WEBVTT - féi: A Telenovela Love Story 0:00:06.000 --> 0:00:10.960 If you had to define swag or swagger, what would 0:00:10.960 --> 0:00:14.520 you say to our listeners are Awalita's definitions of. 0:00:14.480 --> 0:00:21.600 That mainly is that Jones sequa, you know that particular 0:00:22.120 --> 0:00:28.040 style groove, just how that person defines themselves in a 0:00:28.080 --> 0:00:30.720 way that when they walk into a room, I mean, 0:00:30.760 --> 0:00:32.360 they take everyone's breath away. 0:00:32.720 --> 0:00:33.720 Do you think I have swag? 0:00:34.520 --> 0:00:36.880 You have total swag? I mean, I know those doors 0:00:36.880 --> 0:00:40.320 are locked so nobody busts in. But I'm gonna tell 0:00:40.320 --> 0:00:42.000 that is so funny that you would say that. Because 0:00:42.040 --> 0:00:44.400 I was thinking to myself, I said, Alita, do you 0:00:44.440 --> 0:00:45.440 still have swag? 0:00:45.680 --> 0:00:48.800 I have seen you sprut this studio. I have seen 0:00:48.840 --> 0:00:52.160 you stand up next to me and show your swagger. 0:00:52.479 --> 0:00:55.320 You definitely have that. I think we're both swaggy people 0:00:55.400 --> 0:00:59.600 for sure. I say this because our main data today 0:01:00.120 --> 0:01:02.920 has a lot of thoughts on the topic as she 0:01:03.160 --> 0:01:07.520 is looking for someone swaggy to flank her. I wonder 0:01:07.600 --> 0:01:11.679 if anyone with that hella swag as they say in 0:01:11.760 --> 0:01:15.520 Northern California, is going to come into Aulita's house today 0:01:15.720 --> 0:01:17.160 and see if they can win your. 0:01:17.040 --> 0:01:19.240 Heart, and that would be so nice. 0:01:19.440 --> 0:01:24.040 Welcome listeners, This is Dave Alita First, we our cupid 0:01:24.200 --> 0:01:30.240 Awilitalilana plays matchmaker for one hopeful main dater. She'll meet 0:01:30.480 --> 0:01:33.840 three lucky contestants before sending one of them off on 0:01:33.920 --> 0:01:37.080 a one on one date with our incredible main dater. 0:01:37.600 --> 0:01:41.200 I'm your host, the Vico Ortiz, joined by the ever 0:01:41.520 --> 0:01:43.400 stunning Auilita. 0:01:45.040 --> 0:01:49.040 Ever stunning. Oh my goodness, gracious, love love love love love. 0:01:49.280 --> 0:01:51.840 Okay, So who's coming to Alilita's house today? 0:01:52.960 --> 0:01:56.800 Our main data this week is Fay. Fay is thirty 0:01:57.160 --> 0:02:02.200 and very thoughtful, very funny, and famously defines herself as 0:02:02.240 --> 0:02:06.560 a hood so we'll of course be asked the question 0:02:06.680 --> 0:02:10.720 answer her later. Absolutely. They is a self employed artist 0:02:10.800 --> 0:02:17.440 of varying strokes. We got writing, visual arts and clothing designing. 0:02:17.720 --> 0:02:23.200 She also does coaching and reiki. Oh Fay loves hood 0:02:23.320 --> 0:02:26.959 and swag energy, back to that swagger and they want 0:02:26.960 --> 0:02:30.040 to find a bobby. Oh what's up to watch her 0:02:30.120 --> 0:02:34.440 mommy vibe? Yes please. They are described by close friends 0:02:34.440 --> 0:02:38.799 as having Belen Awena main character energy and Faye is 0:02:38.880 --> 0:02:41.240 looking for the home and you'll get to explore life 0:02:41.240 --> 0:02:43.799 with what. I don't think we'll run out of things 0:02:43.800 --> 0:02:45.600 to talk about today. I think we got it going. 0:02:45.840 --> 0:02:50.560 Well, that sounds absolutely like a shining start. So we 0:02:50.639 --> 0:02:52.799 need to find her somebody really really nice. 0:02:52.880 --> 0:02:56.200 Oh yeah, and we will. Let's go ahead. They come 0:02:56.240 --> 0:03:05.440 on Ina Salah to join us. Say hello, oh my god, 0:03:05.639 --> 0:03:07.760 we are so glad to have you here on day 0:03:07.880 --> 0:03:10.960 my Alida first. So we know a bit about your 0:03:11.160 --> 0:03:13.600 obviously we were at a little bio, but nothing like 0:03:13.680 --> 0:03:17.799 hearing it from yourself. Tell us what myself and that 0:03:18.000 --> 0:03:20.480 need to know about you to find that perfect match. 0:03:21.440 --> 0:03:25.000 Yeah, for sure. So I'm you know, I've always just 0:03:25.000 --> 0:03:28.480 been trying to be real perfect and really polished, but 0:03:28.800 --> 0:03:31.840 I'm breaking free and just being like my true self. 0:03:32.360 --> 0:03:35.000 I've been doing a lot of work with unmasking, and 0:03:35.280 --> 0:03:38.120 you know, I feel this fiery energy in me around 0:03:38.240 --> 0:03:42.040 like being seen receiving what I know I deserve. It's 0:03:42.120 --> 0:03:45.080 really important for my person to be able to like 0:03:45.240 --> 0:03:47.680 keep up and you know, have their own thing going, like, 0:03:47.840 --> 0:03:50.440 you know, be independent. You know, I'm trying to not 0:03:50.520 --> 0:03:53.040 be the only light, like I really just want to 0:03:53.040 --> 0:03:54.280 shine with somebody else. 0:03:54.800 --> 0:03:56.400 I want to know a little bit more of what 0:03:56.840 --> 0:04:02.160 started that journey of wanting to unmap and what drew 0:04:02.200 --> 0:04:05.360 you to just be more honest with yourself and also 0:04:05.920 --> 0:04:08.120 wanting other people in your life that are in that 0:04:08.160 --> 0:04:11.080 same wavelength so they can see you and celebrate you 0:04:11.200 --> 0:04:13.600 and witness you as who you are and you can 0:04:13.640 --> 0:04:14.640 do the same thing for them. 0:04:15.360 --> 0:04:19.120 Yeah, So regarding unmasking, like I mentioned, my life is 0:04:19.120 --> 0:04:22.200 a telenovela, and so I was in a really crappy 0:04:22.360 --> 0:04:25.440 car accident that left me with the concussion, and along 0:04:25.520 --> 0:04:27.719 the way of my healing, which took like about a 0:04:27.760 --> 0:04:30.599 year and a half, my mom was like, hey, your 0:04:30.640 --> 0:04:34.000 behavior is shifting a little bit to how you would 0:04:34.040 --> 0:04:36.720 act as a kid. We were undocumented, so we didn't 0:04:36.760 --> 0:04:40.320 have access to insurance and healthcare. She's like, you should 0:04:40.360 --> 0:04:42.560 go get checked out. And I was like, checked out? 0:04:42.600 --> 0:04:45.200 What do you mean? So she was implying that she 0:04:45.320 --> 0:04:48.480 felt like I was probably on the spectrum and maybe 0:04:48.520 --> 0:04:52.000 the concussion put down my walls, like literally my threshold 0:04:52.120 --> 0:04:55.440 could no longer perform. So like I was putting on 0:04:55.480 --> 0:04:57.880 a show of who I thought Fay was. And so 0:04:58.160 --> 0:05:00.480 upon this car accident lo and behind, oh, I'm a 0:05:00.560 --> 0:05:04.320 high functional autistic person. And that's where my journey began, 0:05:04.560 --> 0:05:07.520 taking off my mask, all of those layers of who 0:05:07.560 --> 0:05:09.479 I thought I had to be for my family, for 0:05:09.560 --> 0:05:12.880 my friends, in partnerships, et cetera. And I was able 0:05:12.920 --> 0:05:15.560 to just get to this like raw space of like 0:05:16.240 --> 0:05:18.240 this is who I am, right, Like I don't have 0:05:18.320 --> 0:05:21.120 to keep performing, I don't have to be anything I 0:05:21.120 --> 0:05:24.120 don't want to be. And so it's literally changed my life. 0:05:24.120 --> 0:05:27.000 I feel like I'm alive for the first time. This 0:05:27.040 --> 0:05:29.839 all happened two years ago, and so it's been this 0:05:30.320 --> 0:05:34.440 gorgeous unfurling. I feel like a mystery to myself and 0:05:34.480 --> 0:05:35.440 it's exciting. 0:05:35.920 --> 0:05:37.760 Now, when was your last relationship? 0:05:38.279 --> 0:05:40.480 It's been a minute, a man, and what's a minute? 0:05:40.520 --> 0:05:41.240 What's a minute? 0:05:41.440 --> 0:05:44.200 Like four years before the accident. 0:05:44.080 --> 0:05:46.440 How long was that relationship for It was sure. 0:05:46.520 --> 0:05:48.520 I mean we were just dating at the time, and 0:05:48.760 --> 0:05:51.640 dating is a concept that's challenging for me. But yeah, 0:05:51.680 --> 0:05:54.599 so that was the last main, main relationship. But the 0:05:54.680 --> 0:05:57.799 longest relationships I've been in have been like two years, 0:05:58.120 --> 0:05:59.760 but that was way way back. 0:06:00.279 --> 0:06:02.320 What are some things that you have learned from those 0:06:02.360 --> 0:06:04.400 relationships that you want to be like, no, I want 0:06:04.400 --> 0:06:06.960 to continue that, And what are some things that you're like, actually, 0:06:07.080 --> 0:06:08.720 I did that that didn't really work for. 0:06:08.640 --> 0:06:12.159 Me obviously, Like the unmasking. I know my faults in 0:06:12.480 --> 0:06:16.120 not being honest and how that created tensions that were 0:06:16.120 --> 0:06:19.479 probably unnecessary. There's no tin, no shade on any of 0:06:19.480 --> 0:06:21.720 my exes. I feel very grateful that I was able 0:06:21.720 --> 0:06:25.240 to experience them. The good things from those relationships were 0:06:25.640 --> 0:06:28.560 the closeness that we experienced, Like there was, like you know, 0:06:28.600 --> 0:06:32.200 a lot of intimacy that I think could have conqutized 0:06:32.279 --> 0:06:35.279 into a friendship, which I think was lacking because of 0:06:35.320 --> 0:06:38.000 the masking. So I think it's a two way answer, 0:06:38.080 --> 0:06:41.520 right where I crave that intimacy and that closeness, and 0:06:41.560 --> 0:06:43.440 now I have the tools to be able to build 0:06:43.480 --> 0:06:45.599 a friendship with the person that I want to be 0:06:45.680 --> 0:06:48.160 with so that we can be real, so that we're 0:06:48.200 --> 0:06:51.200 not kind of dictated by these expectations. Like we're in 0:06:51.200 --> 0:06:53.320 a relationship now, so this is what I have to do, 0:06:53.360 --> 0:06:54.719 and this is what you need to do. It's like 0:06:54.960 --> 0:06:56.960 let's dance, you know what I mean, Like I really 0:06:57.000 --> 0:06:58.200 want to dance with somebody. 0:06:59.720 --> 0:07:04.440 Well, since you are so adventurous and like so many things, 0:07:04.440 --> 0:07:07.840 you're a pretty busy bee. You are doing a lot 0:07:07.880 --> 0:07:09.920 of stuff. Do you want your partner to have all 0:07:10.040 --> 0:07:13.400 those same attributes? And join in with you. Would you 0:07:13.520 --> 0:07:14.720 like them to be different? 0:07:15.360 --> 0:07:18.640 I like difference. I think difference is striking to me. 0:07:18.840 --> 0:07:21.920 It stimulates me, and I think that's really important for me. 0:07:22.400 --> 0:07:25.480 But I've dated people that are on similar realms as 0:07:25.480 --> 0:07:28.120 I am, and I mean I feel equally stimulated. So 0:07:28.160 --> 0:07:30.680 I think it's more about that swag, right, or like 0:07:30.760 --> 0:07:33.760 the energy of like, oh I can learn from this person, 0:07:33.880 --> 0:07:35.640 Like that's really exciting to me. 0:07:36.040 --> 0:07:39.840 Well, that swag word has come up one more time again, 0:07:40.400 --> 0:07:45.440 and with it comes the hooda what is the hood? 0:07:45.520 --> 0:07:47.480 Creatura? You belonged to the hood. 0:07:48.200 --> 0:07:52.000 Yeah, so actually the title of my first full length 0:07:52.040 --> 0:07:55.080 poetry collection, and I titled it that because I grew 0:07:55.120 --> 0:07:57.360 up in the hood. But I'm such a dork and 0:07:57.440 --> 0:08:00.720 I'm such this that has a We's just been this 0:08:00.840 --> 0:08:04.120 queer little essence, like, you know, walking up and down 0:08:04.160 --> 0:08:07.120 these little tolitos with their long shorts and their high 0:08:07.160 --> 0:08:09.360 socks and their slides, and it's just me with my 0:08:09.480 --> 0:08:13.000 bang and like piercings and just you know, being super 0:08:13.080 --> 0:08:15.440 emo and tagging on the walls. You know, there was 0:08:15.480 --> 0:08:19.600 this beautiful, gorgeous contrast that I wanted to emulate in 0:08:19.680 --> 0:08:22.760 my experiences growing up and documented growing up queer in 0:08:23.000 --> 0:08:26.640 Inglewood specifically, And so I think this title is just 0:08:27.160 --> 0:08:28.680 the perfect combination. 0:08:29.120 --> 0:08:29.880 I love that. 0:08:30.040 --> 0:08:31.880 Did I just hear you say Inglewood? 0:08:32.080 --> 0:08:33.680 The three one oh? Look at my necklace? 0:08:33.760 --> 0:08:34.000 Yeah? 0:08:34.000 --> 0:08:37.600 Oh yeah, I'm a three one oh girl too. So 0:08:37.640 --> 0:08:39.800 that must have been tough, and your poetry got you 0:08:39.880 --> 0:08:40.480 right out of it. 0:08:41.040 --> 0:08:43.960 Yeah. Literally, it was my saving grace and it was 0:08:44.000 --> 0:08:46.800 my way of also commemorating the city that built me, 0:08:46.920 --> 0:08:49.840 you know, like I wouldn't be who I am without Inglewood. 0:08:49.880 --> 0:08:52.480 So there's always so much gratitude for black folks to 0:08:52.679 --> 0:08:55.440 other immigrant folks who I grew up with, you know, 0:08:55.480 --> 0:08:58.680 not just Mexican immigrants, but like from all over. 0:08:58.880 --> 0:09:00.640 We are all over exactly. 0:09:00.760 --> 0:09:01.959 It's my little love letter. 0:09:02.800 --> 0:09:03.000 We know. 0:09:03.040 --> 0:09:06.800 We talked about navigating dating from the lens of unmasking 0:09:06.800 --> 0:09:09.880 when it comes to our mental health, and the things 0:09:09.960 --> 0:09:13.920 have shifted right As a fellow you know, trans, non binary, dender, 0:09:13.960 --> 0:09:18.400 expansive person, my transness has also been a big influence 0:09:18.600 --> 0:09:22.000 in how I have been able to access what my 0:09:22.080 --> 0:09:24.920 needs are and what my wants are, both for myself 0:09:24.960 --> 0:09:27.360 and in relationship. And I want to learn more about 0:09:27.440 --> 0:09:28.720 how that has been for you. 0:09:29.200 --> 0:09:29.480 Yeah. 0:09:29.520 --> 0:09:33.320 So I started hormones last year and I feel amazing, 0:09:35.840 --> 0:09:38.600 thank you, thank you. So I feel great. I just 0:09:38.640 --> 0:09:43.160 recently started t blockers, so my body is changing, shifting, adapting, 0:09:43.200 --> 0:09:46.680 and I feel more embodied than ever before. Literally, I 0:09:46.720 --> 0:09:50.640 feel like I see the world and color and it's phenomenal. So, 0:09:51.040 --> 0:09:53.760 you know, my autism and my transness and being in 0:09:53.800 --> 0:09:58.560 this conjunct experience of unmasking and unfurling has been, oh 0:09:58.600 --> 0:10:01.840 my god, a gift from the universe. And so I 0:10:01.880 --> 0:10:04.680 think in the context of relationships, right, like you know, 0:10:04.760 --> 0:10:07.160 I'm talking about the hood and the swagger, and that's 0:10:07.160 --> 0:10:11.360 also like, in a way, like a normative experience, right, 0:10:11.440 --> 0:10:14.440 and I'm not existing in that. And so I think 0:10:14.559 --> 0:10:16.840 what I look for or what I hope to just 0:10:16.880 --> 0:10:19.320 be able to connect with folks around is like being 0:10:19.360 --> 0:10:22.240 able to hold multitudes. Like, you know, a lot of 0:10:22.520 --> 0:10:26.199 men who I know wanted me, you know, but couldn't 0:10:26.280 --> 0:10:28.480 do it was because their perception of me was like, oh, 0:10:28.520 --> 0:10:32.640 you're not a woman, you're not enough, you're not this. 0:10:33.120 --> 0:10:36.320 And you know, I'm just always looking for brave souls 0:10:36.400 --> 0:10:40.120 who are willing to just say like nah, love comes first, 0:10:40.200 --> 0:10:42.600 like whatever it is that you look like whether you 0:10:42.679 --> 0:10:44.679 look like how I look right now. 0:10:44.520 --> 0:10:45.880 Or which is gorgeous? 0:10:46.360 --> 0:10:47.000 High you. 0:10:49.040 --> 0:10:52.040 Serving some looks, just saying love the haircut? 0:10:52.200 --> 0:10:53.920 Yeah, guessing me up too much? 0:10:55.520 --> 0:10:58.719 Well, thank you so much, Fay. We are so excited 0:10:58.840 --> 0:11:02.600 to find you a wonderful human being to shine alongside you. 0:11:03.040 --> 0:11:05.600 With that said, let's go ahead and meet these contestants. 0:11:06.720 --> 0:11:12.200 We'll be back after the break. Welcome back today, Malani. 0:11:11.800 --> 0:11:15.200 The first Welcome. 0:11:15.320 --> 0:11:20.480 Welcome contestant, all on my lovely, lovely contestants. I'm thrilled 0:11:20.480 --> 0:11:22.240 to meet you all and let's have some fun. 0:11:22.320 --> 0:11:25.720 Huh yes, absolutely, thank you for joining us today. Let's 0:11:25.880 --> 0:11:31.880 start with James Zach. James is described as funny ones. 0:11:31.920 --> 0:11:38.080 They defrost and there is incredibly solid calm and won't 0:11:38.120 --> 0:11:41.360 activate your nervous system. I need you in my life, Jeames, 0:11:42.280 --> 0:11:44.120 I activate my own nervous system. 0:11:45.640 --> 0:11:46.440 Amen to that. 0:11:47.840 --> 0:11:51.000 They believe in making connections that fit the shape of 0:11:51.040 --> 0:11:53.800 the container. I'm very curious about how that looks like, 0:11:54.320 --> 0:11:57.720 and are interested in dating someone who understands the mind 0:11:57.960 --> 0:12:01.600 body connection and has a good sense of humor. Hells Yas. 0:12:02.120 --> 0:12:04.720 They're based in the Bay Area, but whenever they go 0:12:04.800 --> 0:12:08.319 out to do karaoke for a friend's birthday, they'll pull 0:12:08.440 --> 0:12:12.000 out a little country music and tribute up their home 0:12:12.040 --> 0:12:15.840 state of Montana. We are so happy to have you, James. 0:12:15.840 --> 0:12:17.320 Welcome James. 0:12:17.400 --> 0:12:18.960 Yeah good, thanks for having me. 0:12:19.400 --> 0:12:20.400 Very nice having you. 0:12:20.679 --> 0:12:22.640 Who's our next wonderful contestant? 0:12:22.880 --> 0:12:28.200 Our next wonderful special contestant is Saran. Saran is a 0:12:28.320 --> 0:12:33.960 multi media artist which includes writing and photography, and they 0:12:34.000 --> 0:12:38.760 are currently putting finishing touches on a short film script, 0:12:38.800 --> 0:12:43.839 Hellsia and a multi media book project, Gosh Yes. They 0:12:43.880 --> 0:12:47.920 are passionate about reading hot and also love to sit 0:12:47.960 --> 0:12:50.240 atop a big mountain and be in nature. 0:12:50.400 --> 0:12:50.760 Mmmm. 0:12:50.920 --> 0:12:53.679 That sounds so lovely. They grew up in d C 0:12:54.520 --> 0:12:57.120 and because their parents separate it when they were young, 0:12:57.480 --> 0:13:00.720 they learned from an early age that love is not enough. 0:13:00.920 --> 0:13:06.000 I align with that. I don't. They want to know 0:13:06.160 --> 0:13:09.559 what's the vibe, what's the material reality, and how does 0:13:09.559 --> 0:13:11.960 it overlap with someone? Hell's the app I mean you 0:13:12.000 --> 0:13:15.040 are filled with wisdom, Surna. I'm very excited to get 0:13:15.040 --> 0:13:23.360 to know you. Yes, and finally meet Leo. Leo is 0:13:23.400 --> 0:13:26.079 a self professed You're gonna love this. I would eat 0:13:26.080 --> 0:13:28.160 that grandma's boy wow. 0:13:28.559 --> 0:13:29.839 Wow. 0:13:32.760 --> 0:13:36.400 His grandma lives in the Philippines and he wants to 0:13:36.440 --> 0:13:39.760 get her blessing about any long term partner, so I 0:13:39.800 --> 0:13:45.160 would eat that some tough competition. Yeah, Leo is attracted 0:13:45.200 --> 0:13:49.600 to folks with what he would say is just enough softness, 0:13:49.760 --> 0:13:56.640 just enough cowboy and also boss bitch fems I mean yes. 0:13:57.240 --> 0:14:01.160 He works in an astrology app company, very intrigued so 0:14:01.520 --> 0:14:04.480 knows enough to point to his mars libra as why 0:14:04.520 --> 0:14:08.520 he loves to pine and long. He is also an 0:14:08.760 --> 0:14:11.680 adult performance content maker. 0:14:11.480 --> 0:14:12.800 I want to know about that, I want to know 0:14:12.800 --> 0:14:14.920 about that. I want to know about me too. 0:14:15.440 --> 0:14:19.680 And has a podcast where he interviews other Cuiti bipod. 0:14:20.440 --> 0:14:25.360 We love to hear that. Absolutely say hello Leo and nice. 0:14:25.160 --> 0:14:25.560 To meet you. 0:14:27.320 --> 0:14:30.880 Nice meeting you all, contestants. We're very excited to have 0:14:30.920 --> 0:14:33.520 you here today and we're looking forward to seeing how 0:14:33.600 --> 0:14:37.400 you do in these games and to see if one 0:14:37.440 --> 0:14:40.360 of you could be a match for our main dater. 0:14:41.240 --> 0:14:44.560 Is that exciting? Show me some excitement. 0:14:44.040 --> 0:14:49.240 Now, I'm very very excited to start with our first game. 0:14:49.560 --> 0:14:51.320 Choey. Let's do it. 0:14:52.720 --> 0:14:57.200 All right, contestants. So for our first game, we want 0:14:57.240 --> 0:15:01.880 to see how perceptive you are without having a lot 0:15:01.920 --> 0:15:07.200 of information. This is a Wilita testing your intuition. And 0:15:07.600 --> 0:15:11.360 while we believe in clarity and communication on date my 0:15:11.440 --> 0:15:16.280 Alaia First, especially on this episode, we still choose to 0:15:16.280 --> 0:15:21.400 play with them with this game called assumptions. What we're 0:15:21.440 --> 0:15:26.480 gonna ask you is to make an assumption of another contestant. So, 0:15:26.720 --> 0:15:29.880 for example, I can make an assumption about Akalita. 0:15:30.160 --> 0:15:35.160 It me you love animals, and then Awalita would tell 0:15:35.200 --> 0:15:38.320 me if I read her for filth or if I 0:15:38.360 --> 0:15:39.560 got her totally wrong. 0:15:39.760 --> 0:15:42.200 Well, I was married five times, so yeah, I. 0:15:42.160 --> 0:15:43.280 Do, so you do. 0:15:45.440 --> 0:15:47.880 I love that my assumption was pretty grated and you 0:15:48.040 --> 0:15:52.680 just like took it to a whole other live. This 0:15:52.720 --> 0:15:55.200 is also gonna help Awalita know how you interact with 0:15:55.240 --> 0:15:58.360 each other and all that jazz, so you know, have fun, 0:15:58.400 --> 0:15:59.160 be yourselves. 0:15:59.360 --> 0:16:01.680 Oh let's go the first Yeah, go for it. 0:16:01.840 --> 0:16:03.200 Who do you want to start? 0:16:03.400 --> 0:16:08.400 Sarn? Can you make an assumption about Leo? 0:16:09.040 --> 0:16:14.080 Yes, I am going that Leo has just moved into 0:16:14.120 --> 0:16:17.000 their place recently given back the art on the walls. 0:16:18.480 --> 0:16:21.480 You're right, very right, I love it. 0:16:22.080 --> 0:16:22.400 Leo. 0:16:22.720 --> 0:16:25.520 Make an assumption about James. 0:16:26.840 --> 0:16:30.160 Given your virtual background, I feel like you've definitely watched 0:16:30.240 --> 0:16:31.520 Broke Back Mountain. 0:16:33.160 --> 0:16:37.560 Among many other great cowboy classics. But of course, yes, yes, 0:16:37.600 --> 0:16:39.120 it kind of looks like they're kissing, doesn't it. 0:16:39.160 --> 0:16:43.480 Oh yeah, James, background on this zoom call is a 0:16:43.480 --> 0:16:48.440 beautiful icy mountain with two cowboys wearing hats right in 0:16:48.480 --> 0:16:51.640 front of it, two thick mustachios, and they are so 0:16:52.080 --> 0:16:55.400 close to touching lips. It's giving yearning. 0:16:55.960 --> 0:16:57.160 Yeah, the tens is palpable. 0:16:57.280 --> 0:16:59.880 James make an assumption about Saram. 0:17:00.560 --> 0:17:02.520 I mean, the easy thing is the lush plants in 0:17:02.600 --> 0:17:05.840 the background. And then I'm also drawn to your clothing. 0:17:06.240 --> 0:17:10.880 There's like a really like homegrown artistical approach to you overall. 0:17:10.920 --> 0:17:13.760 Do you make your own clothes at all? You tailor anything? 0:17:13.960 --> 0:17:15.280 Is there is that part of your life? 0:17:15.760 --> 0:17:19.240 I do not make my uncles. It is one of 0:17:19.280 --> 0:17:20.880 the many hobbies I would. 0:17:20.640 --> 0:17:21.280 Like to start. 0:17:22.000 --> 0:17:24.399 But I did get you back from Vietnam where I 0:17:24.440 --> 0:17:26.000 got close custom made. 0:17:26.160 --> 0:17:29.280 Oh my gosh, okay, we gon story. 0:17:29.560 --> 0:17:30.520 How long were you there? 0:17:30.920 --> 0:17:32.200 I was on Vieta for two weeks. 0:17:32.320 --> 0:17:35.040 You like shopping up? We need to go shop Instagram. 0:17:35.119 --> 0:17:36.359 I will never tell you not to buy it. 0:17:36.400 --> 0:17:37.120 And that's ugly. 0:17:37.119 --> 0:17:38.600 If it's cute, I will tell you to buy it. 0:17:38.640 --> 0:17:42.800 Alrighty, then well that's that first round. Now I want 0:17:42.880 --> 0:17:46.080 all of y'all to make assumptions on a Wailita. Why 0:17:46.160 --> 0:17:49.920 not make an assumption on Awelita first? 0:17:50.359 --> 0:17:53.080 Given as you said, she's been made five times, I'm 0:17:53.080 --> 0:17:55.160 gonna assume she loves to have a good time. 0:17:55.440 --> 0:18:00.200 That's an amen. That's an amen. Absolutely, You're so right, James. 0:18:00.480 --> 0:18:01.680 Make an assumption Aharita. 0:18:02.320 --> 0:18:05.320 You love to be sort of like the life of 0:18:05.359 --> 0:18:08.639 a conversation. And I get that impression. You're just a 0:18:08.680 --> 0:18:13.080 really sociable, fun happy person. I'm not just buttering you up. 0:18:13.880 --> 0:18:16.520 Thank you, James. I like that. And yes, I will 0:18:16.520 --> 0:18:18.119 continue to be the life of the party and the 0:18:18.160 --> 0:18:20.920 conversation until the day I die. That's a life commitment. 0:18:21.119 --> 0:18:25.440 I love that. Okay, you are nailing it, Leo last, 0:18:25.440 --> 0:18:28.520 but not Les. What's your assumption on a Wilita? 0:18:29.320 --> 0:18:31.960 All right? Well, I see that on your desk you 0:18:32.200 --> 0:18:36.840 kind of have it disarray. There's maybe crumpled up tissue paper. 0:18:36.960 --> 0:18:41.280 I see like paperwork everywhere. Their glasses are pretty quirky, 0:18:41.320 --> 0:18:44.359 So you're giving me very artistic cookie vibes. I can 0:18:44.440 --> 0:18:47.200 see you like in an art studio in the dark, 0:18:47.840 --> 0:18:50.600 either painting away or writing a manuscript. I just see 0:18:50.600 --> 0:18:52.960 you as someone who's super fashionable and artistic. 0:18:54.119 --> 0:18:56.520 Can I take them all home? That's what I wanted 0:18:56.560 --> 0:19:02.640 to do main day to who No, thank you so much. Well, 0:19:02.760 --> 0:19:05.680 I am an actor in a stand up comic and yeah, 0:19:05.760 --> 0:19:09.280 I love anything that is beauty and creativity, So thank 0:19:09.320 --> 0:19:11.480 you all for being so kind to me. I appreciate it. 0:19:12.520 --> 0:19:16.960 Right, So it's time to play another game before we 0:19:17.160 --> 0:19:20.400 sadly have to let one of you go. So let's 0:19:20.440 --> 0:19:21.400 do that next one. 0:19:21.560 --> 0:19:22.880 Okay, So here's the thing. 0:19:23.119 --> 0:19:27.360 Our main data today has been described by friends as 0:19:27.440 --> 0:19:34.040 having the Lenovela main character energy, so yeah, very Importantante. 0:19:35.240 --> 0:19:39.120 So for our second game, we're gonna throw out some 0:19:39.760 --> 0:19:44.240 wild Lenovela situations at you and you will give us 0:19:44.480 --> 0:19:51.760 your swaggiest response, show off that swag. But Alita still 0:19:51.800 --> 0:19:54.080 wants to make sure that you would behave well for 0:19:54.160 --> 0:19:54.800 our main dater. 0:19:55.560 --> 0:19:56.160 Bring it. 0:19:56.160 --> 0:20:02.200 It's about that balance, the balance. So let's your partner 0:20:02.560 --> 0:20:08.639 had a clone evil twin very classic because of course 0:20:08.680 --> 0:20:12.239 they do, and you didn't know about the clone, so 0:20:12.320 --> 0:20:18.000 you have been accidentally sleeping with your partner's evil identical 0:20:18.520 --> 0:20:23.520 twin sibling. What do you do when you get confronted? 0:20:23.760 --> 0:20:24.760 How about you, Leo? 0:20:25.040 --> 0:20:27.280 What would you do? What's your swag? You response to this? 0:20:27.960 --> 0:20:30.119 Maybe you know I only have eyes for you. I 0:20:30.359 --> 0:20:32.439 never took off their clones, so I couldn't see that 0:20:32.680 --> 0:20:35.520 they didn't have the birthmark that only you have. But 0:20:35.720 --> 0:20:37.080 truly I only have eyes for you. 0:20:37.600 --> 0:20:42.560 Okay, okay, and in character, thank you. 0:20:42.600 --> 0:20:45.760 With y'all, thank you so much. Okay, Now, James, what 0:20:45.800 --> 0:20:46.239 would you do? 0:20:46.840 --> 0:20:49.679 Your whole person may be duplicated, but our love cannot be. 0:20:49.840 --> 0:20:53.280 Please forgive me and go on a big, you know, 0:20:53.400 --> 0:20:54.400 reparations tour. 0:20:55.680 --> 0:21:00.840 I'm gonna use the hashtag reparations tour. Very nice. Yeah, 0:21:00.880 --> 0:21:04.399 what's your swagger response to this wild scenario? 0:21:06.080 --> 0:21:08.879 I'm so sorry I should have done because you always 0:21:08.880 --> 0:21:09.760 take sweeter. 0:21:12.200 --> 0:21:16.679 Sweeter, oh my god, and it's like compliment and then 0:21:16.760 --> 0:21:19.760 throwing shade on the evil twin. I'm obsessed. 0:21:20.680 --> 0:21:23.879 Okay, let's move on to our next telenove La scenario. 0:21:24.400 --> 0:21:27.800 Imagine that you're sweetie is planning a huge party for 0:21:27.880 --> 0:21:32.640 your birthday. It's slavish, it's fancy, all the things they 0:21:32.760 --> 0:21:36.840 love but you hate. You've agreed to it because you 0:21:36.960 --> 0:21:40.440 know it'll make them happy, and you like making them happy. 0:21:41.040 --> 0:21:43.640 Now it's the day of the party. But oh no, 0:21:44.240 --> 0:21:47.160 on top of the party being so over the top, 0:21:47.760 --> 0:21:51.720 you arrive early only to find out that to steer 0:21:51.920 --> 0:21:57.879 some shit up, you're sweetie has invited all of your exes, 0:21:58.359 --> 0:22:02.480 and I mean all of them, even the ones you 0:22:02.560 --> 0:22:06.399 never talked to anymore, All of your exes, James, what 0:22:06.480 --> 0:22:07.400 are you going to do? 0:22:07.960 --> 0:22:12.440 My swaggy response would be like, uh, thank you, because 0:22:12.480 --> 0:22:14.719