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Speaker 1: Get your Bobby Bulls on Bobby Bone.

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Speaker 2: All right, So Gretchen Wilson was in the studio and

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Speaker 2: we'll play that interview in a second. She was fantastic,

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Speaker 2: and then afterward we'll go for another thirty minutes or

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Speaker 2: so on the podcast. So don't want you to leave

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Speaker 2: after that's over all. Right here she is Gretchen Wilson.

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Speaker 2: They will go on the Bobby Bones show now.

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Speaker 3: Gretchen Wilson, Gretchen, good to see you. What do you

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Speaker 3: have with you?

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Speaker 4: What do I have with me?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Is that from Pearl? It is.

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Speaker 4: It's a little part of Pearl that I brought. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Is that a glove?

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Speaker 4: It's both of them. Yeah, these were my These were

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Speaker 4: my hands.

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Speaker 3: Don't they look smooth so funny?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? And they're off, they're kind of dirty. I was

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Speaker 4: surprised at but they sent them to me just so

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Speaker 4: I could have them for things like this, so that

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Speaker 4: I can really bring them around and show a little

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Speaker 4: piece of my other self. They want them back.

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Speaker 3: I have to They want them back.

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Speaker 4: We have to FedEx them back. Actually, my publicers like,

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Speaker 4: don't forget the gloves, they were asking me about them.

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Speaker 2: I would make fake ones and send the fake ones

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Speaker 2: back to look like that.

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Speaker 4: Well, you know, I have four dogs at home, and

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Speaker 4: my mom this morning was just like tell them that

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Speaker 4: the dog you know, I mean, actually probably happened.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So ABS some questions about that show, specifically, who

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Speaker 2: can you tell that you're on the mask singer?

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Speaker 4: You can't tell anyone. I mean, I actually am so

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Speaker 4: surprised at how how they keep the integrity of the

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Speaker 4: secrets and the hush hush Like the whole time I

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Speaker 4: was there for a month long work days, very strenuous,

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Speaker 4: and you have to wear this hoodie and this visor

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Speaker 4: that's taped. It's even taped on the inside, so you

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Speaker 4: only have two little tiny squares that you didn see

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Speaker 4: through gloves. Can't show your hair, your skin, your ankles,

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Speaker 4: your fingers, nothing. So the whole time I was there,

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Speaker 4: I had absolutely no idea who I was competing against.

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Speaker 3: Oh, you didn't even know who you were? Absolutely not

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Speaker 3: thought about that.

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Speaker 4: No, I had to watch, just like the viewing audience

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Speaker 4: at home, to see who was being unmasked. Every The

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Speaker 4: only one I knew was who came in second place,

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Speaker 4: Andy Grammar, because they let us unmask in front of

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Speaker 4: each other. But that was it. I didn't know anybody

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Speaker 4: else the whole time. It was a guessing game.

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Speaker 3: What about your family?

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Speaker 4: Though, so very few people. My publicist knew hair and

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Speaker 4: makeup artists, who's been with me for over twenty years.

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Speaker 4: She's the only one that went out there with me.

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Speaker 3: Wait, why did you need haar a makeup done?

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Speaker 4: Well, there is the unmasking at some point.

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Speaker 3: Oh oh, so there just in case, because you could.

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Speaker 4: Get unmasked at any at any given moment. Every time

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Speaker 4: you go out there, it could be your last performance,

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Speaker 4: so you have to be ready to oh see as

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Speaker 4: good as you possibly can underneath them. And I mean,

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Speaker 4: if you saw it, I was pretty dang sweaty. I

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Speaker 4: looked like I looked like a regular old, middle aged

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Speaker 3: But that's funny.

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Speaker 4: But I mean we did the best we could under

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Speaker 4: the mask. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: When I did Dancing with the Stars, we had to

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Speaker 3: We might be going home. I never thought about that.

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Speaker 4: Like, yeah, So, I mean, I guess it's probably a

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Speaker 4: lot easier for the guys. They don't do as much styling,

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Speaker 4: but you know, some of the girls take that mask off,

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Speaker 4: and it's like, did they just spend an hour and

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Speaker 2: When did they come to you? How far ahead before

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 4: They had been asking, I think they asked several times,

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Speaker 4: and I was just you know, I was just like me,

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Speaker 4: make sense. But then a few years ago, I was

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Speaker 4: one of the first in I think town, early in

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Speaker 4: blood pressure as these are all things that I didn't

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Speaker 4: year old boy doing ring around the rosie. I fell

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Speaker 4: and just demolished my left leg ankle was just you

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Speaker 4: know when you see on YouTube videos sometimes the foot

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Speaker 4: hanging the wrong way. That's what I did. And so

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Speaker 4: I had like about a solid year and a half

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Speaker 4: of just I don't know if I'm ever going to

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Speaker 4: My health was so bad. It took forever to get

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Speaker 4: the right medication. So this time when they asked, I

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Speaker 4: was on the rebound. I was getting healthier, I'd finally

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Speaker 4: found good doctors and all of that. To myself, I

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Speaker 4: I was I didn't know if I could still do it.

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Speaker 4: And I thought, well, if I can go out there

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Speaker 4: something that pushes me to my limit. I mean hard

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Speaker 4: for a while. And so for me, it was really

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Speaker 4: still do this for another You know, however many years.

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Speaker 3: Wow, I didn't know you hurt yourself so bad.

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Speaker 2: It was and while you're sick, it's also like you're

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Speaker 2: dealing with long COVID and you also can't get your

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Speaker 4: I gave like sixty five pounds, so.

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Speaker 3: It's broken and your whole systems. I was in a wheelchair.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I was in a wheelchair for like almost eight months,

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry to hear that.

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Speaker 4: Yes, and it was just yeah, and it was just

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Speaker 4: definitely gave me that. That just kind of that push.

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Speaker 2: You seem so energetic and even magnetic right now. Are

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Speaker 4: I feel good. I feel like that. In my life,

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Speaker 4: I have had so many things working against me, and

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Speaker 4: I've always sort of just just I don't know if

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Speaker 4: it's just the way I was raised by the women

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Speaker 4: just been you know, you're not gonna get me down

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Speaker 4: kind of a person, but there was definitely in the

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Speaker 4: last couple of years, there was that moment, especially at

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Speaker 4: my age. I'm you know, I'm no spring chicken. I'm

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Speaker 4: coming up on fifty two years old. So I was like, well,

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Speaker 4: And I know this sounds crazy, but it is not singing,

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Speaker 4: it up. You know, a couple of years ago, is.

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Speaker 3: That suit heavy?

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Speaker 4: It's very heavy, very heavy.

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Speaker 2: Because I'm thinking about your foot, yes, and you're testing

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Speaker 2: your lungs obviously singing you're having to move around in

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Speaker 4: It's it's mostly hot. I mean, I would say it's heavy,

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Speaker 4: for sure, but there's just the heat and the kind

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Speaker 3: You can't just pull your head off, but people around.

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Speaker 4: You, no, you can't. Sometimes they'd let you do the

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Speaker 4: rehearsals with the visor, but that was still hot. You know. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: and if your head starts to go over. But I mean,

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Speaker 3: When did you start to feel like you could win it?

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Speaker 4: Who I didn't think I was gonna win all the

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Speaker 4: Boogie Woogie had it. He was my favorite character. I

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Speaker 4: mean the first time I heard him, seeing because we

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Speaker 4: and I was like, Oh, this guy's got it. Whoever

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Speaker 4: played the character parts so well. And we actually kind

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Speaker 4: we'd just call each other. I just called him Boogie

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Speaker 4: and he called me Pearl. That crazy, but yeah, we

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Speaker 4: And then yeah, I didn't. I was determined to win

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Speaker 4: gonna do all of that just to go home right away.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, I was. I was in it to win it,

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Speaker 4: but I didn't think I had it, And not even

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Speaker 3: What happens right after the show after you win, you

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Speaker 3: go sleep.

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Speaker 4: You go to sleep, you try to get the cramping

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Speaker 4: to stop. You hydrate. I mean, seriously, the hydration was

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Speaker 4: probably the biggest thing for me, just being out there,

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Speaker 4: not used to California really that I don't go that often,

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Speaker 4: and just the wear and tear. So yeah, I mean

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Speaker 4: there was twice that I had to have medics come

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Speaker 4: and give me IV in my hotel room.

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Speaker 3: Why did you move to Nashville?

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Speaker 4: That's where I went to work. And I was making

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Speaker 4: And but again, I didn't get to do any any

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Speaker 4: They were still up and coming. Nobody knew them as

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Speaker 3: Is history, and you just that just became your Your.

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Speaker 4: Group, became my family. It became my musical my musical home,

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Speaker 3: I saw you at the ACM Awards. I didn't.

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Speaker 4: I saw you too.

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Speaker 2: I think it's talk to you because everybody, you know,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, other female vocalist artists that have won.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like lock every door because they were tend of aces.

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Speaker 2: What do you say to new artists if they're like Retchen,

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Speaker 3: How much did Redneck Woman change your life?

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Speaker 4: Redneck Woman was it? I mean, it was the whole

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Speaker 4: who the hell looks like that? At six o'clock in

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Speaker 4: So it was just the time. It was time to

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Speaker 2: Did you and John just write that together? Yes, when

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Speaker 4: It felt special to me because it felt like my home.

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Speaker 4: our window, or that the timing wasn't right, And you know,

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Speaker 4: girls weren't doing what I was doing at that moment.

439
00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:27,320
Speaker 4: So it really that's the reason it worked, but we

440
00:18:27,320 --> 00:18:29,320
Speaker 4: were afraid that it could be the reason that it wouldn't.

441
00:18:29,720 --> 00:18:32,760
Speaker 3: Did it work immediately once they committed to it.

442
00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:36,719
Speaker 4: No, the fans loved it. Yes, the fans loved it.

443
00:18:37,200 --> 00:18:39,159
Speaker 4: And if it hadn't been for the fans calling the

444
00:18:39,560 --> 00:18:42,080
Speaker 4: local radio stations and demanding it, I'm not sure that

445
00:18:42,119 --> 00:18:44,600
Speaker 4: it would have gone the way it did. Program directors

446
00:18:44,640 --> 00:18:46,640
Speaker 4: didn't really love it that much. I mean, we got

447
00:18:46,800 --> 00:18:49,840
Speaker 4: we got phone calls back at the label that I

448
00:18:49,880 --> 00:18:52,400
Speaker 4: was hearing about, you know, some of some of them

449
00:18:52,480 --> 00:18:55,280
Speaker 4: saying things like, we've been working for twenty years to

450
00:18:55,320 --> 00:18:58,439
Speaker 4: get this redneck word out of our listener's mouth, you know,

451
00:18:58,920 --> 00:19:01,119
Speaker 4: and it was really kind of up to me to

452
00:19:01,840 --> 00:19:04,040
Speaker 4: define redneck. It's like, you know, you guys have just

453
00:19:04,119 --> 00:19:07,000
Speaker 4: decided all across this country that it's a bad word

454
00:19:07,040 --> 00:19:09,240
Speaker 4: and that it means racist. But that's not what it means.

455
00:19:09,720 --> 00:19:11,800
Speaker 4: It's not at all what it means. I mean, being

456
00:19:11,800 --> 00:19:14,760
Speaker 4: a redneck has value. It's about where you come from,

457
00:19:15,119 --> 00:19:17,359
Speaker 4: and it's really about being out in the field farming

458
00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:19,120
Speaker 4: all day and coming back in the house and having

459
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Speaker 4: a red neck from being out on a tractor all

460
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Speaker 4: day long. That's what it's about. It has nothing to

461
00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:25,280
Speaker 4: do with racism, and I became kind of the face

462
00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:28,680
Speaker 4: of having to explain that to the world, and even

463
00:19:28,680 --> 00:19:31,040
Speaker 4: the radio stations didn't want that word, and so to

464
00:19:31,080 --> 00:19:34,200
Speaker 4: present myself as the redneck woman kind of took a

465
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Speaker 4: lot of you know what I.

466
00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:37,919
Speaker 2: Saw that you're doing the show with Blake Shelton, The

467
00:19:37,920 --> 00:19:38,800
Speaker 2: Taylor Sheridan Show.

468
00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:41,080
Speaker 3: You're the tour manager. Yes, that's exciting. Tell us about

469
00:19:41,119 --> 00:19:41,440
Speaker 3: that show.

470
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Speaker 4: It's really cool because in this show, I get to

471
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Speaker 4: show my face.

472
00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:48,120
Speaker 3: You don't have to wear a really heavy costume.

473
00:19:48,320 --> 00:19:52,280
Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, this is a really really cool opportunity. I

474
00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:54,320
Speaker 4: think a lot of people are thinking that's just going

475
00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:58,399
Speaker 4: to be another run of the mill, you know, talent competition,

476
00:19:58,480 --> 00:20:01,320
Speaker 4: but it's really very different than any of the ones

477
00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:03,879
Speaker 4: that I've seen anyway. This is this one moves across

478
00:20:03,960 --> 00:20:07,320
Speaker 4: the country. It's a live audience in kind of a bar,

479
00:20:08,080 --> 00:20:12,480
Speaker 4: like a large honky Tonk sort of situation. The audience

480
00:20:12,520 --> 00:20:14,840
Speaker 4: that comes in every night is an audience that's coming

481
00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:18,679
Speaker 4: to see Keith Urban. So all of these contestants really

482
00:20:18,760 --> 00:20:23,439
Speaker 4: are an opening act for you know, an amazingly talented artist.

483
00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:26,520
Speaker 4: Who goes out there every single show and just just

484
00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:29,560
Speaker 4: nails it. I mean, I'm super huge fan of his

485
00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:33,000
Speaker 4: now if I wasn't before, I'm just amazed by how

486
00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:36,800
Speaker 4: professional he is. And yeah, my job was really just

487
00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:38,639
Speaker 4: to prepare these kids for what it's really like to

488
00:20:38,640 --> 00:20:40,639
Speaker 4: be on the road. It's not all the glitz and glamor.

489
00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:43,399
Speaker 4: It's a lot of bus life. It's a lot of

490
00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:45,639
Speaker 4: parking by dumpsters. It's a lot of making sure that

491
00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:47,720
Speaker 4: you don't party too hard, get plenty of sleep, don't

492
00:20:47,760 --> 00:20:50,159
Speaker 4: talk all day, you know, take care of yourselves. What

493
00:20:50,280 --> 00:20:51,800
Speaker 4: songs are you going to sing? How are you gonna

494
00:20:51,800 --> 00:20:53,600
Speaker 4: beat the girl that was just up there before you.

495
00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:56,080
Speaker 4: It was that kind of thing. I didn't have to

496
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Speaker 4: take care of the buses in the hotels, thank goodness.

497
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Speaker 3: I just didn't have a early tour manage, No I did.

498
00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:03,520
Speaker 4: I did what a tour manager does on site. Yeah,

499
00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:05,440
Speaker 4: but not the logistics.

500
00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:07,760
Speaker 3: No merchant into the night, none of that.

501
00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:08,720
Speaker 4: Oh, thank goodness.

502
00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:10,560
Speaker 3: The show is called The Road and it's this fall,

503
00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:11,280
Speaker 3: right on fall.

504
00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:13,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't have an exact date yet, but yeah.

505
00:21:13,400 --> 00:21:14,960
Speaker 3: Are you re recording here for the party?

506
00:21:15,440 --> 00:21:17,719
Speaker 4: I am, Yes, that's what I've heard, so I'm going

507
00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:21,360
Speaker 4: to go in and re record the first album entirely,

508
00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:23,480
Speaker 4: but I'm going to do it different. I'm gonna I'm

509
00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:27,200
Speaker 4: gonna get guest artists on each on each song, and

510
00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:29,840
Speaker 4: I've got a few in mind already, but I I'm

511
00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:32,720
Speaker 4: kind of keeping my I'm keeping it open right now

512
00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:35,200
Speaker 4: because there are a few people that I really think

513
00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:38,000
Speaker 4: haven't had the opportunity to be in the spotlight yet

514
00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:40,920
Speaker 4: that should be so some of the names, I think

515
00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:44,080
Speaker 4: you'll recognize. Some of them you might just should have

516
00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:45,480
Speaker 4: recognized already.

517
00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:50,280
Speaker 2: And did performing again on the Masked Singer, because obviously

518
00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:52,040
Speaker 2: you're a performer and a singer. But it'll make you

519
00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:54,080
Speaker 2: feel comfortable with the committing just to getting on the

520
00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:55,000
Speaker 2: road doing a bunch of shows.

521
00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:58,399
Speaker 4: Now, well, yeah, I mean that was definitely one of

522
00:21:58,440 --> 00:21:59,960
Speaker 4: the one of the things that I had to prove

523
00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:01,640
Speaker 4: to myself. If I could do that, then I could

524
00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:03,440
Speaker 4: get out there. I'm not going to say that it's

525
00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:05,800
Speaker 4: easy to be on the road at my age. It's not.

526
00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:06,320
Speaker 4: It's hot.

527
00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:07,959
Speaker 3: You act like you're a hundred is the thing.

528
00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:11,760
Speaker 2: You look great, you sound great, You're acting like you're

529
00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:13,080
Speaker 2: walking here on a walker.

530
00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:17,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, well I was, I was ago, Okay, I guess

531
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Speaker 4: I don't know. You get that close to it all

532
00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:21,920
Speaker 4: and you just maybe I'm just still in that fear mode,

533
00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:24,280
Speaker 4: you know that, like every step I take. As you

534
00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:27,200
Speaker 4: can see, I'm wearing really short boots now, I'm just like, yeah,

535
00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:29,520
Speaker 4: I don't know about the high heels anymore. So yeah,

536
00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:32,200
Speaker 4: I mean, I'm I'm definitely I'm not as young as

537
00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:34,560
Speaker 4: some of them, you know, so I have to be careful.

538
00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:37,439
Speaker 4: But I'm having fun on tour. You know, I've already

539
00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:40,640
Speaker 4: done probably ten this year. I've got fifteen or twenty

540
00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:42,680
Speaker 4: more on the books, and I'm actually having a lot

541
00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:45,879
Speaker 4: of fun a new band together. You young kids in

542
00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:49,160
Speaker 4: the band got a lot of energy and they jaff

543
00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:51,360
Speaker 4: They make me have a lot of fun on stage.

544
00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:53,159
Speaker 2: And a bunch of the shows and a lot of

545
00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:59,280
Speaker 2: the places that we're in Indiana, California doing Nashville, Detroit, Lakes, Minnesota, Tulsa, Oklahoma,

546
00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:02,280
Speaker 2: Ocean City, Maryland, and so you guys can catch gretching out.

547
00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:04,879
Speaker 3: On the road. Yeah, it's super cool to talk with you.

548
00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:06,440
Speaker 4: Thanks for having me. It's cool to be here.

549
00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:08,640
Speaker 2: I really appreciate you coming at congratulations on the wind.

550
00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:10,359
Speaker 2: I know how much hard work it is actually do that.

551
00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:12,679
Speaker 2: It looks like to people it's like, oh good, but

552
00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:13,360
Speaker 2: it's hard work.

553
00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:16,720
Speaker 4: No, No, dancing would have been way. That show was

554
00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:18,680
Speaker 4: like an absolutely no for me from word go.

555
00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 2: Both both their own difficult, but one of the most

556
00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:23,840
Speaker 2: difficult parts just being away from home.

557
00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:25,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, like just living in a hotel.

558
00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:27,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, well, you know what it's like to wear a

559
00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:29,600
Speaker 4: lot of hats, you know. And also I saw you

560
00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:31,200
Speaker 4: too at the award show. You were also wearing a

561
00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:34,000
Speaker 4: lot of jackets, didn't I see you change jackets.

562
00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:35,800
Speaker 2: And there were times where like things were breaking and

563
00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:37,439
Speaker 2: they were like, just get out there and fit, and

564
00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:39,680
Speaker 2: I'm like, all right, I do it. So yes, yeah,

565
00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:44,600
Speaker 2: I was being versative, being versatile and just doing it

566
00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:45,600
Speaker 2: is my only talent.

567
00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:47,679
Speaker 4: Yeah, you just got to trust in yourself.

568
00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:49,280
Speaker 2: Just got to do it. Well, it has been super

569
00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:52,919
Speaker 2: fun to talk with you. Congratulations to Pearl. Thank you

570
00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:54,400
Speaker 2: is you but not really you.

571
00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:56,040
Speaker 4: I'm going to add a couple of those songs to

572
00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:56,440
Speaker 4: the show.

573
00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:58,679
Speaker 3: I think, really, yeah, that's fine.

574
00:23:58,840 --> 00:23:59,240
Speaker 4: Why not?

575
00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:00,520
Speaker 3: That's fine that.

576
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:02,199
Speaker 4: If I could keep the gloves, I'd wear them, but

577
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:02,840
Speaker 4: they won't. They won't.

578
00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:04,159
Speaker 2: I'm telling you, I would send back fake wins a

579
00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:06,320
Speaker 2: look just like that, good idea, and they would never

580
00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:08,560
Speaker 2: know the difference. We had the opportunity to buy our

581
00:24:08,600 --> 00:24:10,000
Speaker 2: stuff on Dancing with the Stars.

582
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:11,840
Speaker 4: So I think this stuff all goes into a museum

583
00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:14,439
Speaker 4: of some sort and then they put it out on

584
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:16,840
Speaker 4: display for a museum. A museum.

585
00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:18,360
Speaker 3: Where's that museum?

586
00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:19,080
Speaker 5: DC?

587
00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:23,879
Speaker 2: Smithsonian? Right next to the Smithsonian, you guys? Followed Gretchen

588
00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:26,240
Speaker 2: on Instagram at Gretchen Wilson twenty seven. Gretchen, thank you

589
00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:28,680
Speaker 2: for coming in. Congratulations and hopefully we will see you soon.

590
00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:29,560
Speaker 4: Thank you so much.

591
00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:31,600
Speaker 1: Come.

592
00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:37,959
Speaker 2: This is the Also, an Indiana Pacers fan was arrested

593
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:41,760
Speaker 2: after allegedly stabbing two New York Knicks fans after a

594
00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:44,760
Speaker 2: fight broke out because they're playing each other in basketball

595
00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 2: right now, I mean now. It faces three felony charges,

596
00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:51,080
Speaker 2: including all the things you would think. He claimed self defense,

597
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:54,520
Speaker 2: saying he was pushed and punched, but multiple witnesses identified

598
00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:58,320
Speaker 2: him as a primary aggressor. The incident happened after the

599
00:24:58,359 --> 00:25:01,600
Speaker 2: Pacers defeated the Knicks. If you're the judge, you got

600
00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 2: a little lighter on them. If you're a Pacers fan.

601
00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:06,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, you'd have to, like, I get it, buddy. Yeah.

602
00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:10,720
Speaker 3: Was this in Indie? Yeah?

603
00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:17,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, making sure Yeah, Carmel, Indiana in a brewery.

604
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:19,680
Speaker 3: They were under the influence.

605
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:25,200
Speaker 2: Shocking from NPR. Economic uncertainty has led to sluggish home

606
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Speaker 2: sales and slow construction in the housing market. Some home

607
00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:32,360
Speaker 2: prices are how to reach from any potential buyers. Mortgage

608
00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:34,399
Speaker 2: rates are on the rise. Builders are also now facing

609
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:38,240
Speaker 2: challenges due to uncertainty around the rising cost of materials

610
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:40,320
Speaker 2: and the uncertainty around tariffs.

611
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Speaker 3: This fuels This is.

612
00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:45,840
Speaker 2: Not advice, but this feels like it's about to be

613
00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:48,840
Speaker 2: more of a buyer's market and not a seller's market.

614
00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:52,080
Speaker 2: Because any time there are sluggish home sales, that means

615
00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 2: homes aren't selling. So they have to do things to

616
00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:55,440
Speaker 2: get them to sell. So what do you do to

617
00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:57,560
Speaker 2: get them to sell? If interest rates aren't dropping, you

618
00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 2: have to lower the prices or have yeah, you know

619
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:04,680
Speaker 2: other elements in the throw in some mudflaps.

620
00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:06,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, why can't.

621
00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:07,760
Speaker 1: They just lower the interest rates.

622
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 3: It's not that easy.

623
00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:09,399
Speaker 1: I know it's not.

624
00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:11,160
Speaker 3: But like, and it's not political at all.

625
00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:13,400
Speaker 1: I know, I'm not making it political. It's just like,

626
00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:16,440
Speaker 1: what I don't know why that has to fluctuate so much.

627
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:20,200
Speaker 1: It's so crazy to me that, like in twenty twenty,

628
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:22,720
Speaker 1: interest rates were like three percent to my house and

629
00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:23,680
Speaker 1: now it's like eight.

630
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:27,320
Speaker 3: What makes it fluctuate? You know the answer to that?

631
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:30,960
Speaker 3: So there is the FED. You familiar with the FED,

632
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:35,479
Speaker 3: the federal government FEDS. If you do it too fast,

633
00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:41,560
Speaker 3: or you do it or too even too slow, it

634
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:42,679
Speaker 3: conrect the economy.

635
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:44,800
Speaker 1: But just don't don't do it.

636
00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:47,720
Speaker 2: Can't we just have It's kind of like the I

637
00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:49,520
Speaker 2: like gas, it's like a thermostat.

638
00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:50,920
Speaker 3: It's like the economy's thermostat.

639
00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:54,359
Speaker 2: I'm going to give you a very simple, probably bad

640
00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:59,159
Speaker 2: description of why interest rates can't just be thrown around

641
00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:00,680
Speaker 2: and just always lowered.

642
00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:06,439
Speaker 3: Okay, the FED is the federal government. Close. The FED

643
00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 3: is the.

644
00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:10,879
Speaker 5: Federal ext Exchange close?

645
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:16,360
Speaker 3: No, any one more shot FED? No, I don't know

646
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:18,320
Speaker 3: the Federal Reserve.

647
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:21,640
Speaker 1: Oh that they're just they're called FED for short, not like.

648
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 3: FED, feder.

649
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:25,439
Speaker 6: Federal.

650
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 3: So why they don't lower them?

651
00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:27,959
Speaker 5: Now?

652
00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:32,840
Speaker 2: Inflation is still a concern, and inflation has cooled a

653
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:36,640
Speaker 2: lot since twenty twenty two, whenever it was peaking. There,

654
00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:40,920
Speaker 2: prices are still higher than ideal, and so lowering rates

655
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:44,000
Speaker 2: too soon could cause inflation to spike again. And then

656
00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:45,680
Speaker 2: you get into the stuff that I just get bored

657
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 2: with and stop. It's not that I don't care, but

658
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:49,639
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, I'll just have to let somebody smarter

659
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 2: figure it out and tell me the answers. But that

660
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:55,680
Speaker 2: happened in like the seventies, and it was a mess.

661
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 2: It like ruined the economy.

662
00:27:57,119 --> 00:27:57,800
Speaker 3: For a long time.

663
00:27:58,000 --> 00:27:58,879
Speaker 1: Switch it to quickly.

664
00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:00,560
Speaker 3: Well, they want to avoid the yoyo effect.

665
00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:03,320
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so if they cut too early, they have

666
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:05,000
Speaker 2: to well, if they cut too early, they have to

667
00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:08,639
Speaker 2: raise them again later. And so that also is uncertainty,

668
00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 2: which Wall Street hates any sort of uncertainty. And you

669
00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:12,679
Speaker 2: can be like me and be like, well, why do

670
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:14,160
Speaker 2: I care about Wall Street? I don't have a bunch

671
00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 2: of stocks. But that does affect everything else, Like if

672
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:22,240
Speaker 2: you're hiring a contractor and he's buying things from a bit, Yeah,

673
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:23,680
Speaker 2: wall Street does affect everything.

674
00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:27,200
Speaker 1: I get it. I guess there's more of a think.

675
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:28,200
Speaker 2: About it like if you were and again I don't

676
00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:29,520
Speaker 2: even do this right, but think about it, like you

677
00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 2: were stopping antibiotics early. They don't work well, you're like, oh,

678
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 2: I'm good, I'm gonna stop, but then see it.

679
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 1: Through to completion. So they have to see this high

680
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:39,480
Speaker 1: rate through to completion.

681
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:44,520
Speaker 2: The job market is still strong right now, so that

682
00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:47,080
Speaker 2: the job market also affects it. If the job market

683
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 2: wasn't as strong, they would lower interest rates.

684
00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 7: And that means that strong means that that you can

685
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 7: get jobs high rates.

686
00:28:58,560 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 3: So what is it eight percent?

687
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:03,720
Speaker 1: I think it's somewhere between. I don't know exactly where

688
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:06,000
Speaker 1: it is at this day, but between seven and eight maybe.

689
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:13,440
Speaker 2: High rates slow down hiring and growth. Does that am

690
00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:15,280
Speaker 2: I I just heard? If I'm communicating it properly, I

691
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 2: hate sand Does that make sense? Because, uh, the job

692
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 2: market has stayed resilient for the last three or four years.

693
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 2: If companies are still hiring and consumers are still spending.

694
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:28,840
Speaker 2: The FED which means the the Federal Reserve, they see

695
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 2: no need to cut because everything is still going in

696
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 2: a way that feels healthy. They need a soft landing,

697
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:39,720
Speaker 2: so they don't. If they do cut, the last thing

698
00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:41,240
Speaker 2: they want to have as a recession. So they got

699
00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 2: to be very differ and it's always like a half

700
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:45,320
Speaker 2: a percent. It's never anything like crazy like they will

701
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:48,440
Speaker 2: never go eight to two, yeah, because then it would

702
00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:51,720
Speaker 2: just be a massive rush to buy everything. But you're right,

703
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:53,360
Speaker 2: there was a time and what you already think it

704
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 2: was like three percent?

705
00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 1: Oh, I know it was in twenty twenty. It was

706
00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 1: a three percent because about a house that year.

707
00:29:57,840 --> 00:29:59,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, I say like three years ago.

708
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 2: So and then probably that was was like coming off

709
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:04,960
Speaker 2: of COVID after a very well so.

710
00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 1: COVID had started in March and we bought in like

711
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:12,920
Speaker 1: June or something, so it's right in the middle of

712
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:13,720
Speaker 1: like nobody who.

713
00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:16,280
Speaker 2: So I don't know that specifically timeline, but it makes

714
00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:18,120
Speaker 2: sense as to why something would be like that around

715
00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 2: that time. If they make things too cheap too fast,

716
00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 2: people rush to buy everything all at once, and if

717
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 2: people spend more, demand goes way up because there aren't

718
00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:30,920
Speaker 2: there just aren't as many of them. And if demand

719
00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:34,720
Speaker 2: goes up, prices rise again, so they have to kind

720
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:41,120
Speaker 2: of balance it so there is no extreme change based

721
00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:44,920
Speaker 2: on the Like I said, now I'm checking out, you

722
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:45,560
Speaker 2: know what's crazy.

723
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:47,720
Speaker 1: And I asked the question, Yeah, but why don't people

724
00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:48,920
Speaker 1: why don't they want more?

725
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:51,200
Speaker 5: People to buy more?

726
00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:53,200
Speaker 2: People are starting to, Yes, but if everybody goes and

727
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:54,800
Speaker 2: buys every house because it's cheap. There are no more

728
00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 2: houses then, and then once there are no more houses,

729
00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:58,320
Speaker 2: the price of houses.

730
00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:00,080
Speaker 1: Go way up, which is what happened.

731
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:02,440
Speaker 2: Since there's no demand and the market just goes, well,

732
00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 2: there are no houses, so we can make this house

733
00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:07,440
Speaker 2: now one hundred and forty percent of what it was before. Oh,

734
00:31:08,840 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 2: that is a bad explanation of very confusion.

735
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:12,520
Speaker 3: Rates makes sense.

736
00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:15,600
Speaker 2: It is the lowest than twenty twenty one. I'm looking

737
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 2: at a graph now. Twenty twenty one was very low.

738
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:20,760
Speaker 2: I don't know what the rate was, three point one

739
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:24,680
Speaker 2: five percent, and right now it is at six point

740
00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:25,240
Speaker 2: nine percent.

741
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:27,160
Speaker 3: The average thirty year fixed.

742
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:29,160
Speaker 1: Rate so someplaces is a little higher.

743
00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:30,600
Speaker 5: You know, it's crazy.

744
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 8: When my parents bought their first house, it was fifteen percent.

745
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:36,840
Speaker 2: What but also you could work a full time job

746
00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:39,000
Speaker 2: one and have enough money to go buy a house.

747
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:40,640
Speaker 5: Yeah.

748
00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:42,360
Speaker 8: I'm just saying like it's great, Like we're like, oh

749
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 8: my gosh, six point nine is so high, and my

750
00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 8: parents like, man, it was fifteen percent when we bought

751
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:46,760
Speaker 8: our first house.

752
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:48,160
Speaker 5: That's wild.

753
00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:51,120
Speaker 2: I think it's like giving a child a bunch of

754
00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:54,280
Speaker 2: sugar at like nine pm. It's fun for a second,

755
00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:56,880
Speaker 2: but then it's just total chaos. And that's what lowering

756
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:59,280
Speaker 2: rates would be. Like got it, Like everybody's like, this

757
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:01,680
Speaker 2: is awesome, let's go buy. But then once everything's bought,

758
00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:04,320
Speaker 2: anybody else who wants to buy that didn't buy right

759
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:06,080
Speaker 2: then can only buy something. But it's like double the

760
00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:08,320
Speaker 2: price now, so values skyrocket.

761
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:10,040
Speaker 1: Well I've been waiting for it to lower so I

762
00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:11,600
Speaker 1: can refinance.

763
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 3: And that is what happened. Sometimes. Yeah, yeah, so that

764
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:16,360
Speaker 3: is a bad explanation but makes sense.

765
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:19,440
Speaker 7: Thank you, not bad because I feel like sometimes you're

766
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:21,440
Speaker 7: our dad and we're just like I.

767
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:23,600
Speaker 5: Never feel that way. I never feel that way like that.

768
00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:24,920
Speaker 3: Why did you call me daddy in private?

769
00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:26,000
Speaker 5: I never feel that way.

770
00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 3: I've heard you call him, Yeah, dare.

771
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 1: Now that I understand my money or I'm trying to

772
00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:34,360
Speaker 1: get involved in it because I wasn't my entire marriage,

773
00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:38,280
Speaker 1: and so now that I'm taking some agency over my life,

774
00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:42,520
Speaker 1: I'm like eager to try to work towards paying down

775
00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:45,680
Speaker 1: my mortgage, like I want to like see action. And

776
00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:48,640
Speaker 1: then I was advised like, oh I would to don't

777
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:51,040
Speaker 1: add more to because you have an eight percent or

778
00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:53,320
Speaker 1: whatever mine seven something percent.

779
00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:54,920
Speaker 6: Loan.

780
00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 1: So don't pay towards that, put that money somewhere else,

781
00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 1: and then when you can lower, when you can refinance

782
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:03,080
Speaker 1: the lord, then you can start paying off your house

783
00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:06,479
Speaker 1: because right now you're just be paying towards interest. And

784
00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 1: so now I'm putting money somewhere else, waiting for the

785
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:12,320
Speaker 1: day that I get to, like maybe put a bigger chunk,

786
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 1: which this is how my mom was, and I'm like

787
00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:16,640
Speaker 1: sweet cool. Finally, at forty four years old, I started

788
00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:19,840
Speaker 1: to like figure out how my mom operated because she

789
00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:22,480
Speaker 1: was just very diligent about paying things down, and I

790
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 1: never really understood that about her, but now I'm like, oh,

791
00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:27,720
Speaker 1: I get it, so smart because when she passed away,

792
00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 1: she made our life really really easy, and then when

793
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:33,200
Speaker 1: my dad passed away, it was really difficult, which was

794
00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:35,360
Speaker 1: hilarious because growing up, my dad was the one that

795
00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 1: always seemed to have more money than my mom. But

796
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 1: she was just she operated in a smarter more She

797
00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:47,040
Speaker 1: wasn't like, yeah, more frugal, more diligent, intentional way, and

798
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:49,280
Speaker 1: my dad was more like living life.

799
00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:51,640
Speaker 3: I felt that, yeah, I am.

800
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:55,080
Speaker 2: I don't have a lot of experience with interest because

801
00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:58,760
Speaker 2: in my whole life I've never bought anything I couldn't

802
00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:00,520
Speaker 2: pay for in full cash anything.

803
00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:03,400
Speaker 1: I literally was thinking about that sleep last night.

804
00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 3: Anything. Never had a mortgage.

805
00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 1: Why was I thinking this?

806
00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 2: I was thinking about not legit because I bought the smallest,

807
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:12,960
Speaker 2: tiniest thing I could possibly buy that.

808
00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 3: I because I'm scared to have to.

809
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:18,399
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm scared to oh And so you know now

810
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:21,719
Speaker 2: it's like wow, all of cash. But yeah, but when

811
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:24,360
Speaker 2: I was buying stuff with cash when I first started,

812
00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:27,200
Speaker 2: it was like I couldn't afford anything but the smallest.

813
00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:28,480
Speaker 2: I remember the first time I bought a house, I

814
00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:30,279
Speaker 2: went to our general manager and was like, Hey, look,

815
00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:32,680
Speaker 2: I'm about to buy a house. I think the house

816
00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 2: was like eighty eight thousand dollars and I'm going to

817
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 2: buy this house, and uh, you're not going to fire me,

818
00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:40,920
Speaker 2: are you? What's you supposed to say to that? Looking back,

819
00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 2: because if he was.

820
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:45,600
Speaker 3: Said he was like, I feel like it's a pretty

821
00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:47,040
Speaker 3: good time. And I'm like, you're not really giving me

822
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:50,319
Speaker 3: an answer. Yeah, but yeah, why are you thinking about that?

823
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:52,239
Speaker 1: I have no idea. I didn't even remember I was

824
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:55,200
Speaker 1: thinking about it till just now. But I I don't know,

825
00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:57,560
Speaker 1: maybe because I was listening, Who knows I listened to

826
00:34:57,600 --> 00:34:59,320
Speaker 1: my money meditation, So maybe.

827
00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 2: Listened to a meditat about money, told you guys, that's meditation.

828
00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:08,000
Speaker 1: Well, it's more subliminal messages like I'm more so here,

829
00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 1: I'll play you some I'm more so listening to like

830
00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:15,560
Speaker 1: you know, water flowing or bird chirping, and then underneath

831
00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:18,640
Speaker 1: there's someone's whispering you are good with yours.

832
00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:20,279
Speaker 2: That sounds like to say by the Bell episode where

833
00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:21,480
Speaker 2: Zach Morris wanted to get a ready.

834
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 9: To fall great, Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

835
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:27,680
Speaker 2: There are a couple of things I can bring up

836
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:30,680
Speaker 2: that you guys listen to that I find to be entertaining.

837
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:32,880
Speaker 2: And I didn't know this, but to play your money meditation,

838
00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:33,720
Speaker 2: I'll play.

839
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:35,480
Speaker 1: You So this is what it sounds like when I'm

840
00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:40,880
Speaker 1: listening to it, right, that's all you hear, Okay. So

841
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:43,680
Speaker 1: then towards the end, it gives you a peek into

842
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:45,919
Speaker 1: what you've been hearing underneath the sound.

843
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:48,279
Speaker 3: So they are playing stuf underneath the sounds like subliminally.

844
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:51,200
Speaker 1: This is how you know I'm getting close to the

845
00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:55,759
Speaker 1: end because it starts to slow down and then you'll

846
00:35:55,760 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 1: hear a whisper it's coming. Can you hear it? I'll

847
00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 1: have to turn it up. My daughter did this thing

848
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:07,399
Speaker 1: where she like.

849
00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:08,520
Speaker 3: What does it say? You need to tell us what

850
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:08,839
Speaker 3: it says.

851
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:16,359
Speaker 1: Ah, I'll tell you specifically what she says. It says

852
00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 1: to listen with headphones. But okay, she's whispering you are

853
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:26,840
Speaker 1: money magnet.

854
00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:28,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, keep going.

855
00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:39,799
Speaker 1: You were grateful for the ways money finds you. You

856
00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 1: manage your money.

857
00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:47,839
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, that's funny that they're subliminally putting that in

858
00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:49,919
Speaker 2: and then finally at the end admitting what they've said

859
00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:50,120
Speaker 2: to you.

860
00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:52,880
Speaker 3: And what if what if you were to hear it

861
00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:54,839
Speaker 3: and you listened for like two hours at the end,

862
00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:57,360
Speaker 3: it was like, kill three people, kill three people, And

863
00:36:57,400 --> 00:37:00,239
Speaker 3: the whole time it's been saying kill three people, not.

864
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:05,920
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you got it. They say to when you're

865
00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:08,720
Speaker 1: listening to something subliminally, like right now, I'm just listening

866
00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:10,319
Speaker 1: to it through my phone, but you have to have

867
00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:14,959
Speaker 1: the headphones in so that you hear it. Says listen

868
00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:20,760
Speaker 1: with headphones to receive the benefit of the binural beats.

869
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:25,960
Speaker 9: The word uh by neural b I N A U

870
00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:27,360
Speaker 9: R A L E.

871
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 3: Would you spell out see it?

872
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:34,239
Speaker 1: And then it gives you affirmations you can read through Okay,

873
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:34,960
Speaker 1: let's see.

874
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:37,920
Speaker 2: It's an audio stimulation where two slightly different tones are

875
00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:41,240
Speaker 2: played into each ear, so it's playing to h creating

876
00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:43,400
Speaker 2: an auditory illusion of a third tone.

877
00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:45,279
Speaker 3: Perl Jam has an album called that Dude, What the

878
00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:45,919
Speaker 3: heck are you into?

879
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:50,320
Speaker 1: Any No, I'm not. I think I had such fear

880
00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 1: of money, so who knows if this is.

881
00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:53,759
Speaker 3: Really talking about the money.

882
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:55,360
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, like, you found a thing that's like

883
00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:57,799
Speaker 2: playing two different voices in your head that sounds like

884
00:37:57,800 --> 00:37:59,600
Speaker 2: a third and it's you're not even hearing it. You're

885
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:01,840
Speaker 2: hearing a water but they're secretly playing. What if you

886
00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:03,919
Speaker 2: don't even know what they're secretly saying? And they never

887
00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:06,640
Speaker 2: admitted at the end, But it's like subscribe to our program,

888
00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:07,560
Speaker 2: but that part never.

889
00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:11,279
Speaker 1: Is shared therapy. Cap makes fun of me because she

890
00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:13,680
Speaker 1: said that because I pay money for this.

891
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 3: More for money on our program.

892
00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:20,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, She's like, you pay monthly for this app that

893
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:23,080
Speaker 1: like gives you. But I can do that's just under

894
00:38:23,200 --> 00:38:28,840
Speaker 1: wealth and prosperity. I can do self development, relationships, business

895
00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:31,080
Speaker 1: growth and expansion, health and wellness, Like you can pick

896
00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:34,520
Speaker 1: a category, but that one's I like to listen to

897
00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:36,360
Speaker 1: the money one because I had such a fear of

898
00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:39,440
Speaker 1: money for so long, mostly because of my dad, and

899
00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:43,120
Speaker 1: I'm trying to unlearn a lot of my subconscious thoughts

900
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 1: about money. So this is one of the ways. And

901
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:48,880
Speaker 1: I listen to it like when I'm going to bed,

902
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:51,680
Speaker 1: like when I'm in a state of sleep, because they

903
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:54,680
Speaker 1: say when you're winding down, your brain goes into more

904
00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:57,000
Speaker 1: of a delta mode, and that's when you want subliminals

905
00:38:57,120 --> 00:39:00,839
Speaker 1: because it can it's a different wavelength your brain is on.

906
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:03,400
Speaker 1: That's that part of science that I know. This sounds cuckoo.

907
00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:05,920
Speaker 3: But no, not cuckoo. I just about thirty seconds ago

908
00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:06,359
Speaker 3: checked out.

909
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:09,799
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but.

910
00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:11,279
Speaker 3: But mostly no, mostly you kept us going okay, So

911
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:13,280
Speaker 3: then yeah, I'm.

912
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:15,160
Speaker 1: Just letting you know. I don't know. I'm just trying to.

913
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:16,960
Speaker 4: You know.

914
00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:18,920
Speaker 1: That particular one is called money magnetism.

915
00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:21,440
Speaker 2: The other thing that somebody listens to is Eddye. He

916
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:22,680
Speaker 2: listens to like hip hop Bible.

917
00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:23,760
Speaker 5: Yeah.

918
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:24,600
Speaker 3: Oh yeah.

919
00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:26,680
Speaker 7: It's a Bible app and you can do different kind

920
00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:29,200
Speaker 7: of versions of it, so you can have like traditional like.

921
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:30,880
Speaker 3: It sounds like an apostle, like do you have it?

922
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:32,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, Because because Eddie was listened to the other day

923
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:33,920
Speaker 2: and I was like, what are you listening to?

924
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:35,719
Speaker 3: And he was like the Bible. And the guy was like, yo,

925
00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 3: to check it out. You had Rick Joseph. Not that bad.

926
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:40,520
Speaker 3: It's not that bad.

927
00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:43,719
Speaker 7: But they use normal words, right, like normal words like yeah,

928
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:46,759
Speaker 7: Jesus was bored, so he like hung out the river and.

929
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:48,680
Speaker 1: He got bored.

930
00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:52,960
Speaker 3: He's just he's it's exampling example example.

931
00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:58,160
Speaker 6: Rivers of Babylon. He set and wept as we thought

932
00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:02,799
Speaker 6: of Jerusalem. We put away our harps.

933
00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:05,440
Speaker 7: I mean this Old Testament, it's probably not going to

934
00:40:05,480 --> 00:40:06,879
Speaker 7: be so let me see.

935
00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:08,120
Speaker 3: That's what I was listening. I was listening to Old

936
00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:11,640
Speaker 3: Testament test with a beat. Yeah we need a little

937
00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:16,200
Speaker 3: more possessed was spoken word. Yeah kind of, but like yeah,

938
00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:17,839
Speaker 3: I did. I did have one that had a beat. No,

939
00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:19,040
Speaker 3: I know that's the one I heard. I don't know

940
00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 3: where that was. You know who was right? You know

941
00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:24,520
Speaker 3: who was wrong? It wasn't Matthew, Mark, Mark Luke or Dawn.

942
00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:25,960
Speaker 3: And I was like, dang, dude, play that.

943
00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:26,200
Speaker 1: Uh.

944
00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:29,919
Speaker 3: It started with like that's what Eddie's listening to. Yeah,

945
00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:30,719
Speaker 3: I can't find it right now.

946
00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:34,080
Speaker 2: But and then also sublimely, it goes spend more money,

947
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:38,799
Speaker 2: spend more money. I went to acupuncture yesterday because I'm

948
00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:43,040
Speaker 2: trying to do anything possible to sleep and sleep better.

949
00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:44,080
Speaker 3: I don't sleep well.

950
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 2: This has been the worst season two years of my

951
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:49,640
Speaker 2: life when it comes to sleep, and sleep is so

952
00:40:49,680 --> 00:40:51,919
Speaker 2: important and I've done everything. I have the perfect bed.

953
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:55,080
Speaker 2: I'm trying to my sleep hygiene. That's now a thing.

954
00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 2: And so I went to get acupuncture yesterday. And I

955
00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:01,720
Speaker 2: also I can sleep in the daytime, it's just nighttime.

956
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:03,719
Speaker 2: And so it's a couple of things. One, I think

957
00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:05,440
Speaker 2: it's anxiety because I wake up in the middle of the night,

958
00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:09,240
Speaker 2: like because I don't feel I have anxiety in the daytime.

959
00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:11,560
Speaker 2: I never felt I had anxiety. I'm like, anxiety, I

960
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:13,880
Speaker 2: don't have that, But I think it manifests itself at

961
00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:18,800
Speaker 2: night because I'm so focused, worried, dedicated to what's happening

962
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:21,560
Speaker 2: the next day. But anxiety is like trying to predict

963
00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:22,600
Speaker 2: the future, which you can't do.

964
00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:26,200
Speaker 3: And so I'm like, I got that.

965
00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:29,520
Speaker 2: And then I kind of have some still PTSD stuff,

966
00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:30,760
Speaker 2: some safety stuff from back.

967
00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:31,000
Speaker 3: In the day.

968
00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:34,759
Speaker 2: I got jumped at work, I got you know, held

969
00:41:34,760 --> 00:41:36,600
Speaker 2: at gunpoint at a work event. If I have a

970
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:38,200
Speaker 2: house broken into, so a lot of that stuff, the

971
00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:39,799
Speaker 2: safet stuff still happens where I've got to go.

972
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:41,920
Speaker 3: And then I take pictures.

973
00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:43,399
Speaker 2: Now of when I lock the door, so I don't

974
00:41:43,440 --> 00:41:44,799
Speaker 2: have to like go back and retrace it, because I

975
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:46,319
Speaker 2: have pictures on my phone every single time I lock

976
00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:48,239
Speaker 2: all the doors. So all my pictures in my phone

977
00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 2: at night are like nine door locks. And so cause

978
00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:52,240
Speaker 2: I used to have to get up if I couldn't

979
00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:54,520
Speaker 2: remember me locking every single door, because I would go

980
00:41:54,560 --> 00:41:57,520
Speaker 2: back to my head and go remember, remember, remember, Now

981
00:41:57,520 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 2: I take a picture every single time I lock the door,

982
00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:01,000
Speaker 2: so I know, I look my phone, all right, got

983
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:02,080
Speaker 2: nine there, They're all locked.

984
00:42:02,120 --> 00:42:03,000
Speaker 3: Don't have to get back up.

985
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:05,839
Speaker 2: So I'm doing all this stuff because it's anxiety meets

986
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:07,640
Speaker 2: kind of PTSD.

987
00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:09,080
Speaker 3: There's a lot of letters.

988
00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:13,440
Speaker 2: And so tried accupuncture yesterday, and I've tried acupuncture for

989
00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:17,719
Speaker 2: injuries before, but never Eastern medicine for uh, you know,

990
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:19,520
Speaker 2: psychological issues.

991
00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:22,799
Speaker 3: And so I go in, we have a little talk.

992
00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:24,279
Speaker 3: I lay down.

993
00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:27,279
Speaker 2: She puts a couple of needles in my foot, a

994
00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:30,960
Speaker 2: couple of needles in my side. She does like she's like,

995
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:33,680
Speaker 2: pull your shirt up, and I'm like, oh man, I

996
00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:36,960
Speaker 2: want to touch my stomach. That's not my that's not

997
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:37,799
Speaker 2: my grossest part.

998
00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:38,040
Speaker 3: You know.

999
00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:40,279
Speaker 2: It's like and also have a scar there with scar

1000
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:44,080
Speaker 2: tissue and so but I whatever I'm in don't need

1001
00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:44,880
Speaker 2: to be self conscious.

1002
00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:46,560
Speaker 3: Uh. So she puts those in me and then she

1003
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:50,719
Speaker 3: shuts three in my ear. Let's hurt, no, but but

1004
00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:54,160
Speaker 3: you feel them going in a couple, but they don't hurt.

1005
00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:57,520
Speaker 5: You're like so le little holes. Like when they take

1006
00:42:57,560 --> 00:42:58,440
Speaker 5: them out, like you don't have.

1007
00:42:58,360 --> 00:42:59,680
Speaker 1: A little like it's so temy.

1008
00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:03,160
Speaker 3: Yeah. So they're long because they don't want to lose them.

1009
00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:04,000
Speaker 5: Oh that's probably good.

1010
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:05,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, And they have little things on the end of them.

1011
00:43:06,360 --> 00:43:07,799
Speaker 3: They forget to take one. It was like a ribbon

1012
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:08,759
Speaker 3: on the end, so they know it is.

1013
00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:12,239
Speaker 2: So she's like, okay, she put like seven in me.

1014
00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:14,600
Speaker 2: Seven eight, I'm not sure. And then she's like, okay,

1015
00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:16,360
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna leave you here for like thirty minutes,

1016
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:17,880
Speaker 2: and she walked out and then she walked in like

1017
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:19,520
Speaker 2: thirty seconds later, and I was like, wait what, I

1018
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:20,480
Speaker 2: fell asleep like that.

1019
00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:24,120
Speaker 1: You see remember that one time I missed a podcast

1020
00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:26,360
Speaker 1: because I was at acupuncture. Now you see how easy

1021
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:27,000
Speaker 1: that happened, but.

1022
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:28,919
Speaker 3: You already have no problems sleeping during the day.

1023
00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:30,719
Speaker 2: Yes, and I would have had an alarm and I

1024
00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:33,120
Speaker 2: wouldn't have gone if I had something right afterward. Yeah, okay,

1025
00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:35,400
Speaker 2: I finished a podcast. We had just finished the podcast

1026
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 2: with John Morgan.

1027
00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:36,680
Speaker 1: Well, good for you.

1028
00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:39,719
Speaker 3: You went after I went responsibly, and.

1029
00:43:39,719 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 5: I think you forgot about your podcast. It wasn't that

1030
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:42,640
Speaker 5: you overslept it.

1031
00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:44,400
Speaker 1: I just had no idea I was going to lay

1032
00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:46,120
Speaker 1: there for two hours, but he said that he thought

1033
00:43:46,160 --> 00:43:47,640
Speaker 1: my body needed it, and I was.

1034
00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:51,960
Speaker 2: Like, well, okay, that's not of that person to just

1035
00:43:51,960 --> 00:43:53,759
Speaker 2: to go. Your body needs two hours, even though we

1036
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:56,000
Speaker 2: haven't discussed two hours, because who knows.

1037
00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:59,200
Speaker 3: What you have whatever. So I feel like that story

1038
00:43:59,239 --> 00:44:00,360
Speaker 3: probably isn't super accurate.

1039
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:01,000
Speaker 1: It is accurate.

1040
00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:02,799
Speaker 3: He just let you sleep for two hours without you saying.

1041
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:05,600
Speaker 1: All I know is like you went to sleep like that.

1042
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:06,840
Speaker 5: Well, she walked back in.

1043
00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:08,279
Speaker 3: I was like, that was it. She was like, you've

1044
00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:09,520
Speaker 3: been asleep for thirty eight minutes.

1045
00:44:09,560 --> 00:44:10,320
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

1046
00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:11,520
Speaker 9: Yeah, so that's great.

1047
00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:12,680
Speaker 3: I fell asleep in fifteen seconds.

1048
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:14,120
Speaker 1: So can she come over and do that to you

1049
00:44:14,160 --> 00:44:17,440
Speaker 1: right before bed? Maybe that's interesting.

1050
00:44:18,160 --> 00:44:18,680
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1051
00:44:18,760 --> 00:44:19,600
Speaker 5: Your wife would like that.

1052
00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:23,279
Speaker 3: I don't know, don't I don't know. I don't think so.

1053
00:44:23,560 --> 00:44:25,680
Speaker 1: Oh well, because it sounds like it helped you fall

1054
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:26,640
Speaker 1: asleep quickly.

1055
00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:29,920
Speaker 3: Also went to her office, so but no, yeah, I

1056
00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:31,319
Speaker 3: fell asleep. I laid there.

1057
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:33,120
Speaker 2: She was like, you can turn on a podcast or

1058
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:35,440
Speaker 2: she goes a lot of our people listen to money meditation.

1059
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:39,120
Speaker 2: But I was like, no, good, I'm just gonna lay

1060
00:44:39,120 --> 00:44:41,160
Speaker 2: here for a minute. I needed to like get my

1061
00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:42,400
Speaker 2: I had.

1062
00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:44,279
Speaker 3: Some thought working to do anyway about work.

1063
00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:47,359
Speaker 2: Literally, I remember going, yeah, we do that, and then

1064
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:48,839
Speaker 2: she's walked back in the room and I was out.

1065
00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:50,319
Speaker 3: I don't know if that was it, if I was

1066
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:52,960
Speaker 3: just super tired or a mixture boat or what it.

1067
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:55,879
Speaker 1: Was, but yeah, well that's awesome. Sounds like it did

1068
00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:56,719
Speaker 1: what it was supposed to do.

1069
00:44:56,760 --> 00:44:59,000
Speaker 2: I've had acupuncture before, we get mostly for injury, and

1070
00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:00,799
Speaker 2: I didn't have the greatest exp with it. It wasn't

1071
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:03,279
Speaker 2: a bad experience, but I didn't really feel like it

1072
00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:05,520
Speaker 2: had helped. But I probably didn't do it as much

1073
00:45:05,520 --> 00:45:06,080
Speaker 2: as I should have.

1074
00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:08,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you have to be consistent.

1075
00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:12,239
Speaker 3: So anyway, that was it. Is there anything we can

1076
00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:13,800
Speaker 3: do for your therapy your.

1077
00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:17,040
Speaker 2: Trauma absolutely in my life easier. Yeah, Like, well, come in,

1078
00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:19,440
Speaker 2: greet me with a smile, maybe some breakfast, Okay, a

1079
00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:22,440
Speaker 2: little shoulder rub, like after each segment, one of you

1080
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:23,799
Speaker 2: guys go back to me, a little neck rub.

1081
00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:26,440
Speaker 3: Individual you could take time, Okay, start with lunchbox, We'll

1082
00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:26,640
Speaker 3: do that.

1083
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:27,520
Speaker 5: I'm out on that.

1084
00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:28,080
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah.

1085
00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:31,399
Speaker 7: So uh because like I'm doing therapy with my son

1086
00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:34,960
Speaker 7: or whatever, and the you know, the therapist is like,

1087
00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:37,560
Speaker 7: let's work on the parents first, because I'm like, no,

1088
00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 7: but I don't have the problem.

1089
00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 3: Oh whoa, whoa, whoa.

1090
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:43,960
Speaker 7: That is the problem, right right, So that was my

1091
00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:46,239
Speaker 7: first reaction, like well but he's like no, no, no, like

1092
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:49,080
Speaker 7: you you have to work on how you treat the

1093
00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:52,080
Speaker 7: person with trauma because you may be doing the wrong things,

1094
00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:54,080
Speaker 7: you know, to trigger certain things.

1095
00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:55,480
Speaker 3: And I'm like this is amazing.

1096
00:45:55,480 --> 00:45:57,759
Speaker 7: And the whole time he's talking, he's talking about my son,

1097
00:45:57,800 --> 00:46:00,200
Speaker 7: but I'm thinking about Bobby. So I'm like, all right, like,

1098
00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:00,879
Speaker 7: what can we.

1099
00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:01,560
Speaker 1: Do that's a problem.

1100
00:46:01,640 --> 00:46:05,400
Speaker 2: That problem? No, because his hit your son, I'm assuming

1101
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:08,280
Speaker 2: your adopted son, Yes, had a lot of similar issues

1102
00:46:08,440 --> 00:46:11,240
Speaker 2: very child that I had as a child, so very.

1103
00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:13,600
Speaker 3: Similar and you know what they were. They were unfair

1104
00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:14,560
Speaker 3: and making that joke about it here.

1105
00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:16,319
Speaker 7: Yeah, you walk with you, man, So what can we do?

1106
00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:19,560
Speaker 7: You think tell to me not the back row? Like, yeah,

1107
00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:20,279
Speaker 7: what else can we do?

1108
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:20,680
Speaker 3: Nothing?

1109
00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:24,359
Speaker 2: Because it's not based on you guys, but we are

1110
00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:27,439
Speaker 2: your people now. But there's a reason my therapist says, hey, bro,

1111
00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 2: be late, and I'm like, I'm like no, He's like,

1112
00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:33,600
Speaker 2: be late because you will realize if you're late a

1113
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:35,719
Speaker 2: few times, the whole world doesn't come crashing down. That's

1114
00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:38,000
Speaker 2: the first step in all of your struggles. You think,

1115
00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:41,120
Speaker 2: because you've had success regimented, the only way you can

1116
00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:44,000
Speaker 2: have success is regimented success. And you have built such

1117
00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:46,319
Speaker 2: a regiment that you think that is the only way

1118
00:46:46,360 --> 00:46:48,600
Speaker 2: to do it, and you have built an unhealthy regiment

1119
00:46:48,680 --> 00:46:51,440
Speaker 2: because you must stay to it regardless of how your health.

1120
00:46:51,239 --> 00:46:53,560
Speaker 1: Is well since you've been advised to do that. How

1121
00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:54,560
Speaker 1: many times have you been late?

1122
00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:56,440
Speaker 3: Zero? I've tried.

1123
00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:57,040
Speaker 5: I got here.

1124
00:46:57,360 --> 00:46:59,520
Speaker 3: I got here once only like five minutes early. But

1125
00:46:59,560 --> 00:47:02,200
Speaker 3: that's late early still. But that was pushing it.

1126
00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:05,319
Speaker 1: I know. But don't you think if you're paying a

1127
00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:07,880
Speaker 1: professional to give you advice, you should try to try it?

1128
00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:11,000
Speaker 2: Out and it's resonated with me, and I've thought about

1129
00:47:11,000 --> 00:47:15,520
Speaker 2: it and I haven't not tried it. One morning, I

1130
00:47:15,560 --> 00:47:17,400
Speaker 2: was like, you know what, I'm gonna set my alarm

1131
00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:19,320
Speaker 2: a little later. The problem is, my alarm never wakes

1132
00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:22,600
Speaker 2: me up. Maybe once every two months do I make

1133
00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:25,480
Speaker 2: it to my alarm because I wake up forty five

1134
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:29,120
Speaker 2: minutes an hour before my alarm like this, Yeah, oh god, Okay,

1135
00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:31,520
Speaker 2: well I got it today. What's today the time? Okay,

1136
00:47:31,520 --> 00:47:34,680
Speaker 2: we're gonna be scheduled this, okay, got it's.

1137
00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:35,359
Speaker 3: And then I'm up.

1138
00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:37,839
Speaker 2: So I set my alarm later, even though I never

1139
00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:41,359
Speaker 2: got to it, as a gesture to myself of I'm

1140
00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 2: going to in case it happens, give you a little

1141
00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:45,920
Speaker 2: more lead weight. So yeah, I'm taking small steps toward it.

1142
00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:49,480
Speaker 2: But yeah, there's nothing you can do because it's built within.

1143
00:47:49,880 --> 00:47:51,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't want us to be later or anything.

1144
00:47:51,719 --> 00:47:53,680
Speaker 3: We can be late for you, you guys, being late will

1145
00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:54,160
Speaker 3: make it worse.

1146
00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:58,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll give me anxiety, anger, upsetness.

1147
00:47:57,680 --> 00:47:59,400
Speaker 3: But you'll also know that the world's not going to

1148
00:47:59,440 --> 00:48:01,480
Speaker 3: fall apart if you're late.

1149
00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:02,920
Speaker 2: I'm fine. I could do the whole show with none

1150
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:05,319
Speaker 2: of you here, right, right, but I can do that. Oh,

1151
00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:07,560
Speaker 2: but you think that if you're late the show will

1152
00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:07,960
Speaker 2: not go on.

1153
00:48:08,640 --> 00:48:10,280
Speaker 1: But you said if we're late and it makes it worse.

1154
00:48:10,600 --> 00:48:12,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, if you're late, I'm like, why are you freaking late?

1155
00:48:12,600 --> 00:48:14,000
Speaker 1: You're well, yeah, I don't want to be late.

1156
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:16,759
Speaker 3: I'm definitely not gonna be late. There's only been one

1157
00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:19,160
Speaker 3: person that's been late at all the past two years.

1158
00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:22,000
Speaker 3: I mean sure, are you sure?

1159
00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:22,279
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1160
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:24,719
Speaker 3: Are you positive? Yeah?

1161
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:25,560
Speaker 5: Okay, Morgan?

1162
00:48:25,680 --> 00:48:25,960
Speaker 3: Is it you?

1163
00:48:27,800 --> 00:48:30,560
Speaker 1: There was one day I got a time wrong, but

1164
00:48:30,680 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 1: I don't think I was late.

1165
00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:34,280
Speaker 3: Ever, that's correct.

1166
00:48:34,800 --> 00:48:35,759
Speaker 5: I know it wouldn't me so.

1167
00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:38,920
Speaker 1: So I don't think so.

1168
00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:41,720
Speaker 3: But I don't know Abby.

1169
00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:43,720
Speaker 4: Nothing.

1170
00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:48,120
Speaker 2: I know of Ray probably tomorrow now had a boy

1171
00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:49,759
Speaker 2: definitely not Ray though, definitely not right.

1172
00:48:49,840 --> 00:48:50,640
Speaker 3: Okay, who do you guys think?

1173
00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:50,880
Speaker 4: It is?

1174
00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:51,360
Speaker 3: One person?

1175
00:48:51,800 --> 00:48:52,440
Speaker 1: Do you know this?

1176
00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:53,040
Speaker 3: Do you know?

1177
00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:56,319
Speaker 1: Bobby? How do you know?

1178
00:48:56,680 --> 00:48:59,279
Speaker 2: I've been attached to it and I've been trying to

1179
00:48:59,320 --> 00:49:00,440
Speaker 2: not attach myself to it.

1180
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:02,080
Speaker 1: Who what is it?

1181
00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:03,960
Speaker 2: I've been attached to it, and I've been trying to

1182
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:05,759
Speaker 2: release it and not care about it.

1183
00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:07,680
Speaker 1: And this has happened in the last two years.

1184
00:49:08,080 --> 00:49:09,760
Speaker 3: You've been thinking about this for two years man.

1185
00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:12,400
Speaker 1: And you've been trying to release it. We can have

1186
00:49:12,400 --> 00:49:14,440
Speaker 1: a ceremony. You could release.

1187
00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:18,080
Speaker 2: It, because I don't think it's fair to everybody else

1188
00:49:18,120 --> 00:49:23,440
Speaker 2: when someone else doesn't do and isn't I shouldn't.

1189
00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:25,359
Speaker 1: Well, of course not. I mean, but I don't think

1190
00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:28,439
Speaker 1: anybody here is ever No. I intentionally trying to.

1191
00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:32,880
Speaker 3: Okay, Mike, I'm gonna write this down, okay, and I

1192
00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:36,960
Speaker 3: want you to see it. And you're looking at you.

1193
00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:39,880
Speaker 4: He's like, correct to mine, I feel like it could be.

1194
00:49:41,360 --> 00:49:42,400
Speaker 3: Correct. Correct.

1195
00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:44,759
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1196
00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:48,759
Speaker 5: Ah, oh, I know what it is?

1197
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:51,240
Speaker 1: Is it you?

1198
00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 5: No, it's you?

1199
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:53,520
Speaker 3: What I do you?

1200
00:49:54,200 --> 00:49:54,880
Speaker 5: It was Amy?

1201
00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:58,359
Speaker 3: I'm not saying who it is. And I'm just trying

1202
00:49:58,360 --> 00:50:00,800
Speaker 3: to release it's what time? How do you release it?

1203
00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:01,960
Speaker 3: If you don't say it?

1204
00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:04,640
Speaker 1: Wait, you've been holding on to something I did for

1205
00:50:04,920 --> 00:50:08,000
Speaker 1: nobody said, he's saying it? What did I do?

1206
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:08,760
Speaker 5: It's Amy?

1207
00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:09,120
Speaker 3: For sure?

1208
00:50:09,239 --> 00:50:09,359
Speaker 2: Like?

1209
00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:10,880
Speaker 5: Amy?

1210
00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:11,719
Speaker 1: What did I do?

1211
00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:14,240
Speaker 5: You know?

1212
00:50:15,400 --> 00:50:18,480
Speaker 3: I don't challenging her to find it.

1213
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:21,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm challenging you to find it, Amy, Like I'm.

1214
00:50:21,400 --> 00:50:23,319
Speaker 2: Not saying it was I'm not even saying it was you.

1215
00:50:23,400 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 2: But if it is, you find it.

1216
00:50:26,680 --> 00:50:28,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe you need to release it.

1217
00:50:28,320 --> 00:50:29,279
Speaker 3: Maybe you need to.

1218
00:50:29,920 --> 00:50:33,320
Speaker 1: Address probably had to release it already because otherwise it

1219
00:50:33,360 --> 00:50:34,520
Speaker 1: would keep me up at night.

1220
00:50:34,719 --> 00:50:36,759
Speaker 3: So I'm not even saying it is you, by the way,

1221
00:50:36,800 --> 00:50:37,480
Speaker 3: but if it was.

1222
00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:39,440
Speaker 1: Me, I'm telling you I would have to release it

1223
00:50:39,440 --> 00:50:41,359
Speaker 1: because it would loop in my head over and over.

1224
00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:43,040
Speaker 1: And I do a lot of brain therapy too, and

1225
00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:44,840
Speaker 1: I probably was like, hey, there's this one thing I

1226
00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:46,440
Speaker 1: was late. I need you don't wipe it from my

1227
00:50:47,160 --> 00:50:53,319
Speaker 1: brain because I would feel horrible about that.

1228
00:50:53,600 --> 00:50:55,840
Speaker 3: Are you sure it's Amy? Would you bet money it

1229
00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:56,080
Speaker 3: t is?

1230
00:50:56,440 --> 00:51:02,560
Speaker 2: But like, okay, this seventy dollars up here? Would you

1231
00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:03,520
Speaker 2: bet seventy dollars?

1232
00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:03,920
Speaker 3: Okay?

1233
00:51:04,040 --> 00:51:05,280
Speaker 1: Oh wow, he's confident.

1234
00:51:05,520 --> 00:51:06,280
Speaker 3: So was that a bet?

1235
00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:07,399
Speaker 1: Where was it?

1236
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:10,239
Speaker 3: I mean, this is your task. I don't think he

1237
00:51:10,280 --> 00:51:12,600
Speaker 3: wants to say anymore. Is your I will say this?

1238
00:51:15,080 --> 00:51:15,720
Speaker 3: It was Amy?

1239
00:51:16,520 --> 00:51:17,239
Speaker 1: What was it?

1240
00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:17,799
Speaker 5: I mean?

1241
00:51:18,440 --> 00:51:19,080
Speaker 1: And you've been.

1242
00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:21,120
Speaker 3: Holding mike when I said it time? Now you remember?

1243
00:51:21,160 --> 00:51:24,319
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, think about it. I remember, Amy. I

1244
00:51:24,360 --> 00:51:27,319
Speaker 3: remember the three times I've been late, like clear as.

1245
00:51:27,239 --> 00:51:29,960
Speaker 1: Day, but in the last two years, like I haven't,

1246
00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:31,840
Speaker 1: I know that there was a time where I was

1247
00:51:31,920 --> 00:51:36,160
Speaker 1: late ten years ago, real bad, and.

1248
00:51:36,120 --> 00:51:39,399
Speaker 3: I shouldn't be as fixated on somebody being a little bit.

1249
00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:44,560
Speaker 1: Late, that this was in the last two years. He

1250
00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:47,839
Speaker 1: said that, Yeah, I know, you're like I. The one

1251
00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:48,480
Speaker 1: I can.

1252
00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:51,880
Speaker 3: Remember was okay, it was in the last year.

1253
00:51:53,880 --> 00:51:57,000
Speaker 5: Where Amy maybe don't tell her, don't tell her.

1254
00:51:56,880 --> 00:51:57,560
Speaker 3: Morgan, do you know?

1255
00:51:58,160 --> 00:52:01,279
Speaker 5: No, you don't know. How do you guys not know?

1256
00:52:03,200 --> 00:52:04,120
Speaker 1: Was it in the studio?

1257
00:52:04,239 --> 00:52:07,240
Speaker 7: I don't worry about other people's like, okay yet problem,

1258
00:52:07,280 --> 00:52:12,280
Speaker 7: that's good opp buddy's release.

1259
00:52:12,719 --> 00:52:14,520
Speaker 1: There's there is something I'm thinking of.

1260
00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:15,840
Speaker 3: But I don't know that this will make you.

1261
00:52:17,360 --> 00:52:20,160
Speaker 4: When she got locked in her room, No, no, I

1262
00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:20,600
Speaker 4: didn't know.

1263
00:52:20,719 --> 00:52:22,360
Speaker 2: Because if you're late, you have a flat tire. If

1264
00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:27,320
Speaker 2: you're late in your yeah account, like life is okay.

1265
00:52:27,560 --> 00:52:29,680
Speaker 2: If life happens, it's absolutely okay.

1266
00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:31,240
Speaker 3: That's the only one I could think.

1267
00:52:31,120 --> 00:52:32,880
Speaker 1: About with me getting locked in my bedroom. That was

1268
00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:34,360
Speaker 1: life happening, tire.

1269
00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:37,000
Speaker 5: So, Bobby, are you ready to let it go or no?

1270
00:52:37,200 --> 00:52:38,239
Speaker 3: I've mostly let it go.

1271
00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:41,000
Speaker 1: Well, I would like to talk through it so we

1272
00:52:41,040 --> 00:52:41,680
Speaker 1: can let it go.

1273
00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:42,520
Speaker 5: You're gonna have to.

1274
00:52:42,600 --> 00:52:44,359
Speaker 2: You're gonna have to remember, though, because I don't want

1275
00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:45,520
Speaker 2: to bring it and present it.

1276
00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:47,239
Speaker 3: Why because it's not worth it.

1277
00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:49,520
Speaker 5: Do you know, do you want me to.

1278
00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:53,919
Speaker 1: Present it wouldn't give me a hint. If I knew,

1279
00:52:53,960 --> 00:52:56,879
Speaker 1: I would say, honestly, guys, this is one of those

1280
00:52:56,920 --> 00:52:59,799
Speaker 1: things that maybe I had to be like.

1281
00:53:00,320 --> 00:53:01,080
Speaker 3: And I think that's great.

1282
00:53:01,239 --> 00:53:04,520
Speaker 1: Maybe I like this too, shall pass? Like I certainly

1283
00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:05,040
Speaker 1: you know what?

1284
00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:14,080
Speaker 3: I released it? Hold on, release sick it? I can't

1285
00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:16,799
Speaker 3: really it could America Americans?

1286
00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:22,160
Speaker 1: Okay, what what can you tell me this? What was

1287
00:53:22,600 --> 00:53:23,120
Speaker 1: my reason?

1288
00:53:23,280 --> 00:53:23,640
Speaker 4: Or was it?

1289
00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:25,960
Speaker 2: Like I didn't have a good one. I love that

1290
00:53:26,120 --> 00:53:28,399
Speaker 2: it wasn't a good reason because I know exactly.

1291
00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:29,920
Speaker 3: Everything behind it, and it was not a good reason.

1292
00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:33,839
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'd say it wasn't a good reason either.

1293
00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:39,919
Speaker 3: Release. Ay, you can do this?

1294
00:53:40,960 --> 00:53:41,680
Speaker 1: No, I can't.

1295
00:53:41,960 --> 00:53:42,360
Speaker 3: You can't.

1296
00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:42,480
Speaker 6: No.

1297
00:53:42,640 --> 00:53:44,760
Speaker 7: I'm like, I'll never forget the time me and Lunchbox

1298
00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:46,680
Speaker 7: thought about bailing his car on the bridge because we're

1299
00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:47,239
Speaker 7: gonna be late.

1300
00:53:47,440 --> 00:53:49,120
Speaker 5: Like you gotta remember.

1301
00:53:48,840 --> 00:53:50,759
Speaker 1: That one time I got a flat tyrant and called

1302
00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:52,480
Speaker 1: you Eddie and I'm like, have you hit the highway yet?

1303
00:53:52,520 --> 00:53:54,200
Speaker 1: And You're like no, I said, pull over, pick me up.

1304
00:53:54,239 --> 00:53:55,680
Speaker 1: I got a flat tire and I just left. I

1305
00:53:55,719 --> 00:53:57,840
Speaker 1: abandoned my car on the side of the road so

1306
00:53:57,920 --> 00:53:58,920
Speaker 1: that I wasn't going to be late.

1307
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:03,480
Speaker 8: Literally, me and Eddie We're going to run to the

1308
00:54:03,560 --> 00:54:05,920
Speaker 8: convention center. It was like a C C M A

1309
00:54:06,040 --> 00:54:06,800
Speaker 8: faster or whatever.

1310
00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:08,000
Speaker 5: And I was like, did we just got to leave

1311
00:54:08,000 --> 00:54:09,320
Speaker 5: the car? There's too much trying the bridge.

1312
00:54:09,400 --> 00:54:12,560
Speaker 1: I'm getting nauseous. So can you just tell me, like,

1313
00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:16,240
Speaker 1: just tell me it's making it? No, it's not, okay,

1314
00:54:16,440 --> 00:54:17,640
Speaker 1: you literally said not.

1315
00:54:18,320 --> 00:54:18,799
Speaker 3: In any way.

1316
00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:21,040
Speaker 2: I've just been attached to it a bit, but I

1317
00:54:21,040 --> 00:54:23,040
Speaker 2: haven't been like holding it. It's not in my guts

1318
00:54:23,080 --> 00:54:27,160
Speaker 2: and I'm not. I'm not upset about it. I if no, No,

1319
00:54:27,239 --> 00:54:31,680
Speaker 2: if anything, I'm trying to allow myself to grow beyond it,

1320
00:54:31,719 --> 00:54:33,040
Speaker 2: which is kind of why it doesn't matter.

1321
00:54:33,360 --> 00:54:35,480
Speaker 1: So was I just like later or did I give

1322
00:54:35,520 --> 00:54:36,200
Speaker 1: you a heads up?

1323
00:54:37,000 --> 00:54:38,399
Speaker 5: You were just late? Yeah?

1324
00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:39,680
Speaker 3: Heads up?

1325
00:54:39,719 --> 00:54:42,120
Speaker 5: Man weird.

1326
00:54:44,400 --> 00:54:47,520
Speaker 3: He knows for sure how he's talking about it.

1327
00:54:47,640 --> 00:54:50,760
Speaker 1: He knows was in an event.

1328
00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:52,319
Speaker 3: We shall say nothing nothing more.

1329
00:54:52,440 --> 00:54:57,640
Speaker 8: Nomber he's not there, heard start talking about it.

1330
00:54:57,640 --> 00:55:00,120
Speaker 1: He was out, Okay, gosh, just say this is we

1331
00:55:00,160 --> 00:55:01,400
Speaker 1: do have to go though, this is amazing.

1332
00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:04,200
Speaker 3: We have to go where I have to go from this.

1333
00:55:04,400 --> 00:55:05,319
Speaker 5: Oh, you don't want to be late.

1334
00:55:05,640 --> 00:55:06,399
Speaker 3: I don't want to be late.

1335
00:55:07,200 --> 00:55:10,280
Speaker 1: Okay, well, now now I need a book acupuncture because

1336
00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:13,480
Speaker 1: now I have the anxiety years ago.

1337
00:55:13,360 --> 00:55:16,560
Speaker 2: Good myself releasing it because it doesn't matter. Let me

1338
00:55:16,719 --> 00:55:18,520
Speaker 2: let me work through my own problems.

1339
00:55:18,520 --> 00:55:21,560
Speaker 1: Okay, can y'all just say what it is? Please?

1340
00:55:22,400 --> 00:55:24,760
Speaker 3: Hey Eddie, let me tell you what it is. Okay,

1341
00:55:24,760 --> 00:55:33,319
Speaker 3: Maybe maybe my memory will come yeah, oh I remember this?

1342
00:55:33,600 --> 00:55:34,279
Speaker 4: What? Oh?

1343
00:55:34,520 --> 00:55:35,319
Speaker 3: I remember this?

1344
00:55:35,560 --> 00:55:36,439
Speaker 1: Where was this?

1345
00:55:37,280 --> 00:55:39,799
Speaker 3: Maybe it's weird? And do you remember going? Like what

1346
00:55:39,880 --> 00:55:40,520
Speaker 3: the Yeah?

1347
00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:42,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, I ain't scuba remembers.

1348
00:55:44,280 --> 00:55:46,160
Speaker 3: But I feel like she's gonna have an excuse.

1349
00:55:46,880 --> 00:55:49,840
Speaker 2: I know for a fact. Excuse does not work. Okay,

1350
00:55:49,960 --> 00:55:51,319
Speaker 2: if there is an excuse, but it doesn't matter to

1351
00:55:51,360 --> 00:55:57,000
Speaker 2: me because a maybe tomorrow think about it.

1352
00:55:57,000 --> 00:55:58,440
Speaker 1: Okay, so you don't mean to sleep tonight.

1353
00:55:58,480 --> 00:55:59,880
Speaker 3: Cool, you get a bonus if you think it. If

1354
00:55:59,880 --> 00:56:02,200
Speaker 3: you're remember it tomorrow, you're going to sleep tonight. All right,

1355
00:56:02,239 --> 00:56:05,200
Speaker 3: thank you? Everybody. We do have to go. Uh do

1356
00:56:05,280 --> 00:56:06,720
Speaker 3: you have an episode of your podcast up today?

1357
00:56:07,040 --> 00:56:08,520
Speaker 1: What is today? Yes?

1358
00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:09,080
Speaker 3: Thursday?

1359
00:56:09,880 --> 00:56:12,399
Speaker 1: Yes, we have a couch Talks. A listener wrote in

1360
00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:16,960
Speaker 1: because a male supervisor said she probably shouldn't do part

1361
00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:19,560
Speaker 1: of her job because she's a woman, or he didn't

1362
00:56:19,560 --> 00:56:20,840
Speaker 1: want her to be assigned to because he is a

1363
00:56:20,880 --> 00:56:22,920
Speaker 1: woman and she didn't know how to talk with him.

1364
00:56:22,960 --> 00:56:25,279
Speaker 1: So Kat, my therapist co host, she gave her some

1365
00:56:25,320 --> 00:56:29,080
Speaker 1: advice on how to have a confrontation with him.

1366
00:56:29,440 --> 00:56:32,520
Speaker 3: A carefrontation. That's what we're having, a confrontation because that.

1367
00:56:32,520 --> 00:56:36,719
Speaker 1: Doesn't feel like it feels like more of like a subtle.

1368
00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:39,919
Speaker 2: Literally no no, no, no conversation at all. It literally does

1369
00:56:39,960 --> 00:56:41,319
Speaker 2: not bother I'm attached to it, but.

1370
00:56:41,520 --> 00:56:43,080
Speaker 3: It doesn't bother me on.

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00:56:45,400 --> 00:56:46,880
Speaker 1: Something for release.

1372
00:56:48,160 --> 00:56:49,320
Speaker 3: All right, we have to go. We will see you

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Speaker 3: guys tomorrow. By everybody,