife.

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Speaker 2: It's just very It's it's like you don't have efflorescent

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Speaker 5: What what's happening with your hair on this siho?

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Speaker 3: Sorry, it's the end of the.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so magnificent optimistic mentor mom, metamorphosis opens magic?

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Speaker 5: Wait what about metamorphosis? Optimize and multiply?

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Speaker 3: What does metamorphosis mean?

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Speaker 2: Like a change like your growth?

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Speaker 5: and this is giving corporate although we like all those words.

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Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, mom, Mom, I have not thought of a

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Speaker 1: Because I really feel like for some reason this year,

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Well you I feel like this year was weirdly

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Speaker 5: I don't feel like I had a crazy like I

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Speaker 2: Like I felt very I got to lay a lot.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like I didn't lay until the last month.

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Speaker 2: To lay this whole trip, Like this is my dream dream.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it did, and it felt for us.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, it is crazy.

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00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:52,720
Speaker 5: Another story that came out was that Travis and Taylor.

449
00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:55,320
Speaker 5: Travis said that in the two and a half years

450
00:20:55,320 --> 00:20:58,399
Speaker 5: that they've been together, they haven't they have never once

451
00:20:58,520 --> 00:20:59,320
Speaker 5: had an argument.

452
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Speaker 2: Is that crazy?

453
00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:02,640
Speaker 3: I thought about this.

454
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Speaker 1: I think they've had an argument, like they don't agree

455
00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:07,280
Speaker 1: on everything, but they've never had like a big fight.

456
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Speaker 2: I don't see you and Alison having big fights. Do

457
00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:12,280
Speaker 2: you all have big fights?

458
00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:15,639
Speaker 4: We we bicker from time to time, like you know,

459
00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:19,400
Speaker 4: but we we don't have big fights that often. We've

460
00:21:19,400 --> 00:21:21,920
Speaker 4: had them, Yeah, see they've had them.

461
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Speaker 3: That's normal.

462
00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:23,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

463
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Speaker 4: I'm wondering what his definition of like I'm with you,

464
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Speaker 4: like I think.

465
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Speaker 1: I think he thinks like fighting is like yelling and

466
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Speaker 1: like slamming doors, like we've never done that.

467
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Speaker 3: I've throw my phone once though.

468
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Speaker 6: Rob, Yeah, just shattered it for no reason and I

469
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Speaker 6: didn't even mid Like when I say I like throw it,

470
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Speaker 6: I literally like when I opped it and like walked

471
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Speaker 6: out the door and then came right back.

472
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Speaker 5: I'm just curious if Taylor sitting there, like what is

473
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Speaker 5: he talking about?

474
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Speaker 2: This is not accurate. He totally missed. He didn't not

475
00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:02,080
Speaker 2: know that we were arguing when we were arguing.

476
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Speaker 1: Maybe that's what he thinks, Like he thinks it's like

477
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Speaker 1: a big blow up fight, which has to be the

478
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Speaker 1: case because there's no way after two and a half

479
00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:10,680
Speaker 1: years it didn't have somewhat of a squabble.

480
00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:11,880
Speaker 2: But I feel like it's fight.

481
00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:14,040
Speaker 5: There's a fight, and then there's an argument and he

482
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Speaker 5: specifically said argument.

483
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Speaker 2: So you think he just lumps them in together. Must

484
00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:23,760
Speaker 2: Kylie Kelsey was like, you notice Jason did not chime

485
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Speaker 2: in on that, because.

486
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Speaker 5: We certainly do not have the same story. Yeah. I

487
00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:31,760
Speaker 5: think it's so funny because I wouldn't say I would

488
00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:34,760
Speaker 5: say at the beginning our relationship, Haley and I would

489
00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:38,359
Speaker 5: argue a lot basically because our communication styles were just

490
00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:42,720
Speaker 5: so different. But I feel like this year specifically, we've

491
00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:44,919
Speaker 5: really been like on the same page.

492
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Speaker 2: And like, I also think.

493
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Speaker 5: Learning each other and knowing like what the triggers are

494
00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:53,239
Speaker 5: that make a simple a little argument turn into a

495
00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:57,840
Speaker 5: fight are so important because most things can be de escalated, yeah,

496
00:22:57,880 --> 00:23:00,399
Speaker 5: when you know the person and how to like handle

497
00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:03,840
Speaker 5: the situation. Yeah, But if you don't know and you're

498
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:06,840
Speaker 5: just like triggering it and they just you're going in circles,

499
00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:08,240
Speaker 5: that's how it escalates.

500
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Speaker 3: Yeah.

501
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Speaker 1: And I think also too, like you're right, I think

502
00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:13,560
Speaker 1: you figure out figure it out in the beginning stages,

503
00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:16,919
Speaker 1: because I remember Robbie like needs time, like he just

504
00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:18,720
Speaker 1: wants to like have a little space and like think

505
00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:21,680
Speaker 1: about his thoughts. Whereas when I when he said that,

506
00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:23,760
Speaker 1: like my brain went to, like we're breaking up and

507
00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:25,359
Speaker 1: then I would just like freak out. I wouldn't let

508
00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:27,120
Speaker 1: him go to sleep until we like hash it out,

509
00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:30,919
Speaker 1: and like that's not super productive either, you know. So

510
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:33,119
Speaker 1: it's like we've both learned how to kind of like

511
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Speaker 1: meet in the middle with that.

512
00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:34,920
Speaker 2: Yeah.

513
00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:37,200
Speaker 3: So it's like I won't say we argue better.

514
00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:40,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's true, like, yeah, I also need space.

515
00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:42,000
Speaker 3: So it's like I hate that.

516
00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:45,280
Speaker 2: I know Ha hates it too, but I'm.

517
00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:49,960
Speaker 5: Like, I will be able to to peacefully come come

518
00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:52,320
Speaker 5: back better than if we try to do this right now.

519
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:53,400
Speaker 3: Yeah.

520
00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:56,359
Speaker 2: But a lot of people were like this is not believable.

521
00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:58,640
Speaker 5: But I have friends I feel like who don't who

522
00:23:58,640 --> 00:24:01,000
Speaker 5: would say like they haven't had a big ballll fight,

523
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:03,679
Speaker 5: But I don't know if anyone's not had arguments in.

524
00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:04,639
Speaker 2: Two and a half years.

525
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:08,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, so you know what I liked though, What I

526
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:11,520
Speaker 1: like that George Clooney is like not taking on rolls exactly.

527
00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:14,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, that like are kissing people anymore?

528
00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's all done.

529
00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:16,520
Speaker 5: I like that.

530
00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:17,120
Speaker 3: I don't know why.

531
00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:20,320
Speaker 5: I was like, oh, but also I'm like, okay, so

532
00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:23,800
Speaker 5: now you're at an age where like it's not necessarily

533
00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:27,199
Speaker 5: like you're in demand to be like, you know what

534
00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:32,280
Speaker 5: I'm saying, like George, but I'm saying like I wonder,

535
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:34,840
Speaker 5: I wonder if his wife is like, where was this

536
00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:36,440
Speaker 5: energy ten years ago?

537
00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:38,919
Speaker 3: Right right like right after we got married?

538
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:43,040
Speaker 5: Man? But yeah, I think it's I think it's sweet

539
00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:46,440
Speaker 5: because it's like, does he need to be doing that anymore?

540
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Speaker 1: You know, dang, Becca, you really know how to take

541
00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:50,719
Speaker 1: the wind out of my sails.

542
00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:54,679
Speaker 5: I was like, so ecited George Clooney in his prime

543
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:57,399
Speaker 5: time being married, would go, I don't need to be

544
00:24:57,480 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 5: doing this anymore.

545
00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 2: But I pose a point, don't die?

546
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 3: What has he done lately?

547
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 4: Has he done a Wally has a new movie called

548
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:09,399
Speaker 4: Jake Kelly. It's on Netflix. It's about an actor, a

549
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:12,520
Speaker 4: famous actor. I'm Sandler's in it too. It sounds very good.

550
00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:16,920
Speaker 5: I personally am a fan of George Clooney, so I'm

551
00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:21,199
Speaker 5: excited to see his new movie. But I always Haley,

552
00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:24,920
Speaker 5: you know, is in this industry where we've had these

553
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:28,480
Speaker 5: conversations about what that looks like in my comfort with it,

554
00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:33,399
Speaker 5: and really my comfort is I'm not comfortable with any either.

555
00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:35,040
Speaker 3: There'd be absolutely no way.

556
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:38,200
Speaker 5: But we have conversations where you know, it's like knowing

557
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:41,359
Speaker 5: how to be respectful about it and making sure that

558
00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:44,159
Speaker 5: I feel safe and what she has to do with

559
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:45,520
Speaker 5: when it comes to work stuff.

560
00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:47,119
Speaker 2: But yeah, it's not like easy.

561
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Speaker 5: I think it's I think unless you're both in the

562
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 5: industry and you're both going to work and making out

563
00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:57,399
Speaker 5: with people for your job, I think that's the only

564
00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:58,919
Speaker 5: way you're able.

565
00:25:58,680 --> 00:25:59,639
Speaker 2: To just be okay with it.

566
00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, Because if.

567
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:02,520
Speaker 5: You're not in the industry and you're like, I don't

568
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:04,960
Speaker 5: understand there, don't don't go to work.

569
00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:08,320
Speaker 1: I know myself, there's absolutely no way I could handle it.

570
00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:11,560
Speaker 5: No. And the funny thing is if that was Robbie's job,

571
00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:13,240
Speaker 5: he would be able to go and do it and

572
00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:14,639
Speaker 5: like not think anything of it.

573
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:17,760
Speaker 1: Literally he would be like so unattached, like I would

574
00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:18,960
Speaker 1: have nothing to worry about.

575
00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:23,320
Speaker 3: But I would hate it. I would absolutely hate it.

576
00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:24,840
Speaker 2: It's not for the it's not for the week.

577
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:28,720
Speaker 3: No, no, no, But I'm strong, but I would crumble.

578
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:31,240
Speaker 3: I would should be shivering.

579
00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:51,520
Speaker 5: Someone asked a fun question about what song that reminds

580
00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:54,199
Speaker 5: you of each other, and I thought that would be

581
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:55,119
Speaker 5: a fun one to answer.

582
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:57,880
Speaker 2: Do you have a song that reminds you of me? Yeah?

583
00:26:58,080 --> 00:26:59,159
Speaker 2: Oh what are me?

584
00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:02,120
Speaker 3: Yes, how'd you know?

585
00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:04,639
Speaker 2: Just had a feeling army by Ellie Goulding.

586
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:05,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

587
00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:07,080
Speaker 5: Yeah.

588
00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:09,639
Speaker 3: Do you have a song that reminds you about me?

589
00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 5: I mean I think I have a bunch of songs

590
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:13,560
Speaker 5: that I would think of, but I feel like I.

591
00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:15,119
Speaker 2: Think auld be Joweled when I think of you.

592
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:17,440
Speaker 3: Ah yes, yeah, yeah and.

593
00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:21,600
Speaker 5: Weirdly Easton, which it's the only reason this song is

594
00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:24,359
Speaker 5: not like my least favorite song of all time because

595
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:25,960
Speaker 5: I have the association with you.

596
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:28,720
Speaker 2: I think of me by Taylors Me.

597
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:31,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, because he hates so much.

598
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:34,520
Speaker 5: Because we like did this We all danced to it

599
00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:37,360
Speaker 5: one time and the Easton went like one hundred and

600
00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:40,600
Speaker 5: fifty percent with his dancing and singing.

601
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 2: And I think of it now wow. Or a Hillary

602
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:46,760
Speaker 2: Duff song that makes you feel good.

603
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:50,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, He's like, I'm slightly fender, but I say I'm.

604
00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:52,159
Speaker 2: Saying like it's it's it.

605
00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 5: It brings me to a higher level because I associated

606
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:56,160
Speaker 5: with you.

607
00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:57,800
Speaker 3: Yeah that makes me happy.

608
00:27:57,880 --> 00:28:01,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, Yeah, there's some. I mean, I don't want to

609
00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 4: lump on Bejeweled, but like such the tiniest song, It's fine.

610
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:07,920
Speaker 1: I sing it every day I enter the studio. Yes,

611
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:11,440
Speaker 1: so it's kind of like my theme song.

612
00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 2: Yeah.

613
00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:15,000
Speaker 4: I have a very fun memory from when I first

614
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 4: started working with mister Seacrest and we were at the

615
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:21,280
Speaker 4: East Studio and you're probably there telling you but Wildest

616
00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:23,919
Speaker 4: Dreams my Taylor Swift is playing and Mark was like

617
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:26,240
Speaker 4: singing along so loudly to the bridge like the.

618
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:28,480
Speaker 2: Hen it damn.

619
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:32,280
Speaker 4: Every time I hear Wildest Dreams, I think of him

620
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:34,960
Speaker 4: and I think of that. I think you were there

621
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:37,080
Speaker 4: that David like he was like so into it. And

622
00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:39,440
Speaker 4: that's a very fun memory. So even though Mark's not

623
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:41,680
Speaker 4: here today, I'm gonna say Wildest Streams makes me think.

624
00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:47,000
Speaker 3: Of him weirdly. Jeanie in a Bottle makes me think

625
00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:47,400
Speaker 3: of Mark.

626
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:51,360
Speaker 2: These are not the songs I would expect.

627
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:55,400
Speaker 1: It's because whatever we're waiting for, Like if we're waiting

628
00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:59,240
Speaker 1: for Ryan, like, well, we'll ask like our board op

629
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:01,520
Speaker 1: John to like play certain songs. And for some reason,

630
00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:04,400
Speaker 1: I feel like he always plays Genie a Bottle, which

631
00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 1: is requested by Mark.

632
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:07,840
Speaker 3: I'm assuming because I don't know what else is requesting it.

633
00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:12,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a great song.

634
00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:15,360
Speaker 3: It's a great song. It's a great song.

635
00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:18,560
Speaker 5: I feel like I think of weirdly because he always

636
00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 5: brings it up.

637
00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 2: Is all too well, all too well tenute version.

638
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:25,400
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah yeah, or the Ryne runs out. He was

639
00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:26,600
Speaker 1: so passionate about.

640
00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 2: Not being awesome. I was with him. It was my

641
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:39,320
Speaker 2: brunner up. I'm and s so with Lord Rob.

642
00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:42,840
Speaker 3: R O, B B E. D.

643
00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:45,680
Speaker 2: Yes. Thank you for spelling that out.

644
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 5: I don't. That's the end of the episode, But don't worry.

645
00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:52,520
Speaker 5: We'll be back with more, because that's what we do

646
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:53,240
Speaker 5: and who we are.

647
00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:55,320
Speaker 3: When are we coming back, Becca, We'll be.

648
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:58,440
Speaker 5: Back Wednesday on Christmas Eve. And if you're listening to

649
00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:01,560
Speaker 5: us on Christmas Eve or Chris Miss Day, We're so

650
00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:03,960
Speaker 5: happy that you are here and that we are your

651
00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:08,000
Speaker 5: chosen company for the jos And Family, chosen family, because

652
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:11,640
Speaker 5: nothing is more of an honor than being with you

653
00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 5: on the days like this, of your of your.

654
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:18,200
Speaker 2: We love you.

655
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 5: So much, whether you are with friends, family, at home

656
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:26,000
Speaker 5: by yourself this week, know that you are so loved

657
00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:29,320
Speaker 5: by the scrubbing In family and we're so grateful for

658
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:32,720
Speaker 5: you and thank you for an amazing twenty twenty five years.

659
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:35,240
Speaker 1: Not over, baby girl, we got two more pods, baby girl,

660
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Speaker 1: jee Let's go.

661
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Speaker 2: We love y'all so much. We'll be back Wednesday. You

662
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Speaker 2: bye bye.