WEBVTT - Casting for a Movie

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<v Speaker 1>Ice SE's Daily Game. It's a production of iHeartRadio. What's Up?

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<v Speaker 1>Size Team? You're listening to The Daily Game the compilation

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<v Speaker 1>of motivational quotes I've collected over the years that I

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<v Speaker 1>found inspiring and helped me through the game of life.

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<v Speaker 1>Today's quote is dedicated to my wife, Coco. We've been

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<v Speaker 1>married now going on twenty two years, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>the greatest decision I ever made. Getting married is like

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<v Speaker 1>casting for a movie. You gotta find someone who's ready

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<v Speaker 1>for all the scenes, the good, the bad, the ups

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<v Speaker 1>and the downs. I say this again to anybody out

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<v Speaker 1>there that is getting ready to get married. Getting married

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<v Speaker 1>is like casting for a movie. You gotta find someone

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<v Speaker 1>who's ready for all the scenes, the good, the bad,

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<v Speaker 1>the ups and the down. You just can't cast somebody

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<v Speaker 1>who's ready for just the party scenes or the action

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<v Speaker 1>scenes or the they vacation scenes. There's gonna be bad scenes.

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<v Speaker 1>There's gonna be Each person can have separate tragedies. Your

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<v Speaker 1>wife could go through something, somebody close to her could die.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta comfort her. You're as a male, you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>go through moments where you're gonna need a woman that

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<v Speaker 1>you can lean on. It's gonna be able to say, baby,

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be all right. I got you. Don't worry

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<v Speaker 1>about it. You're gonna be ready to make a mistake.

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<v Speaker 1>She's gonna say who whah, whoa, whoa whoa. Then she

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<v Speaker 1>don't do that. We can't do that. She's gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>ready to make a mistake. You say no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>no no, And you guys are gonna save each other

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<v Speaker 1>from disaster. You might have financial problems. You might have

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<v Speaker 1>to say, hey, we gotta pump our brakes right now,

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<v Speaker 1>we gotta put our heads together. We got to pull

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<v Speaker 1>this off. You might have financial victory, go crazy, have

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<v Speaker 1>a good time. All these different scenes will happen. You

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<v Speaker 1>never know. You could go through betrayal, you could go

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<v Speaker 1>through really evil dark scenes. The question is is that

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<v Speaker 1>person ready for for all those scenes. The key to

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<v Speaker 1>my marriage is we can make mistakes, but have we

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<v Speaker 1>ever become enemies? There's a big difference in an enemy

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<v Speaker 1>and a misunderstanding, a disagreement. Maybe they're feeling you're not

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<v Speaker 1>being as compassionate for situation, whatever, But have I become

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<v Speaker 1>your enemy? An enemy is out to hurt you. They

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<v Speaker 1>are intentionally trying to hurt you. When you find out

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<v Speaker 1>that your mate has become an enemy. You got to

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<v Speaker 1>get the fuck out of there. It's a rap. But

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<v Speaker 1>then they also say, you don't really know who you're

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<v Speaker 1>married to until the breakup. That's a tough one, right, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>all medicine does not taste good, you know. But let's

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<v Speaker 1>talk about getting into the relationship. Pick somebody who's ready

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<v Speaker 1>for all the scenes. And one thing I always ask people.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm running the kids all the time and they're having

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<v Speaker 1>their bachelor party or bachelorette party, and I ask the

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<v Speaker 1>guys and girls the same thing. I asked the guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I say, you done done? Are you done? Chase and pussy?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you done? Are you ready to be with one person?

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<v Speaker 1>If you're not done, don't get married. Don't get married

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<v Speaker 1>with intentions to cheat. That's whack, you know. Get done?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I didn't get married till I was forty

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<v Speaker 1>two years old. Don't do it. And I say are

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<v Speaker 1>you done? And I go, is it the right it's

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<v Speaker 1>the right one. I usually ask the friends of the girl.

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<v Speaker 1>If I'm talking to a girl, like are you done? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm done? Okay. Then I asked the friends, is he

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<v Speaker 1>the right one. Your girlfriends still got yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's the right one. The girl homegirls will be like yes.

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<v Speaker 1>If your homegirls are saying no, they might know something

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<v Speaker 1>about him that you don't know. But if your homegirls

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<v Speaker 1>are rocking with him, then there it is. But be

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<v Speaker 1>prepared for all the scenes. And marriage can be the

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<v Speaker 1>right it can be the best thing ever. When I

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<v Speaker 1>got married, I damn near triple my income and I

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<v Speaker 1>got a partner and we're great. You know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>We're great. But the scary thing about relationships, there's a

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<v Speaker 1>scary part where humans and humans are flawed creatures and

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<v Speaker 1>humans continually morph. We continually morph, So what makes somebody

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<v Speaker 1>happy today in five years may not make them happy.

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<v Speaker 1>So you got it. It's like a plant. You've got

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<v Speaker 1>to keep checking in. It's everything good. Have you grown

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<v Speaker 1>this way? Have I grown that way? Because both of

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<v Speaker 1>you are constantly growing. So what today's price might not

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<v Speaker 1>be yesterday's price says change, you know, and you have

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<v Speaker 1>to be ready for that and mold and grow with

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<v Speaker 1>that person because a lot of times in the relationships,

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<v Speaker 1>people will just grow away from each other. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>a sad thing. When that happens. But hey, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>against marriage. I'm one hundred percent with it. But for

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<v Speaker 1>anyone that's going through a breakup, all love stories aren't novels.

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<v Speaker 1>Some are the short stories. This has been another ice

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<v Speaker 1>cold fact from me. Listening again tomorrow when I drop

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<v Speaker 1>some wisdom on your ass. Till then, stay safe, stay smart,

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<v Speaker 1>and stay aware of whether you're boos, mister or missus

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