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Speaker 2: I think I would be really disappointed.

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Speaker 1: You think you would be the disappointed? That's interesting?

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Speaker 2: Okay, I think I'm a catch?

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Speaker 3: Hey, Hi, how are you?

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Speaker 1: You don't happen to work in the waste management industry?

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Speaker 1: Something in common. This is lunched.

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Speaker 2: It of the show, not of waste management. You know

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Speaker 3: So? I guess I should start by saying that, you know,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's changed, sure nowadays everything is this? Is this

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Speaker 3: The first one and you know it was online?

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Speaker 2: Oh, this is the very first one.

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Speaker 1: Whoa lot of pressure, old man? Who's the person that

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Speaker 3: Her name is Tanya and uh, I don't want to

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Speaker 2: Let's say, Okay, that always sounds like it's a lot younger. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm put I'm pushing forty. But I was excited.

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Speaker 3: So we met up for dreams, just to get to

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Speaker 1: That's really weird. Why would she do that?

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Speaker 3: That's what I was wondering, you know, because it's like

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Speaker 4: Hardy wait, like I'm thinking you're a recently divorced guy,

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Speaker 3: Worried about exactly that pictures or you know, no, it's clean,

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Speaker 1: So she just left after that, and you have you

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 3: And I tried texting, calling, whatever.

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Speaker 4: And the thing is on this one, you need to

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Speaker 3: And that's a good point. I want the feedback.

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Speaker 1: To maybe Tanya took out her phone and googled what

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, thank you, I'm a little nervous. Thank you though,

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Speaker 1: All right, hold on, man, second date update. You know,

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Speaker 1: But while she was talking to me, one of the

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Speaker 1: Oh man, So to all the ladies on the textboard

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Speaker 4: I'm just not going to order it.

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Speaker 4: You ready, yes, Oh my god, I've been thinking about it.

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Speaker 4: Maybe it's because you offered her wine instead of Alexis's

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Speaker 2: I'm out.

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Speaker 3: I wish I knew what it is.

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Speaker 1: Maybe she was worried that you were going to card her.

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Speaker 2: No, she's going to get kicked down.

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Speaker 1: But only one way to find out is by just

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Speaker 5: Here we go.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, and.

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Speaker 1: Remember this is Mike's first online date that he's ever

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Speaker 1: Here we go. It's called Tanya.

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Speaker 5: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hey, is this Tanya?

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Speaker 5: Yes, mister she.

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Speaker 1: Hey Tanya, how's it going on? My name is Jeff

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Speaker 1: from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 5: Oh, I've never been called by a radio, so you

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Speaker 1: I do these awesome parody songs every week. Have you

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Speaker 1: heard about them? Young Jeffrey song of the Week.

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Speaker 5: I may have heard it, but I wouldn't be able

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Speaker 1: Don't be intimidated.

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Speaker 2: He's not going to sing to you if it makes

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Speaker 1: The real reason that we're calling is because we're doing

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, now we're getting the honesty. I like that, Tanya.

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Speaker 5: Okay, all right.

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Speaker 1: And so the other day you went out with a

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Speaker 5: Yeah? I remember Mike.

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Speaker 1: So we've spoke to Mike about the hangout that you

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Speaker 5: You just want me to tell you about the date.

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Speaker 2: Stop? Jeffrey, sorry getting there. I know these are all

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Speaker 1: Yeah we heard that happen, but I don't think Mike

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Speaker 5: Okay, So when we pulled up, I really didn't recognize anything.

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Speaker 2: You've been in his house before.

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Speaker 5: I have been in his house before.

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Speaker 1: WHOA, No, She's like I have amnesia?

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Speaker 5: Was definitely not his ex wife, but I have met

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Speaker 5: his ex wife. Okay, about five years ago. I actually

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Speaker 5: used to babysit kids in that house.

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Speaker 2: You were a baby.

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Speaker 5: They must have been separated because Mike didn't live there. Like,

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Speaker 5: I never saw a guy. It was just the mom,

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Speaker 5: like almost a year. Whoa, I never met him. But

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Speaker 5: as soon as I got to that house, I saw

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Speaker 5: and they're like pictures, and I was like, oh my god,

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Speaker 5: I know these kids.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: It was just so awkward because like, how am I

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Speaker 5: now I'm dating your dad.

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Speaker 2: You know, at least you know the kids like you.

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Speaker 5: They did like me, but it's been five years. They're

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Speaker 5: all grown up. They're gonna hate me. They're gonna be like,

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Speaker 5: what a homewrecker, And I'm going to be like, you

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Speaker 5: did this. It was like the long time, but like,

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Speaker 5: I can't.

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Speaker 4: You're saying that they're going to assume that you, like,

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Speaker 5: Yes, that was the first thing that came into my head.

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Speaker 5: I was like, oh my god, these kids are going

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Speaker 1: But once you had that realization, why didn't you tell

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Speaker 1: Mike that? Why did you just leave? Because it like

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Speaker 5: I felt really, really awkward, and I felt embarrassed, and

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Speaker 5: I honestly didn't really know how to handle the situation.

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Speaker 5: So I just felt like gott to get out of here.

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Speaker 1: Well, I think I know how to handle the situation,

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Speaker 1: and that's by putting you in direct contact with Mike

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Speaker 1: right now, because he's on the other line listening.

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Speaker 5: Are you serious.

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Speaker 1: I'm serious. He wants to talk to you. Mike.

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Speaker 3: You there, Yeah, Oh my goodness, Oh wow, wow, I'm

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Speaker 3: so sorry.

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Speaker 5: Weird. I really you're a great guy. It was nothing

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Speaker 5: about about you. It's just the fact that i've like

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Speaker 5: given your kids bad Yeah.

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Speaker 3: This is this is the crazy, This is the weirdest

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Speaker 5: You weren't living there, right, Like, I didn't just not

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Speaker 3: Right, No, No, I you know. Basically the arrangement was

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Speaker 3: That's why I have it.

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Speaker 4: Now you move back in, Okay, I mean, but Mike,

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Speaker 4: do you see this as a deal breaker because I

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Speaker 4: know you're making a bunch of assumptions Tanya about like

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Speaker 4: what his family will think about you. But you don't

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Speaker 4: even know why they got divorced. Maybe it's his ex

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Speaker 5: I don't know. It was just the first thing that

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Speaker 5: I thought, Mike.

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Speaker 1: Now that you know all this, like, what are your thoughts?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. I think this is actually positive.

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Speaker 3: I think it's great news. I mean, she already knows

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Speaker 3: my kids, and you know, you already know how to

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Speaker 3: get to the house.

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Speaker 2: You know where the silver drawer is, how to do that.

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Speaker 3: You're really familiar with the kitchen, you know, and in a.

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Speaker 1: Few years, Mike's gonna need help bathing. You can help

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Speaker 1: him out with that.

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Speaker 4: Maybe it sounds tiny like he's not concerned about, you know,

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Speaker 4: his kids hating you.

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Speaker 2: It sounds the opposite.

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Speaker 5: I mean, this that's cool. But I was just kind

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Speaker 5: of thinking this was a date or two or maybe

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Speaker 5: leading to something. And now I'm like a second mom

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Speaker 5: because I know where the kitchen is like, I don't

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, no, no, no, no, you got to take

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Speaker 3: these things a little, you know, a day at a time.

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Speaker 3: I'm not saying, well, move in now. I'm just saying

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Speaker 3: that if it ultimately gets to that point, don't talk

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Speaker 3: about don't.

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Speaker 1: I would just focus on getting that second date, because

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Speaker 1: I know for Mike, I bet nothing would feel better

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Speaker 1: then showing up to his ex's house with their babysitter girlfriend.

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Speaker 5: Crazy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's crazy sexy.

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Speaker 2: I think that's health, Jeff.

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Speaker 1: I mean, at this point, I just need to ask you, Tanya,

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Speaker 1: would you like to go out on another date with

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Speaker 5: I mean, it's definitely weird, but it's kind of cool

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Speaker 5: weird and no, maybe this is kind of like the

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Speaker 5: movie moment. Let's let's try it.

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Speaker 1: What kind of movie?

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Speaker 5: Not that kind of movie?

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, congratulations you too. It sounds like you guys

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Speaker 1: are going to go out again.

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Speaker 5: Okay, all right.

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Speaker 3: I was going to say the movie it would be

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Speaker 3: fatal attraction, but Tanya probably doesn't even know.

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Speaker 5: What that is. I know what that is, family movie night.

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Speaker 2: Take that that ends well.

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Speaker 5: Something, I think it ends ination like try and get.

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Speaker 3: Let's not have a long ago. It's a long time

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Speaker 3: of old alright.

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Speaker 1: I didn't think we could get any sexier, but we

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Speaker 1: did it. Jeffrey in the morning,