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Speaker 2: I listened to The Black Guy Who Tips podcast because

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Speaker 2: Rodin Karen a halt THEO.

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Speaker 3: She nodded back, Uugh. She guessed she had to say it.

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Speaker 3: Happy birthday. He raised his eyebrows and smart to her. Thanks,

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Speaker 3: I'm delighted you're here. She and THEO both knew he

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Speaker 3: was as delighted to have her here as she was

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Speaker 3: to be here. She first met THEO three years before

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Speaker 3: at the Lexis birthday party. THEO had recently started as

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Speaker 3: the mayor's communications director, and when Maddie he had seen

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Speaker 3: both how cute he was and his excellent pin striped shirt,

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Speaker 3: she thought maybe there might finally be a spark between

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Speaker 3: her and one of Alexi's nerdy friends.

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Speaker 2: She could not have been more wrong.

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Speaker 3: After a few minutes of chat about what kind of

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Speaker 3: pizza and beer they should order, she'd asked him where

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Speaker 3: he'd been before coming to the Mayor's office. THEO sat

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Speaker 3: up a little straighter. Well after I left Harvard, he started, Ugh,

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Speaker 3: of course he was that guy. He went on to

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Speaker 3: talk for ten straight minutes about himself. Finally he climbed

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Speaker 3: out of his own asshole and asked her where she

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Speaker 3: went to college. Well, she said she started at the

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Speaker 3: local community college and then moved on to UCLA. He

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Speaker 3: responded with good for you, in the most condescending way possible.

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Speaker 3: Then he asked what she did. When she told him

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Speaker 3: she was in the process of starting her own personal

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Speaker 3: styling business, he asked, why would anyone pay you to

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Speaker 3: help them get dressed? She looked at him and smiled.

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Speaker 3: You know, I couldn't decide how you'd react to that.

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Speaker 3: I was torn between condescending to me about my career

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Speaker 3: or man's plaining my job to me. Considering the rest

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Speaker 3: of our conversation, it was touch and go which one

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Speaker 3: it would be, But you landed on the first. Congratulations.

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Speaker 3: I guessed on being self predictable. While he tried to

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Speaker 3: let herself be bitchy anymore, but few things infuriated her

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Speaker 3: The excerpt that I started reading today is from the

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Speaker 3: Wedding Party is the title of the book. It's by

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Speaker 3: Jasmine Guillory. And I just started like yesterday, so you know,

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Speaker 3: that that exchanged, that interesting exchange between THEO and Maddie

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Speaker 3: know how people often look down on stuff like that,

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Speaker 3: especially women's stuff. You know, it's like how I imagine

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Speaker 3: when people say, you know, at least a few years ago,

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't be in the field if it was the

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Speaker 3: And then also the fact that she was trying to

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Speaker 3: know that condescending like you know, oh, you went to

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Speaker 5: You know, Yeah, And that's the thing. College is college,

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Speaker 5: I think for a lot of people, and not all academics,

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Speaker 5: a lot of academic people because they like, oh, all

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Speaker 5: y'all niggas, judge, and not all of you, but a

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Speaker 5: large percentage, judge. It's all about what school you went to,

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Speaker 5: what I believe you went to, what connections you have,

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Speaker 5: and if you you know, quote unquote not in these

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Speaker 5: use the right words, you know, don't know the right language,

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Speaker 5: and all this shit. You know, a lot of them

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Speaker 4: Like they're stupid or less than or or or just

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Speaker 4: not even not even worthy. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I think it's kind of interesting too, because you know,

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Speaker 3: even within blackness, you have that those different veins, different types,

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Speaker 3: and then when you go on a eight like, you know,

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Speaker 3: you know, because I think some people see dating almost

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Speaker 3: You know, like I'm supposed to sit here across from

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Speaker 3: this table to you go through my you know, bonafides,

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Speaker 3: and then you decide that we decide who's better and

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Speaker 3: if we make a good fit.

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Speaker 2: You know. So it's like I'm a Harvard man.

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Speaker 3: I did this, and I do this, but that might

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Speaker 3: you're asking a lot and it's like opening way of

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Speaker 2: On a day, you know.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I also like you said, because we live in

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Speaker 4: A lot of people live their lives and they don't

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Speaker 2: The floor wherever life take you.

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Speaker 5: And I understand you have to have plans. I understand

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Speaker 5: you have to have shit laid out, You got to

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Speaker 5: be organized. I'm not saying that. All I'm saying is

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Speaker 5: as far as everything's a checklist.

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Speaker 4: Do you check my boxes? Yay?

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Speaker 2: Nay?

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Speaker 4: If you check my boxes in you don't check my boxes.

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Speaker 5: You're like, like everything is just that simple for a

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Speaker 5: they have a side of them just a lot more relaxed.

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Speaker 5: got all these degrees and accolades and all that stuff,

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Speaker 2: And then you have people.

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Speaker 4: Who might not have all the degrees or the.

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Speaker 5: Paperwork or the certificates and things like that, but they're

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Speaker 5: very very smart and very intelligent people and a lot

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Speaker 5: of times no more and in some situations have more

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's interesting.

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Speaker 3: Because it makes you wonder like, did dating apps and

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Speaker 3: you know, prevalent. You know, you're on a dating it's

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Speaker 3: just let me get my resume and let me judge

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Speaker 3: your resume, and you know, we'll see if we're an

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Speaker 3: depends on what people value. People Like some people, you know,

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Speaker 2: Went to Harvard, oh you know, and just already to

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Speaker 3: So you know, when it doesn't happen and you don't

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Speaker 2: There's is different paths through live, through life.

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Speaker 3: And also you know when you're dating and that friendsirle

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Speaker 3: be like, well, how's this motherfucker still friends to you?

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Speaker 2: And all this shit?

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Speaker 3: You know, but it's like that person maybe see them

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Speaker 3: like so he may still be friends with your friend

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Speaker 3: even though he's a horrible person to date for you.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, it's it's just messy man, you know. But yeah,

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Speaker 3: I can't wait to get into the book. I wanted

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Speaker 3: my last couple of books Full Dissidence and uh right baby.

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Speaker 3: So I was like, yeah, let me check out this

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Speaker 3: the wedding Party. You know, people say it's funny, and

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Speaker 3: I know black people write funny shit, but you just

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Speaker 3: looking for black people to write comedy, it's just not

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Speaker 3: it's funny, but I think it's funny and like the

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Speaker 3: Tyler Perry way, you know, when it's like you, oh,

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Speaker 3: I ain't one of them other niggas. Yes, like that's funny,

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Speaker 3: but it's not. It's it's funny feel with like and

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Speaker 4: Funny with drama, right and trauma.

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Speaker 3: people build community around that. Now and you know when

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Speaker 3: you don't fit when you follow their advice and it

441
00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:50,960
Speaker 3: doesn't work out the way they told you it was.

442
00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:54,639
Speaker 3: Because it's a mostly online.

443
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Speaker 2: Community, they can get rid of you.

444
00:21:56,200 --> 00:21:57,960
Speaker 3: Like you notice in that story, she never talks about

445
00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:01,879
Speaker 3: them having meetups, She never talks about about any physical

446
00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:06,320
Speaker 3: presence with those people. There's no real responsibility or relationship there,

447
00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:10,200
Speaker 3: and so she's just another person, an account on Facebook

448
00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:11,879
Speaker 3: to them. So when it doesn't work out and she

449
00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:14,680
Speaker 3: loses her child, that's just an account, that's just.

450
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Speaker 5: A person discard, you know, because the thing is And

451
00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:21,480
Speaker 5: also that's why a lot of times if somebody would

452
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Speaker 5: suggest that most of them may or may not come,

453
00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:25,840
Speaker 5: because a lot of them don't want to put that

454
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Speaker 5: emotional and investment that it would take to actually care.

455
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Speaker 3: Right, Evee says, the part of our communities being built

456
00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:34,159
Speaker 3: on hate spoke to me. I used to spend a

457
00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:36,359
Speaker 3: lot of my time reading comments on lists stick Ali

458
00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:38,240
Speaker 3: to the point where I would actively seek our threads

459
00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:40,960
Speaker 3: about people I didn't particularly care for. It just got

460
00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:42,840
Speaker 3: to the point where I finally realized that there was

461
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:45,679
Speaker 3: nothing really there was really nothing positive about that site,

462
00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:48,320
Speaker 3: and even though I never posted anything, it was consuming

463
00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:50,760
Speaker 3: too much of my time. And I also realized it

464
00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:53,200
Speaker 3: was giving me a certain high to read these comments,

465
00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:55,240
Speaker 3: but not a good kind of high, especially when I

466
00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:57,400
Speaker 3: knew these people who posted so much shit would never

467
00:22:57,440 --> 00:22:59,800
Speaker 3: say that, say that to that to their target's face.

468
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Speaker 2: I stopped visiting that site and have been so much happier.

469
00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:07,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think, you know, I definitely can relate to that,

470
00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:09,680
Speaker 3: you know, not that specifically Listick Ali. I mean, I've

471
00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:12,080
Speaker 3: told you all my experience with that. I learned to

472
00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:13,360
Speaker 3: stay my ass away from there.

473
00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 2: That was my punt. Yeah, I just went to change.

474
00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:20,880
Speaker 3: I was searching our name on Google to find like, oh,

475
00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:22,159
Speaker 3: the people saying about us?

476
00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 2: What articles have you been written about? What list that

477
00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:26,800
Speaker 2: we made? And I saw a thread on listick Alley.

478
00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:29,960
Speaker 3: And you know, it wasn't necessarily the kindest, but that's

479
00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:33,440
Speaker 3: kind of like the vibe there. You know, they've said

480
00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:37,000
Speaker 3: worse about people that do much bigger, better podcasts and

481
00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:40,080
Speaker 3: things than we do, so you know, but it's just

482
00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:41,879
Speaker 3: kind of the vibe. And so it was like, damn,

483
00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:44,520
Speaker 3: I really shouldn't have looked at that, you know. And

484
00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:46,720
Speaker 3: the thing I can relate to though, is.

485
00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:55,000
Speaker 2: When I was on Sage dot com, which is now like.

486
00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:57,280
Speaker 3: A used to have a big form site and now

487
00:23:57,280 --> 00:24:00,879
Speaker 3: it's kind of defunct. I think some people people split

488
00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:05,639
Speaker 3: among other websites, you know, well, not just that, no,

489
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:08,080
Speaker 3: I'm talking about other message boards, like there's the.

490
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Speaker 2: Colleague Okay player.

491
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Speaker 3: I don't know all the message boards because this is

492
00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:14,720
Speaker 3: just how long it's been since I've been to one,

493
00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:25,240
Speaker 3: but right before really broke down permanently. I remember, uh,

494
00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:29,240
Speaker 3: I left, you know, because I was promoting our show

495
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:32,760
Speaker 3: on there and it really wasn't the best place to

496
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 3: promote it. And you know, there's a lot of.

497
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:39,600
Speaker 2: Anger there.

498
00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:41,960
Speaker 3: You know, there's a lot of like kind of meanness

499
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:45,199
Speaker 3: there and it's not I'm not trying to knock it necessarily,

500
00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:49,520
Speaker 3: it's just kind of the way folks communicate, you knowhere.

501
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:50,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, And I know when I was on

502
00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:53,120
Speaker 2: there a lot, it made me feel meaner. It made

503
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:55,560
Speaker 2: me feel you know, more.

504
00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:58,400
Speaker 3: Like you know, it was changing as funny as I am,

505
00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:00,800
Speaker 3: it just it made me like my jokes would be

506
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:04,120
Speaker 3: more pointed, my commentary and stuff would be more funny,

507
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:08,199
Speaker 3: but it'd be kind of targeting somebody or something, and

508
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:13,600
Speaker 3: it just really wasn't a place for, uh, that type

509
00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:16,800
Speaker 3: of productivity. So like when it came, you know, to

510
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:19,359
Speaker 3: our show and stuff, I remember I used to post

511
00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:22,000
Speaker 3: on there like oh new episode, check it out or whatever,

512
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:25,080
Speaker 3: and you know, Eventually some of the comments will start

513
00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:27,840
Speaker 3: to be like negative, like fuck fuck you, fuck this show,

514
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 3: fuck man, one won't listen to your bullshit or whatever.

515
00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:31,920
Speaker 3: And I'm like, why am I posting this here? Cuz

516
00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:34,680
Speaker 3: you know, one either people know about it and they're

517
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:37,520
Speaker 3: gonna listen, or you know, people want to get your goat,

518
00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 3: you know, say some wild shit to you, how you respond,

519
00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:43,120
Speaker 3: and then that becomes its own, like entertainment is, oh,

520
00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:46,760
Speaker 3: I said something fucked up to you, And I think,

521
00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:48,160
Speaker 3: like like Eve.

522
00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:49,640
Speaker 2: Said, it's not real to them.

523
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:51,560
Speaker 3: They wouldn't say that shit to your face, you know,

524
00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:57,760
Speaker 3: like people would say like disrespectful stuff about you. People

525
00:25:57,760 --> 00:26:00,879
Speaker 3: will say disrepecting stuff about me, and you know, I

526
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:02,560
Speaker 3: don't know if they just thought it was all jokes,

527
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 3: but you know, I don't know them like that, you know,

528
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:07,800
Speaker 3: And for me in real life, it's like, you know,

529
00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 3: I need to know you in order to feel comfortable,

530
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:12,280
Speaker 3: like taking it to that level with you.

531
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:14,760
Speaker 2: And vice versa.

532
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:17,240
Speaker 3: It made me feel overly familiar. And I'm sure that

533
00:26:17,359 --> 00:26:19,240
Speaker 3: was the ship I said that that you know, I

534
00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:21,679
Speaker 3: wouldn't have said to somebody's face or you know, I

535
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:23,960
Speaker 3: try not to do that ever, But you know, truth

536
00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:27,160
Speaker 3: of the matter is if you in an environment like that,

537
00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:29,480
Speaker 3: you can never guarantee you never went over the line.

538
00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:32,520
Speaker 3: So it just made me think about that and then

539
00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:35,240
Speaker 3: the how you get from conflict and stuff that's definitely

540
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:38,679
Speaker 3: like built into Facebook, Twitter, you know, all that stuff.

541
00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:42,640
Speaker 3: So it's not necessarily a message board thing, but message

542
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:46,960
Speaker 3: boards and the reliableness of the fact that they rely

543
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:50,679
Speaker 3: on so much about anonymity, that's I think what pushes

544
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:53,679
Speaker 3: it to the next level, you know, because it's like,

545
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:56,520
Speaker 3: since there are so many people on here constantly, it's

546
00:26:56,560 --> 00:27:00,720
Speaker 3: a small group and they're basically anonymous. You can say

547
00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:04,439
Speaker 3: some real cold blooded means fucked up shit. You can

548
00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:07,600
Speaker 3: get into people's business in a way that it really

549
00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:09,200
Speaker 3: wouldn't make you look good.

550
00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:11,240
Speaker 2: To know this much of their business. But because but

551
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 2: because your.

552
00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 3: Face isn't attached to it, it's kind of okay, you know.

553
00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:17,879
Speaker 2: And I think being on.

554
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:20,600
Speaker 3: This quote unquote side of things is the creator or

555
00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:24,600
Speaker 3: creative or whatever. It's something I had to like do

556
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 3: like do away with, you know, like I said, I

557
00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:29,880
Speaker 3: turn my Twitter into a place where I don't want

558
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 3: to see anonymous people's comments to me, you know, like

559
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:34,480
Speaker 3: I need to have some buy in.

560
00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:36,640
Speaker 2: I need to know, I need to know you, or.

561
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 3: You need to at least be out here with your

562
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:41,960
Speaker 3: real face being real or something, because if there's no investment,

563
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:44,240
Speaker 3: then what does it mean for you to call me

564
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:44,880
Speaker 3: out my name?

565
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:45,760
Speaker 4: You know?

566
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:47,439
Speaker 2: Why do you get the nigger me?

567
00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:50,200
Speaker 3: And I just have to take it because I'm you know,

568
00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:53,720
Speaker 3: because I'm on a social media platform, because we make

569
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:56,320
Speaker 3: a podcast. We just get to you know, people can

570
00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:58,679
Speaker 3: say anything they want to. It's like, it's crazy that

571
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:02,400
Speaker 3: people feel that way. But yeah, so I think that's

572
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:04,200
Speaker 3: a big part of it. And there's a lot of

573
00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:08,439
Speaker 3: communities built on meanings that aren't official, right, So they

574
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:10,440
Speaker 3: might not have a Facebook group attached.

575
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:11,760
Speaker 2: To them, they might not have a name, but it's

576
00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:12,120
Speaker 2: a crew.

577
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:14,240
Speaker 4: When you see that crew, you know, it's popping.

578
00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:15,040
Speaker 2: You know, I see it.

579
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:17,120
Speaker 3: Like I said, I used to see it a lot

580
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:20,560
Speaker 3: more when I was kind of when I would be

581
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:24,480
Speaker 3: on Facebook just more like talking to people more and shit,

582
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:26,280
Speaker 3: you know, I had to cut back on all that.

583
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:29,160
Speaker 3: But when I was on the more, you would see

584
00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:31,960
Speaker 3: the bonds form for people that are like, Okay, these

585
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,679
Speaker 3: people whole thing is that they pick a target, a

586
00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:37,480
Speaker 3: person they don't like every month or so, and then

587
00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:39,720
Speaker 3: they turn their whole group into fuck this person.

588
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:40,280
Speaker 2: Ha ha ha ha.

589
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:45,080
Speaker 3: And you're talking about adults talking about forty year old people.

590
00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 3: I can't imagine what kids are doing with that, you know,

591
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:52,000
Speaker 3: because if adults are doing that with the same tool,

592
00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:53,800
Speaker 3: then what the fuck are the chick kids up to?

593
00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:56,720
Speaker 3: But you know, you can see it, you know, kind

594
00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:59,080
Speaker 3: of play out and uh, like I.

595
00:28:59,040 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 2: Said, they don't.

596
00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:01,760
Speaker 3: They might not have a name for the group, but

597
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 3: you know, you do, you see the characteristics and it's

598
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:07,040
Speaker 3: you know, let's bring up this thing and hate on

599
00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:10,160
Speaker 3: this person today. Let's okay, okay, we're off of the

600
00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:11,960
Speaker 3: hating this person. Let's hate this next person.

601
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:13,480
Speaker 5: You know, a lot of times they turn on each

602
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:14,880
Speaker 5: other too, because a lot of times those groups do

603
00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:16,720
Speaker 5: because they've run all the quote unquote good people to

604
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:18,360
Speaker 5: wait till they ain't got up for each other.

605
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:20,160
Speaker 4: And they turn on each other eventually too.

606
00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:23,560
Speaker 3: Sometimes you never know, you never know, I feel you

607
00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:26,920
Speaker 3: on that. But so some of these motherfuckers can be

608
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:31,320
Speaker 3: you know, it's like Dominance Hill. They friends forever, you know,

609
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:34,800
Speaker 3: as hateful as they are, they'll always be that tandem.

610
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:37,600
Speaker 3: You know, so I don't know like they'll put shit

611
00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:40,680
Speaker 3: aside for the hate. Yeah, people do that too now,

612
00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:43,000
Speaker 3: like maybe they ostracize one person, but as long as

613
00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:44,920
Speaker 3: they kind of do it one at a time, you

614
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:46,960
Speaker 3: still can have that community and there's always someone on

615
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:48,520
Speaker 3: the outside that wants to be in, that wants to

616
00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:51,720
Speaker 3: be down because you know, even as we're adults, a

617
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:52,400
Speaker 3: lot of shit.

618
00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 2: Is still high school for people.

619
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:55,880
Speaker 3: Yes, it is the poe was Was it for the

620
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 3: best that Bloomberg was on the debate stage?

621
00:29:57,960 --> 00:29:58,479
Speaker 2: Yes? Or no?

622
00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:00,720
Speaker 3: Uh?

623
00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:03,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, people need to see him. He needs to be

624
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 4: called out.

625
00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:10,440
Speaker 5: Uh And I think that I don't know if it's

626
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 5: going to make a difference or not, but I do

627
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 5: know that people need to see him on that stage

628
00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:17,440
Speaker 5: other than him just showing these flashy ass commercials.

629
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:21,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, eighty five percent of the people agree with you it

630
00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:22,840
Speaker 3: was best for him to be on the debate stage.

631
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:24,160
Speaker 2: Fifteen percent said no.

632
00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:28,320
Speaker 3: Rebecca says, I work with very high functioning, stupid people.

633
00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:29,600
Speaker 3: If this is a bar out to me, do you

634
00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:31,200
Speaker 3: have a post that you show up for work today?

635
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:33,400
Speaker 3: If you answer yes to both of these questions, you're

636
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 3: a great worker. They really don't want to.

637
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 2: Evaluate these folks, I'll assure you on the side.

638
00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:40,440
Speaker 3: Note you you folks got deep today and I appreciate

639
00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:41,800
Speaker 3: the nuance you brought to the discussions.

640
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:42,360
Speaker 2: Beautiful work.

641
00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:46,800
Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you, Alisha says, man, what if in

642
00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:49,280
Speaker 3: November we have to vote for either Bloomberg or Trump,

643
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 3: we just he just seems to have come out of

644
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:53,720
Speaker 3: nowhere as coming up in the post.

645
00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:55,360
Speaker 2: I mean, I know what.

646
00:30:55,400 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 3: Rod would do with damn just what if you know, Alicia? No, no, no,

647
00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:02,000
Speaker 3: what if?

648
00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:02,600
Speaker 2: No?

649
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:06,120
Speaker 3: Like, that's the problem right now, man, That's what's happening online.

650
00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:08,200
Speaker 3: That's why everybody's going fucking crazy in at each other's

651
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:08,960
Speaker 3: throats and being.

652
00:31:08,840 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 2: So he doesn't even have a delicate.

653
00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 3: Everybody's being so mean to each other and hyperbolic. And

654
00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:17,760
Speaker 3: it reminds me a lot of when both on John's

655
00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:21,239
Speaker 3: brother hugged that white police officer am berg Geiger, and

656
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:25,600
Speaker 3: then everybody actually made the shit more traumatic by sharing

657
00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:28,160
Speaker 3: it and talking about how what they wouldn't gonna do

658
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:30,120
Speaker 3: and how they wouldn't do it and how and if

659
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Speaker 3: you if my family member hug just how come back

660
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Speaker 3: from the grave. Well, when a million fucking people had

661
00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:37,120
Speaker 3: the same reaction, it makes the thing seem much bigger

662
00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 3: than it was.

663
00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:39,480
Speaker 2: And what happened.

664
00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:45,080
Speaker 3: With this bloomberg shit is people's disdain for that man

665
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:48,800
Speaker 3: has led to them consistently just posting the same fucking

666
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:51,240
Speaker 3: pine like just the sky's falling.

667
00:31:51,320 --> 00:31:52,080
Speaker 2: He's gonna win.

668
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:55,320
Speaker 3: The motherfucker really has not made the steps to win.

669
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Speaker 3: I don't even think he's on the ballot in South Carolina.

670
00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:01,040
Speaker 3: He's not, which is a major fuck state, you know.

671
00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:06,400
Speaker 2: But even yes, okay, even with the money, but even

672
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:07,280
Speaker 2: with the money.

673
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:10,120
Speaker 3: Spent and all that stuff we don't have, we don't

674
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:12,760
Speaker 3: have any reason to feel that that man is going

675
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 3: to win, right because let him at least get some

676
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:19,480
Speaker 3: fucking wins before we start, like some state wins, before

677
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:20,960
Speaker 3: we start doing this.

678
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:23,200
Speaker 2: Oh my god, he's gonna win. I don't think that.

679
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:26,640
Speaker 3: I think I think that's that's like people are doing

680
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 3: that so they can disasterbate, and I think people need

681
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:29,720
Speaker 3: to chill out with that.

682
00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, because if you look at how the system functions

683
00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 5: and how the delegates and all that stuff, he doesn't

684
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:37,200
Speaker 5: have not.

685
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:39,760
Speaker 4: Zero he has zero delegates.

686
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:45,280
Speaker 5: So he's not even worth talking about right now unless

687
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:48,160
Speaker 5: something happens, like right, just say he start winning states

688
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 5: with the s, then we could start talking.

689
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:55,000
Speaker 4: Until then, he's not a factor. He's literally not a factor.

690
00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:58,719
Speaker 5: Yeah, he just posting these fucking commercials everywhere to make

691
00:32:58,760 --> 00:32:59,719
Speaker 5: people think something.

692
00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 2: But no, it's February. It's just something to make you.

693
00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:05,800
Speaker 3: It's something to keep you anxious until November or whatever

694
00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:10,480
Speaker 3: until not even November. Primaries are the you know, whenever

695
00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 3: the convention is in the in the summer. Like, yeah,

696
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:15,040
Speaker 3: it's just not worth it's not worth doing all that.

697
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 3: Like what if it's him? Like what if it's any

698
00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:20,760
Speaker 3: of them? Who gives a fuck? Like, we'll get we'll

699
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 3: get to the you know, to that when we cross

700
00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 3: that bridge.

701
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:25,200
Speaker 2: Right, it ain't looking like him on.

702
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:27,360
Speaker 3: None of these poles. It ain't looking like him with

703
00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:31,240
Speaker 3: none of these states. So what are we talking about?

704
00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:35,400
Speaker 3: Monique says it may not have been best for Bloombird

705
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 3: to be on the stage, but I quite enjoyed people

706
00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:40,280
Speaker 3: dunking all over his bitch ass, So it's good for me.

707
00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:43,160
Speaker 3: And I got to see Liz Warren step her cookies up.

708
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 3: We need a multi prom to tack to defeat the

709
00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:48,000
Speaker 3: repub So let's get this over with and the other

710
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:50,840
Speaker 3: candidates need to rally around the nominee no matter what.

711
00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:51,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

712
00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:55,680
Speaker 3: My question is for the people that said no, I

713
00:33:55,720 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 3: wish they would explained why exactly he benefited from being

714
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:03,360
Speaker 3: on that stage, because I mean, maybe they didn't watch it,

715
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:05,480
Speaker 3: but I watched it and I could not, for the

716
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:09,279
Speaker 3: life of me come up with one reason that that

717
00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 3: to feel like, yeah, this dude, really he came off

718
00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:15,960
Speaker 3: well tonight or will know it's for real. I think

719
00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:22,759
Speaker 3: everybody watching that had to go touch yeah, Like I

720
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:24,840
Speaker 3: haven't seen one person. I mean, he went down in

721
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:27,239
Speaker 3: the polls after that. I just don't know that. I

722
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:29,880
Speaker 3: just wonder what they mean by like, you know, like

723
00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:31,840
Speaker 3: that was I wonder what they mean by no.

724
00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:32,680
Speaker 2: Anyway.

725
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:34,640
Speaker 3: The pole for the next one, because we didn't have

726
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:37,640
Speaker 3: any comments on splat Earther, the pole is is the

727
00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:38,240
Speaker 3: Earth round?

728
00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:43,840
Speaker 2: Yes or no? Guest anybody say no, yeah, one person

729
00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:44,200
Speaker 2: said no.

730
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 3: We got one comment miss barn So ninety eight percent

731
00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:51,200
Speaker 3: said yes, two percent said Ms. Barr says didn't ask

732
00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:53,560
Speaker 3: to have pictures taking the show the Earth is round.

733
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:56,200
Speaker 3: These are the same people that believe that shit, that

734
00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:59,040
Speaker 3: shit doesn't stink even though they smell it. They will

735
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 3: say that it stink. Yeah, enjoying one of those free

736
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:08,440
Speaker 3: birth groups or whatever it Maybe that's.

737
00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:10,600
Speaker 4: The wave now and them non vaccinated people.

738
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:13,600
Speaker 2: Uh. The next episode was Poor Little Richmond.

739
00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:16,880
Speaker 3: No comments, the votes in the poll, no comments, but

740
00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:17,680
Speaker 3: the bizes the vote.

741
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:18,279
Speaker 4: Uh.

742
00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:20,239
Speaker 2: Man, it's gonna be a short review show on short

743
00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:23,680
Speaker 2: recap show. Cool. Have you ever signed a non compete agreement? Yes?

744
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:25,000
Speaker 4: Uh?

745
00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:29,400
Speaker 2: Uh, I don't know. I just signed whatever.

746
00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 3: They said to get a job, And forty six per

747
00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:35,319
Speaker 3: cent says no, I know.

748
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:36,799
Speaker 2: I was probably in that.

749
00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:41,720
Speaker 5: Because most people don't read all that. Most people don't

750
00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:43,839
Speaker 5: read those fucking papers.

751
00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:46,279
Speaker 3: Like I may have signed something without thinking about down

752
00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:49,200
Speaker 3: here x here, sign here, date here, date here, date here,

753
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:50,319
Speaker 3: sign here, date here.

754
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:52,680
Speaker 2: Okay, all right.

755
00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:55,760
Speaker 3: And then the last episode for the week was canceled Carrol.

756
00:35:57,560 --> 00:36:00,440
Speaker 3: We got four comments on that, and and then we

757
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 3: also had like a pole get to your comments.

758
00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:02,879
Speaker 2: Ms.

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00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:05,640
Speaker 3: Barn seventy two says this episode had my chest tight.

760
00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 3: This was such a good episode. However, the part that

761
00:36:09,560 --> 00:36:12,680
Speaker 3: calls me the most stressed was the thought of Jerry

762
00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:15,919
Speaker 3: being stuck. I'm like, oh God, please don't let Jerry

763
00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:19,400
Speaker 3: get stuck in the caverns because he corn fed everyone.

764
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:24,560
Speaker 3: Everyone was exercising their right to be slender, and here's Jerry, tall.

765
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:26,480
Speaker 2: Cute and corn fed. He can't help it.

766
00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:28,680
Speaker 3: He has a spouse and a basketball team to get

767
00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:32,080
Speaker 3: back too. And as much as I had loved Hintie,

768
00:36:32,080 --> 00:36:34,680
Speaker 3: I wasn't ready for that whisper of sex out in

769
00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 3: the woods. Niaga hitting it doggy style after Alpha took

770
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:41,920
Speaker 3: a dump earlier with no toilet paper around. No thanks,

771
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:44,399
Speaker 3: I'm not old enough for that. Let me go back

772
00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:46,640
Speaker 3: to this high school hntip full of nephos and tim

773
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:52,239
Speaker 3: tooko aliens. Come on, seriously, you stay out of toilet

774
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:53,400
Speaker 3: paper in the Hintie world.

775
00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 4: Come on.

776
00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:57,120
Speaker 3: If this is what I have to look forward to

777
00:36:57,160 --> 00:36:58,839
Speaker 3: for the rest of the season, then I need mad

778
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:01,840
Speaker 3: therapy and a support. Thank you again for the recast,

779
00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:04,279
Speaker 3: and I so look forward to enjoy New York next week.

780
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:07,040
Speaker 2: Thank you, Thank you. Dee Ramsey says five Stars.

781
00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:08,799
Speaker 3: I'm so glad you both and the chat room are

782
00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:11,600
Speaker 3: back with our weekly recapital walking Dad. I need Carol

783
00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 3: to do better and be better so that we can

784
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:14,359
Speaker 3: survive this latest war.

785
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:16,720
Speaker 2: Eve says, I regret nothing.

786
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:19,080
Speaker 3: I would rather watch me and Alpha have sex and

787
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:22,240
Speaker 3: the Doodo ditch every week to feel bad that Henry

788
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:22,680
Speaker 3: is dead.

789
00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:26,719
Speaker 2: I said what I said, Wow, no, heart ain't right.

790
00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 3: I'm glad the people are turning on EV because it's

791
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 3: really what people need to see. I knew I could

792
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:35,319
Speaker 3: expose her with enough time. But between the Rby's love

793
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:39,200
Speaker 3: and now this this, you know, no regret for how

794
00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 3: Carol is all fucked up.

795
00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:42,759
Speaker 2: One of the best characters on the show. It really

796
00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:43,919
Speaker 2: tells you a lot about EV.

797
00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:47,720
Speaker 3: And Mom says, watch Carol mess it up again trying

798
00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:49,480
Speaker 3: to fix it or go off on her own to

799
00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:52,759
Speaker 3: save Kannie and Magna by herself. Fifty three percents, don't

800
00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:58,440
Speaker 3: learn damn, Carroll went to it was something else I

801
00:37:58,480 --> 00:38:01,840
Speaker 3: was thinking too, though. Oh, I was thinking, I wonder

802
00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:04,359
Speaker 3: if Carol can go find Lydia.

803
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 4: I think that's what she's gonna end up doing.

804
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:09,799
Speaker 3: Like cause, I mean that could kind of that could

805
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:13,080
Speaker 3: kind of be the start to maybe some moral what

806
00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:13,759
Speaker 3: do you call it?

807
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:14,840
Speaker 2: Redemption?

808
00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:19,960
Speaker 3: We had a very rare result in our pole, guys,

809
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:21,320
Speaker 3: the poet.

810
00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:22,560
Speaker 2: Has Carol learned her lesson?

811
00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:25,840
Speaker 3: Yes she gets it now, or no, she's still gonna

812
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 3: be acting stupid care.

813
00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:30,000
Speaker 4: I think she's still gonna act to st a little bit.

814
00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:32,399
Speaker 2: One hundred percent of people agree with you. We never

815
00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:35,600
Speaker 2: get that. I mean we just did as the Earth.

816
00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:37,919
Speaker 4: Round and you had one droll.

817
00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:40,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, one person like I'm gonna just be I'm just

818
00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:41,799
Speaker 3: gonna be off the board on this one.

819
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:42,120
Speaker 2: Wow.

820
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:45,399
Speaker 3: Missus Barne says, I don't know when Darryl gave her

821
00:38:45,400 --> 00:38:47,480
Speaker 3: the solid treatment, the light bulb kind of went off

822
00:38:47,480 --> 00:38:48,000
Speaker 3: in her head.

823
00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:50,319
Speaker 2: But I think that she just does not care about

824
00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:50,960
Speaker 2: herself at all.

825
00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:53,600
Speaker 3: She's on suicide mission and wants to take our OUTFA

826
00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:57,000
Speaker 3: and it's good with herself being a casualty. Lakita says

827
00:38:57,000 --> 00:38:59,320
Speaker 3: on the poll, first, I like to give that caveat

828
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:01,480
Speaker 3: that I don't want. I only listen to the recap

829
00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:03,760
Speaker 3: because it's literally story time for me. That being said,

830
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:07,040
Speaker 3: voted that she'll keep on because look, I can't imagine

831
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 3: seeing my child's head on the stick, but I can't

832
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:12,160
Speaker 3: imagine nothing mattering after that, even to the.

833
00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:13,040
Speaker 2: Detriment of others.

834
00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:15,399
Speaker 3: It's fucked up, I know, but so is seeing your

835
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 3: baby's head on the stick. It made me think of

836
00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:20,759
Speaker 3: Kevin Hart's joke about Tory A long time ago when

837
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:22,799
Speaker 3: she sees Red and tries to grab the wheel while

838
00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:25,800
Speaker 3: he's driving, not even considering that she could also kill herself,

839
00:39:26,040 --> 00:39:28,160
Speaker 3: and he tells her to just kill her side of

840
00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:29,880
Speaker 3: the car or something to that effect.

841
00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:32,040
Speaker 2: Carol is toy right now.

842
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:34,040
Speaker 3: Driving a whole car off the road at the chest

843
00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:37,040
Speaker 3: of killing Alpha, and I feel for her as a mother,

844
00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:40,680
Speaker 3: but I understand the group's grievances. Ama said she hasn't

845
00:39:40,719 --> 00:39:44,520
Speaker 3: learned a darn thing, So nobody feel like Carol's come

846
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:45,160
Speaker 3: come around?

847
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:46,839
Speaker 2: All right?

848
00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:50,040
Speaker 3: We had one voicemail seven O four five five seven

849
00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:51,000
Speaker 3: zero one eighty six.

850
00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:59,680
Speaker 2: Let's check it out, simpema on on your website.

851
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:05,600
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I am listening to two, episode twenty

852
00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:07,520
Speaker 1: fifty flat.

853
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:14,759
Speaker 2: Earther y'all with the references. I'm so glad that.

854
00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:22,560
Speaker 3: I work from home because I am literally crying elevator. I,

855
00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:24,120
Speaker 3: y'all are ridiculous.

856
00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:24,920
Speaker 2: I love y'all.

857
00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:33,040
Speaker 3: A Wow, that's awesome, man, And I just say, like,

858
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:38,799
Speaker 3: that's exactly why what I envisioned, why I do the

859
00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 3: show like that feeling that people get, because when I

860
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:44,640
Speaker 3: listen to shows, that's the feeling that I get sometimes,

861
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:49,960
Speaker 3: you know, where I'm like, you know, oh man, these

862
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:52,640
Speaker 3: people have me laughing so hard, like I was damn

863
00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:55,000
Speaker 3: near ready to cry.

864
00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 2: Like that that feeling, that's what it's all about.

865
00:40:58,040 --> 00:40:58,239
Speaker 5: Man.

866
00:40:58,360 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 3: I love that we do something that gives people that

867
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:03,880
Speaker 3: feeling sometimes. You know, I know that you know, no

868
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:07,600
Speaker 3: show's perfect and all that stuff, but it's really an

869
00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:10,160
Speaker 3: honor and a pleasure to know that there's people out

870
00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:13,320
Speaker 3: there that like, really, let get it when we're being silly,

871
00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:15,120
Speaker 3: get it when we're being serious, get it when we're

872
00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:17,400
Speaker 3: being funny, get it when we're being sad, all that stuff,

873
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 3: and they just you know, look forward to listening to us,

874
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 3: and you know that same feeling when you're like in

875
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:25,839
Speaker 3: public somewhere you just can't stifle a laugh because something

876
00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:28,279
Speaker 3: is just so fucking funny that you listen to a

877
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:30,840
Speaker 3: podcast or something that's That's really what it's all about.

878
00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 2: And that's the feeling I got from.

879
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:35,000
Speaker 3: You know, like Keith and the Girl when I started

880
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:38,839
Speaker 3: listening to podcasts, and you know some other shows too,

881
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Speaker 3: you know, Blacking it Up back in the day, all

882
00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:46,000
Speaker 3: these shows that would give me that fire starter still

883
00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:49,960
Speaker 3: and it just made me feel like, man, I want

884
00:41:49,960 --> 00:41:52,840
Speaker 3: to put that feeling out into the world too, and

885
00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:55,439
Speaker 3: I you know, I feel like I'm I'm just part

886
00:41:55,520 --> 00:42:02,120
Speaker 3: of a of a what do you call it, not economy,

887
00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:07,400
Speaker 3: a ecosystem. I'm just part of an ecosystem that is

888
00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:11,480
Speaker 3: constantly like being fed by each other and feeding each other.

889
00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:13,360
Speaker 3: And I'm glad to be a part of that. And

890
00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:18,960
Speaker 3: thank you for listening. You all right, let's get into

891
00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 3: our emails.

892
00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:25,160
Speaker 2: We got a few. This is from bri Hey, y'all,

893
00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:27,719
Speaker 2: Blood Show. This might be long, so let me get

894
00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:28,319
Speaker 2: straight to it.

895
00:42:28,600 --> 00:42:30,839
Speaker 3: I have a question in a comment one, where did

896
00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:33,399
Speaker 3: the official weapon and official sport of the show come from?

897
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:33,840
Speaker 2: Lol?

898
00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:35,879
Speaker 3: I'm a fairly new listener and I listened to every

899
00:42:35,880 --> 00:42:37,600
Speaker 3: show since the beginning of the Game of Throwing season

900
00:42:37,640 --> 00:42:38,880
Speaker 3: eight recasts.

901
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:38,920
Speaker 2: Just wondering.

902
00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:42,000
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, well, once a year normally we kind of

903
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:48,080
Speaker 3: explained bulletball. And if you're if you go to our

904
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:51,839
Speaker 3: website and search bulletball the Blackouts dot com, you can

905
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:58,839
Speaker 3: listen to the episodes from our website and me we

906
00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:02,319
Speaker 3: explained it. I want to say last year with Justin

907
00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:05,560
Speaker 3: on an episode, we just kind of explained the meaning

908
00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:08,319
Speaker 3: of bulletball. And we've done that several times, probably four

909
00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:09,399
Speaker 3: or five times at least.

910
00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:11,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, at least once a year we recap it.

911
00:43:12,680 --> 00:43:16,400
Speaker 2: But bullet yeah, bulletball is is. We know, we'll just

912
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:18,480
Speaker 2: do it again. So that's there, you go, Yeah, we'll

913
00:43:18,520 --> 00:43:19,200
Speaker 2: do it again soon.

914
00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:21,759
Speaker 5: Yeah, because we constantly get new listeners who are like,

915
00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:23,160
Speaker 5: the hell they talking about.

916
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:27,080
Speaker 3: The whole thing, and the taser was just something in

917
00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:29,640
Speaker 3: a long time ago. We started the show where I

918
00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:34,880
Speaker 3: was like, why don't police just use tasers more, you know,

919
00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:37,680
Speaker 3: because it seemed like they always kill the motherfuckers with

920
00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:41,200
Speaker 3: guns and sometimes it don't seem like that's a call

921
00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:43,320
Speaker 3: for when a taser, you know, at least the person

922
00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:44,560
Speaker 3: be alive to use the taser.

923
00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:47,280
Speaker 2: So we were like, you know, taser's official weapon.

924
00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:51,080
Speaker 3: My comment, I really resonated with the story of the

925
00:43:51,120 --> 00:43:55,279
Speaker 3: woman who lost her baby due because she listened to

926
00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:58,520
Speaker 3: her Facebook to Facebook groups. I recently had a baby

927
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:00,320
Speaker 3: two years ago and I got pulled into some toxic

928
00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:03,279
Speaker 3: Facebook groups where I wanted to learn about breastfeeding. I

929
00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:05,360
Speaker 3: made a personal goal to breastfeed my son for at

930
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:08,280
Speaker 3: least twelve months when it's safe to introduce other milk.

931
00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:10,640
Speaker 2: I had no idea how hard this will be, especially

932
00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 2: while I work. Being a working mom.

933
00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:15,360
Speaker 3: I turned to Facebook groups that my real life mommy

934
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:17,760
Speaker 3: friends referred me to, just like the woman in the story.

935
00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 3: These groups had certain rules like no recommendations of formula,

936
00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:25,880
Speaker 3: no recommendations of weaning until twelve months, no mention of

937
00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:28,680
Speaker 3: sleep training, etc. It was on these groups. I was

938
00:44:28,680 --> 00:44:31,480
Speaker 3: on these groups regularly, trying to find community and inspiration

939
00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:34,000
Speaker 3: when I felt like quitting. In reality, the struggle of

940
00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:35,880
Speaker 3: being a working mom on top of a newly single

941
00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:38,160
Speaker 3: mom my son's father got locked up for ten months

942
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:40,880
Speaker 3: was taking a toll on my mental health, but I

943
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:43,120
Speaker 3: really wanted to stick to my goal. Just like you

944
00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:45,080
Speaker 3: mentioned during the show, these people in these groups don't

945
00:44:45,120 --> 00:44:46,920
Speaker 3: know you in real life, and you started listening to

946
00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:49,080
Speaker 3: them instead of the people who do know you and

947
00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 3: your individual situation. I wouldn't say I was brainwashed, but

948
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:54,760
Speaker 3: I did the start feel ashamed for wanting to stop

949
00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:58,280
Speaker 3: early and using formula to supplement but breastfeeding, all because

950
00:44:58,320 --> 00:45:02,360
Speaker 3: of these conversations I was a part of in these groups.

951
00:45:02,560 --> 00:45:05,400
Speaker 3: I look back, I should have stopped. My mental health

952
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:08,480
Speaker 3: and my job performance pumping at work was the worst

953
00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:11,479
Speaker 3: suffered because I was torturing myself to keep this goal

954
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:15,000
Speaker 3: and using these groups as enforcement. Though my experience was

955
00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:18,279
Speaker 3: difficult different from this woman, I do identify with being

956
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:21,960
Speaker 3: consumed by these groups. Listen, there are so many people

957
00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:24,840
Speaker 3: that are in this right now. There are people listening

958
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:27,200
Speaker 3: to this, that listen to our show that are.

959
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:27,799
Speaker 2: In this right now.

960
00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:31,279
Speaker 3: Either they're in the now or they don't recognize it

961
00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:33,560
Speaker 3: or hasn't got that bag yet, or it is that

962
00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:35,640
Speaker 3: bad and they just don't want to, you know, like

963
00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:37,600
Speaker 3: they don't have to stript to pull out or whatever,

964
00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:39,279
Speaker 3: or they're going through it right now.

965
00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 4: Man.

966
00:45:39,560 --> 00:45:42,800
Speaker 3: And I'm telling you, because this shit is unregulated, is

967
00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:45,800
Speaker 3: the wild wild West. All of this shit that we're online.

968
00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:48,520
Speaker 3: It's like a fucking experiment on our brains. We won't

969
00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:51,520
Speaker 3: know the results of this stuff until later. It's not

970
00:45:51,680 --> 00:45:56,640
Speaker 3: a coincidence that there's a surge in you know, all

971
00:45:56,680 --> 00:45:58,800
Speaker 3: these movements. People only like to talk about the movements

972
00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:02,400
Speaker 3: they support, or they'll only like to talk about the

973
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:05,000
Speaker 3: movement is they don't like as the reason the internet

974
00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:07,000
Speaker 3: is bad or the reason the internet is great. But

975
00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:10,759
Speaker 3: the choint point is it gives us a place to

976
00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:14,720
Speaker 3: online congregate, right and so you know, in some cases

977
00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:16,799
Speaker 3: it can be great. You can find family shit, people

978
00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:20,319
Speaker 3: can find our podcasts, how people find community with our show, Right,

979
00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:22,880
Speaker 3: But then there's also parts of it where it's like

980
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:26,680
Speaker 3: and a community can become dictated by the worst people

981
00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:29,920
Speaker 3: in the community of community is gonna always have some

982
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:33,160
Speaker 3: people that don't fit. They're gonna always have some discord,

983
00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:36,080
Speaker 3: They're gonna always have some people who disagree. And how

984
00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:38,520
Speaker 3: that stuff that conflict is handled, and all that stuff

985
00:46:38,840 --> 00:46:43,160
Speaker 3: that dictates how communities work, right, and even the fact

986
00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:45,440
Speaker 3: that we long for a community, the fact that you

987
00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:49,120
Speaker 3: can feel like you're around people when you're not, you know,

988
00:46:49,239 --> 00:46:51,680
Speaker 3: the fact that you can then let those people supersede

989
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:53,560
Speaker 3: the people in your life that really do give a

990
00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:55,759
Speaker 3: fuck about it and see you every goddamn day. Right,

991
00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:58,000
Speaker 3: So someone could come over your house and be like, baby,

992
00:46:58,080 --> 00:47:00,239
Speaker 3: this ain't it. I'm looking at you. You stress out,

993
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:04,040
Speaker 3: your hand, your hair's falling out. You know, you're afraid,

994
00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:07,120
Speaker 3: you're not sleeping, you're doing too much. I am a mother,

995
00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:09,799
Speaker 3: I was your mother or whatever. Here's how you can

996
00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:12,480
Speaker 3: handle this stuff with your baby, and you'll go. But

997
00:47:12,560 --> 00:47:13,840
Speaker 3: my Facebook group said.

998
00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:17,799
Speaker 4: Right, but look who the fuck of them niggas? I

999
00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:18,920
Speaker 4: don't care about.

1000
00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:20,680
Speaker 2: Me And guess what the Facebook people are saying? Who

1001
00:47:20,719 --> 00:47:23,680
Speaker 2: the fuck are them? Niggas? I don't care about your mama, right,

1002
00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:26,040
Speaker 2: you know you're in the middle having to make a decision.

1003
00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:28,360
Speaker 3: Your parents are gonna be destructive and tell you to

1004
00:47:29,480 --> 00:47:31,799
Speaker 3: feed your baby formula if if it's causing you not

1005
00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:34,399
Speaker 3: to sleep. Don't listen to them, stay up all night,

1006
00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:37,040
Speaker 3: you know, like that because to them it's nothing but

1007
00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:37,399
Speaker 3: a click.

1008
00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:42,919
Speaker 2: It's nothing but for the post and send. Right. But yeah,

1009
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:45,240
Speaker 2: she says, I hope she heals.

1010
00:47:45,320 --> 00:47:48,280
Speaker 3: I had to delete all groups and retreat into myself afterwards.

1011
00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:50,720
Speaker 2: I just just like her. I don't even use Facebook

1012
00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:51,320
Speaker 2: much anymore.

1013
00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:54,040
Speaker 3: My experience changed the way I use social media in general,

1014
00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:56,080
Speaker 3: and since my mental health has taken a turn for

1015
00:47:56,160 --> 00:47:58,560
Speaker 3: the better. Things for taking time to read this much

1016
00:47:58,600 --> 00:47:59,080
Speaker 3: love breath.

1017
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:02,440
Speaker 4: I got out of all my Facebook groups too.

1018
00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:04,520
Speaker 5: I think I might be in like one or two

1019
00:48:05,080 --> 00:48:07,520
Speaker 5: most of every Facebook group I was in. I got

1020
00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:10,040
Speaker 5: completely out of it people I know in real life,

1021
00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:12,040
Speaker 5: and I was like, now, just can't do the Facebook groups.

1022
00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:12,720
Speaker 4: I'm gucci.

1023
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:15,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, I absolutely got out of all of mine. I

1024
00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:18,399
Speaker 3: think I think I got out of mind first. Yeah,

1025
00:48:19,120 --> 00:48:21,879
Speaker 3: because I realized it was stressing me out. And it's

1026
00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:23,839
Speaker 3: a lot to admit that, because I think part of

1027
00:48:24,520 --> 00:48:27,000
Speaker 3: being online is this whole like I can handle it

1028
00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:29,439
Speaker 3: all they know it don't get to me by I'm

1029
00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:32,319
Speaker 3: unbothered and all this shit. But I was bothered. I

1030
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:35,600
Speaker 3: was stressed out. I was anxious. I was fucking throwing up.

1031
00:48:37,000 --> 00:48:39,520
Speaker 3: People were bringing their conflicts with each other to me,

1032
00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:42,239
Speaker 3: as if I was like King Solomon or some shit,

1033
00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:46,400
Speaker 3: Like I'm just a dude. I can't fix like the

1034
00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:48,520
Speaker 3: stuff some of the stuff people asked me about. I

1035
00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:51,719
Speaker 3: was like, there's no fucking way of Internet moderator of.

1036
00:48:51,640 --> 00:48:52,920
Speaker 2: A form can fix that.

1037
00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:53,640
Speaker 5: You know.

1038
00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:56,120
Speaker 3: It's like, oh, I have a restrainer this person right here,

1039
00:48:56,160 --> 00:48:58,640
Speaker 3: I have a restraining order against her, and uh, you know,

1040
00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:01,040
Speaker 3: I was thinking about maybe she hurt me. Hey, dog,

1041
00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:03,960
Speaker 3: you should probably call like the police, because I don't

1042
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:07,080
Speaker 3: even know where you live. Like, like, I can't fix

1043
00:49:07,160 --> 00:49:09,319
Speaker 3: that via Facebook me kicking them out of a group

1044
00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:12,400
Speaker 3: or not kicking them out of a group would do nothing.

1045
00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:14,240
Speaker 2: To help your actual physical safety.

1046
00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:17,200
Speaker 3: So like, this sounds like a real issue if everyone's

1047
00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:19,560
Speaker 3: telling the truth. Also, I have no way of verifying

1048
00:49:19,640 --> 00:49:22,359
Speaker 3: shit you know what I mean, Like literally, someone could

1049
00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:25,400
Speaker 3: accuse somebody of any fucking thing I don't have not

1050
00:49:25,560 --> 00:49:27,680
Speaker 3: I'm not a detective, you know what I mean. Like,

1051
00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:31,560
Speaker 3: and so stuff like that I would get stressed out

1052
00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:34,200
Speaker 3: about because you know, my mentality is like one of

1053
00:49:34,960 --> 00:49:37,760
Speaker 3: either always feel like I'm failing or letting people down,

1054
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:41,839
Speaker 3: or I'll feel like I should have done this when

1055
00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:42,520
Speaker 3: I did that.

1056
00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:45,319
Speaker 2: And you know, there are people that also exacerbate that.

1057
00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:48,719
Speaker 3: They know your personality type, and they'll like try to

1058
00:49:48,760 --> 00:49:51,439
Speaker 3: do something to make you feel like, yeah, you let

1059
00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:54,759
Speaker 3: me down, you ain't shit cause and it can be manipulative.

1060
00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:55,200
Speaker 2: It can be.

1061
00:49:55,200 --> 00:49:58,080
Speaker 3: People correct that are that aren't on the up and up,

1062
00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:00,000
Speaker 3: but they know if they can make you feel bad,

1063
00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:03,279
Speaker 3: you'll basically do whatever they say, you know. And a

1064
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:05,279
Speaker 3: lot of this stuff with the Internet has put us

1065
00:50:05,280 --> 00:50:07,200
Speaker 3: at the mercy or being in the same streets with

1066
00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:11,920
Speaker 3: you know, like people that have like narcissism, mental illness

1067
00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:14,719
Speaker 3: and all this stuff, stuff that's beyond just the capacity

1068
00:50:14,719 --> 00:50:17,399
Speaker 3: of an individual who's not trained or hasn't really dealt

1069
00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:20,759
Speaker 3: with this type of personality to even deal with, you know.

1070
00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:23,160
Speaker 3: So like this is why you see people under the

1071
00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:26,240
Speaker 3: thrall of certain folks and it's like, damn, this person

1072
00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:28,799
Speaker 3: don't even realize that the person there, like.

1073
00:50:28,880 --> 00:50:31,719
Speaker 2: Running up behind is essentially using them.

1074
00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:33,799
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, and a lot of times it's hard

1075
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:37,160
Speaker 4: to see, excuse me, the farest for the trees when

1076
00:50:37,200 --> 00:50:40,360
Speaker 4: you're in these types of things. And yeah, like I said,

1077
00:50:40,440 --> 00:50:42,160
Speaker 4: and I did too. I felt so much better.

1078
00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:43,160
Speaker 2: I got out of like.

1079
00:50:43,120 --> 00:50:45,200
Speaker 4: Every single one of them, every single Facebook group.

1080
00:50:45,200 --> 00:50:47,200
Speaker 5: And a lot of times people send me invites them,

1081
00:50:47,239 --> 00:50:49,279
Speaker 5: tell you right now, I decline them all. I don't

1082
00:50:49,280 --> 00:50:53,960
Speaker 5: know if it tells you no, but I decline every invitation. No, no, no,

1083
00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:57,000
Speaker 5: no that you know, it's nothing personal. If you invite me,

1084
00:50:57,120 --> 00:50:57,960
Speaker 5: I'm just gonna say no.

1085
00:50:58,400 --> 00:50:58,640
Speaker 2: Right.

1086
00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:02,640
Speaker 3: So, it was just like I said, I completely understand.

1087
00:51:02,800 --> 00:51:05,920
Speaker 3: And I mean, the thing is, man, the people in

1088
00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:09,120
Speaker 3: these professions and the people in your life, they do

1089
00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:12,200
Speaker 3: exist for a reason. I'm not saying every person is good.

1090
00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:16,720
Speaker 3: I'm not saying every relationship is good, but these people

1091
00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:21,040
Speaker 3: typically know you better than the people on the internet that.

1092
00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:23,680
Speaker 2: Don't know you at all, and so in decades with you.

1093
00:51:23,840 --> 00:51:27,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, like if someone's telling you, like don't go to

1094
00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:30,960
Speaker 3: a doctor, just follow the advice of my message board.

1095
00:51:31,080 --> 00:51:36,359
Speaker 3: Dog don't like that's so dangerous, you know, I don't know,

1096
00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:38,320
Speaker 3: Like I said, I don't know what's gonna happen eventually,

1097
00:51:38,360 --> 00:51:41,720
Speaker 3: but I wouldn't be surprised if laws and shit eventually

1098
00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:44,560
Speaker 3: have to get past for this stuff, because we can't

1099
00:51:44,560 --> 00:51:47,319
Speaker 3: have people out here not vaccinating their kids because they

1100
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:50,480
Speaker 3: got some fucking advice from a message board or a

1101
00:51:50,560 --> 00:51:54,680
Speaker 3: Facebook group that you know that shouldn't be acceptable and

1102
00:51:54,719 --> 00:51:57,560
Speaker 3: it will lead to people dying and shit, and you know,

1103
00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:00,719
Speaker 3: and to be frank, I never thought I was acceptable

1104
00:52:00,719 --> 00:52:02,400
Speaker 3: when it was under religious.

1105
00:52:02,200 --> 00:52:03,280
Speaker 2: Three tenses same.

1106
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:05,759
Speaker 3: I'm gonna let this snake bite my son, and well,

1107
00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:07,920
Speaker 3: we can't take him to the hospital because you know, God,

1108
00:52:08,200 --> 00:52:09,000
Speaker 3: either God will let.

1109
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:09,800
Speaker 2: Them live or he won't.

1110
00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:10,920
Speaker 4: Like somebody need to be held to came.

1111
00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:11,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, he died.

1112
00:52:12,280 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 3: If parents like that can go on trial and go

1113
00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:18,000
Speaker 3: to jail, then I don't understand why somebody advising folks,

1114
00:52:18,480 --> 00:52:22,920
Speaker 3: you know, dangerous advice like don't worry about this fifty

1115
00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:26,640
Speaker 3: week pregnancy, It'll be okay. I don't understand why that's okay,

1116
00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:33,360
Speaker 3: you know anyway, La Shermand Wright saying the doctor feedback

1117
00:52:33,360 --> 00:52:35,160
Speaker 3: Within Reason episode.

1118
00:52:34,680 --> 00:52:35,520
Speaker 2: Hello that friends.

1119
00:52:35,560 --> 00:52:37,120
Speaker 3: I read that article you said about the woman who

1120
00:52:37,160 --> 00:52:39,759
Speaker 3: lost their baby at birth, and those echo chambers are real.

1121
00:52:40,080 --> 00:52:42,759
Speaker 3: I get folks being nervous, especially black women, about not

1122
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:46,080
Speaker 3: being treated well, but ignoring treatment is worse. I was

1123
00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:48,200
Speaker 3: in labor for seventeen hours with my youngest son and

1124
00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:50,280
Speaker 3: the doctor decided that he had to take him because

1125
00:52:50,320 --> 00:52:54,080
Speaker 3: the stats were falling and mine were declining. If it

1126
00:52:54,239 --> 00:52:56,920
Speaker 3: sucked because they started to cut me open after the

1127
00:52:56,960 --> 00:52:59,680
Speaker 3: eper door had worn off, so I felt all of it,

1128
00:53:00,160 --> 00:53:02,000
Speaker 3: but look, I wanted my baby more.

1129
00:53:02,120 --> 00:53:03,840
Speaker 2: A full term pregnancy is forty weeks.

1130
00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:06,799
Speaker 3: Forty five weeks is insane, and the people online are

1131
00:53:06,840 --> 00:53:10,160
Speaker 3: fucking crazy. I follow the Humors of New York Facebook page,

1132
00:53:10,160 --> 00:53:12,480
Speaker 3: and a gentleman posted about how he was overweight, his

1133
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:15,680
Speaker 3: cholesterol was jacked up, and he bought a twenty three

1134
00:53:15,880 --> 00:53:18,680
Speaker 3: hundred dollars a Peloton bike and lost weight at first,

1135
00:53:18,719 --> 00:53:20,840
Speaker 3: but then lost motivation and gained the way back and

1136
00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:23,640
Speaker 3: then some. He talked about being afraid he wouldn't make

1137
00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:27,640
Speaker 3: it past fifty. The comments were infuriating. The man said

1138
00:53:27,680 --> 00:53:30,080
Speaker 3: his weight was a contributing factor to his health decline,

1139
00:53:30,080 --> 00:53:32,719
Speaker 3: and folks were in there in there like ignore the

1140
00:53:32,760 --> 00:53:37,760
Speaker 3: doctors intuitively, eat love your fat self. This entire culture

1141
00:53:37,800 --> 00:53:40,719
Speaker 3: of ignoring doctors insane and frightening. We are seeing these

1142
00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:43,120
Speaker 3: levels of extremes everywhere, like you said, but it's scary

1143
00:53:43,120 --> 00:53:45,920
Speaker 3: because it doesn't seem to be stopping, and more and

1144
00:53:45,920 --> 00:53:47,160
Speaker 3: more folks are leaning into it.

1145
00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:49,960
Speaker 2: You gotta stay sane and safe, love you right.

1146
00:53:50,040 --> 00:53:54,520
Speaker 5: And now that's very, very scary because waight has nothing

1147
00:53:54,560 --> 00:53:57,279
Speaker 5: to do with health. A lot of times, you know,

1148
00:53:58,280 --> 00:54:01,480
Speaker 5: people kind of mixed that up. You can be skinny

1149
00:54:01,719 --> 00:54:06,160
Speaker 5: and unhealthy and you can be heavier and fit within

1150
00:54:06,200 --> 00:54:08,360
Speaker 5: the parameters of what's considered healthy.

1151
00:54:09,120 --> 00:54:10,840
Speaker 2: And if this.

1152
00:54:10,719 --> 00:54:13,800
Speaker 5: Person is saying, well, I'm overweight and my weight is

1153
00:54:13,840 --> 00:54:18,600
Speaker 5: a contributing factor to this, that then there is a problem,

1154
00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:21,080
Speaker 5: Like there is a problem. You and your doctor need

1155
00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:23,480
Speaker 5: to talk about getting these numbers up the control. You

1156
00:54:23,560 --> 00:54:25,160
Speaker 5: may need to be on medica because then it becomes

1157
00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:28,080
Speaker 5: it becomes life and death and telling somebody, well, just

1158
00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:30,760
Speaker 5: eat yourself to death till you die doesn't make sense

1159
00:54:30,880 --> 00:54:31,160
Speaker 5: to me.

1160
00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:34,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just interesting because I.

1161
00:54:35,600 --> 00:54:39,440
Speaker 3: Think obviously you want people to feel quote unquote good

1162
00:54:39,480 --> 00:54:42,359
Speaker 3: about themselves and to love their bodies of love where

1163
00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:44,880
Speaker 3: they're at and stuff like that. Like you know, like

1164
00:54:45,640 --> 00:54:49,879
Speaker 3: I think a lot of weight stuff is psychological, not

1165
00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:55,560
Speaker 3: just physical, right, so you have to understand like why

1166
00:54:55,640 --> 00:54:58,600
Speaker 3: that person may be overweight, and you can't necessarily get

1167
00:54:58,600 --> 00:55:03,280
Speaker 3: that from from what they share on the Fucking Humans

1168
00:55:03,320 --> 00:55:06,840
Speaker 3: of New York Post. And then also, you know, if

1169
00:55:06,880 --> 00:55:11,040
Speaker 3: you have a medical professional telling you like here's some things,

1170
00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:13,600
Speaker 3: here's you know, here's what you need to do, or

1171
00:55:14,040 --> 00:55:16,360
Speaker 3: have look into this, you know, let's get your numbers

1172
00:55:16,440 --> 00:55:20,280
Speaker 3: up this way and that way. I don't think people

1173
00:55:20,280 --> 00:55:22,920
Speaker 3: should be vilifying those folks. And I've seen it too online.

1174
00:55:22,920 --> 00:55:27,400
Speaker 3: I've seen people that are like like fat activists that

1175
00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:30,120
Speaker 3: you know, will take it to this idea of like,

1176
00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:34,120
Speaker 3: you know, basically, fuck doctors, nobody should be telling you

1177
00:55:34,160 --> 00:55:34,520
Speaker 3: what to do.

1178
00:55:34,480 --> 00:55:35,640
Speaker 2: Blah blah blah.

1179
00:55:35,680 --> 00:55:39,040
Speaker 3: And yeah, yeah, I don't necessarily agree with that obviously,

1180
00:55:40,160 --> 00:55:45,879
Speaker 3: but I think when a doctor or somebody is telling you, like, yo,

1181
00:55:46,000 --> 00:55:48,480
Speaker 3: we got to put you on this medicine, we're gonna

1182
00:55:48,520 --> 00:55:50,239
Speaker 3: need you to you need to try to lose this

1183
00:55:50,280 --> 00:55:52,600
Speaker 3: amount of way, you need to look at this type

1184
00:55:52,640 --> 00:55:53,160
Speaker 3: of diet.

1185
00:55:53,480 --> 00:55:55,640
Speaker 2: I mean, there's a reason they're telling you that shit, you.

1186
00:55:55,600 --> 00:55:57,840
Speaker 3: Know, And it's not just necessarily the judgment or like

1187
00:55:57,920 --> 00:56:00,600
Speaker 3: I want you to look a certain way looking at

1188
00:56:00,600 --> 00:56:01,319
Speaker 3: your stats, want.

1189
00:56:01,280 --> 00:56:02,080
Speaker 2: You to be healthy.

1190
00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:04,720
Speaker 5: The stats are saying your cholesterol is high, your blood

1191
00:56:04,719 --> 00:56:07,360
Speaker 5: pressure is high, the stats are saying that it's a.

1192
00:56:07,400 --> 00:56:11,480
Speaker 4: Higher probability of Gett having a stroke, Like my.

1193
00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:14,880
Speaker 5: Nigga is real and we can't ignore this because you know,

1194
00:56:15,160 --> 00:56:17,640
Speaker 5: the stats are saying, you know, you might have diabetes,

1195
00:56:17,760 --> 00:56:18,719
Speaker 5: a pre diabetic.

1196
00:56:19,160 --> 00:56:20,359
Speaker 4: You know this shit is real.

1197
00:56:20,520 --> 00:56:22,040
Speaker 5: You know, ye what you want to But what are

1198
00:56:22,040 --> 00:56:24,319
Speaker 5: they going to say if you're diabetic and you have

1199
00:56:24,400 --> 00:56:25,280
Speaker 5: to lose a limb?

1200
00:56:25,440 --> 00:56:26,520
Speaker 4: What are they going to say? Then?

1201
00:56:26,800 --> 00:56:27,000
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1202
00:56:27,040 --> 00:56:29,840
Speaker 3: And also like the culture you're in isn't necessary, Like

1203
00:56:29,920 --> 00:56:30,879
Speaker 3: people always.

1204
00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:31,640
Speaker 2: Look at the culture.

1205
00:56:31,480 --> 00:56:34,400
Speaker 3: The bubble they're in is in the colt, right, like

1206
00:56:34,440 --> 00:56:35,759
Speaker 3: the bubble everybody else is in.

1207
00:56:35,840 --> 00:56:37,000
Speaker 2: That's the coult. That's the problem.

1208
00:56:37,040 --> 00:56:39,680
Speaker 3: Like I said earlier, people like the only tag like

1209
00:56:39,880 --> 00:56:42,440
Speaker 3: you know, the alright or something. That's that's the problem

1210
00:56:42,480 --> 00:56:44,879
Speaker 3: with the internet, the all right. But it also could

1211
00:56:44,920 --> 00:56:48,800
Speaker 3: be a problem when it's the free birth community becomes irresponsible,

1212
00:56:48,920 --> 00:56:51,000
Speaker 3: you know what I mean? Like, so I think I

1213
00:56:51,040 --> 00:56:53,560
Speaker 3: think people do have to pay attention to this shit.

1214
00:56:53,680 --> 00:56:56,000
Speaker 3: You know, I don't think people necessarily and I and

1215
00:56:56,080 --> 00:56:58,399
Speaker 3: I do understand this impulst of fighting back.

1216
00:56:58,640 --> 00:56:59,839
Speaker 2: I deal with it myself, man.

1217
00:57:00,000 --> 00:57:04,000
Speaker 3: Where part of it is that people will pretend to

1218
00:57:04,040 --> 00:57:05,400
Speaker 3: care about people's.

1219
00:57:04,960 --> 00:57:07,120
Speaker 2: Health and be very mean and they really just want

1220
00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:10,640
Speaker 2: to pick on a fat body. And there's like there's

1221
00:57:10,640 --> 00:57:11,400
Speaker 2: a nuance to it.

1222
00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:13,319
Speaker 3: I get it and all that stuff, But like when

1223
00:57:13,320 --> 00:57:16,840
Speaker 3: you're sitting in a room with your physician for your

1224
00:57:18,080 --> 00:57:21,960
Speaker 3: for your health, that that's not the Internet, that's not Facebook,

1225
00:57:22,000 --> 00:57:25,240
Speaker 3: that's not someone seeing Lizzo and and saying I'm tired

1226
00:57:25,240 --> 00:57:26,920
Speaker 3: of this fat bitch and blah blah blah. You know,

1227
00:57:28,080 --> 00:57:30,760
Speaker 3: So I think that's something I do think people do

1228
00:57:30,880 --> 00:57:34,440
Speaker 3: a little too. I think there's there's the reason that

1229
00:57:34,480 --> 00:57:36,160
Speaker 3: you get so much pushback is that there's a lot

1230
00:57:36,160 --> 00:57:41,800
Speaker 3: of people who use this weird pejorative altruism as a

1231
00:57:41,840 --> 00:57:44,760
Speaker 3: motivation to talk about fat people terribly right.

1232
00:57:44,800 --> 00:57:47,200
Speaker 2: And I think that's the that's why.

1233
00:57:47,040 --> 00:57:50,120
Speaker 3: You have these communities form that tell you don't listen

1234
00:57:50,200 --> 00:57:52,480
Speaker 3: to anybody, you know, because it essentially like I want

1235
00:57:52,480 --> 00:57:54,760
Speaker 3: to block everybody out because these people are so mean,

1236
00:57:55,120 --> 00:57:56,720
Speaker 3: They're lying about it being.

1237
00:57:56,560 --> 00:57:57,160
Speaker 2: About my health.

1238
00:57:57,200 --> 00:57:58,959
Speaker 3: They just want to say they see a fat person,

1239
00:57:58,960 --> 00:58:01,560
Speaker 3: they just want to like talk about them. So that's

1240
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:03,479
Speaker 3: one of the reasons that I think it's that way.

1241
00:58:03,560 --> 00:58:06,760
Speaker 3: But that doesn't necessarily make it right. Just because you're

1242
00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:10,720
Speaker 3: reacting to something wrong doesn't mean your reaction is necessarily

1243
00:58:11,360 --> 00:58:13,080
Speaker 3: healthier or equal in opposite.

1244
00:58:13,640 --> 00:58:14,560
Speaker 2: Correct.

1245
00:58:14,680 --> 00:58:16,320
Speaker 5: And there are those people out there, But then there

1246
00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:19,280
Speaker 5: are people that are actually concerned, and they're not concerned

1247
00:58:19,280 --> 00:58:22,240
Speaker 5: trolling or anything like that. They are literally go ay now,

1248
00:58:22,360 --> 00:58:23,560
Speaker 5: I don't want to lose.

1249
00:58:23,360 --> 00:58:28,440
Speaker 3: You, right Stacey Abrams and Moore's from Raphael says hello

1250
00:58:28,600 --> 00:58:30,400
Speaker 3: to the host of the best podcasts in the world.

1251
00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:33,640
Speaker 2: Thank you, Thank you. I hope you too. Love the

1252
00:58:33,680 --> 00:58:34,480
Speaker 2: people are doing great.

1253
00:58:34,480 --> 00:58:36,480
Speaker 3: I listen to Stacey Abrams interview with Larry will Moore

1254
00:58:36,480 --> 00:58:39,120
Speaker 3: and Larry's podcast and it was absolutely amazing. I immediately

1255
00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:42,320
Speaker 3: shared that interview and I've been repeating to anyone throwing

1256
00:58:42,640 --> 00:58:44,880
Speaker 3: my vote don't count or both parties are the same

1257
00:58:44,880 --> 00:58:49,280
Speaker 3: excuses in preparation for boycotting of November as to why

1258
00:58:49,360 --> 00:58:51,960
Speaker 3: all elections matter. I hope they will see some reason.

1259
00:58:52,720 --> 00:58:53,439
Speaker 3: I hope so too.

1260
00:58:54,000 --> 00:58:54,280
Speaker 4: Same.

1261
00:58:54,560 --> 00:58:58,600
Speaker 3: A quick comment on the NHS racist situation without my

1262
00:58:58,720 --> 00:59:01,160
Speaker 3: checking the numbers. I'm pretty common that thirty to sixty

1263
00:59:01,200 --> 00:59:05,240
Speaker 3: percent of the NHS staff are immigrants of children or

1264
00:59:05,320 --> 00:59:08,960
Speaker 3: children of immigrants in the UK wind Rush, the generation

1265
00:59:10,200 --> 00:59:14,920
Speaker 3: from the Caribbean, African, Indian, Pakistan, et cetera, along with

1266
00:59:15,040 --> 00:59:17,640
Speaker 3: some from the EU, which is why they are subject

1267
00:59:17,720 --> 00:59:20,640
Speaker 3: to plenty of racist attacks against the staff. Oh yeah,

1268
00:59:20,640 --> 00:59:22,600
Speaker 3: we talked about how many people work for the National

1269
00:59:22,640 --> 00:59:27,360
Speaker 3: Health Service and experienced racism. I can't recall the documentary

1270
00:59:27,440 --> 00:59:30,040
Speaker 3: right now, touched on it touched on when the wind

1271
00:59:30,120 --> 00:59:34,280
Speaker 3: Rush wind Rush generation started arriving in the UK. The

1272
00:59:34,400 --> 00:59:37,000
Speaker 3: lady was a nurse at a hospital in the sixties,

1273
00:59:37,080 --> 00:59:40,560
Speaker 3: and yeah, the racism was off the chain. Finally, I'm

1274
00:59:40,600 --> 00:59:42,400
Speaker 3: not sure if you've covered this story on how white

1275
00:59:42,440 --> 00:59:46,760
Speaker 3: couple and the usual suspects evangelical via the evangelicals via

1276
00:59:46,800 --> 00:59:49,600
Speaker 3: this court case that most likely to end up at

1277
00:59:49,600 --> 00:59:52,520
Speaker 3: the Supreme Court may have a huge efect effect on Native.

1278
00:59:52,280 --> 00:59:57,160
Speaker 2: American culture and children. No, we have not Indian child

1279
00:59:57,240 --> 01:00:00,520
Speaker 2: welfare now, we haven't read that yet. I'm sorry.

1280
01:00:00,800 --> 01:00:03,320
Speaker 3: I'll try to save it for a show we can

1281
01:00:03,360 --> 01:00:05,840
Speaker 3: do later. But thank you for sending us the article.

1282
01:00:07,520 --> 01:00:12,960
Speaker 3: I appreciate that Raphael the native adoption case. Oh it's

1283
01:00:13,040 --> 01:00:13,560
Speaker 3: Vox two.

1284
01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:15,720
Speaker 2: I know that shit gonna be long. Yeah, let me

1285
01:00:15,960 --> 01:00:17,120
Speaker 2: do that.

1286
01:00:18,640 --> 01:00:21,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, boxes they be doing them explaining articles and ship

1287
01:00:21,520 --> 01:00:22,520
Speaker 3: should be long as hell.

1288
01:00:22,720 --> 01:00:24,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, they be doing that ship where you have to

1289
01:00:24,520 --> 01:00:26,640
Speaker 4: pay them people to take investigations.

1290
01:00:27,040 --> 01:00:29,640
Speaker 3: The last one is from Mail, who says high Rod

1291
01:00:29,680 --> 01:00:33,280
Speaker 3: and Karen uh just saying hey and sharing this flyer

1292
01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:36,000
Speaker 3: I got from Lee Harrison's YouTube for the month, he

1293
01:00:36,040 --> 01:00:39,480
Speaker 3: does energetic updates for the collective, basically what to expect

1294
01:00:39,480 --> 01:00:40,000
Speaker 3: from the world.

1295
01:00:40,040 --> 01:00:40,920
Speaker 2: He's pretty spot on.

1296
01:00:41,320 --> 01:00:43,240
Speaker 3: When you touched on the story about Snoop and Jada,

1297
01:00:43,280 --> 01:00:47,160
Speaker 3: it made me think of this diagram bottom left. Is

1298
01:00:47,280 --> 01:00:51,720
Speaker 3: quite tiring to hear people get so tied to us

1299
01:00:52,080 --> 01:00:56,240
Speaker 3: into celeb life. My hope is that we individually started

1300
01:00:56,240 --> 01:00:59,880
Speaker 3: to work on battering ourselves as a society. Oh, bettering

1301
01:01:00,480 --> 01:01:03,240
Speaker 3: society as a whole. Thanks as always for the great

1302
01:01:03,280 --> 01:01:08,360
Speaker 3: thought provoking content. Mail, and this graphic is. I tried

1303
01:01:08,360 --> 01:01:08,880
Speaker 3: to read it.

1304
01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:13,720
Speaker 2: It's so it's it's it's kind of hard to understand

1305
01:01:14,320 --> 01:01:14,680
Speaker 2: for me.

1306
01:01:15,000 --> 01:01:17,040
Speaker 3: I'll see if I can show show y'all in the

1307
01:01:17,120 --> 01:01:20,160
Speaker 3: chat room real quick, because I did want youry to

1308
01:01:20,200 --> 01:01:23,280
Speaker 3: see it. But it's a lot, like I can't understand

1309
01:01:23,360 --> 01:01:25,640
Speaker 3: all of it.

1310
01:01:25,720 --> 01:01:27,160
Speaker 2: Is there a way to make this bigger?

1311
01:01:27,400 --> 01:01:27,880
Speaker 5: I don't know.

1312
01:01:28,680 --> 01:01:33,200
Speaker 3: Okay, there it is so uh yeah bottom left conflict

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Speaker 3: energy conflict showing up personally, and I guess the errors

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Speaker 3: is like then it goes to but has nothing to

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Speaker 3: do with you or the person you're in conflict with.

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Speaker 2: Keep a broader perspective. Then it goes.

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Speaker 3: Towards the planet, feeling fear, anxiety, and panic. Conflict energy

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Speaker 3: is strong on the planet. Well, yeah, I think so,

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Speaker 3: especially with the coronavirus stuff. Ask yourself, is this really

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Speaker 3: about me? Be loving in your heart?

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Speaker 2: What do I need to release? Examine yourself? I guess.

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Speaker 3: Who do I need to forgive? Do I need to

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Speaker 3: forgive myself? Conflict is seductive negative navigated consciously. Uh so

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Speaker 3: that's just the conflict energy of the of the February sphere.

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Speaker 2: Now this is pretty dope. Like I said, I just

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Speaker 2: I didn't necessarily I've never read one of these before,

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Speaker 2: so I just supposed to how it's supposed to go,

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Speaker 2: supposed to flow.

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Speaker 4: But I guess it's like a I don't know, like

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Speaker 4: a flow chart.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a flow chart, but also like you know

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Speaker 3: how they do like the weather and the forecast. It's

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Speaker 3: like a forecast I guess for energy throughout the world

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Speaker 3: and in your personal lives.

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Speaker 2: So that's cool. So yeah, man, this is uh, that's

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Speaker 2: pretty dope. Like I said, I've never seen one of

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Speaker 2: those before.

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Speaker 3: All right, and then lastly we got something in the mail.

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Speaker 3: They're right of Karen, libraries are great. Here's some swag

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Speaker 3: from my peace Brooklyn shoe baby.

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Speaker 2: Ps. This is me on the bookmark and that's the bookmark.

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Speaker 2: So that's dope. Thank you.

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Speaker 3: I don't read a lot of physical books, but now

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Speaker 3: I do need bookmarks. That's part of the reason I

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Speaker 3: don't join the Cycle Alliance. The Cycle Alliances Pro Period

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Speaker 3: Advancing campaign for teens of all genders learn how to

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Speaker 3: creatively fight period shaven and period poverty.

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Speaker 2: Ah, that's what's up. You know. I was an early

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Speaker 2: adoptor of that on this show.

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Speaker 4: Yeah you was. You had to pull me in on that.

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Speaker 4: I'm the one with the period.

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Speaker 2: I guess. This is this for library cars.

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Speaker 3: It's like a little thing the host so it says

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Speaker 3: brook Brooklyn Public Library. It's like almost like a little wallet.

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Speaker 3: Universe of stories, Summer Reading this is another bookmark. And

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Speaker 3: then we got this little bag here too that says

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Speaker 3: uh Brooklyn Public Library Universe Verse of Stories. It's got

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Speaker 3: like a little astronaut on it reading the book. So

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Speaker 3: thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: We appreciate you as once.

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Speaker 3: As we said earlier, we'll be off next week, going

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Speaker 3: to New York, going to meet all the people that

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Speaker 3: have me muted and blocked and unfollowed on Twitter.

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Speaker 4: We're not gonna get up. We won't be able to

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Speaker 4: see everybody just then, y'all know.

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Speaker 2: Right now, Yeah, taking care with me.

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Speaker 3: We're only gonna be there for a couple of days.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I don't know what i'll you know, to expect,

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Speaker 3: but I'll keep it optimistic and try to have fun.

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Speaker 4: Hopefully, if everything.

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Speaker 2: Go well, will be on k Yeah, we should be

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Speaker 2: on Keith and the Girl.

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Speaker 3: I know a couple of another podcast hit us up,

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Speaker 3: but I don't know if we're gonna be able to

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Speaker 3: make it on.

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Speaker 2: I know we're trying to get on four Our Nerds,

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Speaker 2: but I.

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Speaker 3: Think they recorded on like Tuesday, and they already have

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Speaker 3: it booked, and I think Tati is talking about maybe

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Speaker 3: see if they can record on.

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Speaker 2: A Wednesday as well.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, you know, you know, I understand totally, but uh,

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Speaker 3: you know, really I love those guys as well. So yeah,

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Speaker 3: that's and uh, you know, then I have friends and

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Speaker 3: stuff I got.

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Speaker 2: I want to see.

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Speaker 3: Bossy, hopefully get to see Bomani, you know, stuff like that.

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Speaker 3: So looking forward to that stuff. My first time going

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Speaker 3: to New York. So we'll see how it feels, if

1390
01:05:24,560 --> 01:05:28,960
Speaker 3: it's too overwhelming and all that ship, but you know,

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Speaker 3: I'm looking.

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Speaker 2: Forward to it all right.

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Speaker 3: Uh And then for the show stuff, I did want

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Speaker 3: to put out a couple of show notes.

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Speaker 5: One.

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Speaker 3: I was just on a podcast called Everything's Canceled and

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01:05:42,000 --> 01:05:46,160
Speaker 3: uh with my main Craig and we had a good time,

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01:05:46,400 --> 01:05:51,480
Speaker 3: you know. And uh, he's done several articles about us

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01:05:51,480 --> 01:05:53,640
Speaker 3: before he's written he wrote that thing in the A V

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Speaker 3: Club for us. He did our Ebony article for us,

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01:05:59,480 --> 01:06:02,120
Speaker 3: so like, you know, uh, it was I was happy

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01:06:02,160 --> 01:06:04,040
Speaker 3: to be on the show and be interviewed by him

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01:06:04,120 --> 01:06:06,680
Speaker 3: and you know, have a conversation with him.

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01:06:06,760 --> 01:06:10,560
Speaker 2: It was I thought it was really cool. And what

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01:06:10,680 --> 01:06:14,080
Speaker 2: was the other? Oh and then premium stuff. I did a.

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01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:17,520
Speaker 3: Solo review for Bad Times at the Old Royale at

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Speaker 3: the l Royale.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna do a solo review for Parasite. I just

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01:06:22,280 --> 01:06:22,680
Speaker 2: watched that.

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Speaker 4: We did a My Here at Academia, My Hero Academia

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Speaker 4: movie review.

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Speaker 3: They got a new movie that came out, and then

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Speaker 3: we did Boss even pre game yesterday. So for premium people,

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01:06:36,520 --> 01:06:38,440
Speaker 3: you know, we may or may not be able to

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01:06:38,480 --> 01:06:40,240
Speaker 3: do the nerd off next week, so we may have

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Speaker 3: to push it back one more week. Uh So, anyway,

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Speaker 3: all that stuff is out there and go check it out.

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Speaker 5: And for people that you know trying to keep up,

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01:06:49,880 --> 01:06:53,000
Speaker 5: follow us on social media, so you know, so you

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Speaker 5: know what's happening.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And I think also just if I could say

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01:06:56,080 --> 01:07:00,600
Speaker 3: before leaving going to New York, it's pretty who is

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01:07:00,640 --> 01:07:04,000
Speaker 3: definitely something that I've always thought about. There's other opportunities

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Speaker 3: on the horizon that we may have to that's so excited,

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01:07:07,360 --> 01:07:12,560
Speaker 3: that are pretty big. But one thing that this reminded

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Speaker 3: me of is when I saw the the Black Twitter

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Speaker 3: List or whatever, the people they were inviting or the

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Speaker 3: people that accept the invitations, because I think a lot

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Speaker 3: of people didn't take it. It was weird because I'm

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Speaker 3: looking at that list and I was thinking, like, if

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Speaker 3: you're on Twitter enough, you see that some of those

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01:07:30,200 --> 01:07:35,400
Speaker 3: people don't even really fuck with each other, and you know,

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Speaker 3: like I don't expect that to be too much drama

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01:07:38,080 --> 01:07:41,360
Speaker 3: in person or whatever. But it just made me think about, like,

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Speaker 3: We've been doing this shit for ten years. I've been

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01:07:43,560 --> 01:07:47,200
Speaker 3: on Twitter for ten years. I've you know, you know,

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01:07:47,600 --> 01:07:51,720
Speaker 3: I have people that you know, I've agreed with, disagree with, friended, unfriended,

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01:07:51,800 --> 01:07:55,320
Speaker 3: all that shit over the course of ten years. And

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01:07:56,800 --> 01:07:59,880
Speaker 3: a lot of stuff that's happened has been either by circumstance.

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Speaker 2: That's a good fortune. Uh, you know all that stuff.

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01:08:04,960 --> 01:08:09,360
Speaker 3: You know, stick to itiveness, all that and uh, we

1442
01:08:09,440 --> 01:08:14,320
Speaker 3: have created so many cool, enriching, good relationships in general.

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01:08:15,800 --> 01:08:17,160
Speaker 3: And it was cool to be able to look at

1444
01:08:17,160 --> 01:08:20,080
Speaker 3: that list and not feel like, well, I know this

1445
01:08:20,160 --> 01:08:22,320
Speaker 3: person coming eight, they don't fuck with me or whatever.

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01:08:22,400 --> 01:08:24,639
Speaker 3: Like it was just kind of like, you know, I've

1447
01:08:24,680 --> 01:08:27,800
Speaker 3: been trying to stay positive and keep it positive, and

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01:08:28,520 --> 01:08:31,000
Speaker 3: you know, somebody chooses to have an issue with me,

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01:08:31,160 --> 01:08:33,000
Speaker 3: then that's you know, that's that's one thing.

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Speaker 2: But in general, like I'm very much living let live

1451
01:08:36,560 --> 01:08:37,880
Speaker 2: and let live with its same.

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01:08:38,160 --> 01:08:40,559
Speaker 3: Whatever the fuck people doing, you know, they're doing too much,

1453
01:08:40,600 --> 01:08:41,640
Speaker 3: they're doing extra I'm not.

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Speaker 5: Because they know that they don't have a problem with me.

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01:08:43,200 --> 01:08:45,400
Speaker 5: If they have a problem, it's normally with you with

1456
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Speaker 5: just bad.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm not trying to like get into the

1458
01:08:48,800 --> 01:08:50,479
Speaker 3: back and forth for call people out and all that

1459
01:08:50,479 --> 01:08:53,720
Speaker 3: stuff like people do. But it didn't make me think, like, man,

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Speaker 3: it's funny that looking at that list and there were

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Speaker 3: people like man, all these people got me blocked d

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01:08:59,800 --> 01:09:02,240
Speaker 3: and stinging on myself, like man, it'll be cool to

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01:09:02,280 --> 01:09:04,559
Speaker 3: be there and kind of meet some of these faces,

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01:09:04,640 --> 01:09:06,559
Speaker 3: see some of these faces that go with these tweets

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01:09:06,600 --> 01:09:10,680
Speaker 3: are been following. But also just to not have to

1466
01:09:10,720 --> 01:09:13,320
Speaker 3: worry about navigating that room with a bunch of beef

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01:09:13,360 --> 01:09:15,920
Speaker 3: and shit, you know, that'll be cool.

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01:09:16,160 --> 01:09:19,799
Speaker 2: You know, I don't know. Now, I still expect whatever

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Speaker 2: there is.

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Speaker 3: Drama, whatever drama is gonna happen, it is gonna take

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Speaker 3: place on Twitter after the event, So hopefully, sure, you

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Speaker 3: just want to stay out of everybody's way and let

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Speaker 3: people do what they do and just keep it positive

1474
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Speaker 3: and fun. And you know, I'm happy to you know,

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01:09:35,760 --> 01:09:37,559
Speaker 3: as soon as like they said they wanted me to go,

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01:09:37,640 --> 01:09:39,400
Speaker 3: I was like, well, I have to take careen, because

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01:09:39,560 --> 01:09:43,200
Speaker 3: gotta go, you know, together. And so the main thing

1478
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Speaker 3: I'm really trying to get accomplished, accomplished and this time

1479
01:09:48,720 --> 01:09:50,960
Speaker 3: up here is to get care of a check mark.

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01:09:51,120 --> 01:09:53,519
Speaker 3: Like I gotta see if I can see who I

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01:09:53,520 --> 01:09:55,720
Speaker 3: need to talk to to make that happen, Like who

1482
01:09:55,720 --> 01:09:58,360
Speaker 3: do I gotta beg to get Karen check mark?

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01:09:58,400 --> 01:09:59,440
Speaker 2: We do the same fucking.

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01:09:59,240 --> 01:10:03,519
Speaker 3: Job, you know what I mean, Like, goddamn show, it

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01:10:03,560 --> 01:10:05,760
Speaker 3: doesn't make sense for me to have a check mark

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01:10:06,000 --> 01:10:07,080
Speaker 3: and her not to have check mark.

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Speaker 2: I don't even care to show.

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Speaker 3: But I feel like that's the main fucking goal of

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Speaker 3: the whole trip. I don't really care about the rest

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Speaker 3: of the shit, you know. I mean, you know they

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01:10:17,960 --> 01:10:20,720
Speaker 3: are it does They had a contract they are going

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01:10:20,800 --> 01:10:22,679
Speaker 3: to like pay us to do stuff they are taking

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Speaker 3: care of, like my side of the travel in the

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Speaker 3: hotel room.

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01:10:25,560 --> 01:10:26,880
Speaker 2: So it's nice for that too.

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01:10:27,200 --> 01:10:31,040
Speaker 3: But yeah, man, that motherfucking check mark, homie, Like what's

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01:10:31,160 --> 01:10:32,240
Speaker 3: come about that check mark?

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Speaker 4: Jack?

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Speaker 2: So uh? And then the other thing I think.

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Speaker 3: I think I want to concentrate on just doing what

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Speaker 3: what I've kind of been doing on Twitter for the

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01:10:42,240 --> 01:10:44,400
Speaker 3: last couple of years, which is just being funny.

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01:10:44,880 --> 01:10:48,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, and I know you will and it's you know.

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01:10:48,760 --> 01:10:52,680
Speaker 4: You know me, I am a very I'm always a

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01:10:52,680 --> 01:10:54,840
Speaker 4: battle energy whenever we travel. That's just how I am.

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Speaker 5: But you know me, I'm laid back, go with the flow,

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01:10:58,320 --> 01:11:01,240
Speaker 5: you know, because I I'm an energize to Bunny. But

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01:11:01,280 --> 01:11:03,200
Speaker 5: you know I will kind of give and take in

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Speaker 5: it just according to.

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Speaker 3: You, right, So we'll see what happens when we get there, man.

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01:11:09,200 --> 01:11:11,840
Speaker 3: And I don't know, you know, follow our twitters and

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01:11:11,840 --> 01:11:12,400
Speaker 3: stuff like that.

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Speaker 2: A lot of it.

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Speaker 4: Prime say that again, that is in D A T.

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Speaker 2: And I'll show Twitter is tbg WT.

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01:11:18,760 --> 01:11:20,800
Speaker 3: So follow all that stuff and then hopefully you can

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01:11:20,840 --> 01:11:23,679
Speaker 3: get updates from that too. All right, y'all. I think

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Speaker 3: that's about it. Man, Thank y'all for listening, appreciate the feedback,

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Speaker 3: and we'll be back next week, if not a little

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Speaker 3: bit sooner, because like I said, I do want to

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Speaker 3: do a recap of walking Dad at some point.

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Speaker 2: All right, until next time, I love you.

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Speaker 4: I love you,