Speaker 1: Ice SE's Daily Game. It's a production of iHeartRadio. What's Up?
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Speaker 1: of motivational quotes I've collected over the years that I
Speaker 1: found inspiring and helped me through the game of life.
Speaker 1: Today's quote is dedicated to my wife, Coco. We've been
Speaker 1: married now going on twenty two years, and it was
Speaker 1: the greatest decision I ever made. Getting married is like
Speaker 1: casting for a movie. You gotta find someone who's ready
Speaker 1: for all the scenes, the good, the bad, the ups
Speaker 1: and the downs. I say this again to anybody out
Speaker 1: there that is getting ready to get married. Getting married
Speaker 1: is like casting for a movie. You gotta find someone
Speaker 1: who's ready for all the scenes, the good, the bad,
Speaker 1: the ups and the down. You just can't cast somebody
Speaker 1: who's ready for just the party scenes or the action
Speaker 1: scenes or the they vacation scenes. There's gonna be bad scenes.
Speaker 1: There's gonna be Each person can have separate tragedies. Your
Speaker 1: wife could go through something, somebody close to her could die.
Speaker 1: You gotta comfort her. You're as a male, you're gonna
Speaker 1: go through moments where you're gonna need a woman that
Speaker 1: you can lean on. It's gonna be able to say, baby,
Speaker 1: it's gonna be all right. I got you. Don't worry
Speaker 1: about it. You're gonna be ready to make a mistake.
Speaker 1: She's gonna say who whah, whoa, whoa whoa. Then she
Speaker 1: don't do that. We can't do that. She's gonna be
Speaker 1: ready to make a mistake. You say no, no, no,
Speaker 1: no no, And you guys are gonna save each other
Speaker 1: from disaster. You might have financial problems. You might have
Speaker 1: to say, hey, we gotta pump our brakes right now,
Speaker 1: we gotta put our heads together. We got to pull
Speaker 1: this off. You might have financial victory, go crazy, have
Speaker 1: a good time. All these different scenes will happen. You
Speaker 1: never know. You could go through betrayal, you could go
Speaker 1: through really evil dark scenes. The question is is that
Speaker 1: person ready for for all those scenes. The key to
Speaker 1: my marriage is we can make mistakes, but have we
Speaker 1: ever become enemies? There's a big difference in an enemy
Speaker 1: and a misunderstanding, a disagreement. Maybe they're feeling you're not
Speaker 1: being as compassionate for situation, whatever, But have I become
Speaker 1: your enemy? An enemy is out to hurt you. They
Speaker 1: are intentionally trying to hurt you. When you find out
Speaker 1: that your mate has become an enemy. You got to
Speaker 1: get the fuck out of there. It's a rap. But
Speaker 1: then they also say, you don't really know who you're
Speaker 1: married to until the breakup. That's a tough one, right, Hey,
Speaker 1: all medicine does not taste good, you know. But let's
Speaker 1: talk about getting into the relationship. Pick somebody who's ready
Speaker 1: for all the scenes. And one thing I always ask people.
Speaker 1: I'm running the kids all the time and they're having
Speaker 1: their bachelor party or bachelorette party, and I ask the
Speaker 1: guys and girls the same thing. I asked the guys,
Speaker 1: I say, you done done? Are you done? Chase and pussy?
Speaker 1: Are you done? Are you ready to be with one person?
Speaker 1: If you're not done, don't get married. Don't get married
Speaker 1: with intentions to cheat. That's whack, you know. Get done?
Speaker 1: I mean I didn't get married till I was forty
Speaker 1: two years old. Don't do it. And I say are
Speaker 1: you done? And I go, is it the right it's
Speaker 1: the right one. I usually ask the friends of the girl.
Speaker 1: If I'm talking to a girl, like are you done? Oh,
Speaker 1: I'm done? Okay. Then I asked the friends, is he
Speaker 1: the right one. Your girlfriends still got yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: he's the right one. The girl homegirls will be like yes.
Speaker 1: If your homegirls are saying no, they might know something
Speaker 1: about him that you don't know. But if your homegirls
Speaker 1: are rocking with him, then there it is. But be
Speaker 1: prepared for all the scenes. And marriage can be the
Speaker 1: right it can be the best thing ever. When I
Speaker 1: got married, I damn near triple my income and I
Speaker 1: got a partner and we're great. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: We're great. But the scary thing about relationships, there's a
Speaker 1: scary part where humans and humans are flawed creatures and
Speaker 1: humans continually morph. We continually morph, So what makes somebody
Speaker 1: happy today in five years may not make them happy.
Speaker 1: So you got it. It's like a plant. You've got
Speaker 1: to keep checking in. It's everything good. Have you grown
Speaker 1: this way? Have I grown that way? Because both of
Speaker 1: you are constantly growing. So what today's price might not
Speaker 1: be yesterday's price says change, you know, and you have
Speaker 1: to be ready for that and mold and grow with
Speaker 1: that person because a lot of times in the relationships,
Speaker 1: people will just grow away from each other. And that's
Speaker 1: a sad thing. When that happens. But hey, I'm not
Speaker 1: against marriage. I'm one hundred percent with it. But for
Speaker 1: anyone that's going through a breakup, all love stories aren't novels.
Speaker 1: Some are the short stories. This has been another ice
Speaker 1: cold fact from me. Listening again tomorrow when I drop
Speaker 1: some wisdom on your ass. Till then, stay safe, stay smart,
Speaker 1: and stay aware of whether you're boos, mister or missus
Speaker 1: right or mister or missus right now. I's Daily Game.
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