WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Age-Ja-Vu

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<v Speaker 1>Second, Brook, imagine if you had to jump back into

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<v Speaker 1>the dating pool. Oh like, for example, all right, let's

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<v Speaker 1>say you were caught being unfaithful to your husband, Oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>with your garbage. Guy Boone would go down. Just trying

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<v Speaker 1>to be realistic. Here, you saw him out in front

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<v Speaker 1>of your house heaving large bags of waist into that truck,

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<v Speaker 1>and you just thought, God, I wish I was that trash.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I do like a dirty man? Yeah? I will

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<v Speaker 1>say that. And that all leads to things happening and

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<v Speaker 1>suddenly you have to re enter the dating scene. How

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<v Speaker 1>do you think you would do? I think I would

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<v Speaker 1>be really disappointed. You are? I think you would be disappointed.

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<v Speaker 1>That's interesting, Okay, I think I'm a oh yeah. The

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<v Speaker 1>text words always funny with guys saying how Brook is?

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<v Speaker 1>So that's Boone's friends. But the only reason I ask

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<v Speaker 1>is because one of our listeners, Mike, just had to

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<v Speaker 1>re enter the dating pool after going through a separation

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<v Speaker 1>and it led him to us today. So Mike, welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to the show. Hi. Hi, how are you? You don't

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<v Speaker 1>happen to work in the waste management industry? Do you? No?

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm I'm a huge fan. Have something in common

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<v Speaker 1>of the show, not of waste management, you know that. Yeah, anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>let's talk about the date that you went on the

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<v Speaker 1>other night. Who is it with? So? I guess I

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<v Speaker 1>should start with saying that, you know, recently divorced a

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<v Speaker 1>little over a year ago. I'm a little out of practice, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know. With all the apps and everything,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's sort of different. Yeah, it's changed, so sure quick.

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<v Speaker 1>Nowadays everything is is this your first actual date since

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<v Speaker 1>you're a divorce or have you gone on others? The

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<v Speaker 1>first one and you know it was online? Well, this

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<v Speaker 1>is the very first one. Whoa a lot of pressure,

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<v Speaker 1>old man? Who's the person that you met online? Her

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<v Speaker 1>name is Tanya and uh, I don't want to get

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<v Speaker 1>two in the specifics, but she is a little younger

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<v Speaker 1>than I am. Let's say, Okay, that always sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>it's a lot younger. Yeah, the way you said that,

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<v Speaker 1>we're talking legal here, right, Yeah, she's she's legal. But

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<v Speaker 1>let's just say she's definitely younger than I am. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you're making assumption here that you sound like you're in

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<v Speaker 1>your mid thirties, and that's a weird age because you

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<v Speaker 1>can date girls that are like twenty three, or you

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<v Speaker 1>can date girls are like forty three. You're kind of

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<v Speaker 1>in the middle at this point. Yeah, I'm put I'm

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<v Speaker 1>pushing forty. But I was excited. And here's why. Because

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<v Speaker 1>of her profile. It showed her as a devoted dog mom.

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<v Speaker 1>So she sounds like a caring person and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>having kids myself, if I'm going to try to hopefully

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<v Speaker 1>end up with someone that's a caring person, right, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>that's cute. So you were just going for it because

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<v Speaker 1>she was like young and tight. Still nice, absa. So

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<v Speaker 1>Tanya is young, beautiful, and loves dogs. These are all

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<v Speaker 1>good things. Okay. Yeah, I'm not going to deny that

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<v Speaker 1>she was easy on the eyes, you know. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to get into the actual date with Tanya. Tell

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<v Speaker 1>us where you went. How did it go? So we

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<v Speaker 1>met up for dreams, just to get to know each other,

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<v Speaker 1>and it sort of naturally came up that I've been

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<v Speaker 1>married before. But you know, honestly, she didn't seem bothered

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<v Speaker 1>by that's really good. But but but we were interrupted

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<v Speaker 1>and uh, you know, not your act. Yeah no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't. Okay, but the guy that comes up is

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<v Speaker 1>my life insurance I, oh, do you feel really old?

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<v Speaker 1>My life insurance guy? Yeah, I mean it just bumped

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<v Speaker 1>you from like late thirties. You had a guy for

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<v Speaker 1>that late fifties, and so he I guess he'd had

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<v Speaker 1>a few dreams because he he was like to sell

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<v Speaker 1>me right then, and they're like, oh, you know, for

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<v Speaker 1>ten dollars more a month, you can have term life

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<v Speaker 1>insurance and blah blah blah. God man in front of Tanya. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but she was cool. She was laughing about it. And

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<v Speaker 1>then you know, I said, let's get out of here,

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<v Speaker 1>and I asked her if she wanted to come to

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<v Speaker 1>my place and you know, watch a movie or something,

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<v Speaker 1>and she was into it. She said, yeah, okay, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>this first date is going quite well for you. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like his first date back on the scene and he's

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<v Speaker 1>just making it happen. Yeah. I know, I'm thinking, oh wow,

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<v Speaker 1>this is this is awesome. And then we get home

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<v Speaker 1>to my placehand asked her if she wanted some wine

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<v Speaker 1>or something, but then she's like, um, it's like really,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a lot later than I thought, so I should

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<v Speaker 1>probably go who's the old person? That's really weird? Why

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<v Speaker 1>would she do that? That's what I was wondering, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's like your face just it totally changed when

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<v Speaker 1>we walked in. And then I looked around the living

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<v Speaker 1>room and thinking was it something embarrassing or something I

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<v Speaker 1>left out? But everything seemed okay. So like I'm thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>you're a recently divorced guy, Like does the apartment look

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<v Speaker 1>like you're a squatter or something, you know, like a

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<v Speaker 1>bed on the I don't think that would scare a

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<v Speaker 1>young girl off though, pictures. No, I was worried about, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>exactly that pictures or you know, no, it's clean, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have a cleaning person. And so I'm racking my brain,

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<v Speaker 1>like what was it? You know, I want to know too.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here. So she just left after that, and you

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<v Speaker 1>have you talked to her since? No, not tried texting, calling, whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>And the thing is on this one, you need to

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<v Speaker 1>know if there's something weird in this place, like you're

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<v Speaker 1>just beginning dating, if you're going to bring other women

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<v Speaker 1>back to your maybe to change whatever she saw. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a good point. I want the feedback totally. Maybe. Tanya

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<v Speaker 1>took out her phone and googled what term life insurance

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<v Speaker 1>was and realized how old you truly are, and it

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<v Speaker 1>stared her off. But we're gonna find out for sure

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<v Speaker 1>when we call her and get your second date update

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<v Speaker 1>right after this. Okay, okay, thank you, thank you though,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you all right, hold on. You know, during the break,

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke pulled me aside and said she has a problem

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<v Speaker 1>with older men dating much younger girls. But while she

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<v Speaker 1>was talking to me, one of the young fit promo

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<v Speaker 1>boys and she looked at him like he was a

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<v Speaker 1>giant Reese's peanut butter cup. She was licking her lips.

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<v Speaker 1>Her giant glasses fogged right up. Oh man, So to

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<v Speaker 1>all the ladies on the text board right now at

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<v Speaker 1>seven eighty five to nine two, saying he shouldn't be

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<v Speaker 1>dating someone ten years younger, maybe direct your advice to Brook.

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<v Speaker 1>Get you some of that peanut butter because even though

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<v Speaker 1>she's married, doesn't mean Brook can't peruse the menu. Mama

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<v Speaker 1>wants to see the special of the day. He's just

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna order it. But the reason why we bring

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<v Speaker 1>that up is because one of our listeners, Mike, went

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<v Speaker 1>out with a woman who's a few years younger than

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<v Speaker 1>him and ended up having a great time until they

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<v Speaker 1>got back to his house. Where she started acting a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit weird. We're gonna try and help figure out

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<v Speaker 1>the reason why, Mike. You ready, yes, Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been thinking about it. Maybe it's because you offered

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<v Speaker 1>her wine instead of Alexis's favorite white claw exactly. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, this guy doesn't get me. I'm out true.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish I knew what it is. Maybe she was

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<v Speaker 1>worried that you were going to card her, but only

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<v Speaker 1>one way to find out is by just asking her directly.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm gonna dial her number right now. Here we go. Okay, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And remember this is Mike's first online date that he's

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<v Speaker 1>ever had since his divorce happened a few years back.

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<v Speaker 1>Soar okay. Well, I'm just saying thank you for the

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<v Speaker 1>fact check. Here we go. Let's call Tanya. Hello. Hey

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<v Speaker 1>is this Tanya? Yes, mister, Hey Tanya. How's it going?

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<v Speaker 1>My name is jeff from the radio show Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the Morning. Oh, I've never been called by

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<v Speaker 1>a radio so you might be familiar with us. I

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<v Speaker 1>do these awesome parody songs every week. Have you heard

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<v Speaker 1>about them? Young Jeffrey Song of the Week? Um, I

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<v Speaker 1>may have heard it but I wouldn't be able to

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<v Speaker 1>be like, yeah, totally. I can tell she's she's intimidated.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't be intimidated. He's not going to sing to you

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<v Speaker 1>if it makes you feel better, Tanya, un you want

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<v Speaker 1>me to? Okay, the real reason we're calling is because

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<v Speaker 1>we're doing a segment called a second Date Update. Have

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<v Speaker 1>you ever heard of that before? Um? No? Yeah? All right,

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<v Speaker 1>now we're getting the honest. I like that. That's all

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<v Speaker 1>we need. It's where we help our listeners who've gone

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date recently figure out the reason why

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<v Speaker 1>they're getting ghosted. Okay, all right. And so the other

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<v Speaker 1>day you went out with a guy named Mike. Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>all right, you remember Mike? Yeah? I remember Mike. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So we've spoke to Mike about the hangout that you

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<v Speaker 1>guys had going to the bar, and we want to

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<v Speaker 1>get your perspective on it. How was it for you? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>You just want me to tell you about the date,

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<v Speaker 1>or just like about your feelings about him too, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like did you have fun? We could start there like, okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I had fun. I mean he's very nice, very personable,

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<v Speaker 1>So why aren't you dating him anymore? Stop Jeffrey. Sorry

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<v Speaker 1>getting there. I know these are all good things. I mean, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there was nothing wrong with him, Like he was fine.

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<v Speaker 1>He really was. I would definitely have gone out with him. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>he thought you were very fine too, if you just

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<v Speaker 1>want Okay, So what change? I mean, you're not calling

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<v Speaker 1>it back? Why why did that change? Well, like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>it went well, and I actually went back to his

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<v Speaker 1>place with him. We were going to watch a movie

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<v Speaker 1>and then everything kind of just fell apart and I

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<v Speaker 1>had to leave right then and there. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta go. Oh, yeah, we heard that happen, but

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think Mike knows the reason why. Yeah. Uh okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So when we pulled up, I really didn't recognize anything.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't think of having been there before. Um, but

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<v Speaker 1>we get into the house and I immediately know I've

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<v Speaker 1>been here before. You've been in his house before. I

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<v Speaker 1>have been in his house before. What are you Mike

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<v Speaker 1>sex wife? No, definitely not his ex wife, but I

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<v Speaker 1>have met his ex wife. Wait you okay, about five

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<v Speaker 1>years ago. I actually used to babysit kids in that house,

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<v Speaker 1>a baby. They must have been separated because Mike didn't

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<v Speaker 1>live there, Like I never saw a guy. It was

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<v Speaker 1>just the mom, just the kids, and I used to

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<v Speaker 1>babysit them for like almost a year. Whoa, I never

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<v Speaker 1>met him. But as soon as I got to that house,

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<v Speaker 1>I saw the living room, I saw the paintings on

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<v Speaker 1>the wall and they're like pictures, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I know these kids. So it was

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<v Speaker 1>just so awkward because like, how am I gonna ever

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<v Speaker 1>meet these kids then be like, and now I'm dating

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<v Speaker 1>your dad? Well, you know, at least you know the

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<v Speaker 1>kids like you they did, Like maybe it's been five years.

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<v Speaker 1>They're all grown up. They're gonna hate me. They're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be like, what a home record? And I'm gonna be like,

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<v Speaker 1>you did this. It was like the long con but like,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't you're saying that they're going to assume that you,

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<v Speaker 1>like we're having an affair or something. That was the

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<v Speaker 1>first thing that came into my head. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, these kids are gonna hate me. I

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<v Speaker 1>have to get out of here. But once you had

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<v Speaker 1>that realization, why didn't you tell Mike that? Why did

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<v Speaker 1>you just leave? Because it like it left him not

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<v Speaker 1>knowing what happened. I felt really really awkward and I

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<v Speaker 1>felt embarrassed, and I honestly didn't really know how to

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<v Speaker 1>handle the situation, so I just felt like I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>get out of here. Well, I think I know how

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<v Speaker 1>to handle the situation, and that's by putting you in

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<v Speaker 1>direct contact with Mike right now, because he's on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening. Are you serious, I'm serious. He wants

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you. Mike. Are you there? Yoh, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my goodness, Oh wow, wow. I really you're a great guy.

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<v Speaker 1>It was not thing about you. It was just the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that I've like given your kids bad Yeah, this

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<v Speaker 1>is this is a crazy this is the weirdest thing that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I can't believe it. You weren't living there, right,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I didn't just not see you, because that would

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<v Speaker 1>be probably even worse, right, No, no, I you know. Basically,

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<v Speaker 1>the arrangement was that I was out of the house

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<v Speaker 1>after we separated, and in the final divorce, I ended

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<v Speaker 1>up getting the house. That's why I have it now.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, but Mike, do you see this as a

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<v Speaker 1>deal breaker, because I know you're making a bunch of

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<v Speaker 1>assumptions Tanya about like what his family will think about you,

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<v Speaker 1>But you don't even know why they got divorced. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it's his ex wife that asked for the divorce. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. It was just the first thing that I thought, Mike,

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<v Speaker 1>now that you know all this, like, what are your thoughts? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I think this is actually positive. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's a great news. I mean, she already knows

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<v Speaker 1>my kids, and you know, you already know how to

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<v Speaker 1>get to the house where the silver drawer is, how

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<v Speaker 1>to do that. You're really familiar with the kitchen, you know. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and in a few years Mike's going to need help bathing.

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<v Speaker 1>You can help him out with that. Put everyone no,

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<v Speaker 1>no on. Maybe it sounds Tanya like he's not concerned about,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, his kids hating you. It sounds the opposite.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean this that's cool. But I was just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of thinking this was a date or two or and

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<v Speaker 1>maybe leading to something. And now I'm like a second

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<v Speaker 1>mom because I know where the kitchen is, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know where to go from here. Yeah, no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you got to take these things a little, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a day at a time. I'm not saying, oh, move

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<v Speaker 1>in now, I'm just saying that if it ultimately gets

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<v Speaker 1>to that point, don't talk about on getting that second

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<v Speaker 1>date because I know for Mike, I bet nothing would

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<v Speaker 1>feel better than showing up to his ex's house with

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<v Speaker 1>their babysitter as his new girl. Crazy. Yeah, it's crazy sexy. Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, at this point, I just need to ask you, Tanya,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go out on another day with

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<v Speaker 1>Mike because we'll pay for it. Um. I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>definitely weird, but it's kind of cool weird, and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, maybe this is kind of like the movie moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's let's try it. What kind of movie? I don't

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<v Speaker 1>not that kind of movie. Ye, okay, well, congratulations you too.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like you guys are going to go out again. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. I was gonna say the movie would be

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<v Speaker 1>Fatal Attraction, but Tanya probably doesn't even know what that is.

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<v Speaker 1>I know what that is, family movie. I think that

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<v Speaker 1>that ends, well, doesn't something. I think it ends in

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<v Speaker 1>a separation. I to like trying let's not have a

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<v Speaker 1>long ago. It's it's a long time of God. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't think we could get any sexier, but we did

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<v Speaker 1>it and Jeffrey in the morning, So look, I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 1>happy that we got a second date from Mike there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but listening to the way that conversation went between them,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a hard time believing that their first date

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<v Speaker 1>actually went well. You didn't think it felt a little awkward? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think Mike is maybe still like shaking off the

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<v Speaker 1>rust for getting back into the dating pool, or maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it's just such a big egge gap that he's now

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<v Speaker 1>dating his old babysitter, you know, like his kids old babysitter.

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<v Speaker 1>He sounded a little bit intimidated by that actually should be. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that that's a good place for him to stay.

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<v Speaker 1>You think all men should be in fear when they

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<v Speaker 1>go out on fair just you know, alert, respectful that way,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a good word for it. But I mean, date

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<v Speaker 1>number two is definitely going to be interesting between the

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<v Speaker 1>two of them, to say the least, especially when the

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<v Speaker 1>X wife finds out about it. Oh, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>be on that phone call. I didn't care. I don't,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. Okay, that's too much drama for me. Well, remember,

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<v Speaker 1>if you ever want to get a second date update,

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<v Speaker 1>you can always email the show. We'll call the person

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<v Speaker 1>who wasn't calling you back. Broke and Jeffrey in the

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<v Speaker 1>morning