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Speaker 1: My girlfriend demands I remove a family photo before she

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Speaker 2: She won't give me a good reason. Why do we

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Speaker 2: have a problem with grandma? Why can't she be in

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Speaker 2: the family photo.

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Speaker 1: Maybe she just doesn't like the way they look. I

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Speaker 1: don't know, let's figure it out. Well, maybe this is

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Speaker 1: like you just say that photo is so ugly. I

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Speaker 1: will not live in the house of this ugly photo.

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Speaker 3: That is not you. That is not you. I'm not

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Speaker 3: allowing that. What the photo could be a photo sillow,

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Speaker 3: that's not you.

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Speaker 2: You know. It's funny.

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Speaker 1: I have a picture like that and my mom is

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Speaker 1: still to this day will be like, that's not a

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Speaker 1: picture of you, and I'm like, I'm unfortunately it is,

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Speaker 1: and she just is like, that's my son doesn't look

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Speaker 1: like that anyway. Anyway, Okay, story time, I twenty six male,

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Speaker 1: think this is completely ridiculous, but.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I'm actually wrong. So here it goes.

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Speaker 1: I've been with my girlfriend, twenty six female for five years,

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Speaker 1: but we've known each other since we were fifteen. I'm

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Speaker 1: fortunate to have my own place, and we've discussed for

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Speaker 1: a while her moving in with me, as she's been

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Speaker 1: staying in the house more often.

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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from user odd Locksmith ninety

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Speaker 1: five hundred on the r slash okay storytime subreddit. So

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Speaker 1: this wasn't a problem until she was about to move in.

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Speaker 1: I have a few photos in the house of me

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Speaker 1: with family, uh, with members of my family. The problem

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Speaker 1: and father. She told me to remove the photo before

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Speaker 1: she moved in to accommodate her. I asked her why

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Speaker 1: and she answered that it's quote unquote weird. But to me,

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Speaker 1: there's nothing weird about the photo. She's the one making

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Speaker 2: Okay, I gotta see this photo.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I thought you were gonna drop a conspiracy.

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Speaker 2: Well, my conspiracy is they had got a weird pose

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, who knows, because like some photos can be like

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Speaker 2: a little like something's off. I don't know. But it's

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Speaker 2: just a picture of him and his dad and brother.

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Speaker 3: And when they were young.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because she could have had past entanglements with either

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Speaker 2: one of those people in those photos, so that might

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Speaker 2: be possibilities or as it's Britney Beach just said she

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Speaker 2: did the dad or brother exactly. That's mykens the theory,

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Let's find out.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So the only thing weird about the photos maybe

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Speaker 1: is that all of them are when I was a child,

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Speaker 1: But none of them are inappropriate or have something you

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Speaker 2: Great are you though, dude?

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Speaker 1: I think you both get you guys are both having

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Speaker 1: weird priorities right now over this picture. Yeah, this has

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Speaker 1: been a topic of discussion for the past few days.

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Speaker 1: Some of our friends and even my father said that

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Speaker 1: I should remove the photo to make her feel welcome.

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Speaker 1: But I just find that again ridiculous at it. I

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Speaker 1: I will describe it as much as possible.

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Speaker 2: Case. So here's the photos. He's not it's a family photo.

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Speaker 2: He's keeping it close to the vest. Well if if

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Speaker 2: you if you feel so uncomfortable posting it, then maybe

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Speaker 2: it is a weird photo.

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Speaker 3: Well, okay, we're about to find out.

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Speaker 1: I won't you post all your family photos up for

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Speaker 1: any stranger who asks you about it?

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Speaker 2: Well, if they find my Facebook or whatever, my Instagram.

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Speaker 2: My family is there, so.

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Speaker 1: Fair enough, Riley's giving everyone in the chat permission to

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Speaker 1: docks him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there, go ahead. I have a nice family. Please

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Speaker 2: don't hurt my family. You're like, all of a sudden,

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Speaker 1: I'm in danger. So here's a description of the photo,

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Speaker 1: all right. The photo was taken when my brother was

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Speaker 1: six and I was seven. In the middle is my

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Speaker 1: To my father's right is me long hair, standing like

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Speaker 2: Chin up and a mean mugs, all wearing a suit.

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Speaker 1: Because it was taken at my uncle's wedding, the photo

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Speaker 1: There's nothing exceptional related to the place. The only thing

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Speaker 2: I guess if you don't like this picture. I feel

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Speaker 2: like there's a picture of that hanging in my house somewhere.

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Speaker 2: I do really want to know why she doesn't like it,

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Speaker 2: though I would need more of an answer just to

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Speaker 3: We're at the tip of this ice.

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Speaker 2: I just want to know. Okay, so now we got

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Speaker 2: bullet points. We got bullet points. Now, Yeah, give me it.

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Speaker 2: I love bullet points. Yeah, Riley loves loves his bullet point.

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Speaker 2: It makes it so simple to read.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. She has met my family. She has always been

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Speaker 1: I've asked her and she's denied it. Her problem is

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Speaker 1: with the photo I described above. I have other photos

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Speaker 1: with my father and brother individually. I do the same

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Speaker 2: He's the one who taught me the pose.

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Speaker 1: She has stayed in the house multiple days, even weeks.

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Speaker 2: She has things here. She never brought up the issue.

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Speaker 2: I'm all for compromising, but I need a proper explanation.

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Speaker 1: Other than it's weird. I still have long hair, even

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Speaker 1: very fond of it, and that's not a problem. She's like,

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Speaker 1: I can't see a photo of you when you were

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Speaker 1: five seven years old with long hair. That's weird. But

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Speaker 1: the reason. Okay, none of the photos stand out. They're

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Speaker 1: the entire wall. She had issues with her family, but

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Speaker 1: small update. Let's just get into it right now. I'm

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Speaker 1: reading your replies, but my apologies for not answering every comment.

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Speaker 1: There's just too many. We've talked this morning, and this

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Speaker 1: has nothing to do with me or my family, but hers. Okay,

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Speaker 1: for someone else and not for herself. It has to

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Speaker 1: do with one of her nephews. He is going through

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Speaker 1: the same situation as her when she was fifteen, no

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Speaker 1: abuse for those concerned, And she has been and she

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Speaker 1: has been blocked about what to do. I you know

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Speaker 1: what I can really respect to Like, clearly Op is

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Speaker 1: keeping this stuff close to It's like he's not really

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Speaker 1: saying what the actual problems are. He's trying to maintain

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Speaker 1: kind of I respect that. Just that was just a

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Speaker 1: side tangent. Just let's let's keep going.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree, I agree, I agree.

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Speaker 1: But she apologized for her behavior in the past days

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Speaker 1: me instead of coming for help. I'm going to see

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Speaker 2: So here's the update, the full update. So, so the

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Speaker 1: Yes, she I think the photo was like triggering some

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Speaker 2: Nephew's going through.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, it's very mysterious, but at least we

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Chyenne says solid. No, I'm not taking down a

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Speaker 2: photo for something that has nothing to do with me

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Speaker 2: to alleviate some imaginary guilt.

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Speaker 1: Right, I thought, well, I think if now that it's

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Speaker 1: clear though, that it's like something more than just.

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Speaker 2: Hanna says, so she's projecting lame. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's I like their approach where it's like,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're gonna see if we can help her nephew.

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Speaker 2: I was trying to get to the approach. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: know if we'll get that many details because it seems like,

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Speaker 2: again they're being pretty private here.

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Speaker 1: Let's go to the update. Let's read the update. Before

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Speaker 1: the update, I will clarify some points and also, please

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Speaker 1: excuse my English, it's my third language.

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Speaker 2: I've heard that one yet.

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Speaker 1: I looked at the photo for a solid thirty minutes,

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Speaker 1: and again, there's nothing remotely wrong. It wasn't taken at

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Speaker 1: but I was just spitting nonsense. It's even smaller. Religion

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Speaker 1: incidents related to it. My father's pose was also pointed out.

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Speaker 1: I know, it's hard to imagine it. His arms are

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Speaker 1: at them. I used grin, but smile is better synonyms

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Speaker 1: in the end, but whatever. He says that in previous

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Speaker 1: he expected the same, but we just came up with that.

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Speaker 2: It was the first.

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Speaker 1: I was the first to pose, and when my brother

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Speaker 1: poses described perfectly how we were in our childhood, my

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Speaker 1: why he had closed his eyes and a smile from

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Speaker 2: So I mean, yeah, just a normal whole.

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Speaker 3: Sure, just a silly photo? Was it? Like their uncle?

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Speaker 2: I want to know the girlfriend's point of view. I

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Speaker 2: want to know where she's coming.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's I think that's the valaluable nothing here. I

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Speaker 3: I think he's trying to do. It's just like make

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Speaker 3: it more clear, like yeah, there's nothing wrong with this,

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Speaker 3: nothing photo wrong. And that's what I'm scratching my head here,

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Speaker 3: I'm like, what, why is she so well?

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Speaker 2: It's them mishandling her nephew that started up again.

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Speaker 1: to the right track and they and Yeah.

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Speaker 3: If you're in this situation, would you well, obviously talk

440
00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:38,800
Speaker 3: to her more about it, but would you try and compromise.

441
00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:42,919
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, I think I'd be willing that after hearing why,

442
00:20:43,520 --> 00:20:45,359
Speaker 2: I'd be like, oh okay, no, I'll pull like a

443
00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:47,320
Speaker 2: curtain over it, like whatever, like.

444
00:20:47,320 --> 00:20:52,359
Speaker 3: Whatever family showcase my childhood in photo form.

445
00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:53,960
Speaker 1: Just have a thing where you can like pull the

446
00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:56,560
Speaker 1: pulley in it, like the two little red curtains come apart,

447
00:20:56,640 --> 00:20:58,000
Speaker 1: and then you see all the photos.

448
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Speaker 2: You can close it again. Yeah, your com here. But

449
00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:06,600
Speaker 2: I don't think I don't think here. I don't think that.

450
00:21:08,280 --> 00:21:12,000
Speaker 2: I don't think that like the photo is the problem

451
00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:15,159
Speaker 2: now if that makes sense? No, I mean we know

452
00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:16,240
Speaker 2: we know the root of it now.

453
00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:18,600
Speaker 1: But it's like if these photos are going to like

454
00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:19,800
Speaker 1: trigger you, it's like, yeah, we.

455
00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:22,960
Speaker 2: Can get them so that. I think she's she's doing

456
00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:24,520
Speaker 2: the work too. I think he needs to do the

457
00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:26,640
Speaker 2: work on top of it. The problem is moving in

458
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Speaker 2: or not?

459
00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:30,080
Speaker 3: Now, how about we ask, oh, okay, can we ask Angie,

460
00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:33,000
Speaker 3: like she has no context of this, what would she

461
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Speaker 3: do right off the bat?

462
00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:35,800
Speaker 2: Do you move me with your boyfriend? Or you wait?

463
00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:37,720
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no, no no no. Not that

464
00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:42,040
Speaker 3: the reasoning behind all of this huh, that's what I'm saying.

465
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Speaker 2: There's no, that's it.

466
00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:46,920
Speaker 3: No, no, no. Like if if she was Ope, and

467
00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:49,639
Speaker 3: if I was OPI you know what I would do.

468
00:21:49,840 --> 00:21:55,320
Speaker 4: I would I would say, uh, scow you guys, everyone else,

469
00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:57,080
Speaker 4: and then I would take all their money and then

470
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Speaker 4: I would leave, and then I would go on a

471
00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:03,199
Speaker 4: trip to Columbia and then and then just have a

472
00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:05,920
Speaker 4: great time by myself in Columbia.

473
00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:11,639
Speaker 2: Wow, that's that sounds like like the going of a movie.

474
00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:15,639
Speaker 2: Wasn't that? Wasn't that that Monny Depp and Penelope Cruise?

475
00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:17,280
Speaker 3: I don't know, but that did not go plan Once

476
00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:18,280
Speaker 3: upon a time in Mexico.

477
00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:21,359
Speaker 2: It's called I think it's called middle School. Is such

478
00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:21,800
Speaker 2: a good movie?

479
00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:23,200
Speaker 3: That's a tonyo.

480
00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:26,359
Speaker 2: Sorry, that was such a deep cut.

481
00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:31,000
Speaker 3: Do not work out in the way I wanted to

482
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Speaker 3: work out.

483
00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:36,360
Speaker 2: Ye's answer, It's time to spend a will and get

484
00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:37,360
Speaker 2: on to the next We.

485
00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:37,800
Speaker 3: Finish the story.

486
00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:41,680
Speaker 2: Do you need to finish story? Left? Okay?

487
00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:47,359
Speaker 1: So for now we are going to keep things as

488
00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:50,840
Speaker 1: they are until the situation with her family is resolved.

489
00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:54,479
Speaker 1: Whatever the outcome, which made her rush to message her

490
00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:57,959
Speaker 1: parents to set a meeting with them next week, we

491
00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:00,439
Speaker 1: are taking it easy and dealing with one problem at

492
00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:02,920
Speaker 1: a time. The photos are staying and she will bring

493
00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:06,280
Speaker 1: hers once she moves in to put them with them,

494
00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:08,240
Speaker 1: like we agreed before. Oh so it's gonna be like

495
00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:10,080
Speaker 1: a little picture party.

496
00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:12,159
Speaker 2: And that's the end. That's the end of that story.

497
00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:12,680
Speaker 2: That is cool.

498
00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:15,000
Speaker 1: That's good to chat. You all were right, seventy eight

499
00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:15,560
Speaker 1: percent of you.

500
00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:16,280
Speaker 2: We're correct.

501
00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:21,520
Speaker 1: Wait wait for a week, apparently because conversation quick.

502
00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:24,560
Speaker 3: Hey, that's still waiting waiting then that's still wait.

503
00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:28,000
Speaker 2: That is true. Everyone says by Angie. Ella says, Angie

504
00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:32,520
Speaker 2: is so iconic, absolutely iconic. Did you know she made

505
00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:36,080
Speaker 2: the pants that she's wearing right now? Yep, yep, that's

506
00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:38,840
Speaker 2: my girl. There you go leg.

507
00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:45,400
Speaker 1: Yeah nice, Okay, Well, and now that.

508
00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:50,520
Speaker 2: I like that, I like it. That was perfect. That

509
00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:53,439
Speaker 2: was perfect. And you know what else is perfect? That

510
00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:56,040
Speaker 2: we're about to spin the freaking Oh that's right. That

511
00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:59,360
Speaker 2: we've got a wheel. What's on the wheel? What we got?

512
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:02,000
Speaker 2: What we got? You want to give me the wheel? Yeah,

513
00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:04,080
Speaker 2: I'll give you the wheel. I'm getting to the next story.

514
00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:06,359
Speaker 2: I spun it last time, so you can spin it.

515
00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 2: So we got we got call, we got five members.

516
00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 2: We got fifteen minutes, we got we got a dance,

517
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:15,800
Speaker 2: we got twenty minutes, we got call, we got trivia.

518
00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 3: We've never done the dance. I just realized it, the

519
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:19,920
Speaker 3: interpretive dance.

520
00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:24,800
Speaker 2: That's all right, I can do it. I think I

521
00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:29,000
Speaker 2: can do it. I can do three. All right, that's

522
00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:30,560
Speaker 2: all right, we can do it. And there we go.

523
00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:36,080
Speaker 3: Oh my god called it.

524
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:41,560
Speaker 1: Play some kind of royalty free music and music. When

525
00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:45,440
Speaker 1: you're reading it, you do what they're kind of reading. Oh,

526
00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:49,879
Speaker 1: like are you trying to you know, like wait, so wow,

527
00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:53,440
Speaker 1: so Riley, I'm reading, I'm interpretive dancing.

528
00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:56,520
Speaker 2: Here can we do this? Can we have the code

529
00:24:56,560 --> 00:24:58,560
Speaker 2: of stand up? And we move the camera up so

530
00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:01,320
Speaker 2: we can see him standing and zoom out a little bit,

531
00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 2: and then we get this whole body?

532
00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:05,760
Speaker 1: What what if instead of what if I just like

533
00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:06,720
Speaker 1: sit up in this.

534
00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:10,359
Speaker 3: Chair, it would be like this be like oh and

535
00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:12,040
Speaker 3: she drank water.

536
00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:15,320
Speaker 2: And then I can do this. No, no, no, We'll just

537
00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:16,440
Speaker 2: have you stand up and do it.

538
00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:21,399
Speaker 3: I kind of like, yeah, it's like it's like I'll

539
00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:24,480
Speaker 3: call it a s L someone's doing. It's a little dotation,

540
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:26,760
Speaker 3: but it's just here here, here.

541
00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:29,320
Speaker 2: What we'll move the chair. Well, have you stand up

542
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:30,440
Speaker 2: and you can do it? Yeah?

543
00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:33,560
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, we set up the camera. All you guys

544
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:34,160
Speaker 3: are sitting in the camera.

545
00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:37,560
Speaker 2: Up do the thing? Where that what I was gonna do?

546
00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:39,119
Speaker 3: Yeah? Here, set it up?

547
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 2: Get up looking up?

548
00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:45,880
Speaker 3: All right. I'm gonna read some donuts while you're getting

549
00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:53,720
Speaker 3: it already. This is this is wild donation from anonymous.

550
00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:57,920
Speaker 3: Thank you anonymous, whoever you are. Ten us dollars. You're great,

551
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:02,200
Speaker 3: big granny for five thirty five. I love listening to

552
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:04,720
Speaker 3: the stories and hearing y'all banter back into the earth.

553
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:07,880
Speaker 3: Y'all are all absolutely adorable. Keep up the good work.

554
00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 3: Is that your granny?

555
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:11,359
Speaker 2: Big? Is that mine?

556
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:12,040
Speaker 3: Big?

557
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:14,640
Speaker 1: Shout out big granny? If you're saying you're a fan

558
00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:15,440
Speaker 1: of the banter.

559
00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:18,119
Speaker 2: Yep, yep? Can you can you? Can you stand up

560
00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:20,200
Speaker 2: and set him? Or here? Set up straight?

561
00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 3: He looks so big.

562
00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:26,879
Speaker 2: Hu, my huge.

563
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:29,000
Speaker 3: Should have a microphone, but I can't hear you?

564
00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:29,119
Speaker 2: No?

565
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:34,160
Speaker 3: Well, actually, yeah, you need to talk my body? What's

566
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:37,760
Speaker 3: that from? I know that's from It's from Churley's Yes.

567
00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:40,960
Speaker 2: My body, My body is huge.

568
00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 3: He's like really really tall, you really tall?

569
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:46,119
Speaker 2: He's getting taller and taller.

570
00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:47,440
Speaker 3: My body is huge.

571
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:49,600
Speaker 2: Here we go, I kind of like this angle. Here

572
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:52,119
Speaker 2: we go. All right, let's next. Do you just do

573
00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:54,000
Speaker 2: this next one? I'll read that.

574
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:56,359
Speaker 3: This is a practice for the donations.

575
00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:58,440
Speaker 2: All right, here we go. Okay, that low one.

576
00:26:58,880 --> 00:26:59,439
Speaker 3: I think we got that.

577
00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:00,200
Speaker 2: Okay, go to the you.

578
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:02,520
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, we'll me just refreshed quickly.

579
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:07,439
Speaker 2: Okayd uh earth Lynn, thanks for being a member for

580
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:11,919
Speaker 2: four months. Late to the party, but happy late New Year, guys.

581
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 2: I love Dakota and that epic hat heart. Also it's

582
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:23,040
Speaker 2: pronounced lyn schaleen shoo. Sorry that doesn't work for me.

583
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I just can't do phonics. Uh sorry, hope

584
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:31,120
Speaker 2: that makes sense. Love y'all. We love you, We love you.

585
00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:33,679
Speaker 3: Just off this. This is gonna be so bad, this

586
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:36,760
Speaker 3: hard mode because this is not gonna be good.

587
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:40,479
Speaker 2: This is great. Uh Randy Joe, thanks for the two bucks.

588
00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:45,120
Speaker 2: Add tim member goes on date with Fan. Yes, yes,

589
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 2: we can do that. We'll have Dakota and lean over

590
00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:52,000
Speaker 2: and kiss you. Now, Fan, I'm not a fan, I'm

591
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:54,000
Speaker 2: a I'm a host that you asked for this, right,

592
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:55,840
Speaker 2: that's my interpretive dance Ezekiel.

593
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:58,720
Speaker 3: Now that it looks like you're doing nineties stand up?

594
00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 2: Hey, what's the deal with over your games?

595
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:02,680
Speaker 3: Uh?

596
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:05,280
Speaker 2: Now that Angie is here, Riley, are you are you

597
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 2: or are you not? Low key trying to get Angie

598
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:12,080
Speaker 2: on staff? Dakota, you look like an eighties rapper. Shake it, Keon,

599
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:13,040
Speaker 2: shake it for us?

600
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:13,680
Speaker 5: Uh?

601
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:14,600
Speaker 3: Oh, thank you.

602
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:18,200
Speaker 2: I'm not trying to get on staff. I just like

603
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:19,960
Speaker 2: her around, so I'm just trying to get her to

604
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:21,239
Speaker 2: do more video so I can see her day.

605
00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:23,640
Speaker 3: It's an excuse, it's a double Yeah.

606
00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:25,760
Speaker 2: It benefits everyone.

607
00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:26,480
Speaker 5: Uh.

608
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:29,359
Speaker 2: And then we got another one, Chibby Lee, thanks for

609
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:30,440
Speaker 2: being a member for six months.

610
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:31,080
Speaker 5: Uh.

611
00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:35,920
Speaker 2: We say she's testing the water, see what things, see

612
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:38,760
Speaker 2: what things she can control. Oh that's a good one.

613
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 3: Dude, this is gonna be so bad. I'm so excited.

614
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:46,640
Speaker 2: Story and how long story? I know it's a long story.

615
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:51,080
Speaker 2: Astra the tight End. Thanks for ten bucks. It isn't much,

616
00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:54,400
Speaker 2: but I wanted to donate and think everyone, Okay, story time.

617
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:57,320
Speaker 2: All of you have gotten me and my wife through

618
00:28:57,440 --> 00:29:00,720
Speaker 2: some tough times. Dakota, You're a durable and never fail

619
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 2: to make me smile. Look at him, he's just doing

620
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:02,880
Speaker 2: it right now.

621
00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 3: Oh my god, you look like a titan bro.

622
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:12,520
Speaker 1: Thank god, I was gonna say he has leave for

623
00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:13,360
Speaker 1: all the listeners.

624
00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:15,360
Speaker 2: Levi, Oh, you guys are so nervous. I have no

625
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 2: idea what we're talking about. Uh, Natala Ni Natalia h.

626
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:22,040
Speaker 2: Thanks for being a member for nine months. It's been

627
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:24,960
Speaker 2: a hot minute since I've been here, able to see

628
00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 2: a livestream. Gonna work on my crochet project, So let's

629
00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:31,440
Speaker 2: keep this going so I can finish this project. Well,

630
00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:34,320
Speaker 2: we got forty six minutes and Dakota is dancing for

631
00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:39,400
Speaker 2: my story and Kim kwant Monkey, I think our first member,

632
00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:41,960
Speaker 2: and she is so close to being here for twelve

633
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:45,000
Speaker 2: freaking months. Happy New Year's Gang. Can't believe it's only

634
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 2: just been eleven months. It is eleven months. We're so

635
00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 2: happy you were here. And that is it. And I'm

636
00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:53,240
Speaker 2: about to read a very very oh and uh sassy

637
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:57,760
Speaker 2: sin LPC thanks for the Canadian too. Seventy nine Attack

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Speaker 2: of the fifty foot Dakota lo ol.

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00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:06,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, OK, yeah he's there.

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00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:09,480
Speaker 1: Riley's like, yeah, that's what that is that I don't

641
00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:12,600
Speaker 1: know anything about. I feel like this is good, this

642
00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:14,480
Speaker 1: would be good for working on stand up. This is

643
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:16,960
Speaker 1: like the perfect perspective to be able to what's the

644
00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:18,120
Speaker 1: problem with life?

645
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 2: Also found out my girlfriend's friend. Oh, I do want

646
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:24,719
Speaker 2: to read this one. This one's gonna be crazy.

647
00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:28,240
Speaker 3: My that's my girlfriend is still friends. Yep, you got it.

648
00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:30,800
Speaker 2: Yep. It's a long anonymous ten a long one but

649
00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 2: all but yeah, we did. But I'm gonna skip the

650
00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:35,120
Speaker 2: the comments if they're already.

651
00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:38,160
Speaker 3: Okay, to make sure cool cool cool We got cool

652
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Speaker 3: cool cool cool.

653
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:44,880
Speaker 2: And squiggler girl. Thanks for the twenty five bucks aka Colon, Colleen,

654
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Speaker 2: where you hit colon from what I can't read coland.

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Speaker 5: Colin.

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Speaker 1: I would have accepted collagen before I accepted colon.

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Speaker 3: Stop Colleen, anyways, let him be here we go, I'm sorry,

658
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Speaker 3: I love you?

659
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 2: And then just crazy? Thank you?

660
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:13,080
Speaker 3: Let me just crazy?

661
00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:19,200
Speaker 2: Here your handshake? Yeah, okay, I saw here we go.

662
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:21,280
Speaker 3: Someone's hands are moist up there.

663
00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:22,720
Speaker 2: I heard that too.

664
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:27,240
Speaker 3: Alright, alright, alright, alright, my girlfriend. We need to do

665
00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:29,320
Speaker 3: an intro with why Dakota standing.

666
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:32,520
Speaker 2: Up intro Dakota is going to dance. What I say

667
00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:36,480
Speaker 2: this is interpretive. This is interpretive dance. We spun the

668
00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:39,360
Speaker 2: wheel and we landed on interpretive dance. Here.

669
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:40,760
Speaker 3: This is for you.

670
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:47,080
Speaker 2: Uh, my girlfriend is still friend You're ready. My girlfriend

671
00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:50,480
Speaker 2: is still friends with past hookups and is bothering me.

672
00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:57,000
Speaker 2: All right, you can.

673
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 3: Still talk, bro.

674
00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:01,160
Speaker 1: I feel like interpretive dances silent. I that's my interpretation.

675
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:04,960
Speaker 2: I twenty three male and my girlfriend twenty two female,

676
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:06,920
Speaker 2: have been together for about a year. We met on

677
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:09,400
Speaker 2: Tinder and we went on a date soon after that.

678
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 2: Pretty much from the moment we saw each other, we

679
00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:17,440
Speaker 2: knew we were right for each other. Oh my god,

680
00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:21,280
Speaker 2: I do I just dance the whole time, even with

681
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:22,200
Speaker 2: there's no camera.

682
00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:24,800
Speaker 3: No, no, you can there's no camera on you. Okay,

683
00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:26,080
Speaker 3: come on, you gotta save that energy.

684
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:27,880
Speaker 2: I gotta I gotta be in the middle of well

685
00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 2: I'm reading you can just like go to him here

686
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:30,520
Speaker 2: and there. How's that sound?

687
00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:31,640
Speaker 5: Uh?

688
00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:34,880
Speaker 3: Okay, we can. We can try our best here when

689
00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:35,520
Speaker 3: it's worth it.

690
00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:38,320
Speaker 2: In fact, our first date ended up being twelve hours

691
00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:40,440
Speaker 2: long because we just didn't want to leave each other.

692
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:44,160
Speaker 2: By the way, this comes from emergency Citron eighty three

693
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:46,440
Speaker 2: on the our side, okay, story Tom subredd it. So

694
00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:48,760
Speaker 2: we went on a few more dates and then became

695
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:53,840
Speaker 2: exclusive very quickly. In our relationship since has been incredible.

696
00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:57,880
Speaker 2: We both absolutely see a future with each other and

697
00:32:57,960 --> 00:33:02,360
Speaker 2: are planning on staying together as much that's humanly possible. Now,

698
00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:05,840
Speaker 2: I know that my girlfriend had a major who phase

699
00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:09,760
Speaker 2: in the approximately six months before we met. We haven't

700
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:12,480
Speaker 2: gone in depth. I don't want to know, but we

701
00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:16,280
Speaker 2: have discussed, and I've heard mutterings from friends too. I

702
00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:20,520
Speaker 2: think she soaked up with six or seven pretty much

703
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:24,800
Speaker 2: random men during that time. Wow, in six months.

704
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:26,280
Speaker 3: That's one. That's one a month.

705
00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 2: Uh No interpretive dance running man, because that's what she's doing.

706
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 2: She's running through those men. Okay, that's my interpretation.

707
00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:43,400
Speaker 3: This was bro would not even two hundred words in she.

708
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 6: Did alright, Alright, maybe there's nothing wrong with that. Necessarily,

709
00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:53,720
Speaker 6: no judgment for me that interpret that interpret that.

710
00:33:53,920 --> 00:34:03,560
Speaker 2: No judgment from me. I've done similar things too. I've

711
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 2: had no reason to think that she'll ever. I have

712
00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:09,319
Speaker 2: no reason to ever think that she ever. Hasn't been

713
00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:12,399
Speaker 2: faithful to me or hidden it from me or anyone else.

714
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:15,760
Speaker 2: She was posting me on Instagram after like a month together.

715
00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:19,759
Speaker 2: She actually deleted her Snapchat when we started dating, and

716
00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:22,760
Speaker 2: I know for a fact she doesn't have dating apps anymore.

717
00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 2: We agreed to just not talk about our spicy past

718
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:31,160
Speaker 2: now that we're together. About two months ago, she told

719
00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:33,439
Speaker 2: me that a guy she met on a vacation last

720
00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:37,239
Speaker 2: summer was moving into our city. She had asked her

721
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:40,160
Speaker 2: if she if she wanted to show him around. She

722
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:43,239
Speaker 2: said yes. We both went and gave him a tour

723
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:47,560
Speaker 2: and got dinner. She was honestly a really nice guy

724
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:50,399
Speaker 2: and a smart and interesting too. I was a bit

725
00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:53,560
Speaker 2: surprised that she meant a twenty eight year old professionally

726
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:59,080
Speaker 2: randomly on a vacation, but whatever. Since then, she had

727
00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:02,960
Speaker 2: been getting lunch or drinks or dinner maybe once a

728
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:06,600
Speaker 2: week with him when I'm busy, and then go another

729
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:09,080
Speaker 2: day of the week. Will usually go on a double

730
00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:11,640
Speaker 2: date with him and one of the many women he's

731
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:16,000
Speaker 2: involved with. I why does it sound like your girlfriend's

732
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 2: dating this guy? Why does it sound like that?

733
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:23,640
Speaker 5: You know?

734
00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:26,600
Speaker 2: I don't know how my girlfriend met this hot, successful,

735
00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:30,359
Speaker 2: twenty eight year old professional on a vacation and is

736
00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:38,400
Speaker 2: now dating him. Yeah, yeah, jet out too tall, Yeah,

737
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:42,680
Speaker 2: my body is huge. Oh I was. I was totally

738
00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:45,200
Speaker 2: fine with that and happy to have more friends. But

739
00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:47,799
Speaker 2: recently I was hanging out with my girlfriend and her

740
00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 2: friend group, and one of her friends made a joke

741
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:54,840
Speaker 2: about the guy being very well a nude endowed.

742
00:35:55,880 --> 00:36:02,799
Speaker 1: That word is indowed in dude, How did I interpret that?

743
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:04,000
Speaker 2: This?

744
00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:07,359
Speaker 3: The fact that I had him, his reaction of just looking.

745
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:19,359
Speaker 2: Ah endowed. This is so bad, cursed episode. I kind

746
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:22,400
Speaker 2: of shrugged it off, but I was curious and asked

747
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:25,800
Speaker 2: later and later asked my girlfriend if she had slept

748
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:31,400
Speaker 2: with her friend. She laughed and said no, she actually

749
00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:34,400
Speaker 2: slept with him when she was on vacation after they

750
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 2: met on a dating app. I was kind of floored

751
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:39,719
Speaker 2: that she hadn't told me that that's how they met,

752
00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:43,399
Speaker 2: but she said that I hadn't asked, and that's why

753
00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 2: we agreed not to discuss our former conquest. She told me,

754
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:54,320
Speaker 2: he called a conquest. It's called the guy a conquest,

755
00:36:55,400 --> 00:37:03,680
Speaker 2: former conquest. Where's oh him or me? Sorry, I'm kind

756
00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:08,680
Speaker 2: of traumatized by not reading. Okay. She told me that

757
00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:11,759
Speaker 2: in fact, it was sleeping with him that had made

758
00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:16,239
Speaker 2: her decide to settle down. Was it that bad or

759
00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:18,480
Speaker 2: was it that good? And she's like, that's the best

760
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:20,839
Speaker 2: I ever have. I'll just settled down. I'll settle down.

761
00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:31,439
Speaker 2: I'm done now, huh another because he's been because he's

762
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:37,399
Speaker 2: apparently a very promiscuous man, and she realized that for her,

763
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:44,440
Speaker 2: She realized that for her, that kind of promiscuity, promiscuity,

764
00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:50,040
Speaker 2: promiscuity was cheapening all intimacy. She also told me that

765
00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:55,440
Speaker 2: after she realized how promiscuous he was, she was revolted

766
00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:59,320
Speaker 2: by him and wanted to be in a committed relationship,

767
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:03,200
Speaker 2: but that she still did like him as a person.

768
00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:06,600
Speaker 2: I asked her if they'd ever been in contact at

769
00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 2: all before he moved into our city, and she said

770
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:14,239
Speaker 2: that occasionally they liked each other's Instagram stories, but that

771
00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:18,279
Speaker 2: they hadn't actually message each other other than that. But

772
00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:20,840
Speaker 2: that's still a body. If you like someone's Instagram you

773
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:24,759
Speaker 2: might as well buy them a wedding ring. Facts, what

774
00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:27,680
Speaker 2: are you doing like people's Instagram stories that you're not

775
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 2: getting married too?

776
00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:39,759
Speaker 3: That's literally making out with me on my story? So true?

777
00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:43,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, one time I will say, sorry, fan,

778
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:44,759
Speaker 2: I'm about to dogsh you. But I had a fan

779
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:47,879
Speaker 2: one time, UH say, hey, can you please post something

780
00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 2: on your Instagram story so I can slide in your DMS?

781
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:53,040
Speaker 2: I thought that was clever.

782
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:54,320
Speaker 3: What did you do that?

783
00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:58,000
Speaker 2: Uh, didn't do anything because I just met Angie. I

784
00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:01,719
Speaker 2: was like, oh time right now, all right, guys, so

785
00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:04,120
Speaker 2: everyone's asking questions. We spun the wheel and it landed

786
00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:06,480
Speaker 2: on interpretive dance, and now i'm your interpretive dances.

787
00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:08,799
Speaker 3: You just literally going from side to side, bending down

788
00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:09,200
Speaker 3: your dance.

789
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:19,799
Speaker 2: Okay, we're about to get him the producer. Oh man,

790
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:23,960
Speaker 2: maybe halfway Eddie, so he can give you Riley unnamed

791
00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 2: caffeine drink. He can read when he he can only

792
00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:28,400
Speaker 2: read when he has caffeine.

793
00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:32,719
Speaker 1: That is true, and he's properly chromiumed yep uhs chromium

794
00:39:32,719 --> 00:39:35,160
Speaker 1: in there. Okay, don't drink that stuff.

795
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:37,960
Speaker 3: Religion what okay?

796
00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:41,279
Speaker 2: Sorry? She could tell that for some reason, finding this

797
00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:44,240
Speaker 2: out upset me, and she told me that I could

798
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:48,439
Speaker 2: read their messages if I wanted that if she would also,

799
00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:52,000
Speaker 2: and that she would also stop hanging out with him

800
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:55,359
Speaker 2: one on one if it bothered me. I completely trust her, though,

801
00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:58,600
Speaker 2: so I said no to both. I would say no

802
00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:01,680
Speaker 2: to hanging out one on one once I learned that information.

803
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:07,840
Speaker 2: That's me, Thank you, Dakota. Also he agrees with me.

804
00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:11,000
Speaker 2: I hope you all interpreted exactly what that meant. I

805
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:15,480
Speaker 2: then asked her if she made any I then asked

806
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:18,200
Speaker 2: her if she made any of her other friends in

807
00:40:18,280 --> 00:40:20,799
Speaker 2: the same way. She told me she hooked up with

808
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:25,800
Speaker 2: two other people she's friends with now. One is one

809
00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:28,560
Speaker 2: is one of the girls in her friend group, which

810
00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:32,880
Speaker 2: I never suspected. Apparently, the other guy told my girlfriend

811
00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:36,160
Speaker 2: that they spicy sleep together, that she would have spicy

812
00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:38,879
Speaker 2: sleep with a woman, so when she got back from VAK,

813
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:42,799
Speaker 2: she did. My girlfriend said that she didn't like it

814
00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:44,879
Speaker 2: and it wasn't for her, but the girl was very

815
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:47,719
Speaker 2: cool and they had a lot in common, so they

816
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:51,360
Speaker 2: stay friends. They both like to wrestle. She had a

817
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:54,879
Speaker 2: similar story with one of her male friends. Basically, they

818
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:58,399
Speaker 2: met on a dating app, got some spicy sleep, but

819
00:40:58,440 --> 00:41:02,200
Speaker 2: realized that they were not compacted and at all as

820
00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:06,920
Speaker 2: romantic partners. I don't know why finding this out upset

821
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:10,560
Speaker 2: me so much. I trust I trust my girlfriend entirely,

822
00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:14,080
Speaker 2: and no, and no, she would never cheat on me,

823
00:41:14,640 --> 00:41:18,040
Speaker 2: and she offered to let me look at her messages

824
00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:22,000
Speaker 2: with any of the three to never spend time with

825
00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:26,160
Speaker 2: them alone again. She also apologized for upsetting me and

826
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:29,200
Speaker 2: said that if she'd known I care, she would have

827
00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:31,439
Speaker 2: told me before Okay, this is nice. I like where

828
00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:34,919
Speaker 2: this is. I think this is kind of healthy. She's like, hey,

829
00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:36,360
Speaker 2: this is how I met people. We didn't want to

830
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:39,319
Speaker 2: talk about past because we agreed on that. But if

831
00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:43,480
Speaker 2: it said you we should, oh my gosh do it.

832
00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:48,239
Speaker 2: And Hannah, they's for the fifty five bucks for his

833
00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:49,959
Speaker 2: interpretive dance.

834
00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:52,399
Speaker 3: We got a I saw that coming a mile away.

835
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:54,919
Speaker 3: I was like, oh man, chats chat's eating this up.

836
00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:59,360
Speaker 2: We got another thirty minutes. You got pimped out for yours.

837
00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:01,240
Speaker 2: I'm working up a sweat.

838
00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:02,879
Speaker 3: I told you stop moving so much.

839
00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:08,600
Speaker 2: What are you talking about? What do you What could

840
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:13,279
Speaker 2: that possibly mean? I don't move while you dance? No,

841
00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:16,960
Speaker 2: what it was? I just dance in my soul, just

842
00:42:16,960 --> 00:42:17,239
Speaker 2: like this.

843
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:20,440
Speaker 3: I told you you're gonna lose all your guys can't see.

844
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 2: It right now, but I'm interpreted dancing. God, you guys

845
00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:24,520
Speaker 2: are You're about to make me piss my pants. Oh

846
00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:29,759
Speaker 2: my god stop, I have to go, Oh my gosh,

847
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:32,680
Speaker 2: can we take Can we take a moment, and you

848
00:42:32,719 --> 00:42:34,359
Speaker 2: guys read the rest of the donuts and I'm gonna

849
00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:36,839
Speaker 2: use athroom. Pee break. I was like, they're making me

850
00:42:37,120 --> 00:42:40,279
Speaker 2: laugh so much. Pee break, it. Yeah, you want me

851
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:41,080
Speaker 2: to just read the story.

852
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:42,960
Speaker 3: I was like, you gonna get read the story and

853
00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:44,160
Speaker 3: then I can start interpreted dancer.

854
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:50,480
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, I'm well we got outranked, Hannah. Thanks

855
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:52,840
Speaker 1: for the fifty five pretty cod is interpreted dance For

856
00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:53,760
Speaker 1: anyone who's confused.

857
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 2: We spun the wheel and it landed on interpreted dance.

858
00:42:56,160 --> 00:43:03,400
Speaker 2: And this is what that looks like. Elliana Eliena Elena.

859
00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:10,160
Speaker 1: Dakota is bringing me to literal tears with his dancing. Yeah,

860
00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:15,080
Speaker 1: you earned this, Hey, thank you. I'm so glad that

861
00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:16,880
Speaker 1: you're here. I'm so glad I have witnesses.

862
00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:18,560
Speaker 3: If this was in a form of something I can't

863
00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:19,600
Speaker 3: say right now. This is.

864
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:25,359
Speaker 2: Rye ride. Things were five bucks. I so needed this.

865
00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 1: I'm starting the year with a fifteen year long relationship breakup.

866
00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:31,040
Speaker 1: Oh no, thanks for making me laugh through my tears. Dakota, Well,

867
00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:33,279
Speaker 1: oh my god, I'm so thankful to be able to

868
00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 1: do that.

869
00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:37,360
Speaker 3: Interpreted that, interpret that, do that? Interpret it?

870
00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:39,960
Speaker 2: No, I'm interpreted like there's no dancing for that. This

871
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:44,080
Speaker 2: is the interpretive dance for a fifteen year breakup. Oh man,

872
00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:46,040
Speaker 2: all right, that's what that feels like.

873
00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:47,440
Speaker 1: But you know what it's not gonna feel like that

874
00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:50,560
Speaker 1: forever one, and on some realness, it's not gonna feel

875
00:43:50,560 --> 00:43:51,080
Speaker 1: like that forever.

876
00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:55,200
Speaker 2: That's true. Keep going, the valleys will get higher and

877
00:43:55,239 --> 00:44:00,799
Speaker 2: the mountains will stay high hopefully. Yeah, I think it's made.

878
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:04,839
Speaker 2: That's how tectonics work. I don't know that, little one.

879
00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:07,759
Speaker 2: Thanks for thanks for one gifted membership and wingles. Thanks

880
00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:10,280
Speaker 2: for eight months. Keon shout out your I g Please,

881
00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:11,359
Speaker 2: I haven't followed you.

882
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:13,480
Speaker 3: Just type in my name. It should come up. It's

883
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:16,359
Speaker 3: my face. Actually, no one of us, one of them

884
00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:18,200
Speaker 3: follows me, so you can find me. But it's my name.

885
00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:21,040
Speaker 3: It's not hard to find. There's not many people like

886
00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:21,520
Speaker 3: me out there.

887
00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:25,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, well it's not. I'd agree you're great.

888
00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:28,399
Speaker 3: You were going to agree like you're right.

889
00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:33,640
Speaker 2: That's the deception. Jellaba, thanks for being a remember for

890
00:44:33,680 --> 00:44:37,560
Speaker 2: ten months. Everyone remembered to breathe during this episode. Love

891
00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:41,480
Speaker 2: the ok S T family. Yeah, we love you. Jellaba

892
00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:44,319
Speaker 2: and Astrod the Titan. Thanks for the five bucks. Ha

893
00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:47,239
Speaker 2: ha ha wrong, Titan boys. My name comes from my

894
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:50,680
Speaker 2: OC and Disney Destiny.

895
00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:56,960
Speaker 3: Oh no, oh, don't say you said you said say then.

896
00:44:59,080 --> 00:45:01,840
Speaker 2: Destiny? Who is I say tightened class. But I often

897
00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:05,000
Speaker 2: call my wife Levi because of theirs, basically because they're

898
00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:06,000
Speaker 2: basically the same person.

899
00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:09,239
Speaker 3: Short, short and charismatic.

900
00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:14,400
Speaker 2: Short ye, very good at cleaning and also literally the

901
00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:16,440
Speaker 2: most expert soldier in the military.

902
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:20,719
Speaker 3: Also that so Hunter is the best class. Sorry.

903
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:25,200
Speaker 2: Next, Dono Wingles that Wingles, thanks for the five gift

904
00:45:25,239 --> 00:45:29,400
Speaker 2: to memberships, Angie, thanks for two bucks. Who needs well Burton,

905
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:31,720
Speaker 2: just watch Dakota be silly.

906
00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:37,960
Speaker 1: Well, buttrice A, I can't claim to replace prescribe medication,

907
00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:39,920
Speaker 1: but you know what, I thank you.

908
00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:41,359
Speaker 2: That's a very sweet thing to say.

909
00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:43,000
Speaker 3: Laughter is the best form of medication.

910
00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:46,120
Speaker 2: It is. That's true. It actually is one of them medically.

911
00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:48,880
Speaker 2: And then we got a few more on the Dono side,

912
00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:52,160
Speaker 2: right right, Thanks for two bucks. Thank you. Everyone means

913
00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 2: a lot. Well, you mean a lot to us, and

914
00:45:53,719 --> 00:45:54,520
Speaker 2: thank you for being here.

915
00:45:54,560 --> 00:45:58,720
Speaker 3: Thank your right, Sophia. If anyone found my ig or dakotas,

916
00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:00,440
Speaker 3: because I think a lot of people want our you

917
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:03,360
Speaker 3: can just put it. You can dos us Yep, you

918
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:04,320
Speaker 3: can doc. Yes, you can put it.

919
00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:06,240
Speaker 2: You can do us in the chat, send our instagrams

920
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:06,600
Speaker 2: in the chee.

921
00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:08,520
Speaker 3: You can put in the chat. That's okay, all.

922
00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:12,080
Speaker 2: Right, all right, well, I think we're gonna get back

923
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:12,600
Speaker 2: to the stories.

924
00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:15,440
Speaker 3: Let's let's okay, let's read these the YouTube and then

925
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:17,319
Speaker 3: we'll read the other donations later.

926
00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:19,400
Speaker 2: I think we can read them all later.

927
00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, uh, we'll just finish this last one read. I

928
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 1: think that was the last one certifiably. Jeddon, thank you

929
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:29,040
Speaker 1: for being a member for seven months. I love the dancing.

930
00:46:29,120 --> 00:46:32,400
Speaker 1: We love you, and I'm glad that you're liking it. Uh,

931
00:46:32,600 --> 00:46:35,040
Speaker 1: they only been Tomna, thank you for being an eight

932
00:46:35,080 --> 00:46:38,560
Speaker 1: month member. Great interpreted dancing, Dakota. Okay, fam, weren't we

933
00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:40,960
Speaker 1: all begging Sam to stop when he tried interpreted?

934
00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:46,600
Speaker 2: I wasn't there. His might have been a little more questionable.

935
00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:48,719
Speaker 2: I don't know. Frank the pug, thanks for the two bucks.

936
00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:51,279
Speaker 2: Dancing was fantastic. How tall are you to Cooda, I'm

937
00:46:51,280 --> 00:46:54,160
Speaker 2: six feet tall and the dancing does not stop. I

938
00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:57,720
Speaker 2: am eleven? Yeah, are you going to know my deepest,

939
00:46:57,800 --> 00:47:00,680
Speaker 2: darkest secret? What's up? I'm five eleven and three recorders?

940
00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:04,920
Speaker 2: But matth rules. You round that up? You do? You

941
00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 2: round that up? Name one person who has ever given

942
00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:10,919
Speaker 2: you quarter inches in their height? Like, oh, I'm I'm

943
00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:18,120
Speaker 2: gonna read the story. You yet, me, We're gonna keep reading,

944
00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:21,680
Speaker 2: all right, you guys ready, keep reading? All right. I

945
00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:24,560
Speaker 2: really don't know what to do, as it's really bothering me,

946
00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:27,560
Speaker 2: But at the same time, I really feel like she

947
00:47:27,600 --> 00:47:30,399
Speaker 2: hasn't done anything wrong. There's an update. I'm gonna get

948
00:47:30,480 --> 00:47:32,120
Speaker 2: right into it. Did they break up her?

949
00:47:32,200 --> 00:47:32,319
Speaker 7: Now?

950
00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 2: Call it right now? I realized that I absolutely needed

951
00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:39,239
Speaker 2: to speak with her about it. I also realized that

952
00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:41,880
Speaker 2: there was a lot more about the situation that bothered

953
00:47:41,920 --> 00:47:46,160
Speaker 2: me than I had initially thought, including everyone knowing they

954
00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:50,760
Speaker 2: had spicy sleep together except for me. Her friend joked

955
00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:53,799
Speaker 2: about it in front of me and my girlfriend being

956
00:47:53,960 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 2: seemingly dedicated to this man even when he had first

957
00:47:59,200 --> 00:48:02,200
Speaker 2: arrived to our city, even though they had literally just

958
00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:06,560
Speaker 2: spicy sleeped twice. I decided to have a chill and

959
00:48:06,680 --> 00:48:10,000
Speaker 2: open conversation with my girlfriend and expressed that the situation

960
00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:13,160
Speaker 2: was bothering me, even though I knew she hadn't done

961
00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:18,320
Speaker 2: anything wrong. We started talking and she basically reiterated everything

962
00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:22,759
Speaker 2: that she had said before, and she also said that

963
00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:25,520
Speaker 2: in the future she would tell me if we met

964
00:48:25,560 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 2: anyone she's been involved with. She apologized for upsetting me

965
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:32,239
Speaker 2: and said that she would have told me if she

966
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:35,640
Speaker 2: thought it would bother me. So then I told her

967
00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:38,840
Speaker 2: that I was honestly hurt. Her friends all knew and

968
00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:42,080
Speaker 2: joked about it, even with me there, and it seemed

969
00:48:42,080 --> 00:48:46,800
Speaker 2: disrespectful to me. At this she was much less apologetic

970
00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 2: and said that she shares everything with her friends that

971
00:48:51,160 --> 00:48:54,560
Speaker 2: and that she could control what they said, which wasn't

972
00:48:54,600 --> 00:48:58,920
Speaker 2: an answer I really liked. She seemed to be irritated

973
00:48:59,040 --> 00:49:01,200
Speaker 2: and a little mocking of me at this point, but

974
00:49:01,400 --> 00:49:05,800
Speaker 2: I kept going and expressed that I was also uncomfortable

975
00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:08,799
Speaker 2: with how she was so eager to see him when

976
00:49:08,840 --> 00:49:14,400
Speaker 2: he first arrived, even though he hadn't been, even though

977
00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:17,880
Speaker 2: he hadn't been just a two night stand for her

978
00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:22,440
Speaker 2: To that she was very honest, but what she said

979
00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:25,359
Speaker 2: hurt me a lot. She said that he had been

980
00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:35,560
Speaker 2: a special experience for her. No interpreted that's my interpretation,

981
00:49:38,160 --> 00:49:41,360
Speaker 2: as he'd been the kindest and most respectful man she'll

982
00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:44,839
Speaker 2: ever been involved with up until that point, up until

983
00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:48,640
Speaker 2: that point, up until that point, that's somehow even worse.

984
00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:55,799
Speaker 2: But but she settled for op though before and she's

985
00:49:55,800 --> 00:49:58,000
Speaker 2: like he was a special experience, it's already like eh,

986
00:49:58,120 --> 00:49:59,719
Speaker 2: and then it's like because he was so kind and

987
00:49:59,800 --> 00:50:04,880
Speaker 2: per it's like ah, but up until up until she

988
00:50:05,000 --> 00:50:08,279
Speaker 2: met up here. Yeah, okay, that's here's what I have

989
00:50:08,360 --> 00:50:08,920
Speaker 2: to say about that.

990
00:50:09,239 --> 00:50:09,560
Speaker 3: Okay.

991
00:50:09,680 --> 00:50:13,920
Speaker 2: She also clarified her comment about him revolting her. It

992
00:50:14,000 --> 00:50:22,319
Speaker 2: wasn't really his PROMISQUI what is promised you? I love

993
00:50:22,360 --> 00:50:25,400
Speaker 2: that song, but I just can't say it we love here.

994
00:50:25,960 --> 00:50:28,359
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, Gyanne Riley is struggling to read this one.

995
00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:33,000
Speaker 2: It's like pulling teeth. Yes, I'm getting distracted walking in now.

996
00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:40,719
Speaker 2: More so, that he was, to her such a great

997
00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:43,520
Speaker 2: man that he couldn't be in a committed relationship with

998
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:46,879
Speaker 2: any woman he chose, but he refused to do so

999
00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:51,319
Speaker 2: for some reason she couldn't understand. Obviously, that one hurt

1000
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:53,720
Speaker 2: a lot, though, as I was glad that at least

1001
00:50:53,760 --> 00:50:57,760
Speaker 2: it was clear she was being honest. She then said

1002
00:50:57,800 --> 00:51:01,040
Speaker 2: that even though she liked him a lot and felt

1003
00:51:01,080 --> 00:51:04,040
Speaker 2: that they had a special experience together, she loved me

1004
00:51:04,239 --> 00:51:08,200
Speaker 2: and wanted to be with me, but didn't do much

1005
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:11,560
Speaker 2: to salvage the wound. Her comments, as well as the

1006
00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:13,960
Speaker 2: comments on my original post, had made me a bit

1007
00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:17,719
Speaker 2: paranoid about her cheating, though I was pretty sure she

1008
00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:20,759
Speaker 2: wouldn't do that, so I asked her to read their messages,

1009
00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:28,279
Speaker 2: which she provided me without hesitation. Everyone recently was everything

1010
00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:31,840
Speaker 2: was completely kosher. They would just send each other the

1011
00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:35,560
Speaker 2: occasional Instagram reel or post with some place they wanted

1012
00:51:35,560 --> 00:51:39,480
Speaker 2: to go, and then they'd make plans on when. They

1013
00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:43,480
Speaker 2: also talked about books and philosophy a lot. I'm not

1014
00:51:43,920 --> 00:51:49,360
Speaker 2: very into either, though, and these were long and intense conversations,

1015
00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:52,520
Speaker 2: but in fairness, none of it was dissimilar from when

1016
00:51:52,560 --> 00:51:55,520
Speaker 2: my girlfriend has shown me messages with her other friends

1017
00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:59,640
Speaker 2: who have always been platonic. There was nothing that even

1018
00:51:59,640 --> 00:52:04,520
Speaker 2: suggest I said physical cheating. So then I kept reading

1019
00:52:04,600 --> 00:52:07,600
Speaker 2: because I wanted to see what he said to her

1020
00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:11,279
Speaker 2: when we sorry. So then I kept reading because I

1021
00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:13,239
Speaker 2: wanted to see what he'd said to her when he

1022
00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:15,920
Speaker 2: arrived in our city. I decided to go all the

1023
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:20,320
Speaker 2: way back to when they first met, which my girlfriend

1024
00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:22,759
Speaker 2: said I was free to do, even though it was

1025
00:52:22,800 --> 00:52:26,839
Speaker 2: before we were dating. Oh, that's like being did you

1026
00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:30,040
Speaker 2: really break your hand? And then she's like, yeah I did,

1027
00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:31,799
Speaker 2: and then you go, all right, well, I'm gonna go

1028
00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:35,560
Speaker 2: into the garage with a hammer and see what that's like. Yeah,

1029
00:52:35,680 --> 00:52:37,920
Speaker 2: like just no, just it's okay. You can just know

1030
00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:40,600
Speaker 2: you don't have to like go through and experience it.

1031
00:52:41,640 --> 00:52:45,399
Speaker 2: That's just what it was. You are doing yourself no service. No, no,

1032
00:52:45,440 --> 00:52:48,720
Speaker 2: it's a disservice. This is not good. This is not good.

1033
00:52:48,880 --> 00:52:50,640
Speaker 3: All right, we're gonna give you a five minute break

1034
00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:51,360
Speaker 3: on the dancing.

1035
00:52:51,440 --> 00:52:56,359
Speaker 2: Yeah no, cat, just can't it be done. We're like

1036
00:52:56,440 --> 00:52:59,399
Speaker 2: this far away. Oh okay, no, never mind, I didn't

1037
00:52:59,400 --> 00:53:01,680
Speaker 2: think we were that far. Okay, they're good. I can

1038
00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:03,080
Speaker 2: just like stand.

1039
00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:04,879
Speaker 3: Here, take a two minute.

1040
00:53:05,480 --> 00:53:08,759
Speaker 2: You just put on me for two minutes. Initially it

1041
00:53:08,840 --> 00:53:11,479
Speaker 2: wasn't much, just them having a short convo and making

1042
00:53:11,480 --> 00:53:14,759
Speaker 2: plans to go out, and then making plans again to

1043
00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:19,240
Speaker 2: hook up. Then nothing after her vacation ended. Until about

1044
00:53:19,239 --> 00:53:22,200
Speaker 2: three months later, after she'd come back from vacation and

1045
00:53:22,239 --> 00:53:27,439
Speaker 2: started getting with other guys. She sent them. She sent

1046
00:53:27,560 --> 00:53:31,040
Speaker 2: him a long and heartfelt message that I felt sick

1047
00:53:31,200 --> 00:53:33,960
Speaker 2: reading as soon as I started it, but which she

1048
00:53:34,160 --> 00:53:38,560
Speaker 2: told me to finish. Basically, she implied that she'd been spicily.

1049
00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:42,000
Speaker 2: Oh you don't say spicy for that, that's just essay. Yeah,

1050
00:53:42,080 --> 00:53:44,560
Speaker 2: she'd been essayed. I didn't see this old. Oh sorry,

1051
00:53:44,600 --> 00:53:49,520
Speaker 2: sorry I had that. I saw it coming. Uh, she'd

1052
00:53:49,520 --> 00:53:54,160
Speaker 2: been essayed recently, she'd used the words questionably consensual, and

1053
00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:57,960
Speaker 2: she was writing to thank him for their experience together

1054
00:53:58,440 --> 00:54:00,319
Speaker 2: and the respect he'd shown her.

1055
00:54:00,360 --> 00:54:04,120
Speaker 1: Wait, I'm so confused by that entire sentence. So she'd

1056
00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:06,560
Speaker 1: been like, she's I think she said, I think she implied.

1057
00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:07,040
Speaker 2: He said that.

1058
00:54:07,080 --> 00:54:10,399
Speaker 1: He said that, she said questionable consent. I don't think

1059
00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:13,640
Speaker 1: she said essay, but she's implied that the consent was

1060
00:54:13,640 --> 00:54:16,560
Speaker 1: maybe a little iffy. Don't know if substance is involved.

1061
00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:19,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, but he was. But she was like, thank you

1062
00:54:19,120 --> 00:54:24,719
Speaker 2: for being a gentleman. I'm not, I don't. This is

1063
00:54:24,800 --> 00:54:27,399
Speaker 2: just this is why you don't read this stuff. This

1064
00:54:27,480 --> 00:54:30,520
Speaker 2: is too this is now it's impossible to know what's

1065
00:54:30,560 --> 00:54:33,399
Speaker 2: going on. She's like, is that something she said?

1066
00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:35,680
Speaker 1: Because she's like, maybe he'll feel less weird about this,

1067
00:54:35,719 --> 00:54:36,800
Speaker 1: because this is a weird.

1068
00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:37,520
Speaker 2: Thing to be reading about.

1069
00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:40,920
Speaker 1: Imagine just like going through the text log of your

1070
00:54:40,960 --> 00:54:44,680
Speaker 1: significant others, like interactions with people that they've slept with.

1071
00:54:45,239 --> 00:54:49,200
Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, exactly, it's something you don't need to do.

1072
00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:51,560
Speaker 3: It's like rid a goad diary sometimes and you're like,

1073
00:54:51,600 --> 00:54:54,399
Speaker 3: oh no, yeah, that's opening that's opening up a can

1074
00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:56,479
Speaker 3: of worms that you don't want.

1075
00:54:56,360 --> 00:54:59,520
Speaker 2: To stay in the can, all right. She said that

1076
00:54:59,560 --> 00:55:02,000
Speaker 2: she never been with a man who clearly liked and

1077
00:55:02,040 --> 00:55:05,360
Speaker 2: respected her as much as he did, and she thanked

1078
00:55:05,440 --> 00:55:09,120
Speaker 2: him for not only talk take oh, and she thanked

1079
00:55:09,200 --> 00:55:12,319
Speaker 2: him for not only not taking advantage of her when

1080
00:55:12,360 --> 00:55:15,920
Speaker 2: she was in a vulnerable position, but also showing much

1081
00:55:16,120 --> 00:55:19,560
Speaker 2: care for her that everything they did was beyond consensual.

1082
00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:23,960
Speaker 2: She said she never had a spicy sleep experience like him,

1083
00:55:24,000 --> 00:55:26,920
Speaker 2: but hoped she would again, and then she ended it

1084
00:55:26,960 --> 00:55:30,360
Speaker 2: with a joke about how he was incredible in bed. Okay,

1085
00:55:30,480 --> 00:55:32,759
Speaker 2: so she thanked him for being a gentleman and not

1086
00:55:33,160 --> 00:55:35,600
Speaker 2: only seeing her for spicy sleep, and then said, you're

1087
00:55:35,600 --> 00:55:40,080
Speaker 2: really great at spicy sleep. Yes, no, I wish I

1088
00:55:40,080 --> 00:55:41,160
Speaker 2: should have been interpreting.

1089
00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:41,359
Speaker 8: Now.

1090
00:55:42,160 --> 00:55:46,120
Speaker 2: That was messy as all get out. I don't know

1091
00:55:46,200 --> 00:55:48,040
Speaker 2: where the beginning of that came from, but then it

1092
00:55:48,239 --> 00:55:51,799
Speaker 2: pivoted into like, I don't know, yeah, which is why

1093
00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:53,760
Speaker 2: you don't read this. You don't read the text message

1094
00:55:53,760 --> 00:55:55,960
Speaker 2: with your girlfriend being like and by the way, isn't

1095
00:55:55,960 --> 00:56:00,560
Speaker 2: it funny that you're the best I've ever had a yeah. Yeah,

1096
00:56:00,640 --> 00:56:02,359
Speaker 2: I feel like the boyfriend's about that are op He's

1097
00:56:02,360 --> 00:56:04,360
Speaker 2: about to ask, so like, am I as good as

1098
00:56:04,440 --> 00:56:14,560
Speaker 2: the yeah? And you know what that answer is gonna be? Yeah? Oh,

1099
00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:18,600
Speaker 2: Zoe says this relationship is fair nursed yea to that

1100
00:56:18,680 --> 00:56:22,800
Speaker 2: reply to that, he replied with an equally heartfelt message

1101
00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:25,960
Speaker 2: about how she and every woman deserve to be treated well,

1102
00:56:26,360 --> 00:56:29,520
Speaker 2: and then he said that he fell from just meeting

1103
00:56:29,560 --> 00:56:32,360
Speaker 2: her twice, that she was a special woman, and he

1104
00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:36,279
Speaker 2: hoped that they would meet again. After that, they kept

1105
00:56:36,360 --> 00:56:40,920
Speaker 2: in loose contact, but it was still but just swiping

1106
00:56:41,000 --> 00:56:43,920
Speaker 2: up on the occasional Instagram story with a comment or

1107
00:56:44,040 --> 00:56:48,080
Speaker 2: question and never anything further than that. When we started

1108
00:56:48,120 --> 00:56:50,840
Speaker 2: dating and she posted a picture with me, he swiped

1109
00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:53,239
Speaker 2: up and asked if we were dating. She said yes.

1110
00:56:53,719 --> 00:56:56,360
Speaker 2: He said something along the lines of me being cute

1111
00:56:56,520 --> 00:57:00,919
Speaker 2: and that he hoped she was happy. Basically didn't speak

1112
00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:03,840
Speaker 2: until he moved into our city and messenged her. He

1113
00:57:04,520 --> 00:57:08,680
Speaker 2: made it clear his message that he sorry, he made

1114
00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:10,640
Speaker 2: it clear, and his message that he knew she had

1115
00:57:10,640 --> 00:57:14,120
Speaker 2: a boyfriend and that he understand if I wasn't comfortable

1116
00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:17,400
Speaker 2: with him meeting up, but that he'd like but that

1117
00:57:17,440 --> 00:57:20,560
Speaker 2: he did like her in a platonic way as well

1118
00:57:20,600 --> 00:57:23,960
Speaker 2: as if if she was interested in showing him around.

1119
00:57:24,440 --> 00:57:27,680
Speaker 2: This was this really upset me, as I realized that

1120
00:57:27,840 --> 00:57:31,880
Speaker 2: even he thought I should have been informed and he

1121
00:57:32,120 --> 00:57:34,960
Speaker 2: wouldn't have hung out with her if I'd said no,

1122
00:57:35,520 --> 00:57:38,840
Speaker 2: But she didn't even give me the opportunity to decide

1123
00:57:39,000 --> 00:57:41,959
Speaker 2: or express my feelings on the issue. I asked her

1124
00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:45,560
Speaker 2: why she didn't tell me, even though it was clear

1125
00:57:45,880 --> 00:57:48,840
Speaker 2: she should have, and she basically broke it down and

1126
00:57:48,920 --> 00:57:52,080
Speaker 2: admitted that she really liked him and wanted to see

1127
00:57:52,160 --> 00:57:55,440
Speaker 2: him even as a friend, and that she thought I

1128
00:57:55,520 --> 00:57:58,720
Speaker 2: probably would have been uncomfortable with it, even though she

1129
00:57:58,840 --> 00:58:02,760
Speaker 2: would have never she whoa. So she still had feelings

1130
00:58:02,760 --> 00:58:07,600
Speaker 2: for the guy, but platonically, well, she still likes him platonically.

1131
00:58:07,840 --> 00:58:11,600
Speaker 1: We don't know that ice, which is what anyone would say,

1132
00:58:11,960 --> 00:58:12,720
Speaker 1: Isn't that right?

1133
00:58:14,720 --> 00:58:14,959
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1134
00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:17,840
Speaker 1: Are you sure you just platonically like the guy that

1135
00:58:17,920 --> 00:58:20,200
Speaker 1: you wrote an essay about how good he wasn't bad?

1136
00:58:21,120 --> 00:58:24,439
Speaker 2: You like that guy platonically? Hopefully I can have those

1137
00:58:24,520 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 2: kinds of experience with someone else, you know what, She's

1138
00:58:26,720 --> 00:58:31,560
Speaker 2: low key saying. She's saying like, no, no, no, She's saying

1139
00:58:31,560 --> 00:58:34,960
Speaker 2: that this is the man that let her realize, Oh

1140
00:58:35,000 --> 00:58:37,120
Speaker 2: my god, there's good men out like, men aren't trash,

1141
00:58:37,240 --> 00:58:39,080
Speaker 2: like this man took such good care of me and

1142
00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:41,600
Speaker 2: was so great, Maybe I can find my true love.

1143
00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:44,560
Speaker 2: And then she just like found op And now she's like, ooh,

1144
00:58:44,560 --> 00:58:46,560
Speaker 2: but that guy back in town, Oh my.

1145
00:58:46,680 --> 00:58:48,640
Speaker 3: God, what if he's the one?

1146
00:58:49,360 --> 00:58:51,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, that's what you're gonna think after you've

1147
00:58:51,760 --> 00:58:54,320
Speaker 1: read everything, which is why you don't either stuff.

1148
00:58:54,560 --> 00:58:58,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't throw this, it's not mine. Yeah, and

1149
00:58:58,320 --> 00:58:59,600
Speaker 2: then you'd have to get another one.

1150
00:59:01,280 --> 00:59:02,160
Speaker 5: Huh.

1151
00:59:02,240 --> 00:59:04,880
Speaker 2: She said, that's why she brought me along in the tour.

1152
00:59:06,120 --> 00:59:09,960
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, we'll get yea. He hey, loa, thanks

1153
00:59:09,960 --> 00:59:11,600
Speaker 2: for the fifty bucks. We'll read that in a second.

1154
00:59:12,640 --> 00:59:14,280
Speaker 2: She said, that's why she brought me on the tour

1155
00:59:14,640 --> 00:59:17,160
Speaker 2: so that we would all know that she would never

1156
00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:20,200
Speaker 2: be involved with him physically while we were together. This

1157
00:59:20,320 --> 00:59:23,640
Speaker 2: really broke me, as it seemed clear that between me

1158
00:59:23,720 --> 00:59:27,800
Speaker 2: and him, she would always choose him, even without the

1159
00:59:27,840 --> 00:59:31,840
Speaker 2: physical aspect. It seemed like she greatly preferred him to

1160
00:59:31,880 --> 00:59:35,200
Speaker 2: me as a person, and I know from her messages

1161
00:59:35,240 --> 00:59:38,400
Speaker 2: and her friends jokes that the physical aspect was better

1162
00:59:38,400 --> 00:59:41,200
Speaker 2: with him too. But you know what's also better with

1163
00:59:41,280 --> 00:59:43,600
Speaker 2: us is that we keep reading stories every day of

1164
00:59:43,640 --> 00:59:46,120
Speaker 2: the week on our podcast. So you can join us

1165
00:59:46,160 --> 00:59:49,360
Speaker 2: on Spotify, Apple or what other podcast platforms you're on

1166
00:59:49,440 --> 00:59:51,960
Speaker 2: to get more stories like this us Sarah. All you

1167
00:59:51,960 --> 00:59:56,320
Speaker 2: gotta do is look up Okay story time. Who Yeah,

1168
00:59:56,360 --> 00:59:58,120
Speaker 2: how do we feel about this? It seems like this

1169
00:59:58,160 --> 01:00:00,800
Speaker 2: guy's becoming more insecure as a second as he's reading

1170
01:00:00,800 --> 01:00:01,480
Speaker 2: these messages.

1171
01:00:01,760 --> 01:00:04,600
Speaker 3: That's that's the cand of worms he opened up you.

1172
01:00:05,160 --> 01:00:07,320
Speaker 3: I was like, this guy, this guy's in a whole

1173
01:00:07,480 --> 01:00:09,560
Speaker 3: world will hurt right now if he's gonna do this

1174
01:00:09,800 --> 01:00:13,200
Speaker 3: And I don't what do you expect, Like just her

1175
01:00:13,240 --> 01:00:14,960
Speaker 3: talking about him like, oh, I can't wait for my

1176
01:00:15,000 --> 01:00:19,240
Speaker 3: future like boyfriend and that's gonna be so mid Yeah,

1177
01:00:19,320 --> 01:00:22,880
Speaker 3: you know it's like, oh, you just.

1178
01:00:22,760 --> 01:00:25,560
Speaker 2: Don't read the messages, man, Like you either have to

1179
01:00:25,560 --> 01:00:27,680
Speaker 2: be okay with people's past or not, and then you

1180
01:00:27,720 --> 01:00:29,760
Speaker 2: can either trust people or you can't. I don't like

1181
01:00:29,800 --> 01:00:33,080
Speaker 2: the fact that she like was kind of like not

1182
01:00:34,120 --> 01:00:36,120
Speaker 2: talking about I think it should be like, look, we're

1183
01:00:36,120 --> 01:00:38,600
Speaker 2: not gonna like go into detail about each other's like

1184
01:00:38,720 --> 01:00:40,600
Speaker 2: past partners and past experiences.

1185
01:00:40,600 --> 01:00:43,960
Speaker 1: But like if someone's coming around that was a past partner,

1186
01:00:44,600 --> 01:00:46,960
Speaker 1: I think we should know about that. I don't think

1187
01:00:46,960 --> 01:00:49,960
Speaker 1: that should be like a hidden thing. No, yah, because

1188
01:00:50,000 --> 01:00:50,800
Speaker 1: that's sketchy.

1189
01:00:51,800 --> 01:00:54,160
Speaker 3: Like I like Jennifer's comment here, he hurt himself.

1190
01:00:54,400 --> 01:00:57,320
Speaker 2: Yeah he did do that. Yeah, you don't read the messages.

1191
01:00:57,360 --> 01:00:59,840
Speaker 2: He was like, hey, babe, is that stove hot? She's

1192
01:00:59,840 --> 01:01:09,120
Speaker 2: likees hot. He's like, I don't believe you. I let

1193
01:01:09,200 --> 01:01:12,360
Speaker 2: my ex look at my Instagram and she went through

1194
01:01:12,400 --> 01:01:14,680
Speaker 2: like all the messages, like all the times I slid

1195
01:01:14,760 --> 01:01:17,360
Speaker 2: up on other girls like DM's before her, And she

1196
01:01:17,520 --> 01:01:20,360
Speaker 2: was like, I just forgot that you were singable, not

1197
01:01:20,400 --> 01:01:23,680
Speaker 2: with me. One time. I was like, oh, well, you

1198
01:01:23,720 --> 01:01:29,080
Speaker 2: looked at him, touched the hot stone. What's the reality.

1199
01:01:29,560 --> 01:01:30,480
Speaker 3: What's your prize?

1200
01:01:30,680 --> 01:01:31,000
Speaker 2: Baby?

1201
01:01:31,080 --> 01:01:34,720
Speaker 3: It burned you? Like, babe, they led, they led, They

1202
01:01:34,920 --> 01:01:35,800
Speaker 3: led me to you.

1203
01:01:36,280 --> 01:01:38,120
Speaker 2: There we go, and I'm like, am I really gonna

1204
01:01:38,120 --> 01:01:40,760
Speaker 2: give a Billie Eilish? Am I really gonna get with

1205
01:01:40,920 --> 01:01:43,360
Speaker 2: Jennifer Anison? Guys? Read the Alchemist? Okay, hey, come on,

1206
01:01:43,760 --> 01:01:45,680
Speaker 2: read the Alchemists. Those were the times I were like.

1207
01:01:46,680 --> 01:01:48,600
Speaker 1: She had to meet that guy if she was gonna

1208
01:01:48,640 --> 01:01:51,480
Speaker 1: meet OP. If she didn't meet that guy, maybe she

1209
01:01:51,520 --> 01:01:54,240
Speaker 1: never gets with OP. But you don't know that since

1210
01:01:54,280 --> 01:01:56,000
Speaker 1: we met the guy and we're not with OP. But

1211
01:01:56,040 --> 01:01:58,520
Speaker 1: the guy's now around. Do we get with the guy

1212
01:01:58,920 --> 01:01:59,720
Speaker 1: or do we stay with OP?

1213
01:02:00,880 --> 01:02:05,120
Speaker 2: I mean what? Yeah, the problem the problem is in

1214
01:02:05,200 --> 01:02:07,760
Speaker 2: the relationship. But but the new problem that's going through

1215
01:02:07,800 --> 01:02:10,000
Speaker 2: Ope He's head is like, oh, she was really fond

1216
01:02:10,000 --> 01:02:11,360
Speaker 2: of this guy, but it could work out because they

1217
01:02:11,360 --> 01:02:14,200
Speaker 2: were long distance. But now he's in town? Is he

1218
01:02:14,760 --> 01:02:15,560
Speaker 2: composition moving?

1219
01:02:15,600 --> 01:02:15,720
Speaker 5: Here?

1220
01:02:15,840 --> 01:02:17,520
Speaker 2: Is he in town? He's in town? He moves to

1221
01:02:17,560 --> 01:02:20,680
Speaker 2: the town here. This is like the guy, Like, this

1222
01:02:20,760 --> 01:02:23,520
Speaker 2: is the guy. This is the guy of the guy.

1223
01:02:23,640 --> 01:02:26,000
Speaker 2: He's like, my body is huge. This is the guy

1224
01:02:26,120 --> 01:02:30,680
Speaker 2: that she tells you not to worry about, literally, which

1225
01:02:30,800 --> 01:02:33,280
Speaker 2: I don't know. I that's hard.

1226
01:02:33,560 --> 01:02:36,040
Speaker 1: I think the only person who can really know that

1227
01:02:36,160 --> 01:02:39,120
Speaker 1: is like your gut, Like if you if you sit

1228
01:02:39,200 --> 01:02:42,000
Speaker 1: down with your girl and you're like, hey, we're good, right,

1229
01:02:42,120 --> 01:02:44,960
Speaker 1: Like you're not gonna randomly want to leave me for

1230
01:02:45,000 --> 01:02:45,320
Speaker 1: this dude.

1231
01:02:45,360 --> 01:02:46,120
Speaker 2: I wouldn't even do that.

1232
01:02:46,160 --> 01:02:49,000
Speaker 3: I was like, no, babe, like okay, and then you

1233
01:02:49,000 --> 01:02:50,479
Speaker 3: you just see how like oh, my god, I'm gonna

1234
01:02:50,480 --> 01:02:52,600
Speaker 3: hang out with so and so. I'm gonna go hang

1235
01:02:52,640 --> 01:02:54,160
Speaker 3: out with the big guy every time.

1236
01:02:55,840 --> 01:02:57,200
Speaker 2: The big guy guy.

1237
01:02:57,560 --> 01:02:59,880
Speaker 1: I gotta point this out because Saffie Taffy just left

1238
01:03:00,040 --> 01:03:02,320
Speaker 1: comment that says all the shows is that he didn't

1239
01:03:02,360 --> 01:03:03,080
Speaker 1: really trust her as.

1240
01:03:03,040 --> 01:03:06,640
Speaker 2: Much as he believed. But she never told him that

1241
01:03:06,680 --> 01:03:09,360
Speaker 2: this guy was an ex partner that she was practically

1242
01:03:09,400 --> 01:03:11,560
Speaker 2: in love with. Yeah, she was just like, Oh, he's

1243
01:03:11,600 --> 01:03:14,720
Speaker 2: just a guy, which is like, no, you should be

1244
01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:17,600
Speaker 2: you should have the full context. I don't need an

1245
01:03:17,800 --> 01:03:19,200
Speaker 2: entire essay of.

1246
01:03:19,080 --> 01:03:23,200
Speaker 1: Like detailed depictions, but I need to just know, yes,

1247
01:03:23,240 --> 01:03:25,200
Speaker 1: that guy was a romantic partner and I did have

1248
01:03:25,720 --> 01:03:26,360
Speaker 1: feelings for him.

1249
01:03:26,400 --> 01:03:32,560
Speaker 2: Bethan says, get with the hot, promiscuous guy, pumscuse. Yeah,

1250
01:03:32,600 --> 01:03:34,400
Speaker 2: but it's it's funny that like she got with this

1251
01:03:34,400 --> 01:03:36,000
Speaker 2: guy and then decided to settle down.

1252
01:03:37,320 --> 01:03:39,360
Speaker 1: Well, the way she described it, it was like you

1253
01:03:39,400 --> 01:03:41,320
Speaker 1: made me realize that men aren't all trash.

1254
01:03:41,520 --> 01:03:42,280
Speaker 2: Got it, got it, got it.

1255
01:03:42,360 --> 01:03:44,760
Speaker 1: So it was like that was a big I feel

1256
01:03:44,760 --> 01:03:46,880
Speaker 1: like everybody has one of those. You date somebody and

1257
01:03:46,880 --> 01:03:47,919
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, people are good.

1258
01:03:48,040 --> 01:03:51,080
Speaker 3: Baby, He's the guy that led me to you.

1259
01:03:52,280 --> 01:03:55,040
Speaker 2: Asked the alchemist. Right there, here we go got the

1260
01:03:55,120 --> 01:03:57,800
Speaker 2: last bit of the story. I asked her why she

1261
01:03:57,880 --> 01:04:01,280
Speaker 2: wouldn't just be with him then, and she said that

1262
01:04:01,480 --> 01:04:05,440
Speaker 2: he wasn't looking to settle down and she was, so

1263
01:04:05,800 --> 01:04:08,720
Speaker 2: there would have wouldn't have been any point in breaking

1264
01:04:08,800 --> 01:04:12,720
Speaker 2: up with me who did she like and had a

1265
01:04:12,720 --> 01:04:17,000
Speaker 2: good relationship just for a chance with me. She said

1266
01:04:17,200 --> 01:04:20,040
Speaker 2: that being friends with him was enough for her. I

1267
01:04:20,120 --> 01:04:23,320
Speaker 2: then asked her, pretty much point blank, what she felt

1268
01:04:23,360 --> 01:04:27,320
Speaker 2: for him, and she admitted that she was in love

1269
01:04:27,440 --> 01:04:31,040
Speaker 2: with him.

1270
01:04:31,560 --> 01:04:34,280
Speaker 8: No, Wow, break up, break up, break up, break up,

1271
01:04:34,280 --> 01:04:36,800
Speaker 8: break up, I break up break up.

1272
01:04:36,920 --> 01:04:40,120
Speaker 3: So if you, if if Opie didn't ask this, guys,

1273
01:04:40,120 --> 01:04:43,480
Speaker 3: if Opie didn't ask this, what did what do we

1274
01:04:43,520 --> 01:04:43,880
Speaker 3: think of?

1275
01:04:44,080 --> 01:04:44,280
Speaker 2: Like on.

1276
01:04:45,880 --> 01:04:48,600
Speaker 1: That she would yeah, yeah, I would say one hundred percent.

1277
01:04:48,960 --> 01:04:50,880
Speaker 1: I need to interpretive dance this.

1278
01:04:54,600 --> 01:04:56,760
Speaker 3: You probably hurt yourself and that's not my fault.

1279
01:04:58,480 --> 01:05:01,560
Speaker 2: My heart is breaking for okay.

1280
01:05:01,040 --> 01:05:01,960
Speaker 3: No one can hear you.

1281
01:05:02,400 --> 01:05:03,959
Speaker 2: It shouted that at the mic.

1282
01:05:04,240 --> 01:05:13,640
Speaker 5: Oh ah, he's on the ground, dude, I'm rock bottom

1283
01:05:13,680 --> 01:05:14,840
Speaker 5: this interpretation.

1284
01:05:15,720 --> 01:05:17,960
Speaker 3: I'm a thousand percent. Later, he's like, I hurt myself

1285
01:05:18,040 --> 01:05:19,160
Speaker 3: and did it hurt anything?

1286
01:05:19,160 --> 01:05:21,240
Speaker 2: I could do jumping jacks right now. He really good.

1287
01:05:22,520 --> 01:05:24,800
Speaker 2: It's nice down here on the floors, cold, and oh,

1288
01:05:24,800 --> 01:05:27,200
Speaker 2: here we go. Here's the kicker. And she had grown

1289
01:05:27,280 --> 01:05:32,000
Speaker 2: more fond of but here's the kicker. Oh my gosh,

1290
01:05:32,080 --> 01:05:35,360
Speaker 2: let me read sorry. And she had grown more fond

1291
01:05:35,400 --> 01:05:37,800
Speaker 2: of him since he'd come into our city and they'd

1292
01:05:37,840 --> 01:05:39,439
Speaker 2: had gotten to know each other more.

1293
01:05:39,560 --> 01:05:42,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, I guarantee you she started feeling butterflies when this

1294
01:05:42,560 --> 01:05:44,960
Speaker 3: guy texted her like, I'm gonna be in town and

1295
01:05:45,000 --> 01:05:45,760
Speaker 3: she was like, uh.

1296
01:05:46,240 --> 01:05:49,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's that spark again. I think she'd realize at

1297
01:05:49,760 --> 01:05:52,720
Speaker 2: this point that we're going to break up and so

1298
01:05:52,880 --> 01:05:56,160
Speaker 2: that she might as well be completely honest. And that's

1299
01:05:56,200 --> 01:05:59,200
Speaker 2: the end. They broke up. They had him broken up.

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01:05:59,520 --> 01:06:06,800
Speaker 1: Well cow god, wow, wow, Okay, hey, you're in the

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Speaker 1: This is good.

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Speaker 2: I know it probably feels really bad, but this is good.

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01:06:12,080 --> 01:06:16,880
Speaker 2: This is crazy because why why? Well, because you could

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01:06:16,880 --> 01:06:18,720
Speaker 2: have been married to her with three kids when this

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01:06:18,760 --> 01:06:21,600
Speaker 2: happened and you didn't do that. That is true, And

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01:06:21,720 --> 01:06:23,680
Speaker 2: you know what, you guys did have a healthy enough

1307
01:06:23,840 --> 01:06:24,080
Speaker 2: in a.

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01:06:24,040 --> 01:06:25,600
Speaker 1: Way, I guess if you can describe it like that

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01:06:25,760 --> 01:06:28,439
Speaker 1: relationship to like put this all out into the open,

1310
01:06:28,480 --> 01:06:30,160
Speaker 1: to the point where it's like, no one got cheated on.

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Speaker 2: I think the realized emotional realization there, it's like, oh,

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01:06:34,200 --> 01:06:36,280
Speaker 2: it's like emotionally cheating kind of kind of. But it

1313
01:06:36,320 --> 01:06:38,760
Speaker 2: was more like, hey, I realized, like I actually do

1314
01:06:38,840 --> 01:06:41,320
Speaker 2: love this guy, like like I'm in love with this

1315
01:06:41,360 --> 01:06:43,000
Speaker 2: guy because we should be together.

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01:06:43,040 --> 01:06:44,320
Speaker 3: Guess what she settled for?

1317
01:06:44,400 --> 01:06:44,680
Speaker 2: Op?

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01:06:44,960 --> 01:06:48,400
Speaker 3: I think didn't she say she like, I settled in

1319
01:06:48,440 --> 01:06:52,240
Speaker 3: a way because this was the guy that got away,

1320
01:06:53,640 --> 01:06:56,600
Speaker 3: the one that got away, the one.

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01:06:56,520 --> 01:06:57,840
Speaker 2: Yeah got away?

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01:06:57,960 --> 01:06:58,360
Speaker 3: Thank you?

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01:06:58,400 --> 01:07:03,920
Speaker 2: Well that's great, But all right, that's seen that story.

1324
01:07:04,000 --> 01:07:06,920
Speaker 2: In the end of Dakota's interpreted dancing guys, can we

1325
01:07:06,920 --> 01:07:08,720
Speaker 2: get some claps in the in the chat right now?

1326
01:07:09,040 --> 01:07:10,400
Speaker 2: To him? He killed that?

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01:07:10,880 --> 01:07:15,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know why I did that pratt Fall because

1328
01:07:15,840 --> 01:07:19,440
Speaker 1: I saw what you put on your screen. Ken, Oh,

1329
01:07:19,640 --> 01:07:20,280
Speaker 1: I saw who you.

1330
01:07:20,200 --> 01:07:20,920
Speaker 2: Put on your screen.

1331
01:07:21,840 --> 01:07:22,760
Speaker 3: Do you want to see here?

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01:07:22,960 --> 01:07:23,800
Speaker 2: Jim c Carrey?

1333
01:07:24,600 --> 01:07:26,520
Speaker 3: You mean you? You mean you in the past?

1334
01:07:26,560 --> 01:07:28,840
Speaker 2: Well that's he has a iconic pratfall?

1335
01:07:29,120 --> 01:07:36,240
Speaker 3: Is you young, Jim Carrey? Well you're just Jim Carrey? Okay,

1336
01:07:36,240 --> 01:07:41,480
Speaker 3: don't don't. All right, that's the that story. We're gonna

1337
01:07:41,480 --> 01:07:45,360
Speaker 3: read some more. Dono's Wow, everyone everyone loved the interpretive dance.

1338
01:07:46,120 --> 01:07:47,040
Speaker 3: That's the first time.

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01:07:47,720 --> 01:07:49,200
Speaker 2: Oh god, all right, now I need to go get

1340
01:07:49,240 --> 01:07:50,400
Speaker 2: ice water. I'll be right back.

1341
01:07:51,120 --> 01:07:54,600
Speaker 3: Chat's in the clap, I know, but just seeing it

1342
01:07:54,600 --> 01:07:55,400
Speaker 3: against really funny.

1343
01:07:55,920 --> 01:07:56,720
Speaker 2: That's in the clap.

1344
01:08:01,440 --> 01:08:03,880
Speaker 3: All right, we got some donations.

1345
01:08:03,960 --> 01:08:06,240
Speaker 2: All right, I got it, I got it, I got it.

1346
01:08:06,600 --> 01:08:10,600
Speaker 2: Here we go. That was glorious. Ellie says, Yes, Linda,

1347
01:08:11,240 --> 01:08:14,560
Speaker 2: she seemed to be too much in that guy. She's

1348
01:08:14,680 --> 01:08:19,880
Speaker 2: a player. Yeah, that was pretty crazy. Stephane, No, that sucks. Yeah,

1349
01:08:19,880 --> 01:08:21,519
Speaker 2: that really did suck. Can you go to the other

1350
01:08:21,520 --> 01:08:25,479
Speaker 2: donos as you're fixing it? Can you go to the COVII? Yeah, Skippy,

1351
01:08:25,960 --> 01:08:30,200
Speaker 2: thanks for the twenty five bucks In twenty twenty four,

1352
01:08:30,240 --> 01:08:33,920
Speaker 2: can you put the camera on me too? In twenty

1353
01:08:33,960 --> 01:08:36,920
Speaker 2: twenty four, you got me through my master's degree and

1354
01:08:37,120 --> 01:08:40,519
Speaker 2: a promotion at work, my favorite cat passing and working

1355
01:08:40,560 --> 01:08:43,400
Speaker 2: on my birthday. In twenty twenty five, you'll beginning me

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01:08:43,479 --> 01:08:47,759
Speaker 2: through a second master's degree, plus whatever else is stone

1357
01:08:47,800 --> 01:08:51,439
Speaker 2: at me. Your videos make my life better. Skippy, I

1358
01:08:51,560 --> 01:08:53,880
Speaker 2: love you, and I hope you figure it out, and

1359
01:08:53,920 --> 01:08:56,840
Speaker 2: I'm so glad that you have persevered through a very

1360
01:08:57,280 --> 01:09:00,599
Speaker 2: tough but also like seems like you did pretty well

1361
01:09:00,600 --> 01:09:03,519
Speaker 2: in that year. Keep it up, Keep it up, skippy,

1362
01:09:04,240 --> 01:09:09,240
Speaker 2: keep it up. Uh sase c sin LPC. Thanks for

1363
01:09:09,280 --> 01:09:14,000
Speaker 2: the fifty bucks oh my gosh price of admission for

1364
01:09:14,080 --> 01:09:18,320
Speaker 2: this chaos stream. Yes, love it, We love you, and

1365
01:09:19,240 --> 01:09:21,599
Speaker 2: we are close to another thirty freaking minutes. We will

1366
01:09:21,600 --> 01:09:22,400
Speaker 2: never leave.

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01:09:24,200 --> 01:09:24,559
Speaker 3: Alin.

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01:09:24,840 --> 01:09:29,320
Speaker 2: Thanks for the fifty Ala Ala, thanks for the fifty bucks.

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01:09:30,280 --> 01:09:32,519
Speaker 2: The coda is dancing is the best thing I've seen

1370
01:09:32,840 --> 01:09:35,280
Speaker 2: I've started watching the lines. You guys are the best.

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01:09:35,439 --> 01:09:37,280
Speaker 2: Happy New Year, Happy New Year.

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01:09:37,640 --> 01:09:41,479
Speaker 3: That was beautiful because if you guys liking the stream,

1373
01:09:41,560 --> 01:09:43,559
Speaker 3: if you like the stream, we may spend the wheel

1374
01:09:43,600 --> 01:09:46,280
Speaker 3: again and get that again. That is true.

1375
01:09:46,320 --> 01:09:49,040
Speaker 2: We will be obligated for another wheel spin in exactly

1376
01:09:49,080 --> 01:09:52,240
Speaker 2: two hundred likes. Exactly two hundred yo, if.

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01:09:52,080 --> 01:09:55,200
Speaker 3: You keep doing that, you might get another story. Dakoda

1378
01:09:55,360 --> 01:09:59,000
Speaker 3: actually could be rightly dancing. Yeah, it could be me dancing.

1379
01:09:59,080 --> 01:09:59,960
Speaker 2: It could be you dancing.

1380
01:10:00,560 --> 01:10:02,640
Speaker 3: I know I love dancing. You guys know, do you

1381
01:10:02,640 --> 01:10:03,120
Speaker 3: guys know that?

1382
01:10:03,160 --> 01:10:08,920
Speaker 2: I let him know that one Celsi uh so you

1383
01:10:08,960 --> 01:10:13,880
Speaker 2: got this cell seetal no no no no no as

1384
01:10:13,960 --> 01:10:20,320
Speaker 2: think the stars, Celsia Milky Way potato chill celestewel potato.

1385
01:10:20,400 --> 01:10:26,200
Speaker 2: Thanks for the twenty five Buckrunos Sasi sin lpc Uh Dakota,

1386
01:10:26,360 --> 01:10:32,000
Speaker 2: Dolla dollar bill y'all. That little one is of the

1387
01:10:32,080 --> 01:10:34,439
Speaker 2: five bucks. I was walking my goldfish. Can you do

1388
01:10:34,680 --> 01:10:37,080
Speaker 2: them body rolls again toly if you tell me your

1389
01:10:37,120 --> 01:10:41,360
Speaker 2: goldfish's name and beat bop and nero. Thanks for the

1390
01:10:41,400 --> 01:10:43,719
Speaker 2: twenty bucks. Thank you guys so much for the laughs.

1391
01:10:43,960 --> 01:10:46,519
Speaker 2: We love you guys and hope you all have an

1392
01:10:46,560 --> 01:10:49,439
Speaker 2: amazing year. Also, Dakota, thank you for showing us your

1393
01:10:49,800 --> 01:10:55,519
Speaker 2: entertaining interpretive dance candy. Hey, true, I ain't no squidward

1394
01:10:55,520 --> 01:10:58,680
Speaker 2: tentacles out here, okay? And uh Hannah, thanks again for

1395
01:10:58,720 --> 01:11:01,559
Speaker 2: the fifty five for Dakota. Those interpreted dance.

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01:11:02,920 --> 01:11:06,480
Speaker 3: Those but I didn't yeh Did we get Susanna? Uh?

1397
01:11:06,479 --> 01:11:11,759
Speaker 2: Suzanne was a ten bucks and not saying anything.

1398
01:11:11,760 --> 01:11:13,760
Speaker 1: Get these, Saffie Taffy. You thinks you're being a member

1399
01:11:13,760 --> 01:11:18,760
Speaker 1: for five months. I recognize your freezer user name. Uh yeah,

1400
01:11:18,800 --> 01:11:21,040
Speaker 1: I mean your profile picture, not use her name. All

1401
01:11:21,160 --> 01:11:24,000
Speaker 1: this shows is that he didn't really trust oh, that

1402
01:11:24,080 --> 01:11:26,479
Speaker 1: he really didn't trust her as much as he believed. Well,

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01:11:26,880 --> 01:11:29,320
Speaker 1: I guess it really does show he had good reason.

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01:11:29,080 --> 01:11:32,479
Speaker 2: Not to, that's for sure, except she did kind of

1405
01:11:32,479 --> 01:11:36,320
Speaker 2: tell him immediately bring she did. Ye, she literally that

1406
01:11:36,360 --> 01:11:38,000
Speaker 2: they were breaking up. So that's why she don't Yeah,

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01:11:38,000 --> 01:11:40,080
Speaker 2: I don't know. Yeah, this is yeah weird. Clearly there's

1408
01:11:40,080 --> 01:11:41,360
Speaker 2: a reason why she didn't tell.

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01:11:41,280 --> 01:11:44,799
Speaker 3: You fell for her trap card. That was her trap.

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01:11:45,800 --> 01:11:48,759
Speaker 3: Do you think that she actually like it's like, oh yeah,

1411
01:11:49,200 --> 01:11:50,519
Speaker 3: and he's like, I gotta break up with you.

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01:11:50,880 --> 01:11:53,080
Speaker 2: Well, she probably just omitted that that guy was a

1413
01:11:53,160 --> 01:11:55,200
Speaker 2: romantic partner because she's like, it doesn't matter because it'll

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01:11:55,200 --> 01:11:56,599
Speaker 2: never be here, it will never be a thing again.

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01:11:56,640 --> 01:11:58,320
Speaker 2: He doesn't even need to know anyway.

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01:11:58,800 --> 01:12:01,080
Speaker 1: Wes Lean, thanks for the ten but watching Dakotas interpret

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01:12:01,240 --> 01:12:06,080
Speaker 1: Dance on two time speed the floor. Also, I love

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01:12:06,160 --> 01:12:09,240
Speaker 1: Captain LEVI lurking behind you Keyon, I just finally finished.

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01:12:10,120 --> 01:12:13,639
Speaker 1: Phenomenal Hope y'all have an amazing twenty five.

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01:12:14,080 --> 01:12:18,120
Speaker 2: Good finish to the aot What an amazing what an

1421
01:12:18,120 --> 01:12:19,680
Speaker 2: amazing finish? You know?

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01:12:20,560 --> 01:12:26,960
Speaker 1: Uh kay dud Hey watching Welcome to the Nights.

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01:12:27,439 --> 01:12:29,680
Speaker 3: Uh where did you go?

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01:12:29,760 --> 01:12:35,439
Speaker 2: Where did you go? Uh? Casey leaf watch ching Welcome

1425
01:12:35,479 --> 01:12:39,559
Speaker 2: to the Nights? And is that all.

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01:12:39,520 --> 01:12:42,920
Speaker 3: That keeps scrolling up just in case we missed.

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01:12:43,479 --> 01:12:47,000
Speaker 2: I think we did. Yeah, we do have another one though. Yeah,

1428
01:12:47,080 --> 01:12:49,200
Speaker 2: came in as see girl in an art shop.

1429
01:12:50,320 --> 01:12:51,920
Speaker 1: Thanks for the five gifted memberships.

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01:12:52,000 --> 01:12:58,280
Speaker 2: Let's go more and we got another thirty look at that. Wow,

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01:12:59,080 --> 01:13:00,600
Speaker 2: five more baby.

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01:13:00,240 --> 01:13:04,400
Speaker 1: And thirty more minutes yep, and twenty five more dollars

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01:13:04,439 --> 01:13:06,320
Speaker 1: from Hannah.

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01:13:06,360 --> 01:13:08,400
Speaker 2: Thank you for the twenty five and Hannah says again,

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01:13:08,680 --> 01:13:14,000
Speaker 2: just beautiful, Dakota. Oh stop stop it, death Rage Joe,

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01:13:14,040 --> 01:13:16,280
Speaker 2: I haven't seen you in a minute. Uh, thank you,

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01:13:16,400 --> 01:13:19,520
Speaker 2: Thanks for Timboggs. Thank y'all for just being here and positive.

1438
01:13:20,160 --> 01:13:26,400
Speaker 2: My uncle was unlive intentionally during Halloween, my grandpa died

1439
01:13:26,520 --> 01:13:31,040
Speaker 2: during Christmas, and even more drama that's literally made the news.

1440
01:13:31,560 --> 01:13:34,880
Speaker 2: It's been awful. I needed this stream so badly. Also,

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01:13:35,080 --> 01:13:38,720
Speaker 2: you pronounced my name like death Rage Loo. Yeah.

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01:13:38,920 --> 01:13:43,800
Speaker 7: I think it might be d the Rage, d the

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01:13:43,880 --> 01:13:47,479
Speaker 7: Rage or no, it's it's Deep death Rage, d the

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01:13:47,560 --> 01:13:50,120
Speaker 7: Rage never mind deep Harry.

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01:13:50,240 --> 01:13:52,760
Speaker 2: But she said, also you pronounced my name like my god,

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01:13:52,800 --> 01:13:54,479
Speaker 2: death Rage deep her Age.

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01:13:54,720 --> 01:13:58,120
Speaker 1: Uh oh yeah, I didn't know if regardless.

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01:13:58,160 --> 01:14:01,479
Speaker 2: Wow, that's a lot. Uh hearts first, I'm glad we

1449
01:14:01,520 --> 01:14:03,880
Speaker 2: could hear that she could death range.

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01:14:06,160 --> 01:14:06,439
Speaker 3: Wow.

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01:14:07,920 --> 01:14:12,040
Speaker 2: Uh uh uh sorry, I'm still just trying to figure

1452
01:14:12,080 --> 01:14:14,400
Speaker 2: out whether or not that was affirming that it's death

1453
01:14:14,479 --> 01:14:17,360
Speaker 2: rage or something. No, because there's an e in there

1454
01:14:17,400 --> 01:14:19,280
Speaker 2: that shouldn't be there. If it's death rage, well they

1455
01:14:19,280 --> 01:14:21,439
Speaker 2: may have actually did it. Who knows knows?

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01:14:21,600 --> 01:14:25,320
Speaker 1: Okay, maybe okay, who knows? Ayla, thanks for the twenty

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01:14:25,360 --> 01:14:27,160
Speaker 1: five bucks. Another twenty five from Aila.

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01:14:27,560 --> 01:14:30,679
Speaker 2: Lol. Someone had to say my name was wrong. Someone

1459
01:14:30,720 --> 01:14:32,320
Speaker 2: had to say my name wrong at least once, and

1460
01:14:32,360 --> 01:14:34,679
Speaker 2: I'm not surprised it was Riley. Need thirty more minutes

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01:14:34,680 --> 01:14:41,920
Speaker 2: for this gale. It was really sorry. I know, I'm sorry.

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01:14:42,240 --> 01:14:42,560
Speaker 3: Got you?

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01:14:42,920 --> 01:14:48,080
Speaker 2: Oh gosh? Okay, Adrian, thanks for the fifteen dollars. I

1464
01:14:48,080 --> 01:14:50,000
Speaker 2: missed a lot of the stream because I went to

1465
01:14:50,080 --> 01:14:53,280
Speaker 2: a carnivals. Get another thirty minutes.

1466
01:14:54,439 --> 01:14:57,560
Speaker 3: Thanks for the invite, Yo, Adrian finnel.

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01:14:57,320 --> 01:15:02,960
Speaker 2: Cake a, where's the car? Where's the folk? All right?

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01:15:03,000 --> 01:15:05,439
Speaker 2: You got that one. We'll start this new next story.

1469
01:15:05,600 --> 01:15:06,320
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go get.

1470
01:15:06,200 --> 01:15:20,320
Speaker 3: A burrito I'm making. But before we get into the

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01:15:20,320 --> 01:15:23,120
Speaker 3: street chat, could we just talk about how that's Dakota.

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01:15:23,680 --> 01:15:26,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's kind of crazy, that's wild. Oh and I'm

1473
01:15:26,600 --> 01:15:26,960
Speaker 2: like old.

1474
01:15:27,000 --> 01:15:29,080
Speaker 3: I'm so much older than you, older than you're you're

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01:15:29,080 --> 01:15:30,320
Speaker 3: older than young Jim Carrey.

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01:15:31,240 --> 01:15:36,400
Speaker 2: Oh man, Wow, yeah that's me though. That's crazy, that's

1477
01:15:36,439 --> 01:15:40,120
Speaker 2: kind of crazy. That's kind of crazy. Yeah. So he

1478
01:15:40,200 --> 01:15:43,840
Speaker 2: has a classic pratfall that I was considering doing, and

1479
01:15:43,880 --> 01:15:45,639
Speaker 2: you're right. If I did try to do his.

1480
01:15:45,640 --> 01:15:48,880
Speaker 1: I would have hurt myself severely because he goes forward,

1481
01:15:49,040 --> 01:15:50,720
Speaker 1: he goes forwards and backwards, and.

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01:15:50,680 --> 01:15:52,040
Speaker 3: His knees like go out in front of all his

1483
01:15:52,160 --> 01:15:52,680
Speaker 3: knees give out.

1484
01:15:52,680 --> 01:15:56,600
Speaker 2: It's kind of crazy and it's like, it's hilarious. The

1485
01:15:56,680 --> 01:16:01,599
Speaker 2: king of physical comedy. But yeah, let's do it. Paige,

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01:16:01,640 --> 01:16:03,759
Speaker 2: thanks for being a night decided not to do it?

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01:16:04,960 --> 01:16:06,800
Speaker 2: Uh oh yeah, Paige m Kenzie, Welcome to the Night's

1488
01:16:06,800 --> 01:16:10,000
Speaker 2: Cushine Cashine. Okay, ready, how are you going? How are

1489
01:16:10,000 --> 01:16:15,000
Speaker 2: you going? You have the My boyfriend and I My

1490
01:16:15,160 --> 01:16:19,240
Speaker 2: boyfriend and I. Yeah, okay.

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01:16:20,960 --> 01:16:24,519
Speaker 1: My boyfriend and I planned to get married, but he

1492
01:16:24,720 --> 01:16:26,360
Speaker 1: still hasn't proposed.

1493
01:16:26,520 --> 01:16:28,840
Speaker 2: And it's kind of hard to get married when someone

1494
01:16:28,880 --> 01:16:31,280
Speaker 2: doesn't propel this. Ye know. Oh it's like, oh I

1495
01:16:31,320 --> 01:16:34,800
Speaker 2: thought we had a plan here he's going on. Uh yeah,

1496
01:16:35,680 --> 01:16:38,680
Speaker 2: oh I need to be adjusted. Oh I need an

1497
01:16:38,720 --> 01:16:44,000
Speaker 2: attitude adjustment. Everybody. Oh, he fixed me. He fixed me

1498
01:16:44,040 --> 01:16:44,880
Speaker 2: and made me look pretty.

1499
01:16:45,040 --> 01:16:48,560
Speaker 1: And I twenty three female, have been dating my boyfriend

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01:16:48,560 --> 01:16:53,400
Speaker 1: twenty five male for almost six years.

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01:16:54,760 --> 01:16:57,759
Speaker 2: Is the mathmathing on that this one's kind of a doozy?

1502
01:16:57,760 --> 01:17:00,479
Speaker 2: So I apologize. My boyfriend and I started dating my

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01:17:00,560 --> 01:17:03,720
Speaker 2: freshman year of college in twenty seventeen. By the way,

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01:17:03,760 --> 01:17:04,920
Speaker 2: this comes from user throw.

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01:17:04,800 --> 01:17:09,080
Speaker 1: Away Speechy on the r slash Okay storytime subredit. So

1506
01:17:09,920 --> 01:17:13,280
Speaker 1: everything was going really well and everything just fell into place.

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01:17:13,479 --> 01:17:16,200
Speaker 2: It just felt right until.

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01:17:15,920 --> 01:17:18,679
Speaker 1: The pandemic hit in twenty twenty and we all got

1509
01:17:18,720 --> 01:17:21,639
Speaker 1: sent home to finish college virtually during my senior year.

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01:17:22,240 --> 01:17:23,559
Speaker 2: We have been in a long.

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01:17:23,400 --> 01:17:27,960
Speaker 1: Distance relationship since because I then began attending graduate school

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01:17:27,960 --> 01:17:30,640
Speaker 1: for speech therapy to save money. I lived with my

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01:17:30,720 --> 01:17:33,200
Speaker 1: parents and he lived with his who lived three hours

1514
01:17:33,240 --> 01:17:36,080
Speaker 1: away from me. When the long distance began, my only

1515
01:17:36,160 --> 01:17:38,760
Speaker 1: ask of him was that we be married when I

1516
01:17:38,960 --> 01:17:42,840
Speaker 1: graduate in August twenty twenty three. In our families, it

1517
01:17:42,920 --> 01:17:46,040
Speaker 1: is super important that we are married before living together.

1518
01:17:46,520 --> 01:17:50,439
Speaker 1: You already know purity culture crap. He saw this as

1519
01:17:50,640 --> 01:17:54,160
Speaker 1: reasonable and claimed it was something he really wanted. Then

1520
01:17:54,200 --> 01:17:56,639
Speaker 1: we could get married and get a place together once

1521
01:17:56,680 --> 01:17:57,639
Speaker 1: I'm done with school.

1522
01:17:58,760 --> 01:18:02,160
Speaker 2: Here is the dilemma. He still hasn't proposed yet.

1523
01:18:02,640 --> 01:18:05,759
Speaker 1: Like we had agreed, he expressed that he was planning

1524
01:18:05,760 --> 01:18:08,439
Speaker 1: on talking to my parents to get their blessing before

1525
01:18:08,479 --> 01:18:11,880
Speaker 1: planning the proposal. He initiated a conversation with my parents

1526
01:18:11,880 --> 01:18:15,200
Speaker 1: about next steps in November twenty twenty two and hasn't

1527
01:18:15,200 --> 01:18:18,280
Speaker 1: said anything up until last week. He's been at my

1528
01:18:18,439 --> 01:18:22,200
Speaker 1: house three times and never sought after opportunities to say something.

1529
01:18:22,960 --> 01:18:25,240
Speaker 1: He's putting it off, and there's only one reason why

1530
01:18:25,280 --> 01:18:27,800
Speaker 1: he would. It would be one thing if he had

1531
01:18:27,840 --> 01:18:30,600
Speaker 1: expressed that he wasn't ready for marriage, whether that be

1532
01:18:30,880 --> 01:18:34,360
Speaker 1: not being emotionally ready or financially ready. But he's been

1533
01:18:34,400 --> 01:18:36,880
Speaker 1: talking a lot about engagement for the last two years,

1534
01:18:36,880 --> 01:18:40,719
Speaker 1: getting my hopes up, and then nothing happens. One important

1535
01:18:40,720 --> 01:18:43,000
Speaker 1: thing to note is that he is an only child

1536
01:18:43,080 --> 01:18:45,479
Speaker 1: with a mom who has a meltdown when the idea

1537
01:18:45,560 --> 01:18:47,599
Speaker 1: of marriage or moving out is even mentioned.

1538
01:18:47,800 --> 01:18:51,599
Speaker 2: Oh okay, right, there's the problem.

1539
01:18:51,960 --> 01:18:53,720
Speaker 1: I think you just scored a bingo on why won't

1540
01:18:53,760 --> 01:18:54,719
Speaker 1: my boyfriend propose?

1541
01:18:55,520 --> 01:18:58,040
Speaker 2: Uh? And it's like mom, his mom, mom, his mom,

1542
01:18:58,160 --> 01:19:01,280
Speaker 2: and also his mom. Oh you forgot his mom is insane?

1543
01:19:01,280 --> 01:19:02,240
Speaker 2: Oh but his mom is.

1544
01:19:02,479 --> 01:19:04,559
Speaker 1: That's also the bonus space in the the bingo card

1545
01:19:04,960 --> 01:19:05,599
Speaker 1: is his mom.

1546
01:19:06,400 --> 01:19:07,639
Speaker 2: Oh wow.

1547
01:19:08,680 --> 01:19:12,360
Speaker 1: So she has been an issue throughout our entire relationship

1548
01:19:12,400 --> 01:19:15,800
Speaker 1: because she is constantly trying to create division between us,

1549
01:19:16,040 --> 01:19:18,840
Speaker 1: whether that is talking crap about him to me or

1550
01:19:18,920 --> 01:19:22,800
Speaker 1: vice versa. Yeah, Dawn down talking your own son, being like,

1551
01:19:23,200 --> 01:19:24,080
Speaker 1: you don't want to date this guy.

1552
01:19:24,080 --> 01:19:27,240
Speaker 2: He sucks. Trust me, I raised him. It's terrible.

1553
01:19:29,680 --> 01:19:33,080
Speaker 1: He won't even move out of his parents' house. He

1554
01:19:33,120 --> 01:19:35,080
Speaker 1: lives in bab he still lives in my basement. I'm

1555
01:19:35,080 --> 01:19:40,080
Speaker 1: his mother, and I'm also Tony soprano. Okay, he has

1556
01:19:40,200 --> 01:19:43,160
Speaker 1: now begun expressing fears of leaving his parents when he's

1557
01:19:43,200 --> 01:19:47,040
Speaker 1: the only one there to take care of them. How

1558
01:19:47,080 --> 01:19:51,000
Speaker 1: old are they And he's afraid of he's afraid of

1559
01:19:51,000 --> 01:19:52,479
Speaker 1: what they'll think of him if he leaves for a

1560
01:19:52,520 --> 01:19:56,160
Speaker 1: career opportunity or for me, who is seeking career opportunities

1561
01:19:56,160 --> 01:19:58,160
Speaker 1: in speech therapy in various locations.

1562
01:19:58,520 --> 01:19:59,760
Speaker 2: So really, I'm just gonna pause.

1563
01:19:59,800 --> 01:20:01,840
Speaker 1: Really can say that if your parents want to make

1564
01:20:01,840 --> 01:20:03,920
Speaker 1: you feel guilty for like better in your life or.

1565
01:20:03,840 --> 01:20:06,840
Speaker 2: Pursuing a career or like doing leaving the nest. It's like,

1566
01:20:06,920 --> 01:20:08,479
Speaker 2: you don't have to listen to that. You don't.

1567
01:20:09,040 --> 01:20:11,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, it is as long as you you listen to

1568
01:20:11,640 --> 01:20:12,800
Speaker 1: your heart. If your heart is in the right place,

1569
01:20:12,880 --> 01:20:18,479
Speaker 1: you listen to that. So onto his conversations with my parents,

1570
01:20:18,760 --> 01:20:21,639
Speaker 1: which is the biggest concern I'm having, First he told

1571
01:20:21,640 --> 01:20:24,439
Speaker 1: my parents he was planning on proposing this summer. He

1572
01:20:24,560 --> 01:20:27,920
Speaker 1: then expressed that he was afraid of commitment and sacrifice.

1573
01:20:28,600 --> 01:20:31,920
Speaker 1: My dad asked him what he meant, to which he responded, well,

1574
01:20:32,040 --> 01:20:34,599
Speaker 1: I like my knee time and my space to play

1575
01:20:34,720 --> 01:20:37,840
Speaker 1: video games and watch sporting events, which my parents give me.

1576
01:20:38,240 --> 01:20:41,320
Speaker 2: I'm scared to think that. Uh, I'm scared to give

1577
01:20:41,360 --> 01:20:43,880
Speaker 2: that up for a wife or to help with kids.

1578
01:20:45,240 --> 01:20:45,400
Speaker 5: Mm.

1579
01:20:46,439 --> 01:20:48,880
Speaker 2: That doesn't sound like he's ready for marriage.

1580
01:20:48,920 --> 01:20:51,400
Speaker 3: Sounds like he's not ready for a relationship.

1581
01:20:51,880 --> 01:20:55,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's like, yeah, if I have like wi kids,

1582
01:20:55,800 --> 01:20:59,160
Speaker 2: look at like watch my video games anymore?

1583
01:20:59,280 --> 01:21:02,760
Speaker 1: Potential fi in law, potential mother in law. I just

1584
01:21:02,840 --> 01:21:05,800
Speaker 1: love playing video games and not having responsibilities.

1585
01:21:06,000 --> 01:21:08,400
Speaker 2: That should be red flags you should read alarm like

1586
01:21:09,439 --> 01:21:14,080
Speaker 2: in terms of like is this guy ready and many.

1587
01:21:13,920 --> 01:21:15,599
Speaker 3: Is you might leave?

1588
01:21:15,680 --> 01:21:19,560
Speaker 2: Right? Okay?

1589
01:21:19,760 --> 01:21:24,639
Speaker 1: So after hearing that, this kind of broke me because

1590
01:21:24,680 --> 01:21:27,439
Speaker 1: he would have never said anything like this before moving

1591
01:21:27,439 --> 01:21:28,799
Speaker 1: back home with his parents.

1592
01:21:29,840 --> 01:21:32,280
Speaker 2: He's extremely comfortable with his life and doesn't want to

1593
01:21:32,400 --> 01:21:34,559
Speaker 2: change it. Ooh, that's also another red flag.

1594
01:21:34,840 --> 01:21:38,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, agreed.

1595
01:21:39,240 --> 01:21:46,400
Speaker 2: But but I want to change mine. I want to

1596
01:21:46,439 --> 01:21:49,080
Speaker 2: move out and get an amazing speech therapy career opportunity

1597
01:21:49,200 --> 01:21:51,680
Speaker 2: when August rolls around. I want to get married and

1598
01:21:51,720 --> 01:21:52,320
Speaker 2: have kids.

1599
01:21:52,680 --> 01:21:55,080
Speaker 1: This was something I'd wanted to do with him, but

1600
01:21:55,200 --> 01:21:57,680
Speaker 1: with his unsupportive parents and some of the concerns he's

1601
01:21:57,720 --> 01:22:01,400
Speaker 1: expressing to everyone but me, I'm really scared to proceed

1602
01:22:01,439 --> 01:22:03,879
Speaker 1: with him and include him in things such as apartment

1603
01:22:03,920 --> 01:22:06,439
Speaker 1: or job hunting. Things haven't been the same as they

1604
01:22:06,479 --> 01:22:08,000
Speaker 1: were before we started.

1605
01:22:07,680 --> 01:22:10,640
Speaker 2: Long distance for a long time. I've been trying to

1606
01:22:10,640 --> 01:22:12,920
Speaker 2: remain optimistic through all of this in case things do

1607
01:22:13,040 --> 01:22:14,960
Speaker 2: go back to the way they were once we got

1608
01:22:14,960 --> 01:22:18,599
Speaker 2: a place together, but that optimism is fading. Also. I

1609
01:22:18,760 --> 01:22:22,519
Speaker 2: just gotta say, typically things get even.

1610
01:22:22,320 --> 01:22:24,320
Speaker 1: More different when you move in with your significant other,

1611
01:22:24,880 --> 01:22:28,439
Speaker 1: just putting that out there. I thought I could have

1612
01:22:28,439 --> 01:22:30,880
Speaker 1: the best of both worlds, the career and the guy,

1613
01:22:31,240 --> 01:22:33,720
Speaker 1: but I'm stuck at across roads instead, and I am

1614
01:22:33,760 --> 01:22:36,880
Speaker 1: incredibly stressed and heartbroken. This is supposed to be an

1615
01:22:36,920 --> 01:22:40,479
Speaker 1: exciting time, but it's just dreadful because of.

1616
01:22:40,400 --> 01:22:45,120
Speaker 2: All of this. Any thoughts, please be brutally honest, especially

1617
01:22:45,520 --> 01:22:48,479
Speaker 2: if I could have proceeded differently with this and there

1618
01:22:48,560 --> 01:22:52,400
Speaker 2: is an edit. All right, let's be as brutally honest

1619
01:22:52,400 --> 01:22:54,360
Speaker 2: as we can do. We do that at first, or

1620
01:22:54,400 --> 01:22:57,799
Speaker 2: get brutally honest right now. We'll get brutally honest. Okay,

1621
01:22:58,040 --> 01:23:03,240
Speaker 2: dump him. He is a very comfortable I'm gonna stay

1622
01:23:03,360 --> 01:23:08,519
Speaker 2: as he wants. Pls. Wow. Okay, Wow, that sounds that's

1623
01:23:08,560 --> 01:23:12,559
Speaker 2: that's a pretty strong take. More brutal. I'm gonna go

1624
01:23:12,640 --> 01:23:14,040
Speaker 2: less brutal. No more brutal.

1625
01:23:14,479 --> 01:23:16,160
Speaker 1: I think you clearly need to meet face to face

1626
01:23:16,200 --> 01:23:19,360
Speaker 1: with this guy and try to have a conversation and

1627
01:23:19,400 --> 01:23:21,320
Speaker 1: be like, so, what made you feel like you couldn't

1628
01:23:21,360 --> 01:23:22,200
Speaker 1: come to meet with this stuff?

1629
01:23:22,479 --> 01:23:23,719
Speaker 2: Because clearly you didn't, she said.

1630
01:23:23,800 --> 01:23:26,720
Speaker 1: Every everybody seems to know about this except me, So

1631
01:23:27,600 --> 01:23:29,040
Speaker 1: why why didn't you talk to me about it?

1632
01:23:30,400 --> 01:23:31,360
Speaker 3: Guys ever brought it up?

1633
01:23:31,600 --> 01:23:32,280
Speaker 2: Figure it out?

1634
01:23:32,400 --> 01:23:34,679
Speaker 1: If you're really serious about you wanted to marry this guy?

1635
01:23:35,200 --> 01:23:38,439
Speaker 1: All right, No, a relationship with anybody that's supposed to

1636
01:23:38,520 --> 01:23:40,120
Speaker 1: last forever, it is gonna be really hardsome times.

1637
01:23:40,160 --> 01:23:43,679
Speaker 3: I guarantee you she op will bring it up and

1638
01:23:43,720 --> 01:23:46,240
Speaker 3: he's like, you never brought it up, So like that's

1639
01:23:46,240 --> 01:23:46,559
Speaker 3: on you.

1640
01:23:46,960 --> 01:23:49,479
Speaker 1: And then you get to make the decision right there. Okay,

1641
01:23:49,520 --> 01:23:52,800
Speaker 1: if somebody is that emotionally like immature, do I want

1642
01:23:52,840 --> 01:23:54,559
Speaker 1: to get married to them right now? I don't think

1643
01:23:54,640 --> 01:23:56,559
Speaker 1: the time. Is the time right or is the time wrong?

1644
01:23:57,000 --> 01:23:59,479
Speaker 1: Is this guy ready to step into more responsibility, into

1645
01:23:59,520 --> 01:24:01,280
Speaker 1: a new life or is he not? But here's I

1646
01:24:01,320 --> 01:24:02,880
Speaker 1: don't think you can make that call until you like

1647
01:24:03,000 --> 01:24:04,160
Speaker 1: sit down in front of him.

1648
01:24:04,280 --> 01:24:08,280
Speaker 3: It's also been dipendating for six six years, six years,

1649
01:24:08,360 --> 01:24:10,400
Speaker 3: six years and.

1650
01:24:10,280 --> 01:24:14,639
Speaker 2: Like, but some of it was pandemic. Ohy, pandemic anything

1651
01:24:14,680 --> 01:24:16,280
Speaker 2: that should strengthen your relationship.

1652
01:24:16,320 --> 01:24:18,479
Speaker 3: But they went, they went long distance into anything that

1653
01:24:18,520 --> 01:24:23,200
Speaker 3: should strengthen your relationship. Long distance is rough, is rough,

1654
01:24:23,280 --> 01:24:26,400
Speaker 3: and the pandemic or a pandemic relationship to double the rough.

1655
01:24:26,640 --> 01:24:29,280
Speaker 3: So you're doing both two words with one stone. This relationship,

1656
01:24:29,320 --> 01:24:33,639
Speaker 3: their communication should be on like and top of them everything.

1657
01:24:33,760 --> 01:24:35,719
Speaker 2: You know, crazy, that is to say that in front

1658
01:24:35,760 --> 01:24:41,160
Speaker 2: of your partner's parents. Yeah, that's almost like asking them

1659
01:24:41,200 --> 01:24:44,920
Speaker 2: to break up the relationship for him, He's like, yeah,

1660
01:24:45,080 --> 01:24:46,880
Speaker 2: so I'm thinking about marrying your daughter, but like, I

1661
01:24:46,920 --> 01:24:48,719
Speaker 2: don't know, I just kind of want to watch sports

1662
01:24:48,720 --> 01:24:51,160
Speaker 2: and play video games all day. So what do you

1663
01:24:51,160 --> 01:24:55,960
Speaker 2: guys have to say about that? Yeah, it might be

1664
01:24:56,000 --> 01:24:57,760
Speaker 2: a sunk cost fallacy and you gotta break up with

1665
01:24:57,760 --> 01:25:01,000
Speaker 2: this guy. Now. Dang it, I've been flipped. I was flipped.

1666
01:25:01,320 --> 01:25:03,040
Speaker 3: You were gonna defend that. No.

1667
01:25:03,120 --> 01:25:05,080
Speaker 2: I was just saying, like, probably talk to him first,

1668
01:25:05,120 --> 01:25:06,680
Speaker 2: figure it out, and then move from there.

1669
01:25:06,680 --> 01:25:08,120
Speaker 1: But now I'm flipped. I think it's just you need

1670
01:25:08,160 --> 01:25:09,360
Speaker 1: to talk to him about braining up.

1671
01:25:09,479 --> 01:25:12,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, because like it's not like six months, it's not

1672
01:25:13,080 --> 01:25:16,479
Speaker 3: a year, it's six years, and you get long distance.

1673
01:25:16,800 --> 01:25:20,920
Speaker 3: It did a pandemic relationship. Your communication should be flawless

1674
01:25:21,000 --> 01:25:21,799
Speaker 3: at this point.

1675
01:25:22,000 --> 01:25:24,400
Speaker 2: All right, Well, let's get into the edit. See where

1676
01:25:24,439 --> 01:25:24,880
Speaker 2: this goes.

1677
01:25:26,520 --> 01:25:29,880
Speaker 1: The main issue isn't that he hasn't proposed, if he

1678
01:25:29,960 --> 01:25:33,160
Speaker 1: had concerns about a marriage or wasn't ready, He needs

1679
01:25:33,200 --> 01:25:36,599
Speaker 1: to tell me that he either hasn't told me or

1680
01:25:36,640 --> 01:25:38,960
Speaker 1: whenever I've asked, he brushes it off and says he

1681
01:25:39,000 --> 01:25:42,400
Speaker 1: wants to marry me anyway. My main issue is his consistency.

1682
01:25:42,560 --> 01:25:45,439
Speaker 1: He says one thing but doesn't demonstrate it through actions.

1683
01:25:45,800 --> 01:25:48,519
Speaker 1: I've had conversations with him about this and he just

1684
01:25:48,560 --> 01:25:49,599
Speaker 1: says he'll try to do better.

1685
01:25:49,760 --> 01:25:50,080
Speaker 2: Oop.

1686
01:25:50,160 --> 01:25:52,960
Speaker 1: Well, there goes my suggestion, so it's time to break up.

1687
01:25:53,880 --> 01:25:55,840
Speaker 1: As far as the video games and sports go, I

1688
01:25:55,880 --> 01:25:58,200
Speaker 1: really try not to be nitpicky or controlling about what

1689
01:25:58,240 --> 01:26:00,519
Speaker 1: he does in his spare time or how much of

1690
01:26:00,560 --> 01:26:02,800
Speaker 1: it he does. I've been gas lit and heard in

1691
01:26:02,840 --> 01:26:06,240
Speaker 1: previous relationships for being too controlling, so I try to

1692
01:26:06,280 --> 01:26:09,400
Speaker 1: be extra conscientious of that. I'm supportive of him hanging

1693
01:26:09,400 --> 01:26:11,920
Speaker 1: out with the boys and try to get to know

1694
01:26:12,000 --> 01:26:15,320
Speaker 1: them as well. Although these things aren't my go tos.

1695
01:26:15,720 --> 01:26:18,200
Speaker 1: I try to watch sporting events with him and play

1696
01:26:18,280 --> 01:26:21,040
Speaker 1: video games with him to try to understand the hype.

1697
01:26:22,200 --> 01:26:25,639
Speaker 1: And by the way, you can understand this hype that

1698
01:26:25,720 --> 01:26:31,439
Speaker 1: there are a bunch of stories, nearly limitless well of stories.

1699
01:26:31,000 --> 01:26:32,400
Speaker 2: Just like this one that you can listen to.

1700
01:26:32,840 --> 01:26:35,160
Speaker 1: All you have to do is search Okay story Time

1701
01:26:35,240 --> 01:26:37,920
Speaker 1: on any of your preferred podcast platforms, whether it's Spotify

1702
01:26:38,000 --> 01:26:40,400
Speaker 1: or Apple Music or even YouTube like you can find

1703
01:26:40,439 --> 01:26:41,280
Speaker 1: us pretty much anywhere.

1704
01:26:41,320 --> 01:26:42,080
Speaker 2: All you gotta do is search.

1705
01:26:42,320 --> 01:26:44,720
Speaker 1: Okay, story time, Yep, that's it, and we do have

1706
01:26:44,760 --> 01:26:47,040
Speaker 1: a little bit more of the story. We have another

1707
01:26:47,080 --> 01:26:51,400
Speaker 1: up with the final relevant update here, like there's an updation,

1708
01:26:51,800 --> 01:26:52,479
Speaker 1: there is an update.

1709
01:26:54,280 --> 01:27:00,559
Speaker 2: Marina Marianna Masia says, uh, actions speak a lot than words,

1710
01:27:00,600 --> 01:27:04,360
Speaker 2: and he's literally not doing anything. You're right, yeah, he hasn't.

1711
01:27:04,400 --> 01:27:05,000
Speaker 2: They've already had the.

1712
01:27:04,960 --> 01:27:08,439
Speaker 1: Conversations about it. He won't change. And I like how

1713
01:27:08,479 --> 01:27:09,920
Speaker 1: She's like, I try not to tell him what to do,

1714
01:27:10,000 --> 01:27:11,560
Speaker 1: but it's like, yeah, if you have a partner you

1715
01:27:11,600 --> 01:27:13,400
Speaker 1: want to raise a family with, you need to be like, hey,

1716
01:27:13,439 --> 01:27:14,560
Speaker 1: do you have priorities?

1717
01:27:14,920 --> 01:27:16,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, you kind of even be on the same page

1718
01:27:16,520 --> 01:27:17,200
Speaker 2: about that.

1719
01:27:17,760 --> 01:27:20,240
Speaker 3: What's your drive, What's what's your ambition? What's your goal?

1720
01:27:20,360 --> 01:27:21,519
Speaker 2: Do you want anything?

1721
01:27:21,600 --> 01:27:24,240
Speaker 3: Gaming? Heart? That shit?

1722
01:27:24,760 --> 01:27:28,800
Speaker 2: Shane? Is it Sean or Shane? Sorry, Sanna, Sauna, I

1723
01:27:29,439 --> 01:27:32,479
Speaker 2: put you to your name. But they say he told

1724
01:27:32,560 --> 01:27:35,120
Speaker 2: her exactly what he wants, play video games and hang

1725
01:27:35,160 --> 01:27:38,240
Speaker 2: out with the boys and watch sports. There is her answer.

1726
01:27:38,520 --> 01:27:41,120
Speaker 3: He just he's not mature enough for a relationship.

1727
01:27:41,160 --> 01:27:41,400
Speaker 2: He just.

1728
01:27:43,200 --> 01:27:44,760
Speaker 3: It's just a man child. Like a lot of people

1729
01:27:44,800 --> 01:27:46,680
Speaker 3: were saying in the chat he's a man child, and

1730
01:27:47,439 --> 01:27:51,000
Speaker 3: if you want to date a manchild, that's on you. Yeah,

1731
01:27:51,080 --> 01:27:52,320
Speaker 3: doesn't sound like you want Yeah, yep.

1732
01:27:52,320 --> 01:27:54,560
Speaker 2: If you have two kids, you maybe have the possibility

1733
01:27:54,640 --> 01:27:57,280
Speaker 2: of having three. Yeah, because he's gonna be one of them.

1734
01:27:58,479 --> 01:27:59,280
Speaker 2: That's a big baby.

1735
01:28:01,280 --> 01:28:02,720
Speaker 3: All right, I'm gonna look for an update. If there

1736
01:28:02,800 --> 01:28:04,200
Speaker 3: is one, is one, it's right here.

1737
01:28:04,320 --> 01:28:07,280
Speaker 2: No, no, oh, there is one. Yes, that's why I

1738
01:28:07,360 --> 01:28:10,720
Speaker 2: said that. I didn't know that. Yeah, no, it's let's

1739
01:28:10,840 --> 01:28:13,840
Speaker 2: let's get into the update right now. I think I

1740
01:28:13,880 --> 01:28:15,519
Speaker 2: think it's gonna end with the brain. You're like that

1741
01:28:15,680 --> 01:28:18,639
Speaker 2: guy a just mister Snoopy.

1742
01:28:18,800 --> 01:28:20,160
Speaker 3: That's a real chill guy right there.

1743
01:28:20,200 --> 01:28:26,360
Speaker 2: Hey, Yeah, and update only crap, y'all. It took me

1744
01:28:26,479 --> 01:28:29,920
Speaker 2: four months, but I did it. I ended it. Wow,

1745
01:28:30,560 --> 01:28:33,559
Speaker 2: it took you four months? Whoa, that's crazy?

1746
01:28:33,640 --> 01:28:35,639
Speaker 3: Hey, better late than never true?

1747
01:28:35,840 --> 01:28:38,160
Speaker 2: I mean it was like what if she said looking

1748
01:28:38,240 --> 01:28:41,720
Speaker 2: until she died, dude, that's late, or like a month

1749
01:28:41,760 --> 01:28:44,040
Speaker 2: before she died. That's late.

1750
01:28:46,160 --> 01:28:49,479
Speaker 1: You're what ifs today are something else? Man, I'm here

1751
01:28:49,600 --> 01:28:50,160
Speaker 1: for all of them.

1752
01:28:50,880 --> 01:28:51,360
Speaker 2: Imagine that.

1753
01:28:52,320 --> 01:28:54,240
Speaker 1: I just why don't you just imagine that?

1754
01:28:54,760 --> 01:28:58,439
Speaker 2: Yeah? I do think better late than never is Yeah.

1755
01:28:58,560 --> 01:29:02,640
Speaker 1: Better late than never is well whatever, okay, better than ever.

1756
01:29:02,680 --> 01:29:05,920
Speaker 1: We're gonna finish the story right now. This update is

1757
01:29:06,120 --> 01:29:08,519
Speaker 1: also a doozy, so bear with me. Over the last

1758
01:29:08,600 --> 01:29:11,800
Speaker 1: four months, all of our relationship has been in just

1759
01:29:12,479 --> 01:29:16,439
Speaker 1: talks of either marriage or engagement or taking me out on.

1760
01:29:19,200 --> 01:29:21,000
Speaker 2: On the town. I guess. Okay, let me tell me

1761
01:29:21,120 --> 01:29:21,639
Speaker 2: ate that one more time.

1762
01:29:21,800 --> 01:29:24,280
Speaker 1: Over the last four months, all of our relationship has

1763
01:29:24,400 --> 01:29:29,200
Speaker 1: been just talks of either marriage or engagement or taking

1764
01:29:29,280 --> 01:29:31,439
Speaker 1: me out on the town when he never actually does

1765
01:29:31,520 --> 01:29:32,160
Speaker 1: the things.

1766
01:29:32,240 --> 01:29:32,920
Speaker 2: He says he'll do.

1767
01:29:34,360 --> 01:29:38,000
Speaker 1: Lots of gas lighting, manipulation, the works. Whenever I wanted

1768
01:29:38,040 --> 01:29:41,639
Speaker 1: to have a conversation about serious stuff like where to live, finances, kids,

1769
01:29:41,640 --> 01:29:44,280
Speaker 1: et cetera, he brushed it off like it was nothing.

1770
01:29:44,720 --> 01:29:46,800
Speaker 1: This was how I knew he was not planning for

1771
01:29:46,840 --> 01:29:50,879
Speaker 1: the future. Apparently his parents know more about his financial

1772
01:29:50,920 --> 01:29:53,479
Speaker 1: situation than I do, which don't even get me started.

1773
01:29:54,200 --> 01:29:57,040
Speaker 1: I approached them about it and they showed me how many.

1774
01:29:57,080 --> 01:30:01,960
Speaker 2: Loans he has. Guess what, if you get married, half

1775
01:30:02,000 --> 01:30:04,280
Speaker 2: of those loans are also yours. No way, I didn't

1776
01:30:04,320 --> 01:30:06,760
Speaker 2: know that. Nope, Oh oh my god.

1777
01:30:06,800 --> 01:30:11,559
Speaker 1: An op says they are astronomical.

1778
01:30:12,760 --> 01:30:15,479
Speaker 2: And he hadn't paid a dime since he graduated from

1779
01:30:15,560 --> 01:30:16,720
Speaker 2: college four years ago.

1780
01:30:19,400 --> 01:30:25,320
Speaker 1: Wow, all while having zero expenses nothing. This made me

1781
01:30:25,439 --> 01:30:28,560
Speaker 1: upset because not only did I have expenses, but I

1782
01:30:28,760 --> 01:30:32,280
Speaker 1: was working insane hours to pay for school and for my.

1783
01:30:32,400 --> 01:30:35,280
Speaker 2: Expenses, and he didn't make any attempts to have a stable,

1784
01:30:35,320 --> 01:30:41,040
Speaker 2: consistent job over the summer. At that point, I was done. Wow,

1785
01:30:42,680 --> 01:30:46,000
Speaker 2: I think we're all done. It took a lot of

1786
01:30:46,040 --> 01:30:49,000
Speaker 2: courage to leave, especially considering the problems with his mom.

1787
01:30:49,280 --> 01:30:51,799
Speaker 2: I thought she'd bite my head off for dumping her baby. LMAO.

1788
01:30:51,920 --> 01:30:53,599
Speaker 2: Well it's a good thing. She's not a praying mantis.

1789
01:30:53,840 --> 01:30:56,640
Speaker 2: She can't eat you. But I finally did it this

1790
01:30:56,720 --> 01:30:59,920
Speaker 2: past weekend. Dane, did I dodge a bullet? Agreed?

1791
01:31:00,680 --> 01:31:03,960
Speaker 1: The whole conversation was very gaslighting and manipulative. I felt

1792
01:31:04,000 --> 01:31:06,200
Speaker 1: like I was witnessing a toddler throwing a tantrum. He

1793
01:31:06,360 --> 01:31:09,080
Speaker 1: was crying, pacing, throwing stuff I bought him, et cetera.

1794
01:31:09,320 --> 01:31:11,040
Speaker 1: He accused me of cheating when I told him the

1795
01:31:11,080 --> 01:31:13,519
Speaker 1: long distance was affecting my feelings for him. Whoa, which

1796
01:31:13,560 --> 01:31:16,280
Speaker 1: means he probably cheated. He tried to bribe me with

1797
01:31:16,320 --> 01:31:18,120
Speaker 1: stuff to stay with him like a Nintendo switch.

1798
01:31:20,080 --> 01:31:21,840
Speaker 3: Bro, Bro, he can manipulate me.

1799
01:31:22,360 --> 01:31:25,719
Speaker 2: Uh, date date me, date day, give me the switch,

1800
01:31:25,720 --> 01:31:26,719
Speaker 2: I'll be your girlfriend.

1801
01:31:27,560 --> 01:31:27,680
Speaker 3: Uh.

1802
01:31:28,200 --> 01:31:30,080
Speaker 2: He guilted me for all the dates he took me

1803
01:31:30,160 --> 01:31:32,599
Speaker 2: on over the summer and in college years ago. Keep

1804
01:31:32,640 --> 01:31:35,280
Speaker 2: in mind I was paying for undergrad and graduate school

1805
01:31:35,360 --> 01:31:38,040
Speaker 2: out of pocket and had no money. He accused me

1806
01:31:38,240 --> 01:31:41,040
Speaker 2: of never wanting him to be happy. The worst part

1807
01:31:41,080 --> 01:31:42,920
Speaker 2: when I told his mom we broke up, it was

1808
01:31:43,040 --> 01:31:45,240
Speaker 2: essentially a don't let the door hit you on the

1809
01:31:45,280 --> 01:31:45,759
Speaker 2: way out.

1810
01:31:45,680 --> 01:31:49,400
Speaker 1: Kind of conversation. I don't know why that's bad, that's good.

1811
01:31:49,600 --> 01:31:52,679
Speaker 1: The mom's just like whatever, By uh, mom, you raised

1812
01:31:52,680 --> 01:31:55,360
Speaker 1: the failure. All of these are technically good signs. Yeah,

1813
01:31:55,479 --> 01:31:57,040
Speaker 1: this is a good sign where that you made the

1814
01:31:57,160 --> 01:32:01,880
Speaker 1: best decision. Facts basically said, sorry, y'all broke up. Have

1815
01:32:01,960 --> 01:32:05,160
Speaker 1: a good life, Cyanara, Sammy. And to be honest, I

1816
01:32:05,240 --> 01:32:07,200
Speaker 1: was hoping she'd yell at me or bite my head off.

1817
01:32:07,520 --> 01:32:09,880
Speaker 1: Why were you hoping? Just so I could see her

1818
01:32:09,960 --> 01:32:12,439
Speaker 1: stick up for him a little bit, just to show

1819
01:32:12,479 --> 01:32:14,960
Speaker 1: me he truly cares about she Just to show me

1820
01:32:15,120 --> 01:32:17,680
Speaker 1: she truly cares about his well being and not just

1821
01:32:17,800 --> 01:32:21,519
Speaker 1: her own for whenever he decides to leave her. I'm

1822
01:32:21,640 --> 01:32:24,280
Speaker 1: sad and extremely anxious because I left something that was

1823
01:32:24,360 --> 01:32:27,200
Speaker 1: comfortable and don't know what the future brings. I hated

1824
01:32:27,280 --> 01:32:29,519
Speaker 1: hurting him, but he has inflicted a lot of pain

1825
01:32:29,600 --> 01:32:32,840
Speaker 1: and doubts into my mind, and he hurt himself oo

1826
01:32:34,479 --> 01:32:37,320
Speaker 1: bye boom by never changing. He had these conversations over

1827
01:32:37,320 --> 01:32:38,680
Speaker 1: and over again. He's like, I'll try to do better.

1828
01:32:39,000 --> 01:32:39,599
Speaker 2: He never tried.

1829
01:32:41,360 --> 01:32:43,040
Speaker 1: A lot of you said in the comments that I'm

1830
01:32:43,120 --> 01:32:45,320
Speaker 1: young and it'll be okay, and you're right, but being

1831
01:32:45,360 --> 01:32:48,040
Speaker 1: a girl in your twenties is so hard, especially with

1832
01:32:48,200 --> 01:32:50,400
Speaker 1: finding and maintaining friendships and relationships.

1833
01:32:50,640 --> 01:32:53,080
Speaker 2: It'll be fine, though. Thank you for the advice and support,

1834
01:32:53,360 --> 01:32:55,400
Speaker 2: and thank you for taking the time to read all

1835
01:32:55,479 --> 01:32:59,280
Speaker 2: of my word vomit. The reddit community is truly amazing.

1836
01:33:00,200 --> 01:33:00,559
Speaker 4: And that.

1837
01:33:02,080 --> 01:33:03,400
Speaker 2: Is the end of that story.

1838
01:33:04,320 --> 01:33:06,960
Speaker 3: I kind of called it though, like, yeah, he was

1839
01:33:07,000 --> 01:33:10,040
Speaker 3: gonna just like, oh, you didn't talk about it. It's

1840
01:33:10,080 --> 01:33:13,360
Speaker 3: points plaint a thinker. Yeah, yeah, I mean, because he's

1841
01:33:13,360 --> 01:33:16,760
Speaker 3: a manchild, he can't be accountable for anything, and we

1842
01:33:16,840 --> 01:33:18,040
Speaker 3: saw that with his financials.

1843
01:33:19,320 --> 01:33:22,679
Speaker 2: He's got loans and he's got no job. That's literally

1844
01:33:22,760 --> 01:33:24,760
Speaker 2: I can't even imagine being that.

1845
01:33:25,040 --> 01:33:27,200
Speaker 3: And then he tried to buy switch Bro.

1846
01:33:27,400 --> 01:33:29,479
Speaker 2: This guy, I think he was trying to give it

1847
01:33:29,479 --> 01:33:33,320
Speaker 2: to Yeah, it's like I take my just donated to me.

1848
01:33:34,040 --> 01:33:36,679
Speaker 2: I don't play Switching more because I'm like on the Legends.

1849
01:33:36,760 --> 01:33:39,280
Speaker 2: So there you go. I play the best worst game

1850
01:33:39,320 --> 01:33:42,040
Speaker 2: of all time. Actually know that that.

1851
01:33:42,200 --> 01:33:44,840
Speaker 1: That's a different game, which I will not talk about it.

1852
01:33:45,240 --> 01:33:48,880
Speaker 2: Oh it does, I won't talk about that. But okay,

1853
01:33:48,960 --> 01:33:52,360
Speaker 2: so that was the end. I think it's good. It's good.

1854
01:33:52,439 --> 01:33:54,760
Speaker 1: I know that you feel bad, but you don't need

1855
01:33:54,840 --> 01:33:58,000
Speaker 1: to feel bad because you literally your life is only

1856
01:33:58,000 --> 01:33:58,719
Speaker 1: going to get better.

1857
01:33:59,760 --> 01:34:02,840
Speaker 3: Percent you just drop probably a two hundred pounds of

1858
01:34:02,920 --> 01:34:03,559
Speaker 3: just dead weight.

1859
01:34:03,680 --> 01:34:08,599
Speaker 2: Just pure, just a sack of potatoes off your back. Yep,

1860
01:34:08,920 --> 01:34:13,600
Speaker 2: the monkey is off of your back. Monkey's off up.

1861
01:34:13,920 --> 01:34:16,400
Speaker 2: Up what I'm trying to find.

1862
01:34:16,479 --> 01:34:20,840
Speaker 3: The next story, next, the next mega that's why.

1863
01:34:21,280 --> 01:34:24,320
Speaker 2: Okay, right, but that's the end of that story and

1864
01:34:24,360 --> 01:34:30,360
Speaker 2: we're gonna get into another another one page Mackenzie, thanks

1865
01:34:30,439 --> 01:34:33,519
Speaker 2: for coming to the Knights, ching ching, that's it. That's it.

1866
01:34:34,479 --> 01:34:37,120
Speaker 2: No donuts. I guess we all were enjoying this story.

1867
01:34:37,360 --> 01:34:39,320
Speaker 1: All right, Well, the timer will get a little lower

1868
01:34:39,360 --> 01:34:40,480
Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden.

1869
01:34:40,600 --> 01:34:45,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, they'll start getting coreys finding Our next story is fine,

1870
01:34:46,080 --> 01:34:50,360
Speaker 2: not even man child, he's a little bitch boy. Oh

1871
01:34:50,479 --> 01:34:54,679
Speaker 2: yeah yeah, he's a bee boy. And Danny Lynn many

1872
01:34:54,880 --> 01:34:59,960
Speaker 2: more like until the spin. Well we got and forty

1873
01:35:00,680 --> 01:35:03,519
Speaker 2: yep that no, yep, yep, that's that's what it is.

1874
01:35:03,720 --> 01:35:07,320
Speaker 2: That is Miss Stuve happy INDI eating. And I also

1875
01:35:07,400 --> 01:35:13,360
Speaker 2: saw miss stuff, miss youth, that you also went through

1876
01:35:13,400 --> 01:35:16,080
Speaker 2: something similar, and I'm so glad that you're out of it,

1877
01:35:16,200 --> 01:35:18,240
Speaker 2: even though it did take time. We all have to

1878
01:35:18,400 --> 01:35:23,679
Speaker 2: learn and get through that. Linda oldest boys g Mass

1879
01:35:23,680 --> 01:35:26,320
Speaker 2: still loves me and calls me her daughter in law

1880
01:35:26,520 --> 01:35:31,120
Speaker 2: even though I never married her son. Oh that's sweet,

1881
01:35:31,880 --> 01:35:37,920
Speaker 2: Emma Wilkins. No more baggage to take on flights? Yes, yes, yes,

1882
01:35:38,040 --> 01:35:40,120
Speaker 2: one time I went in a flight and didn't have baggage,

1883
01:35:41,040 --> 01:35:42,439
Speaker 2: even though I Hey, that.

1884
01:35:42,560 --> 01:35:43,479
Speaker 3: Was so last year.

1885
01:35:43,720 --> 01:35:46,360
Speaker 2: That was so last year. That was last year, dude,

1886
01:35:46,400 --> 01:35:48,400
Speaker 2: So four that's crazy.

1887
01:35:48,080 --> 01:35:50,919
Speaker 3: Hey doesn't doesn't. Twenty twenty four. I feel like like yesterday,

1888
01:35:51,360 --> 01:35:52,360
Speaker 3: like a couple of days ago.

1889
01:35:52,920 --> 01:35:57,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, wow, yesterday, it was like forty eight hours ago.

1890
01:35:57,680 --> 01:36:00,280
Speaker 2: Ha ha ha are you aren't you so proud of those?

1891
01:36:00,320 --> 01:36:03,240
Speaker 1: I'm so mad I didn't make that joke. Listen when

1892
01:36:03,320 --> 01:36:04,040
Speaker 1: the time changed.

1893
01:36:04,040 --> 01:36:07,040
Speaker 3: Do you see my do you see my alumni?

1894
01:36:07,200 --> 01:36:09,960
Speaker 2: Silly goose, silly goose? You s g My brother has

1895
01:36:10,000 --> 01:36:11,120
Speaker 2: that same hurt? Did you want r?

1896
01:36:11,280 --> 01:36:12,639
Speaker 3: S gu Do I go to college?

1897
01:36:13,400 --> 01:36:16,960
Speaker 2: Done? Can we just play that sound effect? Sometimes we

1898
01:36:17,080 --> 01:36:21,720
Speaker 2: put that on the soundboard. No from no, because they

1899
01:36:21,760 --> 01:36:24,040
Speaker 2: can get copyrighted. Just that the sound effect?

1900
01:36:24,080 --> 01:36:25,320
Speaker 3: Ye, the most.

1901
01:36:26,520 --> 01:36:28,479
Speaker 2: Everyone has to monetize everything if someone else.

1902
01:36:29,840 --> 01:36:34,760
Speaker 8: Let let things live, all right, the man, Here we go,

1903
01:36:35,000 --> 01:36:38,640
Speaker 8: my husband open yep, all right, you can do it

1904
01:36:39,640 --> 01:36:40,000
Speaker 8: all right?

1905
01:36:40,160 --> 01:36:40,519
Speaker 2: Here we go.

1906
01:36:41,960 --> 01:36:44,320
Speaker 3: Wait, wait, I think we just got on. Let's read that.

1907
01:36:44,720 --> 01:36:48,280
Speaker 2: Oh, Justina read thanks for being a mother member for

1908
01:36:48,360 --> 01:36:51,040
Speaker 2: one month. I haven't been active for this month as

1909
01:36:51,120 --> 01:36:53,160
Speaker 2: my family had a lot of issues. I'm glad to

1910
01:36:53,240 --> 01:36:56,479
Speaker 2: be back and your suggan agains keep me going. Well,

1911
01:36:57,240 --> 01:36:59,519
Speaker 2: I'm glad you were back as well, and we're gonna

1912
01:36:59,520 --> 01:37:03,439
Speaker 2: get back to reading this next story, get back to

1913
01:37:03,520 --> 01:37:08,400
Speaker 2: some chganigans. My husband opened our marriage, but I refused

1914
01:37:08,760 --> 01:37:14,559
Speaker 2: to close it. Okay, great idea hobby.

1915
01:37:14,920 --> 01:37:17,280
Speaker 3: This is a tale oldest time overad here.

1916
01:37:18,080 --> 01:37:21,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, one door opens, another one refuses to close.

1917
01:37:21,880 --> 01:37:25,519
Speaker 2: Oh, boy with us and it's the same door. Oh

1918
01:37:26,520 --> 01:37:33,840
Speaker 2: the back door. I forty female married my husband forty

1919
01:37:33,840 --> 01:37:37,400
Speaker 2: two mail, eighteen years ago. We have one daughter, sixteen

1920
01:37:37,439 --> 01:37:40,960
Speaker 2: female and a fourteen male son. We met in college

1921
01:37:41,000 --> 01:37:43,160
Speaker 2: and fell in love. By the way, this comes from

1922
01:37:43,360 --> 01:37:45,479
Speaker 2: delely Did on the r. Slade Show. Okay, story tom,

1923
01:37:45,479 --> 01:37:47,960
Speaker 2: so I'll reread it. So my husband lost his parents

1924
01:37:48,000 --> 01:37:54,120
Speaker 2: in an accident. As a friend, sorry, what does that happened?

1925
01:37:54,240 --> 01:37:56,800
Speaker 3: Did you have a stronk? Also? I had a read

1926
01:37:56,960 --> 01:38:00,800
Speaker 3: tragedy and you were like, wait, I forgot to click

1927
01:38:00,880 --> 01:38:01,719
Speaker 3: the recording button.

1928
01:38:02,200 --> 01:38:04,120
Speaker 2: Okay, let's running back. Everyone. We're gonna run it back

1929
01:38:04,120 --> 01:38:07,960
Speaker 2: because I's we're gonna run it, run it back, run

1930
01:38:08,000 --> 01:38:09,519
Speaker 2: it all right, We're running it back so I know

1931
01:38:09,720 --> 01:38:12,800
Speaker 2: not to laugh. Oh that actually saved me.

1932
01:38:13,160 --> 01:38:16,280
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, see I saved you. It was a blessing

1933
01:38:16,320 --> 01:38:17,679
Speaker 3: in disguise. We got Are you ready?

1934
01:38:17,760 --> 01:38:17,880
Speaker 2: Yep?

1935
01:38:17,920 --> 01:38:19,719
Speaker 3: Sorry? From the top ice is freezer burned?

1936
01:38:21,640 --> 01:38:25,439
Speaker 2: What all right? We're going? My husband opened our marriage,

1937
01:38:25,600 --> 01:38:29,080
Speaker 2: but I refused to close it. One door opens and

1938
01:38:29,240 --> 01:38:32,559
Speaker 2: it never closes again. Man, it's like the back door.

1939
01:38:34,360 --> 01:38:37,880
Speaker 2: I forty female married my husband forty two mail eighteen

1940
01:38:37,960 --> 01:38:41,040
Speaker 2: years ago. We have one daughter sixteen female and one

1941
01:38:41,120 --> 01:38:43,960
Speaker 2: son fourteen mal. We met in college and fell in love.

1942
01:38:44,479 --> 01:38:46,640
Speaker 2: By the way, this comes from Deli Ted on the

1943
01:38:46,800 --> 01:38:48,920
Speaker 2: r slash Okay story time. So I broad it. So,

1944
01:38:49,080 --> 01:38:51,240
Speaker 2: my husband lost his parents in accident.

1945
01:38:52,760 --> 01:38:54,439
Speaker 3: You had a second chance.

1946
01:38:55,360 --> 01:38:58,840
Speaker 2: You had a second chance. Man, how do you mess

1947
01:38:58,880 --> 01:39:01,160
Speaker 2: that up? I saved you and then that's how you

1948
01:39:01,280 --> 01:39:04,640
Speaker 2: do That's how you deal with that chance. It just

1949
01:39:04,760 --> 01:39:08,439
Speaker 2: happened so abruptly. Like I we rarely read stories. We're

1950
01:39:08,520 --> 01:39:11,840
Speaker 2: like a tragedy that fast, Like all right, Bruce Wayne,

1951
01:39:14,000 --> 01:39:17,040
Speaker 2: It's just like I think I understand you do that.

1952
01:39:17,200 --> 01:39:19,920
Speaker 2: It's like like you sit down and like asking my

1953
01:39:20,200 --> 01:39:22,120
Speaker 2: like so, like how's your day? And they sit down

1954
01:39:22,120 --> 01:39:24,360
Speaker 2: and they're like, swell well, my like and they just

1955
01:39:24,439 --> 01:39:26,160
Speaker 2: hit you with like the heaviest thing you've ever heard.

1956
01:39:26,200 --> 01:39:28,880
Speaker 2: And you're like, I'm not expecting that. I'm sorry, I'm sorry,

1957
01:39:29,080 --> 01:39:31,880
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I thought you were gonna say good my bad.

1958
01:39:32,680 --> 01:39:37,519
Speaker 2: You just say you so, I know, I know, I'm

1959
01:39:37,600 --> 01:39:40,160
Speaker 2: just gonna help it. Oh my gosh, I know everyone

1960
01:39:40,280 --> 01:39:44,080
Speaker 2: I know. My husband lost his parents in an accident.

1961
01:39:45,000 --> 01:39:47,000
Speaker 2: Stop stop way.

1962
01:39:49,000 --> 01:39:49,920
Speaker 3: What the fuck.

1963
01:39:51,280 --> 01:39:56,400
Speaker 2: Am I am? I doing this one? Oh my gosh, dude,

1964
01:39:56,439 --> 01:39:58,000
Speaker 2: this is gonna be so bad. Okay, I'm just gonna

1965
01:39:58,040 --> 01:40:00,760
Speaker 2: go through it. How you'd be can get me right now?

1966
01:40:00,800 --> 01:40:02,559
Speaker 2: If I was doing this, sorry, I.

1967
01:40:02,680 --> 01:40:05,920
Speaker 1: Know you would be shooting laser beams at me out

1968
01:40:05,960 --> 01:40:06,639
Speaker 1: of your eyeball.

1969
01:40:12,080 --> 01:40:15,400
Speaker 2: Oh my god, here we go, here we go, scrap

1970
01:40:15,520 --> 01:40:16,320
Speaker 2: the year will start over.

1971
01:40:18,800 --> 01:40:24,519
Speaker 1: My husband broda in a funny voice, in a funny voice,

1972
01:40:25,320 --> 01:40:25,560
Speaker 1: do it.

1973
01:40:27,560 --> 01:40:28,720
Speaker 3: I got it, I got it. I got it.

1974
01:40:32,800 --> 01:40:35,759
Speaker 2: My husband, my husband lost his parents in an accident.

1975
01:40:36,120 --> 01:40:40,720
Speaker 2: And as a friend, God, god dag it, I did

1976
01:40:40,760 --> 01:40:44,160
Speaker 2: it right. I did it right. And you guys couldn't

1977
01:40:44,160 --> 01:40:44,560
Speaker 2: hold it in.

1978
01:40:44,920 --> 01:40:48,320
Speaker 1: I love because I could see the burning concentration in

1979
01:40:48,400 --> 01:40:55,400
Speaker 1: your eyeballs to just not pause. And he's like, I'm sorry, everyoney,

1980
01:40:55,800 --> 01:40:59,559
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. My parents were eaten by Shamus sea world. Okay,

1981
01:40:59,600 --> 01:41:02,519
Speaker 1: all right, now look we did that. Now it's here

1982
01:41:02,520 --> 01:41:04,840
Speaker 1: we go, Here we go. I cannot read strategy, and

1983
01:41:05,000 --> 01:41:07,120
Speaker 1: I will add two minutes to the timer. Please add

1984
01:41:07,160 --> 01:41:13,439
Speaker 1: two minutes to the timer. Please, here we go, So

1985
01:41:13,479 --> 01:41:13,760
Speaker 1: you take it.

1986
01:41:14,240 --> 01:41:16,800
Speaker 3: He's already smirking. Take a deep breat Dakota I'm done.

1987
01:41:17,439 --> 01:41:18,000
Speaker 2: It's moved on.

1988
01:41:18,040 --> 01:41:21,439
Speaker 1: I already talked about shamou my head everywhere. I'm ready

1989
01:41:21,479 --> 01:41:23,760
Speaker 1: you two minutes, I will read you got this, You

1990
01:41:23,880 --> 01:41:26,560
Speaker 1: got this all right. My husband lost his parents in

1991
01:41:26,600 --> 01:41:29,200
Speaker 1: an accident, and as a friend, I consoled him and

1992
01:41:29,360 --> 01:41:32,160
Speaker 1: we became close. We are from the same city and

1993
01:41:32,320 --> 01:41:35,479
Speaker 1: he lived around ten clump and he lived around ten

1994
01:41:35,560 --> 01:41:39,120
Speaker 1: kilometers from our house, so we just clicked. Our marriage

1995
01:41:39,280 --> 01:41:42,600
Speaker 1: has its own shares of ups and downs, but financially

1996
01:41:42,920 --> 01:41:45,200
Speaker 1: we are in a good place. I owned a house

1997
01:41:45,320 --> 01:41:48,799
Speaker 1: gifted by my parents, and he inherited his parents' house.

1998
01:41:48,720 --> 01:41:54,479
Speaker 2: After they're passing away. Brother you had I'm sorry, I'm sorry, okay,

1999
01:41:55,400 --> 01:41:58,679
Speaker 2: and and he inherited his parents after they're passing away.

2000
01:41:59,080 --> 01:42:03,280
Speaker 2: I run my own bridal butique and we make good

2001
01:42:03,400 --> 01:42:06,720
Speaker 2: and we make good money. He is an insurance head,

2002
01:42:07,200 --> 01:42:11,080
Speaker 2: and we have multiple properties and built our future together

2003
01:42:11,520 --> 01:42:15,320
Speaker 2: and for our children. We also have created a mutual

2004
01:42:15,400 --> 01:42:18,800
Speaker 2: will in case one parent has to pass away his

2005
01:42:19,760 --> 01:42:24,479
Speaker 2: or hers of that his or her at sorry, his

2006
01:42:24,720 --> 01:42:27,800
Speaker 2: or her of assets will go to our children only,

2007
01:42:28,640 --> 01:42:33,720
Speaker 2: irrespective irrespective of the living parent marrying again or not.

2008
01:42:34,960 --> 01:42:38,719
Speaker 2: Last year, my husband started distancing and I was worried

2009
01:42:39,439 --> 01:42:44,360
Speaker 2: he started ignoring me, stopped getting physical, et cetera. In

2010
01:42:44,479 --> 01:42:49,160
Speaker 2: the end, he told me he finds me big and

2011
01:42:49,600 --> 01:43:00,160
Speaker 2: fugly and he doesn't get a turn on. Ah. That's

2012
01:43:00,200 --> 01:43:04,880
Speaker 2: brutally honest. I've ever heard it. Gosh, super nicee Ah.

2013
01:43:05,080 --> 01:43:08,160
Speaker 2: He'd be like, even it. Never mind, nope, never mind. Yeah,

2014
01:43:08,160 --> 01:43:11,080
Speaker 2: I won't bring no Oh my gosh, Nope. I was

2015
01:43:11,160 --> 01:43:14,120
Speaker 2: so busy raising kids and my business that I stop

2016
01:43:14,320 --> 01:43:16,920
Speaker 2: caring about it. He said he doesn't want to destroy

2017
01:43:16,960 --> 01:43:19,639
Speaker 2: the family, but he wants to have a spicy sleep

2018
01:43:19,720 --> 01:43:23,360
Speaker 2: outside the marriage. He said he won't be hip. He

2019
01:43:23,400 --> 01:43:25,559
Speaker 2: said he won't be a hypocrite and that I can

2020
01:43:25,640 --> 01:43:28,800
Speaker 2: do the same. I cried and begged, but he didn't listen.

2021
01:43:29,360 --> 01:43:32,879
Speaker 2: After weeks of crying and self pity, I accepted the proposal.

2022
01:43:33,680 --> 01:43:35,920
Speaker 2: I also started working out, and guys in the gym

2023
01:43:36,000 --> 01:43:37,840
Speaker 2: started hitting on me. I mean, that's the best thing

2024
01:43:37,880 --> 01:43:40,240
Speaker 2: you can do at that point. Yeah, no, you're on

2025
01:43:40,320 --> 01:43:42,479
Speaker 2: your revenge arc. Now he's like, I don't know. I

2026
01:43:42,680 --> 01:43:46,479
Speaker 2: just like, literally just think you're gross, and you go, okay,

2027
01:43:46,760 --> 01:43:47,799
Speaker 2: you want to open the marriage.

2028
01:43:47,920 --> 01:43:50,000
Speaker 1: Cool, I'll get nice and hot.

2029
01:43:50,080 --> 01:43:54,040
Speaker 2: Now I've had my share of hookups and fun. But

2030
01:43:54,200 --> 01:43:57,240
Speaker 2: finally I'm getting along with a man who is thirty five.

2031
01:43:57,600 --> 01:44:00,639
Speaker 2: He treats me on dates and spice. Sleep is good.

2032
01:44:01,160 --> 01:44:05,040
Speaker 2: I also change my dressing from traditional two more western

2033
01:44:05,240 --> 01:44:11,320
Speaker 2: and spicyly looking nicely and has lost and I have

2034
01:44:11,439 --> 01:44:15,759
Speaker 2: lost weight and I have nice curves too. She's winning

2035
01:44:15,880 --> 01:44:20,000
Speaker 2: on all frontiers. She's kicking bus Now, is there a

2036
01:44:20,160 --> 01:44:23,439
Speaker 2: way where you can express that to your partner that,

2037
01:44:23,720 --> 01:44:28,120
Speaker 2: like you, you're not finding them physically like attractive anymore

2038
01:44:28,320 --> 01:44:32,519
Speaker 2: without like just going full nuclear like, is there a

2039
01:44:32,560 --> 01:44:35,360
Speaker 2: way you can express because that happens, There is a way,

2040
01:44:35,439 --> 01:44:37,920
Speaker 2: But I have never heard of a man that has

2041
01:44:38,080 --> 01:44:42,040
Speaker 2: got away with it instilled live like there's this a secret,

2042
01:44:42,120 --> 01:44:45,760
Speaker 2: forbidden technique that cannot be uttered. But like for real though,

2043
01:44:45,800 --> 01:44:48,160
Speaker 2: it's like it's like, honestly, it's like a poll for that,

2044
01:44:48,400 --> 01:44:50,439
Speaker 2: but it's like, I don't know what the pole jumping

2045
01:44:50,479 --> 01:44:53,120
Speaker 2: out of a plane without a parachute, you can only

2046
01:44:53,160 --> 01:44:53,559
Speaker 2: do it once.

2047
01:44:57,160 --> 01:44:58,760
Speaker 3: I guess you're really really lucky.

2048
01:45:00,080 --> 01:45:03,960
Speaker 2: My husband, luckily or sadly, didn't have such luck. He

2049
01:45:04,120 --> 01:45:08,040
Speaker 2: is tall and all, but he overrated his chances. He

2050
01:45:08,160 --> 01:45:12,320
Speaker 2: got hookups here and there, but barely, they repeated him.

2051
01:45:13,080 --> 01:45:16,160
Speaker 2: He thought he could woo girls with money. Girls today

2052
01:45:16,240 --> 01:45:19,519
Speaker 2: are independent and can't be boot and can't be wooed

2053
01:45:19,560 --> 01:45:22,000
Speaker 2: with money alone. I was going on a date when

2054
01:45:22,080 --> 01:45:25,479
Speaker 2: my kids were with my parents and he was pissed.

2055
01:45:26,280 --> 01:45:28,920
Speaker 2: He said not to go. I didn't care and went,

2056
01:45:30,280 --> 01:45:32,160
Speaker 2: oh that's wor good. Okay. So he was making sure

2057
01:45:32,200 --> 01:45:32,920
Speaker 2: this wasn't a repeat.

2058
01:45:33,000 --> 01:45:36,360
Speaker 3: Oh okay, I feel like this oddly familiar.

2059
01:45:36,600 --> 01:45:39,439
Speaker 2: Oh, it's happened plenty of armazudes I have read.

2060
01:45:39,479 --> 01:45:42,080
Speaker 1: This is probably like my you know, crazy about that

2061
01:45:42,280 --> 01:45:44,920
Speaker 1: is that what that speaks to is a shared human experience.

2062
01:45:45,400 --> 01:45:49,040
Speaker 2: We actually all basically we all go through very similar stuff.

2063
01:45:49,400 --> 01:45:52,840
Speaker 2: All we all share the same bonds as humans. Ah.

2064
01:45:53,640 --> 01:45:56,160
Speaker 2: Now he's saying he wants to close this marriage, and

2065
01:45:56,400 --> 01:45:59,360
Speaker 2: I just laughed at him. Haha. I told him this

2066
01:45:59,560 --> 01:46:04,960
Speaker 2: is the arrangement he wanted, and I'm ordering it. That's

2067
01:46:05,000 --> 01:46:08,839
Speaker 2: even better than divorce. Honestly, I am enjoying the attention

2068
01:46:09,560 --> 01:46:12,759
Speaker 2: these hunks give me and he and it's not my fault.

2069
01:46:12,800 --> 01:46:16,000
Speaker 2: Women don't want him. He started calling me the names, and.

2070
01:46:16,080 --> 01:46:20,720
Speaker 1: I called him a man or a mandingus.

2071
01:46:22,360 --> 01:46:25,439
Speaker 2: He is threatening divorce and I'm fine with it because

2072
01:46:25,560 --> 01:46:30,160
Speaker 2: our laws favor women more. I pointed that out to him.

2073
01:46:30,680 --> 01:46:33,800
Speaker 2: He started crying and begging to close the marriage again.

2074
01:46:34,160 --> 01:46:38,080
Speaker 2: But I am refusing. Girl, this is a win lose

2075
01:46:38,360 --> 01:46:41,640
Speaker 2: any way you take it. You're winning. He's losing. I

2076
01:46:41,720 --> 01:46:44,240
Speaker 2: was about to say, where's she losing? No, no, she's not.

2077
01:46:44,400 --> 01:46:45,639
Speaker 3: She's not losing this man.

2078
01:46:45,880 --> 01:46:49,200
Speaker 2: Yeah. She had one bad day where he was like,

2079
01:46:49,720 --> 01:46:53,160
Speaker 2: you're ugly and fat, and then she turned it around

2080
01:46:53,200 --> 01:46:54,800
Speaker 2: and I had a million good days and he will

2081
01:46:54,840 --> 01:46:58,200
Speaker 2: forever have a million bad days because I had one comment.

2082
01:46:58,840 --> 01:47:02,479
Speaker 2: Somebody said, there's a couple of different takes on like

2083
01:47:02,640 --> 01:47:05,040
Speaker 2: how you would appropriately say this. I mean definitely, you

2084
01:47:05,160 --> 01:47:11,240
Speaker 2: don't h o t t og o. You definitely don't

2085
01:47:11,280 --> 01:47:12,479
Speaker 2: be like yeah, I don't know, you're like.

2086
01:47:12,600 --> 01:47:15,360
Speaker 1: You're fat and ugly, Like that's not you don't say

2087
01:47:15,400 --> 01:47:16,240
Speaker 1: that to your partner.

2088
01:47:17,200 --> 01:47:20,599
Speaker 2: You'll say that anyone. Somebody said like, like, oh, why

2089
01:47:20,720 --> 01:47:22,840
Speaker 2: we should what if we started working out together? I

2090
01:47:22,880 --> 01:47:25,000
Speaker 2: think it would bring us closer together as a couple. Okay,

2091
01:47:25,800 --> 01:47:29,120
Speaker 2: that would be cool. Yeah, and he's right, I don't know.

2092
01:47:29,600 --> 01:47:32,960
Speaker 2: You could say that sounds like maybe that, but like, yeah,

2093
01:47:33,120 --> 01:47:35,400
Speaker 2: I don't know. Man. Yeah, there's there's this guy I

2094
01:47:35,439 --> 01:47:40,280
Speaker 2: fhone on Instagram and and this guy he does the

2095
01:47:40,360 --> 01:47:43,240
Speaker 2: best transformations ever. He'll get like a woman that like

2096
01:47:43,360 --> 01:47:46,000
Speaker 2: looks kind of like, you know, uh, not the best

2097
01:47:46,040 --> 01:47:47,800
Speaker 2: looking at first, and she's kind of like her hair

2098
01:47:47,880 --> 01:47:50,040
Speaker 2: is kind of all over, it's made like African American women,

2099
01:47:50,240 --> 01:47:51,560
Speaker 2: like her hair is kind of crazy and all that,

2100
01:47:51,600 --> 01:47:53,240
Speaker 2: and they don't look the best. And then he does

2101
01:47:53,280 --> 01:47:56,599
Speaker 2: a crazy makeover and they are just flawed with how

2102
01:47:56,640 --> 01:47:58,720
Speaker 2: they look and they just start crying. And I showed

2103
01:47:58,760 --> 01:48:01,000
Speaker 2: that to my mom and she's like, yeah, some women

2104
01:48:01,080 --> 01:48:04,160
Speaker 2: put priorities over their looks. Like she was providing for

2105
01:48:04,240 --> 01:48:08,080
Speaker 2: her family and by being a mother and a business woman,

2106
01:48:08,520 --> 01:48:10,360
Speaker 2: and she probably was like, you know, I didn't put

2107
01:48:10,360 --> 01:48:12,320
Speaker 2: attention on my looks or how I look because I

2108
01:48:12,439 --> 01:48:14,519
Speaker 2: was putting so much attention on my family and the

2109
01:48:14,600 --> 01:48:16,320
Speaker 2: husband just all of a sudden like we should open

2110
01:48:16,360 --> 01:48:19,160
Speaker 2: it your ugly and fat, yeah, and not working on

2111
01:48:19,240 --> 01:48:22,200
Speaker 2: that while she was sacrificing so much of herself for that.

2112
01:48:23,280 --> 01:48:25,639
Speaker 2: That's crazy. That's crazy. So I just had to say

2113
01:48:25,640 --> 01:48:28,920
Speaker 2: that absolutely, But I'm gonna get in this to edit

2114
01:48:29,800 --> 01:48:33,360
Speaker 2: edits thirty five mel Is in divorce process, and our

2115
01:48:33,479 --> 01:48:36,360
Speaker 2: country takes years to have a divorce if the wife

2116
01:48:36,479 --> 01:48:41,560
Speaker 2: isn't consenting. We are taking it slow. But he is

2117
01:48:41,640 --> 01:48:45,040
Speaker 2: an amazing man. Am I the hole? I think she's

2118
01:48:45,080 --> 01:48:46,000
Speaker 2: talking about the other guy?

2119
01:48:46,200 --> 01:48:46,320
Speaker 3: Oh?

2120
01:48:46,360 --> 01:48:49,840
Speaker 2: Wow that she's in Yeah, ooh, she's in cohoots with

2121
01:48:50,640 --> 01:48:53,800
Speaker 2: our children. Have no idea we are involved parents. But

2122
01:48:53,920 --> 01:48:58,479
Speaker 2: stop stressing about them. Stop stressing about them. Also planning

2123
01:48:58,520 --> 01:49:01,559
Speaker 2: to get divorced when both are in college. Ooh that's

2124
01:49:01,600 --> 01:49:05,040
Speaker 2: a few years from now. Ps, who thinks it's fake?

2125
01:49:05,200 --> 01:49:08,000
Speaker 2: You can believe what you want to. I don't have

2126
01:49:08,160 --> 01:49:15,760
Speaker 2: to prove anything here. I am here for judgment at it. Okay,

2127
01:49:15,800 --> 01:49:18,080
Speaker 2: we got a little edit in the comments at it.

2128
01:49:18,240 --> 01:49:21,479
Speaker 2: I had to add people who were blaming me for

2129
01:49:21,720 --> 01:49:26,360
Speaker 2: saying fat despise despite both working my evenings went teaching

2130
01:49:26,439 --> 01:49:29,760
Speaker 2: kids and taking care of the household. He went. He

2131
01:49:29,880 --> 01:49:33,040
Speaker 2: thought it's a woman's job to do so and was

2132
01:49:33,160 --> 01:49:36,439
Speaker 2: also fun and was only fun dad mornings, I had

2133
01:49:36,479 --> 01:49:39,519
Speaker 2: to prepare breakfast for all. I had household help for

2134
01:49:39,640 --> 01:49:43,360
Speaker 2: cleaning and dishes, but I barely had time to work out.

2135
01:49:43,840 --> 01:49:46,160
Speaker 2: Now I have hired a cook and kids who can

2136
01:49:46,240 --> 01:49:48,920
Speaker 2: take care of themselves. Gives me free time to work

2137
01:49:48,960 --> 01:49:51,680
Speaker 2: on myself. If he wanted a model, he could have

2138
01:49:51,840 --> 01:49:56,080
Speaker 2: reduced his tummy and his daily sports and helped me

2139
01:49:56,280 --> 01:49:59,120
Speaker 2: as well. Thank you. Edit men in the comment section

2140
01:49:59,280 --> 01:50:05,800
Speaker 2: victimizing my own husband accepted expect he's expected as expected,

2141
01:50:06,320 --> 01:50:09,080
Speaker 2: as expected, keep barking, yep, yep, yep.

2142
01:50:09,200 --> 01:50:11,920
Speaker 1: I mean like, no, I don't understand how you could

2143
01:50:11,920 --> 01:50:12,599
Speaker 1: support this guy.

2144
01:50:12,920 --> 01:50:17,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like you can. He never this was. No,

2145
01:50:19,760 --> 01:50:21,160
Speaker 2: I think he was. I think he was just like,

2146
01:50:21,479 --> 01:50:23,679
Speaker 2: you know, he realized, like you know, I could probably

2147
01:50:24,360 --> 01:50:26,960
Speaker 2: get a hotter girl than my wife right now. I

2148
01:50:27,000 --> 01:50:31,400
Speaker 2: guess we'll open the marriage and then it's like he

2149
01:50:31,680 --> 01:50:34,040
Speaker 2: he opened it. No one wants anything to do with him,

2150
01:50:34,040 --> 01:50:36,760
Speaker 2: and now his wife's hot again, we can close it.

2151
01:50:36,840 --> 01:50:40,880
Speaker 1: She's like, you got reverse, he got reverse. Yeah, there's

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01:50:40,960 --> 01:50:44,400
Speaker 1: no more hinges on the door. The door's blown so

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01:50:44,600 --> 01:50:46,360
Speaker 1: far open, there's no.

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01:50:46,400 --> 01:50:51,160
Speaker 2: Close in it. Nope, we got an update. Yeah, update. Well,

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01:50:51,360 --> 01:50:54,320
Speaker 2: I've realized there's no point in petty revenge. The kids

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01:50:54,400 --> 01:50:56,800
Speaker 2: were at my parents' house. We discussed plans, and I

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01:50:56,960 --> 01:50:59,920
Speaker 2: told him I have no love and respect for him left,

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01:51:00,360 --> 01:51:03,280
Speaker 2: nor do I find him attractive anymore. I asked him

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Speaker 2: if he wanted to go through a tough divorce process,

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01:51:06,640 --> 01:51:09,400
Speaker 2: he will lose more as our laws are very tough

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01:51:09,520 --> 01:51:13,000
Speaker 2: on men. So let's make an easy divorce with fair

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01:51:13,080 --> 01:51:17,200
Speaker 2: division of properties where I contributed more. Anyways, because she

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01:51:17,320 --> 01:51:19,200
Speaker 2: has a lot of properties and she has her own business,

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01:51:19,240 --> 01:51:21,400
Speaker 2: and I think he's just an insurance guy. Yeah, I

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01:51:21,479 --> 01:51:25,360
Speaker 2: mean she makes good money. He makes like a Deecee money. Yeah, insurance.

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Speaker 1: But like, yeah, I think that's that's also a baller

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01:51:28,280 --> 01:51:29,960
Speaker 1: move to be like, you know what, because it's true.

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Speaker 1: Usually I'm like whenever I'm like, eh, getting petty, it's

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01:51:33,080 --> 01:51:36,000
Speaker 1: like it's kind of it's mostly a joke, like it's

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Speaker 1: just kind of fun to read about it, but like

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01:51:37,840 --> 01:51:42,080
Speaker 1: in reality, it's like making like a year's long petty

2172
01:51:42,160 --> 01:51:46,400
Speaker 1: plans to like execute is like I think it hurts

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01:51:46,520 --> 01:51:47,360
Speaker 1: your soul.

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01:51:47,360 --> 01:51:48,519
Speaker 2: More than anyone else.

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01:51:48,600 --> 01:51:51,960
Speaker 1: Probably, Yeah, And in almost every circumstance, like there might

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01:51:52,040 --> 01:51:54,280
Speaker 1: be like some where it's like yeah, sure, I guess

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01:51:54,320 --> 01:51:55,080
Speaker 1: that's justified.

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Speaker 2: Like, you know, I think like movie plots have taught

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01:51:57,800 --> 01:52:00,360
Speaker 2: us to kind of want to think like that. Reality

2180
01:52:00,400 --> 01:52:03,639
Speaker 2: it's like just being like, look, I want absolutely nothing

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01:52:03,640 --> 01:52:05,800
Speaker 2: to do with you. Let's cut up the assets fairly

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01:52:05,880 --> 01:52:07,840
Speaker 2: and move on with our lives. Facts. That's probably the

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01:52:07,880 --> 01:52:12,240
Speaker 2: best way to really do it. There were tears and begging,

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01:52:12,840 --> 01:52:16,200
Speaker 2: but I stood firm and as divorced, I showed him

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01:52:16,280 --> 01:52:18,640
Speaker 2: proof and if he ever tried to shame me in

2186
01:52:18,680 --> 01:52:22,040
Speaker 2: front of the kids, his visual and text proofs are

2187
01:52:22,200 --> 01:52:25,519
Speaker 2: with me too. So we called a TROOCE. The next

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01:52:25,600 --> 01:52:30,080
Speaker 2: day we were involved. The next day we involved our lawyers, neighbors,

2189
01:52:30,200 --> 01:52:34,000
Speaker 2: family friends, and draw up our property and fun division. Verbally,

2190
01:52:34,439 --> 01:52:37,760
Speaker 2: it was quite clear. The marital house is mine. He

2191
01:52:37,880 --> 01:52:40,599
Speaker 2: is moving to his inherited house a few kilometers away.

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01:52:41,160 --> 01:52:45,000
Speaker 2: We have acquired multiple properties and we will divide them

2193
01:52:45,160 --> 01:52:48,160
Speaker 2: on value. The savings will be divided, and we have

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01:52:48,320 --> 01:52:51,559
Speaker 2: our retirement plans. He also blurted out that he has

2195
01:52:51,640 --> 01:52:56,479
Speaker 2: a young widow girlfriend, and I said, good luck and

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01:52:56,560 --> 01:52:58,960
Speaker 2: happy life. Hey just want to let you know my

2197
01:52:59,400 --> 01:53:03,120
Speaker 2: girlfriend is the oh and her husband is gone. Ni.

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01:53:03,520 --> 01:53:04,960
Speaker 2: I just thought you'd like to know that. Yeah, you

2199
01:53:05,080 --> 01:53:06,920
Speaker 2: just had to know that as we're like splitting out

2200
01:53:07,200 --> 01:53:11,320
Speaker 2: like our finances. Got to put that out there, just

2201
01:53:11,400 --> 01:53:14,160
Speaker 2: like I mean, someone wanted me ooh. We told our

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01:53:14,240 --> 01:53:16,920
Speaker 2: kids that we loved them but we are going to divorce.

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01:53:17,120 --> 01:53:20,120
Speaker 2: Of course, they were devastated, but we assured them that

2204
01:53:20,280 --> 01:53:23,599
Speaker 2: we were here for them forever and will co parent.

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01:53:24,120 --> 01:53:26,800
Speaker 2: They're still upset and we will hire a therapist to

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01:53:27,000 --> 01:53:32,280
Speaker 2: make the process smoother for them. Also my oh, also

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01:53:32,360 --> 01:53:35,519
Speaker 2: my friends with benefits. Divorce process is going and I

2208
01:53:35,680 --> 01:53:38,680
Speaker 2: told him about mine. He said he's going to get

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01:53:38,720 --> 01:53:41,439
Speaker 2: serious about a relationship. I don't know if it's love

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01:53:41,520 --> 01:53:44,120
Speaker 2: or not, but I like him and we're gonna take

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01:53:44,120 --> 01:53:47,200
Speaker 2: it slow. I want my kids to be eighteen before

2212
01:53:47,280 --> 01:53:50,719
Speaker 2: I marry again. No, he was already in divorce process

2213
01:53:50,800 --> 01:53:54,439
Speaker 2: for years, even before we started hanging out. So nope,

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01:53:54,800 --> 01:53:59,040
Speaker 2: I'm not a home wrecker. PS to all the crow

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01:53:59,160 --> 01:54:02,479
Speaker 2: baby men who were crying for my husband and asking

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01:54:02,560 --> 01:54:04,880
Speaker 2: me why I didn't lose weight. I woke up at

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01:54:04,920 --> 01:54:07,559
Speaker 2: five in the morning, did the chores for a lazy

2218
01:54:07,640 --> 01:54:09,960
Speaker 2: man of kids, then go to work, come home to

2219
01:54:10,040 --> 01:54:12,960
Speaker 2: do chores again until night, and then tell me about

2220
01:54:13,040 --> 01:54:16,040
Speaker 2: working out. You just couldn't handle a woman giving the

2221
01:54:16,200 --> 01:54:19,800
Speaker 2: same dose of medicine to man and blame me and

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01:54:19,960 --> 01:54:24,040
Speaker 2: gave him very less blame. This shows your double standards.

2223
01:54:24,400 --> 01:54:29,840
Speaker 2: I only became big birthing his children. Birth does things

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01:54:29,880 --> 01:54:34,839
Speaker 2: to your body. What about his harry tummy without birthing

2225
01:54:35,120 --> 01:54:38,240
Speaker 2: or medical issues. I hired a cook from my personal

2226
01:54:38,360 --> 01:54:41,880
Speaker 2: fund money as he didn't want to contribute it. That's

2227
01:54:41,960 --> 01:54:45,400
Speaker 2: why I didn't hire her earlier, as it was causing

2228
01:54:45,480 --> 01:54:48,800
Speaker 2: issues to budget. I took the hit after he called

2229
01:54:48,840 --> 01:54:51,880
Speaker 2: me fat and ugly. I hope your fathers and sons,

2230
01:54:52,080 --> 01:54:54,760
Speaker 2: I hope you. I hope your fathers and sons do

2231
01:54:54,920 --> 01:54:58,000
Speaker 2: the same to their wives. And when you can lecture me,

2232
01:54:59,200 --> 01:55:01,120
Speaker 2: and that's when you can exture me. So if you

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01:55:01,240 --> 01:55:04,480
Speaker 2: live in the nineteen fifties where your wife should look sexy, hey,

2234
01:55:04,840 --> 01:55:07,240
Speaker 2: do chores, birtha kids, and be available as a maide,

2235
01:55:07,520 --> 01:55:11,640
Speaker 2: then you are pathetic, so af you if you are

2236
01:55:12,040 --> 01:55:18,920
Speaker 2: mel Sho, chauvenist, chauvinist, pigs new word and anyone who

2237
01:55:18,960 --> 01:55:21,760
Speaker 2: thinks it's fake. I don't owe you anything, and you

2238
01:55:21,920 --> 01:55:26,000
Speaker 2: owe us by visiting us on our podcast platforms. If

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01:55:26,000 --> 01:55:28,880
Speaker 2: you're interested in more stories, we're there. Just search up

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Speaker 2: Okay story Tom on Apple or Spotify or whatever. Your

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01:55:32,480 --> 01:55:33,400
Speaker 2: podcast platform is.

2242
01:55:33,480 --> 01:55:36,600
Speaker 1: A near limitless well of stories just like this at

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01:55:36,680 --> 01:55:37,400
Speaker 1: your fingertips.

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01:55:37,520 --> 01:55:41,920
Speaker 2: Yep, look us up and she's just going off at

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01:55:41,960 --> 01:55:48,320
Speaker 2: all the men that are being misogynist and telling her

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01:55:48,400 --> 01:55:52,040
Speaker 2: to get back in the kitchen. What So that's the

2247
01:55:52,760 --> 01:55:56,480
Speaker 2: story really, just speed read that. Yeah, she's like going

2248
01:55:56,520 --> 01:56:00,600
Speaker 2: off on them. Well, I mean yeah, I think she

2249
01:56:00,720 --> 01:56:03,920
Speaker 2: probably earned a bit of event event session there because

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Speaker 2: it's like she bared that for many years because she is.

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01:56:07,120 --> 01:56:07,720
Speaker 2: It is true.

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01:56:07,760 --> 01:56:10,640
Speaker 1: It's like she's raising the kids, she's doing the chores,

2253
01:56:10,680 --> 01:56:13,640
Speaker 1: she's cooking breakfast, like she's going to work making all

2254
01:56:13,800 --> 01:56:16,240
Speaker 1: the money, and then she comes back home. Yeah, he's

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01:56:16,360 --> 01:56:18,960
Speaker 1: just like on the second game of you know sports

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01:56:19,040 --> 01:56:20,160
Speaker 1: game on the TV today.

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01:56:20,240 --> 01:56:23,760
Speaker 2: Well, I hate, like this sounds bad, but like because

2258
01:56:23,800 --> 01:56:25,480
Speaker 2: like in the fifties, it was like the man provided,

2259
01:56:25,520 --> 01:56:27,360
Speaker 2: the woman stayed at home and like took care of

2260
01:56:27,400 --> 01:56:29,760
Speaker 2: the house and stuff. Well, she's working and taking your

2261
01:56:29,760 --> 01:56:31,520
Speaker 2: care of the house and stuff, right, It's like in

2262
01:56:31,560 --> 01:56:34,120
Speaker 2: the fifties. It's like, especially like in the States, it's

2263
01:56:34,160 --> 01:56:37,680
Speaker 2: like life was so much simpler. Like it's like economically

2264
01:56:37,760 --> 01:56:39,640
Speaker 2: it was like you could afford to buy a house

2265
01:56:39,680 --> 01:56:42,240
Speaker 2: as like a custodian, Like you could work as a

2266
01:56:42,320 --> 01:56:45,160
Speaker 2: janitor and like still buy a house. You cannot tend

2267
01:56:45,200 --> 01:56:48,160
Speaker 2: to do that anymore. It's like, but I don't know,

2268
01:56:48,240 --> 01:56:50,440
Speaker 2: And that doesn't mean that they're justifying it. We're just

2269
01:56:50,480 --> 01:56:52,560
Speaker 2: saying it's a harder time for this woman now. Right,

2270
01:56:52,840 --> 01:56:56,600
Speaker 2: things are way more complex than they were in the

2271
01:56:57,320 --> 01:56:59,280
Speaker 2: I mean things were still complex in the fifties. I

2272
01:56:59,320 --> 01:56:59,560
Speaker 2: don't know.

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01:56:59,560 --> 01:57:03,440
Speaker 1: I'm not kind a fifties make it sound good to

2274
01:57:03,560 --> 01:57:07,959
Speaker 1: beat the dichotomy between men and women in like fifties

2275
01:57:08,040 --> 01:57:09,640
Speaker 1: America is like not cool.

2276
01:57:09,880 --> 01:57:16,280
Speaker 2: Like women shouldn't be treated as objects that do household chores. Ye,

2277
01:57:16,440 --> 01:57:19,720
Speaker 2: women are more than dishwashers with legs, right, Yes, they've

2278
01:57:19,720 --> 01:57:22,640
Speaker 2: always been. This is my joke. Yeah that's no, it's

2279
01:57:24,040 --> 01:57:29,360
Speaker 2: funny because it's not serious. It's joke. Yeah, no, it's

2280
01:57:31,440 --> 01:57:33,960
Speaker 2: you play stupid games, you win stupid prizes to the husband.

2281
01:57:34,040 --> 01:57:36,400
Speaker 2: It's like you you tell your wife that you think

2282
01:57:36,520 --> 01:57:38,120
Speaker 2: that she's not attractive, and then you want to open

2283
01:57:38,160 --> 01:57:40,160
Speaker 2: the marriage. She gets attractive again, and then you're like,

2284
01:57:40,480 --> 01:57:44,800
Speaker 2: uh oh, yeah, I don't know. Blessed in that story,

2285
01:57:45,200 --> 01:57:49,240
Speaker 2: and we got another one coming up for you right now.