1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:06,440 Speaker 1: Conversations on life, style, beauty, and relationships. It's The Velvet's 2 00:00:06,480 --> 00:00:08,240 Speaker 1: Edge Podcast with Kelly Henderson. 3 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:11,320 Speaker 2: Hey, Marv, how you doing, Oh. 4 00:00:11,080 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 3: Miss Kelly, Kelly Mill doing to keep rotten. 5 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 2: I don't know what that means, but okay. 6 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:20,360 Speaker 3: Well my mama said it was too late. I was already. 7 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:23,200 Speaker 2: Rotten, already rotten. You said, I'm mill doing to keep 8 00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:28,159 Speaker 2: from rotten? Yeah, got a saying. Okay, I've never heard that. 9 00:00:28,280 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 3: Boy, I've been a saying for thirty years for me. 10 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 2: Wow, Well, I feel like I haven't talked to you 11 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:38,199 Speaker 2: in a while because we pre recorded our last podcast 12 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:40,919 Speaker 2: so early that it's been it feels like it's been 13 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:43,640 Speaker 2: like six weeks or something. So we have a lot 14 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:47,159 Speaker 2: of astrology. Yeah, we have a lot of astrology to 15 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:51,159 Speaker 2: catch up on. And April is kind of an intense 16 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:53,160 Speaker 2: astrology month, Like there's a lot. 17 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 4: I know, a lot, Kelly the people months. 18 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:02,640 Speaker 2: It's a huge, huge month. It's huge. There's so much 19 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:04,040 Speaker 2: going on, and so I feel like we. 20 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:07,920 Speaker 3: Just let me say it like the famous person. It's huge. 21 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:10,319 Speaker 2: Yes, it's huge. 22 00:01:10,959 --> 00:01:14,399 Speaker 3: It's huge. It's just the biggest month ever. 23 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:18,400 Speaker 2: It really is. Though of twenty twenty four, for sure, 24 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:21,039 Speaker 2: so I feel like we need to jump right into it. 25 00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 2: And we were just saying, you said something about you 26 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 2: combined the Aries and the Libra energies of the eclipses 27 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:31,319 Speaker 2: that are happening. We had a lunar eclipse happened in 28 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 2: Libra last week, and now we have an upcoming solar eclipse. 29 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 2: And in the outline that you sent me, just of 30 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 2: all the things going on, you kind of combined them, 31 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:43,319 Speaker 2: which is really interesting because Libra and Aries is such 32 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:48,560 Speaker 2: contradictory energy to me, like they're so opposite. They're actually 33 00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 2: polar opposite on the astrology chart, right, that's correct, all right, 34 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:55,280 Speaker 2: So tell us why you did that? 35 00:01:56,400 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 3: Well, because look, when you've got supreme end, then you've 36 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 3: got to have a counterbalance, which would be the need 37 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 3: for relationship. Independence in and of itself is no good 38 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 3: independent from what So when we're anytime that we're looking 39 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:20,080 Speaker 3: at any kind of astrological signatures, we're looking for the polarities, 40 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:26,920 Speaker 3: and the polarities meet are the balancing Well, it's the 41 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:30,079 Speaker 3: it's the balancing mechanism between two signs. 42 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 2: That first energy is the aris energy that individual that 43 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 2: self I don't want to say self centered because that 44 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:40,079 Speaker 2: sounds really selfish, but As. 45 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:41,640 Speaker 3: Is very well are self centered. 46 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then lead is all of the balance, right. 47 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 3: They are supposed to be self centered. They're supposed to 48 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 3: be aggressive, assertive, they're supposed to be uh, instinctive, dominating. 49 00:02:56,160 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 3: They that they're people say they they're courageous for sure, 50 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:05,960 Speaker 3: but they talk about them being leadership. It's not so 51 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 3: much that Ares wants to be in leadership as much 52 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 3: as it wants to be in control of its life. 53 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 3: And so you know, a lot of Ares get that 54 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:20,320 Speaker 3: label of being self centered and self absorbed, nowhere near 55 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 3: as much as Leo, but any rate, because they tend 56 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 3: to act on what they instinctively are being drawn to. See. 57 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:36,600 Speaker 3: Ares is extremely instinctive, so they have to learn how 58 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 3: to use their intuition and their instincts, and that's what 59 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:43,840 Speaker 3: they follow. So Ares, there's no better sign in the 60 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:50,840 Speaker 3: zodiac to make decisions while you're standing on your feet. 61 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:56,080 Speaker 3: In other words, that old saying, you know, they can 62 00:03:56,120 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 3: make this. They make decisions one moment to the next 63 00:03:59,240 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 3: moment to the next. 64 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 2: Moment right in that moment. 65 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:08,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm I'm always trying to teach As people how 66 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:13,440 Speaker 3: to be follow their gut follow their feelings. But it's 67 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 3: a site mechanism and that's what stimulates them inner and 68 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 3: outer sight. The inner site is dreams, your your visions, imagies, 69 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 3: and your outer SIGHTE is what you see that is 70 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:33,320 Speaker 3: connected to those inner and those inner uh sites and 71 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 3: dreams and and intuitions. So when you have them, you 72 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:41,280 Speaker 3: need you need to go and air. Reason is known 73 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 3: for drawing a sword in the shield and don't get 74 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 3: in their way because they will run you over. 75 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:51,160 Speaker 2: Oh I've been run over by a few in fact. Okay, well, 76 00:04:51,360 --> 00:04:53,800 Speaker 2: when we always talk about this, I struggle a lot 77 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:55,839 Speaker 2: with the areas energy, and I'm trying to change the 78 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:59,160 Speaker 2: narrative instead of just being like, ooh, you're an aries, 79 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:01,520 Speaker 2: get away from me. I'm trying to learn how to 80 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:03,880 Speaker 2: work with it better and actually learn from it, like 81 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:06,719 Speaker 2: learn from that energy in my life. 82 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:10,279 Speaker 3: If that's well, And that's yeah, it's a perfect sense 83 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:14,760 Speaker 3: because you see it's ares and cancer is square. That 84 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:20,400 Speaker 3: means there's a dynamic tension between an emotional cancer and 85 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:25,480 Speaker 3: a all in the head ares. Right, what does ares 86 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:30,200 Speaker 3: have to learn to have a relationship. They've got to 87 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:35,960 Speaker 3: be in consideration of relationships and others or they'll just 88 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 3: be standing around creating a bunch of enemies. So relationship 89 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:45,279 Speaker 3: is a very important signal for ares and of course 90 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 3: this eclipse is about developing intimate relationships with oneself. And 91 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 3: so why is that important because libra is actually we 92 00:05:57,920 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 3: think of libra as relationships and relationship oriented, but the 93 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:07,159 Speaker 3: truth is is libra is the shadow issues that we 94 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:13,159 Speaker 3: all have, and it's especially the shadow issue of areas. Okay, 95 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:17,279 Speaker 3: how does get rounded out? It's got to have a partner. 96 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:25,719 Speaker 3: So they've got to learn to understand themselves. Why am 97 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:29,359 Speaker 3: I so aggressive? Why am I so assertive? How do 98 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 3: I get along? How do I make this a love 99 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:36,560 Speaker 3: relationship to where I get my enjoyment and pleasures out 100 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 3: of the relationship without always having to fight my way 101 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:40,880 Speaker 3: to get it. 102 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 2: So that's what that libra balance is teaching it. 103 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:47,159 Speaker 3: That's the libra okay. 104 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 2: Because we do learn in relationship, right, Like we can 105 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:55,919 Speaker 2: have ideas about who we are and what we want 106 00:06:55,960 --> 00:06:58,479 Speaker 2: and what our mission in life is, and then you 107 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 2: get in a relationship and things can be awakened within 108 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 2: you that you didn't even know were there. And it's 109 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:06,799 Speaker 2: like all of our shadows, like you said, come out 110 00:07:07,160 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 2: or all of the like, we get triggered in relationships, right, 111 00:07:10,360 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 2: Like it's much easier just to live on your own, 112 00:07:12,960 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 2: do your own thing, and live life according to the 113 00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:18,240 Speaker 2: way that you want to. But when you get in 114 00:07:18,240 --> 00:07:21,280 Speaker 2: a relationship, you've got to learn compromise and things like that. 115 00:07:21,360 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 3: If you like being a w rec house, right, I mean, 116 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 3: what what fun would it be on an island with 117 00:07:28,360 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 3: nobody else to share it? 118 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:32,320 Speaker 2: Well, I don't want that, But I'm just saying a 119 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 2: lot of people. 120 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 3: They don't want it either. They just want to dominate 121 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:43,160 Speaker 3: the environment, right, So that's the difference. But this this 122 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 3: eclipse is going to have them exam self examining to 123 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 3: get from relationships the depth and the experience that they 124 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:57,400 Speaker 3: want out of relationship. So they're they're going to be 125 00:07:57,680 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 3: you know, they need to learn how to fight their 126 00:08:00,600 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 3: instinct and intuition and their sexual self. So there's a 127 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 3: strong sexual drive with areas. So they're they're they're really 128 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:13,720 Speaker 3: kind of going after their desires over the next six months. 129 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:18,960 Speaker 3: What's important to them following their desires and so the 130 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 3: thing about it is in this next six months, this 131 00:08:22,080 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 3: this eclipse is connected to the larger eclipse series that's 132 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 3: been going on for many, many years. But that series 133 00:08:33,400 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 3: is when we read the chart of that series, it's 134 00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:41,679 Speaker 3: about intensified for simple pleasures. We've got to learn how 135 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 3: to enjoy some simple things instead of everything happened to 136 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:50,560 Speaker 3: be so hard and so much work. And you know this, 137 00:08:51,080 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 3: that part of the eclipse is all going to have 138 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:57,720 Speaker 3: a problems with with ways that we show appreciation to others. 139 00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:01,840 Speaker 3: So everys operate the very quickly they operate in their head. 140 00:09:01,920 --> 00:09:06,200 Speaker 3: They don't operate in emotions or feelings, and that turns 141 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:12,640 Speaker 3: a lot of people off. And so and so and 142 00:09:12,720 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 3: I mean so, and it's going to be likewise. So 143 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 3: when they give, they think they're giving, but yet the 144 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:25,520 Speaker 3: other person doesn't think they're giving. So you've got to 145 00:09:25,559 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 3: get that struggle within yourself and within the relationship we organized. 146 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:32,960 Speaker 2: I got to know more about that because that sounds 147 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:35,520 Speaker 2: so like the problems that I've had with areas in 148 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:40,000 Speaker 2: my life, because they're frustrated thinking I'm being so sacrificial 149 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:43,640 Speaker 2: and I'm like, wait what our adults or I mean, 150 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:46,319 Speaker 2: we butt up against other things, you know, like and 151 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:53,440 Speaker 2: the hard headed, the driver energy, the to me, it 152 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:56,360 Speaker 2: always feels like a lack of consideration for others, and 153 00:09:56,400 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 2: it's just like a very self serving thing that's happening. 154 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:01,720 Speaker 2: That's not I don't want to say that across the 155 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 2: board because I don't it's not. I don't think any 156 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:06,320 Speaker 2: signs are all bad or all good or any of that. 157 00:10:07,520 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 2: But those are the issues that I have with aries 158 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:10,960 Speaker 2: a lot of times. 159 00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:15,480 Speaker 3: So why do they come from You're coming from emotions? 160 00:10:16,040 --> 00:10:21,079 Speaker 2: Oh right, I mean I understand from emment. I know 161 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:24,600 Speaker 2: everything that I am. It's completely contradictory to them. 162 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:28,480 Speaker 3: Yes, well, I mean, you know, it's not that they're 163 00:10:28,600 --> 00:10:32,480 Speaker 3: not giving. If they give up anything. 164 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:37,079 Speaker 2: They feel they're giving massive sacrifice. Okay, that makes so 165 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:37,800 Speaker 2: much sense. 166 00:10:37,840 --> 00:10:43,439 Speaker 3: Have you ever sacrificed twenty percent of anything and felt complete? 167 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 3: I mean, uh no, I not. 168 00:10:48,920 --> 00:10:51,240 Speaker 2: I could think about a lot of situations where I 169 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:54,640 Speaker 2: can see the benefit of sacrificing twenty percent of things. 170 00:10:54,760 --> 00:10:58,480 Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, you might see the benefit, but you still 171 00:10:58,520 --> 00:11:03,240 Speaker 3: have twenty percent don't good. So it's never about you 172 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:06,480 Speaker 3: know there There used to be the old saying, well, 173 00:11:06,600 --> 00:11:10,480 Speaker 3: relationships are fifty to fifty. No they're not. Yeah, you 174 00:11:10,520 --> 00:11:14,080 Speaker 3: ever given up fifty percent anything and been happy? No? 175 00:11:14,600 --> 00:11:17,520 Speaker 3: In an areas. To for an areas to give up 176 00:11:17,559 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 3: twenty percent is like you've given up fifty percent? 177 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 2: Got it? 178 00:11:22,920 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 3: Uh? Arees is saying, well, what do you want from me? 179 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:27,880 Speaker 3: What are you you know, what are you asking for? 180 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:28,640 Speaker 2: Yeah? 181 00:11:28,679 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 3: And so you see they're they're very quick, they think 182 00:11:32,559 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 3: on their feet and uh, they're very impulsive. So a 183 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:42,200 Speaker 3: lot of this Holy Eclipse pattern between the lunar eclipse 184 00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:45,040 Speaker 3: and the solar eclipse is going to be about developing 185 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 3: new relationship patterns and new relationship dynamics within ourselves. So 186 00:11:51,960 --> 00:11:55,880 Speaker 3: when we get when we incorporate our own shadow issues 187 00:11:56,160 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 3: and take responsibilities for the complaints of relationships, we got 188 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:04,840 Speaker 3: to look inside of ourselves and say, Okay, what part 189 00:12:04,880 --> 00:12:09,120 Speaker 3: of what part do I play in that issue that's 190 00:12:09,160 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 3: being brought up? How would I prefer to express myself 191 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:18,720 Speaker 3: so that so I feel like I've given to them 192 00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:21,120 Speaker 3: and they can feel like, well, he gave to me. 193 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:25,679 Speaker 3: So in other words, it's a win win situation. You've 194 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:29,160 Speaker 3: heard me talk about that before. So relationships need to 195 00:12:29,200 --> 00:12:32,160 Speaker 3: be when when I need to get what I want, 196 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:34,520 Speaker 3: you need to get what you want. But we got 197 00:12:34,559 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 3: to stop evaluating where each one of us is coming from. 198 00:12:38,440 --> 00:12:44,320 Speaker 3: You're coming from emotions. Airres is coming from instinct and reasoning. 199 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:51,400 Speaker 3: So on the surface that doesn't line up, but look can't. 200 00:12:51,440 --> 00:12:54,439 Speaker 3: There's no more curious sign in the zodiac in cancer. 201 00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:58,360 Speaker 3: So Airres will keep you going and keep you out 202 00:12:58,400 --> 00:13:04,200 Speaker 3: there and courageous vill and because they're always looking for 203 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 3: new horizons and you're going to enjoy the hell out 204 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:07,679 Speaker 3: of it. 205 00:13:08,559 --> 00:13:10,320 Speaker 2: Well, I think that works for it because like a 206 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 2: lot of times I've been I've had issues with aries 207 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:16,439 Speaker 2: sun signs, but then like I've had issues in relationships, 208 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:19,400 Speaker 2: like close personal relationships with Aris moons as well, which 209 00:13:19,440 --> 00:13:23,040 Speaker 2: I'm a Pisce's moon, which again is all feelings and 210 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:27,199 Speaker 2: like sensitivities, and so the sensitive, the sensitive part of 211 00:13:27,240 --> 00:13:29,640 Speaker 2: the Pisces does make it a little tough sometimes for 212 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 2: me to digest aries. But what I was saying at 213 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:35,000 Speaker 2: the beginning of the podcast is it keeps appearing in 214 00:13:35,040 --> 00:13:37,360 Speaker 2: my life. And so one of the things that I'm 215 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:40,160 Speaker 2: thinking right now is, wait a second, this isn't so 216 00:13:40,240 --> 00:13:42,880 Speaker 2: that I keep having battles with Aris. It's like, what 217 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:46,560 Speaker 2: can I learn from an aries? Because maybe I'm not 218 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:51,040 Speaker 2: stepping into my own assertiveness as much as I need 219 00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:55,560 Speaker 2: to or independence, or even just rational thoughts versus the 220 00:13:55,640 --> 00:13:58,120 Speaker 2: feeling thoughts. You know, like I can learn a lot 221 00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:00,920 Speaker 2: from an aries, really you think about it. 222 00:14:00,920 --> 00:14:06,040 Speaker 3: Yes, you can, because it's your karma. We won't talk 223 00:14:06,040 --> 00:14:06,680 Speaker 3: about your. 224 00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:11,440 Speaker 2: Chart, no, but I mean, oh, you're saying from the past. Yeah, 225 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:16,240 Speaker 2: you've told me what a bitch I used to be. Yeah. 226 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 3: I mean you look at you look at in aries 227 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:20,640 Speaker 3: right now, and you see in yourself. That's what's the 228 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:21,000 Speaker 3: problem is. 229 00:14:21,240 --> 00:14:24,520 Speaker 2: That's why they made me so mad, right, yes, spot it, 230 00:14:24,600 --> 00:14:26,440 Speaker 2: you got it, Marv, you know what it is. 231 00:14:26,520 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 3: Okay. So the big thing that I found about these 232 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:34,520 Speaker 3: energy patterns is it was so funny to me that 233 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:38,800 Speaker 3: it's like all of the energy is grouped around ares, 234 00:14:39,520 --> 00:14:44,040 Speaker 3: a couple energies, and Pisces, a couple energies, and and Taurus. 235 00:14:44,480 --> 00:14:47,040 Speaker 3: But it's like the whole one side of the chart 236 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:52,200 Speaker 3: is all in airrees and it's the feminine energy that's 237 00:14:52,280 --> 00:14:58,080 Speaker 3: being triggered. And that's what was shocking to me is 238 00:14:58,800 --> 00:15:02,000 Speaker 3: even for aries, they've got to learn to have balance 239 00:15:02,520 --> 00:15:07,680 Speaker 3: and express their feminine energy. I mean, for air reas, 240 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:12,480 Speaker 3: the instinct visualization and imagery is very important. And of 241 00:15:12,480 --> 00:15:15,960 Speaker 3: course we've got to find the inner of beauty within ourselves. 242 00:15:16,640 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 3: We've got to have a sense of self worth. Somebody 243 00:15:19,240 --> 00:15:24,080 Speaker 3: has to care what we're out there doing, or you know, 244 00:15:24,520 --> 00:15:28,359 Speaker 3: you just can't run around an island and be happy. Eventually, 245 00:15:29,560 --> 00:15:33,400 Speaker 3: you know, you need to have your dreams and visions 246 00:15:38,080 --> 00:15:42,320 Speaker 3: impress somebody else. So we're going to have to look 247 00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:44,640 Speaker 3: for into beauty. We're going to have to learn how 248 00:15:44,680 --> 00:15:50,200 Speaker 3: to work independently but also within the context of intimate relationships. 249 00:15:51,240 --> 00:15:56,680 Speaker 3: We're going to have to have focus in about one's commitment, 250 00:15:57,920 --> 00:16:04,080 Speaker 3: and we're needing to align our creative processes with correct 251 00:16:04,080 --> 00:16:11,040 Speaker 3: will and execution. And we'll have a conflict certainly between 252 00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:15,000 Speaker 3: one's own own ideas and things they want to do 253 00:16:15,760 --> 00:16:19,080 Speaker 3: and taken care of others. I mean, probably the worst 254 00:16:19,120 --> 00:16:22,440 Speaker 3: caretaker on the planets and airs. Just ask me. I'm 255 00:16:23,600 --> 00:16:29,200 Speaker 3: I'm an air reas moon. Yeah, I do it, and 256 00:16:29,280 --> 00:16:32,880 Speaker 3: I do it methodically so I get the job done. 257 00:16:33,640 --> 00:16:37,520 Speaker 3: But it's not an emotional thing with me. It's an 258 00:16:37,640 --> 00:16:41,920 Speaker 3: it's a responsibility thing for me. See how I see 259 00:16:41,960 --> 00:16:45,840 Speaker 3: what I've done as a Capricorn airres I turn everything 260 00:16:46,000 --> 00:16:50,520 Speaker 3: into discipline and responsibility. So we're going to have to 261 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:56,320 Speaker 3: find over the next six months our personal needs versus 262 00:16:56,320 --> 00:16:59,840 Speaker 3: the family needs, and and and deal with the conflicts 263 00:16:59,840 --> 00:17:07,000 Speaker 3: that that brings in. I felt like it's lunary clips 264 00:17:07,000 --> 00:17:10,399 Speaker 3: that happened brought in a lot of anxiety for me. 265 00:17:12,040 --> 00:17:14,960 Speaker 3: I have a lot of lead in the first house, 266 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:18,679 Speaker 3: so it was just seemed like I was overwhelmed and 267 00:17:18,720 --> 00:17:23,360 Speaker 3: I didn't know why, and so what did I have 268 00:17:23,440 --> 00:17:27,000 Speaker 3: to do. When you get anxious and you can't see why, 269 00:17:27,280 --> 00:17:29,840 Speaker 3: you bring it all into the moment. You deal with 270 00:17:29,920 --> 00:17:34,320 Speaker 3: one thing at a time. And so in doing that, 271 00:17:34,320 --> 00:17:39,919 Speaker 3: that allows you to think on your feet, operate, take actions, 272 00:17:40,359 --> 00:17:44,199 Speaker 3: take one step at a time instead of getting it 273 00:17:44,200 --> 00:17:46,960 Speaker 3: all caught up in what maybe might be, could be 274 00:17:47,280 --> 00:17:50,679 Speaker 3: and a million things going on in your head. So 275 00:17:50,840 --> 00:17:54,320 Speaker 3: we've got to stay true to our own ideals. And 276 00:17:54,720 --> 00:18:01,280 Speaker 3: the one thing that I was searching with that Luterar 277 00:18:01,359 --> 00:18:05,720 Speaker 3: eclipse is straying to pursue some shiny new love interest. 278 00:18:06,240 --> 00:18:10,280 Speaker 3: So I was thinking, you know, there probably could be 279 00:18:10,359 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 3: an uptick in divorces, really, but the next six months, yes. 280 00:18:16,280 --> 00:18:19,480 Speaker 2: Why do you think, like, what what about this energy 281 00:18:19,600 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 2: is telling you that? 282 00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:24,880 Speaker 3: Well, because you know a reason is wanting to pursue 283 00:18:24,960 --> 00:18:28,680 Speaker 3: so we're all going to be wanting to pursue our 284 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:34,560 Speaker 3: aryan uh drama by you know, what turns us on, 285 00:18:34,760 --> 00:18:39,680 Speaker 3: what what excites us, areas is the beginning of everybody's chart, right, 286 00:18:39,800 --> 00:18:44,120 Speaker 3: that's to call the ares point. So everything starts on airs, 287 00:18:44,160 --> 00:18:48,000 Speaker 3: no matter where it's at, And so we're all dealing 288 00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:54,399 Speaker 3: with an aryan kind of impulses. And if our impulses, 289 00:18:54,800 --> 00:19:00,800 Speaker 3: you know, I mean, how many times can you, you know, 290 00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:06,320 Speaker 3: get fanciful about somebody that's that's uh showing an interest 291 00:19:06,359 --> 00:19:09,200 Speaker 3: in you, and yet you don't get caught up and 292 00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:12,440 Speaker 3: what that interest could mean and all of that. I mean, 293 00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:15,320 Speaker 3: sometimes that can be a little challenging. 294 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:20,880 Speaker 2: And that's you're saying, you just to like, like how 295 00:19:20,920 --> 00:19:23,439 Speaker 2: people like the feelings but they're not really thinking of 296 00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:26,399 Speaker 2: the foresight of what the consequence. 297 00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:31,040 Speaker 3: Has not be or well, yeah, areas isn't foresightful, Yes 298 00:19:31,119 --> 00:19:31,600 Speaker 3: for sure. 299 00:19:31,920 --> 00:19:35,440 Speaker 2: Yeah it's right now, Yeah. 300 00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:39,639 Speaker 3: It's right now. And so I think that there's where 301 00:19:39,680 --> 00:19:44,160 Speaker 3: we've got to look at our limiting beliefs. We've got 302 00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:48,080 Speaker 3: to look at our personal insecurities, and we've got to 303 00:19:48,119 --> 00:19:53,119 Speaker 3: look at our fears of commitment uh becoming obstacles to 304 00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:59,920 Speaker 3: our meaningful relationship. So it's it could be a deep 305 00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:05,920 Speaker 3: of relationships or it could be a separation of relationships. Yeah, 306 00:20:05,960 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 3: but you got to ask yourself and examine your own 307 00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:14,600 Speaker 3: self about your You're part of the participation in a relationship. 308 00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:19,639 Speaker 3: And of course, you know, getting upset and angry and mad, 309 00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:23,120 Speaker 3: which is an Aryan thing, and then going out here 310 00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:26,639 Speaker 3: to a bar and finding some cute thing or some 311 00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:29,960 Speaker 3: sweet guy and thinking, oh well it would be different 312 00:20:30,040 --> 00:20:33,879 Speaker 3: with them, uh, and then pursuing that was just a 313 00:20:33,920 --> 00:20:40,359 Speaker 3: little bit uh, you know, stupid, because you unless you 314 00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:43,400 Speaker 3: change you, you're it's never going to change in the relationship. 315 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:48,200 Speaker 2: Ooh, I love that one. You can't escape you. 316 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:52,680 Speaker 3: You cannot escape you. I don't care where you can 317 00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:56,040 Speaker 3: get just as sloppy drunk as you want. But you 318 00:20:56,080 --> 00:20:57,280 Speaker 3: ain't getting rid of you. 319 00:20:57,280 --> 00:20:59,240 Speaker 2: No, you take you wherever you go. 320 00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:07,720 Speaker 3: And so we've got to watch out for our commitments. 321 00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:11,640 Speaker 3: And we also have got this great Jupiter Uranus conjunction. 322 00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:15,639 Speaker 3: It's really going to augment this area in time which 323 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:21,800 Speaker 3: is really about Uranus wants to break things up. You 324 00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:27,560 Speaker 3: want us to break all of Saturn up. That's Uranian energy. 325 00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:33,360 Speaker 3: Saturn is the construction. It's the foundation, it's the platform 326 00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:37,119 Speaker 3: that we build our life. Well, if we just kept 327 00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:41,720 Speaker 3: everything status quo, we wouldn't evolve. So Uranus is the 328 00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:47,480 Speaker 3: energy that's break up, breakout, breakaway, break free from stagnation, 329 00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:52,919 Speaker 3: from old structures that we've built up in our consciousness. 330 00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:57,440 Speaker 3: And so we've it's breaking things away. And then Jupiter 331 00:21:58,240 --> 00:22:00,720 Speaker 3: is a ruler of sad. I mean, this is ultimate 332 00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:04,760 Speaker 3: freedom and this is attracting all the new things that 333 00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:08,000 Speaker 3: we want. So when you put these two energies together, 334 00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:14,120 Speaker 3: it's uh, it's individuality and spiritual development. It's intuition, it's 335 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:18,280 Speaker 3: the it's the super conscious mind. It's learning how to 336 00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:22,159 Speaker 3: tap in to talk to spirit, talk to your angels 337 00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:25,760 Speaker 3: and guides. You know that. I'm big on getting people 338 00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:30,120 Speaker 3: to talk out loud. Yeah, they hear you, You hear you, 339 00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:34,719 Speaker 3: and they answer and that's it. And so instead of 340 00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:39,240 Speaker 3: just staying all mental, look for the flashes of genius 341 00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:44,960 Speaker 3: in your life, looking for the sudden developments of insight 342 00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:52,439 Speaker 3: into new possibilities. It's possibility, thinking are excellence. And so 343 00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:56,480 Speaker 3: I think there we're going to be making great progress 344 00:22:57,240 --> 00:23:05,399 Speaker 3: in in our spiritual selves with this conjunction coming up. 345 00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:09,960 Speaker 3: It's a fourteen year cycle, so it's it is very meaningful. 346 00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:13,760 Speaker 2: It's your ain't it? Your honest Jupiter thing is for 347 00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:20,600 Speaker 2: fourteen years yep? Oh okay, and that starts April twentieth, yep. 348 00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:23,920 Speaker 3: And wherever it happens in somebody's chart is where you're 349 00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:27,680 Speaker 3: going to start getting a lot of instinct input from 350 00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:29,400 Speaker 3: your other worldly companions. 351 00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:31,240 Speaker 2: How do we know where it's going to happen in 352 00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:31,720 Speaker 2: our chart? 353 00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:35,840 Speaker 3: What you'd probably have to talk to an. 354 00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:39,600 Speaker 4: Astrology, okay, Kelly, Well, I didn't know if it was 355 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:42,159 Speaker 4: so then people could go look at themselves, if it 356 00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:46,399 Speaker 4: was like in a certain house for everyone. 357 00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:47,520 Speaker 3: Okay. 358 00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:54,119 Speaker 2: So then with that coming in, is that going to 359 00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:57,199 Speaker 2: lighten the load at all? From these eclipses? Is that 360 00:23:57,280 --> 00:23:59,160 Speaker 2: like a positive energy shift? 361 00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:01,119 Speaker 3: Well, I don't know if it lightens the load, but 362 00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:06,560 Speaker 3: it enlightens the load, okay. So in other words, it 363 00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:12,120 Speaker 3: shines of light on the necessity of us growing as 364 00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:18,800 Speaker 3: a humanity and the collective spiritually, individually, spiritually be caring 365 00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:26,760 Speaker 3: more as much about humanity and society as relationships as 366 00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:31,879 Speaker 3: we look down to mercury which is now retrograde tomorrow, right, 367 00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:36,520 Speaker 3: I mean, I wrote one of the a very beautiful 368 00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:45,040 Speaker 3: thing on that it's about. It's about learning to love society, 369 00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:52,680 Speaker 3: and it increases the love of individuals. Love in any capacity, 370 00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:58,880 Speaker 3: in any way enhances you. So whether you love one 371 00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:04,719 Speaker 3: person or you love society and or other people or associations, 372 00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:10,280 Speaker 3: love is the magic answer. And so when you use love, 373 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:16,080 Speaker 3: if it's a dog loving a dog, I've had some 374 00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:19,760 Speaker 3: of my clients that are you know, been lonely and 375 00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:24,680 Speaker 3: all of that, I get a dog, for God's sakes. Yeah, 376 00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:27,560 Speaker 3: get something to hang around you that you can put 377 00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:30,760 Speaker 3: some love in so that you can get love back. 378 00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:35,879 Speaker 3: You can't push love out, and the universal law is 379 00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:41,440 Speaker 3: it's got to come back. And so love everything, love nature, 380 00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:46,679 Speaker 3: love people, love a person, love yourself most of all. 381 00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:52,480 Speaker 3: And so this mercury retrograde is really about the influence 382 00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:56,600 Speaker 3: of our beliefs and other people figuring out their agenda, 383 00:25:56,720 --> 00:26:01,760 Speaker 3: learning how to communicate. So what we're really learning is 384 00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:05,840 Speaker 3: how to be alive in the moment without trying to 385 00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:11,760 Speaker 3: put so much of yesterday's and tomorrow's into our the 386 00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:15,600 Speaker 3: matrix of what we're going on right now, and so 387 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:21,399 Speaker 3: looking for it says, snatching opportunities for fun I just 388 00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:30,720 Speaker 3: love that word. Snatching sounds so very aries and it's refreshing. 389 00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:34,320 Speaker 3: The beauty of nature. I mean, I think everybody ought 390 00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:37,920 Speaker 3: to take it. You know, several ventures in nature over 391 00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:42,080 Speaker 3: the next six months, get some nature on you, and 392 00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:47,080 Speaker 3: of course there's going to be glimmers of new possibilities, 393 00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:53,720 Speaker 3: and don't don't waste those glimmers by over emotionalism. And 394 00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:58,240 Speaker 3: that's what happens. So often we get over emotional or 395 00:26:58,320 --> 00:27:04,000 Speaker 3: get so analytical, leering head. We we always have major 396 00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:09,880 Speaker 3: insights coming into us from the other side. But if 397 00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:12,880 Speaker 3: we're so emotional or we're so in our head that 398 00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:17,000 Speaker 3: we just blow all that stuff off. I mean, it 399 00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:20,920 Speaker 3: only comes in once you don't keep getting it. 400 00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:23,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. 401 00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:29,680 Speaker 3: So you know, working towards that harmoniousness with others, that's 402 00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:32,439 Speaker 3: a big deal. That's what we've got to learn. And 403 00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:35,960 Speaker 3: so we're going to have some touchy feelings during this 404 00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:40,840 Speaker 3: retrograde period over the next three weeks. We're going to 405 00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:44,280 Speaker 3: have some problems about breaking up with breaking up with 406 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:48,879 Speaker 3: destructive relationships. 407 00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:48,639 Speaker 2: Like a hard time doing. 408 00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:53,880 Speaker 3: That, yes, go yeah, struggling with it, yeah. And then 409 00:27:53,920 --> 00:28:00,639 Speaker 3: we're going to have struggles with relationships that are trying 410 00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:05,800 Speaker 3: to come together. But you've got to get rid of 411 00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:10,480 Speaker 3: a belief that you're holding onto or security that you're 412 00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:16,280 Speaker 3: holding onto in spite of demands of a relationship. And 413 00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:21,520 Speaker 3: so I think this is what this Airres mercury retrograde 414 00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:26,080 Speaker 3: is about. So I think that's really really important. And 415 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:30,399 Speaker 3: so when we're talking about, uh, the eclipses for each sign, 416 00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:34,560 Speaker 3: so for air reas well, this is for Ares and Libra. 417 00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:38,080 Speaker 3: So you know, when you're looking at an eclipse, the 418 00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:42,120 Speaker 3: moon says, this is what needs to change so that 419 00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:46,200 Speaker 3: you can get the full power of a solar eclipse. 420 00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:51,560 Speaker 3: So you're still dealing with polarity. And so when the 421 00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:56,600 Speaker 3: and the Ares Libra polarity, there's a new identity being birthed, 422 00:28:56,640 --> 00:29:00,800 Speaker 3: a new personal expression. You're looking for more harmony in 423 00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:06,480 Speaker 3: relationships and fulfilling relationships. And of course, you know you 424 00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:09,600 Speaker 3: have to learn about your own self awareness and confidence 425 00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:12,560 Speaker 3: and who You're going to learn that from the objectification 426 00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:17,160 Speaker 3: of you, which is relationships. So we've got to get 427 00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:19,560 Speaker 3: we've got to learn how to overcome some of our 428 00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:24,440 Speaker 3: own failings and negative attitudes. And that will be the 429 00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:31,120 Speaker 3: Libra area's point for the next six months. For Pisces Virgo, 430 00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:36,560 Speaker 3: material needs is going to be emphasized, especially financial development. 431 00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:42,200 Speaker 3: But it's financial developed by by discovering new interests, having 432 00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:48,200 Speaker 3: new values, listening, listening to that intuition, and bringing in 433 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:57,120 Speaker 3: some more spiritual communications within yourself. It's going to be 434 00:29:57,280 --> 00:30:01,440 Speaker 3: looking you know, what are you? You know? One of 435 00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:04,600 Speaker 3: the things that I do with people is to get 436 00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:08,280 Speaker 3: in touch with your north star. It's really interesting when 437 00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:13,200 Speaker 3: I have them dream their biggest dream and ideals, and 438 00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:15,800 Speaker 3: then I have them feel it, and then I have 439 00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:19,920 Speaker 3: them put light around it. Then I have them make 440 00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:23,800 Speaker 3: it small, but then make the light come back out 441 00:30:24,240 --> 00:30:27,800 Speaker 3: to be as big as themselves. And what that does 442 00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:31,720 Speaker 3: is that gives you that feeling and the emotion of 443 00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:36,720 Speaker 3: the success of you reaching for your highest star. And 444 00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:40,720 Speaker 3: that's kind of what Pisces Virgo are going to be 445 00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:44,560 Speaker 3: going through. Be ready for a lot of death and 446 00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:51,600 Speaker 3: life after death circumstances, learning about it, trying to understand it. 447 00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:56,880 Speaker 3: The recognition and aggression around sexual needs is going to 448 00:30:56,920 --> 00:30:58,920 Speaker 3: be very important for both those signs. 449 00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:04,920 Speaker 2: Leo, hold on, Marv, you can't drop something like get 450 00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:08,440 Speaker 2: ready for I like to understand life and death and 451 00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:11,040 Speaker 2: the life after death and not give us more info. 452 00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:15,000 Speaker 2: What does that mean? Like, why is a Pisco or 453 00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:18,520 Speaker 2: a Virgo going to be so focused on that? 454 00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:25,800 Speaker 3: Well, because you're you're Pisces is very spiritual. Yeah, I 455 00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:29,360 Speaker 3: mean this is sacrificing service. They they are here to 456 00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:30,280 Speaker 3: serve people. 457 00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:31,360 Speaker 2: Yeah. 458 00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:34,360 Speaker 3: Virgo is very all in their head. 459 00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:35,400 Speaker 2: Mmm. 460 00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:41,720 Speaker 3: Everything's a calculus to them, everything's an analyst to them. 461 00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:47,160 Speaker 3: A lot of fears with Virgo around death. Okay, So 462 00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:51,840 Speaker 3: I mean that's that's that projection of of what am 463 00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:53,200 Speaker 3: I going to turn into? Nothing? 464 00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:54,680 Speaker 2: Yeah? 465 00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:58,160 Speaker 3: So in other words, to get the balance of the polarity, 466 00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:01,160 Speaker 3: it's going to have to be you're going to have 467 00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:05,240 Speaker 3: to tap into the spiritual side and realize the answer 468 00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:13,320 Speaker 3: in ourselves and then come to come to understanding within ourselves. 469 00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:18,040 Speaker 3: Virgo is always looking outside of themselves for answers, and 470 00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:22,000 Speaker 3: so the real true balance is Pisces is always connected 471 00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:28,440 Speaker 3: to the other side. So they, I mean, they're very 472 00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:31,920 Speaker 3: unlike Virgo. So to find the balance in the two 473 00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:36,440 Speaker 3: you have to use reason and logic along with instinct 474 00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:41,600 Speaker 3: and intuition so that you can have that equal balance. 475 00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:45,760 Speaker 3: And that's that death and what's after death. And because look, 476 00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:50,240 Speaker 3: death can mean we're going to we've gone through death 477 00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:55,400 Speaker 3: all of our lives in many different experiences. It's Pluto, 478 00:32:56,840 --> 00:33:03,160 Speaker 3: it's death, letting go, rebirth, so there's always things of death, 479 00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:10,080 Speaker 3: letting go and rebirth actually death, transformation and rebirth. So 480 00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:14,320 Speaker 3: that'll be going on for Pisces Virgo. For Quarius Leo 481 00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:18,960 Speaker 3: is learning, communications and expanding the intellects is going to 482 00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:21,560 Speaker 3: be very important, so they're going to be looking for 483 00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:27,360 Speaker 3: travel to travel to other areas to gain education. There'll 484 00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:31,680 Speaker 3: be a strong personal philosophy that may be being examined, 485 00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:36,719 Speaker 3: and of course there's kind of an ethical religious beliefs 486 00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:40,760 Speaker 3: that are going to become prominent for them to examine 487 00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:44,360 Speaker 3: and get a probably get a different look at it, 488 00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:48,960 Speaker 3: get a different perspective about it. In Capricorn Cancer, of course, 489 00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:51,640 Speaker 3: there's going to be security needs because it's ruling the 490 00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:57,560 Speaker 3: career in the home, so it's going to be how 491 00:33:57,600 --> 00:34:01,160 Speaker 3: do we how do you need to nurture and be 492 00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:07,720 Speaker 3: nurtured is combined and so how do you get status 493 00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:12,280 Speaker 3: and power seeking but you take care of your family 494 00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:17,360 Speaker 3: and your worldly needs equally, and so that's going to 495 00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:21,759 Speaker 3: be a big challenge for Cancer Capricorn emphasizing the home 496 00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:26,080 Speaker 3: and career, but yet satisfying whatever our ego needs that 497 00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:30,120 Speaker 3: we have or do we have ego needs that are 498 00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:34,359 Speaker 3: you know, overweghing to one side or another, throwing us 499 00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:40,719 Speaker 3: out of balance and Sagittarius and Gemini. It's it's going 500 00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:43,280 Speaker 3: to be about how do we give and receive love? 501 00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:49,640 Speaker 3: You know, love extends from personal fears to social connections, 502 00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:53,240 Speaker 3: and that's what I was talking about earlier. They're probably 503 00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:56,240 Speaker 3: going to be a little more caring about this human 504 00:34:56,280 --> 00:35:00,000 Speaker 3: conditions and social circumstances that we're going through in the country. 505 00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:02,440 Speaker 3: So they're going to be a little more caring about 506 00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:06,759 Speaker 3: it and honest about it. You know, universal love gives 507 00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:09,680 Speaker 3: way to a higher expression of romantic love. That was 508 00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:14,560 Speaker 3: a great sentence to me. Yeah, universal loves gives way 509 00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:19,280 Speaker 3: to a higher expression of romantic love. So the more 510 00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:24,640 Speaker 3: you love, the more you get love. You know. One 511 00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:30,279 Speaker 3: of my spiritual teachers talked about a person that died 512 00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:32,760 Speaker 3: of a heart attack, and she was talking about, well, 513 00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:37,799 Speaker 3: you know, that's a lack of love, and they came 514 00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:40,239 Speaker 3: back to her. The students came back and said, well, 515 00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:43,400 Speaker 3: they loved everybody. He was a you know, he loved 516 00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:47,000 Speaker 3: life and he loved people, And she said, well, think 517 00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:49,120 Speaker 3: of it like this. What good is it to do 518 00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:52,680 Speaker 3: if you're at a banquet and you got braces holding 519 00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:57,920 Speaker 3: your teeth together, If you can't open up and receive love, 520 00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:01,640 Speaker 3: what difference does it make how much you give? Right? 521 00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:05,759 Speaker 3: And of course I've recognized that in a lot of 522 00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:09,200 Speaker 3: clients that I get. I mean, they get bitter when 523 00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:11,120 Speaker 3: they give and give and give and give and give, 524 00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:14,759 Speaker 3: and they don't feel like they're getting back. Right, that's 525 00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:16,880 Speaker 3: a big that is a very big issue with a 526 00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:20,640 Speaker 3: lot of people. So that's going to be an issue 527 00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:24,880 Speaker 3: with Scorpio Taurus. It's going to be more work or 528 00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:29,400 Speaker 3: to make our mutual friend happy, and of course increased 529 00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:36,480 Speaker 3: activities around sleep, nur nutrition, responsibilities, and job demands. So 530 00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:39,200 Speaker 3: they're going in there. But the nice thing is it's 531 00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:43,239 Speaker 3: also going to be counterbalanced by spiritual matters. But they 532 00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:48,920 Speaker 3: got an opportunity to understand some hidden motives, some secret anxieties, 533 00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:56,880 Speaker 3: some karmic obligations. And you know, that's that's three hard 534 00:36:56,960 --> 00:37:02,120 Speaker 3: things to have to come to turn about yourself. What 535 00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:06,320 Speaker 3: is my hidden motivation here? What is my real true intention? 536 00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:10,400 Speaker 3: And of course what is my uh what is my 537 00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:18,080 Speaker 3: karmic obligation to serve others, So that'll be the Scorpio Taurus. 538 00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:18,879 Speaker 3: So there you go. 539 00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:22,640 Speaker 2: Let me ask you this before we wrap up, because 540 00:37:22,680 --> 00:37:24,680 Speaker 2: what I just did while you were going through those 541 00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:28,200 Speaker 2: was I took like my big threes of my sun signed, 542 00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:30,520 Speaker 2: my moon sign, and my rising, and I listened to 543 00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:32,680 Speaker 2: each of those and kind of combined how I think 544 00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:35,759 Speaker 2: that those different energies can work in my life. Is 545 00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:37,719 Speaker 2: that what you would suggest to people with how you 546 00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:40,520 Speaker 2: when you just read that, Like if they heard like, 547 00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:44,520 Speaker 2: for instance, I'm a tourist rising, so that Scorpio Taurus energy, like, 548 00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:46,799 Speaker 2: I'll definitely have some of that happening, and then I'll 549 00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:48,680 Speaker 2: have some of the Pisces energy and some of the 550 00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:51,920 Speaker 2: cancer Capricorn stuff that you were talking about. So is 551 00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:53,560 Speaker 2: that what you would say? Okay? 552 00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:55,680 Speaker 3: Absolutely, okay. 553 00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:58,600 Speaker 2: So for you guys listening at home, that's always like 554 00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:01,640 Speaker 2: an interesting thing, and it's interesting when you combine all 555 00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:05,000 Speaker 2: the different ones because it's going to manifest in everyone's 556 00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:08,520 Speaker 2: life so differently based on what's season, they're in, what 557 00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:10,960 Speaker 2: they're personally going through, But it is it was very 558 00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:13,120 Speaker 2: applicable to mine to listen to all three of those 559 00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:17,520 Speaker 2: and kind of combine them. It's interesting, all right, Marve. Well, 560 00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:20,040 Speaker 2: if someone wants to actually have you help them break 561 00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:23,080 Speaker 2: that down instead of trying to decipher it themselves, where 562 00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:23,920 Speaker 2: would they find you. 563 00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:29,600 Speaker 3: He can find me at astrobarvs dot com or Marvin 564 00:38:29,680 --> 00:38:34,319 Speaker 3: at astromarv dot com. Is my email, Just simply call 565 00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:35,759 Speaker 3: and set up an appointment. 566 00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:39,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, and if you guys are feeling weird this month, 567 00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:42,520 Speaker 2: which would be completely understandable to any of us who 568 00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:45,600 Speaker 2: have talked at all about this astrology, just call Marv. 569 00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:49,000 Speaker 2: He'll help you dcate it. It's way easier to have 570 00:38:49,080 --> 00:38:51,520 Speaker 2: someone else read your chart and then tell you, oh, 571 00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:53,400 Speaker 2: this is where this is hitting in your chart. No 572 00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:56,239 Speaker 2: wonder you feel that way, and this is how you 573 00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:59,360 Speaker 2: can help yourself feel better. So it's always really helpful. 574 00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:01,000 Speaker 2: I'll put all of that in the description of the 575 00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:02,880 Speaker 2: podcast for you guys, and Marve will be back with 576 00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:07,840 Speaker 2: us next month for the May reading. Thanks Mary, You're welcome, 577 00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:09,720 Speaker 2: Thank you guys for listening. 578 00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:13,040 Speaker 1: Thanks for listening to The Velvet's Edge podcast with Kelly Henderson, 579 00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:15,719 Speaker 1: where we believe everyone has a little velvet in a 580 00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:19,920 Speaker 1: little edge. Subscribe for more conversations on life, style, beauty 581 00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:23,680 Speaker 1: and relationships. Search Velvet's Edge wherever you get your podcasts