Speaker 1: Second date update.
Speaker 2: If you've been off the dating apps for a while
Speaker 2: and decide to get back into it, start meeting new people,
Speaker 2: It's all about the.
Speaker 3: Frequency of how much you get on.
Speaker 2: You got to shake the rust off before you can
Speaker 2: find your groove again. So how many times are you
Speaker 2: going out to get yourself back into peak?
Speaker 1: Four once a week, You're going on a date once
Speaker 1: an hour.
Speaker 3: Wow, yes, I thought.
Speaker 2: One of our listeners, Daniel, recently jumped back into the
Speaker 2: dating game. And Daniel, give us a timeline on this
Speaker 2: before this date, when's the last time you went out
Speaker 2: with somebody?
Speaker 4: Oh my god, Hey guys, so funny story.
Speaker 5: I thought it was just a few months, but after
Speaker 5: I went on the date, I realized it's been over
Speaker 5: a year.
Speaker 3: Wait, you haven't gone on a date in over a
Speaker 3: year and you didn't even remember that.
Speaker 4: No, it's just been so long. Life got in a way.
Speaker 1: Yeah, time I count too. I'm like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: it really has been that long. Maybe the that your
Speaker 1: dated just weren't that memorable.
Speaker 2: That's also true, but apparently this new one did stick
Speaker 2: out in your mind.
Speaker 1: What's her name?
Speaker 4: After? Her name's Meghan?
Speaker 6: Okay, then you're active on the dating site. Still you mean,
Speaker 6: even though you haven't had a date in so long.
Speaker 5: Well, no, I just now started being active on the
Speaker 5: dating site and this was the first one that we
Speaker 5: were able to actually make a date out of it.
Speaker 6: Okay, okay, good job back in the saddle, I see.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So tell us more about Megan and what you
Speaker 1: guys did.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: So, anyway, we thought it would be cute and funny,
Speaker 5: you know, with all the stuff.
Speaker 4: Online to Joe try cheesecake factory.
Speaker 1: Oh so good. Yeah, it has been a while since
Speaker 1: you've been on a date.
Speaker 4: Huh.
Speaker 3: No, I think that's fun.
Speaker 1: Cheesecake Factory is great. Everybody loves it.
Speaker 6: And it's like kind of a joke right now on
Speaker 6: TikTok and stuff.
Speaker 5: I don't know, seriously, like in the time that they
Speaker 5: were giving themselves its bread in the beginning, and we're
Speaker 5: reading this book and figuring out we were able to
Speaker 5: bond and that's where the problem is.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what's the problem.
Speaker 4: So here's the deal. So Meghan is amazing. We really
Speaker 4: hit it off.
Speaker 5: We were able to bond about sports and football, even
Speaker 5: Taylor Swift, believe it or not, and the conversation went
Speaker 5: so well that at one point, we had a moment
Speaker 5: and she asked me, now, Meghan has dropped that beautiful.
Speaker 4: I mean, she's gorgeous, but she's taller.
Speaker 3: She's taller than you.
Speaker 4: With her boots on. Yes, okay, bring five inch boots.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, sorry, and I think we missed it. How
Speaker 1: tall is she?
Speaker 4: Five eleven without her boots?
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, without the boots with the boots on over
Speaker 2: six Yeah.
Speaker 6: I have a couple of girlfriends that are that height,
Speaker 6: five eleven, six foot yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 7: And she just looked at me, just innocently and said,
Speaker 7: does it bother you that I'm tall?
Speaker 5: And look, as I said, I've been out of the
Speaker 5: game for a while.
Speaker 4: And all I could do is I looked at her
Speaker 4: and I said, I don't mind a lengthy lady.
Speaker 3: What lady?
Speaker 5: Huh?
Speaker 4: A lengthy lady?
Speaker 3: Lengthy lady.
Speaker 6: Okay, lady, I don't mind either.
Speaker 1: Maybe that's a romantic thing to say, Alexis, if a guy.
Speaker 8: Said that to you, it's not great, but it's not terrible.
Speaker 1: Statue of liberty.
Speaker 6: My girlfriends that are tall, like they have heard everything
Speaker 6: under the moon about how long they are, how tall
Speaker 6: they are?
Speaker 3: Do you play basketball? What a waste if you don't.
Speaker 1: You know, I got a joke about with girls with
Speaker 1: guys as funny.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, mixed reactions from the room on that response.
Speaker 2: But what was Megan's reaction when you said that.
Speaker 7: Well, she looked at me and she didn't understand, and
Speaker 7: I tried to you know, I've been out of the
Speaker 7: game for so long that I just said to her,
Speaker 7: I'm so sorry, and then I love me some lengthy lady, so.
Speaker 1: Double, but just change the grammar to something a little
Speaker 1: more proper.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I was so tongue tied.
Speaker 5: And remember we're in cheesecake factory. We're only at like
Speaker 5: the salad at this point. And the rest of the date.
Speaker 4: I tried to recover.
Speaker 5: I tried to bring it back, but by the time
Speaker 5: we were done, I basically we just hugged, no kiss,
Speaker 5: And I know I did something wrong, but there was
Speaker 5: such a chemistry there.
Speaker 6: What I was just going to ask, do you know
Speaker 6: if she has a height requirement? Because maybe her asking
Speaker 6: if you have a problem was actually her telling you she.
Speaker 3: Has an issue.
Speaker 1: Some girls are like five ft zero and they.
Speaker 7: Over Yeah, well, without the boots, I would be taller
Speaker 7: than her.
Speaker 4: But she chose to wear five inches boots. How many
Speaker 4: men out there are six fives?
Speaker 1: Pick and choose when.
Speaker 3: You didn't say that, right? No, five cheesecake factory.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean walked in, walked in with some stilts
Speaker 2: for dinner.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, stop it.
Speaker 6: Tall women are absolutely gorgeous and tall heels.
Speaker 1: You know, I didn't sy they weren't gorgeous.
Speaker 6: Okay, Well, stilts still does not come to a beautiful
Speaker 6: like image.
Speaker 1: It's a big presence walking in for that big date night.
Speaker 6: And you don't compliment a tall woman that way.
Speaker 1: What's the right way to say? Don't talk about any women?
Speaker 4: That's what you're saying.
Speaker 1: Beautiful up there? Say you're a lengthy lady. Maybe you
Speaker 1: had it right all along this entire time.
Speaker 3: This is why tall women want tall men.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, you know what you say.
Speaker 2: So you know some of the word fumbling aside. Did
Speaker 2: you feel like the connection was going pretty well between
Speaker 2: you two?
Speaker 4: Again? The connection was amazing. Again.
Speaker 5: I've matched up with multiple women, but I kind of
Speaker 5: really like Megan, and I wondered if there's a possibility
Speaker 5: for another date. I mean, did I ruin it or probably?
Speaker 1: But it doesn't mean we can't recover for you.
Speaker 3: If it's something small, it's just the hiding the.
Speaker 1: Fact that she's not answering because I don't know. You've
Speaker 1: been texting her, is that right?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Yeah, texting some social media and just no answer.
Speaker 3: Okay, quite a few things, you know, that's that's a
Speaker 3: bad sign. How did you guys leave things at the
Speaker 3: end of the day.
Speaker 4: We just hugged and said we'll contact each other.
Speaker 3: I'm sure that's always it.
Speaker 1: Did you climb up on a chair to hug her
Speaker 1: or did you just do Yeah? She is not that tall,
Speaker 1: but the boot song got.
Speaker 4: No this situation. My head was in the right place
Speaker 4: when I hugged there, so.
Speaker 6: Okay, he wassled, right, Yeah, we're gonna come back.
Speaker 1: We'll give Megan a call.
Speaker 2: We're gonna try and get you a second date update
Speaker 2: Right after this, all right.
Speaker 4: Thank you?
Speaker 1: Second date update.
Speaker 2: I was thinking more about it and taking someone on
Speaker 2: a first date to the cheesecake factory got kind of
Speaker 2: a lukewarm reaction in here, at least when we first
Speaker 2: heard about it.
Speaker 6: I think it was you that was kind of judging
Speaker 6: about it, you know, yeah, you're mister luke.
Speaker 2: But look I thought about it and there's definitely some positives.
Speaker 3: Okay, come over to our side.
Speaker 2: The menus are like a book, so you're already proving
Speaker 2: that you can read.
Speaker 1: There's number one, number two point.
Speaker 2: Your date automatically is going to last longer because of
Speaker 2: all the indecision.
Speaker 1: Choosing a food item as you flip.
Speaker 2: To volume sixteen, yeh, oh my god, and then number
Speaker 2: three cheesecake.
Speaker 1: Who love bunch of cheesecake?
Speaker 6: I mean, honestly, though, by the time you get to
Speaker 6: the end of that meal, it's like.
Speaker 2: Any by the way, shout out to the Adam's peanut
Speaker 2: butter cup cheesecake.
Speaker 1: You're lucky to make it home after that.
Speaker 2: But the main issue that Daniel thinks was during the
Speaker 2: conversation his date, Megan asked, are you okay being with
Speaker 2: a taller woman? And his response was I love me
Speaker 2: a lengthy lady, which technically is a compliment.
Speaker 1: Throughout, like, yeah, we don't know if she took it
Speaker 1: that way because she's not calling back, so maybe it's
Speaker 1: not looking very.
Speaker 6: Next time to say, oh my god, you are absolutely stunning.
Speaker 3: Of course.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 2: The best thing you can do is just be as
Speaker 2: vague as possible when you're complimenting a woman on her books.
Speaker 1: Yeah, right, Daniel, we've learned a lot.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we definitely have.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, no matter what happens, at least we've learned
Speaker 1: something already.
Speaker 2: The whole point was that he's trying to shake off
Speaker 2: the rust. It's been a while since he's been in
Speaker 2: the dating game, so now he wants to get fully
Speaker 2: back into it with Meghan.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gonna see she's up for that.
Speaker 6: I will say, like glass half full, even if it
Speaker 6: doesn't work out with Megan in this phone call, this
Speaker 6: is a good learning experience to get you back in
Speaker 6: the game.
Speaker 4: Yeah. I need it, I really need it. It's been a.
Speaker 1: While, Okay, I love the optimism. Yes, all right, it's great.
Speaker 1: We're in a good place. Let's bring it down by
Speaker 1: giving her a call.
Speaker 8: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hey, we're looking for Megan.
Speaker 8: This is Meghan mask calling.
Speaker 1: Yes, you may. This is a radio show called Brook
Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 3: Hey, Meghan, we're all here. Hi, welcome to the show.
Speaker 8: Yeah okay, I kind of just like hearing people square
Speaker 8: them on the other end of there.
Speaker 1: We're doing something here.
Speaker 2: It's called a second date update, and we're trying to
Speaker 2: help reconnect you with one of our listeners that you
Speaker 2: went out with the other night, a guy named Daniel.
Speaker 8: What if I don't want to be reconnected?
Speaker 3: Yeah, well I think I think he knows that as well.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he told us a little bit about your guys's date,
Speaker 1: and from his perspective, things went pretty well, he'll admit,
Speaker 1: not perfect but.
Speaker 8: Perfect.
Speaker 1: Back there, what happened, Megan, as you're agreeing with him,
Speaker 1: it didn't go perfect?
Speaker 8: I honestly, I have no idea what he told you,
Speaker 8: so I don't really know even I don't even know
Speaker 8: how to respond at all.
Speaker 2: Well, I mean I could some of the highlights that
Speaker 2: he gave us cheesecake factory.
Speaker 1: Good conversation. Broke helped me out.
Speaker 6: He said that you asked him a pretty direct question
Speaker 6: about your height and whether that was cool with him
Speaker 6: or not.
Speaker 8: I did. I'm a tall girl. I did ask him.
Speaker 8: You know, if it bothered him that I was tall,
Speaker 8: that's that's true.
Speaker 3: Did it bother you that he was shorter than you
Speaker 3: when you were in heels?
Speaker 8: That's not what bothered me.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, we're trying to zero in on what did
Speaker 2: bother you because he has no idea.
Speaker 1: We're just trying to give him a little clarity.
Speaker 3: He knows he could hear something that isn't cool, you know.
Speaker 8: Okay, Well, let's just say I kind of feel like
Speaker 8: maybe the writing was.
Speaker 3: On the walls from the beginning.
Speaker 8: Yeah, because I'm surprised he didn't mention her. It sounds
Speaker 8: like he didn't mention anyway that we actually also had
Speaker 8: an extremely tall, but very cute waitress.
Speaker 1: I think he was more focused on you.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I would beg to differ. I actually think that
Speaker 8: he paid more attention to our very tall, beautiful waitress.
Speaker 1: Oh what makes you think that he was into her?
Speaker 8: I mean like every time she came by, it was well,
Speaker 8: what would you recommend? And what's your favorite?
Speaker 7: Me off?
Speaker 8: And every time that she would walk by, even if
Speaker 8: it was to go serve another table that was like
Speaker 8: totally across in the other section, he would like watch
Speaker 8: her what buy? And I was just like, hello, my
Speaker 8: eyes are here.
Speaker 3: Like, oh man, that's hard.
Speaker 1: Was he like waiting to flag her down?
Speaker 5: Maybe for service?
Speaker 3: I have a hard time asking for help.
Speaker 8: No, you know, when you know someone caressing someone out
Speaker 8: and like, here's the thing. At the end of the day,
Speaker 8: like I had made this comment about me being like
Speaker 8: tall and does that bother him? Yes, he did give
Speaker 8: me kind of a weird response back. He was like,
Speaker 8: oh I don't mind a lengthy lady.
Speaker 4: Yeah, what So.
Speaker 8: Then that kind of got my brain kind of tiktoking
Speaker 8: and thinking, I'm like, maybe he has a thing for
Speaker 8: like tall women.
Speaker 1: And Okay, so he's saying he liked your lengthiness, but
Speaker 1: he saw someone even lengthier than he is.
Speaker 8: A lengthy lover. I don't know lengthy lover.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm.
Speaker 8: Pushing five eleven and a half. And I don't even
Speaker 8: think I was telling not for him.
Speaker 3: Oh tall enough.
Speaker 6: But that can't be true because he called us to
Speaker 6: go out with you again.
Speaker 3: I feel like maybe you're reading into this and don't.
Speaker 1: Just trust us on that. Trust Daniel, who's on the
Speaker 1: other line right now, listening in on this conversation.
Speaker 4: He'll tell you that Megan dirty, I'm Meghan.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Meghan. This is how the segment works.
Speaker 7: Yeah, Meghan, listen, I can't believe you're thinking this.
Speaker 4: I mean, I used to be a waiter and I
Speaker 4: was just trying to be nice.
Speaker 3: But why were you looking at her?
Speaker 4: Well, what's I'm supposed to do? Not look at her.
Speaker 5: I mean, I didn't want to make too much eye
Speaker 5: contact with you, and I wanted to be cool and
Speaker 5: I wanted to show.
Speaker 4: You that, hey, you know, I can talk to other
Speaker 4: women and be okay.
Speaker 1: And no, you're not allowed to talk to other women
Speaker 1: or make eye contact with anybody else. First day.
Speaker 8: Okay, listen, you paid no attention to the the girl
Speaker 8: who came and brought us the bread or the water,
Speaker 8: and she was like this little five foot two, little
Speaker 8: cutie buttuity you know, you didn't even look at hurt even.
Speaker 4: Didn't that's because I was a waiter, not a bus boy.
Speaker 8: Or oh yeah, all people do stand out.
Speaker 3: I would stare at all people.
Speaker 1: That's true. So Megan, it would make you feel better
Speaker 1: if he had checked out all of the women in
Speaker 1: the bar, all of them, then you wouldn't have felt No,
Speaker 1: she's saying.
Speaker 3: That he's kind of full of it.
Speaker 8: That is exactly. And I kind of want to ask you.
Speaker 8: You have your settings on your dating app sets to
Speaker 8: women five eleven and over.
Speaker 1: Be honest here.
Speaker 5: I mean I I do have it set for five
Speaker 5: eleven and over, but that's because.
Speaker 8: That was kind of a joke and I didn't expect
Speaker 8: you to say yes.
Speaker 6: Wait wait, wait, wait wait wait, Well why is that
Speaker 6: that women have their dating preferences set all the time
Speaker 6: for certain heights?
Speaker 3: Why would it be bad for men.
Speaker 1: Are allowed to be judgmental?
Speaker 4: Men?
Speaker 1: Can't? You have to love you no matter what.
Speaker 8: Most women said it like I do for guys my
Speaker 8: height or taller, just so I don't end up with
Speaker 8: a guy, you know.
Speaker 6: Yeah, but I think if you're setting yours, he's allowed
Speaker 6: to set his.
Speaker 3: I mean, I just think that that's how it is.
Speaker 5: I told you I love me some lengthy lady.
Speaker 8: Oh my god, So you.
Speaker 3: Don't want a man who loves taller?
Speaker 8: No, he's not gonna have the manners to make me
Speaker 8: feel like I'm the only lengthy.
Speaker 3: Lady there is there is?
Speaker 1: You want to like them?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Upset me about it?
Speaker 6: I could see like you don't want your day Aly
Speaker 6: the waitress like that?
Speaker 3: Is that's true for no matter what your height is.
Speaker 2: Well, maybe that's something Daniel can agree to do. Is
Speaker 2: it possibly you can go the rest of your life,
Speaker 2: Daniel and not look at any other tall women with you?
Speaker 6: No, you guys, it's just you shouldn't be given eyes
Speaker 6: at anybody else but that's.
Speaker 1: Not what she was worried about.
Speaker 2: She would have been happy if he gave eyes to
Speaker 2: the cute little water girl.
Speaker 8: She did it. She was he'll know you guys. Honestly,
Speaker 8: I think the guys are right here. I think it
Speaker 8: just really bothers me if he's checking out these other
Speaker 8: women that are super tough her thing.
Speaker 1: We can't take that away from.
Speaker 3: Your direct competition. I don't even know anymore. All right,
Speaker 3: just answer, are you going to go out with them?
Speaker 1: Because Meghan, we would love to send you out on
Speaker 1: one more date with Daniel.
Speaker 5: Meghan, listen, they're gonna pay through another date if you
Speaker 5: say yes. Here's what I think. We should go to
Speaker 5: an all male restaurant.
Speaker 8: Are there things such as all mail?
Speaker 3: Let's just want reservations to that place?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: I want that date?
Speaker 5: Is weird?
Speaker 8: You know that's the offer. Let's just go see like
Speaker 8: thunder down Under together.
Speaker 4: Suggest we can go to a male strip club, get
Speaker 4: thanks the brook.
Speaker 1: We've been banned for most of those, so we don't
Speaker 1: have gift cards of that. We can just do a
Speaker 1: normal date.
Speaker 3: I don't understand why they don't want me to come
Speaker 3: up and dance with them.
Speaker 1: Seriously, though, Meghan, we will offer for one more day.
Speaker 1: We need answer.
Speaker 8: Come on, I will give him one more chance.
Speaker 1: All right, Daniel, were cool?
Speaker 4: Yeah, we're totally cool, but only if she wears, because
Speaker 4: you know, I don't like short women.
Speaker 1: You got plenty of length to go around.
Speaker 2: Jeffrey in the morning, and I keep googling all male restaurants,
Speaker 2: even with very frustrating not a lot of results are
Speaker 2: coming up here.
Speaker 1: I think legally, I don't even think that's allowed.
Speaker 6: You could try looking up Gentlemen's Club, but I don't
Speaker 6: think that's what I want neither.
Speaker 1: Different search engine.
Speaker 2: Yeah, someone's got to get on this, but a lot
Speaker 2: of women work. I'm glad that they agreed to go
Speaker 2: out with each other. I just don't know how it's
Speaker 2: going to work now between them, it's going to be
Speaker 2: so worried about making eye contact with any tall woman
Speaker 2: outside anywhere. He's going to have his head down, like
Speaker 2: looking at the floor all the time.
Speaker 1: Shades on.
Speaker 3: See, jeff I think you're wrong. I think it's long
Speaker 3: as they don't go to a w NBA game, it's
Speaker 3: all gonna be cool.
Speaker 1: That's true, you know, But Brooke, you can see where
Speaker 1: this woman is coming from that.
Speaker 6: She doesn't want the guy and the waitress at Ann's.
Speaker 1: No, she's just worried about him seeing other tall women
Speaker 1: and like being into that.
Speaker 3: Okay, you know secure, Like if.
Speaker 1: You saw your husband staring at a woman with giant
Speaker 1: windshield wipers on her face and wearing a.
Speaker 2: Nineteen eighty shoulder pad jacket, you'd start to get a
Speaker 2: little bit concerned too.
Speaker 3: Broke, Yeah, like, is that an upgrade from what he's
Speaker 3: not currently? Is that what you're saying?
Speaker 2: She's got way more stains on her shirt than mine.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Michael gets back inside.
Speaker 3: He's got questionable type.
Speaker 2: That's true.
Speaker 1: A lot of people do unquestionable types. And we're happy
Speaker 1: to help you with. Yeah, you know the shell at
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey, we'll help. We'll call that person.
Speaker 3: Not see where you're going with that call.
Speaker 1: That person's not going You back
Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.