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Speaker 1: Welcome to adulting. My name is Jordan Carlos. I am

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Speaker 1: joined as always by my co from Go, Michelle Puteh.

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Speaker 2: What's up, Michelle? You know what's going on? Nothing ain't

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Speaker 2: shit going on.

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Speaker 1: Nothing's going on. I just saw you have what appeared

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Speaker 1: to be some lovely soush. Though, like you do yourself

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Speaker 1: right at lunch. I feel like like lunch is an

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Speaker 1: important part of self care to you, not so much

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Speaker 1: to me.

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Speaker 3: I'm a grazer.

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Speaker 4: I think food in general.

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Speaker 2: You know, what's really sad is that I have a

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Speaker 2: friend who I met in college, who I love.

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Speaker 4: She didn't like food.

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Speaker 2: She didn't like pasta, she didn't like like brown stewed chicken.

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Speaker 4: Like she like, she didn't want to try anything. She

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Speaker 4: just didn't want to try.

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Speaker 2: And then we started to travel as we got our

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Speaker 2: income tax checks and we would use them to go

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Speaker 2: somewhere for a week or two, to Argentina or France

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Speaker 2: or you know. And as we were traveling, like you

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Speaker 2: don't have any choice but to eat what is there,

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Speaker 2: and everything is delicious, you know, I mean, of course

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Speaker 2: you know where to get like you know that government

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Speaker 2: mac and cheese that looks like it's definitely chemically like flavored,

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Speaker 2: but like just delicious food. I think that is such

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Speaker 2: a It's like, if you love yourself, then you know

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Speaker 2: you should put good things in your mouth.

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Speaker 4: Heyo, I say you stay marry.

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Speaker 2: But she didn't even like tomatoes soil she went to

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Speaker 2: Italy and then she tasted what a tomato was like.

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Speaker 2: And now she will, you know, shop from little farms

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Speaker 2: upstate New York and stuff like that. So all this

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Speaker 2: to say, yes, I like good food, and sometimes I

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Speaker 2: don't even want good food. I just want something a little natty.

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Speaker 2: Once in a while, you just want something natty, but

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Speaker 2: then you have it, You're like, I didn't need this,

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Speaker 2: Captain Crunchy.

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Speaker 4: My mom was right.

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Speaker 2: You know, my mouth was cut up and I feel

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Speaker 2: type two.

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Speaker 3: You feel a type of way type two. Yes, I

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Speaker 3: don't know.

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Speaker 1: The cut up was good though in the mouth that

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Speaker 1: delivers the sugar all the better. I will say this,

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Speaker 1: have you been with that lame friend traveling where they're

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Speaker 1: I've been traveling with a lame friend. Was in Brasil

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Speaker 1: and they were like, let's go to the chilis in Brazil.

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Speaker 4: No, why do people do that?

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Speaker 3: I don't I don't know I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah no, And I'm I couldn't be married to someone

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Speaker 2: like that, Like I'm married to the low budget, Like

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Speaker 2: I want to be like Anthony Bourdain and I want

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Speaker 2: to go to Like he wants a story with the

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Speaker 2: town and the grandma's recipe that was handed down from

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Speaker 2: Like you know, he wants be like is this cardamon?

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Speaker 4: Like he loves this stuff?

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Speaker 2: Oh you know what I feel like you love that

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Speaker 2: shit too, you guys, have we've gone on vacation together?

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, I bond with your husband over like exploring new foods,

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Speaker 1: new things. But it's all it's also all all a

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Speaker 1: part of the eighty twenty thing, Like is that is

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Speaker 1: the twenty percent of like not wanting to try new foods?

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Speaker 1: If the eighty percent of the person is like great,

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Speaker 1: but they don't want to try new foods, what do

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Speaker 1: you think it's a deal breaker?

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 2: First of all, as a dyslexic person, I am hella confused?

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Speaker 4: What was that question?

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Speaker 3: Eighty to twenty?

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Speaker 1: Like people are like if you match with somebody, you

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Speaker 1: match with somebody four out of five things you match

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Speaker 1: with them on, but one out of five you don't.

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Speaker 3: Is it worth chucking them for.

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Speaker 2: No, okay, it's never gonna be perfect. And plus shit changes. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you know, every two to five years you should be

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Speaker 2: changing your furniture perhaps where you live. You're in a

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Speaker 2: new place in your life. Yeah, and that's exciting and

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Speaker 2: then you meet new people from that place in your life.

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Speaker 2: But you know, that's that we used to sing in

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Speaker 2: the Girl Scouts and the Boy Scouts. Make new friends,

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Speaker 2: but keep the old. Oh yes, yes, one of silver,

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Speaker 2: that's right.

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Speaker 3: Do it? Okay? Speaking of changes, your husband now owns

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Speaker 3: a boat.

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Speaker 2: Okay, segue changes. He owns a boat though, Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: he just got a boat.

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Speaker 4: I'm married to a white European man.

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Speaker 2: Of course. He has a boat and skis and wants

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Speaker 2: to fly a kite when the wind is right because

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Speaker 2: he's got an app for the wind.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 2: He wants to he wants to harvest oysters and look

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Speaker 2: at whales, and he got a book of ants and

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Speaker 2: uh to learn the ants on the island and the fish.

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Speaker 2: It's like, all right, I'll be over here filling out

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Speaker 2: this w nine like I don't know, you know, it's

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Speaker 2: it's a different way to live, but it's nice, but

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Speaker 2: it's nice, but it's also living right, like living for

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Speaker 2: me if you would have talked to me like at

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Speaker 2: thirty four, what's what is living? Is having like a

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Speaker 2: nice pair of shoes in a parking spot like that

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Speaker 2: was me at thirty five. Do you know what I mean? Yes,

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Speaker 2: it's so different now, it's just so different. And that's

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Speaker 2: what I'm saying. It should change.

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Speaker 1: It does change a little bit. Yeah, I mean, have

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Speaker 1: you steered the boat? No, bitch, I can't even.

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Speaker 2: See my feet past my tits. Do you think I

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Speaker 2: want to steer a boat.

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 2: I don't go on a boat to drive the boat, Jordan.

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Speaker 2: I go on the boat to have champagne and a lobster,

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Speaker 2: roll in a p and for pictures. Okay, I don't

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Speaker 2: like it too choppy. I don't want sea legs later,

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Speaker 2: you know, in and out. I might even do a

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Speaker 2: little dip get my hair wet, as long as I

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Speaker 2: don't see anything moving in the water. No, no, no,

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Speaker 2: because you know what I am. I'm the fifth person

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Speaker 2: in line at the airport. I'm the person where people

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Speaker 2: are just like that. Ever happens, it's so weird that

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Speaker 2: happened to you. No, bitch, it's not weird. It's happened

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Speaker 2: in my whole fucking life. That's why I choose to

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Speaker 2: be safe, all right, I am. I'm very excited in

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Speaker 2: other ways. You should see me. When I don't have

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Speaker 2: an egg or some sort of important ingredient for something

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Speaker 2: I'm making, I'm like, oh, just whip it up with

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Speaker 2: some apple sauce and gis B. I'm exciting in other ways. Okay,

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Speaker 2: you are exciting in other ways. I was just wondering

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Speaker 2: about that, that's all. Listen, he's been talking about that.

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Speaker 2: I'm proud of him for having a boat. That is

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Speaker 2: the most grown thing you can do is to own a.

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Speaker 1: Vehicle where you can just leave, Yeah, the fucking continent

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Speaker 1: with you know.

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Speaker 3: That's that's nuts.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, it also is interesting when you take

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Speaker 2: on a hobby that really infuses your personality, Like you

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Speaker 2: have to be a boat person, you have to be

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Speaker 2: good at directions, you have to take an interest in

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Speaker 2: being by yourself.

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Speaker 4: You know, it does.

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Speaker 2: Become part of your personality and perhaps for the rest

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Speaker 2: of your life. But also if you don't like it,

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Speaker 2: that's okay. You could always sell the boat, do you

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Speaker 2: know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: Like, I think more people should try new things.

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Speaker 2: If you could afford it because sometimes Bobby's a fucking expressive.

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Speaker 1: Oh I got you know a boat. Come on now,

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Speaker 1: you gotta clean it. You gotta put that fuel in it.

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Speaker 1: You got a docmb you know all yeah, flip it up,

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Speaker 1: rub a dad, barnacles, all that, all that yuck, yuck.

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Speaker 1: I gotta get on that boat. I'm excited to get

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Speaker 1: on the boat.

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Speaker 4: Are you a boat person.

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Speaker 1: I'm not a boat person, but I can't enjoy a

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Speaker 1: good time in a.

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Speaker 3: Boat for sure.

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Speaker 4: Do you want to drive a boat?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I mean absolutely.

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Speaker 1: I love to drive a boat and I want to

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Speaker 1: do it really well and have people be like I

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Speaker 1: can drive that boat.

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Speaker 3: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Do you feel pressure because you are a black man

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Speaker 2: to drive a boat and be like the best at it?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 1: I would only specifically want the boat to be either

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Speaker 1: at sag Harbor, Oaks Bluff, Bortha's Vineyard or the Caribbean.

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Speaker 3: That's it.

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Speaker 1: It's got to be the blackest, the blackest part of

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Speaker 1: the Caribbean, like Trinidad Tubby Eagle.

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Speaker 3: It would have to be like.

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Speaker 5: I that's the blackest part of the Caribbean. Where's the

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Speaker 5: blackest part?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 4: Actually, Haiti is the most African.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, and let's do it there. Let me hug

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Speaker 1: out a Porto Prince and do it there.

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Speaker 2: Quarter Prints is actually just more to the east. You

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Speaker 2: have to go to the west, sort of like where

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Speaker 2: my dad is from.

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Speaker 3: Kai.

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Speaker 2: My dad is actually from a beach tongue called La Kai.

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Speaker 2: And I just love that the Fuji's is just like

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Speaker 2: the one on one for anything I see in because

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Speaker 2: uh there there's a shout out in one of the songs.

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Speaker 2: It's just like I do what I do with my

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Speaker 2: crew from La Kai and.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what that is.

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Speaker 4: Yes, that's where my dad is from.

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Speaker 3: Yes.

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Speaker 2: And anybody that knows Haiti, mainly Haitians with that one

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Speaker 2: white person that just loves to build toilets and tell

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Speaker 2: me about it every time, they're like, what's your last name?

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Speaker 4: And I'm like bu Te.

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Speaker 2: They're like I can see it's the raw face and

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Speaker 2: the light skin. It's just like, yes, now you fucking

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Speaker 2: know everything. So all all of we got the roundest faces.

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Speaker 2: I mean mine is more heart, let's be.

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Speaker 3: Honest, beautiful cheekbones. They come into place.

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Speaker 4: But what about your family reunion?

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Speaker 2: If I go to Texas, am I just gonna see

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Speaker 2: like different versions of me.

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Speaker 1: No, yeah, because my mother is the one that has

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Speaker 1: a family reans. My father's side does not. My dad's

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Speaker 1: family is scattered to the four winds. If you go

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Speaker 1: to my mother's family Reini and it's a bunch of

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Speaker 1: long limb Mississippi folk with hot cheek bones, and you

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Speaker 1: can see the Cherokee in us and the chalke tall

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Speaker 1: on us.

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Speaker 4: I love your mom looks like an ex model.

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Speaker 1: Oh thank you. Yeah, like she looks like that. My

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Speaker 1: aunt looks like that. Everybody everybody out here looking good.

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Speaker 1: I love they look it right. Yeah, the ladies live

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Speaker 1: a long, long time in my family.

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Speaker 2: I love that your sister's not tall though.

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Speaker 1: She's not, but she's got a huge personality. So you

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Speaker 1: think that she's taller than she appears.

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 4: She presents tall.

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Speaker 1: She's also not afraid of a chunky heel to take

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Speaker 1: her up another five or six inches.

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Speaker 3: That's that's her energy.

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Speaker 4: That's drag queen energy. Honey.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I don't think I've seen.

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Speaker 4: And for of every long time.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely tell us about it, George, almost every damn day.

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Speaker 1: He's my coworker, you know what I mean. I'm excited

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Speaker 4: Tell us what the work is from that you co together.

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Speaker 1: Our guest coming up is my coworker co star on

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Speaker 1: our series Everything's Trash on Hulu. Moses brought so much

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, you sound like a best man at

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Speaker 3: His name?

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Speaker 5: Because the storm is coming, Moses storm.

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Speaker 2: Oh my yahweh mois says Moses in the building.

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Speaker 2: The last time I saw you. I feel like was

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Speaker 2: Like is that a fever dream?

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Speaker 7: It's not the usual industry party. At eric andre party,

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Speaker 6: Performers that you would never hire.

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Speaker 2: Like naked people. Yeah, like just people to walk around naked.

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Speaker 2: There was a lady with sushi on.

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Speaker 6: Her body Yellow wrestling.

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Speaker 6: That's what it was.

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Speaker 7: And that's just in the line to get in, Like

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Speaker 2: I think birthdays are meant to be celebrated, but wow, yeah,

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Speaker 6: It's a lot of pressure.

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Speaker 7: I yeah, I personally like it because no one is

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Speaker 6: Look at that.

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Speaker 2: I love that though. Yeah, that's the reason why I

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Speaker 2: don't like going to parties, especially with co workers or

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Speaker 2: patriarchy later bitch taxes always right, What's like one question

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Speaker 6: Oh, it is like, so what are you working on

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Speaker 7: Because for me, that means there's like eight things I

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Speaker 7: So now I have to one think about that, and

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Speaker 4: Oh it's the worst.

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Speaker 2: Also, like, if you're doing stuff like you have to

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Speaker 2: you know, we have to be like, well, I think

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Speaker 2: it's it's so annoying, Like I just hosted a meat

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Speaker 2: because we're not allowed to be competitive anymore. We're not

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I was like really fucking good, Like I don't really

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Speaker 7: You have like eighty five jobs at once, so it's yeah,

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Speaker 6: Well, which which one are you talking about? What show

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Speaker 7: I talk about my own Netflix, especially talking about the

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but you're no stranger from doing the most tu

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Speaker 1: Man Moses be like, dude, I gotta get down to

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Speaker 1: the cellar. We'd be in the middle of the we

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Speaker 1: be in the middle of the sea. He's like, I

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Speaker 1: let's all get our lines.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my goodness, not the common.

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Speaker 6: I'm building a doomsday shelter.

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Speaker 3: Yeah doomsday. Yeah. You had to absolutely had.

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Speaker 1: To shore up the walls, get them coupons.

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Speaker 7: Yeah. Well, we're wrapping up the other Paramount plus show,

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Speaker 7: doing adr for that, trying to move across the country

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Speaker 7: and put together.

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Speaker 2: The next did you say we.

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Speaker 7: We as like the collective, like we as the crew?

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Speaker 7: You know, I'm being.

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Speaker 2: Gracious, Okay, I was like, is there a dog? Is

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Speaker 2: there a cat?

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Speaker 6: What do you mean? There's no cat, just a lonely

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Speaker 1: So, because you had to leave your apartment, as I recall,

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Speaker 1: you were like, dude, I got to leave this place

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Speaker 3: You were on the Upper West. Where are you now?

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Speaker 6: Oh? No, never Upper West. You get out of here.

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Speaker 6: I can't do that.

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Speaker 3: Oh the West Village. You're in the West Village. I'm bad.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it's even for sure, it's Airbnb does not work

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Speaker 7: in New York City on purpose. It's the most difficult

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Speaker 7: all these different laws, so it is almost impossible to

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Speaker 2: Last yeah, I think it's to protect renters because then

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Speaker 2: it's just so hard to find a place that you

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Speaker 2: for months on end, it's like, well where do people go?

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Speaker 7: The Bronx absolutely, and then the show that we we're

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Speaker 4: Right, yeah, what time is that?

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Speaker 6: It's spring.

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Speaker 7: It's like white girls from Santa Barbara and La Joya

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Speaker 2: H h get that white claw ready, truly, Brittany and

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Speaker 2: Taylor are fucking coming? Are you seeing rose?

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Speaker 4: Old day?

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Speaker 2: Bitch? Getting back to the questions that I do not

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Speaker 2: like at a party.

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Speaker 4: Yes, it's two, it's two. It's two.

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Speaker 2: It's like, oh, can we meet so I could pick

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Speaker 2: your brain about something?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yes, No, bitch, figure it out like I fucking had

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Speaker 2: to do. Oh my basic, bitch, Like I can't. Like

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Speaker 2: we're like I want to do stand up but I

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Speaker 7: Oh my god?

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Speaker 4: Just be funny, just be funny.

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Speaker 2: But like the pic, Like I don't mind sharing information

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Speaker 2: or experiences, but like when someone specifically is just like

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Speaker 7: I know what you're asking for. Yes, I oh my god,

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Speaker 7: I'm so glad you brought that up. I guess that's

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Speaker 7: my least favorite one, because you are asking something out

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Speaker 7: of me. If I'm busy, it's like, well, now I

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Speaker 7: you're asking for, and you're essentially asking for a shortcut.

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Speaker 7: You're asking not do the work, especially if it's stand up.

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Speaker 7: How do I get where you are? How do I

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Speaker 7: get context city? You go eat shit at open mics.

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Speaker 7: You go do the thing that anyone could.

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Speaker 6: Find some terrible blog. That's how old it is.

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Speaker 7: So some blog and you go when you eat shit,

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Speaker 7: and then you meet people and then the friends that

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Speaker 6: Their own show.

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Speaker 7: They will get and you will get bigger acts.

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Speaker 2: That's right. Isn't tail as old as time? Come on, Disney,

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Speaker 2: you know what's up? I mean, I feel like the

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Speaker 2: only time I don't mind hearing secret, it's sort of

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Speaker 2: you know.

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Speaker 2: Because when people are just like, what's the secret, I'm like,

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Speaker 2: there is no secret. If there were, it's a fucking

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Speaker 7: Started stand up, because I just want to talk to

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Speaker 6: But when we first started and said, did.

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Speaker 7: You ask anyone that was already like working or successful?

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Speaker 7: Did you ever ask for advice or can I pick

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Speaker 7: your brain?

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Speaker 2: Fucking never? Not once I just figured it out myself.

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Speaker 2: In fact, I did have two friends, Rebecca Dona Hugh

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Speaker 2: like what am I doing?

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Speaker 4: They sweetied me in a corner.

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Speaker 2: They were just like sweety sweety sweety in a corner,

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Speaker 2: just like had It was like my little intervention. They're like,

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00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:55,639
Speaker 2: stop doing Bringer shows. You're too good for this. So

449
00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:58,280
Speaker 2: I have had friends like stage like an emotional intervention

450
00:19:58,359 --> 00:19:59,960
Speaker 2: for a bit because I'm just like, this is the

451
00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:02,040
Speaker 2: one thing you do. And I always have to wear

452
00:20:02,080 --> 00:20:03,760
Speaker 2: a black shirt and jeans because I had a good

453
00:20:03,800 --> 00:20:04,920
Speaker 2: set that one time a warrant.

454
00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:05,800
Speaker 4: So I'm gonna keep doing this.

455
00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:08,359
Speaker 2: Some people take me seriously, Yeah, and then it's all

456
00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:10,719
Speaker 2: about finding your voice whatever the fuck it is that

457
00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:11,280
Speaker 2: you want to do.

458
00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:12,959
Speaker 4: It doesn't just have to be stand up.

459
00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:16,000
Speaker 2: But I've had friends give me unsolicited advice where I'm

460
00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:18,760
Speaker 2: just like, I'll take it, but no, I figure it.

461
00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:20,760
Speaker 4: Out my on my fucking own.

462
00:20:20,920 --> 00:20:25,359
Speaker 2: I couldn't imagine asking somebody what's the secret ingredient in

463
00:20:25,400 --> 00:20:26,320
Speaker 2: the special sauce?

464
00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:27,920
Speaker 4: Make your own fucking.

465
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Speaker 6: Sauce exactly, that's the secret ingredient.

466
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Speaker 1: I feel like you two are on the fence about

467
00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:34,400
Speaker 1: like a good brain pick with people.

468
00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:37,280
Speaker 6: Specifics not helping. It's to pick your brain.

469
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Speaker 7: Can I take time out of your day sit with

470
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Speaker 7: you and ask your questions that I could find on

471
00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:44,040
Speaker 7: Google or the thousands of comedy podcasts.

472
00:20:44,320 --> 00:20:46,040
Speaker 6: But if you ask to open for me, I have

473
00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:49,160
Speaker 6: a ninety five percent return rate that you will open

474
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Speaker 6: for me at one point.

475
00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:51,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, that is y.

476
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Speaker 7: You want to you want stage time. I totally get that.

477
00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:58,000
Speaker 7: You want to see how someone works for a little bit.

478
00:20:58,080 --> 00:21:01,200
Speaker 7: Absolutely you're allowed to do that, and that ninety five

479
00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:04,760
Speaker 7: percent return rate on that, but not something about talking

480
00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:06,680
Speaker 7: about working right.

481
00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:10,600
Speaker 1: Also at parties, I think we run out of road conversationally,

482
00:21:10,680 --> 00:21:13,040
Speaker 1: like knowing what to say to people, because the most

483
00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:16,200
Speaker 1: energy is spent, at least in my book, I spend

484
00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:18,800
Speaker 1: most of my energies trying to get there. Like the

485
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Speaker 1: logistics of getting them, like to the party, Yes.

486
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Speaker 3: To the party, what to bring?

487
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Speaker 2: My god, you're like every Tina Fane Steve Kraal movie,

488
00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:29,600
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, yeah, aren't you.

489
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Speaker 3: All like that?

490
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Speaker 5: I mean, like, listen, By the time I get there,

491
00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:33,879
Speaker 5: I'm like, that's.

492
00:21:33,720 --> 00:21:37,000
Speaker 1: Why people talk about they talk about traffic. They're just like, oh, yeah,

493
00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:38,280
Speaker 1: I had to take the fuck on this to that,

494
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Speaker 1: to this.

495
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Speaker 2: I'm in my mid forties, Like, I don't even go

496
00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:41,240
Speaker 2: to parties anymore.

497
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Speaker 4: I just have them, do you know what I mean?

498
00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:44,760
Speaker 2: Right, I want to use my own toilet when I've

499
00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:46,880
Speaker 2: been having too much frozaing and take a little nap

500
00:21:46,880 --> 00:21:49,080
Speaker 2: on that toilet and know that I wake up at

501
00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:49,680
Speaker 2: a safe place.

502
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Speaker 7: Yes, it's great, you don't have to go anywhere. It's

503
00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:56,159
Speaker 7: your all, your stuff's there. Yes, But at the end

504
00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:58,800
Speaker 7: of the night was the graceful way to say, like

505
00:21:58,880 --> 00:22:01,880
Speaker 7: I'm telling her that everyone, oh.

506
00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:03,959
Speaker 2: My goodness, I mean you've met me. I'm just like,

507
00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:04,600
Speaker 2: you gotta go.

508
00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:06,720
Speaker 4: We did it, we did it.

509
00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:11,000
Speaker 2: You gotta go or I'm going upstairs. Feel free to stay.

510
00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:13,840
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go. But for the most part, people go.

511
00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:18,040
Speaker 2: And then what I realized too from hosting and being

512
00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:22,640
Speaker 2: an adult is booking cleaning the next day. You got

513
00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:24,160
Speaker 2: to book someone to come and clean, so you don't

514
00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:26,760
Speaker 2: want to be hungover with fucking dirty feet, you know,

515
00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:29,240
Speaker 2: trying to put the pieces together of why the chicken

516
00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:32,720
Speaker 2: wings are in the fucking bathroom, garbage and shit. You

517
00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:35,840
Speaker 2: don't even just higa someone and it's a book, beautiful.

518
00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:37,600
Speaker 2: You just sit on the couch or whatever the fuck

519
00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:38,080
Speaker 2: you gotta do.

520
00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:41,560
Speaker 6: So you need stairs and you need a cleaning person.

521
00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:47,440
Speaker 7: So I money, Yes, how do you gracefully get people

522
00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:49,080
Speaker 7: out of your party at the end of the night

523
00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:49,720
Speaker 7: as an adult?

524
00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:51,160
Speaker 6: And the answer is money.

525
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Speaker 2: I mean, I think I like to I like to

526
00:22:57,280 --> 00:22:59,400
Speaker 2: maximize the fucking time. Right, So there's like a good

527
00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:01,879
Speaker 2: four hour and go with a party and you and

528
00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:05,200
Speaker 2: you have a good time. The music's pumping, the food

529
00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:07,800
Speaker 2: is hot, the drinks are cold, we're all chicking in,

530
00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:09,960
Speaker 2: we're all doing our fucking jokes and telling the stories

531
00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:12,560
Speaker 2: of blah blah blah blah, and and then don't have

532
00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:13,200
Speaker 2: a lot of food.

533
00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:16,480
Speaker 3: Run out, run out of food, run out of food.

534
00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:17,920
Speaker 4: The food's done. You gotta go.

535
00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:19,360
Speaker 3: That's amazing.

536
00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:21,400
Speaker 2: That's another thing too. You run out of plates. Never

537
00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:23,760
Speaker 2: have all the plates, like you just run out of shit.

538
00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:25,760
Speaker 2: Oh no, the party's over.

539
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:28,720
Speaker 1: I think a cake. A cake is a nice exclamation

540
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Speaker 1: point to the end. It's a nice punctuation, right, A

541
00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:33,639
Speaker 1: cake is a good punctuation, like yeah, I dessert.

542
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Speaker 3: Like, uh, they've got the cake.

543
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Speaker 1: I guess it's time to go with Like, cake just

544
00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:39,879
Speaker 1: ends everything that's punctuation.

545
00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:41,840
Speaker 4: Oh my god, fuck yes, I just got a chit cake.

546
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Speaker 3: Money for that.

547
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Speaker 2: I mean, there's a lot of ways you can have

548
00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:50,439
Speaker 2: fun and have no money. When I was broke, like

549
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:56,280
Speaker 2: a motherfucking joke joke, I would take a blanket to

550
00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:59,320
Speaker 2: the park Central Park, and I would just ask friends

551
00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:01,200
Speaker 2: to each bring a side dish and we would just

552
00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:03,320
Speaker 2: have a bunch of sides. No one could have fluded protein.

553
00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:07,719
Speaker 2: Rotesta ry chickens are the only thing that have come down, Okay,

554
00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:11,359
Speaker 2: everything else has gone up. Rotesty chickens is to sleep

555
00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:11,840
Speaker 2: in the park.

556
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Speaker 3: I was like, where is this going. That's not a hack.

557
00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 1: I would take a stick and put it on one side.

558
00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:25,520
Speaker 2: Yes, I'm gonna see homeless dudes like fucking do cupwetta

559
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:27,920
Speaker 2: with like white pants.

560
00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:33,720
Speaker 6: On right actually working right now? For a show. It's

561
00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:36,399
Speaker 6: very random. Brought that up, but a batch of ships

562
00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 6: out of cappatta videos.

563
00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:41,639
Speaker 1: What wait a minute, yeah that is why are you

564
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Speaker 1: doing this to defend yourself? Are you doing this to

565
00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 1: defend yourself?

566
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Speaker 7: The cult I grew up in one of their recruiting

567
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:49,800
Speaker 7: tactics because we would not get a lot of people

568
00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:52,720
Speaker 7: with just yelling with neon signs. So what they're doing

569
00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:56,600
Speaker 7: now is they're doing Cappa Weetta demonstrations in South America

570
00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:59,320
Speaker 7: and then people will crowd around and watch and they're like, wow,

571
00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:02,600
Speaker 7: sick while you know he's got the sickest moves.

572
00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:06,760
Speaker 4: Is so many follow ups.

573
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Speaker 2: First of all, I am that bitch that would go

574
00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:12,440
Speaker 2: to Kapawa and throw dot like just whatever kind.

575
00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:15,120
Speaker 4: Of yeah coin, what did you say?

576
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:16,359
Speaker 3: Cult? Yeah?

577
00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:17,960
Speaker 4: Like are you Mormon?

578
00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:23,600
Speaker 2: Or this is a weird guessing.

579
00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:25,920
Speaker 7: Judaism and Catholicism And it's something that they helped start

580
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:31,080
Speaker 7: with my great uncle, my parents, third family, Texas and

581
00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:34,199
Speaker 7: then our family and a lot of Florida. But we

582
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:37,199
Speaker 7: were in buses growing up, just like a Greyhound bus

583
00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:39,120
Speaker 7: that we ripped the seats out of and we would

584
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:42,480
Speaker 7: travel around and try to get this religion started. By

585
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Speaker 7: street preaching and passing out pamphlets and yelling at people

586
00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:47,199
Speaker 7: in Walmart.

587
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Speaker 4: What was the mission?

588
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:52,600
Speaker 7: Oh, essentially against any So if you looked, you broke

589
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:56,520
Speaker 7: down the actual tenets of the religion, the ideology. But oh,

590
00:25:56,560 --> 00:25:59,879
Speaker 7: it's kind of like Christianity mixed Judaism. But the major

591
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:03,639
Speaker 7: thing is that there should be no pastor rabbi, any

592
00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:07,600
Speaker 7: middle man between you or God. To be no government.

593
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:09,800
Speaker 7: There should be no school as if I've never been

594
00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:14,880
Speaker 7: to school in my life. And hospitals were frowned against

595
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:20,439
Speaker 7: anything that is institutional New World. Yeah, it was a

596
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 7: way for Satan to corrupt you. So wow, and then

597
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:28,119
Speaker 7: that too shouldn't have It's easier for a camel to

598
00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:29,679
Speaker 7: enter the eye of a needle than it is for

599
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:30,080
Speaker 7: a rich.

600
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Speaker 3: So here's the question, how did you then?

601
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:38,040
Speaker 1: How could you organize as a religion if every institution

602
00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:42,920
Speaker 1: was evil? I mean, it seems a little counterintuition exactly.

603
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 6: And how do you have no name of the religion?

604
00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:48,879
Speaker 6: And how are.

605
00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:52,880
Speaker 7: The three families not communicating on the ideology if they're

606
00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:57,440
Speaker 7: all on their own boss spreading their own message of

607
00:26:58,000 --> 00:26:59,720
Speaker 7: kind of the same thing and then writing each other.

608
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:01,520
Speaker 6: The answer is we had no followers.

609
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:02,359
Speaker 2: Oh got it?

610
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 4: So when did you not? When did you leave?

611
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:09,960
Speaker 2: But when did you have the voice like inside to

612
00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:15,359
Speaker 2: say this is not good, this is not good for me,

613
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 2: Like because there's your family and you're like, oh, I

614
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 2: should because I love them, they love me.

615
00:27:21,359 --> 00:27:22,479
Speaker 4: But when did you know?

616
00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:23,080
Speaker 3: Well?

617
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:26,840
Speaker 7: Never felt good growing up, but I was told like

618
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:30,240
Speaker 7: that that's this life should be hard and you're given

619
00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 7: up for God. And then just adults would yell at

620
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:35,119
Speaker 7: my parents of like how could you do this to

621
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:35,679
Speaker 7: your kids?

622
00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:36,920
Speaker 6: Why are they not in school?

623
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 7: Why are they yelling at us under these neon signs

624
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:41,119
Speaker 7: that say you had it for help?

625
00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:44,000
Speaker 6: So I never there was always like oh this is

626
00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:44,920
Speaker 6: not right.

627
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:48,120
Speaker 7: We weren't allowed to be around any kids our age

628
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:49,320
Speaker 7: or have any friends.

629
00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:52,120
Speaker 6: But for me personally was I.

630
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:54,680
Speaker 7: Was sixteen, I think I was in love with this

631
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:57,800
Speaker 7: girl and the way that I felt about her did

632
00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:01,040
Speaker 7: not match up with the ideology this religion or this

633
00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:03,760
Speaker 7: religion taught. And it was something as simple as like, well,

634
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:08,119
Speaker 7: the way I feel in my right dumb chemicals is

635
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:11,119
Speaker 7: saying that this is wrong. But I just on a

636
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:14,240
Speaker 7: feeling level, of a gut level, this is this is pure,

637
00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:17,560
Speaker 7: This is right, so that religion has to be wrong.

638
00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:18,720
Speaker 6: And it was as simple as that.

639
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:22,680
Speaker 2: This is so wild because I feel like I meet

640
00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:25,760
Speaker 2: so many people and this is such a unique experience,

641
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:28,399
Speaker 2: but it happens more than we think.

642
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, and so I'm do you ever?

643
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:32,800
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't even know how to say it,

644
00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:35,399
Speaker 2: but say it, but like, go back and try to

645
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:36,960
Speaker 2: save kids.

646
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:39,960
Speaker 1: Save like your maybe your siblings or your siblings still

647
00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 1: caught up with the cult itself.

648
00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 7: I'm just proud of them that they're still alive because

649
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:48,560
Speaker 7: obviously people went through some real rough times leaving. I

650
00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:51,560
Speaker 7: think the hardest thing, right is not us as kids

651
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 7: if they grow up like the cult is just like

652
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:56,280
Speaker 7: this is some embarrassing thing that your parents do. The

653
00:28:56,280 --> 00:29:00,920
Speaker 7: hard part is now being an adult and trying to

654
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 7: learn how to interface with the world, not having these

655
00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 7: same shared experiences as people like remember that kid in

656
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:11,959
Speaker 7: middle school? Nah, I don't, Yeah, I remember you know so?

657
00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:16,560
Speaker 7: Or the hardest thing is intimate relationships. I feel like

658
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:19,360
Speaker 7: I can bullshit my way through a party or a

659
00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:23,120
Speaker 7: casual friendship or a work thing, but when you really

660
00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:25,280
Speaker 7: get close to someone and you have to open up

661
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:27,760
Speaker 7: and they're like, hey, why do you retreat when you

662
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:30,719
Speaker 7: start feeling things. Why do you not let me in

663
00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:34,280
Speaker 7: on certain things? That's when it's like, oh, this thing

664
00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:39,360
Speaker 7: really fucked us up, is very toxic and it hurts,

665
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:43,280
Speaker 7: And why do I keep avoiding hospitals?

666
00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:44,800
Speaker 3: Well, they are terrible.

667
00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:49,200
Speaker 2: I saw this quote one time because I had gone

668
00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 2: through so much shit for like five or six years.

669
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:52,520
Speaker 2: It was just.

670
00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:53,880
Speaker 4: Fucking awful and traumatic.

671
00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:57,000
Speaker 2: And then when I sort of got to a place

672
00:29:57,000 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 2: where I wanted where I needed to be, I know

673
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 2: how to be happy, and I was like, why can't

674
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:07,040
Speaker 2: I fucking be happy when my children are born, They're healthy,

675
00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:09,240
Speaker 2: we have the home, we have, I love my hut.

676
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 2: And then I saw this. I hate to be this

677
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 2: bitch'd be like I saw this quote, but I do

678
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:16,120
Speaker 2: follow like a lot of inspirational quotes on Instagram because

679
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 2: it's just full of fucking just people I don't know,

680
00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 2: making casadillas and doing like this stall and TikTok videos.

681
00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:27,520
Speaker 2: But like I saw this quote, it was the tools

682
00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 2: that you need to survive will not be the ones

683
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:33,480
Speaker 2: you need to thrive, like learn how to live differently.

684
00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:36,560
Speaker 2: And I was like, ooh, that hits. That hits with

685
00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:38,640
Speaker 2: me because I'm like, I know how to be that

686
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:42,360
Speaker 2: person to get through it and weather the storm, but like,

687
00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:44,120
Speaker 2: how do I get to the other side and actually

688
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:46,520
Speaker 2: enjoy where the fuck I worked so hard to be.

689
00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:50,640
Speaker 2: So that's just like and it's every day. It's like

690
00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:53,920
Speaker 2: it's a choice. It's for me at least it feels

691
00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 2: like a choice because like even road rage, I've learned

692
00:30:57,000 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 2: how to enjoy it now as opposed to being like

693
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 2: it's personal.

694
00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:03,960
Speaker 4: I gotta show them, like you know what I mean.

695
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:06,520
Speaker 2: I'm just like, that's funny, and it's like I just

696
00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:08,160
Speaker 2: have to figure out.

697
00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 6: I don't trust advice that rhymes.

698
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:16,520
Speaker 4: No hip hop at all, no kenchrick.

699
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:22,719
Speaker 3: Lamar, never get high in your own supply. Yeah, all

700
00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:23,120
Speaker 3: the time.

701
00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:26,880
Speaker 7: It's like something very simple. It's like if it rhymes,

702
00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:28,840
Speaker 7: then it's not worth a dime. And it's like that

703
00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:29,720
Speaker 7: is that.

704
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 6: Smarter or that just rhymes?

705
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:34,240
Speaker 7: But I think what you said is actually that's actually

706
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:37,800
Speaker 7: a very useful piece of information that happens to rhyme.

707
00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 1: You also Michelle also said Weathering the Storm, which I

708
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:44,600
Speaker 1: believe is the name of your biography.

709
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, Weathering the Storm.

710
00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:56,800
Speaker 5: A podcasts from exactly Right Media.

711
00:31:57,120 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 7: Have something now outside of I guess Instagram quotes or

712
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:02,320
Speaker 7: just positive quotes could be a thing.

713
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:04,240
Speaker 3: But is there a.

714
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:07,840
Speaker 6: Or what is what's the closest thing.

715
00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 7: That you have to face, or a religion or some

716
00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:14,600
Speaker 7: sort of belief in something, because I'm at the point

717
00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:17,680
Speaker 7: now it's pretty embarrassing where I don't have anything and

718
00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 7: I'm not okay with that. I'm looking for something that's

719
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:27,719
Speaker 7: TM or something that's like I got that bullshit. Yeah,

720
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:31,160
Speaker 7: some sort of faith, something to make the questions that

721
00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 7: are unanswerable palatable.

722
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:37,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I hear you. My uncle is the archbishop of Jamaica,

723
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:42,080
Speaker 2: and so growing up in the church was a thing,

724
00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:46,800
Speaker 2: and I tried to pick the good parts and the

725
00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:49,800
Speaker 2: bad parts and you know, do this but not that.

726
00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 2: And I really came face to face with all of

727
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:58,600
Speaker 2: it when I was forced into baptizing my twins, and

728
00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:00,719
Speaker 2: I'm like, I could do this but still make it.

729
00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 2: Me and the godmothers are both gay, and we were

730
00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:06,680
Speaker 2: so far down the process. It was like the day

731
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:09,760
Speaker 2: before the baptism, and people had flown in from Holland,

732
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 2: from Jamaica, from California, from Washington State, and my mom

733
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:19,800
Speaker 2: decided to tell me that day don't introduce Carrie as

734
00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:24,440
Speaker 2: Becky's wife, and I'm like, what, that's who she is, Yeah,

735
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:26,640
Speaker 2: but don't bring it up. And I'm like, I'm only

736
00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:30,120
Speaker 2: going to bring it up now, and so sure enough,

737
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:34,040
Speaker 2: I was told a couple hours later that I had

738
00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:37,760
Speaker 2: to pick somebody else because the church doesn't recognize that.

739
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:41,720
Speaker 2: And it was a mess. And this is why I

740
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:44,440
Speaker 2: love having Jordan in my life. He did tell me,

741
00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:47,040
Speaker 2: when you become a parent, you have to parent yourself,

742
00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 2: and I'm like, how the fuck am I gonna say

743
00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 2: they're not worthy because of who they are and that

744
00:33:56,240 --> 00:33:58,640
Speaker 2: makes them beautiful to my children who might be gay,

745
00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 2: because you want this thing on paper for these people

746
00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:05,000
Speaker 2: and for this institution that I don't even fully agree with.

747
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:09,360
Speaker 2: But there's so much that I do love. And I

748
00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:11,799
Speaker 2: really had to think about what I loved and it

749
00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:16,640
Speaker 2: was community, and I have my own community. And so

750
00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:19,600
Speaker 2: we ended up just doing a blessing in our backyard

751
00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:21,799
Speaker 2: with a friend who was an ordained minister, and we

752
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:25,360
Speaker 2: called it a blessing and it was beautiful, but I

753
00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:27,800
Speaker 2: still carry around guilt about it, and my mom didn't

754
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 2: talk to me for three months, and as the only child,

755
00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 2: that's really fucking hard, but I do feel like we

756
00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:38,200
Speaker 2: grew together. Growing pains fucking suck, But there is still

757
00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:40,160
Speaker 2: a part of me where I'm just like, but what

758
00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:41,520
Speaker 2: am I teaching my kids?

759
00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:43,120
Speaker 4: Like what is it going to be?

760
00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:43,399
Speaker 3: Am?

761
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:46,320
Speaker 2: I gonna put them in Catholic school and let them

762
00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:48,920
Speaker 2: know all the terrible shit and all the fun stuff

763
00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:52,480
Speaker 2: and then like tell them what Like. So I'm with you, friend,

764
00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:57,080
Speaker 2: I would love to find a place that made me

765
00:34:57,280 --> 00:35:01,120
Speaker 2: feel loved see whole.

766
00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:04,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean to that, I mean like it's that's

767
00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:06,920
Speaker 1: a huge quandary, you know, Moses, and it's not easy,

768
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:09,480
Speaker 1: especially given what you were, especially giving your upbringings. So

769
00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:11,799
Speaker 1: I mean with that in mind, you know, it's like

770
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:14,319
Speaker 1: when you then yourself, Let's say you got to raise

771
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:16,759
Speaker 1: a family and you want to give them some kind

772
00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:18,880
Speaker 1: of structure and things like that, you have to revisit

773
00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:21,640
Speaker 1: the fact that you will be confronted with the trauma

774
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:25,279
Speaker 1: that you went through being raised in such a way. Yeah, yeah,

775
00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:27,000
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, And it's really hard, which

776
00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 1: is unfair to you. But I would say I would

777
00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:31,719
Speaker 1: suggest something that I do, you know, which is like

778
00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:34,080
Speaker 1: I have to admit when it comes to religion, I

779
00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:36,960
Speaker 1: usually turn on the volume on old JC.

780
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:42,040
Speaker 2: But even even the stank you gotta put on Jason.

781
00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:43,600
Speaker 4: You can't even say, Jesus.

782
00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:46,879
Speaker 2: Christ, you got us making a cartoon. That's where we're

783
00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:48,440
Speaker 2: at to get through it. Do you want to.

784
00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:52,239
Speaker 1: Stand It's like I'm a comedian or something. I mean,

785
00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:54,040
Speaker 1: I'm having as much fun as I can. In twenty

786
00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:54,760
Speaker 1: twenty two.

787
00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:57,600
Speaker 4: Said no one ever.

788
00:35:58,000 --> 00:35:59,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, here's here's the thing.

789
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:02,680
Speaker 1: I feel like what you can do is, and I've

790
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:04,800
Speaker 1: been guilty of this over the years, is like you

791
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:07,960
Speaker 1: you feel as whatever successes you have or a mistake

792
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:11,919
Speaker 1: or sheer luck or someone was asleep on their job.

793
00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:15,160
Speaker 3: So what I do now is like, you know, my

794
00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 3: therapist told me.

795
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:19,240
Speaker 1: To look back over what I've done over my resume

796
00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:23,600
Speaker 1: and then like that makes me I actually start to

797
00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:24,600
Speaker 1: believe in myself.

798
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:28,480
Speaker 4: Oh, Jordan, you say it and you meet it.

799
00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:30,600
Speaker 3: Jordan, I do mean it. I do mean it.

800
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:33,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I say, no, I believe I'm more and more.

801
00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:35,759
Speaker 1: I mean it's not I'm not saying that I'm like

802
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:39,600
Speaker 1: a hundred percent believe in myself, but like, but more

803
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:40,359
Speaker 1: than I used to.

804
00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:42,359
Speaker 3: I definitely I see it.

805
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:45,239
Speaker 2: I actually I see the difference in your friend, and

806
00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:46,799
Speaker 2: I'm very proud of you.

807
00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:50,560
Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean, listen, Moses, you are so skilled your religion.

808
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:52,399
Speaker 6: Can we both believe in you as well?

809
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:54,160
Speaker 3: Sure?

810
00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:58,480
Speaker 5: Absolutely, a small little g god complex.

811
00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:01,840
Speaker 2: I believe in address with a fuck a button. Jesus Christ.

812
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:05,040
Speaker 2: The titties are out like a fleshy fucking tsunami.

813
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:05,680
Speaker 4: Listen.

814
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 2: We got questions from the audience, and they ask us

815
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:09,959
Speaker 2: about adulting, and we'd love to ask you some questions.

816
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:20,719
Speaker 2: You down with that, fucking wonderful down with that? Oh,

817
00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:23,400
Speaker 2: this is cute TV in the bedroom? Yes? Or no?

818
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:29,959
Speaker 7: Ooh no ooh, but no heart in Fastball. I think

819
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 7: no hard in Fastball because we were so anti TV

820
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:35,720
Speaker 7: growing up, and I was like, its miserable. You should

821
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:38,319
Speaker 7: like just even if TV is the devil whatever. Your

822
00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 7: kids are gonna need to know certain references Seinfeld. But

823
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:44,640
Speaker 7: I think now you could do laptop in the beds

824
00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:48,640
Speaker 7: basically a TV. Yeah, but that especially if you're like

825
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:51,560
Speaker 7: dating someone, I think the TV is I don't know.

826
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:54,959
Speaker 7: The bed should be so sacred place where you do sex,

827
00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:56,879
Speaker 7: times you bond together.

828
00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:04,360
Speaker 6: On the bed. It's not disconnected anyway. Living. I'm fine.

829
00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:05,399
Speaker 2: I'm not mad at that.

830
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:08,399
Speaker 6: And a kitchen TV. Definitely have a kitchen TV.

831
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:11,319
Speaker 2: That is so old school. Not everybody has a kitchen TV.

832
00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:14,120
Speaker 2: You used to used to like watch a cooking show

833
00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:16,520
Speaker 2: while you were cooking. It's like, who the fuck at

834
00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 2: the time, I.

835
00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:19,040
Speaker 1: Feel like a kitchen TV, though, is where you hear

836
00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:23,840
Speaker 1: about disasters, you know, and yeah, a.

837
00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:26,040
Speaker 6: Woman at home and there's no good parts for women.

838
00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:30,959
Speaker 7: Parrot, hear about husband doing a high pitch job.

839
00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:35,280
Speaker 6: He's got he's gonna go true even though he fills

840
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:35,760
Speaker 6: for oil.

841
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 2: It's true.

842
00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:40,320
Speaker 3: Hear her in the kitchen, and there's another typical making.

843
00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:44,560
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, Moses, what was the first movie you

844
00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:45,280
Speaker 2: saw in a theater?

845
00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:58,759
Speaker 7: I think we saw the Lost in Space movie.

846
00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:56,400
Speaker 3: With matt LeBlanc.

847
00:38:56,560 --> 00:38:59,759
Speaker 7: Okay, like this like evil thing of the world, but

848
00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:02,520
Speaker 7: we're just gonna watch it, but know that the message

849
00:39:02,520 --> 00:39:04,719
Speaker 7: of this is evil, and it was.

850
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:07,319
Speaker 6: I had not seen a lot of movies, but we

851
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:11,400
Speaker 6: knew enough that that was a horrible movie, right right.

852
00:39:12,680 --> 00:39:14,600
Speaker 7: We were talking the whole time. We were the only

853
00:39:14,600 --> 00:39:16,440
Speaker 7: people in there. But and it should be this thing.

854
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 7: I'm like, oh shit, we're in a theater for the

855
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:22,719
Speaker 7: first time. But it was such a horrible movie that. Yeah,

856
00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 7: we talked the whole way through.

857
00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:26,200
Speaker 5: Do you remember that though, Do you remember, like, so

858
00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:28,080
Speaker 5: you remember your first bad movie, Moses?

859
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:29,080
Speaker 3: Do you remember that, Michelle?

860
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:31,560
Speaker 1: Do you remember watching your first bad movie and being like,

861
00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:33,239
Speaker 1: what is this experience?

862
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:34,640
Speaker 4: My first movie was et?

863
00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 2: But yeah, I don't know.

864
00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:38,319
Speaker 1: Sorry, go on, yeah, but no, but I'm just it's

865
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 1: it's it's such a weird feeling because when you're a

866
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:44,680
Speaker 1: child and you're taking in the movies, it's always like,

867
00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:47,920
Speaker 1: I mean, it's figure right, So you're taking the like

868
00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:52,080
Speaker 1: Star Wars et, whatever little cartoon you wanted to watch,

869
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:53,920
Speaker 1: you enjoyed it completely.

870
00:39:54,440 --> 00:40:00,879
Speaker 3: But your first dud, you know, brought me coffee. Good

871
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:01,600
Speaker 3: to see you, buddy.

872
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:08,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, find someone like that, Find that, MATEI curi.

873
00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 6: What was your what was your DoD movie? Was the

874
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:12,200
Speaker 6: first Dot?

875
00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:14,719
Speaker 3: It was Bullet? It was I think it was Money Train?

876
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:17,759
Speaker 5: So I actually was lucky for a long time, the

877
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:20,319
Speaker 5: Money Train with Whats Snipes and Whatdy Harrelson. I was

878
00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:22,880
Speaker 5: like the guys from two, you know, like the White

879
00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:24,520
Speaker 5: Men Can't Jump and Wildcats?

880
00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:26,359
Speaker 3: What could possibly go wrong? It did?

881
00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:29,200
Speaker 2: What is that movie with Patrick Swayze? Was it Roadhouse?

882
00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:30,759
Speaker 3: Oh? Yeah, you didn't like that.

883
00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:33,279
Speaker 2: That was after Dirty Dancing, right when he started like

884
00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:36,920
Speaker 2: getting offers. Yeah, I wanted more rest in power.

885
00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:39,960
Speaker 5: He ripped a man's throat out and and got with

886
00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:41,000
Speaker 5: Kelly Lynch in a barn.

887
00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 3: What's up? All right? So here's the question.

888
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:47,160
Speaker 2: I was like thirteen anyways, I had so.

889
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:48,680
Speaker 3: Many feelings going on in that movie.

890
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:51,200
Speaker 1: Okay, here's the question, And I think this actually might

891
00:40:51,239 --> 00:40:54,280
Speaker 1: be really good for Moses because this is this is someone,

892
00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:56,080
Speaker 1: this is I don't know the tenor, and the tone

893
00:40:56,120 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 1: of this question is wild. I'm a twenty four year

894
00:40:57,960 --> 00:40:59,759
Speaker 1: old female about to move in with my twenty four

895
00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 1: years old husband, and I'm freaking out.

896
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:03,560
Speaker 3: How do you live with a man? How do you

897
00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:08,040
Speaker 3: how do you plug your ingrown hairs? Pluck? I think

898
00:41:08,440 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 3: I'm scared? Pluck?

899
00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:14,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, oh my god? What a like. I

900
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:16,000
Speaker 2: have been with my husband for thirteen years and just

901
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:19,040
Speaker 2: started farting in front of him because of the pandemic.

902
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:22,719
Speaker 6: But a wild question, Holy shit, Yeah, this is uh.

903
00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:27,319
Speaker 7: I would say tread lightly because you really shouldn't move

904
00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:30,279
Speaker 7: in but with someone until you're like fuck it, I

905
00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:30,960
Speaker 7: fart in the room.

906
00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:31,600
Speaker 6: It's fine.

907
00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:34,359
Speaker 7: M I feel like you should there before you because

908
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:36,400
Speaker 7: you're going to be very uncomfortable and feel like you

909
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:40,440
Speaker 7: are not at home. Ever, if you are not close

910
00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:44,000
Speaker 7: enough to someone where it's like this person has seen me.

911
00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 6: Shit, why they look into my eyes?

912
00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:48,520
Speaker 2: We booh no, thank you?

913
00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:53,319
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, you should be your gross itself before you

914
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:55,279
Speaker 7: move in with someone. But there's no way to really

915
00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:58,120
Speaker 7: learn that in they at twenty four, So you kind

916
00:41:58,160 --> 00:41:58,960
Speaker 7: of have to do it.

917
00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:01,879
Speaker 6: So I wouldn't they don't do it, but know that.

918
00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:06,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think this person has lived with another

919
00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:10,439
Speaker 1: like human being that is not their family period. I'm

920
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:14,160
Speaker 1: getting from this question a kind of like an orthodoxy,

921
00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:16,400
Speaker 1: And that's what I meant for you, mos, is like

922
00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:19,719
Speaker 1: have you did you ever like in your group, were

923
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:21,200
Speaker 1: there every people that got married like way.

924
00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 3: Too soon, like your sibs that were like no, so.

925
00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:26,719
Speaker 7: Like the one that wasn't in this thing, and it's like,

926
00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 7: you know a total of sixteen people was going to

927
00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:31,839
Speaker 7: have for there to corrupt you. So there was never

928
00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:33,920
Speaker 7: a thought that you could ever be with someone or

929
00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:35,719
Speaker 7: I get out of that. There's no marriage. It was

930
00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:38,920
Speaker 7: like a son and how the fuck did you guys

931
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:42,680
Speaker 7: meet parents? Like yeah, that you were the last two

932
00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:49,120
Speaker 7: that were saved forever. Got got hitched pretty.

933
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:51,279
Speaker 6: Fast, out of it. Out of it.

934
00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:54,600
Speaker 7: Yeah, they start having kids and being like really great parents.

935
00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:56,200
Speaker 7: It's almost a fight.

936
00:42:56,400 --> 00:43:04,359
Speaker 2: Move that hit hard, that hit hard. Next question, this

937
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:08,080
Speaker 2: is a spicy one. Yeah, what are your thoughts on

938
00:43:08,200 --> 00:43:10,800
Speaker 2: open marriages and or couples who swing?

939
00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:13,880
Speaker 3: There's a storm coming up.

940
00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:16,000
Speaker 4: Oh, it sounds like you want me to tell you

941
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:16,440
Speaker 4: to do it.

942
00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:17,520
Speaker 5: One.

943
00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:22,280
Speaker 7: I've never seen the hot people swing, at least who documentaries.

944
00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:27,759
Speaker 7: It's always uh gus bodies you describe as brave, right,

945
00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 7: like something that was cool when they were cool.

946
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:34,719
Speaker 6: They have like a soul patch or a rat tail

947
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:36,359
Speaker 6: lip ring.

948
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:38,799
Speaker 7: It's like, oh, yeah, of course that's the guy that swings,

949
00:43:39,040 --> 00:43:40,279
Speaker 7: and then thank you.

950
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:41,640
Speaker 6: It's never looked.

951
00:43:41,480 --> 00:43:44,000
Speaker 7: Appealing just because the people, at least the people that

952
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:48,160
Speaker 7: agree to documentaries about swinging are not the people you

953
00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:48,560
Speaker 7: would help.

954
00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:51,279
Speaker 2: That's true. Patty Kaplan come through for your girl. Che

955
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:53,359
Speaker 2: String Divas on HBO. If you haven't seen it, check

956
00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:56,760
Speaker 2: it out, pip some post down you know what to people.

957
00:43:57,200 --> 00:44:00,359
Speaker 2: I don't go to the gym anymore, obviously, not because

958
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:02,400
Speaker 2: of the cardio, because of the COVID but like the

959
00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:05,120
Speaker 2: locker room, it's always the people you never want to

960
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:08,279
Speaker 2: see naked that have to be naked, blow drying their

961
00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:10,960
Speaker 2: hair with their fucking legs upen your dumb cunts.

962
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:12,000
Speaker 5: What happens in.

963
00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:17,279
Speaker 7: The in the women's locker room too? A man like

964
00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:21,080
Speaker 7: a man? But yeah, I guess, I guess it goes

965
00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:22,920
Speaker 7: both ways. But I think have you ever been in

966
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:25,920
Speaker 7: a relationship with thought wish this was more complicated, which

967
00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:27,120
Speaker 7: there was another thing.

968
00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:31,440
Speaker 6: Okay, you have the thirty three.

969
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:35,279
Speaker 7: Minutes of sex, right now, you have another twenty three

970
00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:38,719
Speaker 7: and a half hours to fill with these these two

971
00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:40,080
Speaker 7: people or four people.

972
00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:43,600
Speaker 1: So well, I mean it's something that's becoming more commonplace.

973
00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:46,600
Speaker 1: There's couples and throttles more and more, and people like

974
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:50,040
Speaker 1: to the binary is bad, right, So it's like I

975
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:53,680
Speaker 1: think that there is a certain amount of focus being

976
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:57,200
Speaker 1: put on on fluidity and how we then look at

977
00:44:57,239 --> 00:45:00,759
Speaker 1: our own relationships. I will say that it's definitely very

978
00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:04,160
Speaker 1: like it's cultural because when I was in Minneapolis, wow

979
00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:07,720
Speaker 1: wow's uh, people were definitely.

980
00:45:07,640 --> 00:45:08,520
Speaker 3: In multi.

981
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:10,759
Speaker 4: Hawaii b.

982
00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:24,360
Speaker 2: Minneapolis, like the south of France, the multi coast Minnieacol.

983
00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:29,560
Speaker 5: Who comes from Minneapolis, Prince who's the most who's the

984
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:31,040
Speaker 5: most exactly, who's the most most?

985
00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:36,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, Okay, he wasn't just one person.

986
00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:39,440
Speaker 1: It wasn't just him. It's like that had to have

987
00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:42,040
Speaker 1: he was birthed from that. So it's like when I

988
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:45,480
Speaker 1: went there, I was amazed, amazed with the.

989
00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:48,960
Speaker 3: Number of people that yeah, yeah minneapol. Don't sleep now,

990
00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 3: don't sleep.

991
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:54,280
Speaker 7: Look, this person's question, should I get into a threatpole

992
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:56,440
Speaker 7: or just what are your thoughts on which means they're

993
00:45:56,440 --> 00:46:00,239
Speaker 7: probably starting with the idea of pitching that it.

994
00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:02,680
Speaker 2: Is it is. I think it's more like, what are

995
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:06,719
Speaker 2: your thoughts on it? And to be honest, if this

996
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:08,759
Speaker 2: is something that you want to present to your relationship,

997
00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:13,080
Speaker 2: then make a pro and con list. Definitely set boundaries

998
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:17,759
Speaker 2: and rules because being open is one thing, but then

999
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:21,919
Speaker 2: group sex within your marriage or relationship is another thing.

1000
00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:24,799
Speaker 2: And so this is a conversation if you need to

1001
00:46:24,840 --> 00:46:27,440
Speaker 2: go to like a sex therapist just to have somebody

1002
00:46:28,239 --> 00:46:31,479
Speaker 2: way in. I love therapists because it feels like they're

1003
00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:34,200
Speaker 2: a good one, feels like an interpreter sometimes.

1004
00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:35,640
Speaker 4: So like do that.

1005
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:40,200
Speaker 2: But if you are looking to I mean, it's so

1006
00:46:40,320 --> 00:46:42,560
Speaker 2: crazy because being married, I've never met so many people

1007
00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:45,120
Speaker 2: in open relationships, but I've never known so many people

1008
00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:47,320
Speaker 2: like in long.

1009
00:46:47,200 --> 00:46:48,200
Speaker 4: Term relationships either.

1010
00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:52,319
Speaker 2: And if it's just like I love my person, but

1011
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:54,680
Speaker 2: I just I have feelings for other people, or I

1012
00:46:54,719 --> 00:46:57,439
Speaker 2: love my person, but I have feelings for the opposite sex,

1013
00:46:57,520 --> 00:46:59,759
Speaker 2: or I love my person but I can't see this

1014
00:46:59,840 --> 00:47:02,879
Speaker 2: like every day before I die. Whatever it is, It's

1015
00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:05,960
Speaker 2: like being honest with your partner is one thing, but

1016
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:08,960
Speaker 2: being honest with yourself is the most important thing. So

1017
00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:13,920
Speaker 2: really like, look look deep and look in and figure out.

1018
00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:15,440
Speaker 4: What you want, what you need.

1019
00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:17,640
Speaker 1: I would also add it's like remove a lot of

1020
00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:19,759
Speaker 1: stuff and make sure that this is what you want.

1021
00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:21,160
Speaker 1: Remove a lot of things and make sure this is

1022
00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 1: what you want. There's something called the Coolidge effect. The

1023
00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:27,320
Speaker 1: Coolie effect is like when you're surfing on whatever on Instagram,

1024
00:47:27,360 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 1: you're on the internet, and it's our like something new

1025
00:47:30,680 --> 00:47:34,440
Speaker 1: excites humans. So if we see something new, then we

1026
00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:36,680
Speaker 1: get very excited about it and aroused by it. Okay,

1027
00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:40,120
Speaker 1: So if you for a moment, like just put your

1028
00:47:40,120 --> 00:47:41,960
Speaker 1: phone down for a couple of days, and if you

1029
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:45,080
Speaker 1: still have that feeling that that's what you that that's

1030
00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:48,839
Speaker 1: what you want, then okay, Also it's a really hard

1031
00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:51,359
Speaker 1: on's the cake is baked to kind of like be like,

1032
00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:54,640
Speaker 1: you know what I'm gonna I need to like let's

1033
00:47:54,680 --> 00:47:58,920
Speaker 1: improvise here and like rearrange the area established you know, yes,

1034
00:47:59,160 --> 00:48:01,200
Speaker 1: indecent propeller, I mean, come on.

1035
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:03,719
Speaker 7: Yes, I think if you're looking, you should be open

1036
00:48:03,800 --> 00:48:06,919
Speaker 7: with yourself first, like do I want this for sex?

1037
00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:10,879
Speaker 6: I want to have sex with other people or a different.

1038
00:48:11,239 --> 00:48:14,640
Speaker 7: Gender identity, or do I want a Am I missing

1039
00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:17,279
Speaker 7: something in my relationship that's a feeling thing of like

1040
00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 7: I'm I like as a person, I still love my

1041
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:23,839
Speaker 7: husband or wife and I am also in love with

1042
00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:24,680
Speaker 7: this person.

1043
00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:26,600
Speaker 6: Then that is a good get in.

1044
00:48:26,880 --> 00:48:31,400
Speaker 7: But in a relationship, maybe you could talk about just

1045
00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:34,720
Speaker 7: wanting sex with other people.

1046
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:37,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, thought, and you know what, it'll be Okay, it'll

1047
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:40,640
Speaker 2: be hard, but it will always be Okay, you dirry

1048
00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:41,280
Speaker 2: little bitch.

1049
00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:41,720
Speaker 4: Okay.

1050
00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:44,920
Speaker 2: This is the last and most important question. I know.

1051
00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:46,239
Speaker 4: How does Jordan do it?

1052
00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:51,160
Speaker 2: Whatever? He has fun? Okay, last question? What should I

1053
00:48:51,239 --> 00:48:52,560
Speaker 2: look for in a couch?

1054
00:48:53,120 --> 00:48:55,319
Speaker 3: Oh?

1055
00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 4: Oh, it's hard.

1056
00:48:57,760 --> 00:49:04,959
Speaker 8: It's hard the comfortable, uncomfortable couch because usually the best

1057
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:08,640
Speaker 8: looking couches, you know, are very uncomfortable.

1058
00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:14,560
Speaker 2: Yes, we have a mid century modern furniture store, so

1059
00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:18,080
Speaker 2: I one hundred percent agree. It was like nobody had

1060
00:49:18,120 --> 00:49:20,799
Speaker 2: booty in the sixties. It's like, where the fuck am

1061
00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:21,680
Speaker 2: I supposed to put this?

1062
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 3: Why do you think?

1063
00:49:22,719 --> 00:49:24,200
Speaker 1: Sorry, most no, but why do you think there was

1064
00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:26,560
Speaker 1: so much change in the sixties? People weren't They were

1065
00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:29,080
Speaker 1: on their feet, they were out in the streets marching.

1066
00:49:29,320 --> 00:49:32,600
Speaker 5: Okay, no one was comfy. They're like, we got to

1067
00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:35,759
Speaker 5: change this. By the seventies you had the waterbed and

1068
00:49:35,760 --> 00:49:38,360
Speaker 5: people were like, fuck it, I'm done. I'm checking out.

1069
00:49:40,239 --> 00:49:43,440
Speaker 2: You know, I just got really good advice not but

1070
00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:46,560
Speaker 2: two years ago. Sit in the couch first.

1071
00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:49,759
Speaker 7: Right, But are you comfortable enough in the store? I

1072
00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:51,759
Speaker 7: never feel like I still feel like I'm performing. I

1073
00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:55,239
Speaker 7: can't really be honestly good. I love her. I'm not

1074
00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:57,400
Speaker 7: actually being like, what are you actually going to be

1075
00:49:57,440 --> 00:50:02,160
Speaker 7: doing in this? Which is just being still smart shirt.

1076
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:04,319
Speaker 6: For powers on it?

1077
00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:05,760
Speaker 3: So whatever?

1078
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:13,200
Speaker 2: Looking not a filth monster. No follow up questions there.

1079
00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:15,600
Speaker 2: Mine is not necessarily a sid test, but it's the

1080
00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:19,960
Speaker 2: get up test. Is it too low? These knees are old? Now?

1081
00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:23,399
Speaker 2: I've been tap dancing for the patriarchy for a long time.

1082
00:50:23,520 --> 00:50:26,440
Speaker 2: These titties are heavy, so do I need to push up?

1083
00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:28,040
Speaker 6: Now?

1084
00:50:28,160 --> 00:50:28,799
Speaker 4: Push me up.

1085
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:32,239
Speaker 1: Sofas are also very cultural too. You know, it's like

1086
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:34,640
Speaker 1: if it's if it's a, it's a. It's an L

1087
00:50:34,719 --> 00:50:38,200
Speaker 1: shaped brown one. I know it's black folks, you know, if.

1088
00:50:38,040 --> 00:50:43,160
Speaker 2: It's I have an L shaped Dusty Rose, all right,

1089
00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:44,840
Speaker 2: all right, gotta have that L shape.

1090
00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:46,799
Speaker 3: You know, I love it. I love a good L.

1091
00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:47,759
Speaker 3: I love a good L.

1092
00:50:48,160 --> 00:50:50,239
Speaker 7: If you do the two couch thing, like, don't just

1093
00:50:50,440 --> 00:50:51,640
Speaker 7: face them towards each other.

1094
00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:54,480
Speaker 6: It's too much. Sure, but this is a conversation, the

1095
00:50:54,520 --> 00:50:55,040
Speaker 6: biggest one.

1096
00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:58,560
Speaker 7: You're facing the TV and then get something that fits aside,

1097
00:50:58,560 --> 00:51:00,560
Speaker 7: because all the time people are like the TV's off

1098
00:51:00,560 --> 00:51:02,520
Speaker 7: to the corner, and to catch us face each other

1099
00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:04,360
Speaker 7: for conversation so dumb.

1100
00:51:05,000 --> 00:51:07,239
Speaker 2: So that's like you're just gonna do cocaine. I don't

1101
00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:11,240
Speaker 2: understand that. Also, did you know a love seat, which

1102
00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:14,920
Speaker 2: is you know, obviously the two things two seats was

1103
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:19,920
Speaker 2: originally intended for like bitches from Bridgeton recording right to

1104
00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:20,720
Speaker 2: sit down.

1105
00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:21,480
Speaker 4: In their big dress.

1106
00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:28,440
Speaker 5: Yoh yeah, do it.

1107
00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:31,360
Speaker 7: Like advertised or they fill that out and then a

1108
00:51:31,400 --> 00:51:33,120
Speaker 7: gentleman collor since.

1109
00:51:34,600 --> 00:51:39,160
Speaker 2: Yeah alone, Yes, they sit in it alone while the

1110
00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:42,560
Speaker 2: gentleman calls come and you know, ask them for their

1111
00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:44,160
Speaker 2: hands and whatever the fuck they say.

1112
00:51:44,200 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 3: May I squire you about town, milady? Would you like

1113
00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:50,080
Speaker 3: to ride in my handsome my acreage?

1114
00:51:50,480 --> 00:51:52,760
Speaker 2: Oh my, I love it when he gets jingle jangle

1115
00:51:52,800 --> 00:51:53,239
Speaker 2: on a bitch.

1116
00:51:53,960 --> 00:51:56,120
Speaker 4: It's kwanzas real bitches.

1117
00:51:57,000 --> 00:52:00,359
Speaker 5: Although I've heard some people like they're they're like, get

1118
00:52:00,400 --> 00:52:03,360
Speaker 5: the TV out of the living room, okay, Like it

1119
00:52:03,360 --> 00:52:04,839
Speaker 5: should just be about conversation.

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00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:08,800
Speaker 1: Just that's what it's about, Okay, so they rearrange the

1121
00:52:08,840 --> 00:52:12,320
Speaker 1: furniture accordingly. No imagine, Yeah.

1122
00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:17,880
Speaker 7: You should watch Michelle's many Netflix shows.

1123
00:52:18,400 --> 00:52:20,520
Speaker 4: This is what I say you should look for in

1124
00:52:20,560 --> 00:52:20,920
Speaker 4: a couch.

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00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:26,080
Speaker 2: Definitely take measurements, Maybe hang a cool picture above your couch,

1126
00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:29,960
Speaker 2: or have like what is it called a collage of

1127
00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:34,000
Speaker 2: pictures as well. Right, So I also think go to Pinterest.

1128
00:52:34,120 --> 00:52:37,520
Speaker 2: None of people really utilize Pinterests in a way that's helpful.

1129
00:52:37,840 --> 00:52:41,160
Speaker 2: Just throw in some keywords of like brown, leather, whatever

1130
00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:44,720
Speaker 2: the fuck, and just get some inspiration. You could always

1131
00:52:44,760 --> 00:52:46,799
Speaker 2: find something that's a lot cheaper that looks just as good.

1132
00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:49,680
Speaker 2: Definitely do a sit test and if you can't afford

1133
00:52:49,680 --> 00:52:52,759
Speaker 2: what you want, and if you're smart about it, open

1134
00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:54,480
Speaker 2: up a credit card. Make sure that you pay it

1135
00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:56,799
Speaker 2: off monthly or just like do a one time thing.

1136
00:52:57,200 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 2: So you can build your credit by opening up that

1137
00:52:59,000 --> 00:53:00,680
Speaker 2: credit card. But you have to pay it off, oh

1138
00:53:00,680 --> 00:53:02,919
Speaker 2: my god, because I think it's like zero present down

1139
00:53:03,400 --> 00:53:05,520
Speaker 2: pr whatever the fuck? So you can actually use that

1140
00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:08,359
Speaker 2: couch to build your credit, because this is where we

1141
00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:10,839
Speaker 2: fucking live in America where we need credit to Like.

1142
00:53:11,000 --> 00:53:13,000
Speaker 6: Now the couch, what are you doing? And I build

1143
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:13,759
Speaker 6: the credit.

1144
00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:18,640
Speaker 2: Exactly one, And it's like what you want to do?

1145
00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:20,279
Speaker 2: You want to have friends over? You just want to

1146
00:53:20,280 --> 00:53:21,399
Speaker 2: have one other person over?

1147
00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:22,239
Speaker 4: Do you have a dog?

1148
00:53:22,280 --> 00:53:24,600
Speaker 2: You should get something left? You could also get go

1149
00:53:24,640 --> 00:53:28,840
Speaker 2: to crazelist and now find something leather and are go on, Jordan,

1150
00:53:28,960 --> 00:53:30,279
Speaker 2: I'm done, God, what's in this call?

1151
00:53:30,440 --> 00:53:32,520
Speaker 1: I just want to ask this though. Do people get

1152
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:34,279
Speaker 1: hung up on the labels of the couch too?

1153
00:53:34,360 --> 00:53:34,480
Speaker 2: Right?

1154
00:53:34,560 --> 00:53:37,680
Speaker 1: It's just like like one day, okay, by my office

1155
00:53:37,719 --> 00:53:41,319
Speaker 1: there's design within Reach, ABC Home Carpet and west Elm right,

1156
00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:43,600
Speaker 1: and I'm like, one day I'm gonna get it.

1157
00:53:43,880 --> 00:53:45,239
Speaker 3: I'm gonna get them all, you.

1158
00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:47,520
Speaker 1: Know, like I like, do you ever like design within

1159
00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:50,000
Speaker 1: reach is an outlet near me and it's still not

1160
00:53:50,080 --> 00:53:53,719
Speaker 1: within my reach? Like, do you ever Just you're just

1161
00:53:53,719 --> 00:53:56,000
Speaker 1: like I want this like design with the reach.

1162
00:53:56,160 --> 00:53:59,440
Speaker 7: It's really the Brandy Melville of couch stores because it's

1163
00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:03,080
Speaker 7: just for I'm the type of person because one size

1164
00:54:03,160 --> 00:54:04,719
Speaker 7: and that side is rich.

1165
00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:09,560
Speaker 2: Ready Melville Like, look, sure if you like design within reach,

1166
00:54:09,719 --> 00:54:13,040
Speaker 2: but I think more Americans really need to know the

1167
00:54:13,120 --> 00:54:16,959
Speaker 2: power of vintage. To find something that's been so well

1168
00:54:16,960 --> 00:54:19,160
Speaker 2: done that it will appreciate while it's in your house

1169
00:54:19,520 --> 00:54:21,880
Speaker 2: is a big fucking deal. The minute you drive away

1170
00:54:22,520 --> 00:54:27,240
Speaker 2: from Aikia said store, you know it's just fucking junk

1171
00:54:27,320 --> 00:54:28,000
Speaker 2: in the ocean.

1172
00:54:28,560 --> 00:54:31,080
Speaker 4: So I don't know, just fucking think about it.

1173
00:54:31,680 --> 00:54:34,200
Speaker 7: What's the cutoff age where you can no longer bring

1174
00:54:34,239 --> 00:54:40,319
Speaker 7: in a street couch that looks good are on the street,

1175
00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:42,120
Speaker 7: and I'm like, I cannot believe that that was in

1176
00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:44,040
Speaker 7: someone's home seven days.

1177
00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:49,000
Speaker 2: Ago, twenty five, twenty five, twenty I would say twenty

1178
00:54:49,000 --> 00:54:51,920
Speaker 2: five to twenty eight, depending on how you grew up, yep, yeah,

1179
00:54:51,960 --> 00:54:54,240
Speaker 2: but by twenty eight you definitely get your adult period,

1180
00:54:55,480 --> 00:54:57,120
Speaker 2: and yes.

1181
00:54:57,520 --> 00:55:00,319
Speaker 7: You have no money and you're under twenty five and

1182
00:55:00,560 --> 00:55:03,680
Speaker 7: the couch is relative like it should be like, oh

1183
00:55:03,680 --> 00:55:05,160
Speaker 7: ship that I can't believe some of it.

1184
00:55:05,280 --> 00:55:08,799
Speaker 6: That's clearly a very bad breakup because this was quick. Then.

1185
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:11,399
Speaker 1: Yes, first of all, y'all are acting like you're too

1186
00:55:11,400 --> 00:55:16,759
Speaker 1: good for foutons. Remember futons, Remember I have, I have, Okay,

1187
00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:18,480
Speaker 1: but react like we're too good for futons.

1188
00:55:18,520 --> 00:55:20,600
Speaker 4: Now it's a Danae futon.

1189
00:55:20,719 --> 00:55:22,480
Speaker 2: But still. You know what, when I moved to La

1190
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:25,720
Speaker 2: for the five minutes I went there because hello traffic

1191
00:55:25,800 --> 00:55:30,160
Speaker 2: and anxiety, I found a bunch of furniture on Craigslist,

1192
00:55:30,200 --> 00:55:31,520
Speaker 2: and when I went to go pick them all up,

1193
00:55:31,560 --> 00:55:33,239
Speaker 2: it was from people that were breaking up and or

1194
00:55:33,239 --> 00:55:34,000
Speaker 2: getting divorced.

1195
00:55:34,239 --> 00:55:36,759
Speaker 3: Wow. Yeah, And so if.

1196
00:55:36,680 --> 00:55:40,239
Speaker 2: You want the good good, yes, get that divorce relationship.

1197
00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:42,959
Speaker 7: We like your friends furniture. See if you can get

1198
00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:45,360
Speaker 7: them to divorce make it.

1199
00:55:45,480 --> 00:55:49,600
Speaker 4: Yes, yes, we did it. We solve the crime.

1200
00:55:49,920 --> 00:55:53,400
Speaker 6: Ask if an open relationship and then just leave the party.

1201
00:55:53,960 --> 00:55:56,320
Speaker 3: But what if they what if they get back together?

1202
00:55:57,719 --> 00:56:01,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys have already in the movie in the sequel.

1203
00:56:01,120 --> 00:56:02,960
Speaker 2: Thank you so much Moses for being here. We always

1204
00:56:02,960 --> 00:56:06,360
Speaker 2: ask our guests what is the most adult thing you

1205
00:56:06,400 --> 00:56:08,680
Speaker 2: want to do for yourself that you haven't done for

1206
00:56:08,719 --> 00:56:09,359
Speaker 2: yourself yet.

1207
00:56:09,360 --> 00:56:09,880
Speaker 3: This year.

1208
00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:17,399
Speaker 7: Supposed an adult thing I want to do to ass thing

1209
00:56:17,440 --> 00:56:21,279
Speaker 7: you want to do. Oh man, this is embarrassing. I

1210
00:56:21,320 --> 00:56:25,160
Speaker 7: want to find some sort of something to believe in

1211
00:56:25,760 --> 00:56:29,040
Speaker 7: that puts the things important, even if that is like

1212
00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:35,239
Speaker 7: a good therapist or you know, something very scientific, but

1213
00:56:36,000 --> 00:56:38,120
Speaker 7: or even a self help book, which I just can't

1214
00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:43,799
Speaker 7: get behind any of them, this guy. But yeah, I

1215
00:56:43,800 --> 00:56:47,319
Speaker 7: think that's the most adult thing I want to do.

1216
00:56:48,200 --> 00:56:50,239
Speaker 7: But a year putting a year cap on that that

1217
00:56:50,360 --> 00:56:54,560
Speaker 7: seems so stressful, but that I would want in a

1218
00:56:54,600 --> 00:56:56,000
Speaker 7: perfect world by.

1219
00:56:56,000 --> 00:57:01,600
Speaker 3: Some Actually, I think I know. First of all, that's awesome.

1220
00:57:02,640 --> 00:57:05,959
Speaker 5: I think that's awesome and fantastic and and and that's

1221
00:57:06,080 --> 00:57:06,600
Speaker 5: a journey.

1222
00:57:06,640 --> 00:57:08,360
Speaker 3: Man, that's that's quite a journey.

1223
00:57:08,400 --> 00:57:10,399
Speaker 2: Are you going to sing a song where we know I.

1224
00:57:10,360 --> 00:57:13,040
Speaker 3: Just know exactly where he is that I figured it out.

1225
00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:18,600
Speaker 2: Oh okay, that's so sweet. I really felt that. My cold, cold,

1226
00:57:18,960 --> 00:57:21,640
Speaker 2: tired ass heart, even through zoom, felt that.

1227
00:57:21,880 --> 00:57:23,760
Speaker 1: Listen, man, thank you so much for taking the time.

1228
00:57:23,800 --> 00:57:26,400
Speaker 1: I really appreciate it, dude. And once again, it was

1229
00:57:26,440 --> 00:57:30,080
Speaker 1: so amazing to work with you on Everything's Trash. You're

1230
00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:33,920
Speaker 1: you're so funny, so talented, and working with you every

1231
00:57:34,000 --> 00:57:37,360
Speaker 1: every scene we had together is just it was so cool.

1232
00:57:37,400 --> 00:57:37,560
Speaker 3: Man.

1233
00:57:37,600 --> 00:57:39,960
Speaker 1: It felt like a just a great ping pong back

1234
00:57:40,000 --> 00:57:43,120
Speaker 1: and forth and and you just raise the bar every time.

1235
00:57:43,320 --> 00:57:43,800
Speaker 2: I love this.

1236
00:57:44,440 --> 00:57:44,720
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1237
00:57:44,840 --> 00:57:49,560
Speaker 2: Can I ask a character? What was your character in Trash?

1238
00:57:49,640 --> 00:57:50,920
Speaker 3: Yeah? Do you want? Do you want to say or

1239
00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:52,040
Speaker 3: do you want me to say?

1240
00:57:52,280 --> 00:57:52,680
Speaker 6: You say?

1241
00:57:53,160 --> 00:57:55,800
Speaker 1: Okay, So Moses played a character named Michael, and Michael

1242
00:57:55,960 --> 00:58:00,600
Speaker 1: is is Phoebe's roommate and just kind of like at

1243
00:58:00,640 --> 00:58:03,800
Speaker 1: this point, Michael is just kind of like a magical character.

1244
00:58:04,360 --> 00:58:11,200
Speaker 1: And he's definitely joke delivery, choke delivery, shortstop, amazing, extraordinary,

1245
00:58:11,360 --> 00:58:12,240
Speaker 1: just like pinch hitter.

1246
00:58:13,080 --> 00:58:15,360
Speaker 3: Like he's just that guy in the clutch.

1247
00:58:15,720 --> 00:58:17,840
Speaker 7: You don't know how old he is, what his job is,

1248
00:58:18,440 --> 00:58:21,040
Speaker 7: what his room looks like, what's his parents talk about.

1249
00:58:21,320 --> 00:58:22,960
Speaker 6: He's just playing support.

1250
00:58:23,040 --> 00:58:26,040
Speaker 1: You're just Yeah, I pitched so many ideas for what

1251
00:58:26,120 --> 00:58:27,600
Speaker 1: you do and what you're about.

1252
00:58:28,480 --> 00:58:31,280
Speaker 3: It just dashed on the rocks. Hopefully.

1253
00:58:31,600 --> 00:58:32,160
Speaker 2: I love it.

1254
00:58:32,160 --> 00:58:37,320
Speaker 1: It's just like, Okay, he makes NFTs. He fucking he's

1255
00:58:37,320 --> 00:58:42,120
Speaker 1: a dog walker, he's a.

1256
00:58:40,240 --> 00:58:44,120
Speaker 7: Flip shoes on. Yeah, who knows absolutely on a very

1257
00:58:44,120 --> 00:58:46,360
Speaker 7: hectic shoot. Thanks for being my big brother.

1258
00:58:46,800 --> 00:58:50,080
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, he's very helpful.

1259
00:58:50,080 --> 00:58:51,400
Speaker 6: A lot of days that were very hard.

1260
00:58:52,000 --> 00:58:56,320
Speaker 2: No, Yeah, Okay, congratulations guys, but I'm talking to you.

1261
00:58:56,360 --> 00:59:00,560
Speaker 4: Bye bye.

1262
00:59:02,680 --> 00:59:06,200
Speaker 5: And that was Moses Storm. I mean, I feel good

1263
00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:06,600
Speaker 5: about it.

1264
00:59:06,680 --> 00:59:08,280
Speaker 4: That was wonderful.

1265
00:59:08,400 --> 00:59:11,640
Speaker 2: It was funny, it was thought provoking, it was real,

1266
00:59:11,680 --> 00:59:13,720
Speaker 2: it was wrong, it was delightful. It's everything I would

1267
00:59:13,760 --> 00:59:16,920
Speaker 2: ever want in a motherfucking episode of adulting. Thank you

1268
00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:17,400
Speaker 2: so much.

1269
00:59:17,760 --> 00:59:21,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, And like I said, no bs, no smoke. Just

1270
00:59:21,880 --> 00:59:24,560
Speaker 1: like he was one of those people that was fantastic

1271
00:59:24,600 --> 00:59:28,120
Speaker 1: to work with. And I think the wonderful part of

1272
00:59:28,160 --> 00:59:32,160
Speaker 1: comedy is like when we work with folks that you're

1273
00:59:32,200 --> 00:59:34,840
Speaker 1: just like, damn, that is a talent right there. And

1274
00:59:34,880 --> 00:59:36,840
Speaker 1: you don't know how much time or how many opportunities

1275
00:59:36,880 --> 00:59:40,040
Speaker 1: you'll have to be in the same room, same set,

1276
00:59:40,320 --> 00:59:44,440
Speaker 1: whatever with people, But when you do, it's like, pinch yourself.

1277
00:59:44,480 --> 00:59:47,040
Speaker 1: Take a moment, because that's what it's all about.

1278
00:59:47,200 --> 00:59:52,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, take a moment to enjoy how hard you've

1279
00:59:52,200 --> 00:59:54,080
Speaker 2: worked to be in this space.

1280
00:59:54,080 --> 00:59:57,120
Speaker 1: Mm hmm, and trust that you're in a winning team.

1281
00:59:57,200 --> 00:59:59,160
Speaker 1: They all feel the same way. Yeah, that was the

1282
00:59:59,200 --> 01:00:02,480
Speaker 1: best part of working with Moses was like, you're like, this.

1283
01:00:02,480 --> 01:00:03,160
Speaker 3: Guy's got it.

1284
01:00:03,480 --> 01:00:07,560
Speaker 1: Lines cold, improvs off to the side, got a bucket

1285
01:00:07,680 --> 01:00:10,520
Speaker 1: things to work from. He's got it. He wants it

1286
01:00:10,560 --> 01:00:13,040
Speaker 1: as bad as you do. You know, yeah, yeah, yeah,

1287
01:00:13,120 --> 01:00:14,919
Speaker 1: beautiful stuff. Great guy, Moses.

1288
01:00:15,280 --> 01:00:16,680
Speaker 2: Either you're gonna be like I feel the same way

1289
01:00:16,680 --> 01:00:23,920
Speaker 2: about you. I was like, oh, oh my god every time, Jordan,

1290
01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:26,080
Speaker 2: how do you not know what I'm thinking? I'm just kidding.

1291
01:00:26,200 --> 01:00:27,040
Speaker 3: This is really fun.

1292
01:00:27,080 --> 01:00:29,720
Speaker 2: I hope you guys enjoyed this episode. And you know what,

1293
01:00:30,200 --> 01:00:31,880
Speaker 2: at the end of the view, they say, take time

1294
01:00:31,920 --> 01:00:34,280
Speaker 2: to enjoy the view. I say, take time and go

1295
01:00:34,360 --> 01:00:35,280
Speaker 2: jerk off in the shower.

1296
01:00:35,520 --> 01:00:39,840
Speaker 3: All right, done? Oh yuck.

1297
01:00:41,720 --> 01:00:44,440
Speaker 2: Said good bye.

1298
01:00:46,240 --> 01:00:47,760
Speaker 3: This has been an exactly right production.

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01:00:47,920 --> 01:00:49,800
Speaker 2: Our senior producer is Natalie Wrinn.

1300
01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:51,959
Speaker 3: Senior managing producer is Hanna Kyle Craig.

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01:00:52,200 --> 01:00:54,040
Speaker 2: This episode was sound designed.

1302
01:00:53,720 --> 01:00:55,160
Speaker 3: And mixed by Ryobom.

1303
01:00:55,320 --> 01:00:57,040
Speaker 2: Our guest booker is Patrick Cotner.

1304
01:00:57,240 --> 01:00:59,040
Speaker 3: Our theme song is by DJ don Will.

1305
01:00:59,120 --> 01:01:01,080
Speaker 4: Photography by Christ Spender.

1306
01:01:00,800 --> 01:01:02,520
Speaker 3: Most artwork by Jamie Bechtel.

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01:01:02,680 --> 01:01:06,960
Speaker 9: Executive produced by Karen Kilgarab, Georgia Hartstark and Danielle Kramer.

1308
01:01:07,160 --> 01:01:09,200
Speaker 3: Follow the show on Instagram at adulting the Pot.

1309
01:01:09,400 --> 01:01:17,440
Speaker 9: Email your questions to Adulting Questions at gmail dot com.