WEBVTT - From Paris To the Moon with Adam Gopnik

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<v Speaker 1>This is Alec Baldwin and you're listening to Here's the

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<v Speaker 1>Thing from My Heart Radio. My guest today is uniquely

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<v Speaker 1>blessed with intellectual curiosity, air udition, and an insightful wit.

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<v Speaker 1>He's also been called one of the greatest thinkers and

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<v Speaker 1>wordsmiths of our age, and is rumored to read up

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<v Speaker 1>to four books a day. He's also a true New

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<v Speaker 1>Yorkers New Yorker, the brilliant Adam Gopnick. Gopnik has been

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<v Speaker 1>a writer at The New Yorker for over three decades,

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<v Speaker 1>first as an art critic and then as their Paris correspondent.

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<v Speaker 1>He's written fiction, non fiction, humor, memoir, and criticism for

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<v Speaker 1>the famed magazine, covering everything from sports to spirituality with

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<v Speaker 1>equal aplom He's the international best selling author of ten

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<v Speaker 1>books and an accomplished lecture and storyteller. He has appeared

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<v Speaker 1>regularly on the Moth Radio Hour the CBC and created

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<v Speaker 1>a series of one man shows, including The Gates, an

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<v Speaker 1>Evening of Stories with Adam Gopnik. For someone with such

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<v Speaker 1>a prolific and varied body of work, I was curious

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<v Speaker 1>to learn about his writing process. I'm right in the

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<v Speaker 1>kind of the back room. We think of it as

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<v Speaker 1>the engine room of the Titanic, right where Daddy has

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<v Speaker 1>stripped to the waist shoveling coal into the furnace while

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<v Speaker 1>to keep the boat going for another day. We hit

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<v Speaker 1>the iceberg long ago, and we're listening, but we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>keep moving forward. And I always have my door open.

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<v Speaker 1>The kids always know seven days a week, six hours

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<v Speaker 1>a day too, Yes, and they were always aware. Someone

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<v Speaker 1>teach you that, to someone lends you that. Yeah, Actually

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<v Speaker 1>someone did teach me that. I had a great teacher

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<v Speaker 1>and inspiring teacher who I wrote an essay about called

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<v Speaker 1>Last of the metro Zoids, when he died tragically and

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<v Speaker 1>stupidly young of cancers. Name was Kirk Varnetot, and he

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<v Speaker 1>ended his life as the director of Painting and Sculpture

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<v Speaker 1>at the Museum of Modern Art. But he had been

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<v Speaker 1>my professor in graduate school, and he was someone of

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<v Speaker 1>impeccable talent, the greatest lecture I've ever heard, an inspired curator.

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<v Speaker 1>But he had a work effort like no one I've

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<v Speaker 1>ever known, which he had derived, as he would tell

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<v Speaker 1>you himself and did tell you often, from playing football

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<v Speaker 1>and coaching football. That had been his passion In college,

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<v Speaker 1>played defensive line, though he was wildly undersized then and

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<v Speaker 1>going out to Stanford, and couldn't decide whether to continue

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<v Speaker 1>coaching for Bill Walsh, who was at Stanford then here,

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<v Speaker 1>or to become an art historian. And he said to

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<v Speaker 1>me a memorable line, He said, the thing about being

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<v Speaker 1>a football coach is you have to be smart enough

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<v Speaker 1>to do it well and dumb enough to think it matters.

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<v Speaker 1>My father was a football coach, was he really? My

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<v Speaker 1>father coach high school where he played at SU and

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<v Speaker 1>then he went to They caught high school football where

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<v Speaker 1>we grew up, and my memories of that mentality. There

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<v Speaker 1>was a sign above the entrance to the coach office

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<v Speaker 1>as you walked out the door, and the sign said

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<v Speaker 1>if you score, you may win. If they never score,

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<v Speaker 1>you will never lose. And the boulder letters said defense

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<v Speaker 1>wins championships. Well, that was very much. Though Kirk was

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<v Speaker 1>the most sophisticated of intellectuals, he was at heart a

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<v Speaker 1>football coach. And when I arrived in graduate school in

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<v Speaker 1>New York in nineteen eighty, I was something of a

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<v Speaker 1>wise guy. I grew up in an academic family, but

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<v Speaker 1>in a very contentious, smart when the argument at the

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<v Speaker 1>dinner table kind of family, what'd your dad do? My

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<v Speaker 1>dad was a professor? No, no, when when you when

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<v Speaker 1>you left Philadelphia? How old were you when you went

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<v Speaker 1>to Levin? When we left Philadelphia? And then I and

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<v Speaker 1>then grew spent the next nine years in Montreal, really

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<v Speaker 1>kind of grew up in exactly. And my mother to

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<v Speaker 1>my mother was a professor too, And actually I should

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<v Speaker 1>add them in many ways a more distinguished scientist and

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<v Speaker 1>scholar than my dad was. My dad spent a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of time as a dean, was extremely good at it.

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<v Speaker 1>My mom is famous in her field for having discovered

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<v Speaker 1>the first identifiable chromosome linked to grammar, linked to language,

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<v Speaker 1>which is called if I used to know my heart

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<v Speaker 1>show f XP you forgotten? Yes, exactly twops. Anyway, So

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<v Speaker 1>I came I came of age very much in that

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<v Speaker 1>kind of Jewish intellectual family, with elements of the Glass

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<v Speaker 1>family of Salinger and of the Corleone family of Mary

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<v Speaker 1>Open leaving at eleven, I wonder, I mean, I always

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<v Speaker 1>identified that period as a huge transition childhood. It's very

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<v Speaker 1>sent you to say that it was hugely tough, hugely tough,

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<v Speaker 1>because I had just sort of begun for the first

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<v Speaker 1>time to have a circle of friends. And we smoked.

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<v Speaker 1>We couldn't get marijuana, we smoked marigold cigarettes and all that.

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<v Speaker 1>It was hugely tough moving to a strange city, and

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<v Speaker 1>it took me quite a while to adjust. As in Philadelphia,

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<v Speaker 1>where I spent my childhood, really I had actually been

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<v Speaker 1>a kid actor, and I had been the kind of

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<v Speaker 1>the Jackie Coogan of Andre Gregory's avant garde theater. You

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<v Speaker 1>know Andrew Gregory, it's still to this day a very

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<v Speaker 1>dear friend, my oldest friend in the world. And he

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<v Speaker 1>had an avant garde theater in Philadelphia. Oh do you

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<v Speaker 1>really yes? Yeah, Well that was that that family. And

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<v Speaker 1>so I had played countless parts for Andre and as

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<v Speaker 1>I say, we're still intimate friends. And so I had

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<v Speaker 1>a very uh incandescent and some always a blessed child.

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<v Speaker 1>And so that transition was extremely, extremely difficult for me.

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<v Speaker 1>And you went undergrad to McGill. I went undergrad to McGill.

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<v Speaker 1>I've got many friends because mcgils such a great school.

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<v Speaker 1>I have many friends whose children have gone there. And

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<v Speaker 1>my neighbor in my first home and I m Aganson

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<v Speaker 1>was skip Sheldon Huntington's Sheldon who was on the medical

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<v Speaker 1>staff there or the hospital staff. That he was a

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<v Speaker 1>medical doctor who also I think his family him or

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<v Speaker 1>his mother's family were heirs to the merc drug and

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<v Speaker 1>he was my guy. And I'm McGill such a great

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<v Speaker 1>school when you were there growing up. Was it a

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<v Speaker 1>feder company you were going to go to McGill, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>there was no, There was no question. It was the

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<v Speaker 1>It was the family tavern. Really, not only I tell

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<v Speaker 1>my kids. In fact, they ended up because I got

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<v Speaker 1>a discount because my both my parents were professors, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I did well and I got various fellowships and

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<v Speaker 1>ended up paying me to go to college, so which

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<v Speaker 1>was in this day as unusual. My friend Malcolm Bladwell,

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<v Speaker 1>who's also a Canadian of the same generation, points out

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<v Speaker 1>accurately that that's the Canadian model, that you go to

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<v Speaker 1>the nearest good school to your home. And the whole

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<v Speaker 1>insane American rigmarole which we have gone through is I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure you have gone through and will go through of

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<v Speaker 1>college visits and the insane competitive overdrive that takes places

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<v Speaker 1>essentially unknown in Canada. My nieces and nephews live in

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<v Speaker 1>Edmonton and they went to the University of Alberta, which

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<v Speaker 1>is a terrific school and is nearby. But yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>went to McGill and art history. I did art history.

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<v Speaker 1>I did our history because I was torn between doing

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<v Speaker 1>psychology and art history. My older sister, with whom i'm

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<v Speaker 1>extremely close intellectually did psychology and it's the psychologist to

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<v Speaker 1>this day. But I have four sisters. I should add,

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<v Speaker 1>you're one of how many six? I'm one of six,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's positive science, right, one of six I had.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a whole other subject, but we I had

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<v Speaker 1>an extraordinary childhood, which I hope to write about it

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<v Speaker 1>in my next book after this one. But I had

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<v Speaker 1>seen an incredibly pretty girl going into the art history

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<v Speaker 1>department and I thought, that looks interesting. We're interested in psychology,

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<v Speaker 1>which tended to study what is she studying? And I've

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<v Speaker 1>found out and I followed her in and forty two

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<v Speaker 1>years later we're still married, so that worked out all right.

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<v Speaker 1>But it was also nice because I was talking. I

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<v Speaker 1>was you know how it is when you know that age,

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<v Speaker 1>you're agonized about everything. Everything is in agony. And I

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<v Speaker 1>said to my psychology advice, but what should I do

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<v Speaker 1>Should I do art history of psychology? It seemed hugely

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<v Speaker 1>important at the time. And he said, is this a

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<v Speaker 1>difficult decision? And I said yes, And he said, then

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<v Speaker 1>it's unimportant. He said, all difficult decisions in life are

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<v Speaker 1>unimportant because if they're difficult, that means there's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>to be said on both sides, so you can't really

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<v Speaker 1>take a wrong turn. My wife has a degree in

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<v Speaker 1>art history from n y U. And when I said

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<v Speaker 1>to her at one point, why that in a menu

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<v Speaker 1>of things you might have said, I said, why that?

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<v Speaker 1>And she goes cool. It's because it's the history of

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<v Speaker 1>the world of humanity, history of humanity and the history,

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<v Speaker 1>and it has this magical element, and that is that

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<v Speaker 1>you look at ill fixed pictures, at things that don't move,

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<v Speaker 1>that don't dramatize, that don't have you know, attached them,

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<v Speaker 1>and suddenly they seemed to sum up a period and epoch,

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<v Speaker 1>a mood of meaning you understand the Italian Renaissance better

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<v Speaker 1>by looking at Leonardo than you do by reading six

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<v Speaker 1>volumes on the period. So I loved it and still do.

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<v Speaker 1>I came to New York with, as I've written about

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<v Speaker 1>in my book, at the Stranger's Gate. We got on

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<v Speaker 1>a bus leaving Montreal like kids out of a nineteen

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<v Speaker 1>forties musical, and came to New York. The building where

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<v Speaker 1>we are right now we're writing, was where Martha had

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<v Speaker 1>her first job. She was a film editor at that time,

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<v Speaker 1>studying to be a film editor. Was was actually a

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<v Speaker 1>film editor. She was with eventually too, the Masals, but

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<v Speaker 1>she had trained with her parents were founding filmmakers for

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<v Speaker 1>the National Film Board of Canada. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>that means anything in American now, but it was the

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<v Speaker 1>great documentary are familiar and this was her first job,

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<v Speaker 1>and it is a sign of how different New York

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<v Speaker 1>is now. And then that this building on Ninth Aven

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<v Speaker 1>and was so isolated that I would come, I would

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<v Speaker 1>take her down on the subway in the morning and

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<v Speaker 1>pick her up again at night because they routinely found

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<v Speaker 1>dead bodies in the dumpster. And there was truly on

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<v Speaker 1>this block where now there's ah. You have your choice

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<v Speaker 1>between a great French, great restaurant of the south of

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<v Speaker 1>France and a fine bistro from Alsace. There was nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>There was absolutely nothing. So when you leave and you

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<v Speaker 1>come to New York, what motivated that decision. Why did

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<v Speaker 1>you want to come to go to graduate school at

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<v Speaker 1>n y U and not remain in Canada, go somewhere

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<v Speaker 1>else because it was a period of your life for

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<v Speaker 1>your fairly peripateticus. Yes, absolutely, but because we had fallen

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<v Speaker 1>in love with New York and it was I had

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<v Speaker 1>fallen crazy New York. Oh no, No, she was Icelandic

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<v Speaker 1>girl from Montreal. She was. It couldn't have been more

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<v Speaker 1>Canadian in background and temperament is to this day. But

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<v Speaker 1>we had been to New York and we had fallen

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<v Speaker 1>crazy in love with it the way you do, or

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<v Speaker 1>people have done historically. And then even then, even in

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<v Speaker 1>the seventies, and and my you know, my folks thought

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<v Speaker 1>we were a little bit crazy because there was the

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<v Speaker 1>Tali into the seventies in New York was still taxi

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<v Speaker 1>driving New York, you know, with steam coming out of

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<v Speaker 1>the manholes and psychos driving the cabs. But we had

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<v Speaker 1>fallen crazy in love with it, and I as I

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<v Speaker 1>am to this day, it's not. That's an emotion that's

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<v Speaker 1>never changed for me. And it seemed like a time

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<v Speaker 1>of possibility. And when you're twenty years old, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>it's hard to keep anybody away from anything. My father

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<v Speaker 1>came with me when we got on the bus going

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<v Speaker 1>down to Manhattan, and he said to me, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, you know d'artagnan's father and the three musketeers

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<v Speaker 1>seize him off from Gascony, if you remember, and says,

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<v Speaker 1>when you get to Paris, fight duels with everyone you meet,

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<v Speaker 1>which he then does and becomes a musketeer. My father

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<v Speaker 1>said to me when I was getting on the bus,

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<v Speaker 1>he said, when you get to New York, remember never

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<v Speaker 1>underestimate the other person's insecurity. And those turned out to

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<v Speaker 1>be the wisest words anyone has ever given me. And

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<v Speaker 1>every mistake I've made subsequently was because I underestimated someone

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<v Speaker 1>else's insecurity. And every time I've had an empathetic insight

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<v Speaker 1>into a situation, professionally or or personally, it's because I

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<v Speaker 1>remembered that. Remember my uncle, my father's youngest brother, who

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<v Speaker 1>was a bit of a for lack of a better

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<v Speaker 1>way of putting, was kind of a Karawackian figure like

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<v Speaker 1>around the road, very bohemian and very never had a job,

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<v Speaker 1>lived off of his Korean War pension, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a very strange guy, but super bright, super intellectual guy.

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<v Speaker 1>You're reading books, consult he said. Remember one thing, he said,

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<v Speaker 1>even if you really are one in a million, there's

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<v Speaker 1>seven other people like you in this city. So you

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<v Speaker 1>can form a little club with that. Then you can

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<v Speaker 1>hang out with your mind. People absolutely make a you

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<v Speaker 1>make a cohort instantly. In New York and my dad,

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<v Speaker 1>though it was the tail into the seventies, there was

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<v Speaker 1>still it was still in some ways a more if

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<v Speaker 1>I made attractive city than it is now because exactly

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<v Speaker 1>because there was so much that was decrepit and there

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<v Speaker 1>was so much that was despairing, there were these wonderful

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<v Speaker 1>little islands of light and poetry and music. When we

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<v Speaker 1>first came to New York, we used to go and

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<v Speaker 1>here the G eight jazz pianist Ellis Larkins play at

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<v Speaker 1>the Carnegie Tavern, which was this little bar right behind

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<v Speaker 1>Carnegie Hall, and there was this amazing jazz poet who

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<v Speaker 1>just played it sets a night. For the price we

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<v Speaker 1>weren't even we didn't even know enough to drink in

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<v Speaker 1>those days. For the price of a perier, you could

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<v Speaker 1>be in this cool dark room where this genius was,

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<v Speaker 1>this artatum level pianist was playing for free, reflectively, with

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<v Speaker 1>melancholy elegance night after night. That was part of the

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<v Speaker 1>magic of New York in that period before Uber and

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<v Speaker 1>so forth, mid to late eighties. I would get into

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<v Speaker 1>a cave only calves or the subway back then I

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<v Speaker 1>would say to the driver, how's the driving business. That

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<v Speaker 1>would strike a conversation with them. And the one guy

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<v Speaker 1>that I think he was Russian, he said that, he said,

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<v Speaker 1>New York is not the same in the more. He says,

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<v Speaker 1>all the artists are gone, he said, because of the

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<v Speaker 1>rent is so high. He said, all the artists are

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<v Speaker 1>leaving the city. He said. Now it's only these bankers

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<v Speaker 1>who get up in the morning and go running along

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<v Speaker 1>the reservoir, then go downtown and try to kill each other,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. And I remember there was I felt much

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<v Speaker 1>more romantic about New York. And then I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>true and the only um antidote I have to I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>we were lucky enough to come of age in a

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<v Speaker 1>rat infested loft in Soho at a time when Soho

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<v Speaker 1>was still an art village, and you would wake up

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning and you would see Richard Sarah walking

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<v Speaker 1>along Brent Street, scowling as he envisioned another monstrous wall

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<v Speaker 1>of cortense steel or uh. Donald Judd, the great minimalist,

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<v Speaker 1>was still occupying his house, which is now a little museum,

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<v Speaker 1>So you had a sense of those very specific energies

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<v Speaker 1>of art. I remember there was even a couple who

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<v Speaker 1>were literally manacled together for a year as a conceptual

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<v Speaker 1>art exercise, and you would see them going up and

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<v Speaker 1>down West Broadway in a state of total bliss and equanimity.

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<v Speaker 1>And so we were lucky enough to see that last frontier.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's true that one of the tragedies of New

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<v Speaker 1>York in my lifetime is is that those frontiers of

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<v Speaker 1>bohemia that had persisted since the Civil War really have vanished.

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<v Speaker 1>And yet when I say that, I recognized the limitations

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<v Speaker 1>of my own vision, because for my kids didn't experience

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<v Speaker 1>it that way. They experienced bed Sty, and they experienced Williamsburg,

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<v Speaker 1>and they experienced Brooklyn. You know, it was one of

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<v Speaker 1>the great transformations of our time. You know, I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>you've read because it's a favorite book of all of

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<v Speaker 1>us who love the theater, Moss Hearts, Act One, which

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<v Speaker 1>is a story about the subway. Basically, it's about getting

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<v Speaker 1>on the Subway in Brooklyn and being brought into the

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<v Speaker 1>wonders of Manhattan, and generations of imaginative New York pilgrims

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<v Speaker 1>made that trip from the Bronx of Brooklyn into town.

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<v Speaker 1>And then suddenly it was like the suction on a vacuum.

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<v Speaker 1>It suddenly turned the other way around right, and everyone

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<v Speaker 1>was departing Manhattan for Brooklyn and the Bronx. Remember my son,

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<v Speaker 1>Luke said to me at one point, very seriously, he said, Dad,

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<v Speaker 1>he said, you know, I know you like this neighborhood,

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<v Speaker 1>the Upper East Side, which you know I had mortgaged

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<v Speaker 1>every atom of carbon in my body in order to

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<v Speaker 1>provide for them as an abode. He said, but you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the food is so much better than Williamsburg. He said,

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<v Speaker 1>I really wanted to come out with me for my generation.

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<v Speaker 1>I I joke, I said, oh my god, Brooklyn was

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<v Speaker 1>where you would go to buy like serious hardcore drugs

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<v Speaker 1>or a gun. But there's two things when I look

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<v Speaker 1>at your your facts and so forth in your CD

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<v Speaker 1>that stand out to me that I'm always kind of

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<v Speaker 1>fascinated by. One is expatriotism. And you go live in

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<v Speaker 1>Paris for five years now? Was that the only long

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<v Speaker 1>term stay you had outside the United State. That was

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<v Speaker 1>the one and only. That was the one and only.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we've gone, you know, likes, we visited London,

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<v Speaker 1>and we've been kind of you know, regular habituaies of

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<v Speaker 1>Paris since, but that was the only extended time was

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<v Speaker 1>you know, what was it like for you to, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm assuming what was the Paris idea? Your idea someone

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<v Speaker 1>sent you because of you were you were, you were

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<v Speaker 1>commissioned because you were going to write these journals if

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<v Speaker 1>you will know you keep journals. It was our idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Martha and I had fallen in love with Paris and

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<v Speaker 1>with the idea of Paris. I guess we're sort of

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<v Speaker 1>constantly just loyal love is fall in love with New

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<v Speaker 1>York and fall in love with Paris and go on,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're not cheating on New York Paris exactly exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>It was our that was our lover. New York. New

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<v Speaker 1>York is our our spouse, and Paris our mistress. Someone

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<v Speaker 1>wrote a book with that title. By the way, Paris

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<v Speaker 1>was our mistress. But in any case, we had fallen

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<v Speaker 1>in love with it. And when our son Luke was

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<v Speaker 1>born in knew that if we didn't go now, then

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<v Speaker 1>we would be entrapped, if not entombed by New York

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<v Speaker 1>necessities preschool exactly. And so we decided to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>And I threw my cap over the wall. You know

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<v Speaker 1>a beautiful story of Frank O'Connor's, you know, when they

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<v Speaker 1>growing up as a poor Irish kitten cork and whenever

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<v Speaker 1>they came to a wall that was too high to scale,

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<v Speaker 1>all the little Irish ways threw their caps over the wall.

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<v Speaker 1>Because once your cap was on the other side of

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<v Speaker 1>the wall, you had no choice but defined a way over.

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<v Speaker 1>You couldn't go home without your cap. And I've always

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<v Speaker 1>thought that's a lovely image of the key moments we

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<v Speaker 1>have in life. So threw my cap over the wall,

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<v Speaker 1>said to the wonderful Tina Brown, who was then the

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<v Speaker 1>editor of The New Yorker, Listen, I really really want

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<v Speaker 1>to go to Paris. And bless her, she said, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>go go to Paris. Right to us from right for

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<v Speaker 1>us from Paris, And so we off, off we went.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was I don't think I had this fully

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<v Speaker 1>formed as a thought, but it was some kind of intuition.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew Paris would be a more interesting place to

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<v Speaker 1>write about than London exactly because it threatened to become

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<v Speaker 1>a bit of a backwater. You know, it was a

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<v Speaker 1>time I loved the nineties. I thought the nineties were great.

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<v Speaker 1>They were as good as the nine nineties, were as

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<v Speaker 1>good as the eighteen nineties, and lots of ways. But

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<v Speaker 1>there was this encircling girdle of American life, in American influence,

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<v Speaker 1>which you felt very strongly in London. In those days

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<v Speaker 1>it was kind of triumphant Anglo Saxism, and France and

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<v Speaker 1>Paris were the last place to resist that, so you

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<v Speaker 1>were actually witnessing the alternative, like the little Gaulish village

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<v Speaker 1>in the Asteris comics. This was the last place that

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<v Speaker 1>was going on. So I knew would be a more

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<v Speaker 1>interesting place to write about, because losers, so to speak,

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<v Speaker 1>are always more interesting to write about than winners. And

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<v Speaker 1>and we settled in and those were five amazing years.

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<v Speaker 1>They were also, you know, there's a moment I think

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<v Speaker 1>in every from nine till two thousand and one really

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<v Speaker 1>came home to nine eleven. Also, I think in every

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<v Speaker 1>writer's life, and this may be true of every artist's life,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it is true of every artist's life there's

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<v Speaker 1>a moment when you sort of know you've hit it,

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<v Speaker 1>when you find your voice, you find your stance, and

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<v Speaker 1>you sort of know, even if you don't like me,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to admit that this is good. And I

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<v Speaker 1>felt that way writing in Paris for the first time.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been writing for a decade for The New Yorker already,

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<v Speaker 1>but I sort of knew when I wrote my first piece,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, Oh, this voice is mine. This voice is appealing.

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<v Speaker 1>There's something about the way I can write here with

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<v Speaker 1>a certain kind of ride attachment, but also with a

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<v Speaker 1>certain kind of lyrical enthusiasm. I felt, I knew that

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<v Speaker 1>it was working. And there's just there's no feeling as

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<v Speaker 1>good in a writer's life as that moment when you

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<v Speaker 1>when you know inside there's literally a kind of physical vibration,

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<v Speaker 1>a hum when you sit down to your typewriter or

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<v Speaker 1>computer when you feel that. And I felt that so

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<v Speaker 1>strongly in Paris, author Adam Gopnik. If you're enjoying insights

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<v Speaker 1>into the inner workings of The New Yorker, listen to

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<v Speaker 1>my conversation with an author formerly at the helm of

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<v Speaker 1>the publication, Editor in Chief Extraordinaire, Tina brown Well I

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<v Speaker 1>think I'm a compulsive reporter. Actually, I mean I have

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<v Speaker 1>what I think of as observation greed. Right most of

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<v Speaker 1>the time, I'm propelled to go out, not because I

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<v Speaker 1>actually want to go out, but I think I got

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<v Speaker 1>to see that, you know, I need to see that. Curious.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really curious, and I have a great desire to

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<v Speaker 1>report on the action. Here the rest of my conversation

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<v Speaker 1>with Tina Brown in our archives at Here's the Thing

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<v Speaker 1>dot org. After the Break, Adam got Nick shares the

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<v Speaker 1>secret to a perfect marriage. I'm Alec Baldwin and you're

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<v Speaker 1>listening to Here's the Thing writer Adam got Nick. This

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<v Speaker 1>family spent five years living in France. In his time there,

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<v Speaker 1>he composed the Paris Journal for the New Yorker magazine,

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<v Speaker 1>as well as a collection of essays the New York

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<v Speaker 1>Times best selling Paris to the Moon. I was curious

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<v Speaker 1>why he decided to leave the City of Lights after

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<v Speaker 1>what seemed to be such a charmed and eventful time there.

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<v Speaker 1>That was our decision as well, Martha. We had just

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<v Speaker 1>had our new baby, Olivia, and which was sort of

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<v Speaker 1>the climactic, the culminating episode, and what I knew would

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<v Speaker 1>be the book that I had organized, and Martha said

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<v Speaker 1>to me, you know, in New York we have a

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<v Speaker 1>full life, but an unbeautiful existence, and in Paris we

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<v Speaker 1>have a beautiful existence, but not a full life. And

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<v Speaker 1>we had to make that choice. It's a choice I've

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<v Speaker 1>often regretted. Frankly, Alex and I still love Paris deeply

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<v Speaker 1>and have thought of it, but it Our son Luke

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<v Speaker 1>was about to start serious school, and he had been

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<v Speaker 1>to preschool, in kindergarten and first grade in Paris. And

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<v Speaker 1>I love France and I love French culture, but the

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<v Speaker 1>worst side of French culture is French education. It's brutal,

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<v Speaker 1>it's very effective, and you know, the kids emerge being

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<v Speaker 1>able to recite Ruscine and give you the square root

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<v Speaker 1>of sixty in a way kids in our schools, yes, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you don't necessarily, but it's a hard life.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you're there from eight in the morning till

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<v Speaker 1>four and in the afternoon. A good thing about it

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<v Speaker 1>is that French kids tend to be sensitive in a

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<v Speaker 1>way that American kids are often spoiled, because they're aware

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<v Speaker 1>from a very early age that existence is unappeasable, authority

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<v Speaker 1>is unappeasable. We don't teach our kids that authority is

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<v Speaker 1>unappeasable until it smacks them on the side of the

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<v Speaker 1>head when their nineteen or twenty and they start working

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<v Speaker 1>or joined the army or whatever. I often think, Luke, my,

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<v Speaker 1>my wonderful son was a philosopher. Now, on his first

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<v Speaker 1>day at school, went in New York. And I came

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<v Speaker 1>home and said, how was it? And he said, Dad,

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<v Speaker 1>the teachers are too nice. And I said, what do

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<v Speaker 1>you mean, teachers? Everything you do they say is good.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, I drew a picture of myself. It wasn't good, Dad.

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<v Speaker 1>The nose was too big in the ears were wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>and they said it's wonderful. We're going to put it

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<v Speaker 1>right up on the Picasso. Hello. Yes, And I said,

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<v Speaker 1>what would they have said in Paris? Oh, in Paris

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<v Speaker 1>they would say, no, it does it's nothing. It's it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's nothing. And he spotted instantly the profound insincerity of

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<v Speaker 1>American education, the superficiality of the encouragement that we often

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<v Speaker 1>give to kids. It's unearned, you know, he just as

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<v Speaker 1>you've done it, so it's good. I find that for me. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm sixty four years old, and I got

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<v Speaker 1>remarried and I have six children. The oldest is eight.

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<v Speaker 1>I have I have six children, eight, six, five, three

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<v Speaker 1>about to before one and a half and one because

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<v Speaker 1>the sixth one is a surrogate and my wife is

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<v Speaker 1>pregnant again with our seven child. So, and I have

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<v Speaker 1>an older daughter, SO who's twenty seven this year, she's

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<v Speaker 1>twenty seven. But my point is is that you know,

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<v Speaker 1>in school with them now, the thing that we're navigating

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<v Speaker 1>not in some overwhelming way or some you know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's sporadic. Is this me two time up thing where

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<v Speaker 1>people's behavior which is like, you know, innocent boys will

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<v Speaker 1>be boys and people say off handed things as kids

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<v Speaker 1>just shock each other. Now it's like people are marched

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<v Speaker 1>down to an office and a report is filled out

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<v Speaker 1>and filed, and you know, it's like a zero tolerance,

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<v Speaker 1>zero tolerance for some acts of childhood. Y. Yeah, you know,

0:23:20.720 --> 0:23:22.800
<v Speaker 1>we didn't experience that directly because our kids kind of

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<v Speaker 1>just missed it. Right we're in college, but by that time.

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<v Speaker 1>But I certainly, and it's the subject of the book

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<v Speaker 1>I'm working on I'm trying to finish for tomorrow, literally

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<v Speaker 1>for tomorrow right now, is that American life is attuned

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<v Speaker 1>to achievement. Past the next test, get into the next grade,

0:23:37.000 --> 0:23:39.560
<v Speaker 1>get into the right college. And there's something very empty

0:23:39.600 --> 0:23:42.760
<v Speaker 1>about that hamster wheel of achievement that we put kids on.

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<v Speaker 1>And your kids are aware now they're how old and

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<v Speaker 1>there are there beyond college? Luke, No, they're both still

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<v Speaker 1>in University Lucas twenty six and he's getting his PhD

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<v Speaker 1>in philosophy at University of Texas at Austin. And Olivia

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<v Speaker 1>is uh twenty one, and she's five years younger to

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<v Speaker 1>the day, which tells you, I'm thinking the same birthday,

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<v Speaker 1>the same birthday, and and they and she's at Harvard,

0:24:04.359 --> 0:24:06.879
<v Speaker 1>she's in her third year at Heart. She's switched. She

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<v Speaker 1>was in government originally. You know, they only have really

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<v Speaker 1>one subject at Harvard that they teach world domination, and

0:24:13.520 --> 0:24:16.359
<v Speaker 1>so she switched from the government side of world domination

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<v Speaker 1>to the history side of world domination. Now I'm told

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<v Speaker 1>by friends who know you and I know a bit

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<v Speaker 1>about you, they told me that you have the perfect marriage. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I hope that's true. We have been married

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<v Speaker 1>for a very long time and have been through every

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<v Speaker 1>twist and turn that life can offer. From migration to

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<v Speaker 1>New York at the age of twenty on a bus,

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<v Speaker 1>to children, raising children, watching children leave home, which is

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<v Speaker 1>a big one. And through it all we've been remarkably

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<v Speaker 1>harmonious and happy. I give Martha all the credit in

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<v Speaker 1>the world for that. It's not I'm the difficult, jumpy,

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<v Speaker 1>moody one. And she's a woman of incredible equanimity and

0:24:58.600 --> 0:25:02.159
<v Speaker 1>insight and general steve spirit. And she's the caregiver to

0:25:02.240 --> 0:25:05.040
<v Speaker 1>the kids, to the dog, to me, and she's an

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<v Speaker 1>extraordinary woman. So I feel that that's, you know, the

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<v Speaker 1>most profound blessing in my life. Certainly in your writing

0:25:11.000 --> 0:25:13.439
<v Speaker 1>career where you go from g Q onto the New

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<v Speaker 1>Yorker was writing? I mean, you're making these observations about

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<v Speaker 1>art to fantastic schools, and you go on to do

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<v Speaker 1>it at the graduate level. And is the soul of

0:25:23.280 --> 0:25:27.000
<v Speaker 1>the writer always there and you're writing during your college career,

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<v Speaker 1>or when do you you become the guy that gets

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<v Speaker 1>hired by the GQ magazine. I never wanted to be

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<v Speaker 1>anything else but a writer from the age of ten,

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<v Speaker 1>I can I can locate it to a particular moment.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, I was a crazy reader as a kid.

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<v Speaker 1>I love to read. I read The Therber Carnival literally

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<v Speaker 1>till the pages came off in my hands in bed

0:25:43.000 --> 0:25:45.600
<v Speaker 1>when I was six and seven. But at the age

0:25:45.600 --> 0:25:48.080
<v Speaker 1>of ten, I wanted to go see a spy movie,

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<v Speaker 1>very bad spy movie, a Man from Uncle movie. And

0:25:50.160 --> 0:25:51.960
<v Speaker 1>my parents had said, yes, you could go on Saturday,

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<v Speaker 1>then on Friday the way parents will as I'm sure

0:25:54.040 --> 0:25:55.800
<v Speaker 1>you do, as I have done. So oh, no, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna work, because we have to do this. And

0:25:57.200 --> 0:25:59.320
<v Speaker 1>I was so hurt and indignant. I went back to

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<v Speaker 1>my room and I a ten page letter of protests,

0:26:01.880 --> 0:26:04.960
<v Speaker 1>which I slipped under their door, and my dad's sweet

0:26:04.960 --> 0:26:07.520
<v Speaker 1>good manity is and was came and said, oh, I

0:26:07.560 --> 0:26:09.280
<v Speaker 1>didn't realize you felt this strongly about You really have

0:26:09.280 --> 0:26:12.440
<v Speaker 1>expressed yourself here. Of course you can go. And I said, oh,

0:26:12.480 --> 0:26:16.119
<v Speaker 1>that's interesting. You can put words down on paper in

0:26:16.200 --> 0:26:19.840
<v Speaker 1>ways to change the inner workings of someone else's mind.

0:26:20.200 --> 0:26:23.359
<v Speaker 1>And I felt an enormous power that was implicit and

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<v Speaker 1>inherent in that activity. Never wanted to me anything but

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<v Speaker 1>a writer. And though I did do art history, and

0:26:27.680 --> 0:26:30.399
<v Speaker 1>I was blessed, as I said at the at the

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<v Speaker 1>beginning of our conversation to have worked with a genuinely

0:26:33.240 --> 0:26:35.440
<v Speaker 1>inspired and great teacher. I never really wanted to do

0:26:35.520 --> 0:26:37.760
<v Speaker 1>art history. Art history was just an excuse. I mean,

0:26:37.760 --> 0:26:39.520
<v Speaker 1>I never wanted to do it professionally. It was an

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<v Speaker 1>excuse for getting to New York and being able to

0:26:42.240 --> 0:26:44.119
<v Speaker 1>tell my parents I was going to study, not to

0:26:44.720 --> 0:26:47.000
<v Speaker 1>walk the streets and try and sell my songs, which

0:26:47.080 --> 0:26:48.680
<v Speaker 1>was the reality of what we're going to get to

0:26:48.760 --> 0:26:52.639
<v Speaker 1>music in the world of magazines and that publishing world.

0:26:52.920 --> 0:26:55.080
<v Speaker 1>I grew up and you took about reading as a child.

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<v Speaker 1>I devoured everything from when I was ten to twelve

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<v Speaker 1>years old. I was reading The Godfather when I was ten,

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<v Speaker 1>yars or all or whatever. And and my point is

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<v Speaker 1>that g Q, you know, the Nick Poleeggie era New

0:27:05.320 --> 0:27:09.480
<v Speaker 1>York magazine, when Felker was running all the that bike

0:27:09.600 --> 0:27:12.000
<v Speaker 1>on era. I mean, I feel like magazines were very,

0:27:12.080 --> 0:27:14.840
<v Speaker 1>very different. Obviously then all magazines were the heart of

0:27:14.880 --> 0:27:17.439
<v Speaker 1>American culture in in that period, even when I mean

0:27:17.480 --> 0:27:20.080
<v Speaker 1>there had been since the nineteen twenties at least, and

0:27:20.119 --> 0:27:22.520
<v Speaker 1>they still were in the nineteen eighties. And you know,

0:27:22.600 --> 0:27:25.840
<v Speaker 1>Condemnast was a kind of temple. It was a strange

0:27:25.920 --> 0:27:29.760
<v Speaker 1>mysterious os run by the remote figure of signed new house.

0:27:29.800 --> 0:27:32.320
<v Speaker 1>With all of these glamorous magazines, everyone had a car.

0:27:32.359 --> 0:27:33.919
<v Speaker 1>So when I went to work, you know, I just

0:27:33.960 --> 0:27:36.399
<v Speaker 1>wanted a job. I really just wanted a job that

0:27:36.520 --> 0:27:39.240
<v Speaker 1>involved putting words on paper and seeing them in print.

0:27:39.240 --> 0:27:41.919
<v Speaker 1>I would have taken any job that there was, and

0:27:42.000 --> 0:27:45.320
<v Speaker 1>I was lucky enough to get a job as the

0:27:45.440 --> 0:27:48.920
<v Speaker 1>at first the fashion copy editor of GQ magazine. That

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<v Speaker 1>was my first grown up job, and that meant, you know,

0:27:51.040 --> 0:27:53.560
<v Speaker 1>fashion copy of the little blocks of type that appear

0:27:53.720 --> 0:27:56.199
<v Speaker 1>next to close in fashion magazines, you know, where they

0:27:56.200 --> 0:27:59.000
<v Speaker 1>have little kind of illiterateti tags. They're called, you know,

0:27:59.240 --> 0:28:02.400
<v Speaker 1>summer shirts, and then there's a like ten line description

0:28:02.480 --> 0:28:05.159
<v Speaker 1>of the of the summer shirts. And my job was

0:28:05.640 --> 0:28:08.639
<v Speaker 1>to edit and rewrite those things. And I thought I

0:28:08.680 --> 0:28:10.520
<v Speaker 1>was at the heart of show business. I thought it

0:28:10.560 --> 0:28:14.000
<v Speaker 1>was the greatest job anybody had ever given. And as

0:28:14.040 --> 0:28:17.520
<v Speaker 1>I tell in at the Stranger's Gate, I came up

0:28:17.600 --> 0:28:20.520
<v Speaker 1>with a two line and a literative tag to word,

0:28:20.560 --> 0:28:24.760
<v Speaker 1>a literative tag so potent it was simply Kiara scoro

0:28:24.920 --> 0:28:27.840
<v Speaker 1>chic for a group of glowing linen shirts. Kiara scorer

0:28:27.960 --> 0:28:30.720
<v Speaker 1>cheek that they promoted me on the strength of those

0:28:30.720 --> 0:28:34.480
<v Speaker 1>two to become the grooming editor. And then I was

0:28:34.520 --> 0:28:38.200
<v Speaker 1>responsible for all of the copy about lotions and moisturizers,

0:28:38.200 --> 0:28:42.440
<v Speaker 1>and they're in shampoo's except for fragrances, which was specially

0:28:42.480 --> 0:28:46.800
<v Speaker 1>because basically those magazines depend on Yes, there's another floor

0:28:46.800 --> 0:28:50.200
<v Speaker 1>and another thing and the thing I can't convey adequately.

0:28:50.400 --> 0:28:52.120
<v Speaker 1>I loved it. I loved every minute of it. I

0:28:52.120 --> 0:28:54.200
<v Speaker 1>never thought for a moment, why am I wasting my

0:28:54.320 --> 0:28:58.920
<v Speaker 1>talent splitting words and hairs and coming up nodly? Did

0:28:58.920 --> 0:29:00.600
<v Speaker 1>I give it a go? But I else it's and

0:29:00.600 --> 0:29:03.000
<v Speaker 1>it's very difficult to recreate this time for our kids.

0:29:03.160 --> 0:29:06.000
<v Speaker 1>You know, Now you write something and you posted online

0:29:06.000 --> 0:29:08.320
<v Speaker 1>and a million people can see it. Right at that period,

0:29:08.400 --> 0:29:09.880
<v Speaker 1>it was sort of I said to my kids. It

0:29:09.920 --> 0:29:12.720
<v Speaker 1>was there were like two hundred computers and all of

0:29:12.880 --> 0:29:14.680
<v Speaker 1>New York, and you wanted to get your hands on

0:29:14.680 --> 0:29:16.400
<v Speaker 1>one of them, and it kind of didn't matter which

0:29:16.440 --> 0:29:17.960
<v Speaker 1>one you got your hands on. The village voice of

0:29:18.040 --> 0:29:21.960
<v Speaker 1>the Soho News obviously not to be disingenuous, The golden

0:29:22.480 --> 0:29:24.560
<v Speaker 1>machine was the New Yorker, and that's very much where

0:29:24.600 --> 0:29:26.960
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to go and where I dreamt of going.

0:29:27.320 --> 0:29:30.160
<v Speaker 1>But I was just delighted to be in this business

0:29:30.200 --> 0:29:33.000
<v Speaker 1>of turning words on paper into words in print. It

0:29:33.120 --> 0:29:36.360
<v Speaker 1>just filled me with joy, and so I had to

0:29:36.840 --> 0:29:39.760
<v Speaker 1>I had terrific, a terrific couple of years doing that,

0:29:39.920 --> 0:29:43.080
<v Speaker 1>and my kids is still astounded because in a couple

0:29:43.120 --> 0:29:46.600
<v Speaker 1>of occasions I crept into a fashion story as a

0:29:46.640 --> 0:29:49.160
<v Speaker 1>haircut story once. That's how I met the wonderful photographer

0:29:49.160 --> 0:29:52.240
<v Speaker 1>Brigitte Lacombe. She came in it did my portrait, and

0:29:52.280 --> 0:29:55.280
<v Speaker 1>that wonderful French woman. It gets more French with every

0:29:55.320 --> 0:29:58.160
<v Speaker 1>succeeding year that she's in America, and she came into

0:29:58.240 --> 0:30:01.120
<v Speaker 1>my picture, and the kids, having a a glimpse of

0:30:01.160 --> 0:30:05.360
<v Speaker 1>that moment of improbable glamour, are still impressed. Martha actually,

0:30:05.680 --> 0:30:09.800
<v Speaker 1>who had modeled in Canada and was extraordinarily beautiful woman

0:30:09.920 --> 0:30:12.720
<v Speaker 1>still is, had a whole story about her and Mademoiselle,

0:30:13.120 --> 0:30:15.400
<v Speaker 1>and the kids still think that this is, you know,

0:30:15.560 --> 0:30:18.000
<v Speaker 1>just unreal. This is not your parents, This is the

0:30:18.120 --> 0:30:21.240
<v Speaker 1>two other people. What other magazines do you think are

0:30:21.240 --> 0:30:23.720
<v Speaker 1>holding their own in the world today. Oh, it's a

0:30:23.800 --> 0:30:25.680
<v Speaker 1>it's a good question. I read the New York Review

0:30:25.720 --> 0:30:28.360
<v Speaker 1>of Books which I think is still a thriving enterprise.

0:30:28.760 --> 0:30:32.160
<v Speaker 1>I read specific people a lot, and that's one of

0:30:32.200 --> 0:30:35.000
<v Speaker 1>the things that for good or ill, that the digital

0:30:35.000 --> 0:30:37.560
<v Speaker 1>areas and it's disaggregated magazines a lot. So I read

0:30:37.640 --> 0:30:40.400
<v Speaker 1>John Chait in the in New York, for instance, not

0:30:40.480 --> 0:30:42.600
<v Speaker 1>that I don't read New York Magazine, but I read

0:30:42.640 --> 0:30:46.160
<v Speaker 1>that specifically. Or I read David Frum in The Atlantic,

0:30:46.160 --> 0:30:49.000
<v Speaker 1>and not to the exclusion of other Atlantic right, not

0:30:49.040 --> 0:30:52.240
<v Speaker 1>to the exclusion of other people. Yeah, it's you know,

0:30:52.280 --> 0:30:55.680
<v Speaker 1>it comes more naturally that you you're online and you're

0:30:56.200 --> 0:30:58.800
<v Speaker 1>you see that someone's tweeted something interesting. I try and

0:30:58.840 --> 0:31:02.280
<v Speaker 1>read our magazine and New Yorker, of course, but I

0:31:02.600 --> 0:31:04.880
<v Speaker 1>do think we've done a pretty good job of staying

0:31:05.320 --> 0:31:06.800
<v Speaker 1>I hate the word relevant. I hope we've done a

0:31:06.800 --> 0:31:08.920
<v Speaker 1>good job of staying irrelevant in the sense that I

0:31:09.320 --> 0:31:11.360
<v Speaker 1>that you when you open the magazine, I would hope

0:31:11.600 --> 0:31:13.480
<v Speaker 1>that you don't know what you're going to read about,

0:31:13.520 --> 0:31:15.520
<v Speaker 1>and that the basic gambit of The New Yorker has

0:31:15.560 --> 0:31:18.520
<v Speaker 1>always been well, it was not unlike when I was

0:31:18.560 --> 0:31:21.600
<v Speaker 1>in Paris. As you say, Paris, I'm not interested in Paris.

0:31:21.640 --> 0:31:23.560
<v Speaker 1>Why should I be interested in Paris. What's this guy? Oh,

0:31:23.920 --> 0:31:26.200
<v Speaker 1>this is kind of interesting, This is kind of funny. Okay,

0:31:26.200 --> 0:31:29.240
<v Speaker 1>I'll stick with this. No, we're in your wheelhouse. Do

0:31:29.320 --> 0:31:31.680
<v Speaker 1>you see a place or did you ever contemplate a

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<v Speaker 1>place for a film? Oh? I always kind of played

0:31:34.480 --> 0:31:36.600
<v Speaker 1>a place for film and that. And Martha, my wife,

0:31:36.640 --> 0:31:39.520
<v Speaker 1>is a filmmaker and all of that, and like every

0:31:39.600 --> 0:31:42.880
<v Speaker 1>she's still doing that totally. Yes, indeed, she's she's producing

0:31:42.920 --> 0:31:46.480
<v Speaker 1>and writing screenplays now gone on from editing. So it's

0:31:46.520 --> 0:31:48.400
<v Speaker 1>very much a presence in our house and has been

0:31:48.440 --> 0:31:50.280
<v Speaker 1>for forty some years. I've tried my hand a couple

0:31:50.320 --> 0:31:53.640
<v Speaker 1>of times at screenplace and never really, you know, never

0:31:53.760 --> 0:31:56.719
<v Speaker 1>quite felt at home doing that. I've collaborated with her,

0:31:56.760 --> 0:31:58.880
<v Speaker 1>and I think we've done some nice things, but I've

0:31:58.920 --> 0:32:01.360
<v Speaker 1>never really I love movies, you know, in my life.

0:32:01.400 --> 0:32:03.280
<v Speaker 1>In fact, I will be honest with you, you know,

0:32:03.280 --> 0:32:04.960
<v Speaker 1>I would have been delighted and had my life taken

0:32:05.000 --> 0:32:07.640
<v Speaker 1>a slightly different turn, and that had been a bigger

0:32:07.640 --> 0:32:09.960
<v Speaker 1>part of it. I love I love him. I truly

0:32:10.040 --> 0:32:12.600
<v Speaker 1>love the theater, and so writing for the theater is

0:32:12.600 --> 0:32:15.560
<v Speaker 1>at the center of my my feelings and something I've

0:32:15.600 --> 0:32:18.280
<v Speaker 1>I've been able to do. But there was an, if

0:32:18.280 --> 0:32:20.240
<v Speaker 1>I can tell a funny story, that was a moment

0:32:20.240 --> 0:32:22.600
<v Speaker 1>because all you know, like every writer, your stuff gets

0:32:22.600 --> 0:32:24.760
<v Speaker 1>optioned for the movies and then bought for the movies,

0:32:24.840 --> 0:32:27.120
<v Speaker 1>and then the script has developed and so on. And

0:32:27.120 --> 0:32:29.640
<v Speaker 1>there was a moment in our history when I had

0:32:29.640 --> 0:32:32.960
<v Speaker 1>written a story called Bumping into Charlie Ravioli about my

0:32:33.040 --> 0:32:36.800
<v Speaker 1>daughter Olivia's imaginary friend, which had become a well known

0:32:36.840 --> 0:32:40.840
<v Speaker 1>and anthologized and the studio wanted to option it for

0:32:40.840 --> 0:32:42.520
<v Speaker 1>a movie. And then they looked into the contract and

0:32:42.520 --> 0:32:46.680
<v Speaker 1>discovered that Harvey Weinstein had bought outright Paris the Moon

0:32:46.760 --> 0:32:49.320
<v Speaker 1>for another movie, and he had bought the characters in

0:32:49.320 --> 0:32:53.320
<v Speaker 1>that book in perpetuity, and the leading characters. So since

0:32:53.360 --> 0:32:55.320
<v Speaker 1>the leading characters in that book where me and our

0:32:55.320 --> 0:32:59.040
<v Speaker 1>son Luke, we couldn't be in the movie of Charlie Ravioli.

0:32:59.240 --> 0:33:00.800
<v Speaker 1>So there was a moment, Man, how's this for a

0:33:00.960 --> 0:33:03.560
<v Speaker 1>twenty one century moment when half of our family was

0:33:03.600 --> 0:33:05.880
<v Speaker 1>owned by Mirramax and the other half were owned by

0:33:06.000 --> 0:33:08.600
<v Speaker 1>Sony Pictures, right, and they would have to negotiate like

0:33:08.640 --> 0:33:11.680
<v Speaker 1>the gopnic cinematic universe to have us all in in

0:33:11.760 --> 0:33:14.440
<v Speaker 1>one movie. But no, I've never I've never written a movie.

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<v Speaker 1>I was telling that my producers that in my lifetime

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<v Speaker 1>there were two names that would vex me because I

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<v Speaker 1>was around super sophisticated people who would pronounce their names differently.

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<v Speaker 1>They called him Richard Avden. Yes, Brits would call him

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<v Speaker 1>Richard Avedon, and I thought, that's not how I learned it.

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<v Speaker 1>And a woman I worked with, who was a very

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<v Speaker 1>famous and internationally famous model, pronounced the designs named Balanchanga

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<v Speaker 1>but described to me you being I guess adopted by Avedon.

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<v Speaker 1>Dick Avedon was with Kirk Varnett of the great influence

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<v Speaker 1>on my life, and when I think about everything that

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<v Speaker 1>I wear, eat, look at, was very much still under

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<v Speaker 1>his influence and spiritual agis. He was an extraordinary man,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously a great photographer, but also a man, an incandescent

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<v Speaker 1>force in the world, a man of limitless energy and

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<v Speaker 1>and mischief and fun, but also a very serious artist.

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<v Speaker 1>And one of the things that he wanted to implant

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<v Speaker 1>in me, and as I say, he really adopted Martin

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<v Speaker 1>me as as kind of surrogad kids, was that it

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<v Speaker 1>was possible to live a very rich and good and

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<v Speaker 1>pleasure enhanced life, pleasure, affirming life, and at the same

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<v Speaker 1>time be a serious artist author Adam Gopneck. If you're

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<v Speaker 1>enjoying this conversation, be sure to subscribe to Hear is

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<v Speaker 1>the Thing on the I Heart Radio app, Apple Podcasts

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<v Speaker 1>or wherever you get your podcasts. When we come back,

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<v Speaker 1>Adam Gopnick tells us the most audacious thing he's ever written.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Alec Baldwin and this is Here's the Thing from

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<v Speaker 1>my Heart Radio. From art criticism to children's literature to

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<v Speaker 1>food writing, no genre is off limits for Adam Gopnik. Recently,

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<v Speaker 1>he expanded his resume even further into musical theater as

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<v Speaker 1>a book writer and lyricist. When I first came to

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<v Speaker 1>New York, it was to be a songwriter. I had

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<v Speaker 1>a cassette of my songs, and I had written The

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<v Speaker 1>College Show, which was based on the life of Vladimir Tatlin,

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<v Speaker 1>the Russian constructivist architect. And I assumed I was three

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<v Speaker 1>weeks from Broadway, when are we gonna get our hands

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<v Speaker 1>on that on that musical? So I I actually have

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<v Speaker 1>promised our friends Marcy Hysler and seen a good rich

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<v Speaker 1>that I would do one of the songs from the

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<v Speaker 1>show at one of their four Below evenings. So that

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<v Speaker 1>was my ambition, and I wasn't able to push it forward.

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to be Stephen Sante, not not John Updyke,

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<v Speaker 1>could have become either one, but I've you know. But

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<v Speaker 1>my other ambition was to be an essayist from New

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<v Speaker 1>York Is. So that did work out. And then it

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<v Speaker 1>had always been very much part of my life, caring

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<v Speaker 1>passionately about the musical theater and writing songs for all

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<v Speaker 1>occasions and writing lyrics. And then um, the great American

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<v Speaker 1>composer David Shire approached me about writing a musical with him.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know it at the time, but he had

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<v Speaker 1>said to his wonderful wife, d d Con why don't

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<v Speaker 1>guys like this everyone to write for the musical theater. Indeed,

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<v Speaker 1>he had said to well, you don't know, maybe he does.

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<v Speaker 1>And she approached me at a theatrical thing and said,

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<v Speaker 1>would you be interested in writing a show with my

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<v Speaker 1>husband David Shire? And I said, I can't imagine anything

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<v Speaker 1>in the world I would rather do. So David and

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<v Speaker 1>I got to work and we wrote a show together

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<v Speaker 1>called Our Table. We wrote more than sixties songs, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean complete finished piano vocal songs about a little restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>struggling to survive in New York, and Melissa Erico came

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<v Speaker 1>in to play the lead of the female lead in

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<v Speaker 1>a workshop and I was astounded by her gifts because

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<v Speaker 1>my stuff is literary and it involves a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>complicated puns and ambivalent emotions. She's super bright woman, and

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<v Speaker 1>she was It was like in a fairy tale. She

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<v Speaker 1>was the first musical theater performing edition. Very beautiful. I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't an unbelievably voice like a Mozart flute, as someone

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<v Speaker 1>once said. She understood everything that I was writing and

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<v Speaker 1>could deliver all of those bitter sweet, ambivalent, complex emotions.

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<v Speaker 1>So we did a full production of it, which unfortunately

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<v Speaker 1>she couldn't be in out in New Haven. Like every

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<v Speaker 1>musical goes to try out and often die. And it's

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<v Speaker 1>still the thing. I'm proud of stuff. We have a

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<v Speaker 1>very good live concert recording of it that we did

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<v Speaker 1>at fifty four below with Melissa singing the lead along

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<v Speaker 1>with Andy Taylor and Constantine Marules. Is that available? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it is on Spotify with a beautiful cover by Brigitte Lacom.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually Brigitte did us a wonderful cover image. You go

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<v Speaker 1>on Spotify our table Adam Copnick, Melissa Erico. So we

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<v Speaker 1>did that, and then Melissa and I enjoyed working together enormously,

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<v Speaker 1>So I started writing all kinds, especially material for David.

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<v Speaker 1>And I wrote a song which I love called Cry

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<v Speaker 1>for Joy, this kind of a theme song for her

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<v Speaker 1>swing show. Wrote a lot of parodies, and then she's

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<v Speaker 1>just done a beautiful album of film noir inspired music,

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<v Speaker 1>but no music. Oh no. On the tray, I was

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<v Speaker 1>just about to say on the country, it's occupying an

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<v Speaker 1>ever larger part of my life. I have two new

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<v Speaker 1>shows underway with Andrew Lippap, who wrote The Adams Family

0:38:08.239 --> 0:38:10.600
<v Speaker 1>and The Wild Party, and David Shayer and I are

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<v Speaker 1>in the middle. Were about one acting to a new

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<v Speaker 1>show for Melissa called Troubadour right now, about the invention

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<v Speaker 1>of the love song at the court of Eleanor of

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<v Speaker 1>Aquitaine in the in the thirteenth century. As I say,

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<v Speaker 1>I love the theater nothing in life. There's a song

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<v Speaker 1>in our table called It's Never Reigning in Seattle, which,

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<v Speaker 1>of all the countless things I've done political books and

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<v Speaker 1>family memoirs and and so on, is a single thing

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<v Speaker 1>I probably proudest stuff because it's a song about the

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<v Speaker 1>necessity of lying to your children. In the situation in

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<v Speaker 1>the in the show is that the father that chef

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<v Speaker 1>has been telling his beloved daughter, who was very much

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<v Speaker 1>modeled on my Olivia for years, that they have an

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<v Speaker 1>offer in Seattle, but never moved to Seattle because it

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<v Speaker 1>rains all the time in Seattle. You have to bring

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<v Speaker 1>the customers out like sponges before you see them never

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<v Speaker 1>going to Seattle. Rains all the time. And finally they

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<v Speaker 1>have to go to Seattle because they lose the restaurant.

0:38:59.000 --> 0:39:01.239
<v Speaker 1>And then he's she says to him, you know, it

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<v Speaker 1>rains all the time in Seattle, and then he sings

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<v Speaker 1>to this song it's never raining in Seattle. And for me,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what we do with our children, you know, we

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<v Speaker 1>have to There never been a song about how we

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<v Speaker 1>have to lie to our children sometimes to reassure them

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<v Speaker 1>of the of the salubriousness of the world. That's the

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<v Speaker 1>thing I'm proud of. Stiff. What are you working on now?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just I mean literally finishing four to send to

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<v Speaker 1>my publisher tomorrow, a book called tentatively the Real Work

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<v Speaker 1>on the mystery of mastery, and it's it's about the

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<v Speaker 1>business of of learning to master things, particularly in middle age.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I learned to drive when I was in

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<v Speaker 1>my fifties, got my driver's license only my fifties. I

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<v Speaker 1>think I am the only New Yorker ever to get

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<v Speaker 1>to pass his driver's test on the same day as

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<v Speaker 1>his son. Luke was twenty and I was fifth, and

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<v Speaker 1>we took our test on this on the same day.

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<v Speaker 1>I learned to draw in the last few years, learned

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<v Speaker 1>to write music and all of those things. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>all of these essays about learning to do things, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's not a collection of essays. It's a book about

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<v Speaker 1>the ark of doing things. It ends, I think hope affectingly.

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<v Speaker 1>It includes a chapter that is the I won't even

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<v Speaker 1>try and describe. It is probably the most audacious thing

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever written in deeply embarrassing in some ways, but essential.

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<v Speaker 1>And then it ends with I've been taking boxing lessons

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<v Speaker 1>for the last year and because I just I'm fascinated

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<v Speaker 1>by mastery, something that's so alien to a little Jewish

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<v Speaker 1>intellectual like me as boxing, being able to enter into

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<v Speaker 1>it and learning the great perpetual lesson of all accomplishment,

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<v Speaker 1>which is that you break it down into small parts.

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<v Speaker 1>You learn the small parts, the little segments, and then

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<v Speaker 1>over time, miraculously the little segments become a seamless whole

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<v Speaker 1>and you find, oh my god, I'm actually throwing a

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<v Speaker 1>sequence of punches. So I'm simultaneously was taking boxing lessons

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm doing ballroom dancing with my daughter Olivia. And

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<v Speaker 1>so the last chapter is just about the ways in

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<v Speaker 1>which the steps of your feet in ballroom dancing and

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<v Speaker 1>the jabs of your hand in boxing compliment each other.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's the you know, the perpetual cycle. The other

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<v Speaker 1>thing that fascinates me, Alec is the way that when

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<v Speaker 1>you're being trained box, you're always made to be aware

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<v Speaker 1>of the invisible opponent, the invisible enemy, right, because everything

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<v Speaker 1>you do is in response to this person who you

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<v Speaker 1>never actually see and you never do exactly And I

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<v Speaker 1>find that a very powerful metaphor for life generally. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>we construct ourselves in the eyes of an invisible other.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much, Just delighted to be here, My

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<v Speaker 1>thanks to writer Adam Gopnick. This episode was recorded at

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<v Speaker 1>CDM Studios in New York City. We're produced by Kathleen Russo,

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<v Speaker 1>Zack McNeice and Maureen Hoban. Our engineer is Frank Imperial.

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<v Speaker 1>Our social media manager is Daniel Gingrich. I'm Alec Baldwin.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's the thing is brought to you by my Heart Radio.

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